Thursday, March 13th, 2008

Advice From Ray-J

Posted by Bossip Staff

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Ray-J offers advice to some ladies that are trying to get put on:

“My mission is to let all women know you don’t have to be like Paris Hilton and shoot a sex tape and three weeks later you have a reality show. You don’t (have) to be like Kim and shoot a sex tape and do Playboy and become this so-called superstar from having a sex tape. Just focus on your talent, the positive things of life that you do.”

Wait a minute…he was in the sex tape too, right?

Via WENN

Comments(138) on “Advice From Ray-J”

  1. Kay

    OK, and women are suppose to take advise from a coat-tail-riding-wanna-be???? And your talent is what?? Negro, PLEASE!!!!

  2. PIMP DADDY

    fuck ray j its all about PIMP DADDY bitches.

  3. SoSo

    Doesn’t he watch that same sex tape to get his skills up???

  4. bree

    LMFAO! ok Ray- J..anything to stay relevant..

  5. Tisha

    LOL @ RAY J !!! THE SAME RAY J SUPPOSEDLY BONING SCARY LOOKING WHITNEY HOUSTON AND SCARE YOU TO DEATH LOOKING LITTLE KIM. GEEZUS! JUST STOP RJ….JUST STOP. SOMEBODY GIVE HIM A DISNEY JOB. AT LEAST THOSE LAST FOREVER, SHYT…LOOK AT RAVEN SYMONE

  6. Janelle

    Dummy….thanks for the great advice

  7. checkoutmystatus

    I never liked his cocky style, but I got to give it to Moesha’s corny brutha for gettin with Kim. I know what ppl think of her but she’s def hott in my book!

  8. jusplayit04

    GOOOODMORING, Bossip Gossip Heads

    This nigga here, shouldn’t this be a Jesus Take the Wheel moment. Ray J given advise

  9. T from Michigan

    Ray J is a LOSER! Why was he even on The Tyra Banks show? He had like 1/2 a hit song! I’m so sick of this sorry cat who got in the game on his sister’s success. The only reason anyone is interviewing him is because of the sex tape. Give me a break. Don’t you just love a double standard?

  10. FlyGirl18

    Ray J is madd retarted but he’s right…Paris and Kim aren’t really celeb’s…wat the f*ck does Paris do?..Nuttin…Kim…is a BIRD…that’s what she’s known for…so he’s absolutely right…but then agian eyyk it’s ray j


  11. Too bad his advice is incorrect. Sex vixens are really in right now for whatever reason. My advice would be if you want to be a stara and you can get your hands on a celeb, even a low level one, make a sex tape and you will get a career in the entertainment industry. You won’t be respectable, but you’ll earn a few dollars.

  12. Kompton's Kutie

    Advice?! O Lawrd!

    He need to give advice to his sister. Had people thinking she was marrying her baby-daddy when she was only his jump-off?!

  13. checkoutmystatus

    *Kim is the only chick on TV or online that EVERY time I see her I’m like DAAYYYYYUUUUMMM! LOL I may have thought like Halle or J Alba was hot but not like Kim.

  14. Lady

    Loser and all, at least he’s trying to save some of these ho-minded broads out there!! And he should know because he watched his sister Brandy take limited talent to the top without none of that ass-showing, titty bouncing bullshit!!!

  15. Southern Belle 225

    Good Morning yall!

    He needs to sit his lame ass down somewhere. He can’t give no advice cause aint NOBODY checking for his ass. If it wasn’t for Brandy, would we even know who he is?

  16. Lali

    As much as it kills me to admit it, Ray J is right… some women are crazy enough to think that if you put out a sex tape you will be become famous..some women are just dumb like that… and as for Kim and Paris, they are making a whole lot of money but have no real talent.

  17. da darkness

    why this boloney? @bossip you got all them names on my right screen and out of the 300 or so you use the same damn 5 people. shit is crazy. @step it up the summer at here yet vaction later. Give me sumtn thats sizzlin ya heard.

  18. da darkness

    Spitzer hooker let me see that

  19. lily

    I saw her profile on the dating site ~~~Tallmeet.com ~~~few days ago..she’s perfect all the same..I will paste this pic in my blog on And as a part-time model, I uploaded my best photos, the members there said I am amazing. here are many people like me. interested in?Just search the username, you may want to check them first.

  20. jaonz

    Who is that big tranny with the wig in the pic with them? Ray J likes everything doesn’t he?

  21. Sickofit

    20th – LOL

    Well Kim is definately taking advantage of her Celeb status since the tape, maybe Ray J should make another tape because it seems Kimmie is doing better than he is on the getting paid to be shown getting laid

  22. bree

    Mar 13, 2008 – 8:20 am da darkness

    why this boloney? @bossip you got all them names on my right screen and out of the 300 or so you use the same damn 5 people. shit is crazy. @step it up the summer at here yet vaction later. Give me sumtn thats sizzlin ya heard.

    *****************************************************

    what does the second to last sentence mean?..anybody?

  23. Fornication Junkie

    You don’t have to be exed up in the studio gettin’ and givin’ in brain IN A JERKCIRCLE and make a sex tape Ray J…

  24. da darkness

    serena looks so out of place. are these the young moguls of the future. lmao. no wonder the kids ain’t going to school no mo. look who’s getting the spotlight. can i see somebody ever doing something fantastic that’s black and not the same ol..ho shit you white people that run this site are so wack.

    “look wast massa done gabbed fo us ta read, isis and osiris!”

  25. getyourhandouttamypocket wants everyone to stop using the word "hater"

    What an asshole…corny bastard…

  26. Kim Kardashian

    Do you see this folks? This guys is still clinging to my cooche!!!

    Ray-J!!! I HATE YOU AHHHHHH

  27. TRUSELF

    i am proud of ray J for once. stunned****

  28. TRUSELF

    The williams girl is the only one with true talent!!

  29. da darkness

    typo ain’t not at. once summer here i’m vactioning in canada so i won’t be on no computer only the golf courses, spas, fishing, things like you know Bree. far from the urban setting. “‘ll show you how to do this hun!”

  30. BlackBeauty

    Wait a minute, why does Kim look sick and like she has a black eye in this picture? Anyway, Ray-J is such a hypocrite. He better fall back and start making some music or we will see him playing some other chick to get a sex tape out of her.


  31. RAY J WAS SO FUCKED UP ON X THAT HE FORGOT HE MUSTA DID THAT SHIT!!!

    AWW HELL I TRIED TO GIVE HIM AN EXCUSE..LOL


  32. hoes gon be hoes, that goes for Ray J too!

  33. herpesfinder

    it’s said that paris hilton has herpes!!!! it’s true?

  34. bree

    what? type in a complete sentence that makes sense..i dare you!

  35. Squidbilly

    WHERE IS REGGIE BUSH?! HE NEEDS A LEASH ON KIM ASAP IF HE REALLY LOVE HER. or he jus want her goods. id take her goods over the relationship. im surprised he didnt say anything himself. i’d whoop ray-j’s ass for doin my girl, then id go do her too then leave her.


  36. @BlackBeauty

    NO SHE DONT HAVE A BLACK EYE!!

    ALL THAT FONDATION IS WEARING OFF!!..LOL

  37. Mogolo

    I don’t kn ow about the advice thing, but I have newfound respect for Ray J for getting with a hottie like Kim K.

  38. Nivia

    Ray J is pathetic. He’s only saying this shit because he wasn’t offered a reality show like Paris and Kim after he was on the sex tape. These girls are young and they made a mistake, but now they’re banking off their mistake (perfume, clothing line and TV show) and he has nothing but that wack ass single on the radio now!

  39. Marquis de Sade

    This is one deluded self-absorbed nigga, who deserves to have every inch of his ass kicked.

  40. Squidbilly

    i wonder what brandy thinks of this…………..

  41. Guilty Pleasure

    As Madea would say, “Go sat down”…….

    Boy puh-leeze…….you’ll ALWAYS be Brandy’s little brother……..

  42. BITCH PLEASE!!! {{GET ON MY LEVEL!}}

    “Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz”


  43. ray j better get another tape out real soon because he fame is over.. kim got known off det and she will continue now because of course men cant deny head so as long as she is wiling to give head to a man den she will always be around sorry ray j… but he is right they might be known but there aint celebs.. its people out here on tape everyday suckin sumin up and r they celebs not at all

  44. SMDH

    Sounds like,to me, he’s admitting to that trashy whore being in on the release of the tape..

    … just as we’ve all been saying the whole time..

    This trashy bitch aint SHIT – and neither is he for that matter.. They’re BOTH whores..


  45. Ok, bossip!

    I’m putting your “writers” in the corner for obsessing over ray-geigh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  46. I'm Just Me

    RAY-J SHUT THE F*CK UP!

  47. Lovely One

    It is calling the pot calling the kettle black but Ray J is right.

    And Paris is “loose” but she didnt put out a sex tape to become famous. She was ALREADY FAMOUS!!! She also had more to LOSE as a result of the sex tape…like her INHEIRITANCE(which she did lose). Stop comparing Paris to KK. Its not the same, KK will never be on her level.

  48. justme

    just stoopid! lol like that sex tape didnt make people look at him differently! he’s the one who released the damn tape


  49. Fuck that for 1

    All of them look fucked up! Not only on liquor, but the CHRONIC! YAY!

    2nd: They look like they want a threesome..oops i mean 4 some!

    UGGHHH..His attitude turns me off! REAL TALK!

  50. Its all good Pimpin.. You can hate on me..

    Fuck a Ray J… He’s the one who put the sex tape out there and exploited Kim K… I think he’s jealous cause she’s more famous then his extra lame ass..

  51. Its all good Pimpin.. You can hate on me..

    @MS Sugar Walls…

    Everytime I see your name I get a craving for some kool aid.. dont know why?? LOL

  52. victory is mine

    this boy is really trying to stretch that 15 min. isn’t he…give me a break…when did he become captain save a ho…he need someone to save his broke ass…brandy can’t help right now and that tired ass song they are playing is not hitting…


  53. Just Sit and Be Pretty(My Idol) where are you at?

  54. amber86

    LMAO @ Ray J


  55. Paris has herpes!!

    Users at http://www.STDromance.com found her profile with her photo, believe it or not!!!


  56. @amber86…your my fellow Ohioan right??

    and I agree Ray-J is corny..A less famous version of Nick Cannon if that’s even possible!

  57. Morpheus

    I just threw up a bit in my mouth! This guy’s a moron!


  58. Chatti Addi, we likes to party, we dont cause trouble and we don’t bother nobody! LOL You are probably too young to know that song. Just Sit and Be Pretty is a dime piece!

  59. Lisa

    I saw him on Tyra talking about this, you can call him bitter or whatever, but it is good advice, however the media has sent the message that having a sex tape is the way to go. He did say that Kim cries a river over the sex tape being released, but if you want to get away from that image why pose for Playboy? So yeah I think he speaks the truth, but it’s hard to take him serious when he came out with a sex tape remix.

  60. k.c.

    Yah, because you know he is famous for haveing TALENT. What a fucking idiot. The only thing he is famous for is being Brandy’s little brother and doing the sex tape with Kim. Nobody (outside the black community) cares about this BOY.

  61. I GOT KILOS BEYOTCH

    TRUE … HYPOCRITICAL… BUT TRUE

  62. I GOT KILOS BEYOTCH

    @ CHATTI

    NICK IS FAMOUS IN HIS OWN RIGHT .. CORNY YEA BUT IT DONT MATTER CAUSE HE ONE OF THE MOST PAID YOUNG BLACK ACTORS OR WHATEVER HE IS IN HOLLYWOOD. NICKELODEN SET HIM UP REAL NICE. ALL OF THE KIDS FROM THAT LINE OF WORK GOT REAL PAPER


  63. Good morning

  64. Alexander O'Neal

    Yall [BOSSIP] seem to be on every D thru Z list ‘celeb’s street team. How this nigga even get a head nod? Shame on yall…


  65. Hey M-Daddy!

  66. Shawn08

    Wow, Kim was much smaller in that pic. No breasts…Wow, maybe she has had plastic surgery…


  67. @ Chatti Addi

    Hey miss lady how are you?


  68. I’m just topic bouncing…and thinking about the movie “The Last Dragon”!!


  69. @ Chatti Addi

    I’m just topic bouncing…and thinking about the movie “The Last Dragon”!!

    _____________________________________________________

    “LEROY YOU WARM YET?” LMAO

  70. Trusted Source

    I GOT MY EYE ON MR RAY J!!! AND FROM THE LOOK IN THSI PICTURE HE GOT HIS EYE ON SOMETHING TOO. LMAO


  71. @m-daddy…

    I remember the scene where Sho-Nuff goes to the movies!!!!!! classic!

  72. T-Real

    Good morning err-body! Okay…Where my fam at?

    Holla at me M-Daddy, NotoriousOne, Lai, Just sit…

    What it b like round dis camp dis mornin’…what I miss?

  73. lily

    Wow!So nice girls!I just know ——– Tallmeet.com —-_ (a tall people dating community)also has such hot girls who are seeking dating and love.I guess you will say wow to their nice figure!here are many hot model on it

  74. amber86

    @ Chatti Addi

    YEA I AM! YEA NICK CANNON IS CORNY!! HOWEVER HE IS PAID THOUGH UNLIKE RAY J….LMAO

  75. Jack Tripper

    ray j was a star before that bull-ish those chicks aint got NO TALENT by far…

  76. KD

    Okay, thing is, If a brother makes a sex tape like that, does that mess up his game with other chicks

    if he tries to holla at them, or is hollywood weird like that?

  77. Tealeaf

    Ray J was famous before the tape, he was on Moesha, but he is right about Kim and Paris

  78. Tealeaf

    Nick Cannon dump Kim azz for Selita..Nick got some brains

  79. Tealeaf

    Kim was on the View today and Barbara Walters was hard on her ass, she kept asking what does she do, and she brought up the sex tape, I bet Kim had a hissy fit, because Joy compared Paris to a hooker for having a sex tape(making money from sex)..so Kim is bascially a hooker too

  80. bbnuyr

    Straight foolishness & a little bit of hateration – He needs to get somewhere & work on his own talent. Last thing I saw him in was One On One. Sounds like he’s hatin’ on Kim.

  81. http://www.blackgirlsconnect.com/

    Good for him.

  82. texas

    THIS IS A PSA FOR EVERYONE ON BOSSIP:

    IT IS A WELL-KNOWN FACT THAT ALL CELEBRITY BLOGS HAVE STAFF WHO CONSISTENTLY POST COMMENTS TO GET THE PARTY STARTED, SO TO SPEAK..IT IS A WAY TO KEEP UP THEIR ‘RATINGS’. SO PLEASE STOP LETTING THESE FOLKS MANIPULATE YOU INTO CYBER ARGUMENTS WITH OTHERS AND GETTING YOUR BLOOD PRESSURE ALL UP AND THINGS… SEE IT FOR WHAT IT IS WORTH.

  83. Billy Blog Thorton

    I don’t see anything wrong with Ray J’s statement. He’s not condoning or condemning the fact that he has a sex tape. He’s just telling women you don’t have to exploit yourself sexually to get a head. He’s just encouraging women to use other talent(s) to get ahead. Lord knows there is no shortage of women willing to get buck wild (sexually…) to get their 15 minutes of so called fame…this site is filled with it. At least give him credit for trying to encourage women…despite the fact of the tape.

    Think about it woman before you tear him down too much. Just a thought…

  84. Built2Bully

    @Billy Blog Thorton, YOU DON’T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH HIS STATEMENT… negro please… First, lets keep it real… You shouldnt put your sex life on tape period!!!!!! Secondly, Paris Hilton DID NOT PUT A SEX TAPE OUT… Rick Solomon did…. Kim Kardashian DID NOT PUT OUT A SEX TAPE, Ray J did… So for this stupid ass, no talented nigga to make a statement like that makes him look stupid AND FOR ANY PUBLICATION TO ASK THIS NIGGA FOR ADVICE ON HOW TO GET PUT ON MAKES ME LOOK AT THEM, BECAUSE RAY J IS NON- EXISTANT IN THIS INDUSTRY…

  85. Built2Bully

    and I just read what you said TEA LEAF, and Nick Cannon got dump by Selita so what is your point? Everything is a cause and effect… you got to look at the cause and then you see the effect. If you really look at WHO HAD THE TAPES TO EVEN PUT THEM OUT (CAUSE) WHO GOT FAME AND A BIT OFF MONEY, RICK AND RAY J (EFFECT)…. yes, I know Kim got paid AFTER, she sued.

  86. ray j

    BLACK GIRLS STOP HATING ON ME CAUSE I FUCK WHITE PRETTY GIRLS AND GIVE THEM HEAD ALL THE TIME.

  87. ray j

    SEXY CAN I

  88. Chicken Juice

    @ Bossip

    Wait a minute…he was in the sex tape too, right?

    ——————————————————————————————————

    That was funny as hell.

  89. Teleaf

    Built2bully,

    Nick and Selita broke up mutuality so what’s your point,they still respect each other,Nick nor Ray J respect Kim, soon Reggie is going to dump the fame whore too. Cause n Effect..yeah a talentless, tranny face chick leaks a sex tape just like her friend Paris..CAUSE..and becomes infamous..EFFECT..

    Just like Paris, Kim pretended, she was sooo upset, and sued..yet she won’t set her ass down somewhere, she is always flaunting her flabby ass for more PR, doing Playboy and other sleazy things to stay in the media..she is a desperate FAMEWHORE just like Paris.Basically she is milking that sex tape..trashy skank

    Once Nick say what a sleaze Kim was he dumped her ASSSSS

    Selita is a model for top companies like Victoria Secrets,etc. and she was in SI

    Why didn’t a major Modeling agency sign Kim before the sex tape or even after..

    Simply they don’t want her long tranny face and flabby ass.

  90. Teleaf

    Ray J–why do you date trannish looking white girls with heavy makeup, butt pads and long drag faces?

  91. VicKaLiCioUs

    Ya’ll forget that Ray-J owns all his own music. Whenever Ray-J puts out a song of he’s getting all that bread.

    Why is Ray-J so bad for saying that? I think its the truth. Kim is a star fucker. Kim’s only claim to fame is the sextape and her pops was OJ’s attorney.

    At least Ray-J was famous for something. He tried to be a actor/singer/producer. He was well known before the tape. Kim was a rich nobody, who wanted some fame.

  92. ray j

    @Teleaf

    Ray J–why do you date trannish looking white girls with heavy makeup, butt pads and long drag faces?

    lol i smell hatorade!!!!!!kim is fucking sexy and u know it. sexy can i

  93. VicKaLiCioUs

    @Built2Bully

    Don’t think that Kim didn’t assist in releasing the tape. She was just doing the same thing Paris did. Act like she didn’t want it out. If she didn’t want to be in a sex tape WHY make one? You don’t think Kim saw what could possibly happen after Paris? So why participate?

  94. Built2Bully

    Ok, TELEAF, either your deaf, dumb and stupid or all the above… Selita dump Nick after the dude was dragging his feet to marry her ass, Victoria Secret Modeling reeeaaalllyyy isn’t a career since she has been trying to get into acting for the last 4 years. As for as Reggie Bush, He and Kim are going to be engaged sooner than you people think… but I’ll let time tell that for me… So, if she is a skanky trash whore like you said, ok I’ll take you point: IF YOU HAD MORE THAN ONE SEXUAL PARTNER THEN THAT MAKES YOU ONE TOO, RIGHT? And you asking me why didn’t a modeling agency hire her, What world do you live in, YOU DON’T MAKE MONEY IN MODELING PERIOD. That’s why you see all the “famous” models trying to act or get a talk show… and I am willing to bet That “TRANNY FACE FLABBY ASS KIM”.. people with strong self esteem do not have to put others down to make a point… so here you go…1-800-DR. PHIL, he can help you with that.

  95. ray j

    go get my album ya’ll coming out soon

  96. Built2Bully

    @VICKALICIOUS, you make a very good point. But once Ray J sold the tape and it hit the net, you can’t stop it, you know what I mean. So, not just Kim but anyone that has a tape and it hits the net you can’t stop it. The only other recourse you have is to bring a law suit. And if someone is going to make money of you, you have every right to get some compensation also. BUT, I DO AGREE WITH YOU ON THE BOTTOM LINE POINT YOU MADE.

  97. Lucy

    At least they got SOMETHING from it!

  98. naive public

    what Ray J is TRYING TO TELL YOU ALL IS……

    Kim staged her own sextape! This was a marketing ploy and she lied, acts like the victim and the NAIVE PUBLIC falls for it.

  99. Tealeaf

    Built2Bully

    She does wear heavy makeup, she does have a long tranny face,all facts, should I lie about her, she wanted to be in the public eye, she got it…The truth about this chick is going to be there whether you like it or not…People with high self-esteem won’t defend a talentless person who uses a sex tape to be a star, then lies about everything she does..there after. Iam mild, on other blogs she gets call alot of worst names.

    Kim doesn’t have self-esteem because she is playing into the sex kitten role..just like Paris, high morale chick would run from this type of attention.

    Why aren’t you defending Paris..her and Kim are exactly alike

    What names should a person who leaked a sex tape be called..talented, classy,

    No-skanky,trashy…

  100. Tealeaf

    Oh and what about Kim or Paris..Can I respect…nothing! So why such I praise or defend them.

  101. Built2Bully

    Ok, Tealeaf… I have not defended Kim at all… All I said is that Ray J put the tape out, that’s it… You have people in here saying that she staged her tape she wanted all this, I don’t know that to fact. But you can’t lie about something take A multi- billion dollar company to court and WIN. Paris Hilton loves that attention, any attention is good attention for her. You will offend her if your not saying things about her, If she was ignored she would commit a crime just to put eyes on her.

    Now, when you say she is a skank and low self esteem because she plays up to the sex kitten role does that apply to anyone that does it?

  102. Billy Blog Thorton

    @Built2Bully

    So, I guess the women in the sex tapes are totally innocent? Yeah right ***sarcasm***! It’s funny how (just as Ray J points out…) Kim does Play Boy and Paris has had numerous other sexual clips surface on the internet after their respective sex tapes had been “leaked”. I guess they both are innocent in those situations as well ***sarcasm again and SMH***? Anyways…as I said before he is not condoning or condemning the fact that he has a sex tape or the fact that it was leaked. He is only trying to discourage the trend of those types of antics to get so called “Put On” in entertainment. Whether it’s a genuine statement or not…why would any women with real talent be against that?

    BTW: Not that I’m a fan, but…Ray J can actually point to acting and singing as his talents. I don’t know that the others you defended in your post can single out any one thing as their so called claim to fame. Paris has been in a few movies, but can you really call that acting? :0)

  103. Map

    Ray J, sit down.

  104. Tealeaf

    Paris fame came through partying and dating tons of guys..the movies and clothing line came after. I never watched Kim or Paris tapes..but people have said Paris tape looks seedy and unprofessional..while Kim tape looks professional good hair and makeup, good lighting…

    RayJ sister didn’t need a sex tape to become a star

    Kim is a Dirty Bird any offer that comes up,she will take it..eventhough she tries to play innocent..Whatever… What kind of girl would be friends with the likes of Paris anyway..Both are rich trash..I would rather be poor with class.

    Hopefully in 5yrs Kim and Paris will be out of the public eye

  105. Built2Bully

    @Billy Blog Thorton, no not in anyway can kim and paris escape blame from this, I just think that we (not saying you) can place ALL the blame at the feet of those two. Kim does Playboy, and many others also doesn’t really mean anything. Vanessa Williams did it also (penthouse) doesn’t mean that she is a whore. I CAN SAY ANYTHING ON PARIS, SHE IS WHAT SHE IS! LOL. And I have to disagree with you on Ray J, he can on one hand try and discourge anyone from doing something to get “put on” when he continues to do the exact things he is saying not to do. AND NO WOMAN SHOULD BE AGAINST DOING SOMETHING INFAMOUS TO BECOME FAMEOUS.

    No, Paris can’t act… agree… I believe that talent is actually something your good at (damn, I open myslef up to that statement)lol, but, Ray J isn’t a good singer nor can he act. Everything he has gotten was because of family ties. I have said this numerous of times, that no one here in Hollywood will touch Ray J as far as acting… I do see what you are saying though… I guess it’s the messenger more than the message.

  106. Spiceema

    I agree wit RayJ. Y’all can hate RayJ all y’all want but the guy is doin’ his thing. N he do have sume talent he can sing as well as act.


  107. Rayj is crazy. He needs to take his own advice!

  108. Billy Blog Thorton

    @Built2Bully

    I guess we are on the same page. I was pointing out the message more so the fact that it was coming from Ray J…and I’m a brotha, married, with three young daughters, so I would caution any women from doing anything sexually that would be viewed negatively in anyway just to get “put on” or to stir up some buzz in the entertainment industry. Because the men (e.g., Ray J, Hugh Heffner, etc…) are always more than willing to let it go down if the woman gives in to the temptation. Just my thoughts…take care.

  109. kriss

    Built2Bully

    You most definitely can stop a sex tape from being published. You have the right of privacy. She didn’t stop the tape she’s the one who leaked it and then to show face decided to try to act like she was innocent she in no way won the lawsuit she only went to court and won some of the profit off of the release of the tape the tape was still released and she agreed to that in court all she wanted was her cut from the deal. I don’t see what all the hype is I agree with TeaLeaf she is a overrated,too much makeup wearing tranny who is oversexed a modern day jezebel and eventually her fifteen mins will be over. Ray J is not one to offer advice either despite his so-called talent he tarnished his rep by even appearing in the tape and I in no way see that its right for a man nor a woman to exploit their sex for everyone to see. SMH at this HAM.

  110. Built2Bully

    @Billy Blog Thorton… yeah, I we are on the same page, I was looking at the messenger more than anything… you take care to brotha…

    @Kriss, you would have to put in a injuction to stop the tape from coming out, the tape had been bought and sold (VIVID0 before she could do anything. She couldn’t do anything but bring a lawsuit. Ray J sold it for a Million….. Kim’s lawsuit got her a settlement of 5 million… I don’t think Kim Has any talent what so ever. I think we should all be in agreement that YOU SHOULDN’T MAKE SEX TAPES…

  111. Toya

    Ray J needs a ho sit down! Ray J released the sex tape himself cuz he got a mil for it. Kim K wanted that sex tape released to get exposure and now she got her own reality series. Paris Hilton’s ex-boyfriend released the tape without her permission and she couldn’t do anything to stop it, she never wanted that to be released, but America loves scandals so that happened to get her more publicity.

  112. prostitution

    @@@ Tealeaf…

    YOu are so correct on all points! LMAO at the view, I wish I had seen it.

  113. Tealeaf

    Barbara Walters ” Why are you famous” “What do you do”

    Kim “I own two stores”

    Barbara Walters ” You have a sex tape don’t you”

    LOL!

  114. bootlegger

    because ray j has set an example by doing the same?

    nigger PLIZ! STFU!

  115. yes i said it

    smh this n*gga is so lame and bossip yall lame for even continuing to post him and his dumb azz statements

  116. yes

    what is his talent?


  117. The fool is right- But coming from Ray J. hey I like the new song- Sexy can I- keep peeing on KIM K the Herpes slut

  118. Tealeaf

    RayJ didn’t use a sex tape for fame, he acts..I don’t think he is a great talent,but his name was out before that tape.


  119. Oh!! Can someones tell me who is the man in the beige dress. That is a man right-dressed as a woman.

  120. Now What?!

    forget Ray J and those hoes, my first thought was who is the trannie on the right!? My second thought was how sad that Serena is so mannish-looking and yet so sweet-natured.

  121. Dee

    Ray J is such a goofy. I do like his new song Sexy Can I though. Serena looks a hot ass mess in this pic. Glad she switched that look up.

  122. Ghost

    Ray J can warn girls all he likes, but he put that tape out and the media (especially the BLACK media) gives more attention to the clowns of Hollywood.

    How many articles in black magazines did Jennifer Hudson and Halle Berry get after winning thier oscars?

    When was the last time you saw 400 million dollar queen’Raven Symone on the cover of Vibe or any black magazine?

    These girls are going to keep showing thier behinds as long as that is what gets them attention. Flavor of Love anyone? I Luv New York?

    And lets see Ray J practice what he preaches and doesn’t release a sex tape with lil Kim or Whitney Houston or that sex book of his.

  123. Onlinefan

    Great! They are so Sexy ! I like sexy girl .I have ever seen some similar photo on a niche interracial dating site named interracialconnect.com .Many users discuss it there.

  124. LAUGHNYOFACE

    I DONT EVEN DO DRUGS BUT I LIKE THAT SONG !

    Smokin Smokin Weed

    Havin a party (Bring the weed)

    I’ma invite her

    I got my lighter (Got a blunt)

    I’m gettin higher

    Wish you would pass it (guess i’ll wait)

    I’m right beside her

    I got an ashtray (at my place)

    Where did my pipe go?

    (I wanna)

    Roll it, roll it

    Twist that, twist that

    (I wanna)

    Fire it up

    Then get that, get that

    (I wanna)

    Pass it around

    Get bent back bent back

    Give it back to me!

    oh YEAH pARIS Tell ya Peeps They need to Upgrade their Services at Jumeriah Beach Hotel.

  125. Lime

    Tanlent? Oh, right. Tanlent! Quite good advise. I like it. A couple of days ago I saw their profile with nice pics on ‘wealthychat. com’. It’s a professional site. She has pics, blog and friend circle there. It seems they’re very popular there.

  126. NINI

    I think he still loves her


  127. Wow! 4 Hollywood Ho’s in one shot. Good job!


  128. Oh my bad! Sorry Serena, I thought you were Eve

  129. Jessica-Keeping it real

    I mean we can hate on him or what ever but he does have a talent and his latest song is sick. He didn’t tell no lies. I mean really what do we know about her other than she had a sex video? and why do we care what she is doing? she’s no example for any one except others like her who have no talent and want to get on tv.


  130. Ray-J are you a comedian now cause you have jokes lately who would listen to you oh yeah Brandy

  131. Comeonyall

    I agree with Ray J!

    He was already a STAR!

    You tell’em Ray J….!

  132. SexyChocolate

    kim k wanna be black, i’m convinced.

  133. OG double OG triple OG

    ray j, you need yo’ a** beat

  134. JIMS

    Wait a minute…he was in the sex tape too, right?

    Only difference is that Ray really does have talent besides being a sex tape director.

  135. Kevin

    Damn! How the eff did I miss this photo op? Is that thang next to Kim – Serena Williams trans lookin’ stankin’ pussy?


  136. chatti addi .. how many damn pictures do you post under?????


  137. aint that the truth.. smoking paul… how many pics does she post under???????????

  138. Tyrone Harris

    itz Jungle Fever, Ray J got! ain’t no cure for that feeling! Only a white girl can bring some relief, for that!

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