damn 6 kids

Okay the man has 6 kids .. Kids aren’t really a big deal . But 4 baby mommas !! Wow that’s too much drama. I feel sorry for that little girls of hers… she a only child

I’m sorry. If a man tells me that he has 3 kids and the truth is that he has 6, I’m OUT! Not because he has 6 kids, but because he didn’t say it up front. Not telling someone something THAT important is basically a lie. He let her believe that he only had 3 and then after they got more involved she learns he’s go 6 kids. NOT. COOL. AT. ALL.

I see that she doesn’t have the ring on in this interview and she stated that things got more stressful after the show. That’s what happens when you put the entire world in your business. Not judging but keep some things sacred. But good Lord, how could he NOT tell you up front about the other children??? But then again, if you don’t think that a woman is serious about a relationship with you, there is no need to divulge too much. But you should always rep your kids and let someone decide if they wanna deal with all that comes with having those children.

That was extremely wack on her part to just accept it like that. Her mama kept it real with her and I don’t blame her. Kandi has one child ONE!! To get tangled with a man with that many kids and that many baby mamas is a lot to take on at once!! I wish Kandi and her daughter Riley the best. Kandi seems to be a level headed chick. She is nothing like the dreadful Nene, or the disillusioned Sheree or the fake Lisa or even the poor little can’t keep up with all these black women and they madness Kim. They just pick on her to death!!!

she seems real desperate and stupid to me she saying ” he a family man he likes parks and them sort of things” where the hell else can he afford to go to with 6 damn kids. that’s totally unfair to her daughter from going to the only child to having all them kids around her she is desperate and slow taking care of that washed up boy she must have some washed up snapper if she have to settle for him

desperation is a m effer seriously she probably paid for her own ring. its sad that a beautiful talented woman have to settle for a loser like that 6 kids with all them baby mama’s shows he is irresponsible and ignorant loser kandie you need to do better than this seriously hope you wake up

Ok, i thought she was breakin down THE REAL HOUSEWIVES where’s that part?

@ Scoobie…also known as Scoobiesnax

I can’t deal with NO kids…maybe I’m talking shyt cause my boo ain’t got non but shyttttt….all that baby mama drama plus you are almost ALWAYS going to have to give your weekends up for those children..I just can’t do it at all.

KIDS ARE A “BLESSING”, LET ME REPEAT KIDS ARE A “BLESSING”. YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT’S NOT AH BLESSSING.

1. BABY-MOMMAS WHO CANNOT EXCEPT THAT THERE BABY-FATHERS HAVE MOVED ON! AS A RESULT= DRAMA.

2. GOOD FATHERS WHO STILL WANT TO TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS AND BE ACTIVE IN THERE LIVES REGARDLESS OF THE DEPARTURE FROM THEIR KIDS MOTHER! BACK TO NUMBER 1! AS A RESULT= DRAMA.

3. AS A RESULT, WHERE DO YOU THINK ALL THESE STEREO-TYPICAL MENTALITIES AND MIND SETS STEM FROM.

YOU GOT IT! THE DRAMA THE BABY-MOMMA BRINGS, SEE THE SITUATION AINT THE KIDS, THE SITUATION IS THE ON YOU CREATE BY NOT LETTING GO AND LIVE!!!!!

She is a idiot its so sad that someone so succesful and beautiful could settle/need a man to the point where she choices this loser. She really looks like a fool. Is it really that hard to find a man in the ATL?

On another note is it just me or does Bravo use the term “Housewife” very loosely when it comes to the ATL

Kandi, I saw the show and I understand you hate people judging your relationship. However, it is possible that he might be a Black K-Fed and is following the pimp manual exactly. Hopefully he’s not.

OK I have had enough of the girl. In fact she is starting to make me question her intelligence. Let’s get this clear in order to be a housewife of any kind you need to be married or divorced. There’s at least 2 ladies on the show that don’t fit that criteria. Kandi being one. Kandi, is just plain hood and she fell for the dumb dumb BS with this man. The reason she doesn’t have that ring on is because she and AJ are NOT together anymore, and at one point he had moved out and was living with a friend since the show has stopped taping. I am hoping the family has gotten through to this girl and she’s sees him for the opportunist he is and not a potential mate for the future. Think about your life girl.

personally i feel you should think twice about getting involved with a man that has that many kids,not because he has a lot of them but if he was not upfront with you about all of them even ones that could be possibilities how could expect him to be 100% honest with you on anything or even dealing with the women involved in their lives i wouldn’t trust him

So, he waited until she was emotionally attached to tell her he had 3 more kids. Dude had a good game. I have to give it to him, he played his cards. When he told her about the first three, imo, he should have mentioned the deal with other three. When you start dating for marriage, how many children/mothers you have, criminal records, goals, and bad credit/debt are things you should mention on the first date. A person should be given the chance to determine whether they want to continue with the relationship before they become emotionally involved.

Tanks for fixing the link! I know people were saying Kandi is ghetto, Kandi is stupid for being with a man with 6 kids & 4 baby mamas…. yada yada yada. I think Kandi is classy and very down to earth. Y’all don’t know ghetto when you see it. I can show you a ghetto chick. And as for her personal relationships, a lot of times we think being strong means being strong enough to walk away from someone. But really sometimes being strong means being strong enough to stay and make it work. So what he wasn’t 100% up front about his kids? I applaud her for being strong enough to not take the easy way out and leave. Everybody has flaws, luckily she found someone with a flaw she can deal with (kids that she loves). Much love to Kandi!

I CAN UNDERSTAND 2 AND BEND MY WAY FOR 3 BUT 6 GODAMMMMMMMMMN!!!!! 6 THO THATS TOO MUCH!!!

umm … did he confiscate the ring? … it’s MIA … smh @ AJ not keeping up on those payments :/

It is so obvious this dude only wants to marry Kandi for her money, and she isn’t even smart enough to see that. Why is he in such a hurry to marry her???

6 kids w/ 4 baby mamas!

Why is she even allowing herself to be involved with a guy like this. She’s not ugly and she has some musical talent which has allowed her to make good money, so its not like she can’t get a better man.

You can take the girl out of the ghetto, but not the other way around, right. SMH

@babyJ21 lets think about it, if he was such a good dad why did he not tell her how many kids he had up front???? Why hide the other 3, I agree with the comments she needs to leave him alone. If you are lying about your own flesh and blood what else are you hiding.

She should be pissed that he lied… he’s been spreading his stuff around like Johnny Appleseed!

I’m a little ticked at the photo, because it looks like someone has PhotoShopped the hell out of it… Kandi is neither that light NOR that skinny. She is a pretty girl, so that was unnecessary.

SHORTY09!

I AGREE HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN FORTHRIGHT IN THE BEGINNING, “BUT HE ALSO PROBABLY DIDN’T WANT TO BE JUDGE BY HIS 6 KIDS EITHER, WITHOUT HAVING A DEEP UNDERSTANDING HOW THEY CAME ABOUT. HE PROBABLY WANTED HER TO GET TO KNOW HIM “FIRST” THEN DO THE JUDGING. JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE 6 KIDS DON’T MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON OR A BAD FATHER. KIDS ARE A BLESSING, IT’S THE SITUATION PEOPLE MAKE THAT MAKE IT BAD!

6 kids, 4 baby mamas…amazing!!!

I hope Kandi listens to her Mom (like Usher should have listened to his) because in todays society when you marry someone you also marry all their trials and tribulations.

Those 4 baby mommas are laying in wait – hoping she is stupid enough to marry him because they will all be in court the day after asking for more child support. Just like that trick that is going after layla ali’s money and Kandi doesn’t deserve that type of heartache which is what her mom is trying to get her to see.

Also, once you marry him who is to say he will work another day in his life (Britney/K-Fed anyone). And what type of strain will 6 brothers/sisters have on your relationship with your daughter.

It is not cheap to raise children these days, you have to look at he will probably be ordered by the court to maintain health insurance, you have holidays and birthdays, school plays/visits, proms, and don’t even think about the expenses of college, room and board and cars.

But the last thing you want to deal with in any relationship is DRAMA and when you marry a man with 4 baby mommas – the chances are GREAT that you will experience that on the regular. You are pretty and established Kandi – there is a real brother out there that will enhance your life in so many more ways than this one ever can.

Listen to your MOMMA – she loves you more than ANYONE!

I’m starting to miss DeShawn. At least DeShawn’s ditzy-ness was kind of funny to laugh at. On the other hand, this Kandi chick is just serious stupid about making life decisions.

i dont get these black men. you trying to tell me out of 4 baby momas…not one of them was wifey material???? why were they good enough to have 6 babies with(and obviously more than 1 with somebody) but not good enough to marry??? that’s the question kandi should be asking- THAT’S saying alot about his judgement and character, NOT taking the kids to the damn park!

@facingrealty

word!

@Kandi

You are beautiful, nice, pleasant demeanor and talented… Out of all of the men that you could be with why are you with one that has 6 children via 4 DIFFERENT women!?!?! AND on top of that he wasn’t upfront & honest with you about THE OTHER 3 for A WHILE!!! Since he withheld that info. from you, can you imagine what else he hasn’t told you???

LISTEN to your mother because I agree with her 110% it’s difficult to deal with just 1 Baby Momma – BUT 4 = That’s DRAMA times 4!!! And just like she said “I’ve NEVER been so sure of anything in my life”… ME TOO that is not the type of man she should be involved with… You have TOO MUCH going on with yourself and deserve better!!!

The babies mama’s are saying please, please, please marry him. If she does, the babies and the mama’s are SET! Drama and heartache will be her constant friends. It doesn’t take Cleo or LaToya to see that….RUN while you can, girl run!

Look at Britney and K-fed………run

6 children via 4 DIFFERENT women!!!

6 children via 4 DIFFERENT women!!!

Some of y’alls standards are SOO LOW, it’s sad and PATHETIC!!! SMH

This is another example of what happens when girls grow up without a father in their home or don’t have a decent male role model in their lives = A woman will not be able to recognize what a good man is and/or know the characteristics of the type of man that they should be involved with or marry… SMH

6 children via 4 DIFFERENT women!!!

Didnt she write the song “SCRUBS” for TLC????????? DO we need to reminder her of the lyrics

*i’ve been typin’*

Ladies! Ladies! Ladies! Coming from a man’s point of view…if a dude withold important info like that from the beginning, what makes you think he won’t withold it during the relationship? Don’t get mad at the guy later on in the relationship if you find out he’s lied about a certain situation or some woman because he’s let it be known he’s a liar from the beginning. How simple do some women have to have it? I mean the guy has done everything to show her except painting it all over his body. I know what it is, it’s that alot of women get to a point to where they’ve been in relationship after relationship and now they’re willing to accept anything to have one. It’s that situation of trying not to let nature’s time clock run out on you! If she do marry this dude she’ll encounter so much frustrations in her marriage til where it won’t be funny after awhile. I love my sisters but sometimes I have to shake my head at some of the things y’all will put up with.

Here’s what he’s trying to get his hands on:

Didnt she write the song “SCRUBS” for TLC????????? DO we need to reminder her of the lyrics
_____________________________________________

@ The ONE

Yes and she WON a Grammy for writing “No Scrubs”… SMH

Girl better run and don’t look back. This man is not the one. You can do a whole lot better. Please listen to you mother and daughter. The babies mama’s might be nice to you now but wait until you say I do and the horns will come out. I reside in GA and all your money and property becomes his once you marry him.

If it was Kandi with the kids we wouldn’t be having this converstion. I wonder…. What a person life is like if they think this is acceptable. It is not about judgement it is about wisdom. There is a reason her mother doesn’t like this man… She deserves more than this but, it is her choice. Some folks are living low life drama and want others in the same boat. He just doesnt have all these kids and baby mama’s.. he lied so, he has all of this drama, probally a lot less money than Kandi and no character. It all looks good for him but, not for her.

@Ms. Show-Off

Would you date a man who had 6 children from 4 DIFFERENT women?

and

What if he only told you about 3 of his children and then later on you found out that he had 3 more children? How would feel about that and him being upfront & honest about things that are important to him in his life – would you not be worried that if he withheld that information he’s hiding some other important things that you should know?

who gives a damn about this women she aint shit.

Kids are a blessing, but 6 kids by 4 different women will be nothing but a headache. I hope it works for Kandi’s sake and that she gets a prenup.
She’ll end up wishing that she would’ve listened to her mom. SMH

MRS GLOCK WHEN YU GON LET ME DIG N DAT PUZZY

If he had to lie or mislead her about how many kids he has then he know its something wrong with his situation. If it was all good and nothing wrong with him having 6 kids by 4 different women he would have been straight with her from the beginning. I agree with DAREALWIFEY .. its a shame what black women have to put up with when they want to marry within their own race. I feel sorry for her because she’s another black woman who, despite her own sucess feels the need to accept less. She better than this situation she putting herself and her child in. I hate silly women.

I reside in GA and all your money and property becomes his once you marry him.
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@SUE

Ok, so that means her big a$$ house WITH A guesthouse & pool and her 3 Mercedes (S550, CL Coupe and Truck), Escalade and 1968 Camaro will become his TOO!!!

I see where he’s coming from… I’d give her a ring too = a successful well to do woman with her own, lots of cash & assets willing to accept a man who brings little to nothing to the table and has 6 children via 4 DIFFERENT women… SMH Bum a$$ ni@@a…

I hate to agree w/ Marquis but I’m tired of black people saying children a blessing too. I’m tired of people acting like having children out of wedlock is OK. Children need a FAMILY. AND stop having all these effin kids & you cant afford to do sh*t for them. You aint got sh*t, yo kids dont have sh*t .. sad.

MS. SHOW-OFF!

I AGREE WITH YOU 100%! BUT THE ONLY PROBLEM IS THEY IS GOING TO KEEP TALKING SHIT.

who cares. what the hoopla with these desperate shows?

glok 9

hey you got a pretty wife dawg.

hello ms.glok

GOOD LOOKING MO CARS ETC…!

glok9

why they always attacking you and wifey? is it a new trend?

@MOCars
Hey! Thanks

Next time you talk to Kandi Burruss ask her about Tamika Scott going on Hot97 and talking to Miss Jones and saying that the reason why Xscape broke up was because she was sleeping with Jermaine Dupri the groups producer…

man, its like rumble in the bronx in here.

Dominique

LOL! I knew it. Those 7 bastard children (1 hers and the other 6, his) are CGI figments created to add drama, huh?

Glok
Honey, can we get outta here? These people are ridiculous.

wowww, this broad is stupid. Her intelligence is on ZERO! I feel sorry for her

This story gets crazier by the minute. He lied to her about the number of children he had at the start, and yet she wonders why her mom is against their marriage plans!!! Is she completely lacking in common sense?

Her fiance is the type of person (there are woman like this too) who thinks they are about to be set for life and laughs to all his friends about it behind her back. If she’s being honest with herself, she will admit that she got caught up emotionally and starting letting the unacceptable things slide cuz she was afraid of being single again and starting over with another dude.

And she needs to fall back on being indignant about folks’ comments. Doing a reality show and including him INVITES other people to talk about it. That’s the whole point of being on TV, to get publicity, which I’ll bet she thought would help her records sales. Some things need to be kept private.

@ Cranberry Juice you can shut the sh!t down that one flaw she would have to pay for with money and emotions. When they become one she would have to put up with the babies momma. @ Kandi since you read blogs Ms. Lady don’t get feed up and settle just because you want Riley to have a family that will come. Your daugther is very intelligent I commend you on how you raise her. She did want all of those kids as brothers/sisters. That why she called them friends. Learn from your first mistake the childs father.

Kandi if you love your daughter you will not marry this guy. Listen to your Mother, ask Usher

Well Kandi is better than me! There is no way I would be with that dude!

@ Kandi my Mom was offended when my brothers girlfriend Mom told her she did not think it was a good idea to marry My brother with all his under 18 children by different women. The young girl broke it off from my brother her Mother died a few years later, but she listened to her Mother. Please listen to yours.

@ Ohio 888 It’s not that hard to find a man in the ATL. It’s just hard to find a real one not on the down low from what I heard and see.

listen to your MOm on this one.

You can tell who pops split and who the real “bastards” are…lol just saying people usally hate what they are.

@sissy… If you really think your my demise, you better get a grip on reality.

Ayo…u like that man…

olmanginawillie

this is your reality.you must face the music.you cannot dodge my presence.your experation date is approaching quickly.time is of the beholder,and i am the time keeper.

Define Dysfunctional

So what are you? A babymama, an enabler, or all of the above? …And please don’t insult me/us with that tire “WHITE PEOPLE DO IT TOO” analogy. You know and I know that their reality is totally different from black folks reality.

*tired*

Marquis de Sade

lol I will not lower myself to your level therefore, your are dismissed. I will not become a fool by entertaining conversation with such..lol

olsugarinthetankwillie

look here captain of the pink team.how dare you invite me to that melted snicker bar.you have crossed the line.your fate is in the palm of my hands.bwahhahaha…….feeble human

@sissy…OMG…He is so OBESSESSED… I never knw you could get cyberstalked on a blog website…

Marquis de Sade

I know your secret…lol

Define Dysfunctional

Marquis de Sade

lol I will not lower myself to your level therefore, your are dismissed. I will not become a fool by entertaining conversation with such..lol

Yeah, I thought so: Another babymama, justifyin’ irresponsible decision making to mask her aversion to taking birth control. Typical.

Marquis de Sade

Of course you are right, you are always right, you have allll of the answers, yes?

Define Dysfunctional

Marquis de Sade

Of course you are right, you are always right, you have allll of the answers, yes?

…And you don’t?

sissywillie

stop hiding behind the shower you flaming homo.

marquis

whats the secret she have on you?

I agree that this guy is not good for Kandi what I dont agree with is Marquis de Sade sweeping generalizations and ignorance. He talks down to to the people on the blogs like he is superior. This comes from unresolved issues… lol

Doesnt anyone find it odd how this Sissy constantly stalks me.

sunday night sissy fights

marquis

whats the secret she have on you?

I guess the secret is that i’m “SUPERIOR”, and that “Define” is just angry that she/he is conflicted, due to (reluctantly) agreeing with me, but hates her/himself for it, though.

marquis

lol.sort of like reverse psycology. i see

Like I said no fight here Marquis de Sade, sorry I don’t spar with unarmed adversaries. Replace self-love with self-hate. I love you brother!

hey sissywillie

put a picture up of your boyfriend so i can target him too.

Define Dysfunctional

“UNARMED”? Now who’s soundin’ “SUPERIOR”? LOL!

I like you Marquis de Sade and you make valid points; but truth without love is cruelty. You can’t hate the kids for the parent’s mistakes. Don’t call those babies bastards. You know it is not right. If you are so hard on others, you must torture yourself!

Hey Sissy…Your an obssessd lil fag, Thats what you are….

Define Dysfunctional

How’s the truth torture, Sydney?

Define Dysfunctional

…And when did I imply that I hate their kids? They were born out of “WEDLOCK”, hence they’re bastard children…You see, no hate, just truth.

After all that thinking, you come back with that inteligent response? Game, set, match

Kandi,
I pray to God that you read my comment. Do not dishonor your mother by not listening to her. Obviously, she has been right about your former relationships or you would be with them now. But I know it is annoying to you that your mother seems to be correcting you but trust me she is right. Forget the fact that you love children. If you honor your mother and her words and be patient, God will bless you with a man who has not kids and you and him can start fresh just you and your daughter. Kandi, I am speaking to you with words of wisdom. Heart to Heart. Just because you have given yourself to this man and have developed imitate emotionals toward him. Be cautious and don’t let your emotions for him cloud your judgement. I know it seem like there are men shortage but you dont have to settle for anything. Trust God, Kandi. Trust God to send you someone with no dependents beacuse soon he and the children will become your dependents. I am speaking honestly to you and I pray to God that you read these words. Kandi, your mother knows what is best. Just ask Usher!!!! Dont fool yourself trying to despite your mother because in the end you will be wishing you had heed your mother’s words of advice. I praying to God that you will listen to God and ask him to clearly speak to your heart and show you the right person for you. A man that has 6 children and then questions whether or not they are his is not a good man. HE needs to sit his self down and focus on raising his own flesh and blood. Ask God to send you someone to help you raise your daughter. Dont settle Kandi, seek God , and don’t settle. My name is Vanessa. I hope you listen!!!

Define Dysfunctional

After all that thinking, you come back with that inteligent response? Game, set, match

Pleeeeeze!

Words of Wisdom

Amen! How loving and beautiful.

She should take cues from her daughter and her mom
and “Run, Forrest, Run”. A real man would have manned up and claimed “all” of his kids if he were “that” type of father because he knew it would have been wrong to disown them in any situation. When you are a parent who truly cares about your kids, its not about running games, to see who will accept you, but truly seeing who will be a great influence on your kids. If he wasn’t up front with something as simple as how many kids he had, what else is he lying about? In all fairness he should try and get with someone with as many kids and baby daddies as he has baby mommas has so that they will be more tolerable and understanding of his situation. To put all of that on a person with one child and very little drama is totally unfair, and it would be a nightmare for her daughter, who seems way wiser than her mom about this situation. Kandi you are a beautiful, talented, sweet woman with a lot going for yourself as well as banging figure. Realize that and act like it. Your pickings should be a lot better than someone who chose to procreate repeatedly with women he wouldn’t consider marrying. And trust me, because you are a celebrity, doing well, and getting him to possibly commit to marriage, when he wouldn’t with the others, will cause them (the other mothers) to make your life a living hell.

Oh and the skinny girl did right to call NeNe fat. NeNe started it by saying she needed a sandwhich which was just as catty. You don’t throw stones living in a glass house. Like Sheree said, what’s wrong with saying Hello, my name is. Now Lisa, she unfairly attacked, but in all actuality, a size 2 Lisa? Really? Let’s be real….Please.

She is being so silly ,she better listen to her mama.Having six kid with one woman is ok but watever did not make AJ stay with his babymama’s will not make him stay wit her .She gotta think Man THINK!!!!!!!!!

@ words of wisdom
you broke it down nicely

Ok Kandi…I’m riding w/you on the business end…But relationship end I’m riding w/your mom…They do know best and she got that gut feeling something isnt right…Usher mama had the same gut chile…

Second….. I am a writer (lyrics,book)and I know you are as well but if you need to try something new then google me…(myspaceL….I got a hit 4 you …..I enjoyed xscape music and it continues to play on my mp3 player…They all sang well but I wonder how the girl with the wonderful voice is doing(tosha scott) I think is her name….man her voice was awesome..I am a true fan ….so Kandi wise up ….take the lost ….move on …and if not pray that it works and don’t be shocked if the results are horrific!!!

I feel ya shannon!!!!!

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Just Saying

LOL! Thank you.

I am one to say when I believe that a person is wrong and am equally quick to acknowledge truth and Marquis de Sade’s last post was excellent advice to our women.

However, the same degrading method doesnt work for everyone sometimes a message can go a lot futher with a little love. We have spent a lifetime degraded thus We all know anger and hate well. I am conviced that we can best educate our brothers and sisters in a loving dignified manner. This is one sisters experience and it has worked well in my experience. To believe that you can not communicate with your race in a dignified manner is more of the lies we have accepted.

wow, yall are off the chain and I haven’t been on here for awhile and as usual, when I come back, Marquis is spittin little gems of knowledge in his usual no holds barred fashion. The truth is heavy and few can carry it. I said it up top, the girl shoulda listened to her mama. All them damn kids don’t make no sense. As successful and well rounded as she seems, she could have had her pick of the crop but it’s just something about a bad boy huh ladies??? My husband has 3 children but he supports them financially and they are pretty much always with us when they can be and I have no problem with it because he told me UPFRONT. He let me know in no uncertain terms if I couldn’t deal with it, to step because his kids were his world.

I could respect that because he was forthcoming with it. Now when we got married, he also told his 2 baby mamas what was up and to show respect. I am STEP mama to the kids, not MAMA and their job is to raise them. My job is to reinforce what they are learning at home. And believe me, its hard work to do it with them so I can’t even imagine how she’s gonna do it with 6 PLUS her own DAUGHTER who clearly told her she didn’t like it.

I wish her the best yet again but she should really just let it burn…

Black women are seriously so trashy. Why would you want to marry a Negro with 6 children and four different baby mamas? wow! even the trashiest white woman would never do something like that.

Love can make you do some crazy things…

Hahahahaha, did she just say don’t buy jewelery for yourself? let the man do it for you? talk about taking the women’s rights movement 80 years backwards. Hahahahahha

This situation is worse than I thought. So, let me get this straight, at first, Kandi didn’t know he had six children in all? Why would he not inform her of three of his offspring?

The man sounds untrustworthy and supremely irresponsible. Whenever someone tries to defend this sort of behavior by saying this person is taking care of his kids, I have to wonder, why did he create so many in the first place? Did he not know how to use protection? Did he not deem any of these four women to be worthy of being his wife? A “good” man wouldn’t have created such a situation for himself. This is trouble with a capital “T.”

I do think some women have developed abysmally low standards. Why are we applauding men in the first place for taking care of their kids? That’s what they’re SUPPOSED to do. This is part of being a father. It would show more respect for the responsibility of fatherhood for a man to take more care with the choice of whom he procreates with. A man with multiple children by multiple women epitomizes carelessness.

Apparently AJ is putting it on Kandi like he put it on his 4 baby mommas. Now a man with 6 kids is not a big deal, but when he has 4 baby mommas, that says a lot about his character. He is irresponsible in every sense of the word. Kandi, get your head out of the clouds. Do what’s best for you and your daughter. RUN!!!! There are a lot of good, responsible men out there. Stop lowering your standards and look in the mirror at the beautiful, deserving woman that you see. A drama free life is a beautiful one.

she gone be on a vh1 show about what happened to them and she gone be on there talking bout how she broke after her divorce … she a simple bit*ch and if she wanna ruin her lief thats on her. she gotta ive and learn

If she marry this cat she really be a real ATL housewife broke and all……

Oshie remember….Tan = trying to be black …….remember Tan = skin cancer 4 u!!!!

cha ching*** How u doin”

kandi seems like cool peeps.

she should leave that guy alone, cuz’ she only knows him for a year she prob can fully see that he’s tryin’ to use her and he’s probably a lowkey witch.

And I don’t have any famiy members on meth, but I do have several who pop pills like they are tic tacs though!

I think Kani is so pretty and seems like a really
cool sista. She is very talented, smart, classy
and funny. I think she is the best one on the show
along with lisa, kim and nene seems cool but very real. Kani is right! maybe she didn’t know he had
sooo many kids. I love kids too! but 6 is far too
many to deal with especially myself having a 14
yr old daughter and a 4 year old son. I couldn’t
date a man with more than 3-4 kids seriously.But,
if that works for her and they are healthy and
good for one another, then god bless them.I have
a southern mother whom is like Kandi’s mom, loves
to control my very few relationships with guys
that she did not approve of (lol). If she felt
me or my two sisters didn’t listen to her wisdom
she would be unhappy and never let you live it
down that he is a “bad choice” for us. My mother
is always there for her daughters and we love her
to pieces for sure. That’s a mama who worked two
jobs to send her little girls to catholic schools,
summer camps, ski school, tennis lessons, swim
lessons and nice-very stylish clothes with lot’s of class. Never knew or felt anything but a happy
child that was spoiled and deeply loved. So kandi
just love your mother, be patient with her and
sista pray on EVERYTHING!. Either God will give
you the green light on your man or the red light
appears and mama will feel better about her prediction for you. Anyway keep up the hits and
contuine success. Please contuine to be nice,
funny, classy and keep it real.

why are Kandi and Kim considered housewives they are not married? and Kandi, look at your fiance’s track record you`ll be baby mama #5.

pure ugliness and hatred was all i percieved from this…valid points…but just sooo ugly…smh

i hope u and ur family the best but me myself i could’nt do it a man with 6 kids. i raise both of my brother children’s from 2-16 plus my three and they gave me all the respect in the world when they where little but has they got older the attitude step in now im ready for them to get out of high school and move out.good luck

Wow, that pic dont even look like her!
Wow, why bother with a dude thats got six children from four different women?!

Kandi if you love this man and YOU are able to accept the fact that he have 6 kids then you be with him. Of course the 2 of you were going to have problems once all your business have been publicized. But its up to you 2 not to feed into all the negativity that have incurred. Remember yall did a reality show. Now you have to make the best of the experience and keep it moving. 4 real!!!! Don’t let no one or nothing get in the way of your happiness. If you have an inkling of doubt make him sign a pre-nump. Its harder to fall out of love then in love. And you love this man. If you didnt he wouldnt have been on the show with his kids. If he have flipped for any reason then he’s not being fair. Everyone knows the outcome of being on a reality show. Its common sense to know that there will be some types of issues once the show is over. Be strong and most of all prepared for the response and reaction from all the world. If he cant handle it then he was NEVER ready for the lifestyle he’s about to marry into. Kandi you are a great singer, I have a song on a mixed CD that sound like you. Trade Em’ In. I think thats you and that song is so DAMN hot. Do your thang I support you 100% in any decision you make far as your relationship. Far as your music please we want more. Stop holding back!!! Stay strong Sista you are doing your thang. By the way Riley is so real. She didnt claim the other kids she said they will basically be officially FRIENDS. WOW! 6 yrs old and smart. The good smart at that1 Not the disrepectful smart. Have a great day Kandi and ask all those haters WHY YOU SO OBSESSED WITH ME! and my life, my man, his 6 kids, why he lied and all that. OH OH OH O O O OH!!!!

Black woman don’t have to settle to deal with men in their race. I see everyday black woman over look good men because he’s not fly or some other BS. too many black woman are looking for the player or the thug and what they get is some ignorant boy with a bunch of babies in the street. Because as you know for some men of all races making babies is what makes you a man ( look at Britney baby daddy). The more the merrier. She loves this man with his 6 babies and 4 baby mamma’s that’s her choice. I don’t see why she has to be settling if she loves him.

They haven’t walked down the aisle yet. I think Kandi will make the right choice for her. It’s not like she hasn’t thought about the situation. She seems to have a good head on her shoulders. Its her life, I think she will do what’s best for her. I just hope she gets a pre-nup.

Imo, if he’s the good father like most say he is, it’s impossible for Kandi to come first or even second for that matter. Plus, would you want a man who would put his kids second? In this situation, stating that he’s a dedicated father, the children pretty much come first and whether we want to admit it or not their mothers come second. Depending on what it is, when a mother calls, he may have to put whatever you have planned on hold to tend to a child’s needs. Also, in order to be there for those children, he has to have a decent relationship, plus regular communication with the mothers. Folks can say what they want but being a good parent means being on the same terms with the other parent to raise a well rounded child. And if this is not there, you should look into the situation. No matter how much someone tries to put on a front, there are always tell-tell signs of their true character. Just don’t lead with your emotions and look at the situation objectively. Lastly, a mother who is over the father would want to know who her children will be around, if they have a problem with you being around that’s a strike in my book, especially if you all plan on being married.

I had to look at pic twice… For the Love of Airbrushig. Nice pic & love the blue though.

She needs to fall back and re-evaluate the situation. I think he’s in it for the money. Maybe she’s wanting to settle down. But this will be drama drama drama. Baby mamas will be coming out the woodworks! Kandi, you can find you a man without that baggage. We know you love kids, but stop making that an excuse.

@ This I know…lol so true and @Dave so what you are saying it is okay to lye? I should not judge you about your multiple children but what about the fact you lied. Is lying not wrong too. If you are married and have six kids with the same woman or man is one thing but by 4 different people says a lot about anybodies character. Some things you got to be smart about and avoid at all cost.

Kandi’s fiancee has six kids. Kandi must be crazy. Think of all that drama she will put up with. She couldn’t find a guy without kids?

KANDI I HOPE YOU ARE TAKING EVERYTHING INTO CONSIDERATION. YOUR MOTHER ONLY WANTS YOU WITH WHOM SHE DEFINES AS A “GOOD MAN”. IF YOU DEFINE A GOOD MAN AS THE ONE YOU ARE WITH, THEN DON’T LET ANYTHING KEEP YOU FROM BELIEVING THAT. PERSONALLY, IT DID DISTURB ME TO KNOW THAT HE WAS NOT UP FRONT ABOUT ALL HIS CHILDREN BC HE FELT SOME KIND OF WAY ABOUT BEING TRUTHFUL CONCERNING HOW AND WITH WHOM HE FATHERED CHILDREN WITH. YOU ARE A SMART, GORGEOUS WOMAN INSIDE AND DEFINATLEY OUTSIDE. SOME PEOPLE GET CLOSE TO THOSE WHOM THEY SEEK SOMETHING TO GAIN AND IT’S YOUR RESPONSIBILTY AS A SUCCESSFUL WOMAN TO SEEK FOR CLARITY IN ALL LIFE CHANGING SITUATIONS. I KNOW WHEN YOU DO GET MARRIED IT WILL BE FOREVER AND I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT IN YOUR BEST INTEREST. STAY STRONG SISTER.

I got 2 words for you Kandi PRE-NUP. If you marry this man, you are DUMB!!! You sound desperate to be married and he is not marriage material. You can’t turn a HO into a HUSBAND. (just like you can’t turn a HO into a housewife).

I hope that ring is off for a reason. I like her and don’t want to see her make a mistake like that. Even her daughter is not feeling the situation. Some guys do have game and can pull you in. Now that she is on the show she will really hear people’s opinion and will think twice.

I dated two guys that had more than 5 kids. The first guy was extremely talented and the women would get pregnant on purpose. However, he didn’t help the fact that he liked to go raw. He even tried with me and I told him hell no because I wasn’t on birth control. I have to admit he was good the first person to give me an “O”. The second guy I dated had about 6 kids that he told me about. He revealed that to me with hesitation. He made those kids when he was young. I like him alot because he knew how to get the freak out of me. He also was the first to give it to me anally. So dudes with kids are very good in bed. LOL.

First of all everyone keeps talking about the drama she will put up once she is married….I think personally that if she is experiencing any drama its happening right now, while she is engaged to him….she wouldn’t have to wait until later to deal with the baby mamas….and maybe just maybe she is cool with the other women…she did say that the majority of her finace’s kids were fathered when he was 19 and 20 years of age….she also stated that he has several business ( I know, I know, street pharmaceuticals don’t count) and that he NOT SHE actually purchased her 4 plus carat engagement ring. I think at the age of 32 she is old enough to determine what’s best for her and her daughter and if she is cool with it , then who are we to judge

Kandi be smart and walk away – Riley does not want this and she told you so. Listen you have one child and one chance. don’t f-it up…..or she’ll be like Tiny

SHE BOUGHT THE RING, DUDE HAS NO ENDS, TRUST!!!!!!!

I personally wouldn’t date a man with four baby mamas. But if Kandi doesn’t mind, why should anyone else? She appears happy and that’s all that truly matters.

i had a guy lie to me about his kids…told me he had 2 but had four i left his a#$ real fast.cause that made me question him as a man.he feels its easier to lie and that was scary. One word Kandi…Prenup!!!!!!!

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I SAY KANDI..AS LONG AS YOU ARE HAPPY THAT WHAT COUNTS..PEOPLE LIE ALL THE TIME WHEN A NEW REALTIONSHIP..WHO REALLY SPELLS ALL THERE GUTS ON THE FIRST NIGHT…U DONT KNOW IF YOU REALLY GOING TO BE WITH THAT PERSON…LOVE IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER..AND I SAY WHO GIVES A FU*K WHAT A HATER GOTTA SAY!!!