Twitter Users Discuss The Ills Of Dating While Over Weight
#FatSideStories is happening on twitter right now and the rest of us should just shut up and listen! Being overweight while dating is not easy. Our chubby cheeked peers are telling us how to NOT offend them if you’re following the hashtag. Peep some of their dating accounts below and the lessons we gathered because of them.
Here are some phrases not to use when dating someone on the fat side:
"Big girls need love too" #FatSideStories pic.twitter.com/tlheR2Ur2l
— Sydneysky (@Sydneyskysaysso) August 10, 2016
Mofo's you don't know feel free to call you "Big Man" #FatSideStories
— Kenneth L Glover (@KennyGlover) August 10, 2016
And not to confuse thick with skinny or label them at all:
When the phase "thick" became popular, but it applied to women who were still considered skinny to us #FatSideStories
— #StayWoke #BLM (@MeSoVoluptuous) August 10, 2016
It gets deeper, hit the flip.
Showing the minimum respect is not “romantic” just because he or she doesn’t fit your “ideal” body type.
Learning that men showing basic decency isn't=showing romantic interest. Realizing how rarely you're treated this way #FatSideStories
— Valar Moredolla$ (@_Roxie_) August 9, 2016
Thin women and the perpectial "she's got a man but *I* can't even get a text back" as if they deserve & I don't #FatSideStories
— indecent thexlogian (@femmina) August 9, 2016
The mental stress dealing with “skinny” beauty standards causes:
People dont care about your health b/c when you lose weight, they say "you LOOK good" and not "you're so healthy now" #FatSideStories
— Azula (@Casius_) August 10, 2016
See a therapist for mental health issues… "Have you considered losing weight?" #FatSideStories
— bad gal teetee ariel (@kiddotrue) August 10, 2016
Taking forever to find equilibrium of my own sexual desires cuz grew up desexualized then overcompensated to prove a "point" #fatsidestories
— Ushshi (@DressCarcass) August 10, 2016
And then there are the people who think they’re body experts…
#FatSideStories People who have never struggled with eating or body issues think they're nutritionists. pic.twitter.com/tzrh8AlJ0X
— JamaicanJewel (@Crysmay04) August 10, 2016
Playing with someone’s feeling is not a “joke” just because YOU’RE uncomfortable (weak).
My first real kiss was from a guy who was dared to kiss the fat kid. He then pretended to be sick while his friends laughed. #FatSideStories
— Payton Quartz (@PaytonQuinn) August 9, 2016
And don’t take advantage because you think he/she is at your disposal!
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Straight men expect that you are at their disposal, and there for their convenience. #FatSideStories pic.twitter.com/y7B6UJwfUk
— Your Fat Friend (@yrfatfriend) August 9, 2016
The classic stereotype we shouldn’t subscribe to.
Seeing trash like this on the internet. #FatSideStories pic.twitter.com/bHeEzhlP7M
— Sydneysky (@Sydneyskysaysso) August 10, 2016
And chubby does not equal “forever single.”
And I swear the next person that links my singleness to my weight is catching these hands. #FatSideStories pic.twitter.com/fmOQKskj7G
— Tiffany (@ttilmon) August 10, 2016
Did we mention not to subscribe to stereotypes?
Fat girls give good head because they're always hungry #fatsidestories pic.twitter.com/QOBjS3ZzYQ
— Green&Fluffy✨ (@LeDivaJosa) August 10, 2016
#FatSideStories "You're not fat; you're beautiful!" because apparently the two are mutually exclusive
— Chandler Koziol (@BlazeofLight) August 10, 2016
Sigh.
Lastly, this needs to stop.
When skinny girls post pics of big girls with boyfriends and go "But I can't get a text back". #FatSideStories pic.twitter.com/jDe2fCSMk6
— // Venny // (@DarthVenn) August 10, 2016
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