Shar’s Advice to Britney

Posted on January 11th, 2008 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Britney Spears, News, Shar Jackson

Posted by Bossip Staff

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Shar Jackson wants Britney Spears to get it together:

“I’m just one of those people that believe you need to take care of yourself before you can take care of anybody else. My only advice would be take care of yourself. If you need help for whatever reason, go get it. Do whatever you have to do for those babies.”

Who is she fooling? Of course she would want Britney to get well. A stronger Britney means that K-Fraud has more alimony to take care of her kids.

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  • Superstar

    First Biatch

  • miss thang

    That is silly…maybe she just wants that heifa to get better so HER kids won’t have to be associated with their brothers crazy lady ass mama! Remember they are all connected now…

  • Jonesy

    FIRST!!! WOW

  • crazy black lady

    i agree. the more money gets the more money she gets…get paid sista

  • Jonesy

    NEVERMIND :( .. BUT WHY WULD SHE CARE HER AND K-FED AREN’T TOGETHER.. AND HOW COEM U NEVER SEE HIM WITH THEIR KIDS

  • NubianGoddez

    Coon of the day!!

  • It’sREALLYme

    WHAT?!?! Thanks Shar. I’m sure Britney wrote down everything YOU said.

  • Jay

    EXACTLY THE CASE… The more He get’s the more she gets… sit back Shar and enjoy the ride.

  • imrightdammit

    Shar is the LAST person that should be giving advice to ANYONE about ANYTHING. She just needs to practice keeping those legs closed and get a birth control patch.

  • getyourhandouttamypocket

    @imrightdammit

    COSIGN–I was just about to write the same thing before I read your comment

  • Aoki Lee

    Shar is 100% correct. Britney stole K-Fed while Shar was pregnant & Britney that skank was NOT worried about Shar’s health!

    Eff Britney that witch deserves every hard luck moment she’s living! My only sorrow is for her otherwise adorable little boys

  • weezy

    How old is she? I heard she has like 4 kids

  • V

    Why are people even reaching out to B. Spears? She needs to be left alone. When you’re that far gone the only person that can help you is you or damn near death.

    Shar needs to mind her business because her & nasty have something bad in common, K. Federline. She isn’t too far from Britney on a good day because they both fell in love with and had ‘chirren’ for a loser. How dumb is she to take her time & energy have that shirt made & then wear it? She’s probably obsessed with her and tipping off the paps & photogs.

    They are all some losers riding the Britney money train and they all better wish her well before it begans to run out.

    She makes an estimated $700K a month…how long will it be before those checks stop rolling in. She has a lot of liabilities & it’s sad how she just wrecks & changes those cars. (SMH)

    She’s stupid, Kevin is retarded & Shar is slow.

    *The blind leading the blind.

  • Aoki Lee

    Stop coming down on Shar her only mistake was trusting an un trustworthy man! K-Fed flew the coop & broke out with Britney cuz Britney had loot that’s all.

    Britney is stinky trash & she set out to hurt shar with no remorse!!

  • V

    She should change her name to Shar Spears, lol.

  • Kay Phillips

    Why is everyone all upset at Shar? Can one person give another good sound advice? She’s not saying anything nasty or untrue.

  • Gyrl

    LOL u all are a harsh bunch. From what i’ve heard, the marriage the kids everything was a setup! how many women do YOU know that would be as happy go lucky as Shar was when Kevin first left. They knew what they were doing.

    He’d leave for a minute, and stay married long enough to be eligible for alimony. All the while he was married to Brit Brit, Shar was still gettign paid and getting visits! there are even pics of her with Brits kids while they were still married!!

    Brits issue? She realized she got suckered…poor chick

  • jen

    @Kay Phillips, I agree. I believe that somewhere inside Shar is smiling about the entire ordeal but I also believe that she is sincere about Brit being there for her children. Only a mom would know best.

    Personally I don’t beleive that Brit is that out wack he latest video says it all. She was sane enough to know what to put in the video.

  • V

    @ Gyrl…

    How about I thought she got set-up too, still do. He was never faithful, but they never caught him w/anyone but Shar.

    Brit was mad in love & he did pretty much everything he could to push her to be the one to file for divorce – textbook.

    She would go back & forth about her feelings for him…she killed me when everything started going awry saying he was a good father…

    …I was feeling a ho sit down.

  • jen

    @gyrl that is Brits fault after awhile you learn from your mistakes and Brit has not taken notes from her own book. Hollywood is a very shady place and the same way Brit lead all the world to believe that she was a virgin and oh so innocent (which she wasn’t) is why she is in the situation she is in. You see Justine is not giving her the time of day. I would have taken advantage as well.

  • http://www.raidernation.com BROTHER M-DADDY AKA BROTHER RAIDERS OAK-TOWNS FINEST(LEADER OF THE NEW BLACK PANTHERS) MJB IS FREE POWER TO THE PEOPLE

    Shar could get it

  • http://None In the Name of Reason

    Shar is not stupid, she is wearing that shirt to mock Britney. I’m sure she’s thinking this is all karma.

  • Serious Sister

    There is only one word to explain Britney…KARMA!

    She has broken up several relationships over the years. Her aunt spoke out the other day about her “manic” episodes having been the problem since she was a teen, which is why she used to have so many handlers around her, maybe she ran Kfed off the deep end too.

  • Richard

    Everyone is so cynical but Kfed isn’t doing anything a lot of women have done.

    Hoving babies with people who make more money than you is not a crime.

    Each of these women could have chosen to take birth control …with or without his knowledge.

    The sad thing is ..he is probably a good father. He took his kids because he had to. He gave Brit chance after chance. Why is it hard to believe that Shar will not badmouth the father of her children?

    To do anything else would be classless.

  • Serious Sister

    Shar at least has class, she’s taking care of hers, every once in a while we all have to vent, she didn’t, at least give her credit for that.

    Shar’s little girl Kori shows up in a video snapped by x17 at Kevins house, it seems they go there although Shar is not famous and her kids are not news, it does not get reported like Britneys kids do, poor little guys will have camera phobia when they are older

  • me that’s who is bored

    im bored

  • Serious Sister

    mee too nothing popping today

  • V

    @ Storm…

    I’m feeling the STFU & add a ho sit down. As I stated…

    “Why are people even reaching out to B. Spears? She needs to be left alone. When you’re that far gone the only person that can help you is you or damned near death.”

    She has been to rehab, damn near jail, embarrassed herself, in & out of court, changed body guards, juggled managers, rehab again…Britney needs to help Brtiney.

  • PrettyMissSunshine

    @ KAY pHILLIPS

    DON’T YOU KNOW THIS IS THE SITE FOR HATERS!!! Shar didn’t say anything wrong except you need to get yourself together and be there for your kids. How is that wrong? Britney’s kids are brother and sisters of her own children, so I feel that the advice that she gave was good advice.

  • Serious Sister

    Do you ever wonder if this is all an act to keep her relevant and in the media? I know I do

  • http://None Reason

    Shut up Storm are you her mother, do you know her personally? Shut the f#$% up. She is trash and you know it. My sympathy left when she was out riding with friends and showing her a$$ everyday, when she should have been at court to keep her children. Get a damn grip.

  • Me

    >NubianGoddez<

    You said a word there with the “coon of the day” statement. How many little mixed children can Shar have with these dudes? And K just wants the little white babies, not hers. SMH.

  • Serious Sister

    Why hate on Shar anyway, she was the “victim” in the trainwreck, not the driver

  • PrettyMissSunshine

    @ buttafly

    I agree! Some People just like to add fuel to the fire.

  • V

    @ Everybody

    Do you think Britney would have taken this downward spiral if her comeback performance on MTV would have gone well?

    Just curious…

  • Serious Sister

    @V, yes, she has been having “manic” episodes for about 5 years now, this is the first time the public has seen what she is capable of. Her aunt stated in a article that as long as she had handlers controlling her movement, you never saw it.

  • jen

    @serioussister yes it is, publicity sells and brittanly is definately making her money and money for every publication and media outlet around. I said it already but I will say it again HER SECOND SINGLE SAYS IT ALL. She wrote that before all the madness happened so what is she really saying?

  • 504WhoNdHellLeftdGateOpen

    me that’s who is bored

    im bored

    ^^^^

    ANYONE UP FOR A GAME OF BASKETBOLL ??

  • V

    She’ll get right if somebody gives her some Paxil or Welbutrin…not a game.

    Not (pause) a (pause) game.

  • PRTTYBRWNGIRL

    Do you think Britney would have taken this downward spiral if her comeback performance on MTV would have gone well?

    *****************************************************

    i honestly think that she would have .. she’s on drugs all the time or bi polar (is the latest excuse). in all her photo ops that girl looks like she is high as a kite .. she is obviously not liking her life right now and using the drugs and alcohol as sort of escapism .. but she is an addict and needs to be able to own up to it, and seek help. she’s been being allowed to run wild for too long so at this point she’ll probably just self destruct.

  • http://www.viewparkonline.com Angie

    Sorry – That is $15K per kid, so he gets $30K a month. If she had not lost her damn mind, K-Fed would be getting $0 right now.

  • Kay Phillips

    @V – you know, I wondered the very same thing. I actually think that if her comeback performance went well her situation would not have gotten worse. I don’t think she would’ve returned to being cutesy teeny bopper Britney, but i don’t think she would be this volatile!

  • Momo

    Back in the day, we called a shape like her Bad Body. She’s shaped like an arrow going up.

  • PRTTYBRWNGIRL

    @ ANGIE …

    thats what i said .. whoever wrote that is a retard .. but i heard on E one night he getting 750K a month from her

  • Manhattan

    gyrl said…

    “Brits issue? She realized she got suckered…poor chick”

    ————————

    Poor chick?? How the heck is that skeezoid the poor one- you’re being funny right? Britney liked Kevin when he danced background for her. Another dancer advised her that he was in a committed relationship & that his BM was preggers but did that stop skanky britney oooh noooo!

    And the trip part is this was not the 1st time britney did this!!! Britney stole another sista’s man while the sista was preggers!

    Britney didn’t care if either of these women miscarried due to the stress of their men cheating.

    So…. EFF BRITNEY & MAY SHE STEW IN THE HELL SHE CREATED FOR HERSELF FOREVER!!!!

  • Momo

    Do you think Britney would have taken this downward spiral if her comeback performance on MTV would have gone well?

    **********************

    Unfortunately, she has that child star curse. She was gonna hit rock bottom regardless.

  • Anonymous3

    all she did was offer the girl some advice…dang…I mean atleast she didn’t say something nasty afterall K-Fed did leave her 8 months pregnant to get with Britney….her advice is sound…Britney has issues and can’t possible take care of her kids until she addresses the problems she has…right now homegirl is in Mexico with her latest Paparazzi boyfriend…that girl is gone!!!

  • V

    @ Kay & Pretty Brown….

    I agree. I think she may be on something, but not taking it correctly or following doctors orders…she looks loopy & hopped up on something. Her test came back negative for drugs – street drugs.

    Those type are some powerful drugs. She is unstable, her affect goes from being labile & flat to erratic & unpredictable. After last week it’s speculated that she is taking something though. I don’t know why – you could have been able to tell she was zooted.

    Then she was poppin ex with Diddy….

  • Anonymous3

    @ V

    someone was saying that Britney may be bi-polar…the systems you mentioned are signs of someone who may be bi-polar and when you mix that with alcohol or illegal or prescriptions drugs that just intensifies the behavior…we all need to stay tuned….she may be diagnosed if she sit her behind still and let someone help her out.

  • Manhattan

    Angie your wedding photo {if that’s you} looks really nice!

  • Serious Sister

    I really believe some Dr is giving her drugs just like Anna Nicole, she seems up and down so much it makes no sense

  • PrettyMissSunshine

    MJB

    Do you really think the real Keyshia would choose such an ugly ass picture?

    _____________________________________________________

    @ MJB

    LOL. I haven’t laughed at something on this site for about 3 days. But that was actually funny, especially after I looked at the picture. (Laughing again)

  • V

    @ Anonymous…

    Ok? Any sane person would care or try to hide their emotions from the public. Most of the emotions she shows are erratic and/or crying.

    I know family is important, but as a female w/great friends I must ask…

    Where are her damned friends?

    People underestimate the power of good, strong, real relationships that aren’t with family members.

  • http://www.raidernation.com BROTHER M-DADDY AKA BROTHER RAIDERS OAK-TOWNS FINEST(LEADER OF THE NEW BLACK PANTHERS) MJB IS FREE POWER TO THE PEOPLE

    @Mary J Blige

    Sorry about your ass

  • Anonymous3

    ^^^

    @ Mary J. Blige

    ..I don’t know if you are the “real” Mary J. Fraud or the MJB Fraud times 2 but your post..you post…ROTFLMAO!!! hilarious…watch out though cuz Mary J. Fraud will not be pleased that you are posting under her favorite starrahh!!!

  • V

    @ Anonymous3

    ….are you channeling Cephus & Reesie? Lol…

  • http://www.theblackactor.com/ Baby Please

    She may wish Britney well, but I’m sure Shar is interested in preserving her own self interests as well.

    http://www.theblackactor.com

  • Straight…no chaser

    Mary J. Blige you are too funny for words girl!

  • PrettyMissSunshine

    who’s did what to who’s ass? huh? I’m lost!! I just keep seeing the word ass!!

  • Dalia

    If y’all can’t tell that isn’t the “real” MJB, then shame on you.

  • http://yahoo.com Southern Belle 225

    I think Shar and K-fed been in on this. I think K-fed and Shar planned it. They were like…”ok, you marry her and get her to push out some babies. then, she’ll go mad when you leave her and you will get the kids and she’ll have to pay you and our whole family will be living large”!

  • http://www.myspace.com/birdshu Bird

    Kevin isn’t getting alimony.

  • V

    @ Dalia…

    Lol, damn, & stop.

  • PrettyMissSunshine

    I am not understanding the people who are jumping on shar for not using birth control. That was her live in boyfriend who she chose to have kids by. She is taking care of her kids with or without K-fed, and regardless if Shar wanted to have 1000 kids, as long as she is being a good mother and can take of them emotionally, finicially, and be a positive role model to them why should any of you care how many kids she has and whethere or not shes on birth control. and if anything, yall need to telling Britney to get on birth control. She keeps having these kids and keeps losing custody of them. I don’t see Shar going back and forth fighting for custofy of her children. OH ok!!!

  • Lauren

    I think that the media is causing the law to blow this out of proportion, Britney obviously (to me) cares about her kids that is why she was carrying on when someone tried to come get them I think everyone should leave her alone, and she needs to be smart enough to get the hell outta dodge and away from it all why she keep giving them something to talk about?

  • Dalia

    @ PrettyMissSunshine:

    Sorry, girl. I didn’t know that you had a bunch of them, too!!!!

    And Shar doesn’t have to fight for custody of her kids cause K-Fraud doesn’t wan’t them. Seen any pictures of them with him lately? Hmmm? I didn’t think so.

    You and Shar can keep on crankin’ them out. May the force and the epidural be with you.

  • Lauren

    LMBAO @ Dalia….

  • Tired of hearing about these BROADS!!

    First, men don’t get stolen, they leave by their own free will, they ultimately make the choice to leave a relationship. Second, K-Fed is a lame and I don’t know why either Shar or Britney made such a fuss over him. Shar is cool and everything, but she needs to mind her business and as for Britney, we all know that chick needs psychiatric help.

  • http://www.viewparkonline.com Angie

    @Manhattan – Angie your wedding photo {if that’s you} looks really nice!

    ———–

    No, it’s not me. It’s Princess Angela Lichenstein at her wedding to the Prince. I am getting married and I want her dress, so I use it as my Gravatar. It will be me one day, except the groom will be brown too.

  • PrettyMissSunshine

    @ Dalia

    your an idiot. I see why people are jumping the fence to get away from idiotic comments and people such as yourself. Yeah, I have a bunch ok kids too.

    Anyway, as I said before she can have as many kids as she wants, as long as she can provide for them with or without their father. Now Your mother, on the other hand should have used birth control!!! or your father should have left you on your mothers stomach!!! Getting off of work. Have a great weekend everyone, even you Dalia!!! :-)

  • Dalia

    @ PrettyMissSunshine:

    Girl, if you had opened your mouth to take your birth control pills as much as you do to talk trash, you wouldn’t have a bunch of kids.

    Don’t get me wrong. I believe that kids are a gift from God. But it is just downright irresponsible to crank out a bunch of kids like that. Her stint on Moesha didn’t pay that much!

    To top everything off, she moves a non-working dancer and wannabe rapper in with her and she supported him. And what did he do? Left her pregnant ass for crazy Britney.

    FYI…Playing the dozens is so juvenile. But that’s what people do when they can’t give a reasonable answer to something.

  • PrettyMissSunshine

    @ Dalia

    Girl, have a good weekend, its friday.I really don’t care about this bullcrap cause at the end of the day she living hers, you living yours and I’m living mines!!! Don’t have any kids yet but when I do, you’ll be the first person I’ll inform. :-)

  • Dalia

    LOL @ PrettyMissSunshine:

    You have a nice weekend too.

  • Anonymous3

    @V

    why was I just thinking about Ceefus and Reecy a couple of days ago…in all their afro glory!!!

  • capila

    ho sit down

  • STEFANY

    THAT’S RIGHT SHAR KEEP SMILING,

    NOW WHO LOOKS LIKE THE DAMN FOOL…BRITTANY’S SUCH A DUMB ASS, WHAT KIND OF WOMAN GETS ENGAGED TO A MAN WITH A PREGNANT GIRLFRIEND…SHE TOOK KEVIN FROM SHAR WHILE SHE WAS PREGNANT NOW LOOK AT THE STUPID HO!

  • PRTTYBRWNGIRL

    ok yall so i ***HOPPED THE FENCE*** and was sorely disappointed. that simple ass site .. with itty bitty tiny pictures and it looked it was designed by 1st graders who had their first computer class. it left much to be desired and it took forever for the page to load .. i could tell what was actual content and what were advertisement.

  • TT

    If Shar is getting Brit’s money how about she gets a shirt that FITS so we can read what she is trying to say!!!!!!!!! She is WACK

  • WakeUpCall

    Shar needs to shut the f.uck up. She should be kissing Brit’s arse. If it wasn’t for the douche bag k-fraud hooking up with Brit, shar would have faded into oblivion and nobody would have been asking her s.hit She’s just waiting in the wings to see how much money k-fraud can get to help her support her kids. shar is fake as hell with blue eye contacts and fake boobs.

  • playlist

    shar is a sellout with no goals and no aspirations

    fact

  • HA

    Shar needs to sit her dumb ass down. She just glad to be receiving money from K-Fraud. Shar sitting back laughing at BRIT.

  • EDDIE AND TRACEY MAKE ONE FINE BLACK POWER CUTE COUPLE

    When I see Shar, when I hear about Shar…I just want Britney to get better, hook up with Timberlake…get married…settle down PROPERLY and reclaim back her children of the worst FREELOADING MONEY GRABBING CHILD USERS EVERRRRRRRRR!!!

  • http://www.myspace.com/birdshu Bird

    Shar should probably keep her comments to herself. Did Kevin give her permission to speak on his behalf? Just because they have a good co-parent relationship doesn’t mean she should be entertaining the press’ questions about Keven and Brittney’s situation.

  • truth

    Shar is jealous because Britney is beautiful, will have a place in pop culture forever, and the love of her fans. What has Shar Jackson done? Moesha? All That? She is a washed up has been. Britney can do whatever she wants and still make millions! She is also being paid to create distraction news.

  • EDDIE AND TRACEY MAKE ONE FINE BLACK POWER CUTE COUPLE

    Rachel, Britney is paying for Shars contacts lolol

  • EDDIE AND TRACEY MAKE ONE FINE BLACK POWER CUTE COUPLE

    Shar has stretch marks on her tits…sorry you cant get worst than that lololol

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WlWNBCPkiWQ leave it be

    are you serious? shar needs to be somewhere with her 5 babies. seriously

  • truth

    @ Rachel- Shar Jackson is skinny??? At least Britney did not have her first child when she was 14.

  • truth

    @Rachel- That is why there was a pre-nup and Britney is not responsible for any children K-Fed had before he was with Britney. Why do you think he wants those children so bad? K-Fed is cheap. I doubt he is sharing anything with Shar except child support. He is not even with her. He was dating a PlayBoy model!!

  • truth

    Britney has a beautiful body. I personally think she looks better than ever and she has had two kids. You wish you could look half as good as Britney.

    Face it: Southern White Girls Do It Better!

  • truth

    Britney has more money than you could dream of anyway. The money she gives to K-fed is like nothing to her. If he did not have custody of the kids, he would be getting nothing because his spousal support ended a year after they got divorced. Do your homework!

  • truth

    She is laughing at them all the way to the bank. If Shar was so ballin’ out of control, how come she has to degrade herself by going on Celebrity Rap Superstar?

  • truth

    @ California- You really need to get a life instead of writing that long of a response.

  • http://www.myspace.com/birdshu Bird

    California Pixie

    Brit was spiraling down hill long before Kevin. While we have never learned why, Justin left her for reasons that were bad enough for him to release a song about her crying him a river. She allowed paps to take photos of her in a hotel room balconey with then married Columbus Short who was also one of her dancers. Then she married some random dude who probably had a girl. Then she did the same thing with Kevin that she did with Columbus. Now she is running around town with a married paparazzi.

    I think her mental illness makes it so that she feels good about herself when she can steal someone’s man. Kevin didn’t cause this.

  • California Pixie

    @Truth

    Claw your eyes out and don’t read it…

  • truth

    @ Bird- If she was out of control, how come she is rich? An out of control person would be broke. Worry about your own selves and stop hating beautiful, talented people.

  • http://www.myspace.com/birdshu Bird

    Truth

    She is rich because her parents knew how to pimp her out in Hollywood. The minute she became and adult in charge of her own business she lost it. If she doesn’t get help sooner than later, the money will be gone too. Money isn’t everything. Just ask Brit’s children.

    Did the racists come over here from TMZ? Please go back. You sound crazy calling Shar names. Her children have a loving mother.

  • truth

    Sure. If she loved them so much she would try to make sure they have a father. I have no respect for women that have children by multiple fathers. How do you know she loves them? Do you know her personally?

  • truth

    She is also a business women now on her own.

  • truth

    I also never called Shar any name.

  • truth

    I do think she is butt ugly though.

  • http://www.myspace.com/birdshu Bird

    Your precious Britney isn’t with the father of her children anymore so if she has more children, they will have a differant father. Will you hate her like Shar then? Shar is raising her children. Britney can’t even get it together enough to visit hers. Does your mother know the type of people you look up to? God bless you sweetie.

  • http://www.myspace.com/birdshu Bird

    truth

    She is also a business women now on her own.

    *************************************************

    What business? Britney is living off of money she made in the past.

  • California Pixie

    @Bird

    She’s definitely out of control and we’ll probably never know all the contributing factors. I completely forgot about the balcony picture with the dancer. I didn’t really notice how out of sorts she actually was until after she had the babies. I honestly just thought she was just being young and very dumb prior to that.

  • California Pixie

    Britney can dance her ass off but she has no vocal abilities at all. Period.

  • California Pixie

    @Rachel

    Co-sign revenge is a dish be served cold AND BY A WOMAN…

  • truth

    @ She has never lived in a trailer. She has a new perfume out, two old ones that she is still making money off of, and a new album that made it to number one. She is also driving a Mercedes Benz and owns two mansions. I do not see how that is bad or crazy. Have fun living with your parents and taking the bus.

  • truth

    Also, she loves her children and does not want them around Kevin Federline. That is why she wants them drug tested because she smelled weed on them. Also, when she was in the hospital no drugs were found in her system. Britney will have money for years to come to support her children. Shar Jackson will end up another broke, single mother. IT AMAZES ME HOW THE BLACK COMMUNITY IS QUICK TO JUDGE SOMEBODY HARMLESS LIKE BRITNEY SPEARS, BUT CAN FIND A MILLION REASONS TO JUSTIFY O.J. BRUTALLY MURDERING NICOLE BROWN AND RON GOLDMAN. SICK, SICK, SICK!

  • truth

    One more thing, she did not want to give her kids back which is why she ended up in the hospital and lost visitations.

  • cybergurl07

    Okay yall, here is my take on it all. First of all Shar was pregnant when Kfed left her for Brittany. And if I recall it correctly she didn’t even know she was getting dumped until she read it online or in the paper. They already had a little girl I don’t think the baby was even 2 AND she was pregnant. So if she was hating on Brittany hell I can’t blame her. I mean put yourself in her shoes. You gotta lil’ man ch white chick. I’d be pissed. Emotionally it’s hard. He leaves your for the rich chick. add in the fact Shar was big and pregnant at the time, it’s extra f@#$3d up because the relationship was on blast everywhere. We couldn’t turn on the t.v. internet,radio or nothing without hearing about them. Think how she felt. I’m talking to all the women on this site. Your man leaves you while your pregnant(big and showing) for a rich chick who is known all over the world. And he didn’t even have the balls to be a man he let it comen out on in the press. Ain’t that some s#$t! But I’m going to tell you about a strong black woman. Baby I know her family had to have her back because you never saw her broke down or crying. She was always smiling. But you know the saying you gotta smile sometimes to keep from crying. I know that girl cried many a night. But she had a strong mama or auntie telling her girl you bet not hold your head down, or let them see you broken. Because that’s what I would have told my daughter or my niece. And something else is I have never heard Shar say anything bad about Kfed as a father. She always says he’s a good father. But Brittany was a home wrecker I don’t care if shar and kfed wasn’t married they had a family together. And to the person who thinks Brittany is a good mother. A good mother will jump throuhg the hoops for her kids. If the judge says be here at 3 a good mama is at the courthouse at 2 cause ontime is late. Ya dig? I’m not saying she don’t love her babies but her priorties are screwed up. When you know your head is messed up and you know you got kids you get some damn help because you know you gotta be strong for your babies. So yeah Shar might be taking some digs at Brittany but their not as bad as they could be and sh@# Brittany had it coming.

  • California Pixie

    @ Cyburgurl07

    Yeah I dig. If there was any kind of custody situation in regards to my daughter I would sleep in my car in the court parking lot and be the first one up in the mother even if my hearing wasn’t until 3pm. I’d sit in the judges courtroom during other open cases just to let him know I was there and ready to go the extra mile.

    We all go through trying times. But what’s matters most is how well you walk through fire.

  • California Pixie

    @Truth

    Building a mansion “Serenity” isn’t a huge expense and an SLK Merecedes starts at mere $45k. It doesn’t matter how much money she makes or has at present. Being friviolous, maintaining an unnecessary entourage, supporting relatives, marrying then divorcing a person that brought nothing financially or asset-wise to the relationsip, paying child support to the tune of $30k a month, making albums that don’t sell, and buying properties (and not recalling where they are located) will start to hit your pockets.

    By the way, what’s up with Ms. Lynn Spears parenting book. When does that hit the bookstores? As the mother of a 14 year old high school sophomore who maintains a 4.0 GPA, takes 3 AP classes I’m certain Ms. Spears parenting advice will be invaluable and immediately turn around my poor parenting.

  • California Pixie

    I left out building a mansion in Louisiana isn’t a huge expense. California is a different story land and construction expenses are astronomical.

  • truth

    Why do you care so much? Without Googling, I bet you can not name one presidential candidate besides Hillary Clinton, Barack Obama, or Rudy Giuliani. You probably do not even know what The Patriot Act is and why Obama chose to extend it. Britney Spears, this crazy person you believe her to be, is a media creation made to take the public’s minds of of what really matters. She is getting paid for acting the way she does and people like you fall into the trap by coming on a celebrity gossip site. I am also on here, so you could say I fit into that too, but I know the truth. I do not spend my time worrying about people who have it all. Oh, and FYI- I highly doubt you have $45 K and she drives an SLR NOT an SLK. You are a couple 100 K off. The thing that bothers me is that nobody has answered my question yet. Why do Blacks in this country defend a man like O.J. who murders his wife (regardless of the color of her skin. She is still being disrespected on this site by being called trash ) while his children are in the next room sleeping, but somebody like Britney Spears (who is an entire act) is the devil?

  • truth

    Nicole was still a human being as was Ron Goldman- black or white. Why can she not be left to rest in peace? Why do people still defend an evil man like O.J.? Why is he talked about at all? I could understand why this site wants to report it, but they try to switch it around and blame his ‘evilness’ on his attraction to white, blonde women instead of blaming him.

  • truth

    If that is not racism, I do not know what is. If Nicole Brown was a Black woman, I guarantee you, Black journalists on this site would NOT continue to make jokes about O.J. and make him out to be this innocent guy who is harassed for no reason at all except for his race.

  • truth

    People also need to stop blaming parents for the actions their adult children and even teenage children do. There comes a time when a child starts seeing the world for his or her own self. Lynne Spears’ book was never intended to be a parenting book, but a memoir on her life has been the past few years as a manager mom and the issues that come with being in the public eye. She has said this over and over again.

  • pokerchik

    I think Bootylicious hit it right on the head. Of course spending someone else’s money is always better than spending your own, but i think Shar’s still in love with Kevin, and sadly, she’d take him back in a heartbeat. I think what goes on with Britney is her business, because her kids and Brit’s kids are brothers and sisters, and the kids do interact with each other. Is she ‘friends’ with Britney ? Hell naw..but she knows it’s better to keep your enemies close. She’s also smart enough not to trash Britney to the media. Doing so would make her look like she’s glad about what’s happening, and that wouldn’t sit well with Kevin at this time.

    Britney’s story is a cautionary tale for parents who want their kids to be stars at any cost. Don’t forget that this is the same person who’s mom allowed her to get breast implants when she was still a teenager, and i don’t mean 18. Teenagers should NEVER control a household or a family because of their money, and that’s what i think happened here..with Lindsay too, but i digress..

    Yeah, Brit’s really sick. My guess is a dual diagnosis..bipolar and substance abuse. Not a cute combination. Lack of both good judgement and impulse control are hallmarks of that combination. So are mood swings and serious depression. Some depakote and wellbutrin would do her good..if she can come off and stay off of the drugs and drink.

    I don’t think this downward spiral started with Kevin. It started with the break-up with Justin, and the fact that 1) Justin wouldn’t take her azz back, and 2) he told the whole world the story of why they broke up (read: REAL humiliating for her). Maybe if she hadn’t screwed one of their mutual friends (as well as someone they both worked with); and if the friend hadn’t thrown it up in Justin’s face (read: humiliating), they could’ve worked it out. Oh well..you know it’s hard out here for a Ho. Good luck Brit.

  • California Pixie

    @Truth

    For the record, I received my undergrad degree in Sociology from UCLA, graduate degree in Social Sciences from UC Irvine (which is where I live). My husband is president/CEO of his own company. Oh did I mention my husband is Ecuadorian. Yeah we’re mutted up.

    I drive a BMW 750LI so please. My bad, you are correct it’s a SLR which starts around $96k.

    The book is about raising her children and has been put on hold indefinitely per the publisher.

    I have never defended OJ and am probably one of the few people in this country who didn’t watch one minute of his highly publicized trial nor the aftermath. I couldn’t give a damn about him. He made his bed hard. If a woman divorces leave her the hell alone and take a hint and get some extensive counseling. Learn to let go.

    Let’s see McCain, Paul, Obama, Edwards, Clinton, Giuliani, Huckabee, Thompson(??), there are four more but I can’t pull their names…Romney, Gravel and…damn I tried.

    Parents are more than partially to blame when their adult children derail. If you keep them in check when they are younger, provide structure and discipline those behaviors stick. Sure, they may get into a little something here or there.

    If you Britney has had hints of mental illness (namely Bipolar Disorder) since youth had her parents started her on lithium or depakote at a young age part of her routine would have been taking her meds. Hence, she would not be in this situtation unless she made an executive decision to all of a sudden stop taking it.

    My bipolar is in full effect so your discussion points were addressed in order and I may have missed one or two. But, I’m Black what can I say

  • lovely and amazing

    Shar and Kevin planne this whole thing. An out of work actress and out of work back up dancer with four mouths to feed (she has two before her two with Kevin)they let him be with Britney. Britney may be cheap but she’s not street. She was no match for schemeing Kfed and his silly “ex” Shar. He took Britney’s kids to Shar’s house for Thanksgiving. All these people live off that girl and made her lose her mind. He turned her on to drugs and now she’s lost her kids to him because of it. Everything turned out just like Kfed and Shar planned. $100,000 a month in child support to live off will make some folks (Shar) forgive anything.

  • Dalia

    Those two don’t have enough brains between them to plan anything. This is simply a case of a dumb “has been” black actress + a pathetic excuse of a white rapper + a retarded, trailer-trash white girl = a BIG MESS!!!

    Don’t feel sorry for these fools; feel sorry for the innocent children who have to call them parents.

  • lovely and amazing

    I don’t know wgo Christ Toker is and I am not a fan of Britney’s. Never have been. But she as taken advantage of by kfed and shar does benefit.

  • lovely and amazing

    sorry typos. i dont know who chris toker is and i am not a fan of britney’s. never have been. but she was taken advantage of by kfed and shar does benefit.

  • http://www.gravatar.com big_juicy

    sorry but i ain’t listening to a woman with 4 kids, no man, no career, and he was left in her 3rd trimester by a whitr=e boy.

  • DIAMONDCHEERS

    Everyone is so cynical but Kfed isn’t doing anything a lot of women have done.

    Hoving babies with people who make more money than you is not a crime.

    Each of these women could have chosen to take birth control …with or without his knowledge.

    The sad thing is ..he is probably a good father. He took his kids because he had to. He gave Brit chance after chance. Why is it hard to believe that Shar will not badmouth the father of her children?

    To do anything else would be classless.

    ————————————————-

    100% co sign! took the words right out my mouth

  • metis

    I just cant believe that the day will come when you put Shar and Britney in the same sentance.

    oh Britney,your status is so low nowdays thanks to your ex dude.

  • truth

    @California Pixie- Whatever. Everybody drives a BMW or a Mercedes on this site, is a millionaire, and/or a CEO. I could come on here and say I am whoever. Actually, the car Britney drives, the SLR McLarin is around $400K. Another thing, everybody wants to keep saying Britney has Bipolar disorder. First off, all Bipolar disorder is, is a fancy name for manic depression, which by the way anybody can get put into a category or mental health. Lithium is a terrible, strong, dangerous drug which should only be taken in severe cases of mental disorder and even then, it is still not good. I am not a doctor, but I have studied medicine and I know that people who take Lithium have to get their blood checked often. Levels of Lithium in your blood can get toxic. Personally, I think sick people like Kevin Federline who get off on watching others suffer should be locked away and drugged up. That is just me though.

  • Connie

    Britney and Shar have one thing in common. They both have a weakness for the bad boys. – So they both got what they deserve.

  • California Pixie

    @ Truth

    Be there done that. I know about Bipolar Disorder…PERSONALLY and am not embarrassed to let anyone know about it. So you’re preaching to the choir. Medications used for depression and ADHD work much better but all of that is dependent on a persons chemical make-up. It takes a good no an excellent behavior specialist and years to find the right combination of medications.

    I’m too old to come on a gossip site and make stuff up. I come on here for fun, to catch up on black gossip and have crazy conversations because living in the Irvine/Tustin Ranch area there aren’t many of us (Blacks or Hispanics).Why don’t you Google that…

  • California Pixie

    @Nelly

    I loved some Anna Nicole. She had her problems but she always came across as caring and just wanting to be loved. Danielyn is such a cutie.

    Everyone has a lot to say about the Shar, Britney, Kevin triangle reading through all the post can make you flip flop. All I can say in reading yours she dropped a lot of money on ole boy…that was the whip appeal. The “golden ticket” maternity tee now I forgot about that.

  • cybergurl07

    @nelly dammmmnnnnn! Whew I feel ya though! I am totally on Shar’s side. I didn’t know they had been toghether for 5 years that’s a longtime. Brittany did this to herself. Shar is not to blame here. I still say these women on here know that if they were in Shar’s shoes they would gloat just a little bit. And by some of these post on here some of them would do more, some would have probably stomped a mudhole in Brittany’s behind. Or would have been the babymama from hell. Shar is playing her cards right. And for the record I agree Brittany is not talented. She’s a half way decent looking white girl. There are other white chicks who are way more talented, she just had the right people to push her. She can’t dance. 1 2 3 turn jump etc. That’s not dancing, Janet Jackson, can dance Ciara that’s dancing. Real dancing to me is let’s put on a track and see how you get down. Without a choreographer Brittany can’t dance. And we ain’t gone talk about that howling that people are calling singing. Oooops my bad she can hook it up in the studio. pleazeeee. There are so many real talented young women out here. I’m not even going to talk about the numbers of talented young black women who get looked over for no talents like her. I couldn’t even tell you the last time an idia arie record was played on the radio out here in Cali where i’m from. We need real talent to come back. But even after all that mess I just talked about the chick, I hope she gets some help. I don’ want to see her end up like Anna Nicole. But it gets hard to feel sorry for her when she won’t help herself. I’ve heard she’s down in Mexico with her new boytoy a photo journalist. This ain’t looking good.

  • http://muchlove4mickeyaol.com 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals

    Shar needs to sit her ass down!!!! The only reason she’s anywhere NEAR relevant is because of Britney! She would’ve impressed me if she didn’t take back that sorry ass K-Fed!

    Oh well–What people do for m-o-n-e-y!

    And somebody need to tell her to get rid of those damn fake a$$ contacts! A hot ghetto mess with them ugly ass kids!

    Yes I typed it! Them ugly ass kids! Shar’s probably one of them disillusioned sistas that THOUGHT havin’ a baby by a white man would equate to pretty babies! NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lmao!!!!!!

  • http://muchlove4mickeyaol.com 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals

    BTW– Just think for a minute….

    Now ask yourself this–if she wasn’t with K-Fed would she be news? No! Look at her acting buddy Brandy. She’s really trying to be relevant but it’s not working! Lol!!!

    **putting nasty remarks aside**

    I would’ve been more respectful of her if she took the high rode and left Kevin alone. I don’t have too much sympathy for women that do not have enough self-esteem to pick themselves up and go for their own instead of settling–perhaps feeling like she can’t do any better than THAT sorry Mofo!

  • http://muchlove4mickeyaol.com 1TruDiva w/The PlatinumVocals

    By looking at some of these comments, I see my point has been proven. I see Shar/Britney. Yeah, Britney in the news for a whole bunch of reason’s but Shar aint on of ‘em. I’m not a fan of Britney or K-Fed either but when you hear about Britney it isn’t because of K-Fed. Hell, Britney’s the only reason he’s in the news–because of his relationship to her. If it wasn’t for that–who he?? Lol! The same thing is going to happen to Britney’s sister-baby-daddy!

  • EDDIE AND TRACEY MAKE ONE FINE BLACK POWER CUTE COUPLE

    To be honest Britney STOLEN kev of Shar…I mean that was when Brits was hot, and on fire…could one compete? If I were Shar, I would exact every ounce of revenge POSSIBLE lololol Though I pity those children!

  • Whatchaknoaboutdat?

    I just know that Shar is lhao at Brit!!!

    I would too.

  • truth

    Sure, she started taking ballet when she was 3, she can not dance. HATERS!!! Keep hating and wishing harder, maybe you will become white.

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  • Curly Fries

    truth

    Sure, she started taking ballet when she was 3, she can not dance. HATERS!!! Keep hating and wishing harder, maybe you will become white.

    *********

    In response to your last sentence, no thanks! However, I’m LMBAO watching Britney make a damned fool of herself in front of the nation…you know, I’m glad she’s white! BWAHAHAHAHA!!!

  • truth

    That is why her performance at the VMAs is the only thing you can remember.

  • truth

    Face it- she stole the show. People like her can afford to mess up. I personally thought she looked hot. A lot hotter than this big, obese Black women. Oh, and if you want to get all technical, Britney is like 50 pounds lighter than all these women of color you see in Black men’s magazines such as KING.

  • California Pixie

    @Cybergurl07

    Where n Cali r u?

  • Lindsay

    I saw her hot pics at the singles club mixedfriends.com. Ya know it’s a great place for singles seeking romance and relationships.

  • EDDIE AND TRACEY MAKE ONE FINE BLACK POWER CUTE COUPLE

    Truth said she is a better dancing than Janet jackson….LOLOLOL PMSL LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL What absolute RUBBISH!

    Janet didnt need to PAY some person to teach her how to dance, she was born in a household with on of the best dancers that has graced this earth MICHEAL JACKSON…Go on tell me, Timberlake is a better dancers than Micheal Jackson…even at his old peado age…WHITE PEOPLE EH!

  • lovely and amazing

    @ Gyrl

    You said it perfectly. Kevin and Shar set this whole thing up. Now they are both paid, possibly for life if he keeps full custody. Well put, Britney realized she got suckered and basically lost her mind.

  • lovely and amazing

    @ True Diva

    Very funny. The contacts do have to go and no one wants to admit that those kids are just not cute.

  • Curly Fries

    truth

    Face it- she stole the show. People like her can afford to mess up. I personally thought she looked hot. A lot hotter than this big, obese Black women. Oh, and if you want to get all technical, Britney is like 50 pounds lighter than all these women of color you see in Black men’s magazines such as KING.

    **********

    She stole the show, eh? Someone should have stolen it from her! It’s good that you have so much faith in her; even other white people refer to her as “a white trash train wreck”.

    As for your remark about the bodyweight issues of Black females, it’s such statements that fuel the need of young white girls to be bone thin. With anorexia and bulimia running rampant in white America, you are merely trying to fit into the “standard of beauty” that your society has created for you. Mary Kate, are you listening?

  • Ashley Seales

    Can someone please comment on the size of her sweater puppets? D-d-d-d-daaaam!

  • C.R.

    oh, she got the last laugh by being on a show for f-listers and has beens???

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