Sad situation…. all the way around.

You always hurt the ones you love

Well the nephew should be offering condolences to the family of McNair..it takes two to tango and Kazemi is not the only victim here..her family had no problem with knowing she was accepting gifts etc and seeing an athlete so why didn’t her family step up months ago..sad story but McNair was not the only a****** in this situation and the girl knew damn well what she was getting into

He made some unfortunate decisions, but he didn’t deserve to die. I hope this makes us all more cognizant of who we connect ourselves with and at what cost! My prayers are with his family.

Still praying for his kids.

Messing with them whites hoes, while your wife at home

I missed that Kazemi was a waitress at Dave and Buster’s. A rich woman wouldn’t look twice at a waiter. The larger issue is that folks really need to think twice about whom they let into their lives, especially since the decisions you make today, may impact your kids tomorrow. So sad.

Let me start out by saying I hate to wish death on someone but I honestly think this man would be alive today if he didn’t try to inflate his ego but getting outside pu$$Y.

I hate it for his children. Yeah, they’ll probably be secure financially but what about the emotional stigma attached to them for the rest of their lives???

If NOBODY learns from this, I hope his children will grow up to know honesty, trust, and integrity.

If they even THINK about straying, this should be a harsh reminder of what NOT to do!

**By getting outside pu$$y

I only feel for his wife and FOUR sons. What a shame McNair didn’t think of his boys. Even if he and his wife were having trouble, the children should always come first.

Sorry, but he made a fool out of his wife!!!! Personally, as a wife and my husband got “offed” by his piece of ass, I would not attend the funeral services, to resist the urge of spitting in his face.

Toxicity
Is speaking the damn truth. Sad as it may be. Steve didn’t think his actions would catch up with him to this extent. I’m sure his wife knew about the other women, and she like A LOT of other women chose to stay. Steve knew it’s cheaper to keep her, and still do his dirt on the side.
God is a just God, and I believe when you’re doing wrong there’s always a chance for you to change your ways before being taken out. If it wasn’t his time to go then he would still be alive but God had different plans for this man.
Steve was responsible for his own death, he just had a little help from his crazy jump off.

@ Toxicity – This seems to be affecting you more than a little bit. How about signing up for some mental counseling dear? And how you gonna be cursing and talking about God in the same breath? SMH…. Something’s wrong with you!

And yes, Steve McNair made a mistake. Tell me which one of you up in here is perfect? Those without sin PLEASE cast the first stone!

Everyone makes mistakes! I don’t think he deserved to die because he made a mistake!

Some of you seriously need JESUS!

@ DRENK–

Ask Steve then, get back at me!

I’d like to know his thoughts.

The sad thing is–this will be a wake up call to only a few. Yeah, it might have hurt the hotel industry for a few days but sadly, this man will fade into memory and people will continue to step out on their significant others.

SMH!!!

@ 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

POINT TAKEN, when they finishing scooping his cerebellum off the couch I’ll try to get an interview

I agree with everything that everyone is saying. Sometimes Men (the ones that cheat) get so arrogant and think that they can do no wrong. Sadly this cost Steve McNair his life. What’s even more sad he will never be able to explain to his wife why he did this!

I don’t think that anyone is saying that he deserved to die. No one deserves to die until his/her appointed time. I’m just saying that you need to keep mess/junk/negativity out of your home life, especially if it may affect your family.

I know a man that feels it’s his birthright to cheat!!!

His way of thinking is–

I provide well for my family. (Financially he does)
My wife doesn’t need or have to work. (She doesn’t)
I give her everything she wants. (materialistically, he does)

AND–

She KNOWS he’s cheating. When the sensitive issue comes up, she honestly admits that she’s accustomed to what she has and is afraid to go back to her lifestyle before marriage.

I just SMH.

See–I think cheaters sometimes seek out women with low self esteem and low morals. They fill their heads with shyt and shower them with all sorts of material things. This is a way of roping them in.

Yes–to SOME men, we as independent women ARE a threat to them because you see–independent does NOT stand for material gain alone! Our minds, hearts and souls are accustom to being independent as well and there are some things a STRONG woman would just not tolerate! ESPECIALLY with shyt out there that can hand you a death sentence (by genitals or otherwise in this case!)

Just MY opinion.

LMBAO@ “I blame Shakespeare for this tragedy”

LOL!!!!!!

@ DRENK–

I appreciate you understanding my point!

We are all alived by the grace of God.
Maybe Steve played with God and his vows just one to many times….

@ TOXICITY

PLS. SHUT YOUR IGNORANT, ILLITERATE, SOUNDING AZZ UP. PLEASE… U SOUND SO MF’ING STUPID. WHAT DO YOU DO WITH YOUR USELESS LIFE? PROB NOTHING BUT JUDGE. HOW IN THE HELL DO YOU KNOW IF THAT GIRL IS GOING TO HELL? HAVE YOU DIED, CROSSED OVER, GOT JUDGED BY GOD AND CAME BACK TO THIS REALITY TO TESTIFY? THEN SHUT UP. YEAH, I KNOW…THE BIBLE SAYS… YEAH, THE BIBLE WAS WRITTEN BY HUMANS AND HAVE CONTRIDICTIONS AND SCARE TACTICS IN IT. NOT SAYING I DON’T BELIEVE. STOP JUDGING AND JUST READ THE F’ING ARTICLE FOR WHAT IT IS. THAT’S WHATS WRONG WITH HUMANS…WE ALWAYS USE GOD IN REFERENCE TO PROVE AN ELUSIVE POINT. MANY HAVE DIED IN THE NAME OF THE LORD AND THE WAR IS NOT OVER. YOU, ME HIM AND THEM ARE NO BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE, INCLUDING THESE TWO. SHE WAS BOTH OF THEIR VEHICLES TO THE OTHER SIDE. STOP SPEWING YOUR RELIGIOUS BS AROUND, KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. AND SINCE YOU JUDGING AND SPEAKING AS THOUGH YOU KNOW SOMETHING, DON’T FORGET YOUR BIBLE SAY’S THOSE WHO JUDGE ARE ENDANGERING THEMSELVES OF GOING TO HELL ALSO. SO THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK. THIS IS GOD’S WORK, AS IS EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD. GOD MADE EVERYTHING. INCLUDING SATAN – WHO HE CAST OUT OF HEAVEN. YOU DUMB, DIZZY MOFO.

@ We “Blacks”–

I lol’d at that, too!

@ 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

You know you the truth? Right? I mean, you know this shit, don’t you? Every post I’ve seen you come with the raw and uncut truth.

Dang!

I know of a few sistas that would put sugar in the tank, bust out the windows, slash the tires and even make a few calls to the home but KILL a brotha??

Nah, can’t say that I know of any.

No one is perfect, but I think he paid for his actions with his life. No can say if the cost was too high or not high enough. However, his family & friends are suffering more than he is right now, so how is his death just? I can’t question why God does things the way that he does, I can just hope that we all learn from his mistake. People do not respect the sanctity (I hope that is the right word) of marriage.

@ this some shhh..

Nah, you got me beat! I ALWAYS look to read your posts!

REALTALK!!!

@1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!
I know of a few sistas that would put sugar in the tank, bust out the windows, slash the tires and even make a few calls to the home but KILL a brotha??

Nah, can’t say that I know of any.
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EXACTLY! LOL!!! Because no matter what folks think of us, we think way too highly of our selves to kill him and THEN ourselves!?!?! HECK NO!!!

I know some sistas might kill a man, but they ain’t killing themselves! LOL!!!

@Simply Beautiful

Look there’s mistakes like forgetting to turn the flat iron off before you leave the house, or not tipping the waitress enough.
Then theres MISTAKES that are life-changing like over-tipping the waitress by making her your side piece and prancing all over town with…Keep in my mind he was sitting in the front pew of his church professing his love for his wife and family and telling the chuuuch (lol) folks how much of a great man he is.
His mistakes are not everyday mistakes.

@ 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

Nahhh. I feel like, you was that sista I used to roll to when I had some over the line issues with a female, and she be like, where she at?

are we the only people(blacks) that don’t kill ourselves over finances?

I couldn’t disagree with Toxic’s comments more. You make way too many assumptions about God’s so-called work. You, first, too easily identify the work of this young lady with the work and wrath of God. To argue God made her buy the gun and shoot McNair is just presumptuous. This was her choice as far as we know. Besides what gives “you” such a vantage point to know this as the wrath of God? Clearly, even if God is all-knowing, YOU are not, so why the cynical reading of this mans death? Why the preempting of the judgment of God?

For instance, you have already consigned the woman to hell because of her suicide. What gives you the right to make this choice? If God is all powerful and all-knowing, as you surmise, then shouldn’t you excuse yourself from deciding how God will judge? Aren’t you infringing on the freedom of God to judge in the way that God decides? Moreover, if God is a loving, personal God (at least as it is typically understood in the biblical text) then why does Karma—a principle which is based on a consistent and impersonal process of cause and effect—have the final word?

Finally, to say that McNair or this obviously sensitive, young woman, who was experiencing unknown pain—and clearly dealing with it in an unhealthy way—DESERVED the bullets overlooks the fact that all of us quite often get WHAT WE DO NOT DESERVE. This is the way of grace. The superficial view that “we deserve what we get,” at least from my standpoint, overlooks the grace of God which we all benefit from. We all make sinful choices; we all can be better mothers, fathers, sisters and brothers; we all can be better neighbors. Now, I certainly don’t expect everyone—including yourself—to agree with me, but I wish we would think through and wrestle more with some of our viewpoints or at least be more sensitive/merciful to the humanity of those who experience such tragic deaths.

We all will someday die….. Let us hope it is with dignity; and no matter how we die, our death will be a witness to our humanity.

peace and love

RIP Steve McNair and Sahel Kazemi

@ tru diva…..in here spitting that ism huh?

Yo, gotta bounce.

@ this some shhhh…………

DAMN you know me!!! LMAO!!!!!

I was the one the girls called when they “thought” their man was getting some on the side.

LMAO @ the memories of me and my homegirl in the all black AND ski masks!

@ Snoop–

Aww, baby! You know how I do!

Lol!!!

Simply Beautiful said:

“And yes, Steve McNair made a mistake. Tell me which one of you up in here is perfect? Those without sin PLEASE cast the first stone!

Everyone makes mistakes! I don’t think he deserved to die because he made a mistake!

Some of you seriously need JESUS!”

I really don’t think that anyone up in here is claiming to be perfect, stuff like this just hits close to home for some, especially women.

Just like when I was on another urban website a few months ago and there was a story about a man choking his wife to death after she called out another man’s name and the general concensus…from the men was “See, that’s why you can’t mess around like that, let that happen to me, the same sh!t woulda went down!” Guys up in here acting all blasé about sh!t until they are on the other side of the fence a situation. LOL!

If we are gonna bring the religion into this, then one sin is no greater than the other right? Different sins hold more wait for certain people. If Steve were a child molester or a rapist, and people were saying “he got what he deserved!” I’m pretty sure people wouldn’t be going “What’s wrong with everyone! No one’s perfect!!!”…although a sin IS a sin.

My point is no one in the world is perfect and at some point absolutely EVERYONE is a hypocrite, because, as we can see, humans don’t use logic ALL of the time, sometimes emotions, empathy and experience gets in the way of it.

BooRae

@ TOXICITY

PLS. SHUT YOUR IGNORANT, ILLITERATE, SOUNDING AZZ UP. PLEASE… U SOUND SO MF’ING STUPID. WHAT DO YOU DO WITH YOUR USELESS LIFE? PROB NOTHING BUT JUDGE. HOW IN THE HELL DO YOU KNOW IF THAT GIRL IS GOING TO HELL? HAVE YOU DIED, CROSSED OVER, GOT JUDGED BY GOD AND CAME BACK TO THIS REALITY TO TESTIFY? THEN SHUT UP. YEAH, I KNOW…THE BIBLE SAYS… YEAH, THE BIBLE WAS WRITTEN BY HUMANS AND HAVE CONTRIDICTIONS AND SCARE TACTICS IN IT. NOT SAYING I DON’T BELIEVE. STOP JUDGING AND JUST READ THE F’ING ARTICLE FOR WHAT IT IS. THAT’S WHATS WRONG WITH HUMANS…WE ALWAYS USE GOD IN REFERENCE TO PROVE AN ELUSIVE POINT. MANY HAVE DIED IN THE NAME OF THE LORD AND THE WAR IS NOT OVER. YOU, ME HIM AND THEM ARE NO BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE, INCLUDING THESE TWO. SHE WAS BOTH OF THEIR VEHICLES TO THE OTHER SIDE. STOP SPEWING YOUR RELIGIOUS BS AROUND, KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. AND SINCE YOU JUDGING AND SPEAKING AS THOUGH YOU KNOW SOMETHING, DON’T FORGET YOUR BIBLE SAY’S THOSE WHO JUDGE ARE ENDANGERING THEMSELVES OF GOING TO HELL ALSO. SO THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK. THIS IS GOD’S WORK, AS IS EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD. GOD MADE EVERYTHING. INCLUDING SATAN – WHO HE CAST OUT OF HEAVEN. YOU DUMB, DIZZY MOFO.
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@Boo Rae
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Really, its a good thing you put it in all caps because your point might not have gotten across. First of all, I don’t read the Bible, I’m not Christian. The three Holy Books do say that suicide will take you straight to Hell, “do not pass go, do not collect $200,” alright. I’m not judging them, God will do that perfectly.
But look at you, are you not judging me and making assumptions of my character…that makes you a hypocrite. Then you say don’t bring God in this and don’t preach but then at the end you say God is involve in all things…make up your mind psycho…
McNair claimed to be a man very in touch with the church and God so I can comment about how is behavior was very contradicting of his beliefs.

@ Toxicity
This has nothing to do with God or Satan.
That man made every decision that lead him to his unfortunate demise.

God is one of love and care through all mistakes no matter how BIG or small.

Was McNair wrong? of course, there is never a good reason for stepping out on your family in that way.

u are asking about that womans frame of mind, when she killed him, apparently she thought just like you since you both think you know when someone deserves to die.

Learn from others mistakes with your mouth closed.

Thing is… most of the jump-offs I heard rumors about were college educated black girls.
Meaning, if it ended with Steve or not, they had something going on with them and some self-worth and a way to improve their lives without him.

This girl had NOTHING. And this was in her mind her ticket out of her situation.

She had no education, she had no money, she didn’t even have a mom or dad.

I believe more and more that Steve never promised her anything. I think she just told people that because she wanted this that to happen and she had to justify her actions to her family.

So KNOWING she was just his concubine sent her over the edged and made her realize, that she was not getting out of her situation.

I meant I believe that Steve didn’t promise her anything….

@ Divine–

Tell ‘em, hun!!

I’m like “If you want another–FINE!!! I’m NOT losing everything I’ve worked so hard to build up just so say I got the last laugh!”

I can’t floss my E320…IN jail!!!

I can’t rock my CL’s…IN JAIL!!!

I can’t raise Mykel…IN JAIL!!!

I can’t terrorize the neighborhood kids…IN JAIL!!

Oh HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!

(Notice I didn’t mention ANYTHING about taking MY OWN LIFE!!! LMAO!!!!)

Lol!!!!

LMAO!! @ SOMER….slice tires, broke out windows, cussed out, alot of threats, but he would’ve live to see another day

@ray ray

God didn’t make her shoot him and shoot herself that was free will. God lined up the possibilities for her and him to end the situation. She is wrong for taking someone else’s life point blank. that’s a fact.
My opinion is that he deserved it and obviously she thought so as well. She also thought her life was unworthy of living. Why I am going to weep over the lives of people who didn’t care about their own lives. Suicide is the equivalent of murder, the taking of a life is all the same whether it be by the hand of another or your own. Thou Shalt Not Kill. Basic Principles of Life whether you believe in God are not.

Life is indeed fragile and it can end at any time. As a result, we should value it and it was a shame for a man who was blessed enough to taste the best that life offered to get caught up in this shit. He chose to cheat on his wife with that sand nicca and got shot. I pray for them and their families but…and they did what they did and got what they got.

@Toxic
“The three Holy Books do say that suicide will take you straight to Hell”

Neither the Hebrew Bible nor the New Testament make such a claim. There may be some traditions that have made this argument, but they are extrabiblical, i.e., not based on any texts or developed traditions within the Bible itself.

peace (I’m out here)… hold ‘em down Snoop, lol

@FACTS
“…they did what they did and got what they got.”
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Don’t we all… don’t we all?

@Man, I just don’t care………….That’s good! Steve cheats on his wife with a 20yr old unstable waitress. She pops him several times in the head after suspecting he had a 2nd jumpoff but somehow it’s his wife & kids karma that got him killed?

My Pockets

@ Toxicity
This has nothing to do with God or Satan.
That man made every decision that lead him to his unfortunate demise.

God is one of love and care through all mistakes no matter how BIG or small.

Was McNair wrong? of course, there is never a good reason for stepping out on your family in that way.

u are asking about that womans frame of mind, when she killed him, apparently she thought just like you since you both think you know when someone deserves to die.

Learn from others mistakes with your mouth closed.
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@My Pockets

There is a big difference between stating that someone deserved to die and actually carrying out that act. I wouldn’t have killed him and yes I know its wrong to kill any person but he should of not put himself in a situation where he could be harm. “When you lay down with dogs you pick up fleas.”

So, yes they both got they’re just desserts. They chose to live that life.

there are no victims in this story

@TOXICITY
“there are no victims in this story”
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There never are….

Toxicity

@My Pockets

There is a big difference between stating that someone deserved to die and actually carrying out that act. I wouldn’t have killed him and yes I know its wrong to kill any person but he should of not put himself in a situation where he could be harm. “When you lay down with dogs you pick up fleas.”

So, yes they both got they’re just desserts. They chose to live that life.
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There is really nothing else to say about this unfortunate but real circumstance. You reap what you sow…end of story

@ Thriller–

Thank you!

When there are threads such as this, I try to be as open and honest as possible in hopes that someone can learn from my truth and not by experience!

I know we all have to go through some things and that doesn’t mean we always come out unscathed but if we learn from them………..

I’m not going to sit here and type that I’ve NEVER been on the losing end of a cheater but I’ll be DAMNED if I didn’t learn from it.

My take on ME–The first time, it was a mistake on MY part–there are ALWAYS signs!!!!!!

The second time???

Well, in this day and time, I CANNOT knowingly enter into a relationship where there’s the possibility of another.

Now instead of 50%, Mrs. McNair get 100%.

I have SIX (yes, six) older brothers–

Signs that you ARE the side peice–
(Snoop, don’t hate me for this–Lol!!)

1. You only have his cell-phone number.
2. Late at night when you call his cell, it immediately goes into voice mail.
3. You only roll with him to out-of-town spots.
4. You meet his homeboy but not his mother.
5. He tells you he lives with a roommate.
6. If he does spend time with you away from your place, it’s with an address that’s NOT his home address. (We’re he normally rests his head).
7. He is v-e-r-y jealous of whom you spend your time with when he’s not around.
8. When you say you’re leaving, he packs YOUR bags!
9. You don’t know his last name.
10. You don’t know his real (government) name! Lol!!!

Wake up, sistas! You deserve better!!!

@SOMER
“Now instead of 50%, Mrs. McNair get 100%.”
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LOL. Yup, now the race is on to “wife up” this chick Michelle cause men know she will let you have your cake and eat it too!!

@ASSTOPIA
“The 3 s

soft, sensitive and submissive”
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I feel you on the first two. BUT, out of curiosity, how do you demostrate dominance over your women?

*that’s a beautiful thing…*

My laptop farts every time I see your gravie!!

Lol!!!!

‘

In light of the many jokes we send to one another for a laugh, this is a little different.
This is not intended to be a joke. It’s not
funny – it’s intended to get you thinking.

Billy Graham’s daughter
was interviewed on the Early Show and Jane Clayson
asked her, “How could
God let something like this Happen?”
(regarding Katrina)

Anne Graham gave an
extremely profound and insightful response.
She said, “I believe God
is deeply saddened by this, just as we are,
but for years we’ve been telling God to get out
of our schools, to get out
of our government and
to get out of our lives.

And being the gentleman
He is, I believe He has
calmly backed out.
How can we expect God
to give us His blessing
and His protection
if we demand He leave
us alone?”

In light of recent events…
terrorist attacks,
school shootings, etc.
I think it started when Madeleine Murray O’Hare
(she was murdered, her body found recently) complained she didn’t want prayer in our schools,
and we said OK.

Then someone said you’d
better not read the Bible
in school .The Bible says
Thou Shalt Not Kill,
Thou Shalt Not Steal,
and Love Your Neighbor
As Yourself.
And we said OK.

Then Dr. Benjamin Spock
said we shouldn’t spank
our children when they misbehave because
their little personalities
would be warped and
we might damage their
self-esteem
(Dr. Spock’s son committed suicide).
We said an expert should know
what he’s talking about.
And we said OK.

Now we’re asking ourselves why our children have
no conscience,
why they don’t know right from wrong, and why it doesn’t bother them to
kill strangers, their classmates, and themselves.

Probably, if we think about
it long and hard enough,
we can figure it out.
I think it has a great deal
to do with
“WE REAP WHAT WE SOW.”

Funny how simple it is
for people to trash God
and then wonder why
the world’s going to hell.

Funny how we believe
what the newspapers say,
but question what
the Bible says.

I’m not defending this woman but, as far as her looks, why are you guys dogging her out?

It never ceases to amaze me when there are cheaters and the one of the things is “damn, and his wife is so pretty” or “damn, what does he see in her?” (the side piece)

Haven’t you figured out that not in all cases are the looks aren’t the primary reason?

I’m just wondering….

@ Asstopia–

I was just making light of your gravie, that’s all, sweetheart!

I’m not mad atcha!

To each her own.

The report says he was cheating on her. Are you really cheating on a mistress when she is obviously your mistress.

I figured the financial strain may have played a part in this as well. A 20 year old waitress, with two car notes and house note and who knows what else is pushing it.

@ Asstopia–

LOL!!!!!!!!!!

People stop saying she was crazy, stressed maybe, but not crazy. Her sibling is not even saying she was crazy. She was calculated and meticulous in her planning. She even planned how she wanted to lay after she would die. The murder was pre-meditated. This is not the mind of a crazy person. Crazy people don’t have the capacity to put so much passion or emotion behind their killings. Yes, she was abnormal on the spectrum. I’m surprised it wasn’t a stabbing, usually in cases like this the person gets stabbed but i guess that would have been too arduous she wanted it quick fast.

And being stressed is not an excuse, I get stressed out and I don’t kill my professors or employers. That doesn’t make any sense.

@TOXICITY
“LMAO off @Man I just don’t care”
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I’m a bulldagger. I love women. LOL.

**THAT….was overkill.

I dont care what nobody say, I think a third party was involved

@ Tony–

Like who?

My mom was saying that too at one time. I just can’t see it.

Lol @ us going all CSI!

Hey Diva!!!

Redd :

@1Tru

Like an ex boyfriend of the lady of somebody she knew..

Aint no female of Persian/Middle Eastern descent gon go out like that, when their people are already known to have bread in the first place, that oil money…

@BE

Hey sweety,

Im bout to get outta here, headin home. Good night yall….

It is hard trying to be something you are not. She wanted status and she did not want to work to get it…smh

I recommend you a nice milionaire dating site __Rich Flirts.c o m__. Whenever I chat with my friends on this site, I feel really relaxed and happy. They are easygoing and honest. I enjoy staying on the site. Hope you can find more nice rich friends there. Good luck to you.

@ Redd–

Damn!

OK! See ya!

@ BE—-

HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lol!!!

just to clear somethings up, he did not die because he made a mistake. and if another fool call his CHOICE to have an affair a mistake, i’m gonna scream. a mistake is bumping into someone that you didn’t see, knocking over a cup of coffee, stepping on someone’s shoe. a CHOICE is exactly what he made and guess what, he reaped what he sowed. his so-called best friend made an interesting statment that if Steve was here he would say, “I’m sorry, I did it. Things happen. I’m a man.” WTF???? well then guess what idiot, she’s sorry, she did it. things happen when u PMS. she’s a woman! so he made a CHOICE to cheat on his wife, take time away from his children, play with her emotions and possibly even have a 3rd piece on the side. and she made the CHOICE to make him keep his wack promises to her. what can u do? try letting ur ego go and be a MAN that keeps his WORD. if he didn’t want to be married anymore, then divorce his wife and keep it moving. but since it’s cheaper to keep her, it paid off to have him knocked off!!!!!

@ BE–

I think it was more than the status. I think in her young way of thinking that she really cared for this man.

As far as the status thing–she was just getting used to the wealth. Six months is not a long time to adjust to a certain standard of living (in her case).

I think she honestly believed he would leave his wife for her.

Shyt–when I was 20, there was no way I was thinking about spending the rest of my life…. well, I take that back!

Lol!!!

She should have known better than to mess around with a married man to begin with. When a married man tells his mistress that he’s going to leave his wife, guess what, HE’S LYING!!!!!

@ cw–

I feel you on the mistake thought. Just to go you one better to magnify a mistake on this level–

A mistake is an unplanned pregnancy.

A mistake is NOT paying your mortgage.

These (such as the McNair saga) are life altering choices.

I hope Steve’s sons find peace I feel for them the most in all of this.

I’d say the wife because of the affair but something tells me she’s known for years Steve was a cheater.

Regardless I can’t imagine having to explain all this to them why daddy is gone.

white male

Not all black men cheat, but every black man I’ve ever known did.
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LOL! Ditto!

What a sad story.

As stated before my heart does go out to everyone, including the mistress. However, I don’t think her problem was with the debt. She saw her accumulation debt as an investment into the world she wanted to enter. No, she was upset because she began to realize she was just part of the rotation.

That’s the price you pay for going astray….thinking the grass is greener…just never satisfied…I bet the cheaters will think twice now about the “extra” company they keep…you could be picking up a suicidal side piece…smdh

This just goes to show that it’s never worth it. What’s done in the dark always comes to light. Now for all his cheating, Steve McNair’s wife is going to be still alive, living in the house that he bought, probably eventually dating and marrying some other guy, who his sons are gonna end up calling “daddy”. Man.

Cheating on his wife with a jumpoff was not good enough. He had to have a third woman to. GREEDY!!!!!!!! He wanted the cake and eat it to plus two scoops of ice cream. WTF

I can’t say that he deserved to die, but he certainly put himself in a situation that had the potential for a lot of horrible outcomes.

Now he is not answering his cell phone, oh its on for real!!!

@ white male

Not all black men cheat, but every black man I’ve ever known did.
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NOT ALL WHITE MEN CHEAT, BUT EVERY WHITE MAN I’VE KNOWN HAS EITHER:
1. DONE IT.
2. THOUGHT ABOUT IT, BUT DIDN’T HAVE ENOUGH GAME TO
3. OR, KILLED HIS WIFE

Thanks for calling the jump off a mistress! and not a girlfriend. I’m still trying to understand why the media is disrespecting his wife and kids like that!

**********ATTENTION STEVE MCNAIR FANS**********

STEVE’S FUNERAL IS SCHEDULED FOR 11 A.M SATURDAY @ REED GREEN COLISEUM(@ SOUTHERN MISS CAMPUS) IN HATTISBURG MS.

My grandmother always said you shouldn’t kill something you can’t eat.

Is it me or is not a coincidence that Steve’s A-rab bust-it-baby killed him Taliban style?

oh my

oh my

******ALL POINTS BULLETIN******

WANTED BY GBI

SUBJECT: MAN I JUST DONT CARE
RACE: BLACK (DARK COMPLEXION)
SIZE: 6’3 235LBS

WANTED FOR BREAKING SEVERAL MALE’S HEARTS IN THE PAST SEVERAL YEARS

*IF YOU SPOT THE SUBJECT DO NOT ATTEMPT TO APPREHEND*

Man I Just Dont Care’s NEW Boyfriend and Ex-Boyfriend are killing me…

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================= ASHAME HE DIED,,,,,,,,,,,,,, BUT…. SEE WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU LEAVE YOUR FAMILY FOR AN UNKNOWN????? NOT SAYING HE AND WIFEY SHOULDA BEEN TOGETHER IF THINGS WEREN’T WORKING, BUT AFTER THE BREAKUP HE SHOULDA TAKEN TIME TO STAY FREE UNTIL AT LEAST THE DIVORCE…. IF HE AFTER AWHILE MET SOMEONE HE SHOULDA TAKEN IT SLOW, NOT LAVISHED HER WITH EXPENSIVE GIFTS FROM START, CAUSE FROM WHAT THIS CHICK WAS SAYING IT SEEMS ALL HE WAS TO HER WAS $$$$$$$$$$$$$$-IGNS

He was careless, probably really didn’t think much of her while she was obsessed with him. She felt everything she could have had was slipping away and this was the result. The scenario can happen to anyone. Steve being the victim put it out front and center.

My grandmother who would have been close to 100 often talked about women putting “spider legs” in men folk food.

Back then there were probably a bunch of dead black men, who died mysteriously. No autopsies, and no rights for Black folks.

@Toxicity

You sound like an illiterate dumbass that believes in this so called “god”

LOL!

@Alcorn

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@ Simply Beautiful

I agree with you 100%!!! In the bible it says that no one sin is greater than the other. So for all of you who say he deserved to die for cheating might as well say people deserve to die for lying, stealing and etc. Don’t believe me then pick up a bible and read!!!!!!

*day* not die LMAO

I love it, this week it appears that black men are being screwed by everyone but a black woman, teach you to stay in your own yard. Dummies.

If every man and every women involved in sleeping with someone else’s spouse deserved death, then there would hardly be anyone alive. He did not deserve to be murdered.

“If every man and every women involved in sleeping with someone else’s spouse deserved death, then there would hardly be anyone alive. He did not deserve to be murdered.”

i don’t think people are so much saying that he deserved it as they are saying if he hadn’t put himself in that perdicament he may be alive today. he should have been home with his wife and kids. i along with many people just can’t seem to muster up and pity for this guy.

abnd im the only one feeling sorry for the girl too? why she did that? cause she was crazy? ahhhh no, cause probably he was lying to her messing with her head making her to believe he loved her and they would live together and getting married but she might have lurn the truth and then she did that crazy action. well anyway.. its a sad story. for the girl even for him and for his wife but expecially for his 4 kids!
rip

Mistake MY ASS! I am sure this want his first time doggin his WIFE (someone he took vows and had CHILDREN with)! I don’t have any sympathy for SNAKES! No one deserves to be killed but that’s the bad decision he made time and time again! He made his bed and now he’s deceased in it… with choices… you either reap the benefits of suffer the consequences! Now his children and wife are left to mourn…so sad and despicable!

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Mistake MY ASS! I am sure this wasn’t his first time dogging his WIFE (someone he took vows and had CHILDREN with)! I don’t have any sympathy for SNAKES! No one deserves to be killed but that’s was his consequence for the bad decision he chose to make time and time again! He made his bed and now he’s deceased in it… with choices… you either reap the benefits or suffer the consequences! Now his children and wife are left to mourn…so selfish, sad and despicable!

He should have taken this chicks backstory into account. Chick left Iran at 9 after her mother was killed. Left her aunt at 16 to move in with a rapper wannabe. Chick sounds like she liked to floss. Hooks up with McNair. McNair schedules a trip with her, she flies to meet him and he no shows. McNair ‘gives’ her an Escalade but she has to make payments (lol?), She gets arrested and he takes off on her. The saying goes, you get what you give. He tried to play her like a chickenhead and got got. smh

I find it interesting that you people seem to be bothered by the fact that she wasn’t black so if she had been black and offed him that would’ve been acceptable? He cheated on his wife it doesn’t matter what race it was this wasn’t a hate crime this was a crime of passion.

That being said the reason why some of us aren’t sympathetic towards her is because she willingly slept with a married man is thinking she’s the victim when she is not. Not at all and the fact that she MURDERED someone. Why is that so hard to understand?

@ Toxicity

Your are speaking the truth and I completely agree about this not being about venting. Just accept the truth People, he messed with the wrong chick and got popped.

Another note, I am a firm believer in what the bible says and suicide is a one-way ticket to hell when it comes into existence. Those of us that truly no the word are aware that hell doesn’t exist yet. SMH…people on here preaching and don’t even know the word.

@Alcorn

Your calling people miserable,but you sound like the most miserable person here. Calm down, you must be a side ho cuz your getting really mad over something that isn’t affecting you.

@liliana_sanchez

abnd im the only one feeling sorry for the girl too? why she did that? cause she was crazy? ahhhh no, cause probably he was lying to her messing with her head making her to believe he loved her and they would live together and getting married but she might have lurn the truth and then she did that crazy action. well anyway.. its a sad story. for the girl even for him and for his wife but expecially for his 4 kids!
rip
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Just based on what I’m hearing. I don’t think he said he was gonna leave his wife. I think she made it all up to justify her being with a married man.

He was not paying her car note and paying for her apartment, like people in her family thought.
And she was selling her furniture for money, not because they were moving in together.

I think she had it in her mind that it was more than it was. And in the last days reality was setting in.
Did you see the transcripts of the phone call made when she was in jail? It was very telling.

Kazemi: You gonna come get me?
Steve: Downtown Right?
Kazemi: Yes.
Steve: I’ll be there.
Kazemi: Baby, I love you.
Stever: OK.

LOL that ‘ok’ is funny… ”baby i love u” ”ok” hahaha yeah i didnt heard that. but oh well she was young and i guess u are right but still he could see how ‘in love’ she was and all that. he was kinda playing with her fellings? regardless of what happend kill someone is never the right thing to do.

haha i love how some of u when a woman is not black automatically say shes white. god, isnt she middle eastern?

That’s what he gets for cheating on his family. Period.

liliana_sanchez

LOL that ‘ok’ is funny… ”baby i love u” ”ok” hahaha yeah i didnt heard that. but oh well she was young and i guess u are right but still he could see how ‘in love’ she was and all that. he was kinda playing with her fellings? regardless of what happend kill someone is never the right thing to do.

haha i love how some of u when a woman is not black automatically say shes white. god, isnt she middle eastern?
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But you know some black folks really don’t make that distinction at times. We know she’s middle eastern.
Exactly , We just mean, “not black”. Other black folks understand and know what’s meant by saying she’s white and what is being insinuated.

I agree with Sushi..how could the wife not know something was going on with her husband. Where did she think he was when McNair was on vacation with this girls and spending at that time at the condo.

If the girl wanted to end it all, why didn’t she just shoot herself?

First off.. you cant blame one person for this situation.
I feel SO bad for Mrs. McNair. We DONT know that she knew about this situation, thats one thing. And my heart goes out for his kids. Nobody that was close to Steve knew about Sahel from what I’ve heard on the news & all…
For Sahel, she shoulda known if Steve was messing around with her while he was still MARRIED, what made her think that she was the only one?? There was no need to be upset about it & go out the way she did killing them both!
For Steve, why would he do what he did when he had a wife and family at home? There are consequences for every action, unfortuately his consequence was losing his life.
R.I.P. Steve