Does a One Time Sexual Encounter with the Same Sex Make You Gay?

Posted on June 10th, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Gay, News

LiveSteezGay

There’s something to be said about experimentation but there’s something else to be said about a lifestyle. If you’ve hit it and quit it once with someone of the same sex, does that mean you’re homosexual? Pop the top for more

  • Yeash

    HELL YEAH IT DOES

  • PUSSYCATFUN

    YES IT DOES…AND THAT PICTURE OF THE TWO DUDES MAKING OUT IS DISGUSTING.,

    ONCE YOU GO BLACK YOU’LL NEVER COME BACK:

    THE BLACKER THE BERRY, THE SWEETER THE JUICE:

    ONCE YOU STAY GAY,YOU STAY!

  • nobody cares

    yes, you’re gay…or at least bi-sexual, and that’s unacceptable for a male. yes it’s a double standard, but there are plenty of doubles standards women face, and we deal with the consequences, so must they. if a man ever told me he “experimented” with another male out of youthful curiosity, he’s getting dismissed – point blank.

  • iopsycho

    Umm…Yep.

  • smoovee

    “Oh My…” (at that pic)
    thats just a mess

  • mamamia

    Did anyone see the MTV True Life episode “I’m bisexual?” There was a guy on there who swore up and down he liked women first, then men, but still loved women but it was soooo obvious he’s just regular gay and in denial. He even seemed more natural and relaxed when it showed him around men than women, but I just don’t think he was ready to say it’s all about the men.

  • lani3000

    Yeah, thats gay. That pic almost made me upchuck.

  • lani3000

    @MAMAMIA

    I saw that one too

  • BlackBritishChick

    That Poster Is Wrong!

  • Lisa Vee

    Just thought of having a homosexual act makes you gay…so where you act on it or not YOU’RE GAY!!!!!!!!!!

  • Negrodamus Believes(clouded in black n mild’s)

    Negrodamus Believes coca cola and pop rocks is the only way to cure gayness, while being washed in a Mississippi river, with a crowd of people in white sheets, one of them being Anthony Hamilton serenading

  • Lady J

    Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

  • Negrodamus Believes(clouded in black n mild’s)

    Negrodamus Believes the original story of “Gayness” relates that it was born Kal-El on the planet Krypton, before being rocketed to Earth as an infant by his scientist father Jor-El, moments before Krypton’s destruction.

  • Marquis de Sade

    nobody cares

    yes, you’re gay…or at least bi-sexual

    Ain’t no such thing as “BI-SEXUAL” Show me a bi-sexual, and i’ll show you a confused fag.

  • smoovee

    LMAO @ Negrodamus…What in the hell??? Cola and Pop Rocks???

  • VJ

    That pic is quite disturbing. Anyway, for a man to come to the realization that he wants to “experiment” with another man, then in my opinion, he has already decided that he’s gay. There’s no going back from that. A truly straight man would not even let that thought cross his mind. And yes, I admit there is a double standard….oh well.

  • Warren Peace

    Yes! Yes! Yes!…..thats like saying if u murder 1 person in ur whole life are u still a murderer….Yes!

  • Nique

    @Marquis de Sade

    LMAO @ confused fag!!!!

  • twinkle

    Yes. What ever happened to fighting a temptation? Just like I believe bi-sexuality makes you greedy person.

  • always knew

    That PICTURE IS KILLING ME.

    No a good look for BLK MEN.

    NOW the lot of you are tunring into fairies…

    and have the nerve to be CONFUSED?

    OMG! I’m outta this thread… PURE NASTINESS!

  • Marsha

    By the looks of if I guess 50 cent and Lloyd finally made up???

  • Negrodamus Believes(clouded in black n mild’s)

    Negrodamus Believes “Gayness” was discovered and adopted by a Kansas farmer and his wife, the child is raised as Clark Kent and imbued with a strong moral compass. Very early he started to display gay abilities, which upon reaching maturity he resolved to use for the benefit of humanity.

  • The Consigliere

    It’s not what you do that makes you gay, but what you prefer…

  • Old Timer

    If you take an informal survey and ask any gay person when did they realize that they were gay or attracted to the same sex?

    They all say either one or two things……..”I’ve always known” or “when they were about 5 or 6 years old, they knew something was different with them.

    So I don’t think that a person would suddenly wake up and decide to be gay if they didn’t already have the predispositon to it.

  • Just My Thoughts

    The experiment is something you can’t take back. Yes, you are GAY!

  • Just Some Cat

    If you’re a woman, no. If you’re a man, YES!

  • Old Timer

    The Consigliere

    It’s not what you do that makes you gay, but what you prefer…
    __________________________________________

    Co-sign that!!

  • $moK.E.Y.

    @Negrodamus

    Leave Anthony Hamilton out of this, but you imagery of the situation is still funny, lol.
    :roll:

  • Exxon300

    They are gay? and two women are doing it are gay too.

  • http://bossip bb

    That Picture has SCARRED me for life

  • geico lizard

    There is a double standard because women “experiment” and dont consider themselves gay or bisexual. If you think one time makes you gay then you should feel that way about every gender that experiments. Tyler Perry,Queen Latifah and Oprah should come out of the closet.

  • Lady J

    @ The official Mrs. Carter…..if you put a d*ck in the hole of another man; YOU ARE GAY!!!!!!!!!!!Blame it on the goose???????? Wut?????

  • nyp

    dang. with such narrow and bigoted responses is it any wonder hiv is so high within the black community?

  • JB (Wii’ed out)

    Um, does anyone need to think about this?

    Yes it does!!!

    Did you guys see True Life – I’m bi-sexual, Monday night?

  • Lady J

    @geico lizard….No double standard…If a woman put her lips inside/alongside her hole; YOU ARE GAY!!!!!!!!!!!! You people got issues….

  • LadyLove

    I am a stra8 women i think that if you are a men or women and you try that you are GAY GAY!!! and aint no getting past it. Take me for instance if was dating sum 1 who told me they did that i would slap that dude in his face and if a one of my friends told me that we are no longer friends because how do i know you dont look @ me that way.

  • $moK.E.Y.

    on time is not and experiment, its a commitment.

    sh*t if u want to experiment, build a damn drink red

    beet juice for an entire week and see what happens

  • Old Timer

    I know that I’m probably older than all of you put togethers, but being gay is NOT a lifestyle CHOICE, but a genetic one.

  • LadyLove

    @lady J you are soo rite

  • $moK.E.Y.

    the rules are the same for men and women!!!

    ain’t no getting by or shortcuts, gay is GAY!

  • Negrodamus Believes(clouded in black n mild’s)

    “dang. with such narrow and bigoted responses is it any wonder hiv is so high within the black community?”

    —————————————————

    @NVP

    Negrodamus Believes Aids is in the water supply. Think Batman Begins.

  • .

    so wat about men like Donnie McClurkin?

  • mizjulie

    Am I the only one who looked at that pic at first and thought that’s Omarion?

  • LadyLove

    @ Mizjulie

    NO

  • http://www.bossip.com BMWdriver540i. …… .Looking at the haters thru my rearview

    Well all I can say is if you hit it your down wit it so hell yeah your GAY! Example no.1 like me once I tasted the sweet necture of a woman I was hooked on it( Like Mc Donalds I’m lovin it) so if a man goes and eats a sausage or a woman goes and munches a carpet they’ll return for seconds

  • Jay the Real One

    @mizjulie

    Am I the only one who looked at that pic at first and thought that’s Omarion?
    ——————————————————-

    I sure as hell did

  • Lady J

    @old timer…There use to be a diagnosis in DSMIII for all this foolishness ie. trans-gender, gay, cross dresser…It’s mental; period. Genetics??? Hogwash!!!

  • Hannibal

    THIS POST IS GAY…

  • JB (Wii’ed out)

    Why does the one on top look like Gangstalicious?

  • Breaking the monotony (Lean)

    YEEESSSS!!!!!!!!!!!! To even THINK about it is GAY!!! Let alone doing it! If you did it then most likely you were thinking about it before and wanted to try it!!!! YES YES AND YES!!!! GAY GAY GAY!!

  • C’mon Man!

    That painting is so raw! It must be terribly exciting for those who get down like that – but, for those of us who don’t….eeeek!!

  • Well….ok

    If you accept the invite and act upon it, then it would make you bi-sexual!

  • http://bossip Wendy

    YES

  • Mckenzie

    @ Brooklyn AL

    VERY GOOD POINTS!!!!

  • chocolateprincess

    this pic is disgusting n vile…ewwww

  • no rhetoric no fallacy

    although this image is extremely disturbing, it once again reaffirms a theory that i have. it is the notion that the black woman is the closest living thing to god. i say this because u can’t be a true judge without experience or experiment like a true scientist. men are physically inferior to women such as with regards to childbirth. in addition men can’t handle the that level of sexual experimentation because their bodies arent strong enough to survive an attempt at submissiveness. all u dudes can throw shoes at me later.

  • Tray

    Hell Yeah you’re gay!!!!!

  • Old Timer

    Riddle Me This?

    Why would someone “choose” to be gay? What benefit would he derive from it?

  • ♥ PyNk ♥

    ******WHAT THE HELL IS UP WITH THAT PICTURE????***************

  • sara lee

    It does NOT MAKE THEM GAY! They are then by definition bisexual. If they find it more stimulating to be with a man and preference them over women then it makes the gay. And just a side bar women are bisexual in my eyes if they like men and women.

    Oh by the way there is nothing wrong with either being gay or bisexual. It is wrong when you “EXPERIMENT” unprotected and not telling your significant other. In fact then that’s when it becomes disgusting. ..heck if you aren’t gay and doing that its disgusting.

  • Mannie

    THAT PICTURE IS DISGUSTING MAN, GET RID OF IT AL READY.

  • *Treasure*

    Once you start pondering on relations with the same sex, it is gay. Anyone who is straight would be repulsed at the mere thought of it. If you act on it and make your fantasy a reality I think that person is a homosexual or bisexual. That person certainly is not straight.

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    AND… let me add.

    For a man to allow another man to do that puts him in a position of submission which completely strips away his manhood. He assumes the position of a female dog to the male dog which now makes him what? A BYTCH…

    Thank you and I’m out!

  • Wanjiru

    LOL, they just talked about this on Elvis Duran and the morning show this a.m. :)

    and the answer is YES-for men.

    .

  • dstsistah

    Jun 10, 2009 – 12:30 pm Negrodamus Believes(clouded in black n mild’s)

    Negrodamus Believes coca cola and pop rocks is the only way to cure gayness, while being washed in a Mississippi river, with a crowd of people in white sheets, one of them being Anthony Hamilton serenading
    _____________________________________________________LOL! Why am I listening to Anthony Hamilton “Prayin’ for You” right now, too funny!

  • Good Morning Babe…..

    if you would do it in a woman’s butt hole, you’ll do it in a mans.

    just sayin

  • dstsistah

    Sorry for the typo, I’m instead of I.

  • Good Morning Babe…..

    based on your post Fo yO iN4o-maTioN, I conclude that you are indeed homosexual

  • Switch hitter

    Old Timer

    I consider myself bisexual actually. I really became more attracted to men around late high school and in college.

  • what happened to my name?

    damn, i just threw up! please remove the photo!

  • turkishjamaican

    bumm bay bay inna batti man head!!!

  • Kami All Day

    Sorry guys!

    You dont have to read ALL of it…..:)

  • num1dominicano

    damn, don’t nobody want to read all that shit…

  • num1dominicano

    kami…

    no offense..

  • SHOMONDO

    @ brnhornet I see me and you is on the same wave- length ;) You cant make everything in life a black and white thing, there are shades of gray when it comes to some things. If you kill someone just one time YES you are a killer. Thats not the same thing as if you lets say snort coke one time and never again, you aint forever a coke-head. Common sense in looking at things in life is most important :)

  • Old Timer

    Switch hitter

    Old Timer

    I consider myself bisexual actually. I really became more attracted to men around late high school and in college.
    ___________________________________________

    Did you “choose” to be attracted to men or it was just natural for you? Sexual orientation is a genetic factor.

  • Billy Blog Thorton

    …and what’s the big deal about the picture? If you a str8 guy and you find yourself not able to stop looking at the pic after the initial shock…your azz is suspect. LMAO

    …and if you a str8 woman and find yourself unable to turn away from the pic after the initial shock…your man might be suspect and this sh!t reminds you of him.

  • Switch hitter

    Kami

    I read your story. I understand. Its just sad that even though you are doing the same thing you feel that it is wrong when two men find the same love that you found.

  • trs (MAKE LOVE NOT WAR)

    Kami

    I applaud you for living your life for YOU….and no one else. :)

  • Kami All Day

    @num1dominicano:

    lol….none taken. I knew that already though…thanks for being real! :)

  • NOPHACE

    @ KAYGEE

    THAT TOO IS CONSIDERED BE A FAG!!!!

  • Kami All Day

    @trs:

    Thank you! Its was hard for me to tell you guys in the first place….

    @Switch Hitter:

    I understand your point. But let me ask you this. For the homosexual men out here (mostly speaking of the men who are imaged up top)….do they want to be with a man out of love or for the physical act itself?

    I dont think thats its the same, but for those who actually find themselves in a loving relationship….then it may be different.

    But something tells me that these guys arent in it for the sake of being in love.

    Hell, they dont even love the women they are with half the time.

  • SHOMONDO

    If a man let another man run up in his poop-chute, I highly doubt it’s just gonna be a one-time thing. Getting his knob slobbed could be a one-time thing, getting ran up in and hammmered NAW!

  • http://www.myspace.com/jcstansb Man I just dont care™

    @STOP IT
    “…Its all about f%$@’n hoes,basketball-skills, and cash-flow.”
    ______________________________________________________________

    It ain’t bad if you have these three things tho. LOL.

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    @Kami

    I personally don’t agree with the lifestyle, but that was a great post…lol. Well written.

    ***side note***
    You don’t owe NOBODY an explanation. Do you. Like you said “Now whether my lifestyle is right or wrong, we are the ones who have to accept what we have and not really care about what others have to say about it.”

  • MochaDreams

    MY EYES!!!! MY EYES!!!! WTH IS THAT????

  • Laurie Farmer

    YEP!!
    THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A BORN-AGAIN-VIRGIN!!

  • Lioness.JahBless

    @ Wow…..
    Yep, i believe you! SOOOOOOOO MANY things here in T.Dot trying to become overtly ‘gay friendly’ and those who are NOT down w/it are verbally, socially, or even physically prosecuted! Their parade gets more coverage/funding then CARIBANA or even SALSA ON ST.CLAIR…it makes me mad! Don’t like it at all! Look like i’m gonna have to learn how to use an AK-47 or become a pirate and move to Somalia!!

  • UkFuNKy

    that pic is straight up disturbing ….. lol

  • Laurie Farmer

    @Brooklyn AL

    YOU ARE SO RIGH!!!

  • Kami All Day

    @num1dominicano:

    LOL….I dont think that would make you gay..but I DO understand why you want a female doing your toes. Number 1….it feels good as hell and you wouldnt want to open your eyes and be reminded of some guy who is making you feel that way. lol

    Same as getting a massage. You’d most definitely prefer a female.

  • SHOMONDO

    @ num1 Naw manz, dat aint hardly nowhere near gay if you woulda let dude do the pedicure IMO. Aint like he woulda been touching you in any type sexual way, but can understand why a female doing it was better for you. I would feel the bout the same way, but if time was an issue I woulda let dude do his damn job.

  • http://www.gay.net Glok9n: The Real Glok!! CLICK MY NAME AND JOIN NOW!

    I HAVE TURNT OUT NUMEROUS OF YOUNG NICCAS!

  • num1dominicano

    SHOMONDO

    @ num1 Naw manz, dat aint hardly nowhere near gay if you woulda let dude do the pedicure IMO. Aint like he woulda been touching you in any type sexual way, but can understand why a female doing it was better for you. I would feel the bout the same way, but if time was an issue I woulda let dude do his damn job.
    ———————
    yeah I guess

  • DATPHILYGIRL

    Hell yeah…..smdh….

  • NOPHACE

    COME ON PEOPLE…GET IT THRU YOUR HEADS, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS BEING BI-SEXUAL!! U ARE EITHER STRAIGHT OR GAY. IF U SLEEP WITH BOTH MEN AND WOMEN THEN DAMN IT…YOU ARE A FAG!!!!!!

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    @Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    Is this you? Someone has been really trying to impersonate you on here. Probably somebody you told off…lol

  • Long Hair Thick Redbone!

    @ Glok

    Tell em baby!

  • Bradley

    …………………….

  • harajuku_barbie

    IMO. i dont think anyone is born gay if its a sin in the bible. i dont believe in bisexuality either.

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    Kami

    We ALL sin… just in different ways. According to the Bible the lifestyle is wrong, but who am I to judge? I’m not God, and some of the things that I do, or think, or say may be just as bad in His eyes. No one sin is greater than the next. The only thing that is an automatic ticket to hell is blaspheme (sp?…cursing God), and killing yourself. Everything else is subject to what God knows is truly in your heart. Ultimately the only thing anyone can do is take their problems to the Lord and let Him work it out. Prayin for you sista… you’re good in my book either way =)

  • Long Hair Thick Redbone!

    @ Suc-A -Dic-Eat-A-

    And all you gay dudes why dont you read that scripture that Glok has in his screen name!!!! Asap before its too late. Women too are suffering from this sickness. Something happened to yall along the way. Address and move on. I am a woman and I think women are beautiful but I dont want to sleep with them.

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    LOL @ Glok9n

    Yeah I’m starting to get offended for you. I almost laid into dude the other day behind you on that Jay Z post, but you seem to handle yourself like a man so I went ahead and let you be that ;o)

  • SHOMONDO

    @ Switch hitter Aint for me to Judge, but I will never understand how one man would want to hug, kiss, lick and penetrate another man. Spoonin wid each other SMH. The thoughts and actions that cuase you to like (luv?) this, truly is beyond my understanding :(

  • Switch hitter

    Shomondo

    Yeah. I thought like that too at first. Not tryin to be stupid I’m just sayin. It just happened. You can’t help who you love sometimes.

  • lead don’t be led!

    Absolutely!! experimentation or not it makes u gay!!

  • Woudat X

    IT MAKES U BI-SEXUAL.. NOT GAY

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    LONG HAIR THICK REDBONE !
    SIS I REMEMBER THE FAGGT WAS SMALL IN NUMBER ,…NOW THE STRAIGHT MALE IS SMALL IN NUMBER !,,…..ONE BY ONE I CANT WAIT TIL GOD TURN HIS POWER OVER TO MAN TO SLAUGHTER THESE FAGGTS!

  • Switch hitter

    Kami

    Yeah. I understand. It was the same for us. It was weird at first but we both know some tricks and stuff now.

  • Smh @ this Nonsense

    Derek…you gay brah.

  • SHOMONDO

    @ Destroy all Cars Made by Saturn So is the point of your comment to say if your a man and comment on a blog site your gay?? That is the most illogical conclusion I have heard in the past month, if that is your point. Please tell me your not serious. PLEASE!

  • L

    LMFAO @ That picture that is a horrible messsss!

  • Derek

    Im not a fag but I think that picture is fire

  • Smh @ this Nonsense

    Yea I would. I’d kiss a guy for free. Wanna know why? Because I’m a chick lol.

  • http://www.castlehairstudio.com pistol whipped

    You can lay pipe your whole life, the moment you recieve it. YOUR GAY…… For life.

  • Kami All Day

    @The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7:

    Aww..thank you for those kinds words. Its actually nice to talk to some mature people and although they dont agree with something, they can still respect you.

    Much love from me!

    P.S. And thank you for the prayer…..

  • SHOMONDO

    Switch hitter Hey, it is what it is. I dont get it, but ultimately aint my biz. I just have never seen or met a man I was the least bit sexually attracted too. But in the end God will be the Judge for all that you do and me as well. So I aint knocking you at all, I just cant relate to you at all on this subject. But it is counter productive for me to put down your choice, I focus on keeping my own house in order. We all got our crosses to bear…Peace.

  • Long Hair Thick Redbone!

    @ Glok

    I’m glad we have one real man up in here! I’m about sick of this shit!

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    WHY BECAUSE I CUSS ?,…YOU ON YOUR P.C. LOOK UP CURSING AND SWEARING ,..IM SWEARING , I DONT HAVE THE MAGIC TO CURSE YOU ON A BLOG !

  • missunderstood (tommorrow will come and boy I can’t wait, it’s our anniversary!)

    If it’s a dude, yes, 10000% yes!
    If it’s a woman, not necessarily…

  • Whatever my scn was…

    it makes you gay. You can dress it up and down all with different adjectives all you want day long a homosexual act is a homosexual act. Hence YOU are a homosexual.

  • Nic

    This is my opinion but I know some won’t like it but I think for men they are gay and for women no. A lot of women just like to try that crap for kicks and usually just kiss. Any man who lets another man stick his parts in him is GAY! End of story! One time or not! If it were just a kiss maybe not.

  • http://Bossip TVG

    @ Old Timer. I will respect your post and not be some idiots that want to argue and go back and fourth with a person because they don’t particulary like what was said. All I will say is really? That’s what you think and feel but WOW!

  • Switch hitter

    Misunderstood

    Most men have a little curiosity and will try it just like most women. All it take is the right time for it to happen.

  • Des

    HMMM! for men yes..For woman maybe not…But even thinking this with a man makes me say GAY!! and of course YIKES!! I surely wouldn’t want a man that has..But women experiment all the time…Now someone above said if you like it and want it more and more than you may be gay, that is probably true…

  • ATLBlogger

    That photo is hilarious!!!!

    “If you’ve hit it and quit it once with someone of the same sex, does that mean you’re homosexual?” HELL YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IF SOMEONE SAYS NO U R A DUMMY!!!!!!!!!!

  • jeff

    ya’ll are idiots! please dont have kids. the world is better off without the closed-minded.

  • me (the original) ®

    LMAO @ that pic and all the responses.

    It’s funny as hell.

    On a serious note though, if a person tries it once and decides that it isn’t for them, then no..they are not gay. There is such a thing as curiosity and wanting to try something that is taboo. Is a person who smokes a cigarette once and decides it’s the worse thing they’ve ever done suddenly a smoker? NO. This is no different.

    And really, all of you who are saying “when men do it, yes, when women do it, no”, you’re full of sh*t and you know it. Try to look at this from a logical perspective and not one tainted by your phobias and/or lusts. thx.

  • NOPHACE

    PLAIN AND SIMPLE: “If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death. Their blood shall be upon them.”

  • me (the original) ®

    Why isn’t my gravie showing?

  • Kami All Day

    @MoniSings:

    Great post. And its as simple as that.

  • uptowngirl

    For women not necessarily, for men HELL TO THE YEAH!!!!

  • JERSEY

    AND 1 MO THANG!!! LOL, PEOPLE ON HERE COSIGNIN THAT ITS OK FOR GIRLS AND NOT GUYS ARE JUST AS FU$KD UP IN DA HEAD AS A BISEXUAL PERSON, CUZ APPARENTLY NEITHER PARTY CAN MAKE UP THEIR MIND!

  • L

    Switch hitter

    Misunderstood

    Most men have a little curiosity and will try it just like most women. All it take is the right time for it to happen.
    ___________________________________________

    Stoooooooooop

    are you a man???

  • saxony

    IF YOU HAVE RELATIONS WITH MALES AND FEMALES THAT MAKES YOU…
    * * * * * B I – S E X U A L * * * * *

    LOOK IT UP.

    PEACE

  • Lush_Us_Lipps

    That makes you GAY!!!!

  • me (the original) ®

    If you are a person who lives their life to the letter of what’s written in your version of the bible, that’s fine and I can respect that. However, when you start posting quotes from your version of the bible, please keep in mind that this is a collection of books that have been in existence for thousands upon thousands of years and during those thousands upon thousands of years, these books have been HEAVILY EDITED BY MAN, who is imperfect and with sin. In some cases, edits were made to further the agendas of certain people. Just something to keep in mind, from one Christian to another.

  • Switch hitter

    L

    Yes I am a man. I am being for real. Do you think all them dudes that go to jail was born gay. Thats what I mean by all it take is the right time. They really dont have a problem as long as they arent the female in the act.

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    TWO GIRLS ONE CUP TURNED ME THE FUC OUT!

  • Kami All Day

    @me (the original) ®:

    Point taken, and is the same reason that when people act holier than thou and want to quote this and that….I take it with a grain of salt.

    Glad you mentioned that.

  • NIK

    me (the orignal)

    I have been stressing your point for years. They go on faith that’s it. No facts, just faith. Which is fine, but doesn’t make it right. Millions of people follow L. Ron Hubbard who made up his own religion and people think thier crazy but if you ask me, there’s NO difference?

  • NIK

    Scientology for those who didnt know

  • Niasia

    I want to add that female homosexuality is just that homosexuality! It is not ok for women! Like I said I can appreciate a nice body but the thought of another vagina that bleeds and gets yeast infections is just well gross! I have a vagina no need to get up close and personal with anyone elses!

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    WILLIE PIMP! SHALOM, MY NEW GREETING !

  • Switch hitter

    Twinz Mama

    I read your post. I can understand where you are coming from. But what is the problem with one male being submissive to another male. Even if they giving each other part of their souls or whatever what is the problem with that? Love is love.

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    TO MY FAGGT IMPOSTER IM GLAD YOU CHOSE TO TALK FAGGEDY IN THAT NAME WITH SCRIPTURE ATTACHED , ITS NO LONGER IN MY HANDS THOSE ARE MY FATHER WORDS!

  • NIK

    Glok:

    that’s not nice. Be nice >:(

  • NIK

    PM:

    AMEN! LOL

  • Kami All Day

    @The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7:

    You said: “This is why you find yourself doing things that an ex you haven’t seen in years does or says”.

    This is SO true. I have had times where I just wanted to be alone and was celibate for a while because I wanted to get “me” back if you know what I’m saying. I started to notice that I would take on ways of the person that I slept with and sometimes it wasnt good.

    One my ex’s was in the military (marines) and VERY stern. Always mean and coulnt put a smile on his face for nothing. As time passed, I too became angry at the world. With a scowl on my face mean-mugging people and trying to start something that was never there.

    That wasnt me, that was HIM. I left him alone and got back to who Kami was.

  • cmb5163

    Whether homosexuality is genetic, I can’t call it; however, the gay people in my life, who I’ve known for a really long time, were tampered with as children.

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    NIK!
    IM BEING NICE IN A GODLY WAY OF COURSE!

  • me (the original) ®

    @ Nik

    Exactly. I wonder what Scientologists say when someone informs them that their religion was basically founded on a bet?

  • Everybody Needs Jesus

    A 1 time experience may not make you gay but it could be that one time that turns you gay.
    Ppl may not wake up and say “I wanna be gay” but they definetly choose to say “I’m going live a gay lifestyle”-that’s where the choice comes in..
    Homosexuality is not a genetic defect! God doesn’t make homo’s and then say don’t be homo! SATAN has put a demonic spirit of homosexuality on these people and these people choose not to fight the spirit of homosexuality.
    They rather say I was born this way and ask us to accept it. Do not accept!…
    Only Jesus, faith in him, lots of prayer and rebuking the devil’s attack can make you or them free from homosexuality!
    Jesus Saves! Everybody needs Jesus!!!

  • Kami All Day

    @Man I just dont care™:

    Come ‘on…..I cant kiss and tell! As much as you would love to hear about it, our times are special and meaningful and I dont want to disrespect her by counting off the things we do.

    Even if she’s not around me, she is. I respect her wherever I go. Just like I would with a guy.

    I’m sorry…:(

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    @ Switch hitter…

    Outside of my spiritual beliefs, I have my own opinions as to why there’s a problem with it which are not up for debate. I merely put that information up as food for thought.

    BTW… my statement “This is also why there’s a “double standard” for me in women.” was supposed to say a double standard for men THAN women. I don’t condone either way, but I don’t judge either… my brain was just moving faster than my hands were typing at the time (too many thoughts at once).

  • Switch hitter

    Nik/Elle

    that is a beautiful picture to me. The dark one looks like my man.

  • http://Bossip.com MzKat0517

    Speaking from an open minded stand point, I believe that it doesnt necessarily make you gay but it definitely would indicate you are at least what society calls bi sexual. From talking with gay friends of mine I am told that being gay is not a choice and it is mental. I have one male gay friend that is very depressed and suicidal because is family is not accepting him as he is. So just knowing that I would have to say it is more than a choice to be gay than an one time act.

  • Phoenix7

    Twinz MAMa I know all about soul ties…..people think its a game tho

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    FOR YOU SISTAZ SEEKING LIFE, FIND YOU A GODLY MAN,… BLK , NO DOUBT! AND YOU SEE WHATZ HAPPENING???…. YOU MIGHT HAVE TO START SHARING US WITH THE OTHER WOMAN!

  • http://Bossip.com MzKat0517

    @Wendy
    I seen u at 1:06
    Is that you girl?

  • Old Timer

    I wonder if it would change anyone’s thoughts about homosexuality if they found that it has a biological or genetic basis rather than a nurture or chosen orientation.

    Can you be mad or disgusted by something that someone is born with?

  • elle

    Nik/Elle

    that is a beautiful picture to me. The dark one looks like my man.
    —-

    hmmm well no comment on that.

  • William

    I support gay rights in that if two people love each other they should be allowed to legally be married. That being said, seeing a picture of them homos is disgusting.

  • NIK

    elle:
    They totally are! lol… But I like it when they have controversial topics because I like to see my black people thinking….

  • Moreaces

    No one time experiment does not make you gay, just as if a gay person was to try it with a straight person, will not make that person straight,,

  • elle

    Is it wrong for me to suggest that homosexuals take a vow of celibacy when they decide to enter a union with their partners?

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    PIMP !
    PLAYA ITS CRAZY THIS GENERATION ARE BEING LEAD BY THE FASHION THEY SEE ON FAGGTS LIKE KANYA AND DREAM AND CATZ LIKE THAT ,…THOSE ARE WAYS THEY CONTROL US! THESE KIDS MIMIC WHAT THEY SEE THROUGH TV AND MUSIC ,..WE LOST!! AND THEY OUR FUTURE!

  • Switch hitter

    Misunderstood

    Is that you dont believe or that you dont want to believe the truth. Ok not every guy has gay thoughts but if you think it hasnt crossed the mind of most guys your crazy. If you think what Im saying don’t make any sense because Im gay and must be around gays all the time then how can you know and your a woman? Im not tryin to argue or anything but trust men think about it. Not all but a lot.

  • JAIIZ

    WELL IF ITS JUSS 4 CURIOSITY THEN KNOW NOW IF U CATCH FEELINGS AND WUNT 2 KEEP AT IT THEN UR GAY L0L

  • elle

    elle:
    They totally are! lol… But I like it when they have controversial topics because I like to see my black people thinking….

    this is true

  • NIK

    Phinupi:
    I LOVE it that you said “it’s not the ACT it’s the IMPACT” you get. That’s TOTALLY true.

  • Good Morning Babe…..

    Switch hitter

    Nik/Elle

    that is a beautiful picture to me. The dark one looks like my man.
    *************

    your man looks like a cartoon?

  • NOPHACE

    @ OLD TIMER

    IT WOULDNT CHANGE MY THOUGHTS AT ALL BECAUSE THE WORLD I LIVE IN IS BASED ON THE BIBLE AND WITH THAT SAID IF BEING GAY IS A SIN WHY WOULD GOD HAVE US BE BORN THAT WAY……..U MAY WANNA WEAR YOUR HELMET NEXT TIME U DECIDE 2 FALL AND BUMP YOUR HEAD!!!!

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    THIS A PLOT TO DEHUMANIZE THE BLK MAN ,..ANOTHER ATTEMPT TO DEGRADE US AS MEN,…WE KEEP LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO STAND UP AS LEADERS BUT MOST OF THEM HAVE GAY PAST THEMSELVES OR SOME SCANDAL AND THE REST ARE UNDER THE TABLE INFORMANTS AND LIARS! ,..WE ARE DOOMED !

  • elle

    I wouldn’t count too much on the bible they did lie about the sacred and goddess like nature of the woman…look what they did to mary magdalene

  • Boots

    If you are a woman, NO
    If you are a man, ALL DAY! ALREADY!!

  • Z (A Blow to the Heart Hurts)

    @SHMONDO

    I support your last comment, but how did you get the state to allow you to keep your prison issued denim coat? j/k

  • NIK

    Phinupi:

    And another thing, when you have two NON related ADULTS choosing to love one another is completely different than marrying your children.

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    PIMP!
    WE GONNA WIN IN THE END ANYWAY FAM!

  • creole G

    As I woman I wouldnt date a dude who had a one time experience with another man it just doesnt work for me. I would consider him gay because I would feel insecure like he may visit those waters again. When i think about how many women are with DL men especially in the music industry my heart breaks because if unfair for a man to be where he doesnt wanna be and its WRONG and low down for a man to mislead a woman in a relationship. As for the bible heaven and hell stuff lets leave the judging to the ONLY judge.

  • NIK

    Pimpin Willie:
    To read a book that was passed down thousands of years through thousands of hands, no thanks. Like I said before if you read the bible you might as well go follow L. Ron Hubbard because he made up his religion too. No difference, and no thanks. I beleive in my God but because of some book.

  • Journey

    I have a male friend that confessed to me he was bi. He’s intimate with other men. Ladies, it’s not the ones you think.

  • Aww Man…

    I know this is totally off the subject, but damn that drawing is hard. Sorry yall, I like art…LOL.

  • brooklyn kid

    EMPHATICALLUY – HELL YES. IF WE WOULD JUST STOP SUGAR COATING HOMOSEXUALITY – ESPECIALLY THIS DOWN LOW PHENOMENON…YES IF A TWO MEN HAVE RELATIONS, THEY ARE HOMOSEXUAL. IF TWO WOMEN HAVE RELATIONS, THEY ARE HOMOSEXUALS. WE PEOPLE OF COLOR REALLY NEED TO CHECK OURSELVES BEFORE WE DESTROY A WHOLE RACE OF PEOPLE. IF A MAN APPROACHES ME – AND IS STRAIGHT OUT – “LOOK I’VE HAD RELATIONS WITH A MAN ONLY ONLY TIME YO” MY RESPONSE WOULD BE NO HATE OR DISRESPECT BROTHER THANK YOU FOR YOUR HONESTY BUT AS A WOMAN, NO THANK YOU. THE END..I HAVE GAY FRIENDS SIO I AM NOT HOMPHOBIC AT…AND ACTUALLY SOME OF THEM WILL NOT EVEN ENTERTAIN ANY MAN OR WOMAN ON THE DOWN LOW.

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    ELLE!
    I WILL PUT AWAY THE BIBLE WHEN YOU TELL ME WHATS GONNA HAPPEN ACCORDING TO THE MOON AND STARS WHEN THEY ALIGN …..OK!

  • Pimpin Willie Dynamite (CEO Of Kentucky Derby Booties INC.)

    NIK

    Pimpin Willie:
    To read a book that was passed down thousands of years through thousands of hands, no thanks. Like I said before if you read the bible you might as well go follow L. Ron Hubbard because he made up his religion too. No difference, and no thanks. I beleive in my God but because of some book.

    Typical of why we are lost these days as a people, do you…

  • Pimpin Willie Dynamite (CEO Of Kentucky Derby Booties INC.)

    elle

    I wouldn’t count too much on the bible they did lie about the sacred and goddess like nature of the woman…look what they did to mary magdalene

    Have you read it in its entirety or just bits and pieces?

  • Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    @Moreaces

    Didn’t you say a few weeks ago that you’ve had relations with a man before – a few times at that and said that you didn’t consider yourself gay?

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    NIK!
    NAME SOME EVENT OUT OF L RON HUBBARD THAT CAME TO LIGHT !!

  • Tony Redds

    I dont know if it necessarily makes you gay or not…

    I wont judge on nobodys sexuality period because I beleive in free will. In my earlier years, I asked myself could I actually be good friends with a bi or homosexual male, and the answer was always hell no! However I just recently found out that one my best friends who I love as a brother is bisexual. It was kinda weird to me because I didnt think of him any differently, and I still dont. We got so many lables in life, Black/White, Democrat/Republican, Gay and straight, Jew/Muslim; everything under the sun except human. Just this one lesson in my life has taught me to learn to accept and love people for who they are, after all you are what you are…..

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    typo… doesn’t

  • NIK

    Pimpin Willie:

    I’m not lost at all. I go to church, I just don’t agree with the bible. You go on faith, not facts. Just faith. Not that that is a bad thing, but doesn’t make you right?

  • elle

    ELLE!
    I WILL PUT AWAY THE BIBLE WHEN YOU TELL ME WHATS GONNA HAPPEN ACCORDING TO THE MOON AND STARS WHEN THEY ALIGN …..OK!

    glok that was 3 weeks ago hun, it’s time to move on

  • Kami All Day

    @The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7:

    I can talk to you all day. Simply because you listen. And respect others without making them feel inferior when you make your opinions known.

  • Switch hitter

    Tony Reds

    Are you still friends with the dude. How did his family react?

  • BE

    If you are doing what those men are yes you are gay..WTF they are all in

    to each its own

  • CAT EYES

    Right now I’m on maternity leave ,but I’m a social worker for the prison system and you know what?When I’m running groups,this kind of question comes up all the time-there are men who think that if they just let a guy give them head or if they’re the one pitching,they’re not gay.Truthfully,I’m amazed at the denial. Most people who tell you they knew they were gay at young ages are not telling the full truth-most of them were molested and when that happens in young age,the development of tastes and preferences goes haywire.The child never had the full opportunity to develop on their own.Be truthful-how many people can really say that at 5 years old,they knew who they were?come on!

  • elle

    Have you read it in its entirety or just bits and pieces?

    I have read the bible in bits and peaces, after realizing that it is a book of contradictions. I’m not religious in the least bit but I believe that religion is needed for others to follow and have a sense of order and moral. As for me I personally don’t bother with “the good word” as some call it

  • L

    I thought Moreaces was gay.

  • JB (Wii’ed out)

    Be and Pimpin what’s goiong on in here?

  • Pimpin Willie Dynamite (CEO Of Kentucky Derby Booties INC.)

    *fairytale*

  • elle

    pieces*

  • NIK

    GLOK:

    Scientology isn’t about profits, and dogmas, and that stuff. It’s and enlightenment of science to become achievable. I’m not a scientologist so I don’t really care about Hubbard or his followers, I’m just saying it’s the same idea. Someone rights a book and at some point every one starts to follow it

  • Pimpin Willie Dynamite (CEO Of Kentucky Derby Booties INC.)

    JB (Wii’ed out)

    Be and Pimpin what’s goiong on in here?

    A lot of that Toby mentality, wassup withcu?

  • Switch hitter

    CatEyes

    You right. Some guys think that if they are on top or receiving head then it doesnt really count.

  • elle

    I’m sorry but I do not go to church, the last time I went I sat behind two old ladies that talked about everyone besides themselves through the entire sermon, a lot of hipocrits spend their SUNdays in church but check their righteousness at the pue as soon as 1:30 PM rolls around

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    ELLE I HAVE MOVED ON ,..IT YOU WHO KEEP BRINING IT UP 3 WEEKS ,..COME ON ! I LOVE YOU EVEN THOUGH YOUR LOST SISTA!1

  • Z (A Blow to the Heart Hurts)

    I always said Tony Redd was fruity!

  • Patrick

    i don’t have a problem with anyone who bases their life on a book as full of contradictions as the Bible. My problem is that since they already pick and choose what to follow in that book, why not pick and choose to have some common sense toward gay people?

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    Kami

    Thanks =) I’m always down for a good conversation, an I find that in order to have one you have to keep an open mind because everyone is not going to agree with your opinions.

  • Pimpin Willie Dynamite (CEO Of Kentucky Derby Booties INC.)

    elle

    I’m sorry but I do not go to church, the last time I went I sat behind two old ladies that talked about everyone besides themselves through the entire sermon, a lot of hipocrits spend their SUNdays in church but check their righteousness at the pue as soon as 1:30 PM rolls around

    Elle my sista its not about church its about the scripture itself and the fact is they do not teach it, church is a business these days, its about money like everything else is, feed their pockets while your soul & spirit starves!

  • http://www.haroldschicken.com mild sauce part of my own family tradition

    i know if you mess with another dude one two three or however many times you are gay. mild dont play that funny stuff and if another dude wants to act that way stay away from me. hey eveybody!! i often read the topics but cant post no more cuz of my new work schedule. have to finish getting ready and hit the road. mild is out!!!

  • NIK

    Jehovah’s, Mormons, Judaism, Buddhism, Paganism, Unitarianism. Everyone has a story. Depending on what religion you are THAT’S WHAT FAITH YOU GO BY. Everyone thinks thier story and thier “bible” is the right one. I can’t wait for the day I go for my judgement day cause he’s gonna say “you know what THEY WERE ALL WRONG! HA!!” LOL LOL

  • elle

    ELLE I HAVE MOVED ON ,..IT YOU WHO KEEP BRINING IT UP 3 WEEKS ,..COME ON ! I LOVE YOU EVEN THOUGH YOUR LOST SISTA!1
    —-

    lol @ lost, and according to you, what am I supposed to find?

  • Romeo2.0

    Wanjiru, hi baby ;) dang! imma stay away from ya butt ma :)

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    PIMP IM IMPRESSED BRUTHA, IF YOUR KNOWLEDGE IS THAT DEEP DONT KEEP THAT TO YOURSELF ,..SPREAD THE LOVE VIA THE WORD!

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    @L

    I thought Moreaces was gay.
    _____________________________________________________

    I did too… he tried to hand me my a$$ one day when I gave some scriptures on homosexuality… it was kind of funny

  • SHOMONDO

    I support your last comment, but how did you get the state to allow you to keep your prison issued denim coat? j/k

    LOL @ Z You aint even right for that, funny, but not right lmao. Long time no see & looking XTRA good in da gravie by the way :)

  • elle

    Elle my sista its not about church its about the scripture itself and the fact is they do not teach it, church is a business these days, its about money like everything else is, feed their pockets while your soul & spirit starves!

    that is why I feed my spirit with spirituality and self-discovery.

  • L

    elle

    I’m sorry but I do not go to church, the last time I went I sat behind two old ladies that talked about everyone besides themselves through the entire sermon, a lot of hipocrits spend their SUNdays in church but check their righteousness at the pue as soon as 1:30 PM rolls around
    _______________________________________________

    That was quite possibly the dumbest thing I have heard all day! LOL… How can you blame two old ladies for you not going to church? I hate when people do that…why is everyone so worried about what others are doing in church, isn’t that contradicting your reasons for not going? SMH

  • NIK

    L:
    Like pimpin said, church isn’t church anymore. It’s a business. My preacher is driving a 2009, brand new suits, and living a GOOD life. lol…. Back in the day preachers, pastors, etc.. didn’t get paid not one red cent

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    NIK!
    ALL THOSE PAGAN RELIGIONS YOU JUST NAMED IS CONTROLLED BY THE DEVIL ,..THAT HOW HE MANIPULATES MAN BY CREATING CONFUSION! GOD GAVE US LAWS LIKE A MENU FOR A NEW TV!

  • enkogkneegro

    I really have no clue as its nothing I have personal knowledge of as far as guys are concerned however I have a daughter who wnet thru a stage in her life where she was involved with women then men back to women then to men again…..but thru it all my only concern was her happiness. I never judged her or whomever she was with and supported her to the extent I accompanied her to gay rallies or hung out with her on gay pride day. She’s now happily married to a good brotha and have two kids. I don’t understand why people are so caught up in other peoples lives and lifestyles, to each his or her own and just learn to be happy for others…….

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    L

    elle

    I’m sorry but I do not go to church, the last time I went I sat behind two old ladies that talked about everyone besides themselves through the entire sermon, a lot of hipocrits spend their SUNdays in church but check their righteousness at the pue as soon as 1:30 PM rolls around
    _______________________________________________

    That was quite possibly the dumbest thing I have heard all day! LOL… How can you blame two old ladies for you not going to church? I hate when people do that…why is everyone so worried about what others are doing in church, isn’t that contradicting your reasons for not going? SMH
    __________________________________________________

    how about if you were focused on the Word you wouldn’t have even heard what the old ladies were saying in the first place… (Don’t get offended. I’m just sayin)

  • BE

    @JB – I think there is a war of faith going on..I just got here

  • Switch hitter

    Encognknegro

    Would you have been as supportive of a son that did the same thing?

  • Patrick

    @PhiNuPi

    Science has proven that gays are born that way.

    And now you’ll say you don’t believe in science and hey, who can argue against that?

  • elle

    That was quite possibly the dumbest thing I have heard all day! LOL… How can you blame two old ladies for you not going to church? I hate when people do that…why is everyone so worried about what others are doing in church, isn’t that contradicting your reasons for not going? SMH

    you are entitled to your opinion and so am I. Arent’ christians not supposed to judge? so why is it when there is someone that doesn’t hold the same belief as you the first thing y’all do is escape to name calling?

  • JB (Wii’ed out)

    @ BE

    Yeah, I see what you are talking about

  • elle

    L:
    Like pimpin said, church isn’t church anymore. It’s a business. My preacher is driving a 2009, brand new suits, and living a GOOD life. lol…. Back in the day preachers, pastors, etc.. didn’t get paid not one red cent

    I say let people be people. Church needs the people that wiil defend it’s entity to exist so let it be. I made a concious decision after living in a christian home all of my life that my thoughts a far more vast to grasp and accept a book or the religion that follows, thankfully we are not all the same

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brooke Lynn The Chocolate (I love my Big Ego, its such a Huge Ego!!!)

    Patrick

    @PhiNuPi

    Science has proven that gays are born that way.

    And now you’ll say you don’t believe in science and hey, who can argue against that?

    **************************

    I agree with this statement, most gays already knew they were gay from the moment they could walk and talk, also being Gay can be herditary. So if you have more than 2 gay members in your family generations, chances are you too can come out this way.

  • BE

    The bible is a book of instruction for believers, if you do not believe it will not make any sense to you at all. The more faith you have the greater the knowledge you will get from the bible.

  • NIK

    you are entitled to your opinion and so am I. Arent’ christians not supposed to judge? so why is it when there is someone that doesn’t hold the same belief as you the first thing y’all do is escape to name calling?
    _____________________________________________
    Elle:
    WORD!! We “others” all of a sudden are “lost, and devilish, and this and that” aren’t you supposed to love thy neighbor?

  • SHOMONDO

    Hi Brooke
    Hi JB
    Hi BE Hope everybodys day has been good. What up to mild sauce coolest member of the sauce family. What up Glok see you keepin it gully as usual.

  • elle

    The bible is a book of instruction for believers,

    extremely true

  • BE

    @Brooke – also being Gay can be herditary. So if you have more than 2 gay members in your family generations, chances are you too can come out this way.

    ***********
    gayness hereditary…you just making that up..who told you that a family of gay people..gtfoh

  • eveinthegarden

    i am thoroughly grossed out at the photo alone.

  • Switch hitter

    MoreAces

    Loved what you said about the picture. I could kiss you. If you were a guy. just jokin.

  • BE

    Hey Shomondo!!!

  • PhiNuPi

    Why would you project “your” accountability off on other people? You don’t go to church because the last time you went two old ladies talked about everyone. SO! When you stand before God, the last thing God is gonna ask you as you look back over your life, is how them two ladies are doing. Just like them, you’ll be held accountable for every action, word spoken, person you shared the gospel with, and soul you saved throughout your lifetime. All of which isn’t going to be predicated by someone else’s life plan.

    Also, who said pastors can’t be taken care of. God has claimed a life of blessings so numerous none of us will be able to receive them all. Nothing wrong with your pastor rocking an ’09 with the latest suits. Is he saving souls? Is he a man after God’s own heart? Is he fostering a bible believing, bible teaching, bible living church? Not for you to answer, because God’s blessings fall upon us all in different ways. If the man or woman you serve under is a wolf in sheep’s clothing, he/she will be held accountable, and if you’re in a edfying relationship with Christ, he shall gift you with the ability to decern. Just do what it is that you are supposed to do according to the decrees and commands of his holy word.

  • SHOMONDO

    May everybody up on here have a blessed evening. I’m off to be out in the world. If you are wise you are wise for yourself. Peace!

  • elle

    Elle:
    WORD!! We “others” all of a sudden are “lost, and devilish, and this and that” aren’t you supposed to love thy neighbor?

    interesting huh?! contradictions as I stated earlier. Like I said people will be people by the end of the damn day.

  • NIK

    BE:

    STFU. I hope that’s the stupidest thing I read today

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brooke Lynn The Chocolate (I love my Big Ego, its such a Huge Ego!!!)

    @ Be

    gayness hereditary…you just making that up..who told you that a family of gay people..gtfoh
    ************************

    Girl I swear. I went to school with a dude, he was Gay, his daddy was Bi, his 2 cousins were Gay and his Uncle was Bi. This is not a coincidence.

    @Shomondo

    Hey boo. What you said earlier was so on put and the most beautiful thing I ever seen written from a man. Although I am sometimes guilty of the acts, I am so trying to change before its too late.

  • Tony Redds

    How can anyone wholeheartedly accept religion (ie Christianity, Catholic etc) when the people who did not accept it were executed, murdered, tortured. Religion from the beginning was forced on people. The great minds of Leonard De Vinci, Machiavelli, Nostradamus, Gallileo, were not even allowed to be themeselves because of religion. Nostradumus and De Vinci had to write all of his stuff in code….

  • BE

    @eve in the garden – I LOve those shoes

    @Z – is that the real Z?

  • JB (Wii’ed out)

    Hey Shomondo

  • JB (Wii’ed out)

    @eve in the garden – I LOve those shoes

    I was thinking the same thing

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brooke Lynn The Chocolate (I love my Big Ego, its such a Huge Ego!!!)

    Bible: Definition

    Basic
    Instructions
    Before
    Leaving
    Earth

  • CAT EYES

    I agree with this statement, most gays already knew they were gay from the moment they could walk and talk
    @ Brooke
    No they didn’t-someone tampered with them in the ages of their development.What 4 or 5 year olds do you know actually know what they like and dislike especially sexually?Those are not even normal ages to have sexual thoughts and feelings.

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    PIMP!
    WHO YOU TELLING IT GOOD TO SEE THAT RIGHTEOUS SIDE AND BROTHA WE GONNA BE KNEE DEEP IN BLOOD FOR THE YEARS TO COME!!

  • missunderstood (tommorrow will come and boy I can’t wait, it’s our anniversary!)

    ^^ I meant @ Nik

  • BE

    @Nik – why do I have to shut up because I introduced another way of thinking? the bible is a book of instructions not a story book and those who have faith will gain more knowlege and greater faith just by reading it…why would God create a book for non-believers?? If he wanted to force religion on people he has the power to do that any time he chose…those who believe read and grow stronger and those who don’t will be confused by the words.

  • SHOMONDO

    @ Z You made me do a quick u-turn. I know you was just playing I aint mad. I just wanted to holla cause I see you aint been on here much and I miss seeing you post. Sometimes I dont agree with your view, but luv an opionated woman, strong on what she feels. So glad you came thru, and hopefully you will do so more often in future days. Peace!

  • elle

    Why would you project “your” accountability off on other people? You don’t go to church because the last time you went two old ladies talked about everyone. SO! When you stand before God, the last thing God is gonna ask you as you look back over your life, is how them two ladies are doing. Just like them, you’ll be held accountable for every action, word spoken, person you shared the gospel with, and soul you saved throughout your lifetime. All of which isn’t going to be predicated by someone else’s life plan.

    Also, who said pastors can’t be taken care of. God has claimed a life of blessings so numerous none of us will be able to receive them all. Nothing wrong with your pastor rocking an ‘09 with the latest suits. Is he saving souls? Is he a man after God’s own heart? Is he fostering a bible believing, bible teaching, bible living church? Not for you to answer, because God’s blessings fall upon us all in different ways. If the man or woman you serve under is a wolf in sheep’s clothing, he/she will be held accountable, and if you’re in a edfying relationship with Christ, he shall gift you with the ability to decern. Just do what it is that you are supposed to do according to the decrees and commands of his holy word.
    —-

    just because I don’t believe in the church does not mean I don’t believe in god, let’s make that very clear because obviously there was a disconnect somewhere. It’s not about the old ladies it’s about the rose colored glasses people like to put on and act like they are higher than thou because they know all of the verses in the bible, please. Ain’t it funny the roughest most violent and deadly killer still rocks the cross

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brooke Lynn The Chocolate (I love my Big Ego, its such a Huge Ego!!!)

    Tony Redds

    How can anyone wholeheartedly accept religion (ie Christianity, Catholic etc) when the people who did not accept it were executed, murdered, tortured. Religion from the beginning was forced on people. The great minds of Leonard De Vinci, Machiavelli, Nostradamus, Gallileo, were not even allowed to be themeselves because of religion. Nostradumus and De Vinci had to write all of his stuff in code….

    ****************************

    Goddamn I co-sign to this. Religion is just a nicer form of a cult actually. P.S can anyone in here please answer this questions: Why do Jehova witness constantly try to push their religion on people? shouldn’t one find his/her religion rather the religion find you? just asking.

  • Z (A Blow to the Heart Hurts)

    @BE

    I am only dropping in for a few moments. How are things with you?

  • SHOMONDO

    If he wanted to force religion on people he has the power to do that any time he chose…those who believe read and grow stronger and those who don’t will be confused by the words.

    @ BE Now you made me do another u-turn, but that some science you dropped right there…SCIENCE. Im out fo real. Good night ALL!

  • MissMonica

    Being gay is not a choice, if u r gay it’s because ur born that way.

  • pat

    i really feel sorry for the black female sometimes….her thinking in so many things (NOT just this topic, and not saying to condone YOUR man doing this) can be so primitive…and then we hate cause we losing the black men to becky

  • da8dawg

    If it’s a dude, yeah, he’s gay. If it’s a woman, it makes her wifey material for me.

  • Pimpin Willie Dynamite (CEO Of Kentucky Derby Booties INC.)

    BE

    @Nik – why do I have to shut up because I introduced another way of thinking? the bible is a book of instructions not a story book and those who have faith will gain more knowlege and greater faith just by reading it…why would God create a book for non-believers?? If he wanted to force religion on people he has the power to do that any time he chose…those who believe read and grow stronger and those who don’t will be confused by the words.

    Game, Set, Match, you served that like Serena! I tip my hat!

  • Electrik Red- “P Is For Power” Next Single!!!!

    Please dont bring that christian talk in here ppl always do that whe they dont have a valid answer to why they dont like certain things but do ppl bring the bible talk when women have children while not marry?? or when ppl kill creatures?? such as mike vick killin dogs i guess thats not a sin huh?? yeah ppl like to use the bible which is written by man not GOD so get ur facts str8 ppl that follow religions are cults when you think about it…

  • http://myspace.com/crimiegang snoop bloggy blog ( GO LAKERS!!!!!)

    I have never looked at another man sexually and never will, and i don’t care if you recieveing are the giver it’s gay, one time it’s gay, with that said i don’t judge them, i just stay in my lane and they need to stay in thier lane. If i had a homie an found out he was gay, i wouldn’t treat him no different, but he need to stay in his lane is all i have for this topic.

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brooke Lynn The Chocolate (I love my Big Ego, its such a Huge Ego!!!)

    CAT EYES

    I agree with this statement, most gays already knew they were gay from the moment they could walk and talk
    @ Brooke
    No they didn’t-someone tampered with them in the ages of their development.What 4 or 5 year olds do you know actually know what they like and dislike especially sexually?Those are not even normal ages to have sexual thoughts and feelings.

    **********************

    Girl, I lived in NYC for 10 years, so I had at least 8 Gay Flamboyant guy friends, and each of them told me with their own mouths that from the moment they can remember talking, they played with feminie toys, always had girls as friends and even liked boys in pre school. Both there parents was straight so who and what got into a 3 year old head and said: Be Gay? Some men get this urge very early in life while others learn in later on (but trust and believe this, No man woke up one morning and said “I think I should be Gay from now on” The thought had to have stemmed from somewhere long ago. Just like its your natural desire to be straight, it can be ones natural desire to be Gay

  • NIK

    Mel7:
    That stops the law and naturalness of God’s beautiful creation for
    mankind to pro-create life!.
    ________________________________________________
    Um…. have you taken a look out your window lately?? You should be THANKING us gay people for slowing down THE LIFE MAKING! We as the gay community are taking care of the children (and very well might I add) that hetero’s are making and throwing away! What do you think your Jesus would say about that smarty?

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    ELLE AND NIK!
    I WILL CONVERT YOU SISTAZ BELIEVE ME YOUZ!

  • Z (A Blow to the Heart Hurts)

    Church is often a front for other issues within an individual. I had several friends when I was in arts school who would be out with me late Saturday night/early Sunday a.m and they would go to church within hours of exiting the club. To me this formula don’t add up. As far as the poster who mentioned the old ladies talking about others in the congregation, it seems to me church goers are often the biggest hypocrites on the face of the earth. Just my opinion and if you disagree I don’t care becauce I won’t quote the “big book” on you!

  • SHOMONDO

    Brooke Lynn = Beautiful Inside & Out. Now let me take my black azz on & stop fakin da funk…OUT!

  • BE

    @Shomondo – thanks..just putting in my two cents

    @Brooke – Goddamn I co-sign to this. Religion is just a nicer form of a cult actually. P.S can anyone in here please answer this questions: Why do Jehova witness constantly try to push their religion on people? shouldn’t one find his/her religion rather the religion find you? just asking.

    *******************
    They do that because the bible calls for believers to go out and preach the gospel, Jehovah Witnesses have an active ministry of getting the call out. Some people may find religion on their own and others may not.

  • L

    elle

    That was quite possibly the dumbest thing I have heard all day! LOL… How can you blame two old ladies for you not going to church? I hate when people do that…why is everyone so worried about what others are doing in church, isn’t that contradicting your reasons for not going? SMH

    you are entitled to your opinion and so am I. Arent’ christians not supposed to judge? so why is it when there is someone that doesn’t hold the same belief as you the first thing y’all do is escape to name calling?
    _________________________________

    @ elle…

    I didn’t say in the above text that I was a chirstian. And I surely didn’t call you a name…I said that was you wrote was dumb…I didn’t call you dumb…but why blame people for you not going to church why not just say I don’t want to go?

  • PhiNuPi

    yeah but even the roughest and toughest killer can be redeemed! So what’s your point about them wearing a cross?

  • NIK

    Jehovah’s, Mormons, Judaism, Buddhism, Paganism, Unitarianism. Everyone has a story. Depending on what religion you are THAT’S WHAT FAITH YOU GO BY. Everyone thinks thier story and thier “bible” is the right one. I can’t wait for the day I go for my judgement day cause he’s gonna say “you know what THEY WERE ALL WRONG! HA!!” LOL LOL

    Like I said

  • elle

    ELLE AND NIK!
    I WILL CONVERT YOU SISTAZ BELIEVE ME YOUZ!

    :-) I would love to see this glok

  • BE

    @Snoop – I don’t think anyone thinks you are gay..lol

    @Pimp – Game, Set, Match, you served that like Serena! I tip my hat!

    *****************
    thanks but I really just want get people to understand God is not forcing religion on people – he gave us free will.

  • PhiNuPi

    Brooke Lynn The Chocolate,

    Please point me to this scientific study or sorts? I’d be interested in reading a viable source to support your position of people being born gay.

  • NIK

    Glok:

    LOL ur a trip

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brooke Lynn The Chocolate (I love my Big Ego, its such a Huge Ego!!!)

    @ Be

    Thats why I consider myself more spirtual than religious, I dont really need an outsider to come track me down and preach Gospel to me. I have my own Direct relationship with God that cuts out the middle man i.e:Preacher,minister, Jehova wittness etc. Religion has so Many contridictions in it. It quite confusing. I know a openly Gay man that goes to my mother’s church he is a Deacon yet he stay critisizing others who dont come to church (Like me) I don’t get this, is he even suppose to be in Church?

  • NIK

    thanks but I really just want get people to understand God is not forcing religion on people – he gave us free will.
    __________________________________________
    God isn’t forcing it, ppl like you are

  • Switch hitter

    PhiNuPi

    Do you need a scientific study to tell you how you feel?

  • http://bossip mybaad>> i hate

    @ patrick

    LMAO!!!!!! goo goo gaa gaa ding ding

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    WHY THEY KEEP GIVING ME THE ADD WITH THE DINGY TEEHUS!

  • BE

    @Brooke – Damn Z, I guess things must of changed in 5 months, cuz the Z I used to be on the phone wit about religion till 3am Never talked like this, right Be…

    *************
    I know the imposter showed their hand with this one..lol

  • sexual chocolate

    @ Brooke Lynn

    Whats up cousin ?

  • L

    @mybaad aka Queen Latifah….

    See ya later homie!

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    ELLE!
    I CARE FOR YOU ,..I WANNA SEE YOU IN PARADISE LOVE,…ON A QUIET THREAD IMMA HOLLA AT YOU I KNOW ALL ABOUT THAT ASTROLOGY JAZZ!!

  • Long Hair Thick Redbone!

    @ lisa

    Sorry boo but thats the devil!

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brooke Lynn The Chocolate (I love my Big Ego, its such a Huge Ego!!!)

    PhiNuPi

    Brooke Lynn The Chocolate,

    Please point me to this scientific study or sorts? I’d be interested in reading a viable source to support your position of people being born gay.

    *******************************

    If you want me to copy and paste websites, I am sorry don’t really have time for that, but you can do your own search on Google or yahoo. But I can only speak from experience and knowing many many many Gay men in my life. Do you honestly believe every Gay person was manipulated at some point in there life. My Gay hairstylist told me when he began walking and talking he only asked for Barbies and pink clothing and when he went to pre school he had a crush on a boy named Chaz. I wonder who at 1 years old manipulated him????????? And if you truly believe in your heart that a man can wake up one morning out the blue and declare that they are gay then there is a lot to learn about this topic, because being is an way of life not necessairly an Actual Act

  • NIK

    PM:
    What are you like 12? idiot

  • NIK

    You want me to be kicked?

  • Tony Redds

    @BE

    The Bible was written by Man not God…..The Knights of the Vatican back in the day waived their swords and Bible in hand impose its fairy tales on the people. If you didnt accept they killed you. If you read what happened in the Crusades you would understand where Im comming from….

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    @ L

    Thanks.

  • BE

    @Nik – thanks but I really just want get people to understand God is not forcing religion on people – he gave us free will.
    __________________________________________
    God isn’t forcing it, ppl like you are

    ************************
    How did I do that? I’m just answering a question not forcing religion down anyone’s throat.

  • G-Money

    That pic along almost made me throw up. It is what it is though…. GAY!

  • pm

    @NIK no just goofy as hell.. sorry lol

  • Switch hitter

    Cat Eyes

    what you say has some truth to it. A lot of gay people have been molested in their past. In fact my man admitted to me that he was. But there is no way all of them could of been. Some of them are born that way.

  • Long Hair Thick Redbone!

    Everytime I refresh I got to see this damn pic and its pissn me off. I’m scared for life!

  • elle

    @ L

    I wrote you a long drawn out article just now and it didn’t post but in short how can you say why would I let old women keep me from going to church when they are apart of the congregation i’m supposed to be praying with? Besides, it’s not just that church it’s many a churches. If church was just a place to harness one’s energy with other’s and to “pray” church would be fabulous

  • Sydney™

    The present age has seen a great slump in humanist values. After dominating Western culture for four centuries humanism today is on the retreat on all fronts, and it seems as though the world is moving in the direction of a non-humanist and even an anti-humanist form of culture. This tendency is most clearly visible in the totalitarian states. In the world of concentration camps and mass purges and total war, there is no room for humanist values, and it is difficult to realize that they have ever existed. Man is a means and not an end, and he is a means to economic or political ends which are not really ends in themselves but means to other ends which in their turn are means and so ad infinitum. Man who raised himself above nature and became lord of the world has become reabsorbed into the endless cycle of material change as the blind servant of the economic process of production and consumption.

    But even outside the totalitarian state in the democratic world the situation of humanism has become precarious in spite of our insistence on political liberty and our Charters of Human Rights. Here also man has become the servant of the process of economic production, in spite, and partly because of, the increase of wealth and material prosperity. And the advance of technology and scientific specialism has steadily reduced the prestige and influence of humanism in education.

    At the same time Western culture has lost its faith in Man. All the old idealism and, above all, humanist idealism have become discredited, and there has been amarked tendency in Western literature and art–in America no less than in Europe–towards irrationalism, primitivism and the rejection of all the humanist values.

    What is the attitude of Christians towards this anti-humanist tendency? Clearly there are certain values which are common to Christianity and humanism, and to a considerable extent the enemies of humanism are also the enemies of Christianity. On the other hand, there is no doubt that the anti-humanist reaction has affected Christians as well as non-Christians, and in some cases Christians have joined in the attack on humanism and have welcomed its downfall.

  • Pimpin Willie Dynamite (CEO Of Kentucky Derby Booties INC.)

    @ Long Hair Thick Redbone!

    Everytime I refresh I got to see this damn pic and its pissn me off. I’m scared for life!

    LMAO, your S/N is like the song huh?

  • elle

    ELLE!
    I CARE FOR YOU ,..I WANNA SEE YOU IN PARADISE LOVE,…ON A QUIET THREAD IMMA HOLLA AT YOU I KNOW ALL ABOUT THAT ASTROLOGY JAZZ!!
    —-

    OK glok, for the record it is not always about astrology you know? thats an absolute spec to the bigger puzzel, but thanks

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    LONG HAIR THICK REDBONE!
    I SPIT THE TRUTH, IM JUST A VESSEL!
    THANKS SIS!

  • Long Hair Thick Redbone!

    @ Pimpin thats just my description, lol.

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    WHY I KEEP GETTING THE DINGY TEETH..IM DROPPING 35 …. THIRTY FIVE PIECES THATS NO JIVE!

  • Pimpin Willie Dynamite (CEO Of Kentucky Derby Booties INC.)

    Long Hair Thick Redbone!

    @ Pimpin thats just my description, lol.

    Where you from lady? you got a strong opinion, I respect and value that, on the real…

  • Long Hair Thick Redbone!

    @ Pimpin

    I’m from the midwest. And thank you. You do too and i like to see that too. Its like the majority is clueless and very few get it. And its really pretty simple.

  • Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    I have only won as much as 17,000
    ______________________________________________

    @Moreaces

    DAMN!!!

    Yo, I should mind my own business but f*ck it = What did you spend your earnings on? A new car, down payment on a house?

    Oh, you play REAL card games – I guess you don’t know how to play “tunk” do you?

    How ’bout dice? Whatchu know about craps?

    Have you ever been told that you may have a gambling problem? and what’s the most you’ve lost?

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    REDD TONY!
    YOU ARE THE EPITOME OF THE DEVIL( RED DEVIL) YOU SPITTING THAT SAME NONSENSE THAT GOT EVE TO MESS UP YOU AND THE LEFT SIDE OF THE BIBLE YOU TRY TO USE YOU SOUND LIKE A DUMB AS IF YOU THINKING IM SERVING SOMETHING GOD CREATED INSTEAD OF GOD HIMSELF,.IT IS A TWO EDGED SWORD!

  • elle

    Slide you sure ask a lot of good questions, are you writing a book?

  • Long Hair Thick Redbone!

    Ok I am at work and somebody just came in my office while I was in the middle of refreshing and that damn pic was stuck on my screen I got to go. Bye yall.

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    Test…lol. Thought I would try it and see if it works

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/e3048dbf8b583da7b56660fc05351897.png The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    Nope… it didn’t

  • elle

    hmmm…I heard the story of adam and eve was made to downplay the importance of the woman and her sacredness. I never understood why women were seen as less than men when they are the one’s responsibile for bringing life into the world..hmmm kind of like god, go figure

  • BE

    @the twinz – i see a picture for you

  • JB (Wii’ed out)

    @ Twinz

    Yeah it worked

  • Pimpin Willie Dynamite (CEO Of Kentucky Derby Booties INC.)

    Long Hair Thick Redbone!

    @ Pimpin

    I’m from the midwest. And thank you. You do too and i like to see that too. Its like the majority is clueless and very few get it. And its really pretty simple.

    For real I’m out here in North VA myself, you on here regular now or you just happen to come through today?

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    Oh shut up it worked…lol

    Now I need a “generic pic” (should have done that in the first place)

  • Moreaces

    I have only won as much as 17,000
    ______________________________________________

    @Moreaces

    DAMN!!!

    Yo, I should mind my own business but f*ck it = What did you spend your earnings on? A new car, down payment on a house?

    Oh, you play REAL card games – I guess you don’t know how to play “tunk” do you?

    How ’bout dice? Whatchu know about craps?

    Have you ever been told that you may have a gambling problem? and what’s the most you’ve lost?

    ===========
    LOL, No I do not play enough to have a problem, like I said I like my money, and that is the most I have ever won, And I did use the money for a car, bills,, fun, fun and more fun,, went to Florida with that win.. I have no clue about dice, never played, just blackjack, and when ever my mom comes to town,, I am forced to play tunk, that is all she wants to do in the evening when she visits..

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    We have a recent history of worshipping gods beside God .We always say that there is one god but and yet we at the same time worship persons” “places” and “things”, as gods beside the one true and livivng god WE WILL PRAISE EVERYTHING THAT GOD HAS GIVEN US!

  • Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    You see it all the time if you know what you are looking for.
    ______________________________________________

    @Switch hitter

    “Princess”, do you think you could help the ladies out and let them know what to look out for so as to help them avoid dating men that are actually gay?

    and while we’re at it and we’re on a Black Celebrity Gossip Site and YOU said you know what to look for – Which Black Celebrities are actually homosexuals according to your “gaydar”?

    Is Tyson Beckford, Tyler Perry, Cam’ron, Russell Simmons, etc = Are they gay?

  • MySoulIsFull

    @ Brook Lynn the Chocolate

    You are right. We have to be very carful of downlow men. I have never been to a gay male club and i don’t think I would want to go to one. It would be depressing. It is hard for a woman to look at every man and think to herself “he might be gay/downlow” and that might not be the case. But its the fact that he had the possibility of sexing another male. *Sighs* I would hate to be in a relationship with a man and find out he is lowdown…i mean downlow.

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    MY BAAD!
    THEN YOU DO YOU ,..IF A DL BROTHA COME THIS WAY ,..IMMA MURDER IM!

  • elle

    MY BAAD!
    THEN YOU DO YOU ,..IF A DL BROTHA COME THIS WAY ,..IMMA MURDER IM!

    huh?! and you have lev 20:13 in your name? shame shame shame glok, what would the bible say about that?

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    HEY TWINZ MAMA!
    YOU LOOK LIKE HEATHER B!

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brooke Lynn The Chocolate (I love my Big Ego, its such a Huge Ego!!!)

    MySoulIsFull

    @ Brook Lynn the Chocolate

    You are right. We have to be very carful of downlow men. I have never been to a gay male club and i don’t think I would want to go to one. It would be depressing. It is hard for a woman to look at every man and think to herself “he might be gay/downlow” and that might not be the case. But its the fact that he had the possibility of sexing another male. *Sighs* I would hate to be in a relationship with a man and find out he is lowdown…i mean downlow.

    ***************************

    Sweetheart I really want to elaborate on what you just said but I may say something I will regret and being that my face is on this blog and people know me, I will leave the DL subject alone, but trust it is such a horrible horrible thing to do to a woman. Straight smack in the face, correction punch in the face.

  • http://bossip mybaad>> i hate

    i dont think experimenting = dik in ass

    this is also a misconception. if u look at the pic. there’s no dik in ass.. but thats still sum gay shit.

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    ELLE!
    DARLING THATS WHY WE NEED TO HOOK UP, IF YOU WOULD READ IT ELLE… IN THE VERSE GOD GAVE PERMISSION TO KILL A BATTI BOI DEAD!

  • http://bossip mybaad>> i hate

    @elle

    thats what im talking about.. Hypocrisy at its best!!!

  • Switch hitter

    Bernie B

    Thats what im saying. LOL.

  • elle

    ELLE!
    DARLING THATS WHY WE NEED TO HOOK UP, IF YOU WOULD READ IT ELLE… IN THE VERSE GOD GAVE PERMISSION TO KILL A BATTI BOI DEAD!

    oh so there is an exception to thou shall not kill?! that’s ridiculous. I’m not a chrisitan and taking someone’s life is not an option, go figure

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brooke Lynn The Chocolate (I love my Big Ego, its such a Huge Ego!!!)

    @ Slide

    I never in my life told you or anyone on here that my child’s father was Gay, I said he was a metrosexual and very kinky. I aint never caught him wit no man therefore he is not Gay in my eyes boo. Love u back.

  • Undacuvabrutha

    @ MySoulisFull

    Damn, do you really look at all men and wonder if they are gay? Sad! Truly sad!

  • Undacuvabrutha

    @ Brooke,

    Your lips will get me in trouble. Damn!

  • elle

    Damn elle, I think I am wit you. I don’t judge switch but damn that post heart my heart my soul my life…WHY cant they just sleep with Just men and leave us females alone? why oh why God?

    word, f*ck it that is why there are toy stores filled with catalogues and internet sites, double a batteries don’t carry diseases

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brooke Lynn The Chocolate (I love my Big Ego, its such a Huge Ego!!!)

    Undacuvabrutha

    @ Brooke,

    Your lips will get me in trouble. Damn!

    ******************

    Sorry. I wil stop using that Sally Hanson lip plumper. :-(

  • Switch hitter

    Slide

    Tyson Beckford is a freak I think. So yes I think he would sleep with a guy but he wouldnt really date a guy or anything. He is beautiful I might add. I think Camron is straight. Tyler Perry is gay and he has molest victim written all over his face. I think Russel Simmons is mostly straight but he might do another dude just to try it out.

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    @ Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    HEY TWINZ MAMA!
    YOU LOOK LIKE HEATHER B!

    Ummm…. I’m not even sure if that’s a dis or a compliment. Let me grab another one…lol

  • http://bossip mybaad>> i hate

    i used to be like that in high school.. hating and running and disgusted and confused at why they would ever want to touch and kiss each other.. even though when i was little i used to hump on my fake cuzzins. boys and girls LMAO!!

    im trill wit mine

  • elle

    well this was enlightening, i’m out be safe everyone, literally

  • Undacuvabrutha

    @ Moreaces

    I was standing in line behind this gay female couple a few weeks ago. I could tell the deep intimacy they shared for one another, but I couldn’t help but to fantasize about me being in the middle of all that, you know, intimacy.

  • MySoulIsFull

    @ undacuvabrutha

    No, I don’t look at every man and think he’s gay. I look at a man and think damn he fine, or he looks like a nerd, or whatever the case may be.

  • enkogkneegro

    @Switch hitter

    I can honestly say I would be supportive if it were my son going thru a sexual identity crisis…..why would I not?. At the end of the day your children are your children and whats important to me is that they are productive happy responsible people and that our bond is strong……

  • Tony Redds

    elle

    Damn elle, I think I am wit you. I don’t judge switch but damn that post heart my heart my soul my life…WHY cant they just sleep with Just men and leave us females alone? why oh why God?

    word, f*ck it that is why there are toy stores filled with catalogues and internet sites, double a batteries don’t carry diseases

    ————————–

    There are plenty of straight brothas out here. I know you aint lettin this thread get your hopes down. I recall you saying you were married before anyway, am I wrong?

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    TWINZ MAMA!
    YOU LOOK LIKE HER DOESNT MEAN IM DISSING YOU ,..HEATHER B WAS FINE TO ME AND SO ARE YOU SIS ! LOL! YOU LOOK GOOD!

  • http://bossip mybaad>> i hate

    @ mysoul

    the point is normalcy is what we accept it to be.

    not what SOMEONE thought and compiled centuries years ago. the world didnt end when pictures starting moving. and the world will not end if everybody is gay. nor if jus a few billion may be.

    incite positive growth in every way not just ways that suit

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brooke Lynn The Chocolate (I love my Big Ego, its such a Huge Ego!!!)

    Switch hitter

    Slide

    Tyson Beckford is a freak I think. So yes I think he would sleep with a guy but he wouldnt really date a guy or anything. He is beautiful I might add. I think Camron is straight. Tyler Perry is gay and he has molest victim written all over his face. I think Russel Simmons is mostly straight but he might do another dude just to try it out.

    ***********************

    I told u slide, u got 3 outta 4 right.

    Hey switch Hitter before you go can you tell us if Diddy, Ne-yo, Ginuwine, LL cool J or Prince is Gay??? well I already know Prince is not. :-)

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    ELLE!
    I HAVE TO EXPLAIN IN DETAIL NEXT TIME MY LOVE!

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brooke Lynn The Chocolate (I love my Big Ego, its such a Huge Ego!!!)

    @ Glok and Red Tony

    alright now boys, both yall kiss and make up like the pic on this thread.. LMAO just kidding :-) I luv yall both

  • MySoulIsFull

    @ Brook Lynn the Chocolate

    co-sign 100% on punch in the face. I am sure there are some real men that won’t lie to women about their sexual orientation.

  • Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    I never in my life told you or anyone on here that my child’s father was Gay, I said he was a metrosexual and very kinky. I aint never caught him wit no man therefore he is not Gay in my eyes boo.
    _____________________________________________

    @Brook

    I’m NOT trying to call you out or anything, but YOU have said a FEW TIMES that your baby daddy is bisexual or gay… I don’t know something like that…

    I REMEMBER odd things that people say on here and so that’s how I know – but whatever if you say he ain’t gay = he ain’t gay… But I know YOU said the ni@@a was gay… But that ain’t none of my business anyways, so I’ma leave that alone… SMH

    I love you too :-)

  • Switch hitter

    Brook lyn

    I dont want to scare you because I think there are very few strictly gay men. The guys that go both ways still value women more and that includes myself even though Im in a relationship with a man right now. I think the only one of those guys that you named that is gay is NeYo. I think Diddy and Prince either have or would sleep with a man because I think they are freaks too. I think LL is a freak but only because he has been in the business so long and admired by so many women that it may have gotten old. I still dont think LL would sleep with a man however. I wouldnt be surprised if he had R. Kelly tendencies.

  • Awesome-O-3000

    Didn’t expect people to still be on this. Wow

  • The Twinz Mama ~ Proverbs 4:7

    @Glok9n…

    Oh… thanks….lol. You know when someone say “hey you look like…” I have to ask what it is. Everyone has different opinions

    I’ve never heard Heather B, but to each his own ;o)

  • MySoulIsFull

    Either way gay or straight…please everyone stay safe.

  • Switch hitter

    MySoulisFull

    You would be surprised with how few out right ask if you have ever been with a man for one thing. There are some guys that will tell you but only after you been with him a while.

  • MySoulIsFull

    @ Glok9n: The real glok!!

    Yes I heard about the Holocaust Museum as well.

  • enkogkneegro

    @ Switch hitter

    I’ve always accepted people for who they are not their race or sexual preferences. To the point when my wife and I married many,many moons ago I had three nbest men…1. hispanic, 1. gay and 1. white….all all very close friends. My wifes family came from New Orleans for our wedding but when seeing a number of whites, hispanics and two or three gay couples got up and left in the middle of the ceremony. Mine and the rest of the guest partied and we all had a blast….my life is and always has been to full to worry about that kind of is. I look at everyone that enters my life as a blessing until they prove otherwise…everyone.

  • Undacuvabrutha

    Sorry Brooke,

    Nope, not on the DL, not gay, not bi, but sexually open for the ladies

  • Switch hitter

    Slide

    Are you a top or a bottom? Im not kicking any foolishness. Im just bein real. Thats part of the problem. People ask questions but dont want to hear the real asnwer. Anyway I think my gaydar is right about 80%. No one is right all the time.

  • http://www.mockrockstar.com Brooke Lynn The Chocolate (I love my Big Ego, its such a Huge Ego!!!)

    Ok I’m out, Golden girls coming on WE TV..

    LATA

  • Switch hitter

    Fo Real Tho

    You know whats funny. My man would literally try to be beat me to death if I tried to put anything up his butt but he does me in my butt. So I guess what you put up your butt dont make a difference cause my man love me so he is gay but nothing goes up his ass.

  • Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    @Brooke

    Oh ok, gotcha…

    We cool My Dear :-)

    MUAH!!!

  • Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

    TWINZ MAMA ! HOLD UP NOW, I ONLY SAID HEATHER B CUZ I KNOW HER, NOW THIS PIC YOU HAVE UP NOW ,..GOT DAMN I WISH YOU HAD MY TWINZ! ….MMMMM

  • Switch hitter

    Encocgkneegro

    I read your post and I give you much respect. A lot more men would come out if their fathers and male relatives would accept them. Ive found that female family memebers usually accept a gay male family member but they wont accept a bisexual man to date. A male will have more trouble with gay family members but would date a bisexual woman. Dont make no sense to me. Im glad your daughter is happy.

  • Rozza♥ – Do You Like Fish Sticks?

    Hey Slide! This is one crazy post!

  • Rozza♥ – Do You Like Fish Sticks?

    What music awards are those in the picture?

  • The Twinz Mama ~Proverbs 4:7

    @Glok9n

    You have no sense…lol. Not that I think anything about your homegirl, but I figured a new one would change that perspective ;o)

  • The Twinz Mama ~Proverbs 4:7

    @Glok9n

    You have no sense…lol. Not that I think anything bad about your homegirl, but I figured a new one would change that perspective ;o)

  • Switch hitter

    SLIDE

    Oh. I wasnt trying to come at you sideways or anything man. I dont know you like that. But when you referred to me as Princiess that is another example of what Bernie B and I was saying earlier. It was like you were testing the waters so to speak but you can play it off as just joking or whatever. Like I said my gayadar is not perfect but from my experience those little insults are some dudes way of trying to see if another guy is straight or let another guy know if they prefer to be a top or a bottom. Anyway NeYo just seems really comfortable viewing things from a female perspective. He seems a little out of place when he is supposed to romantically linked to a woman. Even when the rumors first came out all of a sudden a picture is leaked of him getting head from a woman. Come on. I think he really struggles with it but deep down he is attracted to men.

  • Electrik Red- “P Is For Power” Next Single!!!!

    @tired: u r so corney and ignorant

    @too cute: times change either u adjust or stay behind

  • PhiNuPi

    Brooke Lynn The Chocolate,

    You want people to support and believe your stance, but when you’re tasked to provide supporting evidence you claim you don’t have the time. Interesting, but I can respect that. It’s interesting that every time you try to provide an argument to your hypothesis, you revert back to what someone else said, lived, and experienced. Sad

  • whenkeepingitrealgoeswrong

    LMAO AT THIS PIC!!!!!

  • Treez

    @ Bernie B

    You are so right…we do need to educate our people, but the question is how do we break the sexual construct set up by the black church?

  • The Third Eye

    This has to be rhetorical, right?

    YES!!

  • Treez

    @Rozza – the point bernie b is trying to make is that black culture is the reason why many black males lie about their sexuality. If you want black men to be more honest with you then you need to stand up and say something when people make disparaging comments about gays…

  • tired

    Disparaging comments like Doo-doo chaser, or rectal spelunker

  • Rozza♥ – Do You Like Fish Sticks?

    @Slide: Boy you are crazy! But yes, he must like my dog. Sorry – Nibbles is here until he dies, so…

    We can compromise on the fish sticks!

  • Rozza♥ – Do You Like Fish Sticks?

    Can someone please tell me what those awards in the picture are?

  • sanjor

    Can someone help me please, lol. How do I get my gravatar image to show up?
    Thanks

  • KuntryGurl

    @sanjor

    clean your cache sometimes that help.

  • http://www.cnn.com Dorothy

    @sanjor

    Go to Gravatar.com and set up an account. The instructions are easy.

  • Treez

    @ Tired

    Actually, I was thinking of terms like nigg.er, spade, porch mon.key, coo.n, junglebunny, mud person, cotton.picker, gigga.boo, etc.

    If you want I can put my dik in ur doo-doo hole, fuk you til you love me, then slap my dik on your forehead…on second thought I’ll just take that @ss and the ho in you will just sit their and take it like the punk bit.ch you are.

  • http://www.yahoo.com Leon Peterson

    is extra hot.

  • chillin

    Yes I think its gay if they hit it and quit it, I guess theres the question, would they have those type of feelings or tendencies again while with someone of the opposite sex.

  • reign

    Yes, when a man willingly engage in sexual intercourse with antoher man he’s GAY even if he never does it again…he just goes into denial and fight it for life. He has assumed a female role in an emotional experience where a man has deposited himself into you and that’s some serious business even for a woman…that’s why for women it takes years to get over men. Once you’ve allowed a man to enter you that act takes you to another place. For women not so much because no one is entering you and taking you to that place. that “place” is an act meant for men and women.

  • http://www.yahoo.com Leon Peterson

    @ TREEX .. which leads me your question. The Church will always be a wedge and divisive force in the black community … it was set up that way from jump … It amazes me that something as so wonderful as sexuality in all its variations is so DAMNED by the church and chuch folk … We are sexcuals beings should celebrate it in all its glory … No matter what u do, just live an honest life — BUT u can’t cause the church is constantly telling u UR SEXUAL ACTIONS are sinful … SO U GOTS TO LIE TO FOLKS AND URSELF … DAMN SHAME
    —————————————————
    PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE EVERYONE ON HERE STUDY THE ORIGINAL BIBLE AND TELL THE WORLD IF YOU SEE ANYTHING ABOUT GOD CONDEMNING HOMOXEUALTY. YOU WILL FIND NOTHING. THE CHURCH CONDEMNS IT BUT HE BIBLE DOES NOT (THE ORIGINAL UNTRANSLATED VERSION)

  • Bloodshot 3rd Eye

    Yeah…you are at LEAST bi woman or man. There are some lines you don’t cross even one time. And going gay is one of those lines.

  • Ugh

    Consigliere and Old Timer, you’re both gay!

    WTF? It is what you do AND what you prefer.

  • Spectacular

    Looks like fun! I’ll bring my pink “wonder thong” and a camcorder! Sounds tasty!!

  • Ugh

    Leon Patterson, do YOU understand hebrew latin and greek?

    Sometimes y’all take this mess a bit too far. You want to put homosexuality in a place of acceptance. I accept homosexual people just as I accept murderers and adulterers… all sin and fall short. But I won’t call a lie the truth and the truth a lie.

    And you my brother are lying if you are going to sit up here and claim that homosexuality is not a perversion and a sin. Accept it for what it is.

  • Barney

    I’ll bring Barney Live on DVD, too!

  • Air Beezy

    @Ugh

    I don’t think just because you are gay you are a sin! I think it depends on the way you carry yourself. If you are gay and you’re going against God, and bashing people for no reason, than that’s the sin part. But if you love God with all of your heart, and would do anything to please him, than you’re fine. Going around with a f Jesus attitude and being evil isn’t beautiful. Just because you’re gay, doesn’t mean evil or weird. You’re just different. BASHING GAY PEOPLE OR ANYONE IS WRONG AND UNFAIR!

  • Bernie B

    OK I’M NOT DONE …LOL

    @UGH …
    “The reason men lie about being gay is because it is an abomination and they feel guilty. Most people (most, with some essence of moral fiber that is) don’t feel good about their sins.”

    THEY LIE BECAUSE they fear the backlash/the hate/the Scarlet pink G placed on their heads/being teased/looked upon as less than men … little boys who are attracted to little boys and then grow up to be grown men with the same feelings are forced to suppress their feelings AND LIE to themselves and their partners and the world … do liitle boys know about abomination???? NO, it’s taught to them like everything else … SO, when u think WHAT ur doing or feeling is terribly wrong — U LIE … and the LIE festers and eats a soul … SO NO MATTER how hard u try to be a moral person, UR LIE bemoans any faith u have in living a TRUTHFUL LIFE …

  • Binary Star

    @num1dominicano

    A man getting a pedicure is gay no matter who does it.

  • http://comcast FoxY

    Lil Wayne & Baby kissing in the mouth is GAY!!!!!!!!!!

  • Air Beezy

    @Binary Star

    If a man wants pedicure, that should be his business. Just like if a women went fishing with her “home girls”, or going to a LA Lakers game with 4 of her freinds! What people do is their business.

  • http://www.yahoo.com Leon Peterson

    @ AIR BEEZY

    Okay you are right. I guess it doesnt matter but the dominican dude was talking mad smack likehe aint gay. thas all.

  • Whatchaknoboutdat?

    I think a guy that is DL would be the best one to answer the question and I am curios to know what they would say. I have come across lots of guys (some are my good freinds and some I have dated) that I have been suspious of being on the DL or of being a closet freak/homo. It would be nice to know for sure if men have gone that way or not…. hmmmm… very interesting.

    I love the pic… it’s also very interesting.
    :)

  • http://www.bossip.com BMWdriver540i. …… .Looking at the haters thru my rearview

    @ T-Boo

    You must have crossed that line before to try and compare one crack to another if your a man crack is wrong all the way around (a mans crack & a crack pipe no need to compare what we already know is wack

  • J.A.

    ^no its not gay,get out of here. man just be honest with whoever you are with. gay,straight,bi, tri-sexual whatver

  • nunzbizness

    if people want to know why a lot of black men are in the closet, all you have to do is read the comments in this article.

    if you want more black men to be open about their sexuality, there needs to be more acceptance. otherwise, DL men will exist forever, whether you think its right or wrong. Just remember, society is the reason.

    now, as a gay man, i dont think experimenting one time w/ a dude makes you gay. multiple times? then, yeah there is an issue of denial.

  • http://bossip.com Mizz Pimpin

    it would not make you gay, if you do it you were already gay in the first place and if you do it once you will do it twice, etc

  • Stupid Post

    @Electrik Red- “P Is For Power” Next Single!!!!

    Ok as one who worked in the Psych field for years, there is NO gay gene.
    Homosexuality is learned- twin studies support this, and
    The main authority -the longest record on history-the BIBLE- proves it.
    Homosexuality ain’t new!

  • Taylor

    Gay no doubt about it.To let another man stick you or vice versa.How is it even a ?

  • Stupid Post

    As long as Christians stand up for what’s right, we can tell the good news and help others.

    It’s not natural, that’s why the overwhelming majority of people here are repulsed.

    If you are looking for a way out Christ is the answer!

  • prisseme

    Yes you are a homosexual. GAY!

  • http://www.bossip.com reppin j/a

    batty man fi ded real bad man never ever eat from ah toilet sit dem american sick to bomboclat

  • Stupid Post

    I have gay relatives too.

    My dad is a Pastor and one had the nerve to ask him to marry them. If my state had legalized gay marriage, we would have been sued, jailed and the church closed down.

    Is homosexuality really ok?

  • http://Bossip.com MzKat0517

    @Kbeezy

    I see you are pretty passionate about the comments and I understand, but could you please read my post and see if you could understand my question and concern.
    I would really appreciate it b/c I want to understand this.

  • Kbeezy

    @MzKat0517

    I can understand your concern about that issue, but let me say I am totally against married men living double lives, cheating is wrong period. But the reason why men live double lives (espically African-American men) is because of the way our race looks at homosexuality. They have their guard about the homosexual lifestyle…….I wish I could get in a deeper conversation, but I am at work at the moment. We can continue talking later.

  • Kbeezy

    @ Stupid Post
    I’ve never once stated or said that homosexuality was a genetic trait. So what is your point again?

  • Kbeezy

    @ Stupid Post

    I never once stated or said that homosexualtiy was a genetic trait. So what is your point?

  • And…..(with 5 dots)

    @Bernie B,
    Since I see you are not done, I want to pose a question to you because as a mid-30 something, single woman, the pickings are slim and I encounter a lof of men that I am suspect of being DL or having gay tendancies.

    My question is this: Are men that are on the DL, is it a case of them simply wanting their cake and eating it too, and using the fear of having the “scarlet letter” as an EXCUSE to do so?

    I agree that we (ie Black folks) can be harsh when it comes to this issue, and I know that men aren’t great at expressing their true feelings, but at the same time, I often wonder if DL men use the “I’m afraid of what people might say” as an excuse to continue with their behavior, and it’s selfish.

  • Kbeezy

    Why would someone choose to be gay with all the gay bashing? you pretty much answered your on question. If you think about it, do you really think people would want to endure all the pain, like the disowing of family , loss of friends, looked at as second hand citzen, just to be in a realtionship with the same sex. Just think about it. And its so random of you all to act like homosexuals have just randomly and recently appeared. This has been around for thousands and thousand of years.

  • http://Bossip.com MzKat0517

    @And…..(with 5 dots)

    That was my point exactly!!!!!

    These men dont have to come out of the closet.
    But they SHOULD be truthful to the person they are with, even if they have to lie and say that they are into them or whatever, but as long as they stop having a sexual relationship with that person without informing them of their REAL sexual preference.
    It is a case of them want being afraid of what ppl will think of them while at the same time wanting and longing for their lifestyle to be accepted by society.
    If ur gay..ur gay, its nobody’s life to live but urs.
    Find some other kind of way to bring ot to the forfront than by lies and deception.
    You DL men are ruining lives and families but yet you want to be free to do what you want without any prejudices.
    Sounds like the pot calling the kettle black to me.
    And thats any race of ppl not just blacks. That is very stereotypical of ppl to just say the afro american ppl are the ones that have the most to say about this issue. Because we all blend into this pot together. It affects us all.

  • Kbeezy

    I have to get back to work. But seriously, you all need to educate yourselves about this before you address your opinions. I’m sure we have have encountered homosexauls whom are close in our lives, wheater it be your mom, dad, brother, sister, cousin, aunt, uncle, bestfriend ect. (I have a gay unlce) We need to learn to love each other and just move on. No, you may not agree with their lifestyle, but if its not affecting you, why address an unwanted statement. I’ll leave you with this, You’ll never learn anything if you surround yourself with the same people.

  • http://www.bossip.com BMWdriver540i. …… .Looking at the haters thru my rearview

    @ And…..(with 5 dots)

    You must stay in the ATL

  • Stupid Post

    @Kbeezy Why would someone choose to be gay with all the gay bashing?

    People commit all kinds of sin full acts regardless of the consequences. Homosexuality makes no sense religiously or even on the evolutionary scale.

    You are right it has been around for ages…but so has prostitution and every kind of wicked behavior.

  • http://Bossip.com MzKat0517

    * feminine

  • Stupid Post

    A NEWLY RELEASED REPORT from the Centers for Disease Control’s National Center for Health “Statistics reveals that only 2.3% of the population considers themselves homosexual. The statistics come from a 2002 National Survey of Family Growth and are based on 12,571 interviews with men and women ages 15-44 years of age. (The findings were reported in WorldNetDaily, September 16, 2005). “

  • http://bossip NIKA

    that pic is sickening

  • john hope franklin

    Hell Yea you gay!!

  • Orlando

    @ the main event

    You are gay gay gay. Any man who enjoys oral pleasure for another man is gay. You like his masculine appeal. You enjoy hearing a man grunting in your ears. You are fooling yourself if you think your not gay.

  • Shay

    I don’t have a problem with anybody being gay. My general life rule is not to get concerned about other peoples life choices if they aren’t effecting other people unwillingly.

    I would much rather have gay/bi men/women feel more comfortable coming out in the black community so we wouldn’t have so many trying to live double lives and lying to themselves about it.

  • Orlando

    @ Seaki

    Those men who you are servicing are gay or bi. If you think otherwise you are delusional I hate to inform you, Any man who lets another man near their genitalia is gay or bi. A straight male would be mortified at the suggestion of some gay man propositioning him for sex. You might get snuffed.

  • http://Bossip.com MzKat0517

    The picture thats on the top wasnt digusting to me but it was shocking cause thats was not my vision of two gay men. I guess thats what the DL brother looks like huh?

    Either one of those guys could be my sons, brothers and even scarier my MAN.

    WWWHHHOOOOOOAAAA
    Reality is a mother huh?

  • chzz

    Yes.

  • Tia

    @ Lilb

    This pic is disgusting. Don’t include me in that everyone. Man on man, woman on woman is equally disgusting. Whatever floats your boat but that don’t include my views.

  • didnt reggie see the tape

    gay is what gay does…

    and wow at Seaki!

    LOL at some guy way back in the 200′s talkn bout “show him a bisexual and he’ll show u a confused fag” LOL

    and yeah that pic should have been preceded by a warning to keep me from throwin up on my keyboard…

  • Duh

    Yes it does.

  • BritChick

    Even if you dont believe in a god then let us think practically..it is quite simple to see that the anus wasnt designed to be penetrated..read any physiology book and you will see why..this act is total perversion whether man on man or male and female..homosexuality is a lifestyle which has been chosen…people arent born with it contrary to what is popularly believed…

    Like I always say…there is no lower form of human life than a DL person. If you want to be gay then be gay…dont mess with people’s daughters. Being DL is a total lack of respect of people and for life.

    By the way its not just the Black community which find homosexuality abhorrent…so stop villifying black people to suit your agenda.

  • PErvester

    HELL YEAH it does! “Period, point blank” as they say. End of discussion.

  • Stupid Post

    Homosexuality is not natural. There is no gay gene. Identical twin studies do NOT support homosexuality as a biological trait. It is a choice.

    It is condemned in the scriptures.

    It affects our communities and our laws.

    Finally that picture is juvenile and disgusting!

  • Jamall from Orlando

    Hell yeah,
    No homo

  • http://bossip.com Harlems Finest

    @nurse
    come on ma THEY don’t even think they be mens just born in the wrong body. Many trannys look better and have better female bodies than natural born women. what you talkin about? now u sound ignorant.

  • Lacey

    @ Harlems finest!

    You are a walking aids carrier, I surely hope you are not married or have a girlfriend.

  • Nurse GiGi

    @ Harlems Finest
    I am not God..so i try to be careful not to judge…and if I slip, I can can check myself and keep on truckin. You shouldn’t judge either.

  • http://www.bossip.com BMWdriver540i. …… .Looking at the haters thru my rearview

    @ Punks!!!!

    What are u rollin homo a pink beattle

  • http://www.bossip.com BMWdriver540i. …… .Looking at the haters thru my rearview

    @ Punks!!!!

    Plus the 54oi I push keeps homo’s like you in the rearview trying to catch up and if you really knew your bmw then you would know that the 745 are’nt the no.1 series of bmw drivers note key word drivers

  • T

    whats crazy to me and i guess it shouldnt be is the reaction to the picture. im gay so im probably around gay dudes more than the average str8 person but this shyt i so common. ppl leave it alone. its increasing the STD rate in our communities. its not going anywhere no matter what you think about it. you have to start letting black homosexual gay men be themselves. you dont have to agree with it but its only hurting the hetero community to keep denying it and attacking the ppl that live their life this way. i understand that you dont agree with it and will never accept it but you need to knwo you;re not accepting reality and news flash, ill bet some of you have slept with a DL dude and dont even know it. they gone continue to bang you so no one knowsbut while you hanging wit the fam or friends he bangin out a dude booty…lol..but really its not funny at all. you cant chg ppl or force them to live according to your beliefs. if you continue to exclude these young men the DL trend will continue and you’ll be sleeping with a gay dude and then posting shyt like uh uh i would never talk to a gay dude.

  • Punks!!!

    @ SillyHoes

    Spare us your scientific BS! Wrong is Wrong! You are the one who is dumb! You will find out in the end though!

  • Punks!!!

    @ Harlem Finest

    Whatever makes you feel better my man. You are still gay and you like men though!

  • Phoenix7

    Ok but why lie why not just be honest… and I’m sorry its almost as if you blame women for DL cowardice….so because a woman if given the choice would not deal with you, its her fault for not subscibing to your way of life..thats BS but folk will use anything to justify their selfishness and fear…….its not the bi or homosexuality its the LIES….unfortunately I am no longer naive or in any type of denial about how prevalent the DL/Bi lifestyle is among black men …..please stop blaming woman and take some accountability for your own sexuality, OWN it in fact, before you expect someone else to accpet you for who you are when you can;t even accept yourself.

  • JJ

    HELL YEAH

  • http://www.bossip.com BMWdriver540i. …… .Looking at the haters thru my rearview

    @ And…..(with 5 dots)

    Why are you coming at me I was just pointing out the obvious

  • D@ P0p3

    You Never Know What U Like Until U Try It…Point Blank…Everyones Gay These Days….

  • NIK

    (we’re still talking about this? lol)

    I’m Bisexual and I even know that if a man wants to “experiment” with another man sexualy, they may not be FULLY out of the closet gay, but certainly has gay qualities. I grew up with seven boys in my household and not ONE would ever even thing of it.

  • http://www.bossip.com sade

    I think it means ur bi

  • NIK

    Stupid Post:
    it came with the fall.
    ________________________________________________
    The fall of what?

  • Stupid Post

    It came with the fall is short for -the fall of man in the garden of Eden.
    A lot of the cultures in the old testament and new testament practiced homosexuality. It has always been viewed as sin.
    Read it for yourself.

  • Chris

    In other news, people are still unemployed, can’t pay rent or buy groceries, and kids are getting the lamest (sp?) education and can’t go to college. Lost homes, can’t keep up with car expenses, no health/dental/vision care for millions of people. The world is OVER POPULATED, we are destroying all our natural resources, the government and rich people are screwing the little guys, and people get on posts like this and judge (often times viciously) other people as if that makes them God almighty. I guess you have to find your power somewhere…

  • little sister

    I blame whites for racism and I blame gays for the spreading of AIDS.

  • krissy

    I would have to say that once a man crosses that line, he is in fact gay…why? B/c a man has a certain equipment that once entered into another mans behind intercourse occurs…it is a double standard but in a world where Aids is rapid with gay, DL or bisexual men, we just can not chance it…we woman dont have the equipment to engage in sexual intercourse like that, which makes it a bit more exceptable then for men

  • little sister

    Gays help spread AIDS after the whites produced it…lol

  • krissy

    But if it was just that ONE time, i really don’t know…u really never know

  • Lost Souls

    @ litle sister

    Speak the truth Queen!

  • little sister

    wow shame is a badge of guilt and not virtue…that’s a deep statement and so true.

  • NIK

    Lost Souls:
    The last time I checked no one had coffee talk with God around here? You? I think not. I will make no assessments on him til my judgement day. And for the record I DO beleive in God, but not the one who spreads hatred, and discrimination to others. And YES you should thank the Gay community. Who do you think wants to take care of all the babies that hetero’s throw away to the system? Have you taken a look out your window lately? Cause what I see, is we could use a little break from PRO-CREATING!! And the Aids epidemic? Your not in 1979 anymore. Gay men that have HIV/AIDS, stats show are more over the age of 45 due to lack of knowlege in the 70′s. These days the ratio of the epidemic has platue’d. So get your facts straight.

  • Lost Souls

    I see alot of sadness in the gay community alot of the men and women who are out are not happy. They are mistreated by the undercovers, its like they are looking for this love in all the wrong places i know thats cliche but its what I see. I think gay people just want to be loved mostly just like any other human being. I actually have respect for gays that are not afraid to be who they are. Its the ones who hide i dislike and it seems that gay people are dealing with these undercovers and getting hurt.

  • Lost Souls

    @ NIK

    I dont converse with ingonarance. Sorry.

  • little sister

    @Leon Peterson

    You’re right, it appears most gay men have their priorities together but most straight men actually have the life too otherwise my husband must be down low, so when majority rules you can’t really say big ups to the small percentage that can prioritize…lol…but what model is your phantom? Don’t really race phantoms…more luxurious than sporty…but okay if you say you got one…

  • NIK

    you know what it is…lol…we gotta stay schooling them…and why nobody likes to really argue with a homo…lol…if everyone thought “that’s not my job” what will get done…
    ____________________________________________________
    Here’s the thing…. Homo’s have been and will always be. You can rant, rave, pickett, talk/type till your blue in the face. You know deep down inside you we really aren’t going anywhere? Homosexuality is bigger and better than ever and one day soon you will be surrounded. Whether you like it or not you have to know that’s the truth. Your useless conversation isn’t going to turn a gay person straight and that’s reality. One of the biggest song’s of 2008 is “I kissed a girl” by Katie Perry. Come one. You really should spend your waisted energy on something more positive.
    With the whole gay marriage thing, hetero’s may have won the battle, but we all know who will win the war.

  • NIK

    Lost Souls:

    There’s not an ignorant bone in this body my love;)

  • little sister

    @ Nik

    we’re not mentally compatible but consider this a favor from me…ADVICE

    to believe in God for me is to know…I’m not that easy to influence…hence I’m still str8 lol.

    don’t have tea but I speak and I think he hears me since we’ve developed such a loving relationship. well I serve a loving God with his own book of instructions and he teaches me to love…love me first of all…and how he made me…and to love being fruitful and not lust.

    I see so many depressed and mentally tortured gays that I can’t really thank them when I’m counseling them back to good health (mental health).

    I pray you learn all there is to learn about your God before you tell me the relationship I have with mine because I never stated serving the same God as YOU.

    As of now, we don’t have to speak anymore but my lost sista if you need some spoken word…I got it when you’re ready.

  • little sister

    on a lighter note…gays has afforded me to have some of the baddest fashion sense I could ever have…lol…and marc jacobs is still the bomb to me…whether he’s tampered or untampered…he’s fashion.

  • http://www.yahoo.com Leon Peterson

    @ lil sister

    2008 rolls royce phanthom swb edition. You are right i will not race it but i was trying to make a point to the BMW guy.

  • little sister

    @Nik

    you stated “May God have pity on you!”

    he pitied me so much that he has given me two degrees in Business Administration and Information Technology…sweetheart I’m who they talking about when they yappin to the captain…for I’m an Officer in the Air Force Reserves and have my own Graphics Design company along with my husband’s IT Business…and my boys are so beautiful and manly like their father that I’m soooooooo glad your God heard your prayers and had pity on me.

    As for blogging…I get paid for this too…hence the articles move forward the more popular the forum becomes…sweetheart everything I touch is damn near lucrative for me so thanks for your free advice but I get paid to sit silly kids like you down on a daily…you only see this name on certain forums…the forums that I’m getting paid for sweetie…

    so what do you do with your time besides blog gay shit…and I mean literally gay shit.

  • little sister

    @leon peterson

    if pain is what you like…round up all your other gay friends and I can make it happen…smiles!!!

  • Stupid Post

    @little Sister
    You are sooooo right!!!!

    Homosexuals now are the whiniest group of people on the planet.

    At first homosexuals referred to straights as baby makers, now they are trying to validate themselves by having children and marriage.

    I would also respect homosexuals more if they would stop with the bogus science and religious attacks and just admit this is purely a choice.

    Don’t try and force me to live with your behavioral choice!!!

  • da og

    yes it does make you gay

  • Stupid Post

    @ Little Sister
    You struck a nerve!

  • little sister

    @Stupid Post…lol…I know…and I love it…

    @Leon Peterson…if we want to keep getting mistreated by our straight men then we are free to do so by your permission?

    Son GAYS are the most mentally unstabled/disturbed and depressed or emotionally challenged people on the face of this beautiful earth.

    I have never seen a larger group of people with so many sexual issues and emotional concerns that it’s disturbing to see them all together with their disfunctional selves.

  • http://bossip Mm

    Are you crazy YES!!

  • little sister

    @Leon Peterson

    Basically you’re gay and I’m straight…we get it…I won’t beat a dead horse…but since you have your priorities together I supposed you’re feeling froggy?

    ole froggy style looking boy…lol

  • Stupid Post

    @Leon
    Homosexuals have many more sexual partners than straight men and gay men are no more truer to their partners.
    The adulterous behavior you describe is not a function of being straight, but indicative of poor moral character.
    I do not support gay marriage and this lifestyle is sinful, however I do believe everyone has the right to employment and safety.
    If some straight people did not stand along side gays, homosexuals would be lynched as they are in many parts of the world. That being said you especially a Black homosexual need us.

  • little sister

    @Leon

    My husband and my 2 boys are very much MEN…and so that’s my household…I apologize if your financial class with Phantoms and Priorities don’t know simple English or phrases.

  • NIK

    All this time on the computer, one of the “men” in her house is probably RUMP ROASTIN the neighbor as we speek

  • little sister

    @Nik’

    Leon left you hanging…you might wanna run behind him…you don’t get paid for embarrassment…

  • NIK

    Flattered? LOL flattered for what exactly? An old wrinckled up vagina? Um yea, no. Having a double wide, and a kitty pool isn’t an empire.

    and for the record like I said before I did my eight and half years of college to get my two degrees, and I probably make more in my one profession than you do in all three of yours, so “sweety” don’t think your talkin to just some chick off the street. I was born and raised on Nantucket Island, one of the wealthiest places in this country so slow your role big tima…..

  • NIK

    Actually my sister and I own a real estate company so I get paid when I want.

  • http://www.yahoo.com Leon Peterson

    STUPID POST

    TRUST AND BELIEVE ME NOBODY NEEDS YALL. THE ONLY PERSON I NEED IT CHRIST AND I HAVE HIM FULLY. AND THANKS FOR YOU INPUT AS FAR AS SIN IS CONCERNED. I CHALLENGE U TO READ THE ORIGNIAL BIBLE AND THEY COME BACK. AND NO DISRESPECT TO YOU BUT ALL MY STRAGHT BOYS HAVE PLENTY AND PLENTY OF GIRLS AND CHEATS AND PLAY ALL OF THEM.

    MY GAY FRIENDS ON THE OTHER END ARE NOT AS WHORISH AT ALL. AND ITS GOOD ITS A NEW AGE CAUSE A PERSON TRY TO LYNCH ME ESPEICALLY A STRAIGHT DUDE. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA BOY BOY BOY IT WOULD BE SOMETHING SERIOUS. THATS ALL I HAVE TO SAY.

  • NIK

    She must be taking extra brain cells (see the smoke) (not from the joint) to write this next one… get ready! wait for it, wait for it…………….

  • http://www.yahoo.com Leon Peterson

    @ NIK

    YOU ALREADY KNOW WE ALWAYS TAKE CARE OF ONE ANOTHER UNLIKE THE STRAIGHT. KILLIN ONE ANOTHER OVER DUMB SHIT.

  • NIK

    AAAAANNNNDD SCENE!!

    Honey you can’t out talk me, and a paid blogger will never, and could never embarrass me. If you ever want to upgrade your trailor get at me.

  • http://www.yahoo.com Leon Peterson

    @ LIL SISTER

    So you mean to tell me you are the type of person representing America. What in the hell is going on. Now that is really sad. I hope your husband dont think like you and he is serving america.

    I swear boy this is crazy. but whateva. If anyone needs prayer its you and hopefully not your hubby!!

  • http://www.yahoo.com Leon Peterson

    @LIL SISTER,

    THANK GOD IM GAY,,,, THANK YA JESUS CAUSE LORD KNOWS I WOULD NEVER WANT TO BE LIKE YALL.

    THAS SUCH A BLESSING. TO ME AND NIK

  • http://www.yahoo.com Leon Peterson

    @LIL SISTER,

    THANK GOD IM GAY,,,, THANK YA JESUS CAUSE LORD KNOWS I WOULD NEVER WANT TO BE LIKE YALL.

    THAS SUCH A BLESSING. TO ME AND NIK

  • NIK

    lol…I go to Reserves for just a weekend a month and as a captain I bring home and easy check for only reporting for 2 days. My husband who just came back from being a GS-12 overseas brought me in a nice 6 figure check and then…blogging I do for fun as I run my own graphics design company and my husband does his own IT tech repairs at his OWN business…we so trill we didn’t have to partner up…oh I’m serious and you should be inspired because at the end of the day…I log off with a check and you log off hopefully with a reality check.
    ______________________________________________
    again, somone that has to detail her life to a couple of GAY strangers aint worth shit. And the check with the reality check blah blah, I actually laughed! lol…. that was a good one. I give credit when credit is due to the less fortunate. ;)

  • NIK

    Nevertheless none you sounded intelligent or logical
    _________________________________________________
    I’m not going to even comment.

  • little sister

    Actually with a quick comeback like that…I’m starting to think Nik and Leon Peterson could be the same blogger…

    Either way are we done here are yall done being abused…because I got another gay post on perezhilton.com come check it out…you know what name to look for…

  • NIK

    I’m not a paid blogger. I don’t have to be more than one person you idiot.

  • NIK

    and your posting gay blogs on a gay man’s web site? Your a special special kind. Oh Lord if you can see this, help this woman. This poor poor woman. :( augh I feel bad for you

  • little sister

    and for a gay stranger to critique me to the Tee and can’t produce a single amount of proof is someone substandard to who I’m used to dealing with. My youngest clients can put together better email requests for products than you can put together a decent sentence to defend your LIFESTYLE…really should be asking me useful questions than making these silly little statements.

  • NIK

    Critique you???? LMFAO
    I had to do NO critiquing! You gave me your whole life story. Lay off the weed lady. And AGAIN (you sometimes have to repeat things twice for her so excuse me to the people that got it the first time) I’m highly educated so trying to “sting” my writing/blogging abilities bother me none.

  • NIK

    I’m over you.

    BYE!

    God help you and your gay little boys… (LMFAO) (again)

  • little sister

    @Nik

    Did you not take my posts and point out where I left out a word…did you not explain to your comrade Leon how I’m displaying this and that so I must be lying to put so much out there…sorry if I don’t need to have secrets son…

  • little sister

    @Nik…that’s called critiquing ^^^

  • NIK

    Everyone needs a good poundin every once in a while! lol

  • NIK

    Bernie B:

    I’m not sure if your comments were directed towards me calling him a Fag, but I’m a Bisexual woman who was commenting back to his first comment. I don’t call people derogitory names. :) so just wanted to clear that up with you

  • http://www.yahoo.com Leon Peterson

    @ lacey

    When in the hell did bernie say it was a damn need. Learn how to read okay, its not that hard to read and then comprehend. geez.

  • Ready Set Go

    I don’t know how to answer the question, but one look at the above pic of Puffy and Fiddy gettin’ it in will most certainly keep me from going gay. Yuck.

  • http://www.yahoo.com Leon Peterson

    @READY SET GO,

    REMEMBER YOUR STATEMENT TODAY 06/11/09 AT 4:46 MY TIMES, “I don’t know how to answer the question, but one look at the above pic of Puffy and Fiddy gettin’ it in will most certainly keep me from going gay. Yuck”

  • Stupid Post

    @Leon- Sure you know every word to your “fairy tale” bible.
    You and your “butty” continue to through out unsubstantiated generalities. For someone who claims to be “happy with being gay” you two are certainly a couple of sad “sacs.”

    Unlike you I don’t have to brag about what I’ve done or have but you feel the need too -perhaps to validate your gay lifestyle and self worth.

    Call on Jesus’ name as much as you like ’cause he still does not support your sin nor your misinterpretation of the bible.

    Spend your time spouting off about the joys of homosexuality. Continue to be abrasive, bigoted and small minded. Continue to the point that your prejudice is burned into the minds of the straight voters on this forum.

    You are certainly the poster child for voting “no” on any gay rights legislation.

    This conversation is over, majority rules!!!

  • http://www.bossip.com BMWdriver540i. …… .Looking at the haters thru my rearview

    @ Leon Peterson
    You are a 1 sick puppy

  • http://www.yahoo.com Leon Peterson

    @BMW 540i with a 1998 745i picture,

    Thas says everything about you right there!!
    That is something a straight man would do is call his screen name a 540i and have a picture of a 740/745i.

  • Hotgirl69

    ok why does ole boy with the Jersey remind me of 50 cent and dude with the tats remind me of Lloyd Banks? I’M GOING STRAIGHT TO HELL FOR THIS!

  • http://www.bossip.com BMWdriver540i. …… .Looking at the haters thru my rearview

    @ Leon Peterson

    Not only are you a sick puppy your a retarded blind homo if you knew your cars like you think you do you’d know a 2002 540i when your looking at it HA what f!@#ing loser trying to talk ish about someone elses education level or who’s talking to god see now that’s why I can only see you in my rearview ” I leave loser like you like I left yesterday behind me!”

  • MySoulIsFull

    dang, this post is still going…

  • Aww Man…

    OMG! This topic almost has a thousand comments.

  • HERE_WE_GO_AGAIN

    Born with a gay gene…I’ve heard it all. No such thing, God made man to multiply the earth. You’re a fool to believe what your anthropology professor taught you, READY SET GO.

  • CaneRiver1

    Even gay men need kindness, help and understanding. They are people too. I would not wish this situation on my worst enemy. This has got to be one of the hardest things to deal with all of a person’s life. I wish noone was gay. This is something I do not understand, but I will not stop trying. Wish there was a pill to make it go away. A lot of folks would have peace. It is , what it is.

  • Shanelle

    Yes.

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