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second finally!

@ no. 3 on the list

So why is Paul in this story?

looks like sound advise

“sally gotta one track mind…..it doesnt matter if its yours or mine…. ”

yall know the rest!

$moK.E.Y….

Hi Dear!! Can you post the list? XOXOX!!

lol i read the list and the kardashians came to mind.

#9 is common sense.

@nicki

Who wrote this? I bet he has no money AND gets limited amounts of p*ssy….

LOL @ 9. But a lot of this is common sense, really. These rich guys need to be less superficial in the mates they pick and there wouldn’t be as much trouble. Some of them go after these golddigging types. And that’s his problem if he doesn’t want to wear a condom. These men need to use their brains when dating these types of women.

These rich men need to test these broads. Take her to the Golden Corral buffet and then a trip to Marshall’s or Old Navy. If she don’t like it then she can step. But I know the ego is too big for that.

I wonder if they have a version of this written for women to be aware of male goldiggers. I really think that is more prevalent in today’s society. How many women out there are working 2 jobs while the man is sitting on the couch and won’t take a job “that’s beneath him”. That’s a golddigger too. This is not a racial comment. It occurs in all groups.

choc

you’re right, and i don’t know why women put up with men like that, get rid of them !

*it ain’t y’all*

@ marquis

love how you correct your typos !

What is ‘lipstick alley message board?’ And what are the baby strategies. LOL

Wow Marquis…ouch!

I would not say that the Kardasians are gold diggers because they have money of their own. If i had money, i would not date someone that does not have anything close to what I have. I would say they are “groupies” though.

When they are referring to hair weaves are they talking about white women as well? They wear extensions too!

These men who get duped by gold diggers are not making wise choices. They define women according to their physical attributes. They don’t care to look past the exterior. They are not interested in getting to know the woman’s true character.

They want a woman who looks good on their arm like the latest fashion. If they took time to get to know the woman’s character they will see that she is superficial, and only interested in his finances.

It is foolish to solely blame the woman when they get duped. They could of prevented being misled by getting acquainted with the woman on friendly terms instead of having intimate relations first then go searching for clues to prove she is a gold digger. It is only a matter of time before her flaws come to light and he can make that determination that she is the wrong choice.

@ JUST WANNA KNOW

LIPSTICK ALLEY IS A GOSSIP SITE FOR WOMEN ONLY PRETTY MUCH, BUNCH OF ANNOYING B*TCHES, IVE CHECKED IT OUT BEFORE, WON’T EVER GO BACK !

@ Darkesthourglass

Golden Coral…yuck. Jasons Deli at least. I don’t want to die from all the saturated fat and salt.

I agree with number nine.

And thanks for posting it, cause Livewackness is blocked at my job…

how to spot a golddigger?
any woman with some sense, tired of these broke arse “men”!

WHY NOT TAKE A BYTCH …A GREEDY BYTCH TO THE GOLDEN CORAL ….GIVE THE HO A NAPKIN AND A GOOD SEAT AWAY FROM THE WINDOW AND TELL HER ..BYTCH HERE HAVE FUN AND YOU CAN HAVE ALL YOU CAN EAT !

ask for a credit report on the first date, that should tell u everything u need to know right there lol

No dough.

they forgot a tip for the brothers, If her last name starts with K and ends with ardashian.

#9 had me rolling!!! Bottom line is that the men all know they are dating gold diggers–but that’s what they want. They want a Kim K; they want a girl with long weave down her back with no job- that’s what they want…this article can’t help them.

I don’t care if a chick has a weave. That doesn’t determine their character. It doesn’t determine mine either.

thoes types of men deserve those types of women…first of all if the guy is out somewhere, how would women know he’s rich? The guy obviously throws his money around in a club or wherever to get the attention of gold diggers !

NIKKI UNDERWOOD

So why is Paul in this story?

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Because his Ex- the one standing in the picture with him was allegedly a gold digger

@Marguis: No one is playing the victim. I’m just saying that it’s 50/50. Men can’t get mad at women for being golddiggers if they themselves are valuing these women for the wrong reasons. I’m just saying if you want a trophy wife then fine, that’s your right, but don’t cry and get mad when she takes half your paper in the divorce.

wow

lol i read the list and the kardashians came to mind.

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They don’t need money, they are just after fame

Moreaces…

But he isn’t Black…

This article amazes me (and not in a good way)..I have an ex who used to constantly beg me for money and like a fool I gave it to him. I’ve grown up alot since then.
Women also need to be aware of the men who constantly feel sorry for themselves and feel people owe them something…and you bear the brunt of those feelings by supporting him financially.

To some extent they all are golddiggers
get mad all you want

hold on wait…since when has red lobster been considered inexpensive??? maybe im just struggling, but to me red lobster cost a grip. then again im such a laid back girl, maybe to some it is inexpensive

@LOL

Actually, All celebs get paid to attend parties. Ask Paris Hilton. By the way she got paid 75k to host a party(http://dyfuse.com/?q=node/3086). Everytime you see her in someones pictures, you better believe she is getting paid to do it.

Let’s be realistic…

These men are looking for golddiggers… the dimes…the trophies…the arm candies…

That’s what they look for…so that’s what they get.

You want a woman who spends 3 hours getting dressed…then be ready to pay the cost to be the boss.

It’s an even exchange. You walk around with a model type chick on your arm…she walks around getting paid for modeling.

LOL. These women aren’t wrong. They are using their assets to their advantage. Even exchange of gifts and services. They give the dudes what they want.

So don’t cry broke and bitter because some woman got you for your ends..she provided you the shallow services you requested.

There is no need to write a book about how to spot a goldigger, men know exactly what they need to do in order to pull a woman that they want to be with. You can’t dig for gold, if it isn’t been giving to you in return. If you don’t want to spend money on a woman, then close your damn wallet, check book, and credit cards.

Oh, Red Lobster is an excellent eating establish ment, I love theier biscuits, and the sea food isn’t bad either, lol.

I like Red Lobster. Those rolls are delicious!

Arent’ women the breadwinners in black couples. I think the list should be for women.

“Aren’t”, “?”

What a bitter man. Hypocrite too. Thinks there is something suspicious about a woman who wants to go to a nice restaurant, but expects her to sleep with him without a wedding ring.

HO, SIT DOWN.

oh please….

@steffany
but how does that concern you though? if a n*gga wants a dime piece beside him i see no problem with that.

also i now for sure that most of you ladies in here have f*ked a n*gga with money too.LOL

to solve all this problems make the chic sign a pre-nup.

In order for this list to be necessary, wouldn’t the majority of black men actually need to have some gold to dig? I love how the group with the highest percentage of their men in jail, without jobs, no education are always crying about golddiggers. Give me a break.

to solve all this problems make the chic sign a pre-nup.
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You silly boy you! A true gold-digger will start to spike her husband’s drink with seditives and/or anti-freeze and collect on insurance(a la Anna Nicole).

Best bet, marry a woman who looks, acts and think like your mom but has the qualities that you like in a lover!! A Dime isn’t always a gold-digger, but if #9 applies then maybe she is!!

I tell my brothers, don’t start off early in the relationship like a baller, even if you are…..let it be a surprise!!

Have you ever noticed that when you go to club with rich white men, they never buy expensive bottles of champaigne or throw their money in the air so it can land on strippers???

I can spot a golddigger from a mile away. Wait one is passing by right now.

@back on my swag
i could dig that, THANK GOD my mom is pretty, cause i can’t marry an ugly chic.sorry.

@Dr. Funk,

In your estimation, any woman who marries a man with “means” is a golddigger?

I’m sorry… No woman should want to be with a man who cannot provide. Shoot…that’s one of the basic tenets of being a man! LOL

What is wrong with us as a people that we believe a man shouldn’t have… Ummm… a man is to provide, a woman is to nurture.

We got the whole system jacked up!

@stefany
but it is the rich men that have the most prettiest wives and have longer and healthy relationship,, than the broke ones who file for divorce after 2yrs complaining about financial problems. just saying.

@ha
i smell another goldigger. but it’s fine though.LOL

@HA:

Yes.Understand that I do not look upon gold digging as a negative.In this life-you should cut the best deal you can.

@Loon,

LMBO…you can pull that on chicks who don’t know any better.

I know what a grown a** man is supposed to do as a man. So yes, his earning potential is important. I will not carry the providing burden solo.

So if you want to call it digging…so be it. I call it planning

@HA
do you girl, i ain’t mad at you. you just what i call a “woman’s mission”.

@stefany
but it is the rich men that have the most prettiest wives and have longer and healthy relationship,, than the broke ones who file for divorce after 2yrs complaining about financial problems. just saying.
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@LOON(i’m done LOL)

There’s nothing wrong with having a pretty girl on your arm, if you’re filthy rich and just don’t give a care, hey go for it as long as it makes you happy..I’d personally rather have real love as opposed to eye candy.

LOL

I think some of the ladies are giving “pretty” women a bad rap.

I have seen some UGLY golddiggers…

And not all pretty chicks or women who would otherwise be considered dimes are golddiggers.

LOL

And if a dude looks like Boris Kudjo or Morris Chestnut…they should date someone who is asthetically attractive as they are…

Bump all this marry someone who looks like your mom nonsense! LOL

At a young age, you shouldn’t look like anyone’s mother unless that mother is fly.

A lot of women rest on their unattractiveness and personality…when they could actually step it up and look better and feel better about themselves.

There is nothing ABSOLUTLEY NOTHING wrong with being cute! LOL

@stefany
let me ask you a question and please be honest with me?

would you date a fine brother, who is rich but a jerk and treat you like crap, or an ugly dude, 300pounds who is not rich but treats you like a queen??

Ha!

LOL

I think some of the ladies are giving “pretty” women a bad rap.

I have seen some UGLY golddiggers…

And not all pretty chicks or women who would otherwise be considered dimes are golddiggers.

LOL

exactly, look at ushers wife. she lookie like a man, and she is a golddigger.LMAO

stefanny ran away.LOL

Paul is in this story because a woman with one leg walked off with all his money. Her isht must be very special.

let me ask you a question and please be honest with me?

would you date a fine brother, who is rich but a jerk and treat you like crap, or an ugly dude, 300pounds who is not rich but treats you like a queen??
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@Loon

I’d choose to be single, I love men but I can do without or be patient until the right one comes along.

@STEFANY:

Yep.Well…if you’re dumb & rich.Or smart about how to get paper-but emotionally/socially immature(plenty of that going around)…NO ONE CAN SAVE YOU.

yeah nice, whatever

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@Crazy Days

You’re absolutely right about that! LOL LOL

I learned how to cook at 15…and being a well rounded, well put together sista gives you options! LOL

Being a one trick pony either gets you tricked or turns you into a trick… either way…it’s bad business LOL

One thing I must say is, you will never hear me complaining about there not being any good men (attractive-both physically and personality wise- and fiscally respoinsible) available. Because there are, you just have to know where and where not to look.

95% dudes with money know when they are messing with gold diggers. They don’t need a guide.
Its not until they take them for what its worth that they complain about it.

I was talking to this football player friend of mine. He basically said, they know who is who when they are dating them. They don’t care that these pretty girls wants a man with money, because it’s a trade off. They want that pretty girl on their arm.

Most times the guys treat them like crap, because all the wanted was the money anyway. And a lot of them take the treatment because “its about the money”. Then when they think they have a girl of their dreams, that will put up with their crap, the dumb ones wife them and are surprised when they take them for what they are worth.

Guys aren’t that stupid. I think the gold diggers are just usually smarter. They know how to play the role.

@divine
damn you know alot. Makes you say hmmmmmm

@LOON(i’m done LOL)

@divine
damn you know alot. Makes you say hmmmmmm
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Does it make you say hmmm? LOL!!

Well I do know a lot. I agree.
I also have common sense and I observe. And it’s not really rocket science! LOL!

This list was on point. I had a golddigger gf before and every point of this list described her. Girl never offered to pay for shit. I spend like ten g’s on her and one time she gave me a ten dollar bill and asked me to pay her back the next day. lol

I met this one girl in la, we went on one date, did not hook up or anything, I thought she was cute and we planned another date, a day before our second date she asked me to buy her a purse to match her outfit. I couldn’t believe this shit. Some LA girls man

I like wearing nice clothes but I’ve noticed now that the nice clothes i have are making girls think I can just buy them whatever and they try to get it too.

thats a crazy list. Men should know who they are getting into with before they choose to do it.

@STEFANNY
oh ok.. that cool. i wish you luck in your finding.

LMAO @ WHITE MALE.damn you got served TWICE.

@divine
i feel you know alot, tell me more.LOL, tell me a story.

@divine
i feel you know alot, tell me more.LOL, tell me a story.
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What’s to tell? Black Althete are STUPID. PERIOD.COM…LOL!!!

LMAO! This is hilarious!

The Long Weave + Caked on Makeup – Job = Gold Digger equation had me DYING! LOL

@divine
LMAO, oh really.. what about black goldiggers?LOL

@Divine: Wow Toomer’s situation is messed up but it sounds like his wife had serious game. She probably got him to pay for her law degree, she has no screaming brats to take care of AND she’s still getting paid every month. I’m all for interracial dating but it should have been a red flag for him after that first abortion.

LMAO! This is hilarious!

The Long Weave + Caked on Makeup – Job = Gold Digger equation had me DYING! LOL
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THEY FORGOT TO MENTION…

Fake boobs

Fake ass

Botoxed lips

Bleached blond hair

Lol at broke girls that insists they are too good for California Pizza kitchen.

Lol at broke girls that insists they are too good for California Pizza kitchen.
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@white male

That ain’t me because I’ll eat the hell out of some California Pizza!

well said @ prime minister.

I agree… weaves are not cheap! (at least quality weaves aren’t). How can someone afford a $300-$600+ on a weave and NOT have a job.

Why would you even want to spend that kind of money without a job?!? If not a gold digger, it’s definitely a sign of someone with jacked up priorities.

Weaves over food, rent and diapers… right?

@ha
come on LOL, you know he speaks the truth.

@Divine…

Oh yes. Dr. Dabrowski played Toomer like a fine tuned piano!

Not only did he pay her tuition…she refused to take his last name, wouldn’t go on vacations with him (which I’m sure were vacations he paid for) and above all else promised him she wanted a big family (i’m sure he had visions of little bi-racial babies dancing in his head) and aborted all of them… THEN after only 4 years of marriage wanted HALF! LOL

@Loon

Actually he spoke HIS truth…which accordingly isn’t necessarily THE truth.

Why? Because if you look around at any situation women have been controlling men for a long time… Adam bit the appeal, Cleopatra crushed an empire, Dr. Dabrowski stunted on Amani Toomer! LOL

I’m just saying…all “treasure” is not created equally because if that were the case…more than the busted dude would be playing the odds.

For a busted dude all he has to go on is the number of women he can have… Low/subpar standards.

For a successful dude his priority is the CALIBER of woman he can have… higher standard…

@ White Devil- Aren’t white men the “Person of interest” in white couples.

One thing I must say is, Black men aren’t the only ones who are susceptible to golddiggers, BUT they usually are the only ones complaining.

Golddiggers and golddigging comes with the territory…most people with old money know that…

AN INSULT. DONT CHASE A GOLD DIGGER IF YOU CANT AFFORD ONE.

NO, WE HAVE BEEN WARNED NUMEROUS TIMES ABOUT KIGALI/ MARQUIS DE SADE. IT HAS BEEN STATED THAT SHE IS A DARK-SKINNED PUERTO RICAN WOMAN AND I HAVE COME TO BELIEVE THIS. SO DON’T BLAME THE WHITE GAY MALE FOR THIS. PUT THE BLAME WHERE IT OFFICIALLY LIES. KIGALI/MARQUIS DE SADE= A DARK-SKINNED PUERTO RICAN.

told yall about chicks and weaves……

@ha
are you among the higher standard?LOL

damn why couldn’t I have read this years ago, would have saved me a lot of headache, because damn if this joint aint on point

@divine….Kim K has it written all over her….drawn out valley girl accents……Kourtney is following suit……they never learn – and yes! There should be a book…..but none of it will be politically correct…..the Russy poo and Montell Williams will come back with a long diatribe on black self loathing or some overrated Hampton/ Howard Univ BS….

@ha-1000% cosign about men would complain if the women had it together. I am an educated black woman pursuing a master’s, own place, a car, no children, pays my own bills, travels when I want, exercise to stay in shape, etc and I have had men complain that I am too independent. I’m like why-you want some needy, whiny women who is going to take your shit. I don’t have time. I can be there for you in every way possible but I am not your doormat.

This article is written to put down black women but white/nonblack women are the biggest golddiggers. AS SMDH pointed out earlier-if a white woman has her own-she is not checking for a black man…However, if she is poor white trash with nothing-she is pulling out all the stops to get a dumb black man to wife her. Dumb black men….My friends and I laugh at some of the dumb things they say and do and black men fall for it. But yet, they quick to complain about a black woman who is not going to put up with shit.

@SMDH-your posts are 100% on point…dumb black boys ( b/c they sure aren’t men) buy into that white is right…no other race will scrap the bottom of the barrel to be with white trash…they deserve to be screwed over…
@dr funk-as for the part about being smarter about birth control-that’s a lie, white women use abortion as a form of b.c.-no black babies for them as Toomer found out, went to predominantly white schools and that is how white women roll

@PROPER ENGLISH:

Exactly my point.One thing you could count on from White girls was that they wanted some soul pole…but hell no they would’nt bring a Black baby home.You could actually trust them being on the pill…and if there was an “accident”.They would “fix” it. PERFECT.(imo) Clearly that is less true these days…but then I tend to AVOID American born White girls & sistas…PERIOD.I’m too contemptuously familiar with BOTH.

“@ha-1000% cosign about men would complain if the women had it together. I am an educated black woman pursuing a master’s, own place, a car, no children, pays my own bills, travels when I want, exercise to stay in shape, etc and I have had men complain that I am too independent. I’m like why-you want some needy, whiny women who is going to take your shit. I don’t have time. I can be there for you in every way possible but I am not your doormat.”

Keep doing you sista.. I have said time and time again black males don’t want a good woman.. The black male wants a woman who when they start arguing he can call her some names and put her down.. He wants to be able to tell her that she needs him.. He wants to be able to tell her how no good and useless she is.. He wants her to fear him leaving her.. He wants to be able to say he dissed her…

….However he cannot do that to a woman of your stature..

Isn’t it funny how the black male talks about the black woman putting him down but nobody puts the black woman down like the black male does..

SMDH-so true, I have heard so many black men make disparging comments about black women to justify their own shortcomings. However, if black women make one comment-they are quick to call us every name in the book, etc…But they put Beckys on the highest pedestal. I have always said attitudes come in all sizes, shapes and colors

A woman can’t be a gold digger unless a man allows her to.

i need to find myself a rich girl

It’s just like the old people used to say: If U want to play, U have to pay…or stay off the field

@Luvchild

You are SOOOOOOO right!

People don’t realize that white women invented this golddigging ish… These women really should write books…wait, they have! LOL

I wish people would realize there is a huge gap between golddigging and wanting a man to do what men are supposed to do.

Men are supposed to (as we used to say) COURT you. Which means: respect you, honor you, treat you like a lady, pay for dates, open doors, call when they say they will, be a man at all times.

Now… these dudes these days, at times, have the game twisted…but you have to remind them.

The major mistake I see my sistas making is, they fall into the trap and sleep with these dudes offgate…or they let men act like little boys then get mad when they do so.

A man is supposed to be a man!! Don’t let him use your car, don’t let him borrow money, don’t let him take advantage of your goodwill.

Treat him with respect, support his goals (if he has none, leave him alone), do not take advantage of his goodwill.

Im a little late but i have to agree woth PM! Black men or nay man who dont want to get caught by a “goldigger” get a vasectomy and spare us all the responsabilities since you cannot obviously strap it up! I say CUT IT ALL! You dont want kids anyway, that would be one less dead beat father to deal with!

Seriously, I know lots of goldigger who date men so they can have their hair done at time, their rent paid! In Poor countries, its a common thing that a man who is dating a woman has to help her cause she has no way to get a job so basically the prettiest girl are the one who can pretend to a BETTER life! This being said, Men also in return play this game : “I would take care of you my dear, I would show you how a real man take care of a woman” So like i said, they would never call a woman a goldigger because they are actually raised to have the power and women are raised to wait on men to help them! It works on poor countries, dont know about america but where im from, when i said that i date a man, my cousin was like, “ok so does he give you something” Im like “no why?” and she answered me :”oh so you givin up for free??” Its just another mentality…

And sometimes you are calling women golddiggers but they can be those who is gonna help you one day! My sister was a student and her boyfriend had a little more money than her. He pays for her school and helped her for lots of things! Now he is still student and she just got a NICE job with a good salary, she is tax advisor and she is now helping him, for most things like rent etc.. is he a gildigger?

@ Ha!

ok there might be some ugly gold diggers but those women are NEVER successful at gold digging lol, what man is gonna put up with that? The reason most men put up with gold diggers is because they are exceptionally beautiful, those are the ones how are successful at gold digging, many women try, but only a select cream of the crop succeed !!!!! Im not saying it’s right, and yes not all beautiful women gold dig, most of the uneducated ones gold dig, but even some with master’s degrees want a man who can support them, most women were taught to find a man who can suppor them, but it’s the ones who jump into bed with a guy, use no protection in hopes of getting pregnant just so she can enjoy child support checks that got the whole gold digging game on lock, it’s truly pathetic.

@ LOL

I agree with you 100%

goldiggers put out

@LOL

Look at Paul McCartney’s ex wife, Heather Mills… she is not what most would consider exceptionally beautiful. LOL

Shoot most of these women aren’t “exceptionally beautiful”. Amani Toomer’s wife wasn’t “exceptionally beautiful”. Many are “exceptionally made-up and exceptionally over-processed”. Thus some of those items in the list are true…caked on make up, thousand dollar weaves… LOL

#11 should have been anyone Jazzy Pha is with is a certified, bonified GOLD DIGGER!

Hmmmmm, that list assumes the woman doesnt have her own money, but what if she does???? Money attracts money!!

@ FACEFACTS

A WOMAN CAN HAVE HER OWN AND STILL GOLD DIG…

I got a good laugh by the list. But bottom line, if men stopped looking at looks and started going after women with education, personality and a heart of gold then they wouldn’t have to worry about “gold diggers”

@married
but do women do the same? thank GOD i got a chic now though.

Oh Holy St Jude, apostle and martyr, great in virtue and rich miracles. near Kinsman of Jesus Christ, faithful intercessor of all who invoke your special patronage in time of need, to you I have recourse from the depth of my heart and humbly beg to whom God has given such great power to come to my assistance. Help me in my present, urgent petition ( make request ). In return, I promise to make your name known and cause you to be invoked.

Say Our Father 3x, Hail Mary 3x, Gloria 3x

St. Jude, pray for me and all who invoke your aid humbly in need of your intercession. Amen

* YOU must post a thank you to him on ninth day of the novena. It has always worked for me and will for you

Well I did the same thing when looking for my future hubby, and thank God I found him… I encourage my single girlfriends to look at a man’s heart, instead of his looks and wallet (although an educated and professional brotha is best). Some of my friends will go on a date and later say “he’s nice but he’s just not my type.” Either he’s too short or not exactly “fine” in the look department. My reply is always, “How’s his heart?”
Smart people understand that looks fade eventually, but hopefully a genuine heart stays just as genuine and loving as the years pass.

@married
wow, that is kool… you are one in a few, plus my girl too offcourse. your husband is a lucky man.

LoL Thanks Loon! And I am a lucky wife! When do u plan on getting married?? LoL I always encourage marriage! HaHa

@Loon… Oh child please.

All Indian women do is sleep with men with money! I have Indian friends straight out of the punjab region of INDIA LOL

That is the whole purpose of marriage. They go for men with large bank accounts. It has nothing to do with American women. This is a world wide state of affairs for a reason.

The reason being… men are SUPPOSED to provide for the women in their lives.

And spare me the whole lecture on being pretty. I know what I look like. I inherited great genes from my beautiful black parents. And people are attracted to those genese. I am yet a person underneath it all. I see you skipped over everything else I said…because you were focused on tearing down my premise that men will do anything for a pretty face. I’m speaking from experience when I stated SOME men will.

And oh please… if a man is a cheater…he’s going to cheat. I make a purposeful attempt to stay away from those people. I do not cheat and I expect to be treated the same…otherwise you are free to go.

I’m not worried about the next pretty face or the next ugly face. Men who have the desire to cheat will cheat on a pretty woman with an ugly woman or an ugly woman with a pretty woman or an average woman with anyone, etc.

As I stated before…I do not rest on being the cute girl in the corner. Please…I have more going on with me than exterior things. BUT your exterior is IMPORTANT…that’s like your business card. It piques interest. Am I lying?

This applies for all races, Not just black women.

Golddiggers are around because these men choose to stop at the exterior of the woman and fail to look at the interior design of the woman.

Feel me.

This not only applies to gold diggers, but to women in general, the only difference is the degree of their conspicuousness.

Okay let’s say that this gold digger was formerly fugly with an extremely bad over bite, she had thousands of dollars of cosmetic surgeory to make herself drop dead gorgeous, lol. Then she go on the prowl for some dip stick guy who would willingly give up some of his money, but of course he wouldn’t know she was once a visual disaster, lol… But he found out that she didn’t look like that naturally due to the fact he found an old photo of her back in Jr. high, lol…

Ok Its6amhogetout,

That was evil but funny as hell at the same time!

Is Paul Mcartney a Black man now ?

Ha!

I’m sorry… No woman should want to be with a man who cannot provide. Shoot…that’s one of the basic tenets of being a man! LOL

What is wrong with us as a people that we believe a man shouldn’t have… Ummm… a man is to provide, a woman is to nurture.

We got the whole system jacked up!
Wait, what happen to the black womens ATHEM: I DON’T NEED A MAN

@ B,

Good points, i know this black lady lawyer who will not date anyone who she thinks earns less than she does and she made $560k last year so she dates older men only, like in their 50′s and early 60′s, shes like 41.

@Deesac

When did that become “the black woman’s anthem”?

Sounds like you have the game twisted too…

Allow me to elaborate…

Black women have made do without men because often times they have had no choice. Black men were taken from homes or left. So yes, when there isn’t a man around, you have to do what you have to do.

The issue is that people have taken that “I don’t need a man” and turned it into a weapon used by and against black women.

Black women need love, support, and protection just like other women. The issue is often times it isn’t given in the way that is needed.

Im dating a guy with tons of money but thats not why im dating him. Im in love with him. But he wont know that because he’s probably caught up in dumbass lists like this. I don’t wear a weave either lol

One more thing – ANOTHER thing to keep us apart and keep us down. We live by so many stereotypes – it’s a wonder we live at all.