Posted by Bossip Staff
Last night’s finale of For the Love of Ray J gave promiscuous women around the world hope. After several grueling weeks of catfights, human banana splits and lie detector tests, Ray J picked his future sex tape co-star Cocktail over the slightly trannyish Unique.
We give this relationship a month which is a long time in the world of reality shows. We suspect there will be a second season of For the Love of Ray J coming soon and several scandalous magazine spreads of Ms Cocktail floating around the internet shortly thereafter. Peep the last few minutes of the show here.















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jjj / Proud Jamaican 4/21/09, 09:34:AM
1st!
nina 4/21/09, 09:34:AM
She is sexy.I have searched her photo on _____Meet Wea lthy com_____ which is a celeb dating site. It is said that she is dating with a rich man but i do not believe that!
jjj / Proud Jamaican 4/21/09, 09:34:AM
2nd!
jjj / Proud Jamaican 4/21/09, 09:35:AM
I guess not…Lol
I’m 1st though…heh eh eh
jb_1030 (.35 seconds is like a lifetime in the 40) 4/21/09, 09:37:AM
I don’t believe it either Nina.
MY BAAD 4/21/09, 09:45:AM
LMAO!!!!
natureboy601 4/21/09, 09:51:AM
cocktail….wooo!
QueenBee 4/21/09, 09:51:AM
Whores gotta get love too
me (the original)® 4/21/09, 09:52:AM
Annnnnnnnnnd her 15 minutes of fame starts….NOW!
theG 4/21/09, 09:52:AM
for the love of ray j season 2 has already been renewed. and this isn’t hearsay or a guess..they’ve announced it internally
lil kim 4/21/09, 09:52:AM
that show was f’ up …that was a good excuse for ray j to flex his porn skills and show case all the nut head women..where were the classy black women at. It only shows he is a whacko himself. when are we going to have a the bachelor kind of show with black man and black women(classy…yes we exist) and vice versa….still those shows are legalised prostitution
undressingHER 4/21/09, 09:53:AM
well I must say….that girl is sexy as f**k
Fab. 4/21/09, 09:54:AM
Her face is dumb big.
LMAO @ nina.
Mandah! Damn you Websense! keppin me from my bossip fam like that! lol 4/21/09, 09:55:AM
what is this mess? thats why i dont watch vh1 no mo’, them nicca aint aired a music video in about 5 years! Shame!
LAYLA 4/21/09, 09:57:AM
Ray J, is looking for a freak, he knew he could not get what he was looking for in a classy black woman, therefore it does not surprise me with his choice.
Mandah! Damn you Websense! keppin me from my bossip fam like that! lol 4/21/09, 09:58:AM
@nina
It is said that she is dating with a rich man but i do not believe that!
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i dont believe it either, she said she was dating ray j for pete’s sake! lol
Aunt Viv 4/21/09, 10:03:AM
**YAWN**
Fact: The relationship will not last
Fact: There will be another season of For the Love of Ray J. Usually vh1 gives these shows 3-season committments.
Fact: Cocktail will be back in obscurity in 5…4…3…2…
Aunt Viv 4/21/09, 10:03:AM
Hey Mandah!
sun 4/21/09, 10:09:AM
She is so hot .I just found a hot web site.mi llion airech ats.com..where people can make friends with rich man,sincere girls and so on. I signed up and It’s exciting
Ms_NYC 4/21/09, 10:16:AM
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Divine 4/21/09, 10:18:AM
She got her exposure. She will have a tape out and pictures get her 15 minutes and go back home to work at Target. She’s not Fabulous enough to last long.
Glok9n: The real glok !!! 4/21/09, 10:20:AM
FOR THE LOVE OF RAY J …. SHE TOO WILL BE THE NEXT PEE-ON, SHE HAZ NO TAIL AT ALL AND SHE LOOK LIKE SHE LIKE TO GET GOLDEN SHOWERS!
lovely one 4/21/09, 10:20:AM
Why is Bossip talking slick about Unique (looking like a tranny). Unique was one of the PRETTIEST ones there.
Cocktail…ehh…I can just ignore her. She has no purpose. But Ray J is a lame so I shouldnt be surprised by his decision.
saxony 4/21/09, 10:21:AM
She looks like Rachel Ray.
john hope franklin 4/21/09, 10:23:AM
she is alright!!! need some more meat.
he should have chose the red bone with the blond hair-thick!
Bored @ Work 4/21/09, 10:41:AM
I did like Unique in the end, she was one of the pretty ones….
Danger, she smashed the homie…LOL
Sho-Nuff the Shogun of Harlem (The Meanest, Prettiest, Baddest Mofolo Down Around This Town) 4/21/09, 10:44:AM
nice tat, i know the titties are not real but they are sitting up there pretty nice
Kanye Lover All Dai 4/21/09, 10:50:AM
I really liked DANGER even if she smashed the homie…Cocktail isnt the rigth woman for him and i couldnt stand Uniques back stabbing ass
Divine 4/21/09, 10:52:AM
“DANGER she smashed the homie! DANGER she smashed the homie! DANGER she smashed the homie!”
It’s so catchy! LOL!!
sasha 4/21/09, 10:55:AM
Can we say season 2? We know she not staying with him with her gold diggin a** (as soon as she knows there isnt gold to dig) LOL.
juicy 4/21/09, 10:56:AM
she was one of the pretiest ones there but she also reminded me of an old lady
Bobbizzie 4/21/09, 11:01:AM
“DANGER she smashed the homie! DANGER she smashed the homie! DANGER she smashed the homie!”
I just had to chant it with y’all.
lollpop 4/21/09, 11:06:AM
I say he should have picked Unique I feel he was until he was interviewed by mom duke and as far as Cocktail he went there because the freak fucked him and she remind him of Kim nobody crazy Ray J she might not have Kim ass but she did remind you of her so yea I agree with everyone else that whore is not going to last !!!!
11:11 4/21/09, 11:06:AM
Glad it’s not Unique- who accused others of being crazy but miserably failed the lie detector, got feisty drunk-ON purpose. Unique- youre a fat and mean strawheaded cow!
11:11 4/21/09, 11:09:AM
Glad it’s not Unique- who accused others of being crazy but miserably failed the lie detector, got feisty drunk-ON purpose-who does that to another woman? Unique- youre a fat and mean straw-headed cow who has lesbo tendencies- too bad because you depreciate your own beauty by being so damn ugly in your ways.
FaShawn 4/21/09, 11:10:AM
I will but my Cock in that tail. Covered of course.
mild sauce head of my own tradition ™ 4/21/09, 11:12:AM
cocktail is not the right one either… none of those fame seeking trolls are.. its all for publicity, cocktail will be looking for her playboy spread and sex tape next. Plus she is not cute and too skinny, and that stripper cance she did on that pole was wack, now chardonnay on the pole.. WOW!!!! Lil hood im glad that drunk old looking skank left she was only there to fuc* Ray J and party just like that feisty chick.. all those chicks are wack man!!
mild sauce head of my own tradition ™ 4/21/09, 11:13:AM
that stripper cocktail cant dance either.. typo!
Lexie 4/21/09, 11:13:AM
Who was shocked that William Raymond Norwood aka Ray J picked Cocktail? I was disappointed by his choice but surprised? No! I agreed with his mom when she said NO to all of them BUT if I had to pick for him, Unique would have been a better bet. This boy is not looking to be a man at 28 which explains why he picked an indecisive, needy, dependent woman who will cater to all his needs no questions asked because she obviously has nothing to fall back on except right back into her gogo books once her time is up. He isn’t looking for a strong, intelligent woman because that woman would CHECK him when he starts with his juvenile shenanigans. Unique asking him to bring Willie Ray to meet her parents and NOT Ray J was NOT trying to change him but simply a request for him to show another side of himself besides the stripper loving, trash singing, sex tape making playboy to her family. They can read the latter on the internet but they can’t read about Willie Ray who is a loving and I’m sure respectable son. Can’t wait for the Reunion show!LOL! What a way to make a living, huh?
jai 4/21/09, 11:16:AM
danger is a wacked out ex prostitute ..and ray j isnt attracted to black women..only men and white or mexicans
yea 4/21/09, 11:19:AM
yeah
LLibra22 4/21/09, 11:20:AM
Ray J already knew if he was going to get with Unique he was going to have to step his game up and be a man. Ray also knew that he could get away with puttin Cocktail on the stripper pole vs Unique would not have done that. Unique had her faults but who doesn’t. I did not feel the chemistry between him and Cocktail like i did with him and Unique towards the end. I like Cocktail but she wasn’t the one for him.
meon 4/21/09, 11:21:AM
i’m sorry unique had some crap with her but i would have rathered him pick her than no face, body, personality or purpose having cocktail. those who say she’s pretty…where?? she’s ok, i can come up with a quick 50 that looks way better. plus her annoying voice and botox injected looking cheeks were annoying. he probably only likes chicks that look like her(i would say white but i think she was latina) which is fine whatever floats ya boat. the black chicks that went home earlier in the show looked better but didnt stand a chance.bad choice ray j… and her peeps wasnt that nice to me. i dont give a damn if it was a language barrier. her mom couldnt even smile!!
Smoovee Sayz 4/21/09, 11:26:AM
Lol @ Jai…
Um wow is all I could say after he picked cocktail…I looked at my sister and said ok promo begins for Season 2 in a matter of seconds. When I look at Cocktail all I see and hear is Kim K anyway…Ray J isnt looking for real love. The show is funny tho especially when he sent Danger packin…the way she looked in the camera and said she wasnt crazy but “you are”…wow that wont be the last we see of her for sure.
christie's secrets 4/21/09, 11:27:AM
WHT ARE YALL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT WHO HE SHOULD HAVE CHOSEN? FIRST, ITS RAY’S CHOICE NOT YOURS, SECOND, THIS IS A STAGED SHOW, THERE IS ALREADY A NEW ONE COMING SOON SO DOES IT REALLY MATTER WHO HE CHOSED?
soulwoman 4/21/09, 11:27:AM
What difference do it make which one he picked? It’s a show for entertainment purposes, he isn’t looking for a lady. He still hanging out with Lil Kim and Whitney. And that crazy chick he was just spotted with.
The show was the highest rated show on VH1 so it’s already known that it will be another season.
Glok9n: The real glok !!! 4/21/09, 11:29:AM
THE SELECTION RAY HAD LOOKED WEAK ….THE CHICK WHO POPz WAS SICK WAS THE FINEST TO ME …AND THAT CHICK THAT BE DOING THEM WIDE OPEN SPLITZ , SLAMMIN HER CUNT WAS THE SHIT TO SEE….FUK THE REST OF THEM BYTCHES!
christie's secrets 4/21/09, 11:29:AM
SO YOU PEOPLE REALLY THOUGHT RAY J WAS LOOKING FOR LOVE? I GUESS FLAVOR OF LOVE WAS REALLY SINCERE WITH HIS CONTESTANTS! IM SURE NOBODY AT LEAST GROWN FOLKS CAN BE THAT GULLIBLE!
soulwoman 4/21/09, 11:29:AM
@christie’s secrets
lol…that’s what I’m saying.
Smoovee Sayz 4/21/09, 11:30:AM
Oh and when Ray J and Cocktail were at dinner he mentioned something like “when Im away how are you going to handle that???” It was so funny bc he makes it seem like he gonna be in the studio making hits or on tour with Yung Berg and them…lol Then Cocktail slipped and called him a rapper…smdh
First it was the bad girls club, now its Ray J of Love, whats next??? She is reality show hoppin. Get that 15 mins girl:)