these women dont want these men anyway they just use them to make a baby but i dont understand marrying the dude thou

they were never legally married so there is no ‘problem’ he will continue being the father of his child & she the mother. it might be less than optimal, but such is life.

something’s fishy with this story…

Typical

He always looked a lil DL to me (even though I’ve only seen him one other time) His whole personna just screams gay best friend!!! Maybe they had a deal?

Ugh. WTF JILL? W.T.F? Maybe he went to go pack some more fudge since he wasn’t diggin the rug.

Co-parenting? Wow. Jill, Momma those feeling and emotions are post-natal. We all go through them. Get your mind right and get back with that man. It wasn’t that serious, I am sure.

LOL…. I hope this isn’t true because if it is, then I’ve lost all respect for Jill Scott. She’s either a VERY confused woman from jump or those post-natal hormones are driving her insane.

What woman justifies ending a relationship so soon after a child is born? And what woman tries to use her own situation as a justification for a single parent household?

What’s up with African American families? Have y’all all just lost it????

I’m sad to hear that Jill and her dude broke up, but she doesn’t seem to be to broken up about it.

I don’t like her very much, but I’m not glad this is happening to her.

As the old saying goes, “another one bites the dust.” Sorry Jill. I still love you know and I know you are a phenomenal mommy.

Wow. I meant to say, “Sorry, Jill. I still love you…”

@Marquis de Sade

Lol too funny, did your mum sit you down and tell how you came to be…poor thang!

This is sad.
I think we all are becoming a bit too selfish. In recent cases of divorce or separation, it’s been all about what “I” couldn’t or can’t … We’re living in a disposable era! Everyone wants to discard anything old or broken. We are the true mechanics?

This dude had already had MULTPILE children with MULTIPLE women, that in itself should’ve been a clue to Jill.

Now this baby Jill just another one of his many baby’s mamas.

Shits disguting…Women need to stop blaming men and start taking accountability for their own choices!

Oops! “Where” are the true mechanics?

I don’t think Jill gives 2 hoots whether the man’s there or not, I think she just feels elated and blessed to finally have a child after being told she couldn’t

She needs to hire Precious Ramotswe to find out what the hell happened to her marriage.

she was never married to dude.
cant wait to hear the lyrics on the new album.
and can we get a nursing shot/pic of her…probably massive…

It’s not that serious. I prefer co-parenting (living seperately) than 2 ppl who are married and can’t stand each other, which leads to tension in the household around the children. Jett will want for nothing emotionally or financially, so let them be happy co-parents!!!

That guy seemed a lil off to me anyway, I don’t think she used him to get a baba tho..Cuz doctors told her she couldn’t have any kids..

damn, already, damn!?

I know Jill is a strong, talented woman and could easily raise a child on her own, but DAMN, she just gave birth! A couple of months ago they were talking marriage, now they’ve broken up? Did they even try?

Isn’t this Jill’s second marriage? What’s up with these “consciencous (sp)” rappers and singers who write/sing beautiful music, but can’t apply it to their messy lives?

Example: Erykah Badu (the queen of them all)
Mos Def (the KING of them all, with his ex-stripper wife)…

ok, maybe Jill is lez and this was a good way to cover it up so she doesnt have to go thru what queen latifah went thru???

This is Jill’s second divorce….I think the problem is Jill…something is wrong with her continually getting in bad relationships…I can understand the first time, BUT the second time in what less that a year???? She’s the problem….

I’d bang Jill.

I like her and everything but this is one confused sista.She had just gotten divorced from the first husband and not even 6 months later, she was pregnant for this mope.I heard stories of both men being on the DL but I don’t know how true it is.

my girlfriend jill always keeps it real but this one i dont kno he already got 4 othe BM=baymamas wtf ? Jill u gotta me playing “cant explain” wat u do gil u kno u and karma goes tick for tat

Well you can’t stay together just for the sake of the kid…thats not the righ thing to do…so I pray that all works out for the best.

Please…

Got a feeling that Jill will come out at some point…

Wish…

That black entertainment sites stop glorifing/promoting single parenthood…

well it didn’t work out and SUPRISE it doesn’t in over 50% of marriages today. too bad. i just hope the father does not use it as an excuse to abandon his child.

“It’s not that serious. I prefer co-parenting (living seperately) than 2 ppl who are married and can’t stand each other, which leads to tension in the household around the children. Jett will want for nothing emotionally or financially, so let them be happy co-parents!!!”

AMEN!

Two HAPPY homes is better than ONE miserable one! Good for her!

Maybe Jill needs to talk to DEB…Irv Gotti’s wife.!!!

another hetero marriage ends in divorce.. SMH

who ever heard the part of the nuptials that say ’til death do us part or til i cant stand ur ass’.. ??

sarcastically >>> LMFAO!!!

SAD! And I thought she had something w/ this corny dude. Seems like she just got divorced a couple of years ago. And now she has a baby to boot… Jill can’t catch a break… I feel sorry for her….

Awww, that’s sad. I love Jilly from Philly. I wish her the best.

I have to say I saw it coming but I was hoping for the best. Jill will be a great mom and I hope she bounces back soon.

maybe the problem is not him. maybe the baby isn’t his…..

I knew it wasn’t going to work. It seems she had jumped in this realtionship quick after her divorce. He looks suspect to me anyway. I also read on another website that she is difficult person to work with, I was shocked.

WoW! this was so unexpected…

I wish Jill, all the happiness in the world..

Seems like she can’t catch a break, when it comes to love and blk men doing her wrong…

DAMN! I’m all for blk love,(when keeping it real goes horribly, horribly wrong), but if the guys is not right, move on…Sorry for Jill, hopefully she will meet her soulmate…
Move on, Ms. Scott..Keep the faith…

@always knew

DAMN! I’m all for blk love,(when keeping it real goes horribly, horribly wrong), but if the guys is not right, move on…Sorry for Jill, hopefully she will meet her soulmate…
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umKAYY!!!!

@mark ginnis

That’s really too bad. I’m not a big woman at all but I know there are men out there that actually prefer larger women, and they don’t fall into those categories you listed.

@mark ginnis

or maybe those are just american men. big women are very much appreciated in countries like mauritania…

@missunderstood…Hey, Lady!!!

As for Jill Scott – we don’t know what went on behind closed doors. All this speculation will never lead to the truth. At least she has made they have both agreed to stay in the child’s life, even though they will no longer be together. Everybody in Hollyweird is not on the DL or on the verge of busting out of the closet. Shyt happens in relationships and just because celebrities go through things in the public eye (making it all the more difficult), doesn’t make them any less human than those of us who make the same mistakes.

Jill, this is probably not an easy time with your bizz being on blast but keep “living your life like it’s golden”…cuz it is. You have been blessed with new life. Enjoy that baby!!!

The story Jill is telling is full of lots and lots of holes.

why was he even get the drawers worthy since he already had at least 3 reported baby mamas?

why did she hit it raw with a man who is not the legal hubby?

why even release any info to the public whatsoever regarding your relationship status?

Hey at least she’s woman enough to admit that she probably played a part in the split. That says a lot for her character.
Damn though…that’s still messed up cause she looked so happy…keep ya head up Ms. Scott…keep living, learning and growing.
Peace to Everyone of Y’all

I wish her the best of luck with the co-parenting thing because he has a child here that he doesn’t even come see when he is in town working gigs. That is so sad. Kids will remember that ish, Lil John!

Were they legally married?

@ MoniSings – Hey there!

No matter how famous & talented Ms. Jill is, she’s still just a fat, low self esteem, Michael Straham neck having woman looking for a man. Unfortunately she’s apart of a society that looks are everything. She’s not going to find someone equally yoaked. Jill would have a better chance of finding a good man without her career. Sorry but it’s the truth.

Maybe he left because she didnt lose the extra 200lbs of Baby weight!

lol, rofl lmao!

love 6am, I like her singin’ though!

Jill might not be a dream to live with…..maybe she can’t keep a man…you’ll be amazed at women who act like they’re always the victim.

If you can’t get along with anybody it ain’t everybody else it’s you! I love Jill but perhaps she should seek help.

messed up for the kid

Doesnt he already have 3 BabyMammas?

Leave Jill alone….Jill I’m need you to get back in the studio I am missing the No 1 Ladies Detective Agency.

how did this morph into a talk of ” co parenting”? could not these parents thought of this prior to having relations that can produce a child(no condom)? quite frankly, this is shamefull behaviour and black people in america, at one time, generally had a code of standards that would not allow such behaviour. This should be the same code of standards used to measure ourselves by in these days. People like this should be made to feel ashamed of what they have done. while there are mothers and fathers who HAVE NO CHOICE(by way of death ..etc) but to raise a child alone, they deserve the communal help not those who clearly have a choice in the matter..they should be asahmed of themselves.

Lawd why erry nucca that sistas aint feelin cause they done broke up wit somebody or they wit somebody else they aint feeling gots ta be DL damn……

Hope Jennifer Hudson takes heed to this situation cause I can see it coming w/her & her suspect man.

this silly cow, she knows all about birth control, as evidenced by all her previous relationships that did NOT result in babies, she deliberately became a baby mama, she knew that man was no good from the get go, but she just wanted a child. typical nigg*r behaviour? Bravo.

@TNF… Co-sign.

Black love is a myth for Blacks these days. We used to have strong Black women and men and now we have shells of our ancestors love, integrity and commitment for each other. The Black community has blown Black men’s heads up to think all they have to do is “show up” and be BLACK and BW are supposed to worship at their feet…Give me a damn break! Jill is a smart beautiful woman who fell for the okey doke!! Maybe if she truly embraces God’s belief that we are all created equal and true love can be found with ANY GOOD MAN..Then, she will find true love. By restricting her choice on the get go with a Black Massa Kang…she restricts the prospect of true love finding her.

When I was in couple’s therapy with my husband, we were told that if we break up we shouldn’t get into a serious relationship for 2 years. We didn’t break up, but it just goes to say that Jill jumped from a long marriage to a new relationship and pregnancy right away. Unfortunately, I knew this wasn’t going to work.

john hope franklin

she was never married to dude.
cant wait to hear the lyrics on the new album.
and can we get a nursing shot/pic of her…probably massive…
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John Franklin it is possible you may need Jesus LOL.

Damn damn damn. Is there any hope for black couples?

That’s actually kind of sad! She’s like my rolle modell.