SuperHead: “I Didn’t Bang Anybody to Get Here”… Ho Sit Down

Hannibal

7/25/09, 12:34:pm

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MB

7/25/09, 12:39:pm

This hoe is dumb as hell!

erica

7/25/09, 12:41:pm

Chris Rock!!! lololololololol

kelis

7/25/09, 12:41:pm

Boooooo Ms. Steffans…

Ok

7/25/09, 12:42:pm

LMFAO!!!!!! That white dude aired her out!!! LOL I love him so much. ” I didnt bang anyone to get here” LMAO “Dont buy the book” LOL…

ho sit your as* down in the corner for some time out!!!!! No one knew who the hell you were until you wrote that book about who you f*cked and their dirty secrets! That girl is good for being on her back lol

Hannibal

7/25/09, 12:43:pm

ANOTHER GREAT REPRESENTATION OF BLACK WOMEN!

medievalpoetry

7/25/09, 12:49:pm

Well she kind of has a point. How many of the video girls from the 90’s are we still talking about. How many current video girls are recognizable names? She definitely did something other than sleep around to get where she is now.

erica

7/25/09, 12:49:pm

she just can’t get no respect…i honestly dont give a flying f who she slept with. i cant hate and say she shouldnt try to make her money.

i mean but chris rock though. he just pulled out the only two black men he could think of

he shoulda said mc hammer and al sharpton. that woulda be hilarious

Dr. Heather

7/25/09, 12:50:pm

She better stop being so offended every time there’s an interview if she wants to sell books…

hot*****o79

7/25/09, 12:51:pm

WOW!!! But honestly why would she ever think that no one would EVER bring up the 1st book–but dude was madd funny putting her out there yo that was cl*****ic

candi

7/25/09, 12:51:pm

Karrine is trying so hard to seem like an educated black woman. She is trying to die down her past.

She has no marketing skills and is unprofessional. Don’t she know that its better to be presented as a professional hoe than an unprofessional one? lol

aqueenwaits

7/25/09, 12:52:pm

Come on yaw, she’s 100% correct! She didn’t bang anybody to get to the top!

SHE BANGED EVERYBODY!!!!!!!!!!!!

Please sit down skank!

hot*****o79

7/25/09, 12:53:pm

@erica

right I was like huh when he said Chris Rock but you see how she was quick to correct him on Chris Rock cuz you know Chris Rock and his wife would’ve got in that *****!!!

hot*****o79

7/25/09, 12:55:pm

The sad thing is that their are out women there that will buy this book and actually hope to get and/or keep their man (smh)

215

7/25/09, 12:55:pm

Her attitude will keep her from further success!

hot*****o79

7/25/09, 12:56:pm

sorry meant *women out there*

Sissy

7/25/09, 12:59:pm

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LETMETELLU

7/25/09, 13:00:pm

She really needs to go sit her ***** down somewhere. She is known as Super Head for a reason. She used her hoeness to get this far and now she wants to clean up her act. I believe in giving people second chances but she comes off as if she never did any of this. She is trying her best to stay relevant. She will always be known…as Super Head..the chick who will screw any and everyone. Stop trying to act cl*****y chick. You a little to late for that.

Peenut

7/25/09, 13:01:pm

The ***** got skills, i seen her wit Mr. Marcus and she can put it on a ***** i just cant believe Eddy Winslow wifed that hoe up!!

erica

7/25/09, 13:02:pm

@Peenut

Eddy Winslow is not a catch!!! They deserve each other.

AU NATURALE

7/25/09, 13:03:pm

Super head STOP IT. LOL. Like seriously *****ody knows who the hell you are and if they do know who you are they know that you suck ***** really well. Now these people were more professional than the other *****holes at the CW. ***** you did have sex with Jay- Z. Oral sex. If you didnt drop names of who you had sex with in your first book *****ODY would have bought it. Like seriously no one is going to buy anything of hers. She is trash.

Dictionary Of..

7/25/09, 13:03:pm

I would have so much more ‘respect’for this chick if she actually admitted her past. She needs to stop praying perfume on turds.

AU NATURALE

7/25/09, 13:06:pm

Why doesnt she know that she banged her way to the top? If you didnt ***** all these celebrities then you wouldnt have material for your book! *****ody cares about your family members so who cares if you said their names! STUPID *****. This chick really has alot of nerves. I mean how can anyone take someone with a nick name like SUPER HEAD seriously?

wuut

7/25/09, 13:06:pm

u search superhead on wiki, n it goes straight to her soo…… yea ok *****

TC_Q

7/25/09, 13:06:pm

Karrine is too hostile in interviews. One minute she is making videos about butt beads, the next minute she wants to be perceived as a professional and sophisticated woman. People are not going to respect you if u dont respect yourself first. What an idiot!

lakeshow

7/25/09, 13:12:pm

It is not possible to become known by sucking ***** then make everyone forget and consider you some kind of educated, accomplished author.

lakeshow

7/25/09, 13:14:pm

Peenut

The ***** got skills, i seen her wit Mr. Marcus and she can put it on a ***** i just cant believe Eddy Winslow wifed that hoe up!!
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In the previous interview, didn’t she say that she has been married for 10 years and have 2 children?

chillin

7/25/09, 13:16:pm

LOL! Well he has a point, I wouldnt have known who she was without the first book naming every celebrity she has been with.

112

7/25/09, 13:18:pm

Isn’t that how she got the name superhead to begin with?

dopest_chick

7/25/09, 13:19:pm

WTF is her problem? She got to the top by being a ***** and now she wants respect! She has gained fame from being a prostitute and video w***** but now all of a sudden everyone should treat her like a decent wife and mother and family woman.

TC_Q

7/25/09, 13:20:pm

I believe she said they have been together for ten years and married for two. She is upping the numbers to make the public believe she is qualified to school us women on keeping a man. Are u kidding me..her relationsip with “eddie” was in shambles not very long ago. Didnt she accuse of him of physical abuse?

hellonursenancy

7/25/09, 13:23:pm

The radio host is a *****ING *****HOLE. There is no need to degrade this woman because of her past. Society likes to disparage women who enjoy sex and discuss it openly and freely.

Giving advice about how to please your man in bed, has nothing whatsoever to do with sleeping around or whatever the host was insinuating.

Karrine Steffans is a smart woman, though. People will still buy the book regardless.

All the women that have something negative to say, do so, out of the fear that she can take your man.

hellonursenancy

7/25/09, 13:26:pm

@TC_Q

She does have self-respect, which is why she didn’t let that radio host get out of line with her. She simply hung up the phone.

TC_Q

7/25/09, 13:28:pm

I was rooting for her in the beginning. She could have turned it around but instead she continued with the same behavior well after her first two books were published. She was drunk and w*****ish on the Jamie Foxx show. She made a video insuating that “Eddie” was gay and she also tried to make us believe that she was “dating”(having sex and giving head is dating in her world) Bow Wow and Ray J. She clearly hasn’t changed and that is what really upsets me. She missed an opportunity to help other young women in her situation.

TC_Q

7/25/09, 13:29:pm

I MEANT INSINUATING..LOL

Dictionary Of..

7/25/09, 13:32:pm

@ ‘hellonurse’
Theres no doubt this book will do big numbers. However this chick isnt famous for Singing, Acting or anything that requires any talent whatsoever. Not unless you consider sticking multiple d**ks in multiple holes a ‘talent’. so no, she has no self respect. Even Karrine is denying her past so shes obviously not so proud herself.

RiRi

7/25/09, 13:36:pm

I’m defending Karrine Steffans.

Yes, she has been intimately involved with a number of high profile men, and yes, she has used the public’s interest in those relationships to develop her own career in the entertainment industry. (Apart from not really having a viable career before the tell-all book was published, she doesn’t appear to be really that different from any number of aspiring women in a competitive and corrupt industry). But Steffans is making every effort to transform herself from girl in the videos to woman who writes books, and I think the transformation is more important than what we think she used to be. From what I understand, she distanced herself from her groupie past with the second book, and while the latest book may contain some references to where she’s been and what she’s done with Baller X, she’s trying to move on. Like so many black women, she has fierce intelligence and determination, and while she has made life choices that even she now sees as questionable, she’s building a life and a career the best way she knows how.

What’s her crime? She used what she had to get what she wanted. For a variety of reasons, she traded on her body. And society says that makes her a “hoe.”

But what about the entertainers and athletes who courted her? They can do dirt until they can do better (and even after they’ve done better)–we let them grow because they have handlers who make sure things are ultimately discussed in the media on their terms, and, for the most part, we want to see them do well because they look like us, they reflect our reality–but this woman can’t leave her hoe past behind and write some books without people less talented or driven than she throwing in her face the names of men she *****ed?

I’m not perfect, Karrine Steffans isn’t perfect, and neither are you.

Though I probably won’t be buying her book, I’m tired of the racism, sexism, and cl*****ism that seems to be perpetrated against her, and I absolutely refuse to read from that script.

TC_Q

7/25/09, 13:39:pm

@ hellonursenancy
No she does not have self-respect because she got offended on hung up on an interview that was for her benifit. If she had self respect she wouldn’t live her life the way she does. And if u believe that sex will keep a man you are ignorant and immature. Chris Rock said it best: The only thing men like better than p—y is new p—y. lol

malika

7/25/09, 13:41:pm

damn they shut that tramp down!

Bdot

7/25/09, 13:42:pm

This little pin-cushion is calling anybody that’ll give her a few seconds to try and prove to HERSELF that she’s more than a *****-swallowin’ ***** drain. ***** Please.

When she gets tired of gettin’ rode on by the media, she’ll either kill herself or do the sensable thing: Go find a big ***** and a camera and get back to her calling.

ray ray

7/25/09, 13:47:pm

1. Confession of a Video VIXEN
2. VIXEN Diaries
3. The VIXEN Manual

The books are obviously connected, so why display anger or frustration because someone mentions the first book? Humor the man so you can have time to talk about your third book–if you’re there to promote your book. If you’re there because you want to promote a pristine view of yourself, then VIXEN we have a problem. The media thrives on the sensational, so you can forget about trying to overcome the first book. Sell it too!

I have the same problem with the first interview. There is no rule that says people have to read your book before they interview you. It would be great if people read it before the interview, but you, nevertheless, have the privilege of marketing it on their show, so talk about the book. Give the audience insight into the book. Don’t insult the hosts of the show, by saying “you didn’t read it, wow, etc.”

She has to think through her approach if she plans to be more successful. SMH

TC_Q

7/25/09, 13:51:pm

I agree with almost everything u said except for this part
” But Steffans is making every effort to transform herself from girl in the videos to woman who writes books, and I think the transformation is more important than what we think she used to be. From what I understand, she distanced herself from her groupie past with the second book, and while the latest book may contain some references to where she’s been and what she’s done with Baller X, she’s trying to move on. ”

That is the problem. Her behavior has not changed..check out her website. She wants to continue with the lewd and promiscuous behavior in her private life and then get on a tv interview and pretend like she is a different person. Oprah has admitted to being promiscuos as a young woman but she truly changed her ways and that is why people respect and listen to what she has to say. Karrine’s words when in interview mode dont reflect her actions.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 13:54:pm

I just love it how some of you sanctimonius ***** hoes have the audacity to criticize Superhead, when she’s the mirror image of most of you. The only difference is she got paid for services rendered while most of you ***** *****es sucked and *****ed for free or in those rare occasions y’all did it for a free drink or two at the club, and only thing some of have to show for it is a ***** child or three. Get off of your high horse.

Bdot

7/25/09, 13:56:pm

BOTTOM LINE: Don’t *****ody wanna hear her bull***** in tha book. There’s a million women’s magazines on the shelf every *****in day that say the same *****:

How to get a man
How to make his ***** hard
How to make that ***** your best friend
How to keep that ***** hard
How to make that ***** yours forever

YAGETDAPOINT. So whether this *****-n-tell *****-socket is on a reputable morning show or some run-of-tha-mill radio station, people are only interested in “Hey, this is the broad that *****ed and sucked everyone and was Bill Maher’s permanently-hired w***** for 2 years…and by the way, this is her new book”

***** Please.

Richard Pryor (The King of Comedy)

7/25/09, 13:57:pm

she can sure suck a ***** though!!!!

Jamilah

7/25/09, 14:01:pm

LOL @ the celebrities are my neighbors statement.

She needs to realize that authors are often questioned about their prior books if for no other reason than professional growth.
Boom!
If she lives with Bill Maher like she claimed he should have took the phone from her. (3:39 mark) Or did she say lived?
She should rename the book.. How to find, seduce and keep someone else’s man.

MissBr0nx

7/25/09, 14:06:pm

Is this ***** serious? She’s *****in delusional! We all know why she’s really known…for *****in and suckin half of the industry! Then she had the nerve to lie and say she didn’t have sex with jay-z even after she wrote about him in her book? It’s no one else’s fault but your own that you are ASHAMED of your promiscuous past but don’t try to deny it just own it and say you’ve moved on to better things! What a dumb washed up w*****!

thepromised1

7/25/09, 14:06:pm

@RiRi
The problem here is not sexism, cl*****ism (not a word) or any other ism you can conjure up. It’s purely a lack of cl***** and intelligence on her part to provide so much negative information regarding her lifestyle to the public and then turn around and want to pretend to be and academic/author. No one told her to write a book about her sexual exploits, she made that decision. She could have just as easily wrote a book about overcoming obstacles in one’s life but she chose to talk about sucking ***** and getting *****ed, who has a bigger ***** and all that nonsense. Those athletes, rappers, stars etc never took the time to publish what they do in the bedroom for all to see, she did. The sad part is that her target audience is now, as then, our young women. No mature, married African American woman or woman of any race for that matter is looking for advice from a woman that would ***** their husband, brothers and sons in the same night for a quick buck. If she’s truly trying to turn her life around then she needs to pursue that outside of the limelight. If its really about her changing, fame shouldn’t matter. She should be willing to start a humble NEW beginning educating young women to avoid her pitfalls, rather than writing some this is how you suckem, *****em, trapem and keepem manual. SHE created her own reputation and now she has to deal with the consequences of what she created. SUPERHEAD world famous ***** sucker and entrepreneurial opportunist …. she did it to herself.

Aut*****ss Nina

7/25/09, 14:08:pm

WHOA! What a ho!

***********
What’s going on in Reality TV?

Toya doesn’t want to be known as Lil Wayne’s baby mama

Who won “The Fashion Show?”

Janette is robbed on So You Think You Can Dance

Follow me on twitter Aut*****ssNina

CoCoa Gyal

7/25/09, 14:11:pm

@marquis de sade

are you serious?

sorry,baby

7/25/09, 14:13:pm

I feel really bad for this woman,who is being slaughtered by public for writing about her life story and all.. But nevertheless, her child,who is going to had to fend for himself and his mom for her stupid a** actions..There is the LORD and doctors who could help her with her problems…Seek out the LORD..He is calling..and stop selling yo self so,so low!!!

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 14:13:pm

thepromised1

“CL*****ISM” is a word, accordin’ to the Webster’s Ninth Collegiate Dictionary: It’s a Noun and originated in 1842 – PREJUDICICE OR DISCRIMINATION BASED ON CL*****…Now if you wist to dispute the legitimacy or its’ lexical definition, then by all means go ahead, but the folks at Websters may take umbrage…Just sayin’….

WordtotheWise

7/25/09, 14:17:pm

RiRi>>>Very well put, but unfortunately, there is a double standard in this world (not that I like it – I hate it), but it’s true. Women who sleep around are considered hos, *****s, tramps, “fill in the blank.” Men who do it are “being a man,” macho, a stallion, etc. That’s the way of the world.

Karrine’s reputation will probably follow her the rest of her life. Yes, a lot of us have done things, but we didn’t put it out there. She did, and it’s come back to bite her in the proverbial *****.

Another point, unless someone has a great track record of being happily married or in a good, solid relationship for quite some time, how can they give people advise on that topic? What’s her track record on relationships? Trust me, people are buying and raving about her book (see Amazon). Apparently someone’s getting some use out of it.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 14:17:pm

CoCoa Gyal

Yes, i’m serious. Have you ever heard of Xavier Hollander? Karrine Steffans is just followin’ in her footsteps…Hell, even Maya Angelou was a reputed w***** and madam of a w*****house/brothel, before she found religion.

Wreckless Driver

7/25/09, 14:21:pm

The radio host is a *****ING *****HOLE. There is no need to degrade this woman because of her past. Society likes to disparage women who enjoy sex and discuss it openly and freely.

Giving advice about how to please your man in bed, has nothing whatsoever to do with sleeping around or whatever the host was insinuating.

Karrine Steffans is a smart woman, though. People will still buy the book regardless.

All the women that have something negative to say, do so, out of the fear that she can take your man.

WRONG! She wants to have it both ways. Don’t write a book cashing in dirt that you’ve done,then get upset when that dirt is presented to you. Don’t go around marketing yourself as “SUPERHEAD”with all the negativity that comes with it and expect people to treat you with anything that resembles RESPECT! It is very easy to PRESENT yourself as being intelligent and articulate but in the end your TRUE self is ALWAYS on display. The world knows who and what Karrine Steffans is and no amount of publishing deals or designer clothes will change that.

WordtotheWise

7/25/09, 14:26:pm

thepromised1>>>You put that so eloquently! Excellent post.

Black Barbie

7/25/09, 14:28:pm

She’s two and zero from what I can see: three strikes and you’re OUT! What is she thinking? There is a double standard: Wilt Chamberlain can brag about the number of women he’s bedded, but society doesn’t look too kindly upon a woman who kisses and tells…besides, there are some people who think a ho is a ho is a ho…man or woman.

Karrine….sit down!

thepromised1

7/25/09, 14:30:pm

@Marquise De
Touch`e

CoCoa Gyal

7/25/09, 14:32:pm

@marquis de sade

Wow. I *****ume “***** hoe” is your term for black women, That’s both racially and sexually degrading, are you a white male? and you think black women can be represented by Superhead? Reading your paragraph….wow, thats a lot of hate bottled up in one person.

thepromised1

7/25/09, 14:33:pm

@WordstotheWise
thanks for noticing.

sepia830

7/25/09, 14:34:pm

Yeah we all need advice on how to keep a man from a ho who is too busy sucking everybody’s ***** to be in a stable relationship.

Now if she wants to write a book about the advantages of extra protein…

hellonursenancy

7/25/09, 14:39:pm

@Wreckless: Are you implying that it’s not possible to be promiscuous and intelligent at the same time? Really?

It wasn’t so much that she was trying to depict herself in a certain light, at least that’s not what I got from the interview, but more so, that that ***** of a radio host, would not move the interview along to the real reason why she even called in: to promote her LATEST book. The time to talk about Confessions of a Vixen has long been over. He was being a jerkoff, point black period.

@thepromised1: ‘cl*****ism’ is a real word, darling….and since we’re having a sociological discussion here, it would be in your best interest to familiarize yourself with the word.

*******What I find funny is that the same peeps that are quick to bash this women for putting her past sexual relationships on blast and profiting from it, are the same ones that praise Kim Kardashian each and every day. Oh, hypocrisy, what would the world be without thee?***********

hope4more

7/25/09, 14:43:pm

Sucks—-> to scholar won’t happen. Our young black women don’t know your hoeish advise.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 14:45:pm

CoCoa Gyal

Nope, just the ones who are gettin’ on the knee-jerk moral soapbox. I’m sure most women on this thread has done some morally objectionable things in their pasts. Karrine is just playin’ to her strenghs, and accordin’ to most of y’all, she should curl up like a whipped cur to appease y’all skewed sense of morality…Sorry, but life doesn’t work that way. If it did, then Marion Bradley, Maya Angelou or Bill Clinton would follow y’all’s “HOLIER THAN THOU” edict. Karrine is just another wretched ***** w***** who’s makin’ its’ way through life the best way it knows how. Can’t hate on that. Just think of Karrine as “THE LITTLE W***** WHO COULD AND DID”.

tha Roc best

7/25/09, 14:53:pm

that ***** suck my *****. I was at the end of the book.

MC Literate

7/25/09, 14:55:pm

@Bdot

“So whether this *****-n-tell *****-socket…”

Dammit! Now I have to go put on a clean shirt. I just sprayed Diet *****e all over this one!

“…are the same ones that praise Kim Kardashian each and every day.”

Okay, I’m setting up a PayPal account. Every person who comes into a “Superhead is an arrogant *****” thread and immediately mentions Paris Hilton or Kim Kardashian owes me a dollar, because I’m copyrighting that *****.

I figure by next weekend I’ll have enough money to take all y’all cool people with me on a yacht for at least a 3-day vacation.

Tanyaebaby

7/25/09, 14:55:pm

Karrine needs to stop promoting her book on these white stations who are going to be SUPER critical of her past or current lifestyle. They are just going by hearsay or what they googled and it seems to none of them even read the damn books or an article about them. Stick with blackfolks Supahead we loove you girl!

WestIndiePrincess

7/25/09, 15:00:pm

I’m embarr*****ed!
NY best-seller?!
Gurrrrrrrrrrl, please!
Make black females/people look STUPID!
*****ODY wouldve bought the book if no celebs were not named…..***** PLEASE!
And, RIGHT, who the fck is going to buy your book…while you have no credentials, no RIGHT to give advice to people as a bonafide SKEEZE!!!

CoCoa Gyal

7/25/09, 15:03:pm

Marquis d.s.

Most PEOPLE in general have done things that they probably would take back given the opportunity to, but most PEOPLE don’t take it to the extent of Karrine Steffans, then write a book about it, and expect no one to call her out on it.

As far as your animosity towards black women, where the hell did the big ***** chip on your shoulder come from? Or are you one of those people who constantly blame black women for all of the issues in the black community but have selective amnesia when it comes to the actions of black males? …”wretched ***** w*****s”…seriously? So because I woke up a black female i’m suppose to hate myself and slit my wrists because people like you think I’ll never amount to anything anyway? You know i’m about to start studying for my DAT soon, and honestly reading bull***** rants like yours really motivate me to do better, to prove people like you wrong, even more.

For someone who rants about people having a holier-than-thou complex you’re doing the same thing by judging everybody on this board on some proverbial soapbox.

Gymo

7/25/09, 15:06:pm

Bossip stop trying to build something out of nothing.
She was on ABC and a few other very reputable interviews and she did well, she was charming and intelligent.
I might not like her lifestyle, but I won’t lie about her, you shouldn’t either.

elle

7/25/09, 15:08:pm

I personally don’t see why people are giving her a hard time. Yes, she slept with a bunch of artists to get ahead but don’t get mad at her because she did not allow the business to ***** her and kick her to the curb, she made it lucrative for her, when life gives you lemons make lemonade. I actually am thankful that she wrote those books because now the young women who are thinking about getting into that business will know exactly what they are getting into plus she put a lot of artists on blast especially the one’s cheating on their wives, I commend her for that.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 15:13:pm

WestIndiePrincess

Dr. Phil or Oprah doesn’t have any real academic credentials either, but that doesn’t stop them from dishin’ out advice, does it?

Some of the best advice comes from those whom learned via the streets of “HARD KNOCK”.

I reiterate, some of *****es need to get off of your “MORAL SOAPBOX”. We’re livin’ in recessionary times, and Karrine needs to eat too. What she’s doin’ is called “FREE ENTERPRISE” – It’s one of the main money generatin’ staples of a “CAPITALISTIC SOCIETY”…Afterall, some of y’all parents were the schmucks who got suckered into buyin a “PET ROCK” durin’ the late 70’s. Trust, there’s a market for this little w*****’s “HOW TO” tome.

Breeze

7/25/09, 15:13:pm

Take it easy Karrine! The disc jockey had to give a small back story of your previous work to get his listeners familiar with you. I agree with the dj when he said that the fact that you have the words “video vixen” in the title of the new book leads most to believe that this book is part of a series and not a seperate work. Karrine, it would be easier for your image to transition and for you to evolve if you would speak a little about your past work/lifestyle then explain the newer, evolved you. I believe that a lot of people would want to hear about your change because it would give some people hope that hey too can change a not so wholesome image of themselves.

Gymo

7/25/09, 15:14:pm

Well put elle.
She lived by her own rules and didn’t let the industry rule her she controlled her own destiny, if those idiots didn’t want to be named they should have stopped chasing her tail

Journey

7/25/09, 15:16:pm

Celebrities are my neighbor……lmao Karrine Karrine she tries to steer clear of her past and f*cks herself. She’s argumentaive and overly defensive when anyone inquires about her *****ody gives a flying fck about the Vixen Manuel lol. Rod Ryan is raw but real is hell he’s fromy my city. lol

Snoop Froggy Frog

7/25/09, 15:16:pm

@ Black Barbie

“There is a double standard: Wilt Chamberlain can brag about the number of women he’s bedded, but society doesn’t look too kindly upon a woman who kisses and tells”

Just a couple of points. First, I don’t think I’ve ever heard anyone say they admired Wilt for nailing every women who wandered into his field of view. I’m a guy, and I think that’s pretty nasty. Secondly, Wilt may have hoed around a lot, but he at least kept the names to himself. The only reason Superhead sold a single copy of her first book is because she *****ed *famous* men, and lots of them. She did it, she named names not giving a damn about what it meant to their current lives and reputations, and now she expects everyone to treat her like a respectable woman. I’m not gonna pretend that I haven’t done some freakiness in my life, but I do it with some dignity. A lot of my exes are married now, but I don’t walk up to their husbands and say “yeah, I hit that!” That’s exactly what she did, but she suddenly wants to be treated with dignity and honor 24-7, even while she’s on a book tour promoting a guide for young wome… oh, no, wait, it’s a book on how to seduce a m… no, no, wait, what was her last excuse? It’s a guide for committed couples in relationships. Oh, ***** it, let’s just call it what it is. It’s a *****-slinging manual, and it’s what she’s based her entire career on. I could give a damn that the woman has been around the block a few (or 30 or 40) times, I’m in no position to judge. But she treated the people she hooked up with *no* respect and now she gets her ***** all bent out of shape when someone even mentions her first book. If she’s the prissy ballerina that she’s pretending to be then she should say “yes, I had some fun in my 20s, but I’ve moved on to bigger things. Would you like to talk about my new *****-slinging manual?” But no, the moment anyone even mentions her first book and the whole reason she’s even known she goes off like she’s Jackée and Henry Gates all rolled into one and not only gets all indignant, but makes sure to tell the people doing the interview that they’re “unprofessional” and “not good at (their) jobs” and then gets surprised when she gets cut off for the *third* time in the past week.

Sorry, but that ***** is a *****. A nasty, obnoxious, spoiled, entitled *****.

AU NATURALE

7/25/09, 15:17:pm

thepromised1

@RiRi
The problem here is not sexism, cl*****ism (not a word) or any other ism you can conjure up. It’s purely a lack of cl***** and intelligence on her part to provide so much negative information regarding her lifestyle to the public and then turn around and want to pretend to be and academic/author. No one told her to write a book about her sexual exploits, she made that decision. She could have just as easily wrote a book about overcoming obstacles in one’s life but she chose to talk about sucking ***** and getting *****ed, who has a bigger ***** and all that nonsense. Those athletes, rappers, stars etc never took the time to publish what they do in the bedroom for all to see, she did. The sad part is that her target audience is now, as then, our young women. No mature, married African American woman or woman of any race for that matter is looking for advice from a woman that would ***** their husband, brothers and sons in the same night for a quick buck. If she’s truly trying to turn her life around then she needs to pursue that outside of the limelight. If its really about her changing, fame shouldn’t matter. She should be willing to start a humble NEW beginning educating young women to avoid her pitfalls, rather than writing some this is how you suckem, *****em, trapem and keepem manual. SHE created her own reputation and now she has to deal with the consequences of what she created. SUPERHEAD world famous ***** sucker and entrepreneurial opportunist …. she did it to herself.

Thank You!

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 15:19:pm

CoCoa Gyal

LOL! You usin’ my “TROLLIN” on an insignificant gossip site as your motivation to better yourself more than proves my point on how wretched some of black *****es are. What the ***** do I care or for that matter, anyone else cares what you do with your life after you sign off of BOSSIP?

Do yourself a favor, *****, and don’t make the mistake of seekin’ validation from me or anyone else on here. It’s a waste of time and misplaced energy. Btw, what color panties are you wearin’? I’m bored.

We Need To Do Better

7/25/09, 15:19:pm

Well we can not be mad at men for a double standard that God set into play. In the days that Jesus walked the earth woman who slept around where called Jezebel’s. So yes it is something wrong with woman who sleep around, woman are the ones who have to go on Maury and find her baby daddy.

A “jezebel” is a scheming and shamelessly evil woman.

We Need To Do Better

7/25/09, 15:20:pm

::women:: sorry

AU NATURALE

7/25/09, 15:23:pm

elle

I personally don’t see why people are giving her a hard time. Yes, she slept with a bunch of artists to get ahead but don’t get mad at her because she did not allow the business to ***** her and kick her to the curb, she made it lucrative for her, when life gives you lemons make lemonade. I actually am thankful that she wrote those books because now the young women who are thinking about getting into that business will know exactly what they are getting into plus she put a lot of artists on blast especially the one’s cheating on their wives, I commend her for that.

You commend this w***** for sleeping with married men and putting them on blast? It takes two and she is just as disgusting as the married men who slept with her. She isnt teaching anyone anything with these books. People know what goes on in this type of industry, she just decided to write about it to make a name for herself. A name other than supa head that is. Since when is *****ing your way to the top something to commend?

1987

7/25/09, 15:23:pm

she sets herself up to get sh*tted on, its like she doesnt want to talk about what made her famous and she gets super offended when someone brings up her 1st book! if u didnt want any1 to know u for sexual reasons, then what was the point of bringing out the 1st book??? $$$$!

thepromised1

7/25/09, 15:25:pm

@hellonursenancy
ease the hell up, that (cl*****ism) was already established by De Sade… don’t need your LATE help with that….I’ve personally never posted anything about Kim Kardashian so I’ll *****ume that’s meant for other PEEPS (NOT A WORD!).

Further, it doesn’t matter if its her latest work, apparently she’s tied them all together via the title she chose for each (Vixen). Since when has an author outright refused to discuss previous works that either captured their current audience or led up to their current work. Hell even at signings I’ve listened to people intrigued by back stories and an authors process that led them to develop some of their previous work. It all goes with the territory of being an author. As for the whole notion of people attempting to be morally superior or “Holier than thou” as one blogger put it. You damn right and its about time people in our communities take a stand against licentious attitudes and behaviors that impact and influence our young people.

Gymo

7/25/09, 15:27:pm

@We Need To Do Better

this is not biblical times and women are now equal to men and in a lot of cases earn more money and have a better lifestyle without us men, so if a woman is a w***** or Jezebel then the man is also a w***** and equally a Jezebel.

CoCoa Gyal

7/25/09, 15:30:pm

marquis de

validation… who is seeking validation?
I didn’t ask for your approval, the bull***** you speak behind your computer is the same bull***** that is said EVERYDAY. your a representation of whats wrong with a lot people. I never said this was my only motivation you *****hole, whenever people hate on you, you use it as motivation, thats what real people do. Seeing as how you’re a lonely ***** troll you would know nothing about that, or address the other things i mentioned. And you calling me out my name wasn’t even necessary, but then again, that would be expecting decency.

Oh my goodness, as bored as i get i would never sit here and exhange words with trolls, such a waste of time, are there any sane people on this site?

Snoop Froggy Frog

7/25/09, 15:32:pm

@AU NATURALE

“Since when is *****ing your way to the top something to commend?”

You’re giving her too much credit. I think she *****ed her way to the bottom of the middle, at best.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 15:37:pm

CoCoa Gyal

You’re seekin’ “SANITY” on a gossip site?…Now who’s bored?

…And if you weren’t seekin’ validation, then why did you feel compelled to bore me and everyone else with your curriculum vitae (or aspirations thereof)?. Little black girl, you’re so transparent.

BIG BERTHA

7/25/09, 15:38:pm

THAT HOE AINT LYING. THEM NIGS WASN’T DOING NOTHING FO HER BUT GETTING HER BRAIN!

as seen on t.v.

7/25/09, 15:38:pm

If she didn’t want to be known as a ***** guzzling prostitute she really should’ve kept all her escapades to herself…She put it out there for all the world to read and made a huge profit from it…So now that she wants to make some more money she is trying to downplay the things that made her famous in the first place…Give me a break…Who in their right mind would take marital advice from Karrine Steffans unless shes teaching ***** sucking 101…Hold up didn’t she do a dvd on that subject..

grant

7/25/09, 15:38:pm

great interview! I hope this ***** gets this for every interview she does…she wanna be legit when the only credentials you have is sucking famous ***** then turn around and act like Ann Landers….screw that *****…she needs to fade into obscurity and run a brothel or some other respectable profession for a nut swallower…..

We Need To Do Better

7/25/09, 15:38:pm

@Gymo

You are right about that a man can be a w***** as well in my book, but God said in his word “My word is the beginning and The END” so it may not be the same times but one thing for sure his word will never change,.,,, So his words can never be change be he said his word will stay the same in the beginning and the end. So people and including myself better get there house in order just cause the times change that does not mean God word and rules will…

But yes men can be w*****s and tramps….

rory

7/25/09, 15:41:pm

Cocoa Gyal,

How come you had to ask marquis de if he was a white male? Not all white males think of black women this way. Like I told you before I would wife a black girl that looked like you. I think some black girls can be just as cl*****y as any girl in the world.

We Need To Do Better

7/25/09, 15:41:pm

and I am a woman by the way, it’s sad that people feel that it’s cool to sleep around.. Just watched a 14 yo on Maury get 9 guys tested and still haven’t found the father. If we as women feel it’s cool to sleep around our daughters will to//

Gecko

7/25/09, 15:44:pm

Wow, we got some ladies in here giving Superhead respect for sucking/*****ing married men and writing a series of books about it.

But I gotta hand it to you black women, you support your “sistas” ’til world’s end.. Even when they’re a pathologically lying, dirty nymphomaniac, you can still conjure up some sort of support for them. Impressive.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 15:45:pm

We Need To Do Better

and I am a woman by the way, it’s sad that people feel that it’s cool to sleep around.. Just watched a 14 yo on Maury get 9 guys tested and still haven’t found the father. If we as women feel it’s cool to sleep around our daughters will to//

Hence my colorful adjective: “***** W*****”

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 15:46:pm

Gecko

Wow, we got some ladies in here giving Superhead respect for sucking/*****ing married men and writing a series of books about it.

But I gotta hand it to you black women, you support your “sistas” ’til world’s end.. Even when they’re a pathologically lying, dirty nymphomaniac, you can still conjure up some sort of support for them. Impressive.

…But they hate DIDDY for some reason…Go figure.

If looks could kill...

7/25/09, 15:53:pm

Gecko

Apparently you’re new to Bossip.

You should know that when you address the black women on here, with less than flattering words, you become their mortal enemy.

melanie

7/25/09, 15:54:pm

Karrine’s new book is a waste of time and that’s why she is having a hard time promoting it. She has no credibility when it comes to keeping a man because Eddie Winslow or whatever his name is, is no real catch. If she has been messing with him for 10 years, so what? She was messing with him and every nas, bill, and harry out there. and as far as *****-slinging goes, you don’t need her manual for that. She just happened to have more access to promiscuous celebrities as an attractive rump shaker in a video. this was a real stretch for her and she knows it considering she has done very little serious dating and has not really been in a successful relationship. and no, not everyone in their 20s earned the nickname “superhead”. if she feels like any of these men were taking her seriously, then she is truly delusional.

Gymo

7/25/09, 15:55:pm

@Gecko

As a male I also give her human respect and also respect that she isn’t doping, begging, living off the State, robbing nor sitting on her ***** waiting for a man to give her money.
She is obviously intelligent since she can actually write books, which is a lot more than some of the folks attacking her. Don’t agree with her lifestyle but I respect her independence.

CoCoa Gyal

7/25/09, 15:56:pm

rory

I’m only addressing you because I want to make one thing clear, I do not think that all white males think like him, but when you come to these websites many closeted racists who can’t/won’t go off in public come here to do so. I *****umed he was one of those.
you’re a crazie too tho, you started off with a compliment, i thanked you, then you went off on some sexual rant, so i had to ignore you, which i’ll just go and do again now

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 15:57:pm

rory

Cocoa Gyal,

How come you had to ask marquis de if he was a white male? Not all white males think of black women this way. Like I told you before I would wife a black girl that looked like you. I think some black girls can be just as cl*****y as any girl in the world.

LOL! “SOME BLACK GIRLS”? Is this your feeble display of a backhanded compliment? That’s like you takin’ some “BLACK GIRL” home to meet mommy and daddy, and sayin’: “HEY MOM AND DAD, LOOK WHO I JUST DRAGGED OFF THE STREET, CAN I KEEP IT?”.

Black Barbie

7/25/09, 16:01:pm

@Snoop Froggy Froggy – Thanks for your input. I just wanna say, you missed my last sentence, “there are some people who think a ho is a ho, male or female.”

I’m one of them!

Mizz London

7/25/09, 16:01:pm

Who the ***** is this hoe I still got no who the ***** sh is!!

CoCoa Gyal

7/25/09, 16:03:pm

test..test…bossip is mds on your payroll..where is my comment..

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 16:05:pm

CoCoa Gyal

You’re soooo sexy when you’re playin’ “HARD TO FU(ER)GET”.

CoCoa Gyal

7/25/09, 16:05:pm

@marquis de sade

Wow i mention one exam and now I’m boring you with my “curriculum”. Sure whatever. And why would you be on this website spewing hate and bull***** if you didn’t what people to respond to you? I made the mistake of talking to you like a real person, I’m not the type that comes on the computer to warp into some pathetic ***** monster hell-bent on trying to start something just to get someone to validate their feelings and spread their hate-gospel. Old ***** black male/white male/self-hating black female, you’re the real transparent one.

Could anybody give me like a list of the trolls on this website so i could automatically skip their commentary? C-loop had a few idiots but this site seems to be teeming with crazies.

rory

7/25/09, 16:06:pm

Cocoa Gayl,

You’re absolutley right I did go off on a sexual rant before. I hope you don’t think of me next time a white guy compliments you.
I like the fact that you didn’t like that sexual comment , I like “good” girls.
Can you at least tell me what you like in a guy?
And I was wondering if you where attracted to any famous white men.
As for the sexual rant , i am sorry I wish you could slap me in the face for that. I promise I will never disrespect you like that again.
And also don’t worry, I’m gonna whoop Marquis de Sade’s ***** for talking to you like that.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 16:09:pm

CoCoa Gyal

test..test…bossip is mds on your payroll..where is my comment

You probably typed something that’s on Bossip’s filterin’ ***** list. If you’ve typed somethin’ that begins with the spelling “MAR”, make sure you separate it with a (-), suchas “MAR-KET” or in the extreme, use a synonym (replacement)

Say it Aint so Joe

7/25/09, 16:11:pm

No, actually this ho is smart as hell. You don’t think she’s acting a fool on purpose? Bossip is feeding into that *****. If you really wan’t to hurt her don’t buy her book or pay her any attention. Posting stories on her, just keeps her name in people’s mouths.

rory

7/25/09, 16:11:pm

Marquis de Sade,

Are you Black? Let me tell you there are a lot of white hoes out there. Sometimes I actually think Black girls are harder to get.
If I brought Cocoa Gayl to me house my Dad would probably think she is hot also.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 16:12:pm

Rory

LOL! How “GALLANT”.

nelly

7/25/09, 16:12:pm

i think she gets a bad rap for telling her side of her story .. shes no different than KIM k *****ty ***** with her lame wack sex-tape she made plus numerous sex partners shes had in HollyWood ..how can people except KIM k for being a ho but cant accept the same kind of behavior from super-head? i always said this if a black woman enjoys sex and giving men oral sex she’ll be labeled a w***** ho ***** etc but as soon as another race of woman displays the same kind of behavior shes labeled “sexy” a good woman who is down” etc .. Kim k is nothing but a w***** who released her own sex-tape to get her name out there and then posed nude for playboy is she a w*****? i say yes she is!!! she has no real talents.. can she sing? can she dance ? can she act? we all saw her performance on DWTS and she cant dance worth a damn but they still invited her why? why is she semi-famous? she sucked Ray-j di*k and allowed him to ***** on her face.. shes a bottom feeder and a piece of trash and with her bad rep she still managed to get coon ***** black ***** Reggie bush who willing “over-looked” her bad rep+ her numerous plastic surgery procedures shes had done, who would not date marry any of you black women with the same kind of baggage as KIM or Superhead.. she gets an unfair rap so what she slept with rappers athletes singers actors they all chased after her and shes a grown woman who can do whatever she wants if these men didn’t want there names out there they should have never messed around with her in the first place they all wanted that bomb head shes known for and were willing to ruin there lives and relationships to get there di*ks sucked that’s on them . half of you women want to sleep with Denzel Boris Kodjoe and other numerous good looking black men in Hollywood that are famous do any of you consider yourselves hoes for liking and wanting them and if you all had a chance with these men would you take it? HELL YES YOU WOULD!!!!!.if a ***** like coco and Kim k can get rich black men to date/marry them she can also get married.. because these women are no better than her.. we all see how ice-t treats coco like shes his number bottom ho off the corner but he still married that ho and made it his housewife and we all know pathetic ***** Reggie will probably marry Kim’s fake store bought ***** ***** lips and ***** ho ***** and make her his housewife as well.. a lot of women don’t wanna hear what shes talking about but her words have the ring of truth to them.. MEN OF ALL RACES LOVE GOOD HEAD!!!! a lot of men wish that the women in there lives would buy the book and learn her skill .. your relationship might very well be strong but a lot of men are complaining about the kind of oral sex there receiving from there wives and girlfriends and it isn’t good!!!!!! you all might not like her delivery but she is hitting the nail on its head!! lol men all over are saying loud and clear- THE HEAD IM RECEIVING IN MY RELATIONSHIP IS HORRIBLE AND NOT UP TO MY STANDARDS!!!! and women all over need to take heed to what shes saying.. they have said this on the internet,in ESSENCE and EBONY, to there friends hell there chic on the side who sucking them off better than you is hearing about it.. if Kim K *****ty ***** can have her own show making tons of money for being about absolutely nothing Karrine can write her manuals and makes tons of money as well..KIM K damn sure isnt any than Karrine AND RAY-j said the sex with Karrine was “explosive and mind blowing” and a hell of a lot better than it was with boring as hell dead lay plastic surgery overload KIM K..

Gecko

7/25/09, 16:14:pm

@Gymo

You give her human respect? Dude, there has to be standards. It’ll be different if she made those mistakes then tried to put them behind her. But cashing in on those sexual conquests and dragging others’ names in the mud as well, unacceptable.

The term “vixen” is her clever idea to cash in on her past endeavors. She’s doing this for fame and money, nothing more. You think she cares (or knows) anything about getting and keeping a man, respectfully? And it doesn’t take much to seduce a man. Please tell me how does this “respect” word come to mind when discussing a women who is also known as SUPERHEAD…

Say it Aint so Joe

7/25/09, 16:15:pm

Oh yeah and she could cure cancer and people would still call her Superhead. That “hoe” label is really hard to shake.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 16:18:pm

Rory

Has it ever occurred to you that the CoCoa’s gravie isn’t her real photo? For all you know, she could be some fat repugnant creature from the deepest pits of the “GHETTO”. Here’s a little advice, don’t go cyber crushin’ on the “NET” it’s a sign of lonliness and bein’ just plain pathetic. It’s like advertisin’ that outside of cruisin’ the WEB, you ain’t got no “GAME”!

rory

7/25/09, 16:18:pm

Cocoa Gayl,

Damn!! I wish I didn’t say that stupid ***** sexual comment . ( I’m banging my head against the wall now) You probably think I only think of Black girls In a sexual way but that is not true because I have never been with a Black girl before. But you taught me a lesson : Don’t say stupid ***** ***** to fine Black women.
Is there anything I can do for you to forgive me. Men make mistakes.

Gymo

7/25/09, 16:19:pm

With Black everything is about race, with Whites everything is about cl*****.
Blacks daily question: is it because I’m Black?
Whites daily question: is it because of my cl*****?

Whites: I know I am smarter and better than those Blacks but am I worthy or equal in cl***** to other Whites?
Am I wrong?

rory

7/25/09, 16:22:pm

Marquis de Sade,

Well if thats not her real photo then whatever. But whoevers face that is on that photo is one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen. I am a very “visual” person and I care a lot about facial features . And I think that is her real picture for some reason, the way she types seems like it is from one of those beautiful self respected women.

Gymo

7/25/09, 16:26:pm

@Gecko

Think carefully, how many books you have written and did you have to draw from your life experience to write it, and how brave are you, did you put yourself out there for ridicule?
I Respect her bravery and smarts, if you have secrets you don’t want known then keep it to yourself. The White community is more tolerant and loving of their people, look at Jackie Collins and Steele the write about people’s secrets and are not condemned by their community, because Whites are more secure about their people, than Blacks who have been trained from days of slavery to hate and condemn their own people. Blacks need to learn to love the color black.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 16:27:pm

rory

Marquis de Sade,

Well if thats not her real photo then whatever. But whoevers face that is on that photo is one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen. I am a very “visual” person and I care a lot about facial features . And I think that is her real picture for some reason, the way she types seems like it is from one of those beautiful self respected women

Damn, *****, you got it “BAD”! Hey, CoCoa? You better give ol’ Rory some play. He sounds like he’s willin’ to slay many a’ dragons to win your favor, and not to mention, carry your books to school. LOL!

rory

7/25/09, 16:30:pm

Marquis the Sade,

You were trying to hit on Cocoa Gayl also, you hypocrite. I like the finer things in life, and she sure is fine. I don’t care if it’s cyber flirting ,when she gave me a nice response It makes a Man feel good inside.

rory

7/25/09, 16:32:pm

Marquis the Sade,

I actually think she likes talking to you more then me.

Gecko

7/25/09, 16:33:pm

@Nelly

You’re the perfect example of a black woman supporting her “sistas” no matter what.

You’re seriously comparing Kim K and Superhead?

Kim who had sex with her boyfriend of two years to Superhead who *****ed and sucked her way through the entertainment industry for a few bucks and another video appearance.

Superhead who has an actual professional scene with Mr. Marcus? Seriously?

You little girls need to stop making everything a race issue.

Superhead is writing a how-to book after a confessional w***** diary and now she gains your respect simply because she shares the same skin color as you?

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 16:33:pm

RORY

When did I hit on her? Unlike you, I know better than to take Bossippin’ out of context by catchin’ feelins over someone I don’t know. That’s silly.

We Need To Do Better

7/25/09, 16:36:pm

@gymo

she is not a author she has a copy editor who writes for her, I am a author no hate towards her, But a real writer does not need to have another person write there thoughts they can do it on there own,.

WordtotheWise

7/25/09, 16:36:pm

Gymo

With Black everything is about race, with Whites everything is about cl*****.

We aren’t the ones that made it about race. We have to live race everyday of our lives, so hell yeah, it’s about race. White folks don’t have to think about race because of white supremacy.

Blacks daily question: is it because I’m Black?

Yes, that question is often very valid.

Whites daily question: is it because of my cl*****?

They don’t have to question their “whiteness” because they are never viewed as a whole. In other words, when blacks do something inappropriate, we are seen as a whole race. Many whites and blacks are guilty of this. When whites do something wrong, their racial status is hardly if every questioned. Don’t believe me? Listen to a white man explain it to you. His name is Tim Wise.

Whites: I know I am smarter and better than those Blacks but am I worthy or equal in cl***** to other Whites?

Wrong. Do you really believe upper crust whites think themselves equal with, let’s say, “trailer or poor white trash?” Come now.

Am I wrong? Yep.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 16:36:pm

rory

Marquis the Sade,

I actually think she likes talking to you more then me.

Awww, rory, no she doesn’t. This is just her way of maskin’ her affections for you with immature hostilities. Trust, at the end of the day, she would gladly choose you over me…Not that i’m interested in her anyway. She’s too high strung for me.

rory

7/25/09, 16:37:pm

Marquis the Sade,

I can’t believe I’m bloggin anyway. It’s for girls and people like Perez Hilton.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 16:39:pm

We Need To Do Better

If you’re an author, then what’s with the poor punctuation? Not that i’m Hemmingway or Gore Vidal, but if you’re a legitimate author, you’d definitely need an editor yourself…Just sayin’.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 16:41:pm

rory

Marquis the Sade,

I can’t believe I’m bloggin anyway. It’s for girls and people like Perez Hilton.

Don’t be so hard on yourself. Bloggin’, if anything, beefs up your writin’ and debatin’ skillz.

Gecko

7/25/09, 16:43:pm

@Gymo

Get off the race thing dude.

And Im a 21 year old film student, so I have not done enough in my life to write a book about it.

This chick ran through athletes and rappers and wrote about it… How in any way is that reputable?

Don’t be so naive to think that she sat down and wrote any of these on her own. And you’re acting like she wrote a book on quantum physics.

I’m not impressed bro. I need to see something that actually requires talent, imagination, or intelligence for me to be impressed.

She’ll never get the respect of a person who has any kind of respect from themselves.

And I’ll NEVER blindly love or support anyone just because we share similar ethnic backgrounds. NEVER.

rory

7/25/09, 16:44:pm

Marquis the Sade,

last comment and i have to go.
In a perfect world she would like talking to me more than you. But sadly a lot of women can’t take compliments, and actually like it more when Men degrade them. But I have faith that that isn’t the case with Cocoa Girl .She probably thinks I’m a little crazy , and she really didn’t like my ignorant sexual comment yesterday.( she has too much respect for herself )

Gymo

7/25/09, 16:47:pm

@WordtotheWise

Yes you are wrong! 98% of American Whites are not upper-crust, they are lower/lower-middle and upper-middle cl***** and there is a daily struggle to climb that ladder, and a daily denial by those at the top.
Why do people in the black community seem to think of all Whites as successful and living the perfect life, for many it’s a silent struggle for survival, not as bad as Blacks but still pretty bad.

Sheaffer

7/25/09, 16:47:pm

@CoCo
@marquis de sade

Wow i mention one exam and now I’m boring you with my “curriculum”. Sure whatever. And why would you be on this website spewing hate and bull***** if you didn’t what people to respond to you? I made the mistake of talking to you like a real person, I’m not the type that comes on the computer to warp into some pathetic ***** monster hell-bent on trying to start something just to get someone to validate their feelings and spread their hate-gospel. Old ***** black male/white male/self-hating black female, you’re the real transparent one.

Could anybody give me like a list of the trolls on this website so i could automatically skip their commentary? C-loop had a few idiots but this site seems to be teeming with crazies.
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LOL, You’ll never stop running into trolls on bossip, here are a few

Marquis
Kigali
6am
Oshie
Hannibal
SMDH
ughhhh i can’t think of any others right now but you’ll surely see alot more of em

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 16:48:pm

rory

Marquis the Sade,

last comment and i have to go.
In a perfect world she would like talking to me more than you. But sadly a lot of women can’t take compliments, and actually like it more when Men degrade them. But I have faith that that isn’t the case with Cocoa Girl .She probably thinks I’m a little crazy , and she really didn’t like my ignorant sexual comment yesterday.( she has too much respect for herself )

Well on that note, just chalk it up to: “YOU CAN’T MISS WHAT YOU NEVER HAD”. I’m sure there will be more Bossip Cyerbabes for you to woo with your “WARRIOR-POET” heart. Ciao!

Gymo

7/25/09, 16:50:pm

@Gecko

Well you used the magic word “NEVER” so our conversation is done. there is IMO and IYO.

rory

7/25/09, 16:51:pm

Marquis the sade,

Okay this is really my last comment,

I should hate you because you were disrespecting my girl ( LoL )
But let me tell you as a White dude, I’ve been with White girls and Spanish girls ( my last girl was from Pakistan) and yes there are some differences. As a white guy Im BORED with white girls. WHITE GIRLS ARE NOT AS GOOD AS PEOPLE THINK. But you should give some Black women a chance.
I admitt some White girls are fine ***** hell but I also think some Black girls ( like Cocoa Gayl) are just as good.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 16:53:pm

Sheaffer

Glad to know you’re a fan.

HANNIBALS FAN CLUB

7/25/09, 17:05:pm

HANNIBAL WE *****ING LOVE YOU MAN.DONT STOP DOING WHAT YOUR DOING.LET THE HATERS HATE. YOUR LIKE A FRESH CUP OF COFFEE IN THE MORNING.

planetmimi

7/25/09, 17:10:pm

Girl Kill Yourself, she is a hot mess, *****ody gives a damn about her. She is doing her job, but getting her name out there, but she is crazy and delusional.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 17:18:pm

I love to suck *****, and take it in the *****, most of us white men do.

corporatecutieshayla

7/25/09, 17:21:pm

BOOOOSSIP IS FAKE LATE AND LAZY I TALKED ABOUT THIS YESTERDAY AND POSTED THE LINK

Yvonne

7/25/09, 17:31:pm

She knows, or should know, the only reason people are remotely interested in her is because of her first book, where she gave all the juicy details AND gave up the names to go along with it.

Now she is under the impression that she is an authority on how to hold your man with sex by trying to get “respectable” and writing this second book but wants to completely blot out the first one.

Can’t do that girl…your first book is the catalyst for the second one. People are gonna ask what experience do you have to write a book like this? That means she has to revert to the first book she wrote.

Snoop Froggy Frog

7/25/09, 17:41:pm

@Black Barbie

@Snoop Froggy Froggy – Thanks for your input. I just wanna say, you missed my last sentence, “there are some people who think a ho is a ho, male or female.”

I didn’t miss it. I was actually trying to express agreement and support for your statement. Sorry if it came off otherwise.

reggie reg

7/25/09, 17:45:pm

***** Karrine Steffans…

EVERYBODY else has.

(sigh)…*****s.

Queen AALIYAH

7/25/09, 17:49:pm

Black Queen Please educate herself! Read The WILLIE LYNCH LETTER. Each 1 teach 1

From Experience (the real one)

7/25/09, 17:58:pm

@thepromisedone

The problem absolutely IS sexism. Can you think of ANY men who have openly admitted to being promiscuous and then having their lives be unable to move forward because of it? Can you think of any men who have been degraded and belittled in the manner Karrine has because of their sexual lifestyle? I cant even think of one. These are the same people who didn’t think twice to forgive Mike Tyson (a convicted rapist), R. Kelly (an open pedophile) or Chris Brown ( a woman beater who plead guilty). So then why is Black America having such a hard time allowing this Black women to live her new life? Jenna Jameson was a ***** star who would NEVER have to endure those kinds of interviews from White America. Madonna, Britney Spears, Paris Hilton, Angelie Jolie, etc..all White women who have sketchy p*****es that White America turned a blind eye to and gave second chances. Black women are going to have to learn and understand that hating Karrine DOES NOT change the inferior status we have in our communities or in our larger world. Hating Karrine isn’t going to make ONE Black man NOT call you a hoe or a ***** upon convenience.

From Experience (the real one)

7/25/09, 18:14:pm

OF COURSE! It would be the Black woman calling in being angry and calling her names. Eventually we are simply going to have to stop being so damn bitter about everything.

Snoop Froggy Frog

7/25/09, 18:20:pm

@From Experience (the real one)

“The problem absolutely IS sexism. Can you think of ANY men who have openly admitted to being promiscuous and then having their lives be unable to move forward because of it?”

Can you name any women who had a talent for something other than sucking and *****ing and were unable to move forward because of it? I can name a lot of actors, singers, and dancers – both men and women – who went on to have reputable careers. Superhead sucked *****, wrote a book about sucking *****, and then wrote another book about sucking *****. Let’s not pretend that she’s some sort of international scholar.

“Can you think of any men who have been degraded and belittled in the manner Karrine has because of their sexual lifestyle?”

Can you name me a single man whose entire career is based on shaking his *****, *****ing married women, and then naming them in a book he “wrote?” Can you name me a single man outside of the ***** industry whose entire reputation is based on who he’s jangled his ***** into?

“These are the same people who didn’t think twice to forgive Mike Tyson (a convicted rapist), R. Kelly (an open pedophile) or Chris Brown ( a woman beater who plead guilty).”

Who the hell has forgiven Tyson, Kelly, or Brown? They’re nothing but punchlines where I come from.

“Jenna Jameson was a ***** star who would NEVER have to endure those kinds of interviews from White America.”

That’s because *****ody cares about Jenna Jameson enough to interview her. I’ve never seen her on one legitimate news show in my life.

“Madonna, Britney Spears, Paris Hilton, Angelie Jolie, etc..all White women who have sketchy p*****es that White America turned a blind eye to and gave second chances.”

Well, we knew that was coming. “OH, DEM WYTE PEOPLE! DEY NEBBA AXE NO QUESTIONS OF DERE WIMMENS!”

Of course, Madonna gets called a w***** every day on 30 sites because she’s dating some boy-toy and Britney gets called insane and talentless because, well, she’s insane and talentless, and Paris Hilton had David Letterman make fun of her to her face for 10 minutes, and Angelina Jolie gets called a w***** and a homewrecker in any story that has anything to do with Jennifer Aniston…

But OOH, DEM WHYTE PEOPLE! DEY ONLY PICK ON US NIGRAS! WE BE DE ONLY OPPRESSED PEOPLE IN DE WORLD! SOMEONE CALL JESSE! CALL AL! I DONE BEEN REPRESSED DO TO MY NIGRITUDE!

Go ahead. Blame whitey, blame whitey, and blame whitey some more. It’s all THE MAN’S fault. Give this girl her ghetto p*****, because she’s never been anything but a pretty little snowflake her entire life.

Gymo

7/25/09, 18:25:pm

@ From Experience

I hate to see black people do the KKK work for them trying to strip another black person of his/her humanity, if you are White and you do shady things you get to keep your humanity and over time regain the community respect, but if you are Black then your community will try their best to make you into an animal while saying that they are Christian people. Is it might centuries old trained self hate of the color, so you punish the color?

Whutz Wrong wit er?

7/25/09, 18:37:pm

She got da freakin brains so why she won’t use em da right way?

Whutz Wrong wit er?

7/25/09, 18:44:pm

And of course she’s already successful

Gymo

7/25/09, 18:44:pm

Whenever I hear Black people call each other “brother and sister” I have to try hard to smother a laugh because I visit Bossip and know what Black people think of each other, and it’s not pretty.

Unkle Ruckus

7/25/09, 18:45:pm

She should have sucked up in the interview; thats what she does best. How can anybody call her an author?

Gabrielle

7/25/09, 18:47:pm

dam. she really is a *****

Nesha

7/25/09, 18:54:pm

I actually agree with what We Need to do Better said at 3:19, all the double standards we have today all stem from the bible and though we aren’t living in those times men ultimately made the decision to use them today to excuse alot of the things they do and make women feel bad for what they do. However, I’m not one to conform to any of that because I believe alot of what’s in the bible was written by a man who wanted to make sure he and other men receive more perks in life than women so I’m not shocked by any of it. The bible was changed many times to fit people and their needs and the only thing I believe that was worth reading was the 10 commandments, the rest was probably bs. Being a w***** is wrong whether you are a man or a woman.The sad part is a lot of men aren’t going to figure out that it wasn’t okay for them to be that way until God opens up the gates of hell and push them in fiery flames. This double standard crap is man-made, so is the p***** that men get on the things they do.

solotta

7/25/09, 19:17:pm

Where is Jack The Ripper when you really need him. Do you know that you make all the REAL WOMEN look bad? Go to school and get a proper education and take care of your son like a REAL MOTHER should, what kind of an example are you setting for him? (consider the source=both parents)And then what do you really have to show for it? Genital Warts or some other disease that you are too embarr*****ed to tell us about, and the sad part is that you prey on men who are just as IGNORANT as you are, they know of your reputation and how many times you have been p*****ed around, and they still are trying to bring home some disease to the GREAT woman they married and for what? To say they had sex with your DISGUSTING *****. *****, get a CLUE and a REAL LIIFE, you are living in PERGATORY on earth…..SKANK in every sense of the word.

memchee

7/25/09, 19:34:pm

didn’t u guyz already post this….

Marquis de Sade

7/25/09, 19:40:pm

These ***** *****es make me happy to be gay!

RXB

7/25/09, 19:50:pm

I want to see some of the same hate and vitriol when one of those white w*****s like kim k, paris hilton, britney spears whites a book or has some dumb reality show. Oh wait, they already did it. News reporters and talk show hosts kiss their *****es. That idiot paris hilton was interviewed by Larry King. What a *****ing joke! Anyone that can’t see the racism and the double standard here is an idiot.

BETTYEJ

7/25/09, 20:02:pm

To Ryan and SuperHo,

Both of you are s*****bags. Ryan, you for even having her on the show and her for thinking she can give any advise on how to get a man in the first place. All of those dirt bags that she screwed to get material for the garbage she has wrote are no better then her sink *****. I wouldn’t give this used up ho the time of day.

melanie

7/25/09, 20:18:pm

so sick of people saying that there is a double standard. we as black people should hold ourselves to a higher standard than the other white individuals who sell their sex appeal because they don’t have a whole lot of legitimate talent. this is bossip, so why should we be commenting or comparing ourselves to those talentless white women? i don’t buy into them, either. never have. we are commenting on a black woman who is running a complete scam and who is attempting to mislead women in order to make money. as black people, we shouldn’t be falling for her antics or giving any support to it. her book company is going to make money off of this, thinking that they can sell us any kind of b.s. like she is some kind of expert on something other than being a ***** while she leads some young women into w*****dom. if she really wanted to step away from her past, she should write fiction – not nonfiction that refers to “vixen” ways. why should we support or not criticize a woman who will sink to peddle *****, then peddle books about peddling *****? and yes, this vixen manual is some b.s. she put together to fulfill her book deal and certainly did not require a whole lot of imagination. It’s not quality stuff that anyone – single or married should be filling their heads with. this woman had the nerve to sit on the Today Show and tell an accomplished woman, Hoda Kotb, to just “shut up” in order to please men. How many times has she just “shut up” and stuck a d!(* in it? Please stop defending her. You make yourself look stupid.

W*****s of the world unite!

7/25/09, 20:19:pm

I don’t know some you women stay talking ***** cause most if you women keep a new ***** in your mouth like a brand new gl***** of water. Acting brand new when you *****s know you ***** to get your hair, nails, and busted ***** weave done. You’ll even trick yto get your cell phone bill paid. It pays to be a w***** in this country. That’s why most of you women are w*****s anyways. It’s saturday night, and we all know all w*****s unite and eat up some ***** tonight! Go read a book *****.

Ms. T.

7/25/09, 20:23:pm

I pity her child. How unfair of her. That’s a lot to live down.

W*****s of the world unite!

7/25/09, 20:25:pm

Aint such thing that men created the double standard! GOD did, if you don’t like it, take it up with him! Who do you think ends up with the kids when you let your ***** become a freeway for men. You females do! who crying at the abortion clinic about to get her cervix torn open? you are! who can’t find a man or keep one bacuse your ***** done expired and you got too many kids with too many different men. Walking around with yeast, bacterialinfections, and hpv! how you gonna ask a man to eat your ***** when it done been slamed out by so many *****s? why would I place my tongue on your tainted *****? some you w*****s stay with antbotics and yeast cream. Nasty ***** w*****s. ***** whole all big from back seat buck shots!

melanie

7/25/09, 20:28:pm

W*****s of the World – you take it to a another level, but I can’t disagree with you.

princedonte

7/25/09, 20:29:pm

she is so ignorant she does this in all of her interviews i can’t believe people want to hear her what is wrong with you people can you hear how she behaves such a w***** and the women who admire her are going to hell along with her

princedonte

7/25/09, 20:31:pm

@ nelly ok why don’t you go and be a ho then who gives a ***** about race a ho is a ho go suck a ***** ***** the only coon is you

From Experience (the real one)

7/25/09, 20:52:pm

@gymo

Sadly, Black people have issues. As a race we feel good only when we rip apart another person and long before you and I were born, they decided that person was to be Black women. While I don’t agree with Karrine past lifestyle, why is EVERYONE so angry at another woman because of her sex choices? Clearly there are projection issues going on here because I cannot imagine a self-*****ured confident man or woman REALLY being this upset over someone else past life. My issue is why do Black people have such a hard time allowing a Black woman to be better? The issue is not even Karrine because I absolutely believe she is just out to make money, but who isn’t? The issue is with the culture because had it not been Karrine they would be tearing down the next Black woman.

How many times has an interviewer brought up Kim K’s sex tape in an interview? rarely. So, if Karrine is promoting a new book that is NOT talking about sleeping with athletes, then what is so hard about speaking about the damn book that she is promoting? As I have always said, Black women are going to have to learn to stop dumping their ugly and insecurities on other women. No matter how much you degrade and belittle this woman, you WILL STILL be viewed as less than in your community and hating other Black women is not the solution.

From Experience (the real one)

7/25/09, 20:53:pm

@W*****s of the world

I strongly dont believe God has anything to do with what you speak of. Good day

De

7/25/09, 20:58:pm

What man does she have now that she kept?
Please.

kp

7/25/09, 20:59:pm

who cares abt her or kim kardashian…bossip we like women who have respect for themselves and whose educated, independent,God Fearing loving only man woman….est 88

Richard Pryor (The King of Comedy)

7/25/09, 21:01:pm

W*****s of the world unite!

Aint such thing that men created the double standard! GOD did, if you don’t like it, take it up with him! Who do you think ends up with the kids when you let your ***** become a freeway for men. You females do! who crying at the abortion clinic about to get her cervix torn open? you are! who can’t find a man or keep one bacuse your ***** done expired and you got too many kids with too many different men. Walking around with yeast, bacterialinfections, and hpv! how you gonna ask a man to eat your ***** when it done been slamed out by so many *****s? why would I place my tongue on your tainted *****? some you w*****s stay with antbotics and yeast cream. Nasty ***** w*****s. ***** whole all big from back seat buck shots!

lmao

melanie

7/25/09, 21:05:pm

From Experience: The answer to your question about Kim K is simple. The reason why people don’t bring up those things with Kim K is because they have publicists that set up the terms of the interview BEFORE they ever agree to do the interview. Karrine obviously cannot do that or her book company will not let her do that, because no one would know who she is and this irritates her. You also make it seem as if all black women do is tear all black women down. Personally, I just think KARRINE is a fraud – not all black women. I have a lot of respect for women who have been promiscuous and have changed their ways and are positively contributing to society as well as themselves(and there are many), but I do not have respect for Karinne or her hustle.

aqueenwaits

7/25/09, 21:06:pm

Maybe I should buy all 3 books to make sure she didn’t sleep with my mine…….lol

Tanarah

7/25/09, 21:08:pm

This chick is crazy….but nowadays it seems like thats way to get known is to have sex with very important people…but please ho sit down..they only thing you have going for ya self is that ur pretty..u keep movin the way you movin people always gonna crack on you

Shay

7/25/09, 21:14:pm

Bish is crazy.

Snoop Froggy Frog

7/25/09, 21:15:pm

@RXB

“I want to see some of the same hate and vitriol when one of those white w*****s like kim k, paris hilton, britney spears whites a book or has some dumb reality show. Oh wait, they already did it. News reporters and talk show hosts kiss their *****es. That idiot paris hilton was interviewed by Larry King. What a *****ing joke! Anyone that can’t see the racism and the double standard here is an idiot.”

Are we going to have this same mother*****ing conversation again? Is that the only argument anyone can come up with? “B-b-but WHITE PEOPLE! B-b-but KIM KARDASHIAN! B-b-but PARIS HILTON!”

That’s just the most ignorant ***** I’ve ever heard in my life. Yeah, Paris went on Larry King, and he called her out for lying about using drugs. OOH, DEM WHITE DEBBILS! Paris won’t go on Letterman again because the last two times she was there he basically called her retarded to her face. OOH, RACISM! KILL WY-T! I’ve never seen Kim Kardashian on anything more legitimate than “Entertainment Tonight” and I don’t know anyone who thinks she’s anything more than a Z-List celebrity toilet for washed-up rappers. OH, IMA JUST PUT MY FOOT IN DA MAN’S *****! DEY WOULD NEVER TREAT A WITE WOMAN LIKE DAT! Except they do. Every *****ing day. And yet every time Superhead gets called out for being an arrogant *****, Bossip gets flooded with “OOH, DEM WHITE ***** RACIST CRACKA IGNANT MU*****KAS KIM KARDASHIAN PARIS HILTON JENNA JAMESON WHITEY WHITEY WHITEY!” until my brain’s about to explode. Just drop that *****. This place makes Perez Hilton’s site look like the BBC.

Oh, I’m sorry. White people write for the BBC. PARIS HILTON!

W*****s of the world unite!

7/25/09, 21:15:pm

@From Experience (the real one)

So god wants you to sleep with many men and give birth to a whole bunch of bastads?

It’s accepatble in our society to have bastrads because everyone else is doing it? I know I know? whoo am I to judge? Judge? my friend! I am telling you the truth. Would you like it if I supported your sinful lifestyle like the rest of your w***** friends. They are draging you into hell, the pearly gates of heaven is going to say “do not enter *****!” Pretty soon we will see amber rose the queen of all w*****s riding the three headed beast and draging all you “Don’t judge me cause I can’t keep my legs closed” *****s right into hell. Find a hobby, read a book, donate a kidney. You may not be able to donate any organs because you got the HIV!

From Experience (the real one)

7/25/09, 21:17:pm

@melanie
Personally, I just think KARRINE is a fraud – not all black women. I have a lot of respect for women who have been promiscuous and have changed their ways and are positively contributing to society as well as themselves(and there are many), but I do not have respect for Karinne or her hustle.
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First off, let me say I have defended Kim K MANY times on this blog because I disagree with the useless comments and hate she receives. Whether or not your publicist sets something up has little to do with the mind frame and attitude about someone outside of yourself. I too believe that Karrine is a fraud but that is not why MOST Black women hate her. They hate her because despite all she has done, she STILL refuses to allow other people to define who she is and not matter how hard we lie, it appears Black women have a hard time with self *****ured confident women. I couldn’t care less about Karrine or her damn book, I read Kundera, Hemingway, Kafka and T. Morrison because their books educate and uplift me. My issue is with the absolute hatred the Black community appears to have for Black women who aren’t perfect.

what_the_*****

7/25/09, 21:19:pm

Some of the people who defend this woman act as though Maya Angelou or Toni Morrison was disrespected by the interviewer — THIS damn woman is not Ms. Angelou or Ms. Morrison, so save the damn indignation for the time when a REAL outrage is perpetrated.

From Experience (the real one)

7/25/09, 21:22:pm

@w*****s of the world

I am sure there are individuals who find your nonsense entertaining. I have the slightest idea where you got the impression I was a mother or promiscuous or uneducated. Since you asked for it, here it comes: I am single with no children, my own place, and car. A Bachelors degree with honors and a Masters degree from Columbia University, where I graduated with a 3.91. I am in no way shape or form in need of a book, for I read a new one every week. Though I am not very religious, I find your cursing and *****umptions about God disgraceful.

Stop *****uming that because I as a Black woman do not share your hatred for Karrine, that there is something wrong with me. I cannot think of a race of males who are more promiscuous than Black males, YET they NEVER receive the hatred Black women have to bear daily. I understand from your rant that you are probably not capable of understanding a well though out logical response, but I had to give one anyway.

LA Woman

7/25/09, 21:33:pm

She is such a useless piece of *****. Anyone looking to do society a favor? This ridiculous w***** will be at Borders in Los Angeles on Sunset & Vine on 7/29 @ 7:00 pm. Did someone say “drive-by”….

gotfreckles

7/25/09, 21:34:pm

celebs are my neighbors?!?!?!

melanie

7/25/09, 21:34:pm

@From Experience

I disagree with you. Publicists have a whole lot to do with what questions will and will not be asked, and that does impact the interview and its outcome. You may not have any impact on what people think, but it does control what issues and events will be addressed. Also, Black folk are quick to point out flaws, but they are also very forgiving – sometimes too forgiving. I don’t consider Karrine to be a self *****ured and confident woman. That is also a facade. If she were, she’d be able to hold it down better in these interviews. She should just admit that she was promiscuous, and that all of her experiences have shaped her and helped her to grow. That’s what Oprah does. It wouldn’t take that long in an interview and then she could move on, but she has to go into defensive mode, revealing her insecurities about her past experiences. I really think she came off more confident when she was telling her own story, but now that she has jumped to giving advice, it must be pretty hard to pull that off when no one sees her relationship history as something that they should emulate. She is insecure if she has to say things about celebrities being her neighbors or I lived with Bill Maher for 2 years, as if having a long term relationship with a celebrity white man is what gives her legitimacy. Those facts are pretty empty. She may be well spoken, but I am not going to mistake that for confidence.

gotfreckles

7/25/09, 21:38:pm

Host has a point…Super head is being to defensive.

W*****s of the world unite!

7/25/09, 21:41:pm

From Experience (the real one)

What does your education level have to do with being a *****? any woman can be *****. Please place your resume back in your bag, it’s nice to know that you are at least educated, but being educated doesn’t mean anything when you are a loose goose in the panties. It’s not racially motivated, because white and latino women are also w*****s. Why you think black men hang at at the white bars? because the head is quick and the sex is fast! a nut and you’re gone. If your not into religion how can what I had to say be a god disgrace? you don’t believe in none of the holy books. You ranted about your education like most big headed blacks! Read a bible,torah and qur’an. hit me up when you got god in your life, and please don’t give e that “I;m spiriual bull*****” that means nothing. Most women in this country are w*****s, I apologize if i excluded the white,spanish,fat,educated, and handicap.

From Experience (the real one)

7/25/09, 21:45:pm

@ Melanie

why are you still talking about Karrine? My last post was mostly about Black culture and Black women and how we view each other. When has Karrine NOT admitted to being promiscuous? What I don’t understand is why is everyone so thrilled about her being well spoken? Are shocked to hear a Black woman speak well? I’m not. I think Karrine is defensive and I don’t think there is much wrong with being defensive if you are always being attacked. I do not believe they guy in the interview was being disrespectful, I actually believe he was just trying to introduce her to his audience who may not know who she is. However, as I stated, my issue is NOT Karrine, my issue is why Black people seem to have such a DEEP HATRED for Black women, especially those who are not perfect.

From Experience (the real one)

7/25/09, 21:49:pm

@W*****s of the World

Please stop using God to justify your hatred and degradation of women. As I said before, just because I do not share the same hatred for Karrine that you do, does not make me any of the things you said. I mentioned my education because YOU stated that I needed to educate myself. As I said before, I am certain someone such as yourself is incapable of handling a well thought out response. yes, I understand that it makes you feel good about yourself by making *****umptions about my sexual lifestyle, but really it just makes you look a bitter *****hole. Good Day.

nicaw

7/25/09, 21:49:pm

The reason she wrote the first book was to gain publicity. Now she is on her 3rd book and doesn’t want to relive what she has already put out there before.

She will never live that down and people will always want to know more about what she said in the first book.

From Experience (the real one)

7/25/09, 21:51:pm

@W*****s of the world
Read a bible,torah and qur’an. hit me up when you got god in your life,
—–
Hit you up for what? You are a disgraceful individual who curse and carry himself with very little cl*****. You are clearly promiscuous based on your responses, lack respect for yourself and women and have a twisted view on what it means to love God. What exactly gives you the impression that you have the authority or credibility to have demands? Please. I am not in the mood for laughter.

TheFashionistaChic

7/25/09, 21:57:pm

OMG! WHO IS THIS ROB RYAN, WHAT STATION CAN I FIND HIM. THAT WAS FUNNY! GIRL SAID, SHE TALKED ABOUT BEING AN HOE, THEN GET MAD WHEN SOMEONE CALLS HER OUT ABOUT BEING A HOE. MY QUESTION, HOW CAN SHE EDUCATE ON HOW TO GET AND KEEP A MAN, WHEN SHE DOES’T HAVE A MAN.

melanie

7/25/09, 22:12:pm

From Experience: I’m commenting about Karrine because this particular posting is about her and you have used Karrine and people’s reactions to her to draw conclusions about the entire black community and their hatred for all black women. you believe she is confident and self-*****ured, and i can’t figure out why you feel that way. the only thing about her that comes off as confident and self *****ured is that she tries to speak with proper English. The content of what she is saying or writing is not grounded in confidence or self *****urance. btw, I have ivy league degrees, too, and I feel that you are an educated fool. but you don’t have to have ivy league degrees or read any of those authors that you mentioned to poke holes in all of your arguments because you lack common sense.

W*****s of the world unite!

7/25/09, 22:15:pm

Look a here highly educated black woman with your ivy league degrees and all! stop being a w*****! if you see some hoe ***** you’re going to call it out. You don’t need to be a rocket scientist from a over priced school like yourself to figure it out. A w***** is a w*****! Don’t need to be a soap box to know that!

W*****s of the world unite!

7/25/09, 22:19:pm

@From Experience (the real one)

can you please rant about your degrees again, i found it very funny. Actually very amusing that u think a degree makes you less of a w*****. Whatever w*****s! educated w*****s always love to run they mouths. Knowing they nasty.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 22:22:pm

Is it my imagination, or does every ***** ***** on here has an Ivy League education + PHD’s and Master Degrees out the wazoo? You ***** hoes are so full of *****, and considerin’ that most of you can barely form a proper sentence, makes you all the more “SELF-DELUDED”.

melanie

7/25/09, 22:23:pm

W*****s of the World – please stop. you almost made me pee myself laughing. and i hope you’re not calling me a w*****!

From Experience (the real one)

7/25/09, 22:24:pm

@ Melanie
You were doing so well until you began with the name calling. This is where the discussion becomes useless and turns into ranting and raving which is useless. Good night.

From Experience (the real one)

7/25/09, 22:26:pm

@W*****s of the World

Other than your unhealthy obsession to call me a w*****, do you actually have an argument? Why bother asking. Good Night.

From Experience (the real one)

7/25/09, 22:27:pm

@Marquis

It is your imagination.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 22:30:pm

From Experience (the real one)

@Marquis

It is your imagination.

LOL! I knew my year and a half at that J.C. would come in handy.

what_the_*****

7/25/09, 22:31:pm

@Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

Hear! Hear! And the damn stilted syntax, and the condescension —- as if they had logged on to the Intellectual Digest instead of a damn gossip site!

Gotta get over to one of my favorite bars in Philly; about this time an ARMY of those damn MAs and PhDs will be ready to open their well-educated mouths and slurp on some ghetto man meat, the damn phony *****es.

Most of the anger at SuperNoggin is directed at the damn same kind of PHONINESS — she got famous not from the words that came out of her mouth, but the *****s that were poked into it. She ain’t EVER gonna escape that reality, no damn matter how pretentious and arrogant she acts.

All you damn MAs and PhDs had just better accept that.

melanie

7/25/09, 22:32:pm

I guess I won my argument…From Experience had to quit. I love it when educated fools come on here with their nonsense that they learned in the ivy league, as if that has any relevance on a bossip forum or in black life, in general. my grandfather who had a 3rd grade education had more common sense than 99% of the people in the ivy league, including me.

Lex

7/25/09, 22:40:pm

Get the secrects on how to smash *****es that look like Karrine Steffans. For Free..

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 22:41:pm

what_the_*****

LOL! Cheers. Have a drink for me.

W*****s of the world unite!

7/25/09, 22:44:pm

@From Experience (the real one)

You are a w*****s! all you did was defend the w*****s! what does that make you.

JonBigBooty

7/25/09, 22:47:pm

I love the way she refuses to talk about her past, but doesn’t hesitate to cash in on it.

Nfamous

7/25/09, 22:53:pm

She need to face her past to confront her future.

Does she think that just because, in her mind ’she has changed’ that media wont ask her about that trashy ***** book she wrote, putting real entertainers names out in the street? How the hell she gon dedicate it to her son?
Media professionals will indeed ask her about her past… to move in the direction of…. how she got that interview. We all know she must have a good agent.

The problem with her is simple. She is as regular s***** hoe who became famous from having the tasks of s*kcing *****s. No education needed. We can all see that she is not used to dealing with professionals in the media who know their craft, and, how u gon’ write a book about f&kin rappers and athletes and then dont want *****ody to talk about it. Can U say DUMB ??

I got me a big spray bottle of “HOBI GONE” in an aresol can.

***** need to get down or lay down
PLEASE !

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 22:54:pm

JonBigBooty

LOL! I see you’re a fan of Buckaroo Banzai, huh?

leonard mckelvey

7/25/09, 23:03:pm

She does have a Ph.D in sucking *****.

Snoop Froggy Frog

7/25/09, 23:06:pm

@Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

Why is there a watermelon there?

From Experience (the real one)

7/25/09, 23:09:pm

@Melanie

Sweety, I didn’t quit because you won, I decided to leave the debate alone because it was getting off topic. When a debate because about Ad Hominen’s (attacking the character of an individual and not the argument) It gives the impression that you are too uneducated to hold a logical debate and then I begin defending my character rather than the argument. Your unhealthy hatred for educated individuals is sad. I brought up my education because someone on here *****umed that I was uneducated and therefore I stated that I was not.

Your useless ranting does not mean in anyway shape or form that you were capable of articulating yourself better, but that I just rather not waste my time. Had you REALLY been educated in the Ivy’s, you would know that a debate ONLY happens when someone states something with substance and worthy of debate. The fact that I exited the room, shows quite the contrary.

MaRRieD_MoMMy

7/25/09, 23:10:pm

*blank stare*
Ummm, ok Supahead!

The Progressive One

7/25/09, 23:11:pm

My Defense of Karrine Steffans

So, lately author Karrine Steffans has been promoting her new book “The Vixen Manual”. While visiting a Black blog, I noticed that two days in a row they posted videos of Karrine being belittled and degraded by male White hosts. The bloggers of this site were *****ing themselves with excitement to see this Black woman be belittled and degraded. Someone even requested that we do society a favor and kill her. I then ended up getting into a back and forth debate about how Black women and the Black community has a tendency to take all of their insecurities and lack of confidence and pour it on women like Karrine. So, I decided to write a blog in defense of Karrine Steffans.

First let me explain my position: I absolutely believe that Karrine is not really concerned with reforming or helping young women from making her mistakes but more concerned about making money. While I am all for making money, I am not going to support making it at the expense of misleading others. My issue is the absolute hatred the Black community seems to have with Black women and especially those who do not replicate perfection.

My Defense:
The calls of violence and degradation of Karrine demonstrates a larger problem: The Culture of Black people to encourage violence against Black women and Girls and a total lack of accountability for Black males. I cannot think of a single Black male who finds himself constantly being kicked off of shows because he decided to be explicit about his sex life. Is there not an athlete by the name Wilt who slept with over 7,000 women? I am sure he did not deal with the backlash that Karrine did. Why do Black people (read Black women) have such a hard time allowing a sista who made wrong choices to become a better person? The answer is simple: Black women have an inferior status in their communities and in the larger world and the ONLY strength we hold is tearing down other Black women and beating the mess out of our kids. If Black women actually did not pour all of their hatred onto women like Karrine, we would realize how truly powerless we are and it would eat us alive. And so we have decided that we are going to pretend that women like Karrine are the “reason why Black men don’t respect us”.

Addressing the REAL reason is far too complex and so we have designated a SULA (a Black woman who becomes the dumping ground for all of our sorrows and pain. We convince ourselves that if this woman did not exist, everything would be better for us as Black women.)I cannot understand how a promiscuous woman could cause so much hatred, while rapist and pedophiles roam freely through the Black community with little to no resistance. Black women are really going to have to re-focus our efforts on re-evaluating who we are and what it is we are trying to accomplish. We are going to need to be more realistic about why we hate ourselves and other women. We are going to need to address our inferior status and be honest about the culprits and maybe then we won’t need SULA’S.

That is my defense.

theprogressiveblackwoman.c/o/m

LogicallySpeaking

7/25/09, 23:15:pm

Ms Karrine Steffans AKA Superhead, Supersoaker, Superchoker…Whatever anyway…I think she is a desperate opportunist. She obviously slept with all those celebrities in hopes of going to the top and when that didnt work she decided to expose as many people as she could. Which did give her some claim to fame. She went on Oprah and lost her damn mind and somehow believed she made it. Anyone who goes on Oprah and says they have a book will with out a doubt be a bestseller. It’s a no-brainer and somehow Superhead thought it had to do with her skill as a book writer. So being a ***** sucker was her foundation and now she wants to take it back?. Any w***** worth her weight is not ashamed of where she came from. Karrine sorry but you need a personality transplant and reality check. The real victim is your son who has to grow up being teased about his ***** goggling mammy. There is nothing wrong with getting your money but dont bite the *****s that fed you in the first place….LOL

carbar

7/25/09, 23:25:pm

SuperHead: “I Didn’t Bang Anybody to Get Here”…

Carbar: She’s correct, because she is nowhere in a respectable career environment.

i done gave up that narcotic

7/25/09, 23:30:pm

That tack head ***** slung that washed up ***** from mane to spain !!! She needs to repent !

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 23:44:pm

Snoop Froggy Frog

Ahhh, another fan of the greatness that is Buckaroo Banzai.

“Why is a watermelon trapped between those monstrous pressure plates deep within the Institute’s Critical Stress Laboratory?” Team Banzai botanical agronomists have been for years hard at work on the problem of hunger in Third World countries under constant revolutionary turmoil. A nonpolitical, humanitarian effort, their goal has been to find ways to feed starving peoples in remote areas where traditional food delivery systems prove woefully inadequate. Often, the only way to get the nourishment into the bellies of the needy is to hit and run, avoiding all petty ideological side-taking. What you see in the Critical Stress Lab is a revolutionary watermelon capable of withstanding impact pressures of 300,000 pounds per square inch! Sweet, juicy and vitamin-packed, this remarkable fruit can be dropped from the bomb bays of low-flying aircraft into the backyards of disenfranchised villagers in the remotest backwaters of this angry planet.”

sepia830

7/25/09, 23:45:pm

Bossip: Pay your f’ing bills so this raggedy ***** site will post when I click on SUBMIT COMMENT!

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/25/09, 23:53:pm

Sepia830

Read my 4:09 post. Hopefully it’ll help you navigate around Bossip’s tempermental filterin’ system. Happy trollin’

floo

7/25/09, 23:54:pm

y is d reporter acting up, shez being straight so why must he try 2 contradict her when she is right…besides,super head,kip doing your thing…and i’ll definitely buy your book…hope lil wayne is in it doe…

Z (Harlem is My Playground)

7/26/09, 00:00:am

She is the poster child for being a jazzy ***** w*****! What is funny is she is trying to make money off her past while denying the facts of her past.

sepia830

7/26/09, 00:01:am

@Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

Sepia830

Read my 4:09 post. Hopefully it’ll help you navigate around Bossip’s tempermental filterin’ system. Happy trollin’
________________________________________________

Funny, I am trying to respond to one of your earlier posts and it won’t take. I’m starting to believe that you work for Bossip too. It might explain why you seem to be on here 24/7.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/26/09, 00:06:am

Oh, Sepia, despite popular belief, i’m not on here 24/7. You’d be more surprised on whom i’m not, considerin’ most of my detractors accuse me of everyone who doesn’t subscribe to their P.O.V.. Btw, I see you’re still gettin’ your “BITTER BLACK FEMALE” troll on. How’s tricks?

sepia830

7/26/09, 00:08:am

@ Marquis de Sade

Is it my imagination, or does every ***** ***** on here has an Ivy League education + PHD’s and Master Degrees out the wazoo? You ***** hoes are so full of *****, and considerin’ that most of you can barely form a proper sentence, makes you all the more “SELF-DELUDED”.
________________________________________________

lol. Speaking of forming a proper sentence, allow me to point out the grammatical error in your post. In the sentence “Is it my imagination, or does every ***** ***** on here has an Ivy League education + PHD’s and Master Degrees out the wazoo?”, the proper verb is HAVE, not HAS.

Who’s full of ***** now?

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/26/09, 00:08:am

*accuse me of bein’ everyone*

Oh, I don’t work for Bossip. I’m a regular workin’ stiff just like you.

Snoop Froggy Frog

7/26/09, 00:09:am

Marquis, we should hang out sometime.

sepia830

7/26/09, 00:10:am

@ Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

How’s tricks?
__________________________________________________

Tricks are okay. Did your ***** drop yet?

VIRGIN ISLAND QUEEN1

7/26/09, 00:10:am

THIS TRICK CAN’T BE SERIOUS HOW THE HELL IS SHE GOING TO TEACH ME HOW TO KEEP A MAN WHEN SHE COULDN’T EVEN KEEP BILL MAHER???

Whatever

7/26/09, 00:12:am

Please stop promoting this hoe s*****. she’s super wack!

sepia830

7/26/09, 00:15:am

@VIRGIN ISLAND QUEEN1

THIS TRICK CAN’T BE SERIOUS HOW THE HELL IS SHE GOING TO TEACH ME HOW TO KEEP A MAN WHEN SHE COULDN’T EVEN KEEP BILL MAHER???
_______________________________________________

Okay. I can’t believe he kept her around for two years. I bet he has the rawest ***** in town.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/26/09, 00:17:am

Sepia

I never claimed to be Hemingway, or lord over anyone with any academic achievements, hence my 4:39 post. Trust, the onus of proper grammar and sentence structure should be on those who feel compelled to reveal their higher liberal arts education achievements, not I…Afterall, i’m a J.C. dropout.

Z (Harlem is My Playground)

7/26/09, 00:23:am

The reason I left Bossip was because *****es couldn’t handle the truth. At least at night it is more chill. Those tricks on here during the day needed a reality check! IMO

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/26/09, 00:25:am

Z (Harlem is My Playground)

The reason I left Bossip was because *****es couldn’t handle the truth. At least at night it is more chill. Those tricks on here during the day needed a reality check! IMO

HEAR! HEAR!

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/26/09, 00:29:am

Snoop Froggy Frog

Marquis, we should hang out sometime.

I see you’re a fan of obscure pop cultural entertainment, too. It’s too bad, the producers never followed up on their proposed sequel to Buckaroo. I (bein) the consumate geek was lookin’ forward to it.

Z (Harlem is My Playground)

7/26/09, 00:29:am

What up de Sade?

Young Obama

7/26/09, 00:33:am

***** that tramp.

Marquis de Sade (The Real One)

7/26/09, 00:38:am

Z

Oh, nothin’ much. Btw, I noticed a few months ago, you were having a conversation with someone masquerading as me, and durin’ the conversation, this fake M.D.S. was chiding you on your attitude…Well for the record, I never had a problem with you. I felt that you, M.I.J.D.C., Oshie was/is some of the more astute and intelligent posters on this site. Of late it has become a haven for the insufferable elite.

What?

7/26/09, 00:38:am

That tramp is crazy! Lmao@caller who said she would have gotten ‘hood on that *****.

KNP

7/26/09, 00:49:am

They KEEP giving her the business….

Pam

7/26/09, 00:52:am

this is soooo damn funny b/c kim k. *****ed to get famous and some how people ignore her sex tape..BUT when a black chick does it she is a hoe. sad.

Z (Harlem is My Playground)

7/26/09, 01:11:am

Thanks Marquis and I had no clue as to who I was conversing with. Another reaaon I backed off this site was the drama of trying to keep of with who is really who!

CharmA

7/26/09, 02:32:am

Wow!

Sydney™

7/26/09, 02:36:am

@The Progressive One

“Addressing the REAL reason is far too complex and so we have designated a SULA (a Black woman who becomes the dumping ground for all of our sorrows and pain. We convince ourselves that if this woman did not exist, everything would be better for us as Black women.)”

I think you composed a very interesting post, and I’m familiar with the “Sula” character from Toni Morrison’s novel. But I’m not sure if this *****ogy applies to Karrine Steffans.

Karrine presents a quagmire for me. I just listened to both this radio interview, and I watched the CW video. While I believe that none of us is infallible, I don’t think that anyone can deny that this woman launched her career and received notoriety based on her sexual past, and she welcomed celebrity based on her past lascivious entanglements. There’s still a video circulating as Karrine promotes her book of her having sex on tape. To me, the questions about her past are warranted and are to be expected. After all, if it wasn’t for her first tell-all book, how many of us would even know who she was? Did she not at one point embrace the nickname “Superhead?”

I do think, after observing these interviews, that she could greatly benefit from some media training. She cannot reasonably expect interviewers to not broach the subject of her first book nor the sexual past that she took pains to publicize. That’s just not realistic. Nor is it a strategic move to berate reporters, which only leads to a contentious back-and-forth that further detracts attention from her new book. A little finesse and tact would go a long way.

And, again, I don’t think I would hold her as an example of the cultural disrespect that black women face (which is an issue of personal interest to me). I think that overlooks the real challenges faced by sisters who don’t have books in Borders about their sexual escapades.

Marquis de Sade

7/26/09, 02:52:am

@Sydney

Are you experiencing insomnia young gr*****hopper??

CharmA

7/26/09, 02:52:am

@Sydney WOW

B

7/26/09, 05:30:am

That hoe needs to suck on a twelve gauge while pulling the trigger. ***** that molested black trash!

Tay

7/26/09, 07:20:am

she’s a fxckn hoe 4 life!!

follow. @taylorriSh

allysonsharpton

7/26/09, 08:28:am

i think its good that she is going on these “white” statations and shows and they are giving her the biz. she has always said “i dont do black radio” she claims that “black radio is ghetto” now even the white ppl are calling a her out on her *****.

melanie

7/26/09, 08:31:am

@From Experience

First of all, you didn’t leave and you are still trying to defend yourself. You still didn’t address any of the points I made and are now fogging because I pointed out the shallowness and the many faults of your argument as did some other people without the benefit of an ivy league education. I find it interesting that you continued to engage with someone who was calling you a w***** repeatedly, but when I called you an educated fool, it was lights out. Don’t worry – most people don’t want to get in a verbal sparring match with me. I don’t play by your rules and I certainly don’t have to in a bossip forum! I have no contempt for education, and I just happened to mention my degrees because you think that gives you some advantage when talking about the black community and/or w*****s. I believe that it may be a disadvantage. The ivy league is full of w*****s, but let’s not get it twisted. The ivy league education gives you a leg up in many areas and opens many doors, but the ivy league can’t even identify black problems, let alone solve them. Case in point – U. Penn sits in the middle of a black community. Every year, they graduate know-it-alls with multiple degrees that go into the black schools and think they are going to turn everything around and every year most quit because they have a situation that even their ivy league education has no answer for. These graduates try to fall back on their ivy league education and books for support, and that falls mightily short in the hood. They can sit and pontificate and possibly even construct a meaningful argument, or win a debate about education, but can’t survive in the realest of worlds. Ivy league educations do have their limitations and I do know from experience. It’s great to be proud of yours, but it gives you no credibility when it comes to issues related to black folk. in my experience, most ivy league graduates do not know what they are talking about when it comes to black issues and you happen to be one of them (if, in fact, you have the degrees you stated). It doesn’t take someone with an ivy league education to see that, either, as noted by others on this forum.

Sweety, I didn’t quit because you won, I decided to leave the debate alone because it was getting off topic. When a debate because about Ad Hominen’s (attacking the character of an individual and not the argument) It gives the impression that you are too uneducated to hold a logical debate and then I begin defending my character rather than the argument. Your unhealthy hatred for educated individuals is sad. I brought up my education because someone on here *****umed that I was uneducated and therefore I stated that I was not.

Your useless ranting does not mean in anyway shape or form that you were capable of articulating yourself better, but that I just rather not waste my time. Had you REALLY been educated in the Ivy’s, you would know that a debate ONLY happens when someone states something with substance and worthy of debate. The fact that I exited the room, shows quite the contrary.

DJ What Did You Say?

7/26/09, 09:17:am

@melanie

I don’t know what Ivy League school you graduated from, but you should at least ask for $20 back so you can buy a dictionary. It’s “Ivy League” and not “ivy league.” It’s “ad hominem” and not “Ad Hominen.” I went to art school, and even I know that. I don’t know how you graduated from such a prestigious institution without learning two of the most common terms used in academia, but I’m sure there’s *some* reason they let you walk. I just wonder what it could be…

I AM LEGEND ( A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

7/26/09, 10:03:am

W*****………..Cynthis is a fool

ohnoudient

7/26/09, 10:08:am

Makes me want to bring up my lunch. Scary to think this female is raising a boy. Does she think he will stay a baby forever, unaffected by her lifestyle? The garbage this kid must put up with in school makes me want to scratch this *****’s eyes out. Does she think ppl refer to her as a scholar? ***** please…

C

7/26/09, 12:54:pm

She is so delusional. It’s actually sad. The only reason that Karrine has her long overdue 15 minutes of fame is because of the tell all. She was being interviewed on a top 40 morning show where probably 85% of the audience didn’t know who they hell she is and didn’t care too without the backstory. The ONLY reason that you are a best selling author Karrine is because of the work you did on your back. If you really want people to believe that you are changed woman and can give qualified relationship advice then go back to school get the PHD and offer more than better sex tips to keep a man.

Scoopy

7/26/09, 12:59:pm

Bottom line is Karrine needs to develop thicker skin to effectively deal with the reporters. Of course they are going to talk about her past. That is what gained her fame. But, she needs to talk about it, and then segway into her book. Each time they ask her a question. Don’t argue with them because it takes away from the real reason for the interview. However, all press is good press because we are arguing about it back and forth which still leaves the lasting imprint that she has a new book out. The girl is not dumb. There were plenty of hoes before her and plenty after her. Can anyone name any of them? She took the things she did in the past, got paid off of them. (I dont necessarily agree with what she did but she did gain something positive from the negative)
Then instead of continuing the same behavior, she is writing books…..okay, why are we hating on her self improvement?
Karrine do you honey….screw everybody else. GOD then family, always remember that.

Scoopy

7/26/09, 13:20:pm

IN RESPONSE TO ==== theprogressiveblackwoman.c/o/m

You mentioned in your post:

I am sure he did not deal with the backlash that Karrine did. Why do Black people (read Black women) have such a hard time allowing a sista who made wrong choices to become a better person? The answer is simple: Black women have an inferior status in their communities and in the larger world and the ONLY strength we hold is tearing down other Black women and beating the mess out of our kids. If Black women actually did not pour all of their hatred onto women like Karrine, we would realize how truly powerless we are and it would eat us alive. And so we have decided that we are going to pretend that women like Karrine are the “reason why Black men don’t respect us”.

WHY DO YOU FEEL THAT WE AS BLACK WOMEN ARE POWERLESS? I FEEL THAT WE HAVE THE MOST POWER, BUT WE FAIL TO REALIZE IT OR EVEN USE IT FOR THAT MATTER. THAT IS WHY WE LOWER OUR EXPECTATIONS, STANDARDS, AND MORALS. TOO MANY OF US (includes EVERYONE INCLUDING MYSELF),SETTLE. Karrine is extremely intelligent and had different routes that she could have taken to be successful. I read her first book and she used what she had (her body)to get ahead….she did EXTRA because there were SO MANY women there that was the ONLY way she could stand out. That right there is the problem. For the millions of women who will not use their bodies, there are three million who will.

You also stated in your post:

Black women are really going to have to re-focus our efforts on re-evaluating who we are and what it is we are trying to accomplish. We are going to need to be more realistic about why we hate ourselves and other women. We are going to need to address our inferior status and be honest about the culprits and maybe then we won’t need SULA’S.

That is my defense.

theprogressiveblackwoman.c/o/m

I truly feel you. Jumping on Karrine is not the answer. That is what I mentioned above as well. YOU ARE RIGHT. WE DO NEED TO REFOCUS OUR ENERGIES ON THINGS THAT ARE MORE IMPORTANT. LIKE ALSO HOW THESE RELATIONSHIPS THAT WE WOMEN HAVE AFFECT OUR CHILDREN.

Fernand

7/26/09, 15:23:pm

@Tay

Superhead is tryin to make some stacks, the more u talk about her the richer she gets as this generates interest in her new book.

She has done it before and will do it again

chinny

7/26/09, 15:38:pm

Everybody falls short of sin no matter how big or small….you can’t condenm her cuz i dun kno 99% of people commenting aren’t perfect!…

she’s tryna move on …let her do so…JEEZE!

GLADIGREWUP

7/26/09, 15:44:pm

@Tanyaebaby

“Stick with blackfolks Supahead we loove you girl!”

I hope you ain’t black, if so, you should turn in your membership. You are the partly the reason the Superhead’s of the world exist. I’m a black man who can’t stand black women like you or superhead. Pick a better hero, not a w*****-o…

GLADIGREWUP

7/26/09, 15:54:pm

ohnoudient

Makes me want to bring up my lunch. Scary to think this female is raising a boy. Does she think he will stay a baby forever, unaffected by her lifestyle? The garbage this kid must put up with in school makes me want to scratch this *****’s eyes out. Does she think ppl refer to her as a scholar? ***** please…

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Thank you…only other women who have a slurp-count similar to the self described VIXEN, could view this kind of behavior as “recoverable.” Ya’ll going to hell too! Ain’t no future in writing YOUR story about how many non-industry cats you gave brain to. You’ll just be another run-of-the-mill hoe.

GLADIGREWUP

7/26/09, 15:57:pm

chinny

Everybody falls short of sin no matter how big or small….you can’t condenm her cuz i dun kno 99% of people commenting aren’t perfect!…

she’s tryna move on …let her do so…JEEZE!

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I forgive people all the time, but I still want them to stay the hell away from me though.

chinny

7/26/09, 15:58:pm

If you have not sinned…throw the first stone

SILENCE

didn’t think so

GLADIGREWUP

7/26/09, 16:07:pm

@Pam

this is soooo damn funny b/c kim k. *****ed to get famous and some how people ignore her sex tape..BUT when a black chick does it she is a hoe. sad.

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Thats because we’re black, it’s called self policing. Go to school, get an education, get a career, THATS what your brothers and sisters should expect of you. Gobbling bozacks for fame shouldn’t be cool with us. Nor telling it like it ain’t a thang. Have some shame. Just because other folks don’t have any shame doesn’t mean it should be cool for us. Join the crowd of blacks who are gonna make it in this world, not the crowd swallowing DNA to get by.

GLADIGREWUP

7/26/09, 16:09:pm

chinny

If you have not sinned…throw the first stone

SILENCE

didn’t think so

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Christ said we are all born sinners after Adam, the issue is celebrating our sin.

Still thinking???

GLADIGREWUP

7/26/09, 16:29:pm

@chinny

Everybody falls short of sin no matter how big or small….you can’t condenm her cuz i dun kno 99% of people commenting aren’t perfect!…

she’s tryna move on …let her do so…JEEZE!

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You ARE correct about letting her move on. Yes, we should. But we have to learn to abandon the practice of *****uming the lawyer position for something/somebody who defines what is ruining our race, which is a person inspiring the glorification and celebration of deviant behavior in the black community.

You are correct 99% of us have done wrong, but my hope is that we at least know it was wrong, and we don’t celebrate it. We acknowledge it, but don’t celebrate, or normalize it. I’m sure you’ve read the comment about the black community supporting sister Steffans? That commment read like a child wrote it, which concerns me. Should our children have understanding for sister Steffans? Even in support of here, I’d ask all children to stay far away from her, and any other self respecting black person as well.

Support her journey towards re-invention, of course, but please do it far away from sane progressive black people.

P.S. – Blow Jobs are not the answer for how to get or keep a man, every man she “serviced” walked away after, remember? She has no answers for you, just wierd stories and books to sell to inferior minds. Wake up readers please, become more sophisticated as black people,

Peace…

I am the real ILL COSBY, by the way…

I CAN'T SAY....

7/26/09, 16:29:pm

It’s really sad that you have a woman who is trying to re-invent herself & these hosts are really trying to disrespect her. She speaks rather calmly and intelligently even under pressure but it seems like all they want to do is agitate her. Yes, she has a past that involved sexual experiences with well-known ppl and whatever her motive was she is now trying to get past it and use it to her advantage. I think she gets offended by the references bc she regrets some of it but realizes she wouldnt have gotten where she is if she hadnt done it. She is trying to create an honest living and since sex sells, she is using it. I just think that the media has allowed white w*****s to re- create their seedy image but noone wants to allow Karrinne the same. Pam Anderson, Kendra, Kim K, Coco, Madonna, Carmen Electra and a host of other white w*****s have done exactly what Karrinne did but the world is unforgiving to Black people. Just by her remarks you can tell she has taken careful efforts to spin her history and clean it up from the “Superhead” days and that shows growth. I doubt she is going around doing those things these days but she is trying to ensure that the days she did spend on her back will not be in vain. At this rate, with three books, she will not have to sleep with anyone else for profit again. I like her and she is far more intelligent, resillient and stronger than people give her credit for. How tragic that media personalities that are supposed to be nuetral try to humiliate her. You should always respect your guest and if you werent professional enough to do that then you should not have invited her on the show. Look at the white chic who *****ed NY Gov. Elliot Spitzer- she was a PAID PROSTITUTE in part of a escort ring and when uncovered she got an offer for a playboy spread AND a record contract out of the deal… Karrinne dated and had sex with men who where interested and willing to take care of her beyond a 4 hour hotel romp, yet she gets treated like a Times Sq. w*****.

Brownin All Day

7/26/09, 16:39:pm

LMAO @ her thinking everybody knows her. Maybe they know her as Superhead, but not Karrine Steffans.

GLADIGREWUP

7/26/09, 16:48:pm

@Scoopy

Bottom line is Karrine needs to develop thicker skin to effectively deal with the reporters. Of course they are going to talk about her past. That is what gained her fame. But, she needs to talk about it, and then segway into her book. Each time they ask her a question. Don’t argue with them because it takes away from the real reason for the interview. However, all press is good press because we are arguing about it back and forth which still leaves the lasting imprint that she has a new book out. The girl is not dumb. There were plenty of hoes before her and plenty after her. Can anyone name any of them? She took the things she did in the past, got paid off of them. (I dont necessarily agree with what she did but she did gain something positive from the negative)
Then instead of continuing the same behavior, she is writing books…..okay, why are we hating on her self improvement?
Karrine do you honey….screw everybody else. GOD then family, always remember that.

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I think I see where you are going with this, but I seen her on the radio show with Jamie Foxx talking about Big Tigger from BET. It was awful! Some people we just have to let go of. How can anybody stick up for her and get angry at anybody talking about her when she made/makes her career talking reckless about other people? She dogged Tigger bad, kinda like she was trying to get herself hurt or something.

Sorry but she brought the rock throwing on herself. She should only be used as the example of what NOT do and WHO not to become.

I have comp*****ion for her, but my advice would be to move into obscurity. Her son would never have known about her if she didn’t plaster her pictures everywhere, which by the way, don’t look at all like someone looking for redemption.

I’m saddened by the support she’s getting from black women. This should really stop.

Wait till her son does a google search of his mother, which will happen, and let the images tell you if this is a woman trying to move on from her past. She is a past, present, and future person to stay away from unless you are looking for a “hummer.”

Only birds of a feather flock together…please stop all defense of the indefensable.

ILL COSBY

ja nae nae

7/26/09, 16:49:pm

LOL, People just dont like her. Stop writing so damn much to make a point ppl.

I CAN'T SAY....

7/26/09, 17:02:pm

The facts are Karrinne is attractive physically has a nice body and plays in a ring with wealthy people. Most men would want her and most women are intimidated by that. If she walked in to a room most people would take notice, whether it is to admire or condemn, but no one will ignore her presence. She hasnt stayed relevant this long by being stupid and not having powerful supporters so someone/ something is driving the force. Whatever the case, the girl dont bother me none!! We let Eve go on to a rap, movie and television career but we all saw her getting muffed by another chic in a raunchy Bronx club, Trina was nothing but a booty clapper and now she’s, well nevermind she still a booty clapper…

GLADIGREWUP

7/26/09, 17:05:pm

@I CAN’T SAY….

I like her and she is far more intelligent, resillient and stronger than people give her credit for. How tragic that media personalities that are supposed to be nuetral try to humiliate her. You should always respect your guest and if you werent professional enough to do that then you should not have invited her on the show. Look at the white chic who *****ed NY Gov. Elliot Spitzer- she was a PAID PROSTITUTE in part of a escort ring and when uncovered she got an offer for a playboy spread AND a record contract out of the deal… Karrinne dated and had sex with men who where interested and willing to take care of her beyond a 4 hour hotel romp, yet she gets treated like a Times Sq. w*****.

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I’m just respectfully asking for clarity…

Equal rights for black w*****s? And you LIKE her? What is it exactly that you, LIKE?

Okay, see this is where a full blown societal stoning should happen to sister Steffans. *****ody shoud be LIKING her! Please see her as something you “better not become.” I’m black, but this ain’t even about being black. Please don’t be a young lady talking about you “like” Ms. Steffans! See, when the young ladies “Like” Ms. Steffans, I can no longer refer to her as my sister. She’d have to go…

Let her school your daughters if you want to…I’m sure they’ll grow up to write books to.

SAD…

ILL COSBY

I CAN'T SAY....

7/26/09, 17:27:pm

@GLADIGREWUP

^^ I am always willing to have a respectful debate… I said I like her, that doesnt suggest that I want to be like nor would I encourage anyone else to be like her. To answer the question, I would say what I like about her is what people are trying to make us not like about her. I have heard perhaps 6 or 7 interviews with her being attacked and for the most part she has tried to keep her composure. I thought she was trash earlier on too but after so many negative comments, I eventually learned to like how she handles herself.

I think it is rather extreme and irresponsible to encourage anyone to hate her because of her sexual past. Because she made choices in HER life that I wouldnt make I should not like her?? That’s an unnecessary position to take. I shouldnt like someone for offending, disrespecting or trying to hurt me personally. I am not going judge her decisions based upon my own morals and standards and I am not going to dislike her for that either. And as far as schooling anyone’s daughter’s I never suggested that she be held as any kind of example or standard. If I ever have a daughter- I will be her standard and if she approaches me about someone with Karrinne’s history I will explain to her in a very responsible way how that lifestyle can destroy you, but I wouldnt tell her to hate that woman.

Karrinne has a past that I am sure even she regrets but like everyone else she has a right to atone for her past and move beyond that if she so choses. It seems as though everyone wants feels like she cant do better for herself she has to stay stuck in her past. Isnt there anything in your past that you gave up and out grew or is your screen name just for show????

GLADIGREWUP

7/26/09, 18:04:pm

@I CAN’T SAY….

^^ Great reply. Yes I have been in trouble, a lot actualy, but I also acknowledge that there are some things that I’ve done that I’ll never get forgiveness for, and some relationships that I’ve ruined where I’ll never again be welcomed. So as an adult I have to accept my part in that and just move on.

I just hope we learn to admire people who have not obtained reputations like this. I don’t want you to admire the way anybody handles their deviant behavior recovery, I’d hope you admire and celebrate those that never adopt this type of deviant behavior in the first place, boring or not.

I also admire her attempts, and (seemingly) misguided journey towards re-invention. But I’m sorry sister, there is nothing you can learn from Ms. Steffans except that your re-invention may not get the welcome you would hope for. I think that is the ultimate lesson here. (Just like you said about your child, who (thankfully) will learn from you, please disregard anything you believe you perceived she (Ms. Steffans) offered of value. Just like her lessons are valueless to your child they are valueless to you as well.

Yes I wish her the best, but she should try to be a lot less visible if her re-invention is to be believed. Her book covers visually speak of her intentions. Plus, all women need to stop “seducing” men, its not healthy sister, believe me.

Thank you for your reply, sis.

ILL COSBY

Return of the Black is Beautiful

7/26/09, 18:37:pm

I am sorry, but there is no way I would buy a book on how to keep a man by Superhead. She confessed to Perez that her husband (Eddie Winslow from Family Matters) was beating her *****. I read her first book and I noticed she was good at seducing men, but terrible at keeping them. The radio DJ was correct, this chick does not have a PH.D, so why would we take her seriously. I would buy Steve Harvey’s book on keeping a man before hers.

I CAN'T SAY....

7/26/09, 20:06:pm

@GLADIGREWUP

^^^ If you are still there I just want to comment on the statement you made:
“I just hope we learn to admire people who have not obtained reputations like this. I don’t want you to admire the way anybody handles their deviant behavior recovery, I’d hope you admire and celebrate those that never adopt this type of deviant behavior in the first place, boring or not.”
My mother always told us it’s a longer climb to the top when you are all the way down at the bottom. She didn’t go straight thru school the way my aunt did. My mom married had a few kids and then in her adult yrs finished school. My grandmother never praised her and instead compared her to my aunt who went straight thru and never had any challenges. My mother believed it took more perseverance & character to continue getting up even when people expect and want to see you stay down.

No one will walk this earth without making mistakes. Whatever you did, if the person(s)cant forgive you, then you need to forgive yourself and let it go- no one can bound you to your past. I think you and I still hold on to our opinions of Ms. Karrinne but I also think our opinions crossed a common ground… Thanks for the dialogue!!

dove

7/27/09, 01:39:am

She is crazy. Before going on these interviews she should have anti*****ted some of these questions. I have heard other interviews that have not posted on Bossip where she did the same thing. Being rude in her interviews is starting to be a gimmick for her and it needs to stop.

asdf

7/27/09, 03:51:am

they be chopping her as@ up. she kills me with the oblivious, air head proper s*****e. G Rap kept her right wher she belongs. on her knees

KR

7/27/09, 09:47:am

THE RECESSION DIDN’T BOTHER HER.
HOW DO YOU GET LAID OFF, SHE JUST GET OFF GETTING LAYED.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hawt ***** Mess

7/27/09, 11:20:am

Damn the books Supahead
Come out with a line of cushioned knee pads
those will sell

mcleod10

7/27/09, 12:05:pm

she’s delusional!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mcleod10

7/27/09, 12:17:pm

she did not sleep with jamie or chris rock

bobbi

7/27/09, 13:44:pm

why the phugg is everybody so hard on this chick and all these other cracker bytches who we can actually SEE *****in and suckin on tape, get a p*****? we have never seen karrine do anything – just talk about it. granted she was dead wrong for dealng with the married men that she dealt with, what is the real problem here? and, personally, i loved how she dealt with that dude. she’s obviously not a push over.

tg

7/27/09, 14:00:pm

I’m not mad at her at all for making money. And I’m sure she is probably used to azzholes trying to diss her about her past. Like some said – she trying to move on with her life. Only the azzholes can’t get over her past, but that aint stopping her from moving past it – so more power to her.

ThaHoleTruth

7/27/09, 14:00:pm

Superhead..Need to shut up and suck a lollipop..I’m tired of this ***** made star!

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7/27/09, 15:41:pm

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Don't ask .... just listen

7/27/09, 15:49:pm

superhead! bwahahahaha….seriously? I just hope her son doesn’t end up being some sociopath!

thisisbs

7/27/09, 17:13:pm

This is the consequences of putting your business out there and profiting off of others without their permission. She’s trash!

barb

7/27/09, 17:38:pm

yall gone beat me up for this, but i like the way she stood up for herself.

GLADIGREWUP

7/27/09, 21:55:pm

@ I can’t say…

“No one will walk this earth without making mistakes. Whatever you did, if the person(s)cant forgive you, then you need to forgive yourself and let it go- no one can bound you to your past. I think you and I still hold on to our opinions of Ms. Karrinne but I also think our opinions crossed a common ground… Thanks for the dialogue!!”

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Thank YOU sis! Believe me, us brothers need more thoughtful and insightful women to pursue. Thank you again…

ILL COSBY

J in LA

7/28/09, 01:35:am

that white dude lit her the ***** up!!! lol!!

This is going to keep happening Karrine…white folks ain’t going to let you start going on the oprah circuit. You put your biz out there..now you trying to sell a relationship book when the only dude you got to marry you left you broke and having to do *****os to feed your kid….

ballerina

7/29/09, 02:15:am

im glad she got dogged out in the interview because she said she didnt do black interviews because they were unprofessional and ghetto…so what type of interview was the “white one” posted above or the other white interview where the guy cuts her off and sits on her book…not only is she a snaggle-puss w*****, she trys to condemn black people as a whole…if she was so prestigous she would do research and listen to what type of interviewer she would be interviewed by and accept or deny their invitation based on how she felt the would treat her…and if thats to general, she should atleast be ready to deflect certain questions in a more productive way, which would allow her to shed herself in a different light and promote her book

redbone599

7/29/09, 17:14:pm

WHO CARES!!!! This ***** had to lay on her back to stand on her feet…she ain’t ***** but high cl***** hooker. I’m so glad she got her ***** lit up on air by a white man…NO ONE RESPECTS YOU. BLACK OR WHITE!!! If you are willing to write about it..be willing to talk about it.

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