Breaking Swirl News! Kendra Wilkinson: “I’m Knocked Up Yall”

Posted on June 10th, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Babies, Baby Mama Drama, Knocked Up, News, The Swirl

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Not that we’re surprised but Kendra Wilkinson and Hank Baskett are expecting their first child together and the two haven’t even made it down the aisle yet. Kendra’s no dumb blonde, don’t get it twisted. Just like she chopped down Hugh Hefner and got her @ss a nice cozy spot in the Playboy mansion, she’s got Hank by the balls now too.

The E! reality star has exclusively confirmed to me that she and fiancé Hank Baskett are expecting their first child.

“Hank and I are thrilled to announce that we are expecting our first child together,” she just told me. “We are touched by the outpouring of support by our family, friends and fans.”

Wilkinson, 23, and Baskett, 26, announced their engagement last November after the pro football player popped the question at the top of Seattle’s Space Needle.

What a month for these two! Besides this happy news, the couple’s wedding is set for June 27 at Wilkinson’s former abode, the Playboy Mansion. And Kendra, her new post Girls Next Door show premiered Sunday, scoring E!’s second-highest rated series debut ever with 2.6 million viewers.

Just last month she told me the couple were already talking babies.

“I plan on having them very soon,” Kendra said. “We want to be young parents and be able to chase around our kids and run and coach our kids. So, very soon.”

She wasn’t kidding!

What’s that baby shower gonna look like? Ring around the stripper pole? SMH. Congrats.

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  • Nam

    Let them be..Jheeeez!

  • http://bossip.com bo

    This is why this site exists
    http://www.sportshate.com

  • tb (Obama needs to fix the healthcare system in this country – Universal Healthcare!)

    What an idiot!! The more kids she has the more paper you are going to have to cough up when she bounces. I swear black men are just dumb for no reason!

  • melo

    who gives a f@ck?

  • http://www.twitter.com/IHearMusique Re

    Well, congrats! Just like I said…we’re going to see a lot more mulatto children in the future. Get over it people.

  • lovely one

    I think Hank is getting more money from the Kendra show than football…so “who’s gaming who?”

  • Comment Maker

    Is there something wrong with Mulatto children (not a cool word by the way)?
    Congrats to her!! Smart girl!!

  • NN

    They seem happy, why does their marriage have to be more shaky than any other marriage? Black ballers are divorcing their black wifes to you know , “tb”. Would you advice them to not have children by their black wifes in case they bounce too? I didn’t think so..

    A black man with a white woman, oh lord, let’s all run for cover….

  • Symone

    I must confess, I did see some of the show the other night. They are kind of cute together.

    He is just P-whipped, following her around like a little puppy dog. But as Lovely One (above) just pointed out, he is probably making more money doing this than being a 3rd string football player.

  • Plastic007

    these new generation of hollyweird ladies r stupid as hell i kno it seems like the life to marry a wealthy no rich person and just do wat u want ,,,, but when u are introduced into the hollyweird world y not make a name for urself if nicole and paris could b celebs for nothing it shows alot about the Weird folks … anyway it just seems like the hood mentallity has somehow tainted the weird industry girls having babies left and right and all they want is a check they dont even care if the man stays with them ….give me 10,000 a month and im fine such ashame the things mofo’s will do for money im sorry but i not gone b able to do it .

  • Symone

    I don’t know, maybe he is a better football player than I think.

  • pm

    good for them, we need strong white mothers to raise our black sons to be men..Obama yall!!!!

  • Ieshia

    I DONT KNOW WHY FOR SOME REASON I LIKE HER ALOT LOL
    I LIKE HER THE MOST ON THE GIRLS NEXT DOOR

  • L

    I love her!

  • MFM2009

    I love Kendra! She’s one cool @ss white girl…

  • L

    “Hank and I are thrilled to announce that we are expecting our first child together,” she just told me. “We are touched by the outpouring of support by our family, friends and fans
    _________________________________

    LOL! Who talks like this!?

  • always knew

    I love these kinds of articles… When the blk guys chase after sloppy seconds…

    Congratulations, Kendra! I hope you take him for every dime he THOUGHT he had…

    Show him how you Becky’s REALLY get down..Right after you finished doing Hef, he was more than glad, to lick up the remnants. I am so proud of your accomplishments, letting everybody screw you then pass you around to the blk, when you are completely done… Nice! You go, girl!
    :)

    @pm-

    good for them, we need strong white mothers to raise our black sons to be men..Obama yall!!!!
    _____________________________________________

    you are mentally unstable.

    @Re

    Well, congrats! Just like I said…we’re going to see a lot more mulatto children in the future. Get over it people.
    ______________________________-

    I am over it.However, it doesn’t mean I like that bs…
    :(

  • White Devil

    @ L

    I thought the same thing. It sounds like a press release and this reporter was pretending she was talking to only her.

  • DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My SWAG On

    “good for them, we need strong white mothers to raise our black sons to be men..Obama yall!!!!”

    a woman does not teach a man to be a man. Another man does. Obama’s mother didn’t make him the MAN he is today alone. She had the help of her white father and Indian/Asian husband. notice how is BLACK FATHER was nowhere in the equation. i guess he was too busy doing what black men do best – running away from their children.

  • pm

    @always knew.. u know Im playin..

  • Good Morning Babe…..

    as an athlete he is treating her no better than any other woman.

    giving her the baby momma title.

    whomp whomp

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brooke Lynn The Chocolate (I love my Big Ego, its such a Huge Ego!!!)

    Congrats!! If its true!

  • chaka1

    These two are probably both “freaks” in the bedroom, so they go together. I don’t agree with how she makes her money, but she’s worked her way up to C-list celebrity status.

    At least she’s not annoying like Kim K.

    Good luck to them both.

  • pm

    @DaHonestTruth..I like the black woman’s attitude so I look for was to provoke it…sick huh.

  • DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My SWAG On

    “@DaHonestTruth..I like the black woman’s attitude so I look for was to provoke it…sick huh.”

    well its very immature. its so sad that it appears the black womans biggest enemy is the black man.

  • pm

    @DaHonestTruth.. untrue we got yalls back like yall have ours when its comes down to it.

  • ThatMixedChick!

    Why do people hating so much? He’s marrying her, and they share a home.They should have waited until AFTER they got married to have children, but they seem happy.

    Good luck to them!

  • missunderstood (tommorrow will come and boy I can’t wait, it’s our anniversary!)

    I don’t have a problem with white women dating black men. Here is what I have a problem with -

    1) white girls who want to put aside their true colors to appear more a part of the ‘black culture’ – IE – slang sista girl talk – freeze curls and braids and shyt, dark lipstick (this last one may not be ALL, but it’s a DEAD giveaway most of the time that a white chick goes black). If these white girls would just be themselves, and stop thinking that you are automatically inducted into the n*gga hall of fame simply because you date one, that would be fine by me. I have a white sister-in-law (husband’s brother’s wife), and she is just herself, and I get along well with her. It’s the others that try too hard to be what they THINK black is…
    2)I can’t stand a black man who EXCLUSIVELY dates white women (or any woman except a black woman) and has never given a black woman the time of day. We come in multitudes of personalities, colors, goals, etc. Whatever you are looking for, we’ve got. If you choose to run to another race off top, I feel you’ve got self-love issues and THOSE are the ones I turn my nose up at and say – F*ck ya. We don’t want you.
    If you date all kinds of women, good for you. You are an equal opportunity brother, and I ain’t mad at that…

  • always knew

    that should’ve been them- excuse typo

  • hateonchris

    she’s no dummy..baby = guaranteed cash..

  • Jubeisan

    Shes hot! Shes got really nice feet. She got knocked up because she wants a cute mixed kid…every white girl does. But no way I’d marry her. I wouldn’t trust her for one second. Hank is too nice. Everyone knows…nice guys finish last.

  • CattyBitch

    @missunderstood: I hear you.

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    BIRACIAL BOMBSHELL!
    I KNEW ID FIND YOU IN HERE SWINGING AND FIGHTING FOR THE SWIRL, WE WE GONNA MIX!?

  • http://bossip nikki

    Well i like Kendra. She is real and real dont have a color it just is what it is. Kim K agervates me way more than kendra. Its something cool about a pretty girl who dont take themselves to seriously.Kim K is so stuck up and snooty just look a Kendra she’s so laid back with her shit.

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    WELL FIRST OFF BLK WOMEN DONT NEED ALL THAT SHIT,.. YOU SISTAZ HAVE EVERYTHING ALREADY IN YOU WHY?,..I DONT SEE YOU BLK WOMAN GETTING BOTOX FACE LIFTS AND AZZ IMPLANTS ,…SOME OF YA DO NEED IT BUT YOU MANAGED THIS LONG!

  • http://saladwks@aol.com sweet n sour sauce

    who gives a fuc) and why is this news , so she is pushing out brown babies ,, what else is new with white women.

  • http://saladwks@aol.com sweet n sour sauce

    i agree with the perming of the hair to make it more manageble, makes sense to me who the hell wants to be white especially today.

  • http://bossip miss dior

    Thats nice, hoping Reggie will knock up kim soon.

  • Wanjiru

    …LOVE these two and loved the Kendra debut on E :)

    …Kendra comes off dumb-blondish but I respect her game, that girl knows what the hell she’s doing and pretty much has her life mapped out…

    twitter.com/E_Wanjiru

  • Real Black Dude

    More Swirl babies! *sigh*

  • Black White and Mixed allover

    @ Always Knew and Leeha
    __________________________________________

    So you assumed I had a Black FAther and a White Mother? Incorrect- I am 28 years old. My Parents Black Mother/White Father. My parents met as college students undergrad, lived in the same dorm and went to the same grad school. They became study buddies, then friends, then dated, then dated seriously, then got married. Some family members had a problem with it and some didn’t.

    Now as far as someone being attracted to someone’s “priviledge” that may be true in some cases and untrue in others.

    I posed intelligent questions- Stereotypes aren’t true in every situation otherwise ALL BLACK PEOPLE, would be pimps, hos and the likes and ALL WHITE PEOPLE would be hos, gold diggers, devils and stink…..AND we know that is NOT true.

    Always knew and others who have a problem with thinking that all STEREOTYPES = the truth will have a SAD, NARROW, BITTER existence.

    All white woman aren’t gold diggers, all black men don’t lust for white women and every black woman isn’t Bitter about interracial relationships.

  • always knew

    @miss dior

    Thats nice, hoping Reggie will knock up kim soon.
    ______________________________________

    ditto, I hope she takes EVERY cent he thought he had…
    :)

  • Black White and Mixed allover

    @ Always Knew- You have not talked to every bi racial child in the world, so there is no way you can even begin to think you are stating a fact by saying “bi racial kids are always screwed up”.

    You sound ignorant, hateful, and the the fact that you took the time to give race 101 using the term mulatto speaks VOLUMES.

  • Black White and Mixed allover

    @ Leeha why is white pasty skin shocking- it is what it is.

    More proof that you are a DUMBASS- now if someone typed on here that dark shiny skin is shocking- you would be ready to cut someone.

  • Mandah! i get tired of the “race wars” , bossip. i really do…

    Black White and Mixed allover

    @ Leeha why is white pasty skin shocking- it is what it is.

    More proof that you are a DUMBASS- now if someone typed on here that dark shiny skin is shocking- you would be ready to cut someone.

    ===============
    dead! lmao!

  • CattyBitch

    @Leeha: I co-sign. I wasn’t talking about you specifically but some of the other women on here who go rabid over girls like Kim K and CoCo. You’re right every race of women does things to better conform to the feminine ideal, whether it’s through surgery, makeup, hair etc. And I agree that all races of women are going overboard with the fake stuff. I know it’s not just black women, I have a white co-worker who wears extensions, color contacts, fake nails and tans. Yet she’s pretty without all that stuff. Too many women see celebs like Kim K getting extensive plastic surgery and feel they have to compete or else they won’t be considered attractive.

  • Leeha

    @black white and mixed all over,

    calmed down. u don’t have to get low, and ignorant and start calling people names. i never do that because i can talk about issues with out calling people dumbasses. and no, i’m not like Kigali, i don’t try to be as offensive as possible, i state my point. sorry i offended u with the pale skin comment, but i do think i very intelligently stated many other things in that post. interesting u focused on that ONE word, and ignored everything else and tried to ignore all my other points–can u even deny that black people live in the shadows of the white norm. –on the pale skin, u know as I do that most white girls will not hit the beach before tanning. I have had white friends show me their pale legs after a long winter. be honest instead of throwing insults, show us how intelligent u are. hey to be fair, i know dark black women who try to keep away from the sun because they don’t want to get darker. and people come on here all day long talking about dark, crusty black butts, we call it self-hate

  • Leeha

    2mandeh, thanks for your post, i respect your experience. maybe your family is not the stereotype–note, i never, not once said I felt sorry for you as a biracial child, don’t put words in my mouth. i have no problem with biracial children,, they are children. but i will continue to criticize black people and our self-hate.

  • Leeha

    i don’t think mixed race people should tell black people to shut up on this issue because it offends them, or makes them feel uncomfortable. colorism is a serious problem and we have a right to discuss our condition, despite you.

  • Jamaquina.Cubana

    Besides, there’s too much of a history to just toss aside and ‘be down’! No matter how relaxed times may have gotten, that ‘badbreed’ quality is still in their genes!
    I don’t see too many Jewish people embracing Germans despite the many years since the Holocaust….hasn’t been too long after all the aparthied, genocides, robbery of Africa’s best…and black people feel as if whites are the BEST THING since slice bread!! lol
    And I know we’er supposed to forgive and let live but….hmmmm…i dunno!

  • Jamaquina.Cubana

    @ always knew…
    BAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHHAHAA….
    i think the RACE WAR just started!

  • Leeha

    heres the problem, the biracial posters want to dwindle this political/sociological problem down to the personal–its all about them, and their family, and their parents.– not about 400 years of conditioning, self-hate, and internalized racism. this issue has been discussed by black scholars for well over 100 years, we dealt with this self-hate since my very light/half indian grandma was told not to marry a dark black man. we have dealt with this since segregated jazz clubs in the 20s’ that only embraced light skin blacks(ever wonder why most jazz greats are all light skinned) and we are dealing with it now. If u are going to claim your black side, then u need to at least shut up and listen to our issues and our intellectual development. but if u don’t want to take my word on this, then go read some famous black men, read Malcolm X and the very light Langston Hughes hell read the biracial/female writer Bliss Broyard and the half latino Sonia Sanchez. Since I, a black woman is not to be trusted.

  • biracial bombshell

    I have to say I feel everything that Misunderstood is saying. Thank you for being an equal opportunist!

    Black white and mixed all over-See, my dad was white and my mom is black too. (was b/c he passed when I was little). Not the stereotypical way people assume either.

    Glok…just come in where I see I’m needed;-) And to answer your question…next time I get a chance to come to NY!

  • Leeha

    @jamaquina

    Especially since it seems you have to DEFEND who you are, the same thing they covet/seek.)
    ———————————————————-
    thank you for acknowledging what these chicks are asking us to do, sit back, bend over and accept the brainwashing. like spike lee said ‘even my conditioning has been conditioned.’–not one of them have even hinted that they know anything about the real black experience,

  • always knew

    @bb-Why don’t you ASK your MEN why they are going after these women

    After all they are not being ARMWESTLED into a relationship
    ___________________________

    some are, blk women are no longer taking care of grown blk men…
    :) I;m proud of that.. AND get it right, these wht wmn don’t have my man , he’s here at home…

  • Wanjiru

    …I’m biracial, and can’t figure out what the big deal is (esp in the current socio-political climate we live in) what the whole discussion and IRE is about black men picking white women is!…

    …it’s a personal preference!…who’s to tell us now whom or not we can choose to love?…

    …it’s bad enough the law dictates to gay people that they cannot get married, do we want to add to this injustice black men cannot marry white women?…

    …just LUDICROUS!…

    …wut up Luda :)

    twitter.com/E_Wanjiru

  • DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My SWAG On

    well I hope his daddy is happy cause he got just what he wanted: once this child is born is black bloodline will be gone. 1/4 black aint shit. we are just killing off our race.

  • blackgirlsrockit.com

    Lots of black women married to wonderful, successful white guys on blackgirlsrockit.com. Good luck Hank & Kendra although 23 is a bit too young to be a mom these days. Black women please broaden your options and stop being so narrow-minded, at least the ones who frequent this blog are.

  • always knew

    @DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My SWAG On-”we are just killing off our race.”
    _______________________________

    i would agree with you but there is more

    African blood in this world, more than ANY other race, (except maybe Chinese), we aren’t going anywhere no time soon…

    BTW: Do you think this whitewashing is on purpose, so that America eventually becomes a nation of swirls? I honestly think that it must be, just look at the general attitudes, you can’t even critique a person- famous or not- without someone making it personal or attacking you…THen they get mad when you correct them….

    tell em why you’re mad,go ahead and tell’em…
    :)

  • Black White and Mixed allover

    To Leeah, Kigali, Always Knew and all the other people who have a problem with mixed race couples and their UNHAPPY children:

    Yep- your life is so great, so fufilled yada, yada that you are reading books and writing whole POSTS about the issues of mixed race.. So telling!!! But you are so happy as a black woman with black husband and black kids that you go out of your way to diss mixed race people/mixed race kids.

    The proof is in the pudding- when your black son brings home something other than black and be realistic there is a possibility that he will- your opinion won’t me squat to him if he is in love just like your opinion doesn’t mean squat to any other mixed race person or mixed race couple.

  • Leeha

    @that mixed chick

    wow, u just ignored everything we had to say and chose to throw out that scary word IGNORANT. can u please refute any of the very educated points that have been validated and supported by black and multi cutural scholars over the last 100 years.–please if u are going to claim your black side, educate yourself on our issues, read a book. i already gave u a reading list.

  • Black White and Mixed allover

    But then got to nerve to quote famous white feminist- and using the words of a WHITE woman to make your points rather than bell hooks or nikki giovanni
    The more you type the less you are an example for a “Strong black woman with a strong black husband and strong black sons”

  • always knew

    @leeha- your post at 3:08 pm was on COMPLETELY ON POINT. I don’t understand why it has to get to the point where you can’t state your piece, just like they do theirs, and when you do, you get crazy INSULTS…

    Blk people hate themselves so much,we can’t even talk about issues without being further degraded.
    I hate the double standard. And you are right when you say, no wht wmn would ever want to wear a blk woman’s shes, we have to put up with so much and still be held back by our own/ whoever they put ‘over’ us…

    this is crazy, I don’t remember this kind of craziness when i was growing up..Now thatI am a grown woman, getting chastised for my opinion, this site is for losers, especially when they try to silence you, but think that their opinion is the only one that counts…

    what happened to free speech? oh, I mustove forgot my PLACE again….
    :( Forgive me, massa… :)

  • Merry in Hot Springs

    Actually, according to recent governmental statistics, Hispanics marry white people more than any other race. The American Indians are next and then the Asians. In fact, Hispanics encourage their children to marry white, to marry up is how they put it and the children are still considered Hispanic. So all minority groups marry white and it is increasing every year.

  • always knew

    @Black White and Mixed allover

    But then got to nerve to quote famous white feminist- and using the words of a WHITE woman to make your points rather than bell hooks or nikki giovanni
    The more you type the less you are an example for a “Strong black woman with a strong black husband and strong black sons”
    ______________________________

    you REALLY are MIXED up.

    her point was that we should be able to talk about these issues, without the same racism that you speak of and use yourself, putdowns and other psychological games, that non-people of color play in order to have blks ingratiate themselves to them..

    I don’t have those shortcomings, so you won;t be seeing an apology from me. That’s too damn bad that you can’t even see her point. Her point is that we have more in common ,with the wt womn than she thinks, but because she is only interested in getting *privileges* for herself, she doesn’t care about the different sterotypes that she herself plays in to, in another effort to make the blk women seem less honorable, worthy, equal..

    You must’ve been always at the bottom of your class. Do you have any COMPREHENSION skills?

    No. I didn’t think so..
    :(

  • Leeha

    hey black white and mixed all over

    u are here on the same post as us. and u knew damn well what type of discussion was going to take place, and u came back for the same tired discussion.–maybe u have gotten all over involved in this too.

    –I DIDN’T WRITE ABOUT MIXED RACE PEOPLE, ITS NOT ABOUT U. ITS ABOUT BLACK SELF-HATE AND BLACK PEOPLE PREFERRING EVERYTHING WHITE. U ARE THE PRODUCT, NOT MY CONDITIONING. please get that point and when black children question their black skin, hate their hair, label each other as ghetto, like they do now, i will fight against that. If my black son comes home talking about he PREFERS white women, yes I will have a problem with that and will that I failed as a parent to make my child love his black people.

  • Leeha

    wow black white,

    did u miss the point? the same point that nikki giovanni says about white feminism. the fact that they, white woman, who still control the overall feminist movement, have never examined the black female experience, but that of black men? why? because the experience of black women is doubly bad–we deal with racism and sexism. deal with the point. can u deal with the point?

  • Leeha

    @bb and always and black whit mixed..

    BB point on the Youtube is the reason why i talked about the need for a new black feminist movement.

  • Earl

    No only, ignorant, ghetto trifling type people hate themselves and label themselves as ghetto. Most middle-class or even working class black people with some sense don’t talk, act or think this way. I have seen and read about plenty of self-hhating Hispanics and Asian people. In some countries the need to not look Asian is so strong, parents give their children operations when they graduate from high school to look more white. And the self-hate amongst some Hispanics is just as strong. With the darker Hispanics looking up to the white skinned ones and wanting to be and look like them. I know Hispanics and they look down on the darker Salvodorians and call them monkeys. They do the same to the Dominicans and Puerto Ricans so all folks do it. Self-hate is in every group so don’t just single out black people.

  • Chris

    In Europe both Black men and men marry Europeans it’s a common thing and as people immigrant across the globe expect to see more of the same. It is mostly black women in America with narrow, closed views to the way the world is today that are angry to change. It’s stupid to get mad over what total strangers do in their private lives. Leave people alone to love whomever they choose.

  • http://bossip bb

    @Always Knew
    My initial comments were not directed at you and there you go with the INSULTS

    You are so ANGRY that you cannot see that we are in AGREEMENT on some points

    Who has HURT you?

    What has made you this angry that you continue to attack yet you are in a “HAPPY MARRIAGE”

    Nigerians do not ASSOCIATE with NEGATIVE and BITTER people

    DROP the NEGATIVE VIBE and then you might see some IMPROVEMENTS in your life

  • always knew

    @earl-Self-hate is in every group so don’t just single out black people.
    _________________________________

    we are the only ones that can’t have an intelligent discussion about though…

    so I’d say yeah, that belongs exclusively to the blk community..

    when other races swirl outside of their race, they DO NOT HAVE TO PUT THEIR OWN WOMEN DOWN.

    Only our race does that. Can you tell me why?
    Is that because you all like having the blk women as a scape goat?

  • http://bossip bb

    I most certaintly can’t tell..

    You wouldn’t know self-hate if it came up and SLAPPED you..
    _______________________________________________
    You certainly have problems with reading COMPREHENSION

    As a Nigerian why would I give a toss about who the black American man hooks up with

    Why would I have self hate when I am PRO-NIGERIAN

  • Love Is Love

    blackgirlsrockit.com is about black american women opening up their options and not feeling let down, put out and lonely because they cannot find a man who values them. So they find men who are white and/or asian who do appreciate their beauty and them as women. Yeah, it is about black women/white men and some asian men so what. So when you have trolls coming on this blog using various names, playing the good cop/badcop routine, beware! They don’t have the black woman’s best interest at heart. Their are a whole lot of people from other races who hate to see black/white couples together, mainly the Hispanics are like this. But they want their own kids to marry white and like seeing brown/white matches. Don’t allo youreselves to be fooled. Open up your eyes black american women and open up your choices to white/asian men if that is where your heart is leading you.

  • Leeha

    @mixed chick

    when u are refuting my points, please just address my points. out of the three points u listed the only one I stated was the white privilege. Now u refuted that point with your PERSONAL story. thats the problem when people inject their personal in the political, the larger political issue is swepted under the rug. now u have one case where a black man wasn’t attracted to white privilege. but that doesn’t refute the well explored idea that white women benefit from white privilege in the beauty department, note your mother’s green eyes, hell black men love women with light eyes(thats we call them) hence black women loving colored contacts. also white privilege doesn’t always revolve around money, it has alot to do with social perception. Plus, not to be disrespectful, a black man can silently be attracted to white women before he gets the courage to approach one. also its very hard for parents to admit their disfunction to their kids, please read Bliss Broyard on this, she talks about the shame that SOME black parents feel as far as discussing this issue with their biracial children.

    OK U ARE NOT IGNORANT,but I never called u ignorant, maybe u are the one who called me ignorant. but i said educate yourself on our issue. so u read the Bluest Eye, what do u have to say about the black female viewpoint in that book? what do u have to say about that pure, unfiltered, self-hatred displayed in that book?

  • Craig

    Black women must stop putting Black men down when they pursue other women.
    Black men must stop putting Black women down when they pursue men outside their race. Let people live their lives and you live yours. It’s true about other races marrying outside their own in huge numbers, if they embrace it so should we. We need to stop backing ourselves into corners and see the world as becoming a more open place with people of all stripes loving and marrying each other.

  • Lioness.JahBless

    @ Leeha….”Her word, not mine…”
    ————————————–
    And it’s very awful isn’t it!?
    Sad that ‘everyone’ is driven by a lust-filled way of thinking and when the smart ones want to point it out, they get persecuted! More than HALF of these so-called ‘relationships’ are based on sexual desires/attractions of the others skin/ethnicity than ‘love’. It’s stupid!

  • always knew

    @ThatMixedChick!- the comments that you yourself make, make you sound CONFUSED.

    you also use generalizations and stereotyes yourself, although you CLAIM to be different…

    and then your stupid to top it off…

    “My dad said he would never date a white woman”, but then he fell love with her green eyes and heart of gold..

    THat’s rather specific, if you ask me…

    just like that thread when the guy advertises looking for his snowflake, the wht girl on the thread tells me you can;t help who you fall in love with,

    BUT: He clearly stated his preferences, fine no problems, she clearly answered. He was looking for a white woman…. She answered, that would have nothing to do with it just being he fell inlove with her he advertised,for her and she answered…

    I don’t care if people have there preferences, WE ALL DO. But why is it that the other races that date outside of their race, doesn;’t have to denigrte or down their wmen, just because they are dating outside of the race? This is happening way too much and it’s not acceptable.

    Date who you want,once you start opening your trap about blk women this, blk women that, be prepared for some blk women to make some not so kind statements to you….

    I have not judgment of your paents. I don’t KNOW them. I’m stating my opinions in general, just like you are and AGAIN, we wouldn’t have went there, if ou didn;t have to isult blk women while making your points.. But that’s not the way it went, you clearly thought that you were ABOVE us, and I didn’t and still don’t believe so. You are not going to call me out of my name and me not respond. Grow up and get some sort of clue.

    CONFUSED?? Yes, you are…Clearly, you are…

  • Mr. Lawrence

    Chinese women love to marry white guys, especially the Filipino women. If the white guy has blue eyes he is considered the highest and best match all around. Oh yeah, all folks do this. I went to several European countries last summer and I saw a very high number of African women married to European men.

  • http://bossip bb

    @Always Knew
    There you go again with the INSULTS

    IT was first BIRACIALS

    Then White women

    Then Hispanics

    Now Nigerians

    You insult Nigeria yet you claim to be married to a HAITIAN now is that not the joke of the year

    What happened got kicked to the curve by a fellow black american

    I will not SINK to your Level with your insults because you are unhappy enough as it is

    You are just SAD and FRUSTRATED and come on here take it out on people

    Why Not seek help for your DEPRESSION

  • Leeha

    @chris please check Earl’s post then do your research, every culture in this world is suffering from a collective white gaze. and they are all talking about it.

  • ThatMixedChick!

    @always knew

    You totally MISSED my point. That’s not a direct quote. I was just using a description to emphasize that my mother is/was STUNNING, and THAT is why he fell in love with her. He was looking for a black chick, but fell in love with a white one.

    I never ONCE talked down to black women. My bestfriends are black, and I will defend their beauty any day.

    You, however consistently talk down to biracial people.

  • http://bossip bb

    @Always knew
    Please take your MEDICATION you are HIGHLY DELUSIONAL

    There you are rambling on about your NONEXISTENT KIDS and HUSBAND with a “6 Figure” INCOME

    EMPTY VESSEL make the most NOISE

    IF you had it you would not come across so MISERABLE and would not need to BOAST

    I can RECOMMEND a DOCTOR I have 2 SIBLINGS over there that are MEDICAL DOCTORS I can tell one of them to TREAT you FREE of CHARGE since I doubt you will have any MEDICAL INSURANCE at this time

    Just HOLLA at bb.CO.UK I will HOOK you up and your MENTAL problems will be solved in no TIME

    Put a SOCK in it AKATA

  • wgc

    oh and hank is mixd his mom is white!

  • Mark

    She is not that attractive. Who cares.

  • always knew

    @wgc

    oh and hank is mixd his mom is white!
    ________________________________

    then he’s really NOT swirling..

    I didn’t know that and it wouldn’t have made a difference, anyway…

    When I came on here, pm started talking ish and it just went from there. ALL these NEGATIV comments abut blk women. Why? So what if blk dudes swirl? Why the f-ck do they have to talk ish about blk wmn?

    Why can’t they just do whatever they are going to do and leave it at that? Why do we have to be insulted, just cause they don’t want blk women??

    My quetion, which NOONE bothered to answer, was:

    If blk men want to date out of their race, why don;t they just do so and leave it at that…

    Why does it have to be you against us, just because you’re swirling?

    When blk women swirl, you still see them dealing with their on and not speaking bad about blk men? Why is it so hard to just not make any messed up comments towards blk womn? Why do we still have to listen to all our insults, about us to your wht wmn or whatever, you date?

    NOT SMART, AT ALL..

  • Divine

    Exuse my typos and to continue my statement

    Either the common denominator is there socio – economic situation or a black man…LOL!
    It was a joke brothers… I love me a black man!

  • Black White and Mixed allover

    Wow after spewing nothing but hate, intolerance, ignorance and complete and utter BULLSHIT

    ALWAYS KNEW had the nerve, gall and audacity to utter GOD and PEACE at the end of one of her tirades.

  • always knew

    that should’ve been all kinds…

  • ysr

    now thats a smart girl. Keep pimpin Kendra. dude never seen it coming.

  • Love None

    Now ladies this is how you get your gold digging and pimpin’ on! From Hugh’s crib to a NFL baller’s pad. She’s got the formula!!!!

    You gotta act sweet and nice and lose all the attitude and you can get the world. Go Kendra Go!-lol

  • http://bossip bb

    @Always Knew
    You think you can INSULT everybody

    You MORON

    You are soo STUPID you MUST have been DROPPED on your head when you were at the PLANTATION

    When did Marquis become a Nigerian you TWIT

    SHENENE seek MEDICAL HELP I am offering you this for FREE

    You can even be admitted to the PSYCHE WARD for your SCHIZOPHRENIC EPISODES

    HOLLA and THANK ME LATER

  • http://bossip bb

    @always knew AKA SHENENE
    YOU are PICKING up on my spelling ERRORS

    Your RANTS are UNINTELLIGIBLE and yet the SAD thing is that you can only speak one Language

    You need to brush up on your COMMUNICATION skills
    SHENENE

    This is NOT good enough how are you going to get the PROMOTION on the PLANTATION

    I can RECOMMEND REMEDIAL STUDIES

    HOLLA and THANK ME LATER

  • always knew

    you*- excuse the typo

  • always knew

    languages*-excuse the typo

  • always knew

    @beady bead- we have government contracts at the airports, govt buildings, you cannot have a record, to have those contracts…But you wouldn’t know about that, because you would have to have a brain first…. Hubby has NEVER been to prison. His brother, but NEVER hubby, he’s a righteous blk man that I am proud to call the had of the house and the love of my life…

    It;s time for us to spend some time together and he’s bored with your lack of anything to talk about, so toodles, pick your ticks, see ya and definitely wouldn’t want to be ya…

  • always knew

    head*

  • http://bossip bb

    @Always Knew
    Is HOLLA not a GHETTO LINGO

    How will you understand if I don’t add a bit of GHETTO SLANG

    Regards to hubby Haitian hopefully he is Keeping out of TROUBLE

    If NOT you might end up PADDLING the CANOE back to Haiti with him and that will be no small TASK

    Tell him not to INSULT his mother after all she gave BIRTH to him

    He needs to RESPECT his mother

    SHENENE stay UPLIFTED

  • *Treasure*

    Congratulations to the couple.

    Hank is entitled to date and marry whom he chooses. It is his decision to chose a woman who had relations with an old coot for profit. She is not an honorable virtuous woman. Kendra’s race is not a factor. Her deviant sexual past will follow her no matter who she marries, or how many children she decides to give birth to. She will always be remembered for being Hugh Hefner’s liaison.

    Any woman who can degrade herself to that degree will marry for money.

  • http://bossip bb

    @Always Knew AKA SHENENE
    You are still here RANTING away and having another Schizophrenic Episode

    I thought you were going out with hubby haitian or is he UNDER House ARREST with the TAG

    Sorry MATE I don’t travel by any kind of SHIP
    Journeys like that can be LONG and HAZARDOUS

    I prefer short Journeys

    You haven’t had dinner yet

    Well I hope the bowl of CHITLINGS goes down well

    Don’t CHOKE on any BONES you need to keep that Doctor’s APPOINTMENT

    STAY UPLIFTED SHENENE

  • *Treasure*

    I don’t have a problem with interracial dating. I do have a problem when a black person chooses to date exclusively out of their race. They have the idea that a white person or any one that is non black is a more suitable choice. That is discriminating against your own race.

  • *Treasure*

    You all are brutal on this thread. I am leaving quietly.

  • http://bossip bb

    @Always Knew
    My comments were not directed at you and they should not have bothered you

    Afterall you claim to be “HAPPILY MARRIED” to a Haitian and so my comments were aimed at the single ladies

    I am going back and forth because I have the time and after this I am done with this site

    I have better things to do with my time than ARGUE with a LUNATIC

    I know that all black American women are not like you but you fit the GHETTO STEREOTYPE

    YOU are IGNORANT,MANNERLESS with no DECORUM whatsoever

    On here sharing PERSONAL INFORMATION and BRAGGING about so called “achievements”

    No wonder you ended up with an HAITAN

    I’m DONE with you AKATA

    You SCORED NO POINTS

    PS AKATA means BUSH RAT An Animal that has been taken out of it’s Natural environment and does not know how to behave

    Just like you NO CULTURE,NO NAME,NO SENSE OF BELONGING
    CHRISTINE SHENENE
    GOOD LUCK
    You need it

  • Leeha

    @bb,
    girl its all good. but i just wanted to add that point. i say represent your people. i know there is tensions between our communities,

  • Leeha

    @always knew,

    i love u both. both of u ladies always come through with knowledge. but i noticed u listed those arizona streets. i’m from mesa, baseline all the way baby. i went to Dobson high school.

  • Shay

    Sigh..some of our “brothers” hook up with anything.

    Oh well no loss to me.

    Good luck with that.

  • Crsytalina

    Congrats to Kendra and Hank .

  • prisseme

    Who cares!? PWT and a dumb football player.

  • Carla

    I persoanlly don’t have a problem with Kendra and Hank being together, so what’s the big deal ? As for the feminism, I think that every one should study this subject females and males.

  • Carla

    I don’t think Kendra is after Hank’s money, he’s not a billionare, lol….

  • thatbrutha

    THIS MORON IS AN IDIOT WALKING and he doesn’t even know it.
    BABY= Guaranteed cash. This guy will play for 7 yrs. They will break up next year, and she will be going thru cash like saudi in NYC.
    GOOD LUCK MORON

  • elle’

    LOL thatbrutha I couldn’t have said it better myself! oh well I didn’t know who he was until he got wht this chick! kiss your money good bye Joe or Jerry or whatever his name is!

  • Leeha

    @shegi…oh no she has lost her mind with this devotion to Hef. I can’t wait to see if he walks her down the aisle.

  • CJ

    @YTLurker

    Always Knew is a racist. She hates the swirl and will argue forever. she is very rude. I would suggest not reading any of her posts. She is too far gone to reason with. Racists only speak one language and that is ignorance and hatred. Black and white racist speak the same language.

  • Kayess

    Who cares what color they are? They’re madly in love and having their 1st child. I think that’s something to celebrate! Some of you may be passing up on meeting the love of your life because the skin they’re wearing doesn’t match yours, even though what’s on the inside could be a perfect match. But, most ppl will never take the chance to find out.

    Anyway…I digress….Congrats Kendra and Hank!!!

  • White Devil

    @ swirlobsessioninhere

    It sounds like you live in France. I haven’t spent much time there. But I know a lot of Black people who live in Europe, mainly Germany, but also other countries and they encounter white racism all the time. It is not exclusively an American problem. In the past, things were definitely worse here. But I think that having things out in the open rather than shoved under the rug have allowed us to advance more quickly.

  • always knew

    from*

  • MzJazzy

    Ridiculous.

  • always knew

    @cj-CJ

    @YTLurker

    Always Knew is a racist. She hates the swirl and will argue forever. she is very rude. I would suggest not reading any of her posts. She is too far gone to reason with. Racists only speak one language and that is ignorance and hatred. Black and white racist speak the same language.
    _________________________________

    thank you , it shows that you know what racism REALLY is. Yes, I am too far gone to be bothered with your bs. And because a couple of your idiots can only go off what you know (not much for sure) your information is limited, I laugh at you , you have NO IDEA how it all REALLY works.

    It would be better, if people could have a discussion without the name calling, then it wouldn’t get to this point… But whatever, keepyour name-calling to yourself and you won;t be disrespected either… And most of you can;t see beyond your nose, so of course, make me the racist.

    Thank you (takes bow), accepting award..
    :)

  • swirlobsessioninhere

    @always knew

    my mistake and my apologies. I was put off balance by the sheer violence of the thread.

  • always knew

    @swirlobsessioninhere- Responding to your post at 12:27 pm.

    My point for the last time: When people date whoeever they date, outside of their race, why do the blk men in those relationships, (sometimes wht wmn) feel the need to denigrate blk women just because they are dating outside of their race. No other race treast their women in that fashion, except for blk men…

    Heidi Klum and Seal- Seal is actually one of my fav artists. I do think their kids look a ilttle funny, but that’s with everyone, there have been many mixed marriages that result in beautiful people…

    I don;t like people who pretend that they are color blind then start using the same ole disrespectful argument to further downgrade blk women, that was my point. She got REALLY ANGRY when I suggested that swirl was in her community, as well, she got down right ANGRY. Then the name calling really began. I’m saying don’t dish it, if you can’t take it.

    I have mixed folks in my family and maybe the realtonships that I see aren’t the healthiest or maybe they don;t belong together, it’s ALWAYS RACIAL is what helped form some of my opinion. However, again none of this was personal to any one person, I got into an argument with someone, who started with me and the hate did take on a life, of it’s own. I asked her at least 3 separate times, to stop and not go there, she wouldn’t. You witnessed my responses, after she attacked me.

    I’m not going back and forth, no one like to be called out of their name. If you don;t do it to people, they won’t do it to you…( Common sense)

  • http://bossip bb

    @Leeha
    I have lived in the UK for quite a long time and I worked in the U.S at my headoffice for a couple of years
    The racism in the U.S is a lot worse especially between black and white Americans

  • Leeha

    @bb

    ok its worse, here but it still exist there. and people still suffer for it there. u pay attention to racism when it affects your life, keeping africans in tent cities in europe is racism. making muslims register with the government is racism, all the hate speech in european press is racism.

  • http://bossip bb

    @Leeha
    I do agree with you

    Racism is difficult to escape

    However in the UK it’s more subtle

    There are no separate universities or neighbourhoods so there is more of an interaction

    And political correction is everyones buzzword

    The English like to be seen to do the right thing

  • Leeha

    @bb

    first of all, i want to say i respect your voice. i will never insult u, we can argue up the wall, but i won’t disrespect u.

    -from what i understand, Europeans think of illegal immigrant africans similar to how americans think of illegal mexicans. now that thought process affects the legal african population as it affects the legal mexican population.–its interesting when u include african populations that are also muslim. –also europe is now advocating against further immigration, refugee status, welfare system, citizianship. look at Hijab debate in france, the rise of the right, the unemployment rates for legal minorities, the barring of africans from stores and restaurants(there are cases of them being asked to leave)

  • Leeha

    There are no separate universities or neighbourhoods so there is more of an interaction

    And political correction is everyones buzzword

    The English like to be seen to do the right thing

    ———————————————

    -there are no government sanctioned separate universities or neighborhood. yes in america’s past, but in europe’s past they have done the same thing. first of all, europe kept their universities free of people of color -because colonization was done outside of europe-very few people of color were admitted-those few admitted, were heavily policed and restricted(negritude poets talked about this)-they never had to deal with an horde of ignorant brown people, but now they are advocating and disenfranchising brown students.

    -and in the past, neighborhoods were segregated. from the 16th century on up to now, blacks, jews, and muslims were restricted to separate districts. France built the paris suburbs for a reason.

    -political correctness is a buzz word here too, but the right is fighting against that here and there.

    -the american and the english both have a lot of white guilt, so they both want to do the right thing. thats why in both socities, the right claims that they have bent over backwards to accomadate ignorant brown people. they are now fighting to stop accomadating brown people in both places.

  • http://bossip bb

    @leeha
    Thanks for that I respect you also

    The way that I see things is that if the African continent could get it’s act together these issues would hardly exist

    Colonism played apart but some of the problems are Self-inflicted

    Take Nigeria a country rich in two major resources
    -Human resources and Oil with the potential to be rich

    We cannot get rid of the old school corrupt government
    Billions of oil dollars are going into personal accounts instead infrastructures

    The Nigerian Government is to be held accountable for any toxic dumping

    Due to this bad governance the result is illegal immigrant Africans and brain drain

    Believe me if Nigeria had achieved it’s potential most Nigerians would be back in their country and just travel for vacation purposes

    There is a solution in place at present there are young and upcoming politicians that now form part government

    They are making good use of the resources and are making improvements but we still need to get rid of the old school recycled corrupt government

    Democracy in action

    Another thing having a relationship with a African man is very hard work if you are not an African

    There is the language,food,culture,family
    That is why men who marry non africans will often go back to african women later on down the line

    An example President Obama’s deadbeat father

  • Leeha

    I hear u on Nigeria and Africa. believe me I’m rooting for them with all my heart. There is so much potential–its similar to the mexican situation. they come here for opportunity. if Mexico was better off, they would probably be happy to be at home.

    –yeah having a interracial relationship is hard with african-american men too. some black men come back to black women too. but they sometimes aspect their women to feel that they are lucky to have back. dated american and african men after they have been with white women, once their comfortable you’ll hear all kind of white woman worship. and sometimes they’re use to getting away with alot of shit, u have to make it clear that u don’t worship them as mandingo like their white girlfriend did. I have dated men from ghana, cameroon, nigeria, south africa, ethiopia. and i have all kinds of white women worship from them and their friends, including claims of marrying white is marrying up.–aFrican writers talk about this issue too.

    –an interesting issue my african girl friend hipped me to, she said “yeah white women benefit from white privilege, but u benefit from american privilege ove african women.”–i had never thought of it that way.

  • Leeha

    yeah we have alot of good white people here, but we have some bad ones too.

  • Leeha

    let me correct that most white people are good. we have come along way. but I’m from arizona and have ran into my share of white racism.

  • http://bossip.com too cute

    congrats to Kendra,I like her,glad they are getting married,they look happy

  • swirlobsessioninhere

    @ leeha

    Where have you read that europe was racial utopia I said different form of racism. I said no separation I never said hate was not here. I said no institutionalisation (blacks being considered as a cohesive group by the state for example). I said no tacit prohibition of interracial relationships (from both part of the fence). Is hate still around? of course. But for racism no place in the world is exempt of it. I was merely saying that I am more Ok with what I lived here than in the US. And immigration is a slightly different debate. I think I mentionned being happy to live in a country open to immigration (in comparison with other countries though).

    As for the african problems, Africa is being exploited by everybody in this world the US included (who sanctionned the killing of Lumumba in Congo because he was a communist?). Too much raw materials there. You believe it is about racism? no, not for that part. It is about power and wealth. Thats what England was actually doing to the US in the first place. That what settlers did to the native americans. It goes with racism but the first motivation is GREED. And I can pretty much guaranty you that some of the accomplices are Black.

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