*Update* BDR’s Girl to Black Women: “B*tches, Get Your Own Man”

Posted on May 20th, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: News, Russell Simmons, The Swirl

Posted by Bossip Staff

Russell Simmons and Julie

BDR decided to rep his girl Julie with own Twitter session about her blog post:

bdrresponse

BDR’s girl, Julie Henderson, got some steam off her chest today about some things that have been said about her

I have been spending “special time” with Russell for about 4 months and in that time I have learned some subtle things about some in the black community that have surprised me. I must say that while it has been a bit of a challenge for me, it has also been a wonderful learning experience. I realize that in this day of Obama and change that there is still a tremendous amount of poverty, suffering and pain in the black community, and for that I am deeply sorry. But, I have to say the angry responses to those realities are sometimes misdirected….Just for the record, I am nobody’s white b*tch, gold digger or fame chaser. Nor am I any of the other mean things I have been called lately. I don’t need anything from anybody, I come from a good family and I’m a young independent “successful” model making my way in NYC. (If you don’t believe me google me or go to juliehenderson.net).

Finally, I just wanna say that Russell has been a great “special” friend and I’m sure as sh*t not giving him up cause some in America object to our friendship. I wanna close by saying, what Russell always says, Namaste. (That means the goddess in me recognizes the goddess in you)….Or, b*tch get your own man.

Love, Julie

This woman needs a PR specialist. She didn’t need to go there. SMH.

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  • Young Obama

    Russ get your swirl on. That white girl is bad!

  • LuvLA

    GROSSSSSSSS!!

  • Mapple

    She was pretty gangsta with that! I’m about to go get me a white model chick, real talk!

  • LuvLA

    Every pic she acts like she’s not even with him! Always looking in the opposite direction n ish!

  • sexxymocha

    opps!! top ten yeahhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!

  • dani

    i see her white community on Jerry Springer everyday y is she not worrying about her own race and Russell no wonder Kimora left you for a real man u look like a grandfather stop trying to be young russell!!!

  • dani

    smdh @ BAMBOOZLED!!

  • Lady Star

    I cant stand mixing races. What is the world coming too when a wealthy black man wants to spread the wealth with the devil?

  • dani

    btw f those flat a@@ed models that is not a woman but a snake in the grass

  • Lady Star

    This make mama sick as a dawg after eating a box of chocolate. Yuck

  • Lady Star

    Screw Russel Simmons, he don’t know what he missing!

  • Lady Star

    Mama got the ill na na!

  • Lady Star

    This skinny little white thing smiling like she hit the Mega Millions lottery.

  • Mapple

    Well, if your going to mess with a white girl, she should look like her! She don’t even look like she listens to hip hop, that is gangsta right there by it’s self! I’m not into the white women who think they’re black, give me a white girl who’s gettin money, bad, can dress, and looks like she wouldn’t even date a black dude. That’s what’s up, we with you Russ!!

  • Lady Star

    She look hungree but I guess everybody cant have curves like me and mine.

  • angel$tarship

    There’s nothing wrong with interracial dating it’s just that some people have their own opinions which I never agree with half the time but it is what is.

  • Kia

    Our ugly little gift! Hanh, hanh!!! Enjoy unc’s smelly balls. Thanks for taking those old azz diapers off of our hands! Good lookin’ out. (I wonder if she’s learned good lookin’ out yet) lolz

  • DDub

    Lol. I think she was on point in her response very dignified on one hand, very hood-lite on the other. A perfect blend. Maybe folks get the picture (most likely not).
    It takes 2 in every relationship and everyone knows he’s gettin’ as much out of this chick as she’s gettin’ out of him. This type of symbiotic relationship has existed for ages lets not kid ourselves. They’re grown leave em be.

  • Missy

    In all honesty, who cares about either of them? If they are happy, I am happy;))))

  • M

    Ew what a loser…you couldn’t pay me enough to be in the same room with him much less look at his ugly little wrinkled face! GROSS

  • Kia

    Yep. All cleared up. He’s old and melanon or no melanon, she is welcome to him and the vaporub scent that follows him. GROSS!

  • Lady Star

    I am going to cut up all three of my Russ Visa Cards!

  • Mapple

    @Marquis de Sade

    I was thinking the same thing man! These chicks on here bitter as hell, but will be the same ones in love with some thug sh’t! Yall chicks better wake up, yall love for everything hood is spawning this trend. This is the future im telling you, dating white chicks who don’t even look like they date black dudes is the new black!

  • Kia

    For the record, this dummy AT BEST is getting half of what the BLACK girl, Kimora, got and doing twice the work of having to chill with a member of the AARP. All yours! BTW, I feel the same way about Mel Gibson’s piece. Ewww! The wife already got the first time around best of him and got out with a bit of her youth. This CLIMBER is about to exchange her youth. DUH!

  • Soul Touch

    @Mapple

    Good riddence. The likes of you won’t be missed.

  • Lady Star

    I never had a man walk out on me!

  • ImCool

    Who cares who Russell is trying to be with?? Whatever floats his boat!! @lady star: Yes, she’s skinny, but she models… so it makes sense.. and everybody doesn’t want “curves” like yours! Lol…

    BTW, our president is Black… and White… because his parents looked a lot like this couple… So, Russell likes pigment impaired women, such is life!

  • Soul Touch

    Oh, and that was to Marques too.

    @Julie

    thanks for the public service announcement. *boring*

    I can’t imagine anyone, with a life, gave a damn about your relationship.

    …wait, why am I even wasting my time responding…

    gone.

  • Lady Star

    If you treat your man right he would never leave and especially not for some subpar light skinned white skinny lady!

  • Lady Star

    I dont know how he can look his daughters in the face knowing he running around with this skinny white gold digging tramp. Shame on him!

  • Laurie Farmer

    Julie Henderson is making it rain on Bitter & Angery Black-Women-With-Low-Self-Esteem !!

    Give ‘Em Hell, Julie !!!
    You go Sista !!

  • tiredofthebs

    @ Mapple

    “She don’t even look like she listens to hip hop, that is gangsta right there by it’s self! I’m not into the white women who think they’re black, give me a white girl who’s gettin money, bad, can dress, and looks like she wouldn’t even date a black dude. That’s what’s up, we with you Russ!!”

    You are entitled to your opinion, as I am mine; and in my opinion you are completely misguided. Russell Simmons owes his fortune to hip hop, so to say that if she doesn’t listen to it that’s gangsta is ignorant. Also, what is wrong with hip hop, not everyone is into the shoot him in the head kind. However, your comments prove that you have a dislike for Black women and stereotype us. Hip hop is the voice of the people, and whoever likes it (regardless of their race) usually understands that. Last but not least, you said that you don’t want a White woman that acts Black, so I’m sure you think all Black women listen to rap. Just find yourself a White women, while “we talk to thugs” as you would have us believe.

  • dani

    its called black man fantasy i think white men were on this sh@t decades ago when a boy got hung for looking at their white women maybe i am over analyzing but black men love ALL WOMEN THEY WILL SLEEP WITH ANY RACE btw i could care less about low self esteemed black AMERICAN MEN

  • Lady Star

    I wouldn’t want her body if the lord offered it to me! She too skinny and no color.

  • luvchild

    As far as ol girl, she came a lil hard. But also she shouldn’t be worried about what everyone thinks or says about her, now that shows low self-esteem.

  • Lady Star

    Aint no white man gonna do nothing for me that my husband of over 20 years cant already do or already done.

  • luvchild

    Game over Lakers won!!!

  • dani

    as long as black AMERICAN MEN put black AMERICAN WOMEN down so openly you ladies should do the same and like kanye said “even if u in a bently u still a n@gga” the miseducation and degrading of ur own people is sickening and laughable this is y no other races respect BLACK AMERICAN PEOPLE ESPECIALLY THE MEN!!! HA HA—-THATS CALLED THE LAST LAUGH

  • Branson

    wow!!!

  • Lady Star

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  • dani

    i lOVE MY CULTURE

  • Kia

    Leeha,

    The only problem I have with your message is that the word is amoral. Other than that, BRAVO!!! Perfection.

  • dani

    U PROBABLY WILL GET DIABETES OR HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE EATING POPEYES AT UR AGE AND U DONT LOOK LIKE U WORK OUT SO THERE!!

  • Lady Star

    I am going to lay down shortly since this topic disgust me and I have to open the store in the morning!

  • BellaY

    She can have him! LOL!!!

  • Lady Star

    Black love is beautiful! :smile:

  • Lady Star

    Yall hating on me!

  • Branson

    Wow

  • Lady Star

    *brushing the hate off my shoulders

  • Mapple

    @Soul Touch

    Lol. Trust, I would be missed!

    @tiredofthebs

    Contrary to what you thought, last time I dated a white woman was in middle school, I’m 31 now. All i’ve ever dated were black, educated, career women who make 6 figures. So when you say, “However, your comments prove that you have a dislike for Black women and stereotype us”, you couldn’t be further from the truth.

    All im saying is, if your going to date a white woman, she should be one who is on top of her game and pretty, that’s all.

    I don’t believe every black woman is on some hood, thug sh’t either, im just saying that when they are they spawn this reaction.

    Also when you say, “and in my opinion you are completely misguided. Russell Simmons owes his fortune to hip hop, so to say that if she doesn’t listen to it that’s gangsta is ignorant”. Ok, so if someone were to make their fortune off of baseball and they date someone who hates baseball that is ignorant too? Listen to what your saying before you try to argue your point because right there YOU sound very ignorant! Sorry but you do, I could see where you were trying to go with that, but ultimately you failed.

  • twa

    @ leesha; I read Katies’s rant on another blog about her & russ so I’m pretty sure Julie’s rant is in response to that too. I really don’t know why she felt the need to address the “black community” either. Both broads are real simple as far as i’m concerned.

  • Kia

    No one is scared in a blog. I call it e-courage.

  • dani

    AND ON THIS NOTE LATA GOT FINALS 2 MORROW ….AIMING FOR THAT A+

  • Bloodshot 3rd Eye

    Julie u think black people have a problem with u dating a black man, take him home to Texas with u. I dare her. I lived in Texas and racism is in their blood down there.
    ___________________________________________________
    And apparently all up in here too.

  • we loves being black…

    relax shay-whitie…dont start off like you know whats going on in the black community…please… we dont care how “black” your man is you still wont be welcomed in our community, so stop talking like you been somewhere. do what you do best and go ahead and spend his money as well as your families money and stay out of “our” communities.

  • Lady Star

    Back when I was a little one messing with another race would cause major problems. I never messed around outside of my race, besides the black man is the only thing that gets me in the mood if you know what I mean!

  • Lady Star

    I wish my husband would look at a white woman and let me catch him.

  • Bloodshot 3rd Eye

    Back when I was a little one messing with another race would cause major problems. I never messed around outside of my race, besides the black man is the only thing that gets me in the mood if you know what I mean!
    __________________________________________________
    We’d rather not know but thanks for the mental image.

  • Lady Star

    She probably going to get pregnant by him and then hold her hand out like all the other white girls do.

  • Kia

    Yes Mapple, to hate what your mate does for a living IS ignorant AND destructive to the relationship. To not support or understand what your mate does and what is at the CORE of who he is and how he was built is even more IGNORANT. In fact, here is THE DEFINITION OF IGNORANT: uneducated in general; lacking knowledge or sophistication or uneducated in the fundamentals of a given art or branch of learning; lacking knowledge of a specific field. I see where you were trying to go, but ultimately, YOU have failed. lolz. Too easy.

  • Divine

    “sure as Sh*t”
    Hilarious!
    Who says that? LOL!!

    Anyway she sounds childish.
    Why address anything? To me, this says SHE is truly uncomfortable with the situation of dating a black man.
    This is like people who try to hard to show they are “in love” when folks are questioning them, usually behind close doors have relationship problems.

    Anyone who goes to ANY lengths to confront annonymous people in the blog-esphere about their interracial relationship, usually are not comfortable with their situation themselves.

    Be a woman and a man, and live your life without caring what anyone thinks. It’s about you and your love. When you start letting what folks have to say affect you is when things fall apart.

    So my guess is things aren’t going well.

  • Lady Star

    Lady A is my baby! She all grown up big girl style now and done gone and made herself an architect.

  • get real son….

    get real son, 6am your a fag admit it dude!

  • luvgossip

    correct *ho*

  • Divine

    @Kia

    No one is scared in a blog. I call it e-courage.
    ——————————————-

    Exactly! LOL!! Because there is no such thing as an e-ass whooping!

    I DARE her to say that to a black woman who calls her a “white b*tch”.
    Sisters should treat her that way, but She needs to chill. If you can’t say in life, don’t say it in the World Wide Web. You look stupid.

    I’m still laughing at her! LOL!
    “sure as sh*t”
    Don’t nobody want Russell and his Mid-life crisis! LOL!!!!

  • Kia

    Going to the Grind right now Leeha. Now, I NEED to see why this ignorant girl wasted her time.

  • Mapple

    Kia,

    What fairy tale land do you live in where everyone is in love with their significant other’s profession???

    You can support someone and hate their profession at the same time, wake up, it does happen!

    Again I could see where you were aiming, but now you too are in the Fail category! Lol, THAT was too easy! :)

  • luvgossip

    One more and moving on: I don’t care about interracial dating. Do who you wanna do. My issue with her is that she’s condescending. Take that noise elsewhere.

  • Kia

    Divine, I laughed out loud and scared my puppy. lolz e-azz whupin’…priceless.

  • Kia

    Mapple, read the DEFINITION of IGNORANT or IGNORE it. That is your e-choice. I am e-not going to be the one to convince you with FACT, but everyone else is reading the definition and e-acknowledging her e-ignorance.

  • Kia

    By the way Mapple, I never said “in love with”, I said ignorant of. Your dispute was in the fact that she is ignorant. The DEFINITION of IGNORANT disproves your argument. PERIOD.

  • Mapple

    Wow, Ok Kia,

    So because I hate a profession, that means I lack knowledge of the profession, which in turn means I’m ignorant?

    What if I worked in that profession, I know everything about it, and I still hate it even when I leave the profession. So now my significant other enters the profession I just left and I still hate that profession, that makes me ignorant huh? Lol!

    Kia, your making this way too easy! Your showing your ignorance through your arguements! Please stop and accept your fail ok?? Lol!

  • http://www.aol.com mild sauce part of my own family tradition

    mild just wanted to stop by an comment b/c russ is the man for getting with this fine piece of meat. i love my dark ladies and all shades of black but mild knows a pretty face when he sees it!!

  • Mapple

    And, my original arguement before you brought out the Websters dictionary was, Dating a white woman who looks like she doesn’t even listen to rap music is gangsta, gangsta meaning a break from the norm. Anytime you break from the norm in my oppinion that takes balls and in my oppinion is gangsta!

    That’s all……

  • enkogkneegro

    I wonder how many sistas would really turn down Russ if he wanted to spoil em with shopping sprees and vacation trips around the world. Its easy to say “no” to shyt you have no chance of being offered…lol

  • Toni

    She is tired of everyone labeling her names and rightfully so. How would you like it if everyone was blogging giving opinions about you and they have never been acquainted with you? It is annoying and hurtful. No one wants to be labeled all of these offensive names that gets tossed around on these boards. She is venting because she is upset and rightfully so.

  • Kia

    Mapple. What you said is as IGNORANT as her blog post. Like I said ignore or don’t. I’ve hurt your feelings. You are having the same embarrased reaction that this girl had to Russ’ other lady or the fact that she isn’t his official or whatever her problem is. I apologize for embarrasing you. My intention was to research the fact in your statement. What I found is the definition which is contrary.

  • JUDY

    Good for her if she wants him she can have him. But I think we all know what women of all shades want from uncle Russ……….MONEY!!!

  • Kia

    Actually Mapple, part of what you said is this:
    Also when you say, “and in my opinion you are completely misguided. Russell Simmons owes his fortune to hip hop, so to say that if she doesn’t listen to it that’s gangsta is ignorant”. Ok, so if someone were to make their fortune off of baseball and they date someone who hates baseball that is ignorant too? Listen to what your saying before you try to argue your point because right there YOU sound very ignorant! Sorry but you do, I could see where you were trying to go with that, but ultimately you failed.

    If she doesn’t listen to hip hop, then she doesn’t understand his art. That IS the definition of ignorant. Again, your feelings are hurt. I don’t apologize for the definition or for posting it, but I do apologize for your hurt feelings.

  • http://www.aol.com mild sauce part of my own family tradition

    i am the bowlegged lil buddy so if you have an arrow you can shoot it in my backside!!

  • Mapple

    Kia your absolutely right, you have embarassed me to the point where I have to bow out, your debate was just too strong for me to counter this time, you won!!! I knew you had it when you said: “My intention was to research the fact in your statement. What I found is the definition which is contrary.”, yo, I don’t even know what that means! You have completely lost me, you lost me a couple of posts ago, but that takes the cake. I’m out, other important things in my life await. Again, we with you Russ!

  • Kia

    o.k. Goodnight Mapple.

  • OHPLEASE!

    While I agree people shouldn’t have a problem with black/white relationships. She loses me when she pretends white people don’t say the same thing. For her to pin this type of crap on black people labels her a racist. That’s how superior she’s feeling. What a moron.

  • So funny!

    @ Lady Star

    …I’m surprised you call yourself christian with the things you say. God didn’t discriminate when he made you or me and Christians are supposed to act Christian like I thought, no matter the circumstance.

    1 Saviour

  • Mapple

    Night Kia! A good debate is just that, a good debate. We should exchange emails, I could debate this all day.

    @Get real son,

    There’s only 2 p’s in Mapple, fix your face kid

  • Kia

    Pure comedy Maria, I enjoyed that laugh in my ankles. What is should say is those laughs ’cause as soon as I though you were done bisht slappin’ his/her aw damn, the monkey’s azz, here you come again…WHAM!

  • Kia

    thought.

  • Denzel

    Whats up with all the debate? As black people we have more things to be concerned with. But Uncle Russ’s snow bunny I’d hit dat too even though I luv my sistas with dem juicy booties. Holla at cha boi!

    Zel

  • SwizzNasty

    Lady Star

    You racist as hell! I think you the one with problems. You need Jesus. I pray for you. Too MUCH HATE in your blood. Your not part of the solution, your part of the problem and thats why the world is how it is today. Nuff Said.

  • Kia

    Thx Kia I see you put Mapple Syrup to bed too.

  • Kia

    Debating it further wouldn’t interest me Mapple, but I do appreciate your opinion. A fault and a strength is that I can be a bit literal. In my opinion, both of our arguments have some validity, but I wasn’t named captain of my college debate team for folding. I really wasn’t trying to prove you wrong. I simply read her statement and felt that making any statement at all, especially this one is ignorant. I wanted to make sure that ignorant isn’t unfair. I also don’t like her style, but I think that she would be cute in something else.

  • Ugh…

    this was rather interesting…i read everyone’s responses…i have to say that leeha && kia made the most sense (on their argments)…Mapple…go sit down…you just wanted to hear…well e-hear yourself talk and someone called you out on your shit…if i was one of the black women you dated i’d regret being with a man with your mentality and outlook on life…you say you’re 31…you should know what you like…f “what if i would have if i did date a white girl”…you’re too old for that shit…

  • Marquis De Sade

    Hi Im Marquis De Sade,

    cEnTZ dA RE-CES-CHON mI aint been able to get no job. wILl Won U NeGRo Bi*chez leND mi ah hand.plaez.

  • Ugh…

    fyi…she ain’t even cute…her modeling pics look like every other white girl out there…*yawn

  • Marquis De Sade

    Hi Im Marquis De Sade,

    I sMell Lik mOnKEy sh*T! Mi Ned Saop n A luvin FaMile. I Hate mI blAk skIn heLP MI Pleaz

  • get real son….

    Hi Marquis!
    Im so elated your even talking to me im your #1 fan! It would be my pleasure Mr. de Sade, LET IT DO WHAT IT DO!

  • Marquis De Sade

    Hi Im Marquis De Sade,

    I sMell Lik mOnKEy sh*T! Mi Ned Saop n A luvin FaMile. I Hate mI blAk skIn heLP MI Pleaz

  • Marquis De Sade

    Hi Im Marquis De Sade,

    I sMell Lik mOnKEy sh*T! Mi Ned Saop n A luvin FaMile. I Hate mI blAk skIn heLP MI Pleaz>>
    BlEch mI

  • get real son….

    Nooooooo Waaaay that is not Marquis, Where is 6am at plzzzz!

  • Marquis De Sade

    it Mi get reel son….dOnt leAve Mi lIke MY NIG*ER MAMA AND daDDI

  • Marquis De Sade

    its Mi get real son….dOnt leAve Mi lIke MY NIG*ER MAMA AND daDDI..I HATE BLAK PEPLE

  • Marquis De Sade

    sOMEonE HeLP B4 Mi self Distruck

  • Marquis De Sade

    ….dOnt leAve Mi lIke MY NIG*ER MAMA AND daDDI

  • katie

    B*TCH PLEASE!!! First of all you’re acting like the black community invented opposition to interracial dating…no b*tch – 4 decades ago they would have lynched his a** for looking at you and only black women would have been the one to stand behind him…so shut the hell up. And as far as i am concerned we (black women) have a right to talk if we want to.
    Don’t forget you’re just the chick of the moment and don’t act like because you are hanging out with russell means that you know anything about the black community because as far as i’m concerned Russell barely does…Fall back b*tch

  • AWWWWWWWWWWSHHHHHAAAAAPPPPPPPP

    Why yall didnt tell me we having fag night out???

  • Marquis De Sade

    dOnt leAve Mi lIke MY NIG*ER MAMA AND daDDI. nO Won luv Mi

  • get real son….

    Hi Marquis!

    I knew you would come out, Your’re the greatest!

  • Marquis De Sade

    Hi Im Marquis De Sade,

    diS DIK-CHon-Ar-I hElp Mi SpeLL BeddER.MI wiSH i wuz baRn a GUrL. I hAte mI naZti broWN skIn. Mi maMA a Bi*tcH hur lef mI wen I wuZ SmALL and MY DADDY PLAYED IN MY PANTS WITH MI WEE WEE. NOW IM A TWISTED LITTLE FU*KER READI 2 SLF Distruck

  • Ugh…

    @ Tee

    I couldn’t have said it any better myself mama!

  • Marquis De Sade

    Hi Im Marquis De Sade,

    MY DADDY PLAYED IN MY PANTS WITH MI WEE WEE. NOW IM A TWISTED LITTLE FU*KER READI 2 SLF Distruck………

  • On the Real

    Have you all forgotten the President’s mother was white? What’s with all the hate?????

  • Tee

    Marquis De Sade?
    Did you ever go to school?
    Please run out to the closest Walmart and buy a dictionary and CLIF notes for grammar so we can understand what you are saying.
    It’s hard for me to insult you when I can’t understand what you are saying….

  • Gwen

    Wow??

  • On the Real

    @Tee and Ugh, I guarantee you two voted for Obama and WENT to D.C. for his inaugaration! Now your both speaking out against interacial dating? Interacial dating spawned your first black President! Wow the irony is ridiculous!

  • ally

    how could u hate “mixing of the races”…race does not matter!!! seriously ignorant ppl need to burn! theres nothing wrong nor is it a big deal to be in an interracial relationship! NO BIG DEAL!

  • Marquis De Sade

    HI TEE,

    I bET u jUs Lik mi Nig*eR MamI and daDDi go eazy on Mi I FrAgile Mi daddi tOuch Mi WeeWee

  • amber

    ummm can somebody inform Julie that uncle russy is asian(in his mind) LMFAO kimora somewhere chuckling please tell julie(who is she again) to get a grip russell changes women like he changes drawers so she need not get comfortable…. it is a sad day when one of the great pioneers of hip hop is defined by this f@&%%ery

  • Marquis De Sade

    I bET u jUs Lik mi Nig*eR MamI and daDDi go eazy on Mi I FrAgile Mi daddi tOuch Mi WeeWee. Pleazzze

  • Tee

    I am not hating.
    I am to strong and intelligent and hardworking to hate on anybody.
    I am just saying she was out of line.
    She could have handled herself better than that.
    She could have been more respectful to the Black community.
    Her statement was disrespectful. If she would have just said Get you own man I wouldn’t have gave it a second thought. But she brough us into it.
    I understand the President’s mother is White. She brought her son up to love. I’m saying let it be about love and not shallow thinking.
    I am talking about what Black men have said to me. It’s absolutely ridiculous. I’m worth being on your arm because I take care of my man and handle business and I was there when you did not have anything.
    I am just saying it seems to be a trend with Black men to leave us when they become successful.
    I’m saying I’m worth it to be a part of that.
    I am not preaching hate or being a hater.
    I am just trying to give my point of view as a Black woman. I am speaking for me and not all Black women, but some people agree with me.
    I am talking about what I see and what I have experienced.

  • Marquis De Sade

    @Tee

    nEVeRMind mI des VOICeS iN Mi heaD teLL Mi tO dO baD stuff and aCt Lik a MONKEy

  • Marquis De Sade

    da voICES DoNt LiK bLAk peoPLE

  • Marquis De Sade

    da voICES DoNt LiK bLAk peoPLE! mI cAnT sTop

  • Sydney™

    “I have learned some subtle things about some in the black community that have surprised me. I must say that while it has been a bit of a challenge for me, it has also been a wonderful learning experience. I realize that in this day of Obama and change that there is still a tremendous amount of poverty, suffering and pain in the black community, and for that I am deeply sorry.”

    Um, it may be just me, but this seems awfully condescending. Is she in a class on black culture? I guess “poverty, suffering and pain” are relegated to the black community.

    “Or, b*tch get your own man.”

    She really wrote this? I guess she also learned that in her black culture class, lol.

    SMH.

  • Marquis De Sade

    Hi Im Marquis De Sade Gay,

    Mi DADDY PLAYED doctor IN MY PANTS WIT My WEE WEE. NOW IM A TWISTED LITTLE FU*KER READI 2 SLF Distruck………

  • Ugh…

    without*

  • Marquis De Sade

    @Sydney, Paris

    Hi Im Marquis De Sade,

    N u neED A pERm monKey bi*cH

  • marquis de sade

    im freelin so ferry tonight

  • marquis de sade

    i hate sydney and her stupid lonley pulling articles and pasting ass

  • marquis de sade

    ugh
    wats up sweetheart

  • marquis de sade

    zee
    your a racist

  • marquis de sade

    wheres everybody at?

  • marquis de sade

    why am i the only one typing.somebody talk to me DAMN IT!!

  • marquis de sade

    haitian princess
    sac pase

  • Marquis De Sade

    gUD nITE itz timE 2 pLaY mAmA and DAddi wit mi daddI.

  • On the Real

    @Tee and Ugh,

    I know you two both have Obama t-shirts, pins, posters, etc. and Obama can do no wrong in both of your eyes. Chew on this for a sec…..What if, and this is completely what if, but what if Obabma’s father left a black woman to get with a white woman and in turn that white woman gave birth to the very same 1st Black President that you two adore?

    So for you two to turn around and talk bad about black men who leave black women for white women is just so hypocritical and crazy!!

    And I’m sorry to single you two out because I’ve read all these comments and all the women on here sound like straight up hypocrites!

    Yall hate white women, but love the black President, who by the way came from a white woman! Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • marquis de sade

    wheres glok9 so i could play with his tool?

  • Marquis De Sade

    da voICES DoNt LiK bLAk peoPLE! mI cAnT sTop. mI odder persoNaliti cuMMin out

  • On the Real

    @Word to the Wise

    You even have a pic of Obama as your avatar! Lol,

    Damn do you all NOT see the hypocrisy???????????

  • marquis de sade

    on the real

    shut up with your silly rants,you racist coward.ive seen some of your racist rants in a couple blogs about a week ago.all of a sudden you stant on your soap box and wanna call other people hypocites

  • marquis de sade

    mi is a batty boi

  • Tee

    I am not against inter-racial dating, it’s obvious you did not read what I was saying correctly.
    I do not care about either one of them, my whole point was she was disrespectful to our community, especially to Black women.
    I felt the need to voice my opinion about why Black men date outside their culture for all the “wrong” reasons.
    I have many different nationalities in my own family and I am not against any of it and I love them all just the same.
    What I am saying is date someone because they make you feel good and make you happy and you could not imagine your life without them.
    Not because you believe your children will “look” better or have “good” hair or because you can “get” more from this non Black girl.

    Marquis,
    A Black woman can do whatever makes her happy with her hair. I do not have a relaxer or a perm as you called it. My hair is natural and beautiful and healthy without it.
    I have relaxed my hair before, but I do not feel the need to do that anymore. Although I do not think there is anything wrong with it. I just feel it is not necessary. You did not make me feel bad because you told me to go “perm” my hair. This whole hair thing is crazy and out of control. But that is a different subject. Right now I’m focused on helping you become a better person Marquis.
    Because when you know better, you do better.
    You sir, must not have had anybody say a positive thing to you in your whole life.
    We all have issues and situations that happen in our life and it makes us who we are. It seems as if it has made you “different”.
    I would suggest you go lay on a therapist’s couch and work through your issues.

  • Marquis De Sade

    oN Da ReAl,

    cAn I sh*t ON U

  • Rebellion is an Art. [::(]0__o[)::]

    sigh…..and most americans wonder how they came to deserve the global reputation as ignorant (well,…at least that’s what most of us in europe think).cultural and racial diversity sure takes a back seat over there dont it? considering your president’s existence is thanks to a union of races.

  • Marquis De Sade

    AGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

    mI toLD u I cANt hAndlE it lev Mi lon NEGRA

  • Marquis De Sade

    sElF DesTRUctiVE brothas’ tend to iNfLect pAiN due to chiLDHOOD ABUSE…i getting tired of searching for mY DAddY

  • Marquis De Sade

    HAVE U SEEN My daDDy?

  • Marquis De Sade

    he left wi mi sUpA MAN draWers

  • Marquis De Sade

    GAY LORD! GAYYYYYYYYYYY LORD! GAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY LORD WHERE RRRRRRRRRRR UUUUUUUUUU????????

  • Ugh…

    @ On The Real

    i NEVER repeat…NEVER said i hated white people…so don’t put words into my mouth…seriously…the hoe was disrespectful…point blank…she addressed a whole group of people…instead of being a woman and addressing the woman that’s living in “her man’s” house…

    Adn news flash…black people did not get Obama into the house alone…everything else aside…Obama WAS the better candidate…if we were truly living in this Utopian society where there is no underlying racism it would have been a no brainer…but the mere that fact that Obama is BLACK…no matter how folks wanna suagr-coat it and say “he’s half white”…truth of the matter is racism is here…and you’re not racist…you are a prejudice…because you never would have put words in mouth from the jump…you were just ready to jump on “angry black sista”…when that ain’t me at all…

  • On the Real

    Tee,

    What was wrong with what she said? She said she’s been hearing what black women have to say about her! And she said, “I am nobody’s white b*tch, gold digger or fame chaser. Nor am I any of the other mean things I have been called lately. I don’t need anything from anybody, I come from a good family and I’m a young independent “successful” model making my way in NYC. (If you don’t believe me google me or go to juliehenderson.net).”

    Basically she’s addressing women like yourself and every other woman on here who over and over again in these comments mentioned she’s only with him for his money, etc….

    And how do you know some black men only date white women because they believe their children will be pretty? Come on that’s straight up stupid! How do you know that Russell ain’t making her feel good, or she makes him feel good? Obviously she does cause he’s sporting her in public!

    Your making no sense at all!

  • WordtotheWise

    On the Real, please tell me what part of my post created a problem. I said what I meant. Some of the black boys on here talking about, “Imma get me a white girl” are stupid and any woman that would pick up with such a person deserves them. That’s nothing to brag about, so please tell me what hypocrisy you note. Thanks in advance.

    Jill and Sydney, both of you are so right. Thank you.

  • Marquis De Sade

    help some1

  • Marquis De Sade

    DADDY PLAYED doctor IN MY PANTS WIT My WEE WEE. NOW IM A TWISTED LITTLE FU*KER READI 2 SLF Distruck

  • Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

    Tee

    When did I attack your hair texture? What are you talking about? Are you projecting?

  • WordtotheWise

    In the long run, what difference does it make about what people say. If she’s straight with Russy, then she should just chill and let it be. If you stand correct, it shouldn’t matter what people say or think. Frankly, I really don’t care about either one of them, but since she called out sistah, I made a point to let girlfriend know (if she and Russy poo so happen to be reading this blog) that it’s all good. ;-)

  • On the Real

    Ugh,

    I didn’t say you hate white people, I said you hate white women, that is blatantly obvious!

  • Ugh…

    ok…let me POLITCALLY correct when i say…that i NEVER…repeat NEVER said i hated white WOMEN…just so i can make it clear i don’t hate white MEN….but last time i check it was blatantly obvious that men & women are always the unsaid subject when using a word like ummm….PEOPLE…lol…

  • Marquis De Sade the GAY IGNORANT MONKEY ONE

    Hi Im Marquis De Sade,

    I dont Lik mI blaK skin

  • WordtotheWise

    Awww, poor thing is being beat up by the big, bad black women. Cry me a river. To all her defenders, please spare us the sympathy because I’m sure while Russy bear is between those white legs, neither one of them is thinking about us.

  • On the Real

    Leeha,

    I said that because Tee in an earlier post made reference to black men leaving their black women for white women and how wrong that was. Leaving anyone for anyone else is wrong period! So I said Tee was looking down on a black man leaving a black woman for a white woman but in reality the same Presient whom Tee and Ugh Love was the result of a black man leaving his black wife for a white woman! So how can you look down on that and endorse it at the same time? You following me?

  • WordtotheWise

    Correction: If your last comment was directed at ME…

  • Ugh…

    lol!
    @WordtotheWise last post

  • WordtotheWise

    Leeha, PREACH!

  • Tee

    I agree Rebellion. I am in honest person. I consider myself to be pretty well rounded and smart and level headed. I would love to live in another country where “race” is not a factor. Where somebody recognized me for me. Unfortunately, in America, it is not that way.
    I get your point, but I choose to educate myself so I am not ignorant. I choose to look at the picture and consider all sides and think before I speak.
    But the greatest thing about America is freedom of speech, of course there are always consequences, be them good or bad, but consequences just the same.
    We are all entitled to our opinions. I made statements based off of what I read.
    I believe there is definitely some truth to what I say. I know guys that have said they moved to certain states where dating outside there race is acceptable. So the point is, people will find a way to get what they want. Just make it be for the “right” reasons, which I understand will always be subjective.
    This has nothing to do with our President.
    I definitely voted for him.
    But not because he was Black.
    He had to prove he was worth my vote, just like other Presidents and people i vote for in my community because it means something to me.
    I voted for him because he got my family members off the couch to go vote for the FIRST time in their lives.
    I did not care that they voted for him just because he was Black.
    I loved that they were paying attention.
    That they cared about there lives.
    That my little cousins who felt like they had no hope now had HOPE.
    They thought about not having anymore babies young or dropping out of school or joining gangs and all the other things that go on around us.
    I was impressed that this man indirectly became a role model for my family.
    I spent 30 years of my young life trying to be a ROLE MODEL and he did it by in a year.
    My friends and family made the decision to enroll in college, get their GED’s, get jobs, etc.
    I felt as if he was influencing a nation and most importantly his people because that’s how my friends and family took it, that he was for them.
    I voted for him because I believed in what he was saying. That he did not just care about me, but about this country. I voted for him because I want to reached that next plateau and I believe that he will help me get there. I want a piece of that pie and I feel as if I am finally able to achieve it.
    I voted for hope, for change, for positivity, for someone to look at me and my resume and my education and give me a job based on what I have worked hard to obtain, not just see my skin tone.
    So yes, I voted for Obama for many reasons. I was hoping someone would come along and show the people that I loved that they can do and be anything they want to be and he did that for me. I was proud to vote for the first Biracial President with a White mother and Black father.

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    *CHEAP

  • What! did you say

    Um black focks need to be worrying about “them trying to get rid of all the black shows on television, and the corporate execs of Viacom and XM serius radio trying to pass law that songs should be syndicated and pay the artist of the song everytime it’s played which means black music is being limited, because alot of stations don’t play “RAP” music and will not buy the songs (because majority stations are white). Ya’ll don’t even realize how they are trying to short change African Americans. Everyone is on interracial dating like it’s a plague LEAVE IT BE BLACK PEOPLE. As long as black men and women are creating there own businesses and hiring black folks so we can see more of us living like uncle RUSSY and have the option to do whatever it’s fine.

    Personally I have absolutely no problems with interracial dating but just don’t forget your community, try and help other blacks don’t get swept up in I’m special because I have a white partner because in the end its you by yourself. Date out but uplift your people too.

  • On the Real

    So Word to the Wise,

    You don’t think Obama’s mother had to defend herself back in the day the same way Russell’s girl is defending herself now?

    Love to hear your answer on that one! Keep in mind, Obama’s mother gave birth to him wayyyy back in the day when it wasn’t cool at all to have a child by a black man!

  • Ugh…

    @AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    if you don’t like reading…get one of those picture books in the children book section at Wal-Mart and go COLOR! 2 lines for ya =)

  • On the Real

    Ok Ugh,

    How exactly did the spoiled white girl attack your culture?

  • prisseme

    julie henderson WHO? See she exists in white world – not OUR world. F a juliehenderson and F russell!

  • What! did you say

    And black women WHY MUST YOU SHOWCASE YOUR LOW-SELF ESTEEM? why is it everytime a black man is with a white woman you get all up in arms. Does he pay your bills? Does he mind you no he’s living his life. LEAVE THEM ALONE, what is not for you is not for you. Many people date interraial for reasons that are upsurd and usually it ends badly. There is a man out there for everybody TRUST!

    Black women need a self-evaluation of self and stop competing and comparing themselves to other women because that is unattractive and you will loose. If I was a black man I wouldn’t want to date you either. Besides there are black women with white men, and nothing is ever said hmmmm…

    From one sistah to another
    I tell you this cause I care:)

  • Tee

    I am sorry, when did I say I hate anybody? Copy and paste it please.

  • WordtotheWise

    On the Real, I’m a black woman and I have to defend myself all the time, not just to white folks, but Lord knows black ones as well. It ain’t easy out there so I don’t have time to worry about white women and their problems. They have something called white privilege. Trust me, this chick or any of the rest of them are not worrying about me.

    As far as Barack’s mother defending herself, I don’t know because I’m sure in Hawaii there weren’t that many blacks so I don’t know. If she did, oh well.

    You didn’t answer my question: Are you as passionate about defending white girls when black women are attacked? Now answer that.

  • Tee

    Marquis The Real One..I did not realize their were 2 of you, but now it makes sense…It must have been the other one..the other one said it..told me to go get a perm..its somewhere in here…I will try to find it…somehow…: 0)

  • WordtotheWise

    What! did you say>>>I hear ya. I am a black woman who has very high self esteem that’s why I don’t worry about who and what black men want. Not all black women are negative when it comes to interracial relationship. I don’t care who black men date because my man is white. Black women are continuously attacked by insecure brothas with low self esteem, but I can assure you, there aren’t too many people rallying around us (black women) like they do when some poor white girl gets here feelings hurt. Just saying.

  • Ugh…

    @Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

    now you wanna tell somebody how they feel….you’re so full of shit…you’re so angry…if you truly didn’t care…why are YOU so angry with the black woman?…it’s one thing to give your opinion && it’s cool if you agree of disagree but EVERYONE is entitled to there opinion…what you and many of the other people on this site need to learn is tolernace…it’s ok to even question someones beliefs that’s how you learn…and if that person really believes in something they’ll fight for it…(verbally)…get over it…

  • Tee

    Becky,
    You are not even worth more than what I am writing right now.
    Marquis The Real One..
    No one is afraid of this White girl coming on here speaking her peace. But you as a Black man should not let her in any way shape or form insinuate that all Black women are uneducated. Now you at some point should stick up for Black women on that one because you know it is simply not true. She can come on here and say whatever she wants as long as it makes sense.

    Are you saying her statement is true? Marquis please…say it is not so!

  • Leeha

    @On the real

    We endorse Barack Obama, THE MAN. We endorse the harvard graduate, the community activist, Michelle’s husband, and Sasha and Malia’s father. We don’t endorse the horrible situation that gave birth to him. After all, adultery, dishonesty, and abandoning your responsibilities(your kids), is not anything to promote or support. But being that we are a broken people, the products of millions of broken homes, typically we do not judge people by their family or their family’s money. That family pedigree stuff is for WASPs’.–Yeah in Obama’s parents case, his black father leaving his black mother for a white woman is really horrible, disgusting, and down right dirty. Why?–Well for starters Obama’s father’s affair occurred in 50s’ america when black people in america and Kenya were throwing off racism. His black wife’s poverty in Kenya was the direct result of white oppression. Black people were treated like dogs in that country by their oppressors. And he chose to play between the legs of a white woman, a woman whose beauty and wealth and standing was used to put black women down(check jezebel iconography). Don’t u think that having her man leave her for a white woman played into all the negative images about black women that was swimming around in her mind? Don’t u think that that black women knew that her husband was better off in america then back in kenya with her? don’t you think she worried that he had no reason to come back to the division and poverty and war of post-colonial kenya? Hell he was a black man in america, finally accepted and loved by white folks, the very people who always told him that he wasn’t good enough.

    (please thing about that time in history, take your self out of all the advancements we enjoy in 2009)

    He left his wife in a shack with kids and lived a comfortable life in america with a white woman, thats cold. u can bend it anyway u want, but its still cold.–he left his black wife for a white woman when black people still lived under the white man’s foot, that’s cold.

  • Tee

    Excuse me, that we are too dumb for an educated Black man and that he won’t take us to the TOP with him. Our Biracial President also proved her wrong did he not?

  • On the Real

    1, im not defending her! I’m calling yall out on yall hypocrisy! And it is very obvious your all hypocrites!

    2, Word to the Wise, your question is petty, why would I not defend a black woman? My mom is black, sister is black, daughter is black, many black female friends, come on, that was a poor rebuttal!

    3, and the very simple fact, the other woman (who was black) that the white girl is addressing obviously has the same mind state as Tee, Ugh, and Word to the Wise! She was addressing a very simple minded hypocrite bent on black men dating white women as being the begining of the end of the world.

    Case closed.

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    I gotta respect Marquis’ game. Twisted or not, that mothafocka knows how to champion a cause.

  • Tee

    On the Real, if you do not understand what I am saying now, you never will. Glad we talked.

  • On the Real

    ok Leeha,

    Why can’t you just say its cold when a man leaves his wife for another woman? Why are you being very specific with the black and white labels? Its messed up anyway you look at it!

  • Ugh…

    my mind state is not simple at all “sir”…when someone is wrong…they’re wrong…she was wrong…if she was unhappy about that “black” womans living arrangements why didn’t she address their mutual “special friend” && tell him that she didn’t like it…after all that is his damn house…race was only addressed with ME was when Tee asked the questions…&& honestly…FOR ME…i COULD be with another race…because men of all races, colors, and countries find me attractive…but i could never possibly RELATE to another like i could a BLACK MAN…i know i am an advocate for the black man…i just don’t understand why the BLACK MAN always seemed so EASILY swayed by a piece of ass……thus Ugh was created…lol

  • Tee

    Hmm I like how you did not answer my questions On the Real. You brought up the whole Obama parents thing. I think I made a great point about a Black man staying with his Black wife and taking her to success. My points were not just a Black and White thing. Sorry you chose not to recognize that.
    I do not think anything I said was hypocritical.
    I stand by what I said. She did attack us as Black women and I do not understand why you do not see that. I definitely do not think it’s the end of the world because Black men date non Black women.
    Read what I wrote again and maybe you will get it the second time around. It takes a moment to process things as we get older. Marquis the Real One, it’s been real…?

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    Marquis, it’s so unnecessary to put “(The Real One)” next to your handle because it’s quite obvious those who try to imitate you sorely lack the mental aptitude to replicate your thought pattern. I wouldn’t be surprise if their head explodes trying to mimic your intelligence.

  • WordtotheWise

    Marquis, you are the king of backhanded slights, so please STFU will ya? Like I said before, do you think Russell Simmons (is that better?) really cares what we think? I doubt it. He’s going on with his girlfriend and his money, so I really don’t care about these people. I don’t know them and never will. Do I make myself clear?

  • On the Real

    Tee,

    Robin Givens didn’t stay!

  • Ugh…

    SOMEBODY is wasting broadband by continuing to write derogatory statements…other than the fact that we are too wasting it by having this useless convo…because at the end of the day….nobody’s thoughts/views/hearts/outlooks will be changed…

  • WordtotheWise

    What’s the difference between SMDH and her opinion about black males vs. Marquis and his aversion to black women? Hmmm?

  • Tee

    When Ugh said relate, that’s the word I was looking for. I just wanted to know how you relate to a non Black girl that’s all. I want to know why Black men act so negatively towards us. The things I said are TRUE because I have had discussions with Black men because they make these statements to me and think it is okay. They were giving excuses for dating non Black girls. I think it’s a cop out.
    Love who you love, but don’t give any excuses for it. Because when Black men make excuses for it, that’s when Black women get angry. The next statement I am making is not for all Black men, but definitely for some..Don’t insult who I am as a Black woman or reject where you came from by dating non Black girls. Don’t tell me to my face that your child won’t be beautiful if you had her with “me” because I am a Black woman. Don’t tell me your child’s hair won’t be manageable because you have it with me, a Black woman. Don’t tell me you can not be successful or can’t stay successful or buy what you want or have what you want because you are with me, a Black woman.
    That’s my point.

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    You may have a point, Wordtothewise, but it’s nothing if not entertaining. I say, play on!

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    I’m not the one to turn to to console you. I’m partial to Indian women myself.

  • On the Real

    Tee, did someone leave you for a white woman? Not trying to be mean but you sound really scorned….

  • Ugh…

    @ Tee

    I agree with you…like it’s no answer to what you said…anything said in rebuttal would definitely be an excuse…point blank…

  • On the Real

    Ugh and Word to Wise sound like some brother screwed them over too!

  • Leeha

    @On the real,

    Yeah its messed up when a man leaves his wife and kids for another woman. But its despicable when a man leaves his wife and kids in a third world country living in a shack. I noticed u didn’t address at all the historical period in time that this man left his woman to face on her own. –Is our racial past so painful that u can’t even acknowledge it. Note, I’m talking about the 50s’ and 60s’ in black world wide history. Are u saying that back then race didn’t matter at all. As a black man, do u think u would be cool with your black woman leaving u for a richer, socially mobile white man in the 60s’?–come on put yourself in our forefathers shoes. Or do u really really want to just forget it? And just be a person, without all this baggage, dead weight?

  • On the Real

    Leeha,

    Your doing a great job of dancing around the fact that it’s wrong, race not included, period.

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    Gee whiz, Tee, sensitive much? Hon, it’s just a blog.

  • WordtotheWise

    On the Real, no brother screwed me over at all. They are just not the end all for me. I actually love black men, but so many of them (Lord knows not all of them) have such severe issues (hence Marquis) that I decided to broaden my horizons (it also doesn’t help when you live in a predominately white city). I most definitely get treated with more respect from white men. That’s the truth. I’m not saying that out of pity, but reality.

  • WordtotheWise

    Tee, that’s a good move. I should’ve done that long ago with Marquis de Fool because he’s a hopeless cause. Good move!

  • Ugh…

    nope…i’ve scorned a few in my short day though…but like i said before the fact that she is white is an issue PERIOD…whether you are for or against what she said…the fact that she is white is an issue…race is an issue…this is America!…so no matter how you flip it…if you wanna be the “hippie i love everybody type” or “surpressed angry black woman”…however you wanna label it…race is an issue…it will be an issue…you/me/we all were raised to look at race…the way we can advance the world is by raising our children (i have none) to love people for who they are…erase “races” and the barriers that they will FOREVER create as long as we acknowledge…i don’t what you all believe in but my God created Adam and Eve…in what is known to the world now as Africa…ok…so they more than likely look like what we know as BLACK…but somewhere down the line…the descendants of Adam & Eve sepereated…they began to look differently…no thousands of years later we hate each other…smmfh

  • WordtotheWise

    AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    I live in Portland, OR. and you?

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    Boston, Massachusetts!!!! Shhhhhh…

  • Tee

    On the Real…I did not take it that way..it’s a good question…no, a Black man has never left me for a non Black girl. But I was talking to one of my white males friends one day. Hadn’t seen him in 10 years. Gave him a hug and hugged me longer than usual. I laughed at that in a good way! I thought it was cute. He ended up asking me for a date. I told him I had a boyfriend, which I do and we talked for awhile catching up on old times, but when he walked away, several of my Black male friends went off on me.
    Talking about they better not ever see me with a non Black man. Funny…these are the same guys I get into arguments with about dating non Black girls. DOUBLE STANDARD? absolutely.

  • On the Real

    I understand and I appreciate all of you strong, and very articulate black women, Tee, Leeha, Word to the Wise, and Ugh

    For real I think you all presented great arguments and I wouldn’t disrespect you all like Marquis, even though he’s probably just doing it to get a rise out of you all.

    Like the saying goes, we can agree to disagree right! :)

  • Tee

    @ awwwww…nope…not being sensitive…it is just a blog so why disrespect anybody? why call us out of our name? we are all adults here…if you said it I wouldn’t comment to you again either. I do not need to name call to express myself.

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    Tee, I do get ‘passionate’ sometimes. I’m not for the hyper-sensitive.

  • Tee

    On the Real..I appreciate that. I could not have said it better. I can appreciate what everybody has to say. Thank you for the respect. :)

  • Leeha

    @On the real,
    u are doing a great job of ignoring the historical circumstances of Barack’s father’s infidelity. I already said a man leaving his wife and kids is wrong. But I thing leaving a woman who needs your help to struggle in absolute poverty is really wrong. look Barack’s white mom had the american welfare system to fall back on. She had her middle class parents and her degree to fall back on. What did the African wife have to fall back on in a third world country in the middle of an emerging civil war. I have responded to u with 500 word essays and u really think u are refuting my points with 3 lines. In fact, u have not answered anyone’s questions at all. U are failing in the logical debate department. –and becky had the nerve to say that college educated black men evolved pass black women.

  • Ugh…

    @ On The Real

    We can…goodnight…

  • Leeha

    @on the real

    scratch what I said at the end. u ended up getting all sweet on us, much respect

  • WordtotheWise

    AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    LOL!

    Yes, On the Real, we can, but it’s been fun. Well everyone, good night :-)

  • On the Real

    Lol, awwww thanks Leeha!

  • On the Real

    You don’t have to answer that! Lol, like I said we agree to disagree and having that option is more than enough!

  • Leeha

    I didn’t say that at all, i think u quoted those lines at somebody else earlier. that wasn’t me. But let me answer the question. the world will never know if Obama’s momma swore off all black men after her man left her.

  • On the Real

    My bad, Im getting sleepy! lol. And yep we won’t know….

  • Jane Doe

    Well i never said one word about her realationship with him so I KNOW she aint talking about me.

  • http://www.bossip.com PhillyinDubai

    I guess Russell opt out for the real hair and not a weave……….LMAO

  • Truff

    ^^^^
    Thank you for enlightening us on how this got started.

    As for the angry sisters, please find peace in your lives. The black man is the enemy, white women are the enemy, latino women are stealing our places…….
    Who da hell are ya friends?????

  • beauty001

    She should of just take the criticism and kept walking. There will always be people saying disrespectful things can’t let that get the best of you.

  • Yank and wank they rhyme for a reason

    She is RIGHT so many black people especially black women have such a huge problem with people dating others from different ethnicities especially white. You all need to get a GRIP. She pulled NO punches and she is RIGHT.

  • a darius somewhere

    blood russ aint studden yall,lol….he gone stay milking the system, literally,lol

  • http://www.joetheplugger.com Manuel

    @LOU
    you gotta fight for your right! white boy

    ooops,I gotta go to the “Lou” stomach pain

  • Ian P

    I love it don’t hate her for pulling russel. Personally I dont like russel he is a child molester how old was Kimora when he was messing with her? He is the one that chose to mess with her. She is just trying to defend herself. I agree with everything she is saying its real talk. Is it because she is white no one wants to hear it? Grow up black community. I have

  • http://www.twitter.com/IHearMusique Re—->Does anyone know where I can find my boo Count Dracula?

    I could care less whether this woman is with a black man or not…I would think her running in the high profile circle of Russ would sheild her from many of the negative comments from the black community…

    But anyway, her post was unecessary. It was probably meant for one person in particular, but somehow she just grouped all of us into one pea pod and attempted to smash us.

  • Sydney™

    @Leeha

    “Anyway, when Julie and Russell got in last night and came to say goodnight to me, I was chillin in the downstairs guestroom. I had passed out listening to a Deepak Chopra’s self-help lecture with a mud mask on. Russell opened the door and asked me if I had a man in the bed. Julie told me I looked oily. They then ran upstairs giggling and having a “we’re a couple and you are a loser who is alone in bed with a f*cking mud mask on your face” moment. But like I said before, all of that is absolutely fine with me. I’m fine in the guest room, Fine fine fine!”

    Thanks for the background on this pretty random post, lol. So Russell’s ex wrote this, but she’s still living in his house? LOL! And rather than address Katie personally, Julie decided — very wisely — to just attack people who have nothing to do with this little inside drama. Got it.

  • http://www.twitter.com/IHearMusique Re—->Does anyone know where I can find my boo Count Dracula?

    shield*

  • Sydney™

    Oh, and back to the condescending remark about “poverty” in the black community — Ironically, Russell has been accused of contributing his small part to that issue. The below excerpt is from an article that ran in April on a NY Times blog — the topic was how certain “financial assistance” actually hurts, not helps, the poor:

    “The Takeaway,” the morning news program on public radio, recently did a story on RushCards, which the show describes as “no-credit-check, pre-paid credit cards with $200 credit limits and $50 a year in fees.” (Basically it sounds like a debit card with various fees.)

    Russell Simmons, the hip-hop entrepreneur, has apparently been marketing RushCards primarily to low-income African-Americans. Boyce Watkins, professor of finance at Syracuse University and founder of YourBlackWorld, is unhappy with the results.

    In interview with “The Takeaway,” Professor Watkins says: “Russell, he really– it’s a very interesting sort of idea here — he’s saying ‘I’m giving everyone access to the American Dream,’ but I never really knew the American Dream consisted of having a piece of plastic that puts people further and further in debt. But even a pimp that helps — that quote unquote helps — a young woman get off the street, he can say I helped you because you were homeless when I met you and now you’re not.”

  • http://www.imeem.com/mrslatiayates missunderstood (f*ck some playoffs, I want my TV back!!!!)

    “I realize that in this day of Obama and change that there is still a tremendous amount of poverty suffering and pain in the black community”

    This is EXACTLY why it’s hard for me to accept whites in our “community”. She was “surprised”, she “realized” about the amount of poverty and suffering?!?!?! Where the hell has this lady been? Under a rock? Oh, no! She’s been in her own (white) world, which unfortunately is totally disconnected from the black world. Certainly there are some parallels, (probably more than not) but there are also some fundamental differences that they will never get… I work with a majority of corporate whites, and from the (limited) conversations I have chosen to engage in regarding race, most feel the same way. They have no flipping clue…

  • Souljagir

    I am swirling my damn self. What I don’t understand is why do black women try to intimidate white women? I see the black men trying to do that with my man but he stares right back at them and will scrap with them he holds his own but I get what she means and its trifling!

  • Its Nessa Baby (Gloks Sugar Plum)

    Damn she went bad on the black community…I still think she is a golddigger….i mean i wouldnt want Russ but money makes ppl more appealing…Ex..Jay Z..would anyone talk to him without that money…Not me..and if you cold you have a great stomach

  • Its Nessa Baby (Gloks Sugar Plum)

    could**

  • LEE

    The anger should be toward him not her..

  • http://www.imeem.com/mrslatiayates missunderstood (f*ck some playoffs, I want my TV back!!!!)

    I don’t know of any black women checking for Russ like that. He’s been white longer than bread….the person who said her post was probably directed at someone in particular is probably right…

  • Sydney™

    @Just Sayin

    “Plus BDR never seemed big on sistas any ole way.”

    LOL! Thank you! So any angst over whom he dates is unwarranted, plus I’m sure he’s finding great pleasure in fueling this so-called “controversy.” SMH. Why else would he allow her to post such a message? (This was posted on his site, right?)

    He just needs to take care of his “situation” at home. SMH.

  • OH LAWDY!!!

    morning syd!

  • Its Nessa Baby (Gloks Sugar Plum)

    haha

  • claroliza

    wow! this white girl ain’t playing around. LMAO.

    I’m glad she defended herself against certain black women with an inferiority complex who for some reason can’t handle a black man with a white woman…

    for the record, i am a woman of color…

  • Annon

    I’ve been reading a lot of these posts, and from were I’m standing (I’m a black person from England), I could be totally wrong, but this is what stands out to me: A lot of black people in America are messed up!!! It seems like a lot of the men are brought up by their mammas, without a father in sight … with little confidence and teaching in who they are, and how to be a faithful partner or father (as they become ‘baby-daddys). So the first sight of a white woman from a ‘good home’, who can teach him this role & give him validation, he’s gone! On the other hand, many of the women without a father around, yearn for that fulfilling relationship with their absent black fathers, and try to replace it with thier mystical notion of ‘the ideal black male’ partner. People, we are not living in fairy tales, get strong, fulfilling, enduring love where you can find it, and make sure the next generation doesnt have to go though this heartbreak. … It’s just sad to see! Please stop these damaging cycles!

  • Nik

    You know what? I am not mad at her. If people were talking abd about me like that and didn’t know me I would say the same thing. DOn’t hate her, Russell don’t want non of ya’ll black women anyway.

  • $moK.E.Y.

    :lol:

  • Sydney™

    Good morning Lawdy :)

  • rickyricon

    finally cuz its boring thaT EVERY 1 HERE be calling this chick all these things just cuz she with russel.

  • Lady D

    I don’t blame her for what she said. I would have said the same thing toward anyone (black or white) if they were as mean and disrespectful as I know society can be when it comes to interracial dating. I just don’t think I would let society’s opinion be that important to me. That’s the difference.

  • rome a.k.a. (Fu#k! Da Diaz Bruddaz)

    @
    LEE

    The anger should be toward him not her..

    —————————————————–

    Why should there be anger @ all? That’s what he

    likes.

    She’s a little crass and obviously doesn’t realize

    how her comments will be recieved by the

    demographic of society in she has chosen to address.

    She is obviously young an not very expierienced

    outside of her obviously sheltered upbringing.

    For example

    “I come from a good family and I’m a young independent “successful” model making my way in NYC. (If you don’t believe me google me or go to juliehenderson.net). ”

    Sounds rather bourgeoisie if you ask me…….I’m

    just sayin though.

  • Love Is The Answer

    And for the model up there b please! You may have a little paper but you don’t have Russell paper or his connects which is what you need. Kimora did it too. We call you sac chasers! An old man like that can do nothing for a young woman but pay her.

  • rome a.k.a. (Fu#k! Da Diaz Bruddaz)

    @

    Annon

    I’ve been reading a lot of these posts, and from were I’m standing (I’m a black person from England), I could be totally wrong, but this is what stands out to me: A lot of black people in America are messed up!!! It seems like a lot of the men are brought up by their mammas, without a father in sight … with little confidence and teaching in who they are, and how to be a faithful partner or father (as they become ‘baby-daddys). So the first sight of a white woman from a ‘good home’, who can teach him this role & give him validation, he’s gone! On the other hand, many of the women without a father around, yearn for that fulfilling relationship with their absent black fathers, and try to replace it with thier mystical notion of ‘the ideal black male’ partner. People, we are not living in fairy tales, get strong, fulfilling, enduring love where you can find it, and make sure the next generation doesnt have to go though this heartbreak. … It’s just sad to see! Please stop these damaging cycles!

    —————————————————-

    Be careful not to lump everyone in the same

    boat……….things ain’t always what they seem.

    Our society is very diverse…you can just as easily

    find sites where the comments are not so bleek.

    you just happen to be on the one where “WE JUST

    DON’T GIVE A FU#k!!!!” Don’t get it twisted!!!

  • rome a.k.a. (Fu#k! Da Diaz Bruddaz)

    What up JB?

  • JB Cougarlicious – Free until Aug 2009

    Hey Rome.

    You know I want to just call you Romey Rome, Jerome’s in the house, Jerome’s in the house!!

    OK I got it out.

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!!

    BIG UPS TO MY GAL NESSA , MY SUGAR PLUM!
    NEXT TIME SWEETNESS DONT GET IN IT I REALLY APPRECIATE YOU MUAAAAAHHHHH!

  • JB Cougarlicious – MICHAEL VICK IS FREE!!!!!!!

    Don’t get it twisted!!!
    ______________________________

    Partnah!!!!

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!!

    TODAY ALL MY MALE GROUPIES(FAGGTS) ARE PUT ON IGNORE I CANT FIGHT A BUNCH OF FAGGTS AT ONE TIME ,…. UNCLE RUSS YOU MUST PAY THAT WHITE HOE IN THE BOKUS OF LUCRE……LOVE GLOK9

  • rome a.k.a. (Fu#k! Da Diaz Bruddaz)

    @
    JB

    You know me and Dragon Fly Jones is meetin up @

    Nipsy’s on friday…..something about somebody says

    he owes them some money or somethin.

    ROTFLMMFAO!!!!!!! :-)

  • Love Is The Answer

    @ T. What does hse have in common with him??? Yoga.

  • http://BOSSIP MEME

    How do ya,ll know that blacks are writing this shit.
    black woman let them monkeys go.
    WHO CARES

  • Love Is The Answer

    I knock no ones hustle. If you want to chase sacs for a living have at it.

  • Please!

    How do ya,ll know that blacks are writing this shit.
    black woman let them monkeys go.
    WHO CARES
    ~~

    Black women need to start aborting these failures!

  • rome a.k.a. (Fu#k! Da Diaz Bruddaz)

    If she was really looking for change, she could date a broke man
    —————————————————–

    now that’s “change” fo yo a$$!!!!!!! LMFAO!!!!

  • Littlemisslawgirl

    If they’re happy, i’m all for it. im a black woman and i’m very pro interracial dating. Let’s be serious, i have a top 5 school undergrad degree and about to graduate from law school, no kids, no felonies and from a 2 parent upper middle class family. Black men get intimidated it’s true and my expectations are too high in the first place. People need to think outside of their dating boxes. Black women we’re so loyal to black men in terms of dating and then get mad when they date outside of the race. Get over it. What’s stopping you from doing the same? We always say there aren’t any men out there.. no you’re choosing not to date outside of your race. Cause this anger over black men blows me. Move on.

  • SoooSassy

    Why is this directed at black women? Shouldn’t it be women in general??? Russell is ballin’, but he’s uglier than a muthafuc*a! You can have him….no problem! :D And to add something else, what does Obama being President have to do with anything? Prejedice isn’t dead, there’s always gonna be poverty, and folks ain’t gotta love your swirl game just because it’s 2009 or whatever the fuc* she’s talkin’ about! Get a clue beeotch!

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    Testing

  • resurrected

    We find so much value on the outside and never look deeply in the inside.. The outside will fade and all that you will be left with is the person that in inside that has remanded… What you find on the surface rarely holds any truth…

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    (Towards that chittering monkey Glok)

    Man, will somebody cancel this pathetic pantie waste already!!! I’m pissed that my hard-earned money is being wasted on this sorry sack o’ sh!t who doesn’t have the brains or will to pull his own weight. Man, I wish the ho that shat him out was sent through a meat-grinder as a reward for the simpleton she unleashed on the world.

  • MissBr0nx

    I can respect what she’s sayin cuz it’s real talk. She has caught a lotta heat from jealous bitter women who don’t know her from a hole in the wall. Not every woman with a successful man is a golddigger. Some of u women need to take her advice, get a man, a job, lose some weight, fix your hair and face and u to can land urself a decent man and STOP WORRYIN ABOUT MEN WHO DON’T EVEN KNOW U EXIST!

  • twinkle

    I don’t think I’ve ever heard any of my fiends say they were attracted to Russell. He’s not what’s happening in my neiborhood!

  • Jazmine

    Now this bytch is asking for an a** whooping!!! How dare she say “I realize that in this day of Obama and change that there is still a tremendous amount of poverty, suffering and pain in the black community, and for that I am deeply sorry…”!!!! Is she really trying to say that because of our painful histories we are directing our angry comments at her?!?!?!? Kind of like saying we have nothing better to do and no one better to direct our comments twoards but a pure white woman!!! Well bytch let me tell you something. No one’s thinking about your a**! Funny thing is I could have cared less about you being “friendly” with Russ but now you’ve started some shyt and opened a whole ‘nother can of worms. Bytch, before you open your mouth you need to think. You’re da** right my people are angry about the poverty, and injustice in our communities. We’re sick of the Hurricane Katrina treatment and aren’t going to stand for the B.S. anymore but how dare you say or even think that because of our poverties and pain we are directing hatred twoards your a**!!!! Get a clue dummy! Did you ever think that the negattive comments were coming from somewhere, anywhere else but from our pain, poverty and suffering?!?!?!? Girl, you’ve really struck a nerve with me and Russell is just as big a fool for dealing with a bytch that could make comments like this about his people, his race. The funny thing is I really don’t think people were poking fun at you because your white. If the mention of you being white came up it’s only because the shyt is true dumb a**! YOU ARE WHITE!!! I believe people were moreso poking fun at how quickly Russ breezes through these young dumb women these days. Only chick he didn’t breeze through was Kimora and that’s b/c she wasn’t having the shyt and please believe he has the utmost love and respect for her to this day…check the open letter to her for mothers day dumb bytch! Furthermore, no one wants your man and no ones TRULY thinking about you! If I saw uncle Russ in the streets I’d say piss on him simply because if he chooses to f**k with dumb broads such as yourself…he would never know how to handle a true black queen like me. NOW NAMASTE THAT BYTCH!

  • pm

    nothing better then a strong white woman standing behind her black man..lol just face it these white new age white girl are not afraid of yall anymore.

  • Sookie

    who cares to whom this woman’s comment was officially directed. people have been dissin this man for years for one reason or another. bottom line is he made a name/business for himself and his family and alot of his own people hate him for it. they are jealous. and instead of giving him any type of respect, you make fun of his looks (and he’s NOT ugly you stupid heffa’s), poke at him not being ghetto enough/thug enough, and judge him on all levels.

    i’m pro interracial dating. for no other reason but simply because we’re all human, and i love diversity and think we shouldn’t hold back any person from loving whomever we want.

    but insecure, dysfunctional idiots will always make a bigger issue out of it and try to bring up social issues and the dysfunction within their own race as a result of it. it’s stupid.

    alot of intelligent posts out here. but to those wack ones, and you know who you are, angry black women saying she doesn’t have the right to speak out about this, to you as say STFU, ho sit down!!!! I LOVE the fact she had the balls to stand up and say something.

  • OH LAWDY!!!

    SHE CAN HAVE RUSSY WITH HIS SAGGY BALLS. NO BLACK WOMAN COULD SERIOUSLY WANT HIM EXCEPT FOR HIS STACKS!

  • Speaking the truth…

    The point of the matter as a woman there was really no need for the letter period. She mad herself look young, and inexperienced in dealing with relationship and self-esteem issues.

  • Divine

    @Speaking the truth…

    The point of the matter as a woman there was really no need for the letter period. She mad herself look young, and inexperienced in dealing with relationship and self-esteem issues.
    Speaking the truth…

    The point of the matter as a woman there was really no need for the letter period. She mad herself look young, and inexperienced in dealing with relationship and self-esteem issues.
    ————————————

    EXACTLY! You definitely spoke the truth.

  • Please!

    Black people need to start boycotting Russell!

  • Cutie

    If she really didn’t care what people said, why did she say anything? I just think it’s a waste of time to “express” yourself and then say “I don’t care what people think about me”..pointless

  • http://www.modelsandmoguls.com Models And Moguls

    Models and Moguls…where there’s one you’ll find the other.

  • Cutie

    @ Divine

    Maybe she “wants” to be questioned by her comments in the media. LOL. She prob only did this so that she can get more modeling gigs and dumb azz Ruseell doesn’t even peep her weak game. Dang Divine..you caught that one.

  • Divine

    Cutie

    If she really didn’t care what people said, why did she say anything? I just think it’s a waste of time to “express” yourself and then say “I don’t care what people think about me”..pointless

    ———————————–
    Exactly. That means not only do you care, you are insecure. Seems like she’s trying to convince herself that she doesn’t care.

  • Cutie

    @ Just Some Cat

    …and you are apart of the statistic. LOL. They irony of your “comment” which made you 434 and now me 438. Let’s place a bet…Maybe it got to 1,700 comments today (keep in mind that the data is slightly skewed being that this obviously was placed at midnight)…let me know if you down and I will link you to my pay pal account.

  • CottonCandy

    Who the hell the cares about her “special” relationship with Russell? No one wants him. Is she for real?

  • Divine

    Cutie

    @ Just Some Cat

    …and you are apart of the statistic. LOL. They irony of your “comment” which made you 434 and now me 438. Let’s place a bet…Maybe it got to 1,700 comments today (keep in mind that the data is slightly skewed being that this obviously was placed at midnight)…let me know if you down and I will link you to my pay pal account.

    —————————
    HA!!! I was going to point out the irony and hypocrisy of his statement you beat me to it..
    #439 :)

  • Cutie

    @ Divine

    See, we have to stick together. Some of these comments make me think I’m losing my mind but once again, real recognize real. Also, I had a epiphany this morning about blogs. I’ve taken philosophy and critical thinking a few semesters back and I kind of feel like this is all blogs are about (which is wonderful). I mean, it’s a a cool way to express yourself and also get feedback, argue(which is healthy) because everyone will NOT agree with you. I know I went off the deep end but these blogs be the business :-)

  • elle

    uh no thanks honey you can have Russ his saggy gut is a complete and utter turn off. on a brighter note I will give her a penny for her thoughts.

    I just would like to know what poverty she’s been exposed to hanging with russell. lets be clear not all black folks are suffering on yahts and living in mansions you know?

  • Just Some Cat

    @cutie and @divine,

    Maybe it’s time for a few more critical thinking classes. The point isn’t adding comments, it’s the constant sad nature of a major percentage of our people unable to control their emotions when someone says or does something they don’t like.

    You sistas that trip over things like this are the same as the dumb brotha in the club who wants to beat up someone for steppin on his sneakers. Mentally weak.

  • Undacuvabrutha

    @ Cutie

    Whose lips are those?

  • http://www.imeem.com/mrslatiayates missunderstood (f*ck some playoffs, I want my TV back!!!!)

    Can someone please tell me why (especially if you are one) why do you get on a blog to argue? I thought it was about stating your opinion, POV, thoughts, which will ALWAYS be in direct opposition to SOMEONE? (get over it) Some folks eagerly await to log on and see the next salacious story, SIMPLY TO ARGUE with the next person. That’s just STUPID and CORNY.
    Nobody has to see eye to eye with you, (or me for that matter), or be all “racially harmonious” just cause you wish the world was that way.
    If you think the bytch was right on, GREAT. If you think her comments were off-color, GREAT.
    Just stop the pettiness. It’s the only thing that makes me sick about this whole ‘blogging phenomenon’…
    *stepping down off my soapbox and getting back to the real work @ hand*

  • rome a.k.a. (Fu#k! Da Diaz Bruddaz)

    @ missunderstood (f*ck some playoffs, I want my TV back!!!!)

    ————————————————–

    Thank you soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo……much!!!

  • Cutie

    @ Just Some Cat

    ..and that’s your opinion and you’ve just proved my point. Thank you.

  • Cutie

    @ Just Some Cat

    Also, you never got back with me about whether or not that bet was on. I’m ready to win some money boo.

    @ Undacuvabrutha

    Mine without any botox or injections..and that’s my nose too (smile)

  • Undacuvabrutha

    @ Cutie

    Damn, ever kissed a stranger?

  • DenverBruh

    Sistas, if BDR is so busted why are you still talking about him. Maybe he doesn’t want a woman thats looking for a payday.

  • Lady Star

    I see people talked about me after I left last night. Oh well, I aint scared and mama know you weaklings wouldnt talk about me if I was here because I dont play that mess.

    Haters are everywhere but when you got it going on people will always hate. Wow, I so love being ME!!!

  • DenverBruh

    And sistas, how are you going to get mad at her for saying it like that when you would say it like that too. Just saying.

  • Undacuvabrutha

    @ Lady Star

    How big do you like ‘em?

  • http://myspace.com/crimiegang snoop bloggy blog ( a.k.a. Dough DiMaggio)

    Russ love him some white puzzy….do you Russ and say hello to the haters….lol

  • http://signoftimes@msn.org mild sauce head of my own tradition ™

    @get real son… You know damn well thats not me talking on here, you know thats an imposter, plus all the sane folks i talk to before know thats not me and not how i talk.. why are you answering the fakers? i told you i wont be on here making comments to anyone.. i had to tell you that… and after this week i wont be on at all.. switched shifts and this site wont be missed because too many silly childish imposters… The imposters can have it!

  • http://signoftimes@msn.org mild sauce head of my own tradition ™

    @ get real son.. i told you my props are 02299, check then before you think you are conversing with me!

  • Undacuvabrutha

    ???

  • Divine

    @DenverBruh

    Sistas, if BDR is so busted why are you still talking about him. Maybe he doesn’t want a woman thats looking for a payday.
    —————————————–
    So…you think a young beautiful *relative* model would be with Russy if he was broke?
    I’m just asking.
    Most rich men know they are getting models because of their money. PERIOD. And they don’t care.

    So lets just be honest and call a spade a spade.
    Russell isn’t cute.
    He is rich and the girl is with him because he’s rich.
    I’m sure he treats her well.
    He said he would give Kimora expensive gifts and take her on trips to woo her. I’m sure he did the same thing with Miss Julie.

    To say “maybe he doesn’t want a woman thats looking for a payday”, I think he does.

  • antoniothegreat

    “I cant stand mixing races. What is the world coming too when a wealthy black man wants to spread the wealth with the devil?”

    you are crazy

  • Lady Star

    Mama know a snake in the grass when she see one and this little white girl is out for financial justice.

  • JB Cougarlicious – MICHAEL VICK IS FREE!!!!!!!

    Why are people giving this girl and Kimora’s baby daddy so much attention when there are more important things going on in life? Like Michael Vick is OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! “Babdy Daddy Russell”, could care less what we think. So why do you waste your time?

  • Lady Star

    Russ wrapp it up baby or you will being paying the devil until your dying day! I can see her now in court talking about “I need $40k a month to maintain my lifestyle I shared while making our son”

  • Lady Star

    Oh boy, that aninal killer is free again. God dont like ugly!

  • http://iolastar.com/blog iolastar

    23? 23? 23? 23? And she’s Ms. Right Now???? What about a chick that’s 43? Her response wasn’t mature it showed her age.

  • flawda

    It’s 2009 and you small minded people don’t see the big picture. Let people date whomever they want,i have no problem with interracial dating as long as it’s for valid reasons (not because you had a bad experience with one race). We (black people) really need to get off this please the black community thing, i keep it real to my fam and friends and that’s all that matters.

  • Lady Star

    Oh lawd!

  • Lady Shady

    Get over it Russel doesn’t want any of yall either, his wife was a half breed with good hair and skinny too i may add, then he had another interracial girlfriend, why would his daughters be ashamed of this new girlfriend? so stupid.

  • Cutie

    @ Lady Shady

    OKAY!!! I be driving to the gym in the morning and be locking my doors..meantime, dem white girls be running up and down the street in booty shorts and cut of tops at 5am in Downtown ATL. You are right. They are NOT scared. LOL

  • Divine

    @flawda

    It’s 2009 and you small minded people don’t see the big picture. Let people date whomever they want,i have no problem with interracial dating as long as it’s for valid reasons (not because you had a bad experience with one race). We (black people) really need to get off this please the black community thing, i keep it real to my fam and friends and that’s all that matters.
    ———————————————
    Hmmm…So..:)
    She brought up the black community thing.
    And she also seems to think what others say matters.
    So for others to comment on what she said, I believe is fair game.
    I think the majority of the comments don’t care that she’s with Russell.
    I just found her need to “address” something to anonymous people with the comments she had was just immature and will not serve her well.
    She shows her own insecurity about her interracial relationship.

    But she has the right to put her foot in her mouth, I guess.

  • Tony Redd fka Redd Tony

    so this where everyone is. Why am I not suprised…lol

  • Dannie

    And why does Russell feel the need to defend who he likes all the time? You don’t like black women (unless they’re half something else or less). That’s not a crime. What does he feel guilty or something? Coming from a fully Ethiopian woman i’m not losing any sleep over Russell not liking black women.

  • Mrs.

    I personally agree with this chick find your own man and don’t talk stuff because what he is black she is white. People need to get over this race thing in this day and age, you can’t help who you love no matter what color they are.

  • twinkle

    Oops meant “friends”

  • intensemocha

    WHEN SHE GET’S RUSS TO MARRY HER AZZ AND SHE SHIAT OUT SOME KIDS AND THEY’VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR YEARS THEN SHE CAN PASS OUT SOME ADVICE

    UNTIL THEN NOBODY GIVES A SHIAT-RUSS STAY TOSSIN CHICKS SHE’S THE GIRL FOR THE MOMENT-BETTER FOCUS YOUR ATTENTION ON KEEPING HIM AND STOP WORRYING ABOUT BLACK WOMEN-THAT ALONE WILL KEEP YOU BUSY

  • Lady Shady

    wow, “always knew” is very angry, i hope life gets better for her.

  • Dannie

    I don’t like what he stands for. Which is why I think that every blk female should BOYCOTT all of Russell Simmons’and Kimora’s stores, gear and creations…

    ———-

    I didn’t know people still wore Baby Phat . . . wow.

  • Seek the light beyond the shadows

    And if that snow bunny happens to come across this blog, I want that lil skank to know there is not enough money in the world to make me want to kiss a worm. However some of us come from different back grounds. She knows how to get ahead just like any other jump off. Special Friend my ass.

  • always knew

    @Lady Shady

    wow, “always knew” is very angry, i hope life gets better for her.
    __________________________________________________

    I knew some retard would get it twisted..

    I am already married and happily married.

    I am tired of blk men turning their backs on our community. I could care less about the snowflake on his arm.

    This is exactly why blk boys (not men), think that
    in order to be with Becky/ Julie, somehow they are not a part of us, but only when it come to dollars.

    Yes, I think that Russ has a ALOT of issues d yes, hating blk women of them..

    If everybody thought like Russ, there would be noone left in our community….

    Only blk women whose self-esteem is so low, you would internalize it and ‘try’ to make me the angry blk woman, how come I just can’t tell the truth?

    It speaks volumes about his character, or lack there of…

  • LuvLA

    Look at him!? ANYONE not dating him for his money is LYING!!
    This is such a racist website!
    ——-OBAMA IS HALF WHITE, people!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Caitlin

    @ Oshie

    People like you make me sick. Running your mouth about staying with your own. We are all people and we all have feelings and color should not matter when it comes to love. Love has no color so you need to wake up and realize times are changing.

  • always knew

    And if the b-tch wasn’t racist, she would’ve made the comment, about ALL females, not singling out a particular group. What a dumb wht hoe. Now can you honestly tell me that Russell doesn’t encourage this kind of behaviour?

    Whatev…

  • Not Trying to be a Hater

    I think I speak for all black women when I say: WE DON’T WANT RUSSELL SIMMONS!!! Never did, never will. However, like you, we want his money, but DEFINITELY not him.

  • always knew

    @breezy00- you know what I mean. You look exactly the type….
    :)

    Anymore questions?

    And I think blk women only give back, what you dish out..

    We suffer the most, when the blk guy that you are screwing, has to be disrespectful toward us, just because he is screwing one of you…

    And because of the brain washing of blk Americans, that’s why I chose to marry foreign. American blks have too many issues and have sold-out along time ago…

  • breezy00

    @ always knew..
    I would PREFER that blks date blk.

    BUT, I don’t care who anybody is dating.

    I hate when blk women or blk men get with other races and slight their own just to be with some
    wht person. Why can’t you date who you want without having to distance yourself from your own community/ culture..

    And really I dislike that you *snowflakes* can divide us like that…We should’ve a had a stronger bond, but some of us hate our skin color so bad, we’ll do anything to be wht…

    SMDH.
    _________________________
    it seems like you’re more intelligent then what you make yourself to be. Sure, you have a preference, but you don’t care who anybody is dating, its just when a race abandons their OWN culture after they date another race. which is understandable, ANY race should never forget who they are.

    NOW…
    calling me a snowflake..amusing. Do you even KNOW my race? obviously not. so before you start being disrespectful, you should know your facts.

  • breezy00

    @ always knew..

    when the blk guy that you are screwing, has to be disrespectful toward us, just because he is screwing one of you
    _______________
    is that even necessary…
    and again, what is
    “one of you”?

  • always knew

    Look at these stupid women insisting race doesn’t matter, and you are always at the bottom of the totem pole? Don’t you get it?

    When blk women swirl, you don’t hear them denigrate blk men. Most of the time, they’ll say I’m dating/ married outside of my race but I still am down for my people. They don’t get bRAND NEW just because they are messing with another race…

    Only blk men, take it to the extreme, like this..
    :(

  • Nina Knows

    whats up always knew :) …. trying to school the ignorant I see.

    keep hope alive sista… these dummies are lost.

  • http://gypsygirl713@aol.com oshie the troll imposter

    nina nose, wassup u ugly fat ho. me n brooke lynn n my other homie dont like u at all.

  • always knew

    Breezy- screw you and your opinion….”it seems like you’re more intelligent then what you make yourself to be”
    ____________________________________________
    Respect works both ways, and if you don’t want to be disrespected, then I suggest you stop insulting me. You ALOT less intelligent than what you already seem.. You posting a wht pic? That’s not you? Insecure? Or just want to be wht or pretend, either way, it doesn’t bother me..

    OR are you OSHIE trolling again?
    :)

    Snowflake, your opinion doesn’t matter to me..

    You people are famous for turning words around…

  • STARcasm

    Dear Julie,

    I have been seeing Russell around for a long time—since about the time you were 6—and he is not cute. There has always been a fight for change, since the inception of this country so no need to apologize, it is what it is, but what makes you think that all Black women’s (and not other races) realities are a tremendous amount of poverty, suffering and pain? And even if some are, what makes you think they are mad at you about that? Why do you feel the need to explain yourself to us? “(If you don’t believe me google me or go to juliehenderson.net)” ALOT of us care less!!!

    You as well as everyone else know that you are a simple opportunist. I wouldn’t touch Russell with a thirty nine and a half inch pole dude. alot more rich guys who look better…id date ralph lauren before russell.

    Alas, take what you can get…you’re quite average in the white world.

    Love,

    Starcasm

  • always knew

    @nina knows- hey sis, what’s up? I’m glad that you’re here…

    Trolls are annoying me and I think it’s on purpose..

    They tried to run glok off, but I haven;t run into anyone yet, besides you, not even Re, and she’s always good for jokes and laughs.
    :)

  • Oshie

    Ugh…impostors

  • Nina Knows

    test

  • Nina Knows

    always knew

    I keep trying to type to you…. but they wont post it.

  • always knew

    what happened breezy?

    no more salted comments?
    :)

  • Nina Knows

    where did my coo coo friend dre go?

  • Aboogie

    I find this ish hilarious… She is 23 and the evil back lash im seeing on this commentary just exemplifies where she is comming from… i hate to mix such a peaceful sentiment with crassness but i must agree with Julie “Namaste B*tches” LMAO

    - A young educated Black woman doing the damn thing not threatened by the love and happiness of others no matter what color

  • always knew

    nina knows-they do that to me too

    lady next door- I usually agree with your posts. This time it looks like, we are opposite sides.
    I think that there is a shortage of good men,no matter their color…

    I don’t agree with the way Russell does his ish…

    Why does she single out blk women, instead of all women…

    I have had blk women stare/ disrespect me when I am out with my hubby. But I don’t let it bother me. I am secure in my relationship/ marriage…

    Noone can take something away from you,if it ruly belongs to you….(no matter the color)…
    :)

  • in4mustpimpette

    Yeah, and if BDR lost all of his money today will she be with him tomorrow. take it from a black woman, we laugh every time you have to pretend that you enjoy sleeping with that old wrinkle dusty man. Now your shopping sprees that’s a whole different story.

  • always knew

    truly- excuse typo

  • The Progressive Sista

    Though a lil tacky for my taste, i liked the way she ended that letter. Black women need to stop getting so ignorant and bitter over every black man that doesn’t choose them. It makes us look insecure. Get your own man is right.

  • Aboogie

    And and… Fellow african american black people what ever you want to call your selves, though we live in one of the richest countries in the world… we are still suffering from poverty and this current recession puts many of us on here one check away from poverty our selves. If you are not aware of the lack of education and opprotunities that still remain a struggle for many of our minority youth, hell, urban youth, ultra rural youth, you yourself are not doing a damn thing to help… Home girl got money in the bank, is rolling around with the man who damn near created a bank, RUSH CARD, for those broke asses who mismanaged their money cause they probably didnt know any better… She is young and awakened to the fact that sorrow plagues others, at least she has the sight, brain and heart capacity to acknowledge it and the taste and discernment to roll with a dude that has BEEN doing things to help…

  • Nina Knows

    shut up Dre.

  • That_Chick

    Wow white girl got an attitude she sound like and inside out oreo to me maybe thats why russell likes her lol

  • in4mustpimpette

    I’ll see if she was dating Blair Underwood or Ginuwine But it’s Russell “Blood Diamond” Simmons Trust me I don’t know one black woman that’s angry about this. he’s like flavor flav just with money. trust me if Russell Simmons didn’t have any money and he’s was an old black man, she wouldn’t be checkin for him either.

  • LOONEY, LOON

    LMAO

  • Philly

    #1..i have a hubby so i couldnt care less about what another man is doing

    #2..i hate to say it but alot of black men have triflin’ mentals regarding women so if a white chick will spare a sista grief, i say “cheers to you”

    russ is a pimp so this chick with the opinions wont last long anywhoo!

  • in4mustpimpette

    @ Philly Thank You I Agree 100%

  • Nina Knows

    Philly… you on point with that one.

  • ummmmmm

    if russ wasn’t rich which this b*tch be with him? how many poor “special friends” does she have? It sounds like she feels sorry for all the “poor black folks” oute there lol like being friends with russel opened her eyes to poverty in the AA community????? Please dating him has opened her eyes to the lavish lifestyle of a man who is in denial about his own age !

  • Fab.

    “a lot” is two words, skeeze.

  • Ruthell Thimmons

    Good day, Bothipers.

    I wanted to ethpreth my conthern with thoth of you who think I’m thelling out the black community by dating Julie. I’ll thekond my ride-or-die chick, Bith, get your own man.

    Namathte,
    Ruthell

  • Fab.

    LMAO!!!

  • me (the original)®

    Seriously, someone (like Always Knew please or maybe Nina–no trolls, kthx) point out to me what I’m missing. I’m not seeing how she’s lumping all black women together. I agree, she didn’t need to talk about the issues in the black community, poverty and sh*t but other than that, it sounds like she was just addressing people who were talking grimy about chicks calling her a white opportunist ho and stuff.

    I’ll say she’s naive if she feels that the only people calling her out are poor people. It makes it sound like all Black women talking down to her must be poor but outside of that I’m not picking up anything other than “get off my back.”

    Enlighten me.

  • me (the original)®

    Ruthell Thimmons

    Good day, Bothipers.

    I wanted to ethpreth my conthern with thoth of you who think I’m thelling out the black community by dating Julie. I’ll thekond my ride-or-die chick, Bith, get your own man.

    Namathte,
    Ruthell
    ——————————-

    **DEAD** LOLOL

  • me (the original)®

    *talking grimy about her, that sentence should read.

  • Treez

    Ok I don’t support how she came so hard, but the hate that she has recieved from some blacks is REAL, so can you really blame her?

    Additionally, some of these comments really make me sad for the future of our people. If a white person said some of these things all of us would be up in arms, but many of you rationalize your racisim and think its funny or cute. Well people its not cute, and you shame all blacks when you continue to spead your hate.

  • Fab.

    Man… this broad is garbage water. And even worth my anger. *NEXT*

  • tj

    Omg rereading her post it is actually really offensive it was the most condescending thing I’ve ever heard from a white girl. “Sorry” “noticed some subtle things’ as if we are an exotic species. Btw don’t call something subtle then locate obtrusive examples.
    Russ needs to go ahead and date a white man we all know that’s what he’s really into any how. I’m done next I will never waste a dime or my time on Russ or this white “model” (who is not even cute I have a few white friends who are WAAAAAY prettier) again.

  • Fab.

    *not

  • Ruthell Thimmons

    By the way, yeth… thee ith my thpethial friend. You have heard of thpethial frienth, right? You know… frienth with benefiths? If you thtill don’t know, look up tantric thex in the dithtionary.

    Namathte,
    Ruthell

  • Treez

    @Moboogs

    lmao!!!! I was thinking the same thing. And this heffer has the nerve to be talking about going to church and spreading hate at the same time

  • always knew

    @me- I just think that if it weren’t her trying to start some ish by calling out blk women in particular, she wouldn’t feel the need to go hard at blk women. W bear the brunt of everyones’ crap.

    How come it just didn’t apply to women in general, but expressly to blk women…
    :(

    that’s why I don’t agree with russ or this wht female..

  • Lady Shady

    I knew some retard would get it twisted..

    I am already married and happily married.

    I am tired of blk men turning their backs on our community. I could care less about the snowflake on his arm.

    This is exactly why blk boys (not men), think that
    in order to be with Becky/ Julie, somehow they are not a part of us, but only when it come to dollars.

    Yes, I think that Russ has a ALOT of issues d yes, hating blk women of them..

    If everybody thought like Russ, there would be noone left in our community….

    Only blk women whose self-esteem is so low, you would internalize it and ‘try’ to make me the angry blk woman, how come I just can’t tell the truth?

    It speaks volumes about his character, or lack there of…

    ————————————
    LOL, I guess you told me huh, you’re so pleasant, you’re not angry then… LMAO

  • Lady Shady

    OK “always knew” you’re very happy in life, it shows.

  • HF

    @ me (the original)®

    All I have 2 say about this is thread is that I’m not angry, just dissapointed. I’ve been waiting 4 this day 4 a long time…

  • Nina Knows

    testing

  • always knew

    She makes Russell seem like he’s retarded or somehting! LOL!
    _______________________

    He is.

    Lady Shady- get off me. why are you so worried about me?

    No life of your own?

    Measuring happiness?

    I guess you’re just above us all, TROLLS.

    Gotta love em :)

  • sylqia

    Russell should be embarrassed; she felt comfortable calling his race of women a vulgar name and he’s just grinning.

  • wifey06

    YEAH RIGHT…LOL.. has she ever dated a broke black man. If you are the get with white girl… date black men with money…. you are agold digger.

    yo azs surely would not date an average black man…

  • always knew

    @Lady Shady

    OK “always knew” you’re very happy in life, it shows.
    ____________________________________________

    You must be even worse than I am, oh happy one

    otherwise you wouldn’t be concerned how happy I am

    or what I am doing. In real life, you wouldn’t but

    since you have no life, you find it necessary to

    follow me around and troll extensively.

    I’m happy for you :)

  • me (the original)®

    HF

    @ me (the original)®

    All I have 2 say about this is thread is that I’m not angry, just dissapointed. I’ve been waiting 4 this day 4 a long time…
    ————————————-

    LOL

    @ Always Knew

    Are you calling me a Devil’s Advocate? o_0

  • Nina Knows

    @Treez

    “All American blacks have white genes as part of their make up as a byproduct”
    ______________________________________
    are you 100% sure about that?! and besides having a mutated white gene down the line. and actally white or black in Amerikka is two totally differnt things. I’m sure hardly no one is walking around with a dna card in the pocket.

    @always knew….
    I know they called themselves schooling you… but it didnt work. You are a very intelligent woman… so sad their arent more like you sista.

  • Treez

    @ breezy00

    Ignore the haters girl, you are anything but confused as always knew tried to put it.

  • Genni

    She talking a LOT of mess for someone that probably will be replaced in a couple months…Silly chick.

  • jsabp

    This is a mess! Im still mad.

  • Treez

    @ Nina

    I’m not exactly sure what you are trying to say or what your point is, but I just want you to think for a moment…how did American blacks get lighter than African blacks. You don’t need a DNA card to put 2 n 2 together.

  • Ummmmmm….

    Now see, if this ho is so concerned about racism and equal rights, I’ll be waiting for her to blog about some real $hit to make you go hmmmmmmmmmm..:

    Why do churches attended by primarily black people get labeled ‘black churches’ yet this type of racial labelling doesn’t happen with every church???????

    Why is affirmative action so wrong yet no one has done anything about all of the Billy Bob’s and Becky Sue’s that barely finished college sober yet get the hookup with a phat job when they graduate?

    ….and lastly, probably more on this simple-minded trick’s level…WHY HAS THERE NEVER BEEN A BLACK — or any other minority for that matter –”THE BACHELOR” and WHY DOES NO ONE CARE? (note – Flavor Flav and Ray J do not count.)

    Save it Julie! We all know what you REALLY care about! $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

  • Nina Knows

    lol… pathedic broad. You are NOT oshie. Damn you must really love that white chick.

  • http://gypsygirl713@aol.com oshie the troll imposter

    one time i ooened my legs to show this fine black man my cooch n he kept walking.

  • tg

    Must we be subjected to another white man’s view or observations of us. She need to shut her azz up. I don’t hate because she is with Russell, but I sure don’t want to hear anything out this girls mouth because she thinks she is something for being with Russell. Sit down “HO”

  • Treez

    @ Nina – sweetie if you think light skinned Africans are the reason why American blacks are light skinned you’re the one who needs to do some research boo…

    And please don’t tell me what I’m trying to say. Assumptions make you look like an @zz…Only twins have the same genetic make up, other than that every single person on the planet has a different genetic makeup. I referenced that FACT b/c everyone wants to hate on white people when it comes to dating eventhough more likely than not they have white blood in them. So my point is stop the damn hate!

    Obviously, I know the difference between having white blood and being white…you miss my point though. Hating on whites b/c you, and other blacks like you, feel some duty to patrol what constitutes blackness or staying true to the race is just as bad as whites who discriminate and hate on blacks (Honestly, your hate is even more egregious b/c you should know better since you likely have experience what it feels like to be hated on because of your race.

    I don’t know how old you are, but if you over 50 I can understand that your experiences with white people may have made you salty and bitter and maybe you can’t rap your mind around interracial dating; however if your under the age of 50 shame on you for perdetuating that hate on the basis of race is ok.

  • Nina Knows

    rofl@Treez….

    um, yea ok. who said something about light skinned anything?…

    Please stop typing, your already behind enough as is.

  • Sydney™

    “By the way, yeth… thee ith my thpethial friend. You have heard of thpethial frienth, right? You know… frienth with benefiths? If you thtill don’t know, look up tantric thex in the dithtionary.

    Namathte,
    Ruthell”

    Omigoodness. . .

    LMBAO!

    *still laughing*

  • Sydney™

    I’m still trying to figure out what poverty in the black community has to do with having a relationship with a black man. This so reminds me of one of those dreaded “you people” conversations that I’ve had on occasion with non-blacks. . .

    *scratching head*

  • Nina Knows

    Treez.. your a joke. I pointed out light skinned simply because you make it seem like that was the direction of my comment, which it was not.

    I didnt comment on the rest of your sorry little rant because, well, frankly… who cares, your just a cyber idiot.

    and btw, calm down sweetie, its not that serious, no need to get angry.

  • Nina Knows

    Hi Sydney :)

  • http://dicooper.spaces.live.com/ DICooper

    She’s 23 and smokin’ hot.

    Russell wins.

  • Carla

    Tee, that reminds me of the time when I was going out with this guy named Adam. Well, let me tell you everyone (and some people that I didn’t know) had the nerve to grill me about Adam. They were asking me why was I going out with him, Are you doing it for the money ? Do you hate Black guys ? That took me by surprise, lol…

  • Treez

    @ Nina – it is serious boo, b/c you are trying to make it seem like its not a big deal for black people to spread hate.

    If you don’t want to date a white person fine, I get it its not for you, but why the need to hate on other people’s happiness?

    But its ok boo, do you, we all have to live our lives and we will all met our maker one day and answer for our sins….I wonder what you will say? No response necessary…like I said do you boo boo.

  • Cavi

    The reason why black women are so bitter is because black men made us that way. Black men don’t know how to be men. Point, blank period. It’s evident in the thug culture many of them emulate and the fact that IF they go to school and become successful they suddenly want a white woman because they feel it makes them look better in the white man’s eyes. Black men are the only ppl singing the praises of interracial dating. Do white men do this? No because they can do whatever they want. Black men are the ones who feel they have to justify it and are beeter for it.

  • Just Sayin

    I ain’t sayin she a gold digga…

  • Sydney™

    Hey Nina :) How are you?

  • One Who Knows

    To Mapple and Marquis De Sade – actually, the new Black is marrying someone the same color as your mother. I’m sure that your mother’s are absolutely thrilled that you wouldn’t want someone like her or your sister, aunt, cousin – anywhoo, you get the picture! I pity all of you who feel the way you do about your own people!

  • Just Sayin

    @ Cavi

    The reason why black women are so bitter is because black men made us that way. Black men don’t know how to be men. Point, blank period. It’s evident in the thug culture many of them emulate and the fact that IF they go to school and become successful they suddenly want a white woman because they feel it makes them look better in the white man’s eyes. Black men are the only ppl singing the praises of interracial dating. Do white men do this? No because they can do whatever they want. Black men are the ones who feel they have to justify it and are beeter for it.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    ?

  • Treez

    @ Cavi

    I understand where you are coming from, but aren’t black women to blame as well for accepting “Thug Culture”?

  • Sydney™

    @Nina

    By the way, many of the points that you and Always Knew made aren’t going to be appreciated on this site (but I’m sure you already know that, lol).

    The post was offensive, period, and if some people don’t think so or can’t see the underlying patronizing tone, then so be it. And if the conflict that precipitated this whole situation has to do with another black woman who dated Russ and is still living in his house (I’m referencing the post that another blogger shared earlier from one of Russ’s exes), it has nothing to do with you, me, or the next sista. That’s a personal issue — keep the black community out of it. :)

  • always knew

    I’m back…. Where’s breezy?

    My point is this:

    I could care less if you are blue with purple polka dots….

    IF YOU CHOOSE TO BE WITH A WHITE WOMAN, GOOD FOR YOU! THE POINT BEING, HER RANT WAS TO BLK WOMEN.
    RUSSELL ENCOURAGED HER. HE HAD ALREADY COMPLETELY LEFT THE COMMUNITY. NOT A ‘PERSONAL’ ISSUE, BUT A BLK WOMAN ISSUE. THE SLANTS, SLIGHTS WERE NOT NECESSARY, SHE COULD’VE POSTED TO ALL WOMEN, SHE SINGLED OUT BLK WOMEN, NOT COOL, AT ALL..

    I DON’T ENVY HER, EVEN WITH ALL OF RUSSELL’S “MONEY”…i AM HAPPY WITH MY LIFE. THIS IS A BIG PROBLEM IN OUR COMMUNITY, PEOPLE THINK IN ORDER TO BE SUCCESSFUL, THEY HABE TO TURN THEIR BACK ON OUR COMMUNITY. WHAT WAS THE PURPOSE OF HER BLOG?? CAN ANYBODY EXPLAIN THAT? THERE WAS NO POINT. SHE CAST IT OUT, AND SHE IS GETTING HER JUST DESSERTS..
    :)

  • always knew

    HAVE * EXCUSE TYPO

  • Cavi

    @ JUST SAYIN
    WHAT DO U MEAN “?”
    @Treez
    No. most women like the thugs because they have money. If these same men were going out and being doctors and lawyers and weren’t thugs then the women would like the doctors and not the drug dealers. The men choose to be thugs to make money and attract women even though there are other ways to make money.

  • Caitlin

    I guess now I know what people are thinking everytime me and my man go out to have a good time. Luckily I don’t give a damn how other people feel about it. I love my man and my man loves me. That is all that matters. I didn’t know so many black women were so hateful about a white women dating a black man. I’m glad I live in the Midwest where I don’t see THIS much racism going on.

  • always knew

    @ME- didn’t mean anything, just referring to your post about playing devils’ advocate,I didn’t feel like copying and pasting whole post :)

  • LMAO

    Dani all the words that were flowing out of my brain you’ve said already. Kudos. Spoken like a true man/woman. Sorry I don’t know your sexual orientation. But I love your thoughts on this subject. Good luck on your finals

  • Nina Knows

    Sydney I’m doing fine. and you are so correct sista, but no matter how many of us are “lost”.. its still very refreshing to read intelligent comments from sistas like you and always knew.

    and your right girl, this whole post was utterly offesive… why are we the only ones noticing this?

  • Sydney™

    @always knew

    “RUSSELL ENCOURAGED HER.”

    And that what really bothers me about this — I think he did, which is beyond immature and if he wanted to take offensive pot shots, he should have fired them off himself, instead of using a 23-year-old who’s spouting off about what she has learned about the black community. As a man over 50 and a father of daughters, he should know better.

  • Nina Knows

    That’s a personal issue — keep the black community out of it
    _____________________________________
    Sydney, that pretty much sums it up. and thats all I was saying. I dont care about russ, or her… but leave us alone.. damn.

  • always knew

    @Do white men do this? No because they can do whatever they want. Black men are the ones who feel they have to justify it and are better for it.
    __________________________________________________

    EXACTLY, MY POINT…

    WELL ARTICULATED, WITH MUCH FEWER WORDS!
    :)

  • Sydney™

    @Nina

    “and your right girl, this whole post was utterly offesive… why are we the only ones noticing this?”

    LOL, girl, that’s the Million Dollar Question of the day. The ignorance and condescension in the post struck me immediately.

  • Sydney™

    @Nina

    “I dont care about russ, or her… but leave us alone.. damn”

    Ditto. Oh, and the black community comments also referred to black men, who are also part of the community. Let’s not forget that point. Her ignorance wasn’t reserved for just “sistas.” Is she getting lessons in black culture from Russ? I wondered about that, too, lol.

    Overall, Epic Fail.

    Ladies, I have to go, but you have a lovely afternoon. :)

  • always knew

    @everybody-

    lmao at how it’s personal…

    Yet, she dedicated a post ESPECIALLY to blk women

    Russ is so enlightened; yet cusses like a sailor;

    people equate money with intelligence

    the 2 are totally differentthings, entirely…

    WHY DOES EVERYBODY HAVE A PROBLEM WITH CALLING IT, WHAT IT IS…

    RUSSELL SIMMONS HATES BLK WOMEN

    THERE, ALL DONE…Question to all:

    how come when you are asked a question

    you answer, and get persecuted for it, not to

    mention the q’s are idiotic anyway… :)

  • Nina Knows

    I’m out too Sydney.. very nice talking with you lady. I’m not in too much anymore, but take care.

  • Smoovee Sayz

    Man please I would much rather date Rev Run…
    at least he doesnt spit on you when he talks:)
    O and this chick needs to get some yoga lit up in her arse for real…must be her nerves aint no way Uncle Russel is putting it on her that heavy to make her start spittin that good shyt. Cmon now.

  • always knew

    bye syd, take care!!
    :)

  • Cavi

    I just feel like black women are so bitter because for centuries we’ve had to deal with men who act and get treated like little boys and in turn blame us for THEIR insecurity. It’s not our fault white men don’t accept you and if you were a REAL man you wouldn’t need their acceptance anyway. You would continue to do the best you can and make something of yourself not lash out at your race or your women. Aaren’t men and women supposed to complement each other. Aren’t we one in the same? Then act like it, sure love knows no color but ignorance knows no color as well and many of you love other cultures because you believe yours is inferior and that , my friend, is ignorance.

  • http://gypsygirl713@aol.com oshie the troll imposter

    we white girls know u r black men love us because we got the pink coochie on lock and we give all the knees and throat they want, we are just hos but it works for black men.

  • always knew

    @Alpha Male-

    Why don’t you take your own advice…

    The point was, the chick didn’t have to make it expressly to blk women…I don’t care about your background…how come wht guys don;t have to do this but blk men do? And then there’s crazy in-betweens like you, who turn the whole convo into something else…It ‘s too bad you couldn;t stay on subject…

    WHO CARES WHO RUSS DATES?

    WHY DOES THE TRAMP HAVE TO SAY ANYTHING

    TO BLK WOMEN?

    i know you don;t get it, so I won’t even bother addressing you any further…

    go play in traffic, little boy…
    :)

  • always knew

    @breezy- i have all kind of mixes in my family..

    so you being light-skinned/wht is not the issue..

    the fact that Russell would let a wht women say something that stupid to blk wmn, shows that ““And really I dislike that you *snowflakes* can divide us like that when the blk guy that you are screwing, has to be disrespectful toward us, just because he is screwing one of you…”
    _______________________________________

    I meant it.

    He didn’t have to encourage her..

    Quit making this post about me and getting off topic..

    She made the post, not me, I am responding though…
    :)

  • always knew

    @breezy00- I have to admit I got very irritated with your condescending post ” you seem smarte than you appear, maybe your memory isn’t so good, only afterwards,did I respond accordingly….

    Don’t dish it if, you can’t take it…
    :)

  • always knew

    @ breezy00-

    you are a child,so you act accordingly…

    and i’m not a girl…you may be…I’m not..

    I’m a grown woman…

    And your right, your not that deep

    very shallow, as a matter of fact..
    :)

  • Divine

    Cavi

    I just feel like black women are so bitter because for centuries we’ve had to deal with men who act and get treated like little boys and in turn blame us for THEIR insecurity. It’s not our fault white men don’t accept you and if you were a REAL man you wouldn’t need their acceptance anyway. You would continue to do the best you can and make something of yourself not lash out at your race or your women. Aaren’t men and women supposed to complement each other. Aren’t we one in the same? Then act like it, sure love knows no color but ignorance knows no color as well and many of you love other cultures because you believe yours is inferior and that , my friend, is ignorance.
    ——————————
    All black women are not BITTER.
    Stop feeding that stereotype and generalization, please.

  • always knew

    you turned this into comments abou the pres and

    all all of the other swirls in the world, the point was how come this wht chk had to single out blk females? Then you all try to turn it around because some of us don’t appreciate the bs…

    Grow up and get real! Jealousy? Hate? make it about anything other than what it is.. call me the racist, because I am asking why, did he let this wht tramp do this…Make it personal…You are not very smart…Stay on topic…
    :)

  • Alpha Male

    @Always (Thought She) Knew

    Wow, how superficial can one person be? I didnt know this white woman gave up her right to freedom of speech. LOL. You heard of freedom of speech right? Duh, she addresses Black Women because some Black Women have a problem with her dating a Black Man. A media mogul at that…

  • breezy00

    @always knew..

    i understand how you took my RESPONSE. But that was just from you calling me a snowflake and about the “black guy im screwing”.

    Your response to by question was actually a good one…but you DO lose credibility and intelligence when you call names based on a photo..because thats just what you did.

    you should REALLY scroll up and see how you came at me. i think your memory needs the refreshing.
    and im shallow huh? but you judge people based on what you see.
    SMH. again.
    but like i said. its all good.

  • Divine

    Treez

    @ Cavi

    I understand where you are coming from, but aren’t black women to blame as well for accepting “Thug Culture”?

    ————————————–
    Huh?
    SOME black women may have accepted the thug culture. but not all…
    But just to consider you argument….

    Now that black women no longer accept the “Thug Culture” and are looking the “Barack Obama Yes We Can Culture”, should we now expect great things from black men? And should black women take the credit for that?

    I think PEOPLE need to accept some PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY and not blame of others for what they choose to do.

  • always knew

    If the tramp hadn’t SINGLED OUT JUST BLK WOMEN, I

    SERIOUSLY DOUBT ANY of us, would care.

    BOTTOM LINE. WHY IS IT AT OUR EXPENSE?

    can any of you know-it-alls answer…

    what does this have to do with what color you are?

    We are talking about a wht female insulting blk

    women and russell going along with it…
    :(

  • Cavi

    I’m not saying that we really are bitter but I’m addressing the stereotype by saying if some of us are. then this is the reason why. That’s what I really meant anyways.

  • suga

    THIS IS A DUMB HOE!!! DON’T NOBODY WANT RUSSELL’S OLE QUEEN AZZ. HE’S GAYYYYY BOOOO! DUMMY!!

  • suga

    THIS IS A DUMB HOE!!! DON’T NOBODY WANT RUSSELL’S OLE QUEEN AZZ. HE’S GAYYYYY BOOOO! DUMMY!!

  • Love Is The Answer

    Ok class what did we learn today? Not a damn thing!

  • Divine

    Alpha Male

    @Always (Thought She) Knew

    Wow, how superficial can one person be? I didnt know this white woman gave up her right to freedom of speech. LOL. You heard of freedom of speech right? Duh, she addresses Black Women because some Black Women have a problem with her dating a Black Man. A media mogul at that…
    ———————-
    The key wor was “some” black woman.
    And if you believe what’s being said it’s one black woman in particular.
    So she would have been better off addressing that individual or simply being more careful with her wording. She is a public figure with a mogul, regardless of race.
    And as a result, she’s going to get back lash, not for speaking out, but her dumb commentary.

  • always knew

    @breezy- girl, let’s just stop..

    I thought the initial question was stupid..

    I don’t care who dates who, but the fact that he

    is somewhat a public figure, to go

    there “specifically targeting blk wmn, pissed me

    off. He can swirl, or do whatever he wants, but

    not at our expense…She would’ve done a whole lot better issuing a blanket statement to everybody, but she didn’t. I refuse to let you all try to get me dragged into this personally. I was making a point, that Russell should know better and because he doesn’t, BLK WMN should NOT support him or any of his brands…

    Name calling is very immature, but there are only so many insults that you can listen to, with out going off….( I am still human) No need to further justify it…
    :)

  • Alpha Male

    @Always (Thought She) Knew

    Awwwwshaddup, please. You rhetoric is old already. Wow living in todays societly must be miserable for you. You literally must fake it everyday, not talking about when making love to your husband either..LOL

  • Cutie

    @ suga

    I know..I’m with you. This whtye girl is his beard. I thought him a Kimora were swingers and they swung the other way as well.

  • Alpha Male

    Divine

    Alpha Male

    @Always (Thought She) Knew

    Wow, how superficial can one person be? I didnt know this white woman gave up her right to freedom of speech. LOL. You heard of freedom of speech right? Duh, she addresses Black Women because some Black Women have a problem with her dating a Black Man. A media mogul at that…
    ———————-
    The key wor was “some” black woman.
    And if you believe what’s being said it’s one black woman in particular.
    So she would have been better off addressing that individual or simply being more careful with her wording. She is a public figure with a mogul, regardless of race.
    And as a result, she’s going to get back lash, not for speaking out, but her dumb commentary.
    ———————————————-

    Ok? And? Do you think that she didnt think she was going to catch any backlash because of her comment? She knew that insecure frivilous “Always Knews” of the world world cringe at reading this…lol

  • Valkyrie Valhalla

    Their relationship only concerns them so I really don’t think people should be losing any sleep about it nor should she have written that statement. It really doesn’t matter to anybody else that they are dating. In fact I wish them the best because I just can’t be bothered to think badly about people who like eachother lol.

    I understand Julie’s need to defend herself but her statement was condescending and arrogant in its obvious use of white privilege to elevate her status. By doing so, she implies that she has only ever faced negativity from black women but it’s understandable since those women are “suprisingly” poor and beneath her and whatnot. It also suggests that the white community have been more accepting of this and we all know that this is not the case. Either way, she has constructed a dilemma for her and us; she will undoubtedly receive a huge backlash for this but also prove herself right by making us look even worse because some black women will take the bait.
    It’s quite sad, we should ignore it. I think ignoring obvious provokation is much funnier than responding to it, the provoker always looks silly lol. :)

  • Cutie

    @ always knew

    ME too. I’m still at work and I dip in and out of this foolishness every time I get a free moment. This is pathetic :-(

  • breezy00

    @always knew
    i never went off, thats all you.
    if you thought the question was stupid, should have said something, instead of answering it and being disrespectful…and i didn’t come at you asking about what brands i should or shouldn’t buy. i asked a specific question, in which i realize you couldn’t handle by calling names based on a picture you see.
    but i know now.
    and i agree–im done here.

  • always knew

    Alpha male- i;m not even going to go into my marriage; this article wasn’t about me, we are all on a blog…You don’t agree with my opinion.. AND?

    I’ll bet that I’m doing a whole lot better than you. How come we can’t stick to the topic? How come wht guys don’t feel the need to blast blk wmn like blk guys do?

    Why is that?

  • breezy00

    @always knew
    i just wanted to add…by me saying “i never went off” is just me saying, i’ve heard it ALL, from BOTH sides. i dont succumb to peoples insults because it gets you nowhere. intelligence is key, i swear. don’t belittle yourself by calling names, instead let them (me) know where i stepped out of line. i would respect that a lot more than anything else.
    but yea..good luck out there.

  • always knew

    wht males don;t dog out their women

    but it’s acceptble for blk males to do it..

    Breezy & Alpha, I’m not apologizing for anything I said, I meant it. You get that negative type of reaction, when you target a specific group of people…how could I not be offended?

    I read the article, just like you did..

    Russell making a statement has nothing to do with my marriage or the fact, that blk men tearing down blk wmn is a common occurence. We are not fodder for them, to crap on..

    Make it whatever you want, the issue is still there…

  • always knew

    so of course, because I don’t agree I’m the one miserable and racist…

    i lmao and could care less…

    it’s not about you or me;

    This is about Russell and his wht wmn’s

    comments toward blk wmn… PERIOD.

  • ttyl

    @ Always Knew…
    It’s just how it is. That’s why as black women our main drive should be appreciating the black men that do defend us and our black community rather than try to spit negavity we are better than that. So when posts like these come out i’d rather not see black women comment. Leave these posts for marquis de sade, kigali and all the others let them bash black women on their own. And put it this way yeah she can type all that ish but let her talk the talk to a sista on the streets…it would be Obssesd partII

  • always knew

    breezy- it’s funny to me that you would try to tell me how to act, you approach me all crazily and then tell me how to respond to you?

    You are crazy… I never spoke to you. You addressed me. we can go back and forth all day. I’m not though, I;ve had about enough of all the bs….
    :)

  • Divine

    @Alpha Male

    Ok? And? Do you think that she didnt think she was going to catch any backlash because of her comment? She knew that insecure frivilous “Always Knews” of the world world cringe at reading this…lol
    ——————————————–
    No. I don’t think she knew the KIND of backlash.
    In fact, I would she thought she would recieve kudos, because I can tell she thought what she had to say was thoughtful and profound.
    Instead she came of insecure and immature, in my opinion.

    Because if you go on the site, the comments have little to do with the interracial relationship and more to do with her comments about the ills of the black community. As if the ills of the community are somehow different from the ills of the world.
    The commentary she expected would be from women who are mad about her interracial relationship.

    NOW she is getting negative attention for something I don’t think she understands or was expecting.

  • always knew

    here we go again, with people trying to tell me how to act, when they should check themselves…She approached me with the craziness and wants me to defend comments I made about the topic, and her comments to me, you better start using your brain, that’s what it’s for…
    :)

    I never spoke to them in the first damn place…

    I get remarks about my family, husband, and whatever else, but not on topic….These people are retarded…I’m lmao…
    :)

  • breezy00

    @always knew
    Im not asking for apologies, Im just saying, dont act like you didn’t have a problem with my question at first, but later down the line you wanna play victim.
    & i see the name calling never stops huh?
    Lol. its like you have nothing better to say then to try and down someone else. that says alot about your character.

  • always knew

    @divine- She knew that insecure frivilous “Always Knews” of the world world cringe at reading this…lol
    ___________________________________________

    no but you would think it she really was a celebrity that she would have much more tact than making hateful statements in a generalized manner..

    and then low-brain wave functioning people such as yourself making comments, because this type of racism is occuring more everyday….When you speak on it, you’re the racist…

    You really are retards…
    :)

  • always knew

    @breezy- and you trolling me for a whole damn day, says alot about yours…
    :)

  • Divine

    What the heck can you tell about anyone’s character on an anonymous website? LOL!!!

  • Nina Knows

    @always knew….

    forget them, your were right from the beginning. Never feel bad about defending who and what you are.

  • always knew

    Or is it a few of you?
    :)

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    People should have the liberty to date who the choose. I know my love interests have varied greatly over the years and each person had there own memorable qualities.

  • Alpha Male

    @Always Knew

    You are an older woman right? You got to be.

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    What up Nina?

  • Carla

    Alpha Male, let me guess your dad looks like Christopher Williams twin. And you thinl that you are all that, lol…

  • always knew

    that was when I came back to address all the retard responses, you left for me while I was gone, thanks!

    Like I said, people of little intelligence…

    @alpha male- sticking nose into something; babbling about nothing…

    HAS ANYONE NOTICED THAT NO ONE HAS ADDRESSED THE ISSUE…INTERNALIZE IT..I guess that makes it all better…

  • Carla

    Opps, I meant the word think, sorry ! :)

  • Nina Knows

    @Z

    so what, first you speak, then you’ll be impostering next right?!.

    I dont really have time for that crazy girl.

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    @Nina

    WTF? They impostered me on here, but I am at fault for their stupidity?? Geesh

  • always knew

    @Alpha Male

    @Always Knew

    You are an older woman right? You got to be
    ___________________________________

    you never know when to jst leave it alone..

    you’re an idiot, you’ve got to be…

    to think that it’s ok to addres, people that way

    especially people that you want to support you in

    various business ventures..But I dk maybe, it’s all cause Russ is busy NOT THINKING..

    And the more tha you come with the insults, they will be returned to you, accordingly..

    I don’t turn the other cheek; slap me and I’ll slap you back…
    :)

  • always knew

    breezy- you do have some issues;

    but it’s not my fault; I did look for you after you started with me. I commented to many people but I didn’t single you out until you couldn’t stop trolling me…even like you are right now…*lurking**

    it’s really not that serious….

    @alpha male- you are definitely color struck, look at your responses, have you once even commented on why it’s acceptable for blk men to treat blk women in this fashion? Why don’t wht men do it to their women? Why are we the brunt of everything that’s bad?

    Can you get off your light skin/way hair/big dic- and stick to the TOPIC??

  • Alpha Male

    @Always Knew

    HA! With all due respect I already know were the money is. Too bad its scarce in the Black American community. People are too preoccupied with shallowness… The Middle Eastern and the Chinese is where the money is. Ill give that for free.

  • always knew

    well nina knows, it’s been real,

    I;m going to the other threads, I’ll come back

    later to see if my stalker/fan has come back (BREEZY00)
    lol…

    PURE CRAZINESS!!! Later! :)

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    Its all me!

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    Which one should I use?

  • Nina Knows

    aiight always knew… stay you ma.. I luv it.

  • always knew

    @Alpha Male

    @Always Knew

    HA! With all due respect I already know were the money is. Too bad its scarce in the Black American community. People are too preoccupied with shallowness… The Middle Eastern and the Chinese is where the money is. Ill give that for free._________________________________________________

    I was referring to the lack of respect by blk men toward blk wmn…

    Not worried about money, talking about a social problem in our community that needs to be changed..

  • Nina Knows

    Z you are one looney chick.

    I doubt if thats you, but I guess I’ll play along for a bit…… use your pic, I’m tired of looking at your gay ex boyfriend.

  • Alpha Male

    @Always Knew

    Color Struck? I am truly disheartened by that comment. Have you not learned anything from me. I cant be colorstruck, all I see is green. Worry about what a white woman says will carry me down the abyss of brokeness. I could care less, so should you. Russell didnt write the comment. His lady friend did. Who said Black Women are the brunt of everything bad. Not me. It appears to be preconceived mental illusions from Essence and Honey magazine. Spend your energy elsewhere sista. Go now. Flee. LOL

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    @Nina

    Im not looney! You asked me to prove myself so I used my alternate email address. I just switched my gravie pic up too!

  • Nina Knows

    Z

    Question: why you speaking to me now?

  • Nina Knows

    you tired of impostering, did you go into retirement.

  • Alpha Male

    @Always Knew

    Ahem..

    Ok this is another one for free…

    For every action there is a reaction..

    Opposites attract…

    If you tell someone they cant have it, the more they want it..

    If you begin care less about how Black Men feel about you, the more the will tell you they care. Dont feed into the oversized misconception that you are being disrespected. Leave it alone. Mind your own business, and Black Man will come around

    Let that be the foundation of your healing..

  • Nina Knows

    lol@ fake dr. phil

  • Nina Knows

    Z, what you doing?… think of another screen name to use.

  • Alpha Male

    @Divine

    Now Now Now. Thats not what that Black Man needs now. I know he just made a whole list, and you are offended. But thats not the answer. The brotha wants a Black Woman. Dont scare him away further now…lol

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    Im still here! Nina to be honest a thought a well needed attitude adjustment was in store my myself. Sometimes a humbling moment serves an individual well for the future!

  • Divine

    Alpha Male

    @Divine

    Now Now Now. Thats not what that Black Man needs now. I know he just made a whole list, and you are offended. But thats not the answer. The brotha wants a Black Woman. Dont scare him away further now…lol
    ———————————————————–
    No, I think you want me to be offended
    But I’m not :) . Anyone who generalize any race of people is prejudice and racist.
    And if he is a”brotha” then that’s even worse. It’s sad. And you don’t get Black Women by being racist. I’m trying to help him out. Maybe he needs counseling?

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    **I thought

  • Carmen Sans

    No one wants Russel Simmons old saggy balls anyway. That c*unt Julie is proof that white women are the biggest gold diggers in the world. Everyone knows that she would not even look at Simmons if he were not rich. She does not even claim him as her man. She’s trash and not worth any black persons concern.

  • Nina Knows

    oh really Z… I wonder what brought about this change of heart.

    you still blogging with the skanktourage

    I so wish I could be believe you… I really do.

  • Alpha Male

    @Divine

    Aww look at you with your lip all poked out..lol. The last thing I want you to do is for you to loose your offended. Im better than that. Read my tutorial up top. Every action has a reaction. Opposites attract. Dont give off the same ole same ole. Give off a different vibe….

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    @Nina

    Are you still cool with Purple?

  • Carla

    Alpha Male, did you read my post, it read “I guess your dad is Christopher Williams twin.” Bro, chillax, I don’t know you look like I was just assuming what you looked like, lol.

  • Nina Knows

    of course I am. are you still bickering with mock rock?

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    Nina trust me on this one, I have undergone drastic changes recently and feel for positive now.

  • Nina Knows

    @LOL..

    GREAT post!!

  • Nina Knows

    Z,

    ok then, what would you like to talk about… when did you decide to become “positive”?

    and if this is the real Z, I’m glad, positive is always a good thing.

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    I didn’t just “wake up” and decide I needed to become more positive. After analyzing some of the relationships, both friendly and romantic, I have been involved in I noticed I may have played a bigger role in there failure than previously realized. I am still a work in progress! lol

  • LOONEY, LOON

    DAMN @ PATRICK. LOL

  • Nina Knows

    well thats good Z. you couldnt have been that bad right?

  • Nina Knows

    lesson 1

    white woman young and old and the fuktards who love them are useless pieces of scum.

  • Nina Knows

    lesson 2

    white aint right.

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    Please explain your hatred towards whites Nina.

    I don’t categorize people based on race as I have shared love with all colors!

  • Alpha Male

    @Divine

    Ha! I messed up. I meant “The last thing I want you to do is for you to get offended”

    Condescending…Im appauled… ;)

    Dont worry Ill be that shoulder you can lean on, for all that its worth…lol\

    Good night…

    @Carla

    Oh ok. lol. Sorry I misread. Im trying to work and type at the same time. No not my dad either…lol

    Good night Sweetness…

  • Ms Julips

    @ Nina

    I have seen the light and turned my life around, so can I get a lil love too!! lol

    btw, I do not think that is the real Z; property # does not match her old one.

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    Well I am taking a small vacation for the summer, nothing special! Who told you I was mixed?

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    @Nina

    Has my new gravatar showed up yet?

  • Nina Knows

    Z, I can just tell. so, where we vacating to?

  • Nina Knows

    Its the one with you wearing red lipstick and glasses. is that the new one?

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    Ok now my gravie shows up.

  • Nina Knows

    um julips, why yall harass glok like that yesterday… not nice.

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    I going to the Cayman Islands and then from there taking an all-inclusive 3-night cruise in the caribbean.

  • Nina Knows

    Z, you taking me on vacation with you… we can hit the spa.

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    July 12-18, cant wait.

  • Nina Knows

    damn that sounds nice

  • Nina Knows

    Z, I already know your first name… so type so I know this is you.

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    Anzania

  • Nina Knows

    smh, how pathedic

  • Nina Knows

    what took you so long “Z”

  • Ash

    how can people be so racist =( its disgusting!! OBAMA IS THE PRODUCT OF AN INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP!!

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    I was on the phone, you are aggressive.

  • Nina Knows

    I am agressive, but always at the right time. I’m in texas, but if you were Z, you would have already known that right?!

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    Nina, not really because people move just as I have. Do you even know where I am now?

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    How do you like my new gravie? That was from vacation last year!

  • Nina Knows

    true. I just knew you were east coast somewhere… idk, maybe virginia or something.

  • Nina Knows

    that last comment sounded suspect.

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    Tri-state area

  • Nina Knows

    hmmmm, lets see

    do you have facebook?

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    No, I do myspace but not as much as I used too

  • Nina Knows

    funny, because I just knew the real Z had a facebook page. silly me huh?!

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    Yeah you are silly, like I said I have myspace and barely mess with it anymore. Do you have myspace?

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    @Ms Julips

    Were you Granny and Mama Glok9n?

  • Nina Knows

    Z, that wasnt very nice, your attitude is slipping out again. I thought you were being positive.

    yea I have a page, but never get on. that site is creepy for some reason.

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    @Nina

    What is your myspace address? now

  • Nina Knows

    Z now you know best of all I’m not gonna give out my myspace address… I would if it wasnt so many crazies on here.

    lol@ you saying “now”. Now who’s being aggressive.

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    Oh boy! People need to get a life for real.

  • Nina Knows

    SMH…. see what I mean… lol

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    @Nina

    Do you know my myspace?

  • Nina Knows

    yall play too much.

  • Nina Knows

    I think I do.

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    Hit me up on myspace when you have a chance if you know it!

  • Nina Knows

    no I dont.

  • Nina Knows

    see I thought you had facebook…. ?? but you said you didnt, so I guess you dont.

  • Nina Knows

    see I thought you had facebook…. ?? but you said you didnt, so I guess you dont!?

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    barnes

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    @Nina

    Add that to my first name and hit me up on myspace!

  • always knew

    alpha trash- if there is a race war?which side do you take? both sides will make you choose, I guess by your responses, I know what side you would pick..

    Rusell’s broad can say whatvere she wants to whomever, no matter how insulting…

    And can you please still support my companies, even though I think blk wmn aren’t worth ish…

    Maybe all the bi-racials will come together and support Russ. You Breezy and Russell…I hope you can keep his companies afloat!
    :)

  • Nina Knows

    I’ll look and see

  • Nina Knows

    lmao@ alpha trash

    you got that right!

  • LOONEY, LOON

    LMAO @ nina and z comment toward each other. you guys are chatting like sorority sisters on a blog.LOL

  • Nina Knows

    we’ll see “Z”

  • Nina Knows

    stop hating asswipe

  • LOONEY, LOON

    @nina
    now why the name calling, it was a joke. chill

  • Ms Julips

    Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    @Ms Julips

    Were you Granny and Mama Glok9n?
    ———————————————

    Yes I was Granny, Mama & daughter but there were 3 or 4 other imposters who were after Glok also…I was not by myself.

    I have to go but, Nina I must say that you seem like a nice person….well nicer than me and know “personally” that you cannot be intimidated, b/c frankly I have tried! I always respected that about you and Purple. lol

    I will not be posting here for awhile because I am in the process of relocating back to Hollywood, CA, but I have committed (to myself) that i am done with the childish beefing (no matter have much fun it can be sometime). I know that sounds sick, but the concept of an impostering is sick period…and I willing admit it. You can call me on it if I ever do it again…real talk!!!

    Anyway, fake Z & Nina…be well

    Monique

    Anyway

  • Nina Knows

    aiight Julips, I respect that. take care, good luck in hollywood.

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    Nina did you check me out yet?

  • Z (Queen of Bossip Society)

    Mock ate my cherry flavored taco and then caught feelings!

  • LOONEY, LOON

    @ms julips
    thank you for making glok9n look like a fool. i cannot stand that f*cker.

  • Z (Fine Like Well-Aged Wine)

    This prankster is making me resort to my old tendencies so Im about to be out of here for the night!

  • Z (Queen of Bossip Society)

    You should have left a long time ago and never should your horsemouth on here again. Get it? Got it? GOOD

  • hyper-educated

    WHAT THE HELL? maybe she is dumb, but who cares? there are plenty of dumb people. he obviously thinks she’s the bomb, and vice versa.

  • Nik

    I have no prob w who Rush dates bit I do think he should be with a more mature woman not a girl younger than his nieces.

  • Divine

    @LovelyLisa
    THANK YOU!!
    I love her. She articulated everything I was feeling when I read that Dumb Julie’s stupid blog!

  • Tooth Fairy

    Hello

  • porterwayne

    she said it like it was supposed to be said stay out of other peoples relationships.

  • Speaker Of The House

    As a Black American man I agree with what she says. I wish her and Russ the best. Black women need to go sit down with this madness. Black women do not own us.

  • Lady Star

    @Speaker of the House

    Sit down you old fish eyed fool! Nothing stronger than a black woman and even stronger than this is a blaok woman with a strong brother on her side!

  • milagros

    I don’t see what the problem is…if you don’t like interracial dating, don’t YOU be in an interracial relationship then…People really should mind their own business…I think she shouldn’t have even said anything – things like that are not even worth aknowledging.

    I, however, disagree wtih this part of her statement “there is still a tremendous amount of poverty, suffering and pain in the black community”. There’s poverty, suffering and pain in every community in every country. As there are well-to-do, successfull people in every community, in every country. This has nothing to do with the race/ethnicity. You don’t have to belong to a certain race/ethnicity to struggle or be successful.

  • Please!

    LOL! @ people cosigning her, talking about stay out of her business yet you dummies are on a gossip website. Hypocrites practice what you preach!

  • milagros

    @ Please!

    “you dummies are on a gossip website”

    and so are you. right here, with the “dummies”…do you honestly not see the irony in your own post?

  • Divine

    @milagros

    I don’t see what the problem is…if you don’t like interracial dating, don’t YOU be in an interracial relationship then…People really should mind their own business…I think she shouldn’t have even said anything – things like that are not even worth aknowledging.

    I, however, disagree wtih this part of her statement “there is still a tremendous amount of poverty, suffering and pain in the black community”. There’s poverty, suffering and pain in every community in every country. As there are well-to-do, successfull people in every community, in every country. This has nothing to do with the race/ethnicity. You don’t have to belong to a certain race/ethnicity to struggle or be successful.

    —————————
    I believe this is the point most people are making….

  • Please!

    SMH @ every celebrity being open for attack except white women.

  • milagros

    @ Divine

    I was just saying. Didn’t see too many people making that point…all I noticed were “we don’t want Russell anyway” and “interracial dating is an abomination” posts…I guess I just missed some of the commnets, there are so many…

  • milagros

    Marquis, baby oil is too greasy…and it clogs pores :( Will baby lotion do? And I’m not fighting :( I’m actually pretty harmless…and so are my posts…most of them, anyway.

  • milagros

    @ 10:08 pm

    You belong in a Gabrielle Union thread. fail.

  • a black man

    stop hatin on black men and stop hatin on black women

    People tend to belive everything they hear

  • Divine

    milagros

    @ Divine

    I was just saying. Didn’t see too many people making that point…all I noticed were “we don’t want Russell anyway” and “interracial dating is an abomination” posts…I guess I just missed some of the commnets, there are so many…
    ——————————————-
    Well I made the point and others made the point several times. I think often times people pick out what they want to hear regardless of what is actually being said.

  • Divine

    @milagros

    Marquis, baby oil is too greasy…and it clogs pores Will baby lotion do? And I’m not fighting I’m actually pretty harmless…and so are my posts…most of them, anyway.
    ———————————
    Don’t pay Marquis any attention. He/She/It is a sick person vying for attention.
    Anyway, I was simply stating an opinion. And black people are not a monolith and don’t see the same things the same way. And I think that’s fine.
    I guess if we don’t agree, IT gets gleeful.
    Pretty pathetic, don’t you think?

  • itygrl

    Congrats to that, personally I dont care who Celebs are dating, it isnt goin to affect my life. But on a closing note interracial dating is beautiful in my opinion

  • Carla

    Opps, I meant Big Brothers from the South like skinny White chicks, sorry ! :)

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    I think it’s hilarious that she thinks she can “learn” anything about the black community via Russell’s sell out ass!

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    She had a right to say all of that, and she pretty much carried all of her haters. BUT! She really was off with the whole “midirected” anger over poverty and blah blah blah in the black community. Sweetheart, anger over black men opting for white women has nothing to do with our socioeconomic situation–I’m also from an affluent family, albeit black, and I ran into enough black girls at my top 25 university to tell you that black women’s issue with white women/black men has nothing to do with their poverty that they DON’T HAVE. Showed your true colors with that presumptuous bullshit.

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