Comments on: She Said: Does the Ex Have a Place in Your Man’s Life?

By: whtsnew

whtsnew — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 01:24:22 +0000

My ex is still involved in my family life as well as mine because my family grew up with him, My nephew and my neice knew him way before my now husband came on the scene, my husband doesn’t have any problem with him and the relationship he has with my family, and yes me and my ex where friends first, I love my husband, and I have NO problem telling him what the conversations I have with the ex are about,My husband and I have established a close relationship and honesty is the best policy, if your husband/wife have a relationship where you both trust and believe in one another there shouldn’t be a problem and so on now my Ex wife has a Problem with me, and have tried like Crazy to keep him from seeing my family and being in the same room with me, she doesn’t want him to have anything to do with me and my family, and the more she tried the more he became rebellion, At one point she egg him on to be friends with me, and then the acusations start flying, never confronting me just taking it out on him,Men Tell you things for a reason, I keep my distance and let him handle his business, people may want what they want but, at what cost?? To be honest it can be amusing and some women/men thrieve on that, but I don’t need somebody insecure wife drama in my life!!

By: BMW driver 540i..............................I'm Well Known Like The Candy Lady And I'm The Reason Alot Of These Haters Hate The SOUTH!!!!!!!!!

Thu, 16 Jul 2009 01:14:47 +0000

i still get my sons mother gifts for mothers day, birthdays christmas etc, she was once the love of
@ Snoop Bloggy Blog
“my life, you just don’t change because you meet someone new, i lay my cards on the table with my present gf, she lay her cards on the table, i do not try to change her, and she definately not gonn change me, and it worksfor us. Insecurity is very unattractive”
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I’m in a similar situation accept my new girl goes and picks the mothersday gift out for my ex to give to my son to give his mother & my ex buys gifts and sends them by my son for her on mothersday & me on fathersday plus we all know how important its to do the right thing for the kids. Now don’t get me wrong it was’nt always like this but over time they both realized how stupid hateing on each other really was plus my ex knows I don’t look at her like that anymore so she keeps it strictly business. Oh yeah she does have a new man before anybody ?’s that and yes me and him get along as well got have a relationship with man where your child lays their head right

By: Constance

Constance — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 00:23:33 +0000

It’s disrespectful…wouldn’t be me that’s all I can say about that.

By: anon09

anon09 — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 22:02:28 +0000

Well, from my experience, I wouldn’t trust the situation. I only have a few exes and I am pretty certain I could get any of them to sleep with me today if I wanted. Knowing that, I would not be comfortable with my husband being friends with an ex. Yes they may have been friends, but they also know each other intimately. You can talk about trust all you want but when times get to going rough in a relationship ( and they will in a lifetime commitment ) the last thing someone needs is an ex to “talk to.” Nothing good can come of it.

By: Tutty

Tutty — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 21:51:18 +0000

why

By: itz.2b.luved

itz.2b.luved — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 21:42:17 +0000

No, unless they have children 2gether…..

By: ShaSha

ShaSha — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 21:41:43 +0000

My ex calls me all the time. His wife doesn’t know. He can’t get enough of me. I have a place in his life and always will.

By: lovely one

lovely one — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 21:40:03 +0000

@ Shim Shim Sha La Bim

My boyfriend ex calls him every few months and he tells me in detail about their convo…Now this chick is a nut job so I think he lends an ear just for entertainment purposes…but trust, all calls from exes and other females became either sparse or non existent.

However, my advise to you is to tell your hubby if this makes you uncomfortable, BUT you have to let him let go (of this ex) on his own time.

By: lovely one

lovely one — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 21:36:27 +0000

@ Shim Shim Sha La Bim

but I see it on my homepage everytime I log in. The ex says things like, “you should come visit, and bring your kids!”
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I have a MAJOR problem with that statement…How is it that this ex invites your spouse and your kids and NOT YOU?! Please tell me that the chick actually wrote “bring your family”

By: Mis Lil Girl

Mis Lil Girl — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 21:22:53 +0000

My husband needs to talk to his ex MORE, if you ask me. They have a child together who gets in all kinds of predicaments, and he can’t stand talking to her (and she don’t REALLY don’t like him now that I done up and made him my husband cause she went from leaving him attitudish VM messages–all of which he played for me and we laughed about–to hardly calling at all), so they rarely have conversations, even if it goes against the kid’s well-being. But hey, they can hate each other all they want; that’s between them. I try to stay out of it.