Friday, July 10th, 2009
Hi Hater: Top Ten Signs of Haters
Posted by Bossip Staff
Katt Williams hilariously touched on the nature of ‘hate’ and ‘haters’ but a new report ‘Top Ten Signs of a Hater’ takes it a lot further more
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What are they?
1. Tellin’ Nikki she aint the finest thang walkin’
2. Sayin’ ‘little’ when you refer to something…i.e.
“Where did you get those ‘little’ shoes from?”
3. Calling somebody a hater
4. Thinking Lebron is going to New York
5. Eating fast food when you are fat (you are hating on yourself)
SIDEBAR: Fatty just walked by me with a bis ***** Arby’s bag
right, right to #2 @ Nikki
When something good happens for you and folks that u know dont give u ur props and barely make eye contact
is always a dead giveaway
6. Fucking a married man/woman (the ones that speak on this one are guilty)
7. Cutting me off in traffic…just cause
LOL @ Nikki…..and where have YOU been?? Glad to see you’re alive and well!
You are a hater if when someone tells you something they are doing positive and you respond ONLY with something bigger that you’re doing.
8. Not helping me on these last two
You are also a hater if you scrunch your nose up at someone in a nicer car than yours and want to pull off at a red light when they pull up next to you!
HATER!
Thanks Kami…
9. Being the ‘one upper’
LOL!!
10. NEVER giving a compliment…p***** one out a day…it will make you feel better…
1. So blind that you think Cleveland can afford lebrons new long term deal.
2. so blind that you think shaq can help you get to the finals.
3. So filled with hate that you refuse to let a tape of a college ***** dunkin’ on you leave that gym!
4. Love yourself more than air food and water……..Oh wait thats me!
Like Katt said….”Haters are made”…..being jealous of someone else for the accomplishments that they have had.
This is mostly because the person hating on you has nothing going for themselves.
King james’ comin’ out party “10/2/2011″ at madison square garden!
Oh, signs of a hater?
If their screen name is either:
-Kigali
-Marquis De Sade
and the like.
lol @ Nikki Underwood
Gr8 posts Nikki!!
The biggest sign of a hater to me is when someone who is either related to you, knows you from work or school, or a stranger on the streets refuses to make eye contact with you when you are genuinely trying to get their attention. If that is not a hater move then I don’t know what is…
6….
LMAO!! I hate you!! We CAN afford him…I got $5 on it…
LOL Kami!!
Hmmm, bloggers that say ***** about celebrities all day.
@the_one:
Who cares! They supposed to get talked about! You want to limelight?? You get all the drama that follows….gossip and all!
Its not “hating”, per se, its gossip. So would the people who actually give these sites life, be labeled as haters then too, going by what you said?
*the
People who get defensive when other people call them out on their hater status. If ‘hater’ isn’t your name then you shouldn’t respond to it…
I wanna make that picture up top my gravie!
That shadow guy reminds me of Redman….???
@Caramel Cat:
True. True.
Its a very fine line between being very opinionated and being a hater.
@NIKKI UNDERWOOD:
It do too!! I’m thinking Muddy Waters?? lol
Caramel Cat, thank you, I wasnt even talking to Kami All Day. I didn’t say you could not critique, people know when they are hating.
Having no subtlety about yourself when you see someone that looks better than you or has a nicer car or better clothes/shoes. It’s ok to be a little jealous every now and then, but don’t give yourself away by staring and/or making a nasty face.
2the_one
Caramel Cat, thank you, I wasnt even talking to Kami All Day. I didn’t say you could not critique, people know when they are hating.
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I understand your sentiment but I wasn’t co-signing you, non-haters stay away from unnecessary cyber beef…lol
Do I look like I care if you were or werent talking to me?
*laughing*
Please. I can say what I want.
*still laughing*
It is so easy to call anyone a hater who does not agree with you but no one has too… We do disrespectful things to othe poeple and when they check you on it then you are a hater….Why?
@Kami
I hear you, it’s nice to be able to critique someone’s dress or shoes or hair without being accused of hating, hating is finding something wrong with someone and there is clearly nothing wrong with them…lol
I really detest a B.A.N…
A hater isn’t always unsuccessful. Sometimes they have a lot going for them but they feel low because they are lacking in other areas. Such as weight, natural beauty, natural cl*****iness, romantic history, family background, etc. Hate is really low self esteem. They would like you to think they are healthily opinionated but they are judgmental of people they feel threatened by.
@Caramel Cat:
Exactly.
I would have to care about you to have beef with you are give a ***** to some blind post. Like I say people talk ***** in here usually never say ish in the real world. Cyber reality is not real.
There is a difference in calling out people you know verses people you do not know. There is also a difference between saying you do not like something and swearing you are the authority on someone else’s talents, looks, intelligence, actions etc. Opinions are like *****holes everyone has one. Most people wish they had the lives of others, instead of thanking God for the lives they have because it could be a lot worst. What if instead of saying something negative on here one day we all just skip it instead of going hard at each other or at the celebrity like when I read Beyonce v. Rihanna post, I always think people in here must be on the payroll to rep someone who would normally p***** you in the street and not say ***** to you because you are a stranger, despite the fact that you keep putting money in their pockets and blasting people online like you know them. To me that is beyong hating that is just plain CRAZY!
nikkie
whats really good beautiful?
MO= 1000% HATER PROOF
hating is a normal psychological process…. it keeps things comptetive…. even the best of the best hate all the time! ( Michael Jordan, any CEO)
you have to be a hater sumtymes…..
I meant “beyond” but you get my drift. Personal attacks and critiquing an artform is different.
SMH
@Woudat X:
That makes sense to a degree.
I remember I went up to this chick in the mall (cuz her style was off the *****ing meat rack)
I was like..”Yo, you not from here are you” She was like “nah, I’m from NYC”.
I was like I can tell cuz you outfit was off the chain. I cant see how a female can hate on another pretty female.
Shiiiid, I’m probably staring harder than a dude would. lol
when a rapper hates on another *****z production when its selling.
There is alot of definitions on what a hater is but I do know that it has to take up alot of energy to be one. Too much negative can’t be good for the soul.
I hate when my tall ***** is walking down the street with a girl and we p***** some guys and they are staring at me. I’m like “why don’t you stare at the girl homos?”
lmao.. I hate the word hater. It seems that people like to throw it around loosely. Differing opinion does not equate to hater. How about we state…that hater is the slang version of being a pessimist or simply a negative person.
I hate when people use the word “hater” too much…you should have to announce that you’ve got haters, just the fact that your happy tells us that much…stop focusing on negativity and do you!
excuse me i meant to say you SHOULDN’T HAVE TO ANNOUNCE YOU HAVE HATERS….
@ Nikki,
You can get everybody in cleveland to donate $5, that aint gonna be enough to pay that *****s new contract, endorsements and everything else he’s gonna get in NEW YORK!, but dont worry, you’ll still have Shaq!
i only compliment people if what they have on catches my eye….some hoes just stare….if you look me up and down imma do the same thing…they even got they kids lookin u up n down…lol….
lol
hate is when a b*tch says, “she cute, but she tall as f*ck!” ….dats a hater
Super Haters
PETA on Vick
Bey on Destiny’s Child
People on Cougars
The primary MO of a hater to call someone else a hater when they lack the intelligence or objectivity to understand why someone is critiquing a person/place/thing they idolize. When you idolize something to that point, you’re blinded to where you can’t see fault. And attack any view different from your own on that issue. YOU’RE A HATER!!
You say…. “How I’m I hatin???” Because that person has something you don’t have………… an unbiased opinion!!
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A HATER IS WHEN YOU AND YOUR FAKE ASS FRIENDS GO OUT FOR SOME SHOTS AND I WIPPED OUT MY ROLL OF MONEY AND PAID FOR ALL MY DRINKS AND GOT FUCKED UP AND THE BITCHES THAT I CAME WITH ALL THEIR THROATS WERE DRY AS HELL AND STILL HOLING ON TO THAT SAME DRINK WHICH IS NOW WATER ON TOP FROM THE MELTED ICE WITH DILUTED LIQUOR ON THE BOTTOM…TALKING’ SHIT BEHIND MY BACK!…SHE DRANK ALOT OR I BET THAT BITCH THROW UP TONIGHT…
KNOWING FULL WELL IF THEY HAD PAPER THEY’D DRINK TOO BUT, INSTEAD THEY WENT OUT THINK DUDES WAS GONNA GET THEM DRUNK FOR FREE…LMMFBAOOOOOO!
THEY WENT HOME SOBER THAT NIGHT!
Maino’s track and remix “Hi Hater” is so true on so many levels… He overcame so much to go from a felon to an artist with a contract… He”s got umpteen HATERS on deck for sure… I like that line by Fabolous in the remix, “Niggas wake up in the morning hatin and aint even brush their teeth yet”… LOL… Hilarious and so true…
I LOOOOOOOOOVE TO HATE!!!!!
1.) “A hater is someone who wears really thick gl*****es because they’re blinded by the hate. Can’t see past all that hate, hate, hate. That’s a hater. Just playing, normally haters are that by nature, and can’t really help it. They’ve been taught to hate, or they are comfortable hating for whatever reason. Really, if you don’t hate, you have to love, and that’s not easy for some people to do”. – Lisa, 26, Mortgage Banker
2.) “A hater is someone who will focus on the negative aspects of a really great person. Say, someone is 99 percent awesome but one percent whatever, a hater will dig at that small percentage of someone, who for the most part, is pretty cool. but they can’t see past that iota of not so great.” – Mary, 29 Webmistress
3.)”Basically a hater is a jealous motha*****a who don’t have *****, but wants yours. They’re jealous of what you got, for no real reason. For example, a dude will talk ***** about another dude’s girl because he wants her or don’t have one for himself. That’s a hater.” -Roy, 31, Telecom Director
4.) “Somebody who wants what you have for themselves. But they’re lazy *****es with no drive. Like some of my old hater friends would say to me ‘oh you’re lazy, you don’t go to work until 11′ or ‘you don’t have a real job,’ When I made more money than all of them! I still worked hard, I just work smart and for myself, and that’s why we’re no longer friends because they were hating so hard.” -Keisha, 27, Personal Shopper
5.) “A hater is a B.A.N.- a *****-*****-*****. Most of the time a hater, or B.A.N., lacks certain qualities that they wish to possess in some way, shape or fashion. So instead of, maybe striving to be a better man, they ***** up and start talking ***** and bashing people for the very thing they wish to be. – Larry, 31, Custodial Operations
6.) “Hating is personal and non-objective. Haters will throw salt in your game, ***** on you, knock your hustle, the whole nine and for what? I hate a hater, man. But that’s not to be confused with me not liking someone or something. Like if I say, I don’t like that shirt dude has on, I just don’t like the shirt. But if I say look at that corny ***** shirt that dude got on, then I’m hating.” -Charles, 24, Entrepreneur
7.) ” A hater is someone who is jealous of you or wants to be like you. They might want to hang out with you, but instead of saying that, they turn their nose up. My perfect description of a hater is someone who says, ‘yea, I like her outfit, but…’ instead of saying ‘I like her outfit’ and leaving it there.” -Sasha, 25, Hair Stylist
8.) ” A hater is someone who doesn’t like to see anyone with better talent, smarts, prosperity or success than they themselves have. They think everybody should be stupid and lame like them. Here’s what a hater does, a hater will hear that her best friend is getting married, congratulate them, but say behind her back say, ‘well, I don’t know how they’ll pay for it because he’s a broke *****.’ Or something like that.” – Lori, 29, Marketing Manager
9.) “A hater is someone who hates on anyone or a group of people for the hell of it. But, a “player hater” is a hater who outwardly dislikes somebody specifically. Like a girl might be hating on her friend because she’s thinner or makes more money or dates hot men. But people shouldn’t hate because it’s not nice and a total waste of time.” -Nina, 22, Student
10.) “Aw man, you know a hater when you ask someone something and they preface their answer with ‘I mean,’ then it’s ‘I mean I like you’re hair, but.’ There’s always a but or an awkward pause after that ‘I mean.’ I don’t really know how to define a hater, but all I know is I don’t want them in my circle. They’re always the one in your group of friends that stir ***** up and keep it stinking. Running around talking about everybody. That’s just not cool, don’t hate people, it’s not cool.” – Michelle, 30, Editor
@PUSSYCATFUN. Damn by reading ur comment i see we know the same ppl!
They say the things you don’t like about somebody, reflects back (unconsciously) unresolved issues you have with yourself.
@L
^5. I totally agree.
Is is not cute to have to keep reminding yourself and others that you have haters. It ought to be a given. Just acccept it as fact and keep it moving.
Be self-aware, then there will be no need to call out haters. You won’t even care.
Also, if you happen to have more haters than you do supporters, then that sounds like cause for concern. It is quite possible that you are in denial about your own ineptitude. That means its time for some self-reflection.
For example:
C*****ie: I can sing, these haters out here are just jealous.
Self-reflective C*****ie: Maybe I am tone-deaf. Time for voice lessons!
See how productive self-reflection can be?!
Just my observation.
I don’t hate on the person, I hate on what they are doing especially if it something that is being put on public display everyday and IMO is pulling down instead of building up.
Call it what you want, if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, then……..
If I am a hater because of that then so be it. If I see something of good quality coming from a person then I will give them kudos, if not, I won’t. It’ my opinion and I will stand by it.
AAhhhhhhhhhhh….
Finally a chance to say….
Hi haters!!!
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@PUSSYCATFUN
LOL!! Seems like you still a little heated over what happened….
People looking sideways at me and Man I Just Dont Care when we walking barefoot on a sandy beach enjoying the sunset are haters!
A hater is when you know you looking real fly and you walk p***** a pack of females and all of them get quite and no one want to move out your way…UMMM HI HATERS LMAO!
@biggurl
you had me cracking up that’s so true just say she’s pretty and move on damn!!
@PUSSYCATFUN
LMAO it seems like your one of the kind of chicks I could roll with cuz soon as I hit the club Im straight to the bar and it don’t stop till I find myself woozy like I think Im going to stop now
I check chicks quick! Don’t come with me if you don’t have money to A) Get in the club because I don’t get there early on that ladies free before 11 bull***** B) Dnt have money to get yourself tipsy and keep asking me to sip my drink um hell nah girl here I’ll go get another! And 3) Not have money to purchase food after the club.. Girl you should have stayed yo broke ***** home!!!! Which reminds me Im going to the Beyonce concert alone tonight because all my friends are either broke our beyonce haters lmao…DAMN I need new friends! LOL
umm quiet LMAO opps!!!
Haters are people who dream about being you and having what you got frow your whip,woman/man, house,all the way to where you reside (You know like the SOUTH @6am). When I was young I to dreamed of bigger and better things and that’s where me and haters part ways because I did what it took to achieve mine while you are still sitting around dreaming!
**ahem**
ATTENTION ALL HATERS!!!! ATTENTION ALL HATERS!!!!
This is the ONLY opportunity you’ll get the chance for me to acknowledge your mere existence!
Lol!!!!
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Hahaha…good one Alisonnikole !
“Frenemy” is the word I use for people like that. They tend to be insecure and unhappy, always want to hang around you, but never have anything nice to say. Eventually, the frenemy face will appear more and more and you now know something is wrong, but again when the other face is before you, you question yourself again…..It has been about a year since I severed that toxic so-call friendship and I realized some time ago that the only friend in that relationship was me !
I’ve also learned over the last year not to trust everyone. My contact with some people is limited and so is my openness. I know to refrain from telling anything of value about me that they will just shoot down or deface.
Let’s face it – some people simply don’t know how to be a friend. Once I find out someone is a “frenemy”, I simply cut them out of my life. I don’t have time to teach anyone how to be a good friend ?
Relationships are not easy no matter what the obstacles. Having frenemies only add to the obstacles. So it is best to cut off all ties as soon as humanly possible. Be strong and *****ert yourself and do not fall prey to these people. It will only hurt you in the end. So live your life and be who you want. ‘Cause in the end you are all you have anyway…Stay positive and strong because
A positive attitude may not solve all of our problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort !!!
Sick and tired of haters
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This is how I know someone is a closet hater.. They say, “I didn’t have anything given to me” or “I had to work hard for what I have.” As if, I am suppose to feel bad for being an heiress.. The Lord said he would give seed to the sewer, and I believe in sewing into my church, as If I was giving it unto God himself.. So.. I am suppose to be blessed like this.. I live well and I give God all the glory. If someone wants to hate or be mad.. they should take it up with God.. He is my source..
Yeah.. frienemmies.
Miss Tonic thats was so well said I could not have said it better. Those are real words of wisdom that should be taken to heart, especially ” I dont have time to teach any one how to be a good friend” Trying to do that will only pull you further into their web. We should trust and respect our inner feelings,that voice in us that is from GOD.
@ Miss Tonic…very well put. By all means let the church say AMEN on that one. Considering all of the chaos going on in the world today, we as people don’t have time to hate. We probably should be more concerned about China who wants to blow our *****ess (excuse the vulgarity)off of the face of the earth. To give a modern day example, a hater is someone who makes you feel bad because all the while they were having multiple sexual escapades resulting in children, they make you feel bad because you have none. In return, they hit you up like an ATM machine.
Favorite quote: “You can do that because you don’t have any kids.” Doing “that” can mean a number of things: dressing nice, hanging out with no budget, and traveling to exotic places. To be quite honest, I have children too…rent, student loans, insurance…need I say more?
What a generation! Hater? We never used that word growing up. We had a mind of our own. We didn’t like something, we told you. Now when something isn’t liked, that person is a hater? So what? Today’s generation is a bunch of wimps and *****s who don’t want their feelings hurt.
At Ridiculous…..there is nothing wrong with having a mind of your own or telling people the truth, i do that everyday and i appreciate the friends in my life who are honest to me however there is a difference between being a true & honest friend or a hater/frenemy !
Those of us who experienced it are usually very nice people who “turn the other cheek” too often. We figure either the person is misguided or surely they didn’t mean to be so hurtful and we continue with them. I am patient, loving, forgiving and realize that i too have many flaws and can always improve, i’m also not perfect….does that make us wimps/*****s or human ?
If you have a frenemy or hater in your life, why bother? Obviously they don’t have your best interests at heart ?
Would you spend your time with someone constantly
putting you down, embar*****ing you and hating on you ? Hmmmmm…..don’t think so !!!
I am a hater! Who cares? That’s my business! I hate stupid ***** and that’s just the way it is!
Just because someone does not like you does not always mean you have haters…maybe you’re a *****. A little food for thought.
“there’ll always haters thats the way it is. hatin’ *****s marry hatin’ *****es and have hatin’ kids” – Kanye West
This website is written by haters.
Fact
Being a hater/frenemy is beyond simply having an opposing opinion and/or stating a “truth” from your perspective.There is nothing wrong with having an opinion or giving your perspective. A hater/frenemy habitually demonstrate negative behavior or state mean spirited negative comments that is deliberately intended to undermine and/or discourage its target. To object to this is not a matter of someone overreacting or being to sensitive, it is being wise, loving yourself and those you care about, and refusing to waste your time on the unnecessary.