Sunday, March 23rd, 2008

Shar and K-Fraud Bunned Up for His Birthday

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The original K-Fraud, Kevin Federline celebrated his birthday in Vegas this weekend with his baby momma numero uno:

Britney Spears was a no-show but Kev’s other ex Shar Jackson (does she have no dignity?) was on hand all night long to help him mourn his twenties.

The Federline clan was joined by Jackson and a gaggle of her girlfriends for a birthday dinner at the swank Social House before heading to Pure, where they downed Jack Daniel’s and Patron shots in the white leather VIP booth. The Pussycat Dolls sang K-Fed a saucy rendition of “Happy Birthday” as Jackson snuggled close to her ex. “They looked like a couple again.”

Damn even the NY Daily News is questioning Shar’s diginity. Poor thang.

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  1. SHE HAS NO DIGNITY, WELL IN HER DEFENSE

    HE IS HER BABY DADDY..WITH A WALLET NOW..LOL

  2. JRiddles

    #2 Maybe they actually loved each other. Things did end on sour note because of Britney. If he left me while I was pregnant, I wouldn’t be so chummy chummy with him @ all. But, he’s got Briteney’s cash now like FAW said.

  3. Bootsy Farnsworth

    A swank birthday bash and the best food and accoutriments that Britney’s money can buy…And i know that Shar is his baby’s mama an’ all, but this bitch has proven time and time again, that if you treat most women like shit, they keep coming back for more. They seem to equate bad behavior with love.

  4. spain

    its his baby mother she was there 2 support him there friends now leave shar alone bossip and bein bitter

  5. Bootsy Farnsworth

    @ spain

    Where was his support, while she was pregnant with his second child, while he was out partying and fucking with Britney? spain, you’ve just proven my point, that most women can’t separate good sex from love. I realize that most women are victims to that brain chemical called oxytosin, ie the cuddle gene, but eventually one(s) dignity and self-respect should go into override and set things aright.


  6. Shar has no dignity to be questioned upon.


  7. @bootsy farnsworth, that’s not a gender thing — men get stupid about sex, too. what’s in it for Shar is attention. She had kids before KFraud .. where are they at in her and the kids lives? Why is she hanging onto a man who doesn’t love her and never loved her? certainly never loved her to put a ring on her finger even if she was ‘good enough’ to fuck without a condom.

    She can take her silicone’d low self-esteem elsewhere.

  8. andie

    she wants him back. hands down.

    hell, he probably wants her back too.

    they DO have children together. maybe the feelings are still fresh.


  9. Who cares…


  10. missing context: “She had kids before KFraud .. where are *they at in her and the kids lives?”

    * they meaning the other kids’ father(s).


  11. I don’t know JRiddles, there’s love (respect) and there’s ‘love’ (the kind the Clintons show black folk; the love the narrator shows Oliver in ‘Oliver’s House’; the love of Frankenstein for Igor). This party wasn’t for the kids, it was for the eternal ManBoy in Arrested Development Living Off the Women in His Life — KFraud.

    I just get the feeling that KFraud sees Shar as a lay, comfort sex. But she isn’t ‘the One’. Shar needs to move on.

    Shar is Jackie O letting JFK fuck around on her because she gets to go on shopping sprees — without the respect Jackie O falsely accrued. Shar is Maria Callas screwing Onassis and never getting that ring — without Callas’ genuine talents. Shar is gonna learn what it is to be Sandra Locke, even if KFraud ain’t nowhere near Clint Eastwood.

    If Shar wants to bottom bitch, it’s her life, though. All some of us can do is frown.

  12. dayg715

    no, fuck that. HE WAS HER MAN FIRST. shitney spears is the jackass who got played, not shar. he still ended up coming back to her. Shar’s the REAL pimp here.

  13. Bootsy Farnsworth

    @ Nita

    Yes, but in most cases, women have more to lose, especially when children out of wedlock with a person with little to no viable income is involved.

  14. That Girl

    Shar is the real fool here. Get real…..

  15. Bootsy Farnsworth

    @ dayg715

    How is she the pimp? Remember, Kevin was just your garden variety back-up dancer who lucked out by catching Britney’s eye. Prior to Britney, Kevin was (in all probability) sponging off Shar and her residual checks from her stint on Moesha. She’s only receiving child support due to Britney’s millions. There was nothing pre meditated on Shar’s part. This was just random luck.

  16. ummmm...

    they never really broke up…brit got scammed….

  17. Chofra

    I hope they get back together.

  18. Bubothehater

    She is famous for having 4 kids, and two of them by this idiot (but h edid leave her, Marry Britteny, collect he rmillions an dnow may have gone back to her) well, maybe I’m the idiot and they are the geniuses.

    Regardless, she is famous for not having the decency to keep her legs closed or have her men strap up.


  19. Shar, needs to move on. She looked braced for criticism. She is not his girlfriend. She knew we were going to give her the truth. Shar bout at home bossipin for feedback now. The least she could have done was made sure she was lookin bangin. That was her time to shine. Instead she looked like she was about to take her kids to the mall. Poor Shar. She needs guidance.

  20. Obamarama

    Ok< I’m gonna have a SMDH inspired, Charlie Brown’s teacher with turrets syndrome rant here. Just pretend K-fraud is black.

    ;^)

    wha wa waa-waaa

    COON!

    wha wa waa-waaa

    MONKEY!

    wha wa waa-waaa

    APE!!

  21. Obamarama

    And why does she look like she was holding hands with Gary Coleman?

  22. They ain't a couple !

    She probably hitting him up for some of that Britney child support and he hitting her up for some of that funny looking Char booty also they wanted to stunt on Britney !!

    Thats all that is cause the way brit acts and the way Char defends this guy ! K-fraud got some A1 loving they not acting retarded for nothing ! Big penises do something to womens mind’s ; it makes them go nuts ( I am one so I know ) ! He blowing these girls backs out and Britney doesn’t know what to do without it. Like bossip said Char has no pride and she’s going to let him hit for life !

  23. anonymous

    obamarama, that was funny!!!!

  24. bree

    ok, ok, ok..Shar did you forget to dress up and wear lotion?..was this a last minute thing? i forgive you..Kevin did you wear that before?..you’re still pretty fly, for a white-guy.

    Shar and K-fed set Britney up..now all of Shar’s kids have trust funds and neither (shar & kevin) one has to work again.

  25. Gurllll Stop !!!!

    DESPERATE!!!! I hope she gets a clue. I mean that fool left her for Trailer Park Britney when she was preggers. GIRL, get a clue! Bossip…where is my “When the checks stop coming in” post for the day…LOL

  26. vince

    why she always look dusty?

  27. Don'TripTieYourShoe!

    i don’t care what no one says, plastic surgery or not, she looks damn good for having a small litter of kids, what’s she had about 7 now?

  28. kb1908

    it must be made of gold!

  29. lovely and amazing

    I truly believe these two planned to be together for life from the start. Shar and Kevin were both unemployed living off her Moesha risidual checks and they had three mouths to feed (Shar has two other children) and a fourth on the way. Britney wanted Kevin so bad she bought him and Shar’s peace. I just hope everyone involved does right by all the children involved. Black women have always had the insurmountable capacity to forgive which can be a blessing and curse. Peace.

    Shar is obviously deeply in love with K-fed and is willing to compromise her dignity to have him. I think she feels she’s winning in the end.

  30. lovely and amazing

    @ Nita

    “Shar is Maria Callas screwing Onassis and never getting that ring — without Callas’ genuine talents. Shar is gonna learn what it is to be Sandra Locke, even if KFraud ain’t nowhere near Clint Eastwood.”

    Your Maria Callas comparison is deep.

    I thought it was also messed up how after what like 15 years Woody Allen said if he was really committed to Mia Farrow he would have lived with her. And that whole time Mia bought his crap about them having a “modern” and “progressive” relationship.

    Shar and Mia made their own choices.

  31. Carla07

    Dang – she looks TO UP.

  32. DM

    She, of the fake contact eyes, is trying to stay close to his wallet.

  33. Harlem Chic

    Those fake contacts slay me every time.

  34. Corree

    I guess pride and dignity can be bought. She’s such a poor excuse for a woman and a mother. This deserves a side eye AND a Ho sit down!!!

  35. EffYou

    U know how some women are with the whole “comfort” thing..Instead of starting over trying to find a man who will actually treat them like they deserve to be treated,they’ll stick with that same ol deadbeat ass nigga,no matter how much he treats them like shit..Maybe she likes being a doormat


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  37. daniel

    TO JRIDDLES:HOW CAN YOU BLAME BRITNEY FOR KEVIN’S ACTION. KEVIN WENT WITH BRITNEY BECASUE HE WANTED TO.

  38. JRiddles

    @Daniel

    Mar 23, 2008 – 12:00 pm JRiddles

    #2 Maybe they actually loved each other. Things did end on sour note because of Britney. If he left me while I was pregnant, I wouldn’t be so chummy chummy with him @ all. But, he’s got Briteney’s cash now like FAW said.

    __________________________________________________

    I did not mean it like that. I was trying to say because of the Britney situation. He made the choice to leave Shar while she was pregnant. Britney did not force him. I personally don’t want any man whose girlfriend is pregnant even if he says it’s been over for two weeks.

    @Nita, I did not know her other kids weren’t his. And I see what you’re saying about the different kinds of love. And, many people mistake mind-blowing sex for love.

    @Lovely…hey!

    Black women have always had the insurmountable capacity to forgive which can be a blessing and curse.

    _________________________________________________

    So true!

    @Bree,

    Shar and K-fed set Britney up..now all of Shar’s kids have trust funds and neither (shar & kevin) one has to work again.

    ______________________________________

    Funny, but I don’t know if they planned it!

    @Harlem Chic

    Mar 23, 2008 – 8:24 pm Harlem Chic

    Those fake contacts slay me every time.

    ___________________________________________

    You just slayed me with that comment! LOL

  39. Barack's Penis

    @ daniel

    She blames Britney because like most black women, she’s incapable of accepting accountability for her own character flaws. + Most black women loves being treated like shit. Like Bootsy Farnsworth said earlier, they (black women) equate bad behavior with love.

  40. mocha23

    I do not think it is fair to say MOST black women love to be treated like shit. A lot of women fall for the “wrong” guy black, white, hispanic, asian we see and hear this all the time. Hell, there are some men who like being treated like shit too it works both ways.


  41. he sure lost weight quick good for him

  42. Barack's Penis

    Exceptions to the rule as far as men are concerned. Statistics substantiates my last post. 70% of all african american children born out of wedlock. 38% of those bastard children actually lives in the same home with both mother and father. The other 62% rarely sees their father, or worse, doesn’t know their father. Who chose to have babies with these deadbeats?

  43. Terrence

    That tired ass, fake green-eyed bitch.

    Word from the wise,”get a job”.

    She has an inferiority complex and wanted her children half and half so she doesn’t have to be using no pressing comb.

    She’s just a worn out sister looking to hang on to a white man for survival.


  44. @ lovely and amazing,

    and then mia went crazy. mia farrow was a beautiful woman, who started collecting kids around the world because she didn’t feel loved. i didn’t know woody never married mia; i just knew he was wrong for being a pedophile with soon-yi. that was a horrible betrayal. woody should have done right by mia.

    now, i’m wondering what the deal is with angelina and brad.


  45. @jriddles, yep. i didn’t know who the other kids father(s) was/were, but I knew kfed wasn’t the original. it was that fact that made me shake me head, and why i have a hard time being sympathetic to shar. she’s good enough to fuck, but she’s not good enough to marry. why is she having kids with these dudes? something wrong.

    but let me go wiki, check this bullshit out:

    “Jackson is of African American and Native American descent specifically Cherokee on her mother’s side, and of Puerto Rican and Mexican descent on her father’s side.”

    Nita back. ‘Cherokee’ probably just means she don’t know. Seems like the cherokee were fucking everybody. Is she really Latina, or is she black? or is she full of shit? but wait, the onedrop website quotes shar as saying, in Sister 2 Sister magazine:

    “Pretty_Chell: Shar, do you think that you deserve not to have Kevin because you went out of your race?

    Shar Jackson: No, because I’m actually mixed anyways. My mother’s mom is Cherokee Indian. My mother’s father is German. My father is Puerto Rican and Black, so according to my background, who am I supposed to date? Am I getting too deep? We really need to get past that; we need to evolve.”

    Nita back, who knows what the truth is? The link in my handle leads to the onedrop website, which has a photo of her mother (whose own mother is allegedly Cherokee on her mom’s side and German on her father’s side. yeah, sure, whatever) with britney spears. But who knows what the truth is, or even if any of the information at one drop is correct, including the photo? Anyway, back to Wiki, “She has two children with her former high school boyfriend – a son, Donnie, born in 1991, and a daughter, Cassie, born in 1995.”

    Ok, she was born in 1976… had her first baby at 15??! by some dude, then another baby at 19, by same dude. When was Moesha’s run (I never watched the show)? on wiki they say it originally aired 1996, but was supposed to run 1995.

    Shar is a hot mess.

  46. treezee

    SHAR WHERE’S THE JERGENS


  47. Yall really care that they are hanging out? It’s her life shit!! If she wants him back it’s here choice? Why should we care? And she is not the example for all black women. Point blank it’s her life.

  48. NOT INTERESTING AT ALL

    Who cares? Shar and her big face still acts like she wants to be with FedEx. She used to be cuter and he is definitely going downhill looking like an old man already. Her body is small and then there’s that big ol’ face of hers.


  49. LMAO @ NITA

    ARE YOU A FAN??? LOL

    SHAR AINT WORTH ALL THAT RESEARCH..BUT GOOD JOB!!

  50. Lady Architect

    Shar is looking like a fool. He may be a great dad but come on is she that desperate? He played the mess out of her. You can’t blame it all on Britney cause he wanted to have sex with her as well. Married her and had to babies. Shar is making herself look like a fool.

  51. michelle

    Shar is looking a little puffy in the face. Kevin what’s up with the hair. You look good in the clothes Brittany’s money bought you.

  52. lovely and amazing

    Morning Nita and Jiddles!

    Shar’s background is what we used to call creole. Creoles are black (even when they look white) people of intergrated heritage. Shar may very well be of intergrated heritage, but for her to imply that she is somehow something other than black may reflect some self-doubt self-denial and shame. All black people are “mixed”. Fearing the word black is another story.

    Other the other hand Shar is clearly trying to infer herself as socially “something other than black” as “differnt than black” there is even a touch of elitism in her tone.

    But with all her claims of disassociative privilege, she hasn’t strived to not be a stereotype and somehow has made some stereotypical and self-defeating “black” life choices: two teen out of wedlock pregnancies, hollywood aspirations over education (which to her credit she had some success with Moesha), two more out of wedlock children with an unemployed hip-hop back up dancer, and then permitting herself to being regulated, while pregnant, to the role of black “whore” as opposed to trashy Britney’s role of white “wife”, and I do recall Britney rubbing this paradox in Shar’s face in the press.

    I’m not hating and Shar can call herself Swedish if she chooses but if she is going to play the “something other than and better than black” card, you would think she would back it up with, theoretically speaking, “something other than and better than black” choices and behavior.

    Is Shar Jackson less black and more refined than Fantasia Barrino who also has mixed hertitage and overcame teen pregnancy and illiteracy? Bet Shar thinks so. But Fantasia owns her humble beginnings and became and is independently self-sufficient and successful! But without hazel eyes, straight hair or cherokee blood like Shar, I guess Fantasia and her experience are ” just black”?

    I think Shar and Kevin’s love is co-dependent and inter-dependent. At this point they are attached for life at Shar’s disadvantage. Shar had a choice to state for her dignity’s sake that she broke up with Kevin, get employed (which she has more access to than most), and be independent. But Shar, like Kevin, didn’t want to really work and wants to be a celebrity. And dignity is not a high priority.

    I personally feel Shar should have only taken Kevin back under the condition of engagement and marriage. She really should have a ring on her finger kicking it with with him after what she chose to endure.

    Shar’s settling for party invitations and sex all on Britney’s bankroll is really not the “uppity black (ahem, mixed) woman” or “something other than, better than black” thing to do.

    ****

    @ Nita

    Yeah girl, Mia and pedophile Woody Allen were never married and never lived together. All those years, all those kids they lived in apartments near eachother and when he left her for his adopted step-daughter, he just dismissed their whole relationship and was basically like “what did she think I never lived with or married her”. Effed up, but Mia made a choice to accept Woody’s crap and he nearly destroyed her. Their only biological child changed his name and never spoke to his father again. And Woody did live with and married his former stepchild. Some men will try to get away with what we let them get away with.

    I still can’t figure out Angelina and Brad either. I am curious at how the adopted black children of wealthy white celebrities (Angelina and Brad, Madonna, Tom Cruise, Mary-Louise Parker) will turn out and how they will relate to the world.

    ***

    Beautiful day to you friends.

  53. lovely and amazing

    Please pardon my misspelling “JRiddles”. No disrespect. Peace and beautiful day.

  54. Obamarama

    Excellent post, L&A.

  55. Barack's Penis

    @ lovely and amazing

    Like your lover Monotheistic Proof, you travel a full 360 to get to the end of the block. All you had to say in regards to Shar, is that she’s another irresponsible black cumbucket.


  56. Damn I know that bitch makes enough chedar to buy some fuckin lotion why she always got to be lookin all the time ashy????

  57. beautiful b (really)

    shar is played. her only media attention always seem to pertain to brit and kfraud. ill be shocked the day something is posted about hre that does not contain britneys name. she should actually send brit a fruit basket thanking her for the elevated lifestyle that moesha couldnt provider. with her fat ass neck!! damn she she got kimora syndrome.

  58. lovely and amazing

    @ PLANT

    The majority of, as you say, “irresponsible cumbuckets” in America are poor uneducated white females.

    Poor uneducated white females are the majority of public assistance cases and as far as them marrying more, they actually lie about their marital status and wear false bands from walmart and say they are married when they are not in order to create some false sense of morality and superiority to their failed “whiteness”.

  59. I cant say...

    Oh swat!! Did Shar and KFed play Ditzy Spears and set her up all along??? Was KFraud really faking and he and Shar plotted to bilk her outta her $$ by marrying, impregnating and then drugging up only to leave her strung out while they reconcile in the public like it was just fate?? Oh swat, Brit got played!!!!

  60. lovely and amazing

    @ PLANT

    And Mia Farrow who is white, famous, educated, and monied, is she, as you say, an “irresponsible cumbucket” for staying with, having a child, and adopting numerous children out of wedlock with a man who didn’t even honor her enough to co-habitate let alone marriage.

    K-fed at least loved Shar enough have once shared a home with her and live like a family.

  61. Toya

    Britney pays k-fraud $20,000 a month for spousal support plus another couple thousand for child support and he got all his legal fees paid by Britney and I could go on and on..K-Fraud got Britney’s money now, that’s why their all cool, she has no dignity, their probably laughing it up right now…funny how he turned from a deadbeat asshole who has no time for her kids into a sweet, caring guy who is a great father

  62. JaliliMaster

    I still can’t figure out Angelina and Brad either. I am curious at how the adopted black children of wealthy white celebrities (Angelina and Brad, Madonna, Tom Cruise, Mary-Louise Parker) will turn out and how they will relate to the world.

    ———————-

    As far as they raise them well, then I couldn’t really give a shit. Tom & Nicole’s adopted son seems alright, and so does cute as a button Zahara, who is soooo going to be a baddass chick when she grows up (I can see it in her eyes). And as long as Brad does’t screw any of his kids, then no worries from me. I do think Angie is a mental case though. She used to own her crazy, now, not so much!

  63. trife Ling

    well, that was the plan the whole time, right? get dat money shar!

  64. Brightchick

    Yep, just like the Kim P and Diddy saga.

  65. cola43

    so shar is the only one with no dignity. he is a straight bum….brit scooped him up, married, procreated twice….after her knowledge of his and shar´s relationship and 2nd baby. so none have dignity to me. well i wouldnt go as far to say that shar doesnt have dignity rather low self esteem. but who knows how their story will end…either way all 3 are forever linked with the 4 children involved.

  66. WHAT?

    CAN SHE JUST STOP WITH THE COLORED CONTACTS???


  67. Can she put some goddamn lotion on?

  68. JAD

    She always looks a mess!

  69. I cant say...

    Shar dont wear no doggone contacts!!


  70. Shar is UGLY- Has fake eyes and has four kids by different men and never been married. Why is she getting publicity- Shar wears CONTACTS

  71. Reformed GammaRay

    don’t know about dignity but she got tacky down pact..

  72. reese

    THIS RAGGEDY HO ALWAYS IN THE SPOTLIGHT,WHAT SHE NEED TO DO IS LEARN HOW TO DRESS! SHE A BLACK VERSION OF TRAILER WHITE TRASH!!!

  73. K-ten

    she has ashy, african man hands.

  74. Implant Buster

    You know what they say, “Once you try the white, black d**k is a fright.” Dumb Bi**h.

  75. PIMP DADDY

    kizzy i mean shar is whats called a good dedicated hoe.she says fuck dignity i want to shine like jermaine jacksons face.

  76. whotookmystapler

    She’s still getting child support payments from KFed –aka Britney, so of course she’s gonna kiss his feet.

    He’s her only source of income now.

  77. PIMP DADDY

    she has crusty gary coleman hands.

  78. PIMP DADDY

    i’msick of yall dumb black in denial bitches claiming to be creole,or indian.bitches you are black you cant runaway from it.and to the crumb who says all blacks are mixed thats bullshit most african americans.the puerto ricans be trying to claim there white blood by saying latinos when they are mixed with african.i’m proud to be a nappy headed blackman i would’nt have it any other way.the afican american female is confused and materialistic thats why i fuck with african born females they have more morals.and are worthy of marriage why marry a hoochie mama hoodrat who fucked the whole club and looking like fantasia with 100 tattoos.

  79. Mark

    Large sexy.I saw her always dating in millonaire dating site “W e a l t h y L o v i n g. c o m “.Dose she really searching her new love in this site?

  80. Lime

    You guys can’t be so serious. In fact, she is not so bad as you said. It seems that she is beautiful when she was young. It’s true. I had ever saw her at Wealthychat.com there she has a nice profile.

  81. STREETS

    I used 2 like shar, but she’s a $ hungry hoodrat just like the rest of them, she probably never stopped talking 2 kfed.. p.s

    he got boo’d at his own bday party, 4 trying 2 rap..smh

  82. rachel still sweet 25th/2008

    Shar does NOT HAVE CONTACT HER EYES ARE REAL please trust me , I know this. …and yes , she has the last laugh. You dont need dignity when you have a PLAN . Again trust me I know this.


  83. shar dont study people all men are dogs and dog stray and they know when to come home.and shar dont think we didnt know u and kevin plan to sabotage britney all along

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