Neffe’s Having a Girl and Gettin’ Rid of Her Man

Posted on June 16th, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Babies, Coupled Up, Divorces, News

Neffe

Neffe’s having another little girl. She’s already got three by her soon-to-be ex-husband and a little boy by some crackish lookin’ jump off and now she’s having baby number five with Soullow, her wanna-be rapper/producer boyfriend. Okay, that’s it Neffe. Enough.

Neffe and Soullow just found out that they will be painting their baby’s room pink!

Neffe told S2S today that, yes, she pregnant and she’s having a girl. She and Soullow found out the baby’s gender Wednesday during her sonogram. They also found out that their little princess is due on October 3.

We can’t wait to see the baby, but we know she’ll be adorable. In the meantime, we’ll be checking the mail for an invite to the baby shower.

And as one chapter in Neffe’s life begins, another is ending. She is now officially Claude Priest’s ex-wife. The papers stating that their divorce was final came yesterday too.

Oh yeah, and don’t forget where you first heard about Neffe’s new baby. In case you need a reminder, check out the video below.

Its ridiculous how Hollyweird makes it okay for these celebs and reality TV people to just pop out kids with as many different people as they want like its all good. Those poor babies are going to be confused when they older. Who’s daddy is who again? SMH

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  • Mjau

    FIRST MAWFAKKAS

  • Proud ArmyWifee

    WOW, more power to you sista

    ****SUPPORT OUR TROOPS****

  • Its a fact

    Typical. Ow how these black american women LURV to have multiple children by whoever, could someone PLEASE tell them that there is ABSOLUTELY no danger of black people running out as there is a whole CONTINENT full of black pppl, no need for them to feel they have to keep the race alive alone (and its always the ugly, ambigious-employment ones doing such sh*t- u will never catch Keisha doing this)

  • gillian

    Another Baby oh my days, and she cant even keep a man. lol

  • Dana1966

    She need to get her damn tubes tied. You were thinking of aborting the last one so you turn around and have another one…yeah thats bright.

  • Symone

    Once Kigali wakes up, this thread is going to get ugly.

  • Birth control is your friend.

    Please get your tubes tied!! Obviously you cannot handle the birth control thing. I can understand one slip up, but damn girl!

    GLOK9N: Shut the hell up, not all of us are doing this Neffie thing..many of us know how to use birth control and ensure we do not have multiple baby’s fathers and then sit around and complain about men. As for the men, use a damn condomn and quit talking about somebody tricked you. The only way you can be tricked is if you DO NOT know where babies come from.

    Ladies we are so in control of that part of our lives; there is NO reason to “ACCIDENTALLY” have this many kids.

  • Lisa Vee

    I guess thats another mouth to feed for Keyshia….

  • $moK.E.Y.

    smdh!!!!!!!!!

  • Mhhh Huhhh….

    @ Symone
    i laughed out loud at that, kigali does throw fuel in a fire…

  • HANNIBALS PIMP AKA MR.BACKHAND

    ghetto trash don’t fall far from the stoop.i bet her tummy looks like wrinkled aluminum foil.

  • http://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahjames1983 Souljagir

    Wow, I hope she’s done those children deserve a stable up bringing. In case she hasn’t noticed there are too many Men out there committing unthinkable crimes to just be having babies with any Sam Sausage Head and bringing them around her children. She’s off the chain…….

  • Me No Likey

    Will not even add to this foolishness but Neffie is the WORST and the DUDES who keep going up in her RAW!

    DEAD at “i bet her tummy looks like wrinkled aluminum foil.” LOL!!!!

  • Black Beauty

    Enough was enough four kids ago. She better hope that her sister stays paid. SMDH

  • http://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahjames1983 Souljagir

    ROFLMAO @ it’s a fact: “its always the ugly, ambigious-employment ones doing such sh*t- u will never catch Keisha doing this)”

  • CAT EYES

    I read the interview in sister to sister also and I gotta say,dysfunctional doesn’t begin to describe everyone in that family.Neffe even said she had a 32 year old boyfriend at 14 years old!She learned all from her mother,sadly.Right now, she wouldn’t know love if you smacked her upside the head with it-she still thinks every man that sleeps with her automatically must love her.Loving herself doesn’t even seem like an option for her to consider.

  • missunderstood

    @HANNIBALS PIMP AKA MR.BACKHAND – Stretch marks no no color or boundaries…. play fair… lol….

  • missunderstood

    @CAT EYES

    I read the interview in sister to sister also and I gotta say,dysfunctional doesn’t begin to describe everyone in that family.Neffe even said she had a 32 year old boyfriend at 14 years old!She learned all from her mother,sadly.Right now, she wouldn’t know love if you smacked her upside the head with it-she still thinks every man that sleeps with her automatically must love her.Loving herself doesn’t even seem like an option for her to consider.
    _____________________________________________________

    Let her tell it, Her sanity is her happyness… lol… I guess that means she is just happy to be sane w/ everything that she has gone through in life, but I didn’t read the book so… I’m just guessing… God thing that’s all she needs, cause that’s all she’s got!

  • missunderstood

    Good thing – not God thing.

  • as seen on t.v.

    I see they still haven’t broken that generational curse yet…Sad…She is becoming more and more like Frankie with each child she has…

  • missunderstood

    @as seen on t.v. – it’s going to be up to the next generation to do that, and so far, that leaves Neffie’s kids…. *sigh*….

  • http://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahjames1983 Souljagir

    Michelle speak for yourself honey. No one is really craving anything that no other Human hasn’t wantd to feel in a positive way. Yes we are emotional aren’t most women? I am not “F”-ing stupid but you are; for not understanding that How you end up being “Ms.Typed,” sometimes it’s just a result of what you’ve been through. So if you’ve had bad relationships, bad dating and family relationships, if you’ve had difficult times or problems in your life, sometimes you build wall around yourself, you have a lot of emotional baggage, you don’t trust people. Um, you know, you think you have to move in a certain kind of way to be successful, see not even being your best self. You’re not being you on your best day, you’ve become who your circumstances have created in this case Neffe has but don’t clasify all black women are what you discribed; that’s a real insult talking reckless like that stereo typing people.

  • http://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahjames1983 Souljagir

    you got me so heated I couldn’t even type correctly!

  • Tee

    She should be finished having kids after this one ..

  • impriss

    SouthernGirl……yo you got me laughing!~!
    but you are so right!!

    let this chic live her life, she is on the right road right now lets all just pray for her and her baby and hope she continues to get it together for herself and her squad (kids)

  • http://bossip.com too cute

    congrats to her,I just believe in marriage first,but mistakes do happen,I hope she has found the right guy this time

  • SouthernGirl

    @ impriss
    I don’t think it’s fair that people judge her when the reality is everybody deserves second chances. Thank God I don’t have to depend on some these bastards on this board for redemption or forgiveness cuz some of them are RUTHLESS as hell up in here!

  • notsomuch

    @Souljagir I was feeling deja vu reading your response then I realized it’s because I just read the same thing yesterday in Dr. Callahan’s interview.

    @tiredofthebs

    There may be more white women in the country but you can look at percentages and tell something aint right. 27% of white women have their babies out of wedlock, 51% of Latinas, and 72% of black women. You can’t address a problem if you pretend it doesn’t exist.

  • They looked like Circus Clowns

    SORRY!!!!

    ….but once I saw the cover I didn’t want to buy the magazine or read the article.

    (No Hate Intended)

  • michelle

    well ok if it makes some of you feel better some black women are stupid. Ok feel better now?

  • SuperHuman (is female everybody)

    Wow reality!!! This is hollyhood!! for real Super unbelievable

  • Sanjor

    Well on a side note, my husband called me from work laughing because one of guys he works with and has known for years just got his check. They guy has 7 kids by 7 women and he’s always bragging about how fertile he is. When he opened his check it was for $2.70, he was hot!! He stormed into the bosses office wanting to know why he got so little. The boss told him because he was so fertile, his check was so little.

  • Black Folks

    she was blessed with enough kids and then god gave you a finacial blessin and all you could do was find a way to be more hood even after you had that big fit about aborting your som give me a break tubs tided yeah rite she needs the attention mo kids mo money

  • notsomuch

    @ Treez
    Preach. People be quick to pull out their bible versus on some gay issue but turn their eyes from this. All of a sudden all that holy talk is out the window when we’re talking about all this sexing it up and bringing kids into the world without stable families.

  • hjmgj

    Impriss, you are mad at Michelle cuz she is spitting truth. I am willing to bet, you have more than one baby daddy, yourself. The people that kick that dont judge mess, are usually in the same boat. and broke. Its so many of you dummies, that somebody as revered as Bill Cosby is made to be the odd man out when he speaks up about you. cuz anybody thats ever had money, knows Neffie, will still get welfare and medicaid for those kids on us. Do you with your own money. not mine. thats my beef

  • neff-da-nutin

    another reason to go beggin Keyshia for more money

  • ATLBlogger

    SMH……………..Tsk! Tsk!Tsk! Moving along.

  • BioMed

    Jesus Christ Neffe! The first 3 u had was with ur husband so thats fine, but these 2 are by 2 different men, get a friggin I.U.D or something. Im sure Keyshia wouldn’t mind investing in that so she could stop paying for your kids!

  • Highligher

    @Michelle

    I agree with you, I am from a third-world family too, I was born over here, but it seems I have a completely different set of morals and values then the black women who are born from here. It irks the hell out of me that when people make these stereotypes of “black women” they lump us all together. It’s black AMERICAN women who constantly pull this shit, with the multiple baby daddie’s and all that ghetto mess. Most non-american black families won’t let their children run around like that.
    Just Sayin..

  • CAT EYES

    @misunderstood
    Get the magazine but I’m warning you-the interview with her mother is even more dysfuncyional than hers.It is truly sad!

  • CAT EYES

    ^^^dysfunctional

  • http://www.bossip.com BMWdriver540i. …… .Looking at the haters thru my rearview

    Remember 357 had a song called “Juicey got’em crazy” I think she needs to do a remake and re-release it HA!

  • Whatchaknoboutdat?

    It’s past tube tying time for her. Keisha needs to cut her (and Frankie)off and let them make it on their own.

    C’mon Keisha please don’t let them keep using you…. especially Frankies trifling ass! ewwww!

  • Poked in the Morning…..

    she aint even divorce yet?

    this is adultury. shame

  • Poked in the Morning…..

    ALso, the three she has currently didn’t all come from her ex husband.

    Just the two girls. the boy is from a one night stand

  • Mannie

    SHE IS SO DISGUSTING. SHE MAKES OTHER CIVILIZED AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMAN HAVE A HORRIBLE REP.

  • Poked in the Morning…..

    @ Michelle.

    lets analyze what you said into logic.

    Michelle:

    a) All black women are stupid

    b) I am a black woman

    conclusions? I am stupid

  • Highlighter

    (sp) don’t get mad, it is what it is

  • http://bossip miss dior

    OH LORD, am lost for words.

  • MaRRieD_MoMMy2B…Getting Induced Tomorrow

    Neffe… Tie em up! It’s not cute, and you’re the type that probably doesn’t have a dime in ur savings account and will probably be single again soon after the birth, depending on Keyshia. It’s about time for you to get some class… I hope your daughters look up to Keyshia as a role model and not you and grandma Frankie.

  • notsomuch

    I never once put words in your mouth in my response. Nor did I condescend or criticize you in my response. You can compare percentages. A general statistics class is what allows you to understand the concept of comparing groups of different sizes. 1 out of 4 white women with kids aren’t married and 3 out of 4 black women with kids aren’t married. Sure the problems stem from all the social ills you listed and more. I believe criticizing is helping. I think it’s important to point out that it’s not a good route to have 5 kids with 3 or 4 different fathers.

  • tiredofthebs

    I have not, and will not change my opinion, as I’m sure you won’t change yours. With that said, to me it doesn’t make sense to compare two groups of women, when one group is larger. Also, criticizing is not helping, if it were you would see some religious groups that stick together criticizing each other, but instead of doing that, they stand TOGETHER and fix their problems.

    And on another note, I would not have children out of wedlock, but that’s ME. However, I respect others decisions; but “since you believe it’s important to point out that it’s not a good route to have 5 kids with 3 or 4 different fathers” how do you feel about Erykah Badu having children by three different men?

    Does she look worse than Christie Brinkley who was has three diff fathers for her four children? Or not, since CB was married?

  • darealwifey

    Neffe looks good. May as well wish her well regardless of how the baby is coming…it’s coming. The time to debate unwed and multiple baby daddies is BEFORE the kids get here. Once they’re here, we should wish them the best. I do hope Neffe can find some stability in her life. She deserves it because she seems like a good person who was born in a rough life.

  • notsomuch

    @tiredofthebs

    Yes, we can agree to disagree on a couple of our points. Of course criticizing isn’t going to help those already in that situation but I think it could help people who aren’t yet in that boat.

    I wouldn’t have children out of wedlock either. I think the more we say that and the more young people hear that, the more they’ll be reminded about having a strong foundation before children.

    I’m not sure how to feel about Erykah Badu. She’s in a rare financial situation where she can afford to hire additional help but at the same time it’s not only about finances. I don’t know about the last baby father but she seemed to have picked men who care about their children but it still just doesn’t rub me the right way. I think sometimes she gets a pass cause she’s all mother-earth like but if it was Keisha Cole we’d give her the side eye.

    I didn’t even know Christie Brinkley had kids. She was married three times? It all seems excessive. There’s mistakes and then there’s just being extreme.

  • AWWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAP!!!!

    I guess Kigali and Marquis de Sade refuse to be baited today.

  • Vee

    well its still her choice..

  • Taya

    I am going to stop criticizing Neffie. I admit I have done so in the past. Even though I don’t agree or like her decisions I think it is rude to speak badly about a woman who decides to continue to have children. It is a personal and private decision. I know she is on reality Tv, But her life is not an open book. We should not throw salt at a woman who decides to keep her baby.

  • MaRRieD_MoMMy2B…Getting Induced Tomorrow

    @darealwifey
    That’s true but jeeze, one would think after her last child and all that she went through when having to decide whether to abort the baby or not, she would have learned.
    And yes, Neffe has had a rough life but she’s not making it any easier by continuing to have babies. SMH… But babies are a gift from God. I’m pregnant with my first and I’ve come to realize that a gift so perfect is a gift straight from God.

  • notsomuch

    @tiredofthebs

    I agree about our disagreeing. I guess I’ll try more often to consider another point of view instead of just proving my point. It’s some of our BM and BW that are just being way too extra. Enjoy the rest of your evening.

  • yoadrian

    can the governemnt reccomend her to stop havin damn kids!? sollow ain obligated to nan but that one!

  • http://bossip.com Mizz Pimpin

    why is she even news, cause she keeps farting out all them kids, who is she anyway, listening to Tupac, Happy Birthday

  • yoadrian

    6am shut the hell up
    why are you so damn stuck on the south!???
    gives a damn where she from

  • yoadrian

    and please dont attempt to roast on the pic
    if thats all you can potentially find wrong with me
    exactly where is yours?
    you dont have one..

  • iamkellie

    I’d like to say that children our a blessing and its sad to see so many people call these blessings ghetto/ hood trash and it is even more sad to see people telling Neffe what to do with her life and calling her a hoe. To my knowledge I’ve only known her to be with 3 men one she was with for 10yrs. and had 3 beautiful children with and unfortunately they did not work out. But it always amaze me to see people judge others so harshly about decisions they made in life, but if the tables were turned they’d tell people to mind their business.

    I really hate when racist and discriminating remarks are made off of one person’s actions, and I only hate it b/c it shows how far we as a nation have come which is not very far at all.

    remember don’t let your tongue or in this case thoughts work against you b/c life is very funny about putting you in similiar situations

    be blessed
    -kellie

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals!!!™.–Featuring Michael’s Journee!!

    I’m too disgusted to even comment about the actual post so I’ll just move on to the Kobe post that no one’s allowed to comment on….

    I’ve said before and I’ll say it again….Kobe and Cray-Cray need to get that youngest one checked out.

    Something’s not right!!!

  • Its6amHoGetOut, Advising NAS since 06/16/09

    oh well, bye all!

  • Lady Tee

    bout time

  • 2hot

    SHES’ MAKIN IT LOOK BAD ON BLK WOMEN….SHES JUST ANOTHER GHETTO HOE WITH A LIL MONEY!

  • liiLLADY44

    && ONLY A SELFiSH PERSON WOULD LEAVE A FAMILY MEMBER IN NEED. GOD COMENDS HER FOR THAT!!
    SOME PEOPLE WANT BIG FAMILiES && iF SHE CAN AFFORD iT ( WHICH NOW SHE CAN ) SHE FOUND A NEW LOVE AND THAT IS MAKING HER LIFE COMPLETE. iF SHE DIDN’T HAVE HER KIDS WHO KNOWS WHAT TYPE OF PERSON SHE MIGHT BE!

  • CeeCee

    OmG I don’t know why this woman is having another baby. She needs to educate herself about contraceptives. I don’t care what anybody says she should not be having another child!!!!! She didn’t even want the last child she had and contemplated abortion for the longest.

  • always knew

    I hope Neffie finds herself.

    all this other blk woman hater ish- no comment

    ya’ll will have me arguing for days, with these retards..
    :)

  • Its6amHoGetOut, Stopped advising NAS now I\’ll advise most of you dumb ass deep south hoes in here.

    Oops, my name has been corrected.

    love 6am

  • Its6amHoGetOut, Stopped advising NAS now I\’ll advise most of you dumb ass deep south hoes in here.

    fixed?

  • Its6amHoGetOut, Stopped advising NAS now I will advise most of you dumb ass deep south hoes in here.

    nope

  • Its6amHoGetOut, Stopped advising NAS now I will advise most of you dumb ass deep south hoes in here.

    there you go, thanks

  • http://Twitter.com Sierra

    LIKE SERIOUSLY SHE NEED TO RAP IT UP SHE PUSHING OUT TO MANY BABIES! GOSH NEFFE IM HAPPY FOR U BUT GOSH U GOTTA STOP GET THEM DAMN TUBES TIDE R SOMETHIN!

  • BlahBlah

    Neffe is cracking me up! (once again) She pops them out like it’s out of style… HINT HINT: Keyshia RUN & HIDE…

  • WillonaWoods

    a bit much…

  • 2dimplzs

    @ ddgg

    I’m not going to rejoice in someone elses misfortune or bad decisions. I hope she learns from them and moves on with her life and finds a way NOT to make those mistakes again and again. Her fiance is an aspiring rapper. I don’t know what he’s bringing to the table – none of us do. I just hope they have a happy marraige and raise all of those kids the best way they can in a loving environment. Everybody deserves happiness and second chances. If God didn’t forgive us every second of our lives each and every day NONE OF US WOULD BE HERE would we??? That’s because he’s merciful and compassionate and we should be too.

  • 2dimplzs

    I’m not saying to condone or agree with the bad decisions she makes either but just pray that some day soon she can get herself together! I would hope someone would still have faith in me despite the many mistakes I’ve made in my life if I were in her situation. We all need someone to believe in us.

  • SP. E-Z!!!

    SO WHAT! SHES TAKEN CARE OF THEM! I GOT HER BACK TOO! SHE STRONG! YOU GOTTA BE TO KEEP PUSHIN’ EM OUT! IT TAKES A WOMAN TO RAISE THEM, AND KEEP GOIN ON ABOUT YA BUSINESS.

  • Lady T

    As long as she is not on welfare and using the tax payers money to take care of all of her children, why should any of you care how many children she has? Is it affecting you and your lifestyle? Is she taking money out of your pockets? You all need to find something better to do with yourselves. That’s what’s wrong with us (BLACK PEOPLE) in the society today. We do not know how to love each other and build each other up. We are so doomed as a race until we can learn to respect each other.

  • Lady T

    We all just need to get along. Much luv to you all!

  • http://weliveharlem.com/blog/2009/06/17/mind-your-business-ladies-black-gossip-2/ WeLiveHarlem.com Blog » Mind Your Business Ladies ( Black Gossip)

    [...] Neffe’s Having a GirRL! [...]

  • Whadidujusay?

    @6am

    lololololololololololololololol..u shooow is funny! trynna make us think u gotta girlfriend…u 100% fish! Be proud of who you are…and change yo name to something more appropriate like….ummm Bitter Fish.

  • MONICA

    now everyone need to mind there own damn business as long as u or i have to feed any of her kids who cares if u have 5 or 6 kids that’s what’s wrong with america now….listen mind your own and u will live long ok ok good

  • Kidd

    OMG, WHO CARES! LET THIS HOE GO!

  • Jamie

    Wow, tough crowd. Does anybody have a heaven or hell to put somebody in? What ever happened to not judging? I work in healthcare and there are women of all races who have multiple abortions. Let’s just hope her baby is healthy and her family is stable for the sake of ALL her children. She doesn’t represent our entire race either, so stop making blanking statements. I’m sure you can find the same story for every race in America.

  • http://fawker.us/2009/06/24/frankies-been-holding-out-on-us/ Frankie’s Been Holding Out on Us |

    [...] Frankie is the poster child for “baby mama”. All of her kids are half-brothers and sisters since none of them share the same Daddy. WTF? And now there is an eighth child out there? SMH Frankie describes how she felt when she saw her first baby. She reveals that she has eight–not seven–children and advises young women to put their pride aside and do what’s best for their children. [...]

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