Man this is sad but I know I’m not the only one who saw this coming it’s called karma people.

Karma

Okay, who didn’t see this coming?

WHAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gold

Dont worry Tameka, with two kids you’ll still be better off.

FINALLY HE GOT RID OF HER.. ITS ABOUT DAMN TIME…

funny how he got married when the gay rumors were getting heavy, guess she is no longer needed…

why do they look similar in this pic?
They look just like brthers! LOL
sike, I’m sorry yall!! ***snickering***

**smacking hand with ruler**

DAMN! Who saw that coming?? Chilli will be there to hold you Ursher!!

This just shut me up!!! All the times people have said she had “something” on him, that the kids were “investments” and so on. I’ve argued it’s REAL LOVE. Now I don’t know what to say.

I got won 5 dollars!!!! Thanks Ush!

Too bad…I hate to see another black couple hit the fan.

what about for better, for worse…

didn’t think it would take this long

Just, I mean just. I type toooo fast

Everyone seen this coming, he even seen it coming. Maneka is gone on to the next.

@leesha
So true…she knew karma was coming too. That’s why she got pregnant so fast. Two child support checks….coming up!!

IMO, Usher is bisexual anyway!!

CONGRATS…

His momma told him!!!!!!!!!! next time listen to your momma……………..he has two beautiful sons………WHOA……..

WOW! She pumped out two lil ushe’s for him now he want a divorce? He will soon discover it is cheaper to keep her, cause child-suppor bout to take a bite out his azz!

not surprised!!!

And I saw her on Twitter (as usual, talking about creature features. Let me find out she doesn’t even know. *DEAD* lol

HONESTLY, I DIDN’T SEE THIS COMING…

Sounds like the second kid was a “try to fix relationship kid”. Mind you the child was conceived about three months after the first. Trouble in the relationship existed VERY early. The plastic surgury was to try to make this work with a new and improved body. This is truly karma for all the bad she has place on this world. Take this as a learning lesson. God gives you two chances to correct yourself — once in private and then in public. Guess she had to learn in public.

How the he!! your wife gonna have 2 young kids, and you “don’t know” she flew to BRAZIL for some plastic surgery?!?!?! Was she gonna fly out right quick and come back same day before he got home??????????????????????

@Aliehs

LMAO…I could’ve won some money too…somebody was like “put money on it” and I said naw, I didn’t want to put money on somebody’s marriage ending. But I should’ve…lmao

IDK why I just knew this was not going to work.

Her first HUGE mistake was ALIENATING HIS FANS….his fans were here before she was and when his album flopped he ran and got MOMager back. I knew her papers were coming shortly afterwards…SMH

STOP LYIN!
well, I don’t think I feel bad for her, considering she will be well taken care of (and that’s all she wanted), BUT, and I have to say this – why did they have those damn kids?!?!?
This should serve as a warning to all those men that disregard what their momma’s say about a woman! Take heed, listen up! We know what we are talking about….

First of all this is not a shocker or even real. He did so well with ConfessionsII due to the Chili situation and since the last album flopped only confirmed that this was a plot. I remember reading right when they first went public with their relationship that the plan was to marry Tameka and then divorce, come out with a new album which will “detail” the “situations” he went through while married to an older woman. Similar to the whole Chili performance/relationship so the whole marriage was staged from the jump. Dont beleive me? Just wait for the album. Tameka new from the jump also and after 2 more children TRUST she will be well taken care of for her participation. Get yo money girl!!

im sad.

YAY!!!WHAT TOOK HIM SO LONG!!HE’S FINALLY SEEN THE LIGHT!!!TIME TO START MAKING GOOD MUSIC AGAIN

LET IT BURN USH, LET IT BURN…

She did it,gold digger,but she had him two sons..

To bad, and the babies are just babies!!

DAMN DAWG!!!

EVERYBODY WAS TRYING TO TELL YOU NOT TO MESS WITH THAT OLD A$$ BROAD, NOW LOOK… SMH

MOMMA KNOWS BEST NI@@A!!!

They (mothers) can smell a no good woman a MILE AWAY!!!

Well at least you got good material for you next album… SMH I feel another classic coming on… Artist do their best work when they’re going through it… Sad but true…

Is Chili still single? Does anybody know?

i m not surprise. Usher is too immature for my liking.

Usher! I can give u some pretti babies no need to holla! LOL!

@ universalbliss … co sign

@ms truth

Take this as a learning lesson. God gives you two chances to correct yourself — once in private and then in public. Guess she had to learn in public.
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I love that!!

no he can go chop Rhiannas ass, everbody else does….

She got you for 18 years… SMH

and

Half of your hard earned money

BIG DUMMY!!!

Who got Nas phone number?
They can do a few tracks together = CLASSICS!!!

@ms. truth
God gives you two chances to correct yourself — once in private and then in public. Guess she had to learn in public.
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wow…very profound. I’ve never heard this “saying” before but it is very, very true IMO….thanks. Learned something new today

This is truly sad, I know most ppl didnt think it would last anyway, what’s up with people just not staying together, and not to mention there are kids involved.. just sad.

hahahahaa… YES.. she was a fool from the begining..and he was an even bigger fool for marrying her…but why would u have kids with someone who is so trifilin….i mean STANDARDS!!!! sad!!!!!!!!11

me (the original)®

Okay, who didn’t see this coming?
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Yeah, you are right, but its still a terrible thing to see anyone get divorced, even more so w/kids

The grown ups can fend for themselves, but I feel sorry for those two little tykes. Sad, indeed.

The Usher Retirement Plan:

Just 40 years old, 2 kids by Usher, never have to work a day again in her life.

ALL I CAN DO IS SMFH…. Usher, u were a moron from the get go… MOMS know best! NOW SHE GONNA TAKE ALL UR $$$!!! FOOOOL!!!!

Viola Davis Brown

DAMN! Who saw that coming?? Chilli will be there to hold you Ursher!!
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I hope she is not that foolish

i actually feel sorry for Temeka. She has been catching HELL from Ushers fans since she stepped on the scene. We don’t know the details of their marriage or divorce so I am going to leave it at that.

SHOMONDO

WOW! She pumped out two lil ushe’s for him now he want a divorce? He will soon discover it is cheaper to keep her, cause child-suppor bout to take a bite out his azz!

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He would have had to support his kids with or without her, now maybe he will p.o’d cause he has to give her spousal support.

YOU BIG DUMMY!!!

You could have DAMN NEAR ANY woman in the world and you chose an OLD broad WITH kids? WTF???

When YOUR mother is NOT down with it – you gotta go with her instincts NI@@A, it’s not something as little as a song choice or an outfit to wear = it’s the REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!

NOW you gotta deal with her for the REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!

People let this be a lesson to you = SOMETIMES you HAVE TO listen to your friends and FAMILY on MAJOR decisions that you are going to make…

ABOUT TIME!!! As soon as he married her, his career was over!

She’s good. He cutting the check of course, they still gonna be cool, just divorced.

Seriously now who didn’t see this coming?

Usher made her sign a PRENUP. He is dumb but he is not that dumb.
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@Back On My Swag

Oh ok, good looking out… WHEW!!!

But she’s still gonna come somewhat ok…

It’ll be interesting to see what she ends up with… SMH @ myself for sound like a nosey b…..

who marries a woman thats willin to leave her family?….just dumb….

thats sad,feel bad for the kids,Usher may have married her because she was pregnant,alot of times it never works when you only marry someone because they get pregnant,I’m sure he had feelings for her,think they rushed into it so soon

Odetta…i remember when i read something like that a few years ago, this scenario could be true.

He knew she was a criminal all allong….a few years ago he labelled her as his own personal stalker and instructed everbody to keep her away from him as far as possible !!! How can you marry someone like that & have two kids with her ?

P.Diddy always bragged about how he introduced Usher to groupies and sex….i think Usher lost his virginity to him and told Tameka in a weak moment when she was his stylist ? She then used this against him until she got what she wanted two kids(aka life long paycheck)

Chris Brown took his spot….now is the perfect time to be a singleman and reclaim that spot again, smart move Bro !!!

There is no business like showbusiness, the only series that comes closest to the truth is “Dirt”

To All the Men and Boys out there, MOM know BEST WHEN IT COMES TO DATING WOMEN. LISTEN TO YOUR MOM NEXT TIME USHER.

Oh yeah, to all the black women out there, Don’t be mad at Usher when he marries a white woman next. The way we dogged Meka and this marriage. I would not be surprised if Usher go to the other side.,

@ Anonymous

i actually feel sorry for Temeka. She has been catching HELL from Ushers fans since she stepped on the scene. We don’t know the details of their marriage or divorce so I am going to leave it at that
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I agree with you…

I feel sorry for the kids..

I had hoped they would work it out…

Ursher is not as big as he used to be and

I believe that he hit his peak, AFTER the break up

w/ Chili… I wish them an amicable resolution, if

you can call it that…

My mother-in-law hates black people so she disliked me with a burning passion.

Most mother-in laws don’t even like the woman of their own race for their son.

So there is no rule when it comes to his mother liking you.

@Baller

To All the Men and Boys out there, MOM know BEST WHEN IT COMES TO DATING WOMEN. LISTEN TO YOUR MOM NEXT TIME USHER.
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true, he could’ve saved time and money, no kids, if he had’ve listened…

@Baller

Oh yeah, to all the black women out there, Don’t be mad at Usher when he marries a white woman next. The way we dogged Meka and this marriage. I would not be surprised if Usher go to the other side.,
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not mad, his career, has been

over for a while, the only one that

doesn’t know is Ursher…

BTW: I never dogged Meka until he started calling Chris names and his situation was no better, she was abroad having heart attacks instead of working out…You never see them together and when you do,
the blogs get ugly…i dk why…

…finally!…

…was a long time coming…

…this is what happens to relationships conceived of DECEIT…

…there, I said it!…

.

[...] Source [...]

Sad to hear. Two years isnt hardly enough time to really WORK on a marriage. Somebody is just giving UP..bottom line.

HALF

@Dont Listen to your Mom Guys!!!!!

My mother-in-law hates black people so she disliked me with a burning passion.

Most mother-in laws don’t even like the woman of their own race for their son.

So there is no rule when it comes to his mother liking you.
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that should’ve been your first hint

you will have trouble all the way through

why go through it, if you don’t have to?

anywho, i wish them both luck, ursher will be

paying for this, for a long time, even after the

checks, stop coming in…

Dr. Winkie

Dont worry Tameka, with two kids you’ll still be better off.
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…make that five children, not two…

.

My question is this? Why in the hell did Usher marry her in the first place. He should have stayed with CHILI.

I DONT condone DIVORCE BUT Usher is better off

how come us regular folks saw this coming and he didn’t? even his mother saw this coming.

Too bad for Tameka I was hoping that they would wither through the storm but I guess Usher got bored with his cougar.

I knew it! Man, Tameka got her hustle on lol… Those 2 kids fixin 2 be a nice little paycheck 4 her each month….

Mother always knows best! He should have listend to his MOMMY! I’m sorry for the kids and for him because she got him good, two babies…she will be getting a check for the next 18yrs! He better get to singin!

Ummm, this is an L for Usher, they don’t have a pre-nup (if I remember correctly)

It was clear to me that when they decided to be together, it was during a down-turn in Usher’s career. She probably fed him all the words and encouragement he needed to hear, and took the opportunity while it was available. I have never liked her vibe. Anybody who uses somebody else’s misfortune as their own gain is transparent from the beginning. Her motives were never clean or pure and what made me even more skeptical of her intentions what the fact that she dropped TWO babies so quickly.

Move on, Usher. In the word of BBD: That girl is…POISON!

…everyone’s blaming Tameka (as always, it’s the woman’s fault in a divorce) but Usher’s the KING OF PUNKS for this relationship…

…I hope his life is miserable for the rest of his days, for all the heartache and b!tchassness he’s responsible for…

twitter.com/E_Wanjiru

HE MOVIN ON TO A WHITE WOMAN NOW IM SURE..SHE WONT GIVE HIM “ANY PROBLEMS” AT ALL, LOL.

Go Orlando!!! Check out the SuperMan Track…Big Up to D-Howard and R. Lewis. youtube.com/majorgrowth…

I’M SOOOOOOOOO HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
USHER DESERVES BETTER!!! (not b/c of tameka’s looks either! b/c I think she’s pretty but b/c HE WASNT HAPPY!!!!)

WHO COULDNT HAVE SEEN THIS COMING…

well, hopefully, he and brandon [his one true love, you know, the medical student] can come forth and be free and open with their love … ooops, did i say that out loud? lol

@ Tameka, full disclosure!…

…let this punk’s fans know what he is REALLY about…

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@Dont Listen to your Mom Guys!!!!!

My mother-in-law hates black people so she disliked me with a burning passion.

Most mother-in laws don’t even like the woman of their own race for their son.

So there is no rule when it comes to his mother liking you.
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this has a bit of truth to it because we are leary of all women (after all, we ARE women and know to what extent other women will go to get/bag/marry/trap/whatthef*ckever a good man, so you have to feed them all with a long handled spoon, so to speak, until you can sort out the bullshyt from the keeper. But when your son tells you this is the woman I love and am going to spend the rest of my life with, a good decent mother would respect that regardless of personal opinion, UNLESS she felt beyond a shadow of a doubt that she was not the one! Usher has been super close with his mom his whole life, and they literally fell out over this woman. Let’s not forget, she knew Tameka from before they were married as well… Mom’s know more than you give them credit for when it comes to their kids and that “sixth sense”, which pops up at the weirdest times…

As for your situation, the bytch was a racist, so that’s totally different…. (j/k! I jest!)

Damn, does anyone work things out now-a-days? Shit, I’ve been with my wife since 1996 and we’ve outlasted a whole lot of other peoples marriages.

SMH @ People who get married just to get divorced 5 years later.

and for the record … USHER WAS TURNED OUT BY P DIDDY – HE DON’T CARE FOR GIRLS like that …

THATZ HIS LOVER BRANDON ,…LOL, WELL AINT NO STOPPING HIM NOW ,..BRANDON CAN NOW OPERATE OPERATE ON HIS PROCEDURE …URSHER! GET GURL!

He’s too late. Divorce doesn’t matter now–Tamika got what she wanted…his kid! He’s going to support them financially for at least 18 more years! I would kill myself, lol…

Lesson learned: if a woman has jail time in her past, then don’t consider taking her anywhere past the bedroom…and use a condom! He got played…

Divorce is not something to rejoice about. I wonder how many of you know these people to make assumptions about their marriage and why it failed. Tameka has been pitted as the villain, but it takes two to tango.

Usher is a grown man who does not need his mother to choose his girlfriends or his wife. If he makes a mistake it is his right to do so. A grown man should never cling to his mother and allow her to control or sway his decision making.

I hope that They can have an amicable divorce for the sake of the children.

Songs from the Up and Coming Usher and Nas collabo:
- No Good B*tches
- Scandalous Ho’s
- That B*tch Wants Half
- She Got Me For 18 Years

I guess I’m slow, I never knew she left her husband/family to be with Usher, I no longer feel sorry for her, Karma, Karma and then some,,

I dont know what to say..

I got marreid and divorced with a 5 year marriage. Hell I am better off with out him. Some things you dont learn about a person until you get married. Some marry to young and grow apart. Others too soon and dont know the person they married. Other marriges are in the public too much. Its life.

I guess the spell wore off, lol…

At least she has her investment “The Kids”.

Time to put that pre-nump to use Ush.

Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

Songs from the Up and Coming Usher and Nas collabo:
- No Good B*tches
- Scandalous Ho’s
- That B*tch Wants Half
- She Got Me For 18 Years

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*****Dead*******

Major Growth

Go Orlando!!! Check out the SuperMan Track…Big Up to D-Howard and R. Lewis. youtube.com/majorgrowth…
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Co-sign, on The Go Orlando

@too cute

What’s up. Can we chat. Is that you in the picture.

More songs from the Up and Coming Usher and Nas collabo:
- I Shoulda Listened To My Ni@@as
- Why Didn’t I Wear A Condom
- F*ck That B*tch
- Doomed From The Beginning

Anonymous@2:04>>>You are one of the only sensible voices speaking today. No one on here (unless you are a personal friend of Ushers or Tameka’s) knows the details of their relationship. You only go by what you’ve read. And why are people bringing Chilli into this. They’ve split up long ago and have both moved on.

I’m sorry to hear this, for their babies sake.

Lesson learned…Never come between a son & momager…. Tameka actually thought she can come between a woman who made Usher the man he is today????….. biotch please!!!!!

I guess you can play captain saveahoe when you’re walkin’ round wantin’ people to think [no homo] (in Jim Jones voice)

@ Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

More songs from the Up and Coming Usher and Nas collabo:
- I Shoulda Listened To My Ni@@as
- Why Didn’t I Wear A Condom
- F*ck That B*tch
- Doomed From The Beginning
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LMPRAO!!! Hilarious!

[...] and stylist Tameka Foster have been living apart for the past year, according to U.S. publication In Touch. Divorce papers were filed in Atlanta, Georgia on Thursday morning (11Jun09). The shocking news [...]

In any other case, I would hate to hear about divorce, but I called this when it happened. Plus I have a homegirl that knows “people” and word is Ursh like men, Tameka knew about it and her comes the ring and babies.

DL or Not, I hope dude had a pre-nup. Tameka might have been a beard, but she dropped two kids so I’m guessing she’ll be just fine 6 kids or not.

WHY WOULD JUSTIN TIMBERFAKE BE LAUGHING ,…HE TRIED TO GET WITH URSHER TOO!

@Brooklyn, Stand UP!

Thanks, Fam!!!

Hey, have you ever had a friend or family member who was gonna marry a young lady that you didn’t think he should marry?

and

Do you think y’all (Brooklyn Nets) are gonna get LeBron or do you think he’s going to the Knicks?

o its been a long time coming,
i know usher and tameka wont make it
o its been a long time comming – and i know
usher was gonna leave her –
o its been a long time comming –
that usher was gonna cheat – usher wasnt ready to settle with some old wash kitty — its been a long time comming

He should have married her in the first place.

ITS ABOUT TIME.

I mean shouldnt have.

and it finally came o yeaa

He should have just gotten the White or Light piece from the beginning, like he probably wanted, and not wasted his time.

A Black man actually willing to “work” on a relationship with a Black woman? Rare, but some exist, but they are mad old…lol

SLIDE!
1. CUZO NO I WOULDNT MARRY A CHICK I WAS WARNED ABOUT…..
, REGARDLESS HOW FINE,
2. MY MOM OPINION COMES 1ST! MOMS KNOW THESE THINGS.

3. AND NO DISRESPECT TO TAMEKA BUT I WOULDNT HAVE MARRIED HER IF I WAS URSHER, HE COULD HAVE MARRIED ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD ,..BUT NOT TAMMY!

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

Chilli and usher have broken up many years ago. It is childish to keep bringing up this woman’s name while saying he should of stayed with her because of her looks. People don’t know what transpired during their courtship nor is it anyone’s concern. They came to an end for good reasons. It is rude to suggest that someone should of stayed with an ex because of their looks. That is not an antidote for a successful, meaningful relationship. That is superficial thinking that will get you in a lot of trouble if that is how you choose your mates.

TWINZ MAMA!
HEY HEY PRETTY MAMA YOU LOOK SWEET!
I TRULY, BELIEVE THESE BLK MALE CELEBS MARRY AND FAKE THESE RELATIONS TO PLEASE THE PUBLIC, I KNOW THESE PPL HAVE TO HARBOR SOME GAY FEELINGS AFTER THEY MAKE IT IN THE SPOTLIGHT!

Although this whole relationship made me a little angry because Tameka left her entire family to be with this guy, I hate to see any union end. Marriage is HARD but it gets easier when both parties involved are committed to the progress of their children and CONSTANT compromise.

Word on the street is that the 1st baby isn’t his! Maybe he got the paternity test back. This divorce was kinda of abrupt.

I couldn’t say it any better MOMOFTWOBOYS. The main concern period is those young BOYS.

Its sad how folks attack the sista and wish him well, one never knows if he was faithful during the whole thing since its known he cheated on Chili why would one think it not possible he continued. They have two kids and regardless of eithers past there is still the matter of their well being. If this move on his part was to get back on top of his game and being married isn’t as attractive when trying to woo the ladies thats some selfish shyt. i have no clue what the deal is but hate to see another couple go the way of divorce……she should have gotten pointers from Doug Christies wife on how to keep ya husband then they’d be str8….LMBAO

Hey ladies! I wanna know somethin. Which one of yall likes Courvoisier and doin it in the butt? huh??

Huh?

This is no news, i am just surprised they lasted this long.

It was doomed from JUMP!!! People – LISTEN TO YOUR MAMA! they only have your best interest at heart. His mother didn’t want anything but the best for him, but he wouldn’t listen. Now she done had herself 2 kids for him – i promise you – he hasn’t seen or heard the last of that woman. He’s an idiot – if he’d only listened to his FANS…oh wells, i hate to say it – but WE TOLD YOU SOO…..

Al Green, Pork Skins, Courvoisier, and doin it in the butt. Huh?

IF EVERY LITTLE BLACK BOY WAS DOOMED TO FAIL BECAUSE HE WAS RAISED IN A SINGLE-PARENT HOME

THE NBA AND NFL WOULDN’T HAVE SO MANY ATHLETES THANKING THEIR MAMA’S AND NEVER MENTIONING THEIR FATHERS-HOW MANY FAMOUS BLACK ATHLETES HAVE DONE

THAT…..YEAH TOO MANY TO COUNT

LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT-NICCAS MAKE EXCUSES & BLAME OTHERS OR FOR WHY THEY ARE NOT SUCCESSFUL

BLACK FOLKS-MAKE THE BEST OUT OF THE HAND THEY WERE DEALT

I ALWAYS THOUGHT..AND STILL THINK..SHE KNOWS SOME PERSONAL INFO ABOUT HIM THAT HE DONT WANT TO GET OUT SO HE WIFED HER AS PART OF THE DEAL.

THEM BABIES GONNA BE ALRIGHT , NOT WORRIED ABOUT THAT! URSHER THAT OTHER FAG NEYO STEALING YOUR SHINE ,..I CANT FUK TO NEYO MUSIC, …WE NEED THE OL URSHER BACK TO MAKE THEM GOOD FUK TUNES!

this has a bit of truth to it because we are leary of all women (after all, we ARE women and know to what extent other women will go to get/bag/marry/trap/whatthef*ckever a good man, so you have to feed them all with a long handled spoon, so to speak, until you can sort out the bullshyt from the keeper. But when your son tells you this is the woman I love and am going to spend the rest of my life with, a good decent mother would respect that regardless of personal opinion, UNLESS she felt beyond a shadow of a doubt that she was not the one! Usher has been super close with his mom his whole life, and they literally fell out over this woman. when it comes to their kids and that “sixth sense”, which pops up at the weirdest times…
@misunderstood
thank you for that comment.You’re right that if I knew one of my sons were genuinely happy,I would back off .That sixth sense is something else though!lol!It creeps up when you least expect it.I think the sad part was the way he went against his mother for her because at the end of the day,wives and girlfriends can always be traded in for newer models but not mama!!!!lol!

HEY AND WHEN HE MARRIED HER HIS STOCK PLUMMETED OVER NIGHT ,..THAT WAS A STRANGE COMING TOGETHER WITH THEM TWO!

enkogkneegro

I don’t always agree with your views but I see you have some sense of morality. Usher was a known cheater and slept with superhead. We don’t know if this behavior continued throught the marriage with Tameka. A lot of people don’t respect the sanctity of marriage and it is sad. There are 2 children to consider who will never have the comfort of mommy and daddy raising them together. That certainly is not something to be elated about.

everybody seen this coming, well she will be well paid, at least till the kids are 18

1. Why are people still on that Chili and Usher past relationship drama? Move on, and when Chili was asked about the type of man she was attracted to, she said, The Rock.So, Chili wants a man that is exotic looking, build like a man , that can lay the smackdown. So, people really need to get off that Chili and Usher drama. She wants a man that is exotic looking, and Usher married a woman that looks like his mama. Case closed.

NOW THERE SOME GALS THAT WILL NEVER MEET MOM ,…THEIR FREAKY IN NATURE WILL GIVE IT AWAY, MOM WILL PEEP GAME!

Damn, does anyone work things out now-a-days? Shit, I’ve been with my wife since 1996 and we’ve outlasted a whole lot of other peoples marriages.

SMH @ People who get married just to get divorced 5 years later
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It’s such a shame. People in this modern day and age don’t realize that a marriage is actually meant to be for LIFE. Not for some-odd years and a few days. That is the whole purpose of reciting your vows before God and your family. Marriage is a life-long commitment!

However, I feel that if a married couple is experiencing problems, they should WORK IT OUT first and not just dipset. Marriage takes a lot of time and effort to make it last. If that attempt fails, then I understand filing for divorce.

@ Brooklyn, Stand UP! —> I commend you for making your marriage last!

@Glok9n

WE NEED THE OL URSHER BACK TO MAKE THEM GOOD FUK TUNES!
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Wow!!! No comment…LMAO

PILLOW BYTERS GET HICKIES ON THEIR NECKS ,..I GUESS!

IF EVERY LITTLE BLACK BOY WAS DOOMED TO FAIL BECAUSE HE WAS RAISED IN A SINGLE-PARENT HOME
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@intensemocha

Sweetheart, our President was raised in a single-parent home and by his Grandparents…

Hate to be negative, the Lord knows I do…But I’m very happy right about now on about this news…STAY BLACK!

HE SHOULD HAVE NEVER MARRIED THAT DRAG QUEEN IN THE FIRST PLACE. SHE WAS TOO OLD FOR HIM AND SHE’S STUPID. ABOUT TO KILL HERSELF FOR A FLAT STOMACH WHEN SHE WAS STILL GOING TO BE UGLY THAN A MF. KUDOS TO USHER! LETS JUST HOPE HE CONTINUES TO BE A GOOD FATHER TO HIS CHILDREN.

NOW THERE SOME GALS THAT WILL NEVER MEET MOM ,…THEIR FREAKY IN NATURE WILL GIVE IT AWAY, MOM WILL PEEP GAME!
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@Glok9n

I did that before and I will NEVER do that again… SMH

Mom Dukes sniffed ol’ girl out and called me out about it with a dirty a$$ look = LMAO!!!

@ Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

I haven’t had that experience of having a family member marrying a young girl that I didn’t approve of.

And no, I don’t think the “Brooklyn” Nets will get LeBron… I see him going to the Knicks before the Nets.

@Glok9n

ROFLMAO… naw ur not lying, but me personally… I was never an Usher stan like that. I was more on Kels… TP2? That’s that ish right there (shhh… don’t tell nobody)

@The Twinz Mama..this will be history repeating itself his mother raised him and he had money young too.. hope his sons don’t turn out as gay as he is, and the kids will be able to look online and see everything they mother went through if he doesnt think that will effect the what they think of him he is crazy.

Shocked but not surprised, it could have ended up like Whitney and Bobby…

@ AsiaA -

“When his head was shaped like a cone.” LOL!!!!!
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I don’t know these people personally and, I wasn’t in the marriage;so, I can’t say Tameka is evil or Usher is Bi/Gay. What I can say is that it’s always sad when a family breaks up. It was sad that the 2 of them broke up her family in order to be together. It’s sad now that their family won’t make it together.

@Honey Model — (“Pretty Wings” by Maxwell is my song!)

Thanks! It’s not easy.

1. CUZO NO I WOULDNT MARRY A CHICK I WAS WARNED ABOUT….., REGARDLESS HOW FINE,
2. MY MOM OPINION COMES 1ST! MOMS KNOW THESE THINGS.
3. AND NO DISRESPECT TO TAMEKA BUT I WOULDNT HAVE MARRIED HER IF I WAS URSHER, HE COULD HAVE MARRIED ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD ,..BUT NOT TAMMY!
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@Glok9n

YEP!!!

I’m the same way too… If there’s no trust and my good friends ESPECIALLY MY FAMILY are telling me NO don’t do it!!!

I’ve learned my lesson before and NEVER again will I mess with a girl that I don’t trust and be having people give me tiny warnings… F*ck that…

I got a VERY GOOD Mother and I THANK GOD that she’s my mother because she’s shown me:
- what a good woman is
- what a good mother acts like
- what a good wife does (*no matter what my father does she’s by his side and corrects his monkey a$$ when he’s wrong… SMH)

And through her wisdom that she’s gained throughout the years and her knowing and wanting what’s best for me I know she’s got my best interest at heart…

I NEVER understood why this ni@@a married this chick in the first place = she’s OLDER and had 3 kids ALREADY?

This conehead ni@@a could damn near have ANY woman that he wanted and he chose her? WTF???

BK STAND UP!
LOL, MOMS COOL,… BUT GRANNY! ,..OHHH GLORY!

@Glok9n: The real glok !!! Lev 20:13

lol!! That’s love.

You reap what you sow. The way they got together in the first place was dirty. She knew what she was doing. She got two of his babies. I wouldn’t be surprised if she goes back to her first husband now. Just dirty.

@pm

@The Twinz Mama..this will be history repeating itself his mother raised him and he had money young too.. hope his sons don’t turn out as gay as he is, and the kids will be able to look online and see everything they mother went through if he doesnt think that will effect the what they think of him he is crazy.
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Of course it does, but it is what it is. I think for me (and maybe a lot of other people) this one comes as no surprise. I’m always hurting for the kids, being a mother myself, but you can’t put it all on Usher. Tamkea is just as guilty for what they kids may or may not see online. Wasn’t she messing with him while she was MARRIED to her other kids father? This was doomed before it even happened.

SLIDE!
AMEN TO ALL THAT, YOU HAVE STRONG BLK MOM LIKE ME MAN,…BUT IF YOU FIND A STRONG WOMAN LIKE MOM NO MATTER HOW MANY KIDS ID GIVE IT A SHOT, YOU MAY REGET THAT CHILD ONEDAY, HE/SHE MAY GROW UP AND DO BIG THINGS ,…..AND IT AINT FUN BEING LEFT OUT THAT CIRCLE AND FUK FRIENDS THEY WOULDA HAVE MOVE ON !!!

PM
THIS BREAK UP GOT YOU HEATED I SEE , NO ONE LINERS IN THIS BYTCH TODAY?, IVE NEVER SEEN YOU TYPE SO MUCH CUZO,…. AND CURSE OUT PPL MOMZ?? LMAO!

@Brooklyn, Stand UP! –
@Honey Model — (”Pretty Wings” by Maxwell is my song!)

Thanks! It’s not easy.
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I 2nd that…Easy come, easy go…
anything worth having is worth fighting for. I’m a firm believer in that….

I bet he found out dat new baby ain’t his!!! LMFAO

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LMMAO,MAN ALL MY CHICKS LOOK LIKE THAT ,..FINE AND NO MATTER WHAT THEY WEAR SOMETHING POKING OUT… LOL, YOUR MOM GAVE YOU THAT DONT DO IT LOOK HUH? I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU MEAN, UNLESS IM READY TO DO THE DAMN THING ,NO MORE ENCOUNTERS WITH MOM!!

@Glok9n..lol ya all out of oneliners today glok I don’t know whats wrong with me. I don’t know why this break up got me heated lol

PM!
I SEE, YOU USUALLY JUST SAY SOMETHING FUNNY AND MOVE ON, BUT YOU IN HERE DEFENDING , GOT ME LMMAO!

Damn, we all knew it was coming!! Tameka is gona be hella paid. Usher should’ve listened to his Mama cuz u know Mama is always right!

@missunderstood (tomorrow will come and boy I can’t wait, it’s our anniversary!)

@Brooklyn, Stand UP! –
@Honey Model — (”Pretty Wings” by Maxwell is my song!)

Thanks! It’s not easy.
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I 2nd that…Easy come, easy go…
anything worth having is worth fighting for. I’m a firm believer in that….
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I learned that from wifey, lol…

I’m sure Usher has a good Pre-Nump in place.

To Everyone Celebrating Their Divorce…I’m sorry to rain on your parade, but they ARE NOT DIVORCING!!!

MUSIC
Usher and his wife have not filed for divorce
By RHONDA COOK

The Atlanta Journal-Constitution

Thursday, June 11, 2009

Atlanta-based pop start Usher and his wife, Tameka Foster, have not filed for divorce.

The celebrity magazine In Touch, quoting anonymous sources, announced that Usher and his wife had filed divorce papers in Fulton Superior Court Thursday morning, prompting a flood of media inquiries to the clerk’s office.

The magazine distributed a news release Thursday promoting an article in its next issue. The release said the couple has had marital problems for almost a year and “the divorce papers were filed in Atlanta this morning.”

Honey, Usher is gay as the day is long. It would be refreshing if he just came out the closet. We all know he is how you doin’.

I know Tamkea’s ex-husband is laughing at that azz right now. I knew this wasn’t going to work out. After that plastic surgery incident Ursher was ready to leave then. It was all about her new family, Ursher and his boys. I’m wondering to myself what happened to the last family. I know she is hella embarassed right now.

PM ! FEEL YOU CUZIN, DO YOU ITS GOOD TO SEE, I WAS ACTING ERATIONAL MYSELF LATELY,LOL!

@Nyah Molineaux

Every black man in the industry has at once point been called gay. Anyways who gives a damn. She was ugly and if Usher would have been with someone cuter maybe his kids woulda been cute too.

I bet she refused to wear condoms after the 1st kid since they’re “married”, and she probably hoped to get preggers again. and her plan worked. whether or not she wanted to be financially secure or she wanted her man, thats done.

@Tropical English…good .. cus if Ursher and Tameka can’t make it there is no hope for any of us, who’s next Michelle and Barrack

Not shocked….she pretty much blew it when she almost lost her life trying to keep up with all the other pretty women he was eyeballin all along !

@ Michelle

I thought it was a typo til I read the rest of your post. Yeah, I guess you are dumb enough to think women wear condoms. And, how many married women you know volunteering to wear condoms. Hmmm….. your papa should have.

he’s a dork. there was no reason for him to be with this awful woman in the first place, nor she with him. too bad they have little ones now to be caught in this drama. awful. awful. awful.

maybe he can get back to making good songs again

@AsiaA

……when his head was shaped like a cone.
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AHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAA! I just spit out my water b/c of this!

I knew it wouldn’t last.I am not surprised at all!

Kayess

Atlanta-based pop start Usher and his wife, Tameka Foster, have not filed for divorce.
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LOL @ “pop start”, you sure it didn’t say POP TART??

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…big deal, marriage is overrated anyways…look @ the divorce stats…what is it now? 60% in the US?…

*when life gives u lemons, throw them out – lemonade is overrated*

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@missunderstood

I 2nd that…Easy come, easy go…
anything worth having is worth fighting for. I’m a firm believer in that….
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I couldn’t agree with you more.

@Tropical English aka Tameka

lol – “Oh what a tangled web we weave, When first we practice to deceive”

Grow up n be a woman. Shame you have to do all of your own PR work and under false identities to boot. lol

For future reference – Usher only provides for the children.

I bet you if Tameka was some high yellow hoe with horse hair hanging down her azz,y’all woyuldn’t be dogging her out.

Shame on ALL of you.

If you met a great lady,I mean,well mannered,head on straight,intelligent,beautiful,even got along with your mother but she had a child and was a little older, would you have to pass?
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@CAT EYES

Big Sis, I don’t mess with either = older women or women with children…

*I have to admit it’s because of my mother’s influence since I was little for some odd reason she told me not to date women older than me and we’ve talked about the women with children thing when I take her out for Mother’s Day and on her Birthday…

I’m not no Momma’s Boy but I do respect my mother’s wisdom and advice…

It’s cool, the numbers are in my favor (Sista’s) and so I can be picky and choosy…

Your mom sounds like a great woman and its good to hear a man appreciate all the hard work and sacrifice a mother does daily,
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@CAT EYES

Since I know what a good woman is because I was raised by one, I know exactly what qualities I’m looking for in a spouse and they are basically the aforementioned…

I want my children to thank me when they grow up for choosing such a good woman to be their mother…

I DONT Believe None of this just yet …Can we say PUBLICITY STUNT !!!! Usher has an album coming out soon …. He is the master of stunts …

Yeah SoooooooooOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoOooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

I never believed they broke up!

Just like mariah- got married when the gay rumors got heavy. Well also for mariah da brat got sent away but nonetheless. karma Tameka- can’t feel sorry for her- she left three kids and husband for usher so its bound to happen sooner or later and she gonna get paid

i’m rooting for you tameka! hang in their, not all black women hate on other black women out of jealousy. there are still some of us out her sending well wishes your families way!!!!!!!

LOL at all these people who were HATING talking about they were divorcing but here it stands…NOBODY IS DIVORCING..sad how blacks get mad when a black man marries a whyte/other woman but CELEBRATE when black love is supposedly lost. My people are just wow!!!!

@ Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

Sounds like my mother advice that was given to me accept she put in not wanting working, unable to think for themselves, bad credit, and liers

i bet over half of these females on here hating on a wife/mother is just mad cuz they ghetto and can’t find a man to marry them. they wish they were in her shoes. instead of being happy for a black woman who made it they rather seethe with hate instead.

Hello, they married at his lawyer’s office so I am sure there is a good pre nup in place. THAT is why Manneka had two babies in record time. She knew her days were numbered and she wanted to secure her future!!! Think people.

PS–money talks and b/s walks. Manneka was not bullsh*tting around people. She was in it to win it.

PPS–while the divorce was not filed today, it is ONLY a matter of time. Should have married Chili anyway dumbass.

I Hope these 2 can work it out!!

I hope they work it out too, they have two kids together and need to really think about it, marriage is suppose to last forever, get a marriage counselor

I hope this not true Tameka stay strong lady and do what best for you and yours. You gonna win in the end baby.

If they are divorcing this is really terrible.

Marriage is just not valued at all anymore. How can they divorce with TWO small children and less than two years of marriage?

Tameka should have never left her first marriage. She owed it to that man to make it work and she BAILED for the ching ching. Now she will have TWO sets of children with part-time daddies.

I hope the hair dos and nail salon trips and fancy cars are worth it.

Sad thing is she is now OFFICIALLY done in the dating department. TWO ex husbands and 5 children = hit and quit it from here on out!

K to the A to the R to the M to the A….lol…I suppose after years of being a womanizer…it is finally catching up to him…Tom-ecka wearing him down

@ Caramel – It’s funny when people try to bring skin tone into the discussion. It has nothing to do with being light skinned or dark skinned. Chili wasn’t all that light skinned either and yet, you didn’t see such a backlash when those two were together! And she was also older than Usher too so stop it with the nonsense skin tone discussion.

Just face facts, people just don’t like Tameka for WHATEVER reason!

That said, I hope this wasn’t some sort of arranged marriage for publicity or a cover-up. These two need to work on their issues and take care of their family!

Peace

People don’t wanna lose their jobs, they have to play their role. The truth is very slowly coming out, just wait and see. And FYI, Meek-Meek has 30 days to receive the papers,, And when she does, she’ll make sure no one hears about it. Hell she barely hears from Usher. I may have spoke too much so I’m going to be quiet before I incriminate myself.

@Lady Star’s avee………….OMG, who dat???

twitter.com/E_Wanjiru

Yall need to stop hating on Tameka. She a strong-minded chocolate woman and we need more of her kind.

Go Orlando! Check out the “Superman” track…youtube.com/majorgrowth

I believe this is fake. She would have said something by now. His career is dead in the water. He just did a for ladies only concert and no feedback on if it was a full house or not. Not only that he was suppose to do multi cities. So his mother as his manager came up with the ideal of him being single.

I’m glad that it was just a rumor.

Those kids deserve to have both their parents in the home…

SMDH at how many people were so happy, that they split…

Not a good look.

Blk love is beautiful. I am FOR families staying together…

It looked like he wasn’t into her too much. The relationship looked forced too me.

MAGIC lost, oh damn!

“Usher’s primary concern is for his children. He is a great father and just wants to do what is right for them.”

If he cared about his kid he would be a good father and do everything possible to keep the family together for the kids!!!! Usher is a liar and he can handle the real life and she aint better cuz instead concetrating on surgery she should have done more observation how to keep the family tight!

This is disgusting!

lol – and all ya’ll were so darn happy at the thought of this couples marriage ending. i love it when haters are shut down. let is be a “swirl” couple and ya’ll start creamin in your jeans with happiness but you have done nothing but wish doom on this black couple. i hope you’re all eatin crow and i hope it taste horrible.

Well I wonder if he had an iron-clad prenup?

What’s with the ad on my post?!

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Keep it together for the kids?????????

Did anyone consider that for the first set of children/marriage?

I………THINK………..NOT!!!!!!!!

Anywho–I still have mixed emotions about this. As an African American woman, a part of me shows sympathy for Tameka–especially the way the public (and myself at times) trashed her. So much that she took things to heart and tried to alter her appearance when she should’ve just let well enough alone.

At the end of the day–these people are entertainers (or married to one) and we’ll always have opinions about them.

I just wished Tameka would take the high road and not let the public see how much she allowed them to control her life.

Even if some of the things typed about her are true, I hope she’s learned a valuable lesson and can concentrate on raising her children to be contributing memebers of society.

As far as Ursher–LMAO @ how people are calling him gay on one hand and pairing him BACK up with Chilli on the other.

Remember–Chilli was 6 years older than Usher, guys!

He might just like older women!

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