*Exclusive* Marc: “Just Stay Home and Raise These Darn Kids”

Posted on June 2nd, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: J Lo, News, We Broke It Here First!

J-lo & Marc

These two refuse to stop fighting, but they are doing their damndest to hold on to their marriage. A Bossip earhustler shot over some info about their latest fight:

A Bossip source states: They’re continually having problems. She has put aside work for marriage and babies and Marc really prefers that because he’s very controlling.  Of course, she’s used to working a lot and wasn’t happy not being busy with music or film. She’s just started filming again and it’s completely brightened her mood. But, now Marc is pissed that she’s not complying with his wishes. I’m not sure if it will last much longer at this rate.

For some reason, we still think that these two might just fight it out and be happy in say…15 years.

  • num1dominicano

    leave him and come to me J Lo..I still don’t see how he handles that ass..

  • Nique

    Hispanic men do tend to be controlling though…

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    You better hurry up, num1dominicano. You seen those pictures of Sheila E. lately? Tragic.

  • http://WWW.MYSPACE.COM/SALONDEON HAIR_BY_DEON

    STAY HOME AND GET FAT IN OTHER WORDS

  • MySoulIsFull

    @ num1…He handles it by being controlling. But if she wants to get back into music, then let her. She deserves to be happy in doing what she was doing before she got married and pregnant. Living life and having fun does not stop because you have kids.

  • MySoulIsFull

    ….or maybe it does

  • num1dominicano

    AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    You better hurry up, num1dominicano. You seen those pictures of Sheila E. lately? Tragic.
    ———————-
    word….she look that bad…well, she got J Lo by at least 10 years don’t she…I gotta google them shits..

  • Bae.

    Still don’t see how she ended up with this dude.

  • num1dominicano

    MySoulIsFull

    @ num1…He handles it by being controlling. But if she wants to get back into music, then let her. She deserves to be happy in doing what she was doing before she got married and pregnant. Living life and having fun does not stop because you have kids.
    ————————

    yada, yada

  • ysr

    She needs a real man who will let her do what she needs to do. Hes prob just being a baby about her making more money.

  • lean

    I’m sorry…but has n e 1 seen these kids??? They are UGLY! They look JUST like Anthony! And he is NO cutie! Damn Jen!

  • Brooklyn, Stand UP!™

    Them kids are ugly though.

  • elle

    marc looks like he be sniffing and shooting up, that might just be where the problems are coming from

  • CC

    Uhg! Spics so who cares and they have two of the ugliest babies I have ever seen. JLO needs to stay home becuz her career is over.

  • LadyAngel

    I could tell that this marriage was not all gravy, she does not even look the same anymore, JLO use to have a GLOW about her and now she looks old and pale. Marc is controlling and has low self esteem, oh well I am sure if she dumped him we know at least one rapper entertainer entrepreneur extrodinaire will be waiting in the wing!

  • missunderstood

    Marriage is about compromise. Did she not know the man she was marrying felt this way about his family life? I find that hard to believe. More than likely, IF this is the case, she thought she could “change him”. Mistake- you can’t. But all in all, I see them making it through. Seems like Latinos have a much higher rate of success in their marriages. Probably because they stay married through just about anything, but so what. That’s one attribute I ain’t mad at….WORK IT OUT!
    Also, I think Marc Anthony is attractive and a good actor, a little skinny, but still….

  • http://bossip miss dior

    If she starts working again she’s going to leave him, thats what Marc is afraid of, we all know how JLO likes to hook up at work.

  • tg

    Was she off the market? Not to be mean, but I don’t miss her on the scene at all. Macho, Macho man.
    Marc must be insecure and wants to keep Jennifer away from others, especially leading men.

  • randomthoughts

    Didnt she make more money than him? He sounds very insecure.

  • carme)_sosa

    MArc Anthony is a Drug addict,it’s sad she wanted money & power and this is what she got. They will stay together to keep face… part spanish culture

  • Marc # 1 fan

    I love you Marc…forget all the haters

  • Naija bekee

    @ missunderstood – I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your comment! Yes, let’s go back to the days when people actually STAYED married and WORKED IT OUT!

  • Bombay3000

    I know it was reported that JLo made only 3 million last year… Thats a far drop from making 45 a couple of years earlier…And Marc has always had a problem with the ladies….ask his first wife

  • The Diamond and Pearl Mixture

    Run JLO, Run!

  • Moreaces

    AWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAAAP!!!!

    You better hurry up, num1dominicano. You seen those pictures of Sheila E. lately? Tragic
    ==============
    That’s sad to hear, she was the beast back in the day, fine as wine.

  • chaka1

    I am dating a Dominican here in Miami. He like most Latin guys do not play around when he lays down the law.

  • Christmas Jones

    J-Lo is 50? Hell naw, you lying! *gasp*

    Marriage always becomes complicated when you throw some children in the mix. I’m just saying, the pressure, the responsibility, the curfew, the lack of freedom drives people insane. J-Lo, my girl, if you’re going to have kids, you can’t raise them like these white celebs do with nannies all up in through…you need to stay home and give these kids a proper Puerto Rican upbringing. Thats right, you aren’t white, somethings just don’t fly like that. Remember your roots and remember what family is all about. Sheesh.

  • Christmas Jones

    Good for you Chaka…love me some Afro-Latinos. Key: *AFRO* thats whats up.

  • zappy

    I agree that her looks have changed. She no longer has that “spark”.

    We’ll see.

    I am close to loosing money on this one. I said the marraige would only last 5 years and I believe this June/July is 5 years. I would hate to pay my sister that $50.

  • num1dominicano

    Christmas Jones

    J-Lo is 50? Hell naw, you lying! *gasp*
    ————————–
    if you took the time to read…I was responding to the Sheila E. comment…

  • Monti

    @ Miss Dior

    My thoughts exactly. Cheaters are always suspicious and since both of them fall into that category, they are probably driving each other crazy.

  • Christmas Jones

    @num1dominicano

    oh damn, i guess i skimmed over your comments so fast because i didn’t feel you had anything important to say. XD

  • num1dominicano

    Christmas Jones

    @num1dominicano

    oh damn, i guess i skimmed over your comments so fast because i didn’t feel you had anything important to say. XD
    ————————

    I guess it is true…about the attitude and smart mouth..smh..

  • grant

    he’s a latin man what does she expect? They all controllin’….

  • REAL DEAL

    Its spandex, cellulite, and mustache time. Your career is over chica. Papi needs his black beans and rice right now!

  • *Treasure*

    Sometimes being a wife and mother is just not fulfilling. J Lo is a multi talented individual who has been in the spotlight for many years. It is selfish for any mate to expect his wife to put all of her dreams, ,ideas, goals and passions aside for himself and the children. It is possible to multi task. Marriage is a partnership which entails compromise and sacrifices.

  • chaka1

    @Christmas Jones

    You are right about Afro-Latinos…
    They got it ALLLLLLLLLL goin on…

    *fanning myself**

  • TheMan

    thats that Bobby Brown and whitney thing going on here

  • Wanjiru

    LOL, this is nothing…

    …wait until y’all start reporting on Jay Z and Beyonce’s fights, she doesn’t want to be a home-maker and he’s waaaay past due age-wise to begin having some kids!!!…

    …NUCLEAR!

    .

  • Plastic007

    Wanjiru

    LOL, this is nothing…

    …wait until y’all start reporting on Jay Z and Beyonce’s fights, she doesn’t want to be a home-maker and he’s waaaay past due age-wise to begin having some kids!!!…

    …NUCLEAR!

    this is true … but i think Bey and Jay have talked about this b4 marraige came in she is young and has so much more to do with her career. i dont think he will leave her or loose patience hes a man and can have kids if he’s 65 lol they have time … Bey is not done yet and she should not sacrifice all her hard work to please a man husband or not he had his time and stopped when he was ready how can we just expect this lady to say ok im done ima go have kids and b normal lol ya are so funny we cant relate to her reality and she def cant relate to ours

  • TKThomas

    I don’t know if this is true. If it is it will not last. The woman of today will not be controlled by any other man or woman boy or girl. And Jlo is a strong, ambitious woman of today. She has to much to share to be controlled.

    Plus if this is true Marc Anthony is MUCH to ugly to be a difficult person to get along with. Much to ugly.

  • http://bossip.com WHATEVA

    all i wanna know is whats a AFRO-LATINO?!! First off if yall do your research you will find that all hispanics are a mix of several different races including african-american..for instances puerto-ricans are a huge mixture of all types ranging from european,scottish,african american..etc…and by dominicans by the way came from there as well…yall really do act like yall know what ya talking about..lol! read people!! also i feel they will work it out and there children are beautiful..HATERS!

  • H5

    hmmm num1dominicano n missunderstood…..
    On point

  • HARD ON A BITCH

    DEEP DOWN J-LO GONE DO WHATS RIGHT AND THATS WHAT HER HUSBAND SAY. ITS HER CULTURE POPPY COME FIRST DO WHAT POPPY SAY.

  • selfhelp910

    Children can really stress a marriage. Besides the actual work, you have the conflicts on how to raise them and then one parent might be giving the kids more attention than they give their spouse.

    It’s only for a season…hold on!

  • http://bossip.com Always keep your mouth shut and never ever tell on your friends”….NEW AWLINZ STATE OF MIND 504)

    j lo will 4ever be a banger..she holding up nicely…jenn will always be a banger. top 5 dead or alive..

  • Tammy

    IF SHE DON’T GET OUT THERE NOW SHE MIGHT AS WELL FORGET HER CAREER…….SHE IS GETTING TOO OLD TO BE WAITING UNTIL LATER.

    ANOTHER THING, I CAN’T STAND NO CONTROLING MAN…HE WOULD HAVE TO GO.

  • bococalady

    i just heard today on a tv show called escandalo, that they were moving to puerto rico. and im hearing that diddy has been in contact with her. but i thought marc anthony is the type of man she likes. “controlling”

  • http://phones4u101.blogspot.com/ i ur phone the best

    i hope for the best

  • JUDY

    @bococalady

    i just heard today on a tv show called escandalo, that they were moving to puerto rico. and im hearing that diddy has been in contact with her. but i thought marc anthony is the type of man she likes. “controlling”
    ___________________________________________________

    That is funny that you bring that up because Puff like Marc are very controlling men……thats her problem. Jenny needs a strong supportive man who is not intimated by her success. She also needs to take this down time to really enjoy and embrace her children instead of trying to stay relevant.

  • lamrit

    Right after she had broken up with Ben, Marc was right there for her to cry on his shoulder. It seems like it was a week of them hanging out that Marc left his wife. I will never forget this. He and she was planning their wedding and dating, and he was not even divorce from his wife. His baby was just an infant. I felt for his wife and kids. Also part of the divorce settlement is that the first wive was not to ever talk about Marc and Jlo- book deals, interviews,etc. That first wife just had to go through all the pain with her mouth shut. With that bad karma, I do not think those two will ever be really happy.

  • Jelene

    jlo IS LIKE WINDE AGES WELL ;D

  • http://www.bossip.com BMWdriver540i Looking at the haters thru my rearview

    Do as your man commands you J LO

  • VERY Sad 2C Dis

    I didn’t even realize Jennifer Lopez has been out of the picture until the site mentioned it! LOL
    I agree with her husband…”Stay Home!”

    and make me a chalupa..I mean sandwich! LMAO

  • me (the original)®

    “Afro-Latino” ….please stop.

    Contrary to the manipulation of many minds by the racist White men, there IS no such thing as “Afro-Latino” or “Afro-Hispanic.” The statement is wrong on many levels, the main of which being is that it is REDUNDANT.

    Hispanics/Latinos are made up of AFRICAN, European (mainly by the way of Spain and Portugal), and the indigenous people (natives) of their countries. When referring to Puerto Ricans, those people would be of the Taino and Arawok tribe. This is true for ALL of the Carribean, Central AND South America. The only thing that changes is the various tribes of the Natives.

    The only difference between Hispanics and African Americans is that we have a stronger Native influence in our bloodlines–this is because the White man didn’t fully kill off the Natives of our lands like they did here in the US.

    Do you call darker skinned black folk “Afro-African Americans?”

    Please leave that incorrect, mind-poisoning classifications for Clueless.

  • me (the original)®

    PS: Puerto Rico is also a territory of the United States, so everyone there is “American.”

  • num1dominicano

    me (the original)®

    PS: Puerto Rico is also a territory of the United States, so everyone there is “American.”
    ————————–
    so is Guam, so why are they called Guamanians….you are wrong champ..

  • Speaker Of The House

    Jennifer has always been a Goddess in my eyes. Marc is lucky to have her. Any man would be lucky to have her. I hope she’s happy. I still would love to see her do a world tour singing all her greatest hits plus new ones. She could easily sell out the Staples Center.

  • me (the original)®

    @num1dominicano

    And Hawaiians are called Hawaiians but it’s a part of the US so..they’re Americans. I wasn’t debating “ethnicity”, I meant citizenship.

    Puerto Rico, Guam and Hawaii are NOT sovereign nations. This is fact.

    Either you have misunderstood me or “you’re wrong, champ.” ;)

  • B.I.N.F.L

    MARC NEED TO GTFOH LET HER MAKE HER MONEY AND GET HER CAREER BACK ON TOP,DAMN SHE NEEDS TO LEAVE THAT IDIOT.

  • http://bossip.com Slim

    Right after she had broken up with Ben, Marc was right there for her to cry on his shoulder. It seems like it was a week of them hanging out that Marc left his wife. I will never forget this. He and she was planning their wedding and dating, and he was not even divorce from his wife. His baby was just an infant. I felt for his wife and kids. Also part of the divorce settlement is that the first wive was not to ever talk about Marc and Jlo- book deals, interviews,etc. That first wife just had to go through all the pain with her mouth shut. With that bad karma, I do not think those two will ever be really happy.

    @lamrit
    I am with you. I actually followed Marc Anthony when he remarried his first wife and then he got with JLo. I don’t care what anyone says she was TIRED and RAN THROUGH!!! She wanted to get married to stop looking like a HO! He needed someone that has some money. There you go! They are not happy and you will see they will be divorced real soon!

  • Tammy

    @speaker of the house

    You are really forcing it with your comment. Selling out a concert……….yeah right…hahahahaha

  • TalkinNow

    Out of all the handsome dudes she’s been with she decides to end up with Dracula…ok.

  • http://myspace.com/elainajohnson2000 Ms.EJ

    There babies are so beautiful and I hope that they can both work things out and if they can’t at least knowing that you gave it your all is what matters. I’ve never been a fan of JLO, but I am a fan of couples overcoming there problems :)

  • http://myspace.com/elainajohnson2000 Ms.EJ

    @TalkinNow “dracula” *dead* it does look like he hides from the sun LOL

  • BmadIfYaWant2

    @ num1dominicano:

    I’m a couple of days late, I know. But thanks sooo much for schooling me(the original)about Boricuas, Guamanians and such. PR has always chosen and probably will always remain a commonwealth, and not a state. We have a partnership and relationship with the U.S., but choose to remain “Puerto Ricans” and not “Americans”. We may have U.S. citizenship as a bonus, (thanks alot) but prefer to be identified by the island of Borinquen itself. Gracias Papi, for making the distinction.

  • rmb

    I agree Marc does look like skeletor and those kids Are ugly…they look like their daddy. JLO could have done so much better..hell Puffy looks better but I guess swirl babies were out of the question…..LOL

  • http://gmail Yvonne Torres

    listen j lo you got to do what’s right for you, i am puerto rican from the south bronx and i know how our men can get, how ever its the 20th century and us women have every right to do what we want to help in the house hold it aint all about you men, We can work and take care of the house and kids and cook and clean now what, we do more than you men do and we are better at it. Marc Anthony i love you and understand that if j lo wants to work let her that is more money in yall’s pocket. The kids will be find tiene un welo y wela que te pasa they will be fine. And yall need to stay together and work things out its cheaper to keep her /him right jen?
    just work it out as long as his not putting his hands on you, yall are fine. god bless

  • http://gmail Yvonne Torres

    Man, yall don’t need to be talking about ugly kids there all beautiful i am sure that there is some one at least one in the family that is ugly, the kids are cute and will get cuter as they grow older. Yall hurting my girls feelings but talking about her kids. Mida, God Don’t Like Ugly

  • http://gmail Yvonne Torres

    first of all PUERTO RICAN IS A COMMONWEALTH COUNTRY WHICH MEANS THERE ON THEIR OWN WHICH MEANS THEY DONT PAY TAXES UNLESS WORKING WITH THE GOVERMENT. PUERTO RICO IS NOT A STATE YET, AND AS FAR AS “Afro-Hispanic TELLS ME THERE HALF, HALF BLACK AND HALF HISPANIC LIKE PUERTO RICAN,CUBAN, ETC,ETC,

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