Punks Jump Up to Get Beat Down
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This bullsh*t right here is why so many single women don’t want to date or marry a man with children. Laila Ali’s husband’s ex-wife is tryin’ to drain him dry since he’s a part of the Ali family. Laila is the wrong chick to try to tangle with.
Laila’s hubby, former NFL star Curtis Conway, has been embroiled in a financial battle with his ex, Leoria Sanamu Conway. Leoria wants more child support and she’s apparently trying to prove Conway is now rolling in cash courtesy of his wife.
Leoria is trying to subpoena Laila’s financial info, including “her ineritance or potential inheritance.” Laila and her hubby have asked the judge to block the request, aruging it’s a blatant invasion of privacy and “clearly designed to harass and burden Ms. Ali.”
They’ve been battling it out in court all week. So far, no ruling.
Leoria is a dumb ho. She wouldn’t have gone after her ex if he was married to some ghetto b*tch.
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I wouldn’t f*ck with the Ali’s
And Bossip I agree, she wouldn’t be thinking about that nucca if he was with a broke bish, but she’d be trash talking him like a mother.
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Nope…bronze. Don’t mess with the Ali’s
Single men don’t want to marry or date a single woman with children.
First….*****es..hahahaha
What does Laila’s bank account have to do with this gold digger?? It was her and Curtis who had this baby not her and Laila. I dont care if they are married now.
THAT ***** BETTER BE CAREFUL BEFORE ALI BEAT THAT *****
That’s sad. She marries a man and has to make his child support payments? I wonder if there is an innocent spouse statute in her state.
That’s a damn shame. If I was Laila I would divorce his ***** ASAP (and just stay together). There is no way I would be paying child support for a child I didn’t help to make.
That’s just trifling. Get a job b*tch and stop wanting to suck people out of money. Chances are he is giving her enough but is just being selfish. Laila may be supporting her man but it doesn’t mean she has to also entertain bs from bitter ex’s. SMH at some people. Recession Special – got people going crazy.
This is why I DO NOT date men with kids!! My mom went through the same ***** with my stepdad’s bitter fat ex/mother of his son. That ***** had the GALL to try to get more money out of him because she figured that he had more when he got married to my mom.
I swear, you should have to retain a LICENSE to have children these days. If you are not competent, working, and have a stable family to raise a child(ren) in, then you should NOT be allowed to have any.
She just want to be taken care of. Give the child/Children to him. She want her nails and hair done get off her lazy behind and get a job. He isn’t obligated to take of her just the child/children. Use her as an example “IT DOESN’T PAY TO BE A JEALOUS LAZY SKANK”.
@ African Prince… Sorry to tell you that you’re neither first, second, third… LOL.
her ineritance or potential inheritance.”
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Those are fighting words right there…what kind of stuff is that?
Why not get a job and be able to tell your kid that daddy does what he does but mommy works HARD to support you also.
SAD
even though it is fool she has a right to do it…when u take a person to child support u can look into their spouse finances if they are married. so instead of it being 17% of his salary it is 17% of Their salary….damn shame
@Jade
“Chances are he is giving her enough but is just being selfish.”
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Nah I think she’s just being a BITTER ***** like so many women when their man or father of their child9ren) leave them for another woman. Like being a ***** is going to make him come back to you. smh
Lol…i don’t know… i wouldn’t mess with Laila if i was here…I’ve watched a few of her matches…she’s not to be messed with. Besides, the money isn’t technically his, i thought child support was based on income?
I am with you nique, that is ridiculous. I wish i would make my husbands child support payments. Only financial record she need is her ex husbands. Those are their children not laila’s. She needs to get it together with her gold digging self.
The Ex is probably also upset that he now has another child (the child with Laila) to support. You know how chickenheads become when there is another mouth the feed. She wants to make sure hers is “taken care of first”.
More important than dating men with kids. PEOPLE…BE CAREFUL WHO YOU HAVE CHILDREN WITH!!
@coco…child support is based on his income, but if he’s married to another woman and they share households then their income is considered one; hence why she is taking him to court for more money…I hope Ali has a good lawyer because unless there is some type of loop hole Ali may be paying the ex some of her money….but Ali’s inheritance she shouln’t touch because those were *****ests she acquired before her marriage…
Reason number 21655646984198 not to get married.
@Jade Silver
Would have been first if it wasn’t for my dial up connection lmao
CocoaFaitem
Lol…i don’t know… i wouldn’t mess with Laila if i was here…I’ve watched a few of her matches…she’s not to be messed with. Besides, the money isn’t technically his, i thought child support was based on income?
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She actually unfortunately has the right to do it…
But it probably won’t go through since he was a former NFL player she most likely getting enough money and the courts won’t let it go through. HOPEFULLY!
As a woman, what an embarr*****ment for woman everywhere.
He’s obviously paying his child support. Maybe the
ex-wife should get a job or get a degree, then a job
instead of having her hand out. Geez,
I don’t know both sides, but this doesn’t sound right.
@Lady J
Oh really? Child support works like that too?
**dually noted**
I hate greedy *****es.
I understand what the posters above me said BUT if Curtis living the life of the *very uber* rich & famous & wealthy then his son shouldn’t just be living the life of the upper cl***** ya kno? It’s like what if his mother married someone rich then her lifestyle is upgraded & so is the sons. Same thing with the father. (I don’t think the mother said it correctly)
For example: If a man was paying $2,000 dollars a month for child support, thats fine because thats all he has. Now if the man marries Oprah then his child lifestyle should be affecte and upgraded just as if his mother would have married Bill Gates
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@L
“She actually unfortunately has the right to do it…
But it probably won’t go through since he was a former NFL player she most likely getting enough money and the courts won’t let it go through. HOPEFULLY!
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What up L?
Naw… I think this goin go through mayne. Don’t she got a make up contract or something? I know she got SOME income. I don’t think she can make a claim to “inheritance” but the income of both she can make a claim on.
@ African Prince…Where in Africa are you from?
@peewee
Yea I see what you’re saying, but he could get divorced tomorrow, now your ***** is going right back to whatever the previous pymt’s were.
I think this all depends on your state too.
Who is to say he is touching Ms. Ali’s money. The lady is Jealous and greedy. Come to where I live with that I need more money. She will be childless and pounding the pavement. Gearing up to pay child support. She just want to keep up the Lazy lifestyle. Time to get those hands dirty.
Another bitter biatch…
2 immature girls here took their childrens fathers to court for more money. The guys worked minimum wage jobs but had there hustle on the side. The shopped for the children went the childrens dr’s appt spent time with the children. When 1 girl got caught cheating on 1 of the guys he left her alone bult his relationship with his son the other just told the dad she wanted to be single. So the fellas took care of their responsibilities(children) hooked up with other girls that is when the greed and jealousy came in. child support hearings. So what happens they went back and forth to family court and the 2 guys have custody of their children. The 2 greedy skanks were ordered to pay child support, but the fellas were like no they got this. The fellas are my brothers the children are my nephews.
“ghetto *****”? I hope you are referring to the “ghetto state of mind” *****es because those are the only ones I know who she would have to worry about and they come from all walks of life
This is exactly why I don’t like dating men with kids; espicially if they have bitter baby mama’s. Bitter BM’s will do anything to ruin your happiness. I have a friend right now who isn’t rich who has 60% of his wages (FROM EACH CHECK…not a month…EACH CHECK) going to one child when he has two by two different women. Not to mention, the woman he’s marrying has kids of her own so that basically kills them having one together. If he stops working today or tomorrow after they get married, this woman can go after my friend’s wife and take food out of her kids mouth….smh
Thats the thing alot of people on here do not understand about marriage-you are marrying every piece of baggage that person has.In a court of law,the woman honestly does have every right to ask for more in support since his situation changed.I’m not saying I agree with it at all but,this is the reason I tell all my children to NEVER marry anyone with children.
@ bacchus
It’s unfortunate when you gotta deal with a ignorant baby mama. What Laila makes should be none of her concern. Concentrate on the daddy dirty hoe!!!
This is why I always advocate getting a prenup that separates your debt. This way when your spouse has any debts that he/she incurred on their own, you will not be held liable. Hopefully, Laila Ali did this, but if not, she will probably be paying his child support.
But what some women don’t realize they better it doesn’t work that way for everyone. married or never married child support goes by the same rules. Ask 50cents ex girl
@ bacchus
60% after the taxes are taken out????????? Dang he working to pay child support! He like an indentured slave for 18 yrs! lol thats messed up!
@ Whoa
Yep I know. But like I said if the father living GOOD then the son should be living GOOD too.
I think the son is living well and the momma is probably *****ed she can’t do what she wants with what the son is getting ex-nfl player there must have been some stipulations. Like no nail and hair do’s no hanging out at the spa, with the income she receives for the child. So why not double it so she can enjoy the Lazy lifestyle. I belive in men taking care of their children. But to me that is all they should be obligated to when a relationship goes cold. Ex’s being greedy sad sad.
That is not how child support works. Some of you are sadly mistaken.
Laila is not required to support he other kids at all, unless he is underemployed or not paying his child support as ordered. Her income is not taken into account as she had nothing to do with the kids at the time of conception.
Please don’t give these gold diggers anything to strive for lest they be disappointed when they learn the truth!
It would be a stupid ***** judge that would allow this to happen…..Laila didnt get her gold digging ***** pregnant. I sware I dont UNDERSTAND….GET A FREAKIN JOB ALREADY LADY!!!!! If I were the judge, I wouldnt even allow this ***** in my courtroom….JUSTICE MY @$$
Rockkie,
If she wants the kids to live the good life, she should send them to live with thier dad and Laila because legally, Laila is not required to give her one red penny of her money, let alone her dad’s money. That woman is crazy.
If I were the judge, I wouldnt even allow this ***** in my courtroom, Laila didnt get her gold-digging ***** pregnant….JUSTICE MY @$$, this is some bull***** on every level, if Laila starts floating like a butterfly and stinging like a bee on that @$$, she will change her damn mind!
That ex is on some straight bull. No one is responsible for that child but the 2 biological parents. Laila should hire top notch representation and get all up in that *****, legally.
If I were Laila, I would countersue along the lines of well if you want to count my income, let me go ahead and file for full custody. If I am going to pay like the Mother, then best believe I am going to be the Mother!
Something tells me that the court system will shut this bull down quicker than quick.
Curtis son is living well very well. His mom has to get a job to support herself. The judge stated he has been caring for his child and the court child support stands, the ex-girl needs to find a job.
Spite.
The laws are different in all states, I guess.
Just because a man/woman gets remarried or whatever, does not mean the BM can go after the new wife/husband’s money. It does not work like that fortunately.
And sorry to the person that believes that a child should come up if his father/mother comes up. For the record: If the partnership is over, get over it. Sorry but because he/she is living the high life, it does not mean that because you were once married you are to keep living the same way. It is called divorce for a reason. You give up that right to all the perks once the marriage ends. Sorry people but that is some cr***** ***** to believe that you are entitled to maintain the lifestyle you had while you were married. The fact is you are NOT married anymore, therefore your lifestyle has to change. And shame on people who believe otherwise. People trust, once you let go, let it the f go and move on.
This woman is not entitled to any of Laila’s money and nor should she be. When her divorce became final with Curtis, she lost her “golden egg”. Sad though it may be, it is true. That is why marriage vows say all those things, because you are supposed to take them to heart and believe in what you create and when it is over, it is over. Now I am sure that child will have everything he/she needs, but because of its mother’s narrowmindedness that her child is not living the lifestyle of a child of a former football player who got married to a legacy’s daughter—she is making a mockery of our judicial system and women in general. Let it go.
even though it is fool she has a right to do it…when u take a person to child support u can look into their spouse finances if they are married. so instead of it being 17% of his salary it is 17% of Their salary….damn shame
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That is not true (here in VA anyway). Only if the person goes to court for Non-support (meaning they are not paying ANYTHING) will the judge ask for the spouses financial records.
Her child is not entitled to live the lifestyle of Laila’s child. That’s why she is mad. Her child is entitled only to the lifestyle of the mother and father as if they were together. If they were together, there would be no Laila hence her money is not on the table.
It’s like people who are married filing seperately on their taxes. Only if your spouse does not pay, will the IRS come after you.
Oh and I bet Laila made him sign a pre-nup to protect her inheritance so his “other” child is not entitled to that either! If the father can’t get it, his “other” child d@mn sho’ can’t get it.
Yep I know. But like I said if the father living GOOD then the son should be living GOOD too.
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Only if it’s his fathers money! The son should live as if his parents were together with the incomes they have now.
Her son is not going to live the life of Laila’s son….Laila’s son was born Rich and Privledge and is part of an American Legacy. Her son was born to an obvious Gold Digger and Foot-ball player.
Totally different lifestyles….sorry, she should get her a$$ in the ring and make her own dough!
cdneal, that is what happened with my 2 brothers. They got custody of their sons since what they were giving them ordered by the judge wasn’t enough. 1 brother was ordered to pay $500. a week and the $250. a week they did and have money order stubs to back it up the girls went back down there asking for more. It was a long process but my brothers have their sons full custody.Minimum wage don’t pay much but they have their other means. My nephews are very well taken care clean,well groomed active in sports. They visit their mothers regularly. Well 1 of them. The 1 the judge halted the visits because she chose to go to the clubs and leave him with neighbors on a set visitation instead of speaking with his father.
Back on my Swag I agree
They must of had a very nasty divorce.
This is exactly why I don’t like dating men with kids; espicially if they have bitter baby mama’s. Bitter BM’s will do anything to ruin your happiness. I have a friend right now who isn’t rich who has 60% of his wages (FROM EACH CHECK…not a month…EACH CHECK) going to one child when he has two by two different women. Not to mention, the woman he’s marrying has kids of her own so that basically kills them having one together. If he stops working today or tomorrow after they get married, this woman can go after my friend’s wife and take food out of her kids mouth….smh
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Maybe his dumb***** should learn to use a condom and stop making babies all over the place. I don’t feel sorry for men like that; he knows where babies come from so do something to prevent it.
As for this situation, if she wants her kid to live the “good life” then she should send him to live with his father.
I agree with a lot of you..when I was single I did not date men with kids either. When my husband and I met; we were so happy that neither of us had any childeren and now we have a family of our own. It can be done…birth control is also your friend.
I wonder how it is going work out for Usher and Tamieka
YES, THE FEMALES KNOW WHERE BABIES COME FROM AS WELL AND THEY MAKE FEMALE CONDUMS AS WELL. NO ONE IS SAYING THAT HE DON’T WANT TO TAKE OF HIS CHILD. WOULD SHE BE ASKING FOE MORE MONEY IF SHE WAS A CASHIER AT SEARS NO!!! SHE IS GREEDY AND JEALOUS.
@ Treadmill…
That’s my homie…but I don’t feel sorry for him either…LOL. I used him as an illustration as to why I don’t mess with men with kids. That’s my dude, but I’d never become involved with him or a man like him. You have to share his time, his *****, and his money, and I don’t feel that’s fair when he doesn’t have to share me. I have no kids, no complicated situations, or no drama so why should I invest in his? Trust his fiance has gone through hell with both baby mamas. He got the right one; that’s for sure cuz plenty women would have been out the door a long time ago.
People need to be more selective and alot more careful; thats why I like to take my time to get to know a person. And it doesn’t take very long, you can see signs from day 1, its just ppl choose to ignore them and do what they want to do anyway because…they’re them…and they’re exempt from the bull***** that person does to anybody else.
Sadly, my friend learned that the hardway. Self control is also your friend and people just need to be more careful. “Just having fun” can lead to just being broke and not being able to start a family with the woman you REALLY love.
Joint physical custody will wipe out amy support order. My brother was smart enough to request joint custody. He has the kids throughout the school year, Christmas and Fathers Day weekend. His ex, ha the kids every summer every weekend and thanksgiving. It works out equal time with both parents and no child support for either one… just medical insurance:)
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some black women are just gold diggers
Hey girl, thats good. Im glad my brothers have full custody of their children. There have been too many children being abused and put in foster care behind the father not being with the mother. 3 cases in 2 months here. And my nephews are well taken care of.
@Hey girl
That only works if both parents make around the same amount of money or they agree to it. If not, there is a chance that child support could be ordered.
I don’t think it is going to go her way.
Gold Diggers come in all colors, shapes and sizes.This isn’t a race thing.
*****ES MAKE ME SICK….I HOPE SHE GOTS HER TEETH KNOCKED OUT!
I MEANT “GET”
My question is when you have the means why wouldnt you want to help out your child…I mean i just dont get why people are bashing her if you have the means to support your child you should just do it she shouldnt have to after him for the money his situation changed and with that he now has a bigger responsiblity to be there finacially for his child…now all this looking into her personal things no but duh she wants him to pay up and duh it wouldnt be the same if he was with some ghetto girl cause his finacial situation wouldnt have changed its nothing wrong with mothers wanting the fathers of their children to help out if they have the means to
In Florida, law requests only W2 from the individual parent only, not their spouse’s.
Hopefully Conway has a job. Other wise his spouse’s income is “game on”!
From what I read, think she is possibly going a tad bit too far – but you all kill me always talking about gold-digging, trifling, babys mom when you only know 1/10th of the full story.
Bossip is only presenting one portion of what’s going on. You have no idea of the support he’s paying or if he’s asking for a downward modification based on a loss of income and another child to support (he probably is).
The court should (and does)consider a change in status of either party either up or down.
I know plenty of women whose child support has we down when they remarried or he remarried and had another child.
While I believe that it’s is the parent’s responsibility to take our of their children,
If someone else is supporting one of the parent, that should also be considered.
Yep I know. But like I said if the father living GOOD then the son should be living GOOD too.
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Only if it’s his fathers money! The son should live as if his parents were together with the incomes they have now.
Her son is not going to live the life of Laila’s son….Laila’s son was born Rich and Privledge and is part of an American Legacy. Her son was born to an obvious Gold Digger and Foot-ball player.
Totally different lifestyles….sorry, she should get her a$$ in the ring and make her own dough!
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Okay so obviously my point was misunderstood not just by you but by a lot of the posters. If Laila & Curtis signed a prenup saying whats theirs is theirs then thats fine. His child support payments should stay the same because his money situation is the same. BUT if they didn’t sign a prenup and all are of their finances are joint now then whats his is hers and whats hers is his. So his money situation has changed and he now has more unfortunately thanks to Laila. And if he now has more money then he should pay more child support. Simple as that! (But I dont think he should be able to get any inheritance unless Curtis is getting some)
cdneal
That is not how child support works. Some of you are sadly mistaken.
Laila is not required to support he other kids at all, unless he is underemployed or not paying his child support as ordered. Her income is not taken into account as she had nothing to do with the kids at the time of conception
If they reside in california, trust, Laila’s income and *****ets can be subject for review and attachment if she’s married to the defendant. You can’t “PRE-NUP” child support…Remember Britney Spears was payin’ court-ordered child support for K-Feds previous children after they got married. Tom Leykis 101: DON’T GET MARRIED TO ANYONE (BE THEY MAN OR WOMAN) WHO HAS KIDS UNDER 18 FROM A PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP – LEGALLY, YOU CAN GET CAUGHT UP IN THEIR CHILD-SUPPORT DRAMA…THIS IS JUST ONE OF THE MANY FACETS OF COMMUNITY PROPERTY AS PERTAINING TO MARRIAGE.
The laws are different in all states, I guess.
Just because a man/woman gets remarried or whatever, does not mean the BM can go after the new wife/husband’s money. It does not work like that fortunately.
And sorry to the person that believes that a child should come up if his father/mother comes up. For the record: If the partnership is over, get over it. Sorry but because he/she is living the high life, it does not mean that because you were once married you are to keep living the same way. It is called divorce for a reason. You give up that right to all the perks once the marriage ends. Sorry people but that is some cr***** ***** to believe that you are entitled to maintain the lifestyle you had while you were married. The fact is you are NOT married anymore, therefore your lifestyle has to change. And shame on people who believe otherwise. People trust, once you let go, let it the f go and move on.
This woman is not entitled to any of Laila’s money and nor should she be. When her divorce became final with Curtis, she lost her “golden egg”. Sad though it may be, it is true. That is why marriage vows say all those things, because you are supposed to take them to heart and believe in what you create and when it is over, it is over. Now I am sure that child will have everything he/she needs, but because of its mother’s narrowmindedness that her child is not living the lifestyle of a child of a former football player who got married to a legacy’s daughter—she is making a mockery of our judicial system and women in general. Let it go.
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You don’t think a child’s lifestyle should be upgraded if the father has the means of doing so???? Whats your problem? See you are used to reading about these busted trifiling babymamas who use child support to take care of their self. NO I’M NOT TALKING ABOUT THAT! I’m talking about real mothers who will use the child support payments for the child. Even if it means the mother riding around in a Honda (because thats what she can afford) and buying her son (when gets his license) a Cadillac Escalade, or name brand clothes or shoes, or going to the best schools, or vacations, etc because he’s able to get those types of things from his father child support payments. While it makes it easier to take care of herself with her own job. Far as Laila and her money look at my response to the other poster…
The thing is , he IS supporting his child, the bm is just greedy and looking for more. The only way she can go after Ali is if he wasn’t working or NOT providing any support, then she could be responsible since they are married, but he obviously has some income coming in from somewhere in order to pay the support. Also, this greedy chick cannot go after Ali’s inheritance. That is a gift she would receive, and is not entitled to give the bm anything or her husband for that matter, however, each state is different in that regard.
Sad part of all this is -really- if / when she does receive any additional support for whatever reason, it’ll only spruce-up the nails,hair,cell and fit. The child(ren) may get a ‘happy meal’ now and then. It sucks that they even have to defend that. But the system is at the root,they want their cut too.
This must be a California law, because it doesn’t work like that. She can try to add Laila to the claim, but any lawyer can get that thrown out. Only the man and his ex wife is responsible for the support of the child. She can only go back in court if she can prove his income has increased by 20 percent.
Just another reason that our people need to stop having kids all over the damn place. What a sloppy mess…
Laila should’ve gotten with me. I’ve got my life together:o)
This some shhhh…
Oh yeah! California is the worst place to get married, due to its’ “NO-FAULT” divorce laws and its’ ruthless child-support laws…This in most part is due to California’s reluctance to pick up the slack via public *****istance, i.e.: WELFARE that’s usually issued out to single mothers.
Single men dont want women with kids either sometimes the posts from the writers at Bossip is completely idiotic! Its one of the reasons I like this sight so much, just complete *****ness!
Marquis de Sade
This some shhhh…
Oh yeah! California is the worst place to get married, due to its’ “NO-FAULT” divorce laws and its’ ruthless child-support laws…This in most part is due to California’s reluctance to pick up the slack via public *****istance, i.e.: WELFARE that’s usually issued out to single mothers
Sounds like Laila and ol boy should have discussed this prior to marriage and had a solid plan. This is the kind of thing that can reek havoc in a marriage. I can’t believe they didn’t do any research on the law to prepare themselves. I think this was a tactic they were expecting their lawyer to handle.
@Marquis
You can “PRE-NUP” out of child support IF IT’S NOT UR CHILD. The child is entitled to money rec’d by the father…if the father aint receiving no money from Laila..then neither is the child.
Plus Curtis retired from the NFL, he gets a fat check every month. KFed was a bum who was BEHIND on his child support. Also, Britney WAS PAYING FOR Kfed.
I doubt that Curtis has ever needed a dime of Laila’s money.
She wants to live like Laila but she cant.
While common sense would say this is bull*****, the fact of the matter is that this skank may have a leg to stand on in court. In many states, marriage automatically combines your *****ets, right? Hell, I know my bf’s baby momma has already threatened to ask for more once I finish my doctorate… if he and I are married, that is. Trust and believe, it is making me think about what state we settle down in.
That shows the caliberof woman, that he was dealing with before Laila…
Maybe she should’ve done her research, better…
I dk about dating men with children. That’s not part of any dating, that I know of…But females have different standards, now-a-days…
to me, he would NOT have been acceptable mate because of his previous children and marriage/ relationship. When I was single, I only dated men that had the same characteristics, I was looking for, another reason to take your time settling down….Less fortunate individuals will try you for your paper…
ADVICE: BEFORE you get with him. KNOW his whole situation.
( He might not even qualify, to be with you)
@ always knew
I hear you, but you can’t turn ur back on love and happiness because of an ignorant baby momma from his past… life is too short…. and the list of good black men is even shorter.
Back On My Swag
I repeat, you can’t “PRE-NUP” child support, whether the child is yours or from a previous marriage…If that was the case, Laila and Curtis wouldn’t be waitin’ on pins and needles for a Judge’s decision…At the end of the day, the court i.e. the Judge will always base their ruling on what’s best for the “CHILD’S” welfare.
Octavia
While common sense would say this is bull*****, the fact of the matter is that this skank may have a leg to stand on in court. In many states, marriage automatically combines your *****ets, right? Hell, I know my bf’s baby momma has already threatened to ask for more once I finish my doctorate… if he and I are married, that is. Trust and believe, it is making me think about what state we settle down in.
Smart girl. Leave California off your list.
@ Skopes & Back On My Swagg
**This how they do it where I’m from…You can read these facts if you want to or continue in your bliss of ignorance**
However, the law on this issue has developed and evolved as stated in a recent Second District Illinois Appellate Court decision, which holds “a trial court may equitably consider the income of a parent’s current spouse in determining an appropriate award of child support.” In Re the Marriage of Drysch, 2000 WL 815278, (ILL.App2 Dist.).
The Drysch decision dealt with the issue of each natural parent’s obligation, under 750 ILCS 5/513, to contribute towards their child’s post high school educational expenses. In determining the amount and/or percentage each parent was required to contribute, the Court held that it was appropriate to consider the financial resources available to both parties in determining whether they could meet their individual financial needs in relation to the Court’s order for contribution towards educational expenses. In this instance, the Court considered Mother’s current spouse’s income in determining her obligation towards contribution to those expenses and her ability to meet her monthly financial obligations. The Court evaluated Mother’s “financial resources” and determined that her new spouse’s significant income was a component of “resources” to which she has access, thus properly considered.
You don’t think a child’s lifestyle should be upgraded if the father has the means of doing so???? Whats your problem? See you are used to reading about these busted trifiling babymamas who use child support to take care of their self. NO I’M NOT TALKING ABOUT THAT! I’m talking about real mothers who will use the child support payments for the child. Even if it means the mother riding around in a Honda (because thats what she can afford) and buying her son (when gets his license) a Cadillac Escalade, or name brand clothes or shoes, or going to the best schools, or vacations, etc because he’s able to get those types of things from his father child support payments. While it makes it easier to take care of herself with her own job. Far as Laila and her money look at my response to the other poster…peewee
No. And just because you have the “means” does not mean that you are liable to give the child anymore of what he/she was already getting. See my point is, if you are married and live the life of the uber rich, then fine, but if you divorce, then you (the one who was not making the loot), need to redirect yourself and do what is best for your situation now. People have got to realize that laws are here for a reason. Just because your former spouse made a home for you when you were married does not mean that you stay in the same financial bracket you were in when you divorce. You have got to revert. Sorry, but that is the deal dawg. It would be admirable for a person to give up extra money just because you can, but we don’t live like that!! The union is over and the advantages change. And from what I see in your post, you just want that child to live as well as the father/mother with the loot, well it is. The child is still getting supported, just not to the tune of what you want. Who says that the child should get an Escalade? Why can’t the child get a Honda too? Is there something wrong with that? Oh my daddy drives an Escalade, but he got me this cheap a$$ new Honda Accord and I cannot function. BS!!!! That sounds stupid. Your *****essment is stupid. That child will have everything she/he needs, just because your parents have to potential to afford the Hamptons, does not mean you (the child) does. What has that child worked for? What did he/she bring to the table? Stop being a label w***** and pay attention to the child getting what it needs, not what it may WANT. That is part of the problem with us today, too busy living for the brand and ain’t got nothing to show for it. Cosby spoke on this and some blew him up for it, but dawg, this is out of line, period.
I have no idea what state this is taking place in, but in most states the income is based on the parent’s income, not their spouse. Unless they have joint *****ets from which income is derived. Otherwise, Laila’s inheritance is of no concern and is not at risk. Her inheritance will not be Curtis’s inheritance.
And if ol’ boy is making No dough..she can’t tap into Laila’s dough. She can only go on his actual income in most states.
LOL @ ALL THESE INTERNET SIDELINE JUDGES
UNLESS YOU SPECIFICALLY HAVE GONE TO COURT AND A JUDGE HAS TOLD YOU THAT THEY CANNOT CONSIDER THE INCOME OF YOUR PARNTER’S SPOUSE THEN YOU SHOULD FALL BACK-CAUSE HOW WOULD YOU KNOW
I PERSONALLY KNOW THAT IN NYS THEY WILL CONSIDER THE SPOUSE’S INCOME BUT MY DAUGHTER’S FATHER DIDN’T REVEAL THAT HE WAS MARRIED IN COURT-AND JUST STATED THAT HE LIVES WITH THE MOTHER OF HIS OTHER CHILDREN
I AIN TRIPPIN BECAUSE HE PAYS HIS CHILD SUPPORT AND I BELIEVE IT’S FAIR-SO I DIDN’T BLOW UP THE SPOT CAUSE I BELIEVE IT’S HIS RESPONSIBILITY AS WELL, BUT IF HE LOSES HIS JOB OR IS NOT ABLE TO PAY ANYMORE OH I WILL LET IT BE KNOWN
AND ALSO, MY BROTHER IS MARRIED AND HIS WIFE HAS AN X-HUSBAND AND WHEN SHE WENT TO COURT THE JUDGE REQUESTED A FINANCIAL AFFIDAVIT ON EVERYBODY IN THE HOUSEHOLD INCLUDING MY BROTHER SO THEY COULD DETERMINE HOW MUCH HER X-HUSBAND SHOULD PAY
MY BROTHER TOLD HER THAT HE WASN’T WILLING TO DO THAT AND TOLD HER TO FOREGO THE CHILD SUPPORT ALTOGETHER BECAUSE THEY WOULD CONTINUE TO TAKE CARE OF HER DAUGHTER LIKE THEY ALWAYS HAD
SO MANY OF YOU ARE BUMPING GUMS AND RUNNING YOUR MOUTH-HELL I’VE HEARD OF LIVE IN GIRLFRIENDS PAYING THEIR MAN’S CHILD SUPPORT BECAUSE HE LOST HIS JOB-WHY BECAUSE THE EVERYONE IN THE HOUSEHOLD’S FINANCES ARE LOOKED AT WHEN DETERMINING CHILD SUPPORT
**This how they do it where I’m from…You can read these facts if you want to or continue in your bliss of ignorance**
However, the law on this issue has developed and evolved as stated in a recent Second District Illinois Appellate Court decision, which holds “a trial court may equitably consider the income of a parent’s current spouse in determining an appropriate award of child support.” In Re the Marriage of Drysch, 2000 WL 815278, (ILL.App2 Dist.).
The Drysch decision dealt with the issue of each natural parent’s obligation, under 750 ILCS 5/513, to contribute towards their child’s post high school educational expenses. In determining the amount and/or percentage each parent was required to contribute, the Court held that it was appropriate to consider the financial resources available to both parties in determining whether they could meet their individual financial needs in relation to the Court’s order for contribution towards educational expenses. In this instance, the Court considered Mother’s current spouse’s income in determining her obligation towards contribution to those expenses and her ability to meet her monthly financial obligations. The Court evaluated Mother’s “financial resources” and determined that her new spouse’s significant income was a component of “resources” to which she has access, thus properly considered.
And the point of this is what? So what. The court can still deny the request, it just chose to take this route. Trust me, this is foolery at its finest and when you have systems that cater to nonsense (I prefer BS), you get nonsense in return.
Finally, again I state…..IF THE CHILD IS GETTING WHAT HE/SHE NEEDS, WHAT IS THE POINT IN TRYING TO GET MORE BECAUSE YOU CAN….OTHER THAN GREED?
Deal with it. Of course you will always have a means to an end, meaning some foolhearted judge liberal in their thinking, maybe going off old memories of there own battles with child support and pull this kind of stunt, but most, believe that if the child is being supported and taken care of, there is no need for more money or the court’s time. I am saddened to know that my tax dollars are supporting BS like this. Do believe I will be commenting on all things possible to get the word out on this. It is a blatant misuse of authorities. In Texas, just became law that a custodial parents income will be included in the decision for the amount of support rendered when ordering child support payments. And guess what? It has stopped alot of these trifling ***** people from filing nonsense claims. C’est tout.
LOL-WHY DON’T SOME OF YOU AT LEAST RESEARCH CHILD SUPPORT LAWS OR CONSULT SOMEONE IN THE LEGAL FIELD SOME OF YOU ARE JUST GOING OFF WHAT YOU THINK YOU KNOW OR HOW YOU FEEL IT SHOULD BE
REAL TALK-IF A MAN’S WIFE FILES TAXES JOINTLY WITH HER HUSBAND DON’T YOU KNOW IF HE AS OUTSTANDING CHILD SUPPORT THE ENTIRE TAX REFUND INCLUDING HER PORTION CAN AND WILL BE CONFISCATED TO PAY HIS CHILD SUPPORT ARREARS
LOL-YALL ARE TOO FUNNY ON THIS SITE JUST TALKING OUT THE SIDE OF YOUR NECKS LIKE YALL KNOW SOMETHING OR STATING SOMETHING AS A FACT WHEN YOU REALLY HAVE NO IDEA
The way around this is to file your taxes as married but fileing seperately. Besides that an inheritance is only available to those who inherited it. Even Curtis can’t touch Laila’s inheritence
intensemocha, good look, but all states are not created equal dearheart. I am a paralegal here in Texas and well abreast of the laws currently governing supoprt. If you and your spouse file joint income taxes, but you owe, they will not take the entire check, only what your portion would be, that’s all they can do. But if you don’t know, then you could be a$$ed out.
C’est tout.
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JUST GOES TO SHOW YOU THAT YOU ARE AWARE THAT THEY COULD IN FACT DO THIS-HENCE THE POINT I WAS TRYING TO MAKE
IT’S NOT NECESSARILY TRUE THAT YOUR SPOUSE’S FINANCES ARE EXEMPT WHEN IT COMES TO CHILD SUPPORT
@ Skoopes…
“I’m talking about real mothers who will use the child support payments for the child. Even if it means the mother riding around in a Honda (because thats what she can afford) and buying her son (when gets his license) a Cadillac Escalade…”
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are u a comedian? becuz that is HI-larious!!!!!!!
God bless u becuz ima be laughin at that for years!!!!!!
OF COURSE THEY ARE ONLY GOING TO TAKE WHAT IS OWED
BUT WHAT PORTION OF THE RETURN BELONGS TO YOUR SPOUSE-AND GUESS WHAT IF THE ARREARS OWED TOTAL THE ENTIRE RETURN-GUESS WHAT THEY ARE TAKING THE WHOLE DAMN CHECK -YA DIG
SOME OF THIS SHIAT IS COMMON SENSE, A DUH I KNOW THEY ARE GOING TO ONLY TAKE WHAT IS OWED-I’M STATING THE FACT THAT THEY COULD IN FACT TAKE IT TO BEGIN WITH
“lets talk or i should less talk” puleeze.
Nowhere did it state that he was not owning up to his responsibility as a father. What it said was she was trying to get mo stacks because she feels he married into money. Obviously you must be one of those opportunistic *****es looking to complicate ***** by going for the steal. fact’o the matter is if she felt like she was not getting enough money go back to ask for money. BELIEVE THIS Laila isn’t bout to give that ***** no money. It just aint going down like that. Leoira, Leona or whatever your name is it ain’t a good look for you, you need to find something else to do.
okay I am a 30 yr old women never had any kids or never been married. And NO im not Gay!!! But after reading this im speechless. Its hard and very rare to meet a man thats never been married or with no kids. OR NOT GAY!!! When men find out that i have no kids they instantly want to knock me up, NO JOKE. I have heard that on many times. I dated a man with kids and his BM was a trip, I just laffed at her. Of course he gets locked up like many brothas and his BM starts texting me talking about thier kids is about to start ballet and it cost X amount of dollars and her b-day is coming up and it would great if i help…WTF!!! Now she is crazy!!! Im so cool on BD and BM.
This is a shame. One of those cases where you only hope that justice prevails and greed does not.
WHO THE FUG YOU TALKING TO BOO-I JUST STATED MY DAUGHTER’S FATHER IS MARRIED AND PAYING HIS FULL OBLIGATION
WHAT I’M COUNTERING IS THE FACT PEOPLE DON’T BELIEVE THAT A SPOUSE’S *****ETS COULD BE IN FACT LOOKED AT WHEN THEY HAVE A CHILD SUPPORT OBLIGATION
HAVE YOU EVER SEEN A FINANCIAL AFFIDAVIT WHICH YOU HAVE TO COMPLETE BOTH CUSTODIAL AND NON-CUSTODIAL PARENT AND IN FACT IT ASKS FOR EVERYONE IN THE HOUSEHOLD FINANCIAL INFORMATION
ABOVE I STATED TWO SCENARIOS WHERE THAT WAS THE CASE-PLEAS READ TO COMPREHEND OTHERWISE YOU MAKE AN AZZ OUT OF YOURSELF
AND I LOVE IT WHEN A NICCA CALL ME A BIATCH ALL THAT MEANS WHE RECOGNIZES INTELLIGENCE AND HAS TO RESORT TO IMMATURE NAME CALLING CAUSE HIS LACKS INTELLIGENCE OR HIS HEAD GAME IS SUB PAR
LOL-IT’S ALL GOOD
barb:
That wasn’t my quote, lol
intensemocha,
Dearheart, they cannot take the whole income tax. You are entitled to your share. The state can only take what is portioned for the owing parent. If the arrears exceed the parent’s amount, then it will be picked on the next income tax, but they do not touch the non-parent. The state can be sued and trust they will be
@Skopes
No. And just because you have the “means” does not mean that you are liable to give the child anymore of what he/she was already getting. See my point is, if you are married and live the life of the uber rich, then fine, but if you divorce, then you (the one who was not making the loot), need to redirect yourself and do what is best for your situation now. People have got to realize that laws are here for a reason. Just because your former spouse made a home for you when you were married does not mean that you stay in the same financial bracket you were in when you divorce. You have got to revert. Sorry, but that is the deal dawg. It would be admirable for a person to give up extra money just because you can, but we don’t live like that!! The union is over and the advantages change. And from what I see in your post, you just want that child to live as well as the father/mother with the loot, well it is. The child is still getting supported, just not to the tune of what you want. Who says that the child should get an Escalade? Why can’t the child get a Honda too? Is there something wrong with that? Oh my daddy drives an Escalade, but he got me this cheap a$$ new Honda Accord and I cannot function. BS!!!! That sounds stupid. Your *****essment is stupid. That child will have everything she/he needs, just because your parents have to potential to afford the Hamptons, does not mean you (the child) does. What has that child worked for? What did he/she bring to the table? Stop being a label w***** and pay attention to the child getting what it needs, not what it may WANT. That is part of the problem with us today, too busy living for the brand and ain’t got nothing to show for it. Cosby spoke on this and some blew him up for it, but dawg, this is out of line, period.
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Talking to you is useless…it really is. Duhhhhhh the child’s needs come first WTF? But if you have the money to provide children what they want…why wouldn’t you?? It’s called being rich and living the good life. WTH would a anyone in the family drive a cheap car when they can easily afford better ones. You’re not making any sense. And trust me sweetie Blacks aren’t the only label w*****s because if these labels depended on our bucks they’d be out of buisiness. We’re only a small percentage of the nation. Turn to MTV & watch the Hills or Sweet Sixteen and you’d see people enjoying their money on labels or whatever else makes them happy. You can’t die with money or take it with you to Heaven or Hell… It’s stupid & cold hearted to be selfish with your children with your money when you don’t have to be. When people have children their whole pointo to living SHOULD be to make their kids happy & successful & healthy… wow I fell bad for your kids or future kids…
dee
okay I am a 30 yr old women never had any kids or never been married. And NO im not Gay!!! But after reading this im speechless. Its hard and very rare to meet a man thats never been married or with no kids. OR NOT GAY!!! When men find out that i have no kids they instantly want to knock me up, NO JOKE. I have heard that on many times. I dated a man with kids and his BM was a trip, I just laffed at her. Of course he gets locked up like many brothas and his BM starts texting me talking about thier kids is about to start ballet and it cost X amount of dollars and her b-day is coming up and it would great if i help…WTF!!! Now she is crazy!!! Im so cool on BD and BM.
Well i’m over 30, male, black, straight, no kids, no criminal record, gainfully employed, and never incarcerated. We sound like soul mates.
@Skoopes
You don’t think a child’s lifestyle should be upgraded if the father has the means of doing so???? Whats your problem?
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Actually, you are not going to like my answer.
If you wnat that child’s life,upgraded, then you ned to elevate your thinking and income to do so and PROVIDE FOR YOUR CHILD…
You wouldn’t get a dime of mine, that you didn;t work for. That’s a trfling point of view, that you think someone should help take care of your rug rat..I don’t care how much it is, if I worked for it, it’s mine. I’m not taking care of someone’s child. That’s ridiculous and some ghetto ish, if I ever heard it…
You want more, then get off your ***** and DO MORE, to get more, but YOU ARE NOT GETTING PAID OFF ME.
AGAIN, don’t date men with children, if you don;t have any and CERTAINLY FIND SOMEONE WITH LIKE INTERESTS/ INCOME BRACKET…
“I’m talking about real mothers who will use the child support payments for the child. Even if it means the mother riding around in a Honda (because thats what she can afford) and buying her son (when gets his license) a Cadillac Escalade…”
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are u a comedian? becuz that is HI-larious!!!!!!!
God bless u becuz ima be laughin at that for years!!!!!!
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@ Barb
Actually I know some parents like that. But I was just saying parents who use those $20,000 a month child support payments on their children and not them. Because a lot of the times it would be the mother who is riding around in the expensive car when she works at McDonalds and her son is riding the bus…even though the money is for him.
always knew
“AGAIN, don’t date men with children”
You shoud amend that statement to include women with children, also, that way you don’t sound so gender bias.
*****ING IDIOTS!!!
@skoopes- don’t get mad, but are you one of those low-income mothers that think everyone owes them?
It sure does sound like it. No offense, but I don’t believe in welfare , any type, at all.
If you want better, then you must get off your behind and work for it..
Regardless whether I am getting with someone or not. I will NEVER pay a mate’s child support bills. That’s just ridamndiculous. And whoever does go along with that ih, has poor self- esteem and is basically an idiot. I wish I would. that just doesn’t make sense to me..
I should take care of your child for you, because I am dating or married to your ex? NO! Laila should’ve been way more careful or selective, in choosing a mate…
Not good at all… That tramp shouldn’t get ish from Laila or any of her ‘inheritance’. You are money hungry, crazy , just like this ‘female’ (I use that term very loosely)…
Hell would freeze over first…THINK ABOUT IT. I KNOW ALL YOU CAN SEE IS $$. BUT IT DOESN’T BELONG TO YOU,BOO BOO… GET OUT THAT LADY’S POCKET AND
GO GET YOURSELF, A JOB..(IMAGINE THAT, TAKE CARE OF YOR OWN RUGRAT)
@SKOOPES
DO YOU HEAR YOURSELF PRETENDING LIKE YOU HAVE THE WHOLE CHILD SUPPORT THING ON LOCK
OKAY-WHEN YOU FILE JOINTLY (AS MARRIED)-THE INCOME TAX RETURN IF THERE IS ONE IS ALSO JOINT THERE IS NO WAY TO DETERMINE WHAT PORTION OF THE INCOME TAX THAT BELONGS TO THE NON-CUSTODIAL PARENT
HONEY PUHLEEZE LIKE I SAID-PLEASE DO YOUR RESEARCH AND JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE A PARALEGAL DOES NOT MEAN YOUR SPECIALTY IS CHILD SUPPORT DEPENDING ON THE ATTORNEY(S) YOU SUPPORT YOU ON;Y *****IST -YES I DID SAY *****IST CAUSE THAT’S WHAT YOU DO-IN WHATEVER THEIR PARTICULAR LEGAL SPECIALTY IS, AND IF YOURS DOESN’T SPECIALIZE IN FAMILY LAW THEN YOU ARE JUST BUMPING GUMS YA DIG
NOW IF YOU WANT TO PROVE ME WRONG-DO SOME RESEARCH AND GET BACK AT ME-RESEARCH NYS AND I KNOW PERSONALLY OF SEVERAL WIVES AND HUSBAND *****ING BECAUSE THEIR “ENTIRE” INCOME TAX CHECK WAS TAKEN AND THE WIFE WAS ANGRY/UPSET BECAUSE SHE HAD NO IDEA HER HUSBAND IN FACT HAD A CHILD LESS KNOWN BACK-OWED CHILD SUPPORT
I CAN EVEN GIVE YOU NAMES IF YOU LIKE…I’M NOT ON HERE LIKE MANY OF YOU BUMPING YOUR GUMS RUNNING YOUR MOUTHS ABOUT SHIAT YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT
You don’t think a child’s lifestyle should be upgraded if the father has the means of doing so???? Whats your problem?
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Actually, you are not going to like my answer.
If you wnat that child’s life,upgraded, then you ned to elevate your thinking and income to do so and PROVIDE FOR YOUR CHILD…
You wouldn’t get a dime of mine, that you didn;t work for. That’s a trfling point of view, that you think someone should help take care of your rug rat..I don’t care how much it is, if I worked for it, it’s mine. I’m not taking care of someone’s child. That’s ridiculous and some ghetto ish, if I ever heard it…
You want more, then get off your ***** and DO MORE, to get more, but YOU ARE NOT GETTING PAID OFF ME.
AGAIN, don’t date men with children, if you don;t have any and CERTAINLY FIND SOMEONE WITH LIKE INTERESTS/ INCOME BRACKET…
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Actually I agree with your answer half/way. This isn’t my situation because if it was I wouldn’t need the father’s help…he would just pay because of the principle of the matter IF he isn’t in my child’s life. My point is if a father is rich his son shouldn’t be poor…thats all…The son’s life / financial sitiation should mirror his parent’s situation…
There sure is alot of truth to the statement that women have babies so they can get a check from whoever and wherever they can get it. Mostly these women are trifilent and ignorant as hell, but every now and then you run into one that’s hard to figure out. That’s because all women have a hidden agenda, brothers need to take cl*****es on how to deal with their conniving ways. I learned the hard way through experience. Now my ***** is on point at all times and I see the bull***** as soon as it starts. Having this knowledge is a two edged sword though, because once you see the truth you have mixed emotions throyghout your relationship.
@SKOOPES
AS A MATTER OF FACT, I DARE YOU TO GET UP FROM YOUR SEAT AND GO TO AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR OFFICE AND ASK THEM IF WHAT I’VE STATED IS IN FACT TRUE
THAT IF A NON-CUSTODIAL PARENT OWES CHILD SUPPORT THAT IF HE FILES JOINTLY WITH HIS SPOUSE THAT THE ENTIRE RETURN IS SUBJECT TO BE TAKEN TO ABSOLVE THE ARREARS
YOUR SO HELL BENT ON PROVING ME WRONG-DON’T TAKE MY WORD FOR IT ASK A LEGAL PROFESSIONAL THEY’RE RIGHT THERE @ WORK WITH YOU RIGHT? LOL
@intense mocha- lmao roflmao
you could be right about child support laws; but I wouldn’t know…
I would NEVER stoop so low, as to have to pay another MAN’S child support.I wouldn’t choose that type of situation, for myself…
See that’s why you are supposed to CAREFULLY choose a MATE. He has to have excellent qualities, if it’s to be a long-term relationship (marriage)…I wouldn’t marry him, if he has kids, he wouldn’t even be an option.
I don’t clean up after other women. PERIOD. I have NEVER dated a man, with children. My concern, in any relationship, is myself. NOT HIS KIDS, HIS EX, WHATEVER. IT’S ABOUT ME. ( AND HIM, IF HE’S WORTHY) Otherwise, forget it. This is what happens when women accept anything…
@peewee: Talking to you is useless…it really is. Duhhhhhh the child’s needs come first WTF? But if you have the money to provide children what they want…why wouldn’t you?? It’s called being rich and living the good life. WTH would a anyone in the family drive a cheap car when they can easily afford better ones. You’re not making any sense. And trust me sweetie Blacks aren’t the only label w*****s because if these labels depended on our bucks they’d be out of buisiness. We’re only a small percentage of the nation. Turn to MTV & watch the Hills or Sweet Sixteen and you’d see people enjoying their money on labels or whatever else makes them happy. You can’t die with money or take it with you to Heaven or Hell… It’s stupid & cold hearted to be selfish with your children with your money when you don’t have to be. When people have children their whole pointo to living SHOULD be to make their kids happy & successful & healthy… wow I fell bad for your kids or future kids…peewee
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Hahahaha…yeah whatever. Being rich and living the life huh? I work for a man that is worth 15 million dollars. He doesn’t drive a benz or mercedes, nor do his kids. They understand the power of a dollar, ya dig. Just because you have the money does not mean you blow it on nonsense. What 18 year old needs an Escalade just because his dad can afford it? Do you see the stupidity in your responses? That is NOT A NEED, it is a WANT!!!! And while you can want many things, why be a label w***** and w***** your money out like that? Why not invest the Escalade money for the child and build financial stability for that child? I am telling you Cosby tried to tell ya’ll, you better listen. And so, since other nationalities are being label w*****s, we Blacks should stay abreast and keep up with the Kardashians, right? And I am not making sense? Okay. Robbings, carjackings, running rampant, just looking for that kid who has it all. Yeah. Stupid and cold-hearted huh? I am a spoiled rotten Black woman who got everything she wanted and now I see the error of my parents ways. Ya dig? And who told you that people who give their kids what the need are lacking something? Are you kidding? So a parent whole reason for living should be to make their kids happy by buying them Escalades and diamonds before they have a job to know the value of a dollar, huh? Okay. Damn, my mom and dad did great.
And don’t feel anyway for my kids (I don’t have any yet). Trust me, they will know the value of a dollar and what it means to work for what you want and not have everything handed to you because his/her mother has loot. All my parents did was gave me the means to understand the deal, that we supply all you need, the nonsense, you will have to pick up the tab for. I am a strong Black woman today because of that lesson and I couldn’t have asked for a better set of parents. C’est tout.
@ intensemocha: AS A MATTER OF FACT, I DARE YOU TO GET UP FROM YOUR SEAT AND GO TO AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR OFFICE AND ASK THEM IF WHAT I’VE STATED IS IN FACT TRUE
THAT IF A NON-CUSTODIAL PARENT OWES CHILD SUPPORT THAT IF HE FILES JOINTLY WITH HIS SPOUSE THAT THE ENTIRE RETURN IS SUBJECT TO BE TAKEN TO ABSOLVE THE ARREARS
YOUR SO HELL BENT ON PROVING ME WRONG-DON’T TAKE MY WORD FOR IT ASK A LEGAL PROFESSIONAL THEY’RE RIGHT THERE @ WORK WITH YOU RIGHT? LOL
I am right, hahaha
FOR EVERY CHICK OUT HERE WHO WOULD SLEEP WITH A MAN JUST TO GET A CHECK, THERE IS ALSO A MAN OUT THERE WHO WOULD SELL CRACK TO A BABY OR HIS MAMA FOR A BUCK-OR PIMP A WOMAN FOR MONEY-THE MENTALITY IS SIMILAR
SO THE POINT YOU MAKE IS A VALID ONE-GREED EXISTS BUT LET’S NOT GENERALIZE WOMEN AREN’T THE ONLY ONES CAPABLE OF IT
This is precisely why I steer clear of men with kids whose ex-wives are in the picture. Misery loves company, and life is too short to be forced to deal with constant drama. Plus, I have friends who’ve married men with kids from prior marriages, and they’ve unfortunately regretted their decision later on.
NOW YOU JUST SHOWED YOUR COLORS-YOUR A LIAR AND DON’T WANT TO ADMIT DEFEAT
NO LAWYER TOLD YOU THAT-AND IF SO WHAT WAS THE PREMISE OR THE CASE
JUST CURIOUS-LET’S REALLY SEE IF YOU ASKED A LAWYER OR ARE PULLING SHIAT OUT OF YOUR *****
Always new, that is not my quote, but that of peewee. I agree with your *****essment.
Always new, again that was not my quote. I don’t have any kids, and I am not low-income, lol. That is the privilege of being educated, with no kids and taking care of your business. I do agree with your *****essment though.
Hahahaha…yeah whatever. Being rich and living the life huh? I work for a man that is worth 15 million dollars. He doesn’t drive a benz or mercedes, nor do his kids. They understand the power of a dollar, ya dig. Just because you have the money does not mean you blow it on nonsense. What 18 year old needs an Escalade just because his dad can afford it? Do you see the stupidity in your responses? That is NOT A NEED, it is a WANT!!!! And while you can want many things, why be a label w***** and w***** your money out like that? Why not invest the Escalade money for the child and build financial stability for that child? I am telling you Cosby tried to tell ya’ll, you better listen. And so, since other nationalities are being label w*****s, we Blacks should stay abreast and keep up with the Kardashians, right? And I am not making sense? Okay. Robbings, carjackings, running rampant, just looking for that kid who has it all. Yeah. Stupid and cold-hearted huh? I am a spoiled rotten Black woman who got everything she wanted and now I see the error of my parents ways. Ya dig? And who told you that people who give their kids what the need are lacking something? Are you kidding? So a parent whole reason for living should be to make their kids happy by buying them Escalades and diamonds before they have a job to know the value of a dollar, huh? Okay. Damn, my mom and dad did great.
And don’t feel anyway for my kids (I don’t have any yet). Trust me, they will know the value of a dollar and what it means to work for what you want and not have everything handed to you because his/her mother has loot. All my parents did was gave me the means to understand the deal, that we supply all you need, the nonsense, you will have to pick up the tab for. I am a strong Black woman today because of that lesson and I couldn’t have asked for a better set of parents. C’est tout.
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@ Skopes
Huhhhhh…OKAY people with money shouldn’t blow ALL of their money on materialistics things! Duh I though that didn’t have to be said but I guess it did. But tell me this…what is the point of going to school and working hard your whole life and becoming rich if you are not going to enjoy the finer things in life that are expensive? Why didn’t you just slack off,have fun and take the easy route like everybody else if you are going to LIVE just like them anyways? And not “you” per se but people like your boss I guess…can you answer that question for me seriously??
@ Marquis
Cali dropped off my list when they went bankrupt. Sorry, VA Hospital in Palo Alto. lol
@skoopes- don’t get mad, but are you one of those low-income mothers that think everyone owes them?
It sure does sound like it. No offense, but I don’t believe in welfare , any type, at all.
If you want better, then you must get off your behind and work for it..
Regardless whether I am getting with someone or not. I will NEVER pay a mate’s child support bills. That’s just ridamndiculous. And whoever does go along with that ih, has poor self- esteem and is basically an idiot. I wish I would. that just doesn’t make sense to me..
I should take care of your child for you, because I am dating or married to your ex? NO! Laila should’ve been way more careful or selective, in choosing a mate…
Not good at all… That tramp shouldn’t get ish from Laila or any of her ‘inheritance’. You are money hungry, crazy , just like this ‘female’ (I use that term very loosely)…
Hell would freeze over first…THINK ABOUT IT. I KNOW ALL YOU CAN SEE IS $$. BUT IT DOESN’T BELONG TO YOU,BOO BOO… GET OUT THAT LADY’S POCKET AND
GO GET YOURSELF, A JOB..(IMAGINE THAT, TAKE CARE OF YOR OWN RUGRAT)
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@ Always Knew
I think you got me & Scopes comments confused and I don’t think you read all of our correspondence. It’s cool but let me explain my point…
Oh and I am none of what you think I am…AT ALL lol
*Do I think Laila Ali should pay/ or help pay child support for Curtis’s child? NO!
*Do I think Curtis’s child should get any of Laila’s inheritance? NO!…as long as Curtis isn’t getting any.
*Do I think Curtis should pay more child support if he has joined accounts & buisinesses & investments etc with Laila? HECK YEAH!!! Why? Because he isn’t the same Curtis that was making probably 2 million a year…now he Curtis making 3.5 million a year. So therefore his payment amount should go up.
—> A lot of females take advantage of child support by being greedy and wanting more $ when they have more than enough for his “needs & wants” because they want it for themselves. ~Therefore anybody on being reported on here wanting more child support with a misleading Bossip headline gets judged right away by the posters…and I’m not one of them. I look at the story unbiased.
Octavia
Yeah, California is in bad shape, fiscally. Things have gotten so bad, if you make $47,000 a year, you’re in the “HIGHEST” tax bracket to the tune of 9.2% state taxes taken out of your paycheck each week. This ***** started on our last pay period. The folks in the office where I work (who doesn’t keep up with current events) was *****ed! I make between $85 & $95,000 a year, so I felt it big time.
Marquis,
It is time for you to get the f*ck outta dodge. That is ridiculous. I am working TOO damn hard to finally get my degree (and a real job) and pay 9.2% just to the STATE… that doesn’t even include federal or sales tax, right? Sheesh… the Lord only asks for 10%.
I have been through this situation not once but twice. Thoroughly discussed the probabilities with my wife prior to marriage, and insured we filed seperate returns once we got married. Judge in both cases only asked for my financial information and the number of dependents in my current household. Could not get me on back support, because I was handling my business and paid monthly by check. In both cases my baby mamas came up short and the judge ruled that my payments would decrease. Not all men with children are deadbeat Dads. Just communicate your concerns and thoughts with any future mate.
Oh, and stay the ***** away from Cali and NY.
Final point:
Nothing a$$ parents with eyes on the “come up” , keeping up with the Jones’ attitudes and little to no morals or family values, beget kids with eyes on the “come up” , keeping up with the Jones’ attitudes and little to no morals or family values.
Now raise your kids as you wish, but remember, kids do as they see done. If you consistently plow labels at them, they will resort to labels whoring.
Octavia
Unfortunately, the options are slim to none as far jobs are concerned. I feel lucky to be still gainfully employed. Calif. (last month) lost another 69,000 jobs due to closures and layoffs. It’s now at 11.5% statewide unemployment. The economic pundits are predicting anywhere from 15 to 20% country wide nemployment by the end of the year. A lot of people can’t appreciate just how dire ***** is.
Final point:
Nothing a$$ parents with eyes on the “come up” , keeping up with the Jones’ attitudes and little to no morals or family values, beget kids with eyes on the “come up” , keeping up with the Jones’ attitudes and little to no morals or family values.
Now raise your kids as you wish, but remember, kids do as they see done. If you consistently plow labels at them, they will resort to labels whoring.
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All that means is you couldn’t answer my question…I actually wanted a honest opinion from a person who feels they way you do…oh well lol
Marquis de Sade
Octavia
Unfortunately, the options are slim to none as far jobs are concerned. I feel lucky to be still gainfully employed. Calif. (last month) lost another 69,000 jobs due to closures and layoffs. It’s now at 11.5% statewide unemployment. The economic pundits are predicting anywhere from 15 to 20% country wide nemployment by the end of the year. A lot of people can’t appreciate just how dire ***** is.
Companies are relocating down south where they are given considerable tax breaks and the cost of living is lower.
@ Intensemocha
We are not talking about a man who has lost his job or his unable to pay… we are talking about a man who has paid support regularly, which this woman has accepted for all this time. Now her child’s needs suddenly increase because he married a woman with money? Puhleeze.
intensemocha, read ‘this some shhhh’ quote.
So, yeah, I digress. C’est tout.
Marquis
I agree with “This is some shhhh….”
It might be time to weather these humid 110 degree summer and face the klan to save your stacks.
Huhhhhh…OKAY people with money shouldn’t blow ALL of their money on materialistics things! Duh I though that didn’t have to be said but I guess it did. But tell me this…what is the point of going to school and working hard your whole life and becoming rich if you are not going to enjoy the finer things in life that are expensive? Why didn’t you just slack off,have fun and take the easy route like everybody else if you are going to LIVE just like them anyways? And not “you” per se but people like your boss I guess…can you answer that question for me seriously??
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Because it does make sense to save stupid head!!! Knowing that you can do because you have the means, but what about all the ones that do, and eat beans for dinner to live like the next man? You have to be more responsible with your finances. Look at the economy today. I bet a million *****s would love to take that Range back right about now. Did that suffice? C’est tout.
As the smartest, funniest and most interesting person on Bossip, heres how this ***** is gonna go down;
1. she can ask all she wants, he had those kids before they married, no judge is gonna let her see, much less get ***** of laila’s.
2. most judges are older and remember and respect Muhammed Ali, so they aint givin’ her a penny of the stacks Laila might inherit.
3. This is a lesson to you ***** who ***** and impregnate broke *****es “STOP”
lol, love 6am
rotf lmmfao at everyone who is actually *****ed off, trying to prove a point…if its not your situation…is it really that serious?…I’m just sayin…
Octavia
I’ll have to think about that. I’ve been a Cali N*gga my whole life. The whole movin’ to the South would be a big cultural change…Sides, where I work has Offices in Atl, North Carolina, D.C. & A couple of other states. (We are their last acquisition), but as of right now, they’ve just had a major layoff & hiring freeze.
Marquis,
That is a cluster-***** situation. All you can do is keep ur eyes and ears open for potential transfers and jump that sinking ship of a state as soon as you get a chance.
Octavia
Marquis
I agree with “This is some shhhh….”
It might be time to weather these humid 110 degree summer and face the klan to save your stacks.
The Klan don’t run ***** down here. It’s big business. If you don’t have the stacks, your point is wack. Let me hip you to the real. They want other states to think that we on some old slow drawl *****. They just don’t want people migrating back down south like the people who flocked up north to work with Ford and the steel companies. Taxes are lower, jobs are plentiful, and property is spawling. Most of the people I work with are from up north.
@ This some shhh….
I mentioned the klan in jest. I was born and raised in MS… lol
Octavia
@ This some shhh….
I mentioned the klan in jest. I was born and raised in MS… lol
I know, just letting some of the others know that perception is twisted. In a way, it benefits me that people are not hip to the transitions that are taking place to the southern regions. I’m getting tired of giving my brothas and sistas this free info and they’re not taking advantage of it.
Laila knew this man had two children from a previous marriage when she got with him. I get why some of you don’t think this is “fair” but laws in various states have an opposite view.
Example: If he has remarried a woman with substantial means, that leaves his money separate, from his new wife’s money, more available to his first two children.
If Laila’s husband had agreed to more support to his first two children, it would not have come to requesting Laila’s financials. His failure to man-up to his first two children, brought his new wife into this mess.
Note to the Ladies: leave these negroes with kids alone. Unless he has the kind of money to keep all his children living the good life. Because if he does not, the first baby mama, especially if she is an ex-wife ain’t about to have her children getting left overs, while you and him live the good life.
didnt brand nubians sing that song
@ Skoopes
I see your point and agree. You have to raise children to understand how to take care of themselves at some point. My 5 year old thinks that whenever we want and she feels like it, we can go and buy her some more Dora the Explorer items. Her philosophy is write a check. I had to break it down and make it real for her. You don’t just get things because you want them, needs are taken care of first, and you earn your wants.
My fiance’s co-worker recently spend 30 days in jail for non-payment of child support. But the courts didn’t seem to care that he couldn’t make the payments because he had just lost his full-time job because of this wack ***** recession! So guess what happened? When he got out, he was even further behind than he was when he went in! What kind of lesson is that? How did this help the CHILDREN? He’s STILL broke, and on top of that, he couldn’t see his kids for 30 days! If he started slinging to meet his financial obligations they’d put him in jail for that too! It’s a vicious cycle, and we’re the hamsters.
I know it’s hard to make ends meet, but it’s time we recognized the child support system for what it is, a ***** f***n trap! Ladies, if your ex is trying to do right by his children, child support court shouldn’t even be an option. Save that for the negro who left without giving you a forwarding address.
It’s designed to keep our black *****es in the system, constantly in and out of jail for something. That way the shareholders (yes prisons and “correctional” facilities have shareholders)can grow rich and politicians can have something to yap about. Think about it, if the system worked, you wouldn’t have parents who are $40,000, $50,000 in arrears.
Prisons and jails generate BIG money in this country, and new jails are being built all the time. In fact, they base the need for new prisons and jails on the number of children who can’t read by the time they are in third grade. Did you know you can invest your money in these facilities the same way you invest in stocks? Foreign countries invest in our prison system! But in order for this to work, they have to have people to incarcerate.
That’s what this is really about.
They’ve made it so easy. And we offer each other up for sacrifice like it’s nothing. THE CHILD SUPPORT SYSTEM IS NOT DESIGNED TO HELP CHILDREN.
WAKE UP!
@ prettyfro
You are correct. Child support court should be the final solution to resolving conflict. Understand it is best to keep the government out your business. One suggestion though, your friend should have immediately petitioned the court for a re-evaluation when he lost his employment. Any changes within 20 percent can be re-addressed.
@prettyfro
Thanks so much for your post. I knew of some of the things you wrote but your post has further educated me regarding the child support system.
Thanks again.
Thanks
I’m glad you guys got something out of my rant!
You’re right though. He should have petitioned the courts immediately, that was his fault. It was just a good way to illustrate how ridiculous this child support system is, and how it has never been and will never be beneficial to the very ones it claims to support — children.
@ Indy
“Note to the Ladies: leave these negroes with kids alone. Unless he has the kind of money to keep all his children living the good life. Because if he does not, the first baby mama, especially if she is an ex-wife ain’t about to have her children getting left overs, while you and him live the good life.”
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With all due respect, I am so sick of the idea that an ex, someone you are no longer with, is not entitled to upward mobility unless they drag you along as well. We are talking about more than just providing for a child. A lot of ex’s and baby momma’s are just bitter and want to hang on to something that has looooong p*****ed.
Hold up, now…I’m thinking, first and foremost, Laila should WHUP DAT A$$!! However, since she can’t (tee-hee), make sure she has a good lawyer to do it for her, which I am sure she does.
Secondly, I had a little change from my Pop’s that I got at different ages of my life, (18, 25, 30) and NO ONE could touch that money unless I gave it to them. It was money bequeathed FROM a parent to HIS child, not DIS HEFFA’S CHILD.
She done lost her ever loving mind!! Fortunately, the best thing Laili and Curtis have on their side is that Curtis IS a NFL retiree, so dat heffa ALREADY getting paid pretty good…which means that the judge prolly ain’t gone give her begging a@@ no mo.
DAYUM, girl! MOVE right along! Or, if you love your kids soooo much and need more money, ask Laila to have a match with you and we buy tickets and you get a cut from it…hayell, I’m just saying, since you need more money FOR YOUR KIDS.
prettyfro
Thanks
I’m glad you guys got something out of my rant!
You’re right though. He should have petitioned the courts immediately, that was his fault. It was just a good way to illustrate how ridiculous this child support system is, and how it has never been and will never be beneficial to the very ones it claims to support — children.
Child Support Court is an humiliating affair. The state takes up the case on behalf of the child and does not want to take into consideration what the father has been doing prior to the court date. If the mother is bitter in any way, she can lie and manipulate the situation to her advantage. To any brother that is going through this, keep all your paperwork and receipts and hire a lawyer. If you show up in court without one, your case will be put to the back and they will try to bully and screw you over. Now on the other hand, there are some trifling ***** brothers up in that court room.
@prettyfro…just saw your post…but, GONE GIRL!! You sho right, chile.
After going through the court, I don’t recall them ever coming back and checking on the welfare of the child, as long as that money is direct deposited into the account and their fees are removed.
I know you guys tired of me cosigning
…but
@this is some shhhhh…. you are right!!
I watched my brother, a DAYUM good father, be manipulated thru the system for 18 years by a *****ed off baby mama. Girl, Illinois, especially Chicago, used to be HORRIBLE in getting their ish together. They used to just say, “Pay!” and worry about the ish later…you can check the stats on that one. Sometimes a crack ho could bring in anybody from anywhere and say he is her crack baby daddy and they would tell the guy to pay UNTIL they could get the paternity tests back. The sad part about that is because the courts were so effed up and backed up, a brother could be paying for MONTHS for somebody else’s dayum kid!! SMMFH
Sometimes I couldn’t stand that sperm donor of mine, but honey, I have NOT ONE gripe about his father game. So, I kept his name off them books. I just could not see me doing that to a GOOD father, I don’t give a dayum who he dated after me.
Damn, this was a good post…
Very good read…
I like when Bossip Threads are like this…
Bossip you are so wrong for calling this woman a “HO” for all you know this man is not and has not been paying his child support. You are so wrong to talk about this woman. Wrong!! You owe her an apology- she’s a “HO” because she has a no good EX
I think Curtis’s ex wife/baby momma will be taking him and Laila to court for more child support, lol….
Real talk, it isnt worth taking on a mans child support payments. Once you marry that man with all his baggage, it is going to come down to money coming out of your house one way or the other. I bet Whitney is still kicking her self in the ***** for all the money she put into Bobbies kids because he wouldn’t/couldn’t pay.
Curtis is a dead beat. Get a job!
LOL!!!
What a mess! My brother in law got with a w***** that had 2 kids when he met her, then he had his first child with her, he upgraded her life from condemed housing, taking the bus and depending on my tax dollars to feed and clothe her and her kids,by encouraging her country ***** to not only get a high school diploma but he paid for her to go to college and become a registered nurse, then she cheated on him, so he left her trifling *****. She tried to get him to adopt her other two kids, he refused but she tried to take him to court for child support for the two that were not his(since he is the only father they know) but she only did all of this after he married someone else (2 years after he left her) and is now having a baby with his wife. The case was dismissed so she is now trying to put a restraining order against him, so he can’t see the child he has by her or the other childern. She also claims the stress of the situation keeps her from working so she is asking for more child support since his wife works she thinks that she is entilted to more. I keep telling my sister in law not to worry that the biabia will pay for her nonsense!
laila ain’t stupid. her hands are registered with the state as deadly weapons.
This chick needs to join the “This ho done lost her motherf*cking mind” club with Kelis.
Hoe sit down…I can see if it was his money its his wife’s.
@Prettybrowneyes…Ohnoshedidn’t!!Sounds like somebody need some counseling, since she seems to be hanging out with MY brother’s old biabia. OOOOHHH LAWD!
@chocolatechip…Bossip may be wrong for calling her a ho since we don’t know her
, BUT she STILL a heffa. And, they are sho right when they said if Curtis had married a ghetto b*tch, she would not have even asked for an extra loaf of bread. She prolly wouldn’t even let her babies go over to the house!! But, NOW she needs Laila’s FUTURE INHERITANCE, I said FUTURE info now, because it just so happens Muhammad Ali is her father? Oh no, chile! What IN SAM HAYELL does Laila’s FUTURE $$$ have to do with HER child support?
Now, you know she wrong for that. If Curtis and Laila get divorced before Laila inherits her FUTURE inheritance, I guess that heffa, I said HEFFA now, not ho, gone think she still deserve a lil sumthin, sumthin after the fact, right?
As a father, I don’t mind taking care of mine. Now as a man, Curtis should be out in front of all this to protect the interesrt of his child and his current wife. It should have been fully explained and pushed to his ex that she can take him to court all she wants, but leave his wife out the mix. Even if he had a thought that is ex might trip, he should have brought it to the table with Laila, before they got married, and kept their *****ets seperated to protect her in the event his ex started on this trip.
Laila is paying like she’s weighting! She need to make him get a job and take care of his kids!
That’s what happens when you marry a man who’s been married and has children. Its an adulterous situation because his ex wife is still alive and her ex husband is still alive. Now children are involved and this is the part of the consequences of their adulterous marriage. Im just saying!!!!
The ultimate TRUTH
That’s what happens when you marry a man who’s been married and has children. Its an adulterous situation because his ex wife is still alive and her ex husband is still alive. Now children are involved and this is the part of the consequences of their adulterous marriage. Im just saying!!!!
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I’m missing the adulterous part where there are EX-wives and EX-husbands. How is it an adulterous situation because your EX is alive, but you not sleeping with them no more? Don’t quite know how adultery is committed with divorced folks??? I’m just saying….WOW!!
LOL You make sure you know the biz behind all that BEFORE you get married, though…truth. When I was only dating my husband, I called the state child support enforcement office and asked if my earnings could EVER be considered as a part of the child support that my husband has to pay, and they told me that they only look at what the husband earns, not what the couple earns jointly. If my husband only earned $500 a month and I earned $5000 a month, his ex-wife couldn’t get a bit over $100 which is 20%! *****, if they’d said “Yes, we look at YOUR income, TOO” he and I might not be married to this day. LOL. ***** a woman paying for some other broad’s kid, esp. when her ***** is able-bodied and can work, and when you don’t have OR want kids of your own. Hells nall.
@ The ultimate TRUTH
Kinda like what happens when you marry a woman who’s been married and has kids and her ex is still alive so what exactly is youre point???? It sounds as if you don’t think single parents men or women are ever intitled to marry ever again???. This is about a greedy and vengful baby momma and nothing more, shes been getting child support and he’s been taking care of his child with her and he does tele and cable shows, marketing and other sports related *****, he brings home good money so I don’t know where this get a job stuff came from..his support was based on his income and now old girl wants some of his wifes money because she blames her for their breakup and taking her man simple as that. If I felt that way I would have missed out on 30 plus years with my wife and the way she blesses my life to think had I been foolish enough to p***** on her cause she had kids, that would have been the biggest mistake of my life..
I concur with SHOMONDO and Jade Silver!!! GET A FREAKING JOB LIKE EVERYONE ELSE YOU FREAKING SCRUB!!!!!
If that man is taking care of his seed them leave him the hell alone. And we wonder why SOME people are killing their baby’s mother or father nowadays in situations like this.SMDH
This is a stupid story. Anyone w/ sense knows that child support order is based on the income of the non-custodial parent and not his/her spouse. The ex can’t go after her *****ets as long as they are separate from the spouse. Laila’s paycheck is her own. Why the ex have to be a ho?
@ prettyfro,
wouldnt it be easier if *****s stopped getting *****es pregnant unless they’re married? and wouldnt it be easier if *****es stopped *****in’ *****s bareback risking pregnancy?
If they were married and divorced, thats different.
right?
Intense Mocha, I hate to burst your bubble hon, but you really don’t know what you’re talking about either.
Different states have different child support guidelines. In my home state, a spouse’s income is never considered in child support obligations.
And I know this because I practice family law! The child support obligation is based on worksheets that we use and the spouse’s income cannot be considered.
IF a parent is unemployed, income can be imputed, but not the income from the spouse of that unemployed person. It is usually based on what the person could be making if they are gainfully employed.
What’s funny is, you think you know because you’ve been to court in NY, what is applicable in all states, which is clearly and resoundingly not the case.
At least the paralegal has some form of knowledge and enough sense to know that all states do not act the same or have the same laws. So instead of being a corner lawyer, at least be smart enough to know that you don’t know everything.
you ppl on this blog should be in law school. B/C ya talkin like you got hella J.Ds. Dispensing legal advice is against the law in all states. Unless you are a lawyer or are involved in a similar situation, i.e. you are an ex-nfl player married to a professional boxer who is the daughter of the G.O.A.T. then just shut the F up!! All this arguing back and forth is stupid and your post are longer than the legal briefs on Roe v. Wade handed down from the supreme court. Pls! most of you are pontificating on how you think it should be based on your opinion of the parties involved and no solid legal basis. Believe me the real lawyers in the case got it covered on both sides.
@Star Andromeda….this IS a blog, love.
Hence, it is filled with opinions, not legal advice. I *****ure you Laila has not once said, “Let me check the Bossip posts to see how to run the rest of my life.” No one here is “pontificating,” we are merely voicing our opinions on the fact that the ex-wife has the audacity to ask for financial info on her ex-husband’s current wife, and inheritance info at that…moreso than Laila’s current winnings or earnings. That makes it VERY evident she is going after Laila because of who is Laila’s father and the measure of HIS success thereof.
It is just our opinions being voiced. That’s all love, nothing more, nothing less….because that is what blogs are for.
Any judge that would let that ride is wack. This chick is trying to get up on her potential inheritance (Her father is still ALIVE! Whatever.
I’ve been a child support officer for more than 11 years and (here in California) I have seen the court orders and read the notes on more than one case where the non-custodial parent’s new wife’s income was taken into consideration. This is very rare but it would be wrong to say it doesn’t happen.
If it were as cut and dry as some of you say, they wouldn’t have been battling out in court all week. The judge would have considered the first wife’s claim to be ridiculous and against California law and dismissed it almost immediately. There is a reason why that didn’t happen.
@ Miss Bee
I realize that this is a blog…It just crossed my mind that with the level of *****ysis of this situation and the length of the opinions expressed, and the laws of different states referenced that some of the posters might have missed their calling! Shoot im just saying we need more black lawyers. I’ve been reading Bossip for a long time and rarely have I seen such long posts on any subject. That includes the Breezy Rhi Rhi saga the the never ending “is Beyonce over- exposed” debates. I’m just sayin put all this legal *****ysis to good use and go to law school! Help some brothers who are getting jack’d in Child support court out and some sistas who ain’t gettin nothin out too! That’s just my opinion since that what blogs are for. Thanks for sharing
@Prettyfro
THE CHILD SUPPORT SYSTEM IS NOT DESIGNED TO HELP CHILDREN.
WAKE UP!
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LMAO. If I had a dime for every time I heard a deadbeat parent utter those words to me, I would be rolling like Oprah (or at the very least, Gayle).
Your friend brought that on himself. The problem is that people run from child support enforcement like they run from the IRS. Running DOES NOT make the problem go away. He should have contacted the child support agency and requested a downward mod the day after he lost his job and he would have either been given a $0 order or had it reduced to minimum wage (he still would have owed back support). Fathers and mothers who can’t pay support would be surprised to find out how agreeable we can be….but to find that out they need to make the effort to go down to the office or courthouse and address the issue, otherwise they just might end up in jail one day.
Oh and another thing, I don’t know if your friend resides in California, but if so we rarely send fathers to jail for non-payment of support. They had to have been extremely non-cooperative or fraudulently avoiding making payments. We have too many cases to count where people owe hundred of thousands in back support and are making below interest payments. Very likely your friend isn’t telling the whole story. People love to portray themselves as victims to draw sympathy.
@Prettyfro
It was just a good way to illustrate how ridiculous this child support system is, and how it has never been and will never be beneficial to the very ones it claims to support — children.
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Right, that is why we collect millions of dollars every month that are forwarded to the custodial parents who need it. Imagine if *****ody bothered to make these deadbeats pay (and you all can defend your friends and family members all you want but if they are having issues it is because they are not paying, hence they are deadbeats). If we didn’t bother to collect, working cl***** citizens would be paying a whole lot more in taxes to fund more government programs like WIC and welfare.
If you want to complain about something, complain about all the lazy a$$ people who collect welfare checks for laying up and having kids they knew their *****es couldn’t take care of. Complain about all the stupid ***** women who have babies by men who can’t take care of themselves let alone a baby.
Laila would flo dat chick!
star andromeda you look just like my sister!
@ Rumpelstiltskin
Your sister? If your sister is pretty hot and Fabo then thank you!
@ Rumpelstiltskin
If you tryin to say i’m ugly…then I accept that also because if i resemble your sister then I also resemble yo mama!
@ What state
I didn’t read all the posts, so I’m not sure what the post you are responding to said. I’m guessing, based on your post, that you don’t practice in NY, but you can’t include a spouse’s income there either. Moreover, any inheritance Laila has coming CERTAINLY wouldn’t be relevant, since that would be separate property in NY altogether (as well as any personal injury awards)
@ the person saying giving legal advice is against the law, you’re right, it is against the law if you’re not an atty, HOWEVER, informing someone of the law is NOT giving legal ADVICE. Giving advice would be making suggestions as to what course of action a person can take AFTER informing that person of the law.
@ BeBe
wow! o.k *****ody is callin the FBI or nuthin’. Inform us of the law then. I appreciate it. women don’t realize that even if your man is paying child support you are subsidising the rest of his finances so that’s just like paying it yourself! That’s money going out of your household. I promise you that if a woman was paying child support she prolly couldn’t get no man to move in with her cause most men aren’t going to make up the difference. “oh you paying $1,000 a month child support so you can’t pay half the rent?” “I’m out”!
No, never that boo you are very pretty.
But women do it all the time! Her man is paying 60% of his check for child support so she has to pay most of the household bills cause the 40% that’s left is going to the new Jordan’s and new playstation and wii games.
@ Rumpelstiltskin
That is so sweet of you but in the interest of full disclosure…thats just an avatar. I picked it because i was told it kinda resembles me without the cool blue hair and sparkles. Although I don’t think im too bad for real in real life LOL! although thats just my opinion but since this is a blog this is the place to express my opinion.
And also i apologize about the 2nd response no need no bring moms into this. The cyber dozen’s? bad idea! Too Tyler Perry!
Common sense people. you can not go after anyone inherintance. Laila husband must not have a job!
Makes me wanna go out & get married…NOT.
Marquis and pee wee -
I see that other bloggers have gotten y’all straight on this and cosigned my statement. LMAO…at y’all trying to call me out while being loud and wrong!!!
- Laila’s income is not considered in some states (Only if he is behind in his child support would it be, he is not behind
- A person’s inheritance is not on the table ever! (Especailly a spouse’s inheritance)
- A pre-nup which shows he is entitled to NOTHING would be presented in court to show that their *****ets are seperated; hence even in a court where it would be considered…it probably wouldn’t be taken into effect because of the prenup.
- If this was the case, I would get a divorce and still be together…either way…chick wouldn’t get a dollar out of me
See, thats why I never date a guy with kids. The ex is always bitter as hell that the baby dad did not marry her. The drama just isn’t worth it.
Anyways, I hope the Ali’s come out on top.
First of all Laila knew what she was getting into when she married the deadbeat! When you get married it’s community property. If THEY could afford to pay more child support they should!
Look at at Witney Houston and Bobby Brown…Witney had to come out of pocket! Please it’s about the kids…..
My childs donor refuse to marry his girlfriend (mother of 2 kids) because they both know she makes the money and his child support would increase! I want them to get married. This little 200.00 a month isnt enough to feed my child. Thank God I dont have to depend on his money!
Ok…what happen to my post? Why are my words all messed up?
*****ody knows the background soo everybody is talking out the side of their necks. How does everyone know he hasen’t been crying broke and giving her pennies. It’s not fair to come after him but it’s ok for the child to suffer. These people making these ignorant comments about the baby mama are just heartless. I know several guys personally who don’t want to give their baby mama’s a dime and they will do whatever it takes to keep them from getting it. They want the childs mother to call and beg for everything…” JR needs some new socks”. And I prey all these so called women on here never get lied to or deceived.
Letstalk
My question is when you have the means why wouldnt you want to help out your child…
-Be for real girl. You know 99% of the time its not about “helping out” no damn child. It’s about revenge and doing petty ***** to ***** with this man. He was in the NFL and he gets a decent pension from that. I’m sure she’s getting her cut of that off the top. She wants MORE now because she wants it from Laila Ali on some p*****ive aggressive *****. She’s using the gov’t as a weapon to mess with someone that she’s scared to fight.
Laila Ali should whip her muh*****in’ ***** right on the courthouse steps on GP.
You’re right. Why else would she be gunning for Laila’s money? I hope the courts don’t rule in her favor, because if they do, it’s on. You’ll see this kind of nonsense all over the place.
Ever since the Welfare programs have been cut back, the new thing for the baby mommas to go to court and get their child support from a d or c list celebrity guy. This is the new method of County payments and of course to ***** off her baby daddy and his new wife, lol. Revenge is soo lucrative, lol…
Ladies and gentlemen, the word for the day.
STOMP-A-THON. don’t try it sugar.