First!!

LOL @ the title

And if there were no black folks around you would be screaming racism.

lmao @ “their black friends”. Mwahaha

don’t get the apartheid reference. the incongruency of that whole sentence is throwing me off.

RACIST!

lol it’s a black and white party, adrienne is the only one who isn’t black or white, hmmm do the kardashians have any asian friends? LOL oh i guess if they ever want to do business in japan, they’ll all of a sudden be seen with some “asian” friends.

@ trevor, u so right!!!:)
and @ Kigali.. lol
they just tryin to have a nice time and celebrate …..

You what… if this same post appeared on a white website with the use of the same language you would be able t see how racist it is. Black meat? Wow. nice way to reduce black men.

Black men reduce themselves very well… AND are quite proud of it!!!!

shut up coco….The title is fixed…lmao@the title..roflmao

is it just me or does reggie always seem to hang around khloe at parties? lol khloe is the fun one while kim is the boring one i guess, kim probably spends all night looking at herself in the mirror, then again i don’t really like khloe after her DUI, what a dumbass. The kardashians don’t hang with any armenians ever, what’s up with that? It’s good to have a diversified group of friends, but the kardashians seem to only hang with white or black folks. I see rob and adrienned together, i knew thier “break up” was just a pr stunt !

What’s wrong with liking black people? Are we suggesting that because she enjoys the company of black folks that she is a lower grade of white woman (I use the term white loosely)? If so what are we saying about black people? Damn, the self hatred on this site is sometimes obvious but most of the time its latent. Why is there something wrong with this?

Let’s excercise some intelligence. You can look at younger photos of these girls and tell that they have always looked exotic. They’re not the stereotypical white beauties which i bet means that they didn’t always fit in. I’m guessing that they were more accepted by black people in many instances that white and so that is who they usually gravitate towards but either way, they have a diverse group of people around them and that is why they are so visible, they can gel in different circles. Anyway, if they like black men who gives a sh*t, black men love them too. What’s the problem here?

@charlie blanko
kiss my ass. The title is still stupid, and its not funny. Everything they said under the title is just as ignorant.

@lol

Reggie looks boring too. He’s cute and probably a sweet guy but he just seems so uninteresting. I guess that’s why he like’s hanging out with this crew…But in all the pictures, he always looks a lil out of place.

@ truth be told

actually kim used to only hang around white people, especially during the years she was paris hilton’s lil puppy lol ! She only started hanging around black females in the last year or so and she is trying very hard to make it known. STop acting like these girls had a tough life for being have armenian, they are still considered white and getting treated like white girls by the media. I say it’s good to have a diversified group of friends, but take another look, how diversified is it really? I only see black and white, that’s not diversified.

amber

LOL @ the title

To you…right Cocoa? Its not funny to your self loathing self right?

You goofy footed vict!

@I said it,

“Black men reduce themselves very well… AND are quite proud of it!!!!”

Yes because they are the ones who spend their entire lives and their entire pay check trying to buy someone else’s hair, skin color, and eye color. If you have noticed black men are far more comfortable being black and being dark than black females ever have or ever will be.

kigali, your queen kim also wears fake hair.

prettyboy is kigali lol

@jon,

When was the last time you went to a party and saw an eqaul distribution of people? There are black clubs, white clubs, Asian clubs, and hispanic clubs in LA. I am from here. Have you ever seen Kim K with a man that wasnt black? She was in her early 20s and already had a black husband. Just accept she likes black men. If you like black men you are going to be where they are, and meet the people there. Aint nothing sinister about it. LA is very segregated. And till this day, I dont see Kim K hanging around black females but famous black women which is a lot different. She has a gang of sisters her age. She really has no need for a crew.

@jon,

wasn’t it Kim who said she grew up with the Jackson’s, her Dad was friends with OJ simpson and various other black celebs so this means that she had exposure to black people growing up.

I don’t know where you live but I’ve seen white people ‘WASPS’ set themselves apart from white people of mixed ethnic backgrounds, it happens all the time. Hell, Hitler tried to exterminate a whole race because they weren’t pure white and before you say it doesn’t happen now, when i used to live in the Midwest, I’ve seen European and Caribbean people who I consider white treated as though they were minorities. Trust me, if you have a drop of something else in you not all white people gonna accept you as white.

kigali

it’s a BDAY party, all their FRIENDS would have been invited. ACtually the party was in vegas, go learn your facts.

that is true truth. We are in cali though man, ignorance plagues a bunch of communities. I am so glad i grew up in a diverse community…..SMH@ignorance…

@ truth be told

that “w” word is considered racist, and second i have been to kim k’s blog and have seen pics of her from highschool she posted (she went to an all girls catholic school” and ALL her friends where white in the pics. When she was hanging with paris, you never say kim with black females, only white girls like paris and mischa barton…around that time she also dated benji madden and nick lachey, both white guys.

@Truth Be Told

PREACH!! I couldn’t agree with you more!!!

kigali, you dumbass why would i lie about my race? Im indian, not black. If i were black i would say it. You are the one with the bitter black woman syndrome. Where did i say i care who black men date? The kardashians are taking nothing away from me. Im sure some jealous black females do come here and hate the kardashians because they date black men, but that’s NOT me. I don’t care who they date, but some things are obvious about those girls, whether you admit it or not.

Who cares!

The site is run by a BLACK WOMAN!!!!

Google

Moguldom Media Group.

So, it speaks volumes of our own people.

@jon,

Unlike most black females, I am married. So somebody wanted me and not to just be his baby mama.

kigali

stop lying, no one believes you are married !

yall kno Billy Mays, the oxi-clean guy, died?!! Its a bad week to be a celebrity.

he died while on a plane, got hit in the head during turbulance or something, he wasn’t wearhing his seat belt, that’s crazy.

Cocoa Gyal,

I just saw. Thats some shit.

Oh em gee, David Carradine, Ed McMahon, Farrah Fawcett, Michael Jackson, Billy Mays. What the hell is going on…

@jon,

I could care less whether you believed it or not. And yes I am pretty angry. Thats the reaction most black females deserve for their disgusting hypocritical behavior towards everyone else but themselves. I just wish for once they would look in the mirror and judge themselves as much as they do white women and black men.

i don’t know about your beliefs but in my culture we are told that death always comes in fives

well you seem like one of THOSE angry black women, lmao so you must hate yourself then.

Sheesh ppl y’all are taking this too seriously there are much more important things going on.

@ kami

kigali also thinks she’s able to see through her pc screen and tell what race a person is and what they look like and how much money they have and what type of house they live in…lol. I don’t think i’ver come across such a bitter, angry, self-hating, judgemental person in my life. She is doing nothing to help the image of black women, that’s for sure. It’s like she hates black women for some odd reason…how wierd.

i’m indian, so we believe it comes in five’s, though i do have friends who say in their culture it comes in three’s. Eithery way, it does seem that death always takes more than it should within a small amount of time, very scary.

The story I read said Billy Mays was found dead at his home by his wife. He really knew how to advertise a product :^) Always yelling on his commercials. RIP!

As far as this post is concerned, looks like everyone had a great time.

Nice cake!!

First of all I would like to say every blackman is not designed for blackwoman and the same for white woman. And these last couple of years some sistas a making very hard on themsleves to be in any relationship with anyone. So if a brothas dates out his race hang with other race crowds were he fits in why should you care. You don’t want him anyway so keep it moving.

@ kami

very well said ! i agree.

so im guessing you would go up to a white person can call them a w*sp? i doubt it.

Stefany

Are halle Berry and Kerry Washington Sell-outs?

halle berry is half white, do people forget that? why get upset she had a baby with a white guy? it’s part of her blood too, she was raised by her white mother, never even heard her talk about her black father.

kigal you sound like a burnt out social worker who workes for social services, lol like you see a particular type of black woman all day as your clients so now you have become bitter towards all black women because of it, remember when you look inthe mirrow, you too are a black woman and there are many people out there who see as being no better than the women you despise.

@STEFANY,

“It’s not self hatred or putting black people down, it’s just that most rich black men like white trash, generally when a black man is with a white women she’s never a doctor, lawyer or an educated type..They always find a whorish freak type of white woman…”

And do you think the options for a black man are better with black females? Black females are by and large, fat, got a bunch of kids a stank attitude and are working class. There arent a bunch of black female lawyers or doctors to choose from. So he either gets a trashy white woman or a trashy black female with kids and an attitude.

@ Stephanie

But these black men were not the topic of my comment. I was simply asking, why is it wrong for white people of any status or background to want to hang out with black people, men or women. I don’t know if what you say is true of the types of white women black men select is true in all cases. I know that regardless of ethnicity, the majority of people tend to marry within the race but I’m not dumb enough or pious enough to say that every time someone goes outside their race they’re looking for trash, black men included.

Neither am I saying that certian qualities are found exclusively in certain ethnic groups and completely absent in others. That would be dumb. I try not to make sweeping generalizations. Isn’t it funny how people are so quick to make generalizations about others but even quicker to believe that they themselves are so unique?

I do think that for a lot of black men it is about status but its mostly about men and what they desire from their mate. A rick black man does not need to seek out a rick successful white woman or woman of any race if what he really wants is someone who will take care of his home and his children while he goes out and makes the money. Most rich men feel as though their wives have no need to work, but there are also men who respect and admire independence in a woman as long as she is not disrespectful and doesn’t completely neglect her husband and home. Some men, wrongly believe that they could never find what they want in any black woman on this planet and so they go white, the same way some black women believe that they will never find what they want from a black man. Both are disillusioned you see, because they are angry at the other for not realizing that everyone is not the same but yet they claim all members of the opposite group are. See the hypocrisy?

@wonderin,

Actually I have worked in the social services and I work not in the socalled private sector and I must say black females dont change. Whether they are poor and stupid or have money and are stupid they are still the same. I would have to go to Mars in order to find a decent black female worthy of admiration and respect.

Glad that you admit that black children are disproportionately represented in the social services proving once again that black mothers aint shit. Cant even keep the kids in the home.

Poor Khloe always the bridesmaid and never the bride. Where is here fantasy Reggie Bush at?

@kigali

i could tell you’ve spent some time in the social services area, i can tell from the way you talk about black females. It’s the same as when white teachers teach in inner city schools, they end up resenting black youth and being scared of them, it happens alot. Sad but true. I think you need to remember that black people come in all kinds, how can you have such a bad attitude towards black women when your job was to help them? I don’t get it. But i know it does happen, and vice versa, working in all all white environment makes a person resent white people too. Human nature.

@ jon,

I’m not upset, you don’t see me typing in all caps do you. Like I said, WASP is a term that describes a subset in society. In many cases it is synonomous with American history, I did ask you where you were from in one of my earlier posts for a reason because I know that depending on where you’re from the same word may have different connotations. I’m not surprised now that you’re not completely familiar with the dynamics of race and ethnicity in the US. Moving on.

Just because you saw some photos of them doesn’t mean you are qualified to speak on their entire upbriging. I’m sure they have hundreds of other pics that you haven’t seen.

I’m done with this post.

@ bee

you must have me mistaken for someonne else ! newsflash, anyone can use any usernamed ! i rarely come here, so that makes you the stupid one for even thinking that, you must live here to even notice something stupid like that ! get a life weirdo.

Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman) RIP MJ

@Kigali/Khloe

You hating on black women is not going to make a black man love you……..you need to stop that silly sh*t. Can you even prove any of the crap you speak you hateful ugly woman?

truth be told

and who the f*ck makes you qualified to speak on the kardashian’s upbrining??? hypocritical ass.

@JUDY,

Poor black females always the baby mama never the bride.

@Kigali

Do they text message you when they put up a Kardashian post?

@ judy

hahahaaaaaa funny

So they love Black folks, so what, They wont be the first nor the last to carry wanna be cards,

“We hear Khloe got what she “wanted” for her birthday, which was black meat”. *DEAD*

Prettyboy and other Kardashian stans, riddle me this>>>What have they done for you? Just because we don’t ride their jock doesn’t mean we are jealous. I just don’t see why everyone’s so obsessed with these people. It’s not as though they’ve contributed something to the world, other than maybe to black men like Prettyboy who believe that their love for black men is a “compliment” to them. What tha??? This is why brothers are so fanatical about them. They feel honored to be desired by the likes of these girls. And please may I ask again, WHAT ARE THEY DOING FOR YOU?

Wow, I didn’t even know Kigali was still breathing. You talk about bitter. Look it up in the dictionary, and his/her/its pictures is smack dab in the middle. Poor thing.

cc

but kim wasn’t hangin with lala last year lol. some of those pics are new.

@Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman) RIP MJ

Hey Kigali/Khloe can you prove your stats about black women?

The picture with Lala and Angela was taken on Lala’s 30th birthday the other day in NY.

i’m just mad I wasn’t invited.

WordtotheWise

You are so conflicted and full of shit. Does your “wHITE” boyfriend know about your “MILITANT” & “HOSTILE” views regarding his race?

Talkin’ black & Sleepin’ white is a bad look, darlin’.

Kami All Day

@kigali:

Didnt I tell you that you were corny, yesterday?

Well, that still holds true.

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Love It

@Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

Why do you get so sensitive when people talk about the kardashians? I mean you really lose your mind. You know they had a story about Kim on dlisted and I gotta tell you khloe they dogged kim so bad I even felt sorry for her. How come you dont go over there and defend her she could really use your help.

So what the girls have lots of Black/African America friends….. the girls know how to have fun.

Oh and by-th-by the girls grew up with lots of black friends.

You dont need an excuse to want to be around black men. They are good looking, are sociable, and quite possibly the most charming men you would ever want to meet. A black man can always put a smile on your face.

@Kigali
WOW, I’m in support for marriage too. People in general are too cynical about marriage and underestimate its value, especially if one is trying to raise kids. Thats one of my strongest beliefs, the problem with you is that you figure all black women are the same and think the same. I can believe in marriage and not go around bashing every black female that ever existed because thats what rational people do. Trying to place the blame for every problem on the black communtiy on the black female is ludicrous. You would constantly degrade the black women but have selective amensia on the behavior of black men. Its the WHOLE community that could stand some improvement. Dammit, with “black” people like you, white people don’t need to be racist, you people tear each other down enough for both races.

@ Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman) RIP MJ

You are on here constantly defending the Kardashian Why?Seems very strange.

Damn, leave Khole (and Kim) alone, I like that chick. I like her personality.

@STEFANY,

“…there are plenty of educated black women with no kids around…”

In your dreams.

Oh yeah, faggs

He is not gay, he is married with 2 kids…geeks!

@kigal

My word having read some of your comments i’m surprised you can pull your head out of kim k’s arse long enough to type these messages…know wonder you’re spewing so much shit, yr breath must reek of kardashian ass.

I have nothing against the kardashians but why are you defending them more than you’d defend your own mother you’re such a looser

@Cocogyal
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@Kigali
WOW, I’m in support for marriage too. People in general are too cynical about marriage and underestimate its value, especially if one is trying to raise kids. Thats one of my strongest beliefs, the problem with you is that you figure all black women are the same and think the same. I can believe in marriage and not go around bashing every black female that ever existed because thats what rational people do. Trying to place the blame for every problem on the black communtiy on the black female is ludicrous. You would constantly degrade the black women but have selective amensia on the behavior of black men. Its the WHOLE community that could stand some improvement. Dammit, with “black” people like you, white people don’t need to be racist, you people tear each other down enough for both races.
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I cosign 1000%!!!!

Kigali, my medicine tastes good, baby. Your doesn’t because you are so hateful and bitter, sweetie. I could care less what black men do. They don’t make or break me. How about this – they need to save that hostility toward the cops that beat their asses on a daily basis. Oh, poor babies. Black men are such victims of the big, bad, black woman. Boo hoo! Maybe if some of them grew some balls, they could look at themselves in the mirror and get it together, but you wouldn’t know anything about that, now would you?

@bay girl,

You black females have had your weaved up heads up your collective asses for decades now. Telling yourselves that you are Queens and every woman wants to be you and every man wants you and that you are strong and independent but all the while you stay single, stay broke and all welfare and every other government handout, stay stupid, stay having kids by all manner of men and wont take any responsibility for shit. Oh and did I mention that a lot of you guys are fat as hell?

to see what they say.

@Kigali
Serious question: If I said that I’m a black female, grew up in the suburbs, grew up with both of my parents that are still married, never been arrested/suspended/in trouble pd, in college, have a job, have no kids (still a virgin), don’t care if blacks date outside their race (honestly, I do think we’ve pretty much pushed them away.), in shape, never worn a weave or had a perm in my life, like my dark complexion, never wore contacts, and don’t cry racism every time someone said they didn’t like me, what would you have to say to that?

@ Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman)

You mean fat as hell like Khloe Kartrashian? That damn Amazon. I am happily married and have 1 kid from my husband, and a well paying career. My single friends have no kids and my best friend is married with 2 children. Where do you get your facts from? Fox news and Hollywood? Like I said, stereotypes. How about you read a book. Your level of ignorance is quite taxing. LMAO

@ Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman

If they could tan to look like Alek Wek, trust and believe they would. It’s impossible for them to get that dark so they don’t.

You are ignorant beyound comprehension and I will not go back and forth with a baboon. You aren’t even making any logical statements just hateful ignorant rants.

If you knew anything about the systematic racism upon which this country is run then you wouldn’t even have mentioned that last paragraph on white women rates vs blacks. You are clearly stupid, and you want to remain stupid.

@Prominence,

Oh right. The problems black females face is due to racism? LOL. Systematic racism huh? Funnily enough, when MLK made his I have a Dream Speech, there were more black people married than then there are now. So racism didnt stop black folks getting married in the 1960s. Find another excuse.

@maya friday,

I never understood why black females hate Reggie so much. Considering the kinds of trouble NFL players get into Reggie seems like a nice level headed guy who is low key. I admire that about him. He seems like a regular kind of guy.

@Jani,

If you are truly those things I would say you were the EXCEPTION to the rule. The rule being that black females are the complete opposite of all those things you named.

AWWW your coment back @ BAY Girl was hilarious!!! You sound like 3rd grader fighting tears back LOL Like No your not a Queen! lmaof you are a pathetic fat piece of trash! No one takes you seriously not even Kim K. We dont’ belive you you need more people!

@Kigali I am all those things. I know shocker! And I do agree with some of your generalizations of black women because I witness them firsthand (ex: SOMETIMES when i interact when other black women in public they have attitudes) but i can’t tell you how many other black women don’t like me for no good reason. i don’t ride around on a high horse either. I’m very shy and polite to everyone I meet, but for some reason I always had other black girls hating me for no reason. Anyway, I don’t want the other readers to think that I’m on Kigali’s side, but you have to agree with some of his/her/it’s generalizations even if some of them seem ignorant.

@Kigali-INTERdependent Im Really A Thristy Hoe) RIP MJ

Now tell me why you defend the Kardashians so hard.

hahahahahahahahhahahzzzzzzhhehehee….again! lol

@Jani,

You have to be brave to stand where I stand. Its a lonely place to challenge black female hegemony. I try my best. I do it for the children.

THE PROBLEM BLACK WOMEN FACE IS BECAUSE OF THEMSELVES. IF YOU HAVE NO PRIDE OR RESPECT FOR YOURSELF, WHY SHOULD I?

THE ANGER THAT YOU GUYS SHOW TOWARDS KIGALI, SHOWS THAT YOU ALL ARE THE EXAMPLE OF WHAT SHE IS TALKING ABOUT!

LOVE YOURSELF, WHO CARES WHAT PEOPLE SAY.

@JUDY

To make a long story short I think I will defend anyone who black females hate irrationally. If defending the Kardashians upsets black females, I will do it.

@Kigali Lol Wow I kind of see what you’re coming from, but you have to admit that you take it a little too far and some of your generalizations are contradictions, but yeah it’s annoying when people can’t admit when they have flaws. I will and could never walk around seriously thinking that I’m perfect like most women (black, blue, green w/e) do. But putting other people down isn’t really the way to go. I’m just saying.

BLACK GOLD CHANGE YOUR NAME TO BLACK SHIT, BECAUSE YOU ARE THE TYPE OF IGNORANT BLACK PERSON THAT BRINGS THE WHOLE BLACK RACE DOWN WITH YOU.

JANI I AGREE

Kigali-INTERdependent Im a Thristy Hoe) RIP MJ

You really need to come off of that Im a black woman Sh*t. Its as clear as day that you are not black and you should be worrying about Armenian women and children instead of worrying about black women. Could you please tell me why you defend the Kardashians so much you keep avoiding my question.

And why are these hoes famous?

I think its Diary of a Tired Black Man. I am really happy to see black men finally airing their grievances. They have been silenced for so long. There is no Oprah, no Tyra, no Terry McMillan talking about the frustrations of black men. So I am glad there is a growing movement, especially on You Tube helping out black men.

And what’s wrong wit having black friends …. This had to b written by a clear person SMFH

@JUDY,

I am seriously bored of you ok. LEave me alone.

Way too much tension in here. . .

From the late King of Pop:

I said if
You’re thinking of
Being my baby
It dont matter if youre black or white

It’s black. . .It’s white. . .Yeah Yeah Yeah. . .

@Sydney,

Thanks honey.

WHO CARES WHAT RACE OF PEOPLE SHE HAD @ HER PARTY….DAMN IS THERE SOMETHING ELSE GOING ON MORE IMPORTANT THAN THIS?

@ judy

So what does that say about you when you’ve spent your whole afternoon posting about the kardashians??? lol

Why dont you give this post a break for a while..

Boo hoo! Poor black men hurt by the offended by black women. Oh, and how they need the countless idiots like Kigali and her cosigners to lick their wounds. Some of you guys are hella young. Diary of an Angry Black Male? Yeah, what theater is it playing at?

Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman) RIP MJ

@JUDY

To make a long story short I think I will defend anyone who black females hate irrationally. If defending the Kardashians upsets black females, I will do it.
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That response is so f*cking lame as I knew it would be, aint nobody gonna defend those two tricks like that expect a family member…..uh uh I aint buying that sh*t. Did you go to dlisted yet? White people dont take kindly to the kardashians either(i dont think anybody does except young girls) it was over 100 comments and 95% were hateful. Kim really really needs your help over there what are you waiting for? A large majority of people do not respect for kim so why are you targeting black women?

@Jani,

It shouldnt matter what her preferences so long as if she decides to have children they are with a responsible man. Black or white, bball or janitor. He needs to be a decent man.

@wordtothewise
well, first off, i’m definitely a black female, that i’m sure of. second, if you actually read my posts, you’d know that i said i’m not siding with kigali. i said i agree with some points he/she/it made. i come from a black family that i’m very close to and love very much (full of black women), so to completely agree with all the generalizations kigali made would make no sense. i believe women of all races need to be put on blast because all the things kigali said occur in all races. if there’s a black man that doesn’t like black women, i don’t worry about them. cursing him out and telling him that he has self-hate isn’t doing anything but proving his “points” and encouraging him to date outside his race. why should i keep wasting my energy on someone that isn’t going to change his mind? third, when did i defend kendra? and what was there about her to defend? she’s a white chick that married a black man. okay? there are millions of those couples out and it’s nothing new, so stop making it seem like it is. lastly, i definitely don’t suffer from self-hate. i’ve never been ashamed of being black, so wtf are you talking about? you’ve never met me so how did you even come to that conclusion?

@kigali. that’s basically what i was saying. race really shouldn’t matter.

@syd- hey there… I had a book, that I wanted you to read… It’s called “We Who Are Ddark- The Philosophical Foundations of Black Solidarity by Tommie Shelby…

This book dispels alot of previous myths that I had bought into in regards to blk folks… Powerful but truthful… The book’s theory is to prove that one can achieve a robust form of blk solidarity without a commitment to blk identity.

VERY GOOD BOOK.

@word to the wise- I agree with your assessment..
I just wantd to sy hi to you
guys…

Getting ready to head out, talk to you guys later…

@WordtotheWise

I know I go to a variety a websites myself and I can tell you most people trash the kardashians I hate when they pretend like its just black women. You are right the only love they get(if any)is from the black websites so I dont know what the hell Kigali is talking about.

always knew>>>Hey there, girl! I’m going to check out that book as well.

I hope you have a wonderful day, sweetie.

@ word to the wise

You seem to be giving Kigali a shitload of attention though. Obviously, you wont be able to change his/her views and opinions… Breathe easy.

Yeah…I fell into this function @ Pure Friday night.She had the VIP next to the DJ booth.I was a coupla’ booths away.It was all brothas.The pictures shown here are missing a coupla’ ballplayer lookin’ dudes who were floating in & out of there.Contrast that with me being the only brotha in a booth full of Asians.(a doctor friend of mine invited me for her little celebration) Got a mild chuckle out of it.

@Sydney>>>Good to hear. Yes, I’m devastated too! My gosh, I can’t believe Mike is gone. It seems very surreal to me. I am also looking forward to the BET Awards and my DVR is all ready set. The tributes have been in full force (MTV, VH1, TV One, BET, etc.) There will never be another Mike. I’ve been playing his songs, past and present, yesterday and today.

Yes, there is way too much negativity, and after my comment to this imbecile Kigali, I’m done with her and her ilk.

@Jani,

Believe it or not, I am related to the same kind of up standing, decent, honorable black women and it is on thier behalf that I really cant stand most black females because I know that make my females relatives look bad and make them have to work extra hard.

@wordtothewise
I agree that a lot black men are saying all these things because they were hurt by a black woman, but i’m not siding with them. it’s annoying and disrespectful when a black woman sees a black man with a white woman and says that he sold out, has self-hate (yes, some do have self-hate, but that’s not always the case), and needs a real/strong woman. wtf? so all nonblack women are weak? Some of the strongest women I know aren’t black and no i’m not saying that none of those women i look to as being “strong” aren’t black, but black woman doesn’t automatically = strong.

Kigali, wrong again, Einstein. Get it right – it’s long lines at POPEYES! Feel betta?

@Kigali it’s good to know that you don’t think ALL black women are terrible like you’ve made it seem, but some of the comments you make are reaching. if you didn’t direct your statements to all black women, more posters would be able to relate to you.

These white girls wish they hads what we are blessed from birth with.

I dont understands why white girls try to buy booty and lips when we know mosts of them is skinny with no body. Be who you is baby and love yourself.

RIP Mike Jack

Lady Star

“These white girls wish they hads what we are blessed from birth with.”
+++++++++++++++++++++++++

You mean like the freakazoid in your avie !?!
I’ll pass on that.

Jani>>>Your comment to Kigali is wonderful; however, Kigali is not equal opportunity. She’ll only call out black women, but never, ever, ever black men for their b.s. Why do you think that is?

Sydney™

Hey WordtotheWise, how are you?

Yeah, Diary of a Tired Black Man came out a while ago. I never saw it, and I don’t plan to. C’est la vie.

You can rent it on dvd or Netflix it…And in all fairness, the writer/director is currently working on the follow-up, which will expose the flaws of blackmen. You ladies should check it out.

@ dr. funk

freakazoid… lmao

I dont know what sisters see in white men cuz I know they aint got nothing I needs and besides Terry been making me happy for over twenty years baby.

@Marquis

“You can rent it on dvd or Netflix it…And in all fairness, the writer/director is currently working on the follow-up, which will expose the flaws of blackmen. You ladies should check it out.”

Thanks for the update. I saw “Diary of a Tired Black Man” advertised on Redbox. I think I read an interview with the director, and he made a comment along the lines of his belief that black men and black women have become disenchanted with each other, and I think the film supposedly has some version of a Sapphire character. I just can’t support a project that promotes division. We have enough of it in our daily lives — why should I pay to see it on the big screen?

Now if there’s another film along the lines of “Love Jones,” “Brown Sugar,” “The Best Man,” or “Love and Basketball” in post-production, I would make plans to see it.

@wordtothewise. it is possible that kigali hates itself, but i’m not defending the person, i’m defending some of the statements it made because i feel the same.

“Yall excited about the show as I is?”

For the love of Michael, please change your gravie.

@LadyStar, can you please stop posting or change your picture? lol

less than zero

@ word to the wise

You seem to be giving Kigali a shitload of attention though. Obviously, you wont be able to change his/her views and opinions… Breathe easy.

LOL! Jesus probably couldn’t change Kigali’s way of thinking so I know I can’t, but I will dispute every, well not every, negative comment she makes about black women. I do it b/c its fun to put it on blast. He/she/it is a moron.
————————————————–
Its funny how she’s trying to crack on others but is easy and siding with Kigali. I see Kigali have brought her friends in po baby needs help awww.

@Judy

What is this, high school? Siding with Kigali? lol

@Sydney,

That wasnt one of my favorite jackson tunes.

@Marquis De Sade,

Thats pretty wimpy of said director/writer to come out with the Diary of a Tired black woman. Seriously his last film was countering decades of bashing that black men have recieved from black females. I hate that in order to be critical of black females you must be equally critical of black men. That isnt brave. And really what it does is that it gives black females added excuse to delay their change in behavior by focusing on black men when they need to focus on themselves.

Lady Star>>>Can’t wait for BET Awards tonight. Have my DVR set and ready to go! Hey girl, I love SOME black men, but I didn’t limit myself. My bf happens to be white and trust and believe I’m very happy. To each his/her own.

Jani>>>I didn’t say that YOU had self-hatred, I said I can smell self-hatred from the black men here in my town a mile away! It’s obvious with many of them, but that’s their problem, not mine.It’s your prerogative to agree with some of Kigali’s comments. I get it. I will never, ever side with anything Kigali has to say because it is not clearly playing with a full deck of cards, but that’s just me.

haters

@Kigali
it is sad that a lot of woman aren’t willing to change just because “our” men “aint sh-t either” but do you really think that black men don’t have any problems?

“haters”

———–DEAD————–

@Sydney

We must have the same taste baby cuz Man in the Mirror always been my favorite.

@Lady Star

Thats some picture you got buddy but I would like it if you would use the one with Kim when she had rays chocolate popsicle in her mouth that would make my day.

*still not interested in seeing it*

@Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman) RIP MJ
Hey Kigali, that was a very stupid comment about

“them” finding a cure for skin cancer. You should know any form of cancer is incurable. You should also know that is tanning is not safe. A cure for cancer is a long way off. Very insensitive and ignorant for you to say that. I won’t respond back to you so don’t bother with a rebuttal.

Kigali-INTERdependent Black Woman) RIP MJ

He was recently interviewed on 92.3 FM a few Sundays ago, and he stressed that what’s going on in the black community over the past few decades does to a large degree rest on the shoulders of black women to the tune of 65 to 70%, but black men, also must accept a decent portion of the blame also, which he plans to explain and depict in his follow-up.

Sydney

…And by your rationale, wouldn’t “THE COLOR PURPLE” be considered just as “ONE-SIDED” & “DIVISIVE”?

I switched my picture back to my conservative one baby b/c my husband Terry get jealous of other men seeing me all hung out like clothes on the line.

Sydney

That must be an old interview, because he’s currently married to a black woman. Dispite popular belief, some blackmen evolve and knows the value of bending and compromising.

I got to go get some more supplies from Save-A-Lot so I may stop back in during the commercials of the BET awards if Terry keep the company busy baby.

@Marquis

“That must be an old interview, because he’s currently married to a black woman. Dispite popular belief, some blackmen evolve and knows the value of bending and compromising.”

The interview was from 2006, and I think it’s the same one I read years ago when I made the decision not to support the project. He’s married to a black woman? *shrugs* I hope he got rid of the chip.

um those last 3 pics are defintly from klhoes 24th birthday. this year was her 25th birthday

@less than zero

You are really not making any sense.You are say that I have been on here all day and then tell someone else that they are not going to change Kigali’s mind but what you fail to mention is that Kigali has been on this since twelve O’clock and hasnt left…….any thoughts on that? Kigali blows up every Kardashian thread you rarely see me comment like this so whats really your point?

@LadyStar:

Thank you for changing your gravie. (repeat infinite times)

*bowing*

See, I think SOME black men refuse to take responsibility for there mess. How can he say 65-70% of the issues are on the black woman’s shoulders? Men, please know your place and take it as it relates to our community. No one is telling brothers to sell drugs, kill one another, have babies out of wedlock (and for you guys that think you do not have any responsibility with that, you are sadly mistaken), not attending college like many black women ARE, and being good fathers to the children you help reproduce. Stand up, black men, and quit blaming. You guys are always talking about black women not taking responsibility for their plight. Man up, dammit. That’s the pot calling the kettle black. Maybe you guys just don’t know because many did not grow up with fathers or strong male role models in the home to teach you what you how to take that role.

A lot of black men have ego problems. They want a passive woman who will sit down, shut up and “let them be the man” meaning, I’m the king and you are my property. Just make sure that vagina is available when I want it and don’t give me any backtalk. How does he justify that black men are not equally, if not more responsible for the demise of the black community. They’re supposed to be MEN, not boys.

Oh, and let me add, if black people don’t think white women have issues, talk to some white men, baby. If white women or women of other races were SO perfect, how come they get dogged just like women all over the world? How come white men are going for Asian women? No woman holds the keys to perfection. No one, black men included, is perfect.

LEAVE ME ALOOOOOOOONE! THATS MY SHIT

so…peep the fine white guy’s face in the pic. lol! he looks disgusted…and fine.

Sydney

Oh c’mon! The Color Purple depicted most of the black men as either sexist, mysogynistic or weak and spineless and the Black women as long suffering (but) noble, independent and strong-willed…Trust, The Color Purple had a very Anti-Black Male, feminist agenda.

@Word to the Wise:

Very, very well said. Agree with you 100%.

Sometimes the truth hurts and everyone needs to take a look in the mirror because everyone has imperfections.

Playing the redundant blame game is old and tired. And an easy way to not change.

@heaven hollywood:

What?

@Marquis De Sade,

Have you heard of Alice Walkers daughter? She spilled the beans on her mama. Apparently she was a very absentee parent and resented having to be obligated to her. Now her daughter is happily married and they arent on speaking terms.

“@heaven hollywood:

What?”

LMAO

I was just going to ask, um, translation please?

@Truth Be Told,

Indeed I am a black woman. I consider myself a pretty good black woman who values marriage, commitment, loyalty, vows, children, family, education, patience, gun ownership, traditional religious beliefs, and am anti abortion.

I believe most black men can agree about the virtues of the above. Black females dont because the feminist agenda wants all the rights for women but none of the responsibilities. MArriage is opprestion, children are a burden, families stunt your career growth, abortion allows you to be reckless, etc.

*translation, please*

@Kigali

“I Just Cant Stop Loving you.
In cant help it.
Butterflies
Off the Wall
I wanna Rock with you
Baby be mine
PYT
The Lady in my life
Dont stop till you get enough”

I love all those, too. I’m glad I bought the anniversary edition of Thriller years ago. Off the Wall is my second favorite MJ album (or it may be closer to a draw).

@Truth be Told:

You’re asking questions that you’re only going to get some round-about redundant rhetoric answer to.

When you come at it/her/him like that, it/she/he only finds a clever way of exiting the post. Well, maybe not a clever as going to Wal-Mart. lol

I see the bafoonery known as the BET Awards is kicking off in normal fashion. I turned it to the channel expecting a respectable tribute to Michael Jackson and within minutes I was subjected to the same old tacky garbage they broadcast routinely! Just my opinion…

Who here can tell me the percentage of blacks who date interracially and those that date within the race? Does anyone have that information because some of the people on this thread make it seem as though the majority of black men aren’t attracted to and date/marry black women at all anymore.

Wow, those of you carrying on with this argument really need to step out from behind the computer, go outside in the real world and open your eyes. The black population is so much larger than the African American population.

If Kadarshians like black men and black men like them so the F what? Bottom line is this, if you are a black woman and you look good you will never have a problem getting attention from men, especially black men. If you are attractive, men will chase after you anywhere you go in the world, PERIOD. In the overall scope of things an attractive black women doesn’t even miss black men who don’t date black because they have so many men comming at them everyday.

Even if you’re unattractive why worry about a shortage? The reality is you probably wouldn’t have gotten those guys anyway.

Im about to pop me a percocet and vicodin and lmwao at the awards show.

@ Kigali,

is there a possibility that since those negative characteristics of which you speak do not apply to you that there may also be others to whom they do not apply?

Do they plan to bury Jacko anytime during the coming weeks?

@ truth be told

well played.

i compare the life of a black man to micheal jacksons life.they love you then they hate you.everyone everything is agaist us,even our woman.black men can win in this world.just like micheal.

@Oshie:

So how was that tan by the poolside? *raised eyebrow*

Not sure about Mike’s burial arrangements. Last I read, the Jackson family was requesting a second autopsy. So, that burial may be postponed.

Could have been an update though…….

*cant

yoshie

dont start no shit!

mummify mike!like the pherohs of egypt

The awards show is starting — They have New Edition doing ABC!

im a black man and since there is no black men in this thread,i will speak for the multitude of my kind

Wait, is that Bobby on stage?

@ heaven hollywood:

Do you want an award for being the most loving and dedicated fan?

Okay, we get it. And no one has a problem with that.

Are your parents monitoring your computer?

Pharohs, not pherohs.

Bye Sydney. I’m on the West Coast, so I won’t see the BET Awards for another 3 hours. I don’t want y’all ruining any surprises. Stay Sweet.

thanx marquis

im missing the award show due to employment puposes.can some one fill me in?

Oh, sorry, Marquis. I’ll stop.

Ma Ma Se, Ma Ma Sa, Ma Ma Coo Sa
Ma Ma Se, Ma Ma Sa, Ma Ma Coo Sa…..

hey sidney

do you think when micheal made the song “dirty diana” he was talking about diana ross

Sydney

“LOL, OK, so it’s safe to say that you didn’t like the film? Let me ask you, did you come across any sistas who told you that The Color Purple made them view brothers diffferently?”

Are you kidding? The Color Purple was like a three hour long validation of all of the 80′s version of the “BLACK MEN AIN’T SHIT” Oprah show. I’m sure you’re aware of earlier shows before she mellowed out?

*aware of her earlier shows*

@Marquis De Sade:
@*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOdoe*..

Actually, its….Pharaoh or Pharaohs.

Hey Sydney, no girl, no! Don’t tell those of us on the West Coast what’s happening, baby girl

@ Kami all day

I think you’re right about Kigali. I guess she prefers not to entertain any mode of thought which might suggest that her theories about black women aren’t airtight.

She doesn’t have to answer though because we already know the answer. If she is different that means the rule does not apply 100% of the time; the theory is flawed. The question then becomes what percentage of the time does it apply?

Your theory is flawed kigali and you know it. You claim that your arguments are constructive but they’re not. You do not consistently point out these short comming in some black women to be constructive, you do it to feed into the hatred that you have inside you.

Not to sound all mystical but those of us who see with spiritual eyes can see that yours is poluted. You cannot harbor that kind of resentment that you do without it spilling over into your life and affecting people you come into contact with. Negative energy is energy all the same and it WILL be transferred.

I think you know that your rantings on the internet will not get rid of the pain or the emptiness that you feel. Real talk, you need to get to the root of your issues, acknowledge and take responsibility where you need to, accept that people are not perfect, and are ultimately going to do what feels right for them even if its wrong. Maybe then you wouldn’t be so bothered by what other people do. They have their own demons to face and their own judgement and you have yours.

thanx kami

i knew marquis wasnt as smart as he sounds.lol

sydney

thanx for the info.im sorry if i got you in trouble,for ruin it for people on the west coast.

also sydney i think mike wrote that song about dirty mean spirited diana

@WordtotheWise

“Hey Sydney, no girl, no! Don’t tell those of us on the West Coast what’s happening, baby girl”

I’m sorry, girl. I forgot about you West Coasters.

I’m not going to make it through this with dry eyes. I know that now.

@Mocars

“also sydney i think mike wrote that song about dirty mean spirited diana”

I just looked on Wiki, and it says that Quincy Jones said the song is about groupies.

*grooving to more MJ*

Yeah, I’ve been noticing that the Kardashian girls like to hang out with black folks. Nothing wrong with that, I thing that’s cool.

@Truth be told:

She doesnt like debating with people who have a equal chance of posing thought-provoking questions, as well as pointing out her flaws in some of her accusations. I mean, she does this as well, to other people on board. So…..like the old saying goes…..if you cant take the heat?

Do what?

You already know. And I see she knows too, which is why she left. Who knows, she may reappear later on when the people who really challenge her and knock down some theories, are alseep. And the kids are up…..

Sydney>>>That’s okay sweetie. Yeah, I can imagine a whole lotta people (including me) will be crying. So far is the show any good?

@.*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOdoe*..

LOL….not a problem. I knew it STILL didnt look right.

I want to write a letter to BET.

sydney
oh thanks for clearing that up for me

kami
lol. doesnt it have an e in it

@ word to the wise
I’m almost 46 years old and I’ve lived a long time and been around a lot of men. I don’t claim to know what ALL men want, but I know enough to make that statement, and can guarantee that my assessment is correct. I didn’t say ALL men feel that way nor am I stating that men of other races don’t have the same mentality; however, I’m speaking of black men since I’m a black woman. All you have to do is listen to them talk and they tell on themselves.

No disrespect at all ma’am, but you’re twice my age. The dating scene is much different now. My generation’s mentality is somewhat different. Everyone has a hidden agenda nowadays. But with that said, my mother is almost your age, and I can honestly say, they dont make black women like they used to. I guess you can say the same for black men. Maybe. But a lot black men do fit your description.

And that’s solely the black woman’s responsibility. Like you said, they wouldn’t be able to get ANY woman if ALL women raised their standards. 1) Some of these thugs, drug dealers, and other criminals are dating white, Latina, and Asian women. The last time I checked, these women were some of the biggest chasers of hard, thuggish men; 2) It is not my or any other person’s responsibility to change these men. This is the reason I think they are so messed up. Women baby them too much. They are grown and need to take responsibility for their lives. Period. You can’t change anyone who doesn’t want to be changed. What about thuggish men who were raised by upstanding women? What’s their excuse? Are you picking up what I’m putting down?

Now I cant speak for the dating scene of the inner cities, I spent my 23 years on the “tough” suburban streets of Cali, but the “thugs” or wanna be thugs aren’t getting any action/attention from women of other races. You just dont see it anymore. So, when was the last time you checked? Because women of other races dont “chase” thugs. They may chase money just like black women do, but not thugs. IMO, the less popular “gangsta rap” became, the more women of other races ignored the thugs. Thats just what I see on the scene in southern CA… You’re right it’s not your responsibilty to change those sub-human/thug’s lifestyle but when black women make the decision to get with these men, it sends the message that their lifestyle is acceptable. IMO, they’re a lost cause, and they deserve to get looked down upon by society… But black women with still sleep and have babies with these “thuggish” men. Why is that?

LMWAO

Sydney>>>Shameful. That’s all I can say – shameful.

@WordtotheWise

I just can’t get T-Pain’s “Big A** Chain” out of my head. I guess I should have known better. BET is known for buffoonery and why should that change because a little thing like the King of Pop passing happened? The shuckin’ and jivin’ must go on.

@blacks are dumb in general

I agree with you but most people will think I actually typed your comment. LMWAO

WHY IS THIS PRICK ”KIGALI” PRETENDING TO BE A BLACK WOMAN??? LOOOOL….HOW SAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Black, White, Asian, Hispanic all women need to stop acting like HOES! It is so rare to find a lady with class and dignity these days.

if i was her i wouldnt tell ANYBODY i JUST turned 24 that beyotch look 44!!!!! dayum she look old hell i just turn 25 and still look 18 this beyotch look older the they mom and kim she look RUFF!

A bunch of mohawks and guys wearing skinny jeans, people please slap anyone you see with a mohawk and or skinny jeans let stop this madness.

@ natural

your rant makes no sense, im not black but i found your comment to be kind of moronic, you’re blaming black women for the reason why black men like women of other races…that’s like saying black men are perfect and need to be with other perfect women and that black women just arent’ good enough. I’ve seen alot of screwed up black men out there, how many educated, decent, no baby having black men are out there? How many black men have a university degree and didn’t have any kids out of wedlock? You thin it’s only black women? I think more unwed black men are fathers than black women.

women stop dating thugs and stop complaining period. thugs are seasonal just as rappers are.

Upgrade or don’t complain!!!!!

Why it seem like reggie gets more publicity by being with her now. It’s like she is the celeb and he tries to stick his face in the pic…lol!!! All that training he did to make it in the leagues and all she did was hump ray j and eat to pay for a fat butt…lol!!!

It must be like heaven for these nuccas who believe in their hearts that a woman of color is just not good enough for them or their so-called success. They were probably walking around singing “Its raining snow bunnies, hallelejah!”

***ATTENTION***

Would you guys just please IGNORE the posters who are OBVIOUSLY plants or, because they are so very sad, have nothing better to do than to come on a predominantly black website, wait for swirl-like topics, hope to GOD that a possible BW will simply express their OPINION – yes “opinion” something that everyone has you wish it meant automatically “hate”, so that they can bash them.

You should seriously be able to spot them by now – always lurking on a thread that involves a non-BW or a swirl topic, practically drooling, saying dumb sh!t like “I wonder what the bitter BW will have to say about this!”

My goodness, just think for a second. Does it really add up that they don’t care about BW or “the swirl” and don’t understand SOME of the possible frustration that some BW, etc. feel, yet they’re up here EVERYDAY, spewing the same old dumb, tired sh!t? THEY’RE PROBABLY NOT EVEN REAL PEOPLE! No, not because of a difference of opinion but because their actions are too asinine to be coming from a person who “doesn’t care about this ‘nonsense’” and thinks it’s “completely ridiculous.”

That’s like me going onto a White Pride website, all up in theirs talking sh!t, while operating under the guise “trying to convince them to see things eqaully” **sarcasm** Like, really? What are you trying to prove? Have your current methods been working out for you? Dang, they’d get a little more respect if they just admitted that they simply like to instigate – oh, wait, nah, then that tactic wouldn’t work so well now would it?

Bottom line: JUST IGNORE THEM! THEY COUNT ON YOUR RESPONSES TO EITHER VALIDATE THEMSELVES IN LIFE OR UP THE TOPIC COUNT – IT’S ONE OR THE OTHER. TRUST.

@ natural:

EXACTLY! Thank you!!!

***SERIOUS RETRACTION!***: I meant @ ummm: EXACTLY! THANK YOU!!!

Why this post got so many comments? I thought it was Kim everyone hated.

Khloe seems alright to me, but I guess since everybody hates her sister, and she likes brothas too, that makes the spittin the venom ok.

WordtotheWise said:

“And that’s solely the black woman’s responsibility. Like you said, they wouldn’t be able to get ANY woman if ALL women raised their standards. 1) Some of these thugs, drug dealers, and other criminals are dating white, Latina, and Asian women. The last time I checked, these women were some of the biggest chasers of hard, thuggish men; 2) It is not my or any other person’s responsibility to change these men. This is the reason I think they are so messed up. Women baby them too much. They are grown and need to take responsibility for their lives. Period. You can’t change anyone who doesn’t want to be changed. What about thuggish men who were raised by upstanding women? What’s their excuse? Are you picking up what I’m putting down?”

This? Is the truth. Now I do agree that BW should raise their standards- for the sake of THEMSELVES but to say that this is the reason grown-azz BM act the way they do, is essentially shifting blame to another group of ppl…WHO ARE NOT RESPNSIBLE FOR ANOTHER GROWN PERSON’S ACTIONS.

That’s just as ignorant as saying that just because a woman/man is “letting” (meaning not leaving them for one reason or the other) their partner abuse them, it cancels out the fact that 1) the abuser knows better/knows right from wrong 2) that the ABUSER is an a-hole for doing it in the first place. C’mon now, They. Are. Grown. And they are gonna do what they want, especially if they’re consciously dating outside of their race.

Besides, doesn’t it dawn on you that the only thing that would happen (and this is NOT saying that BW shouldn’t strives for someone on their level – for the sake of themselves and their children is that SOME BM would simply squeal with glee that they could add something onto why they “can’t” date BW? Of course they’d skip straight from saying BW are desperate to “Oh she wants someone who has higher standards? GOLDDIGGER!!!” See that’s just called “WILLFUL IGNORANCE.”
Once again, the ones who make it a point to IR date do it because of their OWN issues, just like anyone else who discriminates against others, not because of the couple of “negative” experiences they’ve had with the COUPLE of BW they’ve been with and like WordotheWise said to women of ALL races do that “bad boy” thing.

For all that this applies to:

Women: STOP pampering men and ONLY begin to treat them like royalty (i.e. catering to them, etc.) when they have shown that 1) they’d do the same 2) They actually DESERVE it (TCB at home, work, etc.).

Men: Stop acting like spoiled children who *”give up” after having to put in some work – while always wanting a “ride or die” for yourself. Seriously, WTF is that?

*”Give up” is in quotations because no one actually believes that some BM “giving up” BW – a WHOLE group of women – in your very own race – after dating like 3 of them LOL – is anything other than you looking for a reason to date outside, b/c you know GOOD and WELL that not everyone of a certain group are not all the same, if so you’d have to believe YOUR negative stereotypes, as well. Aside from that, you kinda loose all credibility on the What’s the problem?! Love is blind!” Tip when you’re constantly comparing, bashing and getting all irate when BW “swirl” If you have to keep sating your “reasons” for you dating whoever you want – not genuine. That goes BM AND BW “swirlers.”

@ ummm

I’m aware of the statistics of uneducated black men, and screwed up black men out there. Infact, there are more educated and well to do black women than black men. Black men date other ethnicity for various reasons, for status, ego, to have biracial children because they feel like it’s more accepted, get more publicity, like kim and Reggie,
some think non-black women treat them better than black women, and are more submissive, and attraction. All of these reasons are based on experiences and assumptions, does not mean it’s accurate or justified.

My point is we have emphasized on black men’s problems for many years, that we fail to look at black women’s problems. I’m coming from the perspective that, there are some black women out there who have opportunities to date decent black men, but went after drug dealers, pimps, rappers, thugs, has different baby mamas, has no job and then complain afterwards, and generalize black men. I feel like if black women don’t do that, black men will be forced to get themselves together. There are black women out there who won’t date black men, if they don’t dress, talk, look, act or carry themselves a certain way.

I’m a black girl, and I’m just going to keep it real whether people agree with it or not. I know many black men including my brothers who are highly educated, who say they feel like many black girls have bad attitudes, don’t know how to treat and respect their men, they have problem with been submissive, and want to wear the pant, thinking that’s how to be a strong black woman. So, some of these men date or marry non-black women, not because they think black women are not good enough, but they go with whoever they feel more comfortable with. That’s the reason I also said black women need to get themselves together.

It will be senseless of me to think black men are perfect, need to date other perfect women, and black women are not good enough. If that’s the case, then there won’t be Barack and Michelle Obama, and many others out there.

I have no problem with black people, I just can stand people who try to be black!!

Khloe is 25 and these are old pics!
Who cares who she hangs out with!