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damn girl you shouldn’t had sign that prenup

…that this woman signed that pre-nup in the first place is an affront to the women’s movement, period.

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WELL ITZ BACK TO HE PJz OF WATTZ …BYTCH!

Does she at least get child support? They have a baby together.

1ST???

THATZ ALL SHE GETTING IZ CHILD SUPPORT!

…OK, scratch that!…

…that she ever married him to begin with calls into question both her mental and developmental abilities…

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BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHA!

You gets, NATHAN! Sorry Norma love…but I’m sure her child is entitled to some money…just raise the girl right and be good parents.

Dang! Well that’s what happens when you sign a pre-nup. She gets nothing and their child gets taken care of. Given that they weren’t married long at all it’s not that big of a deal and she should just charge it to the game as a loss. All she should be worried about is their child being taken care of. B1tch get up off your azz and get a job or move back over the Britain…make a decision…

HA!
not as great a day as when we found out about K. Fed and his deal but this is nice just as well…no greedy chicks get’n our money

If you aint no punk say we want PRE NUP WE WANT PRE NUP!!!!!

Well Dang – what happened?

*move back over to Great Britain….typo

lol guess she should have tried to hold on two more months..

Shame on her!!! You should never follow a man and not have a back up plan. first and foremost you need to make sure no matter what you will be ok.

wont get me like she got eddie lol Tysmart of u to hire some smart that are really about securing ya doe ..kudos Transformers changed ur bank account forever cant wait for TR2
and shame on her for just letting go of everything to be with a rich american lol u thought u were being sneaky

GO HEAD NATALIE, ..THATZ WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT!

She deserves nothing….theses divorce settlements are getting out of hand!

ALso the money is based on the actual anniversary date. She didn’t make it to 1 year.

@jb_1030

Me thinks Tyrese got hip to her agenda. She saw a somewhat ‘well-off’ American actor and thought she had struck gold…think again heffa!

This is absolutely hilarious. This is what happens when women get blinded by the bling. This fool was so blinded by that delicious man, the obviouse amazing d and his money that she didn’t even think to cover her own ass. Trick didn’t even think to get a job.

Good for you Tyty, that trick doesn’t deserve a damn thing. She clearly expected to just live nice and not do a damn thing. At least he got a beautiful seed out of her

She should’ve read the pre-nup before signing!! Reading is fundamental…your wealthy fiance’s lawyer may not explain everything to you….Education is the key; Even for gold-diggers!

If she is lonely in the US…move back to Britain…d@mn don’t she got direct deposit for her child support? She just want to stay here to be a pain in the @ss for Tyrese…poof, pow, be-gone…Black Ty will catch a jet to see his seed.

………….. SHE A FOOL TO HAVE SIGNED SUCH A RIDICULOUS DOCUMENT…… HE PROBABLY MADE SURE SHE DIDN’T MAKE IT TO THAT 1ST ANNIVERYSARY JUST NOT TO SHELL OUT THAT 50K!!!!!!! HE A CAPRICORN; SO YA KNOW HOW HE WAS PROTECTING HIS SSSSSTACKS….. AT LEAST SHE A SISTA…….

by the way, this Dustin is a female =)

If he was smart, he would petition the court to get full custody of the child, due to her limited resources in caring for it. (I have a sneaky suspiscion though, that that kid is not his). That child is too light, unless Tyreece has some weak genes.

Caramel Cat (formerly c from stl)

@jb_1030

Me thinks Tyrese got hip to her agenda. She saw a somewhat ‘well-off’ American actor and thought she had struck gold…think again heffa!
***************************************************I actually read the Pre-nup yesterday and she was dumb as shit, hence her new name dumbshit. But I want him to take care of his daughter, but not the mama.

ALl she gets is that 50K and the land rover. But I am trying to figure out if that will be prorated since she didn’t make it a year.

I say prenup is good. He made out better that these unmarried baby daddies, Eddie, Diddy etc.
Women should get appropriate child support, but not support for them and the next man. Rich people get prenups, the women too.

Maybe if her mother taught her how to be self-sufficient,she wouldn’t be in this position.Serves her right-she thought she had a sure meal ticket but her plan backfired!!lol!I’ve been married for many years but I honestly believe that no one owes anyone when the relationship is over-just make sure the children are taken care of.

YES! woooooo!

@ bored@work

Shyt she messed up. bet Tyrese had that anniversary date marked and circled so wnt have to pay nuthin …lmao…Dude is my hero

@ natureboy601

is tht u capo? if it is what up fam?

@Natalie:

I agree!

good for her..i’m sure she will go spend that child support check on a purse or some dumb shit..

Good. Maybe this will encourage more people to be independent.

ITS NOT FULLY A GOOD DAY FOR BABYDADDIES. THE OUTCOME WOULD HAVE EEN DIFFERENT IF IT WAS A WHITE WOMAN.

BUT STILL LADIES, GET A JOB AND SUPPORT YOUR DAMN SELVES.

@jb_1030

Yeah, they might pro-rate the $50K but if they don’t she gets nada….and I think it serves her right. She looks like a schemer. Tyrese is one fine drop of delectable chocolate…he needs to be with a chick without an agenda…

All she deserves is child support.

Good she don’t deserve nothing, she didn’t help him obtain anything but a baby and any chick can do that.

ridin so high i can slap down a pigeon

LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO that SN is priceless. i love it

She knew there were problems before she married him. She should’ve played herself and asked for a dime. LMAO

Ladies, It is your obligation to provide 4 urself. Depending on a man is ok, esecially when he’s ur husband but save up 4 a rainy day. The man isnt suppose to pay u AFTER the relationship is over. The only thing he is responsible for are any children that resulted during the relationship. Only in America is this BS heard of….Now if she get a new rich man, as long as she don’t marry him , she still live off Terese’s money? I’m glad it happened this way. When a relationship is over, It’s over! Plus she getting more child support in a month than most people get in a year. Please….don’t be gold diggers ladies. The sooner we stop golddigging, the sooner men will see us as independant individuals worthy of their respect.

@ Dr. Winkle

I agree. Let this be a warning to all brothers. Keep it chocolate.

ROTFLMAO…..I agree with the comments already posted hell u couldnt even make a few more weeks damn…. PRENUPS aint no joke these stars need to learn about them and love them like they were air lol…..

justice is served

Listen children, here is the PROPER sequence of events:

1. Meet someone you are truly compatible with.
2. Fall in love.
3. Get married.
4. Build an estate TOGETHER.
5. Have children.
6. If by chance the marriage falls apart:
a. file for divorce
b. settle child custudy disputes.
c. TAKE HALF.

Otherwise, you get shown the damn door, with exactly what you brought to the marriage.

A baby is not an effin’ MEAL TICKET.

Of course she gets outrageous child support! stupid asses!

He’s a smart muthafucca and kudos Tyrese!!!!

Damn, she set herself up for that. SHe could have at least held out til a year. But we really don’t know who brought this on so…… NEXT!!!

SHE BETTER UP DATE HER RESUME.

She should of did what shaqs wife did put some to the side.LOL

Girlfriend should have kicked in plan B. If she signed a prenup knowing that she only gets $50k for each yr of being married, she should have found a way to stay married…she may not have been happy but at least she could look forward to the $$$. Oh what a tangled web we weave…..

Unless she helped his career, just marrying him should not entitle her to any of his money. Why do people feel that they should be given what they were accustomed to during the marriage. If you give up the marriage you give up what comes with it. He worked for what he has so he should get to keep it. The children are the only ones the courts should consider, they did not ask to be brought into this world and their needs should come first.

*shrug* Her own fault. Read before you sign or have it looked at by YOUR OWN LAWYER. Hell, a lot of people offer “Free consultations”, she might not have even had to pay to have it interpreted if she couldn’t understand it.

She might as well chalk this one up to being young and dumb. Always, always read before you sign or have your own attorney persent to interpret what all that legal mumbo-jumbo is saying. This is messed up but it is what it is. If he didn’t have that prenup worded the way he did he would have been a$$ out. The only thing that matters is the child being taken care of. The ex wifey will just have to pick up the pieces and go on with her life as best she can.

LOL! That’s some funny shit!!!

All you gold or platinum digging hoes…take notes!

WoW! otta ignorance displayed on this thread. If she didnt want to, she shouldn’t have signed the pre-nup. With that being said, everyone who has a little bit of anything needs a pre-nuptial agreement. It helps thing not get messy.

Here we go:

1. You don’t have a baby, to be taken care of.

2. How come females think if they have a baby, they are ENTITLED to ALL your money?

3. She should’ve NEVER gave up her home in London, to come her with Tyrese.Sorry, but dude looks greasy and grimy.

4. Mature people discuss all the angles of getting married. Even talk about if things don’t work out, they still have an understanding.

5. All parents of children , (especially if they are separated) need to remain friends for the sake of the child. Read #4,about maturity.

People holler about equal rights, but no one actually wants to do ANY WORK. Women now a days think if they have a baby by you, they hit hte lotto. Ridiculous. I hope the child is raised without hostility and animosity. But hey, not my problem,so good luck with that..

If she didn’t agree to the pre-nup, I don’t think he would have married her. Smart man.

oh finally a win for men around the world!!!

She’s lucky she got that much… why should she get half of what he worked hard for… Who is she?!!!

The only woman I think deserves some compensation is Mel Gibson’s wife… 29 yrs & 7 kids & homie still stepped out on her (*tisk tisk*)… But she sure doesn’t deserve half a billion… just give her a couple mill, like come on he built that empire not her!!! LOL

Bless ♥

Men aren’t the only ones that get pre-nups.

Grow up guys!

There are situations where the woman has more than than her counterpart…

I sure aint giving no dude funds that I worked hard for to spend on no G!!! I for sure will have a prenup in place!!.. Its 09 ppl women are Boss’ too!!

Bless ♥

Nothing????? DAMN!!!

She get NOTHING. Oh well. If it were a woman with the $ and hubby was taking her to court– ppl would be calling him Al Reynolds & Nick Cannon. Good for her. nextttt

Only statement I have to make on this is, unlike a lot of the women out there, SHE WAS HIS WIFE! He thought enough of her at the time to marry her, more than I can say for most of these athletes/ actors women. She wasn’t just a baby mama. Now with that being said, I find it ironic that so many of my sisters on here are gloating about this. I read the disdain at the brothers for dating/marrying white women. We get angry over this,but when a black man does marry a black woman we gloat when he divorces her and she is kicked to the curb with nothing but his baby. I don’t think she should take half of what he has, but as his wife she was entitled to some type of support. She did not put a gun to his head, he went over there and brought her here with I am sure the promise that he would support her as long as he was able to hit it. He hit it, got tired of it, now he wants to just send her back with nothing but a baby and a stretched out vagina. This is not anything for us to be happy about. Now when he shows up with a white woman on his arm and he marries her and STAYS married to her we’ll all see where his heart was. These men have no problem marrying those women, and taking care of them, but they can’t seem to give us the same respect, honor, and commitment. Kobe has stayed married to Vanessa, she’ll get a fortune in the divorce, look at how well Reggie has taken care of Kim K, and she is not even his wife. Look at how they do us, sisters don’t gloat at this woman’s misfortune, it is really sad, and it is a prime example of not only how our men feel about us and our worth, but how the courts feel about us and our worth. Steven Spielberg’s first wife Amy Irving was married to him for 4 years and received $100 million in their divorce, that is $25 million for each year she was with him. I am really disappointed in this decision. Black women, we more than any other women, must get our college degrees and take care of ourselves. Our men and the system will never take care of us like they will the white woman.

Not a damn thing.. KEEP IT MOVIN NORMA! lol

Prenup was air tight, Black Ty is smarter than i thought.

Does anyone know who initiated the divorce or why it happened?

Was Tyrese running around and what not? Or did she figure she was marrying someone famous and hit the jackpot?

I don’t know what happened in this relationship, so I’m reserving judgment outside of “she shouldn’t have signed the pre-nup without understanding it.

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Ladies, look and learn. This is bitter sweet. Was she high when she signed the prenup? Hope he atleast buys her a ticket home.

Damn she couldn’t hold out for at least a year???

80,000 X 12 months = $960,000

He got more money that she does right about now. Part of the Pre-nup was that she was supposed to invest any money she made. So I guess she didn’t or she invested with Bernie Madoff

@ A mess indeed-”Black women, we more than any other women, must get our college degrees and take care of ourselves. Our men and the system will never take care of us like they will the white woman.”
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You have to look at it. Only a blk man would put a blk woman on front street like that. It is rather humiliating to be used and dumped like that. That’s why you don’t RUSH into ANYTHING. Make sure you are SURE before the wedding.

NewsFlash: Nothing is guaranteed, do the best you can,looking for any potential issues, before they arise and a resolution of how it will be dealt with…

It is bad, the difference betweem blk and white women , how blk men treat them differently….The average blk man doesn’t respect blk wmn. That’s how and the reason, that he can treat her like crap, but love the pale veins, off a wht wmn.

Don’t accept less. If these American blk men are treating you right, find another man, what are you waiting for? They are all color-struck? LEAVE THEM ALONE. Go get you a foreign blk (new trend, if you haven’t noticed) or go find ‘something new’…

We don’t have to take this treatment, we just think that we do….

BTW LADIES: ALWAYS have a back-up plan. ALWAYS. No matter what. DO NOT TELL ANYONE, ABOUT YOUR ‘OTHER’ PLANS.Cause you never know when you might need it. The only man that’s ever going to love you unconditionally, is your Daddy. Your husband is supposed to, but these American Negroes have lost their minds.

Everybody else? You have to wait and see….

Now that’s what you call using you’re damn head…instead of the other one! And I don’t even feel bad for someone that ‘chose’ not to have a plan a-z!

I hope when he kicks her out she screams ” I HATE YOU JODY!”

I hope she at least got her green card.

She was not forced to sign the prenuptial agreement. She wasn’t under duress when she signed the documents. She knew it was a possibility that she would not gain anything financially from the marriage.

They already had a rocky relationship before they were married because she accused him of beating her while pregnant. The wise choice would of been to never marry him.

She is getting financial assistance through child support. I hope that she is able to get her affairs in order so she can go to work and generate her own income, because Tyrese acting and singing career is not going well.

hmm transformers grossed about 300 million worldwide not counting DVD sales , yeah total bomb joint ..damn isnt there a second coming out ?

good for her bum ass! 6G’s a month till the kid is 18. And if she goes home, its like 3G’s cuz of the devaluation

@ NYC, GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE HOW DO YOU KNOW HE LOVES NON BLACK WOMEN.

IT’S FUNNY HOW PEOPLE BELIEVE WHAT THEY SEE IN MAGAZINES OR TELEVISION, I KNOW THE GUY PERSONALLY, YEAH HE DATES DIFFERENT WOMAN BUT HE LOVES BLACK WOMAN.

THE REASON WHY HE ISN’T DOING ANYTHING RIGHT NOW BECAUSE HE IS ENJOYING HIS MONEY, WOW PEOPLE ARE IDIOITS.

That’s what pre-nups are for! Hopefully, he will be good enough to get a ticket back home so her mama & ‘em can relax.

Well, I suspect the reason why Tyrese gave her the basic child support rate, due to the fact that the child in question isn’t biologically his no offense but this little girl is very light (she’s lighter then her mom Norma), light eyes and hair, so I think her daughter is the pizza man’s kid, lol. She did get her green card so she should thank him for that !

And no Norma isn’t going back to England she’s here to stay in L.A., lol…

@ Hay Treasure- hey girl, I didn’t know that!
He’s a woman-beater? She should’ve never married him, much less have a conversation with them…

I feel sorry for the child, that’s sure to suffer behind all this dramatization…

@ tx hustla- haven’t seen you in a while Yeah, transformers was the ish. Optimus Prime was my favorite, back in the day ( we are talking kiddy years )

How’s your cute little niece?

My bro moved to Fort Worth/ Dallas area to get him some business started. He already has his degree from MSU…

@ Hi always knew
How are you?

I am surprised you didn’t know he was accused of beating her a couple of years ago. It was all over the radio and internet as well.

She should of kept it moving. Money should not be a compensation for putting up with a man who is not treating you well. She knew some of his negative flaws and still married him.

@If it’s not EDIBLE why does it look like a TACO?-
“GIRLFRIENDS — the number one cause of single black women.”
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I think you just summed it all up. I do have associates, but not anyone that I would let into my relationship. PERIOD.

I don’t go running to girlfriends**- who might I add are often quite envious of whatever you do have, then it becomes a cycle to see you self-destruct, or can they take it from you… You can’t allow them the satisfaction. Keep your business to yourself. You should be old enough that you don;t need to keep your business with other people,anyway. There’s ONLY room for 2 in a marriage…

I appreciated your comment,as well, we hve to start thinking for ourselves. I am to have someone decide what’s best for me and they don’t know anything about me / my family and could care less.

Marriage shouldn’t be an overnight

She shouldn’t get anything. As a woman, I think it’s so disgusting that women seek out men who have done good for themselves and try and bank out on them. That is pure laziness. Even if a woman ends up with a man who has a lot of money, if she is smart she will be making a living for herself as well. And if a woman has a kid, she should have some sort of back up plan. Gawd I can’t stand when people think they are obligated to SOMEONE ELSE’S money.

I hope when he kicks her out she screams ” I HATE YOU JODY!”

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I just spit out my water LMAO.

Mannie

@ NYC, GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE HOW DO YOU KNOW HE LOVES NON BLACK WOMEN.

IT’S FUNNY HOW PEOPLE BELIEVE WHAT THEY SEE IN MAGAZINES OR TELEVISION, I KNOW THE GUY PERSONALLY, YEAH HE DATES DIFFERENT WOMAN BUT HE LOVES BLACK WOMAN.

THE REASON WHY HE ISN’T DOING ANYTHING RIGHT NOW BECAUSE HE IS ENJOYING HIS MONEY, WOW PEOPLE ARE IDIOITS.

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Wendy Williams said a long time ago he loves non-black women and that he only hangs out with black women for photo ops.

Tyrese would never date or marry a woman his complexion no matter how beautiful she is. His ex-wife isn’t pretty at all but he was just looking at her complexion.

That was extremely smart of Tyrese! Child support she be more than enough!

@NYC Gal,
I tend to think the darker the man the lighter he feels he needs to go…

@ all these people “I hate when women think they are entitled to this and that”

What are your thoughts, out of curiosity, about the strong woman who’s with dude when he’s down and out, barely able to keep himself afloat and probably couldn’t without a little assistance from said woman every now and again? Or the woman who’s been there cheering him on in his entertaining/athletic endeavors, believing in him when others didn’t? He has nothing, but she loves him to death and marries him anyway. She’s put in years with this man.

This man finally gets his break, and starts treating ol’ girl wrong. Runs around on her, disrespects her, all that and then they have to split. Is she not entitled to alimony?

@me (the original)
she should definitely receive alimony…I just don’t believe she would deserve millions and millions of dollars! Earn that type of money on your own. There are no free paychecks!!!

Lol yes and we all know Wendy Williams as the source of credible information , after all she helped contribute to the intel that helped us in the war in Iraq and defeating nuclear terror. I wonder how her sexual assault case is going..

@Always knew – check my lil website , I put some pictures on there when had to babysit the other day on there..

@OMG

She shouldn’t get anything. As a woman, I think it’s so disgusting that women seek out men who have done good for themselves and try and bank out on them. That is pure laziness. Even if a woman ends up with a man who has a lot of money, if she is smart she will be making a living for herself as well. And if a woman has a kid, she should have some sort of back up plan. Gawd I can’t stand when people think they are obligated to SOMEONE ELSE’S money.
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God bless the child that’s got his own.

BRB

@ me (the original)®

I understand where your coming from, but even though a woman has been with a man before he has money, there is no reason for her to just sit back and do nothing. Truth is, not everyone stays together forever, some do, but more than likely not. A smart woman would make good for herself and not depend on a man. Regardless how much money HE makes, it never hurts to have the skills and ability to stand on your own two feet. So if the day does come that he goes all Hollywood and wants nothing to do with you, you can take whats yours and be able to take care of yourself WITHOUT his money. Now, I’m not saying that women are never entitled to alimony, I just think its ridiculous for women to rely on alimony alone.

@Shawn08

If he’s making millions or billions, why not? She’s party the reason for him GETTING there.

She’s loaning him some money so he can get studio time, she’s writing his papers and doing extra credit for him when he’s on academic probation, helping him study, this that and the other thing?

Don’t get me wrong, of course always have your own, cause you never know what awaits you down the road..but she’s doing all this stuff..they’re married, he’s successful and she’s at home raising their children and maintaining the household. All of a sudden, she finds out about him living foul, and that’s it?

Wow! home chick gotta move back to london and get a job. She signed it, so now she has to deal with iyt! grown people work and babies chill! I don’t think she’s a baby

@OMG

Excellent point. But I’m not talking about what the woman should do, I’m talking about what she’s “entitled” to. In some cases–and not all, Lord knows not all–the woman has played a LARGE role in his success.

And you know, I don’t want to just make this a woman scorned thing, either. I’m sure there are women out there who’ve had people sacrifice and help them out a great deal and it’s the same deal.

Shawn08

@NYC Gal,
I tend to think the darker the man the lighter he feels he needs to go…

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Not all dark skin black men feels this way only the ones who feels that they would be more famous or successful with a non-black woman or a more mainstream looking black woman.

Karma will come back and literally bite you in the ass, such as the case of Tyrese. His ex-wife Norma isn’t that light she’s just tan, lol. Tyrese is color struck and color blind, lol.
Norma desperately wanted to hook a man with money and semi-famous. And Tyrese wanted a no talent, not too pretty low self esteem chick from over seas. Now Norma can openly date her baby/pizza man, lol….

I would feel really guilty for taking a man’s money after being married for 10 months. This shows there were problems with that relationship before they even got married.

I would just make sure there was money and visitation for the children, then I would move on…

worked for!

Girl..go ahead on and get your greencard, and don’t look back..there’s many more fish over here to get your hooks in..she is bi-racial, half-caste mutts rule!

@OMG
@ me (the original)®

I hear what your saying, but the word “entitled” is a little too demanding for me. I mean, sure the woman supports the man and is a large part of his success. But it’s a little naive for the woman to assume the man will just fork over half of his earnings because the woman feels she is entitled to it.
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Yes, it’s naive for the woman to assume he’ll do it. It’s naive for the woman to assume she’ll get anything from him if HE has his say. The courts, on the other hand….

They should (and usually do, I believe) look into the relationship these two have had, and when these things come to light, the $$$ begins to flow. I can’t (and won’t) hate on that.

But again, this is just a situation I’m bringing up. I don’t believe that is the situation here at all.

But no one should sign any legal document unless they have a full understanding of what it is they are signing. If you don’t, go see a damn lawyer. FREE CONSULTATIONS, PEOPLE.

How old is their child, by the way?

ukbritt

r u serious?

And on that note, I’m out..

Happy Friday peeps

She is dumb anyway! In the UK the courts ain’t having it AT ALL. If a couple divorces, the judge does not like to see one parent living better than the other, so they compensate (see Paul McCartney and Madonna). She is British so she could’ve filed in the UK as a citizen. She probably thought she could get more in the US so she filed there. Twice dumb. Maybe she can appeal.

Well that’s what happens when you sign a prenuptial agreement and don’t have your own money or education to fall back on. I’m engaged and we WILL be signing a pre-nup! Basically, if we decide to go our separate ways we’ll split in half what ever assets we acquired while married. I’m a woman, have a degree and career and marrying a man with a degree and career. We’ll have a joint account but my grandma and mom always told me to “keep something on the side for a rainy day.” I hope Norma saved up something in those measly 10months

@ a mess indeed.

I CONCUR!

@sayitwrite – Question you actually believe the intentions of Heather Mills ? i.e. the quintessential definition of a goldigger who is essentially hated by most of the entire UK population. Yeah love to see where she did anything but take advantage of someone following the death of his wife in a vulnerable position and a prime legal example of why to sign a pre nup agreement if male/female with assets. Her entitlement should have been a bus ticket and crutch to hop her self out on…

1. She’s contesting that pre-nup, so who knows what she’ll end up with in the end. (Why even draw up pre-nups if they can be contested and changed by a judge later on? They should be binding. Period.)

2. WHY MARRY THE WOMAN AT ALL if she appears to be such a gold digger you feel the need to have her sign a paper saying, essentially, “Okay, I’ll marry you, but not share anything with you…You’ll have to sink or swim if things don’t work out, cause I’m throwing you out on your azz.” Doesn’t sound like LOVE or TRUST to me.

3. Real MEN wouldn’t applaud that a woman got shafted by a man who vowed to love and care for her. She wasn’t just his babymama. That was his WIFE. That means something. (In “other” cultures only, I guess. Cause “we” seem to have it twisted.)

@A MESS INDEED,

AMEN!!!

Every woman who marries a man more successful/richer than her is NOT a gold digger. In fact, that’s the way it’s SUPPOSED to be. The man SHOULD be in a position to provide for his family.

He decided to MARRY this woman. Why bother if she’s not worth providing housing for?

Just like the deal with 50 cents son’s mother. Now he has all these millions, can put Ciara in a Bentley/ Ferrari whatever, but the woman who bore him a child, was with him when he had NOTHING isn’t worth a house, a car and some money to help her take care of his child? The sick thing is that people were rejoicing when the judge decided she should get nothing. I don’t get it. The one thing I will give Diddy credit for, is he seems to at least understand that Kim, Misa, and the other young lady had his kids, and he takes good care of them without any drama, or calling them bytches/hos etc. I will respect him for that, and he was not married to any of them. Black people need to get off the self hatred, and the need to disrespect each other.

How come these Black entertainers don’t make these crazy pre-nup contracts when they marry White women? And if you think I’m being racist, name one White woman that has divorced a Black entertainer that didn’t get paid.

@2DIMPLZS

AMEN!

Black “men” are ready to drag a sista through the mud soooo quickly. They act worse than the sistas when it ends. ADULTS allow each other to walk away from marriages with their DIGNITY in tact. Brothas gonna make sure the bytch don’t get shat! And if that means dragging her through the mud and sending her to the projects with nothing but her drawls, he doesn’t give a damn. It’s all about keeping every dime of that whopping $30,000 he makes each year.

White men, however, will (usually) end their shyt quietly and keep it moving.

It’s a shame a lot of brothas don’t know how to be MEN, first and foremost, and respect the institution of MARRIAGE secondly.

It’s sad.

Txhustla15(Loungin in the Austin Weather- I don’t have your page, but I’d love to check it out..

You said that you are in the music industry. Is it just a recreational thing or are you seriously looking to get into the music industry?

Might have a couple contacts for you, if you are serious. I will check back for your response…

EVERYONE will disagree with me, but EVERYONE over the age of 18, is considered an adult. Therefore, if you are an adult, you need to be able to take care of yourself. Whether she was with Tyrese or not, she would have still needed a career, in order to support herself. With women’s rights, and wanting to be treated as an equal, is a part of being treated equally.

Things didn’t work out, for whatever reasons, she will still need to provide a source of income for her own well-being. I’m sure that there will be some stipulation for child support. And marriages that last under a year are usually annulled. Check it out. That means it never happened….

BEST ADVICE: KNOW WHO YOU ARE MARRYING AND THE REASONS WHY….You have a better chance ofyour marriage succeeding and being profitable, as a result…..

Don’t just expect a ‘meal-ticket’…

@circa-81- LOVE BADU….BAG LADY…IT STILL RINGS TRUE!!!

How does one walk outta a marriage and then ask for more $$ than they came in with??? Especially when there is no history of he/she contributing to the “money-maker’s” bankroll??? I scratch my head when I think about these “baby mama’s” (not even ex spouses) from TI’s to 50Cent’s and their legal requests for increased child support. How in the hell…this chick above didnt even stay married to him for a yr? Regardless of why they broke up…it doesnt even matter. I think that ppl should only sign prenups if they meet someone and that person is already rich/wealthy. Prenups dont make sense if you build ur empire together…thats when u really fight for half or whatever.

Tyrese never wanted her any way he has always wanted Brandy.

@ Smoovee

Prenups are for what you have before. Everything after you get married is up for grabs. Well, actually let me correct myself….that is the most basic and standard prenup agreement and also that is what it was meant for to protect wealth that you accumulated by yourself.

Tyrese never wanted her any way he has always wanted Brandy.

*cough*

“Just like the deal with 50 cents son’s mother. Now he has all these millions, can put Ciara in a Bentley/ Ferrari whatever, but the woman who bore him a child, was with him when he had NOTHING isn’t worth a house, a car and some money to help her take care of his child?”

@A mess indeed – Twisted logic… I was rejoicing when 50 won his decision against Miss Tompkins , anyone that supports her must of not read her petition to the court as she was clearly out of her damn mind , she was getting 25,000 month in support and burned down the house(mansion) that he bought for his son to live in. She in turn decided to move her deadbeat boyfriend his kids and all friends and relatives – then ask for more money upon that for month in support(hmm despite numerous hardworking parents that manage to raise their children on little to no support). Ciara clearly has her own money , you need to check her earned income as she is clearly not destitute – nor has she gotten anything from 50. Despite her making some sandwiches , giving birth and getting her cakes beat I dont see her in Forbes for any of the business decisions , see her listed in any listed publishing credits or any real business decisions/promotions. I fail to see as the judge and reality does how she is entitled to shit.. i.e. if you read the proceedings she lost because she never attempted to gain employment- she thought living on free support was the way to go..

@always knew – If you click on my name will link you to my photos site. SWSX was good for me this year , I have small production company and couple artists down here in Austin that are working their way up , I pretty much produce when feel like it but is always open for new venues. I want to start work on neo soul/jazz album so have been sketching some tracks for that and looking for some vocal talent.

@ circa-81

I got you…
I guess what I dont understand is how ppl who have children with these entertainers feel they have to have this excessive amount for child support or whatever…some of these ppl are asking for thousands and thousands of dollars…they want their rent paid and everything all bc of what their baby father or mother is making (working)…

@ Txhustla15(Loungin in the Austin Weather)

(pointing my hair straight up in the air and dying it with a greedy cheesy grin on my face )

“Only in America!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”

lol @ circa-81

u krazi!!

@ A Mess Indeed & Karen71:

Preach on sistas, preach on!! And that is so true that black men are so quick to leave a sista destitute with nothing but the clothes on her back but if it was a white woman they stick with her and try to make it work. It happens but no one wants to address that let alone ADMIT that it happens!! Then we have the hatred from fellow sistas who wish bad things on each other. Crabs in a barrell is all it is. It’s very, very sad. This goes deeper than money. This is about self respect, maturity, going into marriage with full knowledge of what marraige is all about and not thinking it’s like the romance novels and soap operas on tv! Prenups to me mean nothing more than you expect at some point down the road for the marriage to fail and that no work will be put into the marriage to make sure it lasts. If people had the proper view of marriage, or GOD’S view of marraige because HE is the one who instituted the sacred arrangement then we wouldn’t have such high divorce rates or a need for prenups. My husband and I got married very young: I was 20 and he was 21. We’ve been married 15 years now and have 4 beautiful kids. We both can’t believe how fast time has flown and remember our wedding day like it was yesterday. We grew up together and knew each other since grade school and our families knew each other. I know we’re the exception to the norm these days, but if you find someone who values marriage and takes it seriously like you do and go into it knowing it’s going to take a lot of hard work and dedication then you can have a successful marriage. We were best friends first and foremost and I think people rush to the bed first and then try to fall in love later. There is no open and honest communication anymore and that’s where the breakdowns begin. Tyrese knew early on in that marraige that he had tired of her and made a mistake. He was in love with the THOUGHT of being married and realized after the fact that she wasn’t the right one for him. That’s sad and a total waste of both of their time. The only good thing to come out of their union is that beautiful little girl.

As long as he takes care of his kids and NOT JUST W/ A CHECK, like actually *spending time with them,* then i don’t care that she didn’t get anything.

I love it…..

@ circa-81

OMFG!!!
Im done.
That will do me for the rest of the week!!!

All men should get prenups..Seriously….
I remember the day I told my mom at age 10 that I would get one….

Protect yourselves fellas….

@TXHustla: For the first 6 years of my marriage I stayed home. I was raising my kids. This was a decision made by my husband and I, for the cost of daycare wasn’t worth it. Not only that, we (WE) wanted our kids to be raised by me and not any outside influences. My husband worked and was in school during this period. I took care of home, he paid the bills. Once my youngest started school, my husband and I decided that I should now pursue my educational goals, which I did. I went back to school and 3 years later I got my degree. The whole time my husband was the sole income for our family, and never once did he make me feel like I was “riding on him” for support. Marriage is a give and take. Everyone has to make some sacrifices for it to work. Some men want their wives to stay home and take care of the family. Some men appreciate the ability to have an arrangement like this. I can tell you this, I work in a financial firm, and the wealthier the white folks are, the more unlikely the wife is to work outside of the home. White men place their wives on a pedestal, they don’t want them to work if they don’t need to. That is the truth! They have nannies, house keepers the whole 9, and in the divorce they will still get half. I stayed home, and it was work too. No I didn’t collect a check, but making sure my kids needs were met, and my husbands “needs” were met made his life golden. Now I work, I bring in half of what he makes, but he includes me in 100% of all decisions made in our household. When a man really loves his wife, he doesn’t need nor rely on her income. He wants her to be the queen that she is supposed to be, and the feelings will easily be reciprocated. If you are constantly keeping notes on who does what, then you are destined for failure. So Norma didn’t work, she had a new baby and a man that makes millions. Would he have wanted his wife to work, put his child in the care of someone else while she go out and make a few grand a year, because I assume she has no degree and limited job experience. I don’t get the selfishness in this.

Hope for the best but prepare for the worst.

I plan on putting my money in numbered account in Switzerland…Find it now!

In all honesty, no man should have to take care of his ex-wife in any situation.

After reading many of the comments in here it sounds like nothing but a bunch of bitter divorced hard up mens.

Call me!

People are saying that she shouldn’t had signed the prenup…No sign…No marriage….

That’s what Donald Trump did with his new piece…She kept refusing to sign it until they were at the alter…I LOVE IT!

@A mess indeed – True marriage definitely is a give and take and like everything in life will require sacrifice and hard work. At the same time with that being said , I draw no distinction or make no judgement based on his relationship as noone knows the intangibles that were involved as that is between those two people. I dont know about white people putting their wives on a pedestal , i dont generalize in those terms as that happened in my family lord knows we werent wealthy growing up(military). That may be more symptomatic of wealthy people but then again everyone makes their own choices so to each their own. As far as selfishness is concerned look at the situation of her and Miss Tompkins , she got 50,000 (likely more) and a Range Rover – there are people that work their whole lives and accomplish less than that. I am sorry if dont feel sympathy for someone since they cant take care of themselves with that alone …

Listen just because you have a baby by her doesn’t mean you should be obligated to give her an allowance (ten months ain’t enough to convince me you put in some work besides spitting out a baby). Yeah, make sure her residence stays in order but that shouldn’t be a consistent thing that should only happen if she needs help. Wife i.e. can get what she wants. Ex-wife i.e. only can get what she needs. See when somebody becomes an ex….that means you don’t really love them no more…in some cases.

This is why I will never marry a black man… you see?? When they love you it’s a different story and when they start to fool around they divorce you…. I remember NAS used to fool around with other women too… I was glad I read his baby moma’s book (Carmen Bryan) black men have problems if they have few cents if they don’t marry a white woman, they mess up with our sisters I mean what the ****.

*Like you say, none of us were there when Tyrese initially spit his game at Norma,*

In my Peter Griffin laugh Aeh aeh aeh aeh aeh aeh aeh aeh aeh aeh aeh…”Norma.”

A Mess Indeed

Ask your Hubby what will happen if yall’ divorce……and thats when the argument is going to start.

@circa81:
LOL not gonna bite your head off. I understand your point. I have been in relationships that didn’t work, and I hope I don’t run into those people again. I have only been married once, (current husband), and if it doesn’t work, I hope that he is fair with how we divide our assets if that should happen. I hope he wouldn’t hate me nor I him for our kids sake. There probably is no relationship harder than marriage, and that is why it doesn’t work for many. It takes patience, devotion, and real selfless love to make a marriage work, and honestly most people are selfish-period.

“if u aint no punk, holla we want prenup, we want prenup yeeeaahh!” lol! just take care of that lil one.

@ circa 81:
OUCH! That would hurt. Just remember this one thing: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” If we all lived by that creed, we’d be a happier, healthier people.

she musta really thought that relationship was goin last when she signed that shit… smh damn

Stop hatin on tyrese and stop hatin on norma i know they will work it out aleast he takes care of his child. lol he did not do norma dirty. It takes 2 to marry. Norma can get any man look at her shes fine

always knew@ Please stop pleease stop only black men put women on the front? lol u cant blame all black men for one thing u saw

why do women in here critize black men so much why this hate ? if you really think that a black men threat white women diffrently then you are stupid’yes some guys do and some guys doesnt just because some do you dont have to blame a whole race of man. people in here is so color struck. im black but i have never dated a white girl and if i do i wont be thinkin of the colour.
some women tend to complain about black men dating white women or being broke or being Drug dealers but i really think they want something to complain about so they can date outside their race if they do thats good for them.

but im tired to see black men being accused and being put on blast for something that means nothing

He’s a smart dude.

I’m a woman too and I’m glad she didn’t get anything. I’m tired of men and women using each other for their own needs and not really caring about the other person. At least Tyrese isn’t stupid (and he’s hot). If someone is rich they should have their future spouse sign a pre-nup because if the person truly loved them then they wouldn’t care about not getting a lot of your money (hey, it sounds simplistic but it is what it is).

@always knew

I agree with you, but this is one reason why black men cross over to white women. When you get a run of black women who try to use you as a meal ticket, it pisses you off and you decide to try something else (white, latin, etc.), which of course causes these brothers to think less of black women. Not condoning but just saying…

Me on the other hand love my sisters. I have the most beautiful wife who is a black woman and cannot see myself with any other. Even if we were to divorce, I can only see myself with a black woman

Indian said it best…”Brown skin, up against my brown skin”

my bad, India

She should have been a stronger woman. No matter what a man has a woman need to make sure she always has her own. My mother taught me to alway keep a stash on the side, because you never know what tomorrow wil bring. As long as Tyrese takes care of his shorty, that’s all that matters. She should have played her cards better. Norma needs to go back home to her mama.

This is fair

Tyreese is a smart man. Its fair to say that was money well spent on a lawyer.

Opps, I meant I’m not saying as a diss, sorry !

Opps, I meant I’m not saying that as a diss, sorry !

My best friend is dark brown and her ex-husband is as well and they produced a lite bright child. Sadly, many black people think that this can’t happen and her husband was no different. He kept inside that he didn’t believe this child was his for 5 years until he couldn’t take it anymore. (By the way, this was the cause of the divorce) He got the DNA test and… “You are the father”… I don’t know about Tyrese’s daughter – I’m just pointing out that it can happen….

If she gets the 50,000 she better take it and flip it…

Norma meet Nathan!! lol. he should only pay to support the child and not the mom’s lifestyle. ten months isn’t enough time to get used to a lifestyle anyway. now i can set my plan hook black ty back into motion…

With what he will have to pay in child support, she won’t need any alimony, I am sure she will get full custody cuz he tours, etc.
He probably was going to buy her out quietly, but no, she got greedy.
She should have agreed to some arrangement and then gone on her merry way like Mel B/Eddie but she took it to court and made it public and lost big time.
And to all those sayin’ this is typical of black men/women: you don’t get out much. Whites do this on a much grander scale than we could ever hope to.

Coming from a real woman. Good for him just as long as he takes care of his baby.

I is a shame that black men are SO DAMN SELFISH. It is safe to conclude that this women should not get all of his fortune, but at least be fair in this situation. I doubt if he is going to take care of his daughter properly.Nothing good is going to come out of his evil acts.

ROFLMAO,

This chick needed Jean Strahan’s lawyer….

wow! she’s black

This was clearly a case of domestic violence. He went to England, picked up a chick, moved her over here, isolating her, and then kicked her to the curb! He’s crazy…somebody needs to put him on dontdatehimgirl.com.

gots to be more careful…

Poor Norma, she from da ends man I guess we gonna be seeing here around again, back at mum house init!

They were only married for 10 months and she defitenly does not deserve a cent of what he build up before he married her. She should take her 50,000 and hop on the first flight back to the UK.

Justice has been served. This lady is tired of all these women trying to get what is not theirs.

I always feel people should plan their wedding and their divorce even if it never gets to a divorce. It saves people a lot of grief.

Secondly, a woman should always have a plan B!!! It doesn’t matter what a man promises you. Men live by the moment and how he feels that moment may change in a second!!

Women have to be responsible for themselves as well as their children. There’s always a good chance that things will not work out and you’re left to fend for yourself and your child.

poor thang she gonna be coming back to these ends in UK…poor her what she gonn do god knows….but at least one thing she will be back claiming gorvenment benefits thats some good thing at least she can at least survive…..£60 a week aint bad if u got a house bills all apid for…thats how it is in UK if u dont work …thank god our queen gives us benefits to all of us with our island -England

Good for him. I guess she’ll be back in the UK living of some Tea and Crumpets.

Good. Tyrese is a good guy Get a job Norma he will take care of his daughter he has her everywhere

Tyrese is a typical fool. A fine as hell woman as his wife, beautiful baby daughter and he can’t settle with that? Ego, ego, ego. N**** don’t a good thing ’til it’s gone. He’ll probably die of an OD in 15 years time, broke and lonely. Time to let go of selfishness, egotism and bravado and PUT OUR FAMILIES FIRST PEOPLE.

It’s about damn time!! Also @ krakatoa, being fine does not make you a good woman or deserving of being a wife!

hahah funny as people blaming black men for their own problems hahaha people act like they know everything about ty and his ex wife haha

Dumb women Belive everything they see or read LOOL

Again I serously doubt it that Norma high tails it back to the UK she’ll stay here since she has her green card and her little girl is a U.S. citizen (she made sure of that), and go find that pizza guy who fathered her daughter, lol…

If Tyrese is unsure that this isn’t his : take a paternity test, that’s no brainer, lol…

Opps I meant if Tyrese is unsure that this child isn’t his sorry, lol…

just because his daughter is light doesnt mean that it aint tys daughter idiot norma has strong genes maby?

No I’m not a dumb ass, well then they both agree to take a paternity test then, right ? If not either Norma has some thing to hide: The pizza guy or Tyrese: He’s in denial, doesn’t care if the little girl is his or not, Ty would rather have a light bright daughter then one the same color as he is, lol….

Not to mention that Norma looks like a sneaky biaccccctttttttthhhhhhhhh, lol. And the pizza guy is laying low for a while, lol…

I feel you Marquis…

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I think in these times and days you got to be a fool not to get a prenup. even for the averge person we will lose more. And what it looks like to me, marriages do not last why lose everything and pay child support that just stupid.

by the way, do you know how much is guy richie gonna get from madonna???

ok, he got 77 millions from her! I GUESS HE IS A SERIOUS GOLDIGGER damn!

10 months not a damn thang….

I pray that this doesn’t make her bitter. Marriage is nothing to joke around with. There’s vows made strictlty to GOD involved, and if you don’t realize or fully understand that, you should not marry!

Why did they break up? Is this the same girl he beat down when she was pregnant? If so, she should get a settlement for that alone.

if you sign a pre-nump after a wedding date has been set and a venue held and people invited, your lawyer can try to argue that the contract was signed under duress and therefore making either party feel forced to do so. i would imagine that there were all sorts of issues that made Norma feel as if she had limited options. that being said, if it took have as long to marry as it did to divorce, people wouldn’t enter into it so foolishly. it actually takes more time to do a civil union that marry…interesting food for thought.

Norma can sign up and attend Itt Technical Institute and become an I.T. specialist, noooottttt !!!!!! First she must get her head screwed on tight, lol….

Entitled to……are you f*##@% kidding me!

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