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AVA SCOTT

6/22/09, 08:47:am

Daddy’s Day is a rough one..so emotional for some people whose dad hasn’t been around…



MAMI A

6/22/09, 08:49:am

lol..wow so bitter



Charles Olivier

6/22/09, 08:50:am

1st



MAMI A

6/22/09, 08:52:am

@ charles olivier -nope u werent 1st or 2nd lol



Imoonah

6/22/09, 08:54:am

I feel for him… but he does anything these days to stay relevant… be seen… Time to grow up



On the Real

6/22/09, 08:54:am

Thats whats up



Kate

6/22/09, 08:56:am

Bossip is copying stories from TMZ now? You guys are so lame!!!



goons

6/22/09, 08:57:am

damn bossip, why the ***** do you have to copy everything that is on TMZ.. can you not find your own damn stories.. wtf?????



shabba

6/22/09, 08:58:am

fathers are overated,its all about mumma



lies and bull*****

6/22/09, 09:06:am

A part of being a healthy individual is the ability to forgive those who have harmed or hurt us. He should help his father get sober.



Mrs. Rance

6/22/09, 09:11:am

Nine times out of ten, his deadbeat @ss pops doesn’t even know what Twitter is but its just sad when you gotta put your pops on blast in such a public way.
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That sentence ain’t even trying to make sense. Anyway, I applaud him for putting his deadbeat ***** dad on blast. He should have posted his name and a pic and his location to. It’s time to make these *****s who create babies and walk away to understand that they don’t deserve to live. They damn sure shouldn’t walk around with their heads held high. Too many black kids are raised without fathers. There is no valid excuse for it.



Lynne Raines

6/22/09, 09:12:am

Lots of luv to you Bow Wow



missunderstood

6/22/09, 09:17:am

n*ggas be real bytches these days! Bow Wow, Al B Jr and all them grown azz muh fuggahs DESPERATELY NEEDED men in their lives, to show them how NOT to behave like females… If you got something to say, MAN UP and f*ckin say it! You don’t send subliminals to your dad on father’s day…. how petty… ugh!



Lynne R

6/22/09, 09:20:am

Misunderstood….your comment is very petty and real ignorant!



missunderstood

6/22/09, 09:20:am

@Lynne R – that is your opinion, but I stands by mine. If some of these BOYS had MEN in their lives, they wouldn’t be so babyfied and effiminate. It’s a fact. This is not how a man handles an internal family conflict. I can’t help it if you don’t like the way I said it.



stfu bossip

6/22/09, 09:23:am

so a sad boy cant speak his mind!?



Whoa!

6/22/09, 09:25:am

Wow, it’s so sad that so many of us men/women of African descent do not have the pleasure of saying they had not only a father, but an active one in their lives. When I come across the few people I know that have had happy upbringings with both parents, it’s damn near shocking, but mostly enviable.

Men swicth up real quick, but IMO, most women see the signs about the possible deadbeat dudes and still get pregnant hoping that will seal a commitment, which never works. For the sake of my possible future child, I’m going to do my best (like I’ve been doing) to weed out the lames and make sure the father not only adores that child(ren) but is a responsible and nurturing father as well.



Soulja Boy

6/22/09, 09:28:am

***** Bow Wow.Ol ***** azz *****!If I had him for a son I would have left to.Man the ***** up!



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T

6/22/09, 09:34:am

yo its some dumb shyt to downplay how important it is for a dad to be a father to their child. how u gone tell dude to man up. he neva had a man in his life to show him how. AND black women need to stop making excuses for the sorry n*ggas. he shouldve put him on blast and like the othe rpost said he shouldve posted his picture….f sorry dads…. i had a good day so no i aint mad at black men. its truly sad and if you cant see it then you have bigger issues



Just Sit And Be Pretty

6/22/09, 09:36:am

Question, I thought Bow Wow did well in school, why is he writing like an illiterate? SMDH, that is so not cute. If you know better, do better!!



Mrs. Rance

6/22/09, 09:38:am

missunderstood

You must have had the benefit of both parents. Or you might be that woman that dates deadbeat dads. You call it an internal family issue, but how would you have him handle it? A lot of kids don’t have contact with their missing dads. They don’t even know where that deadbeat ***** ***** is. If Quincy had to turn to the internet to shame his dad maybe it was because nothing else was working. Maybe dad wasn’t taking his calls or returning them. You never know what makes a child resort to publicly shaming their missing dads. I think more people should do it. Al B. Sure has multiple children from differant mothers yet he has never been married. Somebody needed to call him out.



chaka1

6/22/09, 09:40:am

Seriously, who the hell follows Twitter? It’s stupid. I can’t wait for that gimmick to wear out.



miss ash

6/22/09, 09:41:am

Bow Wow can call out his SPERM DONOR anyway he pleases and Bossip shouldn’t have anything negative to say about it. As much as he has accomplished this obviously still bothers him and maybe the voice does have to get louder for his father to hear the message.



missunderstood

6/22/09, 09:46:am

@Mrs. Rance – I did have the benefit of both parents (primarliy raised by my dad-refer to Nas post on Friday), and my children are by my husband, so no, I have NO experience w/ deadbet men AT ALL. In my experience, men who have MEN in their lives do not behave in this manner. Their entire pysche is different about how they approach and deal w/ situations. So, in having been raised by, married to, and raising a real man, I feel that when you have one in your life, it makes a difference. I think they both needed dads in their lives, and it’s obvious in their antics. Real men don’t behave that way, IMO, or in my experience.



Jade Silver (the countdown has begun)

6/22/09, 09:49:am

Children need their fathers. Men wake up. Stand the f*ck up. I wonder what would happen if we women had the luxury to decide we didn’t want to be responsible.



Moi

6/22/09, 09:54:am

Explains why Bow Wow is such a ***** up



lia

6/22/09, 09:57:am

missunderstood what an appropriate name…..you need to really shut up on this one

If you havent had a deadbeat dad or your husband isnt one( AND YES “HUSBANDS” CAN BE DEADBEAT DADS TOO)please dont speak ill of someone who has….you have no idea or clue what it feels like, i dont care if your 10, 25 or 50 years old….it still hurts



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6/22/09, 09:59:am

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De'Vincent

6/22/09, 10:00:am

If You Are Truly Born of God, YOU DO NOT PRACTICE SIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

1John 3:7 Little children, make sure no one deceives you; the one who
practices righteousness is righteous, just as He is righteous; the one who
practices sin is of the devil; for the devil has sinned from the beginning.
The Son of God appeared for this purpose, to destroy the works of the devil.
No one who is born of God practices sin, because His seed abides in him; and
he cannot sin, because he is born of God. By this the children of God and
the children of the devil are obvious: anyone who does not practice
righteousness is not of God, nor the one who does not love his brother.

This is something that we don’t hear about often. But it’s in the bible.
1John talks about us not practicing sin if we are born of God. So, why are
Christians practicing sin on a daily basis, living in sin, or defending sin
with “once saved always saved” doctrinal beliefs? Well, it’s because
perilous times are here! People are wanting what they want! They want to
fulfill every sinful or fleshly desire they had when they were in the world
and use God’s grace to protect them. But the underlying factor still
remains. If you are truly born of God, you do not practice sin. So what are
all these “new” Christians that practice sin born of? Well, they have a form
of godliness but deny the power. A homosexual that sits in church, plays the
organ, directs the choir, preaches in the pulpit, and carries on with his
homosexual lifestyle is not born of God. How do i know? Because the BIBLE
told me so. It says that if you are born of God, you do not practice sin!

So, what’s all the fuss about? People just don’t want to believe the entire
bible. How can you serve under a homosexual pastor? How can you allow a
homosexual to lead your worship in church? How can you allow someone that is
living with their boyfriend or girlfriend to hold a leadership position in your
church when the bible says that those that do these things are not born of
God? If you are not born of God, then you are of the devil, right? So then,
why are we allowing people to practice sin and yet be leaders in our
churches? Would Jesus allow that? Would Jesus allow a believer that is not
his kindred to lead his people? NO WAY! So, this form of godliness is not of
the true God, but it’s of the antichrist. To deny the power of God is
blasphemy and an unpardonable sin according to Mark 3:28. People hear me. I
know most churches are not on this page anymore and many of them are on the
prosperity page, or the motivational page. But this is in the bible. If you
are truly born again, you do not practice sin. If you are practicing sin,
you are not born of God and will not inherit the kingdom of heaven. Sure
we all have gotten off or may get off every now and again. But the beauty
of it is that true birth in God will cause you to overcome the sin of the world.
You will not continue in sin if you are truly born of him because to be truly
born again means that you are not the same and deliverance will come! So,
i would suggest that you be born again! If you have been born again and you
are practicing sin, then be born again AGAIN! Do it til you stop practicing
sin. You should never think you have it made because of eternal security. Be born
of God and there will be no question of whether or not you are eternally secure.

Suggested Reading: 1 John 3 in it’s entirety! (The NAS Version)



Shorty Mack

6/22/09, 10:05:am

@ Mrs. Rance>>> You sound ignorant as hell. Obviously the two young men who you are referring to didn’t have a choice on whether or not their fathers were a part of their life. This goes for all people who were raised without both of their parents. We can’t choose what family we are born into. You are wrong as hell for blaming the kids… put the blame where it belongs, with the deadbeat dads!!!



Shorty Mack

6/22/09, 10:08:am

OOPS!! The above comment was for Misunderstood… Not Mrs. Rance…. My Bad =)



Mrs. Rance

6/22/09, 10:09:am

Missunderstood

You are the minority in the black community. Ain’t that some mess? How can you be so critical of Bow Wow’s statement? You’re blaming him and his dad at the same time. It’s the father’s fault not the child. Clearly this boy needed his father. He does come off as a very weak man, but someone made him into that person. And that someone are his parents. Mom picked that deadbeat and failed to raise her son properly although I have no doubt she did the best she could. Bow Wow has always worn his insecurities on his sleeve. I just don’t get why you are coming down on him since you are that rare black person who had a loving father.



missunderstood

6/22/09, 10:09:am

@lia

1st off – I never said it didn’t hurt, just because I said MAN UP! My WHOLE POINT was that OBVIOUSLY he NEEDED a father in his life, otherwise, he would know, as a man, you speak to someone face to face when you have an issue/problem, or just something to get off your chest (hence the term Mono e mono which means MAN to MAN).
Furthermore, as far as deadbeat husbands, – once again, something I don’t know about.



Mark

6/22/09, 10:09:am

Good for him. Dads who leave their families are no better than criminals to me, yet we do nothing to make them pay for it. It’s a bigger problem than the debt, wars and illegal immigration combined. ***** deadbeat dads.



Mrs. Rance

6/22/09, 10:12:am

Shorty Mack

OOPS!! The above comment was for Misunderstood… Not Mrs. Rance…. My Bad =)
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No problem. I knew you were mistaking me for The One who has it all and judges all.



missunderstood

6/22/09, 10:21:am

@Mrs. Rance

Missunderstood

You are the minority in the black community. Ain’t that some mess? How can you be so critical of Bow Wow’s statement? You’re blaming him and his dad at the same time. It’s the father’s fault not the child. Clearly this boy needed his father. He does come off as a very weak man, but someone made him into that person. And that someone are his parents. Mom picked that deadbeat and failed to raise her son properly although I have no doubt she did the best she could. Bow Wow has always worn his insecurities on his sleeve. I just don’t get why you are coming down on him since you are that rare black person who had a loving father.
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See, and I don’t look at it as “the minority”, cause this is all I know in my family (matriarchal and patriarchal), parents – divorced for a time and remarried (still married) grandparents never divorced, great grandparents, the same. Before that, there was slavery in our family, so I can’t account further back than that. This is the NORM for my family. It is sad that it’s not viewed as the norm, but as a rare occurrence.
I am not BLAMING Bow Wow, it’s just really hard for me to sympathize with what I view as “cry baby” behavior. I guess it’s because my father taught me to be tough, to not expect shyt from people, and that the world is full of let downs, you make your own destiny and at the end of the day, you are responsible for your own happiness. I agree he needed a dad and the mother bear some responsibility as well, for the partner she chose, but as a man, when do you stop pointing fingers and start healing, or moving past it? We can’t hold on to our war wounds from childhood forever. We all have them, 2 parent home or not. I was just always taught if you have a problem with ANYONE, take it to them. I don’t respect his tactics, not his actual feelings.



missunderstood

6/22/09, 10:24:am

FOR ONCE AND ALL – I DID NOT BLAME BOW WOW!!! COMPREHENSION IS A ***** *****A…. I said his TACTICS were PETTY, NOT HIS FEELINGS!
I clearly stated – HE NEEDED HIS FATHER so that he could have LEARNED how to deal with his shyt in the correct manner!

“The One who has it all and judges all.” – kinda sound like GOD, not lil ole me… I just have an opinion, just like you.



KoolAid

6/22/09, 10:26:am

I don’t think him putting dude on blast like that is sad at all. If dude is big enough to publicly deny, reject, or dismiss his son, then he should be man enough to take the criticism when it comes. And that goes for any man that doesn’t do for his kids. Most dudes try to use money as an excuse, but time is just as important. Show up!



HANNIBALS PIMP AKA MR.BACKHAND

6/22/09, 10:50:am

BOW OW YOU ARE A MAN NOW LET IT GO.



Mrs. Rance

6/22/09, 10:50:am

KoolAid

I think time is most important. I don’t care if daddy is homeless and can’t give a penny, the child wants time. Toss around a ball. Teach life lessons. PROTECT. Money don’t mean a damn thing to a child and it shouldn’t. Many a rich dad thinks they are doing a good job just because they lavish their children with material possessions while remaining largely absent from their lives. Materialism is a bad thing altogether and is no replacement for a parent’s love and guidance.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 11:00:am

When mothers day role around I think every woman who had a non marital birth should be asked to leave. She can come back next Sunday for services. No one should celebrate her type of motherhood.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 11:01:am

…And ladies if an unmarried female ask you to come to her baby shower, tell her that you arent interested in celebrating the tragedy.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 11:04:am

@Mrs Rance

“It’s time to make these *****s who create babies and walk away to understand that they don’t deserve to live.”

Likewise its time to let these females know that they choose the men that left and PERHAPS if they were married before they decided to get impregnated than the chances of them being left would decrease significantly.

Any woman who cant choose a proper man to have children with doesnt deserve to have children.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 11:07:am

@Whoa,

“Men swicth up real quick, but IMO, most women see the signs about the possible deadbeat dudes and still get pregnant hoping that will seal a commitment, which never works. For the sake of my possible future child, I’m going to do my best (like I’ve been doing) to weed out the lames and make sure the father not only adores that child(ren) but is a responsible and nurturing father as well.”

What a wonderful idea. But you are going to get a lot of female in here who will say that they should be able to get knocked up by the neighborhood loser and still expect him to be Dr.Huxtable.

You can always try marriage to increase your chances of having a man stay around. Husbands rarely just take off.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 11:09:am

@T,

“AND black women need to stop making excuses for the sorry n*ggas.”

No, black “women” need to stop getting knocked up by sorry n*ggas.



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6/22/09, 11:12:am

Kigali meet marquis now you two *****es can talk since you think alike~~



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 11:13:am

@Jade Silver,

” I wonder what would happen if we women had the luxury to decide we didn’t want to be responsible.”

Black females get tons of abortions. Black females are more likely to get their kids taken away by DHS. A disproportionate number of black kids are in foster care. Black females love to leave their children with granny. Black females love to leave their kids with their older kids. Black females love to leave their kids just on the block. SO yes there are a lot of black females who are enjoying the luxury of not having to raise their children. They just do their abandonment and neglect in a different way.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 11:16:am

@Shorty Mack,

“We can’t choose what family we are born into.”

But black females can certainly choose what types of family they are going to have. So why do they keep choosing the ones where they are the single parent? Lots of other women choose the ones where they are wives raising to their children with husbands. Why cant the strong independent black females choose those types?



Mock Rock Star

6/22/09, 11:19:am

@Both of Kigali post
LOL!!! But that’s not right…



lia

6/22/09, 11:23:am

Husbands leave too….and there are a lot of times when the dad/husband is in the household and MOM IS STILL A SINGLE PARENT…..its takes more than a husband or a live in dad to be a good father



Mrs. Rance

6/22/09, 11:24:am

Kigali

We will need to skip a generation or so and hope the black race survives. Something is broken. 70-80% of black children are born to unwed mothers. The problem is black men view marraige as a bad thing. So if you try to wait to get married you’re going to have a bunch of really old first time parents, but most of all you will have no parents. Because a whole bunch of black women will never find a husband or they will settle and wind up divorced pretty quickly. The fact is we are animals who are driven to procreate. The urge is so strong that women will purposely make a baby with damn near anyone and men will repeatedly have unprotected sex even though they don’t want a baby. Something is driving us to procreate. It is human nature. Maybe if it continues like this for a few hundred or couple thousand years we will evolve to the point where we don’t need male figures to become strong, well rounded individuals. Unfortunately we are not there yet and still need both male and female influence. It’s not as simple as we are trying to make it.



lia

6/22/09, 11:26:am

@misunderstood-just cause he grows up with a man “in the house” doesnt mean he is teaching him anything….



Manuel

6/22/09, 11:39:am

Zero tolerance for those illegal sperm donors called father…

they should be put on blast at every opportunity..and their shriveling ding should be fed to the dogs..

all the deadbeat fathers of the world,I hope your ***** suffer every father day.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 11:45:am

@lia,

“just cause he grows up with a man “in the house” doesnt mean he is teaching him anything….”

Just because a female is a single mother doesnt mean she is actually raising her children or raising them properly.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 11:47:am

@lia,

“Husbands leave too…”

Well over 50% of all divorces are initiated by women. It isnt husband who are leaving it is women who are divorcing.



missunderstood

6/22/09, 11:52:am

@lia

@misunderstood-just cause he grows up with a man “in the house” doesnt mean he is teaching him anything….

– you can say ‘just cause’ or ‘what if’ about a lot of shyt. First you say give him a break because he didn’t have a dad, then you say having a dad in the house doesn’t mean he’s teaching him anything.
Huh? *blank stare*
So which is it? It sounds like you are just commenting me because I am at odds on some of the other post. Please take that lame mess somewhere. Glad to have an intelligent tete’ a tete with any one, but stand on one side or the other of the fence. I can’t debate both with you….



ja nae nae

6/22/09, 11:55:am

any dead beat dadi that dusnt want bow wow is dumb and dead beat but ive met his momn shes playin the role well



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 11:55:am

@Mrs Rance,

If it is true, I dont believe so, that black men dont want marriage, then black females need to know that these men arent baby daddy material. The truth is that black men know that there isnt marriage material out there. Would you marry the average black females out there? I certainly wouldnt. ***** if you probably wouldnt date your close homegirls. Just goes to show how low quality the females are out here.

Yes we are animals with urges to procreate but the black females seems to be the only animal whose children are born out of wedlock the vast majority of the time.

“Because a whole bunch of black women will never find a husband or they will settle and wind up divorced pretty quickly.”

At my job I work with around 40 or 50 or so black females. There are probably 2 of them who I would set up with a relative of mine. The rest are just a waste. This is what black men have to deal with. A bunch of low quality females. Actually make that 3.



DICooper

6/22/09, 12:12:pm

How are you going to be rich complaining about your father being deadbeat status?

Why not just focus on the blessing that you made it despite his failings, whatever they could have been?



Lynne R

6/22/09, 12:13:pm

misunderstood….please be quiet!



Lynne R

6/22/09, 12:22:pm

Bow Wow….as a mother of two young men who grew up without their father, I know the pain that they endured throughout their young lives. Let me share with you the same advice I gave to my sons…forgive your Father and your heart and mind will begin to heal….until then, you will travel through life bitter…life is better than that! Once again Bow Wow, I love you and my prayers are with you and every young person, especially young black males, who have to grow up without the presence of a father in their lives.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 12:25:pm

@Lynne R,

May I ask what were the cir*****stances to why the father of your children werent around?



missunderstood

6/22/09, 12:57:pm

@Lynne R

misunderstood….please be quiet!

I will NOT be quiet. Some of you women are enablers, doing your kids more harm than good by giving them that “my daddy wasn’t there” excuse… It’s sad, unjust, and not the perfect ideal, but this is not a perfect world, and there is no sense crying about it after the fact, ESPECIALLY after you are an adult. (you may want to seek some counseling if your children are young so that they can get p*****ed this issue and it doesn’t hinder them their whole lives…)



Oceangirl

6/22/09, 13:01:pm

@ Kigali

I’ve been reading your posts, and it seems that you have alot of animosity towards black women…even though you might be a black woman yourself. On the comment you made about divorces, women may be the one to file the divorce, but it may have been the man who did the wrongdoing, defiled the commitment of marriage which caused the woman to leave. Also, there are many reason why a man would leave his woman, but that is no excuse for him not seeing his children. His problem is with the mother, not the kids. I am tired of balck men using that as an excuse for not taking care of their responsibility.

When it comes to romantic relationships going wrong in the black community, I believe that both sides are equally responsible, especially when it comes to children. Men need to stop making babies when they don’t want to take care of them, and black women need to start valuing themselves more and stop making babies with men who may not even want to be committed to them. Personally, I believe that Bow Wow had the right to be upset, especially when the father isn’t trying to be a part of his life. I’m just glad I never had to experience that.



Lynne R

6/22/09, 13:02:pm

Kigali-Interdependent
You would have to ask him…he could answer it better!



Shay

6/22/09, 13:08:pm

BOSSIP YALL SOME DUMB *****ES . HOW IS DAT PETY ? WHERE U DERE WEN HIS FATHER WASNT AROUND . BUSY DRINKIN ? DO YU KNO HOW IT FEELS TO HIM ? SO SHUT DA ***** UP BOSSIP . IM TIRED OF YA ***** . REAL TALK . I WANNA PUNCH YA DUMB *****ES IN YA FACE .

DATS BOW SPEAKIN OUT . U LUCKY HE AINT PUT HIS FATHER NAME UP THERE . I FEEL HIM . SO SHUT UP BOSSIP . YA JUST HAD NUTTIN TO TALK ABOUT .

LEAVE BOW ALONE !!



Tagore

6/22/09, 13:14:pm

WOW! You all are on some other stuff today. MY MOTHER left when I was younger and I am fully grown, married and have children and her decision still affects me. So please don’t judge what you nothing about.
Secondly to all of you especially @misunderstood…who say that this isn’t the way adults (MEN) handle things. HAHAHA! Okay look around. Everywhere please and tell me that this isn’t the way people handle issues. Capitol Hill, Hip Hop, Religion, this is EXACTLY how things are handled. We talk about people behind there backs, we are a two faced fickle society. So don’t fault the youth for doing what they are taught in deed and in word.
Also if you have ever listened to dude talk about his pops he has said, the man is an alcoholic (hence why his momma ain’t with him @Kigali), he has tried to help him get sober …paid for rehab, given him money and his father f—ed it over, and so forth….so again tell me why he shouldn’t be angry and hurt? Yeah know the facts..hell the yound dude nearly spilled his guts in his freestyle..Father’s Day…about this very subject.
And @Lynne T, I agree forgiveness is the only way to move on. It doesn’t negate the fault of the person who is wrong, it just releases you from having to keep the emotions to blame that person with. the problem is that it is so very hard sometimes…and it takes time and continual vigilance in doing so.



oneCommentOnly

6/22/09, 13:17:pm

@Kigali, misunderstood, whatever… you are the problem. Forget bad fathers, single mothers etc. The problem lies with people that believe that it is their inherent right to judge others, like you were blessed with some innate wisdom that others don’t possess. It’s all good and well to log onto the net and comment on other people’s situations, but it is these very comments that lead me to believe that it is indeed you who received a bad upbringing, and not those coming from single parent homes. You have no right to judge that which you know nothing about, and take the bark out of your own eye before trying to diagnose other people’s problems and lives. Shut up, because this topic is clearly bigger than both your ignorant minds can handle.



Lady J

6/22/09, 13:18:pm

@ misunderstood…you’ve made a good point “real men don’t act that way”…BUT they never had a father figure to teach them how to be a man. so he must result to boys in the street to raise him, who also didn’t have a father, or being raised by his mom who can’t teach him how to be a man…this is a national problem. These kids who call out their Dad’s on the internet have every right to express their sadness of having no father to raise them…since you were raised by both parents…you really don’t have NO experience or empathy for the millions of kids with no father…SOOOOOO STFU!!!



chaka1

6/22/09, 13:19:pm

I agree with Missunderstood



Lady J

6/22/09, 13:22:pm

@Chaka1…you prolly is misunderstood who changed the name to chaka1….



MDCHAMP

6/22/09, 13:28:pm

@ Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman),

If 50% of divorces are initiated by women, where does the other 50% come from..It should matter who initiated the divorce, both parents need to be in their kids lives afterwards..



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 13:28:pm

@ Misunderstood:

“@Lynne R – that is your opinion, but I stands by mine. If some of these BOYS had MEN in their lives, they wouldn’t be so babyfied and effiminate. It’s a fact. This is not how a man handles an internal family conflict. I can’t help it if you don’t like the way I said it.”

I agree with you 1,000,000%. You go!!!



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 13:33:pm

“Likewise its time to let these females know that they choose the men that left and PERHAPS if they were married before they decided to get impregnated than the chances of them being left would decrease significantly.”

u never miss the opportunity to be a butthole. to your rtheory Africans get married. the men can marry mulitple women at once. but it doesn’t stop African kids from being orphaned drastically.

well here’s my advice: maybe dirty nasty AIDS spreading Africans should be more worried about how their kids are being raised in their absence due to AIDS deaths instead of worrying so much about that is going on with American black children. nothing is sadder than to grow up without either parent due to their poor sexual choices.

in other words worry about your own backyard before you come cleaning someone elses.



missunderstood

6/22/09, 13:39:pm

@Lady J

@ misunderstood…you’ve made a good point “real men don’t act that way”…BUT they never had a father figure to teach them how to be a man. so he must result to boys in the street to raise him, who also didn’t have a father, or being raised by his mom who can’t teach him how to be a man…this is a national problem. These kids who call out their Dad’s on the internet have every right to express their sadness of having no father to raise them…since you were raised by both parents…you really don’t have NO experience or empathy for the millions of kids with no father…SOOOOOO STFU!!!
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So…. hmmmm, you just reiterated MY WHOLE POINT – he needed a daddy so he could have learned properly the way to deal w/ issues as a MAN. I won’t STFU, no matter how many exclamation points are used!!!!!!!!! lol….

@Tagore –
Secondly to all of you especially @misunderstood…who say that this isn’t the way adults (MEN) handle things. HAHAHA! Okay look around. Everywhere please and tell me that this isn’t the way people handle issues. Capitol Hill, Hip Hop, Religion, this is EXACTLY how things are handled. We talk about people behind there backs, we are a two faced fickle society. So don’t fault the youth for doing what they are taught in deed and in word.
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the very thing that you just described is BYTCH SHYT-FEMALE SHYT, (backstabbing, 2-faced, talk behind your back, or indirectly – WOMEN are known for that shyt, not MEN, at least not REAL MEN) which is just more proof to MY POINT – HE NEEDED A FATHER SO HE WOULDN’T BE acting like a dam female.

The funny thing about it is, I am not disagreeing w/ anyone… Ya’ll just keep reiterating my point. He needed a daddy PERIOD. I just say he needed one so that he would’ve known better than to resort to this bullshyt and it’s all out war? lol… whatever.

@Chaka1 – thank you…

It’s amazing that everyone commenting are women….



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 13:42:pm

“yo its some dumb shyt to downplay how important it is for a dad to be a father to their child. how u gone tell dude to man up. he neva had a man in his life to show him how. AND black women need to stop making excuses for the sorry n*ggas. he shouldve put him on blast and like the othe rpost said he shouldve posted his picture….f sorry dads…. i had a good day so no i aint mad at black men. its truly sad and if you cant see it then you have bigger issues”

BIBLE!! especially the part about black women not giving them excuses. thats why the minute I see the ignorance of posters like Kigali I get right on it. we will never change anything as long as s***** African dirty trash like her keep making excuses or blaming black women. there is no excuse for a man walking out on his child whether he was married to the mother or not. that if you was married junk works with white women. the black man will abandon his kids regardless of what the set up was.



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 13:46:pm

“At my job I work with around 40 or 50 or so black females. There are probably 2 of them who I would set up with a relative of mine. The rest are just a waste. This is what black men have to deal with. A bunch of low quality females. Actually make that 3.”

here we go again with the Cliff Huxtable scenario i keep talking about. tell me how the black man is such a catch. what is he bringing to the table? he cant even take care of his kids let alone himself. he needs the black woman to do that for him.

like i said worry about your nasty dirty AIDS spreading baby abandoning brethren. ifyou have nothing positive to offer to an American black woman maybe you can offer something to your *dirty spread their legs for a man they KNOW is seeing mutliple women cause he has the right to marry all of them too* African female peeps.



eeh

6/22/09, 13:47:pm

i dont get it why afro american women has so much hate toward afro american men.lol

DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On@ why those harsh words against africans You think your special or something it aint like ure clean or something dirty *****.the slave masters really must got in to your head you self hating *****



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 13:47:pm

“Well over 50% of all divorces are initiated by women. It isnt husband who are leaving it is women who are divorcing.”

you stupid African idiot. if the female initiates 50% who is initiating the other 50%? you stupid fool. you get so caught up in wanting to bash a blackwoman that your strupid dumb azz doesn’t even think about what your posting. you look like a darn fool. you crazy Zulu nut.



Sydney™

6/22/09, 13:51:pm

Keep on speaking your mind, Missunderstood.



eeh

6/22/09, 13:51:pm

people can hate all they want on black men but if you date a hoodlum u will probly end up pregnant and alone black/hispanic/white or whatever
So black women stop coming with those excuses black men aint good lalal.

DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On@ u know obamas father was from kenya.africa



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 13:51:pm

“DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On@ why those harsh words against africans You think your special or something it aint like ure clean or something dirty *****.the slave masters really must got in to your head you self hating *****”

what i am doing is showing a nasty African female how it feels as an American black woman to constantly be dogged out by her. Kigali doesn’t do anything but sit on this board looking for threads that she can start bashing American black women in. i happen to feel like with all the issues of abandonment facing African kids over their parents poor sexual and marriage choices the last thing Kigali should be doing is sitting on a blog *****g American black women all day. so yes my clean azz is judging her and her people. if its ok for her to do it to us we can do it to her.



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 13:52:pm

“DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On@ u know obamas father was from kenya.africa”

and he abandoned Obama right?



Nicole

6/22/09, 13:52:pm

This is what I was talking about yesterday in the fathers day post. Bow Wow is 22 and still scarred by not having a father.



eeh

6/22/09, 13:53:pm

DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On@im african american so whats your problem i bet u are a white person



Sydney™

6/22/09, 13:57:pm

I was forwarded the below excerpt from a recent blog entry written by a sista. I thought she shared a poignant lesson:

“I hurt for my children who now had the same void that I experienced as a young woman yearning to be validated by a daddy who bragged and boasted about his relationships with his stepdaughters, because he didn’t know me. I searched high and low to fill that emptiness in my children, seeking only qualified men of strong character and integrity. The screening process was far more stringent for finding male role models than it ever was for finding a baby daddy. If only I’d been as picky about who the father of my children would be, I wonder how different the outcome would have been?

So my message to all the women and young ladies who one day plan to have children: If you want a good role model for your children, pick a good daddy. Nothing in life is guaranteed, but you can at least stack the odds in your favor that your children will have their own father around to wish a Happy Father’s Day.”



eeh

6/22/09, 13:57:pm

DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On@ dont waste your time on kigali she just want attention



missunderstood

6/22/09, 13:57:pm

@Sydney™ – I am…. I got a thick skin. My DADDY taught me that…



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 14:02:pm

@Ocean girl,

“His problem is with the mother, not the kids. I am tired of balck men using that as an excuse for not taking care of their responsibility.”

Most divorces and a growing number of divorces are due to irreconciable differences or no fault divorces respectively.

Yes his problem is with the mother but you know how much power the courts give mothers even to deny visitation or to move to another state because she found some new ***** to suck?



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 14:03:pm

“DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On@im african american so whats your problem i bet u are a white person”

no I am a black woman. a black American womanw ho is offended at being judged by an African woman over our decisions concerning sex aan children. its way too hypocritical.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 14:05:pm

@oneCommentOnly,

Triflin black *****es would love a world were no one judged them. I know the difference between right and wrong and I will always stand by them. Interesting how black folks can judge racism but cant take a stand on issues that are actually affecting their community.

I know black *****es can only bring themselves to judge black men who ***** white girls. Those are her priorities.



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 14:06:pm

“Yes his problem is with the mother but you know how much power the courts give mothers even to deny visitation or to move to another state because she found some new ***** to suck?”

atleast she’s still there which cannot be said for nasty African w*****s spreading their legs for nasty AIDS infected African men and both of them dying on their chidlren and the childs only hope being for some rich white celebrity to take them in. thats bad. you nasty Africans are dropping in such great numbers that you need white people to raise your children. look how easily Madonnawalked in there and took that little girl from her grandmother. an American black grandmother would NEVER have stood for that junk. even the grandmothers over there are sorry. and just look how easy it was for her to take the little boy from his sorry azz daddy.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 14:07:pm

@MDCHAMP

The vast majority of divorces are initiated by women upwards to 70-80%. And we all know how *****es love to turn their children against their fathers especially if the father has moved on and found another chick. Children have always been weapons.



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 14:08:pm

“Triflin black *****es would love a world were no one judged them. I know the difference between right and wrong and I will always stand by them. Interesting how black folks can judge racism but cant take a stand on issues that are actually affecting their community. ”

no i just feel like you need to be judging your own nasty African “trifling *****es” too. after all those nasty w*****s aren’t dumb. they know their men are bringing home ADIS to their multiple wives. they are so hard up to suck that African AIDS “*****” that the last thing on their minds is dying and leaving their babies with NOONE. that’s sad. its nasty and its sad.



Lynne R

6/22/09, 14:09:pm

To misunderstood,

Tell me…how would a man handle an internal conflict? And how would you know being that you are a female.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 14:09:pm

@DaHonestTrust Aka- I wont even say who you are…

“here we go again with the Cliff Huxtable scenario i keep talking about. tell me how the black man is such a catch. what is he bringing to the table? he cant even take care of his kids let alone himself. he needs the black woman to do that for him.”

If the black man isnt a catch black *****es need to stop sucking ***** and getting pregnant. Problem solved.



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 14:11:pm

“@MDCHAMP

The vast majority of divorces are initiated by women upwards to 70-80%. And we all know how *****es love to turn their children against their fathers especially if the father has moved on and found another chick. Children have always been weapons.”

so now its not 50% anymore? now it’s 70%. u dumb African w*****. you will make up anything to fit your bitter *jealous of beautiful brown skinned American sistas agenda*. doesit make you mad that Africans are so dark and ugly?

anyway atleast those “*****es” are around to raise their kids unlike some nasty AIDS carrying African w***** who will probably die before her kid is even 2.



Whatyousay

6/22/09, 14:12:pm

This frustrates me greatly. I agree in many ways with Missunderstood. I too had the benefit of a good father as well as good uncles and cousins etc. It wasn’t until I was older that I realized how many kids didn’t have their father. It’s sad, however, I for one can’t stand being made to feel bad because I speak up for having a good dad. It’s almost like those of us that had them are afraid to say so because we have to be considerate of those that didn’t. I for one and tired of hearing about it. If you didn’t have one get over it. I know it’s possible because my husband did. He’s a great father without having had the benefit of one himself. Stop whinning and move on.
Also, the ones defending this problem are probably part of the dang blame because if women would STOP HAVING KIDS BY MEN THAT DON’T WANT YOU, WE WOULDN’T HAVE THIS PROBELM. And for the record, if he won’t marry you, then don’t have his child…if you do; YOU ARE THE PROBLEM. Have some self respect. Then you raise them to be whinny loosers because all they ever hear from you is how hard it is blah blah blah. Make better decisions and you won’t screw up your kids. Now….let the hating begin. I realize you need to do so to prevent from looking inward. Bottom line, if he wanted to have a child by you; he would have wifed you. If he didn’t you made the mistake. Live with it.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 14:12:pm

Nothing worse than a black female who constantly dogs black men but cant help allowing him between her ashy ***** legs.



rachel

6/22/09, 14:13:pm

@ DaHonestTruthaka Turn on ,,,My bull *****

You and Kigali are just proof that the Brain washing and self hate perpetuated since colonialism to break down and divide slaves has and continues to be very succesful.

Sadyly, this is quite scary!



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 14:15:pm

@WhatYou Say,

“Also, the ones defending this problem are probably part of the dang blame because if women would STOP HAVING KIDS BY MEN THAT DON’T WANT YOU, WE WOULDN’T HAVE THIS PROBELM. And for the record, if he won’t marry you, then don’t have his child…if you do; YOU ARE THE PROBLEM. Have some self respect.”

THANK YOU! I keep trying to tell these black females they need to practice Quality control. If he isnt a quality black man, if he has kids by other women, if he has a record, if he DOESNT want to marry, why the ***** you have kids with him?

Only a properly reared black woman would understand this. Tell your dad I said thank you!



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 14:15:pm

“If the black man isnt a catch black *****es need to stop sucking ***** and getting pregnant. Problem solved.”

maybe you should worry about what your nasty African w***** women are sucking on. they are the ones dying on their babies in drastic numbers. do you know how many African kids die a day due to the poor choices their AIDS “***** sucking” mothers made? those nasty w*****s need to non “***** sucking” speeches, not us. i will never get how a group of women who are so black, ugly, stupid and uneducated can even get laid let alone have enough sex to get AIDS.



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 14:16:pm

“Nothing worse than a black female who constantly dogs black men but cant help allowing him between her ashy ***** legs.”

especially when he’s a nasty AIDS carrying African piece of crap.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 14:17:pm

@rachel,

I support the nuclear family for black children. If you cant get with that, ***** off!



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 14:19:pm

“@ DaHonestTruthaka Turn on ,,,My bull *****

You and Kigali are just proof that the Brain washing and self hate perpetuated since colonialism to break down and divide slaves has and continues to be very succesful.

Sadyly, this is quite scary!”

sorry did you say something?

as long as Kigali insults my women I will insult hers. she is in no position to talk with Africans abandoning their babies double the nunmebr of American blacks due to something a condom could avoid. and slavery wouldn’t have existed if it weren’t for the greed and self hate of her ignorant people so don’t put that on me and mine. AFRICANS sold their own into slavery, not Americans.



SP. E-Z!!!

6/22/09, 14:19:pm

THEY SAY BOSSIP’S LAME, BOW’S BITTER!

@ dA hONEST tRUTH:

WOW! IS THAT HOW YOU REALLY FEEL?
…
I AM SPEECHLESS…
(@ THE SAME X HOW DO I NOT GET WORKED UP)

I DON’T THINK THAT THIS IS THE RIGHT SITE FOR THAT KIND OF ADDRESSIN…



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 14:20:pm

“DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On@ dont waste your time on kigali she just want attention”

i know but I’m bored so i have a little time. i’ll roll with her.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 14:21:pm

@DaHonestTruth,

“…so now its not 50% anymore? now it’s 70%.”

@lia,

“Husbands leave too…”

Well over 50% of all divorces are initiated by women. It isnt husband who are leaving it is women who are divorcing.

***** do you know what “Well over 50%…” means?



SP. E-Z!!!

6/22/09, 14:22:pm

DARK & LOVELY!



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 14:22:pm

“@rachel,

I support the nuclear family for black children. If you cant get with that, ***** off!”

watch out Rachel. i would be very afriad of an African w***** using the word “*****” to me. it can only mean AIDS in the end.



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 14:23:pm

“@ dA hONEST tRUTH:

WOW! IS THAT HOW YOU REALLY FEEL?

is what that ignoramous is saying about American black women really how she feels? ask the whole question……..



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 14:25:pm

“Well over 50% of all divorces are initiated by women. It isnt husband who are leaving it is women who are divorcing.

***** do you know what “Well over 50%…” means?”

whatever you dumb AIDS infected Zulu w*****. if it was 70% them why notsay that? who start closer to 50% and then raise it so drastically the minute you was called out on how dumb you sounded? you stupid idiot. i think the AIDS is messin with your brain.



tgreen

6/22/09, 14:26:pm

Misundastood or whatever your name is no disrespect, but airing dirty laundry is not appropriate in any child girl or boy however we all have our own ways of dealing with things and being that both your parents were in the house you have not walked in his shoes, therefore you can think what you want but you are not educated enough on the subjected to be able to judge one way or the other what im really wondering is since both of your parents were in the house why did you not get better schooling using the term and i said term because ***** is not a word ***** *****er is not very lady like your daddy obviously did not teach you that why don’t you be a real woman and go and cook dinner for your family and not worry about his



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 14:30:pm

“So my message to all the women and young ladies who one day plan to have children: If you want a good role model for your children, pick a good daddy. Nothing in life is guaranteed, but you can at least stack the odds in your favor that your children will have their own father around to wish a Happy Father’s Day.””

very sound advice. its just so sad that no other race of women has to pick a man like she’s picking a President. no ther race ofwoman has to go through the motions so greatly to *****ure her childs father will be a good father to his child. I know some s*****my azz white boys who think of nothing but their children. I knoe some broke azz Puerto Rican men who carry their babies around with prode. they don’t care what they can and can’t do for the kid. all they care about is that kid knowing who daddy is. its just so sad that the black man is so screwed up that he has to be approached with such caution that no other race of man has to be approached with. its almost like you have to approach the black man like he’s poison and pray that he’s really perfume.



Whatyousay

6/22/09, 14:31:pm

And at the honest truth or whatever you are calling yourself.

The only one that is s***** … apparently is you. You weren’t good enough and you want to turn that hate outward. Let’s see, a woman knows the man doesn’t want to be bothered but brings a child into the world anyway and them blames everyone else because she had no standards? Who’s fault is it? Yours. He should be there, but you should make better decisions too. You didn’t and look what happened. Now you are full of hate and it’s someone elses fault. It’s ok, my father taught me to understand that’s what losers do.



missunderstood

6/22/09, 14:34:pm

@Lynne R

To misunderstood,

Tell me…how would a man handle an internal conflict? And how would you know being that you are a female.
– girl, you don’t read, or you don’t read for comprehension. I WAS RAISED BY MY DAD – for the most part. My parents were married till I was 11, divorced, and I stayed w/ him from age 12 until I was 16 and he and moms reconciled, remarried and been that way for 20 some odd yrs strong. The saying that a woman can’t teach a man how to be a man goes both ways…. My dad taught me how to think like a man, right up there in the top 5 lessons of life for me. I know for a FACT how MY daddy, hubby, son- would handle it – with respect (always respect) first, then honesty, and preferably face to face. If not, a phone call would suffice, or even a letter. I am not a fan of airing your family’s issues to the world.



Rio

6/22/09, 14:34:pm

He just wants some damn attention, tryin to be like diddy’s step son quincy…get a life, go record an album that’ll flop



rachel

6/22/09, 14:43:pm

@ da honest truth aka

Im sorry I misunderstood what the banter was between you and Kigali , while I disagree with some of your responses towards it(kigali). because people like me who are both African (mother) and American (born in NJ) and Caribbean(father are left in the middle. We are black! Lets find that common bond and nurture that, love that …Yes Africans was part of the slave trade, but Americans also allow slave mentality to continue etc…blame could be spread evenly..BUT WE OURSELVES ARE NOT THE ENEMY!..BUT , THAT WAS THE TRICK, TO DIVIDE AND BLAME ONE ANOTHER..for what ever reason. Lets kill the cycle!

I am not addressing Kigali because ..I DONT BELEIVE IT IS BLACK OR WOMEN , IT IS EITHER A VERY BITTER BLACK MAN, OR A VERY SCORNED WHITE WOMEN!
….BUT IT HAS A DEEP ROOTED HATE FOR BLACK WOMEN NO LESS STRONG AS THE KNIGHTS OF THE KLANSMAN.
JUST AS YOU CANNOT ATTEMPT TO MAKE ANY COMPROMISE IN ORAL CONVERSATION WITH THEM , BECAUSE THE HATE IS TO STRONG SO IS THE SAME FOR KIGALI…it is just a pitifull troll who needs its daily hate dosage and Bossip is the vitamin of choice.



Moreaces

6/22/09, 14:45:pm

Mrs. Rance

Nine times out of ten, his deadbeat @ss pops doesn’t even know what Twitter is but its just sad when you gotta put your pops on blast in such a public way.
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That sentence ain’t even trying to make sense. Anyway, I applaud him for putting his deadbeat ***** dad on blast. He should have posted his name and a pic and his location to. It’s time to make these *****s who create babies and walk away to understand that they don’t deserve to live. They damn sure shouldn’t walk around with their heads held high. Too many black kids are raised without fathers. There is no valid excuse for it.

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I agree, if that aint ashame to live their kids with out a father to look out for them, then this is what they deserve, Why should his father care anyway, he did not care enough to stay in his life and show him how to be a man, and give him the love and support that all children need..



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 14:46:pm

“And at the honest truth or whatever you are calling yourself.

The only one that is s***** … apparently is you. You weren’t good enough and you want to turn that hate outward. Let’s see, a woman knows the man doesn’t want to be bothered but brings a child into the world anyway and them blames everyone else because she had no standards? Who’s fault is it? Yours. He should be there, but you should make better decisions too. You didn’t and look what happened. Now you are full of hate and it’s someone elses fault. It’s ok, my father taught me to understand that’s what losers do.”

listen jackazz i don’t care what you think of me or how you attempt to *****es my life – a life you don’t even know. its so funny when people come in here foaming at the mouth in their responses but have the nerve to call someone else angry or hateful. i am not that sista who is going to sit back and come up with 99 reasons why its ok for a black man to abandon his kids while blaming everyone around him for his poor decisions. it doesn’t help our race and it doesn’t help him. idiots like you are the reason he thinks its so cool now to make a baby and abandon it. cause they know ghetto trash s***** like you are going to pat them on the head and tell them itsn ot their fault their sorry pieces of dirt. no me. not this sista. NEVER. so get used to it. we dont all all for the poor destitute black man scenario. if he can chase after puzzy he can chase after his kids too. so wipe the anger foam off your face and just get over it.



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 14:48:pm

“I am not addressing Kigali because ..I DONT BELEIVE IT IS BLACK OR WOMEN , IT IS EITHER A VERY BITTER BLACK MAN, OR A VERY SCORNED WHITE WOMEN!”

this is somehting else that baffles me. you jumped and said something to me but you choose not to comment to Kigali? how can one constantly ignore one comment but feel the need to jump right into someone elses even when they can clearly see its a direct response to what they chose to ignore. why say anything to me if you made the decision to ignore Kigali? who not just ignore me too?



tg

6/22/09, 14:48:pm

It is sad – why twitter – just call your Pops. If you don’t respect him, leave him alone. If you need someone to express your feelings to about your pops – what happened to friends?



Whatyousay

6/22/09, 14:54:pm

listen jackazz i don’t care what you think of me or how you attempt to *****es my life – a life you don’t even know. its so funny when people come in here foaming at the mouth in their responses but have the nerve to call someone else angry or hateful. i am not that sista who is going to sit back and come up with 99 reasons why its ok for a black man to abandon his kids while blaming everyone around him for his poor decisions. it doesn’t help our race and it doesn’t help him. idiots like you are the reason he thinks its so cool now to make a baby and abandon it. cause they know ghetto trash s***** like you are going to pat them on the head and tell them itsn ot their fault their sorry pieces of dirt. no me. not this sista. NEVER. so get used to it. we dont all all for the poor destitute black man scenario. if he can chase after puzzy he can chase after his kids too. so wipe the anger foam off your face and just get over it.

Well just understand then that that is exactly what you are. PUXXY. If you or someone in your family or whoever you are so upset with would have been more than that you wouldn’t be so angry that you can’t read. What I said was it’s both peoples fault, not just the man. I never said he was right just that it takes two to tango and the bottom line falls with the woman or in your case so called woman. Everyone on here can tell your angry. It must be because you or someone in your family was dumped. I wasn’t and I am happy and worthy. That all that needs to be said. It’s no wonder you are alone and bitter. Enough. Close your legs and you won’t have a problem. If he’s triflin, it wouldn’t matter….would it.



rachel

6/22/09, 14:55:pm

@ DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

Because I believe you are genuine ,and also have some common sense. Unlike Kigali
Nor are you bitter or spiteful just like Kigali
….I was apologizing to you and giving you a compliment.
…..While with Kigali I just dont give a damn towards IT!



Lynne R

6/22/09, 14:59:pm

To misunderstood
Once again, you need to be quiet.You are not making sense.Do you know the old adage…that children should be seen and not heazrd…. well this applies to you! Everything that comes from your mouth is non-sense. Enjoy the rest of your day!



missunderstood

6/22/09, 15:01:pm

@tgreen – i curse. So f*ckin what? Would you feel better if I was to type – MF instead? That has little to NOTHING to do w/ the point. It’s called expressionism, and this is a BLOG.

@tg – I agree…. phone calls are so underrated any more…..



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 15:03:pm

“Well just understand then that that is exactly what you are. PUXXY. If you or someone in your family or whoever you are so upset with would have been more than that you wouldn’t be so angry that you can’t read. What I said was it’s both peoples fault, not just the man. I never said he was right just that it takes two to tango and the bottom line falls with the woman or in your case so called woman. Everyone on here can tell your angry. It must be because you or someone in your family was dumped. I wasn’t and I am happy and worthy. That all that needs to be said. It’s no wonder you are alone and bitter. Enough. Close your legs and you won’t have a problem. If he’s triflin, it wouldn’t matter….would it.”

breathe, count to 10 and wipe the dog foam off your mouth. and your *****essing of me doesn’t bother me. i could very easily turn it around and say you are clearly a dead beat father who is upset that you and your kind are being called out. thats a very immature way of trying to be heard. however you are very right about me knowing plenty of women who have had their children abandoned by the black man but as often as he does it its only natural that i am bound to know someone who has been through it. i am sure more black women know another black woman who had her child abandoned then there are black women who have had their children abandoned. go take care of your kids and stop hatin on people for pulling your cards and playing them for you. if you’re not to completely pitiful to do so go hug your kids and tell them you love them. its never too late to let your kids know you’re there for them……..

then maybe they won’t grow up as sorry as you.



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 15:06:pm

“@ DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

Because I believe you are genuine ,and also have some common sense. Unlike Kigali
Nor are you bitter or spiteful just like Kigali
….I was apologizing to you and giving you a compliment.
…..While with Kigali I just dont give a damn towards IT!’

well thank you for clarifying that cause i have never understood how a black women becomes bitter and angry for not condoming black men abandoning their children and speaking on it. its like are we supposed to just be silent on this tragic problem messing up our communities? it doesn’t help one bit to sit back blaming everyone else for what is the black mans problem and his problem alone. no other race of woman has to pick a man with the caution of touching acid and noone ever wants to discuss why the black woman has to.



missunderstood

6/22/09, 15:08:pm

@Lynne R

To misunderstood
Once again, you need to be quiet.You are not making sense.Do you know the old adage…that children should be seen and not heazrd…. well this applies to you! Everything that comes from your mouth is non-sense. Enjoy the rest of your day!
______
WHAT is not making sense Lynne? My post don’t make sense to people who have a hard time w/ comprehension, as I have already stated you must…. what is YOUR point? I keep making the point that the boy needed a daddy so that he could know how to act, and that doesn’t make sense? No, maybe what doesn’t make sense is the fact that you had not 1 but 2 babies by a deadbeat, are hurt that he left, and are projecting that shyt onto your kids so that they can in turn grow into the type of men who use excuses as a crutch. Instead of taking ownership of their issues, they can just say I’m not ______ because my daddy left. Sometimes mothers add as much to the detriment of the kids as the absent fathers…. I wish more dads would raise their kids and let the mammies go on their way sometimes…



rachel

6/22/09, 15:09:pm

@ DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

I agree and cosigh….SO TRUE!, henceforth your screen name!



missunderstood

6/22/09, 15:12:pm

further more, I guarantee I’ve got yrs on you. My grown ***** son is 18, and going to college in the fall – (TSU baby!) so YOU aren’t making any sense.



Lady J

6/22/09, 15:14:pm

It’s must be a full moon coming, cuz yall are actin crazy as hell up in this room…especially misunderstood…i go to lunch come back, and misunderstood is still here arguing with erbody…dayum…what’s the problem. clearly you are frustrated…it will be ok boo…



Lady J

6/22/09, 15:15:pm

@misunderstood
so you live in Tennessee? that explains your behavior….



rachel

6/22/09, 15:18:pm

@ missunderstood

I been reading the back& forth between you and several other people . Please do not take offense but I have to tell you, you are sounding quite like Kigali…and believe that is NOT a good thing.
Empathy is a virtue, that is almost dead in our society and is an added root to many of ills in our world today. I really suggest you try and have some. While it is wonderful that you were raised by both parents and married as I …the difference between You and I is I can see myself in someone elses shoes and understand….You dont have to be a hard ***** to those less fortuante than yourself just because you did not have that expeirence. Lets try to bring others up ,,THAT IS NOT A WEAKNESS. Which I think your trying to imply.
…By the way children need both parents Mother and Father.
It does not make one weak aka “lil bow” that he has opened up about his father , matter of fact most thearapist suggest that one publicly open up about a childhood stigma/pain in order to HEAL!



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 15:18:pm

“It’s must be a full moon coming, cuz yall are actin crazy as hell up in this room…especially misunderstood…i go to lunch come back, and misunderstood is still here arguing with erbody…dayum…what’s the problem. clearly you are frustrated…it will be ok boo…”

Misunderstood is holding it down while making some very good points.

why is it that the minute a black man is calledout for being a deat beat dad the person calling him out has to be so angry and what the problem really is? why can’t a black man be called out for abandoning his children? what the heck is going on with our race?



Lady J

6/22/09, 15:20:pm

@DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On….that goes for you too…it will be ok boo…



Lady J

6/22/09, 15:21:pm

Calm down take some deep breaths….woo sah



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 15:22:pm

” its just so sad that no other race of women has to pick a man like she’s picking a President. ”

And no other race of woman has to be told not to get pregnant by the dude that stay in and out of jail. Only the black female has to be told how to pick wisely. Too hot in the pants I guess to perform quality control on who she *****s.



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 15:23:pm

“@DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On….that goes for you too…it will be ok boo…”

yes it will. and you’ll come out if everything ok too.



Whatyousay

6/22/09, 15:24:pm

breathe, count to 10 and wipe the dog foam off your mouth. and your *****essing of me doesn’t bother me. i could very easily turn it around and say you are clearly a dead beat father who is upset that you and your kind are being called out. thats a very immature way of trying to be heard. however you are very right about me knowing plenty of women who have had their children abandoned by the black man but as often as he does it its only natural that i am bound to know someone who has been through it. i am sure more black women know another black woman who had her child abandoned then there are black women who have had their children abandoned. go take care of your kids and stop hatin on people for pulling your cards and playing them for you. if you’re not to completely pitiful to do so go hug your kids and tell them you love them. its never too late to let your kids know you’re there for them……..

then maybe they won’t grow up as sorry as you.

Figures. Another dumb asz ***** that doesn’t read. I am not surprised that you know women who don’t hold themselves to higher standards with your attitude. I already stated very clearly, I am a female who had a great father and family who knew she was worthy of a husband. You clearly are low cl*****, hang with low cl***** women who aren’t worthy and are angry about it. No wonder you are alone and bitter. Stop hanging with no count women and men. Hang with a better cl***** and you will realize there are plenty of good black men too. They just don’t want women like you.



rachel

6/22/09, 15:25:pm

@ LADY j AND DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

You both are agreeing about the same thing re-read your posts, before the 2 of you think your disagree cause your not you both feel as most common sense folks that black men are just to blame for problems of the black community and NOT THE BLACK WOMEN OR CHILD ALONE…it is misunderstood…that has her knickers in a tightwad.



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 15:27:pm

“And no other race of woman has to be told not to get pregnant by the dude that stay in and out of jail. Only the black female has to be told how to pick wisely. Too hot in the pants I guess to perform quality control on who she *****s.”

BIBLE – especially a nasty AIDS infected African w*****. she needs to be told in all of her languages to keep her smelly dirty rat infested ***** closed.

only a black woman needs to be told you’re men aren’t worth a good goddamn even when they do have money and are successful. only the black woman needs to pick a man like its rocket science because if she doesn’t even if the man appears to have it together chances are betetr than not that he isn’t worth the dirt he’s standing on.



Poked in the Morning...

6/22/09, 15:30:pm

i find it so hilarious that a woman would be the first one to tell a man how to act like a man, or how to be a father.

GTFOH.

how the hell would you know? A man can’t tell a woman how to be a woman, and a woman cant tell a man how to be a man.

you sound bitter ladies



Lynne R

6/22/09, 15:30:pm

To misunderstood,

Once again, you need to be quiet. You make statements about situations as if you know the facts…which you don’t…you blurt out words that you don’t even comprehend cause some of the words you use are not even words..try looking them up in the dictionary i.e. “babyfied”.



rachel

6/22/09, 15:31:pm

@ kigali

Since there are equal amounts in ref to the relative numbers of both white men, latino and black men in jail….I *****ume only the black men in our prison system are fathers …ALL THE LATINO AND WHITE MEN..THOSE WOMEN DID NOT TOUCH THEM????
….



DaHonestTruth aka Turn My Swag On

6/22/09, 15:32:pm

“Figures. Another dumb asz ***** that doesn’t read. I am not surprised that you know women who don’t hold themselves to higher standards with your attitude. I already stated very clearly, I am a female who had a great father and family who knew she was worthy of a husband. You clearly are low cl*****, hang with low cl***** women who aren’t worthy and are angry about it. No wonder you are alone and bitter. Stop hanging with no count women and men. Hang with a better cl***** and you will realize there are plenty of good black men too. They just don’t want women like you.”

LOL. i just love that garnished child support anger only the black man can show so well.

go take care of your ***** babies and get off this blog will you? thats the problem with the black man now. his priorities are all screwed up. it means more to you to be here arguing with me than with your children. take your sorry black azz over to your baby mama house and help out with your babies loser.



rachel

6/22/09, 15:33:pm

when you spew *****ed up stats to people, while I otherwise choose to ignore you idiotic rhetoric…I will correct your ***** on that



This some shhhh...

6/22/09, 15:37:pm

There are arguments that nowhere in Bow Wow’s twenty odd years of living, there was a real man in his life? Why didn’t Moms find a role model for that boy? Boys Club the Y, Step Dad, something? I know, because she had that boy pimped out to JD. I agree with Missunderstood. Take you talk in doors Bow Wow. If you never hear from your Pops again, you don’t air out your business.



rachel

6/22/09, 15:45:pm

Only SHAME should be remained indoors.
So of course if you have a related shame of your own you will disageree with bow wow tactics.
….Since bow wow felt no shame in HIS it was only fair game taking to take it OUT OF THE D/L (down low)



Poked in the Morning...

6/22/09, 15:47:pm

and some of you women need to GTFOH with that black man bashing. cause last time i checked you was all defending them when it comes to the Chris Brown/Rihanna mess. Or even when the topic is on white women.

but now that it got to do with kids, all of a sudden the black man isn’t worth living? shut up chickens



gnard1

6/22/09, 16:04:pm

It’s really sad that when fathers day come around all we can talk about is deadbeat dads. I know some deadbeat ***** women no one talk about that on mothers day. We as blk ppl need to take care of our own business and stop trying to get ppl to feel sorry for your *****es. Damn!



This some shhhh...

6/22/09, 16:05:pm

No shame, it’s just that household business is not for everyone. I don’t need to know what he feels about his Pops. That’s between him and his old man. It puts him in a bad light to be twittering about him and his Pops relationship.



This some shhhh...

6/22/09, 16:07:pm

Strong Black women don’t want to be with weak Black Men. It forces them to be the head of the household.



missunderstood

6/22/09, 16:19:pm

@Lynne – I know that’s not a word Lynne. But don’t try to act like you haven’t heard it. It is common enough to have an entry in the Urban Dictionary, kind of like ‘conversate’, which is not a word either, but people use it all the time. What else you got cause that was weak. You still have yet to answer my question, What is YOUR point. I’ve state mine 4 or 5 times today.

@Lady J – Tennessee??? Naw, never lived nor do I currently reside in Tennessee… And I am not frustrated at all. I will however, continue to stand by the fact that if he had a man in his life, he would KNOW how to handle situations w/ a little more dignity.

@rachel – I hear you…and I’ll look into that whole “empathy thing”



Lady J

6/22/09, 16:20:pm

@ Rachel…I don’t know what you are talking about…I disagreed with misunderstood, who stated that BowWow shouldn’t be using the media as an outlet to express his opinion about his deadbeat dad… I feel that he SHOULD and have every right to call his father out on twitter, as well as, use the media to express his opinion about his dad…is that clear for you now???



missunderstood

6/22/09, 16:22:pm

@This some shhhh… – we are here – —-><—-



Lady J

6/22/09, 16:23:pm

@misunderstood…then it must be Texas…which further explains your rantings…



missunderstood

6/22/09, 16:26:pm

@Lady J – must be TX, cause it sure ain’t Tennessee… also, I’m not indegenous to the area, so I fail to see how my location would have any merit in this conversation…



missunderstood

6/22/09, 16:27:pm

indigenous (that’s a word too Lynne!)



LaMar

6/22/09, 16:32:pm

That’s a damn shame. It’s too man sperm donors, and not enough fathers



Butterscotch

6/22/09, 16:37:pm

Wow! Reading the posts on here actually makes me glad not to have kids. For the record, I was raised in a wonderful two-parent home, with the best man in the world for a father. I feel really sorry for Bow Wow and many, many other kids that are raised without the love of their father. Every child needs and deserves two parents.



rachel

6/22/09, 16:42:pm

@ lady J

I know, thats what I was saying , I agree with you and so does Dahonest.
It was misunderstood that got it all wrong.
I was already clear.
I co-sign with you!



rachel

6/22/09, 16:49:pm

Yes its shame when people dont want to deal with destructive habits from the past that may have others within thier own family harm. Incest, drug abusers ,alcoholics, domestic violence they all try to keep that ***** in the closet , dont want thier kids to bring it out in the open or talk about it…cause it going to put them on shout!
But if the children can heal from this than so be it!



Get married!!!!

6/22/09, 17:18:pm

@Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)
Likewise its time to let these females know that they choose the men that left and PERHAPS if they were married before they decided to get impregnated than the chances of them being left would decrease significantly.
_________________________________________

I agree , I never even considered dating a man unless I thought he was marriage material.
Whenever women are devalued in a culture they are encouraged to have sex outside of marriage.

Unwed mothers with multiple children is a formula for poverty, poor education and crime. It affect all of us, our taxes, our neighborhood and our culture. so yes I am concerned when I see a 25 year old single woman with 7 babies.

The rules have not changed, so stop giving it up. Make that man work and chase you!

It is my sincere belief , if welfare were stopped and families were forced to financial support these children things would change.



This some shhhh...

6/22/09, 17:42:pm

missunderstood

@This some shhhh… – we are here – —-><—-

I feel you sista. Keep putting that message out. A lot of folks may not agree, or understand, but the message still need to be heard.



Honey Beauty

6/22/09, 18:16:pm

Some people on here talk entirely way too much. Why is it always the black woman’s fault? The woman did not abandon the child. The man did. Yet, she still gets blamed for the man’s desire to leave and abandon the child. Shouldn’t the men who had a part in making the child be held accountable for their OWN actions?

Specific people here need couseling.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 19:03:pm

@WhatyouSay,

There are plenty of good black men out there. Do you think any of these chicken heads up in here would have given Barack Obama a chance while he was at Occident College? Ofcourse not. They would have called him lame, he didnt have enough swag, he wouldnt have been street enough for them. Now that he is President, they are all in line to suck his *****.

These females keep talking about a good man but the fact is they wouldnt know one if he *****ted on their face.



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 19:09:pm

@honey Beauty,

“Why is it always the black woman’s fault?”

Because she likes to get low and suck ***** for a type of man who isnt father material.

” The woman did not abandon the child.”

But they abandoned the notion of marriage before children which is how she can suck ***** and get low for poor quality men.

” The man did. ”

The man did what men do. ***** *****es. The only difference is that when a man is *****ing a non black *****, she is on birth control. The Kryptonite of black females.

“Yet, she still gets blamed for the man’s desire to leave and abandon the child.”

She gets blamed for allowing Pookie from up the block who has been in and out of jail, already got five kids with 10 baby mamas, to be her baby daddy.

“Shouldn’t the men who had a part in making the child be held accountable for their OWN actions?”

Shouldnt to female who decided not to use birth control be held accountable for her OWN actions?



Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

6/22/09, 19:12:pm

@Get Married,

The black female can never answer why she is having children before she is married anyway. Never.



Sanjor

6/22/09, 19:12:pm

Yes the man is at fault too, but can’t the “strong black women” that everyone loves to scream about have some accountability for herself? It’s simple and its been said many times, CHOOSE a man who is husband and father material. If he doesn’t want to marry you, why have a baby with him? If he doesn’t want to make a committment to you, why think he will make a committment to a baby? Now before someone starts screaming that I hate black women, you are wrong but I hate the actions that they practice and especially when they bring innocent lives into the world without a father. It’s the height of selfishness for a woman to willingly choose to sleep with a less than desirable man and purposefully have a baby with him.



Ha Ha Ha

6/23/09, 04:46:am

Bow Wow? What kind of jack off calls himself that? That’s supposed to be cool? I’d be embar*****ed. This ***** like the other posers is a *****ing dork!



HE HE

6/23/09, 09:03:am

@HAHA
and so is your momma



jason

7/1/09, 12:16:pm

and this ***** puts out a cd that *****ody knew about just to say he st8….. selling out on his boyfriend O its sad

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