Quote of the Day

Posted on March 13th, 2008 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Halle Berry, News, Quote of The Day

Posted by Bossip Staff

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Halle Berry on her relationship with the father of her unborn child:

“I’ll never marry again. I have a good healthy love for myself and love in my life. I no longer feel the need to be someone’s wife and I don’t need to validation of a marriage certificate. Gabriel’s a wonderful person and I’m just happy I’ve found someone really special to have a baby with. In a way I feel more married than I ever felt in two marriages. Gabriel and I have decided to redefine marriage for ourselves.”

In other words…

Via WENN

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  • Da R

    is she EVER gonna have that baby?

  • Onlinefan

    She will be a good mom. There is a special forum about her at interracialconnect.com which is a niche interracial dating site. It is built by her fan. They are discussing the babe’s name

  • Babegyrl

    In other words……………….

    That’s just my baby daddy!

    NEXT…

  • a

    honestly it’s not traditional, but if that’s what works for the two of them thennnnn, on the other hand it seems like an excuse.

  • bree

    lol @ that’s just my baby daddy..i hear the song..

    Halle looks like she is about to POP!

  • Fulani

    Yes, please I hope she does not marry this guy (or any guy) and protects her money. I believe in marriage, but not a third time.

  • SP1KEDHEELS

    In other words, I’m not paying no fn alimony to another cheating man.

  • that’s “Ms.Probation Agent” to you!!!

    marriage ain’t what it used to be….just ask the soon to be former Mrs. Eliott Spitzer.

  • Blacksmith

    Legal papers, court fees, maybe she’s trying to avoid all that if it doesn’t work out? Who knows, glad she’s happy.

  • mjoylaw

    Halle sayin fcuk the bs let me just get to the point. He makes me happy and we’re havin a baby and that’s what’s up. As long as he continues to make me happy and be worthy of me and the baby he’ll be here. So fcuk the dumb stuff it don’t mean anything anyway..been there done that, got the t shirt, mug and key chain, and now I got WHAT WORKS

  • Me

    I think it’s a sad state of affairs when we reduce the sanctity of marriage to a piece of paper.

  • Narkotic5 Anonymou5

    Halle aint’ Stupid…Thats My Girl

  • Lyte Bright

    he not gonna commit…..she found a sperm donor who she knows and sometimes hangs out with

  • Monster’s Ball(Make me feel gooood)

    In other words….Gabriel auditioned for the part of sperm donor and he got the part. The job includes occassional public photo ops, hollywood functions and interviews. I wish I had his job.

  • PHILLY DA BOSS inINGLEWOOD

    America is like a club.. on friday night

    everyone havin a good time till the mexicans come thru 40 deep….bein loud and startin fights

  • kamikaze

    In other words… She will determine how much Gabriel gets to eat off her check!!! Game peep game.

  • soulwoman

    I don’t blame her. Marriages just don’t last nowadays, so why bother?? It’s a waist of time. Besides, she has already gave it a try – twice.

  • T-Real

    That’s a bunch of crock!

  • Al-Anon

    Halle sez,

    Gabriel’s a wonderful person and I’m just happy I’ve found someone really special to have a baby with. In a way I feel more married than I ever felt in two marriages. Gabriel and I have decided to redefine marriage for ourselves.”

    In other words…

    ________________________________________

    Gabriel does NOT want to marry her!!

    He doesn’t want to be stuck with an older woman who’s a two-time loser with marriage.

    Redefine marriage, my ass.

  • mjoylaw

    having been through a horrible divorce myself, I can’t blame her..yes, she needs to just do her and what’s she’s comfortable with. She’s rich on her own so she’s cool with being a single mom and again I certainly don’t blame her. That’s a lucky baby and best wishes for a beautiful strong healthy baby soon Halle and Gabriel, god bless

  • jusplayit04

    I’m a angry BLACK MAN, for years I’ve thought this woman to be the top of the food chain as far as black women…now she just set me back about 400 years with this white man knocking her up. So sad

  • How bad

    Not like she needs a baby daddy.I say fug him and do you mami.you can raise a child alone and it seems married or not he will take care of his kids.

  • victory is mine

    glad that she’s happy…marriage takes work and if your not committed to working at it your doing the right thing by sparing you, your child and the man you are w/the heartache when it is over…

  • JAD

    She is full og it. She mine as well come out and say that is just her baby’s daddy!

  • Southern Belle 225

    Whatever works for her.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    @Southern, I thought it, you said it!! I think if Halle wanted to be married, Gabriel would do it in a heart beat.

  • Dolla Bill

    She’s just a babymama and he ain’t stickin around…LOL

  • yanib

    Loves me some Halle, but note to Halle: It’s not marriage that creates the problems, boo. Marinate on that for a minute.

  • Ithopia

    In other words….she is making excuses before he dumps her….

  • Grace

    There goes SUGAR WALLS putting down a woman that is handling her business but over on the Juvenile blog talking about him like he was daddy of the year.

  • http://text-support.com Scooby Dubious

    no soup for you, player! She’s keeping her cream. HA! Chump!

  • Lady Architect

    It’s sad to know that marriage is just a piece of paper to some people. If that’s the only way you see it then maybe she’s right she doesn’t need it cause she doesn’t understand the real means of marriage. Sounds like excuses to me sorry.

  • DIAMONDCHEERS

    well i agree with her n thats nice n all but where is ur news bout MICHAEL JACKSON keeping his house. even tho he is a pysco u could still post some positive news bout the man

  • Simply Ecstasy

    If she’s happy then I guess that’s all that matters but since when is having a baby out of wedlock the “IN” thing to do?

  • memchee

    dude is just a sperm donor…..who allows her to call the shots while he peacefully tags along.

  • famou$

    she is lyin’ like sh*t, she is not happy.

  • Lauren

    This woman is CRAZY! 1st she’s all boo hooin when she gets the Oscar for Humpin Bill Bob Thorton and dedicates it to “all the young black girls who had a dream” and now what kind of influence is she? THIS IS MY BABY DADDY AND THATS WHAT HE’LL ALWAYS BE….SMDH….

    NEXT!

  • Lauren

    Lady Architect

    It’s sad to know that marriage is just a piece of paper to some people. If that’s the only way you see it then maybe she’s right she doesn’t need it cause she doesn’t understand the real means of marriage. Sounds like excuses to me sorry.

    _________________________________________________

    CO SIGN! Why can’t she just keep it real?

  • bootlegger

    she’s made her decision why does she have to explain it to us.

    NEXT!

  • kna88

    Can’t argue with that. Maybe she ain’t gone be the same fool twice, are in her case tres.

  • Anon

    Smh, this is probably why people just come to blogs, look at the pictures and keep it movin’…because people are always in the comment section hatin on somebody. Halle Berry seems to be doing what works for HER, she’s not asking anyone else to do it. And if she likes it…then I LOVE it! She seems to have finally found some stibility and happiness in her life, let the woman live. What Halle is doing is no different then what millions of women do everyday, yet ya’ll on here hating cause its “Halle”.

    If she were to get married, you same people on here would be back to ridicule her for “going against her word” or still would be talking about how she supposidly “can’t keep a man” (although she’s been in a relationship with her man for years now). One of her husbands cheated on her beyond belief, another was addicted to strip clubs, one boyfriend hit her so hard she lost 90% of her hearing in one ear…so from what I see MEN can’t keep Halle, not the other way around. Marriage does take work on BOTH parts…not just the wife. She is still in a relationship so technically she is not a “single mother”. Not everybody choses to get married to everyone they ever date or been with, she’s been married twice, had bad experiences and has chosen another rout. People are always on here telling her how she supposidly needs to change herself or maybe there is something wrong with her…so guess what, she has changed herself and is trying a different rout (which seems to be working out).

    Step your own game up and quit sitting back judging when you probably don’t even have a man/woman your damn selves, and have the nerve to be online trying to gossip and tell someone what they need to do with theirs. All the hatin’ ya’ll do is not going to stop that woman from living her life the way she wants to. So get over it already.

  • InvestiGATOR

    I believe that Halle deserves every bit of criticism that she gets. Who is she to bring a child in this world into a relationship that is not going to work, we all know that her baby daddy was just a sperm donor. Just like we come down hard on these young women having kids without a father in the home we need to do the same to her a*#. So what if she has money? Money will not take the place of a father. We all know that Halle was the reason for all of her past failed relationships and she is just selfish. She was determined to have a child at all cost. She needs to get a grip.

  • deesac

    I never marry again but I don’t think it would of been best for a blackman to father my baby I just don’t want to raise a getto bastard me being bi racial and all you no what I mean

  • MeMEes

    Im so glad she made this decision. American needs to redifine marraige,…to many people doing it because they need to feel …validated. Women stand up already. Your more than a marriage certificate to a man.

    Plus, marriage doesnt seem to be her thing. Thats cool.

  • Sarafina

    When Halle got pregnant by Gabriel it was like a big ole middle finger to all of the black men she ever dated. Not saying that she did it on purpose. Shoot black men do it all the time. Who cares cuz it’s rough out there and being happy is the exception not the rule nowadays. At this time I would like to say that I love black men and I would never cross over- LOLOL

  • http://www.myspace.com/birdshu Bird

    Whatever. We all know Halle is cute as a button, but crazy as hell.

  • Encyclopedia Brown

    race trader

  • Suzy

    In other words.. hes just her damn sperm donor she dosent care about marraige kuz she knows her eggs are dryin up.

  • Cheryl

    @MZPRETTYLADY

    I agree with what you are trying to say but you have to watch the language hon! You can’t be a witness for HIS Word by using the world’s words. Marriage IS a blessed union from God. Couples don’t consult with God before they commit, that’s why our relationships do not work.

  • Cute With Freckles

    I agree with Anon, no one here should be judging Halle. This woman’s been through alot, so when she finally finds some happiness she should be applauded, not torn down. Is she doing things “the right way”? No, not necessarily, but thats not for any of us to judge. And who knows, they may decide one day that its time for them to get married. People change their minds all the time. So thanks Anon for being the dissenting voice here.

    On the flip side…Forreal, Halle’s been preggars since 2005, I need her to drop that baby already!!

  • jjones

    well if she dont mind going to HELL why should we care.

  • jones11

    He really played her, if i was him i would have got her pregnant also, thats Hallie Berry. Do you know how many points he get for knocking off hallie, Nw thats a pimp

  • ac

    they are the cutest couple! I saw this photo on **mixedfriends dotcom**. It’s a dating site for blacks, African American, interracial singles.

  • cutie pie

    Thats right halle marriage is for losers :)

  • justme

    idk halle does sound like she is making excuses, b cuz she is afraid of all of the bad things a marriage can turn into, but if she was strong minded and wanted to work at a marriage she would realize that its actually a blessibg! She’s just been hurt and is afraid to make a commitment!i can understand that. plus like someone else said her biological clock is ticking and she wanted a baby. after she has one more he will be history

    real talk

  • lovely and amazing

    I’m so happy for Halle Berry. She’s 41 years old! Thank God she can still have children. She devoted herself to two arrogant husbnds, she was obviously very much in love with both David Justice and Eric Benet and they both did her wrong. Then she treated Eric Benet’s daughter as her own and then Eric Benet spitefully severed Halle’s relationship with the daughter. After all of that, Halle’s trying to be more sensible now, but she also sounds hurt. I just have a strange feeling that if Gabriel Aubry wanted to get married, she would get married in a minute (with a pre-nup of course).

  • Anon

    InvestiGATOR said:

    “I believe that Halle deserves every bit of criticism that she gets. Who is she to bring a child in this world into a relationship that is not going to work, we all know that her baby daddy was just a sperm donor. Just like we come down hard on these young women having kids without a father in the home we need to do the same to her a*#. So what if she has money? Money will not take the place of a father. We all know that Halle was the reason for all of her past failed relationships and she is just selfish. She was determined to have a child at all cost. She needs to get a grip”.

    ^^ The only person that needs to “get a grip” is YOU (and some others on this forum). You know their relationship isn’t going to work out based on what? And if she goes and gets married and things don’t work out then what? Marriage doesn’t keep a man that doesn’t want to be kept. Divorce rates are at its highest so all you people up in here preeching about “marriage is more then a piece of paper” can spare us the BS. I’m sure she knows all that…she’s been married twice! Like I said, some of you probably haven’t even been married once, yet you are on this site talking about what she needs to do about her life. The hypocrisy kills me. And for those talking about her having a child out of wedlock…unless you have remained a VIRGIN yourself untill marriage, please just stop right now.

    She is obviously doing what she needs to do for HER. Nothing more…nothing less. Some of you on here making stupid assumptions and remarks like “he is just a sperm donar” or “we all know she is the reason for her past relationship failures” or “he is the one that doesn’t want to get married”…those are all things you wish were true, not fact. Nobody knows for sure what goes on in these peoples lives, but for some people to be on here just suggesting and assuming the negative goes to show what you are all about in your life. Again, some of you need to get lives and quit hatin’, because regardless of what you are talking about that woman is going to live her life the best way she knows how and doesn’t need anyone elses validation to so…. some of you on here talking about how “you don’t approve” how shes living her life, yet you are on an internet site 24/7 casting stones and judging people all day and night… give me a damn break. SMH

  • newbein

    Marriage isn’t for everyone.

    Love the swirl

  • Corree

    I KNEW IT!!! I called this in another post. Halle just used that dude to knock her up because she wanted a baby, not a husband. She never intended for this relationship to go anywhere.

  • MRENTERTAINMENT

    They can’t get married because the dude said he was not moving from New York to LA…They say he has a girl on the side…Dude looks like he not even into to her for real…She nuts anyway

  • dragononline

    She will be a good mom. There is a special forum about her at interracialresources.com which is a niche interracial dating site. It is built by her fan. They are discussing the babe’s name

  • http://lovebiker.com peter

    I think the woman is very great ,after two

    marriages she can still seek for her love !!!she lets me think of many coolmotorcyclist

    on http://www.lovebiker.com

  • Karen

    Just interesting how we use terms “we decided to redefine marriage”, first of all how about what God says and intended marriage to be. We have NO power to “redefine” anything, when we never established it in the first place. If everyone would focus on being in marriages and adding GODS principles then maybe marriage would not be so BAD. I just found that interesting how “we” can just changed the definition or intention of marriage when GOD clearly states in his word how marriage was/is instituted………..

  • pm

    children out of wedlock is why this country is messed up now

  • oh please

    Excuses Halle..Excuses…furthermore, whoever said her man is fine must be high…he is skinny and pale as hell! And Halle is about to look like somebody’s nanny!

  • Fornication Junkie

    He’s just a jump-off/ sperm donor/Ho

  • Big C Here

    Halle is crazy. Hell everybody knows that. It doesn’t have to do with being married or not. As bad as she is, and by bad I mean fine, you always hear from the men in her relationships saying she’s crazy. Hell, ask the people she rammed her cars into? And for those people on here talking about people criticizing…uhhh hello that’s what folks do on blogs. So you are just a criticizer criticizing criticizers who criticize…DAMN I need a drank already this morning, ‘scuse me for a minute yaw.

  • Hate Killer

    It’s disturbing to see The Black Family still can’t get and stay together, even in an environment of Wealth, Success, and Opportunity, which Halle Berry embodies.

    Yet, another Bastard child being born to unwed parents in Follywood.

    Halle Berry is taking the “Baby Daddy” route, when she is suceessful enough and has been exposed enough to know better.

    Halle is a cultural icon in our community. Many young girls look up to and respect her.

    I pesonally think young girls should find someone else to emulate, because now, she’s just like you!

    - Killer!

  • Lovely One

    Halle Berry has always been off. I read an article in Parade Magazine where she stated that “I’ve realized that I cannot be selfish.” She was 40 at the time and JUST found out that she cannot be selfish in a relationship??? She’s beautiful but you cant have EVERYTHING going for you. That would just be unfair to the world. :-)

  • Lovely One

    @ Karen

    You are sooo right about GOD defining what marriage is. People are just getting waayyyy out of order.

  • http://www.cbc.ca dennis

    She can do what she wants.

  • http://www.richromances.com richromances.com

    Halle Berry is favorite actress~~~ Congrats on becoming a Momom~~~I am very excited when I found her personal ad at celebrity site Richromances.com. She is nice

  • lovely and amazing

    Hate Killer has a point.

    Interesting that both Salma Hayek and Halle Berry are saying the same thing about marriage not being important to raising a child.

    Condidering the out if wedlock children crisis, guess this is not good representation for young black and latina girls.

  • http://www.viewparkonline.com Angie

    It means she isn’t giving up her money again if things don’t work out.

  • Tracy

    Good for her!! She is a women who can make her own decisions and is doing so based on what she have been through in her life. She may not want to carry the stigma of being married 3 and 4 times. Men can do this all day long but when a women does it is view as a huge negative. Congrats to her and Gab!

  • Suzy

    I co-sign Tracy men do it all the time like my daddy he be havin babies all over Canada with white trailor trash and dosent stick around to raise them anyway its always a double standard men brag about sleepin with every women and its nothing women do it and they are hos. Go on Halle but i still think that a child should always have a father around even if they aint married hopefully he will stick around.

  • DA TRUFF HURTZ!!!

    I need a deal like this!!!

    Hollywood chicks…, don’t let me catch you slippin!!!

    K-Fraud’s 4-life!!!

  • Luvlee

    malarky, she just wanted a baby, and she found someone who did not care about having a baby out of wedlock.

  • lonnie

    the fact that pple that old aren’t just getting married really makes it seem like marriage is outa style. cuz at this point the kid seems intentionally. why have the kid out of wed lock when you have a choice?in ten years chapels will b completely unecessary

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