First??

Second

First

a yamp will always be a yamp, to all the women that r looking for a pay day, hopefully your son’s r the next victim.

lol this is stupid. yeah its more than enough money, but why are they barking like its Kelis’ fault? Get mad at the judge who awarded her. If the roles were reversed Nas would take the money too. Men take money all the time in divorces Nick Lachey, Eric Benet. Stop acting like its just women.

I recommend you a nice milionaire dating site __Rich Flirts.c o m__. Whenever I chat with my friends on this site, I feel really relaxed and happy. They are easygoing and honest. I enjoy staying on the site. Hope you can find more nice rich friends there. Good luck to you.

Oh my gawd what’s with all the swearing and women actually date these type of men? Ewww….

Does Nas even have that much money? I know that judges usually base child support on the parents’ income and assets. But I didn’t know Nas had that kind of money.

LOL we knew we could count on Meth to saw what everyone else was thinking

get her done!

Im a female and I agree with Meth and Red there is no way that Kelis should get 50k a month for what gold diapers and a diamond pacifier…I could see if she had some hand in helping Nas amass his wealth but she came afterwards…10-15k a month would be sufficient…I hope he fights it and hopefully gets a judge who is more sympathetic towards fathers…

HAD HE PAID PREVIOUSLY,INSTEAD OF ACTING DUMB AND SHADY WITH THE MONEY THEN THE JUDGE WOULD’VE NEVER GONE THAT HIGH.

MEN CAN BE SO STUPID AND SELFISH. GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER

@ DEE, you can say that, but in this situation they were married. First of all as a women logically that was really looking out for her child, why would you want someone who is not a billionair to pay $55,000 a month. In the long run and in these days and time that cant stand for 18 years. So eventually he is going to stop paying, because he cant afford to pay child support anymore, then hes gonna get behind, then end up in jail, then there is no money coming in,because the previous child support she was getting, she spend it up trying to maintain her lifestyle. So who is that gonna hurt and affect? THE CHILD! So it shows these mothers are not trying to look out for the child, They are using the child to lookout for themselves.

@I am Legend:

Word!

I’m a female and I agree that Kelis doesnt need THAT much money to support her ONE son. Like Meth said, she wants to continue to maintain the lavish lifestyle she was accustomed to. Though, I cant get mad at her because the judge DID award her the money…..but what makes me feel some kinda way about the decision is that just by her ways up until the baby was born (twittering her biz, boldly asking for an excessive amount to begin with, etc..)makes me upset that she got WAY more than she was asking and then some. Spoiled brat.

SMH

Nas and Kelis should have BEEN stopped acting like kids and talked this out like adults before the baby was born on how this was going to work. So what you are not together. People get divorced all the time and sometimes things dont go as planned. But kudos for trying……

Dang, tho. Nas is about to shell out MAD paper and really, Kelis wont have to work. And, yeah, I guess she can keep up with as much of a lifestyle she had before with that a month. For not having a steady income to begin with???

Oh, well…I just hope that they can get along some day cuz its pitiful to see grown people acting like kids. It amazes me sometimes….

Yeah Meth is 100% right. Nas is not even bringing in that much money a month on his own and he has another child to support as while. The judge was STUPID! If I was nas, I wouldn’t pay it, i’ll just go to jail.

55,000 a month I bet anything her baby will be walkin around dressed like a damn fool

Let it be a lesson to Negros…But then again they still haven’t learned their lesson…Look at Lil Wayne with his 3 baby mamma’s…and the same way that guys will not stop sleeping around, is the same way women will not stop getting them for their money…With that being said that is not my style, but hey “It is what it is”…

This is some of the funniest $41t I have heard in a long time. In Redman voice “$2000 a month is enough the way I shop”

Black Man

This is some of the funniest $41t I have heard in a long time. In Redman voice “$2000 a month is enough the way I shop”
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He aint lyin tho 2000 a month for a new born is way more than enough

Wow. . .they both sound really angry and way too old to use all of that crass language. Neither of them is married right? I hope not.

I would hope that neither has kids, but I’m going to remain realistic.

Relax, relate, release. . .Relax, relate, release. . .

SMH @ all the BITTER ANGRY BLACK MEN IN HERE. ITS PATHETIC!

@AU Natural

You still a dumbass, because there divorce is not settle to implement the spousal support

But aren’t you black?
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Yes I am…what does that have 2 do with anything

@ Au Natural

You made things even worse because she still should be making her own…That looks terrible that the kid just gets that little…SAD! if you ask me…Now it really makes this case look like she is out for his money…

Pre-Nup! Does she do anything? If she finds a new man doesn’t the spousal support become void?

‘Yes I am…what does that have 2 do with anything’

I’m just trying to understand why you’re using racially offensive language. You sound really angry.

i agree with them.. some women, try to get pregnant with basketball players to get that child support…

LIL GRAPHIC- But that is foul

Well I wanna marry you Keri…

Meth is absolutely right. All that independent woman crap goes right out the door when it comes to this subject with a lot of women these days. The sad thing is society is training women like Kelis to think this is acceptable behavior…having a baby as a “Get out of work” free pass. With all the trouble they were having in their marriage even before the kid…it was irresponsible to even bring a child into this mess, so how can we be treating her like she some sort of victim at this point. As Meth was alluding to…that was a calculated move on her part…just as it was with Tameka Foster when her and Usher’s marriage was on the brinks…to have the second child. The courts have to wake up and see this for what it is. These type of woman having babies now-a-day is becoming big business and if folks think this won’t come back a bite society in the @ss they are sadly mistaken. Not to mention excessive awards for these type of woman are a slap in the face to the woman/child that gets nothing or very little.

This problem is becoming bigger than man. Its becoming a moral/ethical issue. How can any one claim this is in the best interest of the child? Children need parents (plural) not material things. SMH

cicimagee, there are 2 other people ahead of you so you are third you stupid idiot!

@AU Natural

You still a dumbass, because there divorce is not settle to implement the spousal support

You are such a lame. Spousal support can be awarded to you even before the divorce is final. A spouse can request temporary alimony genius. If only you had a brain.

Hey Syd! How are you this morning?

Here we go again, right? lol

I agree that dogging ALL black women because of this situation is pointless and unfair. Everyone who comes on here to simply bash black women and call them names are childlike anyways and probably limits themselves to life by putting themselves in a mental, and environmental box. Get out more and then your judgements wont be so generalized.

It actually shows your character and who you are as a person, even through the screen.

She’s a smart one as far as I’m concerned. Because that triflin negro wouldn’t have done anything but when and got with the next chic and had another child, just like the one he was with before her since he already has a child. She was real about her $hit just like all women should be. So don’t hate because she’s not some dumb baby momma who thinks she’s not entitled to the best of anything in this world. These triflin a$$ women keep dropping these negros babies and then living like dirt while he moves on to the next chic and start over again. Kelis ain’t no stupid broad and I applaud her for that.

For better or worse, for the rest of their lives, they are family.

I don’t know what it’s like to be Nas or Kelis or Knight, but I suspect that the money is not what is most important. The money is a symbol, a substitute for something that is harder to define.

Nas and Kelis were once in love, and now they’re not. Their son has just been born, and his parents are fighting over everything. Can you imagine how painful this must be for each of these people.

Money is no substitute for love, but I think that the amount the judge orders Nas to pay is a token that says that Kelis and the baby still matter, that he may not be in love with her anymore and may not be around to help raise their son for a variety of reasons, but at least their struggles won’t be financial.

My hope is that they get beyond their money issues, and find ways to be friends and raise their son together.

@that negro

No one is saying Kelis is Toya or Tiny here, but the amount is crazy!

@I Am Legend: Keep in mind that in these cases your attorney is either worth his or her salt, or a total dumbass. Nas’s lawyer is a dumbass. Most of these large overwhelming divorce settlements go to women who can make their own living and are able-bodied. However, if you have been allowed to live a particular lifestyle, many judges will award the lesser-earning (or non-earning) spouse enough to keep up the life, whether it is real or smoke and mirrors.

Wasn’t it this time last year that Kelis was wearing some gold spandex pants promoting her husband’s album, and defending his artistic integrity in the media? Most women who marry wealthy men give up working and earning a living because a lot of the time the man insists that she should support his endeavours, and put hers on the back burner. She put energy in supporting him and making sure she had his back – I remember seeing her everywhere with him, wearing his colors, and doting on his every whim.

I would expect that if a man married a rich woman and gave up his career and lifestyle for her, he should get enough to keep him in the lifestyle he became accustomed to while married.

This has to be the funniest story of 09. All you men catching feelings..doin interviews commenting on other people’s lives. Has anyone really just stop and thought for a minute? First Kelis and Nas were MARRIED! Second, she was pregnant. Third, HE BROKE THE VOWS of the marriage. Fourth, she will not get that amount forever. IF the marriage would have lasted, she would have been home right now taking care of a child she JUST gave birth to. Nas would fully be supporting his wife and child. None of yall complaining would have sh_t to say had they still been together. Lesson of the day:

A marriage is nothing more than a contract. No matter who you are, if you break it there is a penalty for it. Kelis could obviously prove in a court of law that Nas is a f*ckin loser and he’s paying for it. If he isn’t outraged, why are yall?
Seems to me he knows he aint sh*t either.

@Kami

“Hey Syd! How are you this morning?

Here we go again, right? lol

I agree that dogging ALL black women because of this situation is pointless and unfair.”

Good morning, Kami, Rozza

Yeah, it’s more of the same. *shrugs*

It’s gorgeous outside! Have a great day.

Anger is bad for your complexion!

@I Am Legend: All I am saying is that something happened or came out that made the judge put out this huuuuuuge amount. Like anything, either Nas was doing some stupid mess and got caught, or his lawyer isn’t worth a pimple on a gnat’s ass.

I bet this amount willl get amended drastically soon.

No the amount is NOT crazy… It’s the norm if any of you knew anything about really living. How do you think these white folk children were born with a silver spoon in their mouth. They didn’t just happen to be rich and end up in hollywood. The only difference here is that they are posting all their business on the internet. These little rich kids didn’t just get rich at the age of 17, 18, 19, ect… Those wives were getting paid and Kelis and her black child deserves the same thing. You all need to stop, look and listen and get off that ghetto a$$ mentality about child support. White folks get it too and it’s not $200 or $300 bucks a month that all these triflin a$$ sistahs get accustomed to either. I mean really get mad if that piece of $hit check not in the mail. Running down to court and trying to make a point about not getting some chump change like that. This WOMAN handling her business accordingly and the triflin ghetto fabolous folk who don’t see that are just prime example of the ghetto mentality I’m speaking of here.

Hey Sydney! How you doing?

You all are really dumb. It hurts my lil heart. Im convinced the only thing you all read are blogs.

Rozza♥ – Do You Like Fish Sticks?

Even if he didnt do anything all a woman ever has to do is file for divorce and CLAIM her husband was unfaithful and then its a wrap

@Kami: Paella! I love Paella! I haven’t had any since I was in Roosevelt Road, PR years ago! Have fun!

I’m a woman but this is ridiculous…That amount is unfair….To some of you who say they shouldhave worn a condom. Nas was married. It wasnt like he just met her. I think she needs to give that money back because that is PURE EVIL. AND also some women are soo frickin deceitful. They intentionally date these successful people just to get pregnant and get paid.

Paella is really good I havent had in since I went 2 my boys house in PR and his mom cooked for us every night man I need to go back.. I wish they had a PR parade here today

@I Am Legend: Obviously, her milkshake brought Nas to the yard! LOL!!! But seriously – I hope that they act grown-up soon for the baby.

He should have treated her like a groupie

I don’t feel sorry for Nas or any other rapper or singer who get caught paying child support. The average guy has to give out 25% of their income to their children, why can’t they who make a hell of a lot more than the average guy. As one poster stated, buy some damn condoms and USE them. Can’t no woman trap no man. If the man can’t think for himself or protect himself, that is his dumb ass.

Alby

AND also some women are soo frickin deceitful. They intentionally date these successful people just to get pregnant and get paid.

And some of these men are so freakin triflin runnin up in every girl raw and then get mad when they have to pay like they weigh. AIDS IS ALIVE AND WAITING FOR ITS NEXT VICTIM.

THEY ARE SO TELLIN THE TRUTH I LOVE THESE GUYS I HOPE NAS WINS AFTER ALL GOOD LUCK TO HIM.

They sound like some damn clowns. All I hear is this: If your husband or man decides to leave then U’re SOL. Sorry, but the court system doesn’t feel the way U do so men need to take note from what men used to say and do back in the day, “It’s cheaper to keep her”

Keli$ ju$t i$$ued an official $tatement on her web$ite directed toward$ Method Man’s angry ,bitter rant:

Cash rules everything around me… C.R.E.A.M… Get the money dolla dolla bill yall!!!
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Damn she got a website ..you were probably her only visitor

That’s good for black men ,always running around having all them damn kids, then expect for the woman to get government benefits, then just want to buy pampers and milk and acting like their taking care of their child. Black women stop having these black men babies. Black men is good for nothing except for reproducing.

I agree there is no child in America or the world that needs $50K per month. That judgment was B.S and I hope it gets overturning to something more reasonable.

I totally agree with them. Kelis has had hit songs. Let Nas pay for the kid and Kelis pay for her damn self! $55,000 dollars a month is some bullshit!

That’s good for black men ,always running around having all them damn kids, then expect for the woman to get government benefits, then just want to buy pampers and milk and acting like their taking care of their child. Black women stop having these black men babies. Black men is good for nothing except for reproducing. oh yeah and I forgot they also like to make it rain in strip clubs. Once again Black women, leave these tired black men alone. half of them is down low brothers anyway. there’s other nationality of good men out there.

oh please meth, didn’t you support superhead while u were married? lol , It seems your taking this wayyyy to personally. I am glad she is getting that money.

Method Man is so damn hot!

Everyone is entitled to their opinion on any subject but the language used in reference to women is horrible.

I don’t have a problem with Meth and Redman’s position on the case, to each its own.

They should also make sure they have all the facts before making bold statments. As stated earlier, it was a combination of child support and spousal support.

But they’re choice of words are disgusting.

Especially for two grown men. SMH

NAS LOST!! OH MY GOD!

EXACTLY. THAT’S THAT MARRIAGE STIPULATION BULLSHIT.
IF HE WASN’T MARRIAGE TO HER SHE WOULDN’T BE GETTING SPOUSAL-SUPPORT. MARRIAGES BEING GONE SINCE 1960 BABY THIS ABOUT BIG BUSINESS. AND REGARDLESS OF THE HURT HE AND SHE FELT FROM BOTH OF THEIR ACTIONS MONEY ISN’T GOING TO RECTIFY NOTHING. IT WILL JUST BANDAGE IT. AND PLEASE STOP REFERENCING THE BIBLE TO EVERYTHING, WE IS DEALING WITH AH NEW ERA!

You know what, yes, that’s a lot of money BUT Nas should’ve done right from the beginning. We don’t know how much money Nas has. Judges just don’t make up a number. They have scales and charts they have to use to conclude what a child support order should be. It was 44k child support, 10k spousal support. I agree that that’s a helluva large amount but oh well, shouldn’t been such a dirtbag when she was asking him for help now look at him. I don’t feel sorry for him one bit!

Diddy pays out 35k the most for his a kid and he makes 20 times more that Nas …Russell Simmons pays 40k for each kid he makes way more than Nas…
I don’t see this Standing Nas & Kelis will go back in court 50k a month is way to much and you and I know it I agree with Meth… Also 4 years of marriage

I son’t who fault it is here we go again. I does not matter what the reason for divorce is were talking about CHILD SUPPORT COURT. A lot of you cannot get it threw your thick heads. There is two differnt parts for divorce trust me I been there. The judge looks at both incomes I will do this slowly so some people can get it. We have 100% child support that has to be divided depending on home much the parents make as a total. Lets say both parents make 30,000 for her and the husband makes 40,0000 thats 70,000 right. The mother is the cusdotian parent, child expense day care medical clothing etc. The father goes to court and is order to pay 55% of child care. 70,000 = mthly is 320.00 a month one child so do the math on more income or more children. 2 children x2= 640 mthly and different states have different % this is still cheap in most states most men are paying 850. to 1200 for two kids . but look at this daddy makes 40,000 after tax = 30,000 rent average 1,000 yearly=12,000 car note 500= 6,000=yearly child support 320=3,480 fuel for work mthly 240=2880 I have not encluded food,electric water etc balance for the year=24,360 and the nappy head will not let you see you child with another baby daddy stayig at the house living off your money. No wonder why so many men are behind and going to jail for child support. But nappy head is happy about that Quote yeah look at him I told you he was no good.
BRUTHAS WAKE UP!!!

I know Des. I mean a figure four like we are wrestling because I don’t like him. I guess I should have a full body suit on too.

This will only serve to make men, who are highly paid, more resistant to marrying their woman. A lot of hoes out there will indirectly pay for every cent Kelis walked away with.

Negro’s ALWAYS complaining about taking responsibility. Geez.

Nas should have acted right from the get go…working out the payment with Kelis without the courts. But for reasons only known to him he did not. Leaving Kelis no choice but to take him to court. Now he has to pay or go to jail! Why are men so reluctant to pay for their kids!

THIS is why I do NOT support certain rappers like METHOD MAN.

GLAD TO KNOW THIS IS HIS MINDSET.

DON’T SUPPORT THIS WORTHLESS PEICE OF SHIT.

The truth is…this is the reason why the African-American race is the ONLY race where marriage rates are so low. This amount seems high to people that don’t make Nas-like money (hint-hint: Red and Meth). White folks go through divorce all the time and we don’t hear people crying and moaning about what their wives recieve. Hell, not even their baby-mamas.

I really don’t see why this is even a story. Fellas need to take the same effort they are taking complaining about this story and put it into creating lasting relationships with ONE woman for the sake of our black children.

Fellas, you might actually SAVE some money by sticking with ONE woman…then you won’t have to worry about large amounts of money leaving your pockets for all the kids you seem to spread around.

The truth is… I just have to say this one more time…

Fellas need to take the same effort they are taking complaining about this story and put into creating LASTING relationships with ONE woman for the sake of all our children.

Fellas, you might actually SAVE some moeny by sticking with ONE woman…courting and taking the time to get to know ONE woman…then you wouldn’t have to worry about large amounts of money leaving your pockets for all the kids that seem to spread around.

Applauds the Truth. Damn straight.

One more time…Its A LOT of money to people that DON’T MAKE THAT KIND OF MONEY. Duhhhh!

Ask around. If you hear a dude paying $800 a month working as a computer technician, hell, you would probably think that’s a lot, but then again, you aren’t making $80,000 a year. You might be working a the Wal-Mart distribution center just pushing out $30,000 a year.

VETTE?

MEN AREN’T RELUCTANT TO PAY FOR THEIR KIDS? BUT THEY ARE RELUCTANT TO PAY FOR THEIR EX/BABY-MOMMAS LIFESTYLES, AND YOU CANNOT TELL ME IT’S JUSTIFIED IN NO WAY.

METHOD MAN and NAS aren’t worth much then.

I’m so glad to know how they both feel.

I can’t enjoy their music knowing they treat women they way they do.

I just can’t.

First of all let that be a message to these rich fathers who don’t wanna break bread.Have you ever heard the term it’s cheaper to keep her? Kelis probably was just as shocked as Nas was to hear that judgement but listen.. I’ve followed this for a while yeah I think she was being childish with a the twitter posting and sh*t. Theirs no excuse for all the drama but remind and remember that she was only asking for $5,000 a month.He should’ve stepped up to the plate and did that. But he chose the other route now look what he’s stuck with unless he can get a judgement to have it lowed. My advice to Nas fire your lawyer and get another one

I wrote a song called ‘alimony’ about the topic a while back. Go take a listen.

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listen to “adultery’ and ‘leave me alone’ also

Thanks

Exactly my point…Meth and Red ain’t worth SH%$! Ya’ll saw MTV cribs. We know how Red living. And he has nerve to comment on Nas. A man who did the honorable thing by MARRYING Kelis and I’m sure will do the right thing by payng this amount ad moving on with his life.

Red and Meth…stop buying weed and start investing. Get a damn stock portfolio. Do something.

Dave…you sound disgruntled. Has someone left you penny-less for the countless children you have?

You are reacting to the effects…I am commenting on the causes. My point is merely to stress that men and women should TRY to create families with one person, not 3 and 4 people. Yes, relationships fail, but in MARRIAGE, you are in it for better and worse. Thats what the older generations did, and they didn’t have these kinds of problems. Yeah, you may have had a few “rolling stone” daddies, but nothing to what we are seeing today.

The truth is…

Dave, Meth and Red, and other men on this site are all reacting to the effects of this story.

I am speaking truthfully on the causes…my people, let’s get it together. Men, stop lying to these women just for physical gains and Women, stop being so damn gullible. Men, start wifing all these women that you have been in relationships with for over 2 years or better (hint-hint: T.I) and ladies, start cutting the milk off and demand respect.

real talk

Deesac…I must commend you on your intellectual point of view…

(SMH)

I am a woman, and I dont think Kelis should have gotten that much money. Dont get me wrong, I am all for men taking care of their children, but that amount is ridiculous. If there are women out there who think that this is okay, then, men, you need to steer clear of them. If the judge feels like the child deserves to live like his father, then give him to his damn father, but dont make the father provide for the mother as well, Kelis is not handicap, and can work, hell there are families out there who live on that amount for an entire year, so I dont wanna hear that BS!!!!

THE TRUTH!

NO BABY I’M NOT DISGRUNTLED AT ALL AND I’M NOT PAYING CHILD-SUPPORT, MINES IS TAKING CARE OF WITHOUT A COURT ORDER. AND THIS ISN’T THE OLDER GENERATION, WE IS DEALING WITH AN WHOLE NEW DIFFERENT BREED OF PEOPLE, WITH NO MORALE CONSCIENCE AT ALL AND HOW THEY TRY TO GOVERN ALL THIS IS SO BIASED AND UNJUSTLY DONE. LIFE IS AN CONTIGENT ELEMENT “THINGS THATS LIKELY TO HAPPEN, WILL HAPPEN” WE LIVE IN AN IMPERFECT WORLD. IF THESE LAWS WERE AH LITTLE MORE ETHICAL WITH THEIR PRACTICES, TRUST ME WE WOULDN’T BE HAVING THIS DIALOGUE. BECAUSE THE PROBLEM FOR MOST FATHERS IS NOT WANTING TO PAY IT CAUSE MOST FATHERS WILL JUST SO THAT WONT HAVE TO DEAL THE BITTER WITH, IT JUST THEY GET UNJUSTLY DONE, AND THAT’S WHERE THE HATE STEMS FROM, NOT THE CHILD.

Where living now in a society with blog and people can actually see how will fill. I see soo much pain in my bruthers and sistas. Well think for a minute a man brought up correctly would not mind paying a reasonible amount of child support. Sista’s you have got to stop not letting the fathers not see there kids, look at the out come. Cannot see my kids I will stop the money, CHILD ENFORMENT LETTER START COMING.Six months later DADDY is in jail for child support. Mother not letting daddy mentior them boys; 26 still at home selling drugs getting all the little girls pregnant on the block. WE DON’T WIN HERE BLACK FOLKS WAKE UP!!!

Kelis didn’t ask for this amount. This is what the court GRANTED her. I don’t know anybody that is going ask for $5,000 and turn down $40,000 is given to them. I feel for Kelis. Being pregnant and having a child is a very emotional time and I don’t think she wanted to being going through a divorce during all of that. She must have really been “fed up” with things that bloggers don’t know about and really shouldn’t comment on.

OH YEAH!

YOU GO GIRL! WITH YO REAL WOMAN SELF.

DEESAC!!!

DEESAC THANK YOU. BECAUSE THAT COMMENT WAS THE UNBIASED TRUTH THAT BOTH SIDES NEED TO HERE!

Yeah, Dave…if we didn’t have these laws stating that a man should give HIS CHILD $800 a month when he is making over $90,000, then guess what, THEN, that leaves more room for ‘big’ man to father some more.

Isaac Pavlov studied the actions of people through the concept of conditioning. By human nature, we are often “conditioned” to do what we do. A simple premise of action and consequence. Look at it from the point of view of traffic laws. You speed, you get a ticket… the faster you go, more money is paid out… If you don’t want to pay more money or go to jail, you will SLOW DOWN.

Yes, we are an imperfect society but the TRUTH is that the court was never set-up to make ethical and moral decisions on the provisions of a child. The court can’t make you stay with a person for the sake of a child but monetary provisions can be put in place so that the burden of support does not fall back on the government.

Cry me a river! The judge obviously took Kelis side for a reason.

You can’t always blame the government or the courts for the actions of an immoral society.

Morality and values are structured at home. Which brings me back to my original point…I am commenting on CAUSES.

We need to stop being reactive and start being PROACTIVE….

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@deesac…if you are going to reference something from my comments, please use the entire quote. I’m not in favor of the court system providing monetary compensation in child support cases, I am merely speaking to the fact that the court system was never set up to make those kinds of decisions. My original comments started with stating that black men should try marriage and that Meth and Red comments are the very reason why black marriage rates are little to non-existent. Divorce happens all the time. Weealthy people don’t comment on these kinds of settlements, but here, as you can see, black media is roping in this story for every average black men to look at and judge the wrong way.

My original comments were for men to try marriage…try courtship and finding a woman and sticking to ONE woman. Not breeding with any class-less lady ready to spread her legs for a dollar. I represent UNBIASED opinions, but I don’t need my comments being taken out of context.

Again, I am only speaking to CAUSES, NOT the EFFECTS of all this. We need to be more PROACTIVE, not REACTIVE.

it is amazing to me that folks take pride in making baby’s and not taking care of them. Kelis was his wife and now she has had their child.

The Judge ruled the p*ssy IS worth dat much

I dont believ in the disrespect that is goin for Kelis but I do agree. Kelis is an singer as well and had sucess as an artist with singles like “Milkshake” and “Bossy” so she has the talent and now you would think you would have the drive to become a success to provide for her family. I think that is a bit much to be given out of nas and pay all her court cost as well. Yeah that was messed up

[...] Meth & Red spaz out over Kelis getting 55k a month [...]

Bless these two gentleman for layin’ it out (mostly) proper.To hell with a court system apparatus that is punitive towards men…(sometimes)in the extreme.To hell with women who breed into unstable circumstances.
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A quick departure from the particulars of this case to address a larger more destructive facet of the FAMILY COURT RACKET:

The law should read that any woman who breeds out of wedlock SHOULD NOT be able to collect child support.PERIOD.Such a law would strengthen families…and finally trigger responsible use of an almost 100% reliable technology (BIRTH CONTROL) by women.Of course you’ll NEVER see such a law because almost half of all lawyers are women.Just dreamin’.

She deserves every penny!! he makes it, she should get it!

Damn Nas you paying more than Russell and P-diddy….lol i guess saying “i do” could be really expensive….*shrugs*

*take care of said mistake*

DES….JUST MADE A GREAT POINT.KELIS MAKES MORE THAN THE PRESIDENT A YEAR.(400K) TO KELLIS (660K)….WTF??????????

Did nas represent himself? LOL

i got 99 problems but a chick and a jitt aint one.HIT MEH!!

Nas will win his appeal, that judge was clearly trying to make an example out of nas.

@ Marquis

Nah, I’m not absolving the woman of any responsibility but I can only be in complete control of my own actions…making any attempts to dupe me irrelevant. Condoms may not be 100% but its better than going raw….you don’t think?

Listen, it takes two to make one but I’m only one….only in control of my damn self. If I don’t want a baby or I’m not prepared to raise one, then I need to take steps to avoid it. Lies have the inherent power only when you are fooled by them….making you a fool by definition.

Again, I’m not saying anybody should NOT be responsible…regardless of gender. But, at the end of the day, I’m responsible for MY own actions….nobody else.

Illuminate Truth

That’s all well and good until the “CONDOM” breaks, thus forcing you into fatherhood with a woman up until the accident, was nothing more than a casual bootycall, or a one night stand.

All I know is Method Man still look good!

@ Dr. Funk

Aren’t they in NYC?…If so, then it is NOT arbitrary…it’s on a strict formula. Things do differ from state to state, but in NY/NJ it is set by percentage of income only.

As far as Nas is concerned, 50k seems excessive and most could take that as a yearly salary and raise a child, but (again, if this is in NY) that is about 25 – 30% of his available income / assets.

Yes, women have multiple forms of birth control but if you are a man like me, then you can’t use ANY of them. Use a condom or get a vasectomy (ouch, I’ll stick with condoms)….anything short of those choices means you are leaving your future into her hands….good luck with that.

I’m not arguing what woman should or should not be doing….I’m talking self-reliance, self-discipline and self-preservation…..operative word is “self”.

Marquis

And are you saying that you have a one night stand and NOT wear a condom (or two)? And if this is just a casual booty type thing, why would you even care what birth control she’s taking…..I’m also trying not to get burnt.

I agree with you that a woman should be protecting herself, but THAT shouldn’t stop me from protecting myself and I damn sure am not going to bet my life on the hope that she is. I don’t put anything past anybody so I am my own best defense.

A woman will never have to make me wear a condom….my baby batter is too valuable.

Illuminate Truth

In a true “UTOPIAN” society, yes! But since, we as men don’t get “PREGNANT”, ultimately, the responsibility of birth control falls on the woman, and all post-feminist logic in the world will not negate that fact…Afterall, as men do we have a say so if we want the child to be carried to term and woman does not? Your logic gives women a pre-determined stack of ACES.

I agree THE TRUTH. The judge granted Kelis the money. Take it up with the judge, not her. She was asking for a lot less and he gave her more. As I’ve stated before, the courts do not play when it comes to child support. And they shouldn’t. 50 grand is a lot, but I’m sure it will be reduced at some point. But, I have no pity for Nas and you just have to laugh at all the hate Kelis is getting for simply being a mother. She is married to Nas and she got pregnant by her husband. It is not like she was some groupie on the street. Responsiblity is something a lot of brothers are allergic to. Ain’t going to happen. The courts have to step in and force them to take care of their children.

@Jovah

I read your post..and I have to say, even tho i think 50 grand is too much i completely agree with what you just said, that was his wife, i think a lot of ppl on here are looking at Kelis like some cracked up baby mama… Especially the part about the judge granting Kelis more than she asked, and granting her that much in the first place, that does fall on him/her.Never thought of it like that… Great Post

Jovah

STD’s weren’t part of this particular equation, wanted/unwanted childbirth was. I was merely pointing out the inequities regarding certain aspects of the decision making as pertaining to the “MALE” seed once it enters the female’s womb.

Kelis was asking for 80k a month…but if you people knew the law in CA you would know that Kelis will only get alimony for a temporary short term period…Nas and Kelis was not married for 10 or more years! They go back to court on 9/8/09!

Illuminate Truth

“Yeah, we have a say…prior to conception”

LOL! So by that, do you mean “TOTAL” abstinence?
Nice way to evade the question. Trust, if you want the child and she doesn’t, legally and(or) morally, you won’t (as a man) have any say so on her decision to terminate your seed (CHILD).

I will i agree with method man’s comments they are valid.

@Marquis de Sade

“To avoid single parenthood, Sistas’ will simply have to practice birth control or accept the consequences of raising that mistake on their own.”

Or just practice abstinence and save themselves for men who are worthy, which don’t include brothers who degrade them or wish them ill will. I didn’t always believe this, but I truly think that men who are raised by both parents are, in a number of cases, the most stable. They have grown up with a model to follow, and the idea of being committed to a woman is not foreign to them.

The other option seems much less tolerable — winding up on someone’s scorecard who isn’t worth the time of day.

@SYDNEY:

Awww C’mon! I’m not a bad guy…my love. I have simply adapted to a highly charged and extreme
environment.Quite well I might add.

Sydney™

Just because someone was raised under a two parent roof doesn’t mean they will make suitable mates, let alone a suitable parent…If that was the case, the divorce rate wouldn’t be so high…Face it, this assumed “MODEL” of monogamy in this day and age is archaic and unworkable due to basic human nature and primal urges.

@ marquis

“LOL! So by that, do you mean “TOTAL” abstinence?”

LOL is right!!! HELL NO I’m not saying that.

I’m saying as a man you don’t have anything else but condoms to protect yourself, so use them. I agree the woman should be doing her part also but I’m not counting on it….I HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF SELF FIRST AND FOREMOST.

@ Dr Funk

Umh, OK….stop buying your condoms at the dollar store brah. And since you brought it up with the Asian woman….if you are really worried about it that much, keep a your own supply of the morning after pill on hand….just in case (actually, not a bad idea).

As far as the guidelines of NY child support laws(although I just read somebody’s post that said they were in CA), no, I don’t agree with it. It can be too excessive, doesn’t factor in mitigating circumstances and is TOO formulated but it is what it is. It wasn’t Kelis asking for anything…50K is just what she is entitled to basically decided on a calculator…not real life situation. (disclaimer: I’m not familiar with CA child support laws so her case may be different than it would be in NY).

And how do you know what my involvement in the system is?……Because obviously you don’t. FYI, I’m entitled to, but not receiving (or beat for) child support for my daughter….how’s that for irony.

Peace

@Dr. Funk

“Awww C’mon! I’m not a bad guy…my love. I have simply adapted to a highly charged and extreme
environment.Quite well I might add.”

What exactly have you adapted to? You presented a scorecard for women you’ve impregnated, most of whom terminated their pregnancies. That’s not adaptation — that’s outright insensitivity and irresponsibility.

‘Nuff said.

@Marquis

“Face it, this assumed “MODEL” of monogamy in this day and age is archaic and unworkable due to basic human nature and primal urges.”

It’s archaic for you, but for many, it isn’t. I think holding out for a suitable partner is key, and, yes, I do believe that men who grew up with a mother AND father at least have a model to follow of what a marriage looks like.

What I don’t get is how men can say they don’t believe in marriage, yet they deride women who have children out of wedlock. Isn’t that an inherent contradiction? If you don’t wish to marry women, then, as a consequence, will they not produce children outside the marriage boundaries? Or are those of you — who intend on playing the field — saying that you do not wish to produce children? Because that’s not what is happening, and stats bear that out.

Hey Ill

BRB

@Sydney:

I might add-as I have in previous posts of this nature-that two parent homes are THE EXCEPTION
not the rule.That’s across the board as it relates to Blacks & Whites.Mattafak-when you factor in divorce-the number of single White moms out there is EXPONENTIALLY larger than single Black moms.It just get’s played up in mainstream newsmedia as an “inner city” issue because of the generally lower income component.Yes a stable two-parent home is desirable.Just be sure…WITHOUT THE ANNOYING SALES PITCH/DECEPTION GAME…that the man is really on board.

@ 50 Grand

I know exactly what post u r talkn about. I usually dont comment on these blogs but I just have to say that it was funny. “Luvn a sister” really laid into Marquis. It was to the point where they were the only 2 people leaving comments, like a comment war, everybody else was just sitting back reading…2 funny!!

Sydney™

No, it’s not a contradiction in terms, hence my earlier post suggesting that sistas’ deadset on being mothers should go to a fertility clinic and have the baby under their own terms as opposed to trapping someone into unwanted fatherhood…And just because you’re black, it doesn’t entitle you to demand that your husband/babydaddy should be black…If you sistas are so deadset on being married and raising a family then you may want to consider dating outside of your self-imprisioned dating/mating pool.

@SYDNEY:

“What I don’t get is how men can say they don’t believe in marriage, yet they deride women who have children out of wedlock. Isn’t that an inherent contradiction? ”

I think what we’re dealing with here is that for pretty much the entire history of civilization-up until about 60 years ago-the concept of “recreational sex” was next to impossible.Now that it is a reality for all-many people(mostly women)
still have’nt made the socio-biological adjustment.
Is that you?

test

METHOD MAN!

METHOD MAN SPOKE THE TRUTH TO THE CORE, AND THAT’S WHY IT’S SO MANY WOMAN COMMENTS CAUSE THE TRUTH HURT.

Sydney™

No, it’s not a contradiction in terms, hence my earlier post suggesting that sistas’ dead-set on being mothers should go to a fertility clinic and have the baby under their own terms as opposed to trapping someone into unwanted father-hood…And just because you’re black, it doesn’t entitle you to demand that your husband or babydaddy should be black also…If you sistas are so firm on being married and raising a family, then you may want to consider dating outside of your self-imprisioned dating/mating pool.

@Dr. Funk

“Just be sure…WITHOUT THE ANNOYING SALES PITCH/DECEPTION GAME…that the man is really on board.”

Oh, that’s not a problem. It’s a question of being selective about the men you allow into your life, and there are men who are very much on board with the concept.

‘Now that it is a reality for all-many people(mostly women)
still have’nt made the socio-biological adjustment.
Is that you?’

You’re still placing the onus on women. I think the solution is for women to avoid men like you altogether. Unless, of course, they want to wind up on a scoreboard that probably will involve emotional trauma.

@Dr. Funk

“I think what we’re dealing with here is that for pretty much the entire history of civilization-up until about 60 years ago-the concept of “recreational sex” was next to impossible.”

Oh, there’s nothing “recreational” about knocking up various women. It seems like you need to get off the playground and assume the role of an adult.

Sydney™

@Dr. Funk

“I think what we’re dealing with here is that for pretty much the entire history of civilization-up until about 60 years ago-the concept of “recreational sex” was next to impossible.”

Oh, there’s nothing “recreational” about knocking up various women. It seems like you need to get off the playground and assume the role of an adult.

There you again, pretendin’ that women don’t/won’t or can’t control whether they get pregnant or not.

@Marquis

“There you again, pretendin’ that women don’t/won’t or can’t control whether they get pregnant or not.”

It goes both ways. If a man is impregnating multiple women, sooner or later, he’s going to have to undergo some introspection (hopefully) on his contribution to the situation.

Sydney™

Yeah, but this goes back to the earlier argument dealing with the difference between “RECREATIONAL & PROCREATIONAL” sex. Dr. FUNK made it clear that he was wearing a condom during these sexual tryst…Now you have to ask yourself, “WHY WASN’T THESE WOMEN, ALSO ON SOME FORM OF CONTRACEPTIVE?”

Does Nas even make fifty a month? He’s an artist; I don’t think Nas money is Diddy money.

I had this same convo with boy yesterday. I totally agree with everything Method said. The truth hurts and as a woman def agree a lot of us are out here hollering INDEPENDENT and only independently cashing that brotha check. Big ups man for preachin

I would say the 55k a mth is way over the limit. I mean damn it takes me 2 years to make that lol. No child needs that much……5 a mth is good enough. She is an artist as well if she wants to still maintain a certain lifestyle she gonna have to go shake her milkshake and make that money herself. As to Nas get a modification or just be sure to keep them records dropping.

wow!

I’ve heard that ignorance is bliss but these two completely stupid and uninformed bags of bones just changed that whole saying.:(

…one couldn’t possibly be blissful being THIS ignorant, just not possible, IMO!

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wow!

I’ve heard that ignorance is bliss but these two completely stupid and uninformed bags of bones just changed that whole saying

…one couldn’t possibly be blissful being THIS ignorant, just not possible, IMO!

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*genius* Gotta stop drinkin’ Capt. Morgan while bloggin’.

For all you women on here that says Nas should pay spousal support and help maintain the lavish lifestyle that Kelis wants are nothing but gold diggers and prostitues. YES

Using the airwaves to voice your objection to somebody else having to pay their soon-to-be ex wife $50K a month just isn’t smart. When Method Man’s day in court comes up, his baby mama/wife just might get awarded twice that. Judge’s don’t take kindly to people criticizing the justice system.

No human being should have to support another grown a$$ person that they ain’t even smashin anymore.

Nas is having to pay her gold digging a$$ to keep from going to jail. That is protection money plain and simple.

Legalized extortion.

Bit@h get a job!

For all you women on here that says that Nas should pay spousal support and help maintain the lavish lifestyle that Kelis wants are nothing but gold diggers and prostitues. YES I SAID IT!

sepia830

You sound like some bitter lady who feels entitled to handouts. Do you have a husband?

And I know your an overweight corn-toed ugly heffa if you got to put boney little Thandy Newton’s photo up.

They right though…… that next mofo is gonna have it made!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I mean its customary to get at least 20% for layin it down…… right????

Knight could get by on $45,0000

lol red and meth should go on a comedy tour.

ya thats crazy for nas…i mean i dont believe hell let his son go wthout but 50k a month…comeon you have to draw the line…and why are some many woman stated he deserves it…wtf is that to say i thought he had the baby while married…half of the women on here arent any good,,let me go find me a white girl…

That the problem people don’t know the difference between a wife and a hoe. Meth needs to shut up, he almost killed Wendy Williams for talking about his wife. So stay out of other people business. I wonder how much his wife would get if they broke up. See Alimony + Child Support = 50K a month. that is the difference between a wife and babymomma. See if Nas had put Kelis on like uncle Russ did Kimora then the numbers would have been different Aoki=20K Ming=20K Kimora= CEO of BabyPhat. Nas just signed a deal with Fila for millions, his untitled album went platinum, and he currently on tour this is a drop in the bucket. For the men paying child support you should be happy knowing your child is not going without like many of us have(that is if you had any concern about who you made a baby with, otherwise you just learned a very valuable lesson).

He should file for partial custody…that will lower his payments significantly. Otherwise, who cares?

@ Sepia830

I’m a man & I agree with you. Secondly, I’m not understanding why everybody is jumping on Kelis’ case. She didn’t make the order, the judge did. So what was she suppose to do tell the judge that she’ll pass on the 50k because it’s too much money….yea right! Come on people be 4 real.

Any dude that agrees with Sepia on this $hit must be on the DL.

I just can’t beleive Nas has $55k to pay out. Meth was HOTT!!!!!!

redman is hilarious even when hes pissed and being real! …lol

His azz gotzta pay that much because he only gave her 300 bucks after the divorce until the bby was born..i don’t blame her.
With his retard lukn azz

First of all, Meth ain’t got no $55k a month to pay NOBODY! The term is prenup. And, by the way, Kelis was pregnant b4 they got married. Nas has no one but himself to blame for this outrageous award, which, by the way, will be reduced eventually.

ohnoudient

First of all, Meth ain’t got no $55k a month to pay NOBODY! The term is prenup. And, by the way, Kelis was pregnant b4 they got married. Nas has no one but himself to blame for this outrageous award, which, by the way, will be reduced eventually.
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She was pregnant before they got married?? so she got 2 kids or she had a abortion they been married for a long as time

Meth and Red need to shut the uck up and mind their own business.

I feel so bad for Nas.

I SAY CONGRATS TO KELIS. NONE OF US KNOWS THE REAL DEAL BEHIND THE RELATIONSHIP THESE TWO HAD. WE DON’T NO THE PROMISES HE MADE WHILE THEY WERE MARRIED. IF HE GOT THAT KIND OF MONEY THEN PAY UP. HE CHEATED, NOT HER!! HE WANTED TO PUT BACK ON THE PLAYA SHOES…SO PAY UP PLAYA! YES IT IS A LOT, BUT OBVIOUSLY HE GOT THAT TYPE OF MONEY. AINT NO JUDGE IN AMERICA GONE AWARD NOBODY NOTHIN LIKE THAT IF THEY DON’T HAVE IT. SO TO ALL THE HATERS…GO STUFF YOURSELF! AND THE CHICKS THAT’S HATIN…PLEASE STOP!! NO ONE IS TELLIN YOU TO LAY DOWN WITH THE SORRY, LAZY, BROKE DUDES YALL ROLE WIT!! DON’T HATE HER CUZ SHE BOUT TO BE LIVIN LOVELY! AND TO METH AND RED…SIT YALL STANKIN AZZES DOWN SOMEWHERE….AYE METH DON’T YOU OWE MAD CAR NOTE PAYMENTS OR SUMTHIN!?! HANDLE THAT!

I am SMH @ people who claim that she needs to be able to maintain the lifestyle that she is used to living, thats BS…when we as regular folk get a demotion on a job, or get fired we cant take our asses to court and say, I GAVE THIS DAMN COMPANY YEARS OF MY LIFE, I AM USED TO MAKING A THOUSAND DOLLARS MORE THAN I AM MAKING NOW, SO THE COMPANY SHOULD CONTINUE TO PAY ME EVEN THOUGH I AM NOT THERE DOING THE JOB THAT I USED TO DO…..yall know dang well that amount of money to her is ridiculous….you cant be mad at the next man for handling his business and struggling to get his career to a certain status, thats his work, and his money. I agree that he should take care of his child, but should he continue to take care of her??? Hell No, she said that her milkshake brings all the boys to the yard, so get out there and shake it.

Good for Kelis!! F Nas!

Ignorance is bliss; the sooner many of you realize that Nas and Kelis are on another financial plateau you will better understand why 50k a month is affordable for Nas. For example MJ had $5.5 million in pillow money! Many of you would be secure with $500 in pillow money… lol! Although Nas is nowhere as successful as MJ … He does play in the neighborhood and baby, we all can agree… he’s got game.
… Stop trying to figure out these people’s finances and work on your own!
PS, SHE WAS HIS WIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I’VE GOT ‘SOME WOMB’ AND I TOTALLY AGREE!!
DAT PUTASUCIA IS GREEDY!!!

BTW,

I think it is very interesting that while there are many black men who do not take care of their children, this does not seem to be the trend in hip hop. Most of these guys really seem to step up to the plate (Wayne,Puff,Snoop,Andre and Big Boi, etc.) They (some black men in hip hop) are often ridiculous on many levels but I have to give credit where credit is due.

funny how all the men agree and “weird” how a lot of the women agree. of course the men dont agree. black men dont think they should have to take care of their children. none of us know what nas is pullin in monthly but isnt it correct that the judge cant go over a certain percentage of his income per month? if so then this is fair, if not and he just gave some crazy amount per month then of course its not fair but i dont think they can just come up wit a random number. for the women you do deserve it. your child deserves it. its not like he’s going to be there on a daily basis. men dont even feel they need to be there on a daily basis and women have gotten to the point where they feel that way as well. its really sad for the child. but the blame goes to both parties in these situations. men just act reckless and want no responsibility for their actions. they would rather take food out of their childs mouth in an effort to “stick” the baby mama than focus on the big picture. women arent innocent, there are some deceitful b*tches out here but men could avoid them with condoms and a little discretion might i add. but i just dont undertsand all the anger towards kelis. the judge gave this ruling not her. and i would definitely take it IF i knew he could afford it. if not i wouldnt. i wouldnt want my childs father down and out. but men i think instead of the money give more time. if you’re not with the mom keep your child a couple of days each week. if thats not possible work it out where you can have them one week a month. one weekend a month is NOT enough time to be a parent. it shoudl be less about the money and more about getting these men to understand they the time is what’s truly needed. it helps the child and the mother AND the father in the end.

I’m not understanding why he has to pay way more support than a lot of other rappers and actors who have waaaaaay more money than him.

I am so disturbed by all the women cosigning this nonsense. U low expectation heffas. I pray ya’ll don’t have any children and are raising them to demand the least from their fathers or future husbands.

People should mind their OWN business. The grass is always greener on the outside – so therefore, it was weighed out in front of a judge and that is what she was awarded. End of everybody putting their two cents in to their business. It’s not our place to understand – we didn’t get all his financial records, etc. like the judge did to make his/her final decision. ALSO, maybe if he hadn’t acted like a spoiled child when they broke up and looked out – maybe the judge would have given him a break. When you do WRONG, wrong follows.

Method Man and his wife have 3 children.I wonder if he would pay her if they were getting divorced like Nas and Kelis.

This is a way to bring black men down. Take all the money from him. Remember how much Will Smith had to pay? I am an independent woman and I know that a baby can survive on a couple of hundred dollars a month. Kelis, get you big nose/hair and get back to the studio to support yourself.

This is why women should get married before having kids. The courts usually respects women if they have been married to the father of the child. Women, get married first!

Big Up! to my man, Meth, He’s absolutely right!

If you make $1000 a month they aren’t going to make you pay $5000 in child support. They take a percentage of what your income is. So Nas is making money…he doesn’t want to give it up.

Also part of what she is getting is spousal support. You don’t know what all her expenses are and what she has to incur each month.

I could care less how much he pays or how much she gets. I don’t have to pay jack…its their lives.

Huh? & tg really nailed it…lol.

NAS JUST GOTTA DO WHAT HE GOTTA DO TIL SEPT,8 WHEN STUFF GET SITUATED ON AND KELIS GONNA DO WHAT SHE GOTTA DO AND THATS TAKE CARE THE BABY AND GET HERSELF TOGETHER.

wow, i wonder what the judge was thinking awarding her that much money, it seems really unfair. Understanding that she wants to maintain her lifestyle but she shoulda tried to work her marriage out or continued working on her career to maintain that lifestyle. Nas is only obligated to provide for his child not Kelis.. she should be embarressed at her behavior. making it bad for all the mothers who aint even asking for a 10th of that ammount to care for their kids….

some of those houses will be sold or foreclosed on!

lol

HUH? said:

-”I am so disturbed by all the women cosigning this nonsense. U low expectation heffas. I pray ya’ll don’t have any children and are raising them to demand the least from their fathers or future husbands.”
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A lot of those women probably only co-sign because they seek male approval (i.e. they wanna be seen as one of the ‘cool down’ chicks) and some of them co-sign up until the point to when they see their man having the same “values” as Red & Method.

50k+ is a lot, but it’s VERY funny how ppl choose to ignore the fact that they were MARRIED, Nas isn’t a average, blue collar guy, trying to make ends meet (far from it, actually) and, most importantly, THE JUDGE awarded Kelis the money.

But, naaah, acknowledging that wouldn’t make it so easy to put the ENTIRE blame on another BW, which is what lost, self-hating men and women LOVE to do, so never mind.

er body saying prenup. is this the allamony or the child support? fuuccccc 50 stacks thats well over a years salary for ya boi. he better try to works something out.

It’s so hypocritical of Meth. How much should his wife get (who has fought cancer) while he was screwing Superhead? He should be last to comment on anything.

This situation is so common. Both parents should be financially and morally responsible for the child. I understand Nas has a career, but she took no part in him attaining that. Also I dont know a child unless he/she has serious medical conditions. Come on folks. Method isnt saying dont pay he is say thats a years salary for alot of folks let alone a child.

er body saying prenup. is this the allamony or the child support? fuuccccc 50 stacks thats well over a years salary for ya boi. he better try to works something out.
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child support payments can be drawn out in prenups

this is INSANE.

meth and red are not bitter. they both praise their wives and children. it’s a horrible situation. fathers should NOT have to pay for their womens lavish lifestyles. after seeing it happen for so long it gets very frustrating.

so nas only makes 166k a month. he is going to have to rap forever to be able to maintain those payments. he practically did music for the artform now dude is going to need to make music to support these upcoming B.S payments.

for every hard working female that is really an “independant woman” there are millions of chicks looking to “cash out” just like that chick thougth she was going to do with air mcnair.

the dude richard jefferson cut the chick a six figure salary a couple weeks ago. he wins in the long run.

T.I says “a babymomma is NOT a career”

Kelis shouldn’t get too comfortable Nas may change his mind and reduce the amount of child support to $5,500 a month, lol…

You people are too much into people’s business instead of trying to make your own money. This ruling will probably get appealed and reduced, but most of you people are only worried about this ruling and not your future. As i read these comments, it made me laugh because i see some peopel talking about nas cheated or kelis cheated, like you all were there.

Pathetic, and they say change is going to come.

Personally Nas is playing smart and not talking trash because he will get the shaft. We all know when nas plays smart aka ”ether” good things happen. I expect the payments to be lowered and everyone is happy.

@DEES and the rest of you dumb cats.
NEWS FLASH have you heard of Science? There is a legit medical operation where the MAN can get his faucet Tapped for later use and get his freak on completely.
NO, more worries. No broken Condoms, forgetting the pill or the day after stuff.
NOPE ITS ALL ON US! AND IT WORKS.

@ 50 Grand &
@ Common Ground

You are SOOOO Right…!!! LMAO!! I went to the archives on June 3, 2009 about Brandy getting up off of the 600 grand!! Too funny. YOu’re right LuvnASista really laid it DOWN on Maruis’ disrespectful ignorant comments….WOW!! Just perfect. Whoever hasn’t read those comments & needs enlightenment on facts and some pure comedy, please go to the Archives NOW!! Just Awesome!! You go LuvnASista! I love you and don’t even know you….Can’t wait to read your posts again! just LOVE IT!!! YES!!

so its cool that your mom rather have her and her kids do without, just to say she never asked for nothing? Why? Every parent should be held accountable for taking care of there children. If its dad or mom that chooses to leave the relationship with their spouse, You still have to take care of your children, the law in IL is 20% so if you work at mcdonalds or if you are a partner at some firm making $$$$$, your kid gets 20%. Thats that, dont short change the kids just because you are so worried about the mom benefiting from the funds. If you leave your wife then you are saying to her baby I got you, but I gotta go and be a whatever. I spend every dime I have to make sure me and my kid live well, when my husband decides to take care of his child, yes then I have extra to spend on myself. But all he can say if I pay you this to take care of our kid then I will be without, oooo boo whoo whoo you cant buy a new pair of kicks and a new outfit. 20% is in no comparison of what the parent spends that actually manned up to the responsibilty of a child.

Please its obvious that you are having some of these same issues, dont short your child its about the child not the mom. If the mom only can afford the house because of your child support, look at the positive side your child is living well. There was a time when you adored the mom, why are you so against her having anything.

If our kids could pick out their parents, ask yourself would your kid pick you?

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Four words: Put it up the BUTT.

(…Or in the mouth.)

okay that’s 5 words. but it still resonates. the butt is good. there, that’s 4 words.