Basketball Star Richard Jefferson: I Dumped Her Via E-mail Before Our Scheduled Wedding and I’m Not Gay

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July 16th, 2009

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This story is real messy and something seems a little “fishy”. Why did Jefferson give her stacks after he supposedly dumped her?

Former Net star Richard Jefferson admitted yesterday that he told his beautiful bride-to-be that their wedding was off in an e-mail — stunning her just days before their planned posh nuptials.

Kesha Ni’Cole Nichols got the heart-wrenching message after a tense Fourth of July weekend, Jefferson told The Post.

“There was a lot of stress and tension in the relationship. We’ve been through a lot — but we just couldn’t continue,” said Jefferson, sounding upset during a telephone interview.

But at least Nichols got a nice parting gift — Jefferson, who was traded from the Milwaukee Bucks to the San Antonio Spurs last month, said he’s giving her a “six-figure” settlement so she can start a new life.

“I won’t say a negative word about Kesha. She is one of my best friends,” said Jefferson, who courted for nearly five years.

He said things came to a head when they celebrated July 4 in LA, a week before their planned July 11 wedding at the luxurious Mandarin Oriental on Columbus Circle.

After Nichols boarded a plane back to New York the next day, Jefferson said, he sent her the devastating e-mail.

“Sometimes you might write an e-mail to get your thoughts down right,” he explained.

After Nichols — and the message — arrived in New York, the couple spoke by phone for two hours, Jefferson said.

“It was a conversation Kesha and I had,” he said, adding only that it was “a combination of things” that led to the split.

Jefferson said they haven’t spoken in a week.

“It’s been an emotional time for both of us,” he said. “I know she’s hurt. I’m hurt, too.”

The couple had planned to top off their $500,000 wedding with a honeymoon in London, where they had tickets to one of the Michael Jackson comeback shows.

Of the money he’s giving Nichols, Jefferson said, “I’m not trying to buy her off. She has a lump sum to help her move on.”

He added, “I’ve made my mistakes in this relationship, 100 percent. But at the end of the day, there were some people who were responsible for the demise of it.”

He insisted a rumor he’s gay had nothing to do with the breakup.

“I’m not gay,” Jefferson said. “That couldn’t be any further from the truth. I have nothing to hide.”

Nichols could not be reached.

On July 6, Jefferson told his family the wedding was off.

Kesha told her family and friends the next day, he said.

Because some out-of-town guests were already in, or en route to, New York, they decided to go through with a dinner that was supposed to have been part of the wedding celebration, Jefferson said.

The jilted bride, a former Net dancer, checked into the Mandarin and spent what would have been her wedding night in a luxury suite. A fellow dancer pal of Kesha, Keltie Colleen, wrote on her blog that Nichols was “going through some serious grief.”

None of Jefferson’s family made the trip. “My family didn’t take this well. I’m the last one not to have married,” said Jefferson, the son of Christian missionaries. “My family was looking forward to me starting a family of my own.” Jefferson flew to Paris last week with some basketball buddies. He went “only because I care about her so much that I didn’t want to change my mind after those emails were sent,” he said. “I didn’t want to start missing her and decide, ‘let’s do this.”‘ “It’s so crazy, the divorce rate out there,” Jefferson added. “If you aren’t 100 percent certain about something, you shouldn’t do it.”

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903 Responses to “Basketball Star Richard Jefferson: I Dumped Her Via E-mail Before Our Scheduled Wedding and I’m Not Gay”

    aleximaq

    7/16/09, 08:47:am

    WTF?

    julius

    7/16/09, 08:48:am

    that *****got ***** ***** is gay, bald head and that lame ***** taottoo. prolly the best ***** that ***** ever wii find

    R&D

    7/16/09, 08:49:am

    1st

    Cynthia

    7/16/09, 08:49:am

    I WOULD KILL HIM! SWEAR I WOULD!

    Khristal

    7/16/09, 08:49:am

    He is wrong for that!

    lynn

    7/16/09, 08:50:am

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    ThAtLaDy22

    7/16/09, 08:50:am

    HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLD UP! This fool emailed her….whoa….what a real man NOT!

    pm

    7/16/09, 08:51:am

    good move on his part, I bet her greedy ***** didnt want to sign the prenup.

    Rocky

    7/16/09, 08:53:am

    And people wonder why athletes are getting shot in their sleep or strangled with purse straps.

    Nique

    7/16/09, 08:54:am

    WOW. I feel for ol girl cause I know I would have killed a *****. But he was right to have called off the wedding if he felt it wasnt right instead of leading her on-in the end they both are better off. He wouldnt have to come out of pocket for divorce so that nice lump sum should be ok for her.

    js*****

    7/16/09, 08:54:am

    Good for him. If you not a 100% sure don’t do it. Yeah, he could have handled it a little different but we don’t know what happened on the 4th to prompt him to call it quits.

    pm

    7/16/09, 08:55:am

    lets see murdered by a white girl or have your bank account murdered by a black one.. I would take my chances with the crazy white *****

    Sweetcake

    7/16/09, 08:56:am

    He is a coward! What MAN communicates something as important as a marriage call off, via email? What MAN gives phone interviews about it so that the world can invade on this hurtful and trying time for this young lady? He is a disgrace! OMG! I wish a ***** would!

    Nique

    7/16/09, 08:57:am

    And ppl-If you’ve been with someone for more than a 1.5 years and already know you cant see yourself married to this person then its time to move on!!! Stop wasting other ppl’s time!

    Brooklyn Dub

    7/16/09, 08:57:am

    I love the last line, “If you aren’t 100 percent certain about something, you shouldn’t do it.”

    If anybody tells you that they are 100% sure that they are doing the right thing when they are about to get married, then they are lying or on drugs.

    It is the biggest decision you make in your life, there have to be doubts (second thoughts) or you are not taking it seriously.

    The bride should take this as a blessing. If RJ didn’t have the ***** to discuss this with her in person, then he would have been a HORRIBLE husband.

    anon

    7/16/09, 08:57:am

    damn, i feel her pain. my fiance pull the same ***** with me 2 months before our wedding. but i aint get no muh*****in 6 figure deal out of it though.

    and chances are , ITS ANOTHER WOMAN!!!!! that line but “I aint 100% sure” is sum bull*****!!! u dont just be wit sumbody for 5yrs then a few days before ur wedding call that ***** off.

    I smell fish!!!!

    TeeTee K

    7/16/09, 08:57:am

    I would kill his *****…Cancel our wedding the day before, that’s some real B.S.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 08:58:am

    “I WOULD KILL HIM! SWEAR I WOULD!”

    I saw this yesterday, and my first thought that it was a “Snapped” episode waiting to happen.

    The whole situation is so tasteless and incredibly insensitive. Not only did he break up with her (his fiancee, no less) via e-mail (what a coward), he then talked about it in the press and disclosed that he had given her a financial settlement, so she can “start a new life.” How does she recover from such public humiliation?

    Well, this should be a big, blazing red flag to the next woman with whom he becomes involved. Engage him at your own risk.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 08:59:am

    *fiancée*

    Kami All Day

    7/16/09, 09:00:am

    Yeah. He’s gay. For the reasons following:

    1) He dumped his fiance through email which means he does not have the ***** to be an honest man. *****es dont have *****.

    2) He has to deny him being gay.

    He can go to Paris with his basketball ‘buddies”. huh??

    This ***** likes *****.

    iopsycho

    7/16/09, 09:01:am

    Days before the wedding…Gay!!!

    purebbc

    7/16/09, 09:02:am

    He sent her an e-mail are you crazy I havent checked my email in 2 weeks pick up the phone and handle yours like a man

    Too funny

    7/16/09, 09:02:am

    That is crazy. He should’ve figured out he wasn’t ready before 1 week before the wedding.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:04:am

    “lets see murdered by a white girl or have your bank account murdered by a black one.. I would take my chances with the crazy white *****”

    And let the daily, unfunny race-baiting begin! Ready, set, go. . .

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 09:06:am

    You professional athletes need to stop messing with them cheerleaders in the first place… You guys know they’re only doing that ’cause they’re “gold diggers” looking for a come up…

    pm

    7/16/09, 09:06:am

    he should have had his attoney send that greedy ***** a text message…..”sign prenup no wedding ttyl”

    CF98

    7/16/09, 09:07:am

    I still think she wouldn’t sign a prenup otherwise I can’t think of a better explanation. Regardless while he was foul(pardon the pun) for how he handled it I rather be left at the altar than go through a divorce.

    The fact his fiancee wasn’t that caught off guard says something to me at least.

    pm

    7/16/09, 09:07:am

    @Sydney.. u know im playing

    SEXY GIRLICIOUS

    7/16/09, 09:08:am

    Seriously tho’ I would NEVER date an athlete. They are SO dishonest and dysfunctional. This HALF-A-MAN actually sent the woman an EMAIL to call off a $500,000 wedding. Hell NO! I think these athletes feel like they rule the world.. NOT!! Ladies, for real, stop swinging on these losers jocks… it’s done went straight to their heads.. BOTH HEADS!!

    Can somebody point me in the direction of the nearest UPS DELIVERY MAN?!?! We can put our lil checks together and do the damn thang!

    Macho

    7/16/09, 09:10:am

    “good move on his part, I bet her greedy ***** didnt want to sign the prenup.”
    I CO-SIGN. SHE DID NOT WANT TO SIGN PRENUP, SO LATER TO DIVORCE AND GET MONEY FROM THIS YOUNG MAN FOR FREE. HO SIT-DOWN. THANK YOU FOR GIVING HER SOME PAPERS TO CONSOLATE HER.

    sasha

    7/16/09, 09:10:am

    wow! ish like dis can get a nucca whacked! lmao! wtf

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 09:11:am

    Morning Sydney and Kami…

    No one is ever 100% sure on their wedding day that they are doing the right thing. It’s just you have to know that you are going to have to take the good with the bad. He must have know/felt that she wasn’t the one for him. Maybe his family or she (after 5 years) were putting pressure on him. Sad that he did it via email.

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 09:12:am

    Once again you people are missing the message;

    Richard said “there were other people who helped ***** that ***** up”

    That means he caught her with another ***** or she was still in contact with an ex or something after he told her ***** “no male friends”

    She also refused to sign a pre-nup.

    They’ve been fighting about lil stupid *****, but so much to the point where he knew the ***** would get worse after marraige.

    I bet her family asked for money.

    Her girlfriend blogged? wtf kind of ***** is that to have your girlfriend put your ***** out there like that. (outside forces) see i told you women to keep your friends outta your relationship!

    This ***** looks expensive, Richard weighed the pros and cons, too many **********in’ CONS!

    After 5 years together, a $100k is enough for her to start a new life if you make $10 mil a year, that *****s fair.

    love 6am

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 09:13:am

    And to all you *****es that say “I would kill his *****”

    Thats probably what scared the ***** off! I know these recent deaths ran through his head!

    the_one

    7/16/09, 09:14:am

    Ummm, this is some ish, I heard from WENDY, HOW U DOING, WILLIAMS, that this fool didnt tell his own family that is was called off and they all showed up. Although his friend used dude’s black card to take them out to make up for he’s opps I am an A HOLE move I still think he needs help. I heard she stayed at the hotel that should have been where they got married, I guess she was enjoying the last fruits of his labor. Next baller step up.

    bigdude13

    7/16/09, 09:14:am

    Is this really the climate to be *****in’ these broads off? Don’t he know they offin’ ni99as. Did he find out she used to work at Dave & Busters?

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:14:am

    @pm

    You are? And the “b**ch” references are a joke, too?

    Good morning Jade, Kami :)

    “He must have know/felt that she wasn’t the one for him. Maybe his family or she (after 5 years) were putting pressure on him. Sad that he did it via email.”

    So he sent her an e-mail and went off to Paris? He sounds like a Cl***** A jerk to me.

    DizzyGuy

    7/16/09, 09:15:am

    This is sad. You just don’t leave a women like that at the altar.Homegirl could have went crazy and “McNabbed” him. I mean it would almost be justified…thats just not right to waste her time and the family too. You knew you didn’t want to get married. Shame on him.

    Jazmine

    7/16/09, 09:15:am

    HE’S GAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!

    Sanjor

    7/16/09, 09:16:am

    Good morning all,
    no matter how much she is grieving, its probably a blessing in disguise. I’m glad he didn’t go through with the marriage knowing he didn’t want to be married.

    Kami All Day

    7/16/09, 09:17:am

    Morning Jade!! I sent you a shout out too in the other post!

    OR…maybe he experienced some gay sexual encounter and liked it and decided that getting married to a woman is not what he wants??? Hence, him calling off the wedding ONE day BEFORE it was to occur??

    Hey, thats my logic!

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:17:am

    And this Einstein neglected to remember that everything you send through e-mail can one day be available for public records. I’m just waiting for the e-mail to leak.

    I’m sure Wendy Williams will have a lot to discuss on her new show today.

    The Bear-

    7/16/09, 09:17:am

    I don’t know if email is the proper way to break the news BUT I agree with him 100% for calling it off. I wish I had been as smart as he is and had not ignored the negative signals that were going off during the week before my wedding.

    Good for you RJ!!!! If it don’t fit… Don’t force it. I learned the hard way.

    Lady Minerva

    7/16/09, 09:17:am

    I would be devastated.

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 09:18:am

    6am never wrong

    Kami All Day

    7/16/09, 09:18:am

    Morning Syd!!

    Damn, its not Friday YET????

    *****y

    7/16/09, 09:18:am

    It was jacked up how he did it, but if he wasnt sure he wanted to marry her it was better to tell her now than 3 years and 2 kids later. That would have been worse. Look at Usher and Tameka!

    Macho

    7/16/09, 09:19:am

    “good move on his part, I bet her greedy ***** didnt want to sign the prenup.”
    I CO-SIGN. SHE DID NOT WANT TO SIGN PRENUP, SO LATER TO DIVORCE AND GET MONEY FROM THIS YOUNG MAN FOR FREE. HO SIT-DOWN. THANK YOU FOR GIVING HER SOME PAPERS TO CONSOLATE HER.

    luvchild

    7/16/09, 09:19:am

    I always suspected him of being gay. I told my bf this a long time ago. So to even here that he was getting married was a surprise. I didn’t know there were rumors that he was gay before though.

    The Bear-

    7/16/09, 09:20:am

    And No!!! I don’t think he’s gay at all. Just too smart to let a pretty ***** with a bad attitude ruin his life.

    mojojojo

    7/16/09, 09:20:am

    WOW i say hot damn!!
    why did he do it through email if he loved and cared for her so much why didnt he call her or go see her? then he tells the world about the settlement and the end of the message he states “I am Not gay” Brother who asked u about ya sexual perfernce? why are u so quick to defend it? and u going to Paris with some baasketball “buddies” after u publicly disgrace ya fiancee…..things that make u go Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

    luvchild

    7/16/09, 09:20:am

    oops *hear

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:20:am

    *for public eyes*

    @Kami

    One more day, girl.

    So there have been rumors about this guy being gay? Truthfully, I know nothing about him except what I’ve read in the past few days.

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 09:20:am

    @ Kami… Not necessarily. Sometimes people get so caught up in the idea and preparations for the wedding they forget about the marriage and the relationship. If you are with someone who is already on shaky ground about whether he’s going to jump the broom or not, you go the subtle route. I don’t think he’s gay. Not all black men can be gay (can they?).

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:21:am

    @The Bear

    “Just too smart to let a pretty ***** with a bad attitude ruin his life.”

    Where’s the evidence that she has a “bad attitude?” Just curious.

    Macho

    7/16/09, 09:22:am

    “Look at Usher and Tameka!”
    YOU SOUND DELUSIONAL. Tameka played her game, have kids from Usher so child support checks. Same thing with Beyonce, she told Jay-z she is pregnant to get married, after that no kid is coming.

    SUSPECT

    7/16/09, 09:22:am

    I think by email is a coward way of ending a marriage. He should have been a man and told her face to face. But maybe he is not the man that we think he is!!

    Jupiter_Butterfly

    7/16/09, 09:22:am

    him calling off the wedding is not
    a CRIME but the way that he did it was FOUL

    statim08

    7/16/09, 09:22:am

    A dishonorable discharge is never pretty. He’s lame and can’t hide it.

    mojojojo

    7/16/09, 09:23:am

    but it is a good thing he didnt marry her….if he wasnt sure (or gay) he shouldnt have led her on….but who knows maybe she knew about him all along but just wanted the title

    Angee

    7/16/09, 09:23:am

    First of all he could have found a better way to tell her. But I guess after the Steve McNair incident he did not want to tell her face to face.

    Second of all, what the hell is a $2 million dollar wedding?!?! :shock: He really should have known something when the wedding cost were getting out of hand!!

    Third of all when will men (Black, White and Hispanic because it really does not matter), especially athletes stop chasing after these pretty little things. Dancers, cheerleaders, strippers, call girls, playboy playmates-all of them!! These are the type of women that these men flock to. Didn’t he know she only became a dancer for the Nets so she could meet and marry a baler!!

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 09:23:am

    Good…

    Together for 5 YEARS???

    That right there tells you that things weren’t all good…

    It doesn’t take that long to know whether you’re going to or want to marry somebody…

    Angee

    7/16/09, 09:24:am

    Morning Everybody!

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 09:24:am

    Again you “women” are missing the point, I think richard wanted to get married, but over the 4th of july weekend some ***** went down on her part and “outside forces” that finally let this ***** know she wasnt the one.

    he caught her cheating
    his lawyer should up with the pre-nup
    she said some ***** to her girlfriends, and the girlfriends told him.

    6am never wrong, Bossip investigate, I guarantee its one of those.

    CAT EYES

    7/16/09, 09:24:am

    Anyone has a right to change their mind about getting married any time they want.However, his method was pretty tacky.

    mz.cee ♥

    7/16/09, 09:25:am

    @Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    Truth!

    Those pro’s just some airheaded, immature, hurry-come-up retards, no wonder they get Steve McNaired on a regular…

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 09:25:am

    @ Sydney…
    So he sent her an e-mail and went off to Paris? He sounds like a Cl***** A jerk to me.
    —————————————————
    Maybe I’ve dated and been with some dangerous and dubious characters in my life so I’m not really concerned how he did it. Atleast he did it. He didn’t just leave her at the altar to figure it out. That would have been worse. Standing there in your dress infront of friends and family and the groom is a no show. That’s the stuff nightmares are made of.

    I remember I kept calling my husband on our wedding day every hour on the hour just to make sure he was going to make it. When you get married it’s an out of body experience. Some people tend to behave strangely.

    Minister

    7/16/09, 09:25:am

    Good for him, he got the ***** why in the ***** he getting married to this ***** for anyway.

    This ***** was spending that much money before the wedding – a 2 million dollar wedding and 500,000 dollar honeymoon.
    What the ***** ?

    If this ***** was doing this to his paper before they got married imagine what she was gonna be doing to his bank account when she becomes wifey….

    Good for him, dump that ***** even it cost him a pretty penny, just imagine what it was going to cost him in the divorce…..

    Marriage is for suckers anyway and he realized that *****, even though it was last minute.

    mojojojo

    7/16/09, 09:25:am

    @ jupiter_butterfly
    I cosign 1000%

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:26:am

    @Angee

    “First of all he could have found a better way to tell her. But I guess after the Steve McNair incident he did not want to tell her face to face.”

    True, but Karma will always catch up to you. You can go to Paris, Milan, Jupiter, what have you, but when you do wrong, it comes back to you. Tenfold.

    mojojojo

    7/16/09, 09:27:am

    @ 6am
    the way he is telling the business i really dont think he would have a hard time telling the world she was a cheat. i really think he didnt want to go through with it which is cool but the way he went about it was foul

    Anonymous

    7/16/09, 09:27:am

    five years and a email that’s a coward move.

    luvchild

    7/16/09, 09:27:am

    But ultimately if he didn’t want to marry her that was his decision to make.

    But dang thats a whole lot of money. WAY too much to be spending on ONE DAY!

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 09:27:am

    @ Slide…
    Good…

    Together for 5 YEARS???

    That right there tells you that things weren’t all good…

    It doesn’t take that long to know whether you’re going to or want to marry somebody…
    —————————————————
    Morning! I co-sign. I know many couple who dated for 5 years and more who didn’t even make it through their first year of marriage. A man who waits that long is looking for a better option. When he marries you it’s because he figured you’ve always been loyal and he’s tired of looking. LOL.

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 09:28:am

    To all the men in here:

    Dont listen to the ***** that said “when will all you men stop chasing the lil pretty things”?

    That ***** is in the NBA! what the ***** is he supposed to do, pull an Usher and get an old ***** so-so lookin’ babymomma ho and wife her? You see how that *****s working out!

    Lacey

    7/16/09, 09:29:am

    I think he was man enough to realize that he would not have been a good husband, the timing may have been off, but I give him credit for breaking it off it was not ready to be married. ***** a 6 figure settlement would cheer me right on up enough to make me move on.

    Jamilah

    7/16/09, 09:29:am

    He did what was best for himself and their relationship. If they got married perhaps these feelings could have ruined their marriage and turned it into a messy and expensive divorce.

    And HE IS NOT GAY simple because he went to Paris with his buds. Most nuccka’s out there can only afford to go to the club after a breakup. He has dough so he went somewhere where he would not be reminded of her.
    ***** she is dancer and 6 figures is probably a 3 ear salary for her. These woman who are with these athletes and don’t bring anything to the table other than fake T and A ned to take notice and go to school while you are with him and open your business to generate a side income so he feels like you are trying to help even though he may not need your dough. The extra dough is for the chicks family so they will stay off of the brother’s plate.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 09:29:am

    *************************************************
    MAN OF THE YEAR AWARD
    *************************************************

    Congratulations to Richard Jefferson!!

    *if he renegs on the “money for a new life” he can win Man Of The Decade*

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:30:am

    @Jade

    “I remember I kept calling my husband on our wedding day every hour on the hour just to make sure he was going to make it.”

    Just curious, did you think something would happen on your wedding day?

    “He didn’t just leave her at the altar to figure it out. That would have been worse.”

    I have to disagree — it still must have been a horrible affair for her to go through. People had already arrived in town for the wedding, and she had to call people.

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 09:30:am

    Pretty *****es are god’s gift to men who get and education, have a career and wait before having a bunch of kids outta wedlock!

    Ugly and fat hoes are for poor *****s!

    love 6am

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 09:31:am

    Look at her…

    She ain’t “cooking or cleaning” a damn thing anyways… SMH

    Good move “RJ”, you knew she wasn’t the one anyways…

    Ladies, if it takes you 5 years to get that man to put a ring on your finger (*and he got money!!!)… You know what time it is, STOP lying to yourselves…

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 09:33:am

    @SYDNEY
    “True, but Karma will always catch up to you. You can go to Paris, Milan, Jupiter, what have you, but when you do wrong, it comes back to you. Tenfold.”
    _____________________________________________________________

    I agree. Kesha Nichols received her Karma for her “more than likely” trifiling ways on her marriage day.

    That ol ***** Karma just don’t stop. SMH. When will people learn?

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 09:33:am

    @ jade silver,

    shine it up any way you want, try and make sense of it if you like, but at the end of the day it’ll still be the same.

    no pre-nup
    expensive
    cheated
    recents deaths of pro athletes
    *****, she probably hit his ***** over the weekend!

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    7/16/09, 09:33:am

    [...] Net star Richard Jefferson admitted yesterday that he told his beautiful bride-to-be that their wedding was off in an e-mail — stunning her just days before their planned posh [...]

    Macho

    7/16/09, 09:34:am

    @Cynthia:I WOULD KILL HIM! SWEAR I WOULD!

    why??? Is marriage a debt.? Everybody can change his view few minutes before to exchange the rings; That’s why city majors always ask the BIG question before exchanging rings.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:35:am

    @Man

    “I agree. Kesha Nichols received her Karma for her “more than likely” trifiling ways on her marriage day.”

    The trifling one is the person who sent the e-mail that will be leaked any day now (I predict).

    l thomas

    7/16/09, 09:36:am

    If he believed this was the right choice for him, that’s great. It’s too bad he didn’t realize it sooner.

    Keeping It Real

    7/16/09, 09:36:am

    No one knows what went down for him to end their 5 year relationship and call off the wedding, but it had to be something serious. I also don’t see the problem with him going on record and telling his side. If he didnt, he wouldve been the worst dude on the planet for calling off the wedding. (In some broads minds he still is) Besides, he gave on money to move on and start a new Life. I think it was a good move on his part if he wasn’t 100% sure. Its no tellin what he found out about her. ***** it. She will be fine. Most people don’t get money to start their Life over after a break-up. That’s what the ***** she gets anyway for trying to marry for money. That’s a lesson to all you dumb gold diggin broads..LOL

    Minister

    7/16/09, 09:36:am

    This man realized:

    Life is short
    so he should play hard
    stick hard
    and the only time you love a ***** is when your ***** hard …

    Why in the hell would he get married ?
    Why in the hell did he not check this *****’s spending ?

    Well at least he dodged a bullet or two – tis tis

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 09:36:am

    @The Lovely Ladies of Bossip

    How long should you be in a relationship before you get an engagement ring?

    6 months?
    2 years?
    5 years?

    And if you wouldn’t mind please give me an explanation as to why you feel the way you feel, thanks in advance :-)

    *Fellas, this will be interesting… SMH

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 09:37:am

    @SYDNEY
    “The trifling one is the person who sent the e-mail that will be leaked any day now (I predict).”
    ______________________________________________________________

    Yeah, I agree. She did SOMETHING though, and that was her Karma coming back to get her.

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 09:38:am

    youre right slide,

    this ***** doesnt look like she can cook and definetely aint cleaning *****!

    I bet she was lookin’ at $10 million dollar mansions, interviewing nannies and maids, ordered a bentley , SL 65 and a pink Range rover, Had Manolo Blahnik’s, Louis Vuitton, Gucci and Tiffany store managers all on “speed dial”, gave her mother $25k and probably told them they could start lookin’ for a new house or move in with them, all without telling richard.

    6am, never wrong!

    Please.

    7/16/09, 09:39:am

    Why are people in this man’s business. STFU, you don’t know what went down.

    So I guess had they gotten married then he messes around on her, that would have been better?

    *****es always complaining about something.

    Angee

    7/16/09, 09:39:am

    @Its6amHoGetOut

    You know, I usually ignore your bull*****, but you CAN make your point without calling women (me or any other) a *****!

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:42:am

    @Man

    “Yeah, I agree. She did SOMETHING though, and that was her Karma coming back to get her.”

    Once again, your personal thoughts on the suspicious ways of women are coming through. Why must she have done something? There are men who leave women at the altar for reasons that have nothing to do with them.

    @6am

    “this ***** doesnt look like she can cook and definetely aint cleaning *****!”

    Why? Because she’s all dolled up in one photo? A woman can look good AND throw down in the kitchen.

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 09:42:am

    @ Sydney… Not really. He just isn’t the big crowd type. You know like how Mr Big in ‘Sex and the city’ did Carrie. I just kept having all sorts of nightmares coming up to the wedding day so I just wanted to be sure.

    The exact same thing happened to my cousin. Her fiance didn’t even bother to tell her. He got his dad to phone her parents 2 days before the wedding day that he wasn’t going to show up. We ended up going for the rehearsal dinner and spending the weekend at the venue. Had the wedding dinner as well as the cake and all the champagne imaginable. Everything was paid for with no refund so she figured why not. She was very depressed after that because he moved out of their big house and she was living there by herself. Sad.

    mrsmayes

    7/16/09, 09:43:am

    the bear–

    what do you mean negative signals…if they were going off the week before, i bet they were going off way before hand, and you were too blind to see it. *****ODY changes a week before the wedding, sweety.

    L

    7/16/09, 09:43:am

    Morning guys!

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 09:44:am

    Morning peepe!

    Oh well. He probably did the right thing anyway.

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 09:45:am

    @ Slide… I got the ring 2 months into the relationship and married 9 months later. But I never dated someone more than a year. I don’t believe in let’s try it out and see. You either want to or you don’t. If not, it’s been great and I moved on.

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 09:45:am

    So for everyone saying her was wrong:

    If he would have stayed then divorced ehr folks would be talking about he cheated or he shouldn’t have married ehr inthe first place. WIth his family being really religious, IMO he did the right thing. Maybe he doesn’t believe in divorce and he wants to know without a doubt that he will be with her forever.

    rose by any other name

    7/16/09, 09:45:am

    I would move on like s— happens and life goes on!!!

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 09:46:am

    Morning Whoa! Morning L.

    The Bear-

    7/16/09, 09:46:am

    @ Sydney

    Perhaps having personally gone through a very painful marraige where I knew I should have canceled the wedding but instead listened to my mom and married a woman with a horrible attitude problem has made me a little bit biased.

    But I still believe with all my heart that he saw things in her that he knew would make his life a living hell during the marraige and he was wise enough to allow the good sense he has in his head to overule the love he has for her he has for her in his heart.

    I wasn’t as wise, I followed my heart and ignored her bull*****. And OHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!! do I rue that day.

    L

    7/16/09, 09:46:am

    How long should you be in a relationship before you get an engagement ring?

    6 months?
    2 years?
    5 years?

    And if you wouldn’t mind please give me an explanation as to why you feel the way you feel, thanks in advance
    _________________________________________________

    I don’t think you should be in a relationship for more tahn 2 YEARS without an engagement ring! Longer than 3 is just plain rude and showing that you have no intentions of buying that cow when you can get the milk for free (for lack of a better interpretation)

    pm

    7/16/09, 09:46:am

    what are the chances of this “heart broken” goldigger finding love with a regular joe after this..slim to *****ing none.. she will be pimpin that pu$$y out again in no time.

    L

    7/16/09, 09:46:am

    JADE!
    WHOA!
    JB!
    MIJDC!
    SYDNEY!

    HAPPY THURSDAY TO YOU ALL! :)

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 09:47:am

    @SYDNEY
    “Once again, your personal thoughts on the suspicious ways of women are coming through. Why must she have done something? There are men who leave women at the altar for reasons that have nothing to do with them.”
    ___________________________________________________________

    Da hell?

    I’m just following the rules of Karma. ***** happens for a reason, she prolly did SOMETHING to deserve this is all. I’m not suspicious of women. Where did you get that from? LOL.

    mojojojo

    7/16/09, 09:47:am

    @ slide
    i feel u cant really put time on it . it really depends on the relationship now if u are together for a year and u two NEVER discussed it i think u should move on….
    1 year the talk
    2yrs planning
    3 yrs u should be on ya way down the alsie….im not going to be with no one for 5yrs and we are not getting married

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 09:47:am

    she is dancer and 6 figures is probably a 3 ear salary for her.
    ______________________________________________

    @Jamilah

    Cheerleaders DON’T get paid for shakin’ their a$$ and shakin’ them pom poms…

    AND they be messing with guys on the opposing team too when they come in town = ho’s… SMH

    Like I said before and we all know the ONLY reason why they are doing that is to snag a professional athlete…

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:48:am

    Good morning Lauren :)

    @Jade

    “You know like how Mr Big in ‘Sex and the city’ did Carrie. I just kept having all sorts of nightmares coming up to the wedding day so I just wanted to be sure.”

    I was also thinking of that scene in the Sex and the City movie — It was very moving when Charlotte jumped in to comfort Carrie. Having someone walk out on you before/on the day of a wedding is very traumatic, to say the least.

    Good morning Lauren :)

    @Jade

    “You know like how Mr Big in ‘Sex and the city’ did Carrie. I just kept having all sorts of nightmares coming up to the wedding day so I just wanted to be sure.”

    I was also thinking of that scene in the Sex and the City movie — It was very moving when Charlotte jumped in to comfort Carrie. Having someone walk out on you before/on the day of a wedding is very traumatic, to say the least.

    I also know someone whose fiancé canceled the day before their wedding, and, of course, she had already informed her relatives, friends, co-workers, etc. It was a depressing situation. She has since recovered and is now married to someone else.

    Patiently waiting

    7/16/09, 09:48:am

    yall are wild……..I agree with those saying it may be a blessing to both parties. BUT an EMAIL dude come one I would be ashamed of my own self for that.

    LOL at the person who said this sounded like a plot for an episode of “snapped”

    Feelings and emotions are a trip. that flesh is nothing to play with so yall better wise up for real though. these are not your mother and grandmother’s these new age females is murkin like thugs (don’t condone it) but they not playin

    CAT EYES

    7/16/09, 09:49:am

    @ Slide like a fresh pair of gators
    You asked how long should a woman be in a relationship before you get an engagement ring.
    I would say between 1 and 2 years.Anything longer than that,you’re just a cow he’s getting free milk from.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:49:am

    Oops, sorry for the double post!

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 09:49:am

    I treat marriage like MOST drugs Just say NO

    L

    7/16/09, 09:49:am

    And on the subject…He probably gave her the money that he was going to spend on the wedding…NASTY!!

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 09:50:am

    Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey
    L
    Slide
    JB
    Syd
    JAAAAAAAAAAAAAADE
    MIJDC
    Angee
    and everyone else

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 09:51:am

    hes a sucka for givin her any money

    mojojojo

    7/16/09, 09:51:am

    @ L
    Lauren is that u?

    The Bear-

    7/16/09, 09:51:am

    @ MRSMAYS

    I speak from personal experience. There are certain things in life that one may not be able to fully understand unless they’ve been there and done that.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:51:am

    @The Bear

    “Perhaps having personally gone through a very painful marraige where I knew I should have canceled the wedding but instead listened to my mom and married a woman with a horrible attitude problem has made me a little bit biased.”

    I’m sorry for what you experienced, but, yes, it seems that you’re projecting your personal experience onto a woman who may or may not have those characteristics. It is, indeed, bias.

    @Man

    “***** happens for a reason, she prolly did SOMETHING to deserve this is all. I’m not suspicious of women. Where did you get that from? LOL.”

    Your posts scream that something happened that affected your thinking regarding women, IMHO.

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 09:52:am

    What a punk move!!

    Hey Syd, Slide, Kami, Jade, Mojojo, MIJDC, L
    others i’m missing

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:53:am

    Good morning, Whoa :)

    @Patiently waiting

    “LOL at the person who said this sounded like a plot for an episode of “snapped””

    LOL, girl, it does. There are some women who would round up their bridesmaids and go on a “search-and-destroy” mission with their hair and nails done and all.

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 09:53:am

    Hey Whoa

    I am Legend – you are just gloomy about everything huh? lol

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 09:53:am

    @ sydney,

    You may be right, a woman can look good and throw down in the kitchen, but i bet this one cant and aint interested in learning how!

    @ angee

    Ive never heard from you before, but you have a right to your opinion even if its wrong. my “bull*****” is only bull***** to you, what you fail to realize is everything I “6am” type is the truth and sometimes the truth isnt pretty.

    Richard aint marrying this ***** because she started showing her true colors…….

    love 6am

    Angee

    7/16/09, 09:54:am

    Hello Whoa, Sydney and everyone else!

    L

    7/16/09, 09:54:am

    @MOJOJOJO

    Hey cousin! Yes it’s me…how is babygirl doin!?

    Divine

    7/16/09, 09:55:am

    I will gather he got cold feet but he broke up with her completely. I think there is something more to the story. But Its better to not get married than to do it cause more issues in the long run, when kids could possibly be involved.

    manster

    7/16/09, 09:55:am

    @6am
    And to all you *****es that say “I would kill his *****”

    Thats probably what scared the ***** off! I know these recent deaths ran through his head!

    Once again, you nailed it. keep it coming!!! LMAO

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 09:55:am

    I bet she was lookin’ at $10 million dollar mansions, interviewing nannies and maids, ordered a bentley , SL 65 and a pink Range rover, Had Manolo Blahnik’s, Louis Vuitton, Gucci and Tiffany store managers all on “speed dial”, gave her mother $25k and probably told them they could start lookin’ for a new house or move in with them, all without telling richard.
    ______________________________________________

    @6AM

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!

    The funny thing about you saying that is that I knew a girl who did damn near everything you just said = FOR REAL!!!

    Oh yeah, congrats on getting engaged and Happy Belated Birthday!!!

    But hold up though, are you gonna ask your girl to sign a prenup? (*it ain’t none of business or concern, but whatever…)

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 09:55:am

    @ sydney,

    You may be right, a woman can look good and throw down in the kitchen, but i bet this one cant and aint interested in learning how!

    ***************
    I agree with 6am on this one but Jefferson did not need to dump her via text, e-mail. He needs that a$$ kicked for that.

    L

    7/16/09, 09:56:am

    LOVE YOU 6AM!!!

    (lol)

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 09:56:am

    @BE

    Im not gloomy at all..Im just not into all this nonsense…He didnt wanna get married good for him smart man

    HarlemWorld

    7/16/09, 09:56:am

    Good going RJ! Immense public humiliation is in order for all golddiggers!

    I seriously doubt this ***** knows how to scrub a-n-ything especially if she’s down with a $2 million dollar wedding.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 09:56:am

    GOOD MORNING FOLKS!!!!

    Angee

    7/16/09, 09:57:am

    Ok 6AM!

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:57:am

    Hello BE :)

    @6am

    “You may be right, a woman can look good and throw down in the kitchen, but i bet this one cant and aint interested in learning how!”

    Oh, OK. It’s amazing how much some of you have deduced from one photo, or do you know her personally? Perhaps you’ve dated someone who looked like her and you’re having flashbacks?

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 09:57:am

    @ 6am… How am I shining it up?

    mojojojo

    7/16/09, 09:58:am

    @ L
    OWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW gurl how u been? hows the baby i know she is big now…and miss breeze?
    Mya is cool she is away for the summer (yeaAAAA)
    @ be
    good morning gurl!

    Markh320

    7/16/09, 09:58:am

    It’s funny how women will always find a reason to say he wasn’t a man because…He did it by email so, he wasn’t a man because he emailed, he should’ve called her, then if he called her, it would be, he’s not a man, he should’ve done it face to face, then if he did it face to face, he’s not a man because he cancelled it so late. Then he’s not a man, because he shouldn’t have proposed to her. If he didn’t propose to her, he’s not a man to not want to marry her.
    THIS IS THE TRAP AND INSANITY OF WOMEN. YOU’RE DAMNED IF YOU DO, DAMNED IF YOU DON’T. THAT’S WHY MEN ARE STAYING SINGLE, SO THEY DON’T HAVE TO DEAL WITH EMOTIONALLY MISGUIDED WOMEN. THIS IS THE KARMA OF GOLD DIGGING, SHE WAS HYPED TO GET HIM IN A MARRIAGE CONTRACT AND HE SAVED HIMSELF FROM THE MISERY. ***** THE GUESTS AND THE CEREMONY, GOD KNOWS WHAT SHE DID TOO.

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 09:58:am

    But ***** all that trickin 6 figures on a broad u was never married to and aint got no kids by…U just wanna send her home to start a new life ***** THAT.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 09:59:am

    *****, you gotta sleep in different rooms from these hoes now-a-days.

    McNair and that boxer were murked in their sleep…LOL

    L

    7/16/09, 09:59:am

    6am is ENGAGED?!!?!?! HOLD UP!!!!!! (lol)

    After McNair…Jefferson probably better get a body guard… (i’m just sayin)

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 09:59:am

    Hey everybody!!!!

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 09:59:am

    And I still don’t understand how she’s a “bi**h.”

    Again, projection.

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 09:59:am

    Hey Angee!!

    @Sydney – @Patiently waiting

    “LOL at the person who said this sounded like a plot for an episode of “snapped””

    LOL, girl, it does. There are some women who would round up their bridesmaids and go on a “search-and-destroy” mission with their hair and nails done and all.

    *******************
    certainly deserves at least a drive by bust the windows out ya car…

    Tamu Chambers

    7/16/09, 10:00:am

    A person has the right to change their mind at any given minute…He actually did her a favorite by not marrying her…And old girl didn’t do so bad…He’s giving her money as a parting gift…When a man leaves me, the only thing I get is pain and heart-ache…Trust me, she’ll get over it.

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 10:00:am

    @Whoa, Angee & BE

    Good Morning :-)

    AND the Lurkers, y’all ain’t gonna holla at me???
    Y’all ALWAYS over there reading the comments and don’t say a thing but just laugh and shake y’alls heads at us… SMH @ you…

    But anyways, I wanna know:

    How long should you be in a relationship before you get an engagement ring?

    6 months?
    2 years?
    5 years?

    And if you wouldn’t mind please give me an explanation as to why you feel the way you feel, thanks in advance :-)

    HarlemWorld

    7/16/09, 10:00:am

    I feel as though he could have broke the news better, but something tells me she got what she deserved because he offed her real good…

    My guess is that she’s slept with or is sleeping with other big names and RJ was JUST made privy to this information.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 10:01:am

    @SYDNEY
    “Your posts scream that something happened that affected your thinking regarding women, IMHO.”
    ________________________________________________________

    Naw… I’ve been treated exceptionally well actually. Even by my exes. They still oc*****ionally call to check on a *****.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 10:01:am

    @BE

    “I agree with 6am on this one but Jefferson did not need to dump her via text, e-mail. He needs that a$$ kicked for that.”

    Yes, by a stampede of bridesmaids in combat gear.

    Angee

    7/16/09, 10:02:am

    Hey Be!

    I see this is going to be a heated thread today.

    Divine

    7/16/09, 10:02:am

    Text messaging is cold-blooded. Using a phone is also cold-blooded.
    AND ADULT goes to any person they at the very least respect and look them in the eye.

    Text messaging and cell phones are for cowards and kids.

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 10:02:am

    @Slide…

    Wh*****up Homie!?

    I already answered that question…

    Jamilah

    7/16/09, 10:03:am

    @ Fresh pair of gators

    100k ( I am guessing here) divided by 3 seems like her yearly salary.

    Regardless, she was not bringing anything other than T and A to the table and in a couple of years he would be feeding her family and friends.

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 10:03:am

    I dont think it was a bad move 2 email her and break it off …She might go crazy if you tell her in person you see Steve Mcnair hes smart

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 10:04:am

    The jilted bride, a former Net dancer, checked into the Mandarin and spent what would have been her wedding night in a luxury suite. A fellow dancer pal of Kesha, Keltie Colleen, wrote on her blog that Nichols was “going through some serious grief.”
    ___________________________________________________

    I would have partied it up!! No sense in crying of spilled milk!!

    gemini62065

    7/16/09, 10:04:am

    The way he ended his relationship may not have been the best in the eyes of others…but we really don’t know what led up to his decision. Only the two of them know what could of caused the distance between them. He mentioned that others were responsible for the demise of their relationship and that he recognized that he was not guilt-free. What more can you say…its better to part ways early than fight over money later. You only have one life…right?

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 10:05:am

    Hi BE honey bunny!! *I’m on the phone*

    Young Obama

    7/16/09, 10:05:am

    It’s better that he called it off rather than go forward with the wedding just to please everyone then end up in married to someone who you don’t love, end up getting divorced, baby mama drama, more gay rumors, You get the point. Good move Jefferson!

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 10:06:am

    @Man

    “Naw… I’ve been treated exceptionally well actually. Even by my exes. They still oc*****ionally call to check on a *****.”

    Oh, OK. Right-O.

    HarlemWorld

    7/16/09, 10:06:am

    Her friends are laughing [at her] like,

    “well you can come stay with me in the projects, giiiiiiiiiirrrrrrrrl.”

    Markh320

    7/16/09, 10:07:am

    BEING A SEXY LOOKING WOMAN DOES NOT MEAN YOU DESERVE TO BE MARRIED MORE THAN ANOTHER WOMAN. VALUES ATTRACTS VALUES AS WATER MEETS ITS ON OWN LEVEL. WISHING AND HOPING FOR YOUR BLACK MAN IN SHINING ARMOUR TO COME SAVE YOU IS NOT A VALUE, ITS A DAMN DREAM. WHEN YOU HAVE *****ED UP MEN TRYING TO GET WITH YOU, ITS YOU LADIES. LOOK INSIDE YOURSELF AND SEE YOU ARE THE MAGNETIC THAT PICKS UP YOUR VIBRATION. YOU THINK LIKE ALL OTHER WOMEN, YOU’LL ATTRACT THE *****TY MEN, WHICH MEANS YOU’RE THINKIN *****TY TOO. WAKE SISTAS, BROTHAS YOU TOO.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 10:07:am

    Hello to:

    Angee
    Be
    Jade
    JB
    L
    Sydney
    Toot-It-Up

    I would of mailed a handwritten letter to dump my fiancee. Email is so “impersonal” and “cold.” SMH.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 10:08:am

    Good Morning Everyone!

    Sounds like he’s just not feeling her anymore. If he really wanted to marry her he would have a long time ago.

    ???

    7/16/09, 10:08:am

    He probably woke up and said…um I want the mother of my children to be something a little more substantial than a Cheerleader!!!! on the real He handdled it the wrong way Obviously…but if you have serious doubts you shouldn’t get married…. hello the divorce rate is 50% the rate of infidelity is greater than 70% and so in the long wrong no matter how bad he handled it …he did the right thing and did them both a favor……..

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 10:08:am

    gemini62065

    The way he ended his relationship may not have been the best in the eyes of others…but we really don’t know what led up to his decision. Only the two of them know what could of caused the distance between them. He mentioned that others were responsible for the demise of their relationship and that he recognized that he was not guilt-free. What more can you say…its better to part ways early than fight over money later. You only have one life…right?
    ——————————–
    RIGHT! :wink:

    RIP MJ

    7/16/09, 10:09:am

    BAD ENOUGH HE LEFT HER AT THE ALTER BUT HE DIDN’T HAVE THE DECENCY TO NOTIFY FAM & FRIENDS? PUNK ***** TOOK THE EASY WAY OUT.

    free

    7/16/09, 10:11:am

    he seems to be genuinely sorry this happened but it took him five years to get to this point. he knew he didn’t want to do it after the third year.

    his side of the story has BRIDE’S MOTHER/FAMILY INTERFERENCE all over it. he probably hated family events and them asking him when he was going to make her an honest woman.

    i’m proud of the young man. not an easy thing to do but he seems to have exercised wisdom. she’s getting PAID for her pain and suffering.

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 10:11:am

    She not even all that cute…She got no ***** at all and is skinny as hell..Why would you wanna marry her anyways

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 10:12:am

    I got the ring 2 months into the relationship and married 9 months later.
    ______________________________________________

    @Jade Silver

    My South African Queen, looking back don’t you think that was too soon?

    And I say that because you’ve said your husband has cheated on you 4 times (that you know about)…

    Ummmm, now do you think you should have waited a little bit longer?

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 10:12:am

    She need 2 eat a sammich or 2

    Nick In ATL

    7/16/09, 10:14:am

    I’m going to try real hard to not say “Black men ain’t ish”. I’ll just say Men can be real selfish. Doing what they want for their own benefit ONLY. And not giving a second thought to the other person. But here’s the kicker- also trying to save his own feelings. The worst thing in the world for him will be if he changes his mind later and there’s no going back.

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 10:14:am

    Then she got the nerve to come out the house in a pink dress that make her look like a disco ball ***** is wrong with these w*****s

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 10:14:am

    Good morning, Redd :)

    Is it just me or are some of these comments totally different from the ones about that former Playboy bunny (or whatever she is) who married the athlete recently? What was her name? Kendra? Wasn’t he being congratulated on his choice? Correct me if I’m wrong.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 10:16:am

    This just in

    Kesha Nichols has applied for cheerleader try-outs for the New York Giants, New York Jets, New York Yankees and New York Mets.

    Carry on…

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 10:16:am

    @ Slide… I still wouldn’t have done it differently because if I had I probably wouldn’t have married him. I can take the ***** because I made the vows. I wouldn’t have put up with it if we were just dating. And, I’m happy. Honestly.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 10:17:am

    @ Slide

    I got the ring 2 months into the relationship and married 9 months later.
    ______________________________________________

    @Jade Silver

    My South African Queen, looking back don’t you think that was too soon?

    And I say that because you’ve said your husband has cheated on you 4 times (that you know about)…

    Ummmm, now do you think you should have waited a little bit longer?

    Some people marry within 6 months and stay happily married for years. Every situation is different. Sometimes you just know and there is no need to wait.

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 10:18:am

    I love Kendra! She works MORE than HANK!

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 10:18:am

    @ ManIJDC…
    This just in

    Kesha Nichols has applied for cheerleader try-outs for the New York Giants, New York Jets, New York Yankees and New York Mets.

    Carry on…
    —————————————————
    Who’s your source? LOL.

    shut up black men! colored turds

    7/16/09, 10:20:am

    who cares about this white ***** im glad what happen her she got shamed ugly ***** ho. how i know this ***** is white and not latin i googled this ***** her skin was white skined when white hos tan and dye they hair they look latin these *****es are manly and ugly and hate they selfs. smh thats why you never give men sex at all you get married first then have kids. aint no man geting ***** from me yall some hiv haveing gay *****ers at that too hell nah this ape man is prob gay other races of women turn yall gay

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 10:20:am

    how u get cheated on 4 times and still married

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 10:20:am

    I was engaged about 2 years after dating then about 3 years after that we married so I had a looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong engagement!

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 10:20:am

    @L

    “I love Kendra! She works MORE than HANK!”

    I never watched her show. I just don’t recall her being referred to as a “golddigger,” “b**ch,” “wh*ore,” or any of those colorful terms — not by men anyway. Just a thought.

    What’s different about this situation? Let’s think real hard. . .

    Angee

    7/16/09, 10:20:am

    Hello Man,

    A handwritten letter huh? Well, I guess that is better than an email :-)

    NATA

    7/16/09, 10:21:am

    I DONT BELIEVE HE IS GAY BUT FAREAL IF UR NOT 100 PERCENT THEN DONT DO IT Y GET IN A MARRAIGE AND DONT WANNA BE THERE THEN PEOPLE SAY THEY WOULD HAVE HURT HIM Y THEN GET MARRIED FIND OUT HE IS CHEATING BECAUSE HE NOT HAPPY WITH U AND THEN HAVE KIDS INVOLVED DONT MAKE SENSE IM GLADE HE DID WHAT A MAN IS SUPPOSE TO DO DONT WATE HER TIME AND HIS WISH BOTH THE BEST

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 10:21:am

    @Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)
    _____________________________________________________
    GOOD MORNING MY LOVE

    The Bear-

    7/16/09, 10:21:am

    @ Sydney

    Do you realize that Kendra likely makes just as much (if not more) money than Hank Basket (her football playing husband).

    He is the 6th wide reciever on the Eagles depth chart… Thats right SIXTH!!!

    HarlemWorld

    7/16/09, 10:22:am

    @I AM LEGEND

    You right about that no ***** part.

    shut up black men! colored turds

    7/16/09, 10:22:am

    haha one down more to go

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 10:22:am

    @ Sydney

    Good morning, Redd

    Is it just me or are some of these comments totally different from the ones about that former Playboy bunny (or whatever she is) who married the athlete recently? What was her name? Kendra? Wasn’t he being congratulated on his choice? Correct me if I’m wrong.

    Oh yes, and have you seen the show? Another one I caught by accident, she is a hot mess!!!!!! She had Too Short in their house with some stripper! Im sorry I know trash when I see trash!

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 10:22:am

    DAMN

    Young Obama

    7/16/09, 10:22:am

    At least she got six figures. He really didn’t have to give her anything but a apology. She’ll get over it and be at his house next week.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 10:23:am

    @The Bear

    “Do you realize that Kendra likely makes just as much (if not more) money than Hank Basket (her football playing husband).”

    Oh, so that takes her off the “golddigger/b**ch” list, right?

    She doesn’t look like she has a “bad attitude,” does she?

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 10:23:am

    @ RedFoxx..
    Some people marry within 6 months and stay happily married for years. Every situation is different. Sometimes you just know and there is no need to wait.
    —————————————————
    Exactly.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 10:23:am

    @ANGEE
    “Hello Man,

    A handwritten letter huh? Well, I guess that is better than an email”
    _______________________________________________________________

    Yes, I’m a gentlemen.

    serene

    7/16/09, 10:24:am

    how can u be with someone five years and not know if you wanna marry them. Something else going on there….most people know afta a month….

    Jefferson is full of shyt if u ask me….

    Pisces

    7/16/09, 10:24:am

    these are some of the funniest comments…all i know is the ***** better watch his back…need i remind him….steve mcnair and arturo gatti….when a woman is scorned ain’t no tellin what she gonna do….

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 10:24:am

    @Redd

    “Oh yes, and have you seen the show? Another one I caught by accident, she is a hot mess!!!!!! She had Too Short in their house with some stripper! Im sorry I know trash when I see trash!”

    Oh, I never saw the show — sounds interesting, lol.

    But, to my recollection, she was referred to as “trash” by any men in those threads, right? Or told that she looked like she had an “attitude?”

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 10:25:am

    I’m off the phone chillin like a villain! Where everybody at?

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 10:25:am

    @SYDNEY
    “Oh, so that takes her off the “golddigger/b**ch” list, right?

    She doesn’t look like she has a “bad attitude,” does she?”
    ______________________________________________________________

    No, she doesn’t seem to have a “bad attitude.”

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 10:25:am

    @Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)
    _____________________________________________________
    GOOD MORNING MY LOVE

    Here we go! Good morning!

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 10:26:am

    I would of mailed a handwritten letter to dump my fiancee. Email is so “impersonal” and “cold.” SMH.
    ___________________________________________________

    WOuld you have paid the $14.95 to have it sent overnight by UPS, Fed-Ex or the Post Office? Or would you, MIJDC, paid just the first cl***** stamp and hoped it got there before she left for the wedding?

    moni

    7/16/09, 10:26:am

    Man, Thats eff’d up!!! i wonder if she gonna “purse strap” him or come up with something more creative, lol

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 10:26:am

    @syd…

    Okay

    Kendra = Former Playboy Playmate…she supports herself by posing nude for playboy calendars and such…she found love in Hank…a NFL player…who is mostly benched but does gross a couple MILLION a year…Kendra is nor pregnant and they got married…she also has her own REALITY show on E!…

    Nichols= a former Jet dancer…don’t really know if she does anything to support herself…she found love in Jefferson who actively plays in the NBA … he dumped her…

    So i guess to say all that..the difference would be Kendra DOES make a living doing what she does best…IDK…IDK…LOL

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 10:27:am

    @Man

    “No, she doesn’t seem to have a “bad attitude.””

    But, Kesha, does, right? Isn’t that what some of you are saying?

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 10:27:am

    @ I am Legend…
    how u get cheated on 4 times and still married
    —————————————————
    Maybe I’m crazy. LOL.

    Taylor

    7/16/09, 10:28:am

    In the end he did the right thing. Don’t get married unless you’re ready.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 10:28:am

    @JB
    “WOuld you have paid the $14.95 to have it sent overnight by UPS, Fed-Ex or the Post Office? Or would you, MIJDC, paid just the first cl***** stamp and hoped it got there before she left for the wedding?
    ___________________________________________________________

    I would of sent it certified regular mail.

    Yo, what’s up with the (-FISHER=…) part of your screen name. That ***** still under contract, they ain’t bout to trade him.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 10:29:am

    @L

    “So i guess to say all that..the difference would be Kendra DOES make a living doing what she does best…IDK…IDK…LOL”

    LOL, I guess so. I just think the difference in verbiage is interesting. Very interesting — and telling.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 10:29:am

    @ Sydeny

    No. You know how it goes. Sorry fellas but you guys can be so easily led by the worst of the worst.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 10:29:am

    @Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    Here we go! Good morning!
    _____________________________________________________
    What u mean “here we go”? A brother cant just say good morning, y expect the worse from me?

    CAT EYES

    7/16/09, 10:30:am

    @ Slide
    I will agree with you because after only a few months you don’t even know who YOU are in the relationship let alone the other person.
    I will say between 1 and 2 years.That will give you a chance to meet his family(When you marry someone,you’re marrying the family too)and see how he interacts in all situations.I always take time to study anyone that will be a part of my life.My family is very important to me,so in that 1 to 2 years time,he’s getting to know mine too.I was engaged in 1 year and married the next.By thwe time we got married,there were no surprises.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 10:30:am

    @Redd

    “No. You know how it goes. Sorry fellas but you guys can be so easily led by the worst of the worst.”

    Or they just think the worst about certain individuals — based on an exterior that may mirror theirs.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 10:30:am

    @SYDNEY
    “But, Kesha, does, right? Isn’t that what some of you are saying?”
    ____________________________________________________________

    Oh, I don’t know if she has a bad attitude. I don’t recall anyone saying that. It really doesn’t matter though because what ever the reason, Jefferson ain’t like her for SOMETHING.

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 10:31:am

    @ Man

    Cause you know Fisher is sometimey. So to get rid of him and O-dumb-as-*****, will such a better fit for the team. The need some street ballers, run and gun type of players. Then get a big man who runs up behind everyone and does a put back every once in a while. Like Shaq used to do.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 10:31:am

    @ POKE HER FACE(FL)

    What u mean “here we go”? A brother cant just say good morning, y expect the worse from me?

    Im sorry, I never know what to expect out of you! Good morning.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 10:32:am

    @REDD FOXXX
    “No. You know how it goes. Sorry fellas but you guys can be so easily led by the worst of the worst.”
    __________________________________________________________________

    Yeah, but so do females. That’s what Jefferson alluded to, that Kesha was influenced by outside forces.

    That’s code for messy ***** girlfriends and family members!

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 10:33:am

    @JB

    How you gonna mess with what just worked we won a championship in 5 games..Now you wanna get ride of DFISH who won game 4 for us and Odom who was killin all playoffs

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 10:33:am

    @Man

    “Oh, I don’t know if she has a bad attitude. I don’t recall anyone saying that. It really doesn’t matter though because what ever the reason, Jefferson ain’t like her for SOMETHING.”

    Oh, OK, I must have totally misread the flowery descriptors of “bi*ch,” “golddigger,” “wh*re,” “bad attitude,” used in connection with this young woman. My bad.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 10:33:am

    @ Sydney

    Or they just think the worst about certain individuals — based on an exterior that may mirror theirs.

    I like that! Good point! I could run with that but Im not! LOL!

    TM30

    7/16/09, 10:34:am

    If he wasn’t sure about the marriage then it was the right thing to do. Yeah he could have put on a show…only to get divorced a month later, which desecrates the value of marriage. At least he told her before the wedding, he could have literally left her at the alter. Plus, imo, if two people are serious about each other, they don’t need a big show. Just elope or have something small.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 10:35:am

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ POKE HER FACE(FL)

    What u mean “here we go”? A brother cant just say good morning, y expect the worse from me?

    Im sorry, I never know what to expect out of you! Good morning.
    _____________________________________________________
    understandable!! I do however adore u!! its too early to start baby!! I’ll give it a few. lmao

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 10:35:am

    I’m happy. Honestly.
    __________________________________________

    @Jade Silver

    Alright, cool and I’m happy that you’re happy :-)

    BUT have you STOPPED smoking yet!!!

    You are pregnant and have another human being inside of you and you know about the harmful effects that smoking can do to an unborn child :-(

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 10:35:am

    @ Man

    Yeah, but so do females. That’s what Jefferson alluded to, that Kesha was influenced by outside forces.

    That’s code for messy ***** girlfriends and family members!

    True.

    The Bear-

    7/16/09, 10:36:am

    @ Sydney

    Oh, so that takes her[Kendra] off the “golddigger/b**ch” list, right?

    Well generally “goldiggers/b**ches” don’t marry men with less income and income security that they have themselves Syd. That would kinda sorta defeat the purpose of the whole golddigging game wouldn’t it?

    Winona Johnson

    7/16/09, 10:36:am

    Why would you kill someone for telling the truth? So many women coerce men to the altar and then despair because the vows don’t mean anything. Good for him and good for her too!

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 10:36:am

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    @ I am Legend…
    how u get cheated on 4 times and still married
    —————————————————
    Maybe I’m crazy. LOL.
    ———————————–
    Nope you’re human. We all do things that make another person think we’re crazy.

    Just My Opinion

    7/16/09, 10:37:am

    Were quick to judge. Would it be better to go on with a wedding, to have regrets later. Knowing through each regret, will come hate. Yes, he had plenty of time to be sure, but knowing for certain that you want to make a commitment/like marriage does not come easy. Some times were blinded by the word, not understanding what all comes with it. I pray for the young lady heart to heal as well as his.

    Realistik

    7/16/09, 10:37:am

    The brother wasnt ready period. Stop hating you guys now. We rush these guys into marrying knowing very well that they are not ready, but mostly because our biological clock is ticking which is not the case for them. Give the brother a break!

    Not Jealous of Kim K, SuperHead, Pamela Anderson or that everyday Ho on the corner

    7/16/09, 10:37:am

    I worked with a man who mailed his wife a letter from work that:
    1. he was leaving her
    2. he was moving in with his mistress who was 6 mnths pregnant with his baby

    The wife came up to the job 3 days later when she got the letter and turned it out! I was sitting back wishing I had a cell phone that could record movies.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 10:37:am

    a 3rd voice in the relationship will just about ruin it everytime!!

    Sunny

    7/16/09, 10:38:am

    @PM OR SOUL GLO

    YO MAMA NEED TO KICK YOUR ***** AND ALL YOU *****’S WHO DISRESPECT BLACK WOMEN LIKE YOU DO!!!AFTER ALL YOU CAME FROM A BLACK WOMEN SO HOW CAN YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND SO NEGATIVE STUFF ABOUT US! IS YOUR MAMA, AUNT, SISTER, COUSIN BLACK. YOU KNOW EVERYTIME YOU SAY NEGATIVE STUFF ABOUT US, YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT THE BLACK WOMEN IN YOUR FAMILY TO!!! PUT IT TOGETHER AND STOP TALKING CRAP ABOUT US..PUNK

    CreoleCutie

    7/16/09, 10:38:am

    He did the right thing by calling it off, even if he did it so close to their wedding date. The truth is, his ending their relationship and calling off the wedding would have been excruciatingly painful no matter how the news was delivered. Even so, relating the decision via email holds a cold connotation that just adds to her pain and gives him some relief from not having to face her in person. I feel sorry for everyone involved, including their families.

    THISISME

    7/16/09, 10:39:am

    Wait a second, wait a second let me get this right. Dude on a plain with a bunch of dudes and he decides to e-mail Ms.Fine and tell her the weddings off, and this is the kicker, He says he not gay. Yeah, right!!!

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 10:39:am

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    You are pregnant and have another human being inside of you and you know about the harmful effects that smoking can do to an unborn child
    ——————————————-
    :shock: Jade you’re smoking while preggers????

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 10:39:am

    I was engaged in 1 year and married the next.By thwe time we got married,there were no surprises.
    ______________________________________________

    @CAT EYES

    Big Sis, what if he had of asked you to sign a pre-nup would you have signed it?

    Did you know he was the one when you married him or did it take you some time?

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 10:39:am

    @ POKE HER FACE(FL)

    SMH @ you!

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 10:40:am

    @JB
    “Cause you know Fisher is sometimey. So to get rid of him and O-dumb-as-*****, will such a better fit for the team. The need some street ballers, run and gun type of players. Then get a big man who runs up behind everyone and does a put back every once in a while. Like Shaq used to do.”
    ___________________________________________________________

    Are you “lobbying” for Allen Iverson and Marcus Camby? LOL.

    You should be an agent!

    Not Jealous of Kim K, SuperHead, Pamela Anderson or that everyday Ho on the corner

    7/16/09, 10:40:am

    I think if you have any doubts about being married, or the person you are marrying then Don’t Walk down the aisle.

    I do find it tacky to email and then talk to the press about it. He should have looked her in the eyes when he told her the truth, and no one other than the 2 of them should have any info. The response to the friends, press and anyone else should be “no comment.”

    For all those saying she wouldn’t sign a pre-nup, how do you rationalize the fact that he still gave her a 6 figure pre-nup?

    MDS

    7/16/09, 10:41:am

    From the book of “who gives a *****” He days in the nba might as well be over – he plays like crap. PS
    I would still do his funny looking azz.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 10:41:am

    @Redd

    “I like that! Good point! I could run with that but Im not! LOL!”

    LOL, no, I don’t think it’s worth it. Those who will get it, will — those who won’t or want to deny it, won’t. *shrugs*

    @Bear

    “Well generally “goldiggers/b**ches” don’t marry men with less income and income security that they have themselves Syd. That would kinda sorta defeat the purpose of the whole golddigging game wouldn’t it?”

    Why, yes. And I guess Kendra, being a cheerleader, automatically falls into the “golddigger” category, just as she does the category of “pretty b**ch with a bad attitude.”

    Interesting.

    Your “attitude” immediately changed with the mention of Kendra.

    Interesting.

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 10:41:am

    Sunny

    @PM OR SOUL GLO

    YO MAMA NEED TO KICK YOUR ***** AND ALL YOU *****’S WHO DISRESPECT BLACK WOMEN LIKE YOU DO!!!AFTER ALL YOU CAME FROM A BLACK WOMEN SO HOW CAN YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND SO NEGATIVE STUFF ABOUT US! IS YOUR MAMA, AUNT, SISTER, COUSIN BLACK. YOU KNOW EVERYTIME YOU SAY NEGATIVE STUFF ABOUT US, YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT THE BLACK WOMEN IN YOUR FAMILY TO!!! PUT IT TOGETHER AND STOP TALKING CRAP ABOUT US..PUNK
    _____________________________

    This ***** is mad

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 10:42:am

    @ I am legend

    Odum did it to himself when he got greedy and they pulled the offer off the table. Fisher is old. he did good, but it is time for him to sing the carol Burnett Song, I’m glad we had this time together.

    How can I be from LA and hate on Fisher? I know I ask myself the same thing. Fish needs to just go start playing the 3 on 3 tournament circuits or see if he can get a job as an *****yst at ESPN. Maybe he can take over for *****ey V. No *****ey V is like Michael jackson, no one can take his place.

    MDCHAMPLADY

    7/16/09, 10:43:am

    I kno exactly why he did this via e-mail..That ***** probably would have killed his ***** if they were face to face. You can read the comments of some the women on this messageboard, “I would have killed him” or ” He would be dead messing with me” (not direct quotes)..I don’t blame him at all and I have been dumped before and I ain’t even get a ice cream cone, she got it good..

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 10:43:am

    @PM OR SOUL GLO

    LMAO @ THIS!! HA!

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 10:43:am

    I see know problem in how he handled this situation. He stated that there were problems a while ago. It appears with is Christian Missionary background and her dancing background they were not equally yoked. He sent her a email while she was on the plane and they followed up with a phone call. He in turn broke her off to get her started. What’s the problem?

    mojojojo

    7/16/09, 10:43:am

    @ slide
    u always asking questions lol….please tell us your views…how long does it take for you to discuss marriage while in a reltaionship?

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 10:43:am

    @ Slide…
    BUT have you STOPPED smoking yet!!!

    You are pregnant and have another human being inside of you and you know about the harmful effects that smoking can do to an unborn child
    —————————————————
    I am going to lie to you and say that I have successfully quit. Why are coming down on me today? I have cut down to 5 a day (I used to smoke 20). The doctor advised that I should do it gradually.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 10:45:am

    @SYDNEY

    What do you have against Kendra? She seems like a cool and down to Earth chick.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 10:45:am

    @ Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ POKE HER FACE(FL)

    SMH @ you!
    ____________________________________________________
    Why baby…what did I do now?

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 10:46:am

    To all the fellas calling ladies Bs and anything else degrading. You really have issues and it usually starts with your MAMA!

    rome a.k.a. (Sotomayor needs a new consultant on those ugly ***** jackets!!)

    7/16/09, 10:46:am

    What it do?!!!!!!
    JB
    Slide
    REDD
    Toot-it-up! (still the best screen name!)
    Syd
    L (“L” stands for legs!)
    MIJDC

    WTH!!!!!!! RJ is a bum!

    That is so ungentlemanly. I wonder how he would feel if somebody did that to his mom or sis.

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 10:46:am

    @ Man,

    You know I love me some Camby, but I don’t think Iverson can fit into the triangle offense. Nor can Iverson let his pride go sit in a corner when Phil says, no you are not starting.

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 10:46:am

    @Whoa!

    And she was drinking too because her man was stressing her out… Talk to her about that cause she don’t be listening to me… Those women in South Africa can be hard headed sometimes… SMH

    But you didn’t tell me:

    How long should you be in a relationship before you get an engagement ring?

    6 months?
    2 years?
    5 years?

    And if you wouldn’t mind please give me an explanation as to why you feel the way you feel…

    Txhustla15

    7/16/09, 10:47:am

    Man he should have handled it like a man no matter the situation to the face, he still going to get smashed by my lakers this year anyways and should have brought her to San Antonio since nothing like that is down there…

    However new york law is interesting , almost like Texas

    In New York, *****ets and debts acquired during your marriage – called “marital property” – will be divided “equitably” when you divorce.

    In dividing the parties “equitably,” judges will consider:

    * The income of the parties both at the time of the marriage and the time of the filing of the divorce
    * The length of the marriage
    * The age and health of the parties
    * The need of a custodial parent to occupy or own the family home and/or household items
    * Any loss of inheritance or pension rights
    * Alimony (called “maintenance”) awards
    * Services of either spouse as a parent, wage earner or homemaker
    * The liquid or non-liquid nature of the property
    * Likely future financial cir*****stances of the parties
    * Tax consequences to either party
    * Waste or destruction of property by either party

    Pre-nup all day if you are an successful male/female, even when love is involved there are enough Heather Mills and Chris Judds in the world..

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 10:48:am

    Jade…

    I know waht you are going through with the smoking and pregnant…It can be hard especially having another little one…I quit about 3-4 months into it…and it was hard…I also stopped for a while after because I was nursing and when I stopped nursing I started back smoking…well everyone would say my babies birth weight woul dbe low but she was a healthy 7 pounds and nursed well..no problems…and I recently quit smoking all together!!! yay!!!!!! so i said all that to say…YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!!

    I can't say...

    7/16/09, 10:48:am

    He’s absolutely right. I would have been devastated but I’d rather you pull out in the beginning if you know you are not cut out for the marriage. He could have done it and made both their lives miserable. He doesnt owe her marriage- no one does. That’s a helluva commitment. He would be a fool to have married knowing it wouldnt last and then 2 years from now fighting to keep his $$. He was generous to give her a lump sum to move on & I think she is better off too. She gets the $$ and none of the headache of a miserable marriage and hubby who is away 95% of the time…

    ***** I wish someone would pay me not to marry them!!

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 10:48:am

    I’ll be back in a bit guys.

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 10:48:am

    Hey Rome!

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 10:50:am

    @JB

    Iverson and Camby wow you wanna get real old and extra selfish ..Iverson and Fish the same age and Camby has no skills besides defense and rebounding and hes always injured

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 10:50:am

    @JB
    “Odum did it to himself when he got greedy and they pulled the offer off the table. Fisher is old. he did good, but it is time for him to sing the carol Burnett Song, I’m glad we had this time together.

    How can I be from LA and hate on Fisher? I know I ask myself the same thing. Fish needs to just go start playing the 3 on 3 tournament circuits or see if he can get a job as an *****yst at ESPN. Maybe he can take over for *****ey V. No *****ey V is like Michael jackson, no one can take his place.”
    ______________________________________________________________

    Yeah, Odom wants to get his contract to “ride into the sunset” with. You ain’t gettin no 10 year contract *****!! He should take that 3 yr deal and ride with it. He will be 33 yrs old at the end of the contract and SHOULD be able to get ONE more contract after that if he’s still healthy. He just *****ed himself.

    I hate Derek Fisher. He is a BACK UP player, and no more. The whole world can see that he is at least 3 steps slower than the AVERAGE point guard. I think he will lose his starting posistion next year to an “undisclosed injury”… so he can save face.

    I HATE *****ey V. Mainly because I hate college basketball (sports). I think it exploits black athletes.

    Sunny

    7/16/09, 10:50:am

    @ AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    WHAT THE HELL I GOT TO BE MAD FOR. I’M JUST SAYING YALL NEED TO LEARN TO RESPECT YALL WOMEN IN YOUR FAMILY, THEN MAYBE YALL WILL LEARN HOW TO RESPECT THE OUTSIDE BLACK WOMEN. I HAVE A SON AND I WISH HE WOULD GROW UP DIRESPECTING BLACK WOMEN THE WAY YOU DO.

    Txhustla15

    7/16/09, 10:50:am

    Lamar Odom is coming back to the lakers everyone knows this , all else out there is the mid level and noone is offering him 9 mil per a year..

    Iverson is either going to Clippers or Grizzlies..smart move would be the Clips

    rome a.k.a. (Sotomayor needs a new consultant on those ugly ***** jackets!!)

    7/16/09, 10:51:am

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    @ Slide…
    BUT have you STOPPED smoking yet!!!

    You are pregnant and have another human being inside of you and you know about the harmful effects that smoking can do to an unborn child
    —————————————————
    I am going to lie to you and say that I have successfully quit. Why are coming down on me today? I have cut down to 5 a day (I used to smoke 20). The doctor advised that I should do it gradually.

    —————————————————
    It ain’t about you honey…..it’s about your child.

    Gradually? do you want to watch your child suffer….gradually?

    not being mean…I’m just sayin

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 10:51:am

    @ Slide…
    And she was drinking too because her man was stressing her out… Talk to her about that cause she don’t be listening to me… Those women in South Africa can be hard headed sometimes… SMH
    —————————————————
    Yes we can be. Stop dwelling on the past. I had a moment of weakness. I’m not stressed out anymore. I’ve got a new lease on life. I won’t ever get stressed out again by that sort of thing. Thanks for caring.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 10:51:am

    @Man

    “What do you have against Kendra? She seems like a cool and down to Earth chick.”

    LOL, OK, I don’t have anything against Kendra, and you know that — I was making a larger point, which I’m sure you got. I would have used another example, but I’m not bringing up her name in this thread.

    There is a stark difference in the language used in relation to certain women, and it has not gone unnoticed.

    @Rome

    “That is so ungentlemanly. I wonder how he would feel if somebody did that to his mom or sis.”

    Thank you. I could be wrong, but I think you’re the first man to post that sort of statement here.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 10:51:am

    @REDD FOXXX
    “To all the fellas calling ladies Bs and anything else degrading. You really have issues and it usually starts with your MAMA!”
    _______________________________________________________________

    My Mamma ain’t give me no issues! That ***** treated me good!! LOL.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 10:52:am

    @SYDNEY
    “There is a stark difference in the language used in relation to certain women, and it has not gone unnoticed.”
    ____________________________________________________________

    ELABORATE!

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 10:52:am

    @SYDNEY

    What do you have against Kendra? She seems like a cool and down to Earth chick
    __________________________________________________

    OK Syd, I am going to take up for Kendra. Would you rather have Hank marry someone like, oh let’s say, Tiny or Toya and no one understand a *****ing word they say? Well except for Man, can he is from the NOLA and can speak that geechi *****. Ya kno.

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 10:52:am

    Rome-y ROME!!! Hey there!! :D

    CAT EYES

    7/16/09, 10:53:am

    @ Jade
    I know you might be tired of hearing it but as a woman,I’m here to tell you to tell your doctor he or she is a stupid motherf*cker for telling you that nonsense.A baby has a right to a quality life and giving him or her all sorts of toxins from cigarettes isn’t the way to love them.I’m sure you don’t want to see your child fighting for air because you’ve helped damage his/her lungs.Sorry if I sound harsh but I absolutely hate cigarettes and what they do to people.

    mojojojo

    7/16/09, 10:53:am

    @l
    what happen mamma?
    u never answered me

    The Bear-

    7/16/09, 10:53:am

    Kendra married a black dude who makes less money than her and no job security (NFL money is not guaranteed). On top of that she treats him like a king. I know what you’re alluding to but trust me this has nothing to do with her skin color. I have never even dated a white woman so don’t bring that stuff to me.

    I do have the ability to judge a situation based on the facts presented and not just focus on skin color. You should try that too.

    Yeah sure I made a bad decision and got married when I shouldn’t have but that don’t mean I don’t KNOW that there are good women out there.

    2dimplzs

    7/16/09, 10:54:am

    I’m all for ending things before making that commitment. People have the right to end things the day before the wedding, the day of the wedding, a minute before the wedding starts. I’d rather you NOT go through with it than go through with it and be misreable in a marraige that should have never happened.

    BUT………there is a WAY to end things and I feel Richard Jefferson chose the most cowardly way possible to call a wedding off – via email! MAN UP NICCA!! That should have been face to face period. You proposed to her face to face, you dated for 5 years that’s THE LEAST you could have done for this woman that you claim to care about and love!!

    As far as the gay rumors go, I believe he is. I’m glad he’s no longer in Milwaukee too, the over hyped, over rated PUNK!!! I never liked him and always felt he was overhyped.

    Calling off the wedding THE WAY he did was a punk, cowardly move. Oh yeah, and he’s GAY!!!!!

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 10:54:am

    @ L (Mrs Philly)…
    I know waht you are going through with the smoking and pregnant…It can be hard especially having another little one…I quit about 3-4 months into it…and it was hard…I also stopped for a while after because I was nursing and when I stopped nursing I started back smoking…well everyone would say my babies birth weight woul dbe low but she was a healthy 7 pounds and nursed well..no problems…and I recently quit smoking all together!!! yay!!!!!! so i said all that to say…YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!!
    —————————————————
    I quit at 10 weeks with the first one. I’ve got one more week to that with this one. I only started again after I stopped breastfeeding. My husband also smokes so it makes it hard. I do believe I will quit soon enough. My son weighed over 3kg when our average baby weight is 2,4kg. Thanks for the encouragement.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 10:55:am

    @JB

    “OK Syd, I am going to take up for Kendra. Would you rather have Hank marry someone like, oh let’s say, Tiny or Toya and no one understand a *****ing word they say? Well except for Man, can he is from the NOLA and can speak that geechi *****. Ya kno.”

    I haven’t even watched her show, so I can’t comment on her. I was using her to illustrate a larger point.

    @Man

    “@SYDNEY
    “There is a stark difference in the language used in relation to certain women, and it has not gone unnoticed.”
    ____________________________________________________________

    ELABORATE!”

    No, I’m not. You get my point. :)

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 10:55:am

    okay, my meetings over….is Richard Jefferson dead yet!!!

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 10:55:am

    Hey Romey, Rome!!

    The Bear-

    7/16/09, 10:56:am

    @ Sydney

    Kendra married a black dude who makes less money than her and no job security (NFL money is not guaranteed). On top of that she treats him like a king. I know what you’re alluding to but trust me this has nothing to do with her skin color. I have never even dated a white woman (and have no interest in doing that) so don’t bring that stuff to me.

    I do have the ability to judge a situation based on the facts presented and not just focus on skin color. You should try that too.

    Yeah sure I made a bad decision and got married when I shouldn’t have but that don’t mean I don’t KNOW that there are good women out there.

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 10:57:am

    Sunny

    @ AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    WHAT THE HELL I GOT TO BE MAD FOR. I’M JUST SAYING YALL NEED TO LEARN TO RESPECT YALL WOMEN IN YOUR FAMILY, THEN MAYBE YALL WILL LEARN HOW TO RESPECT THE OUTSIDE BLACK WOMEN. I HAVE A SON AND I WISH HE WOULD GROW UP DIRESPECTING BLACK WOMEN THE WAY YOU DO.
    _________________________

    I think its funny how you *****ume just because someones online talkin ***** that,thats how they are in their everyday life..This is the internet 99% of what you read on these things are complete BULL***** so dont get all butt hurt over a comment left

    rome a.k.a. (Sotomayor needs a new consultant on those ugly ***** jackets!!)

    7/16/09, 10:57:am

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    Rome-y ROME!!! Hey there!!

    —————————————————
    Back it up and dump it…….back it..back it up….Cause we like her!!!!! ;-)

    Jade Silver (Anthony Hamilton performing live 9 August @ the Coca Cola Dome, JHB)

    7/16/09, 10:57:am

    @ Cat Eyes… She’s not the first. When my friend was preggers her doctor also told her the same thing and so did my sister in law’s doctor. Your body can go into shock.

    OK BOSSIP PEOPLE: Today is not GANG UP ON JADE DAY! Maybe tomorrow. LOL.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 10:57:am

    @JB
    “Would you rather have Hank marry someone like, oh let’s say, Tiny or Toya and no one understand a *****ing word they say? Well except for Man, can he is from the NOLA and can speak that geechi *****. Ya kno.”
    _____________________________________________________________

    I understand everything they be saying. Toya actually speaks quite well. **HANGS HEAD IN SHAME**

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 10:58:am

    @The Bear

    “Yeah sure I made a bad decision and got married when I shouldn’t have but that don’t mean I don’t KNOW that there are good women out there.”

    Yes, that’s very true — I just wondered why you decided to call this particular woman “a pretty b**ch with an attitude.”

    “I do have the ability to judge a situation based on the facts presented and not just focus on skin color.”

    You do? It must be my imagination then — I could have sworn you’ve posted before about black women and their “attitudes.” Or maybe it was the fake Oshie.

    Tony Redds

    7/16/09, 10:58:am

    Ayo the dude just got traded to the Spurs two weeks ago..he had to call it off…Which means there was a week to notify guests, which his finace wasn’t able to find time to do…Get it right Bossip!

    rome a.k.a. (Sotomayor needs a new consultant on those ugly ***** jackets!!)

    7/16/09, 10:59:am

    JB (Lakers – Odum – Fisher = Sweep))

    Hey Romey, Rome!!

    —————————————————

    JB = Judy Booty!

    LOL!! ;-)

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 11:00:am

    @SYDNEY

    I don’t know. It seems the labels of “golddigger,” “*****” and “hoe” don’t have a color preference. I’m just sayin.

    rome a.k.a. (Sotomayor needs a new consultant on those ugly ***** jackets!!)

    7/16/09, 11:01:am

    BE!!

    ummmmmmmmm……BE = better eat it!!!

    LMAO!!! ;-)

    Jay the Real One

    7/16/09, 11:02:am

    If you’re not sure don’t go thru with it. Yeah he was a punk about it but he gave her a six figure settlement so he didn’t just dog her out. She devastated but it’s for the best. He a churchboy who got caught up in a pretty face and good sex.

    1morepleez

    7/16/09, 11:02:am

    It’s a good move. Better late than never.
    Feelings are one thing; your financial independence is another. And it NEVER comes back once you decide to give it up. Good hearted dude, cuz he really didn’t have to drop any cake on her.

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 11:02:am

    @ Romey

    LOL. Wanna see for yourself I guess.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 11:02:am

    @Man

    “I don’t know. It seems the labels of “golddigger,” “*****” and “hoe” don’t have a color preference. I’m just sayin.”

    Honestly, they shouldn’t be used at all — they’re disrespectful to ANY woman.

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 11:02:am

    Hey Rome :smile:

    JB!!!!!

    TxHustla

    The Bear-

    7/16/09, 11:03:am

    @ Sydney

    That couldn’t have been me cause I’m always defending Black women. Yall are my favorite flavor. lol

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    7/16/09, 11:03:am

    THATS WAS SUM REAL BAMA ***** RJ DID!! MAN UP AND HANDLE BUSINESS LIKE A MAN AND BY MAKING A STATEMENT LIKE “IM NOT GAY” MAKES PEOPLE THINK YOUR GAY!!!!

    whats good this AM people?!

    rome a.k.a. (Sotomayor needs a new consultant on those ugly ***** jackets!!)

    7/16/09, 11:04:am

    JB (Lakers – Odum – Fisher = Sweep))

    @ Romey

    LOL. Wanna see for yourself I guess
    —————————————————

    Put it on display!!! :-)

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 11:04:am

    Sydney™

    @Man

    “I don’t know. It seems the labels of “golddigger,” “*****” and “hoe” don’t have a color preference. I’m just sayin.”

    Honestly, they shouldn’t be used at all — they’re disrespectful to ANY woman.
    _____
    Why shouldn’t they be used? If she is 1 of those then shouldn’t be a thing wrong with pointing it out

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 11:04:am

    @SYDNEY
    “Honestly, they shouldn’t be used at all — they’re disrespectful to ANY woman.”
    _____________________________________________________________

    Ioono Syd. I think sometimes the words fit quite well. I’m just sayin.

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 11:04:am

    This is one of those “wateva” topics.

    rome a.k.a. (Sotomayor needs a new consultant on those ugly ***** jackets!!)

    7/16/09, 11:05:am

    RJ is the official……(echoing)….”bama of the week……week……week”!!!!

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 11:05:am

    @Rome – BE = better eat it!!!
    ______________
    BE likes :D :

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 11:05:am

    I will agree with you because after only a few months you don’t even know who YOU are in the relationship let alone the other person.
    _____________________________________________

    @CAT EYES

    Big Sis, you’re right…

    In the beginning of a relationship = like the first few months when you’re head over heels “in LOVE” – you be delusional and be thinking that the other person can do NO WRONG whatsoever… But then after a while… SMH

    Sometimes people be putting up fronts and don’t be showing their REAL selves in the beginning of a relationship…

    It takes time to really get to know someone… And also it’s very important to see how they handle stressful situations because during the marriage you’re going to deal with stressful events, etc… You need to see how they’ll go about dealing with it = handle it in a mature, responsible & practical manner or do they “get to drinking”… SMH

    AND lastly you gotta see how the other person handles money…

    Do you know how many girls bring up marriage within the first month or 2 when I’m dating them… SMH This one girl whipped out a wedding planning book after us going out a month and a half… I AIN’T LYING!!! I thought I was going over there to get “some” and she brought out a DAMN book with all these wedding dresses and other wedding stuff… I’m not sure cause I “blacked out” and when she was talking it sounding like that teacher in the Charlie Brown Cartoon = wah, wah, wah…wah, wah
    I acted like something came up and left and ended up with “blue *****”…

    Sunny

    7/16/09, 11:05:am

    TRUST ME I’M NOT HURT. I JUST THINK OF MY BLACK SON BEING AROUND HOODLUMS SPEAKING DOWN ON THEIR OWN. WE CAN NOT MOVE FORWARD UNLESS WE LOVE ONE ANOTHER FIRST. AND YOU SAY THAT THIS IS BULL***** THE WAY PEOPLE TALK ONLINE, I DON’T THINK SO. PEOPLE NORMALLY SPEAK FROM THE HEART AND IT IS TRUE TO WHAT THEY ARE FEELING. I JUST DON’T HEAR NO OTHER MAN OF A DIFFERENT RACE TALK ABOUT THEIR WOMEN LIKE BLACK MEN DO US. WHAT IS WRONG WITH US??

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    7/16/09, 11:06:am

    Sydney™

    @Man

    “I don’t know. It seems the labels of “golddigger,” “*****” and “hoe” don’t have a color preference. I’m just sayin.”

    Honestly, they shouldn’t be used at all — they’re disrespectful to ANY woman
    _____________________________________________________
    When they make themselves out to be just that “golddigger,” “*****” and “hoe” what do we call them? ‘Cause once it gets to that point, in my book they are no longer to be called by their birth name….ya dig?!

    Angee

    7/16/09, 11:06:am

    @Tony Redds

    What did him getting married have to do with him being traded to the Spurs? Or is that humor and sarcasm?

    @Sydney

    “Honestly, they shouldn’t be used at all — they’re disrespectful to ANY woman.”

    Thank-You! To use these terms just in general is foul. I know this is a gossip blog, but damn.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 11:07:am

    @JB
    “You know I love me some Camby, but I don’t think Iverson can fit into the triangle offense. Nor can Iverson let his pride go sit in a corner when Phil says, no you are not starting.”
    __________________________________________________________

    Naw… Phil Jackson is “that *****” tho. He had Dennis “insane” Rodman, Michael “ballhog” Jordan and Scottie “I don’t get any respect” Pippen all playing good.

    Then he had Shaq and Kobe winning rings. Last year he persuaded Odom to come of the bench.

    That ***** could convince Bin Laden to turn himself in.

    prettybrowneyes

    7/16/09, 11:09:am

    LOL!!!
    I agree with who ever said that they would hve to cut or kill him. I read about this plot (already know how it ends) in an E. Lynn Harris book….can’t remeber the title…but the ball player(ex ball player) called off the wedding the day before or the morning of because he was gay. Just saying.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 11:09:am

    @The Bear

    “@ Sydney

    That couldn’t have been me cause I’m always defending Black women. Yall are my favorite flavor. lol”

    Oh, OK. Like I said, that must have been a figment of my imagination.

    Yeah, I appreciate your defense of “pretty b**ches with attitude.” Merci.

    @Nophace

    “When they make themselves out to be just that “golddigger,” “*****” and “hoe” what do we call them?”

    Call them by the name on their birth certificates — Sally, Rebecca, Simone, Veronica, etc., etc.

    @Angee

    “Thank-You! To use these terms just in general is foul. I know this is a gossip blog, but damn.”

    Name-calling is a sign of a severely limited vocabulary.

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    7/16/09, 11:10:am

    rome a.k.a. (Sotomayor needs a new consultant on those ugly ***** jackets!!)

    RJ is the official……(echoing)….”bama of the week……week……week”!!!!
    _____________________________________________________
    Man I been out here in Charlotte for a minute…..I MISS HUGGY LOW DOWN IN THE MORNING!!! LMFAO

    The Bear-

    7/16/09, 11:11:am

    @ Sydney

    I would be remiss if I don’t note that yes indeed the attitude of SOME Black women leaves alot to be desired. But that’s not unique to Black women. B**ches come in all colors, shapes, and sizes.

    Some dudes think that if they get a girl who is not so good looking their safe. Ha HA!!!! what fools. An ugly girl will sometimes cheat on you quicker than a fine one. The females that I know have a man and still try to get with me come in all types.

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 11:12:am

    RJ just showed good defense. This amounted to nothing more than a blocked shot. She tryed a soft layup and he swatted it into the stands. Message to future prospects, bring your A game.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 11:13:am

    @PRETTYBROWNEYES
    “LOL!!!
    I agree with who ever said that they would hve to cut or kill him. I read about this plot (already know how it ends) in an E. Lynn Harris book….can’t remeber the title…but the ball player(ex ball player) called off the wedding the day before or the morning of because he was gay. Just saying.”
    __________________________________________________________________

    E. Lynn Harris think every ***** wanna suck ***** cause he do. SMH.

    mn77

    7/16/09, 11:13:am

    @Jade

    I have a friend that had the same issue, the doc told her to quit gradually–and to every one else, the reason is because it can be more stress and problems for you and the baby to stop cold turkey

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 11:14:am

    Bossip pulled the Kelis and Nas thread…I wonder why?!

    snoop bloggy blog ( When you lose, don't lose the lesson)

    7/16/09, 11:15:am

    Good morning Fam

    “If you aren’t 100 percent certain about something, you shouldn’t do it.”
    ____________

    *putting my john han***** on this statement* SNOOP

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 11:15:am

    Or call them “Miss,” as in “Pardon me, Miss, but you look very beautiful today, what is your name?” Or “woman,” “lady,” “mademoiselle,” “madam,” “ma’am” (big must for we Southerners in relation to our elders), etc., etc.

    @The Bear

    “I would be remiss if I don’t note that yes indeed the attitude of SOME Black women leaves alot to be desired.”

    Now THIS sounds like the sentiment in the post I read. Thank you. Oh, and once again, “bi**h” is such a cr*****, ungentlemanly-like term.

    mojojojo

    7/16/09, 11:15:am

    @ slide
    who do u think should bring up the marriage discussion? Man or woman

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 11:15:am

    @Syd
    “Name-calling is a sign of a severely limited vocabulary.”
    ——————————————
    Just being constantly vulgar shows how limited one’s vocab is. Like I don’t use the term n**** at all. I hate that word. Me and my girlfriends will clown around and use “*****” when we’re talking to one another, but not in public or for the world to hear.

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 11:15:am

    @Nophace

    “When they make themselves out to be just that “golddigger,” “*****” and “hoe” what do we call them?”

    Call them by the name on their birth certificates — Sally, Rebecca, Simone, Veronica, etc., etc.

    @Angee

    “Thank-You! To use these terms just in general is foul. I know this is a gossip blog, but damn.”

    Name-calling is a sign of a severely limited vocabulary.
    ___________________
    ***** that call them hoes exactly what they are …If the Bible calls women who sleep around w*****s then why cant we??

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 11:17:am

    ok I’m back …

    Hey Mo! What was your question?

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 11:17:am

    The Bear-

    Some dudes think that if they get a girl who is not so good looking their safe. Ha HA!!!! what fools. An ugly girl will sometimes cheat on you quicker than a fine one. The females that I know have a man and still try to get with me come in all types.
    ———————————————-
    :lol: That’s true!

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 11:17:am

    Hey Redd Tony ♥♥♥♥

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    7/16/09, 11:18:am

    @Nophace

    “When they make themselves out to be just that “golddigger,” “*****” and “hoe” what do we call them?”

    Call them by the name on their birth certificates — Sally, Rebecca, Simone, Veronica, etc., etc.
    Name-calling is a sign of a severely limited vocabulary
    _____________________________________________________
    I agree but in the heat of the moment WE ALL say things that we normally wouldn’t say. And calling someone out of there name isnt a sign of a limited vocabulary. Im pretty sure u dont call everyone by there name when ur boiling mad….I COULD BE WRONG THO!!

    Txhustla15

    7/16/09, 11:18:am

    @Be – whats good ma ?

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 11:18:am

    “Name-calling is a sign of a severely limited vocabulary.”
    ____________________________________________________________

    An extensive vocabulary is overrated. LOL.

    Txhustla15

    7/16/09, 11:18:am

    @Be – whats good ?

    snoop bloggy blog ( When you lose, don't lose the lesson)

    7/16/09, 11:18:am

    Snoopadamus believes he called off the marriage via email because it was the same weekend of the McNair jump-off murder-suicide incident, and that was the safest way to do it.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 11:18:am

    @Whoa

    “Like I don’t use the term n**** at all. I hate that word.”

    Me, too. And nothing’s worse than being in public — like in a crowded Metro car — and hearing it yelled repeatedly in front of everyone. Very poor image.

    Txhustla15

    7/16/09, 11:18:am

    “RJ just showed good defense. This amounted to nothing more than a blocked shot. She tryed a soft layup and he swatted it into the stands. Message to future prospects, bring your A game.”

    LFMAO

    mojojojo

    7/16/09, 11:19:am

    @ l
    lol i asked how is the baby and Ms. Breeze? Mya is cool she is away for the summer so i am frrrrrrrrrreeeeeeeeeeeee lol

    Sunny

    7/16/09, 11:19:am

    @Bear

    We need more men like you around. Teach the rest of these so called boys how to respect a women.(black first).

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 11:20:am

    Constantly calling women out their names is terrible BUT we ALL know there are some

    Ho
    Gold diggers
    Bishes
    *****s
    W*****s
    Nig*as
    Broke Nig*as
    Dummys

    Call a spade a *****e

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 11:20:am

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    ***** that call them hoes exactly what they are …If the Bible calls women who sleep around w*****s then why cant we??
    ————————————————
    Ooooooh good one! :wink: Some women do act like *****es, hoes, *****s, *****buckets, skeeza, etc.

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 11:21:am

    Hi Txhustla, Snoop :)

    @Man

    “An extensive vocabulary is overrated. LOL.”

    Not at all. Multisyllabic words are very alluring — music to the ears. :)

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 11:21:am

    snoop bloggy blog ( When you lose, don’t lose the lesson)

    Snoopadamus believes he called off the marriage via email because it was the same weekend of the McNair jump-off murder-suicide incident, and that was the safest way to do it.

    Co-sign my brother…We had this same discussion in the McNair thread. Cut them by text message.

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    7/16/09, 11:21:am

    @I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)
    ***** that call them hoes exactly what they are …If the Bible calls women who sleep around w*****s then why cant we??
    _____________________________________________________
    GREAT POINT!! IT WAS WRITTEN!!! LOL

    Hosea 4:14
    But why should I punish them for their prostitution and adultery? For your men are doing the same thing,sinning with w*****s and shrine prostitutes.O foolish people! You refuse to understand,so you will be destroyed

    snoop bloggy blog ( When you lose, don't lose the lesson)

    7/16/09, 11:21:am

    RJ just showed good defense. This amounted to nothing more than a blocked shot. She tryed a soft layup and he swatted it into the stands. Message to future prospects, bring your A game
    ________________

    LMMFAO!!

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 11:22:am

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    Constantly calling women out their names is terrible BUT we ALL know there are some

    Ho
    Gold diggers
    Bishes
    *****s
    W*****s
    Nig*as
    Broke Nig*as
    Dummys

    Call a spade a *****e
    ——————————————–
    Yup!

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 11:22:am

    Thanks for caring.

    Why are coming down on me today?
    ____________________________________________

    @Jade Silver

    Because I’m worried about you and the baby that’s why :-(

    And as you figured out it’s because I actually care… I could have easily just let that stuff slide = smoking & drinking while pregnant, and not said anything but I don’t want you to have any complications during your pregnancy and I would like for you to have a HEALTHY baby that’s all…

    He/she deserves a right to being born healthy and with no complications, low birth weight, brain damage, etc… from your smoking & drinking…

    You’re my cyber buddy but I had to put the foolishness to the side for a sec. and talk about something real…

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 11:22:am

    @TX – I’m fine..having a fantastic summer! :smile:

    Snoop – Hey Mister!!!

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 11:22:am

    @MO!

    You b**** I am soooo jealous!!! LOL! Breeze is good!! She has a mouth like her momma though…LOL So I constantly have to say…that wasn’t nice!

    But other than that things are well…did I send you pics of the new baby??

    Dark Knight................................Defender of truth slaver of the wack!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 11:22:am

    Jefferson flew to Paris (GAY PARI)last week with some basketball buddies (DL Fck Buddies). He went “only because I care about her so much that I didn’t want to change my mind (Had to go get chopped down one more time by his fck buds to see what side of the fence he wanted to stand on!)after those emails were sent,” he said.(If you cared half as much as you say you’d have been MAN enough to tell her to her face!) “I didn’t want to start missing her and decide, ‘let’s do this.”‘ “It’s so crazy, the divorce rate out there,”(The divorce rate was there when you proposed Huh?) Jefferson added. “If you aren’t 100 percent certain about something, you shouldn’t do it.”(Don’t know if he likes women or men!)

    CamiLuv

    7/16/09, 11:23:am

    For all everyone has to say, he did the right thing. If you dont want to be married don’t get married, from his story it sounds like he was getting pressure from his family to get married and she had been his girlfriend for so long so way not her. That man was not ready, so he did the right thing. Married should be the “natural” next step in your relationship not the okay when together for five years lets married. She is hurt now better than two years after rough marriage and you got money ***** please go sit your ***** down and be happy….

    Dave

    7/16/09, 11:23:am

    First, he did the right thing. He ended it before it broke him. The divorce rate out here is real and men usually take the hit to the wallet.

    Second, he went to the media because we all know that she was going as well. He just beat her too it.

    Third, who cares if they were together 5 months or 5yrs. The divorce rate says that he should take all the time he needs to make sure he is doing the right thing. She’s a strong modern day woman. If time was wasted she can only look at herself. If it aint going to work it aint going to work.

    What is troubling is how all the sisters are responding with violence. In a world where black women destroy Chris Brown and any other “abusive” brother why do our women still feel that it’s cool to be violent with men when they do not get their way? All of the “I would have killed him” comments only serve as a reason why a man would choose to handle things this way….to avoid a dramatic violent scene. Weak, gay, coward, whatever. At the end of the day smart wins.

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 11:23:am

    See so case in point If shes a w***** you call em out plain and simple …There is NO ARGUING with the BIBLE

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 11:24:am

    @SYDNEY
    “Not at all. Multisyllabic words are very alluring — music to the ears.”
    ___________________________________________________________

    It’s inefficient though! Good communitcation is communication that is understood and interpted quickly and accurately. That’s the “four letter” words are so effective.

    LOL.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 11:24:am

    @SYDNEY
    “Not at all. Multisyllabic words are very alluring — music to the ears.”
    ___________________________________________________________

    It’s inefficient though! Good communitcation is communication that is understood and interpted quickly and accurately. That’s the “four letter” words are so effective.

    LOL. I’m just sayin.

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 11:26:am

    Hosea 4:14
    But why should I punish them for their prostitution and adultery? For your men are doing the same thing,sinning with w*****s and shrine prostitutes.O foolish people! You refuse to understand,so you will be destroyed

    *************
    Nophace pulled out the exact bible verse

    so moved!

    Hey L – uuuuummmmmm where my picture Bish? (I mean Lauren..lol)

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 11:26:am

    LOL @ DARK KNIGHT!!

    WOW yes…that story is way too fishy!

    Dina

    7/16/09, 11:26:am

    I’ll take his explanation. After all, it’s his life and not all the haters on here who don’t know the man but feel the need to call him out of his name. It always blows my mind the level of “respect” black people have for each other. Who’s afraid of the KKK, when we have each other to tear each other down?

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 11:26:am

    @Man

    Speaking of Dr. King *looking at your gravie*, I read years ago, that as a child, he fell in love with words, and I think he may have actually studied the dictionary. He understood the power of language very well — I think he even talked himself out of fights when kids tried to confront him. It’s one of the many qualities I admire about him.

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 11:27:am

    BE- LOL! ummmmm sho ya right! I’m going to my email now! BRB!

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 11:27:am

    Did they ever Stone w*****s to death in the Bible..I think they should stone w*****s to death nowadays that would be AWESOME..But then they would say he who is without sin cast the first stone and id be ***** outta luck..Guess you gotta let em live then *****in w*****s

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 11:28:am

    @BMW
    “Jefferson flew to Paris (GAY PARI)last week with some basketball buddies (DL Fck Buddies). He went “only because I care about her so much that I didn’t want to change my mind (Had to go get chopped down one more time by his fck buds to see what side of the fence he wanted to stand on!)after those emails were sent,” he said.(If you cared half as much as you say you’d have been MAN enough to tell her to her face!) “I didn’t want to start missing her and decide, ‘let’s do this.”‘ “It’s so crazy, the divorce rate out there,”(The divorce rate was there when you proposed Huh?) Jefferson added. “If you aren’t 100 percent certain about something, you shouldn’t do it.”(Don’t know if he likes women or men!)”
    _______________________________________________________________

    ROFLMAO!! That ***** sound true as *****. He DO play for the …Spurs. Everyone knows that Tony Parker was gettin molested by Bruce Bowen back in the day. How the ***** a GROWN ***** MAN stayin in the same bedroom as your teenage son? THEN he “happen” to wind up on the same team with that ***** YEARS later. LOL.

    Bruce Bowen and Tony Parker are from France. SMH. Jefferson prolly couldn’t wait to get to San Antonio for them *****s. SMH.

    Negrodamus Believes

    7/16/09, 11:28:am

    Negrodamus Believes when he’s back in the DMV visiting family, he gets bored, because his new p*****ion is the ocean, so he relapsed and went to a bar last night but didn’t stray from his new principles.

    1.These two females come up to me and my boy, introduce themselves and I knew right away how this was going to go.

    2.A white girl(cute italian chick) whatever and the tragic mulatto from Arlington(sigh).

    3.I just come out to chill and have a beer with my boys. I don’t pick up females no more. Not my interest.

    4.The white chick is actually hella cool, but you know the tragic mulatto’s have to be the center of attention, especially when a brother is nice enough to give them the benefit of the doubt, cause you know they have no black friends lol.

    5.The mixed chick asked me “If I do drugs”????Lol I was like wtf heffa? 6 months ago, I would of had that “white girl” on table, let her treat herself, while she stroking my meat lol, but that ***** was lame as hell. Big turn-off

    6.Then she tells me “she hasn’t *****ed in 2 months”…lol 6 months ago, I would’ve smashed in the public restroom raw-dog and have no remorse. This time I was grossed out.

    Sorry so long lol

    mojojojo

    7/16/09, 11:28:am

    @ l
    Owwwwwwwwww dont hate LMAO! i know about the mouth Mya ***** told my mother she wanted me to fall and hurt myself and she dont like my mother everyday…..no u havent sent me no pics…humph!

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 11:28:am

    @MIJDC – It’s inefficient though! Good communitcation is communication that is understood and interpted quickly and accurately. That’s the “four letter” words are so effective.

    ***************************
    Did you take this from the habits of highly effective people? lol

    We use this alot when writing policies but I have to say some of these words make things sound nicer..miscreants..lol much better than thugs

    cherokee23

    7/16/09, 11:29:am

    I think he did the best thing…in the end it is about making yourself happy and no one else. No one would’ve had to live with that decision but those two and obviously she’s fine with it because you haven’t heard anything from her about the break-up.

    snoop bloggy blog ( When you lose, don't lose the lesson)

    7/16/09, 11:30:am

    The divorce rates are high because you *****s are getting married to the first w***** that makes your toes curl.

    (needed to use ***** and w***** b/c of lack of edumacation) lol

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 11:31:am

    @Man

    “It’s inefficient though! Good communitcation is communication that is understood and interpted quickly and accurately. That’s the “four letter” words are so effective.”

    “Four letter words” do have an impact, but non-profane language is also efficacious in conveying one’s viewpoints in a manner that is both euphonious and illustrative of the points the individual wishes to make.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 11:31:am

    @SYDNEY
    “Speaking of Dr. King *looking at your gravie*, I read years ago, that as a child, he fell in love with words, and I think he may have actually studied the dictionary. He understood the power of language very well — I think he even talked himself out of fights when kids tried to confront him. It’s one of the many qualities I admire about him.”
    ______________________________________________________________

    Yeah, I agree. A lot of great leaders understood that “the pen is mightier than the sword.” We all know about Malcolm X’s studying of the history and definition of words while incarcerated.

    Also, Obama’s command of the English language is well do*****ented and he often cites Abraham Lincoln’s mastery of this language as inspiration.

    :D

    top ramen shotta

    7/16/09, 11:31:am

    what a bum. SMH

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 11:32:am

    @NegroB – I just come out to chill and have a beer with my boys. I don’t pick up females no more. Not my interest.
    _______________
    see you and I can hang out..people do not beleive when you are out that you REALLY JUST WANT TO CHILL!
    No I don’t want your number in my cell phone
    Not I don’t want to answer 50 questions about my life
    Yes, I just want to sit and laugh

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 11:33:am

    @BE

    “miscreants..lol much better than thugs”

    LOL! See, here’s a prime example — calling someone a “miscreant” may get you a puzzled look, but “thug” may put you in danger. It’s all in the choice of language. :)

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    7/16/09, 11:33:am

    @ BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    Hosea 4:14
    But why should I punish them for their prostitution and adultery? For your men are doing the same thing,sinning with w*****s and shrine prostitutes.O foolish people! You refuse to understand,so you will be destroyed

    *************
    Nophace pulled out the exact bible verse
    _____________________________________________________
    Hey, just had to prove that if they called women “w*****s” in the BIBLE then there’s no reason not to use the word 2day. !!!!ONLY WHEN NEEDED!!!!

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 11:33:am

    BE…

    Check ur email

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 11:33:am

    @BE
    “Did you take this from the habits of highly effective people? lol

    We use this alot when writing policies but I have to say some of these words make things sound nicer..miscreants..lol much better than thugs”
    _____________________________________________________________

    You remembered that I’m all “into” the “7 Habits?” LOL.

    Naw, I didn’t get it from there. Actually I got it from a military book that was about “code writing” for language to communicate covertly.

    See, I be readin ***** mayne.

    I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

    7/16/09, 11:34:am

    What the ***** is up wit Tiger Woods he has sucked the last 2 Championship first round which set him back..He need 2 get that ***** right

    Dina

    7/16/09, 11:34:am

    Some of ya’ll sound like you know a thing or two about “DL” behavior, LOL!

    snoop bloggy blog ( When you lose, don't lose the lesson)

    7/16/09, 11:34:am

    .The mixed chick asked me “If I do drugs”????Lol I was like wtf heffa? 6 months ago, I would of had that “white girl” on table, let her treat herself, while she stroking my meat lol, but that ***** was lame as hell. Big turn-off

    6.Then she tells me “she hasn’t *****ed in 2 months”…lol 6 months ago, I would’ve smashed in the public restroom raw-dog and have no remorse. This time I was grossed out.
    _________________

    LMMFAO!! @ Negrodamus taking the high road

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 11:35:am

    @SYDNEY
    ““Four letter words” do have an impact, but non-profane language is also efficacious in conveying one’s viewpoints in a manner that is both euphonious and illustrative of the points the individual wishes to make.”
    ___________________________________________________________

    **puzzled look**

    ***** YOU TOO!!

    (LOL)

    Txhustla15

    7/16/09, 11:35:am

    @Sydney – Whats good ?

    @Be – Yeah enjoying summer too

    As far someone saying that Paris is a gay city , might need to get up on their game – French women are amazing in all of their hues and one of the oldest centers of culture in the world. Aside from the fact that country gave us Tony Parker and his terrible rap music – everything else there is pretty on point. Aint nothing wrong with flexing your p*****port game and going abroad, some cats need to realize theres more than going on some weak ***** vacation to ATL

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 11:35:am

    Mo…check ur email boo

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 11:36:am

    @Man

    “Also, Obama’s command of the English language is well do*****ented and he often cites Abraham Lincoln’s mastery of this language as inspiration.”

    Indeed. Both President Obama and Dr. King have/had the grand gift of oratory and a vast vocabulary.

    Malcolm X is another. The words he used packed an undeniable power.

    Dark Knight................................Defender of truth slaver of the wack!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 11:37:am

    @ Man, I just don’t care™
    “Name-calling is a sign of a severely limited vocabulary.”
    ____________________________________________________________

    An extensive vocabulary is overrated. LOL

    Thats a very sad thing to say your brain must suffer from an impairment, defect, bug, flaw, hitch, malfunction, misfire, mishap, problem, setback, snafu, snag, something wrong, just plain F’d-up!

    Sydney™

    7/16/09, 11:39:am

    @Man

    “**puzzled look**

    ***** YOU TOO!!”

    *wipes eyes, looks again*

    Well, merde to you, too! Mister!

    And, on note, I’m out, lol. Have a good day, all. :)

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 11:39:am

    @SYDNEY
    “Indeed. Both President Obama and Dr. King have/had the grand gift of oratory and a vast vocabulary.

    Malcolm X is another. The words he used packed an undeniable power.”
    _____________________________________________________________

    I think the “delivery” says a lot as well. While Dr. King and Malcolm X spoke with unquestioned p*****ion. Obama speaks with a calmness, yet sincere, demeanor that demands attention and respect.

    The same was described of President Lincoln.

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 11:39:am

    Txhustla15

    Aint nothing wrong with flexing your p*****port game and going abroad, some cats need to realize theres more than going on some weak ***** vacation to ATL

    Speak on it, Killa.

    snoop bloggy blog ( When you lose, don't lose the lesson)

    7/16/09, 11:40:am

    bye syd, don’t let that miscreant run you off….lol

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 11:41:am

    @MIJDC – You remembered that I’m all “into” the “7 Habits?” LOL.

    Naw, I didn’t get it from there. Actually I got it from a military book that was about “code writing” for language to communicate covertly.

    See, I be readin ***** mayne.

    ****************
    I do remember we had the convo about the book..I subscribe to the concept and require all employees that I supervise to read it

    Dark Knight................................Defender of truth slaver of the wack!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 11:42:am

    @ Man, I just don’t care™
    We as blacks should try our best to get as much knowledge as possible because it was’nt that far back we were’nt allowed to even read how soon we forget and i’m not attacking you I just hate to here Coonery like that

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 11:43:am

    @Snoop – Hey ♥♥♥♥♥♥

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 11:45:am

    @BMW
    “We as blacks should try our best to get as much knowledge as possible because it was’nt that far back we were’nt allowed to even read how soon we forget and i’m not attacking you I just hate to here Coonery like that”
    _____________________________________________________________

    …. um… STFU. I was being faceticious when I stated. You must be new on here. Take some time and read my posts bruh.

    Dumb*****.

    snoop bloggy blog ( When you lose, don't lose the lesson)

    7/16/09, 11:45:am

    whaddup Be♥♥♥♥

    How was the rendezvous lastnight?

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 11:45:am

    Ok I ‘m back. What we talking about?

    We "Blacks" Are The REAL Hebrew Israelites

    7/16/09, 11:45:am

    I understand what he was trying to say…but through an email? He could have handled that a bit better.

    dimondfemme

    7/16/09, 11:46:am

    hold on did they say that white girl name was “kesha”… wow

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 11:46:am

    @BE
    “I do remember we had the convo about the book..I subscribe to the concept and require all employees that I supervise to read it”
    _____________________________________________________________

    Yeah, it is one the best “self help” books that I have ever read. At least I categorize it as a “self help” book.

    “The Art of War” is really good too. They have versions reinterpted to be applied to the business world. I think it would be a good read for managers. IMO.

    I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    7/16/09, 11:47:am

    Yo 1st wat up to all. For real yawl I know that it prolly was hurtful to tell another person man or women that you do not want to go forward on something as serious and as beautiful as a marriage.
    But that being said there is something really mature and clear .. truly reasonable to get your thoughts unfiltered through email. It`s not like that`s the only thing he did ! First the email … than a long conversation about the why he sent the email. The dude got a great heart it appears. And quite frankly why go through with a marriage when you know going in it`s not going to be fruitful. Not to mention he did something truly decent by providing her a six figure settlement to help her move forward ( He`s not obligated to do this by the way) Just a really decent thing to do.

    Some of the comments on bossip about this is why an athlete dies or is strangeled is really repugnant and dark to be posting in the comment section.

    snoop bloggy blog ( When you lose, don't lose the lesson)

    7/16/09, 11:48:am

    I understand what he was trying to say…but through an email? He could have handled that a bit better.
    ________________

    May i remind you that was the same weekend of the McNair Homicide-suicide. He wanted to live…..lol

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 11:48:am

    @Snoop – my night was super! in fact I had fun 2 nights in a row but I won’t give details…I have non-posting stalkers (hence my Get ya own life motto for the day) smh@no-lifers

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    7/16/09, 11:49:am

    Man, I just don’t care™

    @BE
    “I do remember we had the convo about the book..I subscribe to the concept and require all employees that I supervise to read it”
    _____________________________________________________________

    Yeah, it is one the best “self help” books that I have ever read. At least I categorize it as a “self help” book.

    “The Art of War” is really good too. They have versions reinterpted to be applied to the business world. I think it would be a good read for managers. IMO.
    _____________________________________________________
    ANOTHER GOOD 1 IS THE 48 LAWS OF POWER!!!

    dbo96

    7/16/09, 11:50:am

    Most of the haters in here gotta be dumb***** broads…..so he should have went through with it and then got divorced…..that’s 90% of yall birds aint married……….

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 11:51:am

    Whats going on in here?

    Negrodamus you are a mess! LOL!

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 11:51:am

    JB…

    Your guess is as good as mine…I can’t piece the puzzle together…

    CAT EYES

    7/16/09, 11:52:am

    @ Slide like a fresh pair of gators
    Sorry it took time to respond-this spoiled rotten baby wanted to cuddle.Now that he’s back to sleep,I will tell you,yes,for some reason I just knew me and him were going to be together.My husband told me not too long ago that when he saw me,he saw his unborn children-we just had this flow from the very beginning-hard to explain but I still had to take time to know his family and thingslike that and my parents had to give their blessings too.
    Yes, I would have signed a prenup because I was always very ambitious so I would always have my own anyway.
    Slide,I hope I wasn’t too harsh to Jade about the smoking thing-I just hate cigarettes with a p*****ion-maybe its because in my childhood years,my parents had friends in North Carolina and their sons worked at Phillip morris tobacco plant,and they would give them free cigarettes like they were doing them a favor-man those cigarettes killed them-ione died from emphysema,the other one has throat cancer.So imagine a poor baby fighting cigarette smoke in a womb?

    Bunifa

    7/16/09, 11:53:am

    LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO i am glad he did not marry that HUSSIE- she just wanted the dude’s money- Ole boy need to pull a diddy get one brawd pregnant have your kids with her -pay child support and once they turn 18 your home free.. lol som hoes just waiting for a payday- get of your ***** and do a job – my man ask me to quit my job abd stay at home hell NAW i aint doin this ***** – i wanna make my own money – *****ing broke down cheerleader- he need to marry a girl with money- not some low budget ***** with cheap make-up

    Negrodamus Believes

    7/16/09, 11:54:am

    lol its not that I won’t smash anymore. It’s just “how”. When you just in it for the physical you’ll smash anything. That’s where you start to lower your standards and just pick out attributes like “*****”. Naw it’s gotta be more than that or you’ll become a w*****.

    Trust me, I was wrestling myself cause she was bout it, attractive but annoying, desperate and lonely. And when I brushed off her advances she dragged her white friend off to another bar. lol pathetic.

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 11:54:am

    Hey JB!!!

    @MIJDC – The Art of Ware is my serious handbook at work…yep

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 11:56:am

    I’m back….(not that it matters)

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 11:57:am

    Hey Redd!!!

    Hey Whoa :D :

    John

    7/16/09, 11:58:am

    She’s good-looking but it takes more than that…..

    Via email????MAN…

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 11:58:am

    @ Negrodamus

    Thats a good look to have out here. Especially in this day and age.

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 11:59:am

    @Nophace – ANOTHER GOOD 1 IS THE 48 LAWS OF POWER!!!
    *******************
    I’ve read that, in fact I’ve used it in a cl***** that I teach.

    Manuel

    7/16/09, 11:59:am

    if he is gay…….he just got lucky!!!!

    because this broad was gonna take him to the cleaner…

    whatever happened to “1 night stand”

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 11:59:am

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    Whats going on in here?
    _____________________________________________________
    Whats going on here is u got sum splaining to do as to why you’re SMH @ ME. lmao

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 12:00:pm

    Hey BE!

    What it do babe?

    I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    7/16/09, 12:00:pm

    Hey Whoa … and it always matter that you are back miss. You one of the peeps who got something fun different to say … You , Snoop , and man I just dont care be straight killing up in this piece !

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 12:00:pm

    @BMW
    “We as blacks should try our best to get as much knowledge as possible because it was’nt that far back we were’nt allowed to even read how soon we forget and i’m not attacking you I just hate to here Coonery like that”
    ___________________________________________________

    When you speak of knowledge and reading, it is a great thing because we as a people sometimes lack the elelmentary knowledge of punctuation and proper use of words.

    John

    7/16/09, 12:01:pm

    Am I the only male who despises women with hyphenated last names?

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    7/16/09, 12:01:pm

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    @Nophace – ANOTHER GOOD 1 IS THE 48 LAWS OF POWER!!!
    *******************
    I’ve read that, in fact I’ve used it in a cl***** that I teach.
    _____________________________________________________
    If they took it all in…they’ll be very productive in the future!!

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 12:01:pm

    Hey Redd! *hands you a bag of ice to place on ya hot crotch*

    You good chica?

    Spuddie

    7/16/09, 12:01:pm

    Just for the record, my parents dated for 5 years, were engaged for 1 year and have now been married for 46 years. I think it depends on the person you are with. And yes, they are happily married for 46 years. They reallyare each others’ best friend.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 12:02:pm

    @ POKE HER FACE(FL)

    Whats going on here is u got sum splaining to do as to why you’re SMH @ ME. lmao

    Because I know what you are up to! Talking about its too early!

    lady

    7/16/09, 12:03:pm

    She should have had a baby by his punk ***** a long time ago.
    This trick makes professional gold diggers look bad.

    He looks dumb and simple as hell…how did she not lock it down with that dummy.

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    7/16/09, 12:03:pm

    John

    Am I the only male who despises women with hyphenated last names?
    _____________________________________________________
    U are definitely not the only one. I feel that with the hyphenated last name they are going in with the notion that if it doesnt work out they can just drop that name like it was nothing

    I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    7/16/09, 12:04:pm

    Speaking of a lack of knowledge and articulation can`t wait for the great ” NEFFIE & FRANKIE SHOW ” ! Freakin must see TV.

    snoop bloggy blog ( When you lose, don't lose the lesson)

    7/16/09, 12:04:pm

    When you speak of knowledge and reading, it is a great thing because we as a people sometimes lack the elelmentary knowledge of punctuation and proper use of words.
    _______________

    LMAO! JB yo(sp) ***** is crazy

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 12:05:pm

    @ Whoa

    Hey Redd! *hands you a bag of ice to place on ya hot crotch*

    You good chica?

    LMAO!!! Shut-up! Oh, Im very good! Tired as hell though!! LOL!

    wifey06

    7/16/09, 12:06:pm

    1.together 4 years
    2. 1 week before something ain’t right so they split
    3. he pays her some money
    4. He GAY!!!!

    No man is giving her any money b/c she got dumped ( he saying all this nice crap and it is only his side of the story he cn fill in anything) he paid her hush money!!!!…..

    Juts like Ye did Alexis. How come no one at all has seen Kanye ex? They pay them off…..

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 12:06:pm

    @lady – She should have had a baby by his punk ***** a long time ago.
    This trick makes professional gold diggers look bad.

    He looks dumb and simple as hell…how did she not lock it down with that dummy.

    ***************
    obviously she is dumber than he is

    Dark Knight................................Defender of truth slaver of the wack!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 12:06:pm

    @ Man, I just don’t care™

    My Bad! No need for the name calling you can put that ish in neutral no need to beat me over the head!

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 12:06:pm

    When you speak of knowledge and reading, it is a great thing because we as a people sometimes lack the elelmentary knowledge of punctuation and proper use of words.
    _______________

    LMAO! JB yo(sp) ***** is crazy
    ____________________________________________________________

    LMBAO!

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 12:07:pm

    I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    Hey Whoa … and it always matter that you are back miss. You one of the peeps who got something fun different to say … You , Snoop , and man I just dont care be straight killing up in this piece!
    ———————————————–
    Aaaaaw *kiss on the cheek* Thx honey! :wink:

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 12:07:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ POKE HER FACE(FL)

    Whats going on here is u got sum splaining to do as to why you’re SMH @ ME. lmao

    Because I know what you are up to! Talking about its too early!
    _____________________________________________________
    U got me!! lmao!! I see u made it out the house 2day so he must’ve not did the job right!! LMFAO!!!
    AS SOON AS UR READY TO EXPERIENCE A REAL ____ LET ME KNOW

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 12:08:pm

    @BMW
    “My Bad! No need for the name calling you can put that ish in neutral no need to beat me over the head!”
    ___________________________________________________________

    LOL. Naw, I’m just clowning. Don’t take this Bossip ***** serious.

    Sheila

    7/16/09, 12:09:pm

    Richard Jefferson likes *****. Everyone knew that, he was only marrying her to stop the bad gay publicity. Honey, if you like like, like i do, honey get urs. You only live once.

    RICHARD JEFFERSON LIVING IN THE CLOSET IS SO 1981. DO YOU, HONEY

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 12:10:pm

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    John

    Am I the only male who despises women with hyphenated last names?
    _____________________________________________________
    U are definitely not the only one. I feel that with the hyphenated last name they are going in with the notion that if it doesnt work out they can just drop that name like it was nothing
    ——————————————-
    Aaah the curse of feminism. LOL. no hyphen for me (if it happens)

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 12:11:pm

    @BE wuddup?

    I sooo need some lunch right now. I swear I burn my breakfast in no time. And that excellent pizza next door is caaaaaalling me!

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 12:12:pm

    U got me!! lmao!! I see u made it out the house 2day so he must’ve not did the job right!! LMFAO!!!
    AS SOON AS UR READY TO EXPERIENCE A REAL ____ LET ME KNOW

    He did a very good job actually. Put me right to sleep. I have to work honey!

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 12:13:pm

    Am I the only male who despises women with hyphenated last names?
    ____________________
    I’m hyphenated. If you establish credit and such in your maiden name it makes it easier for you. I’m sure this is why alot of women choose this route, since they are getting married later in life.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 12:14:pm

    @TOOT-IT-UP
    “Aaah the curse of feminism. LOL. no hyphen for me (if it happens)”
    ______________________________________________________________

    You are almost too good to be true sometimes. I swear.

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 12:14:pm

    BRB, my stomach is on E

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 12:15:pm

    @Whoa – nothing much..baffled by people’s obsession with reading a blog they don’t post on and commenting….in fact I’m quite salty about that..lol

    I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    7/16/09, 12:17:pm

    @ Whoa

    I aint washing my cheek for a week. Thank you.

    John

    7/16/09, 12:17:pm

    To me, hyphenated names is a subtle way of saying that one will not fully commit..IMHO

    Just curious….Why do people think RJ is gay? Are there any tapes circulating or are you guys just taking someones word?

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 12:18:pm

    @ BE

    What Happened? Do you have a stalker?

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 12:18:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    U got me!! lmao!! I see u made it out the house 2day so he must’ve not did the job right!! LMFAO!!!
    AS SOON AS UR READY TO EXPERIENCE A REAL ____ LET ME KNOW

    He did a very good job actually. Put me right to sleep. I have to work honey!
    _____________________________________________________
    I CAN DIG IT MA!! IM J/K!! I wouldnt want to disrespect him & especially not YOU!! U know I have all the love in the world for you!! So u do u and make that $$$ but just know I GOT THIS TONGUE READY WHENEVER U ARE!!

    snoop bloggy blog ( When you lose, don't lose the lesson)

    7/16/09, 12:19:pm

    nothing much..baffled by people’s obsession with reading a blog they don’t post on and commenting….in fact I’m quite salty about that..lol
    _____________

    Be, did i miss something?

    STEPHANIE

    7/16/09, 12:20:pm

    Come on now, guys. This girl was in NO WAY surprised by this. She just put the email out there becasue of her sour grapes. They discussed this issue, called it off together, and now she’s *****ed about it. He’s being VERY cl*****y about the whole situation. Good for him. She’ll find someone else, and so will he. I’m free, gimme a call.

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 12:21:pm

    @Redd – the worst kind of stalker, a lurker who never posts but someone I know. Always saying things I posted. I hate the sh*t which I told the person on more than one occasion. Either post and make yoourself known or stop memorizing all my posts. It’s like eavesdropping or snooping through my mail

    reggie reg

    7/16/09, 12:22:pm

    Smart. Better now, than 5 years from now. Good call, Rich.

    (sigh)…*****s.

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    7/16/09, 12:22:pm

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    Am I the only male who despises women with hyphenated last names?
    ____________________
    I’m hyphenated. If you establish credit and such in your maiden name it makes it easier for you. I’m sure this is why alot of women choose this route, since they are getting married later in life.
    _____________________________________________________
    I can definitely underdig that!! Makes sense

    We "Blacks" Are The REAL Hebrew Israelites

    7/16/09, 12:23:pm

    @Snoop bloggy blog

    Ok…now that ***** was funny!!!

    Alloyboy

    7/16/09, 12:23:pm

    Too bad Kobe didn’t have the ***** Jefferson did.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 12:23:pm

    I CAN DIG IT MA!! IM J/K!! I wouldnt want to disrespect him & especially not YOU!! U know I have all the love in the world for you!! So u do u and make that $$$ but just know I GOT THIS TONGUE READY WHENEVER U ARE!!

    You dont even know me and you have love for me?? Or do you know me?? And stop throwing that tongue at me please!!

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 12:23:pm

    @Snoop – Be, did i miss something?

    ****************
    see post to Redd at 12:21

    I mean if I was going to be that nosey I would at keep it to myself. Not ask questions about a post. I know this is public but it is just weird to me.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 12:24:pm

    @THE LADIES

    Would you ever leave a man at the alter or right before the wedding? Be honest!

    Lady Architect (Breezing Through)

    7/16/09, 12:24:pm

    Hey people

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 12:25:pm

    @LADY A

    Whats up lovely?

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 12:27:pm

    @ BE

    @Redd – the worst kind of stalker, a lurker who never posts but someone I know. Always saying things I posted. I hate the sh*t which I told the person on more than one occasion. Either post and make yoourself known or stop memorizing all my posts. It’s like eavesdropping or snooping through my mail

    Oh ok, I was worried about that myself because someone hipped me to this site I used to talk to! Thats why Im afraid to put my face out here! Tell that person to kick rocks and stay the Fck out your business babe!

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 12:27:pm

    Hey Lady A!!!

    @MIJDC – if I found out he was gay or had another family, not just because i’m scared.

    Lady Architect (Breezing Through)

    7/16/09, 12:27:pm

    Man, I just don’t care™

    @LADY A

    Whats up lovely?

    Hey Songbird…no more notes for me?…Anyways I started my countdown…woooo!!

    Del

    7/16/09, 12:27:pm

    wrong would’ve been going through with the wedding and being absolutely miserable for a yr or two and and then getting a divorce in which she probably wouldn’t get the ”6 figure settlement” because he would have a much better 
    legal team since he makes 15 million a year,

    Lady Architect (Breezing Through)

    7/16/09, 12:28:pm

    Hey BE!!!

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 12:29:pm

    @Redd – Oh ok, I was worried about that myself because someone hipped me to this site I used to talk to! Thats why Im afraid to put my face out here! Tell that person to kick rocks and stay the Fck out your business babe!

    *************************
    Kick rocks and stay the fck out my business…for the 9,000,000,000 time

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 12:30:pm

    @ Man

    I couldnt hurt anybody like that. I wouldnt even put my family and friends through that. If I didnt want to marry you I would just tell you prior to.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 12:31:pm

    @LADY A
    “Hey Songbird…no more notes for me?…Anyways I started my countdown…woooo!!”
    _______________________________________________________________

    LOL. I was hoping you didn’t notice my lack of notes!! I can’t make them on this computer that I’m on (laptop)!

    Lady Architect (Breezing Through)

    7/16/09, 12:32:pm

    @man…
    ok I’ll accept that one…

    whatever ill just say it

    7/16/09, 12:33:pm

    @red doxx
    i want to ***** in your mouth.

    @lady archtiect
    i want to ***** in your face

    @be
    i want to ***** in that sun

    there i said it.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 12:33:pm

    @ BE

    Kick rocks and stay the fck out my business…for the 9,000,000,000 time

    Stop taking the calls or however this person is getting through. Ill change my numbers and email on somebody in a hot second. This person is obviously upsetting you.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 12:33:pm

    Alright, I’m out. Bout to go to lunch with a friend that I haven’t seen in a minute. Talk to you later.

    Angee

    7/16/09, 12:33:pm

    @Man

    Like Be said, if I found out something horrible at the last minute.

    I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    7/16/09, 12:34:pm

    @ Lady A

    Are you throwing a kiss at me ? Thank you in advance if your answer was yes. But I`m figuring if it aint me it`s prolly Snoop …

    whatever ill just say it

    7/16/09, 12:34:pm

    redd foxx i meant.

    Lady Architect (Breezing Through)

    7/16/09, 12:35:pm

    Weddings cost a lot if depending on the type of ceremony you want…The engagement process should be the time for any of you finals questions and concerns not at the alter….To me you walk up that aisle you betta have your mind correct.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 12:35:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)
    You dont even know me and you have love for me?? Or do you know me?? And stop throwing that tongue at me please!!
    _____________________________________________________
    No I dont know u and yes I do have love for u (cyber crush) & whats wrong wit throwing the tongue @ u? LMFAO did I just say cyber crush? LMFAO

    whatever ill just say it

    7/16/09, 12:37:pm

    @angee
    i want to ***** on that very black face

    Lady Architect (Breezing Through)

    7/16/09, 12:37:pm

    whatever ill just say it

    @red doxx
    i want to ***** in your mouth.

    @lady archtiect
    i want to ***** in your face

    Your name suits you…

    Lady Architect (Breezing Through)

    7/16/09, 12:38:pm

    I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    @ Lady A

    Are you throwing a kiss at me ? Thank you in advance if your answer was yes. But I`m figuring if it aint me it`s prolly Snoop …

    lol I’m simply blowing a kiss….that’s all…your welcome though

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 12:39:pm

    @Redd – Kick rocks and stay the fck out my business…for the 9,000,000,000 time

    Stop taking the calls or however this person is getting through. Ill change my numbers and email on somebody in a hot second. This person is obviously upsetting you.

    ************
    Perhaps after today they will understand I’m serious – smh

    Lady Architect (In the mood for some blue roses)

    7/16/09, 12:40:pm

    Bossip is pretty dead today

    Lady Architect (In the mood for some blue roses)

    7/16/09, 12:41:pm

    BE,
    to me…if they wanna look..let them…nosey people always find something they didn’t really want to know….then igg the calls

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 12:41:pm

    @Whatever – and then what? don’t you know the sun is hot?

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 12:41:pm

    Hey Lady A!!!

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 12:43:pm

    how long does it take for you to discuss marriage while in a reltaionship?

    who do u think should bring up the marriage discussion? Man or woman
    _______________________________________________

    @mojojojo

    5 years…

    Just kidding… Girl, well me personally I don’t know because it’s been a long time since the thought of marriage has “seriously” crossed my mind…

    It’s been a while since I’ve met a girl that’s had my heart like that (*and mind you I’ma sucka for love)… To be honest with you I’m at the “stage of my life” where I’m focused on career advancement and making money that’s it because I like a certain & decent lifestyle and want even more = nice things and little to no constraints…

    But if I come across a nice young lady that will “Make Me Better” and help me to obtain my personal goals, career goals and aspirations so that WE can have a better future and life together than cool I can do that and I’m up for it other than that no thanks I’m busy :-)

    Lady Architect (In the mood for some blue roses)

    7/16/09, 12:43:pm

    Hey Red Foxxxy Lady

    I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    7/16/09, 12:43:pm

    @ Lady A

    Ok cool. Yo I aint fronting but from the looks of your grav you gotta a pretty face . And unlike a lot of other gravs it`s actually you ! KUDOS !

    Jade Silver

    7/16/09, 12:43:pm

    @ Slide… I’ve only just popped in. I was not drinking whilst smoking (I had to clear that up). I fell pregnant during the make up sex of that session. LOL. Thanks for caring my friend, I will do better. Take care.

    BE (Get ya own life please!!)

    7/16/09, 12:43:pm

    @Lady A – to me…if they wanna look..let them…nosey people always find something they didn’t really want to know….then igg the calls
    ***********
    true..nosey people irk me though

    I’m out to lunch!

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 12:44:pm

    @red doxx
    i want to ***** in your mouth.

    @lady archtiect
    i want to ***** in your face

    @be
    i want to ***** in that sun

    there i said it.

    Well damn, I step away for a second and come back to this. LMAO!!

    yooo

    7/16/09, 12:44:pm

    good choice bro,leave this hungry azz hos

    Jade Silver

    7/16/09, 12:44:pm

    Ooops * drinking whilst pregnant*

    Lady Architect (In the mood for some blue roses)

    7/16/09, 12:45:pm

    I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    @ Lady A

    Ok cool. Yo I aint fronting but from the looks of your grav you gotta a pretty face . And unlike a lot of other gravs it`s actually you ! KUDOS !

    Thank you…just add about 5 shades of darkness to it now…I’ve been tanning…lol

    whatever ill just say it

    7/16/09, 12:45:pm

    Lady Architect (In the mood for some blue roses)

    Will u pucker up like that for me when I ***** on those pretty lips?

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 12:45:pm

    Yo yo yo YO!!!! I’m back (belly full). Don’t tell me yall done bounced?

    Elle'

    7/16/09, 12:46:pm

    His appraoch was all wrong and I am sure that the embr*****ment that she is experiencing is unreal. However, at least he did not go through with something not sure if he could really be committed to the health of their relationship. This could be a biggest jerk move I have ever seen in my life. Neverthelss, at least 2 or 3 years from now we will not be hearing about these two going through a bitter divorce!

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 12:46:pm

    Jade Silver

    Ooops * drinking whilst pregnant*
    —————————–
    It betta be water!!! *grabs something to swat you with*

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 12:47:pm

    No I dont know u and yes I do have love for u (cyber crush) & whats wrong wit throwing the tongue @ u? LMFAO did I just say cyber crush? LMFAO

    You are silly a cyber crush. Im not going to front you got to me yesterday!

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 12:48:pm

    @ whatever ill just say it

    IM GONNA NEED U NOT TO DISRESPECT THE LADIES LIKE THAT…ESPECIALLY Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 12:49:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    No I dont know u and yes I do have love for u (cyber crush) & whats wrong wit throwing the tongue @ u? LMFAO did I just say cyber crush? LMFAO

    You are silly a cyber crush. Im not going to front you got to me yesterday!
    _____________________________________________________
    I KNOW I DID!! IM NOT GON’ LIE EITHER…I WAS HARD AS ***** AFTER MESSIN WIT U YESTERDAY

    RazeKane

    7/16/09, 12:49:pm

    This whole episode is tacky from a suspect dude. Always knew he was a cad but, damn ole boy is a real low cl***** nicca with no ***** to confront her straight up. Yea thats the least he can do by forkin over a hundred thou. She’ll probably do her boo hoo’s then go enjoy her money.

    I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    7/16/09, 12:50:pm

    @ Lady A
    Darker the berry the sweeter the juice … your stock keeps going up and up !!

    Yo I needs a sammich ! I`ll be right back .

    antoniothegreat

    7/16/09, 12:52:pm

    *****..thats the best move you ever made…better late than never..***** that

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 12:52:pm

    What we talking about in here?

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 12:55:pm

    I KNOW I DID!! IM NOT GON’ LIE EITHER…I WAS HARD AS ***** AFTER MESSIN WIT U YESTERDAY

    Dont do that to me anymore. I did not get any work done yesterday!

    B. Please

    7/16/09, 12:55:pm

    He made the right choice, who wants to get married to a woman with the joker’s smile … who the hell smiles like that.
    Why is there all that spray paint on her face ?

    My theory is he finally slept over her house and when he woke up in the morning he finally saw what she looks like without makeup …. that why he said ***** this.

    Plus he has NBA money he should be *****ing someone who is 19 and tight every night … that is what I would be doing.

    In the off season I would have a tour bus parked outside of an girls college and setup shop on all them summer semester biatches.

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 12:58:pm

    To everybody, sorry i went back to bed, when its 9am where you are, its 3am here.

    1. yes im engaged
    2. I told my girl i wasnt marrying anybody until she finished school, she finished in june.
    3. No pre-nup because we’ve been together since i was 17 and she 16, I didnt have ***** all through college except care packages from my parents, paid tuition, condo that i eventually took over the $1100 a month payments from my parents and a bunch of dirty ***** underwear and socks, my girl would bring me food and money, so no pre-nup now that I make more than double what she will.
    4. right now the wedding is set for july of 2010, and the ***** is at about $70k right now, im paying a 1/3, her parents a 1/3 and mine a 1/3 (thank god)
    5. if kids come quick fine, if they dont fine, but two is the limit.
    6. I can guarantee you as sure as the sun will come out tomorrow, they wont have ghetto ***** names, they will go to college, no gold fronts, no saggin’ below their *****es, no braids, no old ***** car on 26’s and no ugly or fat girlfriends, remember youre reppin’ daddy at all times!

    love 6am

    Dark Knight................................Defender of truth slaver of the wack!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 13:03:pm

    @ 6am
    CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! From the south!!!!!!!!!!!!

    john hope franklin

    7/16/09, 13:04:pm

    let old school get in here…
    he could have been man enough to tell her. hell for that matter he could have at least told his family and friends…
    p*****ing out the black card aint pimpin pimpin when you too punk to open your mouth…

    john hope franklin

    7/16/09, 13:05:pm

    What up lady a?
    glad to see you back free around here…

    Asian Male

    7/16/09, 13:09:pm

    I would have no date her for ghetto name spell

    Dark Knight................................Defender of truth slaver of the wack!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 13:09:pm

    @ 6am
    Speaking of getting married this reminds me I had this asian guy ask me years ago if I got married would it be for Love or Money? Hell at the time I was young and dumb and responded back for love he laughed at my ***** and told me he was marrying for money not because he loved her it took some yrs but I caught on so to the bloggers I say what about you are you gonna marry for love or money?

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 13:10:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    I KNOW I DID!! IM NOT GON’ LIE EITHER…I WAS HARD AS ***** AFTER MESSIN WIT U YESTERDAY

    Dont do that to me anymore. I did not get any work done yesterday!
    ____________________________________________________
    u woulda gave that thing to me on site yesterday wouldnt you? I didnt get any work donr either but u did benefit from the convo yesterday when u got home didnt u?

    Asian Male

    7/16/09, 13:13:pm

    @Its6amHoGetOut

    You sound like ***** ***** mamas boy.

    love asian male

    LADY ARCHITECT (OH SO SLEEPY!)

    7/16/09, 13:14:pm

    Hey John Hope Franlin

    Red and Poke…get a cyber room…lol

    Asian Male

    7/16/09, 13:14:pm

    @Its6amHoGetOut

    You touch two ***** whole life mama and girlfriend. Make me laugh so hard ha ha ha

    john hope franklin

    7/16/09, 13:17:pm

    @lady a
    u in the DMV? nice pic

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 13:17:pm

    they wont have ghetto ***** names, they will go to college, no gold fronts, no saggin’ below their *****es, no braids, no old ***** car on 26’s and no ugly or fat girlfriends, remember youre reppin’ daddy at all times!
    __________________________________________

    @6AM

    LMAO!!!

    Congrats!!!

    What if the future “Mrs. 6AM” she said she didn’t want to work and she wanted to be a stay at home wife or Mom would you be alright with that?

    or

    If she wants to maintain y’alls current lifestyle she has to work?

    john hope franklin

    7/16/09, 13:18:pm

    ROTFL @ asian male

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 13:18:pm

    LADY ARCHITECT (OH SO SLEEPY!)

    Red and Poke…get a cyber room…lol
    _____________________________________________________
    SHE’S NOT READY 4 ME!!! IM TRYNA TELL HER THE TONGUE IS VICIOUS!!!!

    whatever ill just say it

    7/16/09, 13:18:pm

    @pokerface
    do you think red foxx is going to give you ***** through bossip, well if she does ask her if i can ***** in her mouth.

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 13:20:pm

    Yes, I think he should’ve manned up and told her but here recently, I can understand why he didn’t.

    1. Steve McNair
    2. The boxer Gatti.
    3. He probably knew that giving her the money was similar to throwing a bone at a vicious dog…it would calm for her a bit.

    At any cost, if he felt the marriage wouldn’t work, I’m glad it was to be. We have a vicious divorce rate as it is but, weren’t they together five years?

    He didn’t realize before now?

    Marquis de Sade

    7/16/09, 13:21:pm

    Sniff, sniff! Now this was a heartwarmin’ tale I can get behind. A ***** may not know what he wants in life, but atleast he’s mentally healthy enough to know what he doesn’t want in life…And correct me if i’m wrong, but wasn’t some of you females advocating breakin’ up by phone or text on that Steve McNair thread? – Hell, Tyra Banks has gone on record on more than one occasion on how she prided herself on breakin’ up with *****s’ via Voicemail…Sides, this ***** got $100.000g’s for her embarr*****ment – We should all be so lucky.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 13:21:pm

    u woulda gave that thing to me on site yesterday wouldnt you? I didnt get any work donr either but u did benefit from the convo yesterday when u got home didnt u?

    I plead the fifth! LMAO!

    whatever ill just say it

    7/16/09, 13:23:pm

    @ LADY ARCHITECT

    u didnt answer my question. will u pucker up like that when I ***** on those pretty lips or will u open wide for the guzzle?

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 13:23:pm

    Red and Poke…get a cyber room…lol

    LMAO!! Thats him!

    Marquis de Sade

    7/16/09, 13:24:pm

    @ 6am

    Congrats on the upcomin’ wedding.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 13:25:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    u woulda gave that thing to me on site yesterday wouldnt you? I didnt get any work donr either but u did benefit from the convo yesterday when u got home didnt u?

    I plead the fifth! LMAO!
    _____________________________________________________
    THAT ANSWERS THE QUESTION MA! LMAO!!! So where u located?

    What"sUp

    7/16/09, 13:25:pm

    Arguing over signing a pre-nup a week before the wedding is serious business. If he had gone thru with the wedding and divorced a couple years later, most people would have been saying what a gold-digger she is and fool he was to marry her without a pre-nup, which would have placed her in a position to ask for millions and millions. He said that they were already having problems. The could have continued as a couple but not as a married couple where a contract is involved. He had friends and lawyers talking to him. Nowadays prenups are no longer iron-clad. There’s still room for the lawyer to argue, especially if a kids are in the picture.

    smitty

    7/16/09, 13:27:pm

    LMAO

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 13:28:pm

    THAT ANSWERS THE QUESTION MA! LMAO!!! So where u located?

    Where are you located?

    MADE.IN.NY

    7/16/09, 13:29:pm

    Men aren’t REAL men anymore. Just take a look at the comments section on Bossip every day. Sissies, punks, and underdeveloped idiots posing as men have outnumbered the REAL men considerably.

    This Jefferson fiasco doesn’t surprise me one bit. Five years and he all-of-a-sudden had an epiphany a few days before the actual wedding? If it was that deep, he should’ve called it off months in advance. Common sense isn’t that common I guess . . .

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 13:30:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    THAT ANSWERS THE QUESTION MA! LMAO!!! So where u located?

    Where are you located?
    ____________________________________________________
    IM IN NC. & U ARE?

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 13:31:pm

    I have to eat! I’ll be back….

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 13:31:pm

    @ BMW–

    Hi!!!

    To answer your question at this point in my life I’d have to say love but before I tie the knot, I’d have to know a few things about his financial situation.

    1. His credit score.
    2. His debt ratio.
    3. His spending habits.
    4. Would we combine incomes yet maintain one separate account.

    Now believe me, if I’m seriously considering marriage, I’d be willing to share my information just like I’d expect him to share his.
    ( 9 times out of 10, I’d already know his but I have to get it from the horses mouth to see if he’s telling the truth. Thank God for a best friend who works for the I.R.S. Lol!!

    Trust me, these things should seriously be discussed. By the time you’re into the marriage, it’s almost too late.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 13:31:pm

    @ Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    I CAN BE WHERE U ARE IN A NY MINUTE!! LMAO

    Marquis de Sade

    7/16/09, 13:32:pm

    MADE.IN.NY

    Better late than never. Lay off the quiche, *****. Your panties are showin’.

    Wow

    7/16/09, 13:37:pm

    If he did it by following his own mind and heart…then he is a real man

    john hope franklin

    7/16/09, 13:37:pm

    @made in n.y.
    there is no such thing as common sense…

    rome a.k.a. (Sotomayor needs a new consultant on those ugly ***** jackets!!)

    7/16/09, 13:39:pm

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    rome a.k.a. (Sotomayor needs a new consultant on those ugly ***** jackets!!)

    RJ is the official……(echoing)….”bama of the week……week……week”!!!!
    _____________________________________________________
    Man I been out here in Charlotte for a minute…..I MISS HUGGY LOW DOWN IN THE MORNING!!! LMFAO

    —————————————————

    I’m in Charlotte in two weeks….cousin getting married…..i’m one of the groomsmen. Does that mean I have to get one of the better gifts from the registry…anyone?

    MR.727

    7/16/09, 13:39:pm

    I’M GLAD HE DIDN’T FALL FOR THE PRETTY FACE IN A SMILE TRICK! THESE JUNKIE W***** ARE ALL ABOUT MONEY!He did the right thing! At least she was a sister and not a black ***** seeking white w*****!

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 13:40:pm

    Hello?

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 13:42:pm

    @ Marquis de Sade–

    The government has recently forced me to enlist in the services of Pookie and ‘Quan via cable. I saw a do*****entary on you the other night on the history channel. This was more in depth than what I read a few years ago.

    Vicious man. Just vicious.

    rome a.k.a. (Sotomayor needs a new consultant on those ugly ***** jackets!!)

    7/16/09, 13:42:pm

    @ Toot-it-up!

    Help me out.

    Billy Blog Thorton

    7/16/09, 13:44:pm

    Good for him. This chick looks sneaky and reminds me too much of michelle malkin…former fox news commentator. She was a major *****. This chick is probably a ***** too. LOL

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    7/16/09, 13:45:pm

    @ ROME
    I’m in Charlotte in two weeks….cousin getting married…..i’m one of the groomsmen. Does that mean I have to get one of the better gifts from the registry…anyone?
    _____________________________________________________
    I’m a cheap dude unless its on my wife and kids. I wouldn’t get them one of the better gifts but thats just me. LMAO

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 13:46:pm

    @ Rome–

    Go to Things remembered at the Concord Mall.I’m sure they have one at that mall. Anywho–get you at picture frame for about $20.00 and have it engraved. The engraving is free.

    Trust me, you can’t go wrong with this gift. I’d probably have his and her names engraved with the date of the wedding as well.

    Good Luck!

    ttll

    7/16/09, 13:47:pm

    after she spent all that money on that freakin wedding he probably saw red flags!!! why do people spend that much on a wedding? if you want to marry eachother bad enough, you’ll do it in a broom closet if you have to.

    John

    7/16/09, 13:49:pm

    Michelle malkin is pretty hot too..

    Just My Opinion

    7/16/09, 13:49:pm

    He could have made the announcement in a different manner however I commend him for realizing and admitting his doubts prior to entering the marriage. Too many people today take the plunge into marriage and are quick to seek a divorce. The definition and purposed of marriage has been destroyed in this country! I am not marriead yet, but when the right man (white,asian,latin)enters my life I will know it is meant to be. Just my opinion…

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 13:50:pm

    rome a.k.a. (Sotomayor needs a new consultant on those ugly ***** jackets!!)

    @ Toot-it-up!

    Help me out.
    —————————————
    You raaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaang? :lol:

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 13:50:pm

    @ a picture frame….

    BTW–I’m singing in 3 weddings over the next month and one in October. That’s what I did for all of them except one–that’s because they’ve not paid me my down payment yet!

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 13:51:pm

    Im in the midwest. LOL!

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 13:51:pm

    **AND a picture frame….

    Damn!

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 13:52:pm

    @ 1TruDiva – What’s up, big Sis? I saw your comments the other Day and you broke camp before I could shout at you. I see why you keep it 100. When you been through a lot, you know a lot. Wanna let you know, I’m pulling and praying for you.

    Bob B

    7/16/09, 13:52:pm

    7-11….Lucky for him ..he got out smart man..not the right way to do it ..but she probably pushed him in to getting married.

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 13:52:pm

    Hey Diva :D

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 13:53:pm

    OK So here is something that is kind of messed up:

    On MSNBC there is a report about Steve Mcnair. He left no will. His wife is now the administator and list herself and THEIR two sons. She did not list his other two sons. And the judge granted it. So as of right now his other two sons aer *****ed out unless she steps up and says hey, I got you.

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 13:54:pm

    Good move son…one less swirl ***** who will be able to claim half, a few years from now!

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 13:54:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    Im in the midwest. LOL!
    ——————————–
    Hey hot crotches! :lol:

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 13:55:pm

    JB (Lakers – Odum – Fisher = Sweep))

    OK So here is something that is kind of messed up:

    On MSNBC there is a report about Steve Mcnair. He left no will. His wife is now the administator and list herself and THEIR two sons. She did not list his other two sons. And the judge granted it. So as of right now his other two sons aer *****ed out unless she steps up and says hey, I got you.

    No problem here. She’s been taking care of them all along. I don’t think she’ll neglect them.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 13:56:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    Im in the midwest. LOL!
    _____________________________________________________
    WHY U LYING TO ME JUICY?

    Divine

    7/16/09, 13:56:pm

    Listening to the interview, “I know I wasn’t perfect in the relationship…but a lot of people were involved”
    Definitely tells me he found out somethings about her he didn’t like…Hence the fact that he broke up with her compeltely and not just cancelled or postponed the wedding.

    Cryme Boss

    7/16/09, 13:57:pm

    What she devastated she wont get to touch his real stacks????

    Better he dump her ***** and move on Leykis 101.

    Time to find another pay day!

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 13:57:pm

    Hey Whoa!
    BE–
    Redd and,
    Just My Opinion!
    NOPHACE and the rest of the crew.

    Who else is here? Is everyone out to lunch?

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 13:58:pm

    JB (Lakers – Odum – Fisher = Sweep))

    OK So here is something that is kind of messed up:

    On MSNBC there is a report about Steve Mcnair. He left no will. His wife is now the administator and list herself and THEIR two sons. She did not list his other two sons. And the judge granted it. So as of right now his other two sons aer *****ed out unless she steps up and says hey, I got you.
    ————————————————-

    If there is no will then this case will just go to probate, b/c the other sons will indeed protest the present list of beneficiaries. Its a shame that people like Steve with sizable *****ets dont create a living trust prior to death, so the allocations are clear and cannot be contested. Due to impending probate hearings this case could be tied up in court for years.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 13:58:pm

    @ Whoa

    Shut-up LOL!!!

    @ Poke her

    I am not lying I am! I have to go to a meeting I will be back in a few!

    L bka Mrs. Philly

    7/16/09, 13:59:pm

    Good afternoon people.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 13:59:pm

    Be back in a minute

    Whoa! aka Toot-it-up!

    7/16/09, 14:00:pm

    Hey L

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    7/16/09, 14:00:pm

    @1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!
    _____________________________________________________
    wuddup?!
    what u know bout Concord Mills? lol

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 14:01:pm

    @ This is some shhhh

    What I amsaying is why didn’t she list herself and all 4 kids. SHe only list the three of them as his only heirs. She didn’t say anything about the other sons. So technically they would have to go to court to fight the ruling if she didn’t take care of them any longer.

    DR.FUNK

    7/16/09, 14:02:pm

    Good for him.Marriage is DUMB anyway.His story is unusual in the world he inhabits.Women who date ballers usually sandbag that wallet with a baby.How the hell did he dodge that bullet? I’m actually okay with the “severance package”.

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 14:03:pm

    This is from the article

    NASHVILLE, Tenn. – The widow of slain former NFL quarterback Steve McNair says in court do*****ents that her husband left no will and a judge in Nashville has ruled that she will oversee his estate.

    Davidson County Probate Judge Randy Kennedy granted Mechelle McNair’s request to administer the estate and gave her 60 days to file an inventory of her late husband’s *****ets. She says in court do*****ents that she did not know her late husband’s worth, but do*****ents contend it is “of sufficient size to be administered.”

    Mechelle McNair listed herself and her two sons, Tyler and Trenton McNair, as the heirs to the estate. McNair also has two other sons from a previous relationship.

    Just My Opinion

    7/16/09, 14:04:pm

    Hey everyone!

    @1TruDiva

    How far are you willing to travel for weddings? (magic price amount??)

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 14:04:pm

    JB (Lakers – Odum – Fisher = Sweep))

    @ This is some shhhh

    What I amsaying is why didn’t she list herself and all 4 kids. SHe only list the three of them as his only heirs. She didn’t say anything about the other sons. So technically they would have to go to court to fight the ruling if she didn’t take care of them any longer.

    Because she is not aware of what his *****ets are, and they needed to put this in affect to get moving. Also, it’s to keep the baby mama on standby. She has been raising them as her own for a long time. I don’t think she is going to cut them off. Since he left no will, she’s got to dig in.

    goldi b

    7/16/09, 14:04:pm

    super duper guy i tell ya.

    Billy Blog Thorton

    7/16/09, 14:06:pm

    @John

    michelle malkin is OK (i guess…) for a hardcore republican, but this Kesha Ni’Cole Nichols chick is waaaaayyyyy to sneaky looking for this guy to wife given the 2-million dollar wedding cost already.

    She’s got the “cheshire cat grin”…and anyone that has ever watched cartoons knows to watch out for that *****. LMAO!!!

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 14:08:pm

    @ JB (Lakers – Odum – Fisher = Sweep))

    I read the article, and at first I was *****ed. Ol girl been thru a lot and was put on blast. The article seeks to questions her motives, but she’s left to clean up Steve’s mess. He could have had all this straight with a will and trust funds, instead of chasing cat.

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 14:09:pm

    Also, it’s to keep the baby mama on standby.
    ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((

    That is what I was thinking. Baby Mama Drama

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 14:11:pm

    @ JB

    Yep, let her know to not come sniffing. Play your position and I’ll take care of them when we straight. If not, get your legal team together and bring to the courthouse.

    Divine

    7/16/09, 14:11:pm

    @JB (Lakers – Odum – Fisher = Sweep))
    I was just listening to them discuss this on radio in Nashville.
    It’s SHAMEFUL that Steve was selfish to think he was so invicible that he didn’t leave a will.
    It seems that the NFL Players *****ociation would advise them to have a will. That’s just smart when you have that kind of money.

    Anyway, Mechelle is WRONG for not naming his other kids to the estate.
    But I’m sure she has some lawyers advising her.

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 14:12:pm

    Plus to get in front of the straglers, that ain’t came out the wood work yet.

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 14:13:pm

    This some shhhh…

    @ JB (Lakers – Odum – Fisher = Sweep))

    I read the article, and at first I was *****ed. Ol girl been thru a lot and was put on blast. The article seeks to questions her motives, but she’s left to clean up Steve’s mess. He could have had all this straight with a will and trust funds, instead of chasing cat.

    I am sure this had to do with RJ dumping girl. Outside forces can also include this mess too.

    typical

    7/16/09, 14:13:pm

    To all those screaming tell her face to face blah blah blah, dont you recall the last time a celebrity told a girl bad news face to face, yes he ended up with 4 bullets in him. the email was fine, let her blow of steam, talk on the phone to calm down THEN meet face to face. i think the only thing wrong here is for him to discuss it publically, and the pay off. Yes Richie Jefferson, its a pay off, and right about now some news station will be calling your ex-fiancee to find out what she has on you. Yummy…

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 14:16:pm

    @ JB – You know it. I would have called it off from South America. He knew it would have been groud zero if he showed up in NY, telling her he want to talk.

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 14:17:pm

    @ NOPHACE–

    I STAY riding up down that way. I have three older brothers that relocated to Charlotte so I go there a lot.

    @ Just My Opinion–

    It all depends on how far I have to travel and my out of pocket expenses. I’m very reasonable, though.

    @ JB–

    I gotchu some magazines the other day from the injection room.

    let’s see–I got Essence (a month old) a redear’s digest (I took it ’cause I know you like Denzel) And a sports Illustrated (actually, I got the SI’s)

    **cybering you the magazines**

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 14:17:pm

    This some shhhh…

    Plus to get in front of the straglers, that ain’t came out the wood work yet.

    Mama McNair’s cousin sister uncle brother baby daddy Pookie talking ’bout, “Steve said he would always take care of me”

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 14:19:pm

    1 Tru

    always looking out for a sista!!

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 14:25:pm

    JB (Lakers – Odum – Fisher = Sweep))

    This some shhhh…

    Plus to get in front of the straglers, that ain’t came out the wood work yet.

    Mama McNair’s cousin sister uncle brother baby daddy Pookie talking ’bout, “Steve said he would always take care of me”

    Now that we’ve heard about his track record of caking, he may have some future baby mama’s issues. Neva know.

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 14:28:pm

    @ 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    What up, Sis, you can’t holla at a brotha?

    ...

    7/16/09, 14:28:pm

    *****ES BUG ME OUT WITH THAT “WHY DIDNT HE SAY IT TO HER FACE *****”… *****ES STAY BITTER OVER ***** THAT DONT MATTER…THE DUDE LEAVING YO *****, WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKE HOW HE DOES IT…SOUNDS LIKE THEY WANNA HAVE THE CHANCE TO TRY AND CONVINCE A CAT TO STAY (NOW THATS PATHETIC)…

    typical

    7/16/09, 14:31:pm

    And some advice ladies, and men as well i guess. unless there is a sound reason such as schooling or serving in the military abroad there is no reason for a courtship to extend beyond 2 years with no marriage plans. so 5 years and still no wedding? that was a red flag right there!!!

    rome a.k.a. (Sotomayor needs a new consultant on those ugly ***** jackets!!)

    7/16/09, 14:32:pm

    Yo ladies! puhlease come over to the John Legend girlfriend thread………I need some help! come on JB, Toot-it-up!, L, where is SYD and Lady A when you need them?!!

    dont know about that

    7/16/09, 14:37:pm

    And some advice ladies, and men as well i guess. unless there is a sound reason such as schooling or serving in the military abroad there is no reason for a courtship to extend beyond 2 years with no marriage plans. so 5 years and still no wedding? that was a red flag right there!!
    _____________________________________________

    ^^^^ this right here is some bull***** ya’ll, cant put a time limit on love, try getting to know your partner instead

    cosign above comment

    7/16/09, 14:41:pm

    What difference does it make. You know it’s coming. In the end if you can’t end it mutually as friends and the female is kinda crazy it’s just going to be more words, yelling and wasted time.

    Why not just break it off, no going back. If you know inside it’s not going to work and you don’t want it to work. Why slam your head against the wall and keep talking.

    Just do.

    I hate the back and forth ish. People waste good years of thier lives with people who they KNOW aren’t right for them.

    Pam

    7/16/09, 14:44:pm

    listen what richard has to say.

    danpatrick.com

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 14:50:pm

    @Asian Male and Others Who may have laughed…

    1. I am proud to of only had one girlfriend because I know I am disease free.

    2. She is the woman of my dreams.

    3. She is educated and better than any bama ***** with a fat *****.

    4. I am sensitive but who cares I am doing well.

    5. My condo is larger than your home/trailer/apartment.

    6. I am not on the mainland so I don’t worry about your type of being invaded by bama *****s while I sleep.

    Love 6am

    AWWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAP!!!!

    7/16/09, 14:51:pm

    Gay, gay, gay – that’s y’all simple *****s conclusion for everything. O, shut the ***** up. For all you know, the ***** could have sprung it on him at the last minute that she had an incurable sexual disease or she used to be a ho – and somebody’s got videos and pics out there to prove it. Trust. These are two valid reasons to put ALLLL that ***** on halt. Y’all don’t know. So don’t *****ume.

    Blacq

    7/16/09, 14:51:pm

    Let’s see? Murdered by a WHITE ***** or have your bank account murdered by a black girl? I would take my chances with the crazy BLACK girl.

    This works both ways, DUMB*****.

    Rachel

    7/16/09, 14:51:pm

    Why is this IDIOT still screaming this to anyone that will listen? As if dumping someone by email is a grown up way of breaking off a relationship. A REAL MAN would have faced her!

    Awesome-O-3000

    7/16/09, 14:59:pm

    Good job RJ. Dead that ***** early if it’s not going anywhere.

    Yvonne

    7/16/09, 15:02:pm

    He didn’t do the break-up thing right, but giving her a six figure settlement was mighty fine in my eyes, plus she gets to keep the engagement ring(which I’m sure was expensive) because he broke it off.

    If she use the money wisely, she might come out better than being married to him.

    typical

    7/16/09, 15:05:pm

    @dont know about that
    there is most certainly a time limit, as i said barring reasonable barriers, a couple talking everyday, meeting maybe once a week, doing things like holidays together have a clear idea of the type of person they are dealing with, whether they have spouse potential or not, after 2 years one can tell, beyond that is waiting for the person to change, waiting to see if someone better will come along, etc. 2 years is enough time.

    HOW U DURRRRIN

    7/16/09, 15:05:pm

    He is GAy as Neyo and Kanye at a Ballerina contest

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 15:06:pm

    You OBVIOUSLY have no idea why whitey gave out bad loans. YOUR BOY Barack Hussein, along with that queer senator Barney Frank, FORCED the white bankers to give out those loans to dead beat blacks with lawsuite action. NOW, Obama is the president and REALLY *****ing everything up! You got your black president and your going to get socializm and marxism along with loss of your freedoms and taxes like you cannot believe. Can you afford 600.00 electric bills? How does 6.00 a gallon gas sound to you?
    Who do you think is bringing that to you? Yep, YOUR black president YOU elected. Oh, and by the way, you apparently know NOTHING about mtv. From the 80’s on they paired a white girl with a black guy on every show. So thats not why BET was formed.
    Why can’t we have “white intertainment TV? Or “white history month?” Because you racist blacks will cry about it and call US racist!

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 15:06:pm

    It’s 2009 folks. What good is all this technology, if you can’t use it? Appears to me that RJ knows his way around a PC and cell phone.

    Rrrrroe Ski Love-

    7/16/09, 15:07:pm

    The only thing that the future bride should be mad about is that Richard J only gave her about $100Gs, and she saw herself having 100mil. I thought that was very honorable of him to give her the money, most brothers would have said just keep the ring.

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 15:08:pm

    Its6amHoGetOut

    @Asian Male and Others Who may have laughed…

    1. I am proud to of only had one girlfriend because I know I am disease free.

    2. She is the woman of my dreams.

    3. She is educated and better than any bama ***** with a fat *****.

    4. I am sensitive but who cares I am doing well.

    5. My condo is larger than your home/trailer/apartment.

    6. I am not on the mainland so I don’t worry about your type of being invaded by bama *****s while I sleep.

    Love 6am
    ——————————————–

    Let me guess…she aint BLACK. You swirl ***** *****a you! lol

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 15:11:pm

    @ Its6amHoGetOut

    You got you a Samoan, my brotha? J/K..

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 15:12:pm

    @Mookie

    You are 100% correct and I am proud as they come!

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 15:13:pm

    @This some shhhhh

    When you said that all I could imagaine was Dog the Bounty Hunter! (What is it brah?)

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 15:15:pm

    BACK UP IN HERE LIKE SWIM WEAR ON DELLA REESE

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 15:15:pm

    @ Its6amHoGetOut – Nothing to it, Killa. Just *****ing witcha.

    is what it is

    7/16/09, 15:19:pm

    @ typical

    just like an overbearing female to tell a man when to be ready for something as important as marriage

    AWWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAP!!!!

    7/16/09, 15:20:pm

    I’m hating Poke Her Face right now for giving me that visual.

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 15:21:pm

    I know. That’s fonky.

    ......

    7/16/09, 15:22:pm

    That’s not the real 6am.

    NY Hoody

    7/16/09, 15:22:pm

    Dude is GAY you dont relaize you don’t love someone a week befor you’re going to marry them.
    IM not surprised damn near the whole NBA(alleged)
    is bi-sexual or gay.

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 15:23:pm

    @ 6am

    I run an organization called “Keep it Pure” and we advocate that every person mixed with Black blood will have to go through newly developed tests to determine their % of Black blood. ALL half breeds with less than 75% Black blood will be shipped to Europe or confined in a concentration camp facility in Utah. This includes all children of swirl couples. The objective is to weed out or at least slow down the weakening of the Black race with white/asian/other ***** blood. This will include your ***** and any children you have s*****ed.

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 15:24:pm

    This one is for you Mook.

    EAT A ***** WIT YO LURKIN *****! ;-) POTNA!!

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 15:24:pm

    ……

    That’s not the real 6am.

    Damn, we need some ID in this piece or a security question. What was the color of your first car, type *****.

    Awesome-O-3000

    7/16/09, 15:25:pm

    @ Mookie

    That’s the dumbest thing I have ever read.

    Try again, with a little more effort next time.

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 15:27:pm

    My first car was not at car at all. It was a white Tomos moped and I still have it in storage on the ground floor of my condo.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 15:27:pm

    What are we talking about?

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 15:28:pm

    Awesome-O-3000

    @ Mookie

    That’s the dumbest thing I have ever read.

    Try again, with a little more effort next time.
    ———————————————–

    Sure…your mother is a ***** sucking, dog ball licking, hub cap stealing, child molesting *****. how was that?

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 15:29:pm

    although it was messed up how he handled it.he’s right,if your not fully commited dont do it.ill rather the heart ache of breaking it off than the heart ache of the divorce.

    whats good family?

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 15:29:pm

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    This one is for you Mook.

    EAT A ***** WIT YO LURKIN *****! POTNA!!
    —————————————————

    suck your mother’s ***** *****

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 15:29:pm

    @ AWWWWWWWWWWWWSHADDAAAAAP!!!!

    I’m hating Poke Her Face right now for giving me that visual.
    _____________________________________________________
    MY BAD…THAT IS A *****ED UP VISUAL!!! SORRY FOLKS!!!

    Awesome-O-3000

    7/16/09, 15:30:pm

    @ Mookie

    Awesome-O-3000

    @ Mookie

    That’s the dumbest thing I have ever read.

    Try again, with a little more effort next time.
    ———————————————–

    Sure…your mother is a ***** sucking, dog ball licking, hub cap stealing, child molesting *****. how was that?
    __________________

    LMAO. Mother comments? What is this 1993? Oh, I know, you’re Wilber Valderamma. Way to fail… yet again.

    ......

    7/16/09, 15:31:pm

    @ mookie

    You transgender *****got, go suck a used butt plug!

    Awesome-O-3000

    7/16/09, 15:31:pm

    MoCars, Man – What up fam?

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 15:32:pm

    whats good in the hood peeps?

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 15:33:pm

    Awesome-O-3000

    @ Mookie

    That’s the dumbest thing I have ever read.

    Try again, with a little more effort next time.

    —————————————————

    Mookie ain’t black….that’s some a$$hole tryin to get people riled up. Come on who the fu#k named Mookie…..stereotypical as hell.

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 15:33:pm

    awesome

    aint *****,bout this money. who this cat mookie poppin *****?

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 15:34:pm

    @ mookie

    You transgender *****got, go suck a used butt plug!

    —————————————————

    Dead!…..flatline_______________________________

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    7/16/09, 15:35:pm

    @ Mookie
    U ***** WIT ROME U ***** WIT QUITE A FEW OF US ***** BOI!! TAKE YA ***** IN THE BOOTY ***** AND CHRIS BENOIT YASELF!!!

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 15:35:pm

    Wut up Awesome?

    Where are the females?

    Awesome-O-3000

    7/16/09, 15:36:pm

    @ Mocars

    I don’t know, some lame ***** trying to get people *****ed, but being terrible at it. Lol

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 15:37:pm

    let me apologise to everyone in here, it seems my stalker has become more brave.

    the comments at 2:50, all the way up until 3:27 arent me, its a sad world when someone has so little in their life that they have to try and mimic perfection. (a *****in’ moped?)

    Even ya’ll shoulda known that ***** wasnt me!

    Oh well, I guess if youre gonna worship anybody, it may as well be me.

    love 6am

    trs

    7/16/09, 15:39:pm

    *peeping in*

    What’s the subject?

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 15:39:pm

    awesome
    yea i feel you.it wouldnt be a regular day at bossip without the trolls.

    Awesome-O-3000

    7/16/09, 15:40:pm

    @ Man

    Nothing happening here fam. Just making it another day.

    The ladies are MIA today.

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 15:40:pm

    trs
    i seeee you. whats good mommy?

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 15:40:pm

    And i’d like to thank everyone for their congratulations.

    Umm lets see, if she didnt wanna work i’d have no problem with that because im kinda old school that way, i make enough to support us both and i’ll make more. In fact i may ask her to stay home for the first 5 years of my childrens lives as i dont really trust a nanny to raise them during these years. Her degree is in childhood education anyway.

    love 6am

    Awesome-O-3000

    7/16/09, 15:41:pm

    I guess I spoke too soon.

    Afternoon Suga Lips

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 15:42:pm

    Whats going on in here? That meeting was depressing we are in a serious recession yall there is no money!

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 15:43:pm

    THE BEAUTIFUL TRS HAS ENTERED THE BUILDING!!! WUSSUP HUNNY?!

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 15:44:pm

    redd foxx

    dont frett sweets,nothing last forever.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 15:45:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    Whats going on in here? That meeting was depressing we are in a serious recession yall there is no money!
    _____________________________________________________
    What can I do for my BABY to help her stop being depressed?

    trs

    7/16/09, 15:45:pm

    Hey Awesome!!!

    What’s up Rome, MO, Redd Foxx!!!!!

    MIJDC!♥

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 15:46:pm

    bossips been falling off lateley.every time i log on,less and less regular females are present.whats going on? are the bulls taking over?

    trs

    7/16/09, 15:47:pm

    Hey Poke Her Face! :)

    @ Redd Foxx

    Whats going on in here? That meeting was depressing we are in a serious recession yall there is no money!
    ————————————————-

    Was there bad news?

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 15:47:pm

    What can I do for my BABY to help her stop being depressed?

    Im not depressed its just sad that there is no money and the less fornutate are about to feel it! As long as they keep depositing my check Im good!

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 15:47:pm

    TRS!!!!! :-) :-) :-)

    where you been all my life?!!!!!!

    Just My Opinion

    7/16/09, 15:48:pm

    @Its6am….

    If your wife has a degree in early childhood education you would be better off having her stay at home. Those degress are a dime a dozen and pay very little. By the time you subtract the cost of daycare your wife’s salary would almost be non-existent. Just my opinion…

    Awesome-O-3000

    7/16/09, 15:48:pm

    @ Mocars

    I feel you. Seems like the trolls are multiplying. Gonna make me get out my Conan sword and go to work.

    trs

    7/16/09, 15:49:pm

    @ MO

    All the foolishness chased a lot of the regulars away. You’ve seen it so you know what I mean….

    You know it’s bad when Freaky Friday falls off! LOL

    trs

    7/16/09, 15:50:pm

    @ Rome

    Hey hubby!!! I saw you representing in the other thread! You so smart!!! :)

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 15:51:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    What can I do for my BABY to help her stop being depressed?

    Im not depressed its just sad that there is no money and the less fornutate are about to feel it! As long as they keep depositing my check Im good!
    _____________________________________________________
    it is sad that they are bout to get hit like that but as long as your’re good…I’m good!!

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 15:51:pm

    Oh i see my stalker/worshipper is a white *****, well guess what white ***** i (the real 6am) will answer your questions…..

    You do have a white entertainment network, its called LOGO and BRAVO, the only problem is you let white *****got ***** *****s overrun your ***** with 24/7 gay influenced programming, and just to let you know also “white entertainmant tv” includes NBC, ABC and CBS; how do you think all those stupid ***** shows like “two guys, a girl and a pizza” got on air? thats some white *****! You white *****s havent done anything right since Frasier and Friends!

    Now as for our Black president, with blacks only making up 13% of the total U.S. population and the percentage that Obama won by 2/3’s, that means progressive white people voted for him too, sorry if you *****ed up, molested, excuse havin’ poor ***** white *****s/niggettes didnt get your way, but think about it pasty, when have you poor pieces of ***** ever gotten your way? Heres some advice white ***** impersonating me, instead of being mad at black people, sue your father, uncle and grandfather for introducing you to ***** sex at 7 years old. Oh and sock your mother in the jaw for knowing about the ***** and doing nothing about it.

    look up the statistics, incest and molestation is rampant in white households.

    love 6am

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 15:52:pm

    @ Redd Foxxx
    I still dont believe you’re in the Midwest!! lmao

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 15:52:pm

    awesome & trs
    ok! im glad im not the only person who noticed this.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 15:53:pm

    Hey trs!

    Well my state is 3.2 billion dollars in debt alone! The stimulas money Obama shot us is nothing and it has so many stipulations on how to spend it its crazy! We are trying to find ways to maintain. But like I said the less fortunate are going to hurt and the Big Wigs get to keep there big salaries. We Gone Make It though.

    Awesome-O-3000

    7/16/09, 15:53:pm

    You know it’s bad when Freaky Friday falls off! LOL
    ___________________

    So sad.

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 15:53:pm

    nooooooo! freaky friday cant fall off,thats the bond that keeps us togetther.lol

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 15:54:pm

    @ This some shhh……

    Baby, my apologies! I was ironing so I was in and out.

    I’m sliding back in here like the “Lectric slide!!

    trs

    7/16/09, 15:54:pm

    WOW @ 6am!!! LOL

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 15:55:pm

    @ Rome

    Why dont you tell trs how much fun you had yesterday! LMMAO!!!!!!!!!!!

    Awesome-O-3000

    7/16/09, 15:55:pm

    DIVA!!

    How are you today ma?

    All the beauties are filing back in. Slowly but sure.

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 15:56:pm

    Did 6am just call somebody pasty?!!!!!!!!!

    Bwaaaaaaaahahahahahaha!!!!!

    You sick son!!!!!

    LMAO!!! I’m not condoning but that ***** was funny!!!!

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 15:57:pm

    Hey trudiva

    How are you feeling today?

    @ Poke Her Face

    I live in the state Lebron plays for okay!

    trs

    7/16/09, 15:57:pm

    @ Awesome

    You know it’s bad when Freaky Friday falls off! LOL
    ___________________

    So sad.
    ———————————————–

    I KNOW!!!! We can NOT let that go down tomorrow!!! It’s on and popping at 12 sharp!!! LOL

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 15:57:pm

    @ just my opinion,

    You wanna know whats funny, my place of employment British Petroleum has an on site child care center, but i wouldnt want my child in there, theres just something more decent about a wife being at home raising you child while you bring home the bacon (if thats possible). these are thinks we both talked about.

    Now what i do know is once im married my expenses will at least almost triple, my condo is two bedrooms, big enough for two but i wouldnt wanna raise a kid on the 14th floor with a balcony. So i know Im gonna have to buy a house in the next 2-3 years and anything decent here is $700k

    love 6am

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 15:57:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ Rome

    Why dont you tell trs how much fun you had yesterday! LMMAO!!!!!!!!!!!
    —————————————————

    Why don’t you shutup!!!????? LOL!

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 15:57:pm

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    @ This some shhh……

    Baby, my apologies! I was ironing so I was in and out.

    I’m sliding back in here like the “Lectric slide!!

    I was on life support and feeling cold. You had me worried.

    Awesome-O-3000

    7/16/09, 15:57:pm

    @ 6am

    HELL YEAH!!!!

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 15:58:pm

    @ Awesome!!

    Hey neighbor!

    Hiya durrin?

    trs

    7/16/09, 15:58:pm

    @ Red Foxx

    Why dont you tell trs how much fun you had yesterday! LMMAO!!!!!!!!!!!
    —————————————————

    Girl what was he doing?

    @ ROME

    YOU ARE IN TROUBLE MISTER!!! Wait till we get home!

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 15:58:pm

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    nooooooo! freaky friday cant fall off,thats the bond that keeps us togetther.lol

    —————————————————

    Stange but probably true!!! LOL!!

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 15:59:pm

    trs

    @ MO

    All the foolishness chased a lot of the regulars away. You’ve seen it so you know what I mean….

    You know it’s bad when Freaky Friday falls off! LOL
    —————-

    all of you women and gay men need to et a *****in life instead of depending on Bossip. No one was ever run away from Bossip. people come and they go that is all. Months from now you *****holes will move on and there will be a whole new set of groupies. quit playin victim.

    @ 6am, Rome,…., MOcars and Awesome

    Death to your white women and half breed children!

    Z Harlem is My Playground

    7/16/09, 15:59:pm

    what up

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 15:59:pm

    Damn 6am Held no punches!

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 15:59:pm

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    nooooooo! freaky friday cant fall off,thats the bond that keeps us togetther.
    ____________________________________________________
    AGREED!!!!!

    trs

    7/16/09, 15:59:pm

    HEY DIVA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 15:59:pm

    **reading the posts that you guys cyber jumped Mookie**

    Where the HELL are all of you fellas when I’m cyber ***** whuppin’ some random poster???

    Dark Knight................................Defender of truth slaver of the wack!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 16:00:pm

    @ 6am
    Why can’t we have “white intertainment TV? Or “white history month?” Because you racist blacks will cry about it and call US racist
    —————————————————-
    First you’d probally need to spell it right entertainment not intertainment! Now down to business 6am you just refuse to do the Spike Lee to save your life when someone gives you a positive shout out you should send the same. Your a New Boy with the brain of Flava Flav crossed with Mr Bentley with a dash of Bow Wow! Your smart figure it out!

    Awesome-O-3000

    7/16/09, 16:00:pm

    @ TRS

    I KNOW!!!! We can NOT let that go down tomorrow!!! It’s on and popping at 12 sharp!!! LOL
    ______________________________________

    “Setting my alarm licking out my tongue like Bobby Brown”

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 16:01:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ Rome

    Why dont you tell trs how much fun you had yesterday! LMMAO!!!!!!!!!!!
    _____________________________________________________
    Now why u gotta throw my boy under the bus like that? Y dont u tell trs how much fun YOU HAD YESTERDAY?! LMFAO

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 16:02:pm

    HEY TRS!!
    (this damn laptop won’t let me make hearts or anything!)

    Z Harlem is My Playground

    7/16/09, 16:02:pm

    Hey Ms. Diva…how you holding up?

    trs

    7/16/09, 16:02:pm

    Hey Z!

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:02:pm

    @ Rome

    Why don’t you shutup!!!????? LOL!

    LOL!! I told you that is my sis!

    @ trs

    He wasnt too bad he just showed his a$$ a little bit. LOL!

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:02:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ Poke Her Face

    I live in the state Lebron plays for okay!
    —————————————-

    Damn! ….please take your ***** out of her and go get a *****in room.

    NOPHACE THE GREAT

    7/16/09, 16:03:pm

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    **reading the posts that you guys cyber jumped Mookie**

    Where the HELL are all of you fellas when I’m cyber ***** whuppin’ some random poster???
    ____________________________________
    LMFAO yeah, dude got it pretty bad didn’t he?! U beat ‘em down so fast (mayweather like) we don’t have a chance to help u out!!

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 16:04:pm

    To all the progressive black, white, latino (but not illegals) and asian people in here, you’d never see me attack anyone unless Im attacked or impersonated first. My girl is 1/2 black 1/2 japanese, but she’ll never admit the asian side because some members of her family werent very accepting at first, but since shes an only child and spoiled *****in’ rotten, they within the last 7 or 8 years now all of a sudden embrace her diversity and wanna contribute to the wedding, but she says hell no, and if it wasnt for her mother she wouldnt even invite them. You see now in japan its all about diversity and now they wanna parade her around as “look i have a person in my family who isnt homogenized” they even want us to have kids now so they can have an “accessory” to pamper and show off to their friends.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 16:04:pm

    Mookie

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ Poke Her Face

    I live in the state Lebron plays for okay!
    —————————————-

    Damn! ….please take your ***** out of her and go get a *****in room
    __________________
    JEALOUSY IS A WEAK EMOTION ***** BOY…U HAVE TO OVERCOME IT

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 16:04:pm

    trs

    @ Red Foxx

    Why dont you tell trs how much fun you had yesterday! LMMAO!!!!!!!!!!!
    —————————————————

    Girl what was he doing?

    @ ROME

    YOU ARE IN TROUBLE MISTER!!! Wait till we get home!

    —————————————————

    Damn!!!!! Why they always gotta be tellin *****?

    Hey poke!!! she ain’t from no damn ohio she from NY!!!!!

    Now How ya like that!!!! LOL!!!!

    @ TRS
    Baby I ain’t do nothin….but lemme ask you this.

    Why the hell Man get the hearts and all I get is a damn hello???!!!

    hmmmmmmmmmmm?

    trs

    7/16/09, 16:05:pm

    ♥♥Hey MIJDC♥♥

    BE

    7/16/09, 16:06:pm

    ok..

    Hey Awesome and TRS

    I think I saw everybody else today

    Oh Hey MO

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:06:pm

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    Mookie

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ Poke Her Face

    I live in the state Lebron plays for okay!
    —————————————-

    Damn! ….please take your ***** out of her and go get a *****in room
    __________________
    JEALOUSY IS A WEAK EMOTION ***** BOY…U HAVE TO OVERCOME IT
    ——————————

    so what you are sayin is that you really do have your ***** in Red Foxx?

    Z Harlem is My Playground

    7/16/09, 16:06:pm

    Hey TRS…love the lip color!

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 16:06:pm

    @ Mookie and BMW,

    look up, that wasnt me from 2:50 until 3:27

    I thanked everybody who congratulated me.

    Awesome-O-3000

    7/16/09, 16:06:pm

    @ DIVA

    I’m good. Hoping the weather this weekend is like it was the past two days. Throwing a party.

    Just let me know ma, I’ll come help you give someone a cyber Mollywhoppin.

    There weren’t any ladies on about an hour ago. It was all dudes, except for that ***** Mookie.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 16:06:pm

    @ REDD FOXXX

    Hey poke!!! she ain’t from no damn ohio she from NY!!!!!

    Now How ya like that!!!! LOL!!!!
    ____________________________________

    LMFAO!!!!

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 16:06:pm

    Mookie

    trs

    @ MO

    All the foolishness chased a lot of the regulars away. You’ve seen it so you know what I mean….

    You know it’s bad when Freaky Friday falls off! LOL
    —————-

    all of you women and gay men need to et a *****in life instead of depending on Bossip. No one was ever run away from Bossip. people come and they go that is all. Months from now you *****holes will move on and there will be a whole new set of groupies. quit playin victim.

    @ 6am, Rome,…., MOcars and Awesome

    Death to your white women and half breed children!

    —————————————————

    Whateva “Pasty”! bwaaaaaaahahahahahah!!!!!!

    **Dead**_______________________________

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:07:pm

    Now why u gotta throw my boy under the bus like that? Y dont u tell trs how much fun YOU HAD YESTERDAY?! LMFAO

    Sorry Rome I couldnt resist!

    @trs
    I showed my a$$ yesterday too. It ended up being Freaky Wednesday i dont even know how it got started but it went down!

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 16:08:pm

    Damn, this thread lit up like Vegas.

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 16:08:pm

    what other posts are on here?

    Awesome-O-3000

    7/16/09, 16:08:pm

    Hey BE

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 16:09:pm

    Now why u gotta throw my boy under the bus like that? Y dont u tell trs how much fun YOU HAD YESTERDAY?! LMFAO

    Sorry Rome I couldnt resist!
    _____________________________________________________________

    DAYUM!!!!!!!!!! This ***** sounded like a soap opera!

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:09:pm

    @ Red foxx- are you a w*****?

    @ 6am – does not matter, b/c you are the white woman loving ***** *****a that keeps talkin locking *****s up so you can enjoy your life with whites, asians etc ***** you tool

    trs

    7/16/09, 16:09:pm

    @ Rome

    Baby I ain’t do nothin….but lemme ask you this.

    Why the hell Man get the hearts and all I get is a damn hello???!!!
    —————————————————

    My sis told me alllllllll about how you cut up yesterday so you better prepare for your punishment!

    And MIJDC ALWAYS has hearts for me!

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 16:09:pm

    @Mookie
    so what you are sayin is that you really do have your ***** in Red Foxx?
    _________________________
    Thats not what I’m saying but if u craving attention go about it another way ***** BOY!! Go beat off to PEREZ HILTON!!!

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:09:pm

    I do live in Ohio! Born and raised!!

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 16:10:pm

    Im gonna visit other posts, but i hope this explained every question, i’ll dip back in from time to time.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 16:11:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    Now why u gotta throw my boy under the bus like that? Y dont u tell trs how much fun YOU HAD YESTERDAY?! LMFAO

    Sorry Rome I couldnt resist!

    @trs
    I showed my a$$ yesterday too. It ended up being Freaky Wednesday i dont even know how it got started but it went down!
    ____________________________
    Just know what 2moro is my love!! Damn, how did it get started? LMMFAO

    trs

    7/16/09, 16:12:pm

    @ Z

    Hey TRS…love the lip color!
    ———————————

    Thanks girl!!!

    @ Redd Foxx

    I showed my a$$ yesterday too. It ended up being Freaky Wednesday i dont even know how it got started but it went down!
    ————————————————-

    Ya’ll had FF on a Wednesday? I hate I missed that! LOL How bad did you cut up?

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:12:pm

    @ Mookie

    No. What did I do to offend you?

    BE

    7/16/09, 16:12:pm

    Hey Diva

    you know you don’t need help getting at no body!!!!lol

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 16:12:pm

    Hi Z!

    LMAO @ NOPHACE!!

    I DO come down on ‘em kinda hard!!

    Lol!!

    trs

    7/16/09, 16:13:pm

    Hey BE!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 16:13:pm

    @ mookie,

    I dont “love” white women, i appreciate the beauty of all women. And as for lockin’ up *****s? ***** yeah if a ***** breaks into my house, sells drugs to children, decides that the only way to win an argument is to shoot the other *****, or impregnates every fat ugly dumb heffa he can find but cant pay child support; lock his ***** up! what good does he serve “your” community? “we love him, he’s one of ours”? ***** that *****!

    love 6am

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 16:14:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ Mookie

    No. What did I do to offend you?
    _________________________________
    U didnt give him any attention!!

    @ trs
    it got pretty bad yesterday somebody was ready 2 jump thru the screen on me!!! lmfao

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:14:pm

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    @Mookie
    so what you are sayin is that you really do have your ***** in Red Foxx?
    _________________________
    Thats not what I’m saying but if u craving attention go about it another way ***** BOY!! Go beat off to PEREZ HILTON!!!
    —————————–

    ***** if I rolled like that I could just jack off here……a thread full of gay men and one w***** called Red Foxx who has a man but cyber *****s other men on the internet while he is at work.

    Just My Opinion

    7/16/09, 16:14:pm

    @Its6am…

    Ok I can appreciate your response. You know I am imagining your outer appearance as I read your posts and it is probably not accurate. Can you paint a visual image of yourself or grace us with a photo?

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 16:15:pm

    @ BE–

    I know, right! Lol!!!

    It seems to me that when I get into a cyber beef, everyone just BACKS up–goes into “lurk” mode.

    I have to call everyone back with the “there’s nothing to see here, there’s nothing to see!

    Lol!!!!

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:15:pm

    Its6amHoGetOut

    @ mookie,

    I dont “love” white women, i appreciate the beauty of all women. And as for lockin’ up *****s? ***** yeah if a ***** breaks into my house, sells drugs to children, decides that the only way to win an argument is to shoot the other *****, or impregnates every fat ugly dumb heffa he can find but cant pay child support; lock his ***** up! what good does he serve “your” community? “we love him, he’s one of ours”? ***** that *****!

    love 6am
    ————————

    shut up swirl *****hole

    easy

    7/16/09, 16:15:pm

    it all depends on what went down, he said that other people were responsible for the demise of the relationship.
    however, he should at least notify her in person, instead of an email… what a coward….

    he has every right, if he wasn’t ready for the marriage.. he doesn’t have to marry her… she got the money.. now they can move on/// that some *****ed up *****… marriage isn’t for everyone.. some people get married for all the wrong reasons…

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:16:pm

    @ trs

    Real bad we all did! I finally gave in on what we talked about before so I dont think Ill be needing the thing you told me to get.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 16:16:pm

    @TRS
    “And MIJDC ALWAYS has hearts for me!”
    ___________________________________________________________

    … I have a LOT more than internet hearts for you!!

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 16:16:pm

    now Im gonna go visit other rooms.

    Awesome-O-3000 (Broman the Barbarian)

    7/16/09, 16:17:pm

    I enjoyed yesterday. It was a nice pick me up. lol

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:17:pm

    Just My Opinion

    @Its6am…

    Ok I can appreciate your response. You know I am imagining your outer appearance as I read your posts and it is probably not accurate. Can you paint a visual image of yourself or grace us with a photo?
    —————————————-

    yella *****, with caucasian mannerisms….I would bet money on that!!!!

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 16:17:pm

    @ Mookie (a.k.a. Pasty!!!!)

    This how tight we are in this *****……….watch

    *****ody else respond to your dumb a$$ anymore. Oh yeah…..we changin yo screen name to “Pasty”
    *****!!!!!

    @ everybody

    IGNORE THE FU#K OUT OF PASTY!!

    trs

    7/16/09, 16:19:pm

    @ Poke her face

    @ trs
    it got pretty bad yesterday somebody was ready 2 jump thru the screen on me!!! lmfao
    —————————————————-

    Dang you must have been showing OUT!!! LOL

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:19:pm

    @ Mookie

    You dont know me bruh so I would appreciate if you would fall back!!! You can think what you want to think about me!

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 16:19:pm

    hi be

    wow! i left for a minutes now its like mardi gra up in here..

    grabs cup of hennessy and joins in.

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:20:pm

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    @ Mookie (a.k.a. Pasty!!!!)

    This how tight we are in this *****……….watch

    *****ody else respond to your dumb a$$ anymore. Oh yeah…..we changin yo screen name to “Pasty”
    *****!!!!!

    @ everybody

    IGNORE THE FU#K OUT OF PASTY!!
    —————————————–

    gay men are usually tight with each other and women love to make them their best friends. what the ***** U braggin about clown?

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 16:20:pm

    I told you guys LAST year–we need to take cyber applications for BOSSIP with me as the president of the application review committee.

    I would honestly accept under the table contributions, too.

    BE

    7/16/09, 16:21:pm

    @Diva – we be laughing and lurking…lurking and laughing!

    trs

    7/16/09, 16:21:pm

    @ Redd Foxx

    @ trs

    Real bad we all did! I finally gave in on what we talked about before so I dont think Ill be needing the thing you told me to get.
    —————————————————

    Girl did you fall for the SET UP FOR THE WET UP??!!!!

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:22:pm

    @ butt *****ed

    The diff between me and you clowns is that I DO NOT have a need to blog on Bossip or this particular thread ALL *****IN DAY like you. I am only here for a min anyway….so eat your momma’s nut sack

    trs

    7/16/09, 16:22:pm

    @ MIJDC

    *cheezin*

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 16:22:pm

    Man, I just don’t care™

    @TRS
    “And MIJDC ALWAYS has hearts for me!”
    ___________________________________________________________

    … I have a LOT more than internet hearts for you!!

    —————————————————

    See what you started………”Every night I gotta fight to prove my love”!!!! LMAO!!!

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 16:23:pm

    @ just my opinion,

    Heres my opinion and every woman’s that ive ever met since i was 17.

    Im 6′4, 208lbs, *****in’ beautiful, gainfully employed, educated, opinionated, no kids, about the complexion of you as a matter of fact. love black people, hate *****s/niggettes and ignorant ***** deep south rap, dont believe for a minute that Cmurder didnt shoot that kid because Bossip posted video of him shooting up a club like it was nothing. I’ll never permanently leave Honolulu, but i visit the mainland alot. As matter of fact you kinda look like a friend I had in college named Corlis, she actually got me to visit Birmingham Alabama her hometown, two days was long enough though, they ran me outta town.

    enough info?

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 16:23:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ Mookie

    You dont know me bruh so I would appreciate if you would fall back!!! You can think what you want to think about me!
    ___________________________________________
    Pay no attention to that ***** BOY!!!

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 16:23:pm

    ay mookie…***** autta hier (in my rosie perez voice)

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 16:23:pm

    @REDD FOXXXX
    “Girl did you fall for the SET UP FOR THE WET UP??!!!!”-TRS
    _____________________________________________________________

    **waiting on response**

    trs

    7/16/09, 16:24:pm

    I enjoyed yesterday. It was a nice pick me up. lol
    ————————————————-

    I am mad at ya’ll! The one day I don’t show my face up in here you all cut up without me. I thought we was family?? SMH.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:24:pm

    @ trs

    Yes he was!!!

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 16:25:pm

    trs

    @ MIJDC

    *cheezin*

    —————————————————

    OH! you cheezin?!!!

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 16:26:pm

    @ mookie,

    how are you gonna bet with moeny you dont have? You type like a poor *****!

    BE

    7/16/09, 16:26:pm

    Mo – oh you got the henny? let me get my soda – I would prefer s shot of patron though..you got that?

    Awesome-O-3000 (Broman the Barbarian)

    7/16/09, 16:26:pm

    SET UP FOR THE WET UP
    ___________________________

    That is patented, watch how you use that term. Or pay me royalties. Lol

    trs

    7/16/09, 16:27:pm

    @ Redd Foxx

    Girl I warned you about the set up!!!! LOL Anyway, GOOD FOR YOU!!!! ;)

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 16:28:pm

    Oh and just my opinion,

    I meet about 4-8 different sets of sista’s who saved up their money to vacation here every week, If im in a club and they say something to me im always courteous to them, but i do tell them right off the bat that im engaged and shes somewhere in the club with her girlfriends grading other women on what they’re wearing.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:29:pm

    @ trs

    Girl did you fall for the SET UP FOR THE WET UP??!!!!

    Yes. But this is not he same guy from before. He will never get it! This is someome I met a year ago at a cookout and next thing I know we are on the side of the house making out! I refused to give him my number becasue he was just too damn charming. We finally saw each other and he was not taking no for an answer and the rest is history!

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 16:30:pm

    sorry thats “money”

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:30:pm

    Its6amHoGetOut

    @ mookie,

    how are you gonna bet with moeny you dont have? You type like a poor *****!
    ——————————————-

    yeah right…I am pretty well off but YOU are the only person on here who tells everyone what you own and where you live and what kind of money you got every chance you get. I have learned that people who constantly brag are the ones who are really poor. You brag a whole lot ***** so I would imagine that you live in a *****in shack down in Loose Neck, Texas

    BE

    7/16/09, 16:30:pm

    LOL@set-up for the wetup

    it don’t sound like a bad thing to me

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 16:31:pm

    Gotta go I’m dog sitting till Sunday for a friend and I gotta let the dog out before the***** all over the place!!! EEWwwwwwwwww!

    LOL! Catch yall 2morrow………12:00

    Dueces II

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:32:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ trs

    Girl did you fall for the SET UP FOR THE WET UP??!!!!

    Yes. But this is not he same guy from before. He will never get it! This is someome I met a year ago at a cookout and next thing I know we are on the side of the house making out! I refused to give him my number becasue he was just too damn charming. We finally saw each other and he was not taking no for an answer and the rest is history!
    ——————————————-

    (in my best British voice)
    My word, do I smell a w*****?

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:32:pm

    @ BE

    Im with you babe. One shot of Patron please chilled!

    lickme_b

    7/16/09, 16:32:pm

    yall people dont know sh*t.
    of course these dumb***** wont understand why the football player did it.
    cause theve never experienced the feelings
    those two had with eachother.
    these readers probably only f*ck around with that ***** love… which most likely isnt even love.

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 16:33:pm

    I love black women. I ain’t neva lied. Nver wife up hoes, just cl*****y ladies. If it is 2 years or more, he ain’t love u. that ring betta be on that finger in less than 2 years. i aint neva lied.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 16:34:pm

    @REDD FOXXX
    “Yes. But this is not he same guy from before. He will never get it! This is someome I met a year ago at a cookout and next thing I know we are on the side of the house making out! I refused to give him my number becasue he was just too damn charming. We finally saw each other and he was not taking no for an answer and the rest is history!”
    ______________________________________________________________

    LOL. You inflicting some ***** wit blue ***** and the next ***** gettin it? LOL. You are a trip.

    trs

    7/16/09, 16:34:pm

    @ Rome

    OH! you cheezin?!!!
    ——————————————-

    YEP!!! Don’t you be talking noise after you showed out yesterday! You are sleeping on the couch!!!

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:35:pm

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    Gotta go I’m dog sitting till Sunday for a friend and I gotta let the dog out before the***** all over the place!!! EEWwwwwwwwww!

    LOL! Catch yall 2morrow………12:00

    Dueces II
    —————————————

    Thats ok, your friend called and said that you do not have to let your mother out. bye

    Awesome-O-3000 (Broman the Barbarian)

    7/16/09, 16:35:pm

    lickme_b

    yall people dont know sh*t.
    of course these dumb***** wont understand why the football player did it.
    cause theve never experienced the feelings
    those two had with eachother.
    these readers probably only f*ck around with that ***** love… which most likely isnt even love.
    ___________________________

    He played basketball… Dumb*****

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 16:35:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ trs

    Girl did you fall for the SET UP FOR THE WET UP??!!!!

    Yes. But this is not he same guy from before. He will never get it! This is someome I met a year ago at a cookout and next thing I know we are on the side of the house making out! I refused to give him my number becasue he was just too damn charming. We finally saw each other and he was not taking no for an answer and the rest is history!
    ______________________________________
    your’re a BAD GIRL I SEE!!! LMFAO!!
    WAVING “THE TONGUE” @ U

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:35:pm

    Mookie

    You are acting like a jealous B! We are just having fun out here HATER!! I cant stand men who are jealous of females! MAN-UP!

    trs

    7/16/09, 16:36:pm

    @ Redd Foxx

    Girl don’t feel bad. It’s like that sometimes. Either you have chemistry or you don’t…

    BE

    7/16/09, 16:36:pm

    @Rome – Good night!

    @REDD – chilled, yes! no lemon or salt

    Awesome-O-3000 (Broman the Barbarian)

    7/16/09, 16:37:pm

    Yes. But this is not he same guy from before. He will never get it! This is someome I met a year ago at a cookout and next thing I know we are on the side of the house making out! I refused to give him my number becasue he was just too damn charming. We finally saw each other and he was not taking no for an answer and the rest is history!”
    ______________________________

    That’s messed up. It’s true that ladies know if they want to give the man the cookies within 5 minutes of meeting him. Let the dudes that aren’t going to get it go, getting his hopes up and stuff.

    OH MY GOODNESS

    7/16/09, 16:37:pm

    FAKE *****ED Z IN THE ***** *****IN HOUSE….THAT STANK ***** *****….PHONEY HO….THATS WHY ALOT OF THE REGULAR POSTERS LEFT, BECAUSE OF HER IMPOSTERING AND LURKING *****……NOW TAKE THAT YOU UGLY HORSE FACED *****

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 16:37:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    Mookie

    You are acting like a jealous B! We are just having fun out here HATER!! I cant stand men who are jealous of females! MAN-UP!
    ____________
    Girl didnt we say ignore that *****?!

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:38:pm

    @ Man

    LOL. You inflicting some ***** wit blue ***** and the next ***** gettin it? LOL. You are a trip.

    No this is the same guy I left that night without giving it up. I finally gave in to him.

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:38:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    Mookie

    You are acting like a jealous B! We are just having fun out here HATER!! I cant stand men who are jealous of females! MAN-UP!
    ———————

    stupid w*****…did you ever stop to think that I just might be having fun too!!!

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 16:38:pm

    @AWESOME
    “That’s messed up. It’s true that ladies know if they want to give the man the cookies within 5 minutes of meeting him. Let the dudes that aren’t going to get it go, getting his hopes up and stuff.”
    _________________________________________________________

    ROFLMAO. That’s what I’m screaming. BUT that ***** need to go on and make it clear he after some ***** and if she ain’t down keep it pushin.

    Prolly gettin his own hopes all high and *****. LOL.

    trs

    7/16/09, 16:40:pm

    @ Awesome

    It’s true that ladies know if they want to give the man the cookies within 5 minutes of meeting him
    ———————————————

    YEP!!!!!!!

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 16:40:pm

    @REDD FOXXX
    “No this is the same guy I left that night without giving it up. I finally gave in to him.”
    ______________________________________________________________

    I bet that ***** was tryin to tear your ***** up!! All anxious and ***** cause he had to wait!

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:40:pm

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    Mookie

    You are acting like a jealous B! We are just having fun out here HATER!! I cant stand men who are jealous of females! MAN-UP!
    ____________
    Girl didnt we say ignore that *****?!
    ———————–
    @ Red W*****

    See now the ***** think he can demand ***** from you b/c he cyber *****ed you in front of every one. Next he will say, “shut up and speak when you are spoken to”.

    BE

    7/16/09, 16:41:pm

    @Awesome – i thought that they were in the wrong thread or something…..lol football player…

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:42:pm

    @ red

    I dare you to speak and risk the wrath of “Poking*****gotssince1990″

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:43:pm

    That’s messed up. It’s true that ladies know if they want to give the man the cookies within 5 minutes of meeting him. Let the dudes that aren’t going to get it go, getting his hopes up and stuff.

    No its not like that you guys dont know the whole story. I dont string men along thats why i have been single because the men who were trying to get at me I wasnt feeling.

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 16:43:pm

    be

    sorry love, but we dont mix henny and soda around here.either str8 or with ice.but for you,anything goes.

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 16:43:pm

    Mookie

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    Gotta go I’m dog sitting till Sunday for a friend and I gotta let the dog out before the***** all over the place!!! EEWwwwwwwwww!

    LOL! Catch yall 2morrow………12:00

    Dueces II
    —————————————

    Thats ok, your friend called and said that you do not have to let your mother out. bye

    —————————————————

    OMG You sound like you all of 7 years old…………I can tell by your convo you ain’t got a woman. …………….momma jokes?? (in my best Jay-Z impression) “are you *****in kiddin me or what man”?

    Like I said in my original statement to you….

    “Eat a *****”……………..and try and find a girl…..how the fu#k you get in an argument with everybody…….damn you not likeable. sad..sad..sad

    Dueces II

    Maybe if i feel like it I’ll read your dumb ***** reponse 2morrow

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 16:43:pm

    Thats my stalker at 4:33 ya’ll, but let him keep wishing he was me.

    To my stalker fake 6am, if youre gonna impersonate/worship me you gotta type more interesting *****.

    Awesome-O-3000 (Broman the Barbarian)

    7/16/09, 16:44:pm

    @ Man

    Yeah, dude trying to date out of his league. Prolly was all anxious like the dude from Waiting to Exhale. Grrrrr

    @ BE
    lol. I couldn’t let that slide. I could see if it wasn’t clearly stated what sport he played. Hell, it’s the first word of the title.

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 16:44:pm

    Yall still here?

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 16:45:pm

    @ Mo – Let me put 50 on the tab and sip witcha, potna. Double shot straight. Is that Black we sipping on?

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 16:45:pm

    BOSSIP Superlatives–
    (here goes…..)

    *MIJDC–One of the most cynical sarcastic, funniest people here.
    *6am–Beside me, one of the resident BOSSIPers. Been on as long as I.
    *Snoop- follows close behind man. I read shyt after he’s off and be LMAO!
    trs and JB–Tied for two of the sweetest people in here.
    *Sydney–She makes my heart smile!
    *Whoa!- The sistah I’d call when I havta cut a bytch! She’d drive my Benz while I ride shotgun…in and out…in and out! Lol!!
    *Rome–somehow reminds me of Tiger Woods. I’d smash, though! Lol!!
    *bg–I get the feeling we would argue EVERYDAY yet make up EVERYNIGHT! LMAO!!!!
    *Redd Foxxx–One I’d call on my wedding day for makeup tips.
    *POKE HER FACE-The name speaks for itself!!!!
    *Awesomw-Intelligent and FUNNY as hell! (Loan me $5.00)
    *This some shhhh…My undacova!(keep that ‘tween us) Lol!!
    *jb-(again)My patnah in crime. Got me stealin’ magazines and shyt!Lol!!!!!
    *MocarsMoclothes- I’d call when I get my income-tax-refund-check patnah!

    If there is anyone I forgot, shout ya name out and I’ll add you to the mix.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:46:pm

    @ Poke Her Face

    I am not a bad girl!! You are the one!

    @ BE

    Same here no lemon no salt just chilled LOL!

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 16:46:pm

    @REDD FOXXX
    “No its not like that you guys dont know the whole story. I dont string men along thats why i have been single because the men who were trying to get at me I wasnt feeling”
    ___________________________________________________________

    So did this dude get the number or something so he can get at you?

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:47:pm

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    Mookie

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    Gotta go I’m dog sitting till Sunday for a friend and I gotta let the dog out before the***** all over the place!!! EEWwwwwwwwww!

    LOL! Catch yall 2morrow………12:00

    Dueces II
    —————————————

    Thats ok, your friend called and said that you do not have to let your mother out. bye

    —————————————————

    OMG You sound like you all of 7 years old…………I can tell by your convo you ain’t got a woman. …………….momma jokes?? (in my best Jay-Z impression) “are you *****in kiddin me or what man”?

    Like I said in my original statement to you….

    “Eat a *****”……………..and try and find a girl…..how the fu#k you get in an argument with everybody…….damn you not likeable. sad..sad..sad

    Dueces II

    Maybe if i feel like it I’ll read your dumb ***** reponse 2morrow
    —————————————

    This is like having a battle with a bunch of mental midgets. You will NOT wait until tomorrow to read my response; you will read it RIGHT NOW. You are too concerned about how you are seen by the other groupies so you are forced to see what I will type next, so you can respond if necessary. mental midgets indeed

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 16:48:pm

    * Marquis de Sade–

    I’m not *****in’ with him.

    Mu*****ka’d be comin’ out of my dreams like Freddy Kruger–cuttin’ me up from the inside!!

    Hell nah!

    Me don’t *****s with him!!

    Just My Opinion

    7/16/09, 16:48:pm

    @Its6am…

    Alright I guess you supplied a fulfilling answer. So this young lady of yours must really treat you well. Have you ever cheated on her? Sorry if I am touching on personal issues but it is very rare you find a committed black male who is looking to settle down. Just my opinion…

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 16:49:pm

    @ 1TruDiva – Quite as it’s kept.

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 16:49:pm

    @MOOKIE
    AND
    @ROME

    Please don’t “cut and paste” your ENTIRE conversation. You can remember what each other said a few posts back. It is redundant.

    Thank you.

    trs

    7/16/09, 16:49:pm

    @ DIVA

    You are so cute Diva!!!! Great list…and it was accurate too! :)

    nvfaldfgbvu

    7/16/09, 16:49:pm

    THAT DUDE MOOKIE IS DOING WHAT ALOT OF YA’LL NEED TO BE DOING…*****ING AROUND AND PLAYING…PEOPLE TAKE THIS BLOG ***** TOO SERIOUS…

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 16:50:pm

    I am legend– Me likes. Seems to be an honest person that has thought provoking post on intelligent threads.

    The rest of the threads? Shyts and giggles–just like me!

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 16:50:pm

    @JUST MY OPINION
    “but it is very rare you find a committed black male who is looking to settle down.”
    ____________________________________________________________

    Where the hell you get THAT from? GTFOH!

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:51:pm

    @ TruDiva

    You are too funny!! LMAO @ Whoa and BGs!!!!

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 16:52:pm

    tru diva

    really!ou’ll call me around tax time to break bread together? ok lemme give you my number.lol

    Awesome-O-3000 (Broman the Barbarian)

    7/16/09, 16:52:pm

    @ Diva

    I got you ma. Let me go find my wallet… lol

    vixxxen

    7/16/09, 16:52:pm

    hes ugly ne ways LOL

    rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    7/16/09, 16:53:pm

    nvfaldfgbvu

    THAT DUDE MOOKIE IS DOING WHAT ALOT OF YA’LL NEED TO BE DOING…*****ING AROUND AND PLAYING…PEOPLE TAKE THIS BLOG ***** TOO SERIOUS…

    —————————————————

    nvfaldfgbvu = mookie aka Pasty!

    Awesome-O-3000 (Broman the Barbarian)

    7/16/09, 16:53:pm

    @ nvfaldfgbvu

    What does that s/n mean? Or did you forget to place your fingers on the home keys before you started typing?

    Z Harlem is My Playground

    7/16/09, 16:54:pm

    ***** if you want to call someone fake come out and posts as yourself. I have always been blunt on here but why not be because I am not fake. I am on here who I am in real life!!

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 16:56:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ Poke Her Face

    I am not a bad girl!! You are the one!
    ___________________________________
    NAW, AFTER YESTERDAY…UR A BAD GIRL!!
    BE READY 4 2MORO!! ERYBODY HAVE A GOOD NIGHT, BE BLESSED!!

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:56:pm

    Man, I just don’t care™

    @MOOKIE
    AND
    @ROME

    Please don’t “cut and paste” your ENTIRE conversation. You can remember what each other said a few posts back. It is redundant.

    Thank you.
    ———————————-

    Ok my parting shot will be dedicated to the Supreme *****got Queen of Bossip, “Man, I just love *****”

    you are the only ***** I have ever encountered who begs for ***** every day on Bossip, but never gets anywhere with anyone. sitting in the mirror and jacking off all day every day must be a *****!

    Oh well, it is time to move on. Nothing interesting here

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 16:56:pm

    @ Man

    So did this dude get the number or something so he can get at you?

    Yes I am seeing the guy I met a year ago who I made out with at a cookout. According to someone else here that makes me a w*****.

    POKE HER FACE(FL)

    7/16/09, 16:57:pm

    @ nvfaldfgbvu

    What does that s/n mean? Or did you forget to place your fingers on the home keys before you started typing?
    ___________________
    BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 16:57:pm

    @MOOKIE
    “Ok my parting shot will be dedicated to the Supreme *****got Queen of Bossip, “Man, I just love *****”

    you are the only ***** I have ever encountered who begs for ***** every day on Bossip, but never gets anywhere with anyone. sitting in the mirror and jacking off all day every day must be a *****!

    Oh well, it is time to move on. Nothing interesting here”
    __________________________________________________________

    Ok. Just don’t cut and paste the WHOLE conversation.

    Thank you.

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 16:57:pm

    @ Awesome–

    LMAO!

    Seer what I mean?

    JB (Lakers - Odum - Fisher = Sweep))

    7/16/09, 16:58:pm

    I feel so honored. Diva You know there is no need to pay for magazines when the doctor’s office has them. Or go to Barnes and *****le and read for free

    BE

    7/16/09, 16:58:pm

    MO – I can’t drink H straight…makes me grow chest hairs

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 16:59:pm

    —————————————

    Thats ok, your friend called and said that you do not have to let your mother out. bye

    —————————————————

    OMG You sound like you all of 7 years old…………I can tell by your convo you ain’t got a woman. …………….momma jokes?? (in my best Jay-Z impression) “are you *****in kiddin me or what man”?

    Like I said in my original statement to you….

    “Eat a *****”……………..and try and find a girl…..how the fu#k you get in an argument with everybody…….damn you not likeable. sad..sad..sad

    Dueces II

    Maybe if i feel like it I’ll read your dumb ***** reponse 2morrow
    —————————————

    This is like having a battle with a bunch of mental midgets. You will NOT wait until tomorrow to read my response; you will read it RIGHT NOW. You are too concerned about how you are seen by the other groupies so you are forced to see what I will type next, so you can respond if necessary. mental midgets indeed

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:48 pm 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    * Marquis de Sade–

    I’m not *****in’ with him.

    Mu*****ka’d be comin’ out of my dreams like Freddy Kruger–cuttin’ me up from the inside!!

    Hell nah!

    Me don’t *****s with him!!

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:48 pm Just My Opinion

    @Its6am…

    Alright I guess you supplied a fulfilling answer. So this young lady of yours must really treat you well. Have you ever cheated on her? Sorry if I am touching on personal issues but it is very rare you find a committed black male who is looking to settle down. Just my opinion…

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:49 pm This some shhhh…

    @ 1TruDiva – Quite as it’s kept.

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:49 pm Man, I just don’t care™

    @MOOKIE
    AND
    @ROME

    Please don’t “cut and paste” your ENTIRE conversation. You can remember what each other said a few posts back. It is redundant.

    Thank you.

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:49 pm trs

    @ DIVA

    You are so cute Diva!!!! Great list…and it was accurate too!

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:49 pm nvfaldfgbvu

    THAT DUDE MOOKIE IS DOING WHAT ALOT OF YA’LL NEED TO BE DOING…*****ING AROUND AND PLAYING…PEOPLE TAKE THIS BLOG ***** TOO SERIOUS…

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:50 pm 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    I am legend– Me likes. Seems to be an honest person that has thought provoking post on intelligent threads.

    The rest of the threads? Shyts and giggles–just like me!

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:50 pm Man, I just don’t care™

    @JUST MY OPINION
    “but it is very rare you find a committed black male who is looking to settle down.”
    ____________________________________________________________

    Where the hell you get THAT from? GTFOH!

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:51 pm Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ TruDiva

    You are too funny!! LMAO @ Whoa and BGs!!!!

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:52 pm ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    tru diva

    really!ou’ll call me around tax time to break bread together? ok lemme give you my number.lol

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:52 pm Awesome-O-3000 (Broman the Barbarian)

    @ Diva

    I got you ma. Let me go find my wallet… lol

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:52 pm vixxxen

    hes ugly ne ways LOL

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:53 pm rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    nvfaldfgbvu

    THAT DUDE MOOKIE IS DOING WHAT ALOT OF YA’LL NEED TO BE DOING…*****ING AROUND AND PLAYING…PEOPLE TAKE THIS BLOG ***** TOO SERIOUS…

    —————————————————

    nvfaldfgbvu = mookie aka Pasty!

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

    Awesome-O-3000 (Broman the Barbarian)

    7/16/09, 16:59:pm

    Yes I am seeing the guy I met a year ago who I made out with at a cookout. According to someone else here that makes me a w*****.
    ___________________________

    Don’t pay them no attention. Broman has your back.

    BE

    7/16/09, 17:00:pm

    Diva – you forgot me :sad:

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 17:00:pm

    —————————————

    Thats ok, your friend called and said that you do not have to let your mother out. bye

    —————————————————

    OMG You sound like you all of 7 years old…………I can tell by your convo you ain’t got a woman. …………….momma jokes?? (in my best Jay-Z impression) “are you *****in kiddin me or what man”?

    Like I said in my original statement to you….

    “Eat a *****”……………..and try and find a girl…..how the fu#k you get in an argument with everybody…….damn you not likeable. sad..sad..sad

    Dueces II

    Maybe if i feel like it I’ll read your dumb ***** reponse 2morrow
    —————————————

    This is like having a battle with a bunch of mental midgets. You will NOT wait until tomorrow to read my response; you will read it RIGHT NOW. You are too concerned about how you are seen by the other groupies so you are forced to see what I will type next, so you can respond if necessary. mental midgets indeed

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:48 pm 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    * Marquis de Sade–

    I’m not *****in’ with him.

    Mu*****ka’d be comin’ out of my dreams like Freddy Kruger–cuttin’ me up from the inside!!

    Hell nah!

    Me don’t *****s with him!!

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:48 pm Just My Opinion

    @Its6am…

    Alright I guess you supplied a fulfilling answer. So this young lady of yours must really treat you well. Have you ever cheated on her? Sorry if I am touching on personal issues but it is very rare you find a committed black male who is looking to settle down. Just my opinion…

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:49 pm This some shhhh…

    @ 1TruDiva – Quite as it’s kept.

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:49 pm Man, I just don’t care™

    @MOOKIE
    AND
    @ROME

    Please don’t “cut and paste” your ENTIRE conversation. You can remember what each other said a few posts back. It is redundant.

    Thank you.

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:49 pm trs

    @ DIVA

    You are so cute Diva!!!! Great list…and it was accurate too!

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:49 pm nvfaldfgbvu

    THAT DUDE MOOKIE IS DOING WHAT ALOT OF YA’LL NEED TO BE DOING…*****ING AROUND AND PLAYING…PEOPLE TAKE THIS BLOG ***** TOO SERIOUS…

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:50 pm 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    I am legend– Me likes. Seems to be an honest person that has thought provoking post on intelligent threads.

    The rest of the threads? Shyts and giggles–just like me!

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:50 pm Man, I just don’t care™

    @JUST MY OPINION
    “but it is very rare you find a committed black male who is looking to settle down.”
    ____________________________________________________________

    Where the hell you get THAT from? GTFOH!

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:51 pm Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    @ TruDiva

    You are too funny!! LMAO @ Whoa and BGs!!!!

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:52 pm ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    tru diva

    really!ou’ll call me around tax time to break bread together? ok lemme give you my number.lol

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:52 pm Awesome-O-3000 (Broman the Barbarian)

    @ Diva

    I got you ma. Let me go find my wallet… lol

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:52 pm vixxxen

    hes ugly ne ways LOL

    Jul 16, 2009 – 4:53 pm rome a.k.a. (Big girls get all the love today!!!)

    nvfaldfgbvu

    THAT DUDE MOOKIE IS DOING WHAT ALOT OF YA’LL NEED TO BE DOING…*****ING AROUND AND PLAYING…PEOPLE TAKE THIS BLOG ***** TOO SERIOUS…

    —————————————————

    nvfaldfgbvu = mookie aka Pasty!

    Jeff Stansberry

    7/16/09, 17:00:pm

    Richard is kinda cute. I wish I could date him but I have not come out of the closet yet.

    Awesome-O-3000 (Broman the Barbarian)

    7/16/09, 17:00:pm

    @ diva

    Lol, just doing what I do best. lol

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 17:01:pm

    @MOOKIE

    ROFLMAO!!….Can’t hate, that ***** was hilarious. Witcho ***** *****.

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 17:01:pm

    @ Man I just love *****

    Are we on the same page now *****?

    BE

    7/16/09, 17:01:pm

    @ nvfaldfgbvu

    What does that s/n mean? Or did you forget to place your fingers on the home keys before you started typing?
    ___________________
    BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!

    ******************************
    also lmao!!

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 17:02:pm

    ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 17:02:pm

    NAW, AFTER YESTERDAY…UR A BAD GIRL!!
    BE READY 4 2MORO!! ERYBODY HAVE A GOOD NIGHT, BE BLESSED!!

    I guess I am SMH @ you for doing that to me! Oh and dude does need to thank you! LOL! Goodnight!

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 17:03:pm

    ladies,quick question

    are capricorns and gemini’s good matches?

    nvfaldfgbvu

    7/16/09, 17:03:pm

    doesn’t mean *****….cuz none of this ***** matters….they require a name so i gave em one

    @rome

    nah im not him fam…just entertained by this ***** and dont want ya’ll to go gray all early off the dude

    Jeff Stansberry

    7/16/09, 17:05:pm

    Anybody know any gay clubs in the Baton Rouge area? I will pay for our drinks.

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 17:05:pm

    @ Awesome

    Thanks babe!

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 17:05:pm

    @DOOKIE
    “Are we on the same page now *****?”
    _____________________________________________________________

    ***** what page you on *****!

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 17:05:pm

    Goodnight to the W***** & ***** club of Amerikkka

    Awesome-O-3000 (Broman the Barbarian)

    7/16/09, 17:09:pm

    @ Redd Foxxx

    No prob babe

    @ Double L

    You peeped in and bounced on us? What’s good?

    Jeff Stansberry

    7/16/09, 17:10:pm

    I will have your picture up in the morning Man so be ready for a Freaky Friday. You did it now! Hope you ready for some fun. Put on your seatbelt b/c we going for a wild ride.

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 17:11:pm

    @ w***** & ***** Club members

    “nvfaldfgbvu” is apparently the most intelligent person here because he understood that I was just trying to irritate you for my entertainment purposes. If you were smart you would not have continued responding and I would have moved on a hour ago. Oh well, I can pull the condom off and throw it away b/c I am through with y’all. goodnight

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 17:12:pm

    I feel sorry for people who have to try and tear someone else down to make themselves feel better or for fun. I would much rather uplift someone no matter who you are. Its a good feeling.

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 17:13:pm

    @ Just my opinion,

    thats a good question and one Ive answered before so here goes:

    Yes Ive cheated on her, but i havent in the past 3 years, heres what happened:

    She was supposed to be on a “girls night out” and I knew this one chick who always liked me but i was trying to be good, yanno come to think about it, this girl didnt even look as good as my girl. She called me up and said she was in the neighborhood and wanted to talk to me about something that was *****ed up in her life, me like a dummy fell for that ***** knowing damn well what she really wanted. she came up to my crib and had on a bikini top and a short ***** skirt and was already a lil *****ed up. we started making out a lil and I knew that ***** wasnt right but I wasnt thinkin’, my ***** was. after about 20 minutes my condo doorbell rings and its my girl, she knows Im home because i have the 4th stall near the gate in parking so you can see my ***** from the street, I forgot i gave her a key and she let herself in, she saw the girl on the couch and went straight to my bedroom. She came out about 30 seconds later and told the girl really nicely “umm excuse me, can you wait downstairs my boyfriend and i have something to talk about” the girl looks at me and before I could even answer my girl says “***** did you hear me get the ***** out” then went to the kitchen towards that knife block. The girl left then my girl came outta the kitchen and before i could even say anything or focus on her, she socked my ***** right in the eye! I saw a flash of blue light! then she ran in the bedroom screamin’ and crying!

    There wasnt ***** i could do except get some peroxide and a bandage for that lil cut under my eye. It took her about 3 hours to calm down and about that long to lie and convince her that nothing happened, but the ***** still cost me about 5 pairs of expensive ***** shoes, which it should have. we both agreed to never talk about that incident because if the ***** woulda been reversed, I woulda thrown her and the ***** off the balcony.

    love 6am

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 17:15:pm

    ay mookie……..suk ya mada

    Its6amHoGetOut

    7/16/09, 17:16:pm

    ok all i gotta concentrate on work. you wont see me on here anymore today, so anybody else typin’ as 6am will be my stalker/worshipper.

    love, ME **********as!

    Man, I just don't care™

    7/16/09, 17:16:pm

    where did everybody go?

    BE

    7/16/09, 17:17:pm

    6am – congrats on your wedding and stop writing novels (although I did read this and I think I knew the story already)

    Good night all

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    7/16/09, 17:20:pm

    GoodNight all! Once again its been real!!!

    trs

    7/16/09, 17:20:pm

    @ 6 am

    No offense, but if you were my man I would have done much more than pop you in your eye. You got off easy!!!!

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 17:22:pm

    6am
    you lucky she didnt come at you with the kife.or else it would have been a job for DOG THE BOUNTY HUNTER.

    Jeff Stansberry

    7/16/09, 17:23:pm

    6am you are obviously internally gay. Date a man since your heart desires and your family from the south will slowly accept it for what it is!

    ..*MOcarsMOclothesMOjewelsMOhoes*..

    7/16/09, 17:23:pm

    good nite hott redd foxx

    Mookie

    7/16/09, 17:24:pm

    Redd Foxxx(Pretty Wings)

    I feel sorry for people who have to try and tear someone else down to make themselves feel better or for fun. I would much rather uplift someone no matter who you are. Its a good feeling.
    ——–

    suck nutts

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 17:32:pm

    @trs

    You good for Miami or do you need suggestions on places to eat and places to party?

    This some shhhh...

    7/16/09, 17:33:pm

    Gotta dip.

    1Tru – see ya.

    Hot ***** Mess

    7/16/09, 17:40:pm

    Bossip has to be the worst gossip site ever. It should be called straight up Gossip for Gay gossip because I have never read comments from so many flamers!!!!!!!!!!

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 18:08:pm

    if she didnt wanna work i’d have no problem with that because im kinda old school that way,… In fact i may ask her to stay home for the first 5 years of my childrens lives as i dont really trust a nanny to raise them during these years.
    ____________________________________________

    @6AM

    I feel the same exact way and am trying to put myself in a position to do the same…

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    7/16/09, 18:19:pm

    @ BE—

    I’m sorry, I forgot you!

    I’ll catch ya tomorrow!

    Whattup, slide!

    This some shhhh..
    See yam hun! Take care!

    jasmine

    7/16/09, 18:20:pm

    better one day of disappointment, than a lifetime of unhappiness.

    damon

    7/16/09, 18:38:pm

    @jasmine above.

    I totally agree. at least now she knows wha she would have been dealing wtih!!!

    take that cash and have fun. you wouldnt have made that much money that fast any other day. definitely not dancing on the sidelines.

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    7/16/09, 18:40:pm

    @TruDiva

    Hey Sweety :-)

    I got you in my prayers ok…

    Keep your head up, you’ll be just fine :-)

    philly

    7/16/09, 18:43:pm

    smart dude..now he can marry a sista

    Absulam

    7/16/09, 18:47:pm

    I dont know why atheletes get married. For most of the male population, we spend a lot of time chasing ***** around. Atheletes have ***** thrown at them. If it’s thrown then why would you need to setle for one. Why do you think so many ladies stay single, because they have about 200 options per day.

    Monica

    7/16/09, 18:50:pm

    I feel for the girl. I would be devastated if this happened to me. But a six figure settlement would make me feel a little beter.

    C

    7/16/09, 19:09:pm

    What a punk Beatch!

    Moreaces

    7/16/09, 19:14:pm

    A email,, That was a true punk azz move,, I feel for her, but she is better off with out this heartless loser

    BAHAMAS/CHICAGO/CAYMAN GIRL

    7/16/09, 19:24:pm

    Call him what you like, but its better they figure out its a mistake now than after they were married and ***** got real ugly, like say Usher & Tameka!

    Moreaces

    7/16/09, 19:25:pm

    mojojojo

    WOW i say hot damn!!
    why did he do it through email if he loved and cared for her so much why didnt he call her or go see her? then he tells the world about the settlement and the end of the message he states “I am Not gay” Brother who asked u about ya sexual perfernce? why are u so quick to defend it? and u going to Paris with some baasketball “buddies” after u publicly disgrace ya fiancee…..things that make u go Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

    =======
    The money was properly to keep her hush, about what ever dude he was with,,, sad azz mess

    HARVARD BOY

    7/16/09, 19:37:pm

    WHY U *****ES ALWAYS CALLIN BROTHAS GAY CUZ HE WANT SOME NEW *****. SHEEET IF YA LOOSE WITH NO JUICE, I THROW YA DA DEUCE. PEACE *****. Stop giving Pookie da crack dealer so much before you try and be a wife.

    Sanjor

    7/16/09, 19:49:pm

    @6am
    Your friend in Birmingham, AL, Corliss, does her last name begin with R?
    **back to lurking**

    john hope franklin

    7/16/09, 20:17:pm

    yall stupid as hell in here lol

    dlastqueen

    7/16/09, 20:17:pm

    He didn’t LOVE her!!! If he LOVED her, he would have broken the news face to face. If he LOVED her, he would have broken up with her WAYYYY before. He tied up this girl for FIVE YEARS then he going to basically EMBAR***** her before her family and friends? C’MON….FIVE YEARS???/

    NoooooooBoo

    7/16/09, 20:26:pm

    Whatever the ***** he did, or however the ***** he broke it off…ain’t got ***** to do with none of ya’ll? Why some of you *****es on here take this ***** so seriously with that, “I’d kill his *****” bull***** is just to *****ing much. That’s why your MANLESS!!! Why in the ***** would he marry a girl if he’s having doubts that serious, he shouldn’t have married her. And as for him being gay, how many of you *****heads out there have lied to your girl to get out of something? Does that make you gay? You lonely bitter *****es and closeted wanna be thugs are so hell bent on blaming your *****ed up lives on the gays it’s just *****ing laughable!!!!!!

    NoooooooBoo

    7/16/09, 20:27:pm

    Again you Bitter *****es…maybe you should turn gay and get a good woman and maybe you’ll shut the ***** up and be happy!

    ......

    7/16/09, 20:54:pm

    :yawn:

    MADE.IN.NY

    7/16/09, 20:54:pm

    Clearly the morons have missed the point.

    It is about RESPECT. Plain. Point blank. Simple.

    Richard Jefferson’s words: ” . . . I care about her so much . . . ”

    When you care about someone you don’t call off a wedding a couple days before and if you must, as a MAN, you muster up the ***** to give an explanation face-to-face.

    She didn’t put a gun to his head and force him to stay with her for 5 years, so obviously there must have been some type of love there.

    It takes a man with a certain level of decency to swallow that ish and face that type of situation head-on.

    hello

    7/16/09, 21:05:pm

    I dont know why folks in the entertainment industry bother gettin married; it rarely works out. too much temptation and the gr***** always seems to be greener on the other side. these chicks are playing themselves thinkin they can tie one down. if you are model type at best you can be an arm piece for a minute or a baby mama. but love; it aint happenin; ask Kim Porter. Men are always lookin for something younger, or more shiny. and there is always some chick who feels like they are entitled to the VIP life via yo man; ask Gabrielle Union. so sad; but true.

    tate

    7/16/09, 21:36:pm

    if he is gay, i am happy that he didnt enter into marriage built on a lie.Cudos to him. all of these down low brothers need to bring their *****es out the closet!!!

    ll

    7/16/09, 21:48:pm

    Usually couples who date that long don’t stay together. When someone is right for you you know it. I doesn’t take 5 years unless your are trying to force it. As far as the money goes. She wasted 5 years of her life for nothing. Who knows if she even has a job or a place to live. I think if he has been supporting this whole time it’s only right no to just put her out on the street. Rich men do this kind’na stuff all the time. Doesn’t mean he’s gay.

    Muahz

    7/16/09, 22:00:pm

    this decision just saved his life…

    Muahz

    7/16/09, 22:01:pm

    wtf.. that is not me advertising for HelensDiet… that got posted w my comment… thats wrong!

    DNice

    7/16/09, 23:41:pm

    My thoughts:

    1. If he really didn’t want to get married, he did the right thing, but not in the right way.

    2. He’s a coward for how he handled the breakup.

    3. Could be gay, but not necessarily. Could be another woman or he may simply want to ***** around.

    sushi

    7/17/09, 00:09:am

    Wait — two days ago people couldn’t believe that MJ was gay but they are believing this guy is? What the *****? He probably figured out marrying this ho was a big *****ing mistake and called it off before he’d have to pay even more out the *****.

    sepia830

    7/17/09, 00:18:am

    Where are they at in that photo that justifies him wearing slacks and a plain white tee? And where is her booty? Inquiring minds want to know….

    Just My Opinion

    7/17/09, 00:29:am

    @Sepia830

    Not every man needs a booty of m***** proportions on his woman! Variety is the spice of life and too many of my sisters are walking around overweight with the mispeception of thinking they are “thick.” To each his own! Just my opinion…

    locdog

    7/17/09, 00:39:am

    It figures , most *****z on here are simple minded dumb-*****es. Steve Mcnairs situation ain’t taught you dumb ***** *****z nothin. *****es are crazy and come a dime a dozen. I am glad he left this flat *****ed hoe at the alter because she looked like a psycho. If you aint ready to get married, don’t get married! Kudos to Richard Jefferson for having the ***** to leave this hoe, high and dry at the alter! Peace~

    The Bear-

    7/17/09, 01:04:am

    This is 2009 people. An email is today what a 4 page hand-written letter was 10 years ago.

    At least he didn’t send her a text like: “Tel UR peeps dnot bothr comin… wedngz off, TTYL” .

    Oshie is Livin La Vida Loca

    7/17/09, 01:11:am

    lol @ The Bear

    Oshie is Livin La Vida Loca

    7/17/09, 01:13:am

    Lil Joker looks happy as usual. I am *****ed out on these vicodins!! lmwao

    The Bear-

    7/17/09, 01:14:am

    Come to think of it I’ll bet that she’s one of those types that never want to listen to you and always gotta out talk a brother. So he probably figured that the only way he could get to say everything he wanted to say without her interupting was to send an email.

    The Bear-

    7/17/09, 01:18:am

    Vicodins??? Oshie ain’t you learn nothing from Michael Jackson? And Elvis?

    Is that ur booty girl? lol

    Oshie is Livin La Vida Loca

    7/17/09, 01:24:am

    Elvis is my idol so he has me livin la vida loca. I have popped two and have another broken in half sitting on my coffee table calling my name!!

    coco

    7/17/09, 01:57:am

    So why is bossip so racist? he was with the girl for 5 years!!!! if she was black yall would be all over him saying some *****,instead,light bright got his ***** a fine ***** white girl ….cuz you know not nan one of you black girls would have gave him the time of day back in the day!!!what he did was *****ed up….*****ED UP!!!!! hes a ***** ***** and she was a stupid duck not tying that ***** down 3 years earlier……and I mean wedding. this amount of time there should have been a ring and a kid already,hell….5 years with an athlete is like 15 in real life

    black gold

    7/17/09, 03:39:am

    good for him that he did not marry!

    Six Figure Settlement is not enough

    7/17/09, 05:02:am

    He should have given her a million. Six figures is not enough. If he was unsure, he did the right thing by cancelling, but he did the right thing the very wrong way.

    Oakes1

    7/17/09, 07:42:am

    The truth is, he was true to himself and her. Marriage is very hard and requires alot of hard work. Please make no mistake. I take my hat off to hime for being a man about it before he said “I Do” and then live with the regret and end up in a nasty divorce. Time heals all wounds. Life will go on. Real Talk!!!!

    tg

    7/17/09, 10:01:am

    He mentioned the divorce rate. He divorced her before he even married her. But I guess it is better to be sorry now than regretful later. I wish her the best. Some people say time heals all wounds – well, obviously, in her case – do does money. Who leaves the woman you spend 5 years with and then your bride to be 5 days before the wedding and then give them a 6 figure parting gift? Sounds a LITTLE suspect to me, too.

    PhillyinDubai

    7/17/09, 11:22:am

    The barbie probably didnt want to sing a pre-nup.

    injera70

    7/17/09, 11:24:am

    He finally started thinking with the right head.

    cece

    7/17/09, 15:00:pm

    she better get herself a lawyer and take his ***** to court!!!!

    SimpleTOM

    7/17/09, 19:09:pm

    “She wasted 5 years of her life for nothing. ”

    what job could she have done to make over 1 million in five years?!? she does not look like she has NASA potential. she prolly works at dave & busters too. she is the winner!

    leave-it-be

    7/17/09, 21:52:pm

    ======== HIGHLY SUSPECT????? YA EMAIL HER???? THEN YOU CALL IT OFF FEW DAYS BEFORE THE NUPTUIALS???? HE TALKS GAY, PLAYS GAY, NOW HE REALLY IS A PUNK FOR DUMPING HER IN THAT WAY…. HOPE HE SITS ON THAT SPURS BENCH UNTIL HE RETIRES!!!!!! NO GOOD BUM*&^%$#@!@

    sepia830

    7/17/09, 23:17:pm

    @Just My Opinion

    @Sepia830

    Not every man needs a booty of m***** proportions on his woman!
    __________________________________________________

    Only a woman with a flat ***** and no personality would say some ***** like that.

    You are SUCH a troll.

    t

    7/18/09, 00:47:am

    Spike Lee used to give young up and coming ballers, brothers, a good talking to about the perils of fame. And one of the main points were them damn hoes. Gold digging pretty *****es that will suck you dry only to screw you in the end. I think RJ got a talking to by some peeps in the know and persuaded him not to go ahead with the marriage. IMHO.

    sickofthis*****

    7/18/09, 06:51:am

    He gave her some money, so he wouldn’t look like a complete *****. I’m sure she’ll be signing a few things before he hands over that stack, just incase she decides to write a book or something silly like that. According to Jefferson, he stated that after the email they “both” talked about it for a couple of hours. So, he didn’t just leave her there lookin stupid….she knew it was over and they discussed it. I think it’s *****ty that he handled things so badly, he should’ve talked to her in person…but he probably got Mcnair-itis and didn’t want her to snap. If it’s true they were really having problems and fighting constantly, then it’s best they didn’t get married. Why go through with a marriage, that probably won’t last and this whole fiasco wreaks of this chick not wanting to sign a prenup. She’ll be nicely compensated and can do whatever the hell she wants. Most guys would say the hell with that, it’s over I’m outta here…but at least he’s gonna take care of her and I have to give him an ounce of respect for that.

    Azeron

    7/18/09, 11:24:am

    Jefferson claims that he broke up with her on Monday July 6 after he had sent an email discussing his issues with getting married. He says he sent emails to all his people informing them the wedding was off July 6 and her people July 7. He says the wedding was not two million (two or three hundred grand and that’s still a lot) Hopefully, this woman realizes marrying Jefferson would have been disastrous.

    FACINGREALITY

    7/18/09, 13:54:pm

    He probably got introduced to her REAL SELF once she thought she had him on the hook for marriage with the planning of the wedding. And she also probably thought she shouldn’t have to sign a prenup since they had dated so long and were together during the time that he signed his latest contract.

    I have to agree with the poster that it doesn’t take 5 years to determine if you love someone or not. Those relationships usually don’t survive a marriage.

    It is quite obvious that once you say I do to someone – they immediately begin saying – I don’t anymore.

    Silken Dove

    7/18/09, 17:07:pm

    He wants a sista.

    rachel

    7/20/09, 00:04:am

    She is a sista!

    Update: Bride Kesha Nichols, Dumped By E-mail, Speaks Out: I Got A Check… I’m Good!!! |

    7/22/09, 15:17:pm

    [...] Nichols, the bride that was dumped through e-mail by Richard Jefferson, was on “Good Morning America” interviewed by Diane Sawyer. She says that a lot [...]

    Update: Bride Kesha Nichols, Dumped By E-mail, Speaks Out: I Got A Check… I’m Good!!! « The Piper On The Roof

    7/22/09, 22:20:pm

    [...] Nichols, the bride that was dumped through e-mail by Richard Jefferson, was on “Good Morning America” interviewed by Diane Sawyer. She says that a lot [...]

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