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First.

I didn’t know that she even actually had a career.

Hope the baby looks like her.

I am up to early !!!

erm i actually feel sorry for her, but still really hw got how man babymommas he better keep making money to keep up on all the child support payments.

I can live with
3rd. But dayum
I guess I was reading
slow

Should’ve kept your legs closed.

Guess I Was Second.

When will these women learn?

If you want a good lesson, she should sit and talk to another Lauren, Lauren Hil. Having 5-6 kids with a man who is married and having 3-4 kids simultaneously (at the same time) with his wife. Hell, go talk to Kim Porter. Diddy’s sidepiece who swore Diddy was going to marry her after she had the twins.

Not good, not good at all.

I hate to say it, but these women think that by having a kid/being a baby mama secures them financially.

All it does is expose them to STDs and makes them look stupid.

Good luck to Lauren and Nivea. They will need it.

Duh,I can’t believe she expected something different. And he kisses men so ummm yeah. Moving right along>>>>>

I liked (noticed past tense) Lauren London, since she played NU NU… now I’m like MEH.

HER CAREER IS THRU… OVER….

And Nivea is a H0e. The chick has like 564646164 kids by all of these celebs and athletes. I hope they ALL get tested more than once. SMH @ these people not being more responsible

Bleh!!

I think both of them women should have use codoms because I don’t care how much money he have he can’t cure AIDS. And Laura I think you could have done better and you do not need to be dealing with this stupid stuff he is doing like talking about putting them in a house together, and Nivia how old are you he had a baby with a young lady from Cincinnat I would had him cover up. You both are beautiful young women but look are not everything it’s what you all have in that head of yours and by the look of it I don’t think you all have much because you all slept with that man raw what is up with that.

sweet?! yeah rite everybody know she jumped up and got pregnant so she can get that child support money her career has not going to go so having a baby was her next career move. classic hoodrat nothing more, girls who are pretty wit long weave come a dime a dozen for wayne she is no different.

Lauren’s a fool. Wayne’s been on and off with her and Nivea for years and chopping down every other chick in sight and she knows this. Chick should have moved on.

LAUREN HAS REALLY PLAYED HERSELF… SHE SOLD OUT LOW…REALLY LOW… WHAT A SHAME, WHAT A WASTE

Come on now. What was she really expecting?? she better get comfy. There’s more to come. Wayne is far from done!

why does it have to be she is having her baby for him?
I had a child with a man I KNEW from the beginining wasnt going to be there…but i had my daughter for ME not HIM. Maybe she realized she messed up and decided to deal with her decision…im just sayin

Poor Lauren
Its not like we didn’t know this was gonna happen. Waynes first baby mama said he would never be faithful and he doesn’t know how to. I bet she is having second thoughts about being attracted to all these rappers.

That gravie hurt my damn eyes. What up with that bull?

if he doesnt die from a drug overdose it will be from hiv

I feel bad for Lauren. That was not cool on Wayne’s part. He needs to grow up!

“As we all know Lauren is on the pinnacle of Black Hollywood” – huh? Speak for your damn self… She’s mediocre at best, just cute is all. That doesn’t equal talent….
What did she expect was going to be the outcome, bliss? With Wayne? lol… bytches need to wake up…

I think people are being a little bit harsh on LL, everyone makes mistakes, shes not perfect shes human.

^^^^^^ Oh MY!….. Not going to be on this page today, not from work. Not w/ that gravie lookin’like that… goodness….

That gravie is gross and disgusting!!

Poor Lauren….

Now to the subject matter, is it really that hard to comprehend…marriage first, THEN babies. Even if it doesnt last (Usher, Tameka), but the spiritual, financial and LEGAL commitment to each other BEFORE babymaking is essential!!! well, typical black american woman behaviour, having babies to keep a man (she cant tell me she doesnt know how to use birth control)
NOTICE how ALL the black american women doing something with their lives never get pregnant by ‘accident’(Beyonce, Tyra…) only the useless ones who then scream well HE should have used condoms, NO darling, your health is your responsibiliy and noone elses.

Atleast Lauren has a career still…Nivea doesn’;t

And let me also say the marriage with Nivea and Wayne won’t last either. That’s if they even make it down the aisle.

And who cares about Wayne and his stable of hoodrats!

I dont feel sorry for Lauren at all! She laid down with him…….Gross!

Maaaaaan…I scroll down to put in my two cents and I see a plus size va jay-jay on my screen LMAO girl what are you doin don’t you know little ones be on this site, you say set a good example meanwhile you spread eagle wit ur goodiez out for the world to see lol cova up dat cake it’s too early in the mornin for dessert

Is she pregnant in that pic omg no I’m out

SO sad to bad! That is gross, next we will Little Wayne infected with AIDS………

Nivea and Deelishis could be sisters.

..they look so much alike..dang

he better keep making money to keep up on all the child support payments.
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@queen27

Lil’Wayne has the money… According to Billboard he made $57 Million touring in 2008 and his album has sold at least 3 Million if not more…

Way too late for Lauren to be complaining now ..

@ mojojojo

Be very glad you can’t see it. I wish I was blind right now.

If this is true, Nivea and Lauren need to have a reality show for their last trimester..could be the last work they’d get for a while and I bet VH1 would love to show it.

At first I thought this was just made up bull.

SMDH–can anyone provide proof that Lauren is pregnant because we Just saw photos of her looking super slim?

I would SERIOUSLY consider a late term abortion!!!

Her life is going to full of babymama drama and bullshit!! Furthermore, I don’t care how much money he has……..it’s not worth it at all.

Lady Star’s aviator has me grossed out.

This story is probably a complete LIE!

Laurens “career” is NOT over!!!! How many celebs have babies??? I means seriously! THATS RIDICULOUS TO SAY HER CAREER IS OVER B/C SHE HAS A CHILD..WTF!!! n e 1 who says that is eff-n DUMB AS HELL! IDIOTS!

I’m sure everything will work out fine! People are blowing this up and making a big deal for nothing

@ me no likey

the only reason i believe she’s really pregnant this time is because she’s been MIA for minute, and there has been no denial. My guess is, she’s pregnant, and she’s embarassed that she’s basically a statistic for babymama stats, so she’s mum.

nivea i hope he really makes good on his promise and take your a*s to the alter. good luck baby
p.s just in case dont give him back the ring after all he did it to lauren what’s to stop him from knocking up some other digger and leaving you in the cold?

I wantt to feel sorry for her but I don’t.

She can’t tell me she didn’t know who she was dealing with.

is her career over? who knows…but I do believe it will be a hard battle to get back (no matter how big or small it was). Why? black women already have a hard enough time in the industry….and there’s a lot of competition…someone is always ready and waiting to take your place.

Her pending career will depend on her drive.

Oh…and Nivea is a dumbass too.

I hope she doesn’t think she’s all big and mighty. lol

Chicken heads. I will say this, I don’t know Lauren, but I expected more from her.

keep ya head up l boggie…im goin through a simular situation and it’s not easy girl,just know,YOU R NOT ALONE…B-MORE LUVS YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I guess Lil Wayne is looking to take the crown from Desmond Hatchett

So Lauren London her looks definitely do not match her brains. Not even considering Nivea,she should have known that Lil’wayne is not the “man” to be with. And not using protection in this day and age ESPECIALLY with a “star” like Weezy….wow this broad is dumber than a sack of rocks. LMAO

@leah leah, i guess you didn’t do your research because nivea has kids by her exhusband Dream who is engaged to Christine Millan…..

Lil Wayne reminds me of the gremlins. What do they see in this dude?! @ Eve I was thinking the same thing. She should have done it within the first 6-8weeks. Too much aggravation.

@ eve

thank you! CO-SIGN!!!!!!!!!!!

just goes to show, that there are not a lot of smart females out there.

WHY ARE ALL THESE FEMALES LETTING THESE MEN NUTT IN THEM?!!

it happens to the best of us lauren..

but always K.I.M……

but can you keep it movin while your preggers by the dude??? this is where it gets sticky for the woman!!

STOP HAVING KIDS WITH(so many) DIFFERENT BABY DADDY’S…. YUCK!!! you will get AIDS!!!

@ serene

I agree but he’s been back and forth with Lauren for years as well. He should have made up his mind before knocking either of them up. (And yes I know they both could have made him wrap it up) If he wanted to be with Nivea, he should have just stayed with her. Nivea seems to be more into Wayne than Lauren is anyway. And I only feel bad for Lauren cause there is not turning back now but after this hopefully she will make smarter decisions in the future.

what do you expect from 2 people who look like gremlins(wayne and lauren) and an even uglier one named after a lotion???

THAT IS WHAT SHE GETS FOR BEING A HOE AND OPENING HER LEGS TO A KNOWN MALE HOE AND SLEEPING WITH HIM UNPROTECTED. I DON’T FEEL SORRY FOR HER AT ALL THAT IS WHAT THE HELL SHE GETS. DUMB HOES WANT TO CRY WOLF ALL THE DAMN TIME WHEN THEY COULD HAVE AVOIDED THE SITUATION BY KEEPING THEIR LEGS CLOSED.

@Necy

STOP HAVING KIDS WITH(so many) DIFFERENT BABY DADDY’S…. YUCK!!! you will get AIDS!!!

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Uhm, it’s Lil Wayne who is having all these babies by a bunch of different women. Correct me if I’m wrong but the only other person Nivea has any children by is The Dream and this is Lauren London’s first child.

Why does everyone feel sorry for Lauren “I want a thug” London? You should be happy for her actually, she got exactly what she asked for. A thug. Enjoy Lauren.

I dont feel sorry for GROWN folks I save that for kids and pets…Lauren should’ve known better…Her judgement is JACKED!! Chile you should’ve ran when he was w/superhead.

Their is a Golden rule to”thug lovin” it’s only 1 ride or die chick in a relationship.. Tiny/TI..Shaq/Shaunie,lil Wayne/Nivea..keep up Lauren..learn from this!!

To Lil Wayne Baby Mama, Lil Wayne Baby Mama your career is oooooooooverrrrrr also your kid will be a bassssssssterrrrred!! Dam, I guess truth hurts!!!

WHAT CAREER LAUREN???
ANYWAY THATS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN U LIE DOWN WITH DOGS U GET UP WITH FLEAS.

first of all LMFBAO! @ freaky gravi. lol

2nd @ LL girl u shoulda kept ur legs closed. when in doubt about a dude, just say no. i say wait a year before u open up. by then there is some sort of steady friendship. that is what makes ur relationship last NOT SEX!!! i dont open my legs for nobody. especially now cause of diseases but mostly because i aint had none in so long, it will take me completely off of my grind if i got some good ish right about now. LOSIN IT!

and as far as that dirty d*ck waiting to burn em, lil wayne and the rest of them, YUCK! F*CK EM! THEY AIN’T WORTH LOSING UR LIFE OVER.
and let’s not forget about the little one. i pray for the child that he has a fair chance to grow up to be an upstanding citizen. LL might have to keep his disgusting ways at a distance.

what kills me is every1 on here saying they shouldve used condoms. they arent married. they shouldt have been doing anything if they havent been to the alter. amazing the things that have become acceptable

Lauren London = the pinnacle of Black Hollywood??????????

hahahahahahaaaaaaaa!

Maybe this is a new form of polygamy. A new cult or something. You know the Mormons have the name “Church of Jesus Christ of the Latter Day Saints. You know how black people take things and put a new twist on it. Church of Have a Baby, Get a Check

You know, it can be very efficient for everyone. Three of the kids are so close in age they can share clothes and toys. The mothers can share babysitting duties. When Lauren goes to her casting calls, Nivea can babysit for her. That could be a neat reality show.

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@ Necy, why is Lauren getting all the heat and being called dirty, because she slept with one man? I don’t get it…The double standard is disgusting. And I do think that a respectable man will want her…

I still dont belive it when I see her showing may be.

lauren whatever doesnt kill you makes you stronger!!!

AND IT WASN’T JUST A SURPRISE TO LAUREN THAT NIVEA IS ENGAGED AND CARRYING WAYNE’S BABY-HELL IT’S NEWS TO ALL OF US

NIVEA JUST TRYING TO GO SO HARD NOW TO MAKE IT SEEM LIKE LONDON’S BABY IS ILLEGITIMATE AND HERS IS NOT-HELL SHE NEED TO GET MARRIED FIRST-CAUSE WE ALL KNOW BEING ENGAGED IS JUST THAT IT’S A POSSIBILITY SHE WILL GET MARRIED -BUT IT HASN’T HAPPENED YET AND I HIGHLY DOUBT IT WILL-LET’S WAIT AND SEE

HAS LIL WAYNE SPOKE PUBLICLY ABOUT BEING ENGAGED TO HER OR IS THIS ANOTHER CASE OF A DELUSIONAL CHIC

Good Mornin, peeps!

The only people I feel sorry for in all this mess are the children.

As far as the adults–when are they going to realize that a pregnancy test is not the ONLY test that sometimes comes back positive?

SMH!

typo!

who she is dealing with.

Yall are late on this one. Nivea only has 3 kids with the Dream and this was on Freddy O website last week. PLEASE GET UP TO DATE ON THIS!!!

Ms_NYC

@ Necy, why is Lauren getting all the heat and being called dirty, because she slept with one man? I don’t get it…The double standard is disgusting. And I do think that a respectable man will want her…
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Lauren isn’t getting heat for being dirty; she’s getting heat for being dumb.

Yeah, she slept with one man but it was THAT man. This is a man who already had children from previous relationships and he ain’t married nobody. What made her think that she was different?

How many single men do you know want a ready made family?

@undacu

exactly my point!! who the hell would want to marry them??? why pay for milk when you can get whole cow for free!!! LOL< LMOL!!

@Eve

“When Lauren goes to her casting calls, Nivea can babysit for her. That could be a neat reality show.”

So sad, lol. You never know, there could already be a show in production at BET, sort of like a black real-life “Big Love.”

@pm

LOL, you made me think of that alien birth scene in that old TV mini-series “V.”

What up SYD!

Uck! I think he must have put voodoo on them! Why sleep w/’the gremlin’and breed?! Not good!!

007 SALUTE

Everybody else whats good? Lil Weezy aint to be blamed, shiiit its the standards of these sistas that are to blame.

Hi BG, Diva
The Hawthorne pop-up is getting in the way. TTYL

PIMPIN-SALUTE!

@Pimpin

So men can’t help it if they fall into random women? Those dang cracks in the sidewalk. . .Of course, they’re helpless victims.

Lauren, I hope your kid turns out a lot smarter than you. Common sense and good judgment……you aint got it.
First, you need to grow up. You never ever listen to anyone. You look at what they DO because it is the best predictor on how someone is going to be.

Both men and women need to raise their standards. STAT. If they won’t do it for themselves out of self-respect, they should at least look at the examples they’re setting for the children they’re bringing into this world.

Um, a reoccuring role on Beverly Hills 90210 and being the face of Sean John establishes being on the pinnacle of Black Holloywood?! That was a low blow….
She shouldn’t feel bad because as Ms_NYC stated, she slept with one man and got pregnant! Unfortunately, it was by a man who is obviously not concerned with spreading his spawn wherever he choses. He is utterly disgusting, atrociously unattractive, and remarkably untalented. It is amazing that he is able to con these women into sleeping with him. As for the ‘article’, NO he can’t f#%k anyone in this world he wants to! Not all women want to sleep with ugly, disrespectful, whorish men.
Lauren will okay as will her child. I am sure she won’t have to worry about this guy being around too much because of his other 3,000 kids. If one of your previous articles was true, Lauren already said they weren’t together so it would be a surprise that she got upset about him and this Nivea (with all her other 3 kids but at least she was married to their daddy).
I hope she learns her lesson and decides to use condoms next time…

@Sydney,

Of course he is to blame, but look at his track record and how he carries his self!?!?! Its obvious that he is not the marrying type or the I’m gone handle my business for that matter type, Lauren London knew what time it was, and now she wanna act like she thought she got pregnant by bill cosby…c’mon now! She isn’t the first to knock herself down and she won’t be the last. I see plenty of fine birds in our community thats got multiple baby daddies and career choice is shaking it fast in the club, thats my dumbass if I lay down with them and get caught up in that, cause I knew what it was before I went there!

Is anyone else having problems posting because of Nurse Hawthorne?

Hell yeah, I am not gone be in here today, cause that advertisement won’t let me post!

Yeah, we wish Nurse Hawthorne would go away!!

Damn everybody rolling?

@Pimpin
Oh, I agree wholeheartedly about your point about Lauren being fully aware of the type of man with whom she was getting involved. A woman cannot feign innocence when she’s fully aware of a man’s past, and he has other out-of-wedlock kids.
I had to copy and paste this post into the list comment box, and that’s just too much work. Have a good day , all!

As a illegitimate child who had unwed parents, I did not appreciate it. For a long time, I hated my mother because of it. First of all, it was embarrassing,..everyone in the family had a different father, different last name and different grandmothers. All those stupid stepbrothers and sisters. I think I was relieved when my father died because that meant that I never had to explain my messed up family to anyone again. Family dynamics was totally f**ked up. I need psychiatric help today because of the trauma.
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They never understand what they do is wrong.

@Eve,

What mojojojo did to her daughter was harsh. Is harsh. She is why I dont have respect for black feeemales.

you a bad mf’er when u can knock lauren london up and not wanna have nothing to do with her. Lauren London, Nivea, Nivea, Lauren London…Sorry wayne, i’d of left Nivea alone but to each its own

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@ Mhhh Huhhh ….

Yeah, about that gravatar, I was like WTF!!!

This is how AIDS SPREADS, people!! Wake the F up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I wish i would feel sorry for this broad, she is obviously as dumb as she looks. Shyt i read over 6 months ago he was back messin with Nivea, so how she missed that i dont know. these broads are the lamest. Plus i like Nivea better. teehee

I’m SURE Lauren dropped Weezy because why in the WORLD would he leave her for NIVEA..YUCK!!well they’re both yuck and belong together;o)

@Lady Star

Take that pix down! LOL!

She is why I dont have respect for black feeemales.
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Nah girl dont try that shyt. Your personal background and the lacking of stable motherly guidance in your childhood is why you dont have respect for black females, or yourself booboo.

u welcome.

London approached him like a “fan”, that’s why he don’t want nothing to do with her. She hit the baby daddy lotto, she can front all she want

It’s crazy people expected so much from Lauren London just because she’s pretty. The personality and attitude are what make the person and it’s quite possible that she’s as gutter as any hoodrat out there. She likes thugs and she’s smack in the middle of some baby mama/ baby daddy drama. Don’t understand that…it’s the same thing where men talk about “wifing” up a woman because she’s pretty, when they know nothing about her personality traits.

This is why its so important to spay and neuter your hoodrats.

She knew the job was dirty and took it, and she didn’t over look it!

She said she wanted a thug…she got one. Dumb broad.

Thats disgusting , that picture and the folks on this blog talk about different SNs but any site that lets this picture post is on some dumb something. Marquis/kigali posts under all kinds on names but they accuse and complain, nothing worse than stealing folks gravatars and posing as them~~ lowest of the lows and this picture up here with the dusty vag hanging out~ good thing to change SNs ~ who would want to be known on this site as themselves~

All we can hope for now, is for Weezy to do right by his kids.

This is why its so important to spay and neuter your hoodrats.
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and we can lynch u uncle toms. i think this will work for the race as a whole….

Sorry for her , but she’s a chuckle-head. The brain that she has in her head is a marble, and it’s rolling around in her head bagging agains the shell of a head that she’s got. Acting like a hood rat. She knew that was a bad move, she was just acting ghetto. And Lil Wayne looks just like a rat, hope she don’t have to feed the child a lot of cheese. Oh snap! As the rat trap goes, I hope she doesn’t think that the baby want effect her career, cause it will. Haha, she ain’t the only one that has made the same mistake in life, just hope she learn from it, but dayum what was she thinking.

@Lady Star

She played in more than one film. ATL, This X-mas and Next Day Air. She has 2 other films being released this year so by the time the baby drops she will still be in the theatres. I don’t think Hollywood will forget about her that fast. I’ve seen actresses have babies early in their careers and still go on to do other things. Instead of tearing her down we should be trying to support her. She is young and she made a mistake. Can’t we forgive her for that?

Ever since she made that comment about she only dates thugs and how she wants a man like O-Dog..I have no respect for her. She got what she deserved. Dumb broad.

ms e.j
you ugly too.LOL

@PRPPLE, just call me ..tu shea ..back to lurk mode lol

this is the best thing she’s done. she CANT act, so its better to get in where you fit in with your non talented self.

They both stupid, looking like a carbon copy of Flava Flav…dusty and disgusting.

How do you let something like that splash all up in you….let alone hit that raw…better get some STD and HIV tests dummies!

I`m really trying to work up my “I really care monitor” but it doesn`t care either .

ok for who ever said what i did is wrong is a damn ass! first i had my daughter cus i wanted to have her not to try to keep a relationship going i wanted her!! Now i can suya that what me and her father had wasnt shit.. the pregnancy wast planned but i did what i had to do …its called being responsible. No i am not on any form of government assitance (food stamps welfare WIC) I support my child on my own! no granted i didnt go out and do it again. i learned from this but i will never ever let anyone tell me what i did was a mistake or foolish. now for the people who said they had a hard life because of growing up in a single family home …thats on you if u havent learned to let it go i dont know what to tell u …STOP BEING A VICTIM!! My child is blessed with a loving family and is surounded by love.. SO KICK ROCKS

If I was lauren londons friend that she was telling her story too … my head would be nodding and sheet . She would be on some at your boy “I`ll Talk ” am I keeping you awake ” ? And I would be on some no baby youre not ! This story you are telling me about you and Nivea and wayne is boring as FUCC !

and for you to compare my choice to have my daughter with getting a dog….i should cyber smack ya dumb ass!

@Mojojo

One question for you..when you say “I knew from the beginning her father wouldn’t be there” did you mean you knew from the beginning of the pregnancy or you knew this before you got pregnant?

@mojojojo
Ask your daughter how she feels about not having a father. Even if she is small, ask her what she thinks about it.

You see, no one gets to ask us what we think about it. We’re always an afterthought.

I feel sorry for this girl but at the same time she cant act like she didnt know what she was getting herself into, a pretty girl acting dumb like that.

@ me
when i found out i was pregnant he said he didnt want it…so i did what i had to do and have my child

You go MOjo jo

You do you ma … I`m glad you kept your baby girl.

I feel for both young women… they will have a looooong road ahead feeled with more drama then they are going to want to handle. I wish them the best in their situations.

@Eve,

“Ask your daughter how she feels about not having a father. Even if she is small, ask her what she thinks about it.

You see, no one gets to ask us what we think about it. We’re always an afterthought.”

THANK YOU!!!!!!! For black females, children are always an afterthought. They act like black kids are house plants. Put them in the sun, give them some water and they will grow up just fine. Well children arent house plants. They need more than that. Black females are unwilling to give it to them.

Good afternoon to all. I know this is an unrelated post but, MSN is reporting that Usher has filed for divorce. Why hasn’t Bosssip reported this story yet?

mojojojo

@ me
when i found out i was pregnant he said he didnt want it…so i did what i had to do and have my child
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Why?

I don’t understand. Really I don’t…. but I’m trying. Please explain it to me.

Why would you want to have a baby with someone who doesn’t want to have anything to do with you.

This is why black females dont get wifed up as much! Never give up the milk if he is not willing to buy the whole cow. lmwao

@Mojojojo

I commend you for your decision to have your daughter in spite of the circumstances. The reality is that the sin is not in the child. The misfortune is not in the child. The face the the father is useless and wants nothing to do with the seed he produced is not the childs fault. And it is not our right to take a life that we did not create. Though it is seen more prevalently in the black community that the mother raises the child alone, IT IS NOT IMPOSSIBLE FOR HER TO RAISE HER CHILD THE RIGHT WAY!! Yes a child needs their father, just like they need their mother. But only under the circumstances that that parent will be a responsible being. And that encompases all things. You could not control the mind thought of the man who impregnated you. But if you did the right thing by having your daughter. @#&$ what anyone else has to say.

@KIGALI-Goodafternoon, since this is a public forum I’ve been reading the comments between you Mojojojo *don’t attack me*, but I was wondering if it would be okay to ask you some questions-this seems to be a very interesting topic that you two are discussing. *I come in peace*

@Oshie – how would you know?
I won’t say why some white women probably don’t get pregnant before marriages, but it rhymes with ‘you follow’… lol….

@ eve
like i said it wasnt planned it happened but i did not want to have an abortion so i had her…i understand u didnt have you father and u hated your w mother i am sorry for that…but my child has many uncles and family who love her dearly..yes it will be hard for her not having a father. but the values i have instilled in her will make her strong to help her deal with this

@MOJOJO-I just want to say that I do respect and appreciate the fact that you did not have an abortion, and that you did not run away from your responsibilities which is often times very easy to do.

@ ms. ej
lmaooo go on girl
i wont attack u i just hate when people think they are better than people and try to look down on someone.

@ ignorance
thank you SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much for that…it is possible!!

@ ignorance
thank you Soooooooo much!!…it is possible

mojojojo

@ eve
like i said it wasnt planned it happened but i did not want to have an abortion so i had her…i understand u didnt have you father and u hated your w mother i am sorry for that…but my child has many uncles and family who love her dearly..yes it will be hard for her not having a father. but the values i have instilled in her will make her strong to help her deal with this
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OK… Just don’t make your kid crazy like they did me. It was always too much drama. It was so much that I was so happy to get grown and I swore that I would never speak to any of them again and I haven’t.

Many people are quick to judge when they see a woman with a child with a man not being present in which they automatically assume that he or she is a single mother. However, it is no ones business on whether or not someone is a single mother OR father. I’ve met or had friends who were raised by a single mother, because either their parent was deceased or who married and left or ignored their children. Single parenting also is not only and soley limited to the black race and/or community it is in every race, social class and gender. People often say that it is better for a child to be raised in a two parent home and I say it is in the best interest and better to raise a child who has parents who are intellectually, spiritually, mentally and emotionally stabled, and healthy. People change, people change in marriage or in general in relationships and appear to be one way when they really are not. Often times one does not see how a person really is until rough times come then you really see the true colors. Being a single parent is not evil, is not wrong especially when it was out of your control. As long as that child is loved, has other role models such as uncles, positive male family members then the child will be alright in conjunction with having Christ in your life.

Pinnicle? …really

correction my 1:46 comment

Lauren will get through this, no doubt, as women always do, and they become stronger. The donors-usually become more vicious and manipulative. I applaud any woman who keeps it moving, loving the children and detest those who throw their 2 cents in as if what they say matters–tb why are you on here–and yes Lauren has a career–what do you do?

Ms ej are you are man? j/k

I have no idea why either of these two young ladies would even want Little Wayne to touch them . . . Those teeth are a fright, his tattos aren’t even attractive . . . Is he even clean because he never looks like it.

*since*

@KIGALI-Thank you *wipe sweat from my forehead* it is my understanding based on what you’ve expressed in your reply to me that you are trying to teach black females about being a good woman, but it seemed more so geard towards getting and maintaining a man. A man should never be the focal point particulary for women, but to make God the author of our life. Second, it should be for a woman to learn how to love and value herself, and third for women particulary those who’ve experienced not so great relationships to work on herself, to cleanse herself from baggage and then she would be prepared to be a bestfriend and wife to her future husband.

It strongly seems that you are tearing down women, kicking those who are already on the ground, your beating down ones spirit so much so that the message your trying to get across will not be recieved(sp). I do not understand or it seems that you have so much anger, so much negativity, and maybe that it not your intention, but it comes off in a way far from helping.

Why not at least congradulate a woman for not running away from her responsibilites? why not acknowledge the fact that she choose to not have an abortion? why not try to lift her spirits rather than condeming her?

@OSHIE-No not at all, may I ask why you asked that question?

@Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)
one more i had to add this
so please tell me about the children who are in households and the father or mother is cheating? or they are not involved in their childs life @ all? but they live there…or living in a loveless marriage for the sake of the kids? what re u teaching them then? pleaes answer this!

mS.eJ and mojojo please pay Margaret Sanger no mind, Kigali is ignorant, a racist and has self hatred that stems from abuse and abandonment in her childhood. No amount of money can buy commom sense no matter how many degrees you purchase. All of us here with the God given common sense we were born with have put an end to that non-sense she be typing countless number of times. Please understand an educated fool is still a fool. This is extremely apparent in everything she post. Please do not waste your time and no need to try to reason or argue with a fool, because you become the fool.

@KIGALI-I would like to add as well that I do so 100% agree with you regarding those not taking birthcontrol or using condoms. I understand the argument as well regarding those who claim they were not ready or didn’t plan a child, but yet still had unsafe sex. Those were very valid points.

PRPPLE, just call me TADOW

mS.eJ and mojojo please pay Margaret Sanger no mind

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LOLOLOL

white lightning is that you?????? (oshie)

@KIGALI-Your colors of ignorance has truly shown through and sadly you seems you are unable to partake in adult like discussions and/or debates without profanities and adolescent rebuttles.

@PRPPLE-I just seen and will no longer respond or give time to read her comments, clearly she does not care neither do I anymore.

Everyone Have A Blessed Day!!! Time for lunch

@ tb, I’m gonna echo you…like really, what did she expect. I feel bad for the baby, you know, growing up fatherless and all. Will women ever learn?

@Purple Just call Me Taddow,

“mS.eJ and mojojo please pay Margaret Sanger no mind…”

Have I ever supported aboriton on this site or any other site I have been to? Because I support birth control and two parent families, and marriage I am the one with the problem?

Typical black feeemale.

Why would Nivea want to have anymore kids, doen’t she already have three kids with The Dream. She needs birth control

This girl is the ultimate in DUMB. Everyone knows that Wayne was fuc*** Nivea before she made Dream look stupid. Matter of fact, wasn’t there some debate as to whether or not the Wayne fathered Nivea’s first kid(the one that supposedly belongs to dream, anyway all I know is she was to pretty to ever LOWER her standards for Wayne but I guess she had to learn that lesson the hard way like the other babymommas of the world. Actions speak louder than words.

kigali, seriously. i asked you 2 questions…..have you no response? or is it safe to say that you are simply arguing with mojojojo to get a rise ?

Hey Purp!! Do you have any percocets or vicodins I can get??? This damn toothache is killing me.

@Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO ignorance @ its finest!! go on gurl keep on keeping on! u too stupid to argue with…i thought i was talking to someone who was intelligent with real facts to back there foolishness…my bad

@Kigali

That’s not why she called you Margaret Sanger, Cowboy. Go do some more intarwebz research. You claim to be so good at it.

@ ignorance
yea why hasnt she answered you? she is a lame

hey yall

Oshie

Hey Purp!! Do you have any percocets or vicodins I can get??? This damn toothache is killing me.
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Now why you want to go and impersonate white lightning like dat…

@mojojojo

i’ve got this weird feeling that she wont answer me. as it may open up a door and expose her own filthy insides, or prove her to be somewhat of a hypocrite. geniuses never answer questions that may discredit their bullshit. lol

Lauren London 7 Nivea neither of them need Weezy to provide for their children so what is the problem? Being a single parent is not the ideal way in which to raise a child but both young ladies in question have more financially to offer a child than anybody sitting here reading/posting about them so to all that have something to say (esp Kigali..wit yo dumb ass)KEEP READING, U MAKE ‘em FAMOUS!!!!
I’m sure ur opinion rates high with Lauren…..LMBAO

Well, Weezy and Nivea are “supposed” to be getting married soon so Ms. London is going to be feeling very dumb after the nuptials. I hope that she doesn’t lose her baby due to the stress that she is going to endure because babies are a blessing to a family but then again that would be a blessing to her as well. I hope the best for them all in this situation. Hopefully she’ll choose better the next time around.

:-*

We all knoe LilWaynw has a son about 6 months old so we know he was going Raw with that girl.We all have seen Nivea all on tour with Wayne and we all Know that they have been on and off since Before he and Toya were married, Before she and dream were married and Before she had any kids…..so It really wasnt a surprise that Nivea got preggers. Lauren messed with Wayne before but after all this Public Wayne history I expected her tp Love and Respect Herself enough to have Her Own Protection including Condoms for Wayne or whoever. LADIES IF HE DON’T WANNA PROTECT HIM YOU STILL GOTTA PROTECT YOU!!!!! Lauren is waiting on that check career my ass.

@me(The original)

“That’s not why she called you Margaret Sanger, Cowboy.”

So why did she then? I am empowering black females. If she wants to go to school, have a career, be eligible for good men, she can do this without having children to worry about. What is so wrong with my message of birth control?

Like I always say, I would rather black females not have kids than for black kids not to have fathers and intact families. Until she can find a husband, she should not be having children, so she should be using birth control. She will protect herself from STDs too.

When she does have a husband, she can have ALL the kids she wants. I love big families but only when a father is present. WHy because it is good for her and it is GREAT for children. Can you deny that? I didnt think so.

You just dont care enough about black children. I do.

kigali, ding ding ding you answered one question, but still proved yourself to be empty headed. so you’re telling me that if you are fully capable of taking care of your child, and being able to let your child know that you love him/her inspite of the other parent being absent, you would rather shun your responsibility off on some other couple because the man isnt around? sounds more like you’re making it a “my baby daddy dont want me” issue. God knows i pray that you dont have any children or that you are just joking. cause you are densed.

There is no such thing as a ‘typical black female’please, a lack of class and integrity has no color to all you ignorant people speaking on the black woman.

White men don’t want black women either, they are either full of attitude or disease or full of children and their single mothers and friends ideas and values. White men’s perception of black women is that they have diseases. There are no options for black women. They want rich guys when they don’t have anything o bring to the table, but abig butt and a smile. Black women will be dating black women if they keep the mentality they carry around.

@Kigali

Here, please insert actual periods wherever you see (dot)

www(dot)acts1711(dot)com/sanger(dot)htm

I DON’T BELIEVE IN ABORTIONS AND THESE WOMEN KNEW WHAT THEY WERE GETTING INTO….I DON’T CARE HOW HEATED THE MOMENT IS, I ALWAYS STOP TO THINK WHAT COME OUT OF THIS SITUATION…HOLLYWOODS BEHAVIOR AIN’T NEVER TO FAR FROM THE HOOD. WE SEE IT EVERYDAY.

AS A STRONG BLACK WOMAN I FEEL BOTH OF THESE YOUNG LADIES WILL BE JUST FINE IN THEIR CHILD RAISING VENTURES. THEY ARE BOTH FINANCIALLY STABLE AND WITH OR WITHOUT WAYNE THEY SHOULD BE PROUD OF THEIR BLESSINGS!

Casey Anthony’s daughter would still be alive if she had given her up for adoption.

Hey Pimpin!

What the business is? Its whack up in here today!

Nivia used to be married to The Dream. Do she have a kid by him too?

NIVEA HAS THREE BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN ALREADY AND EACH ADDITIONAL ONE WILL BE A BLESSING FROM GOD! CHILDREN ARE TO BE VIEWED AS BLESSINGS AND YOU SICK PEOPLE MAKING THE TWISTED COMMENTS NEED A BIG OLE SPANKIN FOR TALKING BAD ABOUT KIDS!

@ Undacuvabrutha

Sorry honey not me! Money doesnt move me like that!!! I would rather have a God fearing hardworking man than something like that! No offense to Wayne but the boy is lost!!!

heeeey Pimpin, whus pimpin?

@ I need a black queen

YUOR NOT LYING AT ALL MY FRIEND I FEEL WHERE YOUR COMING FROM.

I wish they wouldnt post that ugly azz pic of wayne anymore, scary!

@ Kigali

You do not know what Gods plan is for anybody. Thats why it is not wise to speak on someone else’s situation. While you are talking about somebody being left and you having a husband he could leave you tomorrow or anything could happen. I’m not trying to take sides just observing.

If you lie down with a man or woman without birth control and a child is conceived, then the child was planned. For a person to knowingly bring an innocent child into the world “just for them”, without a married mother and father in a household is downright selfish and cruel. Did you ever stop and think about how this would affect the baby? There is no honor in being a glorified baby mama/baby daddy. Children aren’t toys or animals to be plaed with. They grown into children, young adults and while they might not tell you they are hurting, believe me they do hurt when they are product of a single mother who didn’t give a damn about their emotional well being. Like someone above said, ask your child how they feel about not having a father. I dare you.

BLACK WOMEN REMEMBER THE BLACK MAN YOU PAID NO ATTENTION TO IN SCHOOL, AND GAVE NO TIME OF DAY. WELL MOST ARE SUCCESSFUL AND RAN OFF BY YOU. STRAIGHT INTO THE ARMS OF WHITE,ASIAN,LATIN WOMEN WHO TREAT THEM LIKE THEY ALWAYS WANTED BACK WOMEN TO DO. YOU FANTASIZE ABOUT TUPAC THATS WHAT YOU GOING TO GET, BUT DON’T BE BITTER WHEN GUYS LIKE DENNIS RODMAN WON’T GIVE YOU A 2ND LOOK! I LOVE THE BLACK WOMAN, BUT I CAN’T FIND NONE WHO MEET MY STANDARDS.

I know God’s plan wasn’t for children to be born to selfish people who don’t give a damn if the child has two parents or not.

@ Undacuvabrutha

Yeah thats me. They gave me a new name. LOL!

@ ignorance
thank you so much it is hard but i am strong i wont let anyone break me or her down…but what is so sad it is our own people who but so much on each other instead of uplifting one another… i guess its easier to kick a person when they are down then to lend a hand for support….smh

@ SWIRL IF I MAY

Did you just say Dennis Rodman? WTF????!!???? LMAO!!!!!! No comment!!!

PRPPLE, just call me TADOW

heeeey Pimpin, whus pimpin?

The usual, trying to get some of that good good from you! Trying to get chose! lol

@ Pimpin

Whats your question?

I remember she liked the gangsta type of guy.. see that is what u get! Any chick who wants a thug ain’t right in her mind! You can have cool guy who is street smart but not thuggish! Shoulda dated me! I look betta anyways!

What I don’t understand is, why is it acceptable in our community to have kids out of wedlock and to honor baby mamas and baby daddies? Just because you can have a child doesn’t mean you should. What about birth control? Why is it a BIG SIN to NOT use birth control in our community?
Everyone one says, Oh she’ll be alright, God will take care of her baby, she will be loved, she has money, blah blah blah…. Why can’t some of you all stop and think before getting pregnant? Why can’t you ask yourself is this man husband/father material? Is that so hard?

@ mojojojo

Girl, only God can judge you people who feel the need to put others down are just trying to make themselves feel better! So keep your head up my sister because in Gods eyes we are all his children no matter what mistakes we have made.

You do not know what Gods plan is for anybody. Thats why it is not wise to speak on someone else’s situation. While you are talking about somebody being left and you having a husband he could leave you tomorrow or anything could happen. I’m not trying to take sides just observing.
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LOL, she doesn’t know any better but she WILL learn

Now my thing Kigali is WHY arent you offering up your husband for pleural marriage so that you guys can really help some sistas out instead of talking that bullshyt everyday on here. I guess ur azz dont really want to help you just want to talk shyt while not saying NOTHING. dummy. You are C-through like Saran Wrap girl, the cheap stuff. Bye.

I hate to say this but women can be soooo stupid!!! With many age doesn’t help…

The Dennis Rodman argument gets an epic fail!! White women did not want him then, and if they want him now, IT IS BECAUSE HE HAS MONEY!!!

@Purple Just Call Me Taddow,

“Now my thing Kigali is WHY arent you offering up your husband for pleural marriage so that you guys can really help some sistas out…”

Black females are too high risk. We will find a wife from his country.

@ Kigali

Damn, like Denzel said in Training Day “I can’t miss”, i’ll leave a seed in you

White women are not these great wonderful perfect creatures that some of you try to make them out to be. All they are is white!!

The Dennis Rodman argument gets an epic fail!! White women did not want him then, and if they want him now, IT IS BECAUSE HE HAS MONEY!!!
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NO BLACK WOMEN FAILED! JUST ASK ANY PRO ATHELETE WITH MONEY, WHO SEE STRAIGHT THROUGH YOUR B.S.

she mustve thought her looks can keep him!…..NOT

@mojojojo,

I would have a lot more sympathy for you when you admit you made a HUGE mistake. That you chose the wrong man. And that you are warning other black feemale not to make the same mistake. All I hear from you is: I am responsible, I didnt have an abortion and you should think I am a great black woman because of it.

I dont think you are great. There are still some, few, black woman out there who are making the right decisions, getting their education, getting their career going, finding a husband, getting married, and having kids. I respect those women, NOT YOU!.

White is right!

Black is crack, it kills! lmwao

Black females are too high risk. We will find a wife from his country.
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LOL uh-huh, do you part, but dont do it in the VERY country you complaining about huh. simple broad. You know that man want a chick straight out the Hood. LOL. he prob aint even black is he. LMFAO. girl i cant talk to you today.

@ Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

THATS IT THATS IT!! YOU ARE BARRON! THATS WHY U HATE ON SINGLE WOMEN SO MUCH!! YOU CANT HAVE ANY! YOU HAVE THIS “PERFECT” MARRIAGE BUT NO KIDS SO U HATE ANYONE WHO HAS ONE WITH OUT GOING THROUGH WHAT U WENT THROUGH..SO U FEEL IN LOVE, GOT MARRIED, AND NOW IT IS TIME FOR THE KIDS…BUT WAIT U CANT HAVE ANY SO U HATE ALL THE WOMEN WHO HAVE WHAT U ALWAYS WANTED….WOW IT WILL BE OK LIKE U SAY U CAN ALWAYS ADOPT

Why can’t one of them have a girl?

@ Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)
I MADE ONE MISTAKE AND THAT WAS HER FATHER BUT I WILL NEVER EVER SAY I MADE A HUGE MISTAKE BY KEEPING MY DAUGHTER…IM SORRY BUT I WONT

@ Sanjor

You never answered my question.

Now I’m bored. Are the Hawthorne issues fixed?

Awesome-O-3000 (Chairman of the Bum)

Now I’m bored. Are the Hawthorne issues fixed?

Yeah I think so pimp, I’m posting without a problem.

@mojojojo,

If I couldnt have children of my own, I could always adopt. Maybe I should adopt yours. Still my adopted kids will turn out a heck of a lot better than that bastard you are raising.

And yes your child is a bastard because you made it that way.

all yall shut the hell up..who gives a fuk bout her ,wayne or the bastard child.
or why yall have kids or not…damn.. wishn yall mothers woulda aborted YALL!!

@mojojojo,

There are a lot of reasons to hate single mothers. They planned kids with no intact family. They put their children on a path that isnt conducive to a successful childhood or adulthood. They keep their children in generational poverty. Isnt that reason enough to hate them? Hate them for the sake of their children.

Pimpin Willie Dynamite (CEO Of K.D.B. INC. “Horsemanship Scholar”)

Awesome-O-3000 (Chairman of the Bum)

Now I’m bored. Are the Hawthorne issues fixed?

Yeah I think so pimp, I’m posting without a problem.

Aite, thats what’s up. I couldn’t take it this morning. What going on Pimp? What’s happening in here?

@Prpple,
as a matter of fact I mentor a 3 girls here in the midwest. I’m not talking about taking them shopping so they can get the latest baby phat or apple bottom jeans. I have enrolled them in educational classes, I take them to museums, we go to the library, field trips, I study with them and talk to them. I try to lead by example. I was fortunate to have been raised in a two parent home. My parents have been together for over 40 years. My parents inculcated in me to finish school, go to college, get a job, find a responsible man who was marriage and father material. So that’s what I did. You are right it starts at home and I want to give back. The girls I mentor are 10, 13 and 15, they all come from single parent homes. I’m doing everything I can to prevent them from becoming unwed baby mamas without any hope. Is that ok with you Prppl?

@Sanjor,

Hold it down in here, I have to run some errands. Be the voice of wisdom you awesome responsible, mature, beautiful REAL black WOMAN.

@ Pimpim

Ok.

@Prpple,
You are right, I can’t follow you because your intelligence is subpar. Try writing a coherent sentence and then maybe I will be able to understand you.

stupid girls…..just cuz ure having a baby does
NOT mean ure a family! when will these silly gurlz learn? get married people, marriage is not outta style….my two cents

*peeking in*

Where is everyone today?

What’s up Everyone!

@ sanjor
why do they have to have no hope if they are a “baby mamma”? now i was raised in a two family home. My father was a GREAT man..but i still had a baby of wedlock. so are u saying he failed as a parent because his 24 yr old child who has never been pregnant had a child?

trs

*peeking in*

Where is everyone today?

What’s up Everyone!

Hello TRS, Still I Rise, Still I Rise, cye

@Prpple,
You are right, I can’t follow you because your intelligence is subpar. Try writing a coherent sentence and then maybe I will be able to understand you.
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well shyt you coulda fooled me cause you wrote a whole paragraph pretending to comprehend what i said. You just wanted something smart to say didn’t you? LOL, my intelligence wasnt subpar that time was it?

@ Suga Lips

What’s up ma. Most of the regulars dipped out this morning cuz Jada was F-ing up posting. How are you.

Lil weezy eeeewwwww! Lauren and Nivea must be bishes with low self esteem like alot of you hoes on here. Yes i’m talking to you bi*ch!

@ Kigali

What are you doing to help the situation besides passing judgement? I will always bring God into anything I do honey! He is the beginning and the end. Yes there are women (not just black women) who are being irresponsible out here. I believe in the sanctity of marriage. But it doesnt always turn out that way. I think the best way to fix these problems are to reach young men and women before it is too late. I’m not about to debate about this. I just dont like to see someone being put down because they made a mistake in life. Every second we have here is a chance to turn things around!

and marriage isn’t everything
u think there arent married woman trying to file for child support cus their HUSBAND wont take care of their children?

@ mojojojo

You dont owe anybody and explanation honey! What you do is between you and GOD! As long as you raise your child with values and do the best you can thats all you can do at this point. God will bless you with a good man if you have faith.

@mojojo,
I will say this, I have more respect for you than some of these stuck on dumb women out here that can’t admit they made a mistake and keep repeating it. I hope you do everything humanly possible to provide for your child emotionally, spiritually and physically. Yes, you are also right about a spouse losing a job, or infact leaving the marriage, a spouse can also die, BUT marriage lays the groundwork and a solid foundation for children to see that there parents cared enough about them to form a union before bringing them into the world. Then if unforseen circumstances come up like divorce or even death, that child still will know that they were a number one priority in their parents lives. I hope your daughter grows up to be a well rounded great human being. I wish no harm to you or her.

@ sanjor
why do they have to have no hope if they are a “baby mamma”? now i was raised in a two family home. My father was a GREAT man..but i still had a baby of wedlock. so are u saying he failed as a parent because his 24 yr old child who has never been pregnant had a child?
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they dont know WHAT they are saying. They are talking about some imaginary world that hasn’t existed since the beginning of time. These women have the nerve to want to degrade single black mothers but aren’t on here talking about ANY of the aspects that cause this situation which will lead to solutions. They are talking just to talk,….or typing just to type. i mean everybody has opinions….

@CARAMEL CUTIE

PLEASE DONT COME IN HERE BRAGGING ABOUT YOUR SKIN COLOR! WE ARE ALL GOD’D CHILDREN AND AS MY NAME STATES ALL SHADES OF COLOR ARE BEAUTIFUL IN THEIR OWN WAY! WHAT DOES YOUR BMW HAVE TO DO WITH ANYTHING?? YOU SOUND LIKE ANOTHER YOUNG LADY STUCK ON HERSELF CHASING THE MATERIAL THINGS LIFE HAS TO OFFER!

HEY TRS!

@prppl
I’m talking about your comment at 3:28, I didn’t understand what you were trying to say.

@ Caramel Cutie

I want to split in the backseat of your car.

@ sxyQblondie ALL BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL

Tell her sis no one gives a damn! She is obviously the one with low self esteem bragging on material things. I could do the same but her feelings might get hurt!

@ Awesome

LOL @ your new SN!! It’s slow today huh? All the Laker fans must be in recovery mode after last night! LOL

@ Sanjor

Good job at avoiding my question. You got skillz girl.

@ sanjor
yes you are right about marriage…i do wish i was married (not to him) before i had her, thats how i was raised but that wasnt the hand i was dealt…so i am playing it to the best of my ablities

@prpple
These women have the nerve to want to degrade single black mothers but aren’t on here talking about ANY of the aspects that cause this situation which will lead to solutions.
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I’m not degrading anyone. Not only am I talking the talk but I’m walking the walk. When I talk to my girls that I mentor, they tell me they learned from their mothers that it was ok to have multiple baby daddies, that their own mothers or products of single parent homes. They have told me that alot of times they feel HOPELESS because they haven’t been taught how to be a woman, how they have been raised with no self esteem, how they cry because they have other friends who have strong black fathers who love their daughters, how they are sick and tired of being baby sitters to their siblings because their moms keep getting pregnant by different men and then expecting them to help raise them. It breaks my heart to see them suffer like this. So if I can do anything to make a difference and get them on a positive course I will.

@ trs

Yeah, it’s a slow day. I think I saw Snoop in here earlier, but I know he was probably just taking a break for celebrating

@ mojojojo

No problem sis. Thats the problem with black women we need to stick together and stop trying to tear each other down we are sisters! No one is perfect and never will be!

I USED TO HATE WHEN PEOPLE WOULD SAY “DARK SKINNED IS IN” OR “LIGHT SKINNED IS IN!” I HAVE ALWAYS LOOKED AT MY PEOPLE AS BEAUTIFUL, REGARDLESS OF SKIN TONE!

@ Kami

Nothing much going on here. Just passing the time. How are you?

@ Kami

I am glad that you had a good time for your birthday celebration!

@ Redd

I know you ain’t bragging mama, I am.

@ trs

Haha, Snoop was probably out there turning over old school rides. I’m going to have to ask him. The Magic looked defeated last night, like they knew it was a wrap before the game started.

@TRS

HAVE YOU HEARD FROM LADY A? I EMAILED HER BUT DIDNT GET A RESPONSE. SINCE SHE IS NOT ON HERE I THOUGHT MAYBE SHE WAS OUT OF TOWN OR ON VACTION!

HEY TRS, HEY AWESOME

@ sxyQblondie ALL BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL

Bi*ch are you jealous? I haven’t saId anything about my skin color, i believe black is beautiful but your not. If i wanna speak about my BMW i can, if i wanted to take your man i can! You envious ugly fat faceless hoes kill me! Wonder why you bi*ches are single with nappy headed snotty nose kids. bye got better things to do then chat with a bi*ch who look like a struck match.

@ Undacuvabrutha

Ok.

Hey Lady A!!!!

I have been wondering where you were at!

lmaoo fake sxy q,
now you know I never got your email cause you don’t have my addy to email me…

she dumb for thinking he was the only one he was hittin raw dog

@ Awesome

You are right about the Magic. I felt so sorry for them because they looked so messy last night. It’s like they didn’t get anything going all night long and even when they did, the Lakers had an answer for them. I knew the Lakers were going to win but I had hoped that the Magic would at least win their 3 games at home. SMH

@ eve
damn! u had it rough!
but see single mothers shouldnt take the blame for that…we are all not irresponsible. like myself i had ONE. I knew i was by myself and i didnt feel the need to bring more in the world alone. so please we need to direct this to irresponsible mothers not just single motheres

Lady A

What’s up ma?

TRS,
you should’ve emailed me.

Awesome I emailed you earlier…lol

@ Lady A

Yeah, I will next time. You and JB was missed on here!

@ Kami

Haha. That’s cool though, it’s ok to get a little crazy every now and then especially on your birthday, but mixing drinks will put you down quick. You should’ve made a Weezy, Kanye, T-Pain melody. Lol.

LOL AT THE LADY A IMPOSTER SHOWING UP RIGHT AFTER I MENTION HER NAME!

BE CAREFUL TRS!

@ trs

Yeah, I thought it would at least go to game 6. But they just got handled the entire series.

lolol yeh right fake q,
your fake properties still to this day start with 322b…Real sxy q has always started with 25….thats how ppl were able to tell yall apart…my imposter pics would be blurry. You gotta get a lil smarter.

@Sanjor
daughters, how they are sick and tired of being baby sitters to their siblings because their moms keep getting pregnant by different men and then expecting them to help raise them.
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That was one of my pet peeves when I was a kid. I absolutely hated it. Don’t make your older children babysit for your children. They are your children and YOU need to see about them.

To this day, I will not let any of my sisters or brothers come to my house….they can’t call either….or email…….twitter…or facebook.

@ sanjor
as i was saying to eve why is it a single parent thing and not an irresponsible parent thing? she is clearly that. there are men who are parents but still have babies all around town…they might care for it but its still wrong. she should have learned form her first child but she didnt. I think we need to say it is an irresponsblie parent.

serve them both right. you lay down with dogs, you get up with fleas. if you have no standards for yourself, then this is what happens. both she and nivea got exactly what they both wanted. to be attached to him even if they can’t have him for life.

@ Awesome

But they just got handled the entire series.
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LOL yeah pretty much!!!! What do you think about the possible Shaq/Lebron line up in Cleveland? U heard about that right?

@ Lady A

Haha, my bad. I actually did some work today, so I hadn’t checked my email. I got it though.

@ trs

That’s going to be interesting if that happens. Shaq is such a body and presence in the paint that if teams pay him any attention at all, the cavs might be a force. It also might keep Lebron in Cleveland at least for a couple more years. I think that may be the whole point behind the talks, if it’s true.

@prppple,
no you don’t argue in semantics just stupidity and lack of common sense. Are you telling me that kids coming from committed two parent homes are just as likely to become unwed mothers? Earlier you asked what I was doing for our community and when I tell you, you call it a sob story and an african commercial. Whether a person lives in the Ghetto or on the upper west side, we all have an inherent responsibility to our kids, and that is to provide them with a mother and father in a stable home so that they have every chance in the world to be well rounded, well loved, well adjusted human beings. No matter how much money,
how big your house is, how poor you are, a child will always yearn for both a mother and father. A child will give up everything they have to have committed parents.

@eve Dang, that’s harsh. You refuse to communicate with your own brothers and sisters? I love my peoples.

TRS

You rang!!

What’s up with everyone?

@ Awesome

Well I hope that it works out for the Cavs. I think that would totally change the dynamic of the East…

Alright Everybody…

I hate to run, but I am out.

Holla!!!

awesome,
lolol I thought I may have scared you…I understand

Oops TRS

I was not feeling like dealing withthe BS today so I was being incognito.

Hey Awesome and Lady A

@mojojo,
my sister is both a single and irresponsible parent and so are some men, and you are right, wrong is wrong, I’m not cutting anyone slack. However, I do hold women to a higher standard because we have the ultimate control over our bodies and determine what type of life we want for our children. Yes some make mistakes learn from them and move on. I applaud those women, but for those that don’t I have contempt for them. I love my sister, but I hate what her actions have led her to become and I hate what her child will have to go through because of her actions.

To think all of these young successful women would fall for this little alien amazes me! I guess when left to play the silly rabbits will fall for the same old tricks. Anyhoo, it is what it is these days.

What’s up JB

I didn’t buy that ‘I care for the children’act that hoe Kigali was spewing for one minute.

I know saying this is like beating a dead horse but there are too many forms of birth control for either of these women to be in this predicament!!! This is nothing more than lazy stupidity on ALL of their parts!!!

And no matter how many women Wayne knocks up I still believe he’s GAY.

OK….who’s still up in this piece with me?

*bats an eye*

@ Undacuva, you got it. I will no longer use your nic without permission. It just gets tiring trying to decifer who is real and who isn’t.

What’s up 1 Tru Diva!!

@undacuvabrutha,
did I say I was a victim. Just because I went through a divorce does it mean that I have to change my beliefs and values. I stand by everything I’ve said. Actually, my ex is the one I feel sorry for. After climbing the corporate ladder he decided that he wanted to be single and date a different women. I didn’t run in the street, I took care of his home and his child. Now he is by himself, except for all his women. He doesn’t have the pleasure of seeing his son in school plays, his first soccer game, winning school awards. He chose women over his marriage and son. So you tell me I’m bi-polar. No you bumbaclot, I’m more of a woman than you will ever have.

@ Syd

You would loan Dennis Rodman your lip gloss? Ewwwww? Lol

Hey Syd!!

Have you ever read the book Sassafras, Indigo and Blue (something like that)?

Heyah JB!!!

What’s crackin?

Dennis Rodman??? I stepped in on this?

Yeah from the neck down. Plus he will IMO be the best 6th man/defensive player ever. THe Detroit days and the early Chicago days

@ JB

“Undacuva, you got it. I will no longer use your nic without permission.”

Damn, I would rather have the smack on the ass.

@Awesome

“You would loan Dennis Rodman your lip gloss? Ewwwww? Lol”

LOL, I mean, I could suggest that he buy some MAC lipglass. I’m sure it will give his lips a nice sheen.

@JB

Hey, I haven’t heard of that book. What is it about?

Why somebody give my cousin (who’s a deaf mute) an ipod shuffle??

What good did THAT do??

@ Tru diva
Are you serious?

@ ture diva
PLEASE STOP IM CRYING!!
ipdo shuffle LMAOOOO

@ Undacuva ok you win.

@ Syd

It is about three sisters from I think Charelston SC growing up. I couldn’t get into it. But everyone I know says it is really good. I think Nathan McCalls autobiography messed me up because I had to read both for a class and read his first and the Sassafrass was like a big let down

Like———

Why my uncle got one missing tooth in the front and a gold cap covering the other one?

With his initial in it???

WTF??????

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Because he is black, enough said!

1 Tru

You and these family stories got me dying over here

Why did my cousin Stacy pay for everyone’s shyt @ Sam’s club…..

with an EBT card???

I was like…………WTF?

That shyt looks just like a damn credit card….got the statue of liberty all up on that bytch with stars, stripes…the WHOLE DAMN FLAG!!!

Good grief!!

@ Syd

Oh alright. Because there are some people that should be followed by a floating Lysol can, and that dude should be one.

@ truDiva

LMAO @ ipod shuffle.

@Diva

“Why my uncle got one missing tooth in the front and a gold cap covering the other one?

With his initial in it???”

Stop the madness, girl. Your uncle has a monogrammed gold cap? LOL!!

bg,
back so soon?

According to previous posts by Kigali, this is ultimately YOUR fault and you clearly didn’t do everything you should have to keep your man happy at home.
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In her defense even though I don’t know why I am, but Kigali will say to leave a man when he cheats.

But I do agree with you. She hates her less than she hates unwed baby mama hoot rats

Hey I got a child support credit card that has a MC logo. Child support gets depostied every month onthe card.

Hey, Syd. What was wrong with ‘Makes Me Wanna Holler’?

@JB

You read Makes Me Wanna Holler? Yeah, it messed me up, too. I never finished the whole book.

@Awesome

Yeah, Rodman looks downright unhygienic. Ew.

OK I am out yall. LAdy a and #12 I will hit you up later!

Smooches!!!!!!!

LADY A
Yeah people kept tryin to look in the damn car. disturbing my beauty rest and shit. I told this one lady that I came with the car if she buys it

Not to just jump in the mix here but Colson Whitehead has a new novel. I’m checking for that. I was really impressed with his previous one – ‘John Henry Days.’

I must be one of the few people who still doesn’t know what an EBT card is, lol.

@ Syd

You got to finish reading it. I cried, laughed, got angry in every chapter.

He teaches at Emory University now.

Ok for real I am out.

@Awww

Did Colson Whitehead write “Sag Harbor?” I think I saw a review of it recently.

OK, I’m out, all. Have a good one.

Yeah people kept tryin to look in the damn car. disturbing my beauty rest and shit. I told this one lady that I came with the car if she buys it
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LMAO!!!

@ Syd
You sure are? It’s a food stamp card G

@JB

Yeah, I will. The chapter on trains just really got to me. It was so disturbing, I had to put the book down, and I never picked it back up.

Later JB

bg,
lmaoooooo…that’s not a good hiding spot then.

Oh, thanks for the info, BG! Now I know. Bye!

Syd, I think I did see ‘Sag Harbor’when I was checking out the Barnes and Noble site for his latest. I have only read ‘John Henry Days’though. He’s very talented.

SYD
And knowing is half the battle….
*G.I. Joe voice*
BYE!

Lady A
I know we need to bring in another one of those vans, now that was good sleep right there.I would get in the back a stretch out…..those were the days

I don’t know how many times I must have passed ‘Make Me Wanna Holler’without getting it. It’s hard for me to empathize with anybody who got themselves into criminal activity, went to jail, etc and then did the whole ‘the-man-is-out-to-get-me’song and dance. Just because you live in the hood does not mean you have to subject yourself to criminal activity to fit in. I’ve spent many years in the ghetto and I’ve never felt compelled to have anything to do with those shit-talkers on the street corner. It can be avoided. It’s not that hard.

@JB

In her defense even though I don’t know why I am, but Kigali will say to leave a man when he cheats.

But I do agree with you. She hates her less than she hates unwed baby mama hoot rats

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Oh really? I missed that one. I remember the one time (it was months ago at this point) I asked her what her thoughts were on women who had children in wedlock but their marriages ended a couple of years after the children were born and she made that comment about hating them only slightly less. It was also the same thread I mentioned how high the divorce rate was among all married couples here in the US and she basically said that these marriages were ending because other races were developing the black woman’s attitude.

Many lolz were had. LOL.

lmaooooo bg…
I would truly walk by and disturb you…lmao…Just open the door and let a bunch of kids “I do the weekly carpool for camp, I need to make sure these kids fit”

Could have been worse, 1Tru. It could have been an Iphone.

@ Awesome–

nah, fam!!!! He kept vehemently shaking his head from side to aide!!!!

@ AAAAAAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWWWW—

LMAO!!!!!! You KNOW you wrong for that!!!

Lol!!!!!

@ TruDiva

Haha. Aggressive body language

Diva you have any yard sales coming up??? I am looking for a few gently used items!

bg (Dicasso the Great),
lmaooooooooooooo…that’s hilarious…I can see them “sir can you install the car seats. I need to make sure my children are completely safe”

@me, the original,
While I agree with Kigali on many things, I’m secure with myself in regards to my divorce. If I had been hoeing around, not cleaning, not cooking, not taking care of our son, then I would be a hypocrite. I left that marriage with a clear conscience before God and my son. He will never be able to say his mother didn’t do all she could do. So I’m alright, .

@AWWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAP!!!!

Are you still in here man?

ALright ppl. I will catch you later. Time to venture out into this muggy NC air and sweat like a jump off waiting for her HIV test results.

Later

see ya awesome…

Time for after work Volleyball…goodnite ppl

What you sayin’, Tony?

what i miss up in dis bytch?

Hey, 1TruDiva, you must have heard about this. About a year or so back, there were some rumblings about technological advancement in restoring sight to the blind. Supposedly, there were microchips that could be placed in the eye to stimulate sight and Stevie Wonder had been said to be a prime candidate. And it was said he was interested. I thought he would have gone ahead and had the operation but I never heard of any developments. Being that you’re in the field, you must have heard something about that, right?

@AWWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAP!!!!

What up man! I been meaning to ask you this a while back.. I read you’ve had bouts of sleep paralysis. If so, me too

Hi Oshie B’goshie!!

Nah, not recently. I’ve been a little under the weather but you KNOW me, as soon as I get back to ME…The yards sales are on and poppin!!!

Ima hole sum stuff for ya, though!! I still got a pair of them maternity daisy dukes I’m lettin’go for $5.00!!

Lol!!!!

@prppple,
no you don’t argue in semantics just stupidity and lack of common sense. Are you telling me that kids coming from committed two parent homes are just as likely to become unwed mothers? Earlier you asked what I was doing for our community and when I tell you, you call it a sob story and an african commercial. Whether a person lives in the Ghetto or on the upper west side, we all have an inherent responsibility to our kids, and that is to provide them with a mother and father in a stable home so that they have every chance in the world to be well rounded, well loved, well adjusted human beings. No matter how much money,
how big your house is, how poor you are, a child will always yearn for both a mother and father. A child will give up everything they have to have committed parents.
******
really, its not all about money and status, wow, tell me something I didnt know.

My whole point is complaining about unwed mothers and saying their kids have no hope, which is what you implied, is a contradiction to the fact that most of us blacks are living in middle class or better societys and we are genrally “succesfull” as a whole, I bet with all this unwed mother stuff you wouldnt think so. I would focus more on the issue of solidarity in the black community which would filter down to unwed mothers. Starting at the unwed mothers issue is like trying to say the alphebet and starting at L, yeah you may have L-Z right but what happen to the rest. That was a lil analogy for you, did u get it?

Damn, Redds, that was a while back. Yeah, that’s true. I don’t think there’s anything you can do about it though. At first, it used to trip me out but after I understood it, it doesn’t bother me as much any more.

SO!?? Lauren’s career is NOT over. Stop thinking so neeegatively. White women get bad news and keep rolling…if you yourself won’t go haywire with the situation, then nobody else will. Her career isn’t over until SHE wants it to be over.

@ AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW–

There have been tons of trials to restore sight that Stevie was asked to participate in. I clearly remember Stevie being interviewed and asked if he could have his sight restored would he.

I distinctively remember him replying “no”.

Purp–

Hi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

((stopping to wave as I pile my groceries in the cab at Food Lion))

RANDOM SHYT————

**thinking back to a time when food stamps came in paper form**

Those were the good ol’days!

*****sighs*****

**remembering back when we ironed creases in our jeans**

I hear ya, Carla. Even when you live in the hood trying to educate yourself and live productively, the riff-raffs still try their damnedest to rope you into their bullshit. If you’ve got your mind right though, it can help you become stronger. Regrettably, most just go with the flow.

***remembering Coogi sweater dresses and bamboo earrings***

Why don’t you focus on the issue of solarity in our community, and I’ll continue mentoring and educating our young black sisters so they won’t become another sad statistic.

**remembering Kangol hats and Cazal glasses**

@ AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW–

That was one of the things Stevie was asked but you need to remember Stevie wasn’t always blind. He lost his sight at the age of 12.

Believe it or not, if I was faced with the same issue, a REAL part of me may want to think about having my sight restored. I mean really—look at what we see on the regular??!!!!

Shyt–lately, I’ve become jaded!

Lol!!!!!!

*solidarity*

Tony, I think it has something to do with interrupted sleep patterns. That’s my assumption. But I’m not gonna front. When I first started experiencing it, I was scared shitless. It felt like a presence was in my bedroom, pinning me to the bed. I couldn’t move or utter a sound. I usually say the Lord’s Prayer to snap out of it. LOL!

But now I know it’s just my brain awaking before the rest of my body. I had people telling me it was demons from hell stalking me with the intent to claim my soul. Well, I heard that from church people and so it’s just natural to expect that’s the frame of reference they’re coming from. What sometimes concerns me is when I’m experiencing it, at times I feel like I’m about to have an aneurysm. Like there’s pressure in my head building and threatening to explode. It passes in a short time though…

1TruDiva, was it Stevie that lost his sight in a car accident?

Hi Diva, hope all is well with you

Why don’t you focus on the issue of solarity in our community, and I’ll continue mentoring and educating our young black sisters so they won’t become another sad statistic.
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the only people who seem to be calling our “black sisters” sad statistics are those outside of ourselves. You kinda sound like them. Cause really you are only a “sad statistic” if you choose to be. Statistically speaking im “African american” but i aint sad.

Good Luck, I dont know what kind of success you can have married or otherwise if you cant grasp the concept of solidarity as a whole, and we, as Afrikans, surely can’t.

@AWWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAP!!!!

Yeah I heard people talk about demons too, but I think its a subconscious thing and its all in the head. Ive never felt threatened in that state. A little annoyed but never in fear. I just accept it now. If Im ever in that state, I kinda talk myself out of it. Ive heard testimonials of the people that have had complete out of body experiences. I dont think Im ready for all that though, but for people that do have sleep paralysis, I beleive there is potential to delve into a deeper state of consciousness..IMO

Aight man, Im out, be easy

No hun. If I’m not mistaken, he lost his sight due to some type of degenerative disease.

Tell ya what, I’m going to google it and get back with ya on it.

I promise!!!

I do not feel sorry for either of these young women. They should know better.

See ya, Tony.

@AWWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAP!!!!

Church people always wanna put the “devil” in the middle of shit…lol and smh

Can’t say I’m surprised or sad for these “ladies”
Lauren and Nivea, I surely hope ya’ll didn’t get pregnant in hopes of marrying this fool. He married Toya (his 1st baby’s mom) and that didn’t last cuz he was still cheating! Get it together “ladies”… And Nivea, you have a daughter who’s growing quickly. She’s going to need a REAL woman to look up to… I’m scared for her. :-/

AWWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAP!!!!, you are right some times scandalous thugs and thugettes want you to join them in their quest for crime, lol. Fortunately I’ve never had an itch to do dirt. I either would be studying (to keep my head above the scholastic waters), and working on the weekends so I could have money and keep myself busy.

Two bird brains is all I can say.

and um no, Weezy cannot f*ck any girl in this world. Only the ones blinded by the bling and the benjamins. People who see this clown for what he really is are not impressed. Only people who people having children for lil Wayne these days are either hungry for money or hungry for fame.

For the life of me, I don’t see why these women don’t make better choices in the men they sleep with! I just…don’t…get it.

@ Mis Lil Girl
Hell real men have been asking the same ? for years!!!!

LL is pregnant cuz my homegirl called me about 6 hours ago and was like “guess who just walked in here with her preggo self and her friend”? and I was like Lauren London and she said yup but she couldn’t take a picture cuz she was on the clock but she works at a clothing shop in Downtown LA

completely off topic but damn jada is fine. i keep glancing at her on the side and it seems like shes looking back at me. i cant even type from looking. dammit girl

whitegirls must love that black meat

he should put both them hoe’s in the bed together..then talk about about it..then walk away with his 3rd hoe…

a hoe is a hoe no matter how pretty, she needs some class.

He is the future Flavor Flav 10 kids doing reality shows, even there still is even a demand for them stds he’s already krusty and busted or he’s the next EASY E

haters

I hope those babies take after their mothers. lol.

@1TruDiva:

THANK YOU! THANK YOU!

I had a good time with my friends and fam. Definitely will remember the Dirty 30! *wink*

I’m going to enjoy these 30′s too…..I am NOT old!

Weezy looks like a fun guy to hang around…but I am so not trying to be Baby Mama #4….ladies you are WAY too beautiful to be doing low class hood rat sh*t…get it together

Lol

Oh now Lauren want to be sitting back and THINKING… too late. All of that reflecting should have happened a while ago.

Did you really think you were special?

Wayne just had a baby a year ago – so you knew what was up.

Can’t believe she blew her opportunities in entertainment, because clearly with the bad choices and total unconsciousness of consequences – she ain’t too bright.

And bringing a child into this “who’s your daddy” madness. Think about the children.

Isn’t this what she wanted? She wanted that thug, right? well there you have it, now you knocked up.. LOL she probably thought he was in love with her.. LMAO!!

@mojojojo,

I do apologize for anything I may have or did say about your daughter. IT was out of line and I do apologize however, black females need to stop this right now. No more out of wedlock children. Too many decent black men out there to choose from. Peace.

First of all…lil wayne is GAY! Now, I don’t like to judge people because we all made mistakes, but COME ON…if i found out that a man has kissed another man on his mouth on national TV, been with supahead, trina, and countless otha chicks, plus got several baby mamas…I’m gon want him? HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELLL!!! NAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAWWW!

WHAT DECENT GIRL IN HER RIGHT MIND WOULD WANT A MAN AFTER KNOWING ALL THAT??????????? LOOKS CAN BE SO DECEIVING! I THOUGHT LL HAD BETTA SENSE THEN THAT.

Deezy I believe that your friend did see her on Lauren twitter she was talking about riding around with her friend and listening to music.

RIGHT, RIGHT…

DAG, LAUREN IS PROBABLY FEELIN’SOME TYPE OF WAY! BUT SHE KNEW(THAT COULD POSSIBLY HAPPEN)

AND HE IZ IN FACT N LOVE WITH NIVEA HE MADE THAT CLEAR!

BUT FOR THEM BOTH TO BE EXPECTIN’AT THE SAME TIME IS CRAZY! I’D FEEL SOME TYPE OF WAY TOO! BUT THEN AGAIN…

SING’N; DONT FRONT YOU NO HE GOT YOU OPEN. NOW LOOK!

DAG NOW MY GIRL LONDON GOTTA PLAY 2ND! WOW… AND SHE COULD’A HAD ANY DUDE THAT SHE WANTED! THATS SOME REALNESS FO DAT A**! LIKE BLACK TY SAID IN BABY BOY DEAL WIT’IT!

AND HE STILL PROLLY DOIN HIM…

LEASON LEARNT’IF YOU PLAY YO CARDS RIGHT!

was i the only one who thought that lauren wasn’t pregnant? i cant believe this is true.

[...] after finding out that her baby daddy was expecting another child yesterday. Lauren who is almost 6 months pregnant didn’t know anything about Nivea pregnancy, and found out online and was outraged. Like every [...]

All those body fluids: asian girl that had wayne’s son, nivea having a boy and lauren having a baby. LOTS of shared body fluids RAW! At least he can afford all them children’s.

this is soo sad…4 baby mamas? black men need to grow the f up and black women need to stop having all this causal sex. WEAR CONDOMS!!! brothers and sisters are supposed to come from ONE set of married parents. so sad.

Why do you feel sorry for her? she made a concious decision to have a relationship, sleep with lil wayne. only a fool would make the argument that she didn’t know he was fuggin other women. i have no sympathy for her. Ever heard of condoms/birth control?

BLACK WOMEN BLACK WOMEN. WHEN WOULD YOU LEARN.

And to think he’d be crucified up in here more if he’d hooked up with Becky than whats he’s actually done which is to make a mockery of parenthood, and proudly be the banner carrier for the stereotype that brothas just make em and shake em enroute to the next. I know he has money and the momma will get a check and probably for a large amount but a fathers love and time is priceless. I’m not absolving the sistas because in their rush to be a pawn for a brotha in the limelight they’ve added to the stereotypical baby momma syndrome that sistas with their platform should be at the least condeming but not adding too. I’ll let the sistahood call those two out on that and I know they will because yea they both foul….

How embarrassing!

lauren london lost MAD points in my book.. first off, how do you let lil weezy hit it? secondly, how do you let lil weezy raw dog and nut inside you? disgusting.

i never comment on these blogs….but its a first time for everything………

God Damn Wayne, congratulations!

Dinono.com

@tiredofthebs- i agree 100000%

@…- some people just dont understand how easy it is to just put a damn condom on so they wont have to deal with a permanent mistake for the rest of their lives. not saying children are mistakes, but when you get pregnant ,by accident, by someone that doesnt even want you, you must hate yourself for being so foolish!!

I just don’t get it… Lil Wayne has been off and on with that trollup-type broad, Nivea for a minute, and this girl is surprised? It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure that this dude spreads his seed like a gardener. I really like Lauren London, but I expected her to have more class than to deal with the likes of Weezy F. Dem Hoz Baby. Isn’t this Baby No.2 and Baby-Daddy No. 2 for her? Come on, now! Get it together, sista!

in the words of Bounty Killa ” your living dangerously” LiL Wayne drinks codeine and has gun charges , but if thats the life you gals want , go ahead. So who is lil Wayne screwing while his baby mamas are pregnant???

wayne reminds me of my baby daddy…So what if she decided to have his baby it’s not the end of the world..He shoulda been a better a role model to but nobody comes down on him why???Cause he’s a sterotype f*#@ no….Leave the girl alone…

wow.
get some hobbies other than f%#@!ing. OR stop makin babies with folks you aint married to. its as simple as that.
i swear, these lowered expectations are pathetic

I don’t feel sorry for Lauren on this one. She knew what kind of immature man she was dealing with. She should have kept her legs closed or USED PROTECTION! She has really messed up her career, on dealing with a codiene addicted FOOL that has 3 or 4 children by 3 or 4 babies mammas! I knew that she would soon see that HE wasn’t worth it. She could have kept the pregnancy a secret from everyone (including him) and quietly had an abortion.

LAUREN STILLS HAS A CHANCE SHE CAN HOPE IT’S NOT WAYNE BABY GOOD LUCK!

Both girls better get ready for the “babymama drama” because it is about to be on and crackin’.

Good luck girls b’cuz your gonna need it to keep your sanity!

TYPICAL BLACK FEMALES HATE TO SAY IT BUT TRUE

Yes this is a rather dissapointing situation. In this case it seems that its a case of mistaken identity. Namely the females. respect yourself and your bodies ladies.

damn …

He got 2 chicks prego at the same time???

HE IS A DOG I DONT SEE WHAT THOSE GIRLS SEE IN HIM.

A baby is a blessing from God, no matter who it is with or what the situation is. Be strong and let God lead you and you can never go wrong.

A baby is a blessing from God no matter who it is with or the situation. Let God lead you and you can never go wrong.

@ IVAN…
Like someone else said, “Common sense ain’t so common!” Been wondering how, HOW, she could give herself to him in the 1st place never mind get impregnated by him too! NOTHING he says/spits makes a lick of sense, his looks….(it’s ALL been said), how he treats women obviously needs to be reviewed & revised…I just can’t find anything positive about this dude for her to want to create life w/him! It’s so SAD!!
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@ Brymwinn…
Gonna have to disagree w/your comment. How much of a blessing can come from such devilish characters?! People always talk about ‘it’s a blessing, a blessing’and then get shell-shocked 7-19 years later when ‘the blessing’has (naturally) grown into a nightmare!

I guess its true that he likes a long hair thick red bone.He opened up the legs and …….. Lol

just to point out that i get the feeling they were using protection and tht is not 100% also nivea has 3 other children by her ex husbad leah leah not anyone else other than that lauren shoulda known obviously nivea knew but didnt care and got engaged to him… smh they all are off

just goes to show you a tramp is a tramp even if shes gorgeous!shes just a gorgeous tramp well she got what she wanted MONEY!so if her career is over she still paid but alotta guys would wife that but she aint no different than the groupies that hang out after the shows!