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3 days in a row of reporting on something everyone suspected would happen from inception….zzzzzz

1st? really?

Usher’s gay anyways………

1st!

more truth to that “Trading Places” than y’all will ever know! LOL

I kinda wish him and Chilli worked out…there were a much cuter couple than him and Tameka….maybe they can get back together???

yeah thats why beyonce and jay been together for 7 years lol

lol I know they hired photogs anywho…how is usher supposed to gain good press when he’s not with his two sons??? He looks like a Pu$$y chasin lil boy that doesnt know what he wants!!!

I hope he had a prenup…remember Eddie Murphy?

Tameka has cost him time & money. Now,he’s playing catch up. Those who without baggage, get to the top faster & quicker. Tameka is baggage, plain & simple. Tameka produced an “heir & a spare” and she’s finished. She’ll go on to raise the boys in comfort & style, but she’s out lived her usefulness.

If Usher is going to regain his throne, he MUST do it without her. Usher has reverted back to his roots mother and all, in order to regain his dominance in an eroding world of music.

so sad… SMH

in Mr T’s voice ” I pitty the foool”

Remember, his father is Ben Vereen! Check those DNA roots for the pretty side of the family.

about time he left that greedy b*tch, i didnt buy the last album just because of her, but i will buy the new one

Tameka has cost him time & money. Now,he’s playing catch up. Those who without baggage, get to the top faster & quicker. Tameka is baggage, plain & simple. Tameka produced an “heir & a spare” and she’s finished. She’ll go on to raise the boys in comfort & style, but she’s out lived her usefulness.

If Usher is going to regain his throne, he MUST do it without her. Usher has reverted back to his roots mother and all, in order to regain his dominance in an eroding world of music.

Urshers momma been running her lil DL son’s life forever. When a mother has full control of her precious son specially if he’s a money maker the last thing she wants is for some strong opinated been there done that,to come in and get a piece of the pie, she knows her sons not into no woman, but if he must dip it, so she can get some grand babies she’d prefer it to be someone they can both control. Why throw the mother of his two kids under the bus when he never had no intention on this being long term anyways? He’s like kanye doesnt matter what woman they find they cant get anyone to believe it. Now, Tameka must look like the woman who tried to come between mother and son( fortunately, she’ll make a fortune doing it.. and folks laughed at Kim all these women know what they are doing and could care less about the man or his mother) Ursher cant do no wrong (yeah right ) he just got taken advantage of BS. He needs to write a new song this one is getting old. If his mother cared so much she surely wouldnt of let Diddy have a hand in her sons “taking it up – bringing”

“He’s doing the same thing that Jay Z and Beyonce are doing, which is hiring photographers to take pictures, that they have pre-approved.”

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Really? funny. yes, jay and bey hire photographers indeed!! true story

ITS ASHAME THAT THIS IS WHAT ITS ALL ABOUT:

Tameka has cost him time & money. Now,he’s playing catch up. Those who without baggage, get to the top faster & quicker. Tameka is baggage, plain & simple. Tameka produced an “heir & a spare” and she’s finished. She’ll go on to raise the boys in comfort & style, but she’s out lived her usefulness.

If Usher is going to regain his throne, he MUST do it without her. Usher has reverted back to his roots mother and all, in order to regain his dominance in an eroding world of music.

no one why he apologized to chris brown! lol his own life was going to shit. but that is what happens when you get with someone on shady terms. now there are kids involved…damn its about to get ugly. although i grew up on the divorce isn’t an option maybe for them, marriage shouldn’t have been an option.

I don’t think it’s as serious as all that. What has Usher done to throw Tameka under the bus of public opinion? The masses never liked her anyway. Just give me some good music and I’m happy.

He can do whatever he likes to her “image”, she’s the mother of his 2 children and about to be PAID!!

I don’t think him and chilli could every get back together a she will never forgive hime for the marriage with
Tameka.

No one why he apologized to chris brown! lol his own life was going to shit. but that is what happens when you get with someone on shady terms. now there are kids involved…damn its about to get ugly. although i grew up on the divorce isn’t an option maybe for them, marriage shouldn’t have been an option.

Usher is a dumb fck… Rather she signed a pre-nup or not… She got 2 lil babies wit his stupid ass.. She’ll be well off either way… She’s still his baby mama.. At least 16 more years of child support..

Donut

Usher needs a nose job. He has a nose like Sqidworth on Spongebob Squarepants.
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DEAD!!! LMAO beause it’s sooo true!

This “marriage” was all kinds of wrong and a big ol mess from jump:
1) Tameka walks out on kids and husband for younger guy: WRONG

2) Usher cuts off mama for Tameka: WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!

3) Usher likes bois but gets married to a female: WRONG DAMNIT!

4) Usher and Tameka get married because she was pregnant even though she wasn’t sure who the father of the baby was: WRONG

5) Tameka hurries up and has another baby to seal the deal: WRONG

I’m just not seeing how anyone expected this to be a ‘happily ever after’ “marriage.”

I would not count on Tameka getting PAID as that was probably the reason the wedding was delayed – it is called a PRENUP! More than likely Usher had her sign some papers – didn’t they get married in his attorney’s office?

Also, don’t be surprised if Usher go for custody. Tameka is not the best representative of parenthood. She did leave her 3 sons from her first marriage with their father. She went off and damn near died in Brazil trying to get plastic surgery after having just gave birth 3 months prior. She does have an unsavory past…etc…etc.

Ushers Mom may play these cards and go for custody and in this day and time men have RIGHTS! Usher just may win custody, which will score him tons of ‘cool points’ with the ladies.

I NEVER FOUND USHER TO BE THAT CUTE BUT I GUESS EVERY WOMAN OR MAN HAS THEIR OWN FEATURES THEY ARE ATTRACTED TOO! I STILL THINK TAMEKA KNOWS SOME INSIDE INFO ABOUT USHER, LIKE HIM AND DIDDY PLAYING FREEZE TAG TOGETHER, OR SOMETHING HE DONT WANT US TO KNOW! LMAO

TAMEKA TAKE IT AS IT IS SWEETIE AND FIND YOU ANOTHER MAN WHO CAN ACTUALLY HANDLE THE OPINIONS OF A STRONG BLACK WOMAN. YOU ARE TOO BEAUTIFUL TO STAY DOWN OVER THIS FOR TOO LONG AND SEEK ANOTHER INDUSTRY MAN WHO WILL BLESS YOU WITH KIDS AND HAND AROUND TO EMOTIONALLY TAKE CARE OF THEM! MKAY

TAMEKA IS THE VICTIM HERE AND FOR YOU ALL TO TWIST THE STORY AROUND AND MAKE HER LOOK GUILTY IS ABSOLUTELY INSANE! GIVE HER A BREAK, SHE IS GOING THROUGH A DIFFICULT TIME AT THE MOMENT!

Why would Usher get custody when he won’t be available for the kids because he’s in the studio working and he’s too busy running all over the place?

Say what you want about Tameka, but Usher isn’t parent of the year either.

Tameka my dear…..

In the words of the Great Ivana Trump….Dont get Mad, Get Everything!!!!

it’s hard out here on black women. our men do us so wrong *heavy sigh*

Tameka my dear…..

In the words of the Great Ivana Trump….Dont get Mad, Get Everything!!!!

AFTER YOU GOOGLE THE PIC OF THEIR TWO KIDS ask yourself this question-

WHAT IS MORE IMPORTANT- THE KIDS OR A WOMAN WHO IS “CUTE”

SADLY, I’M SURE THERE ARE BLACK MEN WHO THINK HAVING A “CUTE” FEMALE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE WELL BEING OF TWO INNOCENT CHILDREN

SAD
SAD
SAD

before anyone else agrees with him leaving her because they think chilli is “cuter” PLEASE GOOGLE A PIC OF THEIR TWO KIDS

@ cat4everrr

There you go again, hating on Black men.
Options miss lady, options.
He is just exercising his options

Is this all we got going today?

sexual chocolate

@ cat4everrr

There you go again, hating on Black men.
Options miss lady, options.
He is just exercising his options

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at least you are honest about being a chauvinist. pity i’m left with slim pickings with which to give you credit

@ CAT4EVERRR

before anyone else agrees with him leaving her because they think chilli is “cuter” PLEASE GOOGLE A PIC OF THEIR TWO KIDS

I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING BUT DIDNT WANNA SAY NOTHING.. THANKS CAT4 EVERRRR

@ cat4everrr
“i can’t WAIT FOR BLACK WOMEN TO START EXPLORING OTHER OPTIONS LIKE DATING MEN OUTSIDE OF OUR RACE!!!! can’t wait for that God complex you’ve developed to be put back into perspective.”

Hey Hey Now, don’t be so hasty!

Dont worry about those babies…as I said In the words of the Wise Ivana Trump….Dont get mad honey….Get EVERYTHING!!!!

@ cat4everrr

where do you live ?
I live in New York and Black women date whoever they damn well please. So it have already started.

What God complex ?
The truth is not a God complex, it is just the truth.
Just be true to yourself and stop trying to fit society’s mold of what should be.

@ great point

EXACTLY!!!!!

Hey Marquis! Are you setting the record straight again? lol

@ Marquis de Sade

news flash-

oprah makes more than stedman

beyonce makes more than jay

prior to the presidency michelle obama made more than barack

let that marinate for a minute….

have a nice day, i’m out

I guess the Usher stans can rejoice at this horrible moment.

@ Poked

How was it this morning?

@ Marquis

You be hard on these hoes, dawg. Damn!

…Stay strong and keep your head up, Tameka!

…those five boys of yours have a GREAT MOTHER in you, and at the end of the day, no matter what ANYONE says or does, that’s all that will count for ANYTHING…

Twitter.com/E_Wanjiru

I don’t think she was a perfect fit for him.. she was older and have more experience but best believe that chick gonna be pulling in mad doe.. child support and alomony.um… she smart

How is any woman going to be good for a man that only has one use for them? didnt he go on some ranting and rave trip after him and Chile broke up? He got pregnant who he wanted to get pregnant. No thirty something year olds mother should be making decisions for him anyway, no matter who he is that would irk any woman. These people had a time frame and they worked in it. 2 kids and we part ways now he never has to touch another female ever if he does not want to. I long suspected Kim Porter was not half as stupid as she sounded when she spoke, no way she expected to be married look at 50′s baby mother, listening to bad advice ended up without the house and waaaaaaaaay less money a month. Learn to play the game. How they say shits checkers it aint chess! or chess it aint checkers either way they both better than craps

I would buy the alternative lifestyle theory. Usher has been suspect for years and have no doubt he was with dudes even while married

…I don’t get how people are celebrating this…this is another black family broken up…its not funny, its not entertaining, its sad.
Also,since i’m new to this site, anyone wanna tell me who is Marquis de Sade? Is he like one of those white supremacist trolls that frequently posts?

Wow!! I knew this would happen sooner or later! Tameka was really bad for his career.

You might want to update your news considering you are a website catering to the ltest and greatest with celebrities – Usher FILED for divorce YESTERDAY. It’s all over the news – except your news. C’mon, rep it right!

I don’t know how you fools worry or car about people that make more money than you.
I guess there is some attachment since they are making the money of you idiots.

Usher has been split from his wife for months?? Didn’t they make appearances together this year, Inauguration etc.. I need to check out his story, something is fishy.

HoneyBunches

“I’m not trying to argue with his beliefs because obviously he’s got a lot of hate I just never understood people who hate so much.”

Hmmm. Me thinketh, that thou art so new to yon site as thee would pretend? Unveil yonself, imposter! Dispense with thine charade!

Black_Male

LOL! Black_Male? I think not! From this day forth, you shall be christened “MAN_GYNA”: THE SHE_MALE!

SO SHALL IT BE WRITTEN, SO SHALL IT BE DONE!

We all knew that Beyonce and Jay Z (not sure what they are trying to cover up???) hired professional people to photograph them in certain settings so they look good, but Usher? It does make you wonder if this guy is bisexual.

I think that Usher believes that throwing Tameka under the bus or divorcing her, will win him fans, but I have a gut feeling (I am never usually wrong) that this will backfire.

His last album did not do well for a number of reasons (none of which had to do with Tameka (there are younger artists, etc. his time has come and gone, etc. the material was not popping enough).

I think a lot of people (including his fans) will look at him differently depending on how he proceeds. Only two years ago he declared his undying love for this woman, denounced his mother and the rest of the world who rose up against her, etc. etc. and less than two years later you are throwing her under the bus???

This relationship is reminding me of Lisa Raye and her suspect husband. The only person who did not know it was a scam was Lisa Raye.

Not good Usher, not good. Mark my words.

^^@Marquis de sade ^^^

HoneyBunches

pls ignore that excuse of a black person. After reading his reply to my comment. He has nothing worthwhile to say.

Who cares????? Tameka will be paid! I have real problems hell!!!

…Stay strong and keep your head up, Tameka!

…those five boys of yours have a GREAT MOTHER in you, and at the end of the day, no matter what ANYONE says or does, that’s all that will count for ANYTHING…

PS: Usher’s been a PUNK for a while now, if nothing else comes out of this, I hope this divorce will bring that out about him-FULL DISCLOSURE!!!

Twitter.com/E_Wanjiru

Tameka is already under the bus. How far can she go under. Whatever makes Usher happy. Who wants to stay in an unhappy marriage. Maneka was definetly a lot of baggage.

HoneyBunches

Go back to your 3:11 post and all will be revealed.

Usher scandalous a$$ tried to holler at me at this private party in phoenix in ’08. I didn’t give him my number because i’m not a home wrecker.

@ Honeybunches. One of the keys to life is knowing when to react and what reactions to take. Are you going to let that turd dictate to you?

Neways I’m out. Have a Great Weekend HB!

Peace

“Black_Male

@ Honeybunches. One of the keys to life is knowing when to react and what reactions to take. Are you going to let that turd dictate to you?

Neways I’m out. Have a Great Weekend HB!

Peace”

LOL @ MAN_GYNA…How unctuous you are.

Just because Usher filed does not mean that the divorce MUST proceed. They are still married and the entire case can be dismissed. I am sending positive vibes their way.
And for all of you heartless, bitter people on here wishing bad on Tameka of rejoicing this news, imagine how you would feel if it were you.

@ Divas 38, yes Usher and Tameka were at the Inaugural celebrations this year in D.C. They were very much together. People even spotted them shopping together in Tyson’s Corner Mall. Hmmmmm….I think that these divorce papers will be withdrawn…

@Black male, you kno what…you are absolutely right… I’m a jr in college and i’ve heard plenty of ignorant debates in class, but its obvious that the anonymity of the internet gives the loonies an advanced level of crazy. You have a nice weekend too. Goodbye everyone.

“If black women didn’t get with black women there would be no more black people”

Emphasis on “IF BLACK WOMEN DIDN’T GET WITH BLACK WOMEN”. I guess i’m too literal a thinker?

@honeyBunches

You said “If black women didn’t get with black women there would be no more black people” and I think you meant for one of your “black women” to be black men. That’s what makes it a freudian slip.

ZzZzZzZz….

KARMA IS REAL !
USHER AND TAMEKA ARE ABOUT TO FIND OUT WHAT GOES AROUND, COMEAS AROUND.

CONGRATULATIONS TO TAMEKA’S EX-HUSBAND – GOD DON’T LIKE UGLY.

ITS SAD IF ITS FOR PUBLICITY & SHE IS A DAMN FOOL IF SHE WOULD GET RAN IN THE GROUND SO HE COULD HAVE SUM PRESS!! WUT ABOUT PRIDE BLACK WOMAN I KNO U HAVE SUM!!! WE DONT KNO HER TO TALK ABOUT HER PERSONALLY ONLY WUT WE HAVE HEARD AND ALL I CAN SAY IS IM PRAYIN FOR THOSE CHILDREN!! MAMA USH OBVIOUSLY KNEW WUT SHE WAS TALKIN BOUT!! BLACK MEN LISTEN TO YOUR MOTHERS!! WONDER WUT TAMEKA GONNA B DOIN NOW??? COLLECTING 30,000 A MONTH LIKE DIDDY 1ST BABY MOMS!!

he gay…duh…he wasnt man enough to love a woman that noone liked…

@ 504 queen read THE STORY AT THE TOP AGAIN, HE IS DOING IT FOR PUBLICITY NOT HER. Usher is a gay man I have always felt that, he is such a loser and a gay dude, gays are fine, but not when they marry women.

@ LAURIE FARMER
KARMA IS REAL !
USHER AND TAMEKA ARE ABOUT TO FIND OUT WHAT GOES AROUND, COMEAS AROUND.

CONGRATULATIONS TO TAMEKA’S EX-HUSBAND – GOD DON’T LIKE UGLY.

I know Mrs Raymonds ex husband and he was a cheater too, I went to school with him. After college he married and I heard was the same, Karma is a word that is often misused and is over used in these posts. Usher has done so many women wrong and cheated his way through this relationship it seems, so NO the did not have chance. God can only judge and he does forgive. Karma is not of God. Are you Buddhist?

LOL @ ALIZE WUZ SAYIN I HOPE NOT THAS LAME!! BUT 2 EACH HIS OWN MAYBE HIS TIME HAS PASSED!! IF WE NEED TO GO THRU ALL THIS 2 SELL RECORDS!! WUTEVER HAPPENED TO MARKETING UR TALENT?? GET OUT THERE SING & SELL RECORDS!!

he wasnt man enough to love a woman that no one liked… That is it!

@ cat4everrr

i can’t WAIT FOR BLACK WOMEN TO START EXPLORING OTHER OPTIONS LIKE DATING MEN OUTSIDE OF OUR RACE!!!! can’t wait for that God complex you’ve developed to be put back into perspective.

I don’t think most black men would be as put off as some black women are about seeing a black man get a few dollars in his pocket and then wrap his arms around a white woman.

@ Hazelnut I thought to tooo, where else were they? Ok so thats Vegas on New Years I saw, Inauguration in DC in January, Brazil wen she was sick for Grammys and Valentines Day, OOOOOOh I guess he started with this “new woman (man)” after all that stuff. That hasn’t been a year why he file becuase of that woman, he must love this new Grace Miguel woman. SMH, men will tear you down.

USHER??????? WTF, YOU LEFT YOUR WIFE? NEVER DO THAT. YOU BETTER DO A SHAQ ASAP! EPIC FAIL, DOG.

This is sad…another balck family torn apart and ppl celebrating talking about she wasn’t cute enough? For real…that is some sick stuff.

I pray that all comes out ok. PPL STOP JUDGING…u have no reason why her ex-has full custody. U have no clue what type of mom she is. U have no clue what type of wife she is…But anyone who is married any length of time will tell you marriage is HARD! It is hard when u don’t have the limelight surrounding ur every move. When u don’t have ppl always saying negative stuff about ur spouce. When u don’t have a controlling mother trying to hold onto her meal ticket (not saying that is what Ms. Patton is…I don’t know her) but very few mother in laws and daughter inlaws get along for a reason. Marriage is hard! And I pray to God that Usher isn’t doing this to get his fame back or sell records or anything because IT WILL BACKFIRE!

I suspect this was the plan all along. I honestly believe that Usher and Tameka made a deal to get married because both wanted children and Tameka wanted to at least be able to say, I was married. Usher was just to young and desirable to women to expect him to stay with an older, less attractive women like Tameka. This way both of them got what they wanted and Tameka can go ahead and raise the children (with Ushers help of course) and Usher can get back to the business of his career which includes being a lady magnet.

i thought i told yall before.PUBLICITY STUNT!
aint no way usher was gonner knock her up a second time,if the relationship wasnt going good from jump.

what the hell does Jay and B have to do with Usher and his marriage? their names had no reason to be in that article

Sounds to me that whoever leaked this info is actually trying to throw Usher under the bus before the divorce proceedings even start. I wouldn’t be surprised if this came from Tameka herself or someone that knows her. But they are right about Jay-Z and Beyonce hiring photogs. They make it so obvious their candids are staged as well Rihanna’s. All the celebs with candids posted on blogs reguarly are photoed because they want to be. It has nothing to do with the paparazzi randomly chasing them down.
I do feel bad for Usher and Tameka. He did take up for her when many people critcized their relationship and Tameka had endure all that criticism. I think if Usher had just addressed those petty people one good time and left it alone maybe they would still be together. It’s the fact he kept bringing it up in every interview is what turned people off. But that still gave them no right to be all up in business like that. He’s a singer, if you think he fell of oh well but to constantly insult his wife was just uncalled for.

In the end, Tameka will get some loot out of this…she’ll have two more boys to raise…a defunct stylist career and a multi million dollar mansion that she’ll barely be able to afford – and an even worse name to boot…but she will not have Usher.

He may not care about paying her child support, giving her the mansion, or taking some slack from his fans because in the end he doesn’t have to be bothered with her.

This is not about money, but about sanity.

deesac

I don’t think him and chilli could every get back together a she will never forgive hime for the marriage with
Tameka.

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She would be a fool to get back with Ush

Just goes to show – stay out of Essence magazine if you want your marriage or relationship to last.

Usher and Tameka
Diddy and Kim
M McKissick and Lisa Raye

FAN OF BEE-you babbbling buffoon-this has nothing to do with jay and bey-7years is not a long time-NEWSFLASH! BELIEVE ME-you don’t really know a person until you are actually sitting down long enough to have a conversation with them-not between butt-shakin concert interludes!

They the immature go-defending the celebrity. 1. stop classifing this woman by her kids, that’s disrespectful to her children they have nothing to do with this. 2.They both are grown,with or without child they both are a fault. It takes 2 people to give up on marriage. BUT CRUD BUCKETS LEAVE THEM KIDS OUTTA THIS….

Caramel Cutie 1984*** i bet half the bishes on here is ugly and fat!

Usher scandalous a$$ tried to holler at me at this private party in phoenix in ‘08. I didn’t give him my number because i’m not a home wrecker.

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Good for you, Money aint every thing by far, Morals are so much more important

People should mind their own business and stop putting out false information. Why do you care if Tameka’s 3 children are with their father? Maybe they were in school and did not want to move to another district so they chose to stay with dad. Maybe they come to visit on weekends. You all are defaming this woman without facts.

@ Facing Reality

It is none of your concern when a woman decides to bear children. Tameka didn’t put her business in the street. She married a famous man, but that does not mean that she is not a human being who deserves privacy. You don’t know her and you are judging her and weighing in on her personal affairs which is very rude and intrusive. Then you go to the extreme by stating that Tameka does not care for her children and equate them to a check. You got some nerve to use slander against a woman and her children and have never been acquainted with them. This is a blog but people like yourself don’t have boundaries. They are cold and mean spirited like yourself. You see these celebrities ans images and not human beings. Going through a divorce is a difficult process. Leave the children out of this. Her children don’t need to read how you think their mother is a gold digger who does not love her children. One day the rumor mill might start churning about yourself in your own neighborhood by your peer, I wonder will you be so gleeful to spread your baseless opinions on someone who you do not know.

Usher can’t take on sole responsibility for those 2 boys AND balance his career. She is about to get paid. Both sons are still babies. She might not get millions but she ain’t gon have to worry about finding employment.

He just trying to sell records. Gotta pay for that expensive lifestyle.

@ Cali

Usher is no saint. It was reported that Usher was seen months ago in Miami trying to pick up females. On Saturday he was seen with his new flame coming from a hotel. Less than a week later he files for divorce. Usher wants to be a philandering loose male, like he was before his marriage. Usher broadcast his low standards about women for everyone to hear about. Karrine Steffans wrote about their trysts. He is a known cheater. Chilli said he cheated on her as well. Nas and Kelis break up and Kelis is blamed because Nas cheated on her. Usher and Tameka break up and it is automatically her fault, while Usher is photographed in plain sight coming from the hotel with his new fling. It takes two to make or break a marriage.

A lot of you put Usher on a pedestal as if he can do no wrong while his track record proves otherwise.

*my psyche*

Aww man…I kinda have mixed emotions about the whole thing. I never really liked Tameka for him, but it’s like, what about the children???

The reason I chose to defend some of these people and their children is because I know someone who was put on the chopping block from these bloggers. He was so hurt, angry, and on the verge of a breakdown. He excelled to the height of his profession and here he is being labeled every cruel name people could think of. This is the outcome of some of these posts. Bloggers see it as entertainment and fun. I seen the other side and it is pure agony, shame and despair. Why would anyone want to contribute to someone else’s despair? That is what you are doing when you make false allegations on websites and attack peoples character, families and children. That man who will remain anonymous did not deserve that and neither do these people.

@ T.T.
I in no way am taking up for Usher, but I do put more blame on her for the fact that she was the one who took vows and then cheated with a younger, richer, famous man! But, Usher is paying the price as well every since he married her his career has been in the toilet. So I guess Karma has come to bite both of them in the arse and now Ursh is panicking and trying to same his own arse/career.

@ Marquis De Sade

I may be angry, but I know not to kick someone when they are down. I have some sensitivity regarding family.

Place nice Marquis!

marquis

wats up you prejudice bastard?

“Jodi

@ Marquis De Sade

I may be angry, but I know not to kick someone when they are down. I have some sensitivity regarding family.”

LOL! In the words of Homer Simpson: “I CAN LAUGH, BECAUSE I DON’T KNOW THESE PEOPLE”.

Fake Sydney

Y’know, you’re really failin’ at emulatin’ the real Sydney. Just sayin’…

@Marquis

You would be the first to know. You are too obvious now.

are you talking 2 me? im not sidney im MO.and i call you a prejudice bastard,because of the way you treat my sisters.and your black??

Marquis de Sade is a delusional white male who plays the role of many on this blog. He needs to come on out of that closet he has been hiding in. That’s right Kevin, what do you think?

jodi

thats bull.because if they really cared what bloggers think,they wouldnt be successful.look at kanye.im surprised that dude hasnt off him self yet,according to what your saying.and he’s very self concious.

Lol

marquis

ohh ok i see where your going.i understand.but unlike 6am, you dont show love to the progressive sisters.you just spew fire and brimstone all day.thats why i came at you like that.

Yeahright. I don’t blame Ush for a sec.

lmao

I CANNOT BELIEVE THE LEVEL OF EVIL I READ IN SOME OF THESE COMMENTS! THE BLACK WOMAN IS A GIFT FROM GOD AND ONLY A REAL MAN OR REAL WOMAN UNDERSTANDS THIS CONCEPT! MARQUIS DE SADE IS OBVIOUSLY A WHITE PERSON WHO HAS A DEEP HATRED FOR STRONG-MINDED, EDUCATED, BEAUTIFUL BLACK FEMALES SUCH AS MYSELF! IF YOU DISLIKE ME AND MY PEOPLE SO MUCH MOVE ALONG TO ANOTHER SITE! MMKAY

@Katherine W

No, I am not a Budhist. But what goes around does, more than not, come around.

Thank you for enlightening me.

*..MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

thats bull.because if they really cared what bloggers think,they wouldnt be successful.look at kanye.im surprised that dude hasnt off him self yet,according to what your saying.and he’s very self concious.

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Kanye has nothing to do with him. I can’t speak for Kanye and how blogs affect him. They are two separate individuals. What bothers Kanye may not bother someone else. Everyone is different. I am insulted that you would say that it is bull. You don’t see the devastation first hand that bloggers cause. I have. Wouldn’t you care if people were discussing you and your personal business,family while making up lies and rumors. Some have hearts some are cold as ice. I can’t compare you to your next door neighbor, co worker or friend. Everyone celebrity is not the same.

I just ignore the marquis character, that person got serious issues fa real, but anyway, Its sad there are two innocent kids thats gonna be drag through this divorce drama, I hope usher mans up and continue being a decent father to the boys.

@Marquis

Are you still in Heyward?

I think it is disgusting you will insinuate that I am a liar than admit that some of your actions and abuse towards these celebrities puts them in terrible state. YOU contribute to someone ones despair when you make up lies and false stories for entertainment. The only thing they can do is avoid reading it which is very hard to do while dealing with the shame, pain and despair.

Dre, stop co-signin’ on your own shit. It’s pathetic and annoyin’. Now go shepard your goats, Kunta.

Fake Sydney

LOL! Are you fishin’?

HENNY WITH OUT THE COKE, LMAO,….TOAST!!

Always sad to see a relationship break up but ushers mom warned his azz about tameka.

jodi

i did not call you a liar,if your response was referring to me

another publicity stunt to sell records

@Marqus

Yes

meyno

thats what ive been saying.aint no way, from the get go the relationship was turbulent,and he go and breed her again? that dont make no sense.i dont care how ignorant a person is,they wouldnt do that.he know what he doing.notice everytime an artist gonna drop an album,rumors and scandals come out.

I DONT FIND USHER OVERLY HANDSOME AND I THINK HE HAS SOME FEMININE TENDENCIES! OH WELL, I WOULDNT DATE HIM IF HE PURSUED ME BECAUSE I THINK HE ALSO MIGHT LIKE TO TAKE IT IN THE POO POO SHOOT! LMAO

ANYHOO, I AM GETTING READY TO MARRY THE MAN OF MY DREAMS AND HE TREATS ME LIKE THE QUEEN THAT I AM!

FIRST I MUST SAY THAT MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO THE USHER’S FAMILY. TAMEKA WILL KEEP HER COOL. WHY. THE CHILDREN ARE HER INVESTMENTS (SAD TO SAY) MONTHLY CHILD SUPPORT AND SPOUSAL SUPPORT IS GOING TO MAKE TAMEKA HAPPY, HAPPY OF COURSE SHE IS GOING TO SMILE RIGHT TO THE BANK. USHER SEEMS TO BE A STAND UP GUY AND WILL TAKE CARE OF HIS PERSONAL BUSINESS.

TAMEKA WAS IN THE MARRIAGE FOR THE GREED OF MONEY ON THE EXPENSE OF HER THEIR TWO LOVELY LITTLE BOYS.(SAD)
TAMEKA NEEDS TO BE THE MOTHER TO ALL HER CHILDREN AND FOCUS ON THEIR FUTURE AS A MOM SHOULD DO (IT’S NOT LIKE SHE WILL HAVE TO WORK ANOTHER DAY IN HER LIFE. RIGHT. IT SEEM TO ME THE MISTAKES SHE MADE WAS NOT GIVING USHER THE TRUST, SPACE, AND SUPPORT HER MAN NEEDED. MEN DO NOT LIKE TO BE CONTROL,SMOTHERED AND IF WOMEN TRY TO DO SO THE MAN WILL RUN SO FAST AND QUICK LIKE A BOLT OF LIGHTNING.

USHER SEEMS TO BE A GOOD MAN BUT REMEMBER WE’RE NOT THE ONES BEHIND THOSE CLOSED DOORS. PRAYERS I PRAY THAT THEY CAN MAINTAINE THEMSELVES FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILDREN. SORRY TO SEE YET ANOTHER CELEBRITY MARRIAGE DOWN THE DRAIN. SORRY IF I
HAVE OFFENDED.

PRAYERS,
ms. s.

Why Am I Reading These Comments?

ZzZzZzZz….
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LOL!!!

jodi

i completely agree. on the other hand, don’t you just love to see a person shine in the face of ghetto antics…makes them other ghetto folks so irrelevant!

sxyQblondie ALWAYS ON MY GAME

I DONT FIND USHER OVERLY HANDSOME AND I THINK HE HAS SOME FEMININE TENDENCIES! OH WELL, I WOULDNT DATE HIM IF HE PURSUED ME BECAUSE I THINK HE ALSO MIGHT LIKE TO TAKE IT IN THE POO POO SHOOT! LMAO

ANYHOO, I AM GETTING READY TO MARRY THE MAN OF MY DREAMS AND HE TREATS ME LIKE THE QUEEN THAT I AM!

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congrads!!!!

jodi

i did not call you a liar,if your response was referring to me

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I was referring to you because you said that it was bull, and made references about your feelings to this anonymous celebrity to how Kanye feels.

Not so long ago Tameka had to be resuscitated back to life because of her insecurities. Blogger had a field day calling this woman ugly and making up stories about her. I wonder if she died would any of you have felt remorse or sorry you attacked her on a blog by your writings?

Jodi

jodi

i did not call you a liar,if your response was referring to me

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I was referring to you because you said that it was bull, and made references about your feelings to this anonymous celebrity to how Kanye feels.

Not so long ago Tameka had to be resuscitated back to life because of her insecurities. Blogger had a field day calling this woman ugly and making up stories about her. I wonder if she died would any of you have felt remorse or sorry you attacked her on a blog by your writings?

I wouldn’t feel remorse, because what she did was self-inflicted in the name of “MIS-GUIDED VANITY”, just like Kanye’s mom. You call it a “TRAGEDY” and I call it “DEATH BY MISADVENTURE” or “CULLIN’ THE HERD”.

jodi

damn shame…you are so right and on the money. that girl did have surgery almost killing herself in the process because apparently she thought there was something wrong with her. it could very well be due to the ugly comments

jodi

first off. i dont make fun of celebrities,because who am i to poke fun at them and their in a better position than me.

2nd. if tameka was to die,ill feel bad for the family,but at the same time,she killed her self not me.she had no buisness getting surgery.obviously usher liked her for who she is,and if she wanna please bloggers…..kill ur self.

cat4ever

hola!

*..MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

cat4ever

hola!

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¿Cómo es usted?

cat4everrr

jodi

damn shame…you are so right and on the money. that girl did have surgery almost killing herself in the process because apparently she thought there was something wrong with her. it could very well be due to the ugly comments

Wrong! It was because, initially, she was to be one of the replacements on that BABYMAMA’S OF Atlanta Reality show. It had nuthin to do with the comments on a blog…It was for the time honored superfiscial tradition of “SHOWBIZ”. Don’t turn her stupidity into some poor tortured form of catharticism.

@MO…..

YOU SOUND LIKE A SOUTHERN GENTLEMEN! THERE ARE NOT AS MANY OF YOU OUT THERE AS THERE WERE YEARS AGO! YOU ARE OF A DYING BREED! LMBAO

Marquis de Sade

Wrong! It was because, initially, she was to be one of the replacements on that BABYMAMA’S OF Atlanta Reality show. It had nuthin to do with the comments on a blog…It was for the time honored superfiscial tradition of “SHOWBIZ”. Don’t turn her stupidity into some poor tortured form of catharticism.

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did you see the contract where she signed on the dotted line to that show. please post the link to said contract.

sxyQblondie ALWAYS ON MY GAME/Tameka, go to bed, damn. You ain’t marrying no man of your dreams! Bwaaahahahaha

I’m in LA, Trick

sxyQblondie ALWAYS ON MY GAME/Tameka, go to bed, damn. You ain’t marrying no man of your dreams! Bwaaahahahaha

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may i ask you a question, even if you are right (which i highly doubt) and that is here, does it make you feel better about yourself to witness seeing her family break apart? does that bring meaning to your life?

cat4everrr

You know that they don’t release confidential legal documents like that…And don’t pretend that it wasn’t the case. Her appointment to that reality show reported ad infinitem all over the media prior to her near death experience in South America…Now if you wish to pretend otherwise in order to further your: “WOE IS THE PLIGHT OF BLACK WOMAN, AND BLACK MEN AIN’T SHIT” dogma, then be my guest.

jodi

i completely agree. on the other hand, don’t you just love to see a person shine in the face of ghetto antics…makes them other ghetto folks so irrelevant!
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@ Cat4ever

I am pleased when the haters get dismissed. A lot of these people are envious of these celebrities and have a good time in their hour of sorrow. It is quite sickening.

By the way I am glad Tameka didn’t die. Some of those comments I am sure made her feel insecure. Constantly being called ugly has to make a person insecure. That is not vanity. It is human emotions. Insensitive maggots that thrive off of others weaknesses like Marquis Sade will never prosper. They will always be on the outside looking in, plaguing the blogs with their trash wishing that they were in that persons shoes that they are attacking. Being rich and famous is not all glitz and glamour. Yes, having money makes things easier, but it does not ease your fears, insecurities, and weaknesses.

The bloggers are sometimes like sharks looking for fresh meat to devour. If only they know they damage that they can do to someones psychological health and in Tameka’s case her physical health as well.

Marquis de Sade

cat4everrr

You know that they don’t release confidential legal documents like that…And don’t pretend that it wasn’t the case. Her appointment to that reality show reported ad infinitem all over the media prior to her near death experience in South America…Now if you wish to pretend otherwise in order to further your: “WOE IS THE PLIGHT OF BLACK WOMAN, AND BLACK MEN AIN’T SHIT” dogma, then be my guest.

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i hardly call that proof. more like throwing a bunch of crap against the wall hoping something sticks. the term for fabrications such as yours is hearsay

cat4everrr

I’m in LA, Trick

sxyQblondie ALWAYS ON MY GAME/Tameka, go to bed, damn. You ain’t marrying no man of your dreams! Bwaaahahahaha

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may i ask you a question, even if you are right (which i highly doubt) and that is here, does it make you feel better about yourself to witness seeing her family break apart? does that bring meaning to your life?

…And by your same rationale, does their stayin’ together, thus keepin’ their family intact, bring meanin’ to your life?

…Ya’ see, you gotta be careful when askin’ those rhetorical questions…They tend to have a double-edged sword attached to them.

Jodi

jodi

i completely agree. on the other hand, don’t you just love to see a person shine in the face of ghetto antics…makes them other ghetto folks so irrelevant!
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@ Cat4ever

I am pleased when the haters get dismissed.

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LMAO!!!!!!!!!! *standing ovation*

marquis

do you have kids?

marquis

are you a baby daddy?

marquis

i’m trying to understand the source of your anger. are you upset because you have to pay child support to multiple baby momma’s. tell me why this has you so ups in arms. there must be some sort of personal connection to your life in order for you to be getting so hostile

or did a female who looked like her once broke your heart? i’m being earnest…not trying to be cynical here

@cat4everrr

He has issues with women of all kind, but mostly black women, because he has been rejected after years of trying to denounce his homosexual image. Marquis was on here many months ago talking about how he “experimented” with a male friend when he was younger and then he “dated” a “beautiful black female” who cheated on him. Hope this helps understand his twisted mind!

@ sydney

ooooooooo…thx! think i’ll keep my mouth closed on this subject as it pertains to him

To all that are currenlty reading this blog. Usher is gay. You have to beleive that. Usher got married to cover up his alternative lifestyle. The thing is that most of his audience are young women. If he should loose those demographic, he would be in trouble. I know he thinks that he h as loyal fans, but a entertainer is as good as his last recording or job so to speak. I like usher however he should be ashame of himself.

This is some ugly business, I hope that she take him for all that she can get. Forget that old crow of a mother in law and get yours. They used her, now she needs to use them, you go Tameka make sure he take care of you for the rest of your life

I am Marquis de Sade too and Kevin!

new MARY J. BLIGE – “STRONGER” written by CHRIS BROWN. Click on my name (Mileka) to check it out!!!

NameJacker

…And how was my “ASS” handed to me? From any objective person’s interpretation, one can only conclude that I kicked all of your collective asses.

Marquis who did you piss off bro?

i’ve known he was gay for a long time. why would someone who can get some of the finest pu$$y out there marry a tranny?

Uhm, per who or what did sean/bk hire press 2 take pics of them? They all the time say their relationship is theirs so y do they care what ppl think of them?

& how does Usher think pics will throw Tameka under the bus? She wanasnt liked from day 1 so Usher doesnt need 2 make negative comments about her.

Usher you always have a fan in me baby. Do you and brush off the haters.

Also, y didnt Usher pace himself? Usher Cinco was born 26Nov7. As soon as T’s womb healed u fvck her again & got her pregnant@! 2nd son Naviyd born 10Dec8. Aint nothing wrong w using condoms, even w your wife. Tameka prolly wouldnt have used birth control if asked so USHER YOU SHOULDA USED A CONDOM.

U know she’ll want the house & of couse she is gonna get support for 18 yrs 4 the two sons. I wonder if she’ll ask for spousal support?

my nigg is in church praying all the time that i don’t ditch him now that he all sick and sh!t with a bad heart!!!

Get that money Tameka. Usher is a cheater and we all know it. He was with his new piece last week.

Yeah, Usher wanted kids he said he wanted them “young” so he could run and play with them. I guess not since he’s in LA and left them with they mom to be hanging with otha women and maxing in Malibu. The good life, moms have it rough. Shes home stuck with kids changing diapers while he’s with his new BIG ole girl toy

He need better advicers an to stop listening to his mama pout about his wify.

Let me say something in defense of Tameka. No, I don’t know her personally and she is not paying me.

Patti Labelle, who I respect to the core, TO THE CORE, Says Tameka is a good person. If Patti Labelle endorses someone, that is good enough for me.

I must admit that when I first heard about the problems between Usher, his mother, Tameka and the fans, I almost jumped on the bandwaggon. Let’s face it, who would take on their boyfriend’s fans? Not me, but everyone is different and deals with things in different ways. Yes, a lot of Tameka’s wounds are self-inflicted, but if Patti Labelle says you are a good person, I don’t care who else rises up against you, in my book you are a good person.

Having said all of that, I would encourage Tameka to get counseling. Hell, let that fool (Usher) pay for it and heal yourself. I promise you will be okay. And stop answering posts to fans/twitting on websites!!

Dang, Why He gotta Be All That Ma?
lmfao

Phew miss a day, miss a whole fu@king lot! I always did feel marqis was a scorned used up white groupee too, lol- becoz the comments she makes are usually so crazy *smdh*

Now he’s free to move on to his first love, men.

Jodi

People should mind their own business and stop putting out false information. Why do you care if Tameka’s 3 children are with their father? Maybe they were in school and did not want to move to another district so they chose to stay with dad. Maybe they come to visit on weekends. You all are defaming this woman without facts.

@ Facing Reality

It is none of your concern when a woman decides to bear children. Tameka didn’t put her business in the street

Jodi – You should get out more or at the very least learn to read properly. Tameka went out on the airwaves discussing her and Ushers relationship, she did a spread in Essence talking about how ‘Black Women” didn’t like her – just because she married Usher did not mean she had to become a public person (i.e. Denzel’s and Samuel L. Jackson wives) all Tameka had to do was love the man and ignore the haters but she found it necessary to war with his fans on Twitters. I’m not judging her just having an subjective opinion much like you are doing about me – you don’t know what I know nor who I know to make the statements (not judgments) that I did.

Second, the problem with most marriages today is that they start for the wrong reasons (i.e., the woman gets pregnant) and so you can’t grow a relationship properly when the dynamics of it are controlled from the beginning. Most marriages fail because they are entered into for the wrong reasons.

Third, if Tameka LOVED HER CHILDREN she would be taking care of ALL OF THEM not just the two she have with Usher. Her actions in regards to those 2 are suspect because what type of mother would leave a 2 month old to go across the world to have plastic surgery?

I don’t have to judge Tameka her actions are out there for all to see. As to people spreading rumors about me – I live by the old adage “Sticks and Stones may break my bones but your words will NEVER HARM ME” I am secure in who I am as a person – and I will NOT be defined by the thoughts of others.

Have a blessed day.

i wonder if counseling was even an option. i just hope this isn’t a situation where he allowed his momma to talk him into walking away from his wife and kids.

FacingReality.

What type of woman would leave a 2 month old……? The type who is insecure and trying to hold on to her man by any means necessary.

I don’t much about you, but I would recommend that we try not to judge others until we have walked in their shoes.

Wow!

bigthingspoppin

I just ignore the marquis character, that person got serious issues fa real, but anyway, Its sad there are two innocent kids thats gonna be drag through this divorce drama, I hope usher mans up and continue being a decent father to the boys.

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What about Tameka’s other 3 children that she left to be with Usher? Is there no concern for them? Also, what about ALL the children that suffer through divorced parents? These 2 children are not the first nor will they be the last to go through the separation of family but they are more financially secure than most.

What’s hard to accept is how there is any sympathy given to a woman who PUBLICLY flaunted her adulerous nature with Usher and now she wants privacy when that relationship doesn’t last…its called KARMA!

No one is embarassing her children moreso than her:

Did not she embarass her children when pictured frollicking on the beach with a man that was not her husband at that time? Did not she embarass her children when she was pictured with her stomach out for all to see? Did not she embarass her children when she became pregnant before marriage and not physically taking care of them? Did not she embarass her children when she twittered her hatred for people she should not have cared a damn about? Did not she embarass her children when she left her 3 sons with their FATHERS while she became wifey/mother to another? Did not she embarass her children when she ran off to Brazil for plastic surgery two months after giving birth and damn near dying all for some vain attempt to please people she didn’t know instead of caring about them – Usher married/loved her as she was – full of stretchmarks and overweight?

I could go on and on how Tameka Foster has caused more damage to her childrens mind than any blogger/commenter ever could but then that would be too much like right, because there are those who believe that people have no right to comment on those things they hear/see.

If Tameka had been true to self she would have remained out of the spotlight but no she wanted to be seen and heard as the wife of Usher. No one knew her until she got caught frollicking on that beach with Usher while still married to another. We as a people need to STOP condoning this type of behavior.

In closing, Tameka Foster is her ownself worst enemy and there isn’t anything a blogger/commenter could say/do to her that she did not put out there FIRST. Tameka needs to heal herself, so that she can become a better woman/parent because she will definitely have to answer to the 3 sons she didn’t raise for all they will be able to google about her one day and the least of her worries are the comments that were made by me and others.

Enough with the empathy – it is time for her to face reality!

zappy

FacingReality.

What type of woman would leave a 2 month old……? The type who is insecure and trying to hold on to her man by any means necessary.

I don’t much about you, but I would recommend that we try not to judge others until we have walked in their shoes.
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That’s too easy and a copout. An excuse! When you put yourself out there in the public you expose yourself to scrutiny – there is a difference between one being scrutinized and one being judged. People are to quick to intermingle or confuse the difference between the two.

It is the hope however, that we grow from either or the both. We can’t walk around with blinders on forever and use ignorance as an excuse.

Usher’s mom liked and approved of Chilli. If she was a control freak and didn’t want her son to be happy, she would have created problems for Usher and Chilli.

Regarding the question what makes Chilli more qualified or better than Tameka? Not only is Chilli beautiful, but she is a member of one of the greatest girl group of all time. Nough Said.

Third, if Tameka LOVED HER CHILDREN she would be taking care of ALL OF THEM not just the two she have with Usher. Her actions in regards to those 2 are suspect because what type of mother would leave a 2 month old to go across the world to have plastic surgery?

I don’t have to judge Tameka her actions are out there for all to see. As to people spreading rumors about me – I live by the old adage “Sticks and Stones may break my bones but your words will NEVER HARM ME” I am secure in who I am as a person – and I will NOT be defined by the thoughts of others.

Have a blessed day.

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This woman has been judged, disseminated, picked apart by judgmental people who have nothing more important to do than to pry into peoples personal affairs, like FACING REALITY. People such as her are the reason why celebrities go across the country to have surgery. They search the blogs and victimize these people by the baseless useless thoughts. It is disingenuous of you to speak harshly about another person claiming it is an open forum. It is abuse. It is not your right to judge harshly. No one is clean without flaws or error. it is unjustified to make remarks about someones parenting skills when you do not know them. You do not know what Tameka’s ailments are. It was not disclosed. Your rights do not include defamation. Your rights do not include killing someones spirit. You hold yourself on a pedestal behind your computer. Only god has the authority to judge someone. He is the estimate of hearts and he is the one judging them accordingly.

Jodi

Who created God?

Usher needs to calm the hell down until his divorce is finalized. He has two children and should act more responsibly.

As for the comments regarding Tameka’s children, I’m sure child protective services would have taken them away by now if Tameka was neglecting them.

Jodi – since you are so familiar with God and His ideals you need to understand that God ask us not to judge by appearance but we are commissioned to judge actions against His Word. Let me help you – try these verses on for size:

John 7:24 – Do not judge according to external appearance, but judge with proper judgment.”

Pro 31:9 – Open your mouth, judge in righteousness, and plead the cause of the poor and needy.

Luk 12:57 – And why don’t you judge for yourselves what is right?

Joh 8:16 – But if I judge, my evaluation is accurate, because I am not alone when I judge, but I and the Father who sent me do so together.

Heb 13:4 – Marriage must be honored among all and the marriage bed kept undefiled, for God will judge sexually immoral people and adulterers.

I leave you with these thoughts:

Hosea 4:6 – My people perish for a lack of knowledge because they reject knowledge.

2Ti 3:16 – Every scripture is inspired by God and useful for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness.

Have a blessed day and read the word for understanding before you try to admonish someone with it.

@

FACING REALITY

The scriptures are used for our progress. to cleanse our soul. It is for us to gain knowledge to walk upright and remain steadfast to god’s word. He does not want us to cast stones upon our fellow man. He wants us to show love, guidance, and direction when we stumble and fall.

You blaspheme the father and bring reproach upon his name by bringing slander against your fellow man. The scriptures are not used to mislead the people into believing that someone should be condemned based upon their actions and decisions.

Jesus is the ruler of man. He is the one who decides who walks in the path of righteousness and who’s soul can not be cleansed. You actions are not forthright. You are not in a position of authority. Casting stones is not an act of righteousness.

*standing ovation* @ jodi

@ Cat4ever

Bearing false witness against thy neighbor is detestable in gods eyes.

Jodi I would respect what you said moreso if I had not read some of the things you written. Your language and thoughts have been way more harmful than anything I’ve said. But hey that’s organized Christianity – do as you say; not as you do. You should reread some of the vile comments you’ve written before you reached your newfound holy space but hey at least you reached it…right?

I harbor no ill will but I will never allow another to silence my opinion for it is in our differences that we learn.

I also pray that going forward you are able to articulate your ‘godly’ thoughts w/o a need for cussing, or wishing death or harm on another just because of a difference of opinion. Because the tongue will speak both evil and good. However, I truly RESPECT your last comment.

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@ Facing Reality

I know my strengths and weakness. I am able to recognize my errors and will try to correct them.

You put yourself on a pedestal above others FACING REALITY. You proclaimed Tameka to be uncleaned by her alleged misdeeds. God is taking in account the ways of man. It is not our job.

Your facsimile of distorted facts are misleading to onlookers. You can’t determine if someone is unclean and does not deserve mercy. Only god can do that.

I came to give useful insight on how these blogs affect celebrities. If I helped one lost soul correct the errors of his ways then my job here is done.

I am not Tameka

If I was Tameka I would of addressed all of the personal attacks. I don’t know this woman, nor do I care about her past misdeeds. I have empathy for people who get raked over the coals by the media. You accusations are false about me. It is an injustice to terrorize someone through the blogs and I spoke freely on the matter.

correction

You proclaimed Tameka to be uncleansed

Oh pleas Marquis De Sade is a pariah. He attacked me in my place of vulnerability. When I am miffed my tongue can be biting. I am sure Marquis De Sade was unscathed. His heart is hardened.

I tried to give helpful and useful insight how blogs can hurt a person and leave them in despair. I did not come to antagonize, or put myself in a position of higher authority. I am certainly not perfect. Sometimes it is useful to use thought provoking events in order to help someone change someones unjustifiable behavior.

@ facing reality–

I like your posts.

@ I agree

Why are you so infuriated with me. Is it because I won’t join the sharks who chose to come out and dine on fresh meat? Or is it because I chose to speak the truth about how this is damaging to someones inner psyche, and harmful to their children.

Children are in a place of vulnerability when their parents are on the chopping block via blogs. No child deserves to hear in their formative years that Tameka was an unloving parent who gave them up and chose not to raise them. It is damaging to them physchologically.

You are right this is a blog and I am free to speak my opinion the same as yourself. If you don’t agree you can kindly look the other way and continue on your soulless pursuit.

@ jodi then you best get right over to google because what they have will destroy them po chilren – hurry up and save the world darling but I KNOW YOU ARE TAMEKA u keep commenting about things that weren’t said only someone as souless as tameka – who can’t use twitter right now – wouldn look right – would find it necessary to make up things like u r. out of all the things said you try and hang someone for speaking the truth – google it and then go and fight that battle – yo service is no longer needed here tameka. only a pissed off mom would go this hard over something that was true – TAMEKA!

I agree

I am a mother. It is my maternal instinct and my ability to have empathy for others. That is an endearing attribute. I hope you find yours.

@ Jodi

You tell em’. I don’t like all of this judging as if they have clean back yards. They probably need a pick up truck to clear out all of the trash in their very own back yard. You made some excellent points. good for you.

Jodi

I just want you to know that I had a good time last night bringin’ your true self, my false, unctuous bible-thumper. You sheep in wolves clothing makes the most delectable meat for me to exploit and devour…YUM, YUM.

VERY TRULY YOURS

MARQUIS DE SADE: THE PARIAH!

*bringin’ out your true self*

Who the hell is Patti Labelle for you to be taking her words as if its the law? you dumb for saying that chiit. patti is a good singer , thats it you dumb ass…

AT JODI IS TAMEKA>>> NOT. you sound like his Mommie, awwww I know.

Tameka and Usher committed adultery – true (says who, where you there)
Her 3 previous sons don’t live with her – true (do you live with her?)
Most women dating stars see children as checks – true (stupid & general)
She left her 2 month old for plastic surgery – true (hes always gone and?)
She said in Essence black women hate her – true (most are big HATERS)
Her actions are embarassing to kids – true (says who? YOU? dummy.)
She should have stayed out spotlight – true (aww Mama J, jealous:(
She left her husband for Usher – true (how do know WHY she left?)

Yea all you defenders of Tameka are slowing feeling the pains of those checks not coming…groupees – how else do you defend what is obvious. Trying to pretend you feel her pain when in fact what you feel is your own. Thats what wrong with a lot of women always trying to justify wrong – its ok she a adulterer – yall probably one – its ok she don’t have PHYSICAL EVERYDAY custody of all her children – you probably don’t. Then you wonder why so many of our kids are in gangs, lost and in trouble – you sorry ass, always defending wrong as women are their mothers. You can’t handle the truth when the checks stop coming!

MARQUIS DE SADE?KIGALI are his favorite screen names

Beginning on April 6, 1994, Kigali was the scene of the Rwandan Genocide — the slaughter of approximately one million Tutsi and moderate Hutu by Hutu militias (interahamwe), and some members of the Rwandan army — and of fierce fighting between the army (mostly Hutu) and Tutsi-dominated Rwandese Patriotic Front. Although damaged, the city’s structure has recovered

You see Marquis likes the thought of bloodshed on humans. He likes deviant sexual behavior. He is one sick freak. No one should listen to the insane rants of someone who belongs in an asylum.

It truly rubs me the wrong way when someone preaches the gospel and gets slammed with the term bible thumpers. It is just an excuse to continue with their bad behavior. They don’t want to hear gods word. Everyone needs to be corrected at times. It seems as if people don’t want to hear about what is right. The like to gear towards wrong and grow angry when someone tries to show them how god works. That is when that person is called a fake christian bible thumper and whatever else they can think of to ease their conscience. I don’t know anyone who is perfect. Sometimes we have to take the word for what it is and stop looking over the messenger with a fine tooth comb searching for imperfections. We all have them.

I wish Tameka her children and Usher well. I hope they can work out a plan to be cordial for the children’s sake.

URSHER, sometimes blood ain’t thicker than H2O. Get with that thick redbone u shashayin down the street with.

chilli BEEN told the public how usher is!! how he cut her son off COLD after breaking up with her. he says eff you and move on.

well that’s his damn fault.everybody knew he was making a mistake by marrying her old ass.even his momma warned him about what this will do to his career.the fool should have just listened to his momma.who didn’t see this coming??

He followed his heart, but my question is: Was her heart in it or her brain? He seemed happy despite what people were saying until she snuck off to another country to have surgery, which is about the dumbest thing an intelligent woman could do in her condition. I gave her credit for being intelligent until that BS. I wouldn’t risk my life for NO ONE or no money. You can’t spend money – DEAD.

Okay, so, really…the way things start is usually the way that they end up. In this case, it started off deceitful from BOTH parties. Usher and Tameka are both at fault here. She walked out on her family, but he encouraged it. In this life, you get what you pay for and turnabout is fair play. They both need to just accept that they each played a shady role in this janky marriage from jump, and they need to just move on with their lives. Period.

The universe is the shyt, y’all. It always evens things out…eventually.

@philly :
Chili’s son Tron ( I hate that name) has a father: Dallas Austin. So what do u mean Usher left Tron cold? usher aint his Dad!
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Jun 15, 2009 – 10:44 am Philly

chilli BEEN told the public how usher is!! how he cut her son off COLD after breaking up with her. he says eff you and move on.

1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!
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Thanks for the compliment my sister……

God Blesses

[...] that we don’t think Tameka handles her biz as a mother but as a wifey, we’re not sure she’s as stellar as her [...]

BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!!! so is cocoa, mocha,chocolate,tan,beige etc. Stop the black on black gossip mongering people! Let these folks deal with their marriage in peace! SMH (this is just more ammunition for THEM to talk about US)

I’m very disappointed that some female posters here would go as far as to call Tameka names because she’s not what mainstream media/society considers beautiful. Regardless of what most people think, that he shouldn’t have married her, ya di ya, he did. He made that decision and he wasn’t forced. They both stood before a higher power and vowed to do right by each other. I don’t know what went on with them, I’m no “insider”, so I’m not going to assume. Marriages fall apart every day. I just hope both parties learn from this and hope that the children will be loved regardless. Let’s stop degrading the woman, it’s not a good look. Yes, in private she might be the worst, but so might he. If there is proof to back up some of these ugly comments, then show them, but let’s not slander peoples’ names and image all willy nilly just to post something.

I pray usher and his mom gets custody of the boys and he doesnt have to pay child support!!!! GO USH!!!

[...] keeps the world in your business which is probably why Tameka Foster keeps spreadin’ hers every 5 minutes. She just tweeted to BDR about respecting her family during [...]

I wonder if she will still go by ‘tameka raymond’ even though they will be divorced?

She never took on her ex husb’s name, she was never known as Tameka Glover (her ex husb is Ryan Glover, he is an Atl producer as well as owner of Knitch Clothing in Atlantic Station Mall) but was quick to be known as Tameka Raymond.

@ facing reality’s 10:20a post

AMEN ! All that u said it 100% right!

Also, I didnt know that her older 3 boys werent living w her. S their Dad Ryan Glover has custody?
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FACINGREALITY
Jun 14, 2009 – 10:20 am

@kp: Pray all u want but I dont think Usher will get custody.

& Usher dont live w Jonetta! Jonetta & her man
( isnt she about 2 marry him as a matter of fact)
live in heir own house!

Tameka has the life that is better suited to raising kids bc she stays in 1 plce, verus Usher travels from Atl to NY to Vegas to Cali recording, then will have to travel again to tour.

Plus I dont know about Usher 5 (he is 1 so he could still be ) but def Navyid is still breastfeeding so he wont get taken from Tameka.

THen again Lias Wu didnt get custody of her sosn with Keith Sweat so we never know.

We’ll c what happens.
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Kp __ Jun 16, 2009 – 9:13 pm

I pray usher and his mom gets custody of the boys and he doesnt have to pay child support!!!! GO USH!!!

Tomeka has been going around Atlanta trying to return merchandise and gifts from Usher for cash. Many have told her no, but they will give her a store credit. She goes off on them!

I think he cut her off from the money some time ago…

I hope Usher has a good lawyer…Tomeka’s lawyer is a beast and will come out with blazing guns. He is notorious for hiring private eyes and others to follow people in a divorce proceeding.

Maybe she will join the trifling “Real Housewives of Atlanta”.

SERIOUSLY! DID EVERYONE REALLY THINK THAT THIS WAS GONNA LAST? COME ON PEOPLE, SHE WAS HIS STYLIST FOR GOODNESS SAKES. SHE LEFT HER HUSBAND & CHILDREN TO BE WITH HIM. HAS ANYONE EVER HEARD OF THE SAYING “WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND”. DID SHE REALLY THINK THAT SHE WAS THE ONE WHO WAS GONNA CHANGE HIM. ANY WOMAN WWHO LETS THIER MAN TURN ON HIS OWN MOTHER FOR THEM IS SHADY. SHE IS A MOTHER HERSELF. ALSO,SHE’S BEEN AROUND FOR AWHILE AS HIS STYLIST, SO SHE KNEW WHAT TO DO & WHAT NOT TO DO TO GET HIM. BUT, GETTING & KEEPING A MAN IS TWO VERY DIFFERENT THINGS. THEY WERE DOOMED FROM THE BEGINNING. I PREDICT THAT HE & CHILLY WILL BE TOGHETHER AGAIN (HOPEFULLY)

Anyone feeling sorry for Tameka is delusional! She knew what she was doing and to secure her financial future, she had yet MORE CHILDREN! If she left her family behind to chase Usher, then I guess there is some truth to the saying that you lose ‘em the same way you got ‘em! I say kick rocks to the gold-digging, baby-making skank!

@shelly
Y r typing in caps?
Tameka being a Stylist has nothign 2 do w it. If anything it is good that she has a job that pays a high salary bc you & others would hater her even more if she as a $25000 a year receptionnist @ laface(or what ever label usher is on now).

Tameka gets hate bc she was
- married 2 Ryan Glover while dating Ush,
- married 2 Ryan Glover while pregant w Usher’s son
- has lied repeatedly abut her past.
-does not get along w Ush’s mom & manager Jonetta & pushed 4 her 2 be fired
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shelly _ Jun 23, 2009 – 7:51 pm
SERIOUSLY! DID EVERYONE REALLY THINK THAT THIS WAS GONNA LAST? COME ON PEOPLE, SHE WAS HIS STYLIST FOR GOODNESS SAKES. SHE LEFT HER HUSBAND & CHILDREN TO BE WITH HIM. HAS ANYONE EVER HEARD OF THE SAYING “WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND”. DID SHE REALLY THINK THAT SHE WAS THE ONE WHO WAS GONNA CHANGE HIM. ANY WOMAN WWHO LETS THIER MAN TURN ON HIS OWN MOTHER FOR THEM IS SHADY. SHE IS A MOTHER HERSELF. ALSO,SHE’S BEEN AROUND FOR AWHILE AS HIS STYLIST, SO SHE KNEW WHAT TO DO & WHAT NOT TO DO TO GET HIM. BUT, GETTING & KEEPING A MAN IS TWO VERY DIFFERENT THINGS. THEY WERE DOOMED FROM THE BEGINNING. I PREDICT THAT HE & CHILLY WILL BE TOGHETHER AGAIN (HOPEFULLY)

Jus lyk my mami said SAW IT COMMIN BOO!!!LOL WAT A TRIP……LOV USHER STILL ANYWAii Shud marry NSTEAD…..im waii betta lol

The only reason I can’t suympathize with the lady is because she seen how heartbroken Chili was. WTF made her think he would be ready to settle down a year after that. If a female pays no attention to the guys reason for his previus break-up don’t be surpise if it happens to you.Other than that hold your head and get tha bread. No one should feel sory for Usher, he knows what the hell he’s doing. Usher can’t stay committed and thats all it is. Line em’ up let’s see whose next.

People, people this is a win win situation. Usher is Gay, Tameka probablly is too. Ushers mom got grand kids out of the deal…and the best part (say it with me) PRENUP! lol! Everybody wins.