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1ST!

damn im first?

damn!

ok top 10 then

These sellout black men just sicken my stomach!

@tb damn u goin hard dis mornin!!!!!!!

Anyways Good mornin to da board especially my boo I Am LEGEND

She messed up when she got the boot from teh Cheetah Girls. But I guess you can only be cheetahlicious for so long until you move in to Cougarlicious

Him and her favor

First off…i don’t blame him but to me she looks like she has that dumb ho type look. uhh yeeaaahhh!

she cute

please, he’s just using her to get to Kim….

what happened with her and the cheetah girls??

she looks like a brat doll.

@ Lucy

I am really sick of you taking up precious top ten space to promote your wack @ass website. Get a life, a real job, and a F’ing ad in the Yellowpages!
Oh I forgot…Good Morning:)

trey can hit me up lol! we r both from va too! but seriously ,adriene should stop hanging with kim k.

well if they are attracted to each other I see no reason why they shouldn’t hook up!!!

what happened with her and the cheetah girls??

When she took those pictures and they leaked, she pretty much got the boot

Cheetah Girls are over. Her contract was ending with them anyway. Besides all of them are too old be Cheetah girls in their 20′s. Get a clue people!!

Thats a good look for Mr Songs go for it

Do you all remeber the tattoo that the other Cheeta Girl got? Its either stars or hearts all the way down her back? I know she gotta regret that!! That was another stupid and large tattoo. People gotta understand that tattoos stay with you FOREVER!!!! When you old its gonna look disgusting!!

That message was about a twit pic she sent and he wasn’t even talking about her he was talking about her friend duhhhhhhhhhhh so get ur story right….

Adrienne is PR/Ecuadorian not white.

Any way she did a risque photo shoot and ya’ll know Disney does not play…or does it because i know my daughter still gets Hannah Montana on that channel but that is another story…

Finally, who cares if they do or don’t get together…where is the real gossip?

Here go the black folks again, hating on interracial couples. Ya freakin bitter! bye.

By the way Bailon is not a white girl, she’s LATINA. Aren’t they beautiful? hahahaha!

You know why lots of black brothers date outside their race, well because black men themselves say black women are greedy as hell, lazy, they hate heavy….I didn’t say it, brothers did.

sh*t I acn see why, she’s gorgeous

Trey cut it out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ ShutTheHellUp!

F*ck you b*tch. Oh, and have a nice morning.

PLEASE POTTY TRAIN UR DAMN KIDS!

A father in Washington state says his 5-year-old son was sent home from kindergarten with a bag of human feces in his backpack, KOMO-TV reported.
The father, who asked to be identified only as “Jason,” said the stinky mess was wrapped in a brown paper towel with a note that read, “This little turd was on the floor in my room.”

Jason said he believes his son’s teacher placed the poop in the youngster’s bag and wrote the message.
“I’m still kind of in shock over this, because why would somebody do this? It’s disgusting!” Jason told KOMO.
The father said the teacher had called him one day last week, complaining that her classroom stank and asking if boy may have had an accident. Jason admitted it was a possibility, since his son previously had had a couple of accidents at school.
School officials said the teacher and the school principal are being questioned over the incident.

Bee

Cheetah Girls are over. Her contract was ending with them anyway. Besides all of them are too old be Cheetah girls in their 20’s. Get a clue people!!
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yea i heard she like 25 or so

don’t do it, Adrienne!

don’t start wit da race hate…..yall come on if that’s he like or anybody it is what it is

Stop Twitter Snitching the movement…………..

I cant knock Trey for trying to get wit this chic, I would bang her, but when it comes down to it I would much rather be with a sweet chocolate sister, theres nothing like it, nothing compares….woooo!

My girl is White and I have dated women of my own race in the past. Plenty of them. But one thing I came to realize is that no matter what I did, enough was never enough. It’s like they kept a wall up that permitted them from being happy and wanted to challenge and argue with me on every basic little thing. For me, my girl now is just more stress free. Black women sometimes – in my case, all the time – just like to keep drama going whether with me or their friends or family. It’s just always something. – Kevin, 31, Teacher

The article didn’t say she rebuffed his advances.

ten buck says he’ll get it in at some point lol
po’ lil rob k lol

Poor Trey, he needs to focus on his flopping career. He’s been out since Chris Brown, thats his friend who he used to live with and can’t seem to make a hit yet and his current song is wack and boring. She is pretty though. I think she and Kardashian broke up when she moved to NY.

Again, folks..she is NOT White. NOT WHITE. NOT WHITE.

LOOBY

PLEASE POTTY TRAIN UR DAMN KIDS!

A father in Washington state says his 5-year-old son was sent home from kindergarten with a bag of human feces in his backpack, KOMO-TV reported.
The father, who asked to be identified only as “Jason,” said the stinky mess was wrapped in a brown paper towel with a note that read, “This little turd was on the floor in my room.”

Jason said he believes his son’s teacher placed the poop in the youngster’s bag and wrote the message.
“I’m still kind of in shock over this, because why would somebody do this? It’s disgusting!” Jason told KOMO.
The father said the teacher had called him one day last week, complaining that her classroom stank and asking if boy may have had an accident. Jason admitted it was a possibility, since his son previously had had a couple of accidents at school.
School officials said the teacher and the school principal are being questioned over the incident.
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We don’t know if he has issues with his body. But anyway. Whether he did or not, the teacher was totally wrong for that.

why not…she’s a good look…

Who cares what color, nationality, race, creed what ever you call it? People please not make this about race and bring that Kigali out today. let’s have a nice peaceful day.

@ Dang it
Yeah some black men sometimes choose women who aren’t black. Get used to it and get over it. Next!

That said, she’s trying to “establish herself as an artist”, so I don’t know how much of a chance this guy has unless he’s looking to do more producing.

Let the f*cking for tracks begin!

star

Poor Trey, he needs to focus on his flopping career. He’s been out since Chris Brown, thats his friend who he used to live with and can’t seem to make a hit yet and his current song is wack and boring
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he has a current song? nobody told me nothing, shame! lol

jb_1030 – Behold THE GREEN AND GOLD!!!!

Who cares what color, nationality, race, creed what ever you call it? People please not make this about race and bring that Kigali out today. let’s have a nice peaceful day.
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Now u and I know that its on and poppin ! LOL they just can’t help themselves

Will Adrienne smash the homie?

I wonder why people consider this swirling or whatever but I never hear anything swirl related to the Dream and Christina Milian (she’s hispanic) or Joe Budden and Tajiri (she’s hispanic). ???

@ The Black Joker

You have my deepest sympathys!

Trey is attractive and she’s pretty but I knew that it isn’t always the non-black woman who is chasing after the BM, to me it seems it’s mostly the BM chasing the non-black woman, real talk.

okay he is disrespectful……how u gonna be sending my girl love notes on a public site….disrespectful…smh…..

Didn’t she & Rob take a break because he was in school, she wanted to pursue her career?

Maybe he should be trying to come up on a career instead of trying to get with Adrienne….Chris B is out of the picture so this is his time to shine…

Pootie

Tang….

THIS PERSON ISNT EVEN WORTH ANYMORE OF MY TIME BECAUSE THESE SELF-HATING TYPES COME A DIME A DOZEN!

I WISH I COULD FIGURE OUT WHERE SOME OF US WENT WRONG BUT THEN AGAIN MY LIFE IS FINE AND DANDY SO I GUESS I WILL SET BACK AND ALLOW PEOPLE TO LEARN THE HARD WAY!

Trey just tryin to play the girl’s cheetah a little bit.

LOL at Mandah. You tried. I tried. hell beautiful tried

Big Sista Cougar All-Mit-ee – Behold THE GREEN AND GOLD!!!!

LOL at Mandah. You tried. I tried. hell beautiful tried

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ole kevy kev better be glad kigali wasnt up in this mutha cause he woulda NEVAH heard the end of it lol!

He does not have nearly enough money to talk to her, he needs to go somewhere because she is probably laughing at Trey right now her and Kim, lol

Lets see… Trey Songz or Rob Kardashian? Um, which one is it that JUST graduated from college?

There’s no ‘contest’ when it comes to this one!

I wonder why people consider this swirling or whatever but I never hear anything swirl related to the Dream and Christina Milian (she’s hispanic)

because shes black latina

Oh, I meant, which one just graduated from college AND already has more money than the singer can EVER dream of!

MissBlaze!!!
How’s the job going miss?

wat up

lady a
mandah
me
ms blaze
jb?

TREY IS MY BOY AND I SUPPORT HIM BECAUSE HE IS REPRESENTING VA! HE GREW UP ABOUT AN HOUR FROM WHERE I LIVE AND I HEAR HE STILL COMES HOME TO GIVE BACK TO HIS OLD COMMUNITY!

@CAPO STATUS

HOW YOU FEELING TODAY YOUNG MAN? LOL

@ Fake/real IDK SXY

Wat up b ,I never saw there u good?

Hey Pedro…How are you?

Isn’t she latin or something. The chick is not even white, and y’all start up with that ish talking.

@MILD

LMAO! IT IS ME SWEETIE BUT I ASSUME THE RETARD IMPOSTER IS LURKING IN THE BUSHES!

Hey Mild baby!

I AM GOING TO SWITCH MY GRAVIE UP REAL QUICK TO KEEP AHEAD OF THIS STUPID IMPOSTER!

HE/SHE WANTS TO PLAY GAMES SO I WILL PLAY! LOL

Hey apo and Mild.

Capo you made a list today. LMAO!!! for for real though

Hey UNVME

Hey Mild.. You’re trademarking now?!?! You GO!!!

Hey Big Sister Cougar All-Mit-ee! Remembering School Daze. LOL

@Big Sista Cougar

Are you the same person as JB?

I was wondering because I returned to this site looking for you to talk about VT football.

i think that the trey songz profile on twitter “suspect”. If he wanted to holler why wouldnt he just get the numero (which would prob be easy through management) instead of puttin himslef all out there on the internet.

@SMDH

WOW! You are beautiful my lady. Look up and smile in the camera.

Capo Status

lady a

Yeah im good my caramel goodness, the prince of VA (trey) is the big topic today huh, you ever seen him out and about in VA

I saw him like 2 yrs ago when he was touring with Neyo at small venues…..He’s so fresh…He let me feel on his chest though so I’m not complaining…

@SMDH …here we go

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@SMDH

WOW! You are beautiful my lady. Look up and smile in the camera.”

LOL – my boyfriend calls that picture my mugshot..

theres the essence of UNVME.. where you been lady?

“@SMDH …here we go”

No, I don’t go until some ignorant piece of self hating crap starts me up!!

SMDH .. TELL YOUR bf HES A LUCKY MAN!DO YOUR THING LADY I WOULD NEVER KNOCK YOU FOR WHO YOU DATE, DATE WHO THE HELL YOU WANT TO.. DO YOU MA!!!

@SMDH

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Whats good ???

@SMDH

Your boyfriend is one lucky white dude.

“SMDH .. TELL YOUR bf HES A LUCKY MAN!DO YOUR THING LADY I WOULD NEVER KNOCK YOU FOR WHO YOU DATE, DATE WHO THE HELL YOU WANT TO.. DO YOU MA!!!”

Well thank you!!! I feel that to each his own. It makes no sense to waste your time worrying about who is dating who these days – especially when it is a black male who only seeks to rub in your face that he does date outside of his race.. It just bugs the hell out of me when the black woman suddenly has to become the reason the black male has been color struck and white woman hunting since the beginning of time..

OK, I SEE MY IMPOSTER HAS MADE EVERYONE PARANOID!

IF THE NUMBERS DONT MATCH UP ITS NOT ME! MKAY

“@SMDH

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Whats good ???”

Nothing much. SCHOOL!! I am so busy this semester. How are you?!?!

@LADY

LOL AT THE HIGH YELLOW COMMENT! GIRL YOU KNOWS YOU IS WRONG FOR THAT ONE! LOL

Boo. I don’t believe this crap.

jb.. hey lady i appreciate my award for my uncle brother story.. thanks a lot! i already thanked my mama!!

@mils
sup boi

lol Trey Songz is not that light…He’s a few shades darker than me…I do catch myseklf checking out a few high yellow dudes every now and then though.
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lol at last the chocolate brothers been running 00′s j/k

SMDH.. I aint going lie i tried it once back in high school and that was my worst experience, i had to damn near get a restraining order on the white chick.. every since then i have been loving and cherishing my beautiful black queens!! they say one monkey dont stop no show but it stopped this one plus it was a lot of things wrong with her that i wont even go into and one was i dont like weak women!!

@ dre

wat up my african brother ?

@smdh…

Im good girl…just tryna maintain!! Best of luck with school!

dre… was sup my bro? how you been my African bro??

“SMDH.. I aint going lie i tried it once back in high school and that was my worst experience, i had to damn near get a restraining order on the white chick.. every since then i have been loving and cherishing my beautiful black queens!! they say one monkey dont stop no show but it stopped this one plus it was a lot of things wrong with her that i wont even go into and one was i dont like weak women!!”

AMEN!! You are great!!! I love you!!

I don’t like Trey Songs cornrolls or his songs

Whats going on in here?

I just googled that guy rob kardashian and he got a vagita hairline

vageta*

Pimpin, Pimpin, Pimpin

can’t trey songs fuk much hotter hoes than her?

**peeking in**

murnin, peeps!

@ SMDH–

Girl howya been? I saw you tore someone a new one the other day!

Lol!!!

You know what SMDH, you are right. Especially, when i know that white chick is a nut guzzlin’ trick. Maybe you should learn their trade.

UNVME

Pimpin, Pimpin, Pimpin

Mrs. Houston whats up! Its still hell no to your sister girl!

PLAT PIMP – SALUTE

PIMPIN!!!!

**raising my cup**

Wat up Pimpin? 1 true?

1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

PIMPIN!!!!

**raising my cup**

My sweet Carolina Honey, ease up, don’t hurt em now!

@ Sessy–

Put up the date or I’m iggin you!

@ Pimpin–

Awwwwwwwww, daddy!

You know how we do!!

**grinning**

@ Capo–

You holdin it down for me up top?

@DIVA

GIVE ME A CALL! I NEED SOME WISE ADVICE AND YOUR JUST THE PERSON I CAN TRUST ON THIS ONE!

1trudiva,
Hey girl….

*sunscreen, not sunscrenn …spelling > me lol

@ me (the original)®
Taraji is black not hispanic…

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Capo!

What’s poppin?

Hey Lady!

Howya doing?

@ 1 TRUE DIVA

Yep like all ways b , I heard J-HUD killed it good on her .IMO she second best R&B artist after beyonce

Damn, Lady Architect! You an architect forreal?

“You know what SMDH, you are right. Especially, when i know that white chick is a nut guzzlin’ trick. Maybe you should learn their trade.”

I think not. I am perfectly fine with the nut guzzling being left to your white women..

1TruDiva,
I’m doing good…I wish I were able to go to JHUD’s concert when she was out here.

There is nothing wrong with the swirl. Swirl babies are usually pretty as long as the dad is white and the mom is not tore off the frame or 100% certifiied hoodrat.

Not hard to believe, she is very pretty

@ Capo Status
Cristina Milian is cuban…both parents are cuban.

Swirl babies are taking over. Are President if proof.

@K-mia…that is just the most ignorant statement. Really!

1FineDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

U should have been going to that concert with Shonuff The Shogun of Harlem!!!! ; )

Our

@Capo

I am being raised by a single black woman too. We have something in common.

1FineDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

U should have been going to that concert with Shonuff The Shogun of Harlem!!!! ; )

U 2 Lady A, with your fine ass!!! ; )

((Peeping in thread))

{{Exits Quickly out}}

@ Capo Status
Cristina Milian is cuban…both parents are cuban.
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lol and ?

Your american so you have to be white?

my moms brazilian so does that mean she looks like eva mendez?

nah she black.

Race and Nationality are two different things doggy you can be Black cuban 2

me (the original)®
ROUND OF APPLAUSE I’M WITH YOU ON THAT

That is one ugly lady. Brooke go away.

I am being raised by a single black woman too. We have something in common.
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Word where you from b

Bye bye-

*lurk mode*

Capo… playa b, hey man i cant school SMDH on that one because shes right man , my homies be on me all the time saying im crazy for not chasing the snow bunnies. Man i got homies who ride around looking for white girls and i know you heard about the clubs in the D that let you in half price if you bring a white girl b.. Truth be told playa!!

Z, are you as fine as those chicks on ‘Harlem Heights’. Shit, got me wanting to move to NY.

What’s up people? What’s the discussion?

It musta was slow any way SMDH is in here.

wassuup everybody

She looks good, i wouldn’t be chasin her ass. As for me in the swirl, i don’t discriminate @ all whatever my eyes and mind suits fit me, if i bang a white girl i don’t put down a sister that was just my choice of puzzy for the moment.

@1 Cyber Diva

I am not a fighter! With the broad shoulders of yours I know I would not be a challenge, besides the Queen doesn’t tustle.

@ Capo

Haha where at out in Staten?

I’m actually going back down over the summer to visit family.

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@ me (the original)®
Taraji is black not hispanic…
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I’m not talking about Taraji P. Henson, I’m talking about Tajiri, Tahiri, Tahiry..Joe Budden’s gf. She’s Dominican. Dominicans are Hispanic.

owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

West coast playa

you heard any new max b joints ?

@Undacuvabrutha

I think my looks can easily hold their own with the girls of Harlem Heights. You can judge for yourself though!

Jessica,
You can’t possibly believe yourself when you say that…honestly…lol

@Undacuvabrutha

Do you have Myspace or know how to do a friends search? I can give you my page.

White girls aren’t the only ones with “head game.”
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You can say that again!!

Damn Sydney, I hear you!!! Hey straight up, I wanted to get up with Vanessa, she just had that plain, natural like beauty to me back then. LOL.

lol i’m black really just thought i would cause a stir.

Jessica must be one of those self hating whiggers…. it don’t matter how many half breed kids you have….your skin color and ethnic history will be the same.

white girls aint the only one with head game… THATS THE WHOLE TRUTH RIGHT THER!!!!!!!

lol i’m black really just thought i would cause a stir.
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REALLY? LOL

ME
Yep I was there come by this summer wearing the rican coochie shorts lol Ill be waiting for ya

Snoop

nipsey hustle = light skin, young ,hungry, version of snoop

@ lady a….hey lovely lady, how are you today?

LOL @ Jessica

@Undacuvabrutha

“I wanted to get up with Vanessa, she just had that plain, natural like beauty to me back then. LOL.”

Vanessa was your favorite, huh? I thought her boyfriend, Robert, was very cute.

I just loved Theo. Oh, and I liked Dwayne Wayne on A Different World — I think it was his flip-up glasses, lol.

snoop bloggy blog ( lakers 2009 champs)

@ lady a….hey lovely lady, how are you today?

Kinda sleepy….but I’m good

has anyone stopped to think that SOME people don’t see color and that they just see an attractive person. My grandmother was a black woman and married a mexican man. it wasnt bc she was tired of black men or a sell out and it for damn sure wasnt his money.

Stop with all this 1955 thinking. You forget our President is HALF black. His mama was a wh

@ LADIES/MEN…WHAT’S YOUR REASONING FOR NOT DATING OUTSIDE YOUR RACE?

@snoop bloggy blog

lol yes

Who is this “Nipsey Hustle?” I saw his name — Snoop, I think you posted it — and I thought of Nipsey Russell and The Wiz. Does he tap dance?

Good for him!! Date who you want!

@ LADIES/MEN…WHAT’S YOUR REASONING FOR NOT DATING OUTSIDE YOUR RACE?

Don’t find myself completely attracted to white dudes…I’ve seen some fine ones but nope….

Kinda sleepy….but I’m good
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Must of been up late last night…lol

@ sydney….hello, nipsey is a rap artist from L.A.

I would be twittering this chick too . I mean c`mon yawl saw the pics she took when she was bending over a chair. You know what being a man means sometimes it means eveytime you see a beautiful woman bent over a chair and giving you that oo ah look you just know she wants you !

Boy i got to stop taking crack so early in the morning and at least if I do chase it with a budweiser.

Has anyone ever stopped to think that some people don’t see color and that they just see an attractive person. If it is your personal preference not to date outside your race then great good for you. But don’t bash other people because they do it. It only makes you look like an ignorant fool.

Divaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, come out to play

@Snoop

“@ LADIES/MEN…WHAT’S YOUR REASONING FOR NOT DATING OUTSIDE YOUR RACE?”

My preference has always been black men, and that’s whom I’ve dated. They’re who I’m attracted to physically and mentally. And I don’t view my preference as some sort of “limitation,” or I’m missing out on something.

That being said, I am starting to see more sisters in interracial relationships. I did visit yesterday’s post, and I agree with the poster (I assume she was a sista) who said that a number of black women put a high priority on racial solidarity, even if it’s not returned in kind. It’s kind of hard to hold up the race by yourself, so if you happen to meet the man who treats you well and he happens to be of another race, it could possibly cause an emotional quagmire, nor not, depending on the woman. Just my opinion.

MIJDC, Are you ready for a little fun?

ME
Yep I was there come by this summer wearing the rican coochie shorts lol Ill be waiting for ya
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LMAO <3

Has anyone ever stopped to think that some people don’t see color and that they just see an attractive person. If it is your personal preference not to date outside your race then great good for you. But don’t bash other people because they do it. It only makes you look like an ignorant fool
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I dig that, but what i don’t like is when brother’s/sister’s date outside their race and try to justify their actions by degrading one another

Mama fudge is white

“Don’t find myself completely attracted to white dudes…I’ve seen some fine ones but nope….”

Yeah, even though the black chick/white dude stat has grown, most sistas prefer the brothas. No good or otherwise!

@ TDW

I agree. Some people don’t see color. Isn’t that what we are trying to get to anyway? Where people are treated differently for the color of their skin. Where people are discribed as men and women and not white men and black women. I actually commend those that have interracial relationships because they fell in love with a person and not a color. If you are ‘colorblind’ so to speak, bravo. Date who you want, at the the end of the day you have to like who you’re sleeping next to, not everyone else.

@me (the original)

“That said, there are people who will NOT date anyone of a particular race and so on, and that’s the part that gets me. So I like to hear their reasons for being the way they are.”

Speaking for myself, I love it when people find love, whether it comes in the same racial makeup or not. My problem is the emotional baggage that sometimes accompanies it — If you choose to date women of other races, that’s fine, but please don’t denigrate the women who look like you in the process. Once you do that, your selection takes on more than just a genuine attraction, it’s plagued with internal issues. Just love who you want and stop using black women as your punching bag.

yaw want to know why we call him uncle brother.. its cause he has 9 sistas and one is my mom, so thats makes him a brother and he all our uncles .. so there you go Uncle Brother!!! Unc i love you man .. you cant make me mad.. call me what you want but i still love you man!!

snoop bloggy blog ( lakers 2009 champs)

Kinda sleepy….but I’m good
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Must of been up late last night…lol

Yup talking to people…I guess I’m that good of a listener.

@Capo Status y3ah y0u wiish i’m m3xican & afriican ameriican buh thankz

Yep I was there come by this summer wearing the rican coochie shorts lol Ill be waiting for ya
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LMAO <3

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lol oh you shy , its aight

have you got kids ,married b?

@ LADIES/MEN…WHAT’S YOUR REASONING FOR NOT DATING OUTSIDE YOUR RACE?

i have dated women of all races and the only difference to me is cultural or religious beliefs, as far as white women being a little more passive that is true in a sense but you have laid back black women as well and black women always get the lable of sassy which is wrong but spanish women can and will be sassy, to me personality black and spanish women are similar, and asian and white women are similar, also certain races wanted to date me arabic women but culture or religion forbids it!!! It is just my personal experience im in no way shape or form classifying what i said as fact.

And all the talk of “I don’t see color” goes out the window when you degrade black women and put them into boxes.

@ Oh Lawdy

Surely you’re getting some ‘cream’ in your coffee, if you get my drift.

Undacuvabrutha

“Don’t find myself completely attracted to white dudes…I’ve seen some fine ones but nope….”

Yeah, even though the black chick/white dude stat has grown, most sistas prefer the brothas. No good or otherwise!

Yes you are right..I just love a lot of black features…now if I find a white boy that have those features then….

@Capo Status y3ah y0u wiish i’m m3xican & afriican ameriican buh thankz

why do you spell like a white burban girl tryna be black lol??? im fukin wit ya youngin you do you

Trey is one of them cute young boys.

*quagmire, or not*

@Snoop

“@ sydney….hello, nipsey is a rap artist from L.A.”

Oh, OK, I’ll look him up, lol.

I love women of all races ..As long as she treats you good who cares what race she is??
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I guess it’s just a westcoast thing homie. Some people or living in a box…lol

Female requirements:

thin chicks
smooth skin (any color)
long hair (various styles but corn rows are a fav)
my age or slightyly younger
good teeth
ample tits and ass

Optional
intelligence
good morals

@ LADIES/MEN…WHAT’S YOUR REASONING FOR NOT DATING OUTSIDE YOUR RACE?

its all a matter of what u as an individual find attractive personality wise or color wise, some men are to weak to deal with a strong black woman, and some women will rather have a passive man of another race, its all a matter of what u want to deal with but everyone is not the same and it is foolish to group everyone together, i have had fun dating all races as im not color blind, but to each is own, i cant hate on it, if they are green and they make u happy go for it!!!

I never like Trey Songs I thought he was always wack and a BORE! Its unfortunate that he’s not into dating the type of women that makes up 95% of his fan base. I’m not a part of it and I don’t support him so either way I don’t care. IN 5 years or less we will never here from him again. CAN’T WAIT!!!

my girl said she was at the mall and some white chick was with her black man and soon as she saw her she ran up to him(she was walking behind him) and started hugging and kissing on him like she was trying to make a black woman jealous. Thats where you get the eye rolling from a black woman,, she trying to make my girl mad and my girl got a black man (that would be me) and alweays will have my black ass! right uncle bro!!!!

I PREFER MILK FROM THE CHOCOLATE FOUNTAIN@UNDACOVA

Skraight up Black women win and win big. But aint no bruh on here not going to dip his pogo stick in a cute mexican chick, or asian chick, or basian chick ( Holla at me RHI RHI) or a russian chick with vodka on her breath . They are all going to let color fly right out the window.

@Capo Status y3ah y0u wiish i’m m3xican & afriican ameriican buh thankz

why do you spell like a white burban girl tryna be black lol??? im fukin wit ya youngin you do you

0mg i d0 n0t l0l

@I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

haha. dip his pogo stick.

nobody cares who you love but love them and dont knock down my beautiful black queens… love all the white women you want… thats your business, i just choose not too and that on me!!

@TOXICITY
“I never like Trey Songs I thought he was always wack and a BORE! Its unfortunate that he’s not into dating the type of women that makes up 95% of his fan base. I’m not a part of it and I don’t support him so either way I don’t care. IN 5 years or less we will never here from him again. CAN’T WAIT!!!”
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If you “don’t care,” then why can’t you wait that you will never hear from him again after five years?

FYI!!!! TREY HAS A FIANCE AND IT DAMN SURE AIN’T HER!

@`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !
Skraight up Black women win and win big. But aint no bruh on here not going to dip his pogo stick in a cute mexican chick, or asian chick, or basian chick ( Holla at me RHI RHI) or a russian chick with vodka on her breath . They are all going to let color fly right out the window.

c@n i g3t tha iin 3ngliish pl3a$3.

@Snoop

“Some people or living in a box…lol”

Am I living in a “box” if I say that I prefer to only date black men?

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I want to add in regards to the “strong black woman” archetype — the reality is, a number of us really aren’t that “strong,” and we’re like other women. We want to be loved, cherished, valued, the receivers of chivalry, etc. If I could, I would strike that phrase from the black lexicon because I truly believe it has been detrimental to sisters.

@Sydney

If you choose to date women of other races, that’s fine, but please don’t denigrate the women who look like you in the process. Once you do that, your selection takes on more than just a genuine attraction, it’s plagued with internal issues. Just love who you want and stop using black women as your punching bag.

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EXACTLY.

And that’s what I’m talking about when I say some sort of psychological issue. I know some black and hispanic men who will NOT date black and hispanic women, and they list their reasons. Clearly, they are not objective thinkers and can not see that the problem doesn’t lie within the race/ethnicity but within in CHOICE of WOMAN you’re choosing.

I have another friend, he’s Korean–adopted as a baby by a white couple and brought here. This boy (and yeah I’m calling him a boy even though he’s older than me) will NOT date AMERICAN women period. He’s never even been out of this f’in country cause he can’t get a passport, but has this conception that “American women are too complicated, want too much” etc. He likes Eastern European chicks and to him, they are Goddesses. Meanwhile, whenever I would talk to him about the chicks American chicks he was involved with, they were all bottom of the barrel girls. If you’re going to try to get involved with some broad you meet at a club or bar and she’s slobbing your knob after talking to her for 3 or 4 hours top, what the hell do you expect???? Find yourself a LADY then get back at me. And that’s what I say to people who make the argument “Oh, black women this and black women that.” …stop messing with hood rats and find yourself a BLACK LADY. They exist, you just need to look.

@ Capo

LOL if I were a lil bit younger and single, I’d definitely be checking for you and your fine lil self <3..but you know, I’m an old lady ;p

man i hear my sistas talking and they be putting it out there,, they say they prefer looking at a black dic* and not a pink one,, and hey im glad they do because thats what i want.. prefer me!!! I love it!! We all know pu–y is just pu–y on a black one or a white one but im glad they prefer mine rather than a veiny pink one!

@ Sydney

I feel your last statement, but can I respond without being received as offensive?

“EXACTLY.

And that’s what I’m talking about when I say some sort of psychological issue. I know some black and hispanic men who will NOT date black and hispanic women, and they list their reasons. Clearly, they are not objective thinkers and can not see that the problem doesn’t lie within the race/ethnicity but within in CHOICE of WOMAN you’re choosing.

I have another friend, he’s Korean–adopted as a baby by a white couple and brought here. This boy (and yeah I’m calling him a boy even though he’s older than me) will NOT date AMERICAN women period. He’s never even been out of this f’in country cause he can’t get a passport, but has this conception that “American women are too complicated, want too much” etc. He likes Eastern European chicks and to him, they are Goddesses. Meanwhile, whenever I would talk to him about the chicks American chicks he was involved with, they were all bottom of the barrel girls. If you’re going to try to get involved with some broad you meet at a club or bar and she’s slobbing your knob after talking to her for 3 or 4 hours top, what the hell do you expect???? Find yourself a LADY then get back at me. And that’s what I say to people who make the argument “Oh, black women this and black women that.” …stop messing with hood rats and find yourself a BLACK LADY. They exist, you just need to look.”
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Typical black woman rant…. SMH.

Pimpin Snoop – SALUTE

007 – SALUTE

@Man, I just don’t care™

Well it take 5 yrs from him to get the point that no one cares. within that time frame he will be dropped from his label…fall off the scene…try to make a comeback and be greeted with little or no interest…than finally get the point I think it will take about that time and he will be too old to garner any young fans.. so yeah hopefully less than 5yrs

OK STOP WITH ALL THE RACIAL TALK, ISNT IT THROWBACK THURSDAY? GET IT STARTED SNOOP!!

Female requirements:

thin chicks
smooth skin (any color)
long hair (various styles but corn rows are a fav)
my age or slightyly younger
good teeth
ample tits and ass

Optional
intelligence
good morals
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Damn No Cougar exceptions?

@MIJDC

What do you mean “typical black woman” rant?

@ sydney….when i say live in a box, i know male/females who are attracted to the opposite race, but are afraid to date because their afraid of the backlash, and to me that’s b.s. IMO

I AM LEGEND

@Toxicity

what is that 95% of his fan base?
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@I AM LEGEND

YouTube a performance of his and look at the crowd.

@Undacuvabrutha

Sure, go ahead.

@me (the original)

“And that’s what I say to people who make the argument “Oh, black women this and black women that.” …stop messing with hood rats and find yourself a BLACK LADY. They exist, you just need to look.”

Exactly. The same for sisters who insist on dating “thugs” and other men who are ill-equipped to be in relationships. In many instances, the problems lies with the individual and his/her choices. We are a very diverse race, and you can find every type of personality imaginable.

Been gone to a meeting. What’s up my peeps?

“EXACTLY.

And that’s what I’m talking about when I say some sort of psychological issue. I know some black and hispanic men who will NOT date black and hispanic women, and they list their reasons. Clearly, they are not objective thinkers and can not see that the problem doesn’t lie within the race/ethnicity but within in CHOICE of WOMAN you’re choosing.

I have another friend, he’s Korean–adopted as a baby by a white couple and brought here. This boy (and yeah I’m calling him a boy even though he’s older than me) will NOT date AMERICAN women period. He’s never even been out of this f’in country cause he can’t get a passport, but has this conception that “American women are too complicated, want too much” etc. He likes Eastern European chicks and to him, they are Goddesses. Meanwhile, whenever I would talk to him about the chicks American chicks he was involved with, they were all bottom of the barrel girls. If you’re going to try to get involved with some broad you meet at a club or bar and she’s slobbing your knob after talking to her for 3 or 4 hours top, what the hell do you expect???? Find yourself a LADY then get back at me. And that’s what I say to people who make the argument “Oh, black women this and black women that.” …stop messing with hood rats and find yourself a BLACK LADY. They exist, you just need to look.”
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Typical black woman rant…. SMH.

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LMA0!

@ Mamafudge,

I can assure you, if you see me walking with a white broad, we’re probably heading to a destination for some kind of sexual encounter. Mentally, we’re usually not able to connect.

Don’t be mad at me, mama needs to have some fun at work too.

@Snoop

“@ sydney….when i say live in a box, i know male/females who are attracted to the opposite race, but are afraid to date because their afraid of the backlash, and to me that’s b.s. IMO”

Well, I say, do what’s best for you. But, know this, if you go into these relationships with some internal baggage, it will cause damage, no matter whom you with.

@Man, I just don’t care™

Look, you must be Trey Songz. It will take 5 years for them to stop beating a dead horse. I am definitely not in love with him and i don’t consider him attractive. He does not meet my standards. Since I think your trey songz, good thing you cut you braids and your a cornball.
Yuck!

Big Sista Cougar All-Mit-ee – Behold THE GREEN AND GOLD!!!!

Been gone to a meeting. What’s up my peeps?

Hey momma…You know I went shopping for a skirt yesterday…lol

PIMPIN WILLIE= SALUTE!!!

HEY ALL YALL!

want more than 50 pumps and count them if you aint got nothing else to do!!!
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2500 pumps or 5 minutes whch ever is greater

@me (the original)

Girl, I guess we’ll have to make you a honorary “sista” since you have the “black women’s rant” down. LOL!

0h g0$h u guyz r hiilarii0u$!

mild sauce head of my own tradition ™

PIMPIN WILLIE= SALUTE!!!

MILD, I aint see you limping through here as always pimp – SALUTE!!!

Lady A

See you are trying to get him to fall in love right then and there. GOOD!!!!

“Typical black woman rant…. SMH.

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LMA0!”

Yet its RING OF TRUTHFULNESS must have struck a nerve, huh???

@TOXICITY
“Look, you must be Trey Songz. It will take 5 years for them to stop beating a dead horse. I am definitely not in love with him and i don’t consider him attractive. He does not meet my standards. Since I think your trey songz, good thing you cut you braids and your a cornball.
Yuck!”
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TREY SONGZ RESPONSE:

STOP STALKING ME!!

I don’t see color? Really, then tell me why black people are still being discriminated against, everyday in 2009. Why is it that Robin Thicke, just released a song about people not treating his wife right, a magazine ran an article portraying Obama as an ape.
People keep saying stuff like it is 2009, I don’t see color.
The reality is racism does exist.

Big Sista Cougar All-Mit-ee – Behold THE GREEN AND GOLD!!!!

Lady A

See you are trying to get him to fall in love right then and there. GOOD!!!!

lol nope…I’m trying not to burn up Saturday.

2500 pumps or 5 minutes whch ever is greater
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@ jb….wassup cougar cutie,I’m go trademark that shit…lol

@ Awesome
thanks and I am 3 year old in maturity.
@ Mama Fudge
No can do ma too much work.

Juz seen his twitter he is fine

White people

Turn Blue when the die
Pink when they blush
red when they get sunburn and get mad
Brown when they tan

But they call Blacks colored. Go figure

Ok no more racial issues from me.

@bae 19 aka chocolate diva

wat up b?

LMAO off at Snoop. Get t-shirts made

GOT 2500 PUMPS of 5 MINs

oops

GOT 2500 PUMPS OR 5 MINS

@ I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !
@ Mama Fudge
No can do ma too much work.

=[ thaz s0 m3an l0l 0j

Lady Star

Don’t be mad at me, mama needs to have some fun at work too.

lmao…not mad at all…make that money!…I surely hope you are not really at work….Your job will fire you when your comp starts to malfunction….

Lady A

I know. I am going to get a nice VT t-shirt and some capris and sandles

@TX

God damnTX no love 4 real?

the south aint got love for the (b)est coast?

smh lol

Hi Txhustla

@SMDH
“And thats considered a “rant”?? Then what is is then the black male wants to run the samee line up under us about them not all being useless, shiftless, aimless and worthless street criminals who abandon our children and can’t keep a job nor stay faithful to a woman??? Is it a “rant” then?? Is it a typical black male rant???”
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Naw…. it’s not a rant then.

Man, I just don’t care™

TREY SONGZ RESPONSE:

STOP STALKING ME!!

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@Man, I just don’t care™ AKA Trey SONGZ

I would rather have a laser burn through my pupils which i did thanks to LASIK) than to stalk him or anyone.
I am apathetic to Trey Songz and his lackluster career. It will come to pass. That why i love this recession its sorts through the bullshit. You have to be actually really good for someone to buy and supoort your work.

Now don’t spend all the money. You know mama is proud of you for doing good in college so go on and get it now and make us more prouder.

@ pimpin

the first time I saw you was when I did that kanye/prince skit joke memba dat? And what happend to your boy colnel stinkminear yo?

adrienne_bailon @ twitter
n33dz to c0v3r h3r liil b00bi3z wudnt’n want pe0pl3 g3ttiin th3 wr0ng id3a wud w3

LMAO!!!@ UNDACUVABRUTHA

But sistas feel bad doing those things, like they feel less than a honest woman or some shit!!!
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You got to do these things to keep them. Good cooking and good 98.6

He can always go to Popeye’s and get an 8 piece for $4.99. But good head will keep a nicca coming back for more and more

Sydney™ You can find freaks in every race.
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ding ding ding 0h s0 v3ry tru3

how did this turn ino a race issue? I thought black and brown (trey and Adrienne) is ok.lol

Who ARE these people?

[...] Romance is in full effect between your boy Trey Songz and Adrienne Bailon. Sources claim he is smitten with Cheetah Girl [...]

Mamafudge please stop with the Myspace lettering. Just say what you want without all that extra trying to figure out what they hell you are saying

Lady Star

Now don’t spend all the money. You know mama is proud of you for doing good in college so go on and get it now and make us more prouder.

LMAO…ok imposter if you gonna try to be my momma atleast get your facts straight…I graduated a year ago from college…you’re not even making this fun, but thanks for showing off her beauty…

@JB
“Mamafudge please stop with the Myspace lettering. Just say what you want without all that extra trying to figure out what they hell you are saying”
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I thought everyone was just skipping over it….

@chaka- Trey- a freakboy sanger lol
Adriene- a kardashian freakbooty reject.lol

hey BAE

“Naw…. it’s not a rant then.”

No – then its just a plain ole LIE!!!

on second thought…I thought Adrienne is just as pretty if not prettier than the hodashians…

LADY A, ARE THEY IMPOSTERING YOUR MOTHER NOW?

[...] are they?  Trey Songz:  He Tweets for attention. [...]

Big Sista Cougar All-Mit-ee – Behold THE GREEN AND GOLD!!!!

But sistas feel bad doing those things, like they feel less than a honest woman or some shit!!!
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You got to do these things to keep them. Good cooking and good 98.6

He can always go to Popeye’s and get an 8 piece for $4.99. But good head will keep a nicca coming back for more and more

thats what im talking about shawty!!! ; )

HEY LADY ARCHITECT!!!!

Yeah, cougar lady!! You right about that good head. And honestly, women don’t give a damn about receiving good head, not as much as the lovey, dovey, mushy stuff anyway.

By the way, Popeyes’ all over the world had to have sold the most chicken ever in the history of any chicken spot.

Ok, back to the ‘head’ jobs!!

bae19

how did this turn ino a race issue? I thought black and brown (trey and Adrienne) is ok.lol
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@bae19

it shouldn’t be a race issue it should be more about two f-list losers desperate for some media fame

@ Big Sista Cougar All-Mit-ee – Behold THE GREEN AND GOLD!!!!

lol fair enuff

*peekin in here*

….

@sydney
hey marquis

waiving heavily.

@ Sydney,

Can I look in your mirror? With you that is?

@Glok9N

Please don’t talk about my tig ole bitties sweetie, my daughter might get mad at me and tell me not to blog on here with her anymore. Thanks!

hey yall

@bae19

The simple version is that freaky is someone that lets go of inhibitions and is proactive. Not worried about what it would seem like in public and interested in having fun

@Toxicity- you know, you’re right!lol how far does the celebrity alphabet go down though? to z-listers?

Toxicity
@bae19

it shouldn’t be a race issue it should be more about two f-list losers desperate for some media fame

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f-list losers hahaha

@Sydney

Yup, you’re a sista — Just don’t forget the spelling of Grand Puba, LMAO. I saw your post yesterday, and I cracked up.

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Yeah that was horrible on my part LMAO.

I win the SS Failboat award of the day for that.

Yeah, bae19

I am. And if you want me around for a minute, you better be too.

adrienne baillon does publicity stunts just like kim does, remember adrienne’s publicist (who used to also be kim’s publicist) admitted he used to help adrienne and rob get exposure and start rumours about their relationship. I don’t think adrienne and rob are together anymore…lol she has his name on her ass, what a dumbass to get a tattoo like that ! We all know gossip blogs look at people’s twitter pages, go to twitter.com/robkardashian…lol he’s leaving love quotes, seems like one big publicity stunt to me, kim must have taught them, she’s the queen of pr stunts, she even mad her sunburn into on big pr stunt!

@Lady Star- who’s mama are you?

“@sydney
hey marquis

waiving heavily.”

JEEZ!! HOW MANY GODDAMN PEOPLE ON THIS BOARD ARE REALLY MARQUIS???

SMDH!!!!

Hey Ermy!

@Undacuvabrutha

“@ Sydney,

Can I look in your mirror? With you that is?”

LMAO

LADY STAR!
WHOZ YOUR DAUGHTER? SORRY LOVE ,SHE SHOULDA WARN YOU ABOUT MY IGNANT BLK AZZ!!

@capo
u still here dude, what’s popping?

@ MIJDC

@ME, DO YOU FIND DENNIS RODMAN ATTRACTIVE?

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I gotta go look at a few more pics of him before I make a FINAL call, but going off memory, I think sans the piercings and dyed hair he’s aight. He doesn’t fall into the Jay-Z category by no means.

hey hey Syd!

im tryin to catch up on wat yall are talkin about but i am lost. its too nice outside and im distracted

no booty lickin for me….damn since when was lickin below somebody’s balls the business? Y’all know you can get STOMACH INFECTIONS like that?

ew Dennis Rodman is terrible to look at. just terrible

“Just proving Jessica right by not treating me as a KING…. SMH.”

If black males – such as yourself – didn’t act like QUEENS perhaps women would treat you as KINGS!!

@undercuva
@ Sydney,

Can I look in your mirror? With you that is?

dont do it, sydney is a dude.LMAO

Good Afternoon Everybody!

yall got more booty talk today huh?

@me (the original)

“Yeah that was horrible on my part LMAO.

I win the SS Failboat award of the day for that.”

Girl, that was hilarious — and you came back and corrected it. LMBAO!

I’ve done the same thing, no biggie.

@ bae 19…. hey ma, you mean to tell me you don’t like balls?

oh please like white chicks dont call Dennis Rodman ugly…. they called falv ugly and was fuc*ing him at the same time.. my thing is black girls give good head too it aint just awhite woman game.. but dont come to me and thats all you can do .. in other words mild aint after thathead game no more, can you cook , can you clean , can you be a mother to my kid, and look good too if you got all that mild will teach you the head game and any other game!

@SMDH
“Just proving Jessica right by not treating me as a KING…. SMH.”

If black males – such as yourself – didn’t act like QUEENS perhaps women would treat you as KINGS!!

Hey calm down there weavy!!

hey Be!

Oh Lawdy…yes someone doesn’t have a life…

that rob has lost his mind….

And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by CHOICE

No one stays in love by chance, it is by WORK.

No one falls in love by choice, it is by CHANCE

Thats on his twit page

@Pimp Abs – who are you talking to? can you cook?

Glok9n: The real glok !!!

LADY STAR!
WHOZ YOUR DAUGHTER? SORRY LOVE ,SHE SHOULDA WARN YOU ABOUT MY IGNANT BLK AZZ!!

Don’t give imposters attention…Even though I know my mom got it like that…it’s not really her

@be
sup, dont u love dc today?LOL

hey @ Man, Lady A, me

Momma BE!!!

Hey Ermy

Hi Be

@ lady a…CYE

@SMDH.. do u treat your white man like a King

@Sho-nuff- LMBAO

BE

@Pimp Abs – who are you talking to? can you cook?

Beautiful BE, I’m quoting Camay, Ghosts Verse to be exact, thats a requirment for locking me down!

snoop bloggy blog ( DOING IT BLOGGYSTYLE)

@ lady a…CYE

I’m lost…..

@ermy
sup b*tch

hey hey man!

Hey Erm!!

Lady AAAAAA!!!!

Sydney

Man ♥♥

Snoop♥♥♥♥

Hey Bae – at 19 you are correct to not know and do those things beneath the balls…just my 2 cents

@bae19

My daughet is Lady Architect! We is so proud of what she doing with herself.

@ Sydney

You know, the sad thing about that all is I have 2000 right in the other room and I didn’t bother to look at it, I just typed…it wasn’t til I went to get the CD to listen to I Like It that I realized my spelling error..ROFL

@ME
“I don’t know that initial attraction, and by that I mean the first look, is anymore based on emotion than logic.

As far as getting down to the actual interaction and dating aspect, yes that would be more emotionally involved but to just look at a woman (or man for that matter) and make such a call, I don’t know.”
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How can an intial impression use “logic?” LOL. No wonder you was ranting….

Oh ok be.. you gonna just ig ole mild ,, my sweet essence of Be.. i cant believe it!!

@Glok9n

I have 36F’s so you know mama got some extra loving to give. My daughter get it from me for sure.

@Sho-Nuff the Shogun of Harlem (The Meanest, Prettiest, Baddest Mofolo Down Around This Town)

lmao

@Pimp – Beautiful BE, I’m quoting Camay, Ghosts Verse to be exact, thats a requirment for locking me down!

*******
that is one of the keys for most men…

@LADY STAR
“Lady Star

@bae19

My daughet is Lady Architect! We is so proud of what she doing with herself”
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Well, after logically evaluating your picture. I’m glad that your daughter got what ever good genes that you possess. It must have been a one in a billion chance because I doubt you have many good genes.

@bae19

My daughet is Lady Architect! We is so proud of what she doing with herself.

wait someone’s mom is on this website.LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

Mild – you know I was saving the best for last baby!!! ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

@Snoop- er, I dont know how to feel about that?

@ be….hey sushine♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

mild sauce head of my own tradition ™

oh please like white chicks dont call Dennis Rodman ugly…. they called falv ugly and was fuc*ing him at the same time.. my thing is black girls give good head too it aint just awhite woman game.. but dont come to me and thats all you can do .. in other words mild aint after thathead game no more, can you cook , can you clean , can you be a mother to my kid, and look good too if you got all that mild will teach you the head game and any other game!

Sermon, Organs, Church Fans!!! You said it all right there!

Mama looking for some sideline lovin!

BE

@Pimp – Beautiful BE, I’m quoting Camay, Ghosts Verse to be exact, thats a requirment for locking me down!

*******
that is one of the keys for most men…

No doubt feed me, don’t worry, my stomach gone always look right them situps and running got me, just feed me girl!

@BE- oh no! this doesnt mean ill be doin it when I get older, does it?
I’LL SURELY DIE!!

Man, I just don’t care™

@LADY STAR
“Lady Star

@bae19

My daughet is Lady Architect! We is so proud of what she doing with herself”
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Well, after logically evaluating your picture. I’m glad that your daughter got what ever good genes that you possess. It must have been a one in a billion chance because I doubt you have many good genes.

- lol coldblooded…

@Snoop- er, I dont know how to feel about that?
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that’s a compliment on your lips

Thanks for supportin mama! I am almost able to fit in my size 8 jeans again for the summer.

Wait, I’m a little confused. . .Um. . .What’s going on in here?

@me (the original)

“it wasn’t til I went to get the CD to listen to I Like It that I realized my spelling error..ROFL”

I think you just spelled it phonetically. LOL!!

@me
oh i did not leave the comments, it was man. i was just laughing to his comment.

@ MIJDC

How can an intial impression use “logic?” LOL. No wonder you was ranting….
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So, you’re saying the actual “decision” to automatically dismiss someone of a certain race for any other reason besides just not finding them attractive is not a decision made with logic? Granted, it’s a predetermined decision, but still a decision made before hand. You’re going to say people who say “I dont like X chicks cause they’re high-maintenance, loud, greedy, crazy, etc” is not using their logic to make said decision??

thats a compliment on my lips…
thats a compliment on my lips..
that a compliment on my lips…

What is so wrong about treating a man’s nutsack like a fine pair of satin slippers? So what you may get a little close to the “forbidden zone”. but I bet you he will jump off that bed.

stalkerish it is…

@lady arch
sydney is the one doing this, i swear that b*tch is crazy!!

What happened to throw back thursday?

God dont like ugly and neither does mama!

thanks my girl Be… mmmm sweet be, its always sweet when be brings it.. remember my niece i told you who b-balls , thats what they say when she runs it down the court… speaking of running the court whares my b-baller ms mecca at/

@Big Sister Cougar-
see I didnt ay anything about the treasure trove…Im just not touchin the stank box!
NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONO!
::out of breath::

LADY ARCHITECT!
YOU STRONG SISTA, CUZ THAT WOULDA REALLY FUKD ME UP… IM DEAD SERIOUS …NO PROBLEM I WAS COMING YOUR WAY SOON ANYWAY, I RESPECT THE ARCHITECT!

@ Big Sista Cougar All-Mit-ee – Behold THE GREEN AND GOLD!!!!

What is so wrong about treating a man’s nutsack like a fine pair of satin slippers? So what you may get a little close to the “forbidden zone”. but I bet you he will jump off that bed.
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Damn… I wear a size 12

@Bae – oh no! this doesnt mean ill be doin it when I get older, does it?
I’LL SURELY DIE!!
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you may not ever partake but you may think about it later…lol

brb

@mild
there is now a website that allows inmate search for their love, on that website they put a pic of an african american male and an african american female hooking up, the male wearing the orange suit offcourse.SMH

my boy sent it to me, i was like WTF???

Bye people.

@ SMDH

damn, black men don’t go to college? the numbers are increasing I think.

“Being in Califonia I think it is easier to accept it than it is in the south.”

Umm disagree on that right there , its all good in Texas..

Legend – Lakers 3-0 is whats up …

yeah you can have all your favorite ice cream flavors but you always stick that favorite one, mine happens not to be vanilla, too damn bland for me.. but that rich dark chocolate.. damn i cant do with out it.. kill me now if you take my choc away!!! just kill mde now!!

@The Crazed Stalker

“@lady arch
sydney is the one doing this, i swear that b*tch is crazy!!”

What the F are you talking about? Bring out Sound of Music or Educated Black Man, please.

Idiot.

@sydney/film/marquis

aww “it” getting emotional.LMAOOOO

@ Sydney

Well you know how it is..can’t win them all.

@JB – What happened to throw back thursday?

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I don’t know…..but please start the topic

co-sign on the forbidden zone points…skraight off the bed

@ME
“So, you’re saying the actual “decision” to automatically dismiss someone of a certain race for any other reason besides just not finding them attractive is not a decision made with logic? Granted, it’s a predetermined decision, but still a decision made before hand. You’re going to say people who say “I dont like X chicks cause they’re high-maintenance, loud, greedy, crazy, etc” is not using their logic to make said decision??”
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Dang…. this really is over your head isn’t it. No, they aren’t using their “logic.” The sad part is that they try to “explain” their decision and it is then viewed as to whether it is “logical” or not.

Again, the entire relationship process is based on EMOTION which is a direct contradiction to LOGIC.

@ SMDH

Uhm, I don’t think Sydney is Marquis or Kigali.

co-sign on the forbidden zone points…skraight off the bed

See its the young ones that don’t know.

YOOOOO WHAT THE FUK GOING ON IN HERE NOW …YOU’LL SAYING THATZ NOT THR REAL SYDNEY…. THATZ MARQUIS???????…THEN YOU MEAN I WAS GOING TO SING SHALAMAR SONGz WITH MARQUIS THE FAG!!??????

there is now a website that allows inmate search for their love, on that website they put a pic of an african american male and an african american female hooking up, the male wearing the orange suit offcourse.SMH

my boy sent it to me, i was like WTF???

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what kind of woman ‘searches’ for a damn convict…damn

@JB – co-sign on the forbidden zone points…skraight off the bed

See its the young ones that don’t know.

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sssh..I think they think they know everything all ready..lol

Glok … you crazy , hey my uncle brother came at me callin me nappy head… man whoever chose him as a SN was wack man me and my uncle brother is like ikey and mikey man!!

@GLO
trust me dude, that is marquis, i know for sure, i exposed him a long time ago and he confessed.

“@ME
“So, you’re saying the actual “decision” to automatically dismiss someone of a certain race for any other reason besides just not finding them attractive is not a decision made with logic? Granted, it’s a predetermined decision, but still a decision made before hand. You’re going to say people who say “I dont like X chicks cause they’re high-maintenance, loud, greedy, crazy, etc” is not using their logic to make said decision??””

I agree 1,000,000% The black male has carried the logic for many years that for reasons of XY&Z white women and bettter than black women and it is a conscience logically decision they are making to believe this…

dre(sydney is marquis),
I know who it is….lol it’s all good.

@pm
LMAO, i agree

@lady arch
it’s sydney right/

@MIJDC

Dang…. this really is over your head isn’t it. No, they aren’t using their “logic.” The sad part is that they try to “explain” their decision and it is then viewed as to whether it is “logical” or not.

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No, it’s not over my head. If you read my posts in this thread earlier (and no, I don’t expect you to do it), you’d see that was EXACTLY what I was saying..people feel they have to explain or justify their attractions, and the reasons they come up with are usually logically flawed.

At this point, you’re just using semantics. I don’t know if you’re just going at me this way because you don’t like me or whatever but uhm…you’re not getting what I was trying to say at all. That was proven when you referred to a portion of my post as a “rant.”

Even stranger, when SMDH said the same thing I did, you agreed with her. Oh well, whatevs.

@the older ladies- his is one of those mountains where y’all can keep on being the sensei! I am the monk who will not climb for enlightenment!

WOW DRE! WHAT UP BRO?

@me
how u knw that ain’t sydney? stop siding it.

@SMDH
“So, you’re saying the actual “decision” to automatically dismiss someone of a certain race for any other reason besides just not finding them attractive is not a decision made with logic? Granted, it’s a predetermined decision, but still a decision made before hand. You’re going to say people who say “I dont like X chicks cause they’re high-maintenance, loud, greedy, crazy, etc” is not using their logic to make said decision??””

I agree 1,000,000% The black male has carried the logic for many years that for reasons of XY&Z white women and bettter than black women and it is a conscience logically decision they are making to believe this…”
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LOLLLL. The very statment “I don’t date this race because (fill in the blank)” in and of itself is ILLOGICAL.

If the person INTERPETING the statement used THEIR LOGIC they would realize this. Do you know the meaning of the word “logic?”

dre(sydney is marquis)

@lady arch
it’s sydney right/

I won’t say….the situation is being handled

@The Stalker

“@GLO
trust me dude, that is marquis, i know for sure, i exposed him a long time ago and he confessed.”

When was this?? You have repeatedly been exposed repeatedly as an impostor and namejacker.

Once again, you’re weird, crazy, and creepy. Everything about you is off. Seriously.

Mama is tired and needa nap!

“LOLLLL. The very statment “I don’t date this race because (fill in the blank)” in and of itself is ILLOGICAL.

If the person INTERPETING the statement used THEIR LOGIC they would realize this. Do you know the meaning of the word “logic?””

I KNOW it’s illigical and apparently you do to – but you’d be suprised how many “brothas” truly believe the crap they spew about not dating sistas for this or that reason. They view it as very logical to feel that way.. They feel it is logical to think they will have better luck with a white/non black woman. Frankly I can’t believe more black males can’t see how illigical that thinking is – but then again – the black male is still confused all these years later..

i dont date blacks, whites, asians, or hispanics.

i gotta go pick my sister’s daughter up in a minutes, she just called me to help her. i guess ill leave work soon.LOL

wow @ mild

TELL THATZ YOU SYD …MS.CNN …..MS MSNBC!??? TELL THATZ YOU GURL!

Trey Songz doesn’t stand a chance in hell_LBC

@sydney
SMDH EXPOSED U!! LMAOO

@the older ladies- his is one of those mountains where y’all can keep on being the sensei! I am the monk who will not climb for enlightenment!

Girl you better climb that mountain, before someone else does.

BLOOD CLOOTT!

Lady A, your mom’s boobs are enourmoungus,

SHE IS 5150

SYDNEY IS ALSO KEVIN

@Glok

Too much craziness on this site. . .and we were having a cool conversation. I haven’t seen anything like it anywhere else.

@sydney
put up an obama story and let them believe u??LMAOO

MILD!
NEXT TIME PUT HER IN THE BACK SEAT AND I’LL MEET YOU HALF WAY!

when i go to baskin n Robbins, i like ugh not that one , let me taste that one… ugh no and i always end up with chocolate,, that must be telling me something, cause vanills is just too damn bland for me!!

LMAOOOO sydney is being exposed slowly.

what the hell is going on in here?

@dre – i gotta go pick my sister’s daughter up in a minutes, she just called me to help her. i guess ill leave work soon.
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this is the first time I have ever seen you mention your family..

Now Oh Lawdy is pretending to be Z!

Oh Lawdy is famous for using the bug eyed expression. Step your game up fatty!

what’s jerkin in here?

Glok … man that chick was spaced out man , fine as hell body bangin but looney as a looney tune!!

WOW @ SYD ..YOU KNOW I CAN ACTUALLY SAY I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!

*you have been exposed repeatedly*

I think there’s a group of people who do nothing all day except read people’s comments on here and decide who they like or don’t like, and then they attack. Disturbing.

@SMDH

Young lady I am not hungree I simply like a snack between meals!

@ be….you got people on my myspace like wtf is snoop….lol

As far as i’m concerned Adriene whatever her name is is not “ALL THAT” SHE “AURITE” so i don’t see what TREY IS SO HYP ABOUT..secondly, it pisses me off that succesful black man always want to date outside their race, when they are so many beautiful sistahs in the world!! SMDH!! TREY IS A SELL OUT!!!

@be
history about myself, my dad is african and my mom is from dubai, kinda a kim k look alike, i am mixed, i am 23yrs old. i work for my dad’s company..i stay in dc.

WOW@ DRE!
IS THAT THE REAL SMDH TOO?

@sydney
someone said u are kevin here!! are u kevin too?SMH

GOTTA LEAVE IN 10MINS SH*T. IM HAVING FUN

SMDH IS not a black person, BUT she/he had only one name and not an imposer like sydney

@ SMDH

I did not CONVENIENTLY overlook the black female hate that goes on here, just like i didn’t overlook the hate that goes on for other gender/race demographics. I just chose to speak on behalf of and as a black male which I feel I am entitled to do.

I can freely speak on behalf of all my sistas because I love all women regardless of their persuasion. But what I see is that there are droves of people ready to defend the black woman and not so many ready to defend the black male. Excuse me for taking the road less traveled and hoping on the front line for my brothas.

The fact is, there are people on both sides of the fence that need to change their views. But you can always tell the people that hold those views, because they become upset when they are pointed out.

Things that make you hmm…

why is he a sell out, black man been going out with latinas is not new!!!!!

@ dre…how do you know who is a imposter?

“you are not missing anything..someone stole a picture of someone’s mom and is now pretending to be that person’s mom in a cruel kind of way”

THAT’S SOMEONES MOTHER?? Oh – That’s not even cool.. That’s someone’s mother in here?? How would someone in here get a picture of someone elses mother? Gee – that’s not cool at all..

Baby where did you go? Mama is about to leave with all the strangers axing ?????? bout me.

@Snoop – you got people on my myspace like wtf is snoop
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LOL…well they should stick to their own comments..next time I am putting up the booty shot…lol anyway at least I didn’t call you honey, sweetie and what not like they did

@dre – I think I remember you telling me your father was African only at the time I did not think you were a real poster

“SMDH IS not a black person, BUT she/he had only one name and not an imposer like sydney”

WHATEVER!! Sound like a bitter black male “rant” to me… I don’t need to pretend and everyone here should know that by now…

@ dre…how do you know who is a imposter?
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
because he is the antichrist

Hey TxHustla!

@ dre…how do you know who is a imposter?
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
because he is the antichrist

LMAOO. no way

WOW – my screename finally changed?? Say HELLO to BROWNGUSSASISTA!!

@be
oh ok….im the real dre dear.

@The Stalker

Nope, I only have one SN.

You, on the other hand, have had a series of aliases for probably over a year now. They’ve had the same properties and similar bad grammar and spelling, and your anti-Black American thoughts have been repeated as well.

You are incapable of holding an intelligent conversation/debate, so you resort to these childish antics. I seriously think there’s something wrong for you, and it plays out on here. You also claimed that you graduated from Howard, which is impossible given your low level of communication.

@ dre…how do you know who is a imposter?
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
because he is the antichrist

LMAOO. no way

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

@MIJDC

Let’s see where we differ, again using Dennis Rodman as an example.

“I don’t black women because they called me ugly when I was a boy.”

MY posistion is that the rationale that he used is illogical, and therefore he COULD NOT HAVE USED LOGIC to come to his conclusion. Thus, his decision was based on emotion.

(my perception ↓)
YOUR posistion is that because of the STATED reason of not dating black women being “illogical” was that he did in fact use logic, but it was flawed.
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My opinion is that he “tried to justify it with logic.” That’s to say, he’s trying to give a logical explanation as to why he won’t date a Black Woman. I said that type of logic is flawed–and I’d even call it illogical as well. But as SMDH said–some of these people who make such claims (men and women) find these explanations and perfectly sound and logical reasoning.

I’m going to quote something I said earlier (so you don’t have to scroll up) which, basically is the meat and potatoes of what I was trying to say:
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My point is NOT that *I* feel people should have to give a reason for why they date who they want to date–as a matter of fact, my prior posts suggest the opposite–my point is that people SHOULDN’T feel the need to justify their attractions or what have you with some BS generalizations. That’s what I’m arguing against.
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Thats how 95% of black women are..When you strugglin they aint around now u doing somethin in life here they come

I am in that 5%

Mama going to go lay down and get ready for her stories.

hello brownsuggasista

@lady arch
for real SMDH is not real.

@ Capo my <3

OMG! In my debate with MIJDC, I missed your response!!! My apologies

But that was the wrong song. Right artist, though..it’s Meth, but think D’Angelo, not MJB ;p

Just Sayin,
Hey there…you left the other days when the women were talking about kicking your butt in BBall…did you get scared? lol

@The Stalker

Oh, and you’re not the real anything. What you are is a very angry, disturbed individual with access to a computer. It does no good to try to contend with you because you can’t fight crazy.

Throw-Back Thurday

If you could wear something from the late 80′s early 90′s and get away with it what would it be?

My tapered jeans and white socks and black patent shoes looking like Michael Jackson

@BE – Whats good ?

@MJDC – Fam where you think Steph Curry is goin to land ? I got sportscenter on one of my screens , I got him going after Griffin..

Ooh my starter jacket

Throw-Back Thurday

If you could wear something from the late 80’s early 90’s and get away with it what would it be?

My size 16 jordache jeans.

@The Stalker

Oh, and you’re not the real anything. What you are is a very angry, disturbed individual with access to a computer. It does no good to try to contend with you because you can’t fight crazy.

that would be u marquis!!LMAOOOO

@ME
“My point is NOT that *I* feel people should have to give a reason for why they date who they want to date–as a matter of fact, my prior posts suggest the opposite–my point is that people SHOULDN’T feel the need to justify their attractions or what have you with some BS generalizations. That’s what I’m arguing against.”
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Ok, I understand everything you said except for this part:

“some BS generalizations. That’s what I’m arguing against”

Whatever reason that they give is NOT “BS”….. TO THEM!!!!! It is only BS if you apply YOUR “logic” to it or you believe their statement to be lies. But, how could you know if it is a lie or not? You truthfully can’t.

Big Sista Cougar All-Mit-ee – Behold THE GREEN AND GOLD!!!!

Throw-Back Thurday

If you could wear something from the late 80’s early 90’s and get away with it what would it be?

My tapered jeans and white socks and black patent shoes looking like Michael Jackson

LMAO oh no…you can’t be my mom-in-law dressed like that

@ i am legend….go to gravatar.com and set up a acct.

ERMY AINT HERE TO SAFE U!!LMAO
the chic was the first to bounce.

My size 16 jordache jeans.
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This is just wrong

If you could wear something from the late 80’s early 90’s and get away with it what would it be?

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Lee jeans with the crease sewn in the front and back and a spiked belt

Im back….what is goin in here?????I see ranting and raving!!

(note to self: never wear my michael jackson outfit around lady A)

If you could wear something from the late 80’s early 90’s and get away with it what would it be?

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overalls. everybody and they mama wore overalls wit tank tops or crops

syd, just come out already, it’s getting annoying b*tch

@ I AM LEGEND, NO MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE SOME DUMBASS WITH A FAKE NAME WILL HATE ON YOU.

I had a NC starter jacket LOL everybody had a starter jacket

@TX HUSTLA
“@MJDC – Fam where you think Steph Curry is goin to land ? I got sportscenter on one of my screens , I got him going after Griffin..
”
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I KNOW he won’t go #2 dawg. I hope he slides all the way down to wherever the Suns are drafting. Maybe we can get lucky like the Magic in ’94. I sure do hope so.

Curry would be perfect for the Suns sytle of ball.

i think brandon jennings go before stephen curry, he’s style of play is very marketable.

@sydney/Marquis
ok weirdo, if u don’t care why respond anyways?? is u sure u ain’t marquis u will laugh and move on.

@The Stalker

“TO SAFE U!!LMAO”

It’s “SAVE” you. My goodness. . .

And this is what’s so disturbing, this is a blog, the Internet, no one has to “save” me from anything. But, you’re right, if we were in person, I would be afraid of you, like the Craigslist guy. I truly think you’re disturbed.

If you had a choice for one and only one group to reunite and make 1 more album for the 80′s or 90′s, who would it be?

FUGEES

SWV OR XSCAPE

FUGEES yep @ jb mos def

@I AM LEGEND ..Lakers going up 3-0… – Yeah I got Rubio goin mid to late first ….

If you had a choice for one and only one group to reunite and make 1 more album for the 80’s or 90’s, who would it be?

Digable Planets

Ermy Erm is Disillusioned with Society

If you could wear something from the late 80’s early 90’s and get away with it what would it be?

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overalls. everybody and they mama wore overalls wit tank tops or crops

Those were the most comfortable things.

If you had a choice for one and only one group to reunite and make 1 more album for the 80’s or 90’s, who would it be?

Kool and The Gang

@Lady Star, mama what u cook today lol

@MIJDC

So, when someone makes a generalization about a race of people, like “All black women are greedy, so I don’t date them.” or “All hispanic chicks are crazy baby machines, so I don’t date them”, you feel that just because *they* believe it, it’s not a BS generalization?

LMAO @ DEFENDING SOMEONE ON A BLOG

SWV aka Sistas on Helium was a good group too

“@ Brownsugga

Where do you live Somewhere in the south?? Or is ya daddy Louis Farakhan?”

No – I am from the NorthWest and I go to school in the NorthEast… Though I did go to undergrad school in Lousisiana I have no southern roots…

And though I love Farrakhan, we are no relation….

Haha, I knew she couldn’t have a black man. That’s awesome.

is=if

SYD!
YOU MUST KNOW WHO DOING THIS, BY THE WAY YOU TALKING RIGHT NOW!LOL!

@ TX HUSTLA You misinterpreted my comment. I have no problem with black men dating outside of their race regardless of their financial status i am all for interracial dating.
What pisses me off is when “succesful” black men feel the need to have a “TROPHY” wife/girlfriend..to them “TROPHY”=LATINA OR WHITE! Thats not cool! They don’t see “TROPHY” as being “BLACK”. Thats disturbing.

With that being said i also agree that ppl should be judged by their character not their skin color!

aw man i forgot about Digable Planets

I PROMISE you if another race of man began to dominate sports, rap and all the things that tend to give black males their millions the white/non black women would drop her “black male love” in a heartbeat.. Just look at how they fall all over the latin men of baseball..
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this makes you go hhhmmmm
I am no lover of spanish men but those baseball players from Cuba, Puerto Rico and where ever else make you want some latin loving…for real they are PHINE!!

@I AM LEGEND ..Lakers going up 3-0…

I think Thabeet from UCONN will get picked before Steph Curry..Hes like a Mutumbo”
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I SAID THE SAME THING DAWG!! (Godspeed to Mutombo with his knee injury)

I ain’t sayin these the “best” two players but Thabeet and Gerald Henderson from Duke are my favorites in the draft. They def. both have a “pro type” style of play.

“SWV aka Sistas on Helium was a good group too”

Mine would be either JADE or CHANGING FACES…

@Glok

It’s cool. I’ve just noticed that whenever a certain group of people start talking, having a good conversation, or whatever, someone has to swoop in and ruin it, instead of just joining in like a normal, rational person. Whatever. . .

Oh, I mentioned on the other thread that I really loved the Mint Condition song. Thanks for recommending it to me.

@Erm – SWV aka Sistas on Helium was a good group too

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that is soooo wrong..true but wrong

@sydney
LMAO, correcting my typos, she how pathetic u are. this is a blog, i type and send, do u want me to start correcting urs… LMAOO

aw man i forgot about Digable Planets

LADY BUG!!!

“this makes you go hhhmmmm
I am no lover of spanish men but those baseball players from Cuba, Puerto Rico and where ever else make you want some latin loving…for real they are PHINE!!”

Girl stop.. I would drink Manny Ramirez’ bath water..

Aw man i forgot about Jade too

OAKTOWN 3-5-7
702
Total

@sydney
come out of the closet marquis, ur days are numbered.

lol @ Be

If you had a choice for one and only one group to reunite and make 1 more album for the 80’s or 90’s, who would it be?

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Shalamar

What pisses me off is when “succesful” black men feel the need to have a “TROPHY” wife/girlfriend..to them “TROPHY”=LATINA OR WHITE! Thats not cool! They don’t see “TROPHY” as being “BLACK”. Thats disturbing.
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@ GEM…Ehat makes you think they look at those broads as trophy wives, or is that just how u feel?

*typo* what

damn im driving and using my laptop.. i am gangsta like that.

@Glok

“YOU MUST KNOW WHO DOING THIS, BY THE WAY YOU TALKING RIGHT NOW!LOL!”

Some crazy dude who claims he lives in D.C. *rolling my eyes*

WHEN BEING ATTACKED ON A BLOG YOU SHOULD HAVE SOME DEFENDERS….YOU KNOW TAG TEAM BUDDIES WHEN ONE IZ BEING JUMP ON A BLOG LOL!FUK THAT!

brownsuggasista

“this makes you go hhhmmmm
I am no lover of spanish men but those baseball players from Cuba, Puerto Rico and where ever else make you want some latin loving…for real they are PHINE!!”

Girl stop.. I would drink Manny Ramirez’ bath water..
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Girl him and albert puljos !!!spelled wrong probably they could get da bizz…..

@ Christie’s Secrets

Broke people date broke people. They meet where broke people go. We have all seen the broke dude with the black chick with house shoes and a bad weave as well as the broke dude in the two tone 86 cutlass with a big white girl.

Dang….about 500-something posts and not a Kigali comment?

Wow. So this is what educated responses look like. Kigali usually fumes it up with her furies of hate.

If you had a choice for one and only one group to reunite and make 1 more album for the 80’s or 90’s, who would it be?
____________

the stylistics, con funk shun or is that the 70′s…lol

Girl stop.. I would drink Manny Ramirez’ bath water..

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Manny Ramirez will make you learn all dialects of spanish…

@MIJDC

No, I get what you’re saying there. I hadn’t said that before but yes, there are people who actually believe stuff that isn’t logical.

I am asking, though, do you?

lmfao did blogs exist in 82?

@Glok

“YOU MUST KNOW WHO DOING THIS, BY THE WAY YOU TALKING RIGHT NOW!LOL!”

Some crazy dude who claims he lives in D.C. *rolling my eyes*

men do not roll their eyes.

lol

If you had a choice for one and only one group to reunite and make 1 more album for the 80’s or 90’s, who would it be?
_________
Jodeci….I’ve been killin them lately

OK

If you could have one tv show from do a reunion what would it be

A Differetn World

@Snoop – the stylistics, con funk shun or is that the 70’s
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what you know about the sylistics? that is the 70′s..blue magic..the manhattans. Those are the real baby making songs!

@ermy
lmfao did blogs exist in 82?

sydney told me this i was shocked to.

Be

Isn’t shalamr from the 70′s

aw man JODECI! forgot about them too

SYD I’LL TALK TO YOU WHERE YOU AT GURL!
..I WOULD SEE YOUR NAME A MILLION TIMES ON HERE …I DONT SEE LOVE!

@awesome,

I live in France but i used to live in New York during 2 years for a assigment and i was living in the black brooklyn (crown heigths i think) and they were very few white people and i did not see them mixing up with black folks). In France in poor /ghettos/suburbs you are going to find black, arabians and white (poor of course) and there is a lot of mixing! I just dont see how people can mix when they barely see each other?

I AM LEGEND ..Lakers going up 3-0… – Yeah I could see that too based on all the teams that got the top picks this year. I want to see how the Thunder are going to come through to help Durant as they have the most.

@Be – dont forget alot of those cats just like David Ortiz are brothers too just with latino culture , haha I know first hand just like myself.

@Gem – I know what you mean , I see that plenty here in Austin, thats symptomatic pretty much everywhere you go and not just limited to us. I think its a pyschosis where some people (male/female) reach a certain status they have to then find someone to equate that status. I got some friends that think like that too..

@Just Sayin

“Doreen Waddell, a former vocalist with the groups Soul II Soul and KLF, died in a traffic accident, apparently after running from a store where she had been accused of shoplifting, police said. She was 36.”

I didn’t know about this — Did she sing the lead on “Back to Life?” That’s very sad.

Soul II Soul

Didn’t they do Keep On Moving and Back To Life?

And the lead singer died?

Oh no. Back to Life was my joint : /

oh please with that we should judge by character not color.. tell that to white folks who ahve been and still do judge us all as one big fuc*ed up rac of people.. Im telling you man ,, go on that stupid the dirty.com website and see what they say when they have a pic of a black man with a white woman! So i say they started racism and judging (stereotyping), so let them be the first ones to stop it.. not me!!

Manny Ramirez will make you learn all dialects of spanish…
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Manny can replace everyone on my Cougar list

@ Dre

I’m going to pose the same question to you. How do you know that Sydney IS Marquis?

Snoop what youknow about 70′s music? Wildflower is the SHIT!!!!

yall she died a long time ago. i read that on panachereport awhile ago.

“Girl him and albert puljos !!!spelled wrong probably they could get da bizz…..”

Big Papi too!!!

JB you got a cougar list?

Big Papi too!!!

He knocked it out the park yesterday.

@ be…i love old school..the main ingredient, the chi-lites, smokey, bloodstone, heatwave to name a few.

my boyfriend of 2 months is white and i met him in a bar! but usually, blacks people (mostly africans) dont go to white clubs (sometimes you can even pass the front door ), I remember in Ny,if i decided to go to the 40/40 for example, there were very few white people but when i went to the Mansion (im not sure of the name, its on the midpacking area), they were VERY few blacks, so when do you actually meet?

SYD!
THAT MINT CONDITION TRAK!
THATZ A BAD AZZ SONG RIGHT ??

its funny i used to date a puerto rican chick who was fine , didnt have a big booty , least not a curvy booty, but she smelled like tacos and didnt even like to give brains… so there you go.. not all the same!

@me
scroll up to 2:07pm and see what i wrote to snoop i explained it to him.

hey trs!

@ christie’s secrets

That’s cool. I think when it comes to poor and rich though, it’s more about the demographic of the people of that socioeconomic status than the race itself.

For instance, if all the white women were of lower class and all the black women were of upper class, the majority of upper class men (all races) would date black women and the majority of lower class men (all races) would date white women. I have lived in pretty diverse areas and I see the mix a lot, but its more class based. Lower with lower and upper with upper, etc.

Oh man..that’s sad.

Oh well..

Hey does anyone remember the group SISTA out circa 91? Missy Elliot was in that group. I think they were a one hit wonder though, with their song Brand New.

JB you got a cougar list?

Yeah. I left it in the Vivica Fox thread

”

Dang….about 500-something posts and not a Kigali comment?

Wow. So this is what educated responses look like. Kigali usually fumes it up with her furies of hate.”

Maybe that personality didn’t have time to put in an appearance today because its disturbed SYBIL-LIKE owner was too busy posting with other identities….

and there goes one of syndey’s b*tches.LMAO

sydney is happy as sh*t now.

**Lurking**

@ Ermy Erm

Hey girl!!!

@ Sydney

What’s up? *Sigh* ESP, ESP

Celebs from the 80′s who could get it now

Alan Payne – G-Money was fine even when he was hitting the pipe

@ Pimpin

Hey Pimpin!!! U left me hanging!

what up Pimpin

@trs

Hey girl, lol. Yeah, I know, *ESP*ESP*

Give me free.

too many mistakes, im loosing my english

LMAO @ dre actin like he drivin! nicca you ain drivin!!!!

@dre(sydney is marquis)

lol how u doin?

dre.. back when i use to lurk on here before i actually came on , Marquis was arguing with a cutie pie and he came out as buckwheat, chesta tha molesta and uncle kracka, thats when you could chase the properiy numbers and i was looking at his and he came un der the same names as calvin and hobbs, cc, tyrone, buckwheat, jesse helms and about 120 other names, i lost track… the same properties number was showing up , thats when i knew it was games he was playing! When he was debating with cutie pie, he came back at her with all different SN’s and i think one was Scorpio too! some shyt but they all had the same properties numbers and that was almost a year ago!

Hey TRS…girl you know me…

@GLO
LOL, yea men she is fine tho.

@ Snoop

@ trs….you shouldn’t have said that, now they going to turn up the heat……you know how haters are.
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Well I meant what I said BUT I don’t want to cause any drama so I hope that doesn’t happen. Something tells me that Lady A knows how to handle her business though.

OH, and I haven’t forgotten…. I will add you when I log onto myspace tonight.

“Everyone knows how the black male gets down..

HOW DO WE GET DOWN??”

You read the post. If you managed to pull this out you saw the entire thing.. I explained how black males get down.. Re-read it if you couldn’t understand the first time…

@ermy
LMAO,,, nah i am driving tho, but the accident thing was a joke.

trs

@ Pimpin

Hey Pimpin!!! U left me hanging!

When? Never that! Still I Rise, Still I Rise

Whatup Ermy Erm!!! *Waving like swimmers about to drown*!

Gon na make dis a night to remember. I dont want to be the last to know, if ya ever think bout leavin. You can count on me baby baby, you can count on me.

“The Underground Divas (featuring Maysa, N’dea Davenport, & Caron Wheeler)”

I’m so there. I love all of them — N’dea Davenport’s solo album was wonderful, and I’m a Brand New Heavies fan. Thanks, Just Sayin!

@liltwiz
im aight baby, about to go pick someone up? and u. were are u from?

DRE!LOL!
SHE ON FIRE !

@ Pimpin

Hey Pimpin!!! U left me hanging!

When? Never that! Still I Rise, Still I Rise
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The other day…I asked you a question. You must not have gotten it….

LMAO @ Pimpin!

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@ermy
LMAO,,, nah i am driving tho, but the accident thing was a joke.

YOU LYIN!!!! LMAO…o wait, maybe that explains why i cant understand half of what you typin

@mild
loll, u should ask sydney i bet she will know alot about that.

@ awesome but somethinbg that really shocked me in america is that races dont really mixed up! I remember one time i was on a jamaican neighborough and then i started to see all those weird jewish walking down the streets, i did not even realized i was in a new neighborough! There is definitely a social fracture but a racial one too! In France they are trying to make us beleive that there is no racial issues motsly between whites and the other ones (except asian, you know they never mix up with the others and never make any noise!) WE kinda have the same issues except that from the moment you start going to school, you will have all kinds of mates from different ethnic background so interracial dating is not something extraorinary here!

@ Lady A

Hey TRS…girl you know me…
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Keep your head up girl!

I wanna see Good times do a reunion for the death of Florida. Bring James back for it. Hell the nicca alreay died once and came back and then he died again.

Make it that Flo died with Keith in a car accident

trs

@ Pimpin

Hey Pimpin!!! U left me hanging!

When? Never that! Still I Rise, Still I Rise
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The other day…I asked you a question. You must not have gotten it….

Nope CYE though

@liltwiz
im aight baby, about to go pick someone up?
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LMAO its comedy really. you must be in bumper to bumper traffic

@ermy
yea cause u ghetto like that, u wont understand!!LMAOOOOO

My thing is how the hell does anybody have time to be all these different people and impostering and shyt… like that scab that had a Detroit Pistons weblink as my website under my name and they had a b harbor one too. First of all i dont even like the Pistons and second i dont put up no damn weblinks and i damn sure dont put up no pictures for folks to steal and the crazy thing about it is its probably one of their friends!

Pimpin you musta been workin hard today

@ermy
yup. the motherf*ckas ain’t MOVINGGGGGGGGGGG

AIGHT JB AND STRANGE PROG!, STRANGE TELLEM PUT THAT I DONT WANNA BE THAT LAST TO KNOW ON …THEM CHICKS DRAWS GET SOAKd
KNOW THEY SHALAMAR!

@ME
“@MIJDC

No, I get what you’re saying there. I hadn’t said that before but yes, there are people who actually believe stuff that isn’t logical.

I am asking, though, do you?”
____________________________________________________________

Depends on what you consider “logical.” I mean, is believing in God “logical?”

It all depends. I prolly have some beliefs that aren’t logical though.

@MILD
LOL

@ermy
yea cause u ghetto like that, u wont understand!!LMAOOOOO
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like i said b4, your sentences make no sense with the topic at hand

#10,
pay attention YGM

oops that is black

Lady Architect

#10,
pay attention YGM

You do too

@EMRY
what is the worst pick up line u have ever heard?

K, I stepped out earlier… someone give me an update.

Sean Kingston new song=str8 up toilet stool material

Hey TRS!!!

@ Pimpin

YOU ARE A MESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@EMRY
what is the worst pick up line u have ever heard?

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meet my friend Benjamin.

im like wth?

WILLIE PIMPIN! EARTH SMOKE! ITZ BLAZING !

its a couple of white chicks up in this job trying to holla,, but it aint happening captain.. one had the nerve to to say what she heard about a black bowlegged man…. man i aint trying to hear what you heard , tell me what you know . did you read it in a black history book? gtfoh, i aint on the swirl thing… too bad!!

“K, I stepped out earlier… someone give me an update.”

UPDATE:

We are having a decent conversation and you’re still gay.. In fact, I bet you’re grabbing your ankles as we speak…

HAHAHAHAH

Ha! I’m back, and I see you guys discovered that my message was a copy/paste thing from livestees. AND! That’s coming from a black man himself, just wanted to post it, maybe black girls will have an idea as to why black men rather date outside their race. I could post whatever I want. Drama is not the actions of a few black women, it’s the actions of a big portion of black women. Ya can all kiss my azz. What I couldn’t believe the most was the fact that hours after I logged off, ya still mad as hellz and you say you’re not bitter or dramatic. Ya can argue by yourselves. And to the religious one, Yea you’re real religious right, up in this site. A bunch of fake motherfucers. Opinions are like azzholes, you know how it go, everyone has one.

trs

@ Pimpin

YOU ARE A MESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I got to add to it, all the while your pissed off, you got to have that “vicious temper” on!!!

@EMRY
what is the worst pick up line u have ever heard?

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meet my friend Benjamin.

im like wth?

LMAO

what is the worst pick up line u have ever heard?
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“You look like a mermaid!!!”

WTF? SMDH.

@EMRY
what is the worst pick up line u have ever heard?

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i had a dude try and sell me some M&M’s on the train once. then he gone tell me

“this ain his real job baby, I he got 4 cars at home.”

what kinda sense that make?

@ERMY
what if i came to you and said
Hey baby, let’s play house, you can be the door and I’ll slam you!

what will you do?

@ Pimpin

I got to add to it, all the while your pissed off, you got to have that “vicious temper” on!!!
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LOL you are something ELSE!!!!! That’s a compliment though.

trs

what is the worst pick up line u have ever heard?
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“You look like a mermaid!!!”

WTF? SMDH.

LMAO

trs

what is the worst pick up line u have ever heard?
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“You look like a mermaid!!!”

WTF? SMDH.

What’s that mean?

“And I read on one of your post’s you have a boyfriend now? I feel sorry for that boy, does he know how you feel about black men? Or is he even black?”

Well he’s not black so that problem is solved.. NEXT!?!??!?!

LOL…..So the truth comes out. Black Men dont want you, so THATS why you have so much hate for them. It all makes sense now. And how your hating on white girls (or girls of any other race other than black) is kinda pathetic considering you dont even date your own race. You put the black man down for not dating black women and you yourself dont date black men. Can you say HYPOCRITE??? STFU now and stop your hating. Look in your own backyard before you run off at the mouth.

And for those of you who thought that i was going to be getting chewed out for my comments, pleeeease

what is the worst pick up line u have ever heard?
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“You look like a mermaid!!!”

WTF? SMDH

n*gga was lying!! LOL

@ERMY
what if i came to you and said
Hey baby, let’s play house, you can be the door and I’ll slam you!

what will you do?

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BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

idk what i would do, prolly laugh cuz it was just that lame

@ ERMY

@trs…wtf @ mermaid? how do you look like a mermaid? did you have scaly skin that day?
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GIRL LMBAO!!!!!! You have me cracking UP over here!!!! I was trying to figure out what he was talking about too….so I said “huh?” and apparently he was talking about teh fit of my green pencil skirt. I FELL OUT!!!!!

i had a dude try and sell me some M&M’s on the train once. then he gone tell me

“this ain his real job baby, I he got 4 cars at home.”

what kinda sense that make?

***********
or they on a bike talking about they left their car home

WILLIE PIMPIN!
….YES PLAYA ..IF ANYTHING SHOULD SLIP OUT THAT CUP ,….LET GO IT DOWN FOR THE HATERS BELOW YOU!

@ermy
i told a jamican woman at a bar
You must be Jamaican, because Jamaican me crazy

and she loved it!!LMAO

@ ERMY

@trs…wtf @ mermaid? how do you look like a mermaid? did you have scaly skin that day?
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GIRL LMBAO!!!!!! You have me cracking UP over here!!!! I was trying to figure out what he was talking about too….so I said “huh?” and apparently he was talking about teh fit of my green pencil skirt. I FELL OUT!!!!!
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LMAO @ green skirt = mermaid. that nicca was gone

o ok cuz i was bout to say, was you on the beach? clam bra? flippers on? anything remotely related to mermaid

“LOL…..So the truth comes out. Black Men dont want you, so THATS why you have so much hate for them. It all makes sense now. And how your hating on white girls (or girls of any other race other than black) is kinda pathetic considering you dont even date your own race. You put the black man down for not dating black women and you yourself dont date black men. Can you say HYPOCRITE??? STFU now and stop your hating. Look in your own backyard before you run off at the mouth.”

Are you all through??

TRUST ME – if I wanted a black male I would have one.. I think you know that… If Wanda the beached white whale can get a black male to wife her up, I KNOW I can get one to atleast lick my ass..

@be
im sure u have heard alot of worst pick up lines.LOL

Mistake #1… getting married
Mistake #2… getting married WITHOUT a prenup
Mistake #3… getting married

@ermy
i told a jamican woman at a bar
You must be Jamaican, because Jamaican me crazy

and she loved it!!LMAO

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BBAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH YOU STUPID!!!

@brownsugga
what about u? any worst pick up lines?

even sydney can join too.LMAO

i had a dude try and sell me some M&M’s on the train once. then he gone tell me

“this ain his real job baby, I he got 4 cars at home.”

what kinda sense that make?

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or they on a bike talking about they left their car home
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LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ya’ll got my stomach hurting up in here!!!

trs when he said that i was TOOOOOOOOO through. then he gone sit down next to me and keep talkin. im like ugh, plz flee

@ Ermy

LMAO @ green skirt = mermaid. that nicca was gone

o ok cuz i was bout to say, was you on the beach? clam bra? flippers on? anything remotely related to mermaid
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Girl you need to get on STAGE…for real!!!! LMAO!!!!!

Yeah I had to back away slowly from that…I think that he was trying to compliment me but all I could hear was that music from the Twilight Zone…..

@ermy

i told my ex this and she loved it too.
Can I take your picture? (Why?) Because I want Santa to know exactly what I want for Christmas.

LOL…..So the truth comes out. Black Men dont want you, so THATS why you have so much hate for them. It all makes sense now. And how your hating on white girls (or girls of any other race other than black) is kinda pathetic considering you dont even date your own race. You put the black man down for not dating black women and you yourself dont date black men. Can you say HYPOCRITE??? STFU now and stop your hating. Look in your own backyard before you run off at the mouth.

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lol omfg dats da funniest fing i ave heard today

@ Ermy

trs when he said that i was TOOOOOOOOO through. then he gone sit down next to me and keep talkin. im like ugh, plz flee
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Girl did you laugh out loud? I think I may have laughed outright…I wouldn’t have been able to help myself.

still at traffic!! SH8T

…..

@ Man IJDC1

Mistake #1… getting married
Mistake #2… getting married WITHOUT a prenup
Mistake #3… getting married
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Lord Have Mercy!!!! U talk about that prenup ish every day. Why does this issue weigh so heavily on your mind?

“@brownsugga
what about u? any worst pick up lines?”

That would be a choice between:

You make my software turn to hardware or they call me coffee cause I grind so fine.

Can I take your picture? (Why?) Because I want Santa to know exactly what I want for Christmas.
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I can’t believe I am saying this…but that’s actually cute. AWWWEEE!!!

haha, dude on his bike may have wanted some exercise

@ Liltwiz, do you want to say something to me?

I’m sure all the ladies have heard this one (not that bad, just common):

Brother: How are you?

You: I’m fine.

Brother: Yes, I know/that has been established/Very true, etc. etc.

@ermy

i told my ex this and she loved it too.
Can I take your picture? (Why?) Because I want Santa to know exactly what I want for Christmas.

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*blank stare*

BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO x infinity

I tell wh*res(someone who is not a gf potential) at a bar

I have big feet.

OR

Come on. We’re leaving

“damn…that was so out of pocket”

Yet so typical of the bitter “ranting” angry black boy..

I’m sure all the ladies have heard this one (not that bad, just common):

Brother: How are you?

You: I’m fine.

Brother: Yes, I know/that has been established/Very true, etc. etc.

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YES this is a OG line LMAO

Worst pick-up a line a chick used on me.

“Is that a Mercedes key?”

or they on a bike talking about they left their car home
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So I walk a lot to my other job or take the bus. Why do ugly dudes stare you down on the bus? Nicca we can’t get together. You riding the bus just like me.

yall know I have an expo because me and Lady A are going to set up the arranged marriage

I’m sure all the ladies have heard this one (not that bad, just common):

Brother: How are you?

You: I’m fine.

Brother: Yes, I know/that has been established/Very true, etc. etc.

lmaoooo, i have said that before.

I’m sure all the ladies have heard this one (not that bad, just common):

Brother: How are you?

You: I’m fine.

Brother: Yes, I know/that has been established/Very true, etc. etc.
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@ Sydney

Girl that’s eye rolling material right there. SMH

@TRS1
“@ Man IJDC1

Mistake #1… getting married
Mistake #2… getting married WITHOUT a prenup
Mistake #3… getting married
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Lord Have Mercy!!!! U talk about that prenup ish every day. Why does this issue weigh so heavily on your mind?”
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Naw…. that only came up cause yesterday JB posted something about Tyrese’s prenup.

I was just saying is all…

ugh @ dre…dont admit you used that line LMAO terrible

@ Awesome

“Is that a Mercedes key?”
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!

Naw…. that only came up cause yesterday JB posted something about Tyrese’s prenup.

I was just saying is all…

*insert pic of Man with head hangin low, kickin a rock*

@ Man IJDC

Naw…. that only came up cause yesterday JB posted something about Tyrese’s prenup.

I was just saying is all…
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OK. SMH @ U and your prenups.

@ TRS

check it out on TMZ

i told a white chic this and she did not buy it at all, i think she was even offended.

Are your parents from Iraq? [followed by 'no']

Because I think you’re the bomb!”

@ERMY ERM
“Ermy Erm is Disillusioned with Society

Naw…. that only came up cause yesterday JB posted something about Tyrese’s prenup.

I was just saying is all…

*insert pic of Man with head hangin low, kickin a rock*”
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LOL.

Awww….. shucks…

@trs

“@ Sydney

Girl that’s eye rolling material right there. SMH”

I don’t mind that one, actually. It makes me laugh. Now I don’t like “so when are you going to take me out?” That gets an eye roll.

Caribbean men have the best lines, I think — I think they practice them a lot and they’re very dramatic, lol. “You look like an angel without wings!”

@ trs

“Is that a Mercedes key?”
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Yeah, she got the wtf face quick

Big Sista Cougar All-Mit-ee – Behold THE GREEN AND GOLD!!!

yall know I have an expo because me and Lady A are going to set up the arranged marriage

LMAO…arranged marriage….goodness….

You make my software turn to hardware or they call me coffee cause I grind so fine.
__________

whiteboy said that shit

What happen to all the love…?

@ JB

@ TRS

check it out on TMZ
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Yeah I am going to have to check that out because that prenup must be something else!!! Thanks girl.

Yeah I am going to have to check that out because that prenup must be something else!!! Thanks girl.

She was dumb for signing that shit.

“You make my software turn to hardware or they call me coffee cause I grind so fine.
__________

whiteboy said that shit”

Actually it was a black guy who used the coffee line…

i have said this to a lady before.

I may be no Flinstone, but I can make your bed rock!

@ Sydney

I don’t mind that one, actually. It makes me laugh. Now I don’t like “so when are you going to take me out?” That gets an eye roll.

Caribbean men have the best lines, I think — I think they practice them a lot and they’re very dramatic, lol. “You look like an angel without wings!”
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Girl NO!!!!! What did you say when the dude asked you that??? LMAO!!!

I know what you mean about men from the islands. My mechanic is from St. Nieves and he knows that he is a trip!!!! Plus, they really show out over there. Last time I was on vacation in the Bahamas I was like “these men over here are no joke!!!” Caribean men are something else!

i have said this to a lady before.

I may be no Flinstone, but I can make your bed rock!
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*blank stare*

*pondering*

*blank stare*

*walks away*

She was dumb for signing that shit.
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Yeah she must not have had a lawyer. Poor thang.

Momma JB,
I’m not signing no pre-nup!

LOL @ Ermy!!!!!

@ Awesome

So what did you actually SAY to the chick who said that?? *bracing myself*

guys this works trust me.
Do you have a map? I just keep getting lost in your eyes.

she is the only kardashian I like! lol

i have said this to a lady before.

I may be no Flinstone, but I can make your bed rock!
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*blank stare*

*pondering*

*blank stare*

*walks away

LMAOOO

@TRS
“She was dumb for signing that shit.
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Yeah she must not have had a lawyer. Poor thang.”
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Naw… her lawyer prolly told her TO sign it. Think about it, she got $50K (you know she wasn’t going to make that herself) and she will get child support for next 18 yrs.

Hell, I would of told her:

“If you sign it, MAKE SURE you get pregnant… by any means necessary.”

She was dumb for signing that shit
_________________

I’M SURE SHE WILL SPEND THE CHILD SUPPORT MONEY ON HERSELF LIKE MOST OF THEM DO? *running from all the heels thrown at me*

Momma JB,
I’m not signing no pre-nup!

( Note to self: Tell him when she is sign the marrigae lisence just slip teh pre-up in there too)

It’s ok. You guys will be married forever

@trs

“Girl NO!!!!! What did you say when the dude asked you that??? LMAO!!!”

I think I looked at him and said something along the lines of, um, I think you have that reversed and then walked away, lol. I guess it must work on some women.

“I know what you mean about men from the islands. My mechanic is from St. Nieves and he knows that he is a trip!!!! Plus, they really show out over there. Last time I was on vacation in the Bahamas I was like “these men over here are no joke!!!” Caribean men are something else!”

Girl, I went to the Bahamas for spring break, and I had a ball. The men were hilarious — my friends and I compared lines. Another good one was, “if loving you is a crime, I want to do 10 years!” Too funny. We just took it all in good fun.

@ERMY ERM
“i have said this to a lady before.

I may be no Flinstone, but I can make your bed rock!
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*blank stare*

*pondering*

*blank stare*

*walks away*”
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What the dude was thinking:

**I HAD HER PONDERING FOR A SECOND THOUGH!!**

I tell golddiggers this and it works sometimes.

Can I buy you a drink, or do you just want the money

She was dumb for signing that shit
_________________

I’M SURE SHE WILL SPEND THE CHILD SUPPORT MONEY ON HERSELF LIKE MOST OF THEM DO? *running from all the heels thrown at me*

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Throws gym shoe cuz i dont wear heels

snoop bloggy blog ( DOING IT BLOGGYSTYLE)

She was dumb for signing that shit
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I’M SURE SHE WILL SPEND THE CHILD SUPPORT MONEY ON HERSELF LIKE MOST OF THEM DO? *running from all the heels thrown at me*

lmao…agreed….

@ trs

Sure is. If you buy me a drink I’ll give you a ride.

@dre – I hate when men use lines..that is so stupid in my book. If you can not come up to me and start an intelligent conversation just keep it moving. I normally walk away before they finish and I will be all the stuck up black bishes for that too.

Big Sista Cougar All-Mit-ee – Behold THE GREEN AND GOLD!!!!
( Note to self: Tell him when she is sign the marrigae lisence just slip teh pre-up in there too)

It’s ok. You guys will be married forever

Word sneaky like that?…He’s gonna be the one signing the prenup…lol

What the dude was thinking:

**I HAD HER PONDERING FOR A SECOND THOUGH!!**
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not at all. i was only pondering how a man could let such lameness ooze from his lips and think he is 1 iota of smooth. its a tragedy really. LOL

my mom said this work for women, now pls no one should curse my mum cause thats my mama.

Ask to look at her shirt tag, then say “Just checkin’ if you were made in Heaven.”

Isn’t she still with Rob K?

Tyrese Gibson made just shy of a million bucks last year. His soon-to-be-ex-wife? Not so much.

According to docs just released in their ongoing divorce, Tyrese Gibson pulled in an estimated $77,946 per month in 2008 ($935,352 annually — we used a calculator too). Norma Gibson made an estimated zilch.

Tyrese and Norma are still battling over support. He currently pays $6,230 a month.

The docs also reveal Tyrese owns two cars (a Bentley and a Land Rover), a house in Temecula, Calif., and two small production companies.

Mrs. Gibson’s assets are listed simply as “paintings” and “jewelry.”

According to the docs, Norma doesn’t get a piece of any of Tyrese’s possessions — not his production company, not his cars, not his house … nothing.

The prenup does state that Norma would get a lump sum of $50,000 for every year they were married — maxed out at 10 years. The couple was only married 10 months.

How’s this for brutal? The prenup says that if either side files for separation or divorce, Norma has to move out of the house within 60 days — or else Tyrese can get a court order to make her move out.

I’M SURE SHE WILL SPEND THE CHILD SUPPORT MONEY ON HERSELF LIKE MOST OF THEM DO? *running from all the heels thrown at me*

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Throws gym shoe cuz i dont wear heels

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and while he is trying to duck imma pop him in the back of the head!

@ERMY ERM
“What the dude was thinking:

**I HAD HER PONDERING FOR A SECOND THOUGH!!**
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not at all. i was only pondering how a man could let such lameness ooze from his lips and think he is 1 iota of smooth. its a tragedy really. LOL”
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What the dude was thinking:

**I LOVE THE WAY SHE WAS LOOKING AT MY LIPS**

my mom said this work for women, now pls no one should curse my mum cause thats my mama.

Ask to look at her shirt tag, then say “Just checkin’ if you were made in Heaven.”
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ummmm my mama said if you ain got nothin nice to say……*wanders away*

@ Man IJDC

Naw… her lawyer prolly told her TO sign it. Think about it, she got $50K (you know she wasn’t going to make that herself) and she will get child support for next 18 yrs.

Hell, I would of told her:

“If you sign it, MAKE SURE you get pregnant… by any means necessary.”
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SMH.

@be
i feel u, i only use those lines few times to get her smiling alittle, but i always know how to talk to ladies at the bar. nothing wrong in a little sense of humor.

I’M SURE SHE WILL SPEND THE CHILD SUPPORT MONEY ON HERSELF LIKE MOST OF THEM DO? *running from all the heels thrown at me*
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I wouldn’t even throw my heels at you because there are some real foul heafas out there who do that.

in kanye’s voice

WE WANT PRE-NUPS.

What the dude was thinking:

**I LOVE THE WAY SHE WAS LOOKING AT MY LIPS**

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gobbich was spewin from his lips? dont we all look at gobbich juice lips like this? ——>

@ermy
LMAO

GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD AFTERNOON FOLKS! WHAT ARE WE DOING THIS WEEKEND??

@Ermy

“ummmm my mama said if you ain got nothin nice to say……*wanders away*”

LOL

10 months shouldn’t even count as marriage. JMO

Not all Black Women care about what these sell outs due on their time with these YT girls. If anything it gives a sistah time to do her own thing.

@dre – i feel u, i only use those lines few times to get her smiling alittle, but i always know how to talk to ladies at the bar. nothing wrong in a little sense of humor.
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now humor will get any woman to give you attention

are you still driving? because I’m about to call Officer Otis on you..lol

Hey Lauren!

LMAO @ dre

@circa-81 – exactly real talk and still somehow there people male/female that somehow she is entitled to his earnings/assets , hmm I cant remember last flick she starred in or album she produced ..

@dre – i feel u, i only use those lines few times to get her smiling alittle, but i always know how to talk to ladies at the bar. nothing wrong in a little sense of humor.
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now humor will get any woman to give you attention

are you still driving? because I’m about to call Officer Otis on you..lol

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plz that nicca wasnt neva drivin!! LMAO

gobbich was spewin from his lips? dont we all look at gobbich juice lips like this? ——>
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Girl you just made me spit out my beverage!!! LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ERM Skittle! What up?!

black men dont want kids no more! i guess they’ve forgotten that the only way we would be heard in this country is by the number! mass power! latino are doing it and are almost as numerous as AA! In few years, they would be the 1ST minority?

Reading the Pre-nup:

Tyrese wife was previously married

She agreed to no spousal support

She gets the land rover

But the pre-nup is confidential and details are not supposed to be given out. TOO LATE!!!!!

lol trs.. sowwy

@be
there is an accident on 395 north.

@ mrs. philly….hey ma, how are you?

TRS – CYE

@ermy
i am driving, seriously LOL…

@Christie’s secrets – black men dont want kids no more
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I have to disagree with you on that I know many black men who are good fathers whether they are married to the mother or not.

Hey Mrs. Philly!!!

@ Sydney

Girl, I went to the Bahamas for spring break, and I had a ball. The men were hilarious — my friends and I compared lines. Another good one was, “if loving you is a crime, I want to do 10 years!” Too funny. We just took it all in good fun.
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They are a MESS down there. Let me tell you!!!! In Nassau we took a carriage ride (it was a tour of the “sites” in the Capital City)…so after the tour, I was petting the horses…NO LIE…..

Dude walks up to me and says “Can you pet and stroke me like you’re doing those horses?”

Reading the Pre-nup:

Tyrese wife was previously married

She agreed to no spousal support

She gets the land rover
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WTF?? Is she stoopid?? F*ck a Land Rover!

Hey Lauren

aight it’s moving now gotta bounce peace

ok yall it been fun today but my work day is ova. peace ouuuuuut

“I’M SURE SHE WILL SPEND THE CHILD SUPPORT MONEY ON HERSELF LIKE MOST OF THEM DO? *running from all the heels thrown at me*”

Well once she’s getting all his hard earned money he really has no say in what she spends it on, now does he?!??!

snoop bloggy blog ( DOING IT BLOGGYSTYLE)

@ mrs. philly….hey ma, how are you?
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Hey Snoop Bliggity!! I’m good…been busy today so I missed out on the convo

@ermy
horning and listening to brandy’s album!!LOL

LADEEEEEE IZZZA! Hey girl! You see my baby! Isn’t she getting big!

@dre – there is an accident on 395 north.
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ok.DC traffic is no joke

@Pimp abs – what’s up with the pop-ins mister?

peace.

@ Lady A

Agreed…I never understand why some women, especially women with a prnup just stop working….ummmm no are you crazy?
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Girl who you telling??!!! It’s just plain stupid!!!! It’s nice to have a man with money but if you know that you aren’t getting any of it and you dont have your “own” then you need to be trying to do for you. If a woman doesn’t have her own back no one else will…no doubt!

Norma Gibson gets the “dummy of the day” award for not being prepared!!!

Mrs. Philly

LADEEEEEE IZZZA! Hey girl! You see my baby! Isn’t she getting big!

Yes she’s gorgeous…You really need to see about some modeling for like baby commercials…I know she has to be a certain age though…

BE

@Pimp abs – what’s up with the pop-ins mister?

Beautiful BE, you know I pick a lil cotton for massah and then blog hard, I been peeping the comments and look like you holding me down as usual lovely!

Bye Ermy Erm!!

Good night Dre!

I WANT ALL BLACK MEN TO GET A VASECTOMY! So they would never have to worry about a woman having kids since its never the right time or you get .

But you live in paris what do you know lol?

wat up be ?

wat up trs *throws basketball at her head and rebounds on to ms mecas forhead *

@TRS – Girl who you telling??!!! It’s just plain stupid!!!! It’s nice to have a man with money but if you know that you aren’t getting any of it and you dont have your “own” then you need to be trying to do for you. If a woman doesn’t have her own back no one else will…no doubt!

Norma Gibson gets the “dummy of the day” award for not being prepared!!!

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agree 1000000 % lazy heffas

OKAY So he’ll be paying her child support I guess right? Hopefully she won’t try and live off of that. Do we know what she does??
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she can definitely live of 72k a yr alone

Yes she’s gorgeous…You really need to see about some modeling for like baby commercials…I know she has to be a certain age though…
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AAaaw thanks girl. I am looking into getting an agent for her, do a couple of huggies commercials, get her college fund up.

@ MIJDC

haha, we had the same idea

@Be

“I have to disagree with you on that I know many black men who are good fathers whether they are married to the mother or not.”

I agree, but more of them should be married to the mothers of their children. Just my opinion.

@trs

“Dude walks up to me and says “Can you pet and stroke me like you’re doing those horses?””

LOL! Girl, I would just have to laugh at that one. What did you say?

Mrs. Philly

Yes she’s gorgeous…You really need to see about some modeling for like baby commercials…I know she has to be a certain age though…
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AAaaw thanks girl. I am looking into getting an agent for her, do a couple of huggies commercials, get her college fund up.

Exactly…stack that account for her early in the game…my aunt is doing that with my younger cuz…she’s setting up things.

From CNN

A veterinary pharmacy in Florida acknowledged Thursday that it incorrectly prepared medication used to treat 21 horses who all died around the time of an international polo match last weekend.

They are about to be bankrupt from the massive lawsuits waiting to happen

@Pimp – Beautiful BE, you know I pick a lil cotton for massah and then blog hard, I been peeping the comments and look like you holding me down as usual lovely!

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now all the men can take a lesson on how to talk to a woman from you.xoxoxoxo

@Pedro – Hey Nephew!! ☺☺☺

@Capo status – haha fam I dont know about no vasectomy maybe for some people like Travis Henry or Shawn Kemp – Bobby brown comes to mind..

They said she made $0 last year, so my guess would be professional baby maker
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OMG….

@Capo Status

wat up trs *throws basketball at her head and rebounds on to ms mecas forhead
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Alright now…keep it up!!! LOL

So the fact still remains he will pay her until she is married again and if she’s smart she’ll stay single so he has to pay her for a very long time.
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Nope. She waived spousal support. Line item 15.1

She gets her 50,000 and her land rover.

@ LADIES….DO YOU GUY’S BLAME IT ON THE MEN THE REASON ALOT OF AA ARE NOT MARRIED?

@CHRISTIE’S SECRET

Stop trying to trick me into impregnating you.

professional baby maker can be a lucrative job if you can find the right posistion…
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You got that right…you hvae to have skin tough as leather because you will not be liked but you will be set…

Just don’t have any of the :JACKSONS: babies…we all know they don’t pay their child support and they have childrenw ith the same woman which is gross also.

snoop bloggy blog ( DOING IT BLOGGYSTYLE)

@ LADIES….DO YOU GUY’S BLAME IT ON THE MEN THE REASON ALOT OF AA ARE NOT MARRIED?

It’s blamed on both parties…

@Syd – @Be

“I have to disagree with you on that I know many black men who are good fathers whether they are married to the mother or not.”

I agree, but more of them should be married to the mothers of their children. Just my opinion.

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Being married to the mother of your child is more of a moral dilemma. Most of the men I know who are not married say they don’t see the value in marriage…

Mrs. Philly

They said she made $0 last year, so my guess would be professional baby maker
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OMG….

Any money she got she was supposed to invest and that was her own money.

i am telling you, you have to actually read that thing. Thisis why she is protesting it. The judge is making him pay her money until everything is said and done, but Tyrese can write all of the car stuff off on his taxes.

@ Mrs. Philly

You got that right…you hvae to have skin tough as leather because you will not be liked but you will be set…

Just don’t have any of the :JACKSONS: babies…we all know they don’t pay their child support and they have childrenw ith the same woman which is gross also.
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Eww, so your cousin can be your brother too?

@ Sydney

I agree, but more of them should be married to the mothers of their children. Just my opinion.
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DITTO!!!!

@trs

“Dude walks up to me and says “Can you pet and stroke me like you’re doing those horses?””

LOL! Girl, I would just have to laugh at that one. What did you say?
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Girl I did the Ermy Erm:

*blank stare*

*pondering*

*blank stare*

*walks away*”

@ capo,

anytime you wanna talk to me, just try to make sense? what does me living in Paris have to do with it! do you know there are black men in Paris?

@BE
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Being married to the mother of your child is more of a moral dilemma. Most of the men I know who are not married say they don’t see the value in marriage…”
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Yup, yup. They onto something, avoided “mistake number 1.”

Eww, so your cousin can be your brother too?
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LOL!!! Yup, ask Jermaine and Tito Jackson.

Ask Kim Porter. She messed up the first time, but learned from her mistakes and came up on the second go round.

So did Misa. Took that dude back to court. She was like why does Kim get $35,000 and I only get $5000. i think she is gettting like $15-20K for Justin. I wonder if Kim gets money from Al

lol@ MAN,

I want my man to get a vasectomy so i dont have to take the pills every day! i will have a baby by another dude but my man will stay childless!

@ LADIES….DO YOU GUY’S BLAME IT ON THE MEN THE REASON ALOT OF AA ARE NOT MARRIED?
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NO!!!!! It’s mutual. Both sexes share the blame!!!!

Wow, last time I heard Trey had an Ethiopian girl friend, so they broke up ? Awwww, too bad. I liked Trey’s first album though and he can sing it’s not he’s tone def. Trey isn’t pitch Black he’s Brown skinned. And he’s cute but a little skinny for my selection. So Trey wants to go fishing and catch Adrienne Bailon ? He might get lucky if he has the correct bait, lol. As for some of the girls on here talking about Manny Ramierez, what’s up with that is there a secret Manny groupie fan club that I’m not aware of ? What is it that chicks like about him is it the dreads ? As for all this interacial dating debate I think it also boils down to gender roles that tallies up various couple pairings. As for the girl who mentioned that she like to meet an Indian male (from the India or of Indian background) sweetie good luck with that !

So did Misa. Took that dude back to court. She was like why does Kim get $35,000 and I only get $5000. i think she is gettting like $15-20K for Justin. I wonder if Kim gets money from Al

Al probably sendinger her like $500 and a monthly subscription to clean house. He was probably like “I’ll show her, I’m just going to stop working and fall off the face of the earth”

@Be

“Being married to the mother of your child is more of a moral dilemma. Most of the men I know who are not married say they don’t see the value in marriage…”

It’s not a moral dilemma to me. The only dilemma I have is how fast I can get away from men with that mindset. Just don’t allow them into your space.

@trs

LMAO! I guess there wasn’t much you could say to that, huh? You couldn’t even pat a horse in peace, lol.

All they have to do to cut out paying child support is get 50% custody and you wont have to pay nothing at all…

I share custody and gets my check every month. And the sneaker pimp in training uses it all

so she gets 50000$ and a car and he done well besides child support..he came out spectacular if you ask me…

Actually she gets $65,000 in a lump sum, just over $6000 a month is spousal support, he has to pay her rent which is about almost $3000 and a car – and none of that money has to go to the child because he will have to care for the child aside from what he is doing for her.. For 10 months of marriage I’d say she made out damn good..

@ txhustla,

thank you i understand now because i dont know that woman, i just dont get where things are coming from! Even in Europe, you have a lot of at home mothers that stayed at home in agreement with their husbands! Some men actually want their wives to stay at home so they can take care of the kids and not some baby sitter! So if a woman is staying at home while her man is working but he is the one who ask her to stay at home, is she still considered a goldigger??
When im getting pregnant, i plan not to work for at least one year! In my country, we have given vacancies for pregnancy and my sit is preserved at work while staying with my baby! if my man is still working, i dont think it will make me a goldigger at ALL!

*I never understood*

I know 4 guys that get child support from their children’s mothers. It kinda feels like a victory for that to happen, lol.

@ Sydney

@trs

LMAO! I guess there wasn’t much you could say to that, huh? You couldn’t even pat a horse in peace, lol.
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LOL Tell me about it. My first inclination was to go OFF but then I decided to let it go and just enjoy the sites. That man had a lot of nerve!!! SMH

“All they have to do to cut out paying child support is get 50% custody and you wont have to pay nothing at all…

I share custody and gets my check every month. And the sneaker pimp in training uses it all”

When you share custody you still pay child support to the custodial parent…

@ capo status, where do you see that i live in brooklyn for 2 months and who told you i was talking about american men??? Read the whole thing and copy and paste the part you are referring to!
thanks!

@Man – Yup, yup. They onto something, avoided “mistake number 1.”

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ain’t nobody studying your list man…lol

@Sydney – It’s not a moral dilemma to me. The only dilemma I have is how fast I can get away from men with that mindset. Just don’t allow them into your space.

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I say it is moral because it depends how you were raised. Those who believe that marriage first kids next will try to follow those rules (and sometimes even these people have children before marriage)

I mean if you marry someone just because you have children don’t you think that would be an unhappy home?

Yes people should think before they act like miscreants (LOL) but we know life does not always work that way.

Marriage is a religious institution. That’s my only real problem with it. If I get married I view it as me giving in to society’s status quo and joining the rest of the sheep.

@ MAN

so you dont want no kids??
if so, then i hope you ll find a woman who dont want either! its not that difficult but it wont be me! I am african and i come from a large family, i WILL have kids married or not as long as i can take care of them! i have my own situation, they will just need a dad for father figure not his money…

@Awesome-O-3000

I know 4 guys that get child support from their children’s mothers. It kinda feels like a victory for that to happen, lol.
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WUH???

Those must of been Johnnie Cochran’s last few cases before he passed or something…

@ Sydney

TYPO *sights* Sorry.

I say it is moral because it depends how you were raised. Those who believe that marriage first kids next will try to follow those rules (and sometimes even these people have children before marriage)

100% agreed

Marriage is a religious institution. That’s my only real problem with it. If I get married I view it as me giving in to society’s status quo and joining the rest of the sheep.
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Agree

@ Man I Just Don’t Care

Naw, I know a guy that lives in my complex that is getting child support for raising his daughter by himself.

@Be

“I say it is moral because it depends how you were raised. Those who believe that marriage first kids next will try to follow those rules (and sometimes even these people have children before marriage).”

I agree. For me, it’s important that my chosen mate also believes in the “marriage first” doctrine, and those men do exist.

“I mean if you marry someone just because you have children don’t you think that would be an unhappy home?”

My thinking is, why have children with someone with whom you like life would be unhappy? Now I know there are situations that occur that are beyond our control, but I don’t understand, for example, how a sister can have multiple children with a man who has shown no intention of marrying her. What’s the point? You have to think about the welfare of the children, and what they’re seeing, I believe.

I think certain situations are avoidable if better judgment is exercised.

@ man, you are joking right! Like i said, since i am an active woman, i have money aside for me being able to support myself during this year (after the baby is born of course) and im still getting paid during this time! i dont know how it is in america but here you get paid during almost 6 months for having a baby!

And I’ll add that it takes more than monetary support to make a man a good father. I want the father of my children to be in the home and accessible to them. Even if my marriage doesn’t work out, he will still play a central role in their lives — that’s crucial to me. Children need their fathers.

For all you payday lender visitors and reside in VA

Check N Go is pulling out of VA because of the new rules. VA fisrt, the world next

And parents as a whole are becoming more terrible. I have two cousins with children whose mothers won’t have anything to do with them. It’s no longer a one gender thing. It’s a community thing, everyone needs to get it together.

@ Big Sista Cougar All-Mit-ee – Behold THE GREEN AND GOLD!!!!

Thanks. I’m usually alone on my views of religion, but after studying the very fiber of the Islamic Judeo Christian trifecta (misspelled) I discovered it was moslty bullshit.

@ Just Sayin,
Hey there…you left the other days when the women were talking about kicking your butt in BBall…did you get scared? lol

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Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw…
I was still here…

@circa-81

“Marriage is a religious institution. That’s my only real problem with it. If I get married I view it as me giving in to society’s status quo and joining the rest of the sheep.”

So you rebel against the “status quo” by having kids out of wedlock. To each his own.

Big Sista Cougar All-Mit-ee – Behold THE GREEN AND GOLD!!!!

For all you payday lender visitors and reside in VA

Check N Go is pulling out of VA because of the new rules. VA fisrt, the world next

I hate those payday lending spots…I did a study on them for political science and found out some craziness and how they only put them in poor areas strategically.

@ I am Legend

Typical women only see $$$$$ signs ..
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Now wait a minute!!! This is NOT true in all cases. If a woman has her own income/assets she won’t be worried about $$$$$ signs because she has her OWN.

What’s funny is how some men will lie down with anything just to get a nut and then get their feelings hurt when she gets pregant. Like it’s a big f’in surprise…knowing good and D well that he was hitting sans protection.

MEN can KNOW a woman is trash but still hit because something is in for THEM. Men are not idiots. If you know that she’s a gold digger (and you WILL know) stay away. IF you know that she’s illiterate, loves the club, doesn’t have a job, and spends all her money on weaves and fake purses leave it alone!!!

If you don’t want to deal with the BS that comes from dating BS women then date a woman of QUALITY and you won’t have this particular issue.

hello everyone……….even you SMDH!

just over $6000 a month is spousal support, he has to pay her rent which is about almost $3000 and a car – and none of that money has to go to the child because he will have to care for the child aside from what he is doing for her.. For 10 months of marriage I’d say she made out damn good
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This is temporary for right now while she is contesting. She agreed to waive spousal support. Soif it holds up, she will only get the child support and the $50,000. But the $50,000 is based on the anniversary of the marriage. Well they didn’t make it to that 1 year anniversary.

trs,
Hey I like clubs

@trs

@ I am Legend

Typical women only see $$$$$ signs ..
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Now wait a minute!!! This is NOT true in all cases. If a woman has her own income/assets she won’t be worried about $$$$$ signs because she has her OWN.

What’s funny is how some men will lie down with anything just to get a nut and then get their feelings hurt when she gets pregant. Like it’s a big f’in surprise…knowing good and D well that he was hitting sans protection.

MEN can KNOW a woman is trash but still hit because something is in for THEM. Men are not idiots. If you know that she’s a gold digger (and you WILL know) stay away. IF you know that she’s illiterate, loves the club, doesn’t have a job, and spends all her money on weaves and fake purses leave it alone!!!

If you don’t want to deal with the BS that comes from dating BS women then date a woman of QUALITY and you won’t have this particular issue.

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CHUUUUURCHH!!! hey girl!

Hey 6am!

@ Sydney

So you rebel against the “status quo” by having kids out of wedlock. To each his own.
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That’s my point exactly. That’s definitley a statement that would come from the religious. I just stated that religion is nothing of importance to me so why would I recognize the concept of ‘wedlock’? Religious thought or lack there of is nothing that I’m trying to pass on to my CHILD not children.

i said hello, even you SMDH

“MEN can KNOW a woman is trash but still hit because something is in for THEM. Men are not idiots. If you know that she’s a gold digger (and you WILL know) stay away. IF you know that she’s illiterate, loves the club, doesn’t have a job, and spends all her money on weaves and fake purses leave it alone!!! ”

Well thats the type of women black males gravitate towards of ALL RACES then he gets pissed when he gets stuck with her…

trs,
lol I know…I was just playing

Oh garsh…the conversation has turned sour.

@TRS
“Now wait a minute!!! This is NOT true in all cases. If a woman has her own income/assets she won’t be worried about $$$$$ signs because she has her OWN.

What’s funny is how some men will lie down with anything just to get a nut and then get their feelings hurt when she gets pregant. Like it’s a big f’in surprise…knowing good and D well that he was hitting sans protection.

MEN can KNOW a woman is trash but still hit because something is in for THEM. Men are not idiots. If you know that she’s a gold digger (and you WILL know) stay away. IF you know that she’s illiterate, loves the club, doesn’t have a job, and spends all her money on weaves and fake purses leave it alone!!!

If you don’t want to deal with the BS that comes from dating BS women then date a woman of QUALITY and you won’t have this particular issue.”
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WTF???

And parents as a whole are becoming more terrible. I have two cousins with children whose mothers won’t have anything to do with them. It’s no longer a one gender thing. It’s a community thing, everyone needs to get it together.

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I agree parenting has become a joke for people, they are too busy, too tire too what ever. the good parents look crazy when they set rules because people do not regulate their children..smh

@ 6 AM

Hey 6 AM!

@ C from Stl

What’s up girl!!!

Hi c from stl, 6am

@circa-81

“I just stated that religion is nothing of importance to me so why would I recognize the concept of ‘wedlock’? Religious thought or lack there of is nothing that I’m trying to pass on to my CHILD not children.”

And I’m looking beyond the “religious” aspect. It is documented by a number of studies that children in two-parent households fare better, emotionally and financially. This is just common sense, as far as I’m concerned — much more than some “religious” concept.

loves the club, doesn’t have a job, and spends all her money on weaves and fake purses leave it alone
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I love the club and buy fake purses

MEN can KNOW a woman is trash but still hit because something is in for THEM. Men are not idiots. If you know that she’s a gold digger (and you WILL know) stay away. IF you know that she’s illiterate, loves the club, doesn’t have a job, and spends all her money on weaves and fake purses leave it alone!!!

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yep..all that

Hey 6am!!!

Welcome back 6. how was your nap?

@ Man IJDC

WTF???
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Don’t play crazy…u know exactly what I am talking about!!!!

Do you realize how stupid you look? If black men aren’t YOUR problem then what is? Why are you up in these posts taking every stab you can get at them? I seriously think some guy left you for a white girl, why else would you always have to put your 2 cents in every interacial post. Your bitter and insecure (and its easy to see why). You try to sound educated and intelligent and all it is, is ghetto talk with a few big words. Your not cute. You don’t sound intelligent. You make yourself look like a damn fool.

@trs

“If you don’t want to deal with the BS that comes from dating BS women then date a woman of QUALITY and you won’t have this particular issue.”

This is it in a nutshell. What’s the saying? You can’t make chicken salad out of chicken (blank). Choose wisely.

What’s up Sydney…keep droppin’ knowledge up in here…!

^^ @ SMDH by the way

@ Sydney

He’s in a two parent household. My girl and my son are both waiting for me to come through the door. And you know usually I tell you that those statistics are mostly propaganda, but in this case I totally agree with you. Pyschologically it is probably better for a child to grow up in a full family unit.

Big Sista Cougar

I love the club and buy fake purses
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LOL girl you know what type of woman that I am talking about….and the men do too!!!

“What was woman number 15 thinking? Ima be “different?” LOL.”

You say that like she knows she’s number 15!! We all know how the black male will lie about his children and the number he has….

WELL,in lots of african culture, marriage si extremely important in order to have kids! A man has to marry a women if he wants kids with them otherwise it feels like a little dishonor for the family of the woman! Its not only a religious thing! For example in our tradtions you can do the traditional wedding, meaning that you ask the hand of the wofe in front of all the family, they give you their blessing and lots of festivites come after and you can go home with your WIFE! lots of people are traditionnally married without going to the city of hall or church! It is said that people shoud get married at the city of HALL first and then 5 years later, get a chrch wedding cause normally, in god’s eyes, you are not suppose to divorce!

where is my uncle brother at? Uncle bro, you nephew needs some advice man!!!! come in Uncle Brother!!!!

Let explain something to you SMDH, when I come on as a different name I let people know first or within 3 post, Im “6am” I’d never wanna be anyone else, and I type whatever I want cuss words and all, so theres no need for me to hide as someone else.

@OMG

Class.Thats what you lack. And thats why your so hateful. You call white women down for dating black men, calling them goldiggers and every other negative name under the sun. Have you ever thought about why Black Men prefer to date white women? I mean really really think about it. Your just one of many loud mouthed, un-civil, no manners, classless, catty black women. You all think you are so invinceable and the whole world is out to get you. Nobody wants that mess. It’s a COMPLETE WASTE OF TIME dealing with women like you. Your so close minded and think your way is the only way.
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@OMG You seem to have alot of anger towards black women. Your ignorance is endless!! FACTS ARE FACTS!! Learn to accept the truth without trying to tear someone down for speaking the truth!

@trs

I love the club and buy fake purses
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LOL girl you know what type of woman that I am talking about….and the men do too!!!
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They’re usually 20 decibles louder than everyone else. The only chick you can hear in the club without leaning towards her.

@circa-81

“He’s in a two parent household. My girl and my son are both waiting for me to come through the door.”

That’s good. I choose to have a child with my husband — I’m not content being someone’s “girl.” And it has nothing with me trying to subscribe to some religious beliefs. This is what I believe is best for me and the children I hope to have one day. I want them to have the model of marriage to emulate for themselves, just as I was given.

@ Capo Status

trs

If I was you I would stop talking and be practicing right now cos I dont wanna make you look bad infront of my home city lol FL is not ballin like NYC
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I don’t care if it is Harlem or Miami me and Ms. Meca are going to whoop you when we get up there!!!! I suggest you start saving your money because we are going to make you PAY when we come to NYC! LOL

Big Sista Cougar All-Mit-ee – Behold THE GREEN AND GOLD!!!!

@ Jb,
Silence……………….smh

@ JB,

I demand as an x-islander you save up and buy the real shit, 2nd hand or not

@ Gem

Class.Thats what you lack. And thats why your so hateful. You call white women down for dating black men, calling them goldiggers and every other negative name under the sun. Have you ever thought about why Black Men prefer to date white women? I mean really really think about it. Your just one of many loud mouthed, un-civil, no manners, classless, catty black women. You all think you are so invinceable and the whole world is out to get you. Nobody wants that mess. It’s a COMPLETE WASTE OF TIME dealing with women like you. Your so close minded and think your way is the only way.
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@OMG You seem to have alot of anger towards black women. Your ignorance is endless!! FACTS ARE FACTS!! Learn to accept the truth without trying to tear someone down for speaking the truth!
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Gem to the rescue!!! Give me a break

@ Man IJDC

What was woman number 15 thinking? Ima be “different?” LOL.
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DITTO!!!!!!!! Now you may not be able to think “logically” while you are about to get down but your first thought should be WHERE ARE THE CONDOMS???!!!

Use protection and then you don’t have to worry about it!!!!

@ carla,

capo dont know if there is black people in europe, how would he know??

@ 6

Ok I will no longer get purse from lady at the corner that says, Hey yo wan buy louie.

I will save my money and go to Macy’s and get that Coach purse.

well?

@BE
“what about the jerk spreading the seed? they are just as responsible..I mean women are emotional and stupid but men are just as trifling. The owness ONUS is on both parties to think responsibly.”
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No it ain’t. Women are the ones that get pregnant so it is SQUARELY on them.

HELLLL YEAH! This is what me and my mom do, we go to the really really white neighborhood, to their second hand stores and buy their real bags, they are barely used and like 20% of the price.

Ok I will take my future (no pre-nup signing) daughter-in-law with me and scour the white neighboorhoods and get a real bag!!

“@OMG You seem to have alot of anger towards black women. Your ignorance is endless!! FACTS ARE FACTS!! Learn to accept the truth without trying to tear someone down for speaking the truth!”

OKAAAAAAAAAAY?!?!? You can spot an angry bitter “ranting” black male a mile away but this angry bitter black male wants me to believe he is a female.. LOL!!! Black males just need to accept their imperfections and stop trying to blame everyone else for them….

@be

And parents as a whole are becoming more terrible. I have two cousins with children whose mothers won’t have anything to do with them. It’s no longer a one gender thing. It’s a community thing, everyone needs to get it together.

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I agree parenting has become a joke for people, they are too busy, too tire too what ever. the good parents look crazy when they set rules because people do not regulate their children..smh
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yeah, i think there’s a few problems going on. People letting TV raise their kids, government tells you what you can and can’t do (i.e. spanking), lot’s of children being born to parents that are children themselves. It all stems from the fact that people are so interested in tearing each other down and building their own self up instead of helping others grow as they grow. It has trickled down to how kids are being raised. It’s a sad state of affairs. Mother’s and fathers need to step it up.

I think I am going to resign as a concubine

Hey all .. ive been called the story man, but i got another one and this is a true one.. i know a chick who got a bad body and she aint no fatty, wears about a size 7, aint got no stretch marks and get this got 8 kids, 4 daughters and 4 sons. She is str8 up golddigger and wll tell you , her last man bought her a house and 2 businesses (a beauty shop and a beauty supply store. This chick is built like a handmade brick house and everybody knows shes a golddigger and her daughters too. But to show you how men are they all say they want to hit it or they be chasing the booty! man i wish you could see this chick.. to have 8 kids and be pushing it like that!!!

Yeah, my parents were married. It shocked the hell out of em’ that they actually gave birth to a “thinker”. Me and my girl were talking about what significance it would have to us since neither of us subscribes to the whole religion thing. I was like the people attending would be puzzled. No church. No preacher…and if they mouth the words “under God” their being asked to leave. Not that I don’t think a God exists, I just think that people made up some rules and attached his name to em’.

@ Man IJDC

No it ain’t. Women are the ones that get pregnant so it is SQUARELY on them
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*slaps Man IJDC for speaking foolishness!*

@Awesome-O-3000

Gem to the rescue!!! Give me a break

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Knock it off LOL

@Mrs. Philly – HELLLL YEAH! This is what me and my mom do, we go to the really really white neighborhood, to their second hand stores and buy their real bags, they are barely used and like 20% of the price.

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cosignment shops…best kept secret

“what about the jerk spreading the seed? they are just as responsible..I mean women are emotional and stupid but men are just as trifling. The owness ONUS is on both parties to think responsibly.”
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No it ain’t. Women are the ones that get pregnant so it is SQUARELY on them.

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don’t be correcting my spelling and the OWNESS IS ON BOTH PARTIES!

@JB
“I think I am going to resign as a concubine”
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Come on Milkshake… drink some more of this wine….

@ Capo Status

@trs
are you for real you only like 5,7 my shots, speed,street tatics will be 2 much .Maybe I need to come FL whoop all the fake ballers there lol but because you a lady I dont want money just 2 big Macs please
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LMAO @ u and your “Big Macs!” U are cute!!! LOL

All I gotta say is that you better bring your A game!!!

jb.. those koreans will say .. “i got a nica pursa for u”" that fake shyt and then you see them in the restaurant rocking the real shyt!! Fuc* them , i bought my girl a real coach purse from the coach store,, cost a lot but she’s worth it!

“Yeah, my parents were married. It shocked the hell out of em’ that they actually gave birth to a “thinker”.”

Yeah, I understand. My parents were surprised as well — they gave birth to a “thinker” who wants to have kids after she exchanges her marriage vows. Then she can create a family with her HUSBAND.

@BE
““what about the jerk spreading the seed? they are just as responsible..I mean women are emotional and stupid but men are just as trifling. The owness ONUS is on both parties to think responsibly.”
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No it ain’t. Women are the ones that get pregnant so it is SQUARELY on them.

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don’t be correcting my spelling and the OWNESS IS ON BOTH PARTIES!”
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ha ha ha ha ha. Ok, but MORE SO on the female. You know that’s how it goes. Fair or not.

“No it ain’t. Women are the ones that get pregnant so it is SQUARELY on them.”

Comments like this are the reason I am so greatful that the black woman can always fall back on the white mans child support system… If it were elft up to black males they’d abandon their kids emotionally, physically and financially. I am so glad the white mans system will atleast stop him from doing #3 if he values his freedom…

NEW CHRISTINA MILIAN – ZIPPER (Click on my name “Mileka” to listen/download)!!!

@ Sydney

Yeah, I understand. My parents were surprised as well — they gave birth to a “thinker” who wants to have kids after she exchanges her marriage vows. Then she can create a family with her HUSBAND
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AMEN!!!! That’s the way that it should be done……

“@Awesome-O-3000

Gem to the rescue!!! Give me a break”

Marquis/Kigali – how many people are you on this board REALLY?!?!?

@ Sydney

Yeah, I understand. My parents were surprised as well — they gave birth to a “thinker” who wants to have kids after she exchanges her marriage vows. Then she can create a family with her HUSBAND
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get married first so them “claws” dug in deep huh?

*Lurking* I’ll sit back and just read…you guys are going very much in depth.

@trs

“AMEN!!!! That’s the way that it should be done……”

Girl, I thought so — maybe it’s an alternate universe in here. *scratching my head*

I have wondered for a while now if certain marriage-minded sistas will have to exercise their options just to avoid becoming another statistic. The black family structure has really changed.

8 minutes Dougie, 8 Minutes dougie, 8 Minutes Dougie Fresh I’m gone, ga, ga gone!!!

@ I am Legend

I dont like meeting women in clubs for 1 and 2 half the women in the club be the same women at church acting all holy the next day…Regardless of how you look at it 85% of women do whatever it takes to get that man they want
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It sounds like you have had some poor experiences. I am sorry about that because all women do not have an “agenda.” Yes, if I really want a man, I will do my best to have him. That doesn’t mean that I am misrepresenting me and mine and that certainly does not mean that I am out to “get something” from him.

Look all I am saying is that there are ALWAYS a couple of bad apples in the bunch. Don’t generalize all of us just because of the actions of a few.

Haha @brownsuggasista

Now i’m someone else? Is that what happens when you run out of hate to spew? Fall back chick, I will no longer address you, please do me the same favor.

@mAN – ha ha ha ha ha. Ok, but MORE SO on the female. You know that’s how it goes. Fair or not.

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YEAH because the women are the one who normally have custody of the children but even if you are not together if you want to be a good father it takes a lot of work…

Now I do go to this korean lady that has really nice purses, that aren’t named brand. And I get alot of compliments. She did get me though. SHe said oh no, no one else has this bag. It is the only one I have. Why I go in there a week later and she is selling my purse.

OKAAAAAAAAAAY?!?!? You can spot an angry bitter “ranting” black male a mile away but this angry bitter black male wants me to believe he is a female.. LOL!!! Black males just need to accept their imperfections and stop trying to blame everyone else for them….

Well believe it. Because I am and I think it’s hilarious you dont want to face the fact that not everyone takes you seriously. Your a joke. A disgrace to women. You say your defending black women, when in the process of doing that you make yourself look bad. Grow up.

@Man

“get married first so them “claws” dug in deep huh?”

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???

@JB – 8 minutes Dougie, 8 Minutes dougie, 8 Minutes Dougie Fresh I’m gone, ga, ga gone!!!

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LOL@count down

30mins………..

@Legend – So people have multiple screen names I think ima make up another 1 also…Thats gonna be like my super hero name..Like Clark Kent is Superman

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some body already did superman…

It’s funny how when SMDH wasn’t on the boards (oh how I miss those days), nobody was accusing anyone else of using more than one screen name. But now that she is back (ugh) she is crying around because people disagree with her. Get over yourself.

@ Sydney

Girl, I thought so — maybe it’s an alternate universe in here. *scratching my head*

I have wondered for a while now if certain marriage-minded sistas will have to exercise their options just to avoid becoming another statistic. The black family structure has really changed.
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Girl tell me about it!!!!! I TRULY feel what you are saying, I really do. This unfortunate “turn around” that has come about when it comes to Black family is truly sad to me. SMH!!!

Some Black men are a trip. They don’t want to get married and then look at you with a sideye if they see a sister exercise her “options.”

I am out yall. Be ready tomorrow for some good intelluctual discussions

Capo status,
Take it easy…you get so worked up sometimes.

Good Night JB!!

later jb

Big Sista Cougar All-Mit-ee – Behold THE GREEN AND GOLD!!!!

I am out yall. Be ready tomorrow for some good intelluctual discussions

LAtas momma jb…hit me up later

Capo Status

@trs
AND PLEASE do not touch me up some chicks be cheating like that lol
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LMAO!!! No not me…..you don’t have to worry about that.

@trs

“Girl tell me about it!!!!! I TRULY feel what you are saying, I really do. This unfortunate “turn around” that has come about when it comes to Black family is truly sad to me. SMH!!!”

It’s like you’re da*ned if you do and da*ned if you don’t. If you’re a women with kids out of wedlock, then you’re labeled a stereotype, a drain on the system, and if you say, you want to plan to have children with your husband, you’re somehow unrealistic or a “sheep.” Nonsense.

Yeah, more sisters are going to exercise their “options” if that’s the case.

@Pedro – AND PLEASE do not touch me up some chicks be cheating like that lol
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you know don’t no chicks be feeling you up!!lol

@Lady A
*breathes in*
Ok Ill stop now

@ TRS

LOL you promise ? Ive lost a few matches because of the “breast trick” and plus that wink looked sly

“It’s like you’re da*ned if you do and da*ned if you don’t. If you’re a women with kids out of wedlock, then you’re labeled a stereotype, a drain on the system, and if you say, you want to plan to have children with your husband, you’re somehow unrealistic or a “sheep.” Nonsense. ”

AMEN!! Nothing pleases the black male but he will call a sista nagging and say nothing pleases her?!?! LOL!! There is just no pleasing the black male and thats why I stopped trying.. Let the white woman please him for as long as she can stand him…

@Pedro – AND PLEASE do not touch me up some chicks be cheating like that lol
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you know don’t no chicks be feeling you up!!lol
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lmao be waited 30 mins to diss me wow thats a new record why are you in such a good mood today:) ?

@trs

“So how long is a sista supposed to wait on a N***** to want to get married before moving on??? And yes, if she really wants to get married she WILL move on, whether she dates another Black Man, an Asian, or they are Blue or Green!!!”

*stands up*

*claps*

“Now thats class. And money well spent on school. Who wouldn’t want to date a GIRL like that?”

Well hopefully you wouldn’t want too cause this girl DOES NOT want your black ass!!!

@ Capo

@ TRS

LOL you promise ? Ive lost a few matches because of the “breast trick” and plus that wink looked sly
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LMAO!! YES, I promise!!!! You don’t have to worry about anything but my jump shot!!

@ trs

Woah back up for one minute.

WHERE did I say that marriage to *ANYONE* > R/ship with a Black man???????

What I said was that SOME of yall don’t want to get married…don’t plan on it, will date a sister for 10+ years and never marry her, have multiple babies by her and STILL refer to her as “my babies momma,” etc. That ish is NOT cute!!!! Some of you want to “play house” instead of show a measure of responsibility and say some vows when you’re living like you’re married anyway.

So how long is a sista supposed to wait on a N***** to want to get married before moving on??? And yes, if she really wants to get married she WILL move on, whether she dates another Black Man, an Asian, or they are Blue or Green!!!

I do not care if a Black Man dates interracially and I would never call a Black Man a “sell out,” “self-hater,” or anything of the sort for doing so. YES I have dated interracially and that does NOT mean that I don’t have love for the brothas. Hell a brotha will ALWAYS be my first choice…but that does not mean that I can not look elsewhere!
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Dating for a long time is not always a bad thing. If you both have plans and have talked about it. Sometimes you might know that you are with the right person, but it may not be the right time. I think the it depends on the couple.

@TRS
“Woah back up for one minute.

WHERE did I say that marriage to *ANYONE* > R/ship with a Black man???????

What I said was that SOME of yall don’t want to get married…don’t plan on it, will date a sister for 10+ years and never marry her, have multiple babies by her and STILL refer to her as “my babies momma,” etc. That ish is NOT cute!!!! Some of you want to “play house” instead of show a measure of responsibility and say some vows when you’re living like you’re married anyway.

So how long is a sista supposed to wait on a N***** to want to get married before moving on??? And yes, if she really wants to get married she WILL move on, whether she dates another Black Man, an Asian, or they are Blue or Green!!!

I do not care if a Black Man dates interracially and I would never call a Black Man a “sell out,” “self-hater,” or anything of the sort for doing so. YES I have dated interracially and that does NOT mean that I don’t have love for the brothas. Hell a brotha will ALWAYS be my first choice…but that does not mean that I can not look elsewhere!”
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Ok…. well let’s look at your scenario…

1. couple together for 10 years
2. she wants to get married
3. he does not want to get married

Ummmm…..WHY DOES HE HAVE TO CHANGE HIS VIEWS AND GET MARRIED? WHAT WOULD THAT CHANGE IN THE R/SHIP?

Why can’s SHE do the “responsible” thing and honor HIS feelings too? He must be doing something right for her to be there 10 years!!

I just don’t follow on this. To use an ultimatum to force someone to do something they don’t want to do….

@Snoop – back from lunch huh?

lol

“Brownsugga seems like she needs a hug”

Naw – I have a man for that!!

But you can clean my car of you want to?!??!!?

@ trs

So why make the statement? Why won’t you exercise your options without you feeling like your exercising your options? Get it? You placed a special meaning upon it like you have something you owe to the black race to keep the blood line strong like we’re a species of canine.

@ I am Legend

@TRS

I agree if you are with someone 10 years and have kids together you might as well get married..
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THANK YOU!!!!!!! That’s foolishness to be with someone multiple years having children and ish and not get married. If you’re playing house it’s no different from saying “I DO.”

@circa-81

I was referring to when Africa stood in solitude — you do know that there was/is a family structure in many African cultures, right? And for me, it’s all about creating a structure for myself and my family, and the man I choose to start a life with will understand that. That’s common sense.

What’s so sad to me is that some of you would actually try to guilt trip sisters who are actually trying to conform to a sense of values and tradition. That’s very disheartening to me.

8minutes……….wooo

@circa-81

Oh, and I made the statement about exercising “options,” not TRS.

@Sydney

“It’s like you’re da*ned if you do and da*ned if you don’t. If you’re a women with kids out of wedlock, then you’re labeled a stereotype, a drain on the system, and if you say, you want to plan to have children with your husband, you’re somehow unrealistic or a “sheep.” Nonsense. ”

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I swear I’ve had to actually defend my desires to be married before having children to many a person. And sadly all those people were black. I had a lady years ago ask me if I had any children I told her ‘no’ and said that I was not married yet, she proceeded to say ‘you know you don’t have to be married to have kids right?’….like I don’t know about basic human s3xuality. I’ve also had a cousin who happens to have 3 kids by three different men tell me that I was going to grow old with my cats because I didn’t have children yet. I’m sitting here scratching my head because clearly I have a husband and clearly we both are thinking out our futures before we bring an innocent life into it and I actually have to DEFEND that….we must be in the end of days…smh…

@Snoop – back from lunch huh?
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naw, this thread wasn’t entertaining, so i left for awhile♥

@ trs

I agree if you are with someone 10 years and have kids together you might as well get married..
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If your not religious there is a HUGE difference. Don’t you know what you’re doing when you are swearing your oath?

@ trs

I can’t say that dating a long time is bad. I think i told you this before, but my girl and I have been together for 7 years. We met freshman year in undergrad. We decided to not get married until we were both completely done with school. She grads law school in 3 weeks and I have another year of business school which would make it 8. If we get engaged when i graduate and get married a year later, that will be nine years. Should she have left me cuz of that when we made the decision together? I don’t think we can put cookie cutter time frames on a rship.

“but my boyfriend who is white”

Word ? a few post ago she was foaming from the mouth when she saw russle simmons get his swirl on

@trs
Ok im a little disapointed but mostly happy that the breast trick will not be performed lol apart from basketball what else do you do to keep yourself entertained

@be

THE WOLLY HAT MUST STAY Lol

white women are just as guilty as the black man ,, they be chasing the black man too, nobody is holding a gun to their head.. they be all on black men too!!

@c from stl

“I swear I’ve had to actually defend my desires to be married before having children to many a person. And sadly all those people were black.”

Girl, so it’s not just me? This is unbelievable. I’m actually feeling a little sad. If this is our state of affairs, then things are definitely not going to get better.

We used to be so much better than this.

@ man,

i am with a white man now but i have been with countless of black men! At least, you never hear me calling a black man a sell out for dating outside of his race! The vasectomy is for all the black men i know who always complain about BLACK women getting pregnant everytime they walk by one LOL

@ Man,

btw, white men have been getting vasectomy for years! since you like their women so much, you need to start copy some of their traditions too!

@ Awesome

I can’t say that dating a long time is bad. I think i told you this before, but my girl and I have been together for 7 years. We met freshman year in undergrad. We decided to not get married until we were both completely done with school. She grads law school in 3 weeks and I have another year of business school which would make it 8. If we get engaged when i graduate and get married a year later, that will be nine years. Should she have left me cuz of that when we made the decision together? I don’t think we can put cookie cutter time frames on a rship.
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*I remember you!*

There is nothing wrong with your situation because you have goals that you are working towards TOGETHER. You agreed to get married though right???? That’s all I am saying…You’re not just living together and making babies and UNWILLING to marry her.

What hurts is that there are women of other races who actually expect to be married — it’s a question of “when,” not “if.” They are raised to believe that they will one day be a part of a cohesive family unit.

Why isn’t it the same for black women? I feel like getting up on my Sojourner Truth soapbox. We are women, too, with the same needs and desires and hopes for our children.

@ Sydney

I don’t see nothing wrong with you conforming. That is what conformers do….they conform. Just don’t act like being a non-conformist is socially or mentally destabilizing. The people that are repeatedly having babies by multiple men and women are just dumb asses and that is not to be associated with me.

@ Man IJDC

Ok…. well let’s look at your scenario…

1. couple together for 10 years
2. she wants to get married
3. he does not want to get married

Ummmm…..WHY DOES HE HAVE TO CHANGE HIS VIEWS AND GET MARRIED? WHAT WOULD THAT CHANGE IN THE R/SHIP?

Why can’s SHE do the “responsible” thing and honor HIS feelings too? He must be doing something right for her to be there 10 years!!

I just don’t follow on this. To use an ultimatum to force someone to do something they don’t want to do….
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As far as “what would change in a relationship” by saying vows I can pose the same question to the man in your scenerio.

If they have been screwing for ten years, have children together, and are living together like man and wife…what on earth could change by him agreeing to marry her???

Riddle me that MAN!!!!!

@christie’s secrets

“i am with a white man now but i have been with countless of black men! At least, you never hear me calling a black man a sell out for dating outside of his race! The vasectomy is for all the black men i know who always complain about BLACK women getting pregnant everytime they walk by one LOL

btw, white men have been getting vasectomy for years! since you like their women so much, you need to start copy some of their traditions too!”
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¿¿¿ “I like their women so much????” Where that came from?

What hurts is that there are women of other races who actually expect to be married — it’s a question of “when,” not “if.” They are raised to believe that they will one day be a part of a cohesive family unit.

thats harsh

@circa-81

We’re just going to have to agree to disagree. I know what I want and what I want for my children, and I’m not moving from that, for anyone.

@ Sydney

Stop whining and acting like the large majority of black people aren’t christian and are not racing to get married. Every dude I know says at some point he is going to get married. And stop acting like I’m chastising you for wanting to be married. If you ask me the chips are in your favor. Most black people are christians therefore pro-marriage. You mean to tell me that you have been experiencing something different when you ask dudes about marriage…..they all say hell no? I find that truly hard to believe.

Goodnite People

@TRS
“As far as “what would change in a relationship” by saying vows I can pose the same question to the man in your scenerio.

If they have been screwing for ten years, have children together, and are living together like man and wife…what on earth could change by him agreeing to marry her???

Riddle me that MAN!!!!!”
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The “expense” of getting married for one (wedding, etc)

The increased exposure to risk in the event of a divorce. (which is greater than 50/50)

…and um… he just might not believe in it.
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@ Sydney

What hurts is that there are women of other races who actually expect to be married — it’s a question of “when,” not “if.” They are raised to believe that they will one day be a part of a cohesive family unit
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Girl tell me about it!! The Asian culture epitomises this very mindset. They do NOT play when it comes to their daughters and family values.

SMH @ some of the bullshit. I am sorry, but I just had to curse.

rofl