More Child Support Woes
Posted by Bossip Staff
Mario Winans’ Ex claims that he is a deadbeat:
Janel Bennett, who was in an eight-year relationship with Winans before she had her son, Jordan, claims she was evicted from her home in Miami because Winans won’t pay child support. She states she is “homeless and living with friends on the South Side of Chicago,” where she works as a cocktail waitress. A DNA test shows a ‘99.99 percent probability’ that Winans is the biological parent. Mario Winans is obligated to pay Janel Bennett $4,500 per month due on the first of each month as child support. Bennett says, “He hasn’t paid me. I just wanted support, and I was on disability and Medicaid and welfare just to have the baby. His current girlfriend, Joy — the mother of his toddler daughter, Sklyar — is known publicly as his “wife.” Bennett said, “Joy lives in a 16-bedroom mansion and her daughter wears mink coats and Seven jeans, and my son doesn’t have boots to wear in the winter.”
She claims Winans has only seen Jordan once, and “doesn’t send Christmas cards, doesn’t send him birthday cards, nothing.” Bennett said that for a while, Winans was sending her some money, but “he stopped paying last year . . . by the end of August 2007, I lost the house and moved to Chicago . . . I just want him to do right by Jordan . . . It would be so simple for him to call me so we could work something out.”
That sounds all bad. SMH at the toddler daughter wearing mink coats and Seven jeans.
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I never liked his bum whack ***** anyway. look like his breath stink…
If this is true, he is going to reap and reap hard for not doing right but his other child.
Why is she complaining to the media? Take his a$$ to court and get him locked up if you have to. It’s not like she’s some groupie. He had a long term relationship with him. Joy better make sure she handles her business or the same thing will happen to her and her out of wedlock child.
Isn’t he apart of the Winans Family? Shouldn’t he have God in his life? I Guess he doesn’t, because if he did he wouldn’t have become the dead beat father that he is today! Vicki talk to your son! JUST DISGRACEFUL.
Why Chicago?? Thats why its good to be homeless in Florida or California…Weather is easy to predict…
Hot and it might rain
She is complaning to the Media..to let the media know that He is WACK AS HELL! i NEVER LIKED HIS ***** *****..ANYWAY! That would burn me up as well! They must of had a ugly falling out! *****UP..isn’t reporting the extra GOOEY stuff! They was together for 7 years! I would be so bitter at the fact..that the little girl is wearing fur coats, and my baby..has nothing! Usually DUDES be going crazy over little boys!
I think that every child is Equal, and He comes from a big enough family..REMIND YOU..be preaching the word of GOD..they can help her out! AFTER ALL..IT IS ALL ABOUT BEING GLORIFIED! RIGHT??
He shouldn’t have any problems paying child support unless the child isn’t his (DNA).
This is the kind of ***** she should have thought about BEFORE she laid down with that DOG!!!!
Ain’t no need of complaining now.
Sad. His mother Vickie Winans is supposed to be an “Evangelist” wonder why she didn’t tell her son about the situation in advance? LOL
I would Kfed her ***** and take the child away.. have her payin me.. since she homeless and can’t take care of herself..
I do agree he should take care of his responsibility.
Was she working while she was collecting child support?! Broads will learn baby-mamma status gets u nowhere. N staying home waiting for someone to cake you is not the answer.
mkay Mario, LOL @ C*****ie’s crotch!
This is what the ***** this chick gets. Some of these females need to learn that just because you have a baby with a celebritized ***** making a few bucks that doesn’t mean he’s going to be an upstanding father. . .especially a ***** surrounded by a “so called” religious fam. The bright side of this post is that C*****ie’s ***** looks smokin’!
How can you support one child and neglect the other? He is a horrible example to his son of what a man should be and its not just about the money. It sounds like he doesn’t even see his son. I think his son’s mother deserves everything she gets cuz she obviously has to be both mother and father.
She was with him for 8 years she is not a groupie. She isn’t just asking him for money she is asking him to be their son’s life. She wants him to contact his son for holidays and his birthday like any parent should.
I’m not interested in this story in the least.
I’m wondering why C*****ie’s crotch looks so concave…. what’s happening there? She’s got Barbie crotch syndrome.
Now we all know that this ***** should be paying child support but this broad thought she hit the jackpot. It’s not his responsibility to make sure that she’s paying her own bills. She’s homeless because of her own doing. Her ***** needs to get a damn job and THEN take him to court. I’ll be damned if my child doesn’t have anywhere to lay his head b/c I’m sitting around waiting on a check……
these women need to stop depending on a man and get out there and make it for themselves..she need to get a better job so she can afford a lawyer and take him to court..these baby mamas need to stop thinking they cant be replaced
oh please she lost her house b/c he wasnt paying child support. that what happens when ur ***** depends on someone else to take care of you. what happened to her job… a *****tail waitress, take ur ***** back to school and YOU do right by your son..
@ Kumpton’s Kutie
I agree. This chick has been homeless and on welfare etc. Nothing wrong with that for a little while, while you trying to get yours, but damn, it seem like she rather wait around for this dude to pay her. She need to go back to school or something.
Oh, and C*****ie needs to sit her tail down in that baggy ***** costume. I have the exact same one and it fits like a glove.
Anyway you slice it he is sorry as *****! That is not even a lot of child support by current standards.
All in all..i do not support “Dead beat ” dads and he should be paying her child support, but she needs to also get a job! i mean child support should be additional income not the main source, i dont agree with her complaining about being homeless and all that nonsense, she should get a job and still go after that money!
The guy’s an a-hole.
Why is she waiting around for this dude that IS NOT HER HUSBAND to pay her bills???? WTF! Child support is to take care of the child and HELP with household expenses. This chick is wack! She needs to work to keep a roof over her own damn head. SMH at this delusional broad.
And how does she know where the money is coming from for the other chick and her daughter? How does she know the other chick ain’t a hustler with her own stacks?
I know exactly what she’s going through. My son is 10 years old and he was his father’s first child. He is the only 1 out of 3 other kids that doesn’t know him. He’s had so many chances to be a part of his life and he chose not to be. He didn’t actually say he didn’t want to know his son, he simply ignores him. If he wasn’t a lazy bum, I would take his ***** to court and sue for his rights.
I thought child support payments were supposed to support the child, not the mother (& child). What does her not receiving child support have to do with her paying her mortgage? 2 very separate issues. This broad was trying to get over & got got instead. Too bad!
lol @ SBM im with you lol…what kind of sob story is this? Take your ***** to florida, where you can he homeless and at least REMOTElY satisfied with the welfare program and can keep warm all at the same time… Anyway, this can easily be solved with a blood test.. Following that, COURT, and following that, maybe a BRAND NEW CARRRRR!!!!
You shake the booty you do the duty……..
Great another deadbeat. This some shameful ish.
You know how many women are in this position? She act like he is the only man to do this. When ever you have a baby out of wedlock, there is a chance for this to happen. There are some ex-husbands that do that. The most valuable info my mom ever gave me is to have children only if I wanted them NOT CAUSE HE WANTED THEM. In the end if he is there or not, I will be the one taken care of them. That is why my husband and I are a childless couple and have last much longer than our friends with kids.
DAMN!!!!!!!!!!
I was in the book store yesterday and saw a book titled “How to Marry Your Baby’s Daddy.” Of course I have advice. The best way to marry your baby’s father is to WAIT TO GET PREGNANT AFTER YOU ARE MARRIED!!!!
Also, another bit of advice. If everyone begins to make decisions for today and not the future, there lives would have a lot less drama.
Back to the subject…if this is true, THAT NI*** TRIFE…at this point, the term ni*** decribes him perfectly.
WOW….is it ever that serious.
Mario you are wrong for that. Well I didn’t want to know but since Baby Momma #1 told us that is terrible. But $4500 is a lot a month. Why was she doing with all of that. Was she trying to live outside of her means. Because honestly if i was receiving that much, I’d have something from my own checks per week in savings.
I feel bad for her though…he should be taking care of his responsibilities. He could at least try to be involved.
SMDH!!! Terrible, but uh…welcome to the club!
This dude is a bunk ***** *****….I hope this child grows up to be successful and tells him to ***** off
SMH at the fact that she didn’t find a way to support herself outside of waiting to receive child support. Also, why all the hostility towards his family? You can have all the advantages in the world and still be a bad apple (Andy Reid’s drug dealing kids who got off easy, if you ask me). Finally, yes, when you have a child out of wedlock, you risk not having the man support you. But he was the one going raw in this lady, and then decided after the fact that he wasn’t going to take care of his child (they already had a paternity test). Men need to step up, wrap it up EVERY time, and stand in line to get the male birth control pill when it comes out. All this “she trapped me” BS is just a lame, *****fied excuse not to be a grown up.
^^^^ That should be What was she doing not Why was she doing….
but also IT REALLY DISGUSTS ME WHEN A MAN IS PUBLICLY TAKING CARE OF ONE OR SOME OF HIS CHILDREN AND LEAVING THE REST BY THE WAYSIDE…A PIC OF YOU WITH ONE OF YOUR KIDS DOESN’T MAKE YOU FAMILY MAN AND GIVE US THE WARM AND FUZZIES!!!
TAKE CARE OF ALL OF YOUR KIDS OR USE SOME CONDOMS AND SPERMICIDE!!!
just another case of a no good ***** nicca-I would like to see somebody explain this ish away
let me guess she was a hoe or a jump off so she and their baby must suffer the consequences right??
We all know plenty of men like this…once they move on in a new relationship that’s their only concern-”the new family”
to hell with the past and whatever responsibilities they have created-prime example of why this IS a man’s world because they can do sh#t like this and get away with it.
smh-not surprised one bit……
WHAT KID COST 4500 ***** THAT *****.THIS HOE NEEDS A JOB AND STOP WAITING FOR THIS PUNK TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT.PLUS I HEARD WHEN SHE SAID SHE WAS PREGNANT MARIO SAID ***** HOLD IT I DON’T WANT TO KNOW.
she’s so nice…
Good for them..and I know they are hanging around on Tallmeet.com some time…love them
and get a clue…..
how many men leave their wife’s high and dry with the kids while they pursue a new relationship’
marrying a man doesn’t guarantee that he will provide for your children if the marriage doesn’t work out
more likely, but not guaranteed-everybody act like they have such high morals but if that is the case their wouldn’t be so many damn cases of single women having children-
Ladies if you have a baby just be prepared to support the child emotionally and financially by yourselves……..there is no guarantee that a man will be there to support your child married or not-
If you spend eight years with a man and you have a child and he didn’t want to marry you………something is “seriously wrong” with that relationship.
why didnt she have anything saved up? does she not have an education? why couldnt she get a job and support herself? she’s sorry. he’s sorry. they both need to be slapped
My daddy used to always tell me and my sister that if you want someone to take care of you, the only place you need to be looking is the mirror! No where else…just the mirror.
Logic Said…
And how does she know where the money is coming from for the other chick and her daughter? How does she know the other chick ain’t a hustler with her own stacks?
I agree his current girl may have her own money, stranger things have happened. Mario is not a hitmaker. The baby mamma needs 2 jobs and to go to school. No man can make you homeless. Move to some city you can afford and get yourself together. Stop crying and making yourself look like a chickin.
@ Kompton’s Kutie…what’s good Kutie? How was the weekend?
“Broads will learn baby-mamma status gets u nowhere. N staying home waiting for someone to cake you is not the answer.”
You know she’s on the grind tryna find that replacement. That seems to be the industry stylo!
@NotoriousOne
GoodMorning! My weekend was good. How was ur weekend?
I mean, she was racking up for a while. Apparently she was blowing it off on herself. Not Good.
@Kai…
lol i’m glad someone understands my logic…Florida homeless have it good…when it rains you go to the shelter for the night, besides that you can be outside all year around..
4500 a month equals $54,000 a year…even if she made 25,000 a year she’d be fine, but judging from this story, she aint too bright and the money will be wasted on St. Ives Apricot Scrub
***** needs to stop sobbin’ and get a job. Learn from her mistake and practice birth control. Stop breeding with hopes of finding a meal ticket. She’s just as responsible as he is for bringing an unwanted child into this world. Social services should take the kid away and let a childless married couple adopt it, and tell the biological mother to get on with her life.
girl, get a job and take care of your own. stop crying cause some no good negro won’t pay child support. you are not the first and won’t be the last. take his sorry ***** to court, and make him be responsible for yours, but don’t let your child down because his father is no good. this is so trifling on both parts. i understand she is resentful of the fact that he has another child that he is there for but one day he will regret what he did to his son, and by that time it may be too late…
this is wrong on so many levels!!!
smh
ladies thats why u dont ***** with sorry as *****s!!!!
Statement Released from Mario Winans:
“You wanna see my bank statement; I got no problems with that
300 thousand you know I’m smarter than that
I been dodging the alphabet boys all my life
So you gonna need more than a child support lawyer (yep, listen up)
I got some child support for you,
Get off your ***** ***** and get you a job
Tell your other 3 baby daddy’s to sell dope or rob
My son got everything in this world that I never had
So one thing you can’t call me is a deadbeat dad (nope)
When you’re the one that shoulda been exposed
Unfit mother still playin withcha nose
And I don’t wanna tell my child that his moms aint *****
And this aint about him she just a money hungry *****”
Yeah, they don’t regret ***** cuz they don’t care!! The rapper, Juvenile didn’t even show up for his 4 year old daughter’s funeral.
Victims of Gwinnett triple slaying laid to rest
By ANDRIA SIMMONS
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Published on: 03/08/08
There was no 21-gun salute.
There had been enough trouble with guns.
Joy Deleston with her son, Anthony Tyrone Terrell, 17, and daughters, Micaiah, 11, and Jelani, 4, at a late 2007 screening of the movie ‘Riff, ‘ in which she had a role. Terrell was charged with murder for allegedly killing his mother and sisters inside the family home on Feb. 28, 2008.
Gwinnett County Sheriff’s Deputy Joy Deleston and her two daughters Micaiah, 11, and Jelani, 4, were laid to rest quietly Saturday on her childhood home of James Island, S.C., outside Charleston.
Windswept marshland gr*****es and towering live oaks provided a stunning backdrop to the small cemetery, where three gleaming white caskets topped with sprays of white orchids and pink roses were lowered into the ground.
The burial was preceded by a spirited “celebration of life” at First Baptist Church on James Island. Dozens of law enforcement officers from the Gwinnett and Charleston area joined more than 500 guests for the three-hour service.
In open caskets, Deleston, 39, could be seen wearing her deputy’s uniform; the girls wore pearls and matching pale pink gowns of sheer organza.
Marie Barrett, Jelani’s teacher at Kids “R” Kids preschool in Lawrenceville, spoke of the 4-year-old’s chatterbox personality and love of dance.
Jelani’s father, the rap star Juvenile whose real name is Terius Gray, did not attend the service.
Friends described Micaiah as the quiet one who loved *****embling thousand-piece puzzles. Micaiah’s father, Dominique Ross of Jacksonville, Fla, said she was ambitious, “just like her momma.”
Deleston was a 7-year veteran of the Gwinnett Sheriff’s Department.
Her only surviving child, 17-year-old Anthony Tyrone Terrell Jr., is in custody in DeKalb County jail, unable to attend the funeral because he faces murder charges in the family’s shooting deaths. Police still do not know the motive, nor whether Deleston’s service weapon was used in the slayings March 28.
Nathaniel Deleston, Joy Deleston’s brother, broke down several times as he addressed a congregation that filled the sanctuary pews and spilled into an overflow room with metal folding chairs.
He tearfully admitted feeling “anger in his heart” when he learned of the shootings, but he admonished mourners not to judge Terrell.
“I am waiting for answers to our questions, but I trust God to give us our answers,” Deleston said. “I’m not going to turn my back on my nephew.”
I hope she gets it together before the child gets old enough to know to know what broke is
This is *****ed up on so many levels.
For Him: It’s sad that he can take care of one but not the other because he isn’t with the mother. How can he determine that one child gets more than the other? How is he going to have a ***** living large while his other child has nothing? Pitiful
For Her: I understand what she’s saying at all but these chicks who have babies by men they are not married to kill me. Now, you have 9 months to prepare just incase a nicca don’t act right. That possiblity is ALWAYS there so you need to have your ***** together too. Why does he have to support her to the point where if he doesn’t, they all go homeless and hungry? What does that say for her as a mother? In this case, I only feel sorry that he doesn’t pay and he other children who are living large. But being homeless, I think not. Unless she certified cannot work.
@ Kompton’s Kutie…weekend was busy, but it was good.
“I mean, she was racking up for a while. Apparently she was blowing it off on herself. Not Good.”
That’s always the case w/ these peeps. They think the cash flow is gonna go on forever. Same ‘em stacks while they’re coming in for that rainy day.
Oh and by the way, I am a single mother so I understand both sides.
And, how is he able to afford to have a chick in a 16 bedroom mansion? I mean, is he making hits that I don’t know about. Is the Winan’s money longer that we thought? If this is not the case, he needs to be hit over the head for being an idiot!
…”she was evicted from her home in Miami because Winans won’t pay child support”
Why doesn’t she have a job?
She sould have been using some of the $4,500 a month to attend or finish college. Then she could get a real job then take him to court.
True..She needs a job, but what does that have to do with the fact that the baby is his?? He know that they baby is his..The baby shouldn’thave to suffer..because he has something against her!
And alot of you are saying that is what she gets..UMM NO..that is what the baby gets! He knew what kind of person she was..before he raw *****ed her! SO..both parties are wrong, and NOW they have a son! POINT BLANK! They had a history together..So he knew how she was before their son came along! IT IS NO EXCUSE..for him not to take care of his son
these women act like they ain’t gotta work hard just cause their baby daddy has money. many women struggle without they’re kids fathers, why can’t she get off her ***** and get a job. he’s *****ed up but so is she, there’s no reason why she shoudl be homeless when she clearly can go to work. disabled my *****
@ PeepEye, Kompton’s Kutie, Fit-n-Fab: I could not have said it better myself!!
Why don’t women go out and get their OWN! This whole not working once the checks start rollin in s*****, is played out. If you work, you can get your own home, car, etc. and NO ONE can take that from you and “leave you homeless”??? What the ham!!?? While those checks were comming in she should have been going to school or something. At the very least an *****ociates Degree can be knocked out in 2 years or less.
Degree – check
More job opportunities available to you – check
You can build your own stacks – check
The peace of mind knowing you will never be ‘without’ should your personal life take a turn – Priceless!
Ladies,
How can a woman look into the eyes of Mario Winans and not see a sissy punk *****?! Look at this man! Look at the picture!
You a fool yourself to let his sweet ***** knock you up!
He rides shotgun in a 2 seater with Diddy in videos for crying out loud. Y’know he likes to “take that, take that.”
Having children is a sweet man’s best cover.
“TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN, YOU PUNK!”
- Killer!
@Killer, LOL!!!
Oh I want to also be clear that shorty is out of line for not working. My mother taught me to only live in your means. If you get extra good, if not you will still be okay. It is obvious that she has done nothing productive with the money. I hope she at least has a bit of a college fund for that baby. But more than likely she doesn’t, so in a way that does type make her a gold digger.
Why don’t people want their own money, for real? I am scared to deatht to depend on people. It is bad enough i have to depend on a job which in this day and age is not secure. I’d be damnned if i am depending on a dude paying my way!!
SMH!
This is a mess. It’s pathetic that he’s not handling his responsibilities. You can never rely on someone else to take care of you and YOUR child. You have to put yourself in the position where you will be able to support yourself with or WITHOUT the baby’s father. I don’t think that he needs to be off the hook by ANY MEANS (he’s a deadbeat) but she needs to step up and do what needs to be done for her and her child and not depend on him to do what he should be doing. It’s obviously NOT gonna happen.
THE BOY IS HIS! EITHER WAY..HE WILL PAY!
@SBM
Did Mario really say that? LOL
yeah, she thought she hit lotto & instead got $2 scratch off….
Somehow I don’t believe it’s that simple. She is on Welfare?
Mario Winans is’t exactly R kelly. if she was getting 54k a year living down south she should have been OK. The problem is this trick never had a job. If he is so far behind in his suppport and has money ..why don’t she lock his ***** up. I am sure there is more to this story.
She had a baby that she could not take care of by herself. Why did she pop up preggers after 8 years?
Like Marquis said …premeditated victim.
*****es…stop goin around havin babies by these men that are not putting a ring on your finger. I don’t care if you wanna say its not fair that he’s not taking care of his kid. Yeah we know its not fair, but life ain’t fair and if you don’t want that kind of headache and drama in your life, then chose your men wisely and stop having these damn kids. In the end a man can and will walk away if he chooses. Its not right but thats the reality behind the situation.
@Hate Killer
I’m with you how can any woman have kids with a sweet ***** man? Looking at that pic he looks sweet
I understand the deadbeat part but not the being evicted from her apartment part. Even though he is suppose to pay for child support, it is her fault that she got evicted. How about you get a better job and stop depending on others. If you had a job before you got evicted, then maybe you wouldn’t be living with friends. As for as Mario, child support enforement is the answer. I’m sure he doesn’t want to go to jail for child support so if you enforce it, then he would pay up.
@ pimp Daddy
WHAT KID COST 4500 ***** THAT *****.THIS HOE NEEDS A
JOB AND STOP WAITING FOR THIS PUNK TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT.PLUS I HEARD WHEN SHE SAID SHE WAS PREGNANT MARIO SAID ***** HOLD IT I DON’T WANT TO KNOW.
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That’s a pretty good point. Why can’t she get a job instead of worrying about how this dude is taking care of his other baby mama?
She planned to sit her lazy ***** home thinking this dude would continue to throw gifts at her cause she had his seed. Sad man. Sad. This is another example of why black women are regarded–especially in music & hollwood–as hos and lazy idiots who can only talk a good sex game.
Jay-z’s doing the samething. He’s another high profile deadbeat and it’s no prob for many. There’s pics of the kid online and everything.
He will PAY!
Eddie..is doing the same thing!
He knows that Angel Iris Murphy is his! So what the ***** is his excuse???
Yes he is a deadbeat!! However, my mother told me before you bring a child in to this world you need to be able to support yourself and your child without any help. The reality is things don’t always turn out as expected but you can’t be ***** out because you and your child’s father aren’t together and he is no longer supporting you. I just don’t get some of these women sometimes. Yes it takes two, but as a woman you need to go the extra mile to protect yourself. Having a child is a life long responsibility. SMH!
They aren’t enough details about this situation for me to judge him or her.
But she do sound like one of my girlfriends that had a baby by a brother caused he owned his own business…she thought she hit payday until he told her he ain’t wanna have nothing to do with it. He told her to have an abortion and she went and had the baby anyway.
Sistas do be playing themselves sometimes thou…
But for real…let’s just say that you DO get a child support check…you still a single mother…money can’t make up for the lack of love that a daddy can bring. Now you’ve got to explain to your child the basic concepts of rejection. And then you’ve got to work to find a decent role model for your black male child…even more *****ing hard work…
Now is that all worth a child support check?
Now I know there are lot’s a single black mother’s out there…the statistics are glaring…but it doesn’t mean that they are all good parents…cause some women don’t know what the ***** they are doing… It can’t be fun to raise kids without a daddy and can’t no child support check make up for loving, loyal, committed man.
SOME OF YOU HAVING A PROLBEM WITH COMPREHENSION
OR JUST JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS
DID YOU NOT READ THAT SHE DOES HAVE A JOB AS A *****TAIL WAITRESS
AND ALSO THAT THEY WERE INVOLVED IN A PATERNITY SUIT-HE OBVIOUSLY DENIED THE BABY AFTER A 8 YEAR RELATIONSHIP-AND SHE WAS AWARDED 4500 A MONTH NOT THAT SHE RECEIVED ANY OF IT
AND NICCAS NOT MEN WILL CONTINUE TO DO ***** LIKE THIS AS LONG AS SOCIETY MAKES IT EASY FOR THEM NOT TO BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES
HE’S NEVER PAID ANY OF THE CHILD SUPPORT, SHE HAS A JOB, AND THEY WERE IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR 8 YEARS
THE IGNORANCE IS UTTERLY DISAPPOINTING-AND EXACTLY WHY BLACK PEOPLE CAN’T GET IT TOGETHER AS A WHOLE WE RAISE OUR DAUHTERS AND LET OUR BOYS RUN AMUCK
READ THE STORY AGAIN-THIS TIME FOR COMPREHENSION
NICCAS AINT *****-WHY?? BECAUSE WE ALLOW IT……
Yall comments are too good on here!
THIS BROAD IS JUST TRYING TO GET OVER!!! First of all CHILD support is just that….SUPPORTING THE CHILD…It has nothing to do with making sure her rent/mortage is paid.
And he’s sorry as ***** if he’s not providing for his child and not in his/her life.
The only victim in this situation is the child because Dad is not around nor taking care of him and Mom is too busy trying to be a gold digger that she can’t keep a stable household for him and force to go live on someone’s couch because she wants to keep a $4500 mortage vs. getting a damn job and moving into a small 2 bedroom apartment….I HATE STUPID PEOPLE!!!!
WOMAN SHOULD BE PREPARED TO DO IT ALONE AND WHY….
THAT SPEAKS VOLUMES IN ITSELF…..AND MANY MEN SHOULD BE OFFENDED-SHOULD WE *****UME THAT MEN MORESO BLACK MEN ARE NOT RELIABLE, RESPONSIBLE, OR DEPENDABLE
I KNOW PLENTY OF BLACK MEN DESPITE THE CIR*****STANCES HOLD IT DOWN FOR THEIR CHILDREN AND I FIND IT APPALLING THAT SO MANY OF YOU SEEM TO THINK THAT THIS WOMAN IS SOLELY RESPONSIBLE FOR HER CURRENT SITUATION-WHAT ABOUT HIM???
SHE’S OBVIOUSLY NOT PURSUING THE COURT ORDER-HOPEFULLY A LAWYER WILL SEE THE STORY AND HELP HER PURSUE WHAT HER CHILD IS ENTITLED TO -FINANCIAL SUPPORT DAMN THE REST CAUSE IT’S OBVIOUS HE DOESN’T WANT TO BE INVOLVED
@ intenzemocha
First off *****, since they’re in an eight year relationship, that means the signs were there that he didn’t want to have a baby by her…And since she had a job and still winded up homeless, what does that say for her fiscally irresponsible *****? Get off your high horse with this “*****s ain’t *****” *****. I hate *****es like you, who feel that women doesn’t have any accountability in their bad choices in who they decide to mate/breed with. She decided to have that baby out of wedlock, knowing that ***** was too immature or going through an arrested development phase.
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@ Marquis De Sade
Whoa!!! I don’t think intenzemocha came off with a “n***as ain’t s**t attitude”.
Intenzemocha, I don’t think we are all comimg down on just her. There are two parties involved, no doubt. I think what we’re saying is that it’s a good idea to make sure you have your own self taken care of so that when something like this happens, it’s not the end all-be all of your existence.
intenzemocha
I am with you! ***** OFF MAQUIS *****HOLE!
What she saying is right! If you would have read the ***** correctly..then you wouldn’t have ***** to type about..sorry piece of monkey *****! STFU!
He’s COLD ALRIGHT..*****ODY IS BUYING THAT SORRY ***** ***** *****!
BTW: BLUNTBLAZER..I like that name! That is hot!
marquis??
majority of *****’s isn’t *****, and What is sad..is..*****s like this is making it bad for brothers that are caring, and that are real men! If you know that you are a real man..then this ***** shouldn’t bother you..(ABOUT WHAT INTEN….SAID)
I am a single parent and I dont get child support I got a job and take care of my son, he down bad for not taking care of his son but she should also do her part and take of her son if *****tail waitress dont pay the bills then do something else
Janelle Bennet needs to get off her soap box, get a job and keep it the hell moving.
I’m a single mother and have been for 8 years.
You do what you gotta do.
You work. You get a career for yourself. You don’t get on welfare, foodstamps, etc. You make it do what it do.
You don’t wait on a man or government OR anyone for that matter to give you and your child.
She needs to realize that in due time, she’ll get what’s due to her and her child. And he will eventually get his for not owning up to his responsibility.
I would have never put my daughter in a position to be evicted from her home. I would still maintain a healty lifestyle for my child. Regardless of not getting that 4500 dollar check every first of the month.
Life doesn’t stop because the high-roller “child-support” checks stop coming in.
NOTE to BOSSIP: She is a H.A.M. PERIOD.
Clearly this chick needs some marketable skills….SMH…a *****tail waitress? How old is this chick?? You had eight years with him livin the high life to take your ***** to school… These men should make better choices as far as women are concerned in my opinion. Raise your standards a lil bit higher than just a big *****….And ladies, stop thinking your body will make you rich. Develop that brain!
4500 is not that much money.*****s in here think that’s alot of money.little boys can eat they *****es off that’s one they grow out of clothes fast.pluse every child should have a savings account and some cd’s and a school fund.what while his other child is in private school his son dosent deserve the same education.4500 isn’t crap maybe to you .but for a child to raise a child more is needed .rent alone is like 2000and better and hell if your child is living else wear then you have to pay for your child shelter.
He needs to handle his and be a damn father. He looks ashy as hell in that pic too with his wack *****.
Supporting the child DOES includehelping with rent/bills, Itenz, you ignorant *****.
My daughter’s father bought a fertility kit from the drugstore so that we could conceive. It worked!!!
He ran away!! He’s never met my beautiful daughter. She smart, too and full of s*****.
He’s never met her.
I’ve never been homeless. I’m a college drop out, even.
I do for me and mine. (Work). We dont’ have any luxuries in our life (cable TV, NICE car , *****ious home )
And she is four.
It’s frustrating. Very, very frustrating.
OH, DID I MENTION I’VE NEVER RECEIVED CHILD SUPPORT.
It’s very frustrating.
4500 is support for the child, I def thing that is enough. The mother should be working and able to support herself as well. This is to help with expenses for raising a child. Too many women have it twisted, child support is not a p***** for you to sit on you ***** and not work.
@ How bad
Uh 4500 is more than enough to raise a child if you spend within your means. That doesn’t mean buying your kid that overpriced Sean John, Phat Pharm, RocaWear here today, gone today bull*****. Buy his clothes at Target. If you can’t afford a private school, then public school will have to do. Trust me, 4500 is more than most single mothers are getting.
A lot of folks can have babies, but very few actually need to be parents.
she look like she’s holding a roll of 20’s in her shorts
I feel sorry for people that cant have children. I’m sure they would be the best parents
umm, to whoever said you can’t raise a child on 4500 a month, you are smokin. Most of the parents single parents on this website are probably making less that that a month working AND recieving child support. Folks priorities are messed up. Yo baby doesn’t need Sean Jean and Baby Phat just like yo ***** don’t need prada bags and to spend $300 getting a weave down your back and at the nail salon a month. Live beneath your means! Its the only way to save for the future….
why would she depend on him so much to the extent that she becomes homeless? i dont think that she should have to raise her child alone, but there are plenty of women who do it everyday and find a way to keep shelter over their child’s head. stop being the victim and take care of your son.
My father had to pay $15.00 a month for child support and he didn’t even pay that!!!
So when they told me my dad died and when they were having his funeral, I told them that there was nothing in that casket that I need to see or mourn. Nothing!!
I didn’t really miss the child support money as much as I missed the “relationship.” Afte getting older, I realized that I could never really like someone who would let their child go hungry, just because he were mad at your mother.
First of all, a lot of *****umptions have been made. This couple was in a relationship for seven years and no baby. Then, success seems appeared to be on the horizon, boom, a baby?! The whole scenario sounds suspect. And it seems that all of the babymamas reading this post, are siding with this trifling woman.
Tell you what, my son’s father divorced me and I didn’t want anything from him. Not even child support. I didn’t need it. Even though he had a good job and could have given upwards of 1000 per month I turned it down because 1.) I didn’t want to financially crush him and 2.) I know how to get my own money. Even though at the time, I didn’t have anything materially, because I was a stay at home mom. But guess what, my son and I ain’t never wanted for anything, and I dang sure wasn’t going to get evicted or go hungry. We lived in the south. We moved to the Chicago and now I’m rolling!!!! It’s about you and what you want. It’s a sorry state that she’s telling the world that she’s depending on this guy for anything. By the way, my son’s father sends money when he wants to. It doesn’t mean he’s a deadbeat, don’t love his son or any of that nonsense. My point is, babies belong to mommies. All her suffering seems so 1960’s.
He’s a deadbeat – that’s a given. But what happened to the ‘village’ – CHRISTIAN VILLAGE- that’s supposed to be stepping in this *****, raising this child? That’s a mu*****kin shame….
If she wouldhave went to school and did something with herself, she wouljd have had a job and not have been depending on his checks each month to live off of. The support is supposed to be for the Child and not the mother. Why you on section 8 if the man just stopped the payments in August, just shows you were not working in the first place or trying to live beyond your means off the support checks. Get a real job and support yourself and put the money up fo when your son goes to school. Gold Digger
And u right PrettinRed…
Ok he is a deadbeat, but its called child support not rent money. you should be able to at least come up with the rent/mortgage.
“she was evicted from her home in Miami because Winans won’t pay child support.”
That means you planned on living of that *****. YOU CAN NOT DO THAT.
Luving “The Wire” Forever!
… This is another example of why black women are regarded–especially in music & hollwood–as hos and lazy idiots who can only talk a good sex game.
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For the record..NO ONE WOMAN CAN REPRESENT ME. So the real reason (if this is true) that Black women are looked upon in a bad light is because of insecure idiots who choose to use race as way of creating negative stereotypes. That is it. People…this is LIFE. At no time in history has there EVER been 100% support from both parents in every damn household in the world. At no time is it excusable for a man or woman NOT to take care of their children.
There is also no guarantees in marriage and those of you who believe there is, need to take a look at the DIVORCE RATE. Remember a special oreo named Bryant Gumbel? Well he left his WIFE & KIDS(GASP) for some ***** and the wife became desolate due to her dependency on him. We can argue all day about her needing to be independant but the fact of the matter is THAT MAN NEEDS TO TAKE CARE OF HIS CHILDREN. Stop shifting the blame solely on the woman. As irresponsible (BROKE) and naive (STUPID)as this woman was, she still has full custody of the child and she is still taking care of him by herself. He is not in foster care HE IS WITH HIS MOTHER.
However, children should not suffer or be neglected because their parents are idiots!!!
Ok he is a deadbeat, but its called child support not rent money. you should be able to at least come up with the rent/mortgage.
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In the real world, child support IS rent/mortgage if the broad doing bad with her finances.That’s real.I didn’t say it was wrong, or right.But what kinda ***** gon let his seed – a RICH ***** at that – rely on the govt to eat, sleep, ***** LIVE?
When the son grows up to be a criminal, whose fault will that be?
@ PrettiinRed…
I commend you for all that you have done and will do for your son but I just feel that men should step up to the plate and be responsible for theirs. Even if you wanted to turn his money down you could have given him the option of depositing the money in a college plan or a trust fund…something!!
Again, I commend you when you say, “I didn’t want anything from him. Not even child support. I didn’t need it.” It’s not about you though, it’s for your son and later on in life he might want to go to law school or med school or grad school and I speak from experience when I say that ish is HELLAH expensive now! In another 15+ years its gonna be out of this world. So any monies that he could have contributed could be beneficial down the line.
Show him that it’s not about you benefiting from his money but about giving your son a step up later on in life.
Child support is to support the child, not the mother. The mother should have gone back to school, learned a trade to ensure that she does not have to wait on a handout from ANYONE to take care of HER child. Mario needs to support his child but the Mother needs to support herself and her child. When she started falling on hard times she should have gotten a lawyter to work out a temporary situation that would have forced Mario to take custody while she got on her feet, since she was unable to maintain her son in a stable environment. Above and beyond her losses she should have said, I cant carry him right now, can you? and not been worried about a “check” to hold her over.
The moral of this story is that the you should always trust in yourself to take care of yourself. Marriage doesn’t guarantee anything, being in a relationship for 8 years dsnt gurantee anything either. MEN use birth control to avoid, being a babby daddy. WOMEN use birth control to avoid being a baby mama. Have some goals in life that do not involve getting or paying out a check for support. Support yourself through education, skilled trades and you will never ever have to check your mailbox for paper.
NO MORE CHILDREN WITH BUSTERS, (MALE OR FEMALE)
Prettinred…that is your decision to excuse your son’s father from his responsibilities. If you think somehow you are being a ‘model’ babymama by doing this, then good for you, but I don’t agree that everyone should follow your lead.
Now, I would advise any woman MARRIED OR NOT who has children, plan on having children etc. to make sure you can do for yourself and your child first. Stay positive and if possible try to establish a good relationship with your ex for the child’s sake. It is a shame that you have to do this but you should DEMAND that the child’s father also does his part emotionally and financially for the child. Lead by example but don’t give up because he is broke or he may become broke. Not only may your child suffer, but you will just be doing the next female/family he gets involved with a gross disservice…
That is what I am talking about NOTORIOUSONE!
@ miss thang…
Both parents are definitely at fault and are both negligent w/ regards to the needs and the care of the child. I think the worse part is that it doesn’t seem like she can even take care of HER own basic needs.
They aren’t enough details about this situation for me to judge him or her.
But she do sound like one of my girlfriends that had a baby by a brother caused he owned his own business…she thought she hit payday until he told her he ain’t wanna have nothing to do with it. He told her to have an abortion and she went and had the baby anyway.
Sistas do be playing themselves sometimes thou…
But for real…let’s just say that you DO get a child support check…you still a single mother…money can’t make up for the lack of love that a daddy can bring. Now you’ve got to explain to your child the basic concepts of rejection. And then you’ve got to work to find a decent role model for your black male child…even more *****ing hard work…
Now is that all worth a child support check?
Now I know there are lot’s a single black mother’s out there…the statistics are glaring…but it doesn’t mean that they are all good parents…cause some women don’t know what the ***** they are doing… It can’t be fun to raise kids without a daddy and can’t no child support check make up for loving, loyal, committed man.
I FILL SORRY FOR THE CHILD BUT ***** GO GET A *****ING JOB!
Why is she depending on him to pay her bills and give her and her baby a house and a home???? They not together his responsibility is that baby and if he can’t step up then she needs to ain’t no way in the world my baby not going to have boots in the winter time….this chick thought that since she had his baby she is now Kim Porter Jr.???? UGH!!! Take care of your kids or USE CONTRACEPTIVES!!!!
@ Dead Cell i co-sign 100% Thats pretty much what I said wrapped up and tied ina bow!
Oh and 4 everybody who is saying 4500 is not enough….YES IT IS IF U HAVE A DAMN JOB!
@ Miss Thang
For the record..NO ONE WOMAN CAN REPRESENT ME. So the real reason (if this is true) that Black women are looked upon in a bad light is because of insecure idiots who choose to use race as way of creating negative stereotypes. That is it. People…this is LIFE. At no time in history has there EVER been 100% support from both parents in every damn household in the world. At no time is it excusable for a man or woman NOT to take care of their children.
There is also no guarantees in marriage and those of you who believe there is, need to take a look at the DIVORCE RATE. Remember a special oreo named Bryant Gumbel? Well he left his WIFE & KIDS(GASP) for some ***** and the wife became desolate due to her dependency on him. We can argue all day about her needing to be independant but the fact of the matter is THAT MAN NEEDS TO TAKE CARE OF HIS CHILDREN. Stop shifting the blame solely on the woman. As irresponsible (BROKE) and naive (STUPID)as this woman was, she still has full custody of the child and she is still taking care of him by herself. He is not in foster care HE IS WITH HIS MOTHER.
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I hear u but I’m stand by my comment. It is what it is!
*I stand by my comment
Damn shame if it’s true. But even if he was paying child support he probably will still be a “paying”dead-beat because for some reason people with or without money think they can just sweep the ***** kids under the rug while the “wifey’s” kids are the “real” family. It happens alot in every culture. Larry Bird had a secret child. I believe some of these “wifey’s” need to be like Jada Pinkett and say your child is my child and realize that if he’s doing it to another chick he will do it to you.
It seems as though some of you ‘women’ are un-officially siding with the *****.Let my ***** go out there and impregnate broads without giving a *****…
The ***** is a *****-tail waitress, homeless, *****ed off generally.Yadda yadda yadda.Now let any of you call center working hoes get knocked up by an AVERAGE *****, I bet the tune’ll be sang differently…
(not excusing either one of them, but use your *****-Sense and judge ***** appropriately – not moralistically)
damn.
@ M-DADDY
I feel sorry for people that cant have children. I’m sure they would be the best parents
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I feel you man!
Some of the attitudes on this board – from so called black women – are the reason black men aren’t ***** now..
Its not her fault that this *****ing ***** isn’t taking care of his child.. She is out here living pillar to post with HIS child and you’re all okay with that??? I see along with some black men not being worth a *****ing ***** spot, apparently some “sistas” aren’t either.. If sistas don’t stick together on topics like this who is going to stick with us?? THE BLACK MAN?? He hs it too *****ing easy avoiding his responsibilities… You say she’s complaining?? Hell yeah she is! She’s doing that ***** alone and struggling at that..
Just because YOU’D be find with some ***** leaving you to take care of his kids alone does not mean she has to be.. This is a grown successful *****ing man.. If he can take care of his child with one ***** he can take care of all of his kids..
SMDH!!!
“You know how many women are in this position? She act like he is the only man to do this. When ever you have a baby out of wedlock, there is a chance for this to happen. ”
No – having a child out of wedlock should NOT be a p***** for some *****ing piece of ***** to avoind taking care of his seed.. Are you *****ing kidding me??
Since when does being married mean you’re getting child support?? You *****es up in here are delusional…
And I don’t know if you need to be told this or not – obviously you do – whether he’s the only man to do it or not does not make it right.
SMDH!!!
@Lauren
Hello ma
@ Rotex
I know alot of couples who cant have kids.
“Get off your high horse with this “*****s ain’t *****” *****. I hate *****es like you, who feel that women doesn’t have any accountability in their bad choices in who they decide to mate/breed with. ”
I’ll say it LOUD: He, like most black men, aint ***** when it comes to being a *****ing father.. She aint got a damn thing to do with some *****ing piece of cow ***** black *****s being too much of a *****ing worthless ***** to be a father to his child.. I don’t care what choice she made.. Its so sad how in every other race, ESPECIALLY WHITE, the child alwasy comes first but black *****ing men always want someone else to see how its their fault that they can’t do what every other *****ing raceof men do just fine.. Man the ***** up.. Its not a womans fault that your *****ing ***** ***** can’t be a man..
SMDH!!!
Dude has no excuse. How can yo not want to take care of your own child, thats a part of you
@ Brother M…what’s good fam? Welcome to the fray.
Yeah it is quite a shame that couples that are desperate to have kids can’t and some peeps out there are having them and not realizing just how much of a privilege it is to have a child.
I know you were paying attention, but were you listening? There isn’t anything in this life that my son wants to do et. al. that I can’t provide for him. Actually, my son wants to go to medical school. It’s been his dream since he was five. I got that. During the summer, he goes to enrichment programs at a prestigious university, we have fantastic summer vacations, we’re okay. His father knows he wants to be a doctor. If he wants to contribute, he can. I’m not stopping him, but at the same time, he’s not going to stop my son or me either. What you all fail to realize is this: YOU CAN’T MAKE A GROWN PERSON DO ANYTHING. My son’s father gives my son money and it’s my son’s money. Sometimes it’s a few hundred dollars, sometimes it’s a few thousand. That’s their business and that’s their relationship. My only child is well cared for. He will never want for anything. I
@NotoriousOne
Whats good playa? Man I had so much fun with my kids this weekend. We had lunch then we went bowling, we went to the park and played football. We had a ball, I cant imagine me not being around my kids
NOTORIOUSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS WHAT IS HAPPENING??
THIS *****TY SINGING, *****TY BREATH CAT SUCKS ON DIDDY! HE ISN’T *****!
@Ms. Sugar Walls
Whats up Miss Walls?
“Tell you what, my son’s father divorced me and I didn’t want anything from him. Not even child support. I didn’t need it. Even though he had a good job and could have given upwards of 1000 per month I turned it down because 1.) I didn’t want to financially crush him and 2.) I know how to get my own money. Even though at the time, I didn’t have anything materially, because I was a stay at home mom. But guess what, my son and I ain’t never wanted for anything, and I dang sure wasn’t going to get evicted or go hungry. ”
First and foremost, I don’t even believe this ***** right here.. I refuse to believe you could have willingly had financial *****istance from your childs father and you turned it down just because you think babies belong to mommies.. You arae lying through your *****ing fingertips, and you know it..
However, even if i did believe this ration of BULL***** – THAT WAY YOUR CHOICE!! You haveno right to bash anyone for not taking the superwoman attitude and choosing to do it all alone..
And frankly, again if this is true, I would be inclined to believe all you did was taught your son to not be worth ***** just like it appears his daddy aint..
SMDH!!!
@PrettiinRed
I have a question for you…You were a stay at home mom, you turned down his money, and were able to pay your bills & expenses independently?
I understand where she is coming from on him taking care of his other child and not his son which has been proven to be his. But she should have had her own money and not depending on him. It doesnt matter if you are married or not men still leave and children are not taken care of. I have a daughter that I have been raising for 8yrs now by myself and we are doing lovely without her fathers support so when they get his behind it will just be more money for us and we still are going to live the same way with a little extra
What he should have done was got temporary custody of the child until the Mother got back on her feet.
“I have a question for you…You were a stay at home mom, you turned down his money, and were able to pay your bills & expenses independently?”
LOL!! Do you REALLY believe the story this person is telling??
C’mon now – SMDH!!
Well, to tell the truth NAWWWWWWWWW! Just being cynical.
@PrettiinRed
If you dont mind me asking what was your form of income?
lol@ the onslaught a-coming…
I love rock paper scissors! Rock!
@ MDADDY…..Heeeeeeya! How was ur weekend?
Well, next time get married before you have a baby, won’t guarantee anything, but the chances of his moving along without doing something are minimalized.
Disability? Medicaid? That is kind of deep. I mean but at $4500 a month? You should have been saving some of that loot if you were getting paid until last year.
But, Mario ain’t got no job?
@Lauren
It was really nice. It was my son’s 9th birthday on Saturday me him and his brothers kicked it. How was your weekend?
Mario?? WHO??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
OBVIOUSLY BEING A *****TAIL WAITRESS WASN’TPAYING THE F*CKING BILLS OR THE RENT OR BOTH.
I HAVE A CHILD, MY JOB COVERS RENT, BILLS, UTILIIES AND WHATEVER. I MAYBE BE EMPTY WHEN ALL IS SAID AND DONE BUT BABYGIRL AIN’T EVER GOING TO HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT WHERE THE F*CK SHE LAYS AT NIGHT OR IF SHE HAS ENOUGH FOOD TO EAT. F*CK THIS TIRED ***** BULLSHYT BY B*TCHES. I HAD MY BABY BECAUSE I WANTED TO AND I AM LUCKY THAT HER DAD IS AROUND TO HELP OUT BUT I TAKE CARE OF HER AND THE REST IS EXTRA.
F*CK READING CORRECTLY….THE B*TCH SHOULD HAVE BEEN ON HER TOES TO KNOW NO MAN WILL TAKE CARE OF HER SORRY ***** JUST LIKE ALL WOMEN SHOULD NEVER EXPECT TO BE TAKEN CARE OF….ALWAYS MAKE SURE YOU HAVE FOR A RAINY DAY!
@Skoopes-Da Original
@But, Mario ain’t got no job?
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He better get to singing hooks
@ SMDH….I feel what u are saying but why should she sit on her lazy ***** and wait for him to take care of her???? Thats stupid, get a job he’s not obligated to her, they’re not married….
“Well, next time get married before you have a baby, won’t guarantee anything, but the chances of his moving along without doing something are minimalized.”
How?? It seems to me that if a man is going to shun his responsibility to his child then why not to an ex wife?? It just stands to reason that he would not only avoid child support but alimony as well.. So now he has TWO things not to pay?? If he will avoid a court order for child support, why not avoid one of cjild support and alimony??
Please explain to me how being married changes a damn thing but the number of “bills” he can default on?? Please tell me where you derive your “theory” from?!?!!?
If a man’s a *****ing loser a ring isn’t going to change that…
@ I’m Just Me
F*CK READING CORRECTLY….THE B*TCH SHOULD HAVE BEEN ON HER TOES TO KNOW NO MAN WILL TAKE CARE OF HER SORRY ***** JUST LIKE ALL WOMEN SHOULD NEVER EXPECT TO BE TAKEN CARE OF….ALWAYS MAKE SURE YOU HAVE FOR A RAINY DAY
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So sad but in alot of cases this so true
@ MDADDY….Aaaaaw! 9 years old! Thats too cute! Mines was good u know chillin wit the homies on spring break….can’t complain….the little one is driving me crazy though…lol guess thats her job though right?
Another black man..charge it to the case…yeah right..I hope she gets everypenny from him. Isn’t he supposed to be Christian apart of the Winan’s family. HMPH
@ I’m Just Me….U are soooo right and thats all I was trying to explain that girl don’t have no excuse for that baby not having no winter boots, AND they live in Chicago??? SMH!
@SMDH
But a woman in her right mind will be able to detect if she is going to say “I DO” to a winner or a loser
“@ SMDH….I feel what u are saying but why should she sit on her lazy ***** and wait for him to take care of her???? Thats stupid, get a job he’s not obligated to her, they’re not married….”
I understand that Lauren.. My issue is the people up in here acting like this man shouldn’t have to do anything for his child because they were not married when THEY made that baby.. Its not a womans fault that a man cannot be responsible.. I’m talking about these so called women up in here saying “stop whining and take care of your kid yourself”.. HE MADE THE BABY TOO!! No – he should not have to do a DAMN thing for her benefit, but he should be taking care of his child without question.. I just feel like attitudes that blame everyone else for the setbacks of black men makes it easier for black men to stay where they areand be no help or hope to their sons and daughters..
Lauren
@Lauren
@ MDADDY….Aaaaaw! 9 years old! Thats too cute! Mines was good u know chillin wit the homies on spring break….can’t complain….the little one is driving me crazy though…lol guess thats her job though right
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Yeah he is the baby. I have four and am not having anymore. I have 2 step daughter whom I’ve raised since they were 2 they are 14 and 16 now. I have my handsful but I love every minute of it
@SMDH
I understand that Lauren.. My issue is the people up in here acting like this man shouldn’t have to do anything for his child because they were not married when THEY made that baby.. Its not a womans fault that a man cannot be responsible.. I’m talking about these so called women up in here saying “stop whining and take care of your kid yourself”.. HE MADE THE BABY TOO!! No – he should not have to do a DAMN thing for her benefit, but he should be taking care of his child without question.. I just feel like attitudes that blame everyone else for the setbacks of black men makes it easier for black men to stay where they areand be no help or hope to their sons and daughters..
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I totally agree 100%
“But a woman in her right mind will be able to detect if she is going to say “I DO” to a winner or a loser”
Not if he becomes a loser during or towards the end.. Not all men wear their LOSERHOOD on their sleeves.. There are plenty of losers who walk off, but their are planty of “good men” who walk off too… Either way, its not a womans fault that he isn’t *****..
Anywho, the point STILL remains that a ring is not going to make a man responsible if its not his manly choice to be…
@ SMDH I co sign 100% with that, but you know a lot of times its the women who are stupid enough to say I want child support but you can’t see your kid….now thats f*ked up and I can’t stand when a man tries to do something but the women won’t let them and just like you said he made the baby too but she can’t sit up there and say they got evicted because of him….thats totally ridiculous to me….
@SMDH
Not if he becomes a loser during or towards the end.. Not all men wear their LOSERHOOD on their sleeves.. There are plenty of losers who walk off, but their are planty of “good men” who walk off too… Either way, its not a womans fault that he isn’t *****..
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So very true. I was always taught to take care of home first and foremost. Even if the child is not in your home where ever that child lays his head the father still considers that home being the child is a part of him, he should always be concerned about the walefare of his child
Yeah he is the baby. I have four and am not having anymore. I have 2 step daughter whom I’ve raised since they were 2 they are 14 and 16 now. I have my handsful but I love every minute of it
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Thats awesome! I want lots of em’ too lol! Just gotta wait to get married, I ain’t tryin to go out like Mario Winans babymom (just kiddin cuz that ***** really aint funny)
And being that he comes from a very religious family this would be the last thing I would believe about him
Ok he is a deadbeat, but its called child support not rent money. you should be able to at least come up with the rent/mortgage.
“she was evicted from her home in Miami because Winans won’t pay child support.”
That means you planned on living of that *****. YOU CAN NOT DO THAT.
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^^^^^this is what I’m sayin^^^^^^^
“I HAD MY BABY BECAUSE I WANTED TO AND I AM LUCKY THAT HER DAD IS AROUND TO HELP OUT BUT I TAKE CARE OF HER AND THE REST IS EXTRA.”
So you’re saying a father is a benefit?? That is you have one good, but if not good?? If he’s there good, butif not good?? This is a very destructive attitude to have and try to p***** on.. However, its YOU’RE choice but no other woman has to be so ridiculously stupid.. Every child needs a father, especially a boy.. Every man should beheld accountable to his offspring and any woman looking to give her childs father a break on that is just as sorry as he is..
Again, attitudes like this that say “its ok to shun your responsibility.. I’ll take care of it alone and even blame myself if need be” are the reason the black man is the worse fathers on the planet now…
SMDH!!!
She put this on herself by not making that negro marry her before impregnating her, when a man is married to the child’s mother it’s harder for him to pull stunts like this, That’s what she gets for playing house. However I do feel bad for the child because he did not ask to be born to an unwed mother and deadbeat father, poor baby.
@ MDADDY_I know right!!! Ain’t his Auntie & Uncle Be Be AND Ce Ce??? Well, theres a lot of them with that last name in Hollyweird so who knows??
@Lauren
Thats awesome! I want lots of em’ too lol! Just gotta wait to get married, I ain’t tryin to go out like Mario Winans babymom (just kiddin cuz that ***** really aint funny)
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I just cant see how you dont want to take care of your shorty. My boys and girls are all I got. This material stuff I have dont mean nothin without my little dudes
First of all, let’s talk about the fact that Mario looks like a sanitation worker and that dirty ***** outfit. Was that what he what he was doing the last 4 years since “I don’t wanna know” came out? AHAHAHAHA!
“@ SMDH I co sign 100% with that, but you know a lot of times its the women who are stupid enough to say I want child support but you can’t see your kid….now thats f*ked up and I can’t stand when a man tries to do something but the women won’t let them and just like you said he made the baby too but she can’t sit up there and say they got evicted because of him….thats totally ridiculous to me….”
When did the woman say he can’t see his kid?!?!? It sounds to me like she’s BEGGING for the opposite?!?!
And as far as her getting evicted, thats on her.. EVen without a child she’d STILL need a roof over herhead.. It’s not his responsibility to house her.. My issues is the lack of child support..
@ Beantown_Miami: How do you MAKE a man marry you????? Please let me know because if we find that out thats like finding a cure for cancer…..
@Lauren
Yeah I think Be Be and Ce Ce is his Aunt and Uncle.
“She put this on herself by not making that negro marry her before impregnating her, when a man is married to the child’s mother it’s harder for him to pull stunts like this, That’s what she gets for playing house.”
Again, I reiterate:
How?? It seems to me that if a man is going to shun his responsibility to his child then why not to an ex wife?? It just stands to reason that he would not only avoid child support but alimony as well.. So now he has TWO things not to pay?? If he will avoid a court order for child support, why not avoid one of cjild support and alimony??
Please explain to me how being married changes a damn thing but the number of “bills” he can default on?? Please tell me where you derive your “theory” from?!?!!?
If a man’s a *****ing loser a ring isn’t going to change that…
@ Lauren…why go to Chi-town if you cannot dress the child correctly. CPS needs to be called behind that because that is a form of neglect. Payless has booths for $15.00 and believe it or not they keep the feet warm. I brought my Babygirl (5 years old) some Hello Kitty boots they kept her feet warmer and drier than those Timberland boots.
People do need to take responsibility for their own children. Yes the man should help but the children need to be raised best to the ability no matter who takes them.
Stop waiting for a man to cater to you. If you are a lucky one to get them then God bless but for the rest of us we pick ourselves up by our boot straps and get to pounding that pavement. There is no excuse for children not being dressed right. They have Goodwill and all of those types of charity places. People need to stop thinking they are high and mighty and humble themsevles down.
M-Daddy: It is sad but true, so in the mean time step to the plate and do what you have to do. I respect you for being involved in your child’s life.
@ MDADDY_ I feel u isn’t that all you want in life after having offspring, for them to not want for ANYTHING??? I just don’t get some people, got these kids walking around with their last names lookin just like them and they haven’t seen them in a month of Sundays SMDH!!
@M-Daddy: It is sad but true, so in the mean time step to the plate and do what you have to do. I respect you for being involved in your child’s life.
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Thank you, I love my kids with my whole blood pump (heart) I cant imagine anything hurting them. I dont know what I would do
@ I’M JSUT ME
“People do need to take responsibility for their own children. Yes the man should help but the children need to be raised best to the ability no matter who takes them.”
EXCATLY MY POINT AND YOURS!
She’s is just making excuses….But Mario does need to stop bein triflin and give her some money I mean to totally diss her like that AND they got a paternity test?? WTF??
@Lauren
@ MDADDY_ I feel u isn’t that all you want in life after having offspring, for them to not want for ANYTHING??? I just don’t get some people, got these kids walking around with their last names lookin just like them and they haven’t seen them in a month of Sundays SMDH!!
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I see it all the time. My house is open to all the kids in the neighborhood I have about 20 God Children no lie. Them kids know they can come to me for anything
@ SMDH….
“If a man’s a *****ing loser a ring isn’t going to change that…”
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co sign 100%…..
@ MDADDY well thats awesome, I know someone who is the same way even though that kids don’t live with you , you never know the IMPACT you have on thier lives by JUST BEING THERE….
I HAVE THE SOLUTION TO YOU NEGROES PROBLEM. STOP BREEDING! AS A RACE, YOU HAVE BEEN A PART OF THIS COUNTRY FOR OVER 200 YEARS AND DURING WHICH, YOU HAVE PROVEN TIME AND TIME AGAIN THAT YOU ARE FAILURES. FOR HUMANITIES SAKE, HAVE THE DECENCY TO GET STERILIZED, THUS PREVENTING THE FURTHER PROPAGATION OF YOUR RACE. YOU DO NOT SERVE A PURPOSE AMONGST CIVILIZED SOCIETY. GRANTED, THERE ARE A FEW OF YOU WHO HAVE EVOLVED AND BECAME PRODUCTIVE, AND FOR THOSE I SALUTE YOU. FOR THE OTHERS, JUST FADE AWAY.
@Lauren
Alot of my chidren’s friends dont have a Male figure in their lives so I try to be there to show them they dont have to make bad choices. There are alot of guys in the hood doing wrong and young boys see that and think its cool. I try to show them something positive. I take them to the Gym that I work at, take um to the park etc.. Just trying to give them something to do
@ SMDH It is not that i feel he is a benefit. He does what he does. I take care of my child. If he was to dipset tonight I would be okay. I don’t need him so i guess in a way he is a bit of a luxury. But when i got pregnant my mother told me be prepared to be a single parent and that is what I have done. There are moments when he is not around because of poor decision making skills on his part. Should I then let Babygirl go by the wayside? Run to welfare or to a shelter? No. I have to do better for her than that. And i have been at the bottom of the barrel: Dolo in a shelter, and I have worked my way up, through God’s mercy and glory, to the little bit that I have for us now.
I am not teaching my daughter that a man should leave her high and dry. He is wrong. Mario is wrong, all of them are wrong. But i am teaching her she shouldn’t let HER RESPONSIBILITIES fall by the wayside because A MAN is not there. So are you saying I shouldn’t take care of her correctly because he doesn’t do what he is supposed? Whether he is there or not…she has to eat, needs a bed to sleep on, whatever.
I think that all of the men that have flown the coop are dead to wrong, especially if they have other kids that they take care of because they are conveniently with their mothers at the moment. But i had to step to the plate to provide and that is what I did. So no i don’t think that the shun your responsilbility mentality is the way i am thinking, but i also cannot sit around and wait for a person who isn’t helping. Things still need to be done.
And honestly it is the men’s actions of leaving the scene after they drop the nut or when they feel like it that has given us that mentality of I’ll do it myself because truthfully, if I don’t do it for my daughter then who will??
The next step is to get the LAW involved
@ MDADDY…U right take that ***** to jail them checks will never stop comin in….
@ SHERMAN BYT….Are you suggesting that African Americans are the ONLY race with Child support problems???? If so you are sadly mistaken.
All of us need to understand that it isn’t always about just US!!
We need to make better choices and better decisions about who we decide to have children with. What kind of people are we choosing to be a part of our children and how that will impact their futures?
Deadbeat daddies suck, but on a seperate note has any one ever bought one of his albums?
Has anyone bought either one of their albums!!
And somehow yet again…this turns into a race issue!
Jesus! Can’t the issue ever just stay the issue without adding more to the pot!
@ LAUREN
70% OF AFRICAN AMERICAN CHILDREN ARE BORN OUT OF WEDLOCK. MOST ARE BORN INTO POVERTY, THUS RESULTING IN BECOMING WELL VERSED WITH CRIMINAL ACTIVITY, WHICH LEADS TO SPENDING MOST OF THEIR FORMATIVE AND ADULT LIVES IN AND OUT OF CORRECTIONAL FACILITIES. NOT FICTION BUT FACT. SOLUTION: STERILIZATION!
I’m upset that she actually said that she was on welfare and disability just to have the baby… I mean really was it that deep.
Uh, obviously the ***** is an alias.Why respond?
HE IS WRONG IF HE ISNT MANNING UP…BUT THIS BROAD NEEDS TO GET OFF HER ***** AND SUPPORT HER CHILD AS MANY SINGLE MOTHERS DO! LAZY HEIFER!
@ Brother M…what’s good fam?…
“I cant imagine me not being around my kids”
That’s my sentiments exact. I look at my lil’ man and I can’t imagine how any parent can just walk away from that. Granted he can drive me up the wall at times but I wouldn’t trade it for the world!
She shaped like a white girl.
@ Lauren
The way a woman to MAKE a man marry her is to keep her legs closed until the wedding night if a man is decent and has any self control respect for the woman in his life and the woman has self respect this is a piece of cake! But this is easier said than done
@SMDH
A ring may not change the fact a man is a dog but the meaning behind the ring will. Marriage is more than a liscence and a ring it is a covenant.
I agree w/ you if a man is a loser nothing is going to change that but the problem is many women are tolerant of the losers, alot of women have all the tell tale signs and clues that the men they are with are losers but many of them are desperate and are afraid of being lonely so they ignore their intution because of the men have money/fame or good sex which is why 70% of Black babies are ***** children.
This chick is stupid anyway because all she has to do is go to court instead this broad is going to the media. This chick is just plain stupid. However this does not give Mario the right to deny his seed he’s just as dumb as his dumb Baby’s Mom.
@ Sherman…..My thing is we were all having a great forum regarding child support and this chick getting evicted and what not, then you come in and say that black people need to be sterilized 1st off thats not called for *****ody made it a racial issue, and I don’t know where your facts come from but it seems pretty far fetched but whatever. I just don’t see the point in pointing statistics out to a certain race when this issue is evident in all races….ALL RACES….ALL RACES….
Southern Belle 225
This is *****ed up on so many levels.
For Him: It’s sad that he can take care of one but not the other because he isn’t with the mother. How can he determine that one child gets more than the other? How is he going to have a ***** living large while his other child has nothing? Pitiful
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That was the situation of which my mother and I was faced with. I get along great with my father, now; but before, I had alot of hostility for him picking to be the father of my little sister and brother, but not myself, or my two older brothers who came in the marriage of her and my mother. It’s not right, but it happens, and Mario’s son WILL resent him for his dubious choice.
On the other hand, the mother is not making the situation BETTER by putting Mario on frontstreet-because it further perpetuates the fact that he has no relationship with his son, and may never as a result of him being vindictive to the mother for telling their business. I would hope the mother is doing this to get child support, but the media is the wrong place for it; the courts is the correct place.
@ LAUREN
IT SEEMS FAR-FETCHED BECAUSE LIKE MOST WOMEN, YOU DON’T BOTHER TO PICK UP A BOOK, FOLLOW IMPORTANT CURRENT EVENTS OR READ A NEWSPAPER. CHILD, IT IS 2008! YOUR PEOPLE ARE STILL STRUGGLING WITH THE SAME ISSUES THAT HAS PLAGUED YOU, YOUR PARENTS AND GRAND PARENTS. WHEN ARE YOU/YOUR PEOPLE GOING TO CATCH UP? THE ANSWER IS YOU ARE INCAPABLE OF CATCHING UP DUE TO YOUR LACK OF AMBITION AND PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY TO YOURSELVES AND YOUR COMMUNITY. I REPEAT: STERILIZATION!
that ***** shouldntve had unprotected sex wit some no count ***** if she couldnt support the consequence (i.e. a child) alone. surely she didnt think this ***** was gone upgrade her ***** just cuz she got pregnant? he dont give a fk bout that child. when will these hos wake the hell up?
sherman, u know nothing. blacks folk were better off generations ago than they are today – ‘in the day’ there were fewer divorces and children born out of wedlock, less crime and drugs in the communities, and a rising level of prosperity. this is the first generation to be worse off than the generation before and its a gotdamnshame.
I’ll explain this ***** in a nutshell really quick:
1. If youre getting $4500 per month for one kid you shoulda saved at least 1/2 of that *****.
2. Why didnt she get a *****in’ job? ***** child support is for the “child” not for your ***** to lay around.
3. she got kicked outta her house huh? I bet if I went over there and inventoried her ***** she’d have Louis Vuitton purses, Playstations 1 2 and 3, shoes up the *****, extra weave hair laying around, and a car thats at least new or damn near new!
4. This is a wake up call for you women (notice I didnt say hoes)The only person you can depend on is you. Now the courts are gonna make this ***** resume support payments but they damn sure aint gonna be $4500 per month, maybe like $1500 (6am never wrong)
5. 50’s greedy ***** babymomma *****ed up the game for all you *****es, its a new day!
Love 6am
It’s so sad that these sorry ***** men and women won’t handle their business when it comes to their seeds, but all these deadbeat moms and dads need to know that a day will come when they will need help and there goin to call on these children who they didn’t take care of. Baby girl go to work and do the best you can trouble don’t last always, GOD is about to move in your life believe that!
*PRAYER CHANGES THINGS*
@ WONKWONK
EXCUSE ME WONKWONK, WHEN DISCUSSING THE PLIGHT OF NEGROES, WE ARE DEALING WITH A RACE ON AVERAGE WHERE THE GRANDPARENT ARE IN THEIR MID TO LATE THIRTIES AS OPPOSED TO WHITES WHOSE GRAND PARENTS ON AVERAGE ARE IN THEIR EARLY FIFTIES TO SIXTIES. I REALIZE THIS MAYBE HARD FOR YOU TO GRASP, BUT IN HINDSIGHT, IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT. IT’S SIMPLY YOUR ENVIRONMENT AND EXPECTATIONS OR A LACK OF.
@ 6am = Marquis de Sade
***** you *****, you aint slick. Always trying to change your I.D. but you always typing the same ***** about hating on black women and saying its always our fault.
@ Sherman,
Wonk is right, this is he first generation of Blacks, whites, messycans or whatever to not excede the generation before it. ***** is expensive as hell everywhere, where i live my parents bought their house in 1972 before I was *****in’ born for $27,000, my father says he didnt know how they were gonna pay for that ***** and start a family at the same time, now that **********a is worth $980,000 (Honolulu)How are we as young adults gonna compete with that *****?
Oh yeah Sherman about personal responsibility? Ive seen some meth head white *****es who would stab the ***** outta their parents without blinking an eye, look at all these recent college shootings, when white *****s go beserk they wanna take out as many **********as as possible, and they do!
What you should be concentrating on is sealing these *****in’ borders, the messycans are coming over here at a rate of 10,000 per day, getting pregnant and stealing your livehoods away from you.
So instead of hating people who were born and raised here, concentrate on what you can do to protect what you already have.
Love 6am
@ Sherman, I’m convinced you a *****in idiot because you obviously didn’t read what I said, I know what year it is *****HEAD, I am a single mother raisin my child I’m 21 had her when I was 17 i’m livin on my own and in school and doin better than “EVERYBODY” thought I would see Its people like you that I just want to spit on who have that mind set that “sterilization” would actually work??? DOUBT If it EVER will happen I’m talking about REALITY SIR, and unfortunatley for you sterilization is not a part of reality.
@ Shaniqua,
First, what a *****ed up ghetto ***** name you have!
I am the real “Its6amHogetOut” I’d never wanna be anyone else.
@NotoriousOne
Its funny because when I punish them I feel like I’m punishing myself. I want my kids to always be happy, they are already spoiled but in a positive way.
@Wonk,
First let me congratulate you on not having a *****ed up nappy ***** weave! You kinda cute, if you werent a babymomma I’d bring your ***** over here!
PEOPLE THIS IS NOT A RACE THING THIS IS A PEOPLE THING!!!!!
Am I the only one reading this she said that she got evicted because he didn’t pay child support sooooooo where’s her job? Why is she only dependent on him? Sorry she sounds like a gold digger why is she concern with the mink and seven jeans? I mean she needs to step up her game and get a job and stop depending on her baby daddy
M-daddy, why is Oakland PD advertising over here in Honolulu for police officer recruits? Is ***** that *****ed up in Oakland where **********as dont wanna get shot? The newspaper says starting salary is $70,000 a year.
@Lauren
Play nice boo
@ 6am
You maybe who you say you are, but you type the same the ***** so ***** you *****.
Child supoort check is a national hustle-game for american girls more black girls
“***** you *****, you aint slick. Always trying to change your I.D. but you always typing the same ***** about hating on black women and saying its always our fault.”
AMEN!!!!
@Its6amHoGetOut
M-daddy, why is Oakland PD advertising over here in Honolulu for police officer recruits? Is ***** that *****ed up in Oakland where **********as dont wanna get shot? The newspaper says starting salary is $70,000 a year.
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Yeah its pretty messed up over here. People gettin killed left and right. Today A few of the Goldenstate Warriors are visiting schools to talk to the kids about the violence that is happening out here. I just back from Arizona and I saw the same advertisement I was shocked
***** get a job. she is more irrisponsible than he is. which woman would not go out an get a job to take care of her and her child. it’s called being a single mother. if your not ready for it, don’t have children period! he should get custody.
@ MDADDY, THATS EXCATLY WHAT I WAS TRYIN TO TELL FAT ***** SHERMAN
@ LAUREN
A CHILD AT 17. RAISING IT ON YOUR OWN. BELOW AVERAGE GRASP OF THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE. WHY AM I NOT SURPRISED.
@ Mdaddy, sorry babe I got kinda heated, lol
@ Sherman, Trust and belive I am educated, I am pursuing my nursing degree now, working at one of the top ten Hospitals in the UNITED STATES going to an ivy league school, listen baby I don’t need to try and impress anyone with big words, my actions speak louder boo boo, and we’re not on CNN’S FORUM THIS IS BOSSIP DAMMIT
@ Lauren
@ Mdaddy, sorry babe I got kinda heated, lol
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LOL I see. But remember everybody has their own opinions, a person who has never experienced what another person has can never really know, so in the end all that they have is their opinions
So, sherman, where are your statistics now? BECAUSE I AM NOT ONE OF THEM DARLING..
@ MDaddy, Maybe he misunderstood me is probably all I had to say but like I said we’re on Bossip (my fav!) not CNN (another one of my fav’s) lol….u know I play nice….maybe I should go tothe Beyonce Forum…lol…..
“So, sherman, where are your statistics now? BECAUSE I AM NOT ONE OF THEM DARLING.. ”
Why are you conversing/explaining yourself to this coon trool???
“***** get a job. she is more irrisponsible than he is. which woman would not go out an get a job to take care of her and her child. it’s called being a single mother. if your not ready for it, don’t have children period! he should get custody.”
Typical black mans response.. Anything to take the blame off his being the only race of man who more oftenthan not abandons his babies.. Its not owkring here, *****.. Take care of your damn kids..
@Lauren
No No No you stay right here. Being a young single strong BLACK Mother/Woman your presence is definatly needed here
@ SMDH….U right I shouldn’t even have sweat that…..
@ SMDH, On the other posts, I never truly understood your logic, I think it was because of your lingo but today I totally get you, and not even just on this post, i’m talking your whole outlook on black men and how how some of them treat black women….needless to say we need more MDADDY’s right ?
@ MDaddy… ok will…
“needless to say we need more MDADDY’s right ?”
ABSOLUTELY!! Every black man should take fatherhood as serious as MDADDY does..
MDADDY: You’re a dying breed brotha.. Whats wrong with your brethren??? Haven’t we had enough black boys being raised without daddy?? You need to spread some of what you’ve got – for real!!!
@ MDaddy, They are recruting police form NY over here to Philly….theres a shortage over here on the East Coast too….
@Shaniqua, Im sorry if my truthfulness hurts your feelings but you gotta be honest with yourself first:
1. Any parent who gives their child a *****ed up name like yours is just guaranteeing her child doesnt have chance to even get her foot into the door of a fortune 500 company……Do you have sisters named Loquitia, Ebonia or Peaches?
2. I do blame women for their *****ed up situations, I didnt tell your *****es to lay up with some ***** fresh outta jail, no job and sellin’ weed outta your government subsidized apartments, thats all your doing, and just because a ***** made enough money this week to buy some diapers,zig zags, a package of balogna and a couple 40’s, get your weave tightened, and put $12 worth of gas in Your Toyota Carolla doesnt mean he’s your dream *****! Oh wait, that is a hood *****es dream *****!
3. So dont get mad me for typing the truth, you had the opportunity to right your parents wrongs, but you chose to stay on that same “cradle to the grave” poverty track, that means once you hit 18 you shoulda legally changed your name, not gotten pregnant again by the same type of broke ***** *****, went to college (even a Jr College) and put your live back together.
6am, I love you all!
And some of the poor kids don’t even get to see their daddy til his funeral, smh!
@SMDH
I agree with Lauren I just thought you hated Black Men but now I see where you are coming from. And you made a comment that its not all Black Men which I respected, I know my brthas have not done their jobs effectivly and it really saddens me I love and respect my Black Sistahs. Where would men be with out them? After all you gave us life
@SMDH
@MDADDY: You’re a dying breed brotha.. Whats wrong with your brethren??? Haven’t we had enough black boys being raised without daddy?? You need to spread some of what you’ve got – for real!!!
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Its work in progress
Damn
I do blame women for their *****ed up situations, I didnt tell your *****es to lay up with some ***** fresh outta jail, no job and sellin’ weed outta your government subsidized apartments, thats all your doing, and just because a ***** made enough money this week to buy some diapers,zig zags, a package of balogna and a couple 40’s, get your weave tightened, and put $12 worth of gas in Your Toyota Carolla doesnt mean he’s your dream *****! Oh wait, that is a hood *****es dream *****!
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U BETTA PREACH!!!
“MDaddy, They are recruting police form NY over here to Philly”
You’re from Philly?? You all better do my boy Barack right on April 22nd!!!!!!
Lauren…
Definitely don’t let that ish get to you. That’s what ignant folks try to do. They feel relatively safe hiding behind their keyboards spewing ignorance but are probably just mad because all those they consider ‘minorities’ have achieved more than they ever will.
I am so sick and tired of chicks thinking they can have a baby by some guy and be taken care of for the next 18 years.
1. she was evicted from her home in Miami because Winans won’t pay child support
child support is to support the CHILD. not to pay her bills. she was evicted because SHE didnt make sure her bills were paid.
Mario should be in his child’s life but he shouldn’t be the only one responsible for making sure their son has boots in the winter. I know plenty of single mothers who support their children by themselves and they do whatever needs to be done to provide for their children.
@Lauren
@ MDaddy, They are recruting police form NY over here to Philly….theres a shortage over here on the East Coast too
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When I was little I was taught to hate the LAW!! But when I got from under the negative thoughts that was put in my head I actually wanted to be a cop. I still might
@ 6AM….U don’t know how true that is in my neighborhood….so sad I can’t count how many time a girl claimed the guy “LOVED HER” because he wants to “move in” Well, thats because he lives with his momma and hes gonna mooch off of you….crazy!
@NotoriousOne
What would this post be without somebody making unique statements? LOL
@lauren
You know who you are boo just keep that in mind
@ MDADDY….U should totally do it!! Somebody like you could change a whole neighborhood…..thats what we need though.
@ SMDH_ U know I will! Hilary is over here in Philly today trying to give some good head….lol…jk….but I need Barack to come on down and show them that PA is NOT a lost cause, RIGHT NOTORIOUS??
“I agree with Lauren I just thought you hated Black Men but now I see where you are coming from. And you made a comment that its not all Black Men which I respected, I know my brthas have not done their jobs effectivly and it really saddens me I love and respect my Black Sistahs. Where would men be with out them? After all you gave us life”
I am so glad both you and Lauren can see this… I do not hate the black man.. The only hate/hurt I feel in my heart is for the black man who hates himself and his race… This black woman bashing/systematic abandonment is getting ridiculous.. AT some point we must stick together..
Every wonder how *****ing immigrants can come over here and within a few years can be doing better than the average black person can in a lifetime?? ITS CALLED UNTIY AND PRIDE.. At some point we have to look out for each other and our children..
@ Lauren…
Obama is making sure that he has Mississippi on lock and then he’s gonna storm PA!
@ SMDH, I’m trying to get all my peoples to actually register to vote because the deadline is MARCH 24TH….It starts by registering, do you know how many people show up on voting day and they’re not registered?SMH….
@ Brother M…
“What would this post be without somebody making unique statements? LOL”
You’re right, you’re always going to have an instigator. I just wish we would ignore those types. There’s a way to state a dissenting opinion w/out being rude or derogatory about it. Worse is the fact that they generalize or act as though some of life’s hardships only apply to one race.
@ SMDH “Every wonder how *****ing immigrants can come over here and within a few years can be doing better than the average black person can in a lifetime?? ITS CALLED UNTIY AND PRIDE.. At some point we have to look out for each other and our children..”
CO SIGN 100%……..U see the Chinese people with their chain of stores….and U see us gunning each other down…so sad sometimes.
SMDH
Every wonder how *****ing immigrants can come over here and within a few years can be doing better than the average black person can in a lifetime?? ITS CALLED UNTIY AND PRIDE.. At some point we have to look out for each other and our children..
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AMEN!! The only problem is we dont trust one another and to be honest some of us cant be trusted. Its SAD!!
@ Notorious One….If you scroll above you will see that I tried to be patient and state what I had to state to get my point across but then he tried to come at me PERSONALLY and I just didn’t think that was neccesary.
@ Lauren…
“do you know how many people show up on voting day and they’re not registered?”
That’s some of the gr*****roots work that some of the Obama volunteers try to do, educate some of the younger voters on the whole registering and voting process. A lot of people don’t know that even if you were convicted of a felony and couldn’t previously vote, there IS a process to make yourself eligible again (varies by state).
Plus u know Philly chicks….lol…just kidding….
@ Lauren…
“U see the Chinese people with their chain of stores….and U see us gunning each other down…so sad sometimes.”
I agree w/ you & SMDH to a certain extent but there a lot of factors involved at the OTHER end as well. Studies have shown that a black couple w/ better credit and a higher income than a white couple will STILL be less likely to get a home mortgage loan approval. There are institutional trappings that handicap even those that have done all the right things.
@ Lauren…
“I tried to be patient and state what I had to state to get my point across but then he tried to come at me PERSONALLY and I just didn’t think that was neccesary.”
That’s my point exactly, some people are not about having an intelligent discussion. They just want to put you down regardless of what you say. That’s when you know you don’t need to waste your time.
@ YOU PEOPLE
CO SIGN 100%……..U see the Chinese people with their chain of stores….and U see us gunning each other down…so sad sometimes.
AMEN!! The only problem is we dont trust one another and to be honest some of us cant be trusted. Its SAD!!
I REPEAT! STERILIZATION
Okay guys I’m outtie b 4 rush hour becomes a *****….SMDH, NOTORIOUS, MDADDY…..Talk to you guys 2 moro!!!
Have a great night, MDADDY tell the boys Auntie Lauren said Hi! lol…..Oh and Notorious I know you have a 2 yr old boy right? I hae a 3 yr old girl….play date? Central Park? lol…..we’ll talk….bye guys!
@ SHERMAN B. Y.T
I REPEAT! STERILIZATION
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WHAT IS NEEDED IS EDUCATION!!!
Lauren…
“play date? Central Park?”
Let’s make it happen!! LOL Have a good one L.
f*** him girl thats y the song is called INDEPENDENT actually do u kno what that means ??????
@Lauren
Okay guys I’m outtie b 4 rush hour becomes a *****….SMDH, NOTORIOUS, MDADDY…..Talk to you guys 2 moro!!! Have a great night, MDADDY tell the boys Auntie Lauren said Hi! lol…..Oh and Notorious I know you have a 2 yr old boy right? I hae a 3 yr old girl….play date? Central Park? lol…..we’ll talk….bye guys!
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Have a good one boo luv ya kiss lil Mama and tell her Uncle M-Daddy luvs her
@ LAUREN
DON’T FORGET TO STOP BY WIC FOR YOUR WEEKLY NUTRITIONAL WELFARE SUPPLEMENTS TO NOURISH YOUR MISTAKE.
@ SMDH & Lauren,
In my opinion the only women that should get offended by what i type are the ones who are in that situation.
Bill cosby is right, he heard a bunch of kids talking then wanted to chastise them, but he couldnt once he heard the parents talk.
About a week ago I was down in Waikiki and heard this deep south military mother telling her 3 year old to come here, wanna know how she called him? “***** get over here, did you here me callin’ your stupid *****? I’m gonna beat the ***** outta you” All in front of about 10 white people.
Now Ive been told to embrace our race, but lets get real, I have nothing in common with a person like this or anyone who listens to that ignorant deep south rap that BET pimps out to our youth 24/7. I’m sorry but these are my opinions.
HE WILL PAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
“Okay guys I’m outtie b 4 rush hour becomes a *****….SMDH, NOTORIOUS, MDADDY…..Talk to you guys 2 moro!!! Have a great night, MDADDY tell the boys Auntie Lauren said Hi! lol…..Oh and Notorious I know you have a 2 yr old boy right? I hae a 3 yr old girl….play date? Central Park? lol…..we’ll talk….bye guys!”
Have a good one.. .I’ll be here tomorrow still preaching..
@ 6am
***** the more you type the more im convinced that your Marquis de Sade. ***** you.
“***** the more you type the more im convinced that your Marquis de Sade. ***** you.”
Sure he is.. Lemme give you a few more.. He’s also: Big Jim, Jenna, Kevin among others..
Marquis de Coon is a sad little ***** black man who hates himself and he apparently thinks if he spews hate to black women he can make them hate themselves too thereby making him feel slightly better about himself..
Just laugh at his unick black ***** like I do…
Wow you two broke ***** nappy weave wearin’ uneducated babymommas stick together huh? Oh well I guess its less painful to be broke and ignorant alone huh?
I am the real “6am” but tell me something hoes, why do you keep having kids when you cant even feed the ones you have right now? can you answer that question?
It’s real sickening to see how many women on this site are OK with the mindset that it’s okay to expect to be left high and dry by a sorry-*****d nicca too irresponsible to take care of his own body and wrap it up. I mean, I believe all adults should work and support themselves, peroid. People who have children should provide for them, period. But as a society, black people have got to stop accepting this black men can create and baby and leave because the women will just have to handle it. We are reinforcing the wrong kinds of stereotypes, and hav elong been our own worst enemies.
Oh and Shaniqua, that still doesnt explain your ghetto ***** name and why you arent trying to better yourself, tell me what did you name your kids? (please oh please lord tell me they have normal names)
It really gets to me when I hear young kids use the “N” word. I use to use it all the time until I heard one of my sons friends using the word like that was the only word he was ever taught in school. Like the teacher gave him a text book and thats all it said in it. How could I teach my kids not to use the N word or any derogatoy insulting word for that matter if I use it. So I try not to curse as much as I use to amongst other things and I definately dont use the “N” word
@ 6am
Don’t bother? I’ve asked that question ad infinitem, with no response, other than, that i hate black women.
@Just a thought,
These women aint trying to hear what youre saying, If it aint weave, indoor swapmeet, putting money on their *****s books, or WIC, what you just said went in one ear and out the other!
How can I hate black women? I come from a black woman, but heres the difference, she is a “strong black woman” with a husband! You hoes keep making the same mistakes (kids) over and over again without a husband in sight and no prospects of ever getting one. hate me all you want, say Im too critical and my words beat up on single mothers but if anyone can explain this to me i promise to never come in here again; If you live in the projects and youre on some kind of federal *****istance you shouldnt have a plasma tv, alcohol anywhere in that apartment, a weave, nothing designer, and no video games whatsoever, if you have any of these than your ***** is just *****in’ lazy and most likely fat. If you have some ***** laying up in there with you then he’s just moochin’ off your ***** and just lookin’ for a place to lay his head until he gets caught again.
Anything i just typed I dare someone to prove me wrong.
Oh and you damn well shouldnt be out at any clubs looking for the next victim (babydaddy) on the night of the 1st or 15th!
Halle berry , Gabrielle Union, Nia Long, Lauren London, Janet Jackson, Beyonce, etc are all black, even my 1/2 black 1/2 asian female friends here in Honolulu consider themselves 100% black, but guess what hoes, they aint doing the same ***** youre doing!
@ 6am
You won’t get a response. I’ve preaced and asked the same questions, but to no avail. In them answering those questions, would compromise their long suffering sista victim dogma routine.
It’s a lot easier for them to blame and hate black men for their poor choices they’ve made in life.
Bebe and Cece come get your nephew!!!!!
@ 6am
You make some good points, but would you not agree that the blame for the state that the black community is in should also be shared with irresponsible men, as well as women? After all, it takes two to tango.
As for myself, I’ve always said, put marriage before the carriage.
WTH, child support DOES include partial rent/mortgage. Why wouldn’t it? The child needs a place to live, why should it be the mothers job solely to provide that.
Living off of $4,500….that’s not a lot of money! That’s the moms fault though, she should have a job and the child support check shouldn’t be her only source of income.
Mario is still dead wrong for not seeing his child and if he was ordered to pay $4,500, then he should just pay up. Case closed.
Maybe next time they’ll invest in condoms.
@ Marquis
Some men also hate women for the poor choices they’ve made in life, which could lead to them owing child support, etc. The pathological thinking goes both ways, and the blame game is wrong whether it is perpetuated by a man or a woman.
Mar 10, 2008 – 8:11 am SBM loves the Lakers
Why Chicago?? Thats why its good to be homeless in Florida or California…Weather is easy to predict…
Hot and it might rain
***********DEAD***************
Mil City finest. All I got to say I fill sorry for the baby. And lol for the mother she probably was just another groupie lookin for someone to save her. LADIES WACTH WHO YOU *****ING CUZ AT THE END U MIGHT BE THE ONE GETTING *****ED.
@Marquis de Sade & 6am
We just have to better educate our shortys, boys and girls so that we are not contributing to raising welfare women and dead beat daddies
@ Sydney
I’ve went over this a while ago:
Marquis de Sade
@ GHB
I reiterate GHB. We as men don’t get pregnant. Women do…And since women carry the responsibility of child birth, logically it would be in their best interest to make sure it’s with someone that they’re not only married to, but shares their values and philosophy regarding shared parenthood. It’s not rocket science, it’s good ol’ fashioned common sense. Just because you women meets some stud at the club and after exchanging a few drunken pleasantries resulting in unprotected sex, doesn’t mean that said stud is willing to stick around to play husband/father…Especially if said stud is barely employed, undereducated with the earning potential of a McDonald’s french fry cook. There are over 13 forms of birth control for the woman and only two for men: Abstinance or the Condom. Ironically the condom is the least effective contraceptive on the market, due to breakage, slippage or leaking, and all the feminist logic in the world is not going to change that reality.
Mar 3, 2008 – 12:11 am lovely and amazing
@ Marquis de Sade
Speak.
@ Sisters
Do you want brothers to tell you the truth or what you want to hear or what you want to be true? Here you have the truth and it’s not debatable don’t say oh he doesn’t really mean that and get pregnant anyway. If you do that, then that baby is your baby.
I’m so grateful my husband and I know the truth to p***** on to our daughter and son.
Sisters, stop the nonsense cycle of denial, victim pathology, and p*****ive-agressive entrapment please. There are children’s lives at stake!
@ Marquis de Sade
But you keep presenting the same, flawed one-sided argument. Would you not agree that both parties in a dysfunctional relationship are at fault? I’m not saying women aren’t to blame for their actions, but let’s be rational here — men should be accountable as well. We all have a shared responsibility.
@ Marquis de Sade
And I say again that your personal experiences with this issue have colored your opinions, and that’s something that requires self-examination, not finger-pointing or denigration.
I’ll answer Sydney first, Women choose who they lay up with unless they were raped and got pregnant then that would be a whole seperate issue, these women chose their babydaddies and they have to admit they made the wrong choice, some keep making the wrong choices. Of course some of these men are to blame, but they knew what they were gonna do before they even had an orgasm in that woman, besides its a womans ultimate responsibilty when it comes to birth control, if he doesnt wanna wear a condom then dont ***** him! All that “he said he loved me *****” only works on ignorant *****es! (or fat ones) LOL!
@Shia, $4,500 a month can rent you a nice two bedroom apartment ($1,800) groceries ($400) utilities ($250) health insurance ($300) and a lil car ($350) that leaves $1,400 a month for savings, you know damn well were that extra money went, weaves, handbags, manicures & pedicures and the club. besides, I dont think that ***** was ordered to pay that money, I think he just gave her that ***** then him and his new wife got tired of it.
@ Sydney
Whether you women want to own up to it or not, you pretty much control the situation when it comes to bringing a child into this world.
Blacks comprise only 12 percent of the nation, yet 37.2 % of welfare recipients are black…………………………………………….
@ 6am
Yes, I agree that women should demand that men use protection (either that or abstain from sex — the only 100% protection from pregnancy and STDs), and I agree that a number of women are making the wrong choice in men they choose to lie down with. I think we have a cycle of dysfunction at play — we now have a majority of black households with no fathers in place, so there are girls growing up without the example of being in a two-parent household, and there are boys who lack the modeling to know how to be husbands and fathers. I had a father at home who taught me everything you just stated, but not everyone has that (nor does everyone have a mother who could teach them these lessons as well).
I’m just saying that this is not a black-and-white problem, or a female-only, male-only issue, we all share the blame in this, and we have to work together to fix it.
I’ll bite.
There ARE females like 6am talks about.
There are ALSO trifling males out there who fit into their own deplorable situations of perpetual expendability in society.
There are WOMEN, like myself, and others who are educated, with their jobs, own houses, cars, private possessions and property, even own businesses WITHOUT the aid of child support checks or money from men. There are WOMEN who do not use babies as monthly pay checks, but their skills in education and the workforce to get their grip.
There ARE MEN, educated, with their jobs, own houses, cars, private possessions and property, even own businesses; who will be MEN; marry the women they love, and raise their children with that woman (Barack Obama; Will Smith). If not married, there are MEN who will raise all their kids without the pressure of the child support courts or dubious baby others.
The bottomline is: You know who you are; so, the explanation to that effect is useless.
When was the last time Mario had a hit? I would have to *****ume the house he’s living in and his expenses are being supplemented by his family The Winans. If this woman was so concerned about the welfare of her child, why does’nt she relinquish custody to Mario?..Or is she using their child as a bartering tool to extort an unreasonable amount of child support so she can continue to live the lifestyle that she was accustomed to while they were together.
Celeb or not or just a wannabe … people have got to be more responsible when they decide to be sexually involve!!!! The courts need to make him pay –within reason– even if he needs to get another JOB!!!
@Whatchaknoaboutdat?
Celeb or not or just a wannabe … people have got to be more responsible when they decide to be sexually involve!!!! The courts need to make him pay –within reason– even if he needs to get another JOB!!!
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Or get the law involved.
@ Sydney, You ever tried talking to one of these multiple babymommas? first you gotta get her to admit shes made mistakes, then you gotta get her out from in front of that TV, Then you gotta get her to stop saying “my kids are well taken care of” but try following up that statement with “but by who?” next get her to stop saying “my kids dont need a daddy, I am their momma and daddy” Sydney most people would love to do what you say we should do, but if a ***** is ignorant and defensive from the outset, how am I and other people gonna reach her? Your statement of we all share the blame in this and we all have to fix it sounds good, but damn, I still gotta reach my personal goals before I can try and help another person…..especially when they really dont want your help.
M-daddy, the law is already involved, thats why their babydaddies are in jail!
I personally don’t subscribe to that “IT TAKES A VILLAGE TO RAISE A CHILD” b.s. That’s just another code for enabling or welfare.
@Its6amHogetOut
M-daddy, the law is already involved, thats why their babydaddies are in jail!
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Point well taken
This whole subject cracks me up, go back 5, 10, 15 years to High school and these same *****es are the ones who skipped cl*****es to go hang out smoke weed and ***** these same dumb wannabe gangster *****s who are now the fathers of their children………. ever wonder how these women never admit that *****?
@ 6am
Not necessarily. Most of them are booted out within a week or so, due to overcrowding to accomodate more hardened criminals. Now they just use Wage garnishments and revoked drivers licenses.
M-daddy youre a cop right? How many times have you gone to a house because of a domestic disturbance and saw weed, alcohol, dirty ***** clothes all over the place, some ***** who aint even on the lease who just beat the ***** outta the woman, video games everywhere but not one book in sight, you opened up the fridge and saw nothing but 40’s, balogna, condiment packages from every fast food place imaginable (no milk, eggs, fruit, vegetables,) sugary cereal etc. And the woman doesnt want you to take him to jail?
What good is a wage garnishment to a ***** who doesnt have a job? And he’s gonna drive anyway with or without a license.
F*ck him because dead beat Dad’s like him make it hard for the guy’s that want to do right to have to pay more.
AND
F*ck her because a lot of these b*tches just want the money and don’t care about the kids.
@ 6am
It’s the system. That’s why i feel the responsibility, ultimately lies with the female in regards to breeding with a loser. I got into a debate with someone else, who had a friend in a 5 year relationship that resulted in a child out of wedlock after which she had to chase him down for child support. She claimed that he wasn’t like that when they met, but you know and i know that the signs were there that he was probably not father material. She just chose to ignore the signs, thus suffering the consequences.
@ 6am
You’re right, you can’t save everyone, but if you break through to one person, you can make a difference, and I’m speaking for myself as well. Also, it sounds like you’re a brother on his grind, and you could be a great mentor to a boy or girl, if you’re not doing so already. I also need to do more mentoring myself, instead of just talking the talk.
Also, I don’t have any children, but I’ve made many relationship mistakes myself, and you’re right, there were always signs that I chose to ignore. Hopefully, I’ve gotten wiser with age.
@SMDH
Why would you, in your most ignorant hallucination think my son’s father was a deadbeat? See, it’s people like you, who are so pathetically simple that preclude everyone’s ability to have an intelligent dialogue.
Whether you believe the facts of my history or not is your choice. The sun will still rise come morning. The moral of the story is to not depend on anyone anything. See, money from him tied me to him and I didn’t want that. Why would I want to have anything to do with him after HE DIVORCED ME? I made up my mind that if he wanted to have a relationship with our son, then he could free from my interference, this way, excuses are null and void. Actually, their relationship is quite good. Sorry, if that message wasn’t conveyed before. I didn’t know I have to tell EVERYTHING!!!
@MDaddy and Luvchild.
I walked away with nothing. Not even a car he bought for me in happier times; and I wasn’t employed. I moved in with a friend. She and I were both struggling. My brother would send me money when he could and I would use it to look for employment, buy groceries and give my friend some.
However, within a year and a half, I had a three bedroom 2 bath condo, a new car and money in the bank.
It was by the Grace of God that I could keep my mind together and focus on the things that were important. Checking on my ex and his new life with his new woman seemed like a waste to me then and now.
I’m not saying don’t pursue child support, I’m stressing pursue your own stability and happiness. It’s worth it!
Well, well, she finally did it! I always knew she was crazy. FIrst of all, she was never his girlfriend (I know them both). Secondly, she forced herself on him, no lie. She flew to where he was on two occ*****ions (paid for her own tickets), just so she could set him up. SHe knew what she was doing, thought she could get some money out of it and it backfired. I’d wouldn’t be surprised if they never even hooked up.
No matter what y’all think about “Bad Boy Mario”, he is truly a great father to HIS children and He loves his wife. Who by the way, is a cl*****y, beautiful lady. WHy would he mess with some trash like this!
I’m a single mother with no support from my X. You don’t see me being homeless and blaming my X for no support. Get your butt out there and get a job Biaaach! I knew you were a phsycho!
@ PrettiinRed
That’s all well and good, but sounds like you put your pride and happiness before the welfare of yours and his child. You should’ve accepted the child support that the kid was entitled to. I’m a firm believer in loving the child more than you hate your ex.
@6am, I feel you.
@marquis
I’m not saying my ex never gave. As a matter of fact, he gave and gave quite often, and he continues to give to his son. Not to me. I did not want anything to do with him. I didn’t need it.
It wasn’t pride. There’s no pride to be had when children are involved. My ex is a well respected member of the community. He could afford anything we needed. He tended to and he tends to his child. He was no longer financially responsible for me. As a consequence, I had to learn to fend for myself and I must say, I was good student.
@Marquis de Sade
There are plenty of those cases but there are also a ton of cases where the women just want to use support in a way to punish the men even the good ones.
You wanna settle this ***** right now?
Judges should make women supply receipts to the courts for every dime spent before they get that next check, then watch how fast the birthrate for single women drops!
@ Coop
Yeah i know. It happen to my brother a while back. He was paying child support and med. ins. for one of his baby mothers without any interference from the legal system, until said mother asked for more money due to mismanaging the agreed upon amount on having her hair done and some new duds to go out with her gfs. My brother balked and told her know and demand from that day forth that he would personally handle the expenses in regards to the child they had together. She got *****ed and reported him to the child welfare services, accusing him of non-payment of child support. My brother, being an idiot by paying her cash instead of a cashier check, thus creating a papertrail, didn’t have a leg to stand on while appearing before the judge, who subsequently put his earnings in arrears for 7 years of non-payment of child support.
Ooops sorry for the typos. I’m multitasking at work.
*He told her no and demanded from that day forth*
Damn, if Ive said it once I’ll say it a thousand times, dont ***** with *****es who need weaves, who are fat, who have a bunch of broke ***** girlfriends or who doesnt have a job, youre only screwing yourself!
Women who have real hair dont need to visit “weaves r us” or the “weave repair shop” every two weeks.
wanna know where to meet the right women? Try the library (ghetto *****es aint going in there, they dont play BET), the gym (ghetto fat *****es aint going in there, you gotta pay the monthly dues and that cuts into the Popeyes money), Soup plantation restaurants (all they have in there is soup, salads and sandwiches, nothing fried) that would be like sending a skinny woman to Lane Bryant, aint ***** in there for her!
So- her sob story is she has ONE CHILD, two hands and two feet and she’s homeless and her baby has no boots in the winter because of Mario Winans? *****, is you serious? When some Mamas are holding down three and four little ones, an adjustable rate mortgage and a car note in NEW YORK CITY?
She’s a bum, plain and simple. Her baby father could have been Jesus Christ himself and she would have still been *****ed up in the game.
And what business is it of hers what the wife has and how she lives? It never ceases to amaze me when a chick wants to look at what the wife has like she’s somehow entitled to that too when they didn’t put in the work she put in. Then they want to hide behind their baby like “It’s not for me, its for him!” That ***** is so lame.
oh?? i heard she has get alone with him on the site-interracialmatch.com/photo/blackchats isn’t?
You don’t think i haven’t preached that ***** to that fool brother of mine. He has a weakness for hoodrats. He has 8 kids by 4 diferent women, and two of his older kids has followed in his footsteps by making him a grandfather at the ripe old age of 39 a few years ago. Poor *****…But it’s his own damn fault by not learning from the first mistake.
M de S said: If this woman was so concerned about the welfare of her child, why does’nt she relinquish custody to Mario?..Or is she using their child as a bartering tool to extort an unreasonable amount of child support so she can continue to live the lifestyle that she was accustomed to while they were together.
-Can someone please answer that? You love your baby so much that you have him on the streets with you homeless, sleeping on couches with no boots in the winter, rather than relinquishing your dreams of a big payday and giving him to the father? Does she really love that child then?
Why should she give up her baby so that ***** could get out of giving her what she deserves, he needs to own up to his responsibility and pay her what she owed.
Shaniqua: She should give up her baby so he can live in a house and have boots in the winter.
She deserves that? SHE deserves that? Not even the baby anymore, huh? Lets strip that facade away. She deserves it…
***** that bum ***** and everybody like her. A ***** that would let her baby go without while she sits around boo-hooing about a ***** doing her wrong doesn’t deserve *****. Child protective services needs to step in and revoke her *****.
deadbeat?
@NYC Chic
You’re 100% on the money.
I feel bad for that poor kid. Neither one of his parents seems to care about putting him first … The dad says the mom’s whatever but then y was he with her for so long before the baby came along
c*****idy damn she could get the business easily.
thats why DEADBEAT women like these need to stay in school, go to college and get a well paying job to take care of they kids, and stop having to rely on these deadbeat *****s who never pay no child support. SMH
This, just kills me. Deadbeat dad’s should be castrated! I ‘m sick of it! The children are suffering, men need to stop acting like *****es and be men.DAMN TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN! THEY NEED YOU!!!!
Um it doesn’t matter if the mother works or not. The point is the man is STILL equally accountable to the child. It is wrong wrong wrong for the mother to bear the burden all alone. Not just financially but emotionally it isn’t fair to the child or the mother. Yes of course the mother should be able to support herself and the child. That plan should be in place at all times because you never know what is going to happen and you do noe ever want to be completely dependant on anyone. How ever the father is accountable ALWAYS to his child no matter what!
I meant not in sentence 4, sorry!
she looks sexy.haha~~~ i see her profile on a dating site named interracialmatch.com/photo/blackchats causaully. i think she is hot on it now.lol…
i’m tired of these money hungry hoes what kid costa 5 g’s a month.she deserves child support but damn this sorry ***** is dependent on him get a job you dumb weak *****.i like to see these hoes aftyer the kid hits 18 and gets no more support checks what they going to do.5 g’s a month so this ***** can go shopping and *****.hoes nowadays are sorry why tell some media outlet about your situation ***** get a lawyer and go to court.
@pimp daddy
daaaaamnnnnnn
wats with the *****es n hoes!!!
Let’s get real here! $4500 in FL? I live in FL, cheapest ***** place you could ever live. $4500 would support her entirely, all expenses, who is she kidding!
Sit and dawg Mario! Please! And don’t anyone bring Vicky’s name in this! They are a church going family and she doesn’t need her name plastered in this mess.
People make mistakes, if Mario messed with her, on the 2 occasions she visited him, it was the one mistake he will regret. No one needs a sick ***** like this one, out there messing with your family’s life.
She is a nut case, plain and simple. Get your lazy ***** out and get a job, like the rest of us. Or go on welfare, like the others do, but please please don’t cry the homeless *****.
This is just another way to get yourself in the lime light and you aint even all that.
Get a job *****. I hate lazy ***** women. Okay he not doing his part that is when you step and and do what you got to do to take care of your children. He’ll get his believe me.
I especially hate women who get pregnant so may times and are on welfare. Lazy pieces of *****. Ya’ll wanna keep blaming the men stop getting pregnant before getting married. She knew what type of man he was before she laid down with him. God is giving you what you deserved.
Stop having sex with men hoping they will keep your ***** b/c you got pregnant. They women are not the victims the children are. Feel sorry for these kids born during the hoe era!!!
That is not right. He needs to be a man and take care of his child.
Woemn who keep going to court should have to show how much they contribute to their child. They should not be allowed to get more money without first showing how much more they are providing. A man should not have to pay for child support , if his name is not on the birth certifictae signed by him and if he has not taken a paternity test. The court should have to provide paternity test if they are gonna really try to provide the correct support for a child. A lot of women are depserate.
I also think men who have more than 1 baby momma are nasty and trifling. No sense of family unit and wanting to establish something that his been stolen from black culture since slavery days.
Whats up m daddy… I feel you on your views, i have a family member who takes care of his daughter by the mama and he also has her daughter by another guy, and the kids love the heck out of him. keep it strong boo!
F that Nicca man …see stuff like this burns me up. because I’m married and a father of two (same woman my wife) and I stay on my grind to provide for my family trying to get where that punk is and he ain’t paying ***** him…See he makes hard working brothas like my self who do right by there woman and kids want to smack the ***** out of him…Because you threw your ***** in her raw chief so you knew the get back now help raise your son …***** no matter what you say about 50 at least that dude takes care of his kids and at the end of the day I respect that more that music or some punk ***** beef…F Mario …COLD BLOOD
@ Marquis de Sade
Your brother has eight children by four different women? Not only did he not get the lesson, he didn’t want to learn. Reckless behavior comes in both genders, and, as they say, like attracts like.
@ 6am
I would add to your list that bookstores, museums, cultural events, and the like are other quality places to meet people. I did meet one of my boyfriends in the gym, and he turned out to be a complete jerk, though, lol.
Wait…does this bony heffa have on a sanitary napkin or are those just her hollow pubic bones? How she squeeze a baby out of that river of sticks? She pretty though…but she needs to eat…some beenie weenie and some cornbread
something’s not right with that story. maybe paternity hasn’t been established. someone in her situation ought to get lawyered up and have court ordered support with a quickness.
if he is the dad, hopefully he will do right by the child.
Um!!! so sad you’ll heal. Next
It is really disgraceful how some of these people on this site are labeling these people names such as b**ch, h**, and the ni***. This is innapropriate and ignorant. If you don’t have anything intellectual to add you should keep your igrorance to your self.
The woman is supporting her self by working as a *****tail waitress in Chicago. It is harsh and mean spirited to hurl insults at a woman in a bad situation. I don’t know any waitress who sits on her butt. Many uneducated women have babies out of wedlock in all races. This is a problem in the human race as a whole. Being married or single never determined how well you will raise a child. A Husband or ex beau can shirk their responsibility in rearing their children. It is the children who suffer in these unfortunate chain of events. She has a court order for 4500 a month in which he is in arrears. She should take him back to court for violating the order.
It is insane to say the cusodial parent should not depend on financial *****istance from the childs father. It is abusive to state that he should seek custody of a child he only seen once to avoid paying support. It is parents reposiblity to support their children financially, mentally, emotionally, and spirtitually. We all are imperfect and make mistakes as humans and parents. One parent should never shoulder this reponsibility alone.
I can stand a deadbeat. It does not matter if they are male or female. If the parent is not the custodial parent then they need to contribute to
the expenses of raising that child. I think that it is selfish and ignorant to deny child support payments because one wants to appear independent. Child support has nothing to do with the parents and all to do with the child. A women or man can still be strong, educated and independent with the help of child support. I am married and happy, however if i were to ever split from my husband I would not deny my daughter child support because I want to uphold a certain image. Collecting child support would not make me less than a women, because I am secure with who I am and my accomplishments. The problem with relationship
resulting in children are people
tend to focus on the ex-factor and ignore the things that matter. Custodial parents need to be advocates for their children. In many cases people who choose to deny their children support are still in love with their ex’s. It would be in the child’s best interest do what’s best for them. I have friends who sacrafice their childrens well being to make their ex’s life confortable. I also no of people who deny their children child support because they want to prove a point to their ex. I also know of females who are deadbeats but still want the respect of being called a mother. To be a mother or father is both indeed a privledge and responsibility. When I read the report about Winans it turned my stomach.
The child support is for the kid not her.Have anybody heard of calworks Bill Clinton signed that law Duhhh there is no more welfare if you had a baby after 1990 something you get no checks you go to the program and get a job and they are good paying jobs why do you think you see so many strong black females high rolling these days with no help from a man .In Cali we rollin Benz trucks,hummers,acuras etc Thanks Bill and you get more money working anyway Taxes etc
My problem with this young lady is that she sounds like she doesn’t want to work. There are plenty of monthers who are not getting support and are working their hardest to support their children. I’m not saying that he’s a saint. He does need to pay his support. It’s very sad when mothers don’t want to work and depend on these so called super star men to take care of them. Get a job and take care of your child lady.
I thought the post reads: ‘She states she is “homeless and living with friends on the South Side of Chicago,” where she works as a *****tail waitress’. Why is some people on here posting that this child’s mother needs to get a job? It cleary states she is working. Or is it just me that’s not understanding the posted story?
oops….Why are some people
sorry again, another typo…..It clearly states
Um, why is the child support what is allowing her to have shelter? I mean really! She should not have to rely on child support for the basics…
Mario’s babby’s mama should just forget about Mario one hit wonder ***** and get a job at a high end strip club, hell since she slept with Mario
go for it! But do it drug and alcohol free and hon you’ll make m*****ive tips!
The welfare program is still in effect, but welfare recipients can only recieve welfare pay ments for 5 years and after the welfare fades out then one gets into the CAL WORKS program.
Hello you guys, all babby mommas aren’t Black,
there are some white babby mommas that milk Black guys for money too. Remember Shaq’s white babby’s momma she took him to court for child support!
This a word of advice to Jane bennett, all hope is not lost don’t give up on your self and your son, keep your head up! But in my opinion you should drop the paternity court case concerning the money. Of course you can read the previous post.
There are so many options out there for you, just do some research.
Opps, sorry I meant Janel,
Mario sucks, bar none ! He just tied the knot with his current wife: Well it was either that or get shot up by her violent little brother, so he had no choice but to get married and he left Janel and her son. Simple as that.
Hello every one !
Mario’s wife should leave him, he’ll do it again !
Yes Kathy, you are right about Janelle possibly setting Mario up (I don’t know for sure if this event occured in this order but I’m not far off !)
This what happened: Janelle schemed her way down to where Mario was performing, some how she captured his eye… to be continued
What’s up !
MARIO LOOVES TO HUMP HOOCHIES !
Why would Mario mess with trash like this?
here’s your answer, Just examine the jump suit he’s wearing that’s your proof.
Janelle poked holes in the condoms, I bet.
Ok, enough of this BS! If she was his girlfriend for 8 years, then he must have been 12 when he met her. LYING *****! She chased his ***** and set him up, he wanted nothing to do with her crazy *****. Laughed when she tried to hunt him down, knowing she was out there and bi-polar. She contacted everyone who may have communication with him, to find out where he was that particular week, so she could set him up. He was fully committed in his current relationship and wanted nothing to do with her. He is a fantastic father, great husband and the best friend anyone could ever have. His children are his life, so I don’t know who you all are talkin bout, but get your ***** straight. Damn! I’m glad I’m not in the lime light, you people have him tried and convicted. If by chance he were the father, what does he have to do with her being homeless, the worthless *****. What kind of mother parties and fills their nose before their childs stomach? Y’all betta get your ***** straight.
You don’t know the *****, don’t judge him or any other so called “Bad Boys”, if you don’t know them. SOme of the biggest bad boys are the greatest people, and would help anyone out if they needed a hand. F this baby *****, she needs to stop trying to use her baby to get some gold! Gold diggin *****!
And don’t ever mention his current spouse in your *****. What a low life you are! You jealous *****. You only wish you were in her league! They are destined to be together, not you, Beaaach!
Kealoa, as I explained in the previous message posts, Janelle isn’t a nun. However, Mario screwed up when he slept with her so both parties are guilty.
Speaking of baby momma drama, Beyonce and Jay’z got hitched, but B shouldn’t get too comfy you know all Jay’s Baby mommas’ will be coming out of the wood work, oh yeah ! And she’ll be probably footing the bill on the child support like Kelis is for Nas, think about that.
this chic is a clown. he obviously doesnt want you or the kid – keep it moving skank – trash
yeah c*****ie has serious camel toe! ewwww
I remember this trick ***** hoe! she used to be one of diddys chicks!she worked for him alright! on her knees! then mario must have got in line! RIO!! say it aint so!! janel bennett? from cali? trick ***** drug hoe janel? she used to feed the whole crew drugs! didnt she f with lil cease too?