Usher and Tameka Foster Divorce is the Real Deal
Posted by Bossip Staff
Despite the spin job that went out yesterday stating that Usher and Tameka were not splitting up, the truth is, the two are heading for divorce and fast. Pop the lid for all of the details
Usher may have raced to his wife Tameka’s side when she apparently suffered cardiac arrest in February in Brazil, but according to sources, that was a brief reunion in an otherwise troubled marriage.
In fact, Usher is expected to file for divorce early next week, according to an insider.
But a source who knows Tameka Foster Raymond says the stylist is still referring to Usher as “my husband” and isn’t about to call it quits. “She’s been in his life for so long. She’s very loyal to him,” says the source who knows her. “Tameka is the type of woman to stick it out.”
Separate Lives
The R&B star, 30, and his wife of nearly two years, 38, have been leading separate lives for months, say sources. “A lot of that is because Usher has been in Vegas recording his new record,” explains one source. “He’s done his best to keep Tameka away.”Even while he’s home in Atlanta, a source who knows the couple – who have two sons, Usher Raymond V, 18 months, and Naviyd, 6 months – says the pair often fought.
“Usher has not been staying at home with her much lately,” says the source. “I rarely saw Usher around even before there were any children born.”
Troubled Romance
The marriage was filled with drama from the start. The couple canceled their July 2007 wedding on the morning of the big day. At the time, sources blamed their differing ideas for the event, as well as family matters: Usher’s mother, Jonetta Patton, did not approve of Foster Raymond (who was pregnant at the time), said a source.A week later, they tied the knot in the Atlanta office of Usher’s lawyer, then exchanged vows again during a lavish celebration on September 1. Patton reportedly was not among the 200 guests.
This past February, just two months after Naviyd’s birth, Foster Raymond nearly died while undergoing liposuction.
Living Single
Despite the couple’s brief reunion, Usher apparently has been acting like a bachelor lately. He has been linked to Island Def Jam staffer Grace Miguel, who works with his protégé Justin Bieber, and recently partied with a group of women during a trip to Miami.“It was a boy’s night out but there were girls,” says a local source. “He was in such a good mood!”
Meanwhile, Tameka is focusing on keeping her family happy. “She clearly loves her kids,” says the source who knows her. “She’s going to stay positive.”
Usher’s reps had no comment.
When your man stops answering your calls, moves out the house and parties with b*tches in Miami, that’s usually a sign that your marriage is over.
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Wow, I cant believe this!
I was rooting for their marraige to last. Why get married period if you are going to disregard your vows and divorce….for better or “worse”, till “death” do us part.
im sure she is a very nice person so i dont mean all that, but c’mon…hes BEEN way too good for her forevah! ursh is too much of a playboy to get locked down by her forever.
Wow!!
WHATEVER
That’s too bad. Black people are bad examples for marriage they don’t know how to stick it out anymore to concerned with the ways of the world instead of being concerned with what is really important. This is sad and sickning that blacks can’t get it together. No wonder blacks have the highest rate of AIDS.
Somebody getting paid.
child support?
I kind of feel bad for her. She had someone on Twitter mocking the end of her marriage and calling her a burnt cigarette, etc. Stuff like that has to sting.
But then again, if the rumors about her living foul prior to all of this is true, it’s like Biz Markie said…”What goes around, comes around, what goes around comes around..y’know what I’m talking about!”
I think its safe to stick a knife in ‘ol girl – looks to me like she’s done!
He really should have listened to his mother. She saw doom all along.
My badd…I think the phrase is “a fork”…
Did ya’ll hear Usher’s mother was at church dancing down the isle, saying thank you jesus!
im not falling for it until i see the papers…this nigha needs the publicity for his new album..it may be a stunt
I hate to say this, but I think he’s divorcing her for career purposes. He has gotten nothing but negative media attention ever since they began their relationship and it didn’t get better when they married. His last album DID NOT do well and I’m sure he thinks that his fans are turned off. I truly think that if his album sales were still off the charts and he was still as hot as he was during ‘Confessions’ we would be hearing of no such divorce…smh…
I DONT KNO ANY1 WHO DIDNT SEE THIS ONE COMING LOL!!! DONT KNO HER PERSONALITY BUT AS FAR AS LOOKS & SUCCESSFUL CAREERS GOES HE DEFINATELY COULD HAVE DONE BETTER. HER LIFE LONG ACCOMPLISHMENT IS MARRYING HIM AND GETTING PREGNANT TWICE!! BUT I AGREE SHE TRYIN TO HOLD OUT PROB CUZ THE MEAT WAGON IS CLOSING SHOP!! THEN AGAIN THERE IS CHILD SUPPORT SHE HAS HIS ONLY 2 SHE WILL RACK UP!! SAD WORKIN WOMEN WHO NEED THE HELP CANT GET IT & THEY WILL PROB GIVE TAMEKA FOSTER $30,000 A MONTH!!
he just needed her and the kids to hide that he is gay, it’s ok to be who u are these days everyone is gay. just stop the sharades
Why would anyone rejoice or want another persons marriage to fail? F*cked up black women.
I think he never really loved her in the first place.
PEOPLE NEED TO LEAVE THEM ALONE
Do hollywood/entertainment marriages ever last?
@ Caramel Cat
I truly think that if his album sales were still off the charts and he was still as hot as he was during ‘Confessions’ we would be hearing of no such divorce…smh…
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I think the divorce would have still happened. Usher should have listen to his Mama. I found it strange that a man like Usher who respects and loves his mama who all of a sudden fire her and then say he wanted as his mama and not his manager. She was always his mama first that will never change. You didn’t hear Usher say that crap when he was with Chill now did you? Chill should have forgiven Usher..he Confessed……..(confession cd) LOL
Chocolate Wisdom says…”One more case to prove that you cannot turn a ho into a housewife”
Come home to mamma baby… I’ll take you back and take good care of you.
Didn’t she leave her husband for Usher? Apparently she had kids by the dude as well, and was pregnant again with a child that everyone speculated was the husband’s. I just hate that Usher couldn’t see it, even though his mama told him the real deal. I feel she saw an opportunity to come up and took it. Now she getting what she gave…
@ Funny
That’s too bad. Black people are bad examples for marriage they don’t know how to stick it out anymore to concerned with the ways of the world instead of being concerned with what is really important. This is sad and sickning that blacks can’t get it together. No wonder blacks have the highest rate of AIDS.
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wow……….I can’t believe *****ody else picked up on you saying that. Like we’re the only ones who get divorced? This is a modern day Babylon. And we don’t run this country……even though there is a black president. A real black woman that marries a real black man has a marriage that can not be easily broken. Usher………do your thang, life is too short to waste on stupid stuff.
Paparazzi’s going to be camped outside Fulton County Courthouse until those papers are filed…. LOL….
@ Kash – We saw it but chose not pay attention to Funny’s dumbazz…..
@ Kash
I will say it again blacks are idiots when it comes to knowing how to have a keep a stable relationship they would rather be w*****s and *****s then respectable happy couples with a happy family. That is why blacks have the highest rate of AIDS because they have no respect and are w*****s.
Damn Tameka! Now you’re back to SQUARE One Again!.. that has to suck *****..
1st Marriage: Divorce (3-4) kids
2nd Marriage: Divorce (2)kids
If Usher was even her 2nd Marriage!
..Oh Well! better start looking for you next victim, and put that Lil Cooch on ICE!! lmao
@Naija Bekee
You didn’t pay attention because you are most likely one of those no good blacks I am talking about, You can suck a fat ***** *****. Still remains true that you blacks are w*****s of the worst kind.
LMAO at this comment…“She’s been in his life for so long. She’s very loyal to him,” says the source who knows her. “Tameka is the type of woman to stick it out.”
OK…this is coming from the same woman who left her previous husband whom she had i think 4 kids with to be with Usher. Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeezzz!!!
This woman needs to get over herself and face the fact that “karma” is coming right back to bite her in the azz. SMH @ Usher needing to be married with 2 kids now to see her for what she’s always been…an “Opportunist”.
Look it up y’all…. Those papers were filed…. DAMN!
You can laugh and giggle if you want but if he’s staying away from her, remember, he’s staying away from HIS KIDS too.
Tameka is getting what she gave her first husband – a public spanking and total disrespect. When your mans Mom doesn’t respect you and she is not the type of woman who just hates everyone her son dates then there is something to be said about how your relationship will exist. Usher’s Mom didn’t just hate Tameka – she hated Tameka’s game. I could NEVER have respect for a woman who cheated on her husband with my son and I would NEVER accept that relationship. I would respect my son’s decision but I would not parti*****te.
A relationship that begins on a lie is a lie..period and Tameka had a lot of skeletons in her closet. Not the type of woman you would want to call your daughter n law. Not to mention Tameka had the audacity to make Usher choose between his family and her…not a good look for a woman who was stepping out on her husband and not raising her own children. She has brought NOTHING but trouble to Usher from day one and now it’s time for him to say GOOD BYE!
Too bad so many marriages end in divorce with children left in the aftermath—baalck people please think before bringing all these kids to be left with one parent homes. God bless the children. g
wow…I think we all knew it was coming…I really didn’t see this relationship lasting long. I gave it a good 2 to 3 years…Usher will soon be back on the Market!!!
Sorry it didn’t work out..
STICK WIT YO WIFE MY *****. SHE LOOK HELLA COOL AND SHE HELLA LOYAL TO A *****. DONT GO OUT URSH. BUT THEN AGAIN SHE DID HAVE THAT ***** FUNKIN WIT MOMS THOUGH. BUT THEY CAN GET PAST THAT. USHER MIGHT ALSO BE WORRIED ABOUT HIS PAPER, HIS LAST ALBUM FLOPPED. THATS WHY HALLE BERRY READY TO CUT TIDES WIT THE WHITEBOY THAT LAST MOVIE FLOPPED. SHE GONE BREAK UP WIT BEFORE HER NEXT MOVIE COME OUT. USHER TRYNA SPEED THIS DIVORCE ***** UP TOO.
I saw this in the news yesterday.
Real talk–
I think it’s kind of messed up how things didn’t work out for them. Two small children not even three years old.
Wait a minute……….
Nevermind!!!!!!
@ 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals!!!™.–Featuring Michael’s Journee!! : i agree !
Nevermind !
@Tropical English aka Tameka
Learn to ride the background and keep your mouth shut.
It’s sad to see another marriage break up, probably because one or more of the usual suspects, infidelity, immaturity, or insensitivity. I pray for them both. Divorce is not fun for anyone.
It was easy to see the writing on the wall. She nearly died in Brazil and when she got better, he didn’t even stay with her long enough to bring her back to the States. I remember seeing those pictures of her coming back to the States and he wasn’t with her…but truly…what man who REALLY loves his wife would not be there? Whatever obligations he had, they would and could have waited for at least a week to make sure she was okay – I mean if he needed a month to handle this…people would have understood. He went down there made sure she would live and rolled out. Wow…really? That’s not a man who loves his wife and the mother of his children. That’s a man who only went because it would have looked very foul if he didn’t.
This was doomed from the beginning. Anything that begins with bad cir*****stances will not last. I know that ex-husband of hers is getting his laugh on right about now. It’s like her other kids don’t even exist. Word to Tameka GOD don’t like ugly.
It is about time he got rid of that old ***** granny. Get back into the game Usher that chick was dead weight.
There are too many fine ***** women out here for anybody in their right mind to be getting married.
Marriage sucks so bad, why did he get married in the first place.
I just want to say if this is true, Thank God he is getting a divorce. Now I can start being a fan again. He lost me when he got married to that old brawd.
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sexual chocolate, Your monkey. A really big monkey.
shut up you self righteous SOB…you knew this was coming. Yall know what type of woman she is – she can’t get a man her age so she conned Usher with her ready made family! so what now, she has 5 kids and no husband….sounds like a self inflicted wound to me. KNOW WHOM YOU ARE MARRYING!
FIRST!!! Ursh F’d the hell up marrying a biotch who was arrested for FOOD STAMP FRAUD! Thats the ultimate low for tax payers who help fund that ISH! 2nd, she was already married with 3 boys, and just eloped with Ursh, and you never heard from or saw any pictures, events, or sitings of her 1st 3 kids she had with her husband before Usher. Thats just weird, the husband is laying low for some reason. No tell all book from him, no slandering the broad who just left her family to be with Usher??? Usher, I thought he was alot smarter than that. Lastly, if his mother didn’t approve of her, she saw something much deeper than what Usher was seeing, obviously! I hope he is leaving this skank, she probably planned to this whole thing to marry Ursh, get some babies by him, fix her flabby ***** gut at Ursh’s expense, then go back to her husband and other kids, all
to sit back and collect a lil alimony, and child support for the next 18 damn years!!! Damn Ursh,
you done F*&k’d up now; hate to say it but
NOW YOU’VE BEEN OFFICIALLY CHOPPED & SCREWED!!!!
We knew it wouldn’t last. This is show business for God’s sake. But to be over so quickly???? Didn’t expect that.
I wish Tameka the best. I think she has problems, but got a raw deal from Usher’s fans and his mother. At least she will get child support.
One thing I will say for her. She looks like a strong woman, she’ll be okay.
…honestly, whatever!…
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This is sad… They have very young children who won’t get the privilege of growing up in a two parent home. They’re boys and probably won’t get a fair shot at growing up to be REAL men because their dad bailed on their mom when the going got tough! When you decide to marry, divorce shouldn’t be an option unless there are excruciating cir*****stances. You try your hardest to work through whatever problems you have. I didn’t get through 10years of marriage with the thought of divorce in the back of my mind every time things got hard. My husband and I agreed and made a promise to each other and GOD that it was for better or worse, until death! That’s how marriage should be. Maybe then we would have more strong black families blessing the world with successful, black kids for a better future. This is so sad.
A lot of you make yourselves seem really jealous and sick with the crabs in a bucket mentality! Grow up already no one know that woman’s walk and its a sad thing to see any family breakup especially when their are children involved and in my opinion she maybe getting another divorce if it’s true but at least she was his wife and not just another baby mother and that’s with all her children fathers so obviously she’s doing something right! People so busy worried about celebs in general need to get they own ***** together! Probably dont even have a man or women but sitting here happy for this beautiful family demise! I hope they do work it out if all this bull***** is true. Im praying for you guys.
From here on I decree, that usher should only mess with fine ***** women.
No more of the cougar loving nonsense, he should only be engaging in intercourse with women between the ages of 19 to 25.
Old the rest of you old foogies need not apply.
Why did he marry a woman who is as old as his mother or older, only God knows; but finally he has seen the errors of his ways and hopefully will correct them.
Go forth and plow thine fresh young tight vaginas, Sir Usher Raymond
@ sexual choclate is a monkey
sexual chocolate, Your monkey. A really big monkey.
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In the above statement I think you meant to say:
You are a monkey instead of Your monkey
Learn how to put your word together mother*****er, then ye shall return.
@954AlldaY
I’m going to pray for you because you seemed to have researched this and all kinds of other bull*****! At the end of the day her past didnt matter because if it did Usher would have never married her to began with! So call her ugly, flabby, ect. Dont matter she was still able to do what many women only wish for, and real men dont slander or bad mouth a women they were with, they move on and continue to handle their fatherly responsibilities!
@sexual chocolate
You’ll end up with AIDS with that mentality!
on my site, i have all of her updated tweets taht she deletes after she posts them, shes so weird! with her ugly azz
The divorce papers were filed today, 6/12 in Fulton County. Look it up people.
tameka
i’m in so sorry there are so many people in america who hate black women. these negros of ours always complaining about how the man is holding them down and we always play our position as ride or die chicks. yet the moment we have a problem a negro ain’t no where to be seen. then you have these black females with their ghetto selves who hate on other black females out of jealousy. it’s a dirty sin and a shame when black folks are rooting for the downfall of a black family…just want you to be just as miserable as they are. you hang in there girl, i’m still rooting for you and your fam!
@ mzprettylady
Balderdash, no I will not my dear lady. I use protection and never do I kiss these women in the mouth, so contracting HIV is out of the question.
I see no point in being stuck with one woman for life much less a shorter period of time.
He should just have sex and save himself the bull***** and court cost of dealing with a divorce.
What is better than having sex with someone new on a regular basis ?
and another thing, i hate usher for marrying this ugly hoe
Being a older female myself I just do not understand why after already having 2 or 3 kids you would get pregnant twice so fast. That shows something aint right with your brain and you are really insecure. Its sure seems to me that she wanted to prove to all the objectors that shes going to trap or keep Usher in her life, hell or high water. She knew exactly what she was doing, a desperate overly jealous old female trying to trap a young man. So sad!! I give it to his mother she saw right through tameka, and stood her ground. Mothers only wanted the best for their son. If a man has been so close to his mother and she does not like you and will not go to his wedding to you something is terribly wrong. I would think twice before rushing to marry, Like I said Tameka had something to prove to all the females. So now his mother is forever stuck dealing with this grinch because of the kids.
@ ashami…. I said that like two hours ago. I don’t know why these folks still up in here going back and forth talking about “if this is true” LOL….
@ cat4everrr…. Enough with your Angela Davis stance. This ain’t got nothing to do with jealousy or self-hate. Just accept the fact that people don’t like Tameka…. for whatever reason. They like Chili though and guess what, she’s BLACK too! Damn, as a matter of fact, just stfu!
lmao I can’t believe your serious! You can still catch STD’s with condoms in case you didnt know! And having sex is cool but having sex with random ppl all the time your bound to catch something sooner or later! Fool!
Naija Bekee
@ cat4everrr…. Enough with your Angela Davis stance. This ain’t got nothing to do with jealousy or self-hate. Just accept the fact that people don’t like Tameka…. for whatever reason. They like Chili though and guess what, she’s BLACK too! Damn, as a matter of fact, just stfu!
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my question for you is this, unless you know her personally what makes her better than the mother of his two children. is it because you think she’s prettier than tameka???????? bottom line- in your mind the fact that you feel chili is prettier than tameka justifies yet another black family breaking up leaving no father in the houselhold?!?!?!?!?!
YOU SEE PEOPLE, THIS IS THE PRESENT STATE OF BLACK FOLK IN THIS COUNTRY…A WHOLE LOT OF BACKWARD ***** THINKING…
@ Mz pretty lady
my sentiments as well. It is shameful how people glorify promiscuity while balking about marriage and family. Since when is it time to celebrate when a marriage is dissolved and the children who are 2 young babies will never have the comfort of 2 parents raising them.
The age differene was 8 years. That certainly is not old enough to be Usher’s mother.
AIDS is rampant in the black community. It is sick to encourage a man to be promiscous and sleep with any woman he chooses. Any man who does that does not value his life and is lacking in morals. I find Sexual Chocolates comments pitiful.
@ cat4everrr
Are you FULLY stupid or just half-retarded? WTF are you talking about?
sexual chocolate
From here on I decree, that usher should only mess with fine ***** women.
No more of the cougar loving nonsense, he should only be engaging in intercourse with women between the ages of 19 to 25.
Old the rest of you old foogies need not apply.
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EXAMPLE NUMBER 1 OF WHY WHE SHOULDA GIVEN UP ON BLACK MEN A LONG TIME AGO.
do yourself a favor ladies, start investing in men outside our race…we ain’t got nothing to lose, can’t get much worse than what we already got.
I am tired of chilli mentioned in every usher thread. Some people are dumb and child like. They broke up years ago. Who cares if Chilli was prettier. It is ridiculous to suggest that someone stay together because she is pretty. They couldn’t make it work and Usher cheated on her. Get over it. Some of you people are dumb.
@Taya
GREAT MINDS THINK ALIKE!!!!
Naija Bekee
@ cat4everrr
Are you FULLY stupid or just half-retarded? WTF are you talking about?
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unless you can provide a comprehensive reason for why you prefer his ex-girlfriend over the mother of his children you really aren’t making any sense at all.
@ mzprettylady
I was referring to HIV, apart from herpes and crabs what other STDs can you contract while wearing a condom.
Oh and what are you saying because you only have sex with your husband or “faithful” partner, you cannot contract anything.
You might only be having sex with him, but do you know who he is having sex with – please.
He can have sex with a bunch of people and won’t get a damn thing, all he has to do is be careful.
While you on the other hand only have sex with hussy and he gives you a case of the AIDS
mzprettylady
lmao I can’t believe your serious! You can still catch STD’s with condoms in case you didnt know!
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exactly! it’s 2009, why aren’t people educated on std’s like herpes that can be spread even though a condom is being used.
@ cat4everrr
Who said I were Black.
You need to understand something, a man is only as faithful as his options, and in this case there were better options.
So please, even if you mess a the whitest man you can find, if someone better comes along he is going to leave your ***** in the dust – as he should.
You are one of those independent women, deal with it.
@ cat4everrr
Who said I were Black.
You need to understand something, a man is only as faithful as his options, and in this case there were better options.
So please even if you mess a the whitest man you can find if someone better comes along he is going to leave your ***** in the dust- as he should.
You are one of those independent women, deal with it
damn…the filing is all over the internet…it’s true *long sigh of dissapointment*
sexual chocolate
@ cat4everrr
Who said I were Black.
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please explain to me the “chocolate” reference in you handle *tapping toes why waiting for him to bullshyt his way outta this one*
When will blackmen every learn sistas don’t look at a blackman for marriage and living the rest of there lives together very few sista have that old fashion thinking.
They rather be a baby momma with child support $$$ is all about the money but still some bruthas still try to win a losing battle
sexual chocolate
@ cat4everrr
So please even if you mess a the whitest man you can find if someone better comes along he is going to leave your ***** in the dust- as he should.
You are one of those independent women, deal with it
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wrong! i’ve been married for over 7 years and believe me he would move heaven and earth if he even got the scent of me leaving him. unfortunately you will never experience the bond created by FAMILY so i expect that one to fly right over you head
@ cat4everrr
Oh ok, I get it, you’re FULLY STUPID. A couple of us have been saying that divorce papers were filed today.
READING IS FUNDAMENTAL!
@Sexual Chocolate
Condoms break all the time. One day the promiscuous life may catch up to you. I know 2 people who are HIV positive one is a male and the other is a female. The male is poking holes in condoms while transferring his disease to women that he meets. He is very attractive and parties in the club all the time. The woman is having unprotected sex because she just had a child. The moral of this story is that people are not truthful and no sex is safe. Condoms are not 100% effective. Living care free and in the dark can cost you your life.
@Jen Maybe she had those kids not to trap him but because he wanted children. She was getting a bit older and if he wanted children with the woman he married and loves then it would have made sense to have them before the risks of autism and other birth defects increased. Unfortunately it didn’t work out but I bet she would choose a loving, happy family over some child support.
seems to me he’s punishing tameka for him being caught creeping with ole girl the other day. men will find 50 billion reasons to blame their faults on a black woman
Naija Bekee
@ cat4everrr
Oh ok, I get it, you’re FULLY STUPID. A couple of us have been saying that divorce papers were filed today.
READING IS FUNDAMENTAL!
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i’m gonna chalk you foul demeanor up to you being just another ghetto chick who isn’t equipped with having the skills to present an argument with out engaging in arguing. sorry, i don’t do ghetto games
@sexual chocolate You should really just glance over what you type before you press send. Your statements are barely coherent, “Who said I were Black”. You think fine azz women want an uneducated sexist man?
@ cat4everrr
sexual chocolate is just the name of the fragrance I wear.
My parents have been married for 35 years so I understand marriage and all its parts, I just choose not to sacrifice my time nor energy in such a useless endeavor.
Your husband plays the game well, as the “Art Of War” states,
“it is not those who hate you that will bring forth your demise, but those who use love as an illusion.”
He is just rocking you to sleep, you cannot trust anybody especially a man.
But here you are vowing for him, and yet you call me naive.
sexual chocolate
@ cat4everrr
sexual chocolate is just the name of the fragrance I wear.
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i’m gonna give you the benefit of the doubt, that better be a joke…lol
@ cat4everrr
I’m not equipped with having the skills to present an argument without engaging in arguing? First of all, who’s arguing with you? Secondly, isn’t arguing the premise for an argument?
LMAO…. You’re pure comedy.
@sexual chocolate So then your mother shouldn’t trust your father? He’s just rocking her to sleep?
sexual chocolate
@ cat4everrr
sexual chocolate is just the name of the fragrance I wear.
My parents have been married for 35 years so I understand marriage and all its parts, I just choose not to sacrifice my time nor energy in such a useless endeavor.
Your husband plays the game well, as the “Art Of War” states,
“it is not those who hate you that will bring forth your demise, but those who use love as an illusion.”
He is just rocking you to sleep, you cannot trust anybody especially a man.
But here you are vowing for him, and yet you call me naive.
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listen we don’t know each other so you have no reason to put weight into what i’m about to say *pause in mid sentence for thought* but here goes- i trust ABSOLUTELY no one in this life. that includes mother, father, brother, sister, husband…etc.
what is most important to me is my kids. i am determined to provide them with a two family household given i am well aware of the statistics with respect to kids reared in single family homes. and i damn sure won’t sit here and root for the demise of another black family simply because the wife doesn’t meet your standards of “cute”
@ Taya
You are right nothing in life is 100% not even marriage, so what is your point ?
What message are you trying to convey, that if you settle down and only have one partner that you are going to be safe from STDs and the like ?
Come on, in today’s society if you are married you are best advised to wear a condom.
Naija Bekee
@ cat4everrr
who’s arguing with you?
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from this point forth you are arguing with no one since i will be ignoring you. maybe someone else will invest useless time in your back and forth banter. good luck with that!
Naija Bekee
@ cat4everrr
isn’t arguing the premise for an argument?
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it comes as no surprise that you don’t know the difference. even a 5 year old who has watched court tv understands the notion of presenting and argument which is set apart from the act of arguing.
even a 5 year old who has watched court tv understands the notion of presenting and argument
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*presenting an argument
Its terrible to say, but I think the marriage was a shame to began with, It never seemed at all like he loved her.
@ notsomuch
@sexual chocolate You should really just glance over what you type before you press send. Your statements are barely coherent, “Who said I were Black”. You think fine azz women want an uneducated sexist man?
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I know I should proof read before I hit send but I am rather tired.
I relation to the last part of your inquiry, I believe women like sexist men. I don’t know what it is but the more sexist I am the women I end up in bed with.
I guess women just like *****holes.
sexual chocolate
no offense but i think you have developed a god complex. somebody done lied to you and told you that you should be treated like a king. somebody done set you up for a huge disappointment.
@ Sexual Chocolate
You should try to free yourself of your narrow minded thinking. Not every male is a deceptive cheater. There are some men who are indeed faithful to their wives. Your views of marriage are not the same for all. Contrary to your belief every married couple does not commit adultery.
@ cat4everrr
Standard of cute is putting it politely.
Lets be real for a second, even a blind man could see that she was a gold digging w***** from the jump.
She saw an opportunity to get a big payday and she went for it.
That is why I despise her, because she preyed on someone who was weaker and less advanced emotionally
@ cat4everrr
I don’t have a god complex, I just view the world through clearer lens.
I don’t have the time to be fulfilling a female’s inadequacies by getting married to her for life.
all I really need women for is sex, everything else I can more than handle on my own.
What happened to the last posting with the Def Jam executive?
@ Taya
You are so idealistic and I applaud you for that. We all need dreamers in the world, but reality is reality.
Men cheat, Women cheat. It is what it is, you can choose to stick your head in the sand or face the reality of our times.
not every married couple commit adultery, but the vast majority of them do and that is just the facts.
I don’t blame T for having babies with Usher he wanted kids and she gave them to him, and who wouldnt get pregnant by a man with money. Some people get pregnant to a man with know money. I pray that God be with them during these difficult times, and the people that are wishing them ill are sic.
Oh b.s. Usher is no victim. Tameka did not prey on him emotionally. They were friends and confided in one another about their failed relationships. I heard Usher say this in an interview. Usher was with Naomi Cambell, superhead and a string of women before him and Tameka were serious. Usher was not emotionally misled. He had her sign a prenuptial agreement before the marriage. Usher wanted to settle down and that is who he choose. They found comfort in one another. You are behaving as if Usher is some deer in the headlights being led astray and Tameka is the big bad villain. Oh give me a break.
@ Taya
She is older with more experience. Not because he had a lot of relationship means he is emotionally mature.
I could prey on a person with a weaker mind state, manipulate them and still make them feel as if they are in full control.
Who better to exploit you than your confidant who knows all of your secrets and weaknesses.
She is a predator and he was just waiting to get got.
@ Sexual Chocolate
You are basing your ideologies on your promiscuous life. Foolish logic like yours is the reason why some women can’t find a decent man. a fools mentality like yours is the reason why some men get used for their cash, abused and discarded like yesterday’s trash. Men who are overly promiscuous are the reason why some females gold dig and look only for a man who will take care of them financially. They know the man is not a loving man who will truly care for them, so they take what they can get and only see dividends. Some women are not going to be someones concubine waiting to be next in line for a night of sex an then he goes on to the next. They are going to make sure that they are well compensated.
There are some women who want love. They want to find that special someone who will love them and be committed to her. No amount of money can compensate for that.
One day you may get sick, have no money and need someone to care for you and you will have no one. I have seen men foolish and blind like yourself who get a rude awakening.
told yall…black men like sexual chocolate think they got some kind of premium based on the laws of supply and demand the equation would look something like this
(large population of black men incarcerated) + (numerous black men killed atg the hands of other black men) – (a slim percentage of the black male population represented by “good black men”)= black men treating black females like crap
guys like sexual chocolate are clearly exploiting the sad state of black folk
@ Taya
I don’t keep them around long enough to gold dig.
Why is my logic foolish?
I do admit it does not fit into the normal social norm of what some people think is “normal,” but who gets to define “normal.”
As I said before, “I don’t have the time to be fulfilling a female’s inadequacies by getting married to her for life.”
See you are looking at relationships as trying to find someone to lean on when the times get rough. I don’t need that I can sink or swim on my own, all I need her for is getting my nut – after she is more than welcomed to leave.
Who better to exploit you than your confidant who knows all of your secrets and weaknesses.
She is a predator and he was just waiting to get got.
That is such a load of crap. Usher was a player and knew how to play the game well. He bragged in interviews about his promiscuous life. I am sure he came in contact with a many gold diggers including Karrin Steffans. Usher is not a victim. Relationships fail. I am sure both of them did things wrong during the marriage, but I am not stupid enough to believe that Tameka brainwashed a man who was a player to begin with. Usher is very familiar with manipulation and mind games. Players are not emotional. They are ruled by their loins in case you forgot and play mind games well. Usher wanted to stop playing around and get married. Tameka is the woman he choose. I am tired of people putting their negative spin on other peoples relationships. This is the woman he choose. get over it.
forgot the period between “demand” and “the”
@ sexy chocolate – you probably already got AIDS, sick ***** fool! Niccas like you are the reason disease is so prevalent. Die a slow nasty death, you FREAK!
See you are looking at relationships as trying to find someone to lean on when the times get rough. I don’t need that I can sink or swim on my own, all I need her for is getting my nut – after she is more than welcomed to leave.
you can get a blow up doll for that. I guess she is not suppose to speak, ask questions, or call. Just wait for you on your time. I suggest you pick out a casket. Because you are headed for self destruction.
@sexual chocolate
Well as long as you’re as honest to the women you meet as you’re being here then to each his own. It’s when men have your mindset but pretend to want a loving relationship that irks me. I personally don’t see what a woman gets in return from giving you “a nut” but whatever.
@ cat4everrr
EXAMPLE NUMBER 1 OF WHY WHE SHOULDA GIVEN UP ON BLACK MEN A LONG TIME AGO.
do yourself a favor ladies, start investing in men outside our race…we ain’t got nothing to lose, can’t get much worse than what we already got.
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I totally concur!!! Leave these fools with the disease, jail and drivebys. And I don’t give a damn what anyone thinks about what I just said – many BLACK MEN like that “*****ery of a hot mess”, SEXY CHOCOLATE, are responsible for a whole lot of issues plaguing the black community. From dead beat fathers, to loser husbands, to spreading disease from their bed hopping (and occasional down-low antics). You can have it!
@ Not so much
Of course he has to lie. What woman is going to be okay with being described as a nut reliever who is free to leave. *****ody can be that dumb. I’m outta here
Brotha best have a pre-nup!!!
So what if they are getting a divorce! It’s not a surprise that people who does entertainment for a living r indeed getting a divorce. After all their job is to ENTERTAIN us. Usher married Ms. Tameka to ENTERTAIN his fans who “thought” he was GAY. Y not marry Chilli if he’s NOT GAY? He is GAY, but he needed a flunkie to PROVE he’s not, so he married his stylist who was already married with 3 kids and probably feeling like she’s da ***** cuz Usher is a star, all he had to do was propose to her for her to accept. To keep his ***** outta hot water about him being gay and the fact that that girl said he was kissing another man in his book, Usher had to build up his fans again IF he wanted to sell anymore records.
I just looked at her picture again and I still think she looks like a man. Straight trannyish!
Usher, his momma, the model agent, limo company owner, sheister that has NO OTHER acts, but him and his publicists are doing all of this. Usher is only a retard that being sold to the devil for them all. Family first, and wife first. He got rid of his wife for? I’ll wait…..
Where is Tameka’s first set of kids, why does *****ody talk about them.
@ notsomuch
women know what they are getting with me from the door. I have no reason to deceiving a woman into believing I am her soul mate.
I rarely allow them to sleep over and most of the times they are the ones who just want to have sex and leave it at that.
All I have to say for this is Usher a** is dumb, for marrying Tameka Foster in the first place Tameka, only wanted Usher’s money from the get go thats the exact reason his Moma never like Tameka’s shady a** from the get go now the dumb b*tch got 2 kids from him and finna definitely take some that loot in this divorce!!! Dam! Usher was too friendly too this b*tch!
Look, who is surprised at this???
First, off when they cancelled the ORIGINAL wedding that was heads up that the relationship was rocky, from the start. I don’t think this is about age, this is about a relationship that was riddled from the start.
Usher just got to pay a ton of money to get out of a situation that he should have walked away from, as in NOT MARRYING her. Nothing wrong with having a baby, but if the relationship is not on point, don’t do it.
Usher’s mama was right from the git.
[...] much lately,” says the source. “I rarely saw Usher around even before there were any children [...]
I think people should consult with GOD before they get married because if they do alot of unnecessary pain can be avoided. Second wait before you have children just cause you are married doesn’t mean you have to have kids right away. Wait awhile to see if the realationship is going to work and then have kids.
[...] much lately,” says the source. “I rarely saw Usher around even before there were any children [...]
@ sexual chocolate
you are a hot ***** mess…but, you have valid points.
I am not going to LIE, I have hit it and quit it, back in the day before I settled down with my husband. If I wanted some, I got some, and he KNEW IT. It was not about trying to get all caught up, it was about satisfying each other physically, nothing wrong with that.
Many women out there with the same sentiments, choc, as you…word
If Usher f-cked this woman over he ain’t gonna never be happy in any future relationships. Every relationship he gets into is going to FAIL…….
are bossip writers bipolar?
I haven’t read the comments, but I’m sure most of them are about Tameka being a gold digger, or Usher’s mother warning her.
But correct me if I’m wrong: Tameka had her own career. And whether we like it or not, she said some true words in Essence magazine: If she were not Black no one would have a problem with her, and that is the truth. Anyway, I like Usher’s mother’s professionalism, but I want the ladies in this blog to be serious, a man’s mother doesn’t have to like u. I have actually witnessed mother’s like women who they son treated like *****, but had a problem with a woman that demanded his respect. To sum it up, keep it real. Your man’s mother will not always like u, and as for me, as long as my man like me, I don’t give a shXX if his family, or friends like me. Yes, it would be nice, but if they don’t f em like any one else that doesn’t like me.
“warning him”
Well… I told ya’ll their marriage was a huge mistake and Tameka was a con, *****, thief, and baby making section 8 hoe… But did anyone listen? No, most of ya’ll dumb *****es said I wanted Usher and was jealous of Tameka… Really?! Jealous on Tameka?! I’m in med school and aint trying to have no ones kids or be no ones house wife.
I met Tameka and my cousins have too since they’ve danced/toured with Usher for years.
Usher is a stupid MF. 2yrs ago he was single with no kids. He had his pick world wide and he choose another man’s family. He took a wife & 3 kids from another zip code. Karma is a *****. I have a feeling he is about to come up off some cheddar to keep this adulterous ***** quiet.
NEWS FLASH it was confirmed that Usher in fact filed for divorce in Atlanta…damn well he got two kids out of the situation unfortunately most likely will end up paying child support. Damn Tameka all you had to do was be easy, not run his career.
First of all usher shouldve never married this chick…U downgraded..all chilli wanted was sme babies but u gave the babies to dis man and now ur career sucks…haha i’ll never buy another one of yo albums as long as ur married to her..I mean wtf Ush…She didnt even get along with your mom…I mean if it wasnt for your mom *****ody would know Usher Raymond!!! Str8 up!! Im mad u had two kids with this man ugh!!! It just makes me sick u cldnt work it out with chilli man I loved yall together ya’ll babies wldve been beautiful…and look at chilli she still pretty she certainly wldnt have turned out like yo old ***** wife..ugh im so *****ed at u usher.. I was yo biggest fan..u dissappointed me but if u divorce this chick i might f* wit ya again…but under one condition dis time marry a redbone and make sure she got her own!!!!!!! Also, stay outa tha lime light until dis ***** is over I did need u giving dis chick all yo money cuz u out cheating in the paparrizi’s view like NAZ!!! AND GET CUSTODY OF YO BOYS CANT NO WOMAN TEACH A MAN HOW TO BE A MAN…STR8 UP…REDBONES ON DECK BLK BIT**** FALL BACK with da rest of da lightskin brothas lol….
I wonder what Chili is thinking…
Then again, she’s got her a man.
He got married b/c he had something to prove. He didn’t even love..I mean like that ugly azz girl like that. He just felt like he was missing something! Please! She don’t even look like his type. Mariah and Nick will be next..sorry!
@KP
“u gave babies to dis man” lol…..
I forgot to mention….child support dummy! That’s all she wanted. Gold digger..maybe I should go to hollywood and find a dummy-pop out some kids then get rich.
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[...] much lately,” says the source. “I rarely saw Usher around even before there were any children [...]
HALLELUJAH! But he’s lost it with me!!! He’s go the old lady cooties now! LLAM!!!!
Usher is a good musical artist. I don’t give a damn about his personal life. He is free to marry whom ever he chooses. All of you here to throw salt and say I told you so are a bunch of hating ***** *****es who need to get a life.
I always knew Ursh would get over this milf. She’s 8 years older and looks like she’s built like mac truck, homie need a PYT.
I guess this ***** decided that the taste of pre-menopausal secretions wasn’t as appetizin’ as he thought…Too bad he didn’t have this epiphany before this vile ***** creature squirted out two 18 year reminders of child support purgutory.
This story doesn’t sound credible withall the “sources” but hollywood does have a crazy divorce rate. I hope they work it out if they are on the rocks. She’s older than him but men date younger all the time and noone says anything about it. It’s good to see that he doesn’t just go for the stereotypical look that most men consider a trophy. He obviously doesn’t discriminate. And more importantly, there are 3 new babies and three older children involved.
This is not a surprise lol if she smart she have them child support papers ready to sign after they sign the divorce papers.
Usher is a hotmess!!! How the hell are you going to leave a women who just had two of you children? I don’t understand why black men do things like this. It just really upset me. SMH
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wow I cant say that this surprise me
It is a shame that Usher is leaving this woman just after 2 kids. That is why I know that marrying Tameka was a cover up to his alternative lifestyle. He just married Tameka to prove he was a man, squash the rumors & have her bare his children. If he really loved this woman he would not give up so quickly. She just had a baby my goodness Usher.
You see Tameka came into the marriage thinking she was the queen, but as you see the real queen is Usher. And Ushers mom never liked Tameka because she knows that woman isn’t his type.
And now Usher thinks he can throw away his wife and revive his career, selfish. This will all fall back on him. Everyone thinks it is Tameka to blame. Tameka just did what any of us would have done if we were in the same situation. But she was smart, she knew it would not last, so she quickly popped two babies out and now she can sit pretty for the next 18+ yrs.
Tameka was just a well placed prop in Ushers world, a publicity stunt. This situation is much like Michael Jackson when he married Lisa Marie to clean up his image, but this will backfire.
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Aww man. I was truly rooting for them. It looks as if Ursher is about to do something real silly….. albums gotta sell but not at the expense of a woman and children. I have always liked the both of them tho.
@ KP-
“all chilli wanted was sme babies but u gave the babies to dis man and now ur career sucks”
That statment sounds absolutely ridiclous. Think about it.
At least his children aren’t *****s and when it’s over it’s over… nothing last forever. I wish them both the very best of luck in love in the future ahead.
That’s life…
SHE HAS A FACE AND JAWLINE THAT SHOUTS
MAN! MASCULINE! TESTOSTERONE!
I SMELL A SEX CHANGE!
She was to OLD! Had 3 CHILDREN ALREADY! AND had a husband when they got together? i blame USHER for this ignorance!
All I can say is he should’ve listen to his mother; he probably only married her because she was already preg with his child…wrong reason to do that!
I wasn’t a fan of Tamika from jump but i don’t wish for anyones marriage to fail. My prayers are with them both.
OMG!!! You all are crucial on here!! It really does not matter what you say these are to grown adults and they are going to eat with, live with, and f*^#$ whoever they choose. And none of us truly know what we would do or act if we were put in this same situation. And what make it so bad who’s to say that what you have going on in your life ain’t some f’d up mess!! So, I would look at myself before saying anything. Who are ya’ll to say Usher should have did this… or Tameka is a gold digging.. and etc. Who are ya’ll to judge! LOOK at your own life!!
Usher has made himself to look like a quitter,reason being… If it was irreconcilable differences then as many money hungry attention seeking individuals in there cirle or mix would have leaked some sort of marital problems among them. Nothing. Usher just want to be single so don’t hate on a sister, hate on that nicca. Vice-Versa, if the tables were turned, take Mariah Carey for example…
You should have gotten yourself a White Girl in the first place, and this never would have happend…
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So, Tameka just plans on stalkin’ him til he takes her back?? LOL he really should’ve listened to his mother….smh
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