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ridic….

Platinum Plus, Live from Cashville.

I hope the sister isn’t just blaming the ex-boyfriend KEITH just to cover her sister’s insanity.

damn shame….

I killed Steve McNair!!!

Autopsy will show if she had gun powder on her hands.

@ Hannibal

See it’s ignorant comments like your that has innocent people catching cases. Why would you say some stupid stuff like that.

If the cops came knocking at your door right now you’d prah-lee be hollering, snotting and fart trying to get away. LOL

I recommend you a nice milionaire dating site __Rich Flirts.c o m__. Whenever I chat with my friends on this site, I feel really relaxed and happy. They are easygoing and honest. I enjoy staying on the site. Hope you can find more nice rich friends there. Good luck to you.

Why couldn’t this have been Tom Brady?!

@1st Lady

Your next you ugly tramp!

Is she insinuating that his wife had something to do with this??? Who’s the “jealous people in his life”? hmmm

My heart goes out to his wife and kids. This is really sad but i heard that it was a murder suicide. Married men should really keep it at home or keep it real with their jump offs so that they don’t start thinking that they are more than just a n*t

@ Hannibal Oooo (tramp) I see you know big words. You don’t like yourself very well do you, Slob? Just remember this… STOP, DROP and ROLL doesn’t work in hell.

She ain’t even that cute… SMH

I know I’m dead wrong, but I’m just saying though…

My God, how his wife must be feeling right now. Terrible.

She killed him those dam middle eastern people are known for killing others and themselves

I ain’t buying no broad that looks like that no condo or Escalade…

I don’t know, maybe it’s just me… SMH

I know I’m dead wrong, but I’m just saying though…

…just tellin the truth on this mutha suka………

She could never hurt any1??? hER The affair her and the cheater rip chose to have hurt his wife. As a married woman I could not possibly imagine how his wife feels. What an emotional rollercoaster she must be on!!! Do you grieve the husband you lost or are you p.o’ed that he died while cheating on you. I feel for the man and all but im not that interested in the details about how he died because if he was at home this would not have happened. I feel deep sympothy for the pain he left his family in. A WIDOWED WIFE, A CHILD WHO’LL NEVER GET THE CHANCE TO KNOW THEIR FATHER. JUST AWFUL ALL FOR WHAT. LORD KNOWS I WOULD PROBABLY BE IN THE PEN IF MY HUSBAND EVA PULLS A STUNT LIKE THAT. NEWS FLASH TO ALL HOMEWRECKERS IF HE’S MARRIED AND SAYS HE’S GETTING A DIVORCE HAVE ENOUGH SELF RESPECT TO TELL HIM TO GET @ YOU WHEN HE’S SINGLE. shouts out to a. keys

rip s.m and company

@Marquis de Sade You’re so funny but don’t take it too far!! The swirl is cool, my fam has been doing it for years so get over that WE’LL LIVE OK. Get your swirl on!! Don’t let em’ see you sweat. It’s cool. If that’s the biggest problem we don’t have a problem.

I think that it is a shame that her sister is trying say that she believes his wife had something to do with it………point blank the girl should not have been dating a married man, both of them were wrong as two left shoes, and I dont feel like they deserved to die but, both of them knew better, her sister just doesnt want to think that she would do something like that……you cant put anything pass nobody. Just like there affair came to light whatever happened will come to light also . Pray for his wife and children they are the real victims.

@MRS. BOOSE
“She could never hurt any1??? hER The affair her and the cheater rip chose to have hurt his wife. As a married woman I could not possibly imagine how his wife feels. What an emotional rollercoaster she must be on!!! Do you grieve the husband you lost or are you p.o’ed that he died while cheating on you. I feel for the man and all but im not that interested in the details about how he died because if he was at home this would not have happened. I feel deep sympothy for the pain he left his family in. A WIDOWED WIFE, A CHILD WHO’LL NEVER GET THE CHANCE TO KNOW THEIR FATHER. JUST AWFUL ALL FOR WHAT. LORD KNOWS I WOULD PROBABLY BE IN THE PEN IF MY HUSBAND EVA PULLS A STUNT LIKE THAT. NEWS FLASH TO ALL HOMEWRECKERS IF HE’S MARRIED AND SAYS HE’S GETTING A DIVORCE HAVE ENOUGH SELF RESPECT TO TELL HIM TO GET @ YOU WHEN HE’S SINGLE. shouts out to a. keys

rip s.m and company
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He was seperated from his wife. She prolly sittin back waitin on the money to roll in.

That jumpoff was the plainest looking broad ever. And to think Steve brought her an escalade and a condo when it is more than obvious that she was a hit it and quit with the lights off or maybe just in the backseat type of chick..and now all due to this broad here he lost his life.
All over some pale skin and free cooch, SMDH

@Hannibal

No wonder you’re retarded @ss at home, broke down bum? You’re stupid. HA! The devil’s mad now!!! Big dummy!

Bottom line in my opinion he was playing this girl and his wife. He was tryng to have his cake and eat it too.

@PAM
“WHEN WILL BLACK MEN LEARN?”
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Learn what?

@1st Lady

It’s not nice to call people names! So apologize and then go clean the house like a woman is supposed to!

@ Marquis de Sade

ur str8 dumb most of you lames who date white woman posess no attractions so i thank them b/c the breed of you are usually worthless, lowself esteem rejects who need something to make them feel like their lives are relevant. who need to feel superior over someone. When ur not an athlete r a black man with money you know a common old nigra u date white woman cuz no black woman wants you kinda like wesley snipes befor he made it big. he kept it real and let it be know no black woman wanted him. If white woman r ur preferance do you who really cares. i find it hard to believe that any woman would be @ ur door boyocotting who you chose to date. so if you can find a pink booty who will give u the time of day i say go ahead. cuz tha only time u get from a sista is to set ur dumb a** str8. u dont know how dumb u sound r do u?

p.s you know what they say about men who use to many big words they are compensating for the lack of size in other areas. how long did ya surf the web dictionary to write that lil paragraph?

One of my co-workers just told me, that she read one of the bullets that hit him went through him and hit her?!?!?!?!

Ok CSI people, does that make any sense???

@BG

We must teach these females, the only right they have is the right to remain silent!

Hope his wife had the double indemnity insurance policy.

@Hannibal

Do you want a job? I can use an extra beeeaaaachhh, I mean made to clean my 5 bdroom 3 bathroom home.

I’m done play with you. Young’n. You’ve got to be a child. I’m sorry for your momma.

Come on everybody! Did you ever stop to think that the lady might have been his tutor?!

this is crazy…cant play with people emotions..stay considerate of others man. some people approching love issues fighting, crying, or shooting. never know til its to late. its sad we never know til its to late.

Was he married to his wife at the time of the murder? Were they going to get a divorce? What was the status of him and his wife?

sounds like a EX involved maybe, jealous ex at that. gotta detach urself from old feelings and people before starting somthing new peoples..

People need to stop getting so emtional about other people’s comments/opinions. That’s WHAT THIS FORUM IS FOR. Anyway, like I said yesterday I feel sorry for his wife. I seriously doubt he was “about to divorce his wife.” The man was trying to get it in on the side like most professional athletes and things got out of control. I think its disgusting that he bought her a car while he was married to another woman. How disrespectful to his wife and family.

@ Man I just don’t care- you could elaborate on the relationships that the black men I listed had with black women and EVERY SINGLE ONE of the men started cheating with the white women who only found them attractive ONCE that black man had money while the SISTER was there from love from DAY ONE b4 that BLACK MAN blew up- so yes MONEY is a BIG FACTOR to the PALE Skin women who LOVE to set their sites on dating MARRIED ATHLETES especially the BLACK ONES.

You can try argue the money point with me all you want but PLEASE BE SURE THAT PALE SKIN women are ALL about the money. Count on your hands how many pale skins give black men the time of day when they are on the bus at a fast food restaurant and then compare that to the pale skins sweating you AFTER you are on the corporate level and riding in a luxury vehicle?

Yep- Pale skins love black men for themselves and NOT the money.

@ Man, I just don’t care™

If they were seperated then thats a different tale. I guess he had the liberty to do him just as she was liberated to do her. If i were single and i meet a man going through a divorce I would have to pass no matter what his $ status is. if tha fella is legally still binded then tha girl is roll’n out. but now adays so many broads are chacing tha $ and fame that she may have been scared that if she didnt jump on him someone else would.

His wife may not be grieving after all then huh?

Sad.

Marquis de Sade

Go kill yourself, ugh.

@sloppy seconds
i have agree with you –
all the white girls that these blackman date marry always bring them down always and it will never stop

@303
“i have agree with you –
all the white girls that these blackman date marry always bring them down always and it will never stop”
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So what’s the problem? I mean, don’t you think they KNOW this too and willing accept it?

If THEY accept it, why can’t everyone else?

damn!! y’all goin’ in.
most total yards in ncaa history-17K+
averaged 450+ yds. a game-ncaa record too…
haters get a life

@ Man I just don’t Care:
I am going to have to say it again…there was no seperation, he did not intend to divorce his wife, he was always cheating, that jumpoff was not the only one he had, that jumpoff wasnt EVEN the only one to live in that APARTMENT building, her and stever were NOT a couple, Steve did not date her openly, they were never out on a date…she always attended events with her GIRLS and had to leave if his wife also attended. Steve still lived with his wife and the only other address was that condo he rented with a friend, LMAO!
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I live there, party there and KNOW what I am talking about.

Please tell me why you keep trying to claim he was seperated/divorcing his wife just because the jumpoff feed that line to her family? PLEASE she knew not to EVER approach Steve in public but that was the man she was dating- LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!
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Steve did what so many men do, cheat with the ho’s and go home to his wife.

Yo the Real ME IS OUT!!! HOLLA

@MRS. BOOSE
“If they were seperated then thats a different tale. I guess he had the liberty to do him just as she was liberated to do her. If i were single and i meet a man going through a divorce I would have to pass no matter what his $ status is. if tha fella is legally still binded then tha girl is roll’n out. but now adays so many broads are chacing tha $ and fame that she may have been scared that if she didnt jump on him someone else would.

His wife may not be grieving after all then huh?”
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She laughin all the way to the bank. Plus she will get Steve’s NFL Pension. In case you are wondering, that’s what OJ lived off of after the Civil Trial made him “lose” his money. He was still livin in mansions and travelin all over the place and shit.

And OJ played back in the day so his pension wouldn’t be a fraction of Steve McNair’s.

She ain’t worried one damn bit. TRUST.

@ marquis
what do you do when the white chick gets all old and wrinkley?
do you still sport them?

She probably set him up and they had to get rid of her aswell.

This is the wife’s fault! How dare she be so stupid not know that Steve was going to cheat because he is a professional athlete! How dare you people blame Steve! R.I.P.!

@ Man I just don’t care- Please do not address me as Boo.

The point is made that Black Women stand by and support their men while that man is building a career. Golddiggers swoop in afterwards only long enough to reap the rewards. Too many black men fall for the new new especially if it is pale, while becoming victim to the game while neglecting the Black Woman who held him down when times were tough.

For the ignorant posters such as Hannibal, Kigali and other Black Woman haters- I hope you find love and erternal happiness with your pale skin woman.

@SLOPPY SECONDS

Um… the relationship was over because he was “cheating” on her for one. LOL. He was starting to “take care of” this chick. Again, how did Steve’s friends know about the affair and the wife didn’t?

The people at the apartment complex stated that they were aware of it and recalled seeing him frequently there!! What other evidence do you need?

The wife was just holding on to her meal ticket. No more, no less.

@1st Lady

I’m the man, I own you, ho! Now get on your knees and do what women were put on this Earth to do!!!

@midc
She wasnt holding on to her meal ticket-she was trying to hold on to her family…

It was murder/suicide. The relationship had gotten public and Steve was ending it or chilling with it, she smelled the kiss off and ended him and herself. The family never wants to accept the truth.

Steve was a good man who got caught let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

“Um… the relationship was over because he was “cheating” on her for one. LOL. He was starting to “take care of” this chick. Again, how did Steve’s friends know about the affair and the wife didn’t?

The people at the apartment complex stated that they were aware of it and recalled seeing him frequently there!! What other evidence do you need?”

again how does all this translate into the wife had to know? he told his boys and naturally the neighbors are going ot know cause they see him going in. your not explaining how all this means the wife knew. and you sound so stupid and bitter trying to make this dead point.

@HAND-ABLE (hannibal) LOL I guess you screen name explains what you throughout the day. LOL

I’ll whip you’re punk-a$$ until you open up. You get lumped up because of your mouth. Poot-butt kid!

@Hannibal

How Clayton doing?

@JOHN HOPE FRANKLIN
“She wasnt holding on to her meal ticket-she was trying to hold on to her family”
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LOL Sure she was. Her “family” wasn’t going to go anywhere. She was holding on to that money and nothing else.

There is nothing wrong with that either.

“The point is made that Black Women stand by and support their men while that man is building a career. Golddiggers swoop in afterwards only long enough to reap the rewards. Too many black men fall for the new new especially if it is pale, while becoming victim to the game while neglecting the Black Woman who held him down when times were tough.”

but isn’t it funny how its the sista who always gets called the golddigger?

@stefany,
A nanny is a decent and honest profession. I have a friend overseas who is a nanny, she is studying to get her degree in child pyschology and she makes good money. Maybe it was the fact that Tiger Woods wife was a “white” nanny that bothered you….

@1st Lady

Stop calling me names!!! I’ve been very nice today and you just tryin to make me mad! I will Chris-Brown a chick!

“Um. I NEVER said one bad word about his wife. Not one. I agree, she is victim as far as the murder is concerned.”

all you are doing is putting her down. talking about how she doesn’t care and she’s laughing all the way to the bank and her marriage must have been over and apparently he was finding someone better and all that ignorant garbage. this woman and her kids are the ONLY victims here.

“Obviously, Steve found something lacking at home and sought it out elsewhere and ended their relationship. There is nothing wrong with that.”

and OBVIOUSLY be paid dearly for finding someone else while he was still married.

she look like osama bin ladin ‘s folks

@ treez
lol!!!

@DA HONEST TRUTH
“all you are doing is putting her down. talking about how she doesn’t care and she’s laughing all the way to the bank and her marriage must have been over and apparently he was finding someone better and all that ignorant garbage. this woman and her kids are the ONLY victims here.

“Obviously, Steve found something lacking at home and sought it out elsewhere and ended their relationship. There is nothing wrong with that.”

and OBVIOUSLY be paid dearly for finding someone else while he was still married.”
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Well, if telling the truth is a “put down” then so be it. I don’t know what else to tell you. He was murdered for a senseless reason like thousand of people all over the world everyday. He just happen to be more famous.

She will get his money and the kids will be takin care of if that is any consolation to this story.

“Well, if telling the truth is a “put down” then so be it. I don’t know what else to tell you. He was murdered for a senseless reason like thousand of people all over the world everyday. He just happen to be more famous.

She will get his money and the kids will be takin care of if that is any consolation to this story.”

he got his and hopefully his family will get theirs now too. i hope they spend his money with prode. the wife shold go out and buy herself a few Escalades just to make up for the one he brought his murderer – i mean mistress.

I care not for McNair…only for his family.

His accomplishments mean nothing now. Now when you think McNair, you think of this incident…not of the things he’s achieved or the charities he’s donated to…

Men, stop thinking with the little head…

Diamondcenter STFU you people are known for carrying the deadliest of diseases and do the research on which group of women have the highest rate of new HIV cases!! Ughh

Men, stop thinking with the little head…
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LOL. Yeah right….

@DA HONEST TRUTH
“he got his and hopefully his family will get theirs now too. i hope they spend his money with prode. the wife shold go out and buy herself a few Escalades just to make up for the one he brought his murderer – i mean mistress.”
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I hope so too. I’m sure she’s releived that the divorce didn’t happen. If it did she was gonna have to really budget her money.

Michael Jordan, Kobe Bryant, Charles Barkley,Steve McNair, OJ Simpson, Tiger Woods, Reggie Bush, Tony Parker, etc….

What do all these rich black men have in common????

@FAKE OSHIE
“Michael Jordan, Kobe Bryant, Charles Barkley,Steve McNair, OJ Simpson, Tiger Woods, Reggie Bush, Tony Parker, etc….

What do all these rich black men have in common????”
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They are all great athletes.
(except for Tony Parker gay ass. LOL)

“Diamondcenter STFU you people are known for carrying the deadliest of diseases and do the research on which group of women have the highest rate of new HIV cases!! Ughh”

with the white woman in a close second. i guess thats what happens when you sleep with black men or who do you think these black and white women are sleeping with? but im gonna leave it at that cause i have trouble believing your a white woman and i wont be in here putting white women down if they are innocent of your ignorant comments. you post just like a bitter black man.

Diamondcenter white people have the smarts to buy and actually wear condoms! When faced with tough decisions such as buy condoms or a box of Newports, well you already know what black people do! LMWAO

@DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My SWAG On

not as sad as the ignorance in this post makes me makes me for our race. you chastised her for ignorance with 10 times the ignorance you claim she showed in her comment. you talk about her bringing the race down with her words. what did you just do – uplift us? sad…….
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I just gave you the honest truth…I gave it to her so real b/c that is the only talk she understands. The time for uplifting ignorance in our community is over…It’s time for guerrilla warfare on the ignorance in our community.

@stefany,
A nanny is a decent and honest profession. I have a friend overseas who is a nanny, she is studying to get her degree in child pyschology and she makes good money. Maybe it was the fact that Tiger Woods wife was a “white” nanny that bothered you….
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@Sanjor**Always Stealing A Moment of Pleasure With My Black Husband

At least your friend is in school trying to make something out of herself. I’m sure she doesn’t plan on being a nanny for life.

Is that bilbo baggins i see….

“I’m sure his wife tried but she failed to make him content. It happens sometimes.”

i wonder how “content” his cheating behind was when he looked up and saw his mistress standing over him with that gun pointed at his head.

“Michael Jordan, Kobe Bryant, Charles Barkley,Steve McNair, OJ Simpson, Tiger Woods, Reggie Bush, Tony Parker, etc….”
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Tiger Woods wife is a straight up dime too.

LOL @ ppl in this room changing their names in order to agree with the comment they just wrote,just by looking at the thread,you can see who keeps on changing their names. SMH

White women need to stay away from these black gorillas. Nothing good will come out of a relationship with a black monkey. All they care about is money, violence and sex. They have no dignity, no pride and no self-worth. They are useless animals and inviting them into your life is like inviting misfortune.

Oshie,
hey sweety, how’s it going? I’m bored in class lol I hate summer school lol

kisses
*prettywhitegirl*

-Black men, stop hollering at me. It won’t happen.

@PrettyWhiteGirl

*high fives*

@WHITE GIRL
“White women need to stay away from these black gorillas. Nothing good will come out of a relationship with a black monkey. All they care about is money, violence and sex. They have no dignity, no pride and no self-worth. They are useless animals and inviting them into your life is like inviting misfortune.

Oshie,
hey sweety, how’s it going? I’m bored in class lol I hate summer school lol

kisses
*prettywhitegirl*

-Black men, stop hollering at me. It won’t happen.”
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Come on… you know you would open wide for enough money!!

money = female v i a g r a!

Tiger Woods wife is a straight up dime too.
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A dime you can find at your local Wal-Mart.

The wife about to get everything for all the pain and suffering. That girl he was cheating with will be known as a mistress and that is it. The wife will even get the escalade he purchased for the jump off.

*** hello are ther anywhite ppl there? did I say something wrong? lololol awweee dont leave.I so agree with (pwg)

@STEFFANY
“Tiger Woods wife is a straight up dime too.
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A dime you can find at your local Wal-Mart.”
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A bunch of dudes would go to that Wal-Mart. LOL.

Not that there is anything wrong with a fine hoe being at Wal-Mart. Just shows she is “thrifty” with her money AND she is a dime piece.

STEFANY

Tiger Woods wife is a straight up dime too.
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A dime you can find at your local Wal-Mart.

^5

Of course the boyfriend did it, did you read that fools myspace page?????? “Never let anything come between you and the one your love or you will lose everything” hmmmmm sounds like a killer to me, case closted tag em and bag em boys

@ Man I don’t care….
Um. I NEVER said one bad word about his wife. Not one. I agree, she is victim as far as the murder is concerned. Obviously, Steve found something lacking at home and sought it out elsewhere and ended their relationship. There is nothing wrong with that.
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Such Bullsh*t!! People don’t cheat because of their spouses….People cheat ie. men & women because of THEIR lack of ability to be faithful, lack of commitment to their spouses, lack of integrity towards relationships, lack of accountability to their relationships…..Stop blaming one’s inadequant behavior on the other person who is faithful….You sound just plain dumb with your hogwash theories…Hopefully you will never marry, because your wife will be miserable…Oh, I’m sure you will blame that on her too….

Marquis de Sade

“SO IN CLOSING, FEEL NO SORROW FOR STEVE MCNAIR’S WIDOW, FOR IT IS MIS-PLACED AND UNNECESSARY – SHE KNEW THE JOB WAS DANGEROUS WHEN SHE TOOK IT!”

Priceless.

lololololoolool….blah blah blah…so funny …cave creatures make me laugh

@ dimondcenter

woah = 0
ok i believe u’ve answered the question. a lil graphic but by george i think u’ve got it

@ PrettyWhitegirl

Sorry but white women don’t really do it for me or some of my brothers.
I don’t see what men of color find attractive about a pasty white female … truthfully I think you all look sick.

I like my women of color – Black women, Hispanic women and the like.

So you don’t have to worry about a true Black man hollering at your pasty white ass.

Sage

You and all other black gorilla in America should be shipped back to Africa.

kisses
*prettywhitegirl*

-Black men, stop hollering at me. It won’t happen.

What kind of “man” puts a picture of another man up as his picture? Sound suspect to me!

* my point * he would be alive if he kept it BLACK…deal with it!!!

The posters posing as white women are amusing to say the least — transparent but entertaining.

you originated from africa .dummy….check your history and your great grandmothers mouth****

Yall sound just like your pappy…….I knew you had it in ya ….I just had to bring it out!!!!

lolololol…..I looove being BLACK….I bet they are red in the face …like clowns….

PrettyWhiteGirl

I have a joke for you girl! How do you know Noah from Noah’s Ark was a white man????

Because no ni@@er could stay on a boat that long without eating the chickens! LMWAO

diamondcenter

It’s HAD IT IN YOU…not HAD IT IN YA. Blacks would never learn proper English, they should send you gorillas back to the jungle, where you belong.

kisses
*prettywhitegirl*

-Black men, stop hollering at me. It won’t happen.

SAD STUFF MAN.

@hannibal

Ok, hand-able. I’m done F’n with you. Hit me up if you need that job. Easy laid-back duties; you can even whistle while you work, reat benefits. I’m putting up a posting for ass-kisser right now. LOL With a dirty mouth like yours you’ve proven to be the boy for the job. HA!

I’m out. see ya hand-able.

“The posters posing as white women are amusing to say the least — transparent but entertaining. ”

thats what i’m saying. do they really htink noone can see right through this “white girl” game? thats why i caught myself and stopped making comments against white girls and trailer parks. i don’t believe these are white girls and its not fair to insult them if they are innocent.

He was just as dumb and stupid as she was.
Men if you’re going to date or cheat on your wives, please scope the chick out before you think to fall in love.

This is where the phase “love is blind” comes in at.

“If someone is content with something, they don’t risk losing it or trying to replace it.”

and they usually don’t end up dead at the hands of their side piece either. the female OJ! atleast she had the sense to take herself out too.

@pretty white girl….Your joke flopped!!!

On a serious note I do like black people! My great-grandfather used to let black people live on his property until he sold them! LMWAO

@MIJDC,
If he was content, he wouldn’t of ended the relationship with his wife and started dating someone else.

I’m sure his wife tried but she failed to make him content. It happens sometimes

**That’s an easy cop out a lot of people use. “He/She wasn’t holding down at home, so they are justified in betraying their vows”. Some people have no respect for the vows they take in marriage. If you no longer believe in the vows you took and don’t want to be in your marriage any longer, STEP UP AND BE A REAL MAN/WOMAN and divorce before committing adultery. I’m sure this man hurt his wife and he set a terrible example for his children.

“He was just as dumb and stupid as she was.
Men if you’re going to date or cheat on your wives, please scope the chick out before you think to fall in love.”

but i’m sure he bears the responsibility for her state of mind as well. not only is he feeding her a bunch of BS but he’s also apparently feeding her drugs which is what insiders are saying the whole OUI was about two days before she killed him. they rae saying that girl was driving under the influence of drugs. this is something else i don’t get. just like with OJ – what is the purpose of black men getting these young girls and stringing them out on drugs. is that supposed to keep these young girls dependent on his sorry butt? as if the cars and condos isn’t enough to keep them? wtf?

“On a serious note I do like black people! My great-grandfather used to let black people live on his property until he sold them! LMWAO”

- Oshie

lol lol lol lol lol lol lol
girl, that was so funny lol lol lol

Q: What do you call a black person on birth-control?
A: Crime prevention.

lol lol lol

@SANJOR
“**That’s an easy cop out a lot of people use. “He/She wasn’t holding down at home, so they are justified in betraying their vows”. Some people have no respect for the vows they take in marriage. If you no longer believe in the vows you took and don’t want to be in your marriage any longer, STEP UP AND BE A REAL MAN/WOMAN and divorce before committing adultery. I’m sure this man hurt his wife and he set a terrible example for his children.”
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I understand what you are saying but how can people deny that when someone cheats there is a problem in the relationship. It takes TWO people to make or break a relationship. It’s really that simple.

I will be back in about an hour of so, I have to go by social services to check on something real quick!

@PrettyWhiteGirl

Hold em off until I get back girl!

“I understand what you are saying but how can people deny that when someone cheats there is a problem in the relationship.”

very easily. men will tell you themselves they cheat for variety. its not always cause something is wrong with their mate. thats what weak men say to justify them being no good to anyone emotionally. rather than to blame himself for being inadequate he chooses to blame others. does that sound familiar black man, blaming others for your faults?

The posters posing as white women are amusing to say the least — transparent but entertaining.
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If those posters are not white women then you have a serious problem in the black American community.

Self-hatred at that level is unprecedented

It is far from entertaining but highly disturbing

@DaHonestTruth

“thats what i’m saying. do they really htink noone can see right through this “white girl” game? thats why i caught myself and stopped making comments against white girls and trailer parks. i don’t believe these are white girls and its not fair to insult them if they are innocent.”

Yeah, it’s pretty obvious that these posters are projecting caricatures of what they believe white women would say to blacks. I’m just amazed it’s working, lol.

@ PrettyWhitebytch

Q: What do you call a black person on birth-control?
A: Crime prevention.
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and this is EXACTLY why your dumb azz in in summer school…bytch get a grip. LOL..prob community college with your broke azz..and this is what my tax dollars is paying for? Lame corny jokes. Broke trailer park bytches make me sick.

The point is made that Black Women stand by and support their men while that man is building a career. Golddiggers swoop in afterwards only long enough to reap the rewards. Too many black men fall for the new new especially if it is pale, while becoming victim to the game while neglecting the Black Woman who held him down when times were tough.
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I.T.A. But, really, just think about it. I know this has been said countless times before but, THESE ARE THE ONES THAT YOU DON’T WANT ANYWAY. It’s kind of along the same lines of being with a cheater, or something or someone who doesn’t treat you well- scratch the surface and you really don’t want them anyway.

For people who just so happen to find love out side of their race, that’s great, more power to them! But for the ones who have “reasons” behind it and make it a point in doing so….while bashing women/men of their own race? Well, obviously, they have deep-rooted issues.

Think about it, it’s kinda like being with your current significant other…yet you STILL can’t keep going on about your ex – yeah, there’s DEFINATELY something wrong with the picture.

Bottom line, the clowns that feel the need to bash or list off epic novels as to why they can’t stand being with people of their….own race are better off with “the other” actually, no I feel sorry for “the other” too because they will have to deal with all of their partner’s complexes, as well.

@MIJDC,
I understand what you are saying but how can people deny that when someone cheats there is a problem in the relationship. It takes TWO people to make or break a relationship. It’s really that simple.

***That’s where communication and respect for your spouse comes in. If you aren’t happy and lacking something in your marriage, why not go to your spouse and talk to them about it? How is that other person ever going to know that maybe there is something he/she can do to improve their marriage if you don’t let them know? If my husband came to me and said he wasn’t happy and he wanted me to improve on something, I would appreciate it. I would have more respect for him coming to me instead of going out and committing adultery. If you are a moral man/woman who is married and having problems, talk with your spouse about it and if things can’t be worked out and all resources are exhausted, divorce. Don’t compound the matter by having an affair. It’s really that simple.

Cutie

Um, I am in the top university in the Minnesota and we rank 13th in the country. So you better shut your fly trap, you uneducated GORILLA. By the way, why is your username Cutie? have you ever seen a Cute GORILLA? no! change it.

@ candi and Sage

Noooo, they be looking like Children of the damn corn…scaring all kinds of people.

Cutie

Blacks are a waste of space in America. All they do is use our tax dollars to finance affirmative action. Yet, they are still dumb and can’t grasp the basic principles of academic English. We should ship you guys back to Africa or LY NCH you all. Either one…

Uglywhitebytch

YEAH…keep telling yourself that….you broke, dumb bytch.

okay just reading the resonses
kajal
man i don’t care
hannibal
marqis

I SEE WHY MEN GET CAUGHT CHEATING THEY ARE SOOOO DUMB…AND BELIEVE ME THE WIFE KNEW….SHE IS THE ONE GETTING THE REAL PAPER….OMG…CAN YA’LL BE THAT DUMB…..AND TO THE DUMMY THAT SAID HIS BOY KNOW WHY HIS WIFE DIDN’T ….THAT IS REALLY A DUMB AZZ STATEMENT…YOU REALLY GOT TO BE KIDING ME….I SEE WHY THE LORD DID YA’LL OVER AGAIN…JUST RE TARD ED….ONE WORD…

Please stop feeding the trolls!!

You are letting them get you riled up for nothing!

@PRETTYWHITE GIRL…BUT YOUR CRACKER BARREL AZZ IS ON A BLACK SITE IF THEY TAKE US BACK TO THE MOTHER LAND WHO WILL YA’LL SCREW…LOL..CUZ YA’LL WHITE DUDE DON’T KNOW WHAT IT’S HITTING FOR…LOL

DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My SWAG On said:

“but isn’t it funny how its the sista who always gets called the golddigger?”

I’ve been wondering about that nonsense for years. How the hell are BW getting labelled as “gold diggers” when they are the ones that are usually with brokes azzes before they get on…then, a lot of the time, gets dropped or cheated on. Where does this come from? Oh yeah, people who have issues and want to find reasons to hate on BW.

You ever notice how when a BW is easy (esp. the more “black” she is), she’s just a big ole “ho”, yet when they are non-clack esp. white, they’re labelled as “freaky, fun, free-spirited, etc.” Complex much?

Face it, you can’t save clowns that don’t wanna be saved. It’s called WILLFUL IGNORANCE.

WHOA! I need a nap after reading these comments. Some of you are just plain bitter and unhappy – whatever the reason, do some serious soul searching and mend whatever’s broken in your heart and spirit.

@ UGLYBROKE BYTCH

Bytch, I attend Emory. Look it up. Bytch in a few years, your broke kids will be trying to make appointments with me and I will quickly turn them down for lack of health insurance you broke pathetic little troll.

LY NCH these NEGROES!!!

@bb

“If those posters are not white women then you have a serious problem in the black American community.

Self-hatred at that level is unprecedented

It is far from entertaining but highly disturbing”

Perhaps I’ve become desensitized to the trolling on this site. There are quite a few pathologies that are displayed here on a daily basis. It’s unhealthy to get emotional about every deliberate attempt at race-baiting and the provocation of arguments online. I don’t think these posts represent the black community at all — certainly no one I know personally.

I find it a little odd that a young woman who has only been with a man for a few months would kill him…he was obviously smitten with her (vacation, car, condo). I kinda suspect the ex myself. I think he was the one with motive!

@SUGAR 77 AND DA HONEST TRUTH
“DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My SWAG On said:

“but isn’t it funny how its the sista who always gets called the golddigger?”

I’ve been wondering about that nonsense for years. How the hell are BW getting labelled as “gold diggers” when they are the ones that are usually with brokes azzes before they get on…then, a lot of the time, gets dropped or cheated on. Where does this come from? Oh yeah, people who have issues and want to find reasons to hate on BW.

You ever notice how when a BW is easy (esp. the more “black” she is), she’s just a big ole “ho”, yet when they are non-clack esp. white, they’re labelled as “freaky, fun, free-spirited, etc.” Complex much?

Face it, you can’t save clowns that don’t wanna be saved. It’s called WILLFUL IGNORANCE.”
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Um,… can you give ONE example of a black woman that is viewed as a gold digger? Just one because if anything black women seem to be exempt from being called this. Even when they CLEARLY are gold diggers. (Robin Givens, Beyonce, Naomi Campbell)

Black Woman are GOLD DIGGING Hoocey Mamas LOL

C’mon now ppl! “Prettywhitegirl”??? She/he is obviously here to try to stir sh!t up. They want to make sure that everyone knows that the comments are coming from a white girl in hopes to get under people’s skin. The screen name is so obvious. SMH.

DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My SWAG On

How did I make your point? I think you’re using the whole “BLAMING YOUR FAULTS ON OTHERS” analogy to bolster your own shortcomings as a woman who can’t keep a man (let alone maintain a relationship). Try losing some weight.

okay, let me chime in here for the poor deceased girl – i, having dated a married man, who SWORE THAT HE WAS SEPARATED AND THAT THE DIVORCE WAS COMING ANY SECOND NOW, WITH EVEN HIS OWN CONDO .. i can see her point .. most men lie, but most are GOOD at lying, so you can believe that he has no kids, or wife or hasn’t been with her in ions.. she was young and gullible .. BUT I DO BELIEVE THAT THE EX BOYFRIEND DID IT – period. he did it and tried to make it look like ole girl did it ..

“Um,… can you give ONE example of a black woman that is viewed as a gold digger? Just one because if anything black women seem to be exempt from being called this. Even when they CLEARLY are gold diggers. (Robin Givens, Beyonce, Naomi Campbell)”
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One example, did you miss like a whole two decades of Robin Givens getting bashed, thought “Gold digger” was her middle name for a while. The other two examples, why would they be gold diggers when they already have their own name and money???

Anywho, people always say that mess about BW, especially on sites like this. That’s like asking BM, “give me one example of when people said BM are pieces of sh!t. Specifically” Let’s not have convenient memories, like that opinion hasn’t been a set tone for years.

“DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My SWAG On

How did I make your point? I think you’re using the whole “BLAMING YOUR FAULTS ON OTHERS” analogy to bolster your own shortcomings as a woman who can’t keep a man (let alone maintain a relationship). Try losing some weight.”

im not the one in here all foaming at the mouth and vile hostile like i’m not getting laid……………

and if this dead clown is your guide for maintaining a relationship no wonder the black mans relationships are so poor, undernourished and lacking at best. yeah he did a real good job at maintaining his home and family – such a good job that they never have to worry about him and his unhappiness again.

Top 18 so get it right bytch!

I am on vacation all week baby and aint doing nothing but sitting on my black behind taking its easy. I hope my people will get its twogether fast because these white people is laughing at us on tv.

LY NCH these NEGROES!!!
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How nice of you to be “racist” and use a more respectful than n*gg**s. How appropriate

@Man, I just don’t care™

Um,… can you give ONE example of a black woman that is viewed as a gold digger? Just one because if anything black women seem to be exempt from being called this. Even when they CLEARLY are gold diggers. (Robin Givens, Beyonce, Naomi Campbell)
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How is Beyonce a golddigger when she makes more money than Jay Z….

@_
okay, let me chime in here for the poor deceased girl – i, having dated a married man, who SWORE THAT HE WAS SEPARATED AND THAT THE DIVORCE WAS COMING ANY SECOND NOW, WITH EVEN HIS OWN CONDO
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cumon now, I have been in this situation too…no excuse to kill another woman’s husband….she should have stayed in her place. I even have enough respect for the other woman’s space ie. don’t call the house, email, go by the house…Be woman enough to except your place….SECOND….

@1st Lady Lol-stop, drop and roll(thats pretty funny) My thoughts and prayers are with his wife and family- Being a wife of several years- I can’t imagine what she is going thru-God Bless her aand her children. Focus on being strong for her children-ain’t nothing u can do for Mr. McNair, now.

@SUGAR 77
“One example, did you miss like a whole two decades of Robin Givens getting bashed, thought “Gold digger” was her middle name for a while. The other two examples, why would they be gold diggers when they already have their own name and money???

Anywho, people always say that mess about BW, especially on sites like this. That’s like asking BM, “give me one example of when people said BM are pieces of sh!t. Specifically” Let’s not have convenient memories, like that opinion hasn’t been a set tone for years.”
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Well, number one Robin Givens is the blue print for a gold digger. Although she is rarely called that. How many black women have you EVER heard refer to Robin Givens as a Gold Digger?

Beyonce and Naomi have “their own money” (just like everyone else) but they date and marry the men they do specifically because of the money that they have.
Not that there is anything wrong with that, just admit that’s what it is.

Funny, you couldn’t think of ONE black woman that’s been called that even though it allegedly happens all the time.

SMH.

@TREEZ
“How is Beyonce a golddigger when she makes more money than Jay Z….”
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She made more money than Jay -Z for ONE year, and even that year was based on a formula by Forbes magazine that I don’t feel like getting into.

At any rate, she would of NEVER even spoke to Jay Z back in the day when they got together if he wasn’t pushin up on several hundred million dollars. Although there is nothing wrong with that.

Where the party at?

@MIJDC,
“OR YOU could go to your husband and ask him if he is happy and content etc. Sometimes people let you know things through their actions more so than words”

Thats true you can ask your wife/husband if they are happy and content. I believe your ACTIONS define who you are as a person. You can take the ACTION of telling your spouse you aren’t happy instead of taking the ACTION of having an affair. Committing an affair to show your spouse that you aren’t happy is cruel. My husband and I made a promise to tell each other if we felt something was missing from our marriage that we would immediately sit down and discuss it and make it better.
Now as far as McNairs wife not noticing money being spent on large purchases and him not being home at 2:30 am, I can’t speculate what she was thinking. I know there are plenty of women who turn a blind eye in order to continue living the lifestyle they are accustomed to, or maybe like some women she felt like this would run its course and he would come back to her. I don’t what she was thinking about her husband, but I still believe that if he wasn’t happy he should have handled matters in a way that showed he thought enough of his children.

Marquis

Shut the hell up. No one cares. Most of us Black Men love our women no matter what you say.

This is a terror attack on a small scale

@SANJOR
“Thats true you can ask your wife/husband if they are happy and content. I believe your ACTIONS define who you are as a person. You can take the ACTION of telling your spouse you aren’t happy instead of taking the ACTION of having an affair. Committing an affair to show your spouse that you aren’t happy is cruel. My husband and I made a promise to tell each other if we felt something was missing from our marriage that we would immediately sit down and discuss it and make it better.
Now as far as McNairs wife not noticing money being spent on large purchases and him not being home at 2:30 am, I can’t speculate what she was thinking. I know there are plenty of women who turn a blind eye in order to continue living the lifestyle they are accustomed to, or maybe like some women she felt like this would run its course and he would come back to her. I don’t what she was thinking about her husband, but I still believe that if he wasn’t happy he should have handled matters in a way that showed he thought enough of his children.”
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Hey, being proactive is a choice. If you are comfortable with the agreement you have with your husband that each of you will come forward if any issues than I applaud you. Although I fail to see the harm in asking from time to time, maybe that is just me.

I’m sure his wife rationalized a lot of things over the course of their “marriage.” So what ever information that comes out at this point won’t surprise me at all.

“Marquis

Shut the hell up. No one cares. Most of us Black Men love our women no matter what you say”

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Not true. Black women are the least desirable. White women are a close second. Men of every race are seeking the exotic these days and as our world becomes smaller and bi-racial the less desirable black and white become. Thank god we won’t be living in 1960.

the madness in la surronding jacko’s memorial shows why we have issues in our nation. the man/woman was a sicko who needs to be put to rest fast. he harmed children and now you all praise him as if he is a god given leader. shame on you all

boycott everything realted to jacko

@MIJDC,
“Although I fail to see the harm in asking from time to time, maybe that is just me.”

No, it’s not just you, I completely agree with that statement. Infact, my husband does on a regular basis ask me if I’m content, and I appreciate it. It shows that he loves and cares about my happiness with him and values our family.

@Man, I just don’t care™

She made more money than Jay -Z for ONE year, and even that year was based on a formula by Forbes magazine that I don’t feel like getting into.

At any rate, she would of NEVER even spoke to Jay Z back in the day when they got together if he wasn’t pushin up on several hundred million dollars. Although there is nothing wrong with that.
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I think the def of a gold digger is a person (man or woman) who 1) doesn’t have their own money and 2) looks to date people with money.

I think that if you already have your stacks and you choose to date others with money that doesn’t make you a golddigger, it makes you realistic about the trouble of having relationships between people from different socio-economic statuses.

btw, you know no one would talk to Jay Z unless he had 100 mil in the bank.

She made more money than Jay -Z for ONE year, and even that year was based on a formula by Forbes magazine that I don’t feel like getting into.

At any rate, she would of NEVER even spoke to Jay Z back in the day when they got together if he wasn’t pushin up on several hundred million dollars. Although there is nothing wrong with that.

Whats your compatiblity formula? Is it entirely based on money. I dont think so atleast according to eharmony.com

“Hmm…. seperate “unknown” accounts huh? LOL, and YOU’VE been arguing that they weren’t breaking up? GTFOH.

Oh yeah, and how did she not notice him at home at 2:30 in the morning?”

so now tell me how if this man chose to keep some of his money separate – probably for the purposes of putting up his mistresses – this means he was practically in divorce court? its his money. he earned it. plenty of people have separate accounts from their spouses especially when they are rich. are all of their marriages in trouble? and about the 2:30 in the morning how do you know she wasn’t worried or didn’t call the police? how do you know he didn’t lie to her and tell her he’d be one place wile he was clearly another. if my man told be baby i’m going to spend the weekend o the 4th with some of my firends why wojld i look for him before that weekend was up?

you’re still not making any sense.

@Sidney
If they are not white then we are assuming that they are black

The abuse has been relentless and they have been at it for a while

This is a form of self loathing that is coming out as a form of “entertainment”

I have not seen this before and I am glad that you have been desensitized at least that is some kind of coping mechanism.

When you have pockets of young people like this within a community then it hardly bodes well for the future

Obviously they are only repeating what they must have heard numerous of times.

This is just Garbage in Garbage out

Psychological evaluation is urgently needed

The boyfriend did it “CASE CLOSED”

Adulterers get dealt with.

I’m back….and I too believe that there is more to this story than what’s being said in the news

What a tragic end to a pretty good life. Steve, rest in peace brother.

99′ Titans 4Ever!!!!

I still think it was a Murder-suicide.

At least this story will make cheaters think twice about cheating. RIP STEVE AIR MCNAIR, i remember you playing never complaining on the field about injurys you Sir are what i wish Donavan”uncle tom” Mcnabb was. You will truly be missed

@ Hannibal

Dont you know they can track your IP address from this site and wow it would be something if they came to your house

Her greatest dream, Salmani said, was to be famous.

“I think she is now,” she said. “She is everywhere.”

Wow, her sister sounds dumb.

@DA HONEST TRUTH
“so now tell me how if this man chose to keep some of his money separate – probably for the purposes of putting up his mistresses – this means he was practically in divorce court? its his money. he earned it. plenty of people have separate accounts from their spouses especially when they are rich. are all of their marriages in trouble? and about the 2:30 in the morning how do you know she wasn’t worried or didn’t call the police? how do you know he didn’t lie to her and tell her he’d be one place wile he was clearly another. if my man told be baby i’m going to spend the weekend o the 4th with some of my firends why wojld i look for him before that weekend was up?

you’re still not making any sense.”
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Well it will probably never “make sense” to you. Poor thang. Don’t worry about it. LOL.

I’m sure his wife just so happen to miss all the signs and “smooth” Steve pulled a fast one on her and spent over $100k on a woman and spent holidays away from his family and was gone at 2:30 in the morning (possibly with seperate accounts). His wife just didn’t recognize these things because she thought she was in a “happy” relationship.
*shrugs shoulders*

Married folk- be faithful to your spouse. Problem solved. If you are prone to flip out or you know your spouse will then you are doing more than playing around..you are playing with your life. My husband has said that ish…’if you ever cheated on me I would…X, Y, Z’…and you know what? thats COOL cuz we have that understanding. You play with someone’s heart then you reap consequences. Love hard and live long.

@Man….Becuz he is supposed to!! The man asked the woman out!!! He called her… He calls her for your time….Dayum this is basic sh*t….tha’t messed up that Im in here stating the obvious…that’s why my daughters will NEVER date a man that thinks like you….they are beautiful dime pieces, educated and know that a man BETTER come correct if he wants to spend time with her….

eveinthegarden

you my friend are married to a crazy person, if someone cheats it doesnt equal murder. what happened to just getting a divorce and moving on with your life????

@Treez
Racism will always exist so will tribalism

But Black people who come on to a website and post abusive and offensive language inorder to incite arguments definitely have some psycotic tendencies.

They have clearly been brainwashed by the negative images that are constantly shown

This is why there is a lot of low self-esteem issues within the community

Those that are bored should get a job and a hobby joining the white folks in black bashing is ludicrous

@LADY J
‘Becuz he is supposed to!! The man asked the woman out!!! He called her… He calls her for your time….Dayum this is basic sh*t….tha’t messed up that Im in here stating the obvious…that’s why my daughters will NEVER date a man that thinks like you….they are beautiful dime pieces, educated and know that a man BETTER come correct if he wants to spend time with her….”
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So your daughters will “charge by the hour” for their time? Again, either they like the dude or they don’t.

@warning
The gun belonged to the girl. Police confirmed it.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~he brought that for her….she is a dayum waitress at dave & busters….20 yr old’s don’t buy semi-automatic guns….it was in her name just like he put the car in her name….plus, he had a weapons violation before so he was just covering his ass…

What up everybody…

Pimpin Snoop – SALUTE

The jewish judge just denied the black mother of Michael Jackson control over her black son’s estate. The jewish judge gave control to the jewish lawyer and friend instead until august. Thats plenty of time for the jewish lawyer and his friend to siphon millions before anyone notices.

love 6am

Reports say that was Steve and a former alcorn state teammate apt. they shared. I guess it was where they take their side pieces.

@SEPIA
“… but he suffered a consequence of his own actions. Period.”
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Don’t we all?

After reading some of these comments, I think some factual information needs 2 b pointed out:

FACT #1
The largest percentage of welfare recipients in the U.S. are WHITE WOMEN.

FACT #2
The people who have benefitted the most from affirmative action are WHITE WOMEN.

Back 2 your regularly scheduled conspiracy theories, race baiting and gender warfare…

I KNOW WE ARE ALL TALKING ABOUT MC NAIR AND HIS LADY ON THE SIDE BUT DID ANYONE SEE THAT PICTURE OF LOON THE MUSLIM???? LMAO LMAO LMAO JUST THINKING OF THAT PICTURE BRINGS TEARS OF LAUGHING TO MY EYES LMAO LMAO, NOT THAT HES A MUSLIM BUT THAT HE TURNED MUSLIM AFTER DEALING WITH DIDDY LMAO

@ Will
Mmm…no I dont think its crazy. If you are going to dip out…get divorced FIRST. You cant tell a person who has devoted their whole life to you to just ‘get over it’. You ever heard of temporary insanity? Its a legal defense for a reason…

@ Man, I just don’t care™

I kinda got a lil more respect for McNair for that. He was at least trickin on a budget. Not buyin the lady a house but havin a condo in his name. He had his name on the Caddy AND he didn’t go all out on the Caddy either.
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Trickin on a budget…..lol. This just further brings home my point. Somebody who won’t go all out for his side b*tch, who is THAT concerned about money, is NOT going to leave his wife and lose a big chunk of his money.

And another thing….why is the media referring to homegirl as his “girlfriend”? When a white senator or other public figure has a side b*tch, she is referred to as his “mistress”. They’re all hos regardless, but still…..

@STEFANY

Hey Alabama Muffins long time no hear from, how you doing lady?

Its6amHoGetOut, back in Honolulu and back at work.

The jewish judge just denied the black mother of Michael Jackson control over her black son’s estate. The jewish judge gave control to the jewish lawyer and friend instead until august. Thats plenty of time for the jewish lawyer and his friend to siphon millions before anyone notices.

love 6am
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6am…..always on point.

They want to make sure that they get paid and their friends get paid before Michael’s family get any money. They may try to circumvent the Jackson family altogether.

@eveinthegarden

Dont get me wrong, i respect you and your marriage. I just dont understand how a person can tell another person “if you ever cheat on me i would kill you” and you could still look at the person and believe they are SANE. I just see if my wife cheated on me i wouldnt have to pay Allimony, i would must likely get custody of our son and than i could marry someone that actually cares for me. not saying your man dont care for you but i would think someone telling me they would kill me if i cheated i wouldnt be with them because being with them is like sleeping with the grim reaper

Pimpin Willie Dynamite (CEO Of K.D.B. INC. (“BackHoe”)

What’s up! I’m cool, what’s good with you!

@man, not really….the economy is having problems with mostly blue collar workers….M.D.’s, pharmacist, engineers are still working…aint’ missed a beat…..

…but damn… I’m sorry 4 the dude’s fam ‘n all, but this chick is, uh, was AVERAGE at best. If I’m gonna b dead behind a jump-off, she’d betta b 1/10th of a dolla with “In God We Trust” inscribed under her chin.

Just sayin’…

@6

I just saw that.

It’s gone be a long hard battle for mama Katherine.

@ Whoa!

I’m sorry but I don’t get this attitude. We don’t have to wish death on him, he wished it on himself when he stepped out on his wife to pursue a woman he obviously didn’t know was unstable. Did he deserve to die? Of course not, but he suffered a consequence of his own actions. Period.
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So we should have the attitude that an adulterer should be killed or shall I say, deserves death?
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You copied my post but did you actually read the part where I said he didn’t deserve to die? The point is, most people on here are not wishing death on him but just acknowledging that he put himself in that predicament so what’s done is done. There IS a difference.

@LADY J
“not really….the economy is having problems with mostly blue collar workers….M.D.’s, pharmacist, engineers are still working…aint’ missed a beat…..”
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Um… the economy is built on the backs of the blue collar worker but ok. LOL. Whatever you believe.

@ pimpin…..i was hoping to get a free ticket to mj memorial online, so i can sell that sh!t on ebay for a few stacks.

sepia830

You copied my post but did you actually read the part where I said he didn’t deserve to die? The point is, most people on here are not wishing death on him but just acknowledging that he put himself in that predicament so what’s done is done. There IS a difference.
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Ok

What’s good people??!!!

This is very sad, disturbing news. While I can’t condone the cheating, I will certainly say that he did not deserve to be brutally murdered in this fashion. I hope that the investigation provides the answers that the family needs to begin to heal from this tragedy.

trs (In Recovery Mode)

Still I rise, Still I rise, cye

@TRS

♥♫♥♪♥ HEY THERE LOVELY!! ♥♪♥♫♥

Hey Pimpin!!!!

Hey trs! Wuddup chica?

@Fernand

so will wars, hoes and pirates its just life man get over it

@ Pimpin

What’s up Pimpin!!!

Whoa!

Hey Pimpin!!!!

Killin time as usual coming to the end of the work day, whats good witchu?

@fernand

No others will not die like this. If so, the media wouldn’t be able to report them because these murders would happen like clockwork.

@ MIJDC

♥Hey Man!!!♥

@ Whoa

Hey lady!!! I liked your post about the materialistic mindset. It was very on point!

The whole point of this story is that the Arab chick was just plain crazy. Pure and simple. If it wasn’t McNair it was gonna be another poor sap that tried to holla at her.

hey trs

whoa…..Preach sis!

See cheating don’t pay so don’t cheat or lie about it. You may live to see 50

@PRIDE
“See cheating don’t pay so don’t cheat or lie about it. You may live to see 50″
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STFU!

@Man, I just don’t care™

The whole point of this story is that the Arab chick was just plain crazy. Pure and simple. If it wasn’t McNair it was gonna be another poor sap that tried to holla at her.
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She was PERSIAN.Not Arab…and yes she apparently was still a whack-job.Something I find most unusual for Persian women.

trs (In Recovery Mode)

@ MIJDC

♥Hey Man!!!♥

@ Whoa

Hey lady!!! I liked your post about the materialistic mindset. It was very on point!
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Comments like that just IRK the HELL outta me! How was your weekend!

hey SNOOP!

LMAO! @ MAN

@ Snoop

Hey honey!

@ Whoa

How was your weekend!
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Girl my weekend was straight FIYAH!!! How was yours? Did you party on the 4th?

@DR. FUNK
“She was PERSIAN.Not Arab…and yes she apparently was still a whack-job.Something I find most unusual for Persian women.”
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Thanks, I would try to notate the difference if I cared. Regardless of her ethnicity she was not the most attractive chick out there…. AND she was bonkers.

I realize that the sister may have her own experiences with the alleged shooter, but if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck….

trs (In Recovery Mode)

Girl my weekend was straight FIYAH!!! How was yours? Did you party on the 4th?
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Aaaaah hence “recovery mode” Honestly, I ended up staying at my homegirls bbq too damn long and ended up missing the fun with my guy friends that I hang with. I got inside to shower and change and just fell the hell out.

@ Hannibal – Tom Brady! BWAAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

@STEFANY

That first comment was harsh…BUT I FEEL YOU GIRL…ITs the truth.

Good afternoon, all

Hey TRS!

@Marquis

“LOL! Okay, only for you, i’ll make a concerted effort to nix some of my more colorful adjectives…But that’s only because when all is said and done, you own me, Lady Sydney.”

I checked the properties and this appears to be really you. Egads, could a kinder, gentler Marquis be amongst us? Miracles do happen.

Heal the world
Make it a better place
For you and for me
And the entire human race

@man….don’t hate the player, hate the game…the bottom line is my daughters already know… don’t bring home a man that aint in college…he should be a post graduate….trying to be the boss of yo ass….lol…my daughter’s don’t date men who aren’t in college….that’s just the bottom line…and neither do I….

Hopefully….you teach your kids the same thing….try to raise the standards for blacks without education….

I guess thats how them Iranian Woman get down, they straight killers

@LADY J
“don’t hate the player, hate the game…the bottom line is my daughters already know… don’t bring home a man that aint in college…he should be a post graduate….trying to be the boss of yo ass….lol…my daughter’s don’t date men who aren’t in college….that’s just the bottom line…and neither do I….”
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Don’t worry, I ain’t hatin at all. Well, the jokes on you if all you require is “post graduate” cause they could be broke as a joke AND have to pay back student loans. I’m just sayin.

So, again, how much does one of your daughters suitors have to pay *ahem* need to earn to be with one of them?

@ Man Believe it or not…I have been told by college boys that their parents say the same thing!!! Raise the standards….Date leaders, not followers….

@ Whoa

What kind of fun did you miss out on with your guy friends?

@ Sydney

Hey girlie!! LOL @ “Heal the World!”

Pimpin Willie Dynamite (CEO Of K.D.B. INC. (“BackHoe”)

Depressed up in NY? damn girl, its all good, holla at me when it get cold, I’ll keep your spirits up!
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@LADY J
“Believe it or not…I have been told by college boys that their parents say the same thing!!! Raise the standards….Date leaders, not followers”
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LOL. That sounds like one of my lies. I could sue them for that! Straight up plagirizing my shit! LOL.

@Man….clearly you are a blue collor worker…Pharm D.’s, M.D’s, and others make 6 figures….if two people making 6 figures that live modestly will have those bank loans paid off in less that 10 years….I’m telling you what I know, not what I’ve heard…

trs (In Recovery Mode)

@ Whoa

What kind of fun did you miss out on with your guy friends?
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Well I was supposed to hit up two bbq’s and then go to this dance/club with them. He called me early saturday morning just to remind me. I ALWAYS have fun with my guy friends. Can’t roll with too many chicks cuz it’s always some petty jealousy and drama.

@LADY J
“….clearly you are a blue collor worker…Pharm D.’s, M.D’s, and others make 6 figures….if two people making 6 figures that live modestly will have those bank loans paid off in less that 10 years….I’m telling you what I know, not what I’ve heard…”
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LOL./ Yeah, “clearly” I am a blue collar worker. HA HA HA.

So how much does one of your daughter’s suitors need to earn? I’m guessing that the starting price is six figures…

Marquis de Sade

Indeed.The “institution” is has more structural flaws than a composite jetliner.(engineer humor)

*is* deleted.

I’m sure it’s thousands of nfl/nba ballers breaking up w/their side pieces…It’s clear the “sister” is defending the jump bec it’s embarrassing to the family & she want to paint her a saint…It’s NOT hard to believe she was caught up and didnt know how to function living a reg. life…I think he was trying to break up w/her…and she got sour on him….I wonder how many of his baller buddies knew he was w/her?

Fellas NEVER underestimate a woman SCORNED!!

@WHOA
“Well I was supposed to hit up two bbq’s and then go to this dance/club with them. He called me early saturday morning just to remind me. I ALWAYS have fun with my guy friends. Can’t roll with too many chicks cuz it’s always some petty jealousy and drama”
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You don’t have a need to be jealous of no one else ma!

One doesn’t even have to ask the starting price, with these profession ie. Pharm D., M.D., Engineer (civil or chemical), Corporate lawyer….He don’t have to say a word….

I KNOW SHE DID IT. IT’S A FACT. KAZEMI DID IT.

Damn, brothas got to run a background and credit check on jump offs?

It doesn’t matter if it was a murder or murder for hire, the fact is the man was cheating on his wife and got caught up in some deep shit!

Now granted, it might would had happened even if he was separated from his wife, but it’s just worse that he was still married while he was doing all this crap. And now, look what happened.

Tragic loss all the way around but when are we going to stop the madness?

Man, I just don’t care™

@WHOA
“Well I was supposed to hit up two bbq’s and then go to this dance/club with them. He called me early saturday morning just to remind me. I ALWAYS have fun with my guy friends. Can’t roll with too many chicks cuz it’s always some petty jealousy and drama”
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You don’t have a need to be jealous of no one else ma!
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Honey NO, NOT ME!!! I’m the one that always bigs up a chick that looks nice, is pretty and well put together. But I have had my fair share of chicks that just don’t like me but is all up in my face. Some say I’m conceited. oh well, I call it confidence and that was before Beyonce did “Ego”

SHE DID IT YA’LL!!!

I’ve been lurking but uh…@Lady J, that’s great that you teach your daughters to aspire for the best but there are plenty of men out here that make decent honest money and aren’t rocket scientists, engineers, doctors, etc. Your main focus should be for your daughters to have someone that makes them happy and treats them right because all that stuff that looks good on paper ain’t always what it seems. I come from a family of scholars and ‘crazy’ don’t care how many degrees its host does or does not have. I have an uncle that is close to genius and holds a presigious job with our government, probably one of the smartest people I know and he is not with it fully on the mental level. And I used to have a client that was a medical doctor and he was in his 50s and swimming in debt. Although education is important (trust me, I know because I teach part time and hold a master’s degree), life is alot deeper than that when you start speaking about life partners…

love 6am

lol

She got an Escalade and Lil Wayne baby mama rollin in a honda! LOL
Why the brothas gotta do us like that!!!

OK MAYBE ITS JUST ME OR DID ANYONE ELSE SEE THE PICS OF LOOK THE MUSLIM? LOL

@Its6amHoGetOut, back in Honolulu and back at work.

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Clearly you know the scene.

@JUST ME
“She got an Escalade and Lil Wayne baby mama rollin in a honda! LOL
Why the brothas gotta do us like that!!!”
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He prolly should kept that hoe in her Kia.

Hey Caramel, nice post.

Hi Snoop

lol they met at dave & busters…..wow….

@Man, I just don’t care

How you know Lil Wayne baby mama rolling in a Honda

he syd, how as your weekend?

Hey Sydney

Long time no chit chat..

Hey TRS…

*hey syd*

THE JUMP OFF IS CUTE MAYNE.

@ Whoa

I ALWAYS have fun with my guy friends. Can’t roll with too many chicks cuz it’s always some petty jealousy and drama.
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I can identify with this because most of my friends are men. It took me a long time to develop a female circle of friends that I trusted so I know how you feel.

@TRS

“But all in all, “fabulous” was not the word I would use….

I will have to email you!”

LOL, I’ll have to hear all about it. It was hilarious that when I flew down there to meet my friends, the plane was nearly all black (I think some people joked that it was “Soul Plane”), and I had so much fun talking to people on the way down. Then, when we flew back, everyone was knocked out — you could hear a pin drop. Everyone was fast asleep.

Hi Caramel Cat!

…the issue is about a murdered couple and a jealous ex–who was angered their partner had moved forward. The new person was taking their place and the ex wanted final control…does anyone know how a woman can shoot her boyfriend, then herself and then lay the gun underneath her body?

@WILL
“How you know Lil Wayne baby mama rolling in a Honda”
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Just the law of averages. Wayne got a billion baby mamas and Honda sells a billion cars. At least one of his baby mamas GOT to drive a Honda.

@Snoop

It was very nice — I spent time with my family. How was yours?

@Marquis

“Uhhh, if i’m nice, it won’t have anything to do with Michael Jackson.”

That’s fine. You don’t have to be nice because of MJ — Be nice because you want to help heal the world. Being friendly is good for your complexion. Smile and the world smiles with you. Et cetera, et cetera. . .

@ Sydney

Yeah I slept almost twelve hours because I was up until 5 am both nights I was there. Usually, I have a hard time getting comfortable on planes but Sunday I slept all the way through! I will hit you up and give you all the details…including some of the crazy lines that I heard while I was up there. LOL

@SNOOP
“EVIDENTLY she knew the trick , because the neghbors seen him so frequently, they thought he lived there( she was doing something wifey wasn’t doing) go figure.”
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That’s what I was saying too dawg!!

Leesa

One of my co-workers just told me, that she read one of the bullets that hit him went through him and hit her?!?!?!?!

Ok CSI people, does that make any sense???

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But how did the gun end up UNDER her body,

i knew this man personally and what you black females wrote about him was mean. you do not even know him and why he was doing it. how do you know he wasn’t going through alot with his wife? f*ck you lame b*tches and that is why most of y’all are single and bitter and babymamas or even worse DIVORCED. RIP my dude.

@ will

the 1st episode of tiny & toya, toya flew back to the n.o looking for her mother she was driving around the city she was in a honda but in the A that chick is pushing a range rover so maybe the honda was a rental r belonged to a family member. trust u me that chick is taken care of

@TRS

“I will hit you up and give you all the details…including some of the crazy lines that I heard while I was up there. LOL”

LOL, sounds good.

@ syd
It was very nice — I spent time with my family. How was yours?
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It was wonderful, i hosted a bbq at my house and i’m still recuperating….lol

@Kaiistar

Man i feel bad for Laura London, having a baby by a Hooligan and nothing positive can come of it other than Money.

@ Man, I just don’t care™
ur a mess!!!! and u still here also? idk wht happen to my pitcure now im stuck with this damn gravatar!!! i want my photo back!! n e whoo yea that fella has been busy lately making babies like its going out of style but the first on was not only a baby mama she was @ one point his life so i dnt think that honda is her ride. lol ur silly

@ Snoop

( she was doing something wifey wasn’t doing)
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Why do you automatically assume that the wife is to blame for his cheating? Sometimes a man will cheat just because he CAN…it may not have anything to do with her.

@ will i know right!!! but i dont know how much sympothy i have 4 her cuz word is she knew he was in a relationship with nivea and decided to let him knock her up anyways. idk how much of that is true but i heard her sister put that out, that wayne let it be known he was with nivea and she kept hounding him. Lauryn say it aint so!!!!!!!!!!!

@ Snoop

That is sad…but the wife had to know something was up if his azz wasn’t coming home at night.

@Snoop

“It was wonderful, i hosted a bbq at my house and i’m still recuperating….lol”

Did it go on into the next day?

@ mason

lol but how do you know ALL of the posts are from BLACK females? Your post was MEAN since you want to put it like that..and furthermore, it’s his wife I feel sorry for. He should have kept the shyt gangsta and told her he didn’t want to be with her but once again, you live by the pu55y,…..

@CUTIE
“That is sad…but the wife had to know something was up if his azz wasn’t coming home at night.”
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That’s what I said too!!! Now she wanna act all “brand new.” GTFOH.

He wasn’t around on THE FOURTH OF JULY and she STILL didn’t suspect anything? I need to tell her I got some “magic beans” to sell her ass.

Why do you automatically assume that the wife is to blame for his cheating? Sometimes a man will cheat just because he CAN…it may not have anything to do with her.
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you’re right,i’m not blaming the wife, i’m just saying the 20 yr. old was doing something that made him spend a great deal of time with her is all.

That is sad…but the wife had to know something was up if his azz wasn’t coming home at night
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hey cutie!

hell yeah she knew

@ Snoop

Oh I see…I thought you were saying that she wasn’t doing something and that’s why he was carousing elsewhere. Thanks for clearing that up.

Diamondcenter, I’m I missing something ? Since when did Middle Eastern guys try to talk to Black chicks ? Is this some kind of urban legend ? I live in L.A. and I don’t see that being a popular dating trend, lol. Most of them date their own Middle eastern chicks or White Paris Hilton clones, lol…

@SNOOP
“you’re right,i’m not blaming the wife, i’m just saying the 20 yr. old was doing something that made him spend a great deal of time with her is all.”
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Yup yup. Got a reason for everything!!

Did it go on into the next day?
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no…i slept all yesteday

Another Black man dies chasing white tail… Have you all learned nothing from Emmet Till?? They dont want ur greasy asses unless bank rolling and even then they want the $$. There’s usually one reason a white woman will be in the arms of a black man and they are either drugged out junkies (just go to oklahoma or some middle america redneck town) or he has $$ to afford her a better lifestyle… I live in NYC and I aint never seen no white chic with a wage working mofo!!

@ Man

Dam real….I WISH my boo was MIA around that time…his azz would be kicked soooo far to the curb it would make his head swim

@ SNOOP

I’m just saying…now I felt that he should have at least gave her a heads up but she was prob being a gold digger as well and didn’t want to fyck up her benefits but at the end of the day, she had 4 kids so she would have been straight but soooo many women get sooo caught up on the title of being the “wife” ya know..

@SYDNEY
“I think “Snapped” should be required viewing for any man prone to cheating”
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I think “Married With Children” should be required viewing for all men.

I think “Snapped” should be required viewing for any man prone to cheating.
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she’s definately getting an episode, whn it’s all said and done…..but hedidn’t have to die over his stupidity.

@ Boo Hooo!

No, being a waitress, store clerk, maid and shoe salesperson and snagging a baller ONLY happens when you are Hispanic, Iranian, Caucasian, etc but you CAN NOT be BLACK

@ i cant say

well i better consider myself lucky b/c here n ms they r usually running after the thugs, and the ones who are pretty much worthless to a black woman. so i consider them doing us a favor. at least from what i’ve seen here on the gulf coast their ither pasty white and wouldnt b caught dead with a black man r wanna b black so they pick from the bottom of the barrel

@SYDNEY

Snapped? What is that?

I’m just saying…now I felt that he should have at least gave her a heads up but she was prob being a gold digger as well and didn’t want to fyck up her benefits but at the end of the day, she had 4 kids so she would have been straight but soooo many women get sooo caught up on the title of being the “wife” ya know..
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TRUE! The part that i don’t get is people on here saying he deserve it, no he deserved for his wife to forgive him or divorce him, he betrayed his family but the punishment isn’t death.

“she’s definately getting an episode, whn it’s all said and done…..but hedidn’t have to die over his stupidity.”

No, he shouldn’t have had to die over his stupidity, but this isn’t the first — nor the last — time, an avoidable tragedy like this has occurred. Men have to be cognizant of how certain women think, and how heavily emotions play into their actions. Without having all the facts, it appears this young woman thought this situation was something it wasn’t, and she may have felt betrayed, and there are rumors that she was already emotionally unstable.

@ Man

I just don’t know…they said that man was up in her spot like he owned that bytch meaning he wasn’t going home for days on end??…then I got boys that look like him running round the house and carrying on??? I’m sorry, I just couldn’t do it.

@ Diamondcenter

Im dating a Nigerian man do you think Im going to be okay. I mean Nigerian’s have black skin but they arent African American. It seems liike you know the crazy races…lol

MrsL.Boose a.k.a. KaiiStar

@ Man, I just don’t care™

If they were seperated then thats a different tale. I guess he had the liberty to do him just as she was liberated to do her. If i were single and i meet a man going through a divorce I would have to pass no matter what his $ status is. if tha fella is legally still binded then tha girl is roll’n out. but now adays so many broads are chacing tha $ and fame that she may have been scared that if she didnt jump on him someone else would.

His wife may not be grieving after all then huh?
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Hopefully “under the circumtances, she will have a good ole time spending all that money, and meet a desent man, that she can help spend it.

it appears this young woman thought this situation was something it wasn’t,
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sometimes people force their self to believe what they wanna believe, she waited tables where this man brought his family, she knew the job was dirty when she took it, and didn’t overlook it. She wanted something she couldn’t have, i’vebeen here before, thats why i dump mine via text msgs…lol j/k

@MORE ACES
“Hopefully “under the circumtances, she will have a good ole time spending all that money, and meet a desent man, that she can help spend it.”
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I’m sure she had already started that. She didn’t care where McNair was. As long as the check came in on time. There is nothing wrong with that.

McNair has always cheated and had girlfriends it’s no surprise. From Houston to Nashville from Nashville to Atlanta. His wife knew about his indiscretions and there was no impending divorce.

Afternoon peeps!

Sorry to hear about McNair – this was tragic

@Man – I see you trying to blame the wife you never know what “business” stories he was using. perhaps she just trusted him, some times it is the only way to keep your sanity

@Marquis De Sade,

I knew a lot of Persian guys when I went to uni and saw them while at UCLA and no, I didnt ever see them with any black girls. Persian girls are very good looking but their second choice are white chicks. Sometimes I never know where these black girls get their information from.

Dam Persian guys are fine.

LOL@Snoop dumping via text….trifling

No mater what it is a loss and he will be missed and hopefully remembered for his many charitable contributions and generosity not his tumultuous personal life. No one is without sin.

@ Man, I just don’t care™

i cant find the post when we had our discussions earlier but didn’t u say they were seperated?

@ be…..hey sunshine♥♥♥♥

How was your 4th, did you get loose off the goose?

@LBOOSE2
“i cant find the post when we had our discussions earlier but didn’t u say they were seperated?”
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yeah, that’s what I heard. Why, what’s up?

Hi Be!

@Snoop

“she knew the job was dirty when she took it, and didn’t overlook it. She wanted something she couldn’t have, i’vebeen here before, thats why i dump mine via text msgs…lol j/k”

I don’t know if that’s certain — you have to keep in mind that she was only 20 (she was still 19 when she met McNair). I have the impression she really thought she was in love and headed to the altar, and she may have been given signals to indicate that (i.e. expensive gifts and trips).

LOL, yeah, dumping via text is the easy, and impolite, way out.

snoop bloggy blog ( if you knew betta, you’d do betta)

it appears this young woman thought this situation was something it wasn’t,
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sometimes people force their self to believe what they wanna believe, she waited tables where this man brought his family, she knew the job was dirty when she took it, and didn’t overlook it. She wanted something she couldn’t have, i’vebeen here before, thats why i dump mine via text msgs…lol j/k

LOL. I know. The old trump and dump. Trump them by beating them to the point and ending it via text message. Dump by getting rid of the phone and sim card.

It may come off as being somewhat harsh, but I strongly believe he got what he deserved! Just my opinion…

Sydney

that woman knew her status just because he was loving to her did not mean he loved her. She saw a meal ticket out of her hard life.

Sydney

Well according to the latest info, the investigators are keeping things close to the vest in regards to this girls’ death. I’m beginning to think they suspect this murder/suicide could’ve been staged…The only thing they’ve revealed is McNair died from a result of two bullets to the head and two bullets to the chest, and her, one bullet to the head.

@ Cutie
@ Boo Hooo!

No, being a waitress, store clerk, maid and shoe salesperson and snagging a baller ONLY happens when you are Hispanic, Iranian, Caucasian, etc but you CAN NOT be BLACK
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I don’t know if that’s such a bad thing…I mean I personally don’t know many black women who would willingly and voluntarily become some married man’s side wh*re…I think black women are too strong for that shit.

I would have been like, run, run, run, fast as you can. You can’t catch me, I’m the Gingerbread maaaannnn.

@ KIGALI & MARQUIS DE SHADE

All the armenian and persian people live glendale, Ca. the women are nice looking after they get nose jobs…..They have those “TOUCAN SAM” noses

I know. So many professional athletes and entertainers wives coexist and adhere to that type of lifestyle. It’s rare they get divorced due to the infidelity.

@Be

“that woman knew her status just because he was loving to her did not mean he loved her. She saw a meal ticket out of her hard life.”

You don’t think that she sincerely believed that he loved her (and he may have told her that, too)?

@Marquis

Yes, and it has also come out that she bought a gun before the shooting. But, yes, all the facts have yet to emerge in this case.

@Man – if McNair did not want his wife anymore he knew how to get a divorce. Getting someone an apartment ain’t nothing when you are worth millions. I know men who are not rich set women up that are in jump off status and have families. Why would he leave his stable life for a life of fluzzies? Fluzzies are for fun not family..smh..you know this don’t you?

LOL, yeah, dumping via text is the easy, and impolite, way out.
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I don’t think it’s a polite way to dump someone…lol

1. dinner ( you’ll get red wine poured all over you)
2. at my house ( she’ll start breaking sht in my house, then the police will be in volved, don’t need that)
3. her house ( won’t let me leave, block door and when i push her out the way she calls police, once again don’t need that.

so text msg. it is….lol ” IT’S OVER”

@Marquis

From today’s Tennessean, by the way:

Salmani talked to her sister every day and said she was very happy in her relationship with McNair.

“That’s why she was like, ‘OK, now you’re divorcing. We can date,’ ” Salmani said. “He told her, it was going to be finished, the whole divorce was going to be done, two weeks from yesterday.”

Although a check of Davidson County’s court records shows there is no divorce pending — at least in Nashville — McNair’s house is for sale. His wife, Mechelle McNair, hasn’t spoken to the media. Police said she is distraught over his death.

LOL. I know. The old trump and dump. Trump them by beating them to the point and ending it via text message. Dump by getting rid of the phone and sim card.
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LMMFAO!! They will hate men forever…lol

@BE
“if McNair did not want his wife anymore he knew how to get a divorce. Getting someone an apartment ain’t nothing when you are worth millions. I know men who are not rich set women up that are in jump off status and have families. Why would he leave his stable life for a life of fluzzies? Fluzzies are for fun not family..smh..you know this don’t you?”
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Actually, he never should of gotten married. But that’s an argument for another day.

Yes, he could of gotten a divorce and invariably lost customdy of his children, half his money nad had to pay child support/alimony. It doesn’t take a genius to know that divorcing wouldn’t of been in his best interest. Rather the side piece is almost always the better option.

“Gun was purchased after Kazemi’s DUI arrest.”

I wondered how she felt about being taken to jail while the police allowed McNair to go home in a cab (he didn’t commit any crime, so that was expected.) I’m sure that was humiliating for her as well.

@Snoop

“I don’t think it’s a polite way to dump someone…lol”

LOL, well, it depends on how you treated her during the relationship. If you dogged her while you were with her, then, yeah, the breakup could be kinda, sorta hostile.

“Rather the side piece is almost always the better option.”

LOL, you should NEVER, EVER get married.

@Sydney – she had not business falling in love with a married man

@Man – CHEAPER TO KEEP HER that’s one way to look at it another is that some men love the family life and would NEVER get divorced and destroy the family. If he wanted to cheat there is nothing the wife could do to prevent him

Can I just point something out? It’s been said that he has been cheating on his wife for a long time and this is not the first woman. So whay do so many of you feel sorry for the wife? She didn’t have to say “I agree with cheating” but her actions did.

I CAN’T SAY….

Uhhh, why did you date him in the first place if you knew he had these character flaws? You set yourself up for that “DOOMED TO FAIL” shit.

People talk about sister’s real bad.This chick stated to her nephew “I Made It” meaning she met a baller.Whats up with that.

LOL. I know. The old trump and dump. Trump them by beating them to the point and ending it via text message. Dump by getting rid of the phone and sim card.
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LMMFAO!! They will hate men forever…lol

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trifling!!! text message that will only work if the person does not know where you live because they will want revenge

Also, he has been out with other women in their hometown before this girl so the wife IMO was publicly disrespected long before this situation.

@ Man, I just don’t care

i guess wht im saying is that so many people are saying he was cheating (as i was b4 u said they were seperated) but the story changes if they were seperated he was at liberty to live his life and move on as well as the wife. i still believe the divorce should be finalized before dating to avoid sito’s like this. so shame on him and ms persia for commiting adultry because leagally and in Gods eyes they were still wed!

****BREAKING NEWS***

SAHEL KAZEMI purchased a gun a few days ago, or ami late…lol

@ Marquis~

Charater Flaws!! You called it out perfectly, where were u in Sept. 2007 when I could have used that foresight?! But it was nothing lost for me, in 2009 I am right where I am supposed to be thanks to that experience…

@BE
“CHEAPER TO KEEP HER that’s one way to look at it another is that some men love the family life and would NEVER get divorced and destroy the family. If he wanted to cheat there is nothing the wife could do to prevent him”
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a person that would NEVER get divorced to “destroy the family life” must be incapaciatated in some way.

No, you can’t “prevent” someone from doing something. But her actions demonstrated that she condoned it.

@MIJDC – just because someone cheats does not mean there is something wrong with the other person..perhaps they just want to do what they want to do….so stop saying the wife wasn’t doing something.

If he sleeping around with everyone I’m sure his wife wanted as less contact with him as possibile

I’m out… LATER!!

trifling!!! text message that will only work if the person does not know where you live because they will want revenge
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a jump off will never ever ever no where i live unless she hire Magnum P.i.or some sh!t.

@Be

“@Sydney – she had not business falling in love with a married man”

True — and he had no business getting involved with a 20-year-old when he had a family at home. They were both in the wrong.

It’s always cheaper to keep her.

@man – a person that would NEVER get divorced to “destroy the family life” must be incapaciatated in some way.

No, you can’t “prevent” someone from doing something. But her actions demonstrated that she condoned it.

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If two people agree to keep their family together its their business to define whats good for them.

What was her other options – get divorced and live on the alimony child support – when she got the whole pie! that sounds like a crazy move to me

“a jump off will never ever ever no where i live unless she hire Magnum P.i.or some sh!t.”

LOL, or she could be a cyber sleuth.

“TRUE! alot of choices we make in life we have know idea of the effects it have on others around us.”

Sorry, but as a 36-year-old man, he had to know the possible fallout of having an affair. She was a kid — he wasn’t.

Ask these cats who joke about jump offs… Why don’t you just let your “wifey” go and do what you want? Why was there even a need for the phrase “jump off” or “side piece” to be popularized?

@Sydney – true he was wrong – not condoning it but if she she thought he was leaving his family she was very delusional.

@Snoop – you could be a little nicer and tell her on the phone..LOL! you never know when you will see that person again and they may run you over with a car in a parking lot because you did not see them first..lol

@Boo Hoo

Likewise, she stayed married while he cheated. She knew the deal and didnt have enough dignity to walk away. It meant too much to her to be the ballers wife. SO many women do it, so if he deserved to be killed, she deserved to be cheated on. Allow someone to walk over you, they will and you have no one to blame but yourself.

If two people agree to keep their family together its their business to define whats good for them.

What was her other options – get divorced and live on the alimony child support – when she got the whole pie! that sounds like a crazy move to me
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we don’t know the whole story, but i suspect they were seperated, considering he was always with the girl and out at all hours of the night, i guess we have to just stay tuned.

There are reports that the apt. was steves and his college teammate.

@Snoop
“TRUE! alot of choices we make in life we have know idea of the effects it have on others around us.”
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I agree with that statement, however in this case…he had to have known cheating was a bad choice, it ALWAYS is. it doesn’t take a genius to know that cheating on your wife and 4 kids is a bad idea.

on another note, really cute and clever screen name

@T,

Dont hate me because I am beautiful.

@Be

“@Sydney – true he was wrong – not condoning it but if she she thought he was leaving his family she was very delusional.”

Yes, that’s true, but isn’t it also true that many women involved in affairs with married men do hold the belief (I think sometimes it’s a defense mechanism for justifying their actions) that they will wind up with their lovers. And there are men who lie and tell women they’re going to leave their families. It happens all the time. Sometimes the brain isn’t the strongest working organ for these women — they are ruled by emotions, and they think they’re in love and they will wind up living happily ever after.

“What was her other options – get divorced and live on the alimony child support – when she got the whole pie! that sounds like a crazy move to me”

So if they did have an greement for her to get the “whole pie” in exchange for him cheating than what makes her better than a gold digger? a ring? some kids?…. isn’t that what some have said, that’s what a gold digger aspires to have from the wealthy man?

So you disrespect yourself for the good life? Either way it’s not a good look.

Wayne Neeley, who co-rented the condo with McNair, found the former Titan on the couch with a dead 20-year-old woman, identified as Sahel Kazemi, at about 1:30 p.m. on Saturday. Neeley called a friend, who then called police

snoop bloggy blog ( if you knew betta, you’d do betta)

****BREAKING NEWS***

SAHEL KAZEMI purchased a gun a few days ago, or ami late…lol

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Thats news to me, but I thought it was her when the story stared to evolve.. btw,, interesting Graivie

THE BOOTY DO

WHY THEY KEEP MAKING THESE CRAZY SONG/DANCES

Man I just don’t care…

YOU’RE A LIAR. Don’t sit up here and defame his wife and his family. Steve and his wife were not separated. When the news first hit, and the mistress was identified (MISTRESS…not girlfriend), they stated that McNair and his wife and kids went to her place of business every week!

So as the poster said, this deceased mistress knew he was married and had a family.

Funny how people protect the guilty and try to throw the innocent under the bus.

on another note, really cute and clever screen name
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thanks

@Souls – what she did is no different than CEO wives and garbage men wives all over do knowing or unknowingly.

I know women who take more from men who have less. He is the one disrspecing his family.

All I’m saying is if she didn’t know then I understand the pity as far as the cheating goes (not losing a family member), but if she did know then ” he deserved what he got” thinking should go out the window.

If you chose to stay with someone like that for the good life, you are weak. Period.

You don’t have the strength to leave and live on your own terms, to build your own life, and to be respected.

No respect all around.

So I guess a woman is wrong for keeping her vows if the man chooses to disrespect his and do everything but what God intended?

Hmmm this world is strange that we live in.

@Awful,

And what if it wasnt infidelity. What if it was physical abuse? What if it was drug addiction. She had kids, she should have protected them if she felt like it but she had her priorities and it wasnt a strong marriage. It was appearance. dont act brand new.

SoulSs

you’re assuming that she stayed because of the “good life”.

BIG A Assumption. She had 4 children with this man she’d been with almost all of her adult life. She was a wife. Not a girlfriend, not a side-piece, not a jump-off, not a mistress…but a WIFE.

And although some do not care to uphold their vows as spouses, she maybe, just MAYBE decided that she would uphold hers, and wherever he ended, he ended.

We all make choices in life. You can only control the choices you make as an individual.

I don’t know anyone’s faith on this board, but Christianity teaches those of us of the faith that divorce is not an option. And love covers a multitude of sins.

Because Steve decided to ignore his commitment to God and his wife, it shouldn’t follow that his wife decided to do the same.

Now the human being would say, he ain’t acting right, let him go. The spiritual would say, he ain’t acting right, let God handle him.

The woman is not wrong for kepingg her vows. It’s amazing if one is able to do that, but how much can one take before it becomes toxic for self? What about loving yourself?

Oh, and this is all hypothetically speaking so don’t get mad.

@Be,

She stayed with a cheater. The implication being that cheating was acceptable. If it was then she knew the rules. And no one is blaming her for the affair but she stayed, Kobes wife stayed, Hillary clinton stayed. They NOW know the men they married, so they cant complain.

Because Steve decided to ignore his commitment to God and his wife, it shouldn’t follow that his wife decided to do the same.

Now the human being would say, he ain’t acting right, let him go. The spiritual would say, he ain’t acting right, let God handle him.
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And God did.

Because Steve decided to ignore his commitment to God and his wife, it shouldn’t follow that his wife decided to do the same.

Now the human being would say, he ain’t acting right, let him go. The spiritual would say, he ain’t acting right, let God handle him.
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And God did.
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God fixed it so that his wife knows where he is every day and every night. No more creeping….

Oh, and this is all hypothetically speaking so don’t get mad.

The assumption was from another poster hene why put the ” ” up in reply…

I don’t like talking religion but I’m sure it says to love yourself as well.

It’s having a conversation with a woman ho’s mans beats the living crap out of her:

“Why do you stay”

woman: “Because I Love him”

Just doesn’t make sense to me.

@sepia830,

I would like to know why black females dont have an aversion to black men who arent employed or who will not wear condoms. Why are black females averse to paying their own rent (section 8) or paying their own health care (medical) or buying thier own food (food stamps) or paying for their own health care (crystal stairs) etc.

@Kigali – I doubt the wife is complaining she continued on just like Hilary didn’t and Kobe’s wife didn’t, they just look ahead and keep it moving. Maybe she had some goals of her own and some limits and dates. Maybe she had none but it was something she had to live with

Wow lol that last post was bad. I meant to say the following:

Oh, and this is all hypothetically speaking so don’t get mad.

The assumption was from another poster hence why put the ” ” up in my reply…

I don’t like talking religion but I’m sure it says to love yourself as well.

It’s like having a conversation with a woman whos mans beats the living crap out of her:

“Why do you stay”

woman: “Because I Love him”

Just doesn’t make sense to me

Black, white, Latin, Persian, Asian….we all want to know why black men have an aversion to employment and using condoms
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IDK…..that sh!t don’t apply to me. *shrugs shoulders*

Sepia830

Well, I being the exception to that rhetorical question/generalization, the same could be asked regarding black women aversion to using the 16 or so over the counter contraceptives at their disposal?

SoulSs

You always love yourself. Period. I’m sure she didn’t love being cheated on. She didn’t love being lied to. No one does.

I thank God that hasn’t been my lot in life at this point, because I may not be as strong as she is…as a matter of fact, I know I wouldn’t be.

The true way to love yourself is to do it without regard to how anyone else behaves. If someone calls me a name or runs over my dog, i’m not going to love me any less.

If a person chooses to do something to cause me harm, I’m not going to love myself any less.

Now my first reaction would be to retaliate and seek vengence, but that isn’t the way to go. I’m learning how not to be vengeful.

For all we know, Steve was ending this affair and that caused his untimely death.

No one makes perfect choices and there are a lot of people who mess up in their marital relationship. If you ask people who have been married 50 years, I’d guarantee that some earthshattering faith shaking stuff has gone down in most of the relationships that would have cause most of us to go our separate ways.

Because I love her would be a perfect answer to God

God is Love

Each person is judged according to their deeds not thier partners in life.

the quote says “Love thy neighbor as you love thyself”

Sorry guys…

My statements came from reading some people say they have personally seen him around town with other women. I find it hard to believe he was that good at hiding his creeping from hi wife if everybody else knew…

It’s okay to stay and work it out however you chose, but what I’m saying is if she made that choice everyone who said he deserves for cheating is wrong….

Does that spell it out?

Sydney

Aww darlin’ don’t keep those legs closed for too long…I’m gon’ have to call the SPCA cuz it ain’t right that you be starvin’ yo’ kitty.

@Marquis and Kagila

why yall going hard on black women over a comment made by a non-black woman

@Sephia 830 – are you black? because I know alot of men who use condoms and have jobs – where you been hanging?

BE

Sorry, force of habit. I’m tryin’ to change for Sydney, but it’s hard. It’s sooooo Hard.

@Kigali – I agree and I must say I would not make the same choice…some women think it could save the marriage or perhaps they had a set amount of kids to have or she loved children…who knows

@Souls – never listen to MIJDC – he’s a debater..lol

Marquis – so when is this change coming? lol cause i read some of your comments

If he would hads just stay faithfull to the beautiful sister who married him known of this would have happend baby. So sad on many levels.

@Marquis

“Aww darlin’ don’t keep those legs closed for too long…I’m gon’ have to call the SPCA cuz it ain’t right that you be starvin’ yo’ kitty.”

No comment, lol.

“Sorry, force of habit. I’m tryin’ to change for Sydney, but it’s hard. It’s sooooo Hard.”

LOL, well, you haven’t uttered “ni**a bi**h” in a while, so that’s an improvement. Make that change. It’s gonna feel real good, gonna make a difference, gonna make it rightttttt. . .

Eh this seeme like a murder-suicide to me and regardless of the morals or lack there of of the people involved there are four kids who don’t have a father and that to me is the biggest tragedy of all.

BE

…Actually, a couple of hours ago…But i ain’t promisin’ some radical change, especially if I run across comments like the one Sepia made…Just sayin’…

@Marquis – ok..I’ll be sending you reminders..you have toned down from 6 omths ago so i guess the change is happening gradually

Sydney

LOL! I’m gon’ take that no comment response as “OPERATION CLOSED LEGS” must’ve been compromised recently. LOL! Good for you, girl. All work and no play, ain’t healthy.

I am on vacation this weeks but all my strong brother and sister please I ask you take off work twomorow to pay respects to Mike Jackson please baby.

@Marquis

Nope, not at all.

@BE

@Sephia 830 – are you black? because I know alot of men who use condoms and have jobs – where you been hanging?
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Yes I am black and I’ve been working for child support enforcement for the last 11+ years. So I know of which I speak. Hell, I am in L.A. where there are more ninjas than the law allows and in an office of 200 employees, there are only about 8 or 9 black men. This is because my job runs background checks. If your credit if f’d up or you have a criminal record, you are sh*t outta luck.

@Sydney and Sephia

Are you ladies going to Mike Jackson tribute service? It is going to be a blessed event.

Sepia, I can tell that your view of black men is very jaded, and your frustration is evident. Please don’t take this the wrong way, but your perceptions may be colored by what you have observed on a daily basis on your job. But that is only a segment of black men — there are a number of brothers who are hard working, law-abiding, upstanding citizens, and it’s a slight against them to not recognize them and to lump them into the same negative stereotypes. It’s just as painful when we as black women are also cast in a certain light, told we are argumentative, bitter, unattractive, etc. No one likes to be put in a box, and it’s destructive to us as a people when we cast aspersions on one another.

I think this is a tragedy for everyone involved. However, I do have to agree with comments made earlier in regards to the media referring to this woman as a girlfriend and not a mistress. A girlfriend implies there is no Mrs. McNair,and there is.

@Sepia – the nature of your job would expose you to more men (black or other) that are not employed because if they were employed I would guess the child support order would not have to be enforced the court order would just go to the persons job.

If you only have 8 or 9 black men working at your job it may be that the hiring officials are not hiring black men. In fact your job seems like they are discriminating with those type of statistics. There are plenty of eligible black men to work but alot of firms would use any excuse not to recruit them

In contrast where I work the population of blacks is about 300 in which about 130 are men. We do all kinds of back ground and fiduciary checks. so I guess it is a matter of your environment how you will perceive how black men behave.

@Sydney – get out my head

@BE

“@Sydney – get out my head”

LOL, I see we’re on the same page. I do believe your environment — whether it’s your home or professional setting — can color your perceptions, and in certain fields in which you are in constant contact with people who are challenged, have checkered pasts, etc, what you observe is bound to seep into your psyche. But a differentiation must be observed between certain segments and the population as a whole.

*differentiation must be recognized*

@Sydney™ (Remembering Michael. . .)

Sepia, I can tell that your view of black men is very jaded, and your frustration is evident. Please don’t take this the wrong way, but your perceptions may be colored by what you have observed on a daily basis on your job. But that is only a segment of black men — there are a number of brothers who are hard working, law-abiding, upstanding citizens, and it’s a slight against them to not recognize them and to lump them into the same negative stereotypes. It’s just as painful when we as black women are also cast in a certain light, told we are argumentative, bitter, unattractive, etc. No one likes to be put in a box, and it’s destructive to us as a people when we cast aspersions on one another.
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I knew black men had issues long before i started working for child support, but you are right that working there has helped to tarnish my image of the black man. If you could see and hear the nonsense they exhibit you would be affected as well. I usually don’t go around speaking ill of black men (after all I am raising a son), except to say that they are no longer my preference. I do it here in response to the venom being spewed by Marquis and Kigali about black women. Rather than put us down, they need to show some respect for all that we have accomplished and stop talking about weaves, body weight and other juvenile nonsense.

@Marquis – pugnacious – I like that word!

@Sydney – Yes, I know some people who work in HR sometimes get discouraged when they see so many people who are not prepared ect for interviews and they complain.

I always share with them look at all the others who made it through smoothly. There are alot of good brothers out there and if women stop complaining about them they could see it too

the burning bed is on – encore drama

@Sepia

“I knew black men had issues long before i started working for child support, but you are right that working there has helped to tarnish my image of the black man. If you could see and hear the nonsense they exhibit you would be affected as well.”

Oh, I’m sure I would be affected if I saw and heard what you do on a daily basis. An attorney friend of mine used to work on criminal cases, and she saw an entirely different side of life than what I’m accustomed to. But try not to let the misery and pathos affect you to the point of increasing your pessimism.

The same goes for trolling on this site. I know it’s hard to ignore the denigrating remarks thrown at black women, but please realize that it’s done for the purpose of provoking a reaction. We all know what black women have accomplished, what we are capable of, and how valuable we are. Nothing written on this blog is going to change that.

@mARQUIS – YOUR HORNS ARE SHOWING! LOL

Marquis,

You were doing so well. Let’s address this in a civil manner, please.

@BE

@Sepia – the nature of your job would expose you to more men (black or other) that are not employed because if they were employed I would guess the child support order would not have to be enforced the court order would just go to the persons job.
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This is not necesarily the case as many of them are paying but come in to get downward mods, etc.. because they have fathered more children and want to claim hardships. I alone am responsible for 4,000 cases and I don’t just deal with the non-paying mofos. I also do not base my opinions solely on my job. I grew up in the hood and now live in a predominantly white area and while there are some black men who have their sh*t together, they are NOT in the majority. I have plenty of black male friends and family members who are trifling as hell too. All I can do is do my best to make sure my son doesn’t turn out to be one of them.

His own wife told the police he didnt come home for two days. She knew what was going on. She allowed him to get away with it so he kept on. He probably did want to leave her because she was passive and allowed him to do that mess. People get bored in marriages and start looking for something new. But if they can get away with doing what they without having to go thru divorce proceedings they will. He was out in public with this chic so he wanted to get caught and was spending ample amounts of time with her which made her believe they were in a bonafide relationship. So why wouldnt she think he wasnt getting a divorce. He bought her a car and probably gave her money and other gifts. This kind of stuff happens everyday. I just feel sad for his kids and the feelings they may be experiencing at the loss of their father.

Sydney & BE

Sorry, but I wouln’t be me if didn’t get one last jab with my cyber dagger.

**Women: STOP blaming other women for YOUR CHEATING HUSBAND!*** If you CHOOSE to stay with him, then live with it.

People cant POSSIBLY be this ignorant to justify the murder of two people because we dont like their lifestyle. The mistress did not deserve to die anymore than this adulterer. While I dont agree with their behavior show a LITTLE respect. Its a shame that people believe that if a woman isnt perfect, she somehow deserves the WORST in life.

This a a tragedy all around. Two people are dead and from what I Can see, neither did anything to deserve it.

Note: I did NOT Write anything about my mother being addicted to crack or my father leaving. That was a FAKE “From Experience” who was incapable of dealing with the truth I was speaking.

@Sephia830
This is not necesarily the case as many of them are paying but come in to get downward mods, etc.. because they have fathered more children and want to claim hardships. I alone am responsible for 4,000 cases and I don’t just deal with the non-paying mofos. I also do not base my opinions solely on my job. I grew up in the hood and now live in a predominantly white area and while there are some black men who have their sh*t together, they are NOT in the majority. I have plenty of black male friends and family members who are trifling as hell too. All I can do is do my best to make sure my son doesn’t turn out to be one of them.
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Thank you sista..and please be sure to send your son my way when he gets of age! LOL

@BE

“There are alot of good brothers out there and if women stop complaining about them they could see it too”

Yes, that’s true — They also don’t always come in the glitzy package that some women are looking for. There are many good-hearted brothers who take good care of the women in their lives. They include some men whom some sisters may see as “square,” “corny,” or some other dismissive adjective, but it takes more than a shiny exterior or “swag” (I hate that word, btw) to make a good man. A man with a good heart and character is a treasure, and men who fit that description do exist — sometimes, they’re right in your vicinity and you may overlook them.

@ marquis. i am usually one too disagree with u but @ one point on this post i have to jump on board BLACK MEN ARE THA BESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@Sydney™ (Remembering Michael. . .)

@Sepia

“I knew black men had issues long before i started working for child support, but you are right that working there has helped to tarnish my image of the black man. If you could see and hear the nonsense they exhibit you would be affected as well.”

I know it’s hard to ignore the denigrating remarks thrown at black women, but please realize that it’s done for the purpose of provoking a reaction. We all know what black women have accomplished, what we are capable of, and how valuable we are. Nothing written on this blog is going to change that.
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I’m an adult and if I choose to react that’s on me. Making excuses for the people who behave like idiots is not my thing. You see how Marquis responded when someone came at him in a disrespectful manner, don’t you? I’m just proving something we all know…..he like so many others can dish it out but can’t take it. Trust me I am not losing any sleep over these morons who obviously walk around with their heads so far up their asses they cannot see straight.

@Marquis de Sade

Sydney & BE

Sorry, but I wouln’t be me if didn’t get one last jab with my cyber dagger.
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Oh did you jab? I didn’t even notice…… (yawn)

Sepia

Oh, boo hoo, you had a bad day, who doesn’t have a bad day at work from time to time? Get over it! California is dealin’ with an over 11.5% unemployment rate…You should be happy you aren’t in that 11.5%, stupid. Now have a drink and get laid.

@Sepia

“Trust me I am not losing any sleep over these morons who obviously walk around with their heads so far up their asses they cannot see straight.”

OK, gotcha.

You’re an MJ fan, too?

many would say that woman didnt make the babies by themselve well neither do the men, some woman and men plan children but to many times woman trick men to trap them claiming thier on birth control blah, blah, blah. Its the truth so i can care less who gets offended. Shame on the brothas for falling for it especially if this isn’t the person who you wana spend your life with. Who hasnt had a failed relationship not many of us. but just as i’ve had my share of losers I was blessed with a great man. even if he had not been the one I would have never given up on tha brothers!!!! So what sum of em are dead beats but those r the ones u pass on by. and hobestly i try 2 love all sistas but i get sick of hearing complaints about black men dating out of their race if they want a pink booty let em have that. find or let one find you who’ll love u 4 u. And let the rest do what they do.

? 4 sepia830

i didnt read all ur post so excuse me if this question sounds ignorant but do u date black men?

@Sepia – I have more thugs in my family than the law should allow and some are still irresponsible but the ones that grow up and learn lessons are greater in numbers.

Seems like black people are sooo hard on each other while the whole world is also criticizing us what good does it do for us to share those same harsh feelings.

@Sydney™ (Remembering Michael. . .)

You’re an MJ fan, too?
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A die hard fan, girl. Still can’t believe he’s gone but tomorrow will make it more of a reality.

@Marquis – have a drink – that is best advice you’ve given allll day..I think i will

@Sepia

I can’t believe he’s gone either. I’ve told myself that tomorrow is the final goodbye. It feels so sad, so final.

Did you see this, by the way? I don’t understand why people are still taking pot shots when MJ is gone. I hate Republicans:

United States Representative Peter T. King, a Republican from Long Island, condemned Michael Jackson this week as a “lowlife” and “child molester” who does not deserve the public adulation he has received since his death last month.

@BE

You like Mojitos, too? I think you mentioned them earlier.

@ Old Timer re:
God fixed it so that his wife knows where he is every day and every night. No more creeping….
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LMAOOOOOOOO I fell out laughing…but you’re right. Shit, you’re SO right!

Sydey & BE

I had some Mojitos last night while lookin’ at some cheesy action blu-ray dvd. Have y’all tried Bacardi’s Mojitos? Guaranteed to give you a buzz.

@Marquis

I don’t think I’ve had a Barcardi’s Mojito. I’ll have to try it. I think this is the perfect time of year for that drink.

@Sepia

Thanks for the compliment — I read your posts, and you’re very intelligent, and funny, as well. I laughed out loud at your commentary on the BET Awards.

Yes, even though MJ had been out of the public eye for years after the trial, it still hurts so much that he’s gone. I can’t tell you how I felt when I heard the news. Thanks for the site! I will check it out. I lost my copy of Off the Wall years ago, and I just bought another edition off Half.com. They have some really good deals on old MJ CDs and other memorabilia. I would like to get a copy of the Moonwalker DVD as well.

@Marquis and Syd

the Bacardi Mojitos are good they have Raspberry now. another cool drink is malibu rum and pineapple juice..you can drink about 4 of those and just get anice buzz!

@Sydney

Did you ever read his autobiography ‘Moonwalk’? I still have my copy. I usually donate all my books to the library once I’m done reading them, but I held on to that one. Now if I could just find it. 2 closets down, 1 more to go…

@Sepia

Well, we knew the insanity was coming. I’m sure there will be all sorts of sights tomorrow in LA. I read a story from British Airways about their flights selling out to Cali. It’s going to be a mob scene for sure.

I saw Madonna’s tribute in London over the weekend on YouTube, and it was nice. I thought it was a thoughtful gesture on her part.

@BE

“another cool drink is malibu rum and pineapple juice..you can drink about 4 of those and just get anice buzz!”

I love pineapple, so I’ll definitely have to try that out. Thanks

BET is doing a tribute called Remember the times – I hope the redeem themselves

@Sepia

“Did you ever read his autobiography ‘Moonwalk’? I still have my copy.”

No, I didn’t. How was it? Truthfully, it was hard for me to read/hear accounts of the abuse he suffered during childhood. I think that’s one aspect that hurts me most about his death — I think there was always part of Michael that was in pain. As much joy as he brought to others through his music, he suffered a lot in private. I will try to find a copy, though.

@BE

Is it on now?

@Sydney – No it is not on now…i will see when its coming on

Thanks, BE. I don’t think BET can redeem itself. That so-called “tribute” was despicable. I felt bamboozled. I wouldn’t have tuned into the show if I knew it was going to be an exercise in buffoonery. I should have known better.

the bet awards are on again…yuck!

I will have to ask my son to do a search i don’t know how to use my fios…lol

Remember the Time: the Michael Jackson story comes on BET this Sat. (7/11) at 4:00 p.m. (Part I) & 6:00 p.m. (Part II); and Sun. (7/12) at 1:00 p.m. (Conclusion)

Actually the showing on Sunday seems to be a replay of the Parts (I, II) shown on Sat. – seems like a good candidate for DVR

RIP Steve! My condolences to the family in this time of need. I will also pray for you, if you think that Steve’s killing is justified, because of his actions. No person deserves this, and I cant help but wonder about the small portion of our people who feel that they do. Do you feel that any of your actions constitute being murdered?

Okay now they are saying that McNair’s side ho introduced him to her family because she believed he was going to leave his wife. Uh….yeah, she had to be real young doing some stupid ish like that. And tacky too…

@BE

LOL, well, that’s understandable. I’ve hated BET for a while now, and I’ve met people who have worked there and left because of the poor quality of programming, etc. Last week’s awards show was the final straw for me. All eyes were on BET that night, and it failed miserably — it was embarrassing. Millions of people tuned in and saw black people at their worst, and it was billed as a tribute to Michael. It was inexcusable.

@Butterscotch

LOL, I know what you mean about the “creative” gravies. I think I’ve seen every part of the human anatomy on here at one point or another.

@Sepia

“Okay now they are saying that McNair’s side ho introduced him to her family because she believed he was going to leave his wife.”

That doesn’t surprise me — her relatives seemed to know a lot about him. Is it true that he took his family to Dave & Buster’s while they were dating? So she saw his wife and kids? That’s so twisted to me.

Just saw this on TMZ, btw:

The fact that Steve McNair’s home was on the market while he was having an affair has caused speculation that he was getting a divorce … but we just found out he and his wife were actually looking to buy another home.

We spoke to McNair’s realtor, who said Steve and Mechelle were selling their massive Nashville home to buy another one “near a lake.”

We’re told the Nashville home was set to be sold for $2.9 million, and that Mechelle told the realtor yesterday that she wanted the sale to go ahead as planned.

Wait, ladies, this tidbit is very interesting. Why did it take so long for 911 to be called?:

Aaron said detectives were also concerned about the length of time it took McNair’s friend and roommate to call police once the bodies were discovered. Wayne Neely, who rented the condo with McNair, got there just before 1 p.m. Saturday, but police weren’t called until another friend arrived at 1:35 p.m.

@Sydney – now you know they had to call their publicist or agent to see how to report the killings. smh @ what is done in the dark will come to light.

I’m glad she is still going to sell the house she needs a change of scenery.

There are very few reasons why someone would wait to call 911. At top of the list are shock and/or the need to “adjust” something before the cops got there. As my grandmother says, “something in the milk ain’t clean.” And the plot thickens.

and there goes the theory he was leaving his wife out the door…he was never going anywhere. Perhaps he went to tell her it was over.

People of all colors need to learn that cheating often can escalate into tragedy.

@BE

Well, I guess that’s where the phone records would come in. What were they doing in the half hour before police were called?

@Butterscotch

You’re right, something in the milk ain’t clean. The police also refused to comment on whether they think there was any tampering with evidence, and the tape of the 911 call hasn’t been released.

How are you BE? I see your sun shines into the night. lol

@BE

“and there goes the theory he was leaving his wife out the door…he was never going anywhere. Perhaps he went to tell her it was over.”

I think she knew it was over when she was arrested for the DUI — hence why she bought a gun shortly after. Something prompted her to take that action.

@Sydney™ (Remembering Michael. . .)

@Sepia

“Okay now they are saying that McNair’s side ho introduced him to her family because she believed he was going to leave his wife.”

That doesn’t surprise me — her relatives seemed to know a lot about him. Is it true that he took his family to Dave & Buster’s while they were dating? So she saw his wife and kids? That’s so twisted to me.
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I think I did read something about that. I don’t know…maybe his wife suggested they go to Dave and Busters and he went along? Who knows? I think in the end his “girlfriend” issued him an ultimatum and she didn’t get the answer she was looking for so she killed him and herself (becuz if she couldn’t have him, neither could his wife). Nobody likes rejection.

I wonder if the wife will ever speak publicly about this? I wouldn’t for the sake of the kids.

lol @ the nighttime sleuths

@Z – Is that really you?? Hey Lady

@Whoa – are they catching predators on dateline? that right there is funny and sad at the same time

@Sydney – you know celebreties always hiding something..can’t wait for more of the story to unfold.

@Sepia

“I think in the end his “girlfriend” issued him an ultimatum and she didn’t get the answer she was looking for so she killed him and herself (becuz if she couldn’t have him, neither could his wife). Nobody likes rejection.”

Yes, something really turned in the relationship for her — You don’t introduce men to your family unless you’re serious, and she was thinking about marriage. I think the DUI was the turning point.

No, if I were his wife, I wouldn’t speak publicly. This is painful enough as it is, particularly with all the media attention. She has to think of her kids.

@BE

Yeah, they’re hiding something alright. I know if I found my friend murdered, I would dial 9-1-1 instantaneously.

BE

@Whoa – are they catching predators on dateline? that right there is funny and sad at the same time
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Good night BE Nah this is a special on Micheal tonight.

@whoa – how did you make that big ole smile?

I just refuse to belive this was a murder suicide. Nope. No way. I know chicks can get crazy, but I can NOT believe this 20 year old got so pissed, she got that balls to shoot this man up and THEN kill herself? Hell nah.

These kinds of situations don’t shock me – just the people involved. I have a friend who is a former prosecutor, and domestic-related assault/murder cases comprised almost half of her cases at any given time…and crossed all boundaries of gender, ethnicity and socio-economic status.

do a colon (:) with a capital ‘D’ put it together
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thanks…toot-it-up..lol

I see you got a handle to your name.lol

President Obama is doing a horrible job of leading this country in the right direction. He no longer gets a free pass and as someone who works on a major government base and live near DC I see people who voted for him already realizing we are in trouble. Our deficit is continuing to swell out of control and his stimimulus package was a poor idea. Our children’s children (if we survive as a Nation)will be working to get us out of his mess. Giving handouts to those who refuse to work or even pursue gainful employment is not exactly what I consider stimulating the economy.

whatever the girl was….I know she wasn’t black!!! If she was he would be alive more than likely……………

Why did oshie have to go to social service?

oooh yea! for food stamps to feed her trailer trash family and to get counseling for her crystal meth habit…….???? Hang in there girl!!!!

@BE

Stay real as I know you will lady! Im tired and calling it a day.

Just My Opinion said:

“President Obama is doing a horrible job of leading this country in the right direction. He no longer gets a free pass and as someone who works on a major government base and live near DC I see people who voted for him already realizing we are in trouble.”
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Well, if they are just now realizing we are in trouble, they have been living under a rock for the last 8 years. Why are fools thinking that Obama is going to undo and fix 8 years of mismanagement in his first 6 months in office? He told folks straight up that things were going to get worse before they got better.

We now return to our regularly scheduled gossip discussion.

THIS OSHIE POSTER HAS TO BE ONE OF THE MOST STUPID PEOPLE I HAVE EVER COME ACROSS ON THE ENTERNET

RIP AIR

WHAT HIDES IN THE DARK ,MUST COME TO LIFE.

EVERYTHING HAPPENDS FOR A REASON,…….MAYBE THIS COULD BE A WAKE UP CALL FOR ALOT OF PEOPLE.

My heart goes out to Mrs. McNair. Men who creep in the dark will not cry in the light. They will remain silent to hide their dirt. Mrs Mcnair had to suspect something. If the money had stopped coming in she would have been all over Steve Mcnair ass. What’s done in the dark will come to the light (Dead or Alive)

Well, the one good thing about Steve’s death is that his wife no longer has to worry about where he is at night.

That’s on lock.

All I have to say is maybe some of you should expand your life experiences and travel a bit. Explore other cultures and ways of life first hand because America is dumbing you down.

Damn..

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Marquis de Sade, yes you are right if the Persian male comes from a rich family, but it depends if they are old school (or many centries behind, lol) or modern, how religious they are. If the guy is from an average family where the family isn’t wealthy and they just attend community college and get a decent job (or a Walmart employee), then if he doesn’t want to hook up and marry a Persian chick he’ll have a White baby momma, most likely, lol… Again, I haven’t seen a Persian guy with a Black chick. Well the thing is Persian guys are usually aggressive and so are the majority of Black chicks are also aggressive so you know that would an explosive combination, lol. Just because I haven’t seen a Persian guy/Black chick couple doesn’t mean they don’t exist.

His wife, despite the fact that they were married for a long time should have just served him his divorce papers, shed a tear and just moved on with her life. The fact that they were separated and not really in close contact is the motive for a divorce.

come on now. cheating on your wife is wrong, and i don’t condone it in any way, but he was a living breathing human being. he was a father, forget being a husband. so how can you sit there and say that he got what he deserved? nobody deserves to die, especially in that way.