WHAT A MESS!!

Kandi is finer than a muhf#$*%h!

There is NOTHING cute about this lady! Everything about her is ALL wrong! I just get that feeling. She looks dirty…. ugh she irks my ever loving nerves on the show too! Bye Kandi… go away

Really Really ok ok.

I just think she tries too hard. But I like Kandi for the most part. She don’t hate on anybody, she don’t really have anything negative to say about anyone and I can’t dig that. She doing her own thing and that’s really what it’s all about. Do you and stay in your own lane.

I noted how Nene reacted to Kandi last night at her event, and I think, for whatever reason, she has developed a grudge against Kandi. And if Kandi developed a friendship with Kim, then I think that tension will only intensify. I also think that Nene is the last person to call someone “ghetto” — I’m just being honest. Yes, Kandi is engaged to a man with six kids by four women, but isn’t Nene an ex-stripper? That’s akin to the pot calling the kettle black, IMHO.

Methinks that a lot of this controversy is intentionally being stirred up in order for Nene to sell more books. There’s something different about her this season. There was controversy before, but it feels more manufactured this go-round.

@ Sydney… Hey girl. What is this RHOA all about? Really? I think when all else fails, get a reality show.

Hey Jade Happy Friday!

Real Housewives is a Brave TV reality show series that films women in different cities. The first Housewives show took place in Orange County, CA, and now there are seasons filmed in New York, NJ (new cast and the season ended before Atlanta started), and Atlanta. I believe the Atlanta show is the highest-rated of the series (no surprise there).

There starting a new season soon in D.C. — I was told they’re filming it now, and there are people following those “housewives” via Twitter (a friend told me this recently).

All the housewives have blogs that are updated regularly at bravotv.com.

NeNe is nothing but a hood rat on the come up. Don’t stoop to her level. She is messy and she is just coming after you because you are accomplished in something other than a stripper pole!!!!

Or maybe I’m thinking of the Real World series that’s being filmed in D.C.

If filming hasn’t started already on Real Housewives of DC, I think it’s expected to begin soon. There have been stories about the casting.

@ Sydney… Happy Friday to you too. But, what is the point of the/this show?

Nene is my favorite on the show ..crazy as she may be, she makes the show!

OH HELL NAW! Nobody messes with my girl Nene LOL

On a side note, I can’t believe Project Runway was moved from Bravo to Lifetime. I think the new season started this week as well.

She needs to ditch that AJ bum and get with a real Love machine like me. I aim to please and never leave until my women are satisfied.

@ Donte Love… Daywalker better not find you in here. LMAO!!!

For the most part I like Kandi! I think she is sensible with her money and I like her swag. However, that fiance!!!!!! is a mess…I wouldn’t date him and I’m broke!

@Jade

LOL, there is no “point” to the show, other than it showcases (or professes to) affluent women, most of whom are married, divorced, or single (such as Kim in ATL, Gretchen in Orange County, and Bethenny in NYC). The show has a clearly materialistic bent, and there’s a lot of cattiness (on the NJ season, for example, there’s a scene in which one of the cast members pushes over a table in a restaurant).

It’s a (very) guilty pleasure.

Her mother is not feeling a.j. @ all. She may want to re-think that relationship. Mother’s know sometimes what’s good.

Just when I thought Kandi was the only sane one…she got to say some stuff like this!

Jade, think of it as a microscopic view of conspicuous consumption at its worst — with a lot of backbiting/pettiness thrown in, lol.

I’m very interested about how women in D.C. will be depicted. D.C. definitely has a more wonky/political element. I can’t see any political wives being involved in the series, though. But you never know. . .

I like Kandi, but i think all of this is a big ole mess! Word.

But Kandi, still not feeling the old skool MC Lyte do!

She needs some Love and I can even heal her ghetto southern vocabulary.

I have one question. Why are they called housewives when three of them are not even married? If they had true Love they would put a ring on it.

MrsGlok… Good Morning, I see you up early today. LOL.

Kandi can’t sing…she sounds like when a baby is whining.

@Donte Love…ugh, what a loser. That is the most obvious attempt I have seen of someone fishing for compliments. Go find a plastic surgeon to help you lower that left eyebrow and, while you are at it, Morpheus and Ne-Yo called. Morpheus wants his shades back and Ne-Yo wants his receding hairline back.

Jade
Yes girl… The princess has me wide awake this morning. LoL, she’s been up for a few hours now, something seemed to have been irritating her. I fed her, played with her and now she’s in her swing about to doze off, woo whoo! LoL how’s everything?

Lisa and Ne Ne are my favs.

I can’t stand Kandi…she is just plain ol’ stupid. Who talks married that fast (7-8 months) into a relationship? AJ was on the hunt. He found a donkey….so he gonna ride the hell out that shit. IDBH! She want to be stupid enough to marry a man like AJ, then let the dummy. She is gonna run back to her mom crying very soon.

@Ramrod

Bwhahahahhaaa!

That no good man AJ want to wife Kandi fast and then plant another seed to lock her down. I can’t stand no good triffling men like him giving men like me a bad name.

@ Donte Love, You are so right! Some women get desperate for a man, They will go pick up a homeless man off the street just to have a piece of a man. I think Kandi is desperate. Damn if I heard correct she has only known dude for a few months. Sad

REALLY, this is what you publish. who on EARTH cares about this poor man voice thing. All they do is gossip and talk about themselves. WHO CARES. go out and find Jesus!

Kandi…..YOU CAN’T TURN A HO INTO A HUSBAND. Don’t marry this male…if you do I have 2 words for you PRE-NUP.

@ Mrs Glok… All is well. I’m ducking clients today because I don’t want to deal with queries all day. You should check if she doesn’t have wind. If she has excess gas she’ll definately be irritated. LOL.

Sad part is she doesn’t even look like that…she weighs like 15 lbs. more than the person on that pic.

yeah thats another thing that pissed me off the episode where she was talking to her daughter in her bedroom and she said she didn’t see or wont see ajs kids as her siblings only her friends and kandi had the nerve to be mad and walk away?! how you going to walk away from your child but you kiss up to aj and his kids?! naw, you got it mixed up Kandi,your life is not a show, this is REAL LIFE. and if you don’t start showing your kid some real love, you will regret it!!!! your mother is right, and i’m so glad she not phoney, i’m glad she didn’t want to take pictures with that loser and your fake and phoney love life! aj is a loser and so are you kandi. you want to be with a man so bad that you would sell your own soul and your childs soul? WOW! you’re the loser not NE NE!!!! at least NE NE got it together and she is the leader of this show! GET A LIFE KANDI! you’re not BEYONCE, and never will be BEYONCE! sit down raise your daughter and write some songs that will actually stick around for centuries. by the way, when is the last time you wrote a song? GROW UP KANDI!

I don’t like Kandi’s singing. She sounds to whiney or like she’s singing in a fan. I also thinks she crazy to marry a man with six kids and four baby mama’s to deal with. Kandi honey, take heed from our daughter and mother, they are trying to tell your stupid butt something. Plus you’ve only dated for seven months. Why rush it? Out of all the housewives, Dwight is my favorite, after that NeNe.

Jade
She’s better now, I think she was just craving some attention from mommy
But she did burp quite a few times so maybe she did have a lil gas. My grandma went to Baltimore until next weekend, I called her to see what I should do. LoL, this new mommy thing can be scary.
HaHa, I do that all the time when I’m in my office… I started feeling bad because I wasn’t REALLY doing my job but people can get on your nerves, especially when you’re dealing with pregnancy hormones

@ mary, If she make a mistake by marrying A.J. She is making a mistake. AS FOR HER MOTHER SHE CAN GET ANOTHER DEAD BEAT BROTHER SHE CAN GET ANOTHER DEAD BEATH HUSBAND. BUT SHE ONLY HAS ONE MOTHER. AND SHE SHOULD HONOR HER.

Does anyone else think she look like Fantasia? Even her mouth is the same to me and the both seem to have about the same SAT score.

Good Morning Peeps. Loooooooong time no chat
Kandi looks great-you go girl! I don’t think she’s ‘desperate’: the pickings are slim in Atl for straight black men period–with kids or not. If they can make it work I’m happy for them. As for her and Nene, I think Nene’s jealous of Kandi’s young, cute, newcomer status on the show. Maybe she’s just HATING. After all, if Nene lost 40 lbs wouldn’t she and Kandi look just alike???

Happy B-day Veautiful…. *Muah*

JB whats good?

I like Ne Ne. Sheree is a donkey face witch who is fake as a 3 dollar bill.

Hey Pimpin!! What’s good with you?

Me I am just chilling waiting out for the game

Aw, I’m so lucky to have caught my peeps this morn!
Thanks for the B-Day wishes Pimpin-muah back!
Hey JB, Sydney, all my other party-peeps. Lotsa new faces out hea…

i’m tired of all of them the one with the radioactive looking wig and the 6’5 tranny get over it people

These rooms are so boring, wheres 6am when you need him?

The artist formerly known as Vee (Happy B-day to me, Lady Leo)!

Aw, I’m so lucky to have caught my peeps this morn!
Thanks for the B-Day wishes Pimpin-muah back!
Hey JB, Sydney, all my other party-peeps. Lotsa new faces out hea…

Indeed, I aint gone be here long, I got another hour and a half and I am out, gotta roll out, try to find me some cereal back there!

Donte C. Love

Does anyone else think she look like Fantasia? Even her mouth is the same to me and the both seem to have about the same SAT score.
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THE DIFFERENCE IS KANDI IS A SONGWRITER SO SHE OBVIOUSLY KNOWS HOW TO READ, THERE GOES UR FANTASIA CONNECTION CUZ THE LIP THING WONT STICK- MOST BLACK GIRLS GOT LIPS LIKE FANTASIA

She prety black me would hitt hard an love much

@tb
you are so right, thats why she went to this place because they are known for PHOTOSHOPPING and using AIRBRUSH to make you look smaller than what you are and better than what you are!!! all fake and phoney! just like she is fake and phoney. why would you cut your hair off when it was long only to get a piece of hair weave to make it long?! i mean this makes no sense to me, she should not be on this show PERIOD! then t-box from tlc came on and made an appearance. how come they werent able to be a BEYONCE from that group either? why was no one from that group able to become a lead singer a successful lead singer?! Sit down KANDI AND TBOZ AND raise kids!

LMAO @ Pimpin-I feel ya, I’ll be online for just a few more mins myself. Got some cereal though-that’s about all I have in this recession. LOL, but you’re welcome to a bowl.

you would think as a songwriter, her vocabulary would be larger- guess not. Ne Ne seems like big fun the rest are BORING. Largest word she said was “disagree”

I like Kandi and all but she isn’t the most feminine looking woman either. And she really needs to get off her high horse. I’ve heard some behing the scenes things about her so she’s not innocent as she makes herself out to be.

Wake up people…THIS IS TV! This is all manufactured Bull$hit.

I will say that I hope the engagement between Kandi and her “FIONCE” is manufactured as well. I’m sure she could find someone without all those KIDS…too much DRAMA and a real man would have had the “CONVERSATION” with her mom by now.

Don’t do it girl! Don’t do it…

@one time-I TOTALLY agree! My only gripe is that Kandi speaks ALOT of broken, hood English on that show, SMH…otherwise I like her. She’s too old and should be too mature to speak like that.

@Pimpin-spoon? Why my pretty-chocolate-palm of course. The moral of this story is to have you eating out of the palm of my hand of course (wink)!
Come onnn, humore me-it IS my b-day, lol.

Where the hell is everyone? ManIJDC? Snoop? Glok? Lady A? BG? Have I been gone that long?? Dayumn…

The artist formerly known as Vee (Happy B-day to me, Lady Leo)!

@one time-I TOTALLY agree! My only gripe is that Kandi speaks ALOT of broken, hood English on that show, SMH…otherwise I like her. She’s too old and should be too mature to speak like that.

@Pimpin-spoon? Why my pretty-chocolate-palm of course. The moral of this story is to have you eating out of the palm of my hand of course (wink)!
Come onnn, humore me-it IS my b-day, lol.

Where the hell is everyone? ManIJDC? Snoop? Glok? Lady A? BG? Have I been gone that long?? Dayumn…

Email/phone is where its at, thats why nobody is in here anymore…lol

Damn her real name is Kandrisaria! I thought I heard so hood names before but w-o-w.

Where is Kandi’s engagement ring during the interview…Did A.J.get sent to the left or is it just being cleaned(sarcasm…LOL)

Where’s your engagement ring Kandi?

Mrs Glok…
I also sometimes think I should change my line of work. It used to be so fulfilling. Now I can do it in my sleep. I’m too comfortable and that makes me uncomfortable.
Did I tell you I hired a fulltime helper? She’s starting on the 1st of Sept. No more dishes, cooking and running after a hyperactive 3 year old. LOL. Now I can focus on me and the family without the extra pressures of housework. I can’t do it anymore. I’m lazy and happy to admit it. LOL.
I don’t like being pregnant because I don’t own my body. So the sooner the baby comes the better.
I’m glad you have a good baby. I’ll pray for one. LOL. So have you discussed the posibility of another one with hubby?

LMAO @ y’all’s comments. Bottom line is-this show, like all the other (not so) Real Housewives’ shows is a testament to how petty women can be, especially when they have more than $10. That’s the only good thing IMO-the black women are no worse than the NJ, NY, or CA women. Nene needs to stop hating on Kandi though-typical black women drama. Lawd help us-Good Day All.

I’m out,
To all my peeps that come on after me I say to you all:

SALUTE!!!!!!!!

Thats why Deshawn left she was too classy. No Deshawn was kicked off for being to classy it’s not a secret duh everybody knows

When your diction and your mannerisms are obviously over the top, you appear to present yourself as GHETTO. This is what educated people speak about during social gatherings. She would not last a month in a corporate setting, neither would any of the other housewives. This show perpetrates ignorance at the highest level. The reason I say this is because no one on the show is a real baller, besides that wtf is a baller? Is it a person who fakes having security and stability? Or is it a person who has a few of the trinkets in life i.e. (nice car, nice house, nice clothes and jewelry). The whole premise of the show is to flaunt your wealth and status on others as if to say look at me, I’m doing so much better than you, and this should make you envious of me. What they need to promote in reality is morals and scruples to all of the individuals who lack them and lack character.

Mrs Glok…
I think you’re right about being calm because I’m constantly stressed its no wonder my son is all over the place. But I was also a very hyper toddler so maybe he gets it from me. The new one is in trouble because I’m adopting the ‘Children are meant to be seen and not heard’ attitude. LOL. Shut up unless you need to go see a doctor. LOL.
What do you mean, Share your body? Has sexual conotations. Sorry if I have a dirty mind. It’s Friday. LOL.
No, the helper is 24. Language is the only problem as she’s from another country. But as long as she knows how to use the detergent then we don’t need to talk. LMAO.
A 2 year gap is good. You will be 30 then? My dad is an OB/Gyn and he always said you should finish your family by 30. I also told hubby that he better get rich now if he wants a 3rd one coz once I’m 30, no more ‘Push, push’. I’m shutting down the factory. LOL.

AND WHY ISN’T SHE WEARING HER RING???? She may have had an EPIPHANY! I surely hope so ’cause that Fiance, is out for $$$ honey!

yeap Nene is the fakest one of all she talks about Kim with Lisa—> about Sheree with Kim—> about Kim with Sheree—> instigates fights and goes back to Kim to “straighten things out” She’s fake as hell

Jade
Aww, plus he’s a boy! Boys are intense! LMAO yess!!!!! I love that attitude! LoL, sharing my body with my baby inside of me! Hahahaha, but I know where your mind is at! Baaahaha!! LMAO, is she going to be a live-in or just come everyday for a few hours?
Yes girl, I’d be 30-31 years old, and I said I don’t wanna have kids after 32 sooo I really should start popping them out if I want more than two.
LMAO at shutting down the factory!! Haha, I hear you! I really shouldn’t have waited to start having kids but that was the last thing on my mind until I got preggy

all said an done it’s all fake.

I can’t wait to make Love this evening. Should I call my white, Puerto Rican, Chinese, or light-skinned black girlfriend? Oh such tough decisions I have on this Friday.

am i the only one that can’t stand nene? i couldn’t hear this interview but when talking about last night’s episode, nene should be the LAST person calling someone ghetto. nene said “kandi’s just not like the girls we hang out with…”. yeah, trick. she’s the only one that’s self made. nene doesn’t have any of her own money. she lives off her husband. she’s an ex-stripper and kandi used to be in a very successful r&b group. you can’t compare the two.

if i were nene, i’d hate on kandi too, i’m not gonna lie.

Kim is just as fake she talked about Nene with Sheree and Sheree with NeNe,.. they all fake as far as i can see it~~!

i like kandi from her xscape days, her voice is crazy..

Ne-Ne is WACK and so are all her fans!! Kandi is that CHICK!

NENE is a hater..she was hating so hard on Kandi last night and just wanted to add drama. Kandi’s relationship is kinda messed up, I hope it’s all for t.v nobody is ready to get married that soon. I just feel that she is doing this to prepare for her comeback and needed more publicity. And where does NENE get off talking bout Kandie wasn’t all that. She sounds good that use to be my song “when your out in the club, don’t think I’m not!”

I was digging NE NE til she started hating on Kandi for no apparent reason, is she mad because Kandi can sing or what?

Didn’t we used to turn to soap operas during the daytime to see people behaving this badly?

Hey Pimpin

They are as ready as they are going to get with all the injuries at RB/TB/FB.

Mrs Glok…
Sorry was busy with something but I’m going home, will try catch up with you later.

Hey L

I think she is mad that Kandi is being nice t o Kim and that Kim and Kandi can become close. THat is more jealousy than anything.

@ Rrrrroe ski love
actually 85-95 is the national average

I for one did NOT like how Lisa was acting with Sheree at the King TUt museum. That was rude! She disgusts me sometimes, like Kim didn’t say anything to Lisa and Sheree and they were acting like HIGH SCHOOL kids poking fun at her, they didn’t have anything else intelligent to talk about? Plus both of them are fake because Shitree talked about Lisa not being a “real” fashion desgner and Lisa did the same thing.

I was measured at a 124 IQ in the 11th grade, not sure where I am. I scored a perfect 800 on the mathematics portion of the SAT.

I’m Just me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Call me! I’m home right now. I just got in from the doctor!!!!!

Call me!! I’m coming back up top again in a few weeks!!!

Errrbody else–

Good mernin!

@ Shan……Well damn! Tell us how you really feel! Lol

I’m diggin Kandi. I like her vibe.

I get tired of NeNe and her mouth. She is so loud and abrasive. I’m sure she is fun and the life of the party but after seeing her on the last episode she is just a clown.

Ya’ll got me blogging (talking) to myself???

I…WILL…RUN…THIS…mutha……

Lol!!!!!!

Oh, OK. I see some other comments now.

**falling back**

@ Divadeebr

GIRL, YOU KNOW I GOT TO SPEAK THE TRUTH AROUND HER LOL

Damn, Shan!

I guess you told SOMEBODY off!

LMAO!!!!!!!!

One more thing… I dont like any of the housewives, they all represent how a mother and a woman should not act…

Sleezy, drink all the time, no jobs, sleeping with married men, clothes that are too small for their old age, jealous, hating, insecure, fornicating, being- a “baby mama” instead of a wife, loud, ignorant, and chase behind men with half a dozen kids by half a dozen women

I MEANT TO SAY AROUND HERE LOL YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN THOUGH BUT ANYWAY I KNOW YA’LL TIRED OF ME POSTING LOL<<<<<<<<<<<<BUT HEY I'M JUST SAYING

She better hope this media stuff works because with homeboy AJ and his basketball squad she will need some stacks on deck.

I’m over all these chicks…

none of them seem real, and I have yet to see a bit of class.

Money does not make a lady make…

and you know what…Hate on NeNe, but she’s not the only chick on the cast that’s hood.

Hollaaaa!

HAPPY EARTH-DAY USAIN LIGHTENING BOLT

JAMAICA TO THE BLOODCLAAT WORLDDDDDDD!!!!

mash dem up today shelly belly!!

I happen to like Khandi. She got her own money, career and she takes good care of her daughter. I’m torn with the AJ thing. On one side I agree with her mother and on the other side I want her mother to let her live her life and let her make the mistakes. That’s the only way stubborn people will find things out, the HARD way. But Khandi cool.

DOES ANYBODY KNOW WHAT AJ DOES FOR A LIVING???? AND PLEASE DON’T SAY PAY CHILD SUPPORT BECAUSE WE ALREADY KNOW THAT…

@ 1 TRU DIVA

YEAH GIRL I HAD TO GET MISS THING STRAIGHT TALKING ABOUT KANDI WANT TO BE LIKE BEYONCE AND WHO IN THE HELL IS BEYONCE??????UM WHO??????? YOU FEEL ME GIRL PEOPLE ACT LIKE THEY CAN’T BE THEMSELVES EVERYTIME YOU HEAR ABOUT ANOTHER SINGER ASHANTI, CIARA, KERI HILSON,OR WHOEVER IT MAY BE THEY WANT TO ALWAYS COMAPARE THEM TO BEYONCE LIKE SHE’S GOD OR SOMETHING PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE SOME PEOPLE WORSHIP THE GROUND THAT SKANK WALK ON THEY DON’T EVEN PRAISE GOD HOW THEY PRAISE THAT THIRSTY TRICK

@ L

GIRL KANDI SAYS HE GOT SOME BUSINESSES IN ATLANTA BUT I DON’T KNOW HOW TRUE THAT IS LOL

yuck! kandi, ill!

KANDI IS THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS HER OWN, AND HAS MADE A NAME BY HER NAME, NOT BY HER HUSBAND, OR BOYFRIEND OR BEING A GROUPIE OR TROUBLE MAKER. stop criticizing her and look at the image in the mirror!!!! I know it feels good to release negativity about some1 else, but get a life

KANDI IS THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS HER OWN, AND HAS MADE A NAME BY HER NAME, NOT BY HER HUSBAND, OR BOYFRIEND OR BEING A GROUPIE OR TROUBLE MAKER. stop criticizing her and look at the image in the mirror!!!! I know it feels good to release negativity about some1 else, but get a life and a peace of mind.

@ Shan

About that Beyonce crap, I co-sign!!

NENE IS A BIG OLD B U L L Y, WITH A BIG M O U T H. AND NO C L A SS @ ALL. KANDI, KEEP IT REAL LIKE YOUVE BEEN DOING. HATE ON ME HATER (Jill Scott)

I Like Kandi, needs a good stylist tho cus everytime i see that hair…..mess

KANDI PLEASE GET A NEW HAIR CUT. YOUR HAIR LOOKS LIKE ALFALFA FROM LITTLE RASCALS. AND, TAKE SOME SPEAKING/COMMUNICATION AND ORAL SKILLS CLASSES.. YOU SOUND LIKE TINY AND TOYA.

GOOD INTERVIEW THOUGH..

Kandi is the most sane and down to earth of the bunch. she owns her own modest home and is not pretentious. Nene had a nerve calling someone ghetto. she needs to look in the mirror and see what ghetto is. I liked Nene last year, but it seems like the fame has gown to her head. This year she is phoney, and appears to be very insecure. It is obvious she is jealous of Kandi. They all need to grow up….

instead of ne-ne, she needs to be worried about why her momma so strongly doesn’t like that man. that just bothers me.

Love that 1st pic in the blue. Nice photo shot.

Kandi, if you are reading this… Your mother and mine have a lot in common. Listen to your mother! Yes, you love this guy, yes you are willing to overlook things in the name of love, and yes, you might not want to end up alone, but trust me, if you end up with this man, you will regret it dearly! You will have so much BS to deal with, you’ll end up emotionally and financially drained. Additionally, your daughter will suffer from this union as well, and you have to put her priorities first. With that said, I think you are beautiful both inside and out. I have a wonderful brother, who looks better than AJ, with no baby mama, that I’d like to introduce you to. I think you two will get along great. He’s also very good with kids, I think that he’ll be great to your daughter as well.

I think that if the man treats Khandi with kindness, respect and love, then she should go with her own instincts. Yeah, the six (6) kids can be an issue – especially if you’re going to have that “baby-mama-drama” to deal with – and coming from Atlanta, I can tell you; SHE WILL! But if they can find a way to get around that, than do you, Boo.

Lets say she DOES listen to Mom-Dukes and dumps her fiancee, only to hook up with some lunatic-bastard down the line who beats her on a regular – THEN what would her mother say?

last season nene was my favorite but this season she seems like bravos puppet, like they have her acting like some fake character and she doesnt seem like herself. I am really starting to like kim and kandy even though kandy is a bit boring and I hate that chihuahua acting lisa and that rambo looking sheree, she is such a liar.

@ MM

Oh really? And what about all the Mother’s who warn their Sons about marrying “that kind of Girl.” I say; if the man treats her with respect, kindness, and love towards her AND her child, what’s the big deal?

My mother hates Dark-skinned men, hell – she hates dark-skinned people PERIOD. Do you think that stopped me from dating dark-skinned men? HELL NO!

Her mother will get over it – just like mines had to.

Kandi is ok, but I just hate the way she moves her mouth when she speaks.

I also have to agree with NeNe about her singing…it is not great. She sounds like the average black female who can sing. There is nothing outstanding about her vocals. She should just stick to writing.

The worst thing Kandi could do is try to force her fiance and mother to be friends. My mother tried to do this when she wanted me to get along with her ignorant second husband and the more she tried to get me to like him, the more I hated him. This is something Kandi must let go of, because it will not end well.

Oooo…She is so pretty to be a darkskinned girl….(LOL, just kidding)….I love this pic!!

I LIKE KANDI TOO, SHE SEEM LIKE A REAL DOWN TO EARTH KINDA CHIC. I JUST HEARD THAT HER AND AJ BROKE UP ACCORDING TO ATL RADIO STATION. NOT SURE THE TRUTH BEHIND THAT, BUT IF ITS THE TRUTH, HER MOMS IS GOING TO BE SAYING “TOLD YA SO.” DUDE HAD TOO MUCH GOING ON IN THE FIRST PLACE IF YOU ASK ME. I MEAN IF SHE LIKES IT I LOVE IT! NOT MY LIFE TO LIVE.

If Kandi is reading this:

Kandi don’t listen to folks saying anythign about your relationship. No one is there with you. if you love him and know the kind of relationship you have withthe kids mother and it is nothing that is affecting your child, then do you.

She’s just not very articulate.
I see how NeNe would call her ghetto because she seems young minded and she’s more country

Kandi is so boring. If she really loved her fiance, who btw was being rude on the phone last night, she wouldn’t care what anyone said,including her mother.

i think you all are both great on the show you all just need to be women nd work it all out… its all lil compared to real life…

KANDI BETTER LISTEN TO HER MOTHER, URSHER DIDN’T LISTEN TO MAMMA AND LOOK WHAT HAPPENED TO HIM, HE IS STUCK WITH A TRANSEXUAL EX-WIFE AND NO PRE NUP !!!

the show is not about who has their “OWN” its called “REAL HOUSEWIVES OF ATLANTA”….
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Only 2 out of the 5 are Married so why is the show called “REAL” Houswives of ATL??

@MAN,

I’ll go with “Stuntin on them Hoes” Let me get the producers on the phone I’ll call u in a little bit…

The genius is in!

@L
“I’ll go with “Stuntin on them Hoes” Let me get the producers on the phone I’ll call u in a little bit…”
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Ok, I got some cast members I would like to add as well!

HEY PEOPLE

Heeey 6am!

I have a question for you!

Can I come visit you in Hawaii PLEAAASE?!!?

To this point Kandi seems to be a nice person …..

kandi use to be on xscape what happened to her?

I also think shes beautiful sista with that kinda look that would mesmerize a brotha from across the room……collard green fine…

@6am
LMAOOOOO

@ L,

Of course you can, but i aint payin’ for it, but I will help you get a really cheap hotel right on the beach. any meeting you have with me will be chaperoned by my girl and bring your health insurance card because she knows you always say “I love you 6am” and she aint goin’ for that shit, remember shes real good with knives!

lmao at ne-ne, close your leggs, your eyes, and your mouth…Wigg, go back to your trailer…trashbox..

NeNe is jealous or envyous of Kandi, first of all she’s fine as hell!, Secondly, she takes care of herself financially and professionally, she talented singing and songwriting, and she’s a single mother. I think NeNe, hates on her because she wasn’t that successful of a single mother as Kandi. And from the looks of it (last nights episode) she’s a little put off by how well Kandi, and Kim got along from the jump. She’s afraid Kandi is going to step into Kim’s life where she wants to be, for some odd reason.
Peace ya’ll. I don’t mean to hate, but bump that four baby mama’s drama and marry me!!! I been digging on Kandi since she was 17!

Kim and NE-Ne did some dirt…….in the past. Kim told NeNe she was going to jail, and NeNe said you will be right there with me, smoking Newports, with our wiggs…

@ MM

Oh really? And what about all the Mother’s who warn their Sons about marrying “that kind of Girl.” I say; if the man treats her with respect, kindness, and love towards her AND her child, what’s the big deal?

My mother hates Dark-skinned men, hell – she hates dark-skinned people PERIOD. Do you think that stopped me from dating dark-skinned men? HELL NO!

Her mother will get over it – just like mines had to.

@ enkogkneegro
Whats up Hommie! Hey you seem like a man that likes good R&B & old school music if you have time check out http://www.soulclassics.com or http://www.v1011.com you won’t be disapointed

@ BaLLER

yOU HAVE SPOKEN THE sUPER TRUTH.

6am is an undercover gay man who hates his own race. Your not even cute!

LOL @ that yt clip someone posted above with neicy nash and bonnie hunt imitating nene and kim.

Kandi we love you girl! Keep doing your thing and laugh at the haters.

Kandi seems to have a lot going for her, but she is too concerned with what others think of her. Personally, I could not deal with my man having 6 kids with 4 baby mommas. But, to each his own. She just needs to understand that people can and will have opinions about her life – especially her mother. She should stop trying to force her mom to accept him. The mom will come around (or not) in her own time. Kandi has to make the best decision for herself and her child, and be prepared to live with the consequences.

@6am I dont hate you. I am not from the south I come from a long line of influential black people. I have no children and yes I am female. I just hate your way of thinking. Its low class and ignorant. I’m not broke either. Its so obvious you have low self esteem. People like myself who would be considered beautiful and succesful based on your standards don’t have to go around putting other people down. People do that to try and make themselves feel better.

@ 6am

I am loved dear. Why are you so miserable? People like you come on the internet to try and pump themselves up because its not like that in the real world.

I think Kandi is a beautiful young woman with some sense. She is not ghetto. She’s obviously doing something right.

Every woman on here is not a babymama, uneducated, or at the club every nite. Enough with the stereotypes.

It’s like you can’t have an opinion on here without being called fat or ugly.

@ 6am

You seem limited. All you can say is ‘bama’ this ‘ugly’ that.

6

Will you stop. TOday is supposed to be ask 6am anything day.

So I will ask, can you send me some chocolate nut chocolate candy?

@6am….go back to your trailer…..TRASHBOX!!!

Personally I don’t have time to worry about what others are doing. 6am the traits in the people you speak of are not only in blacks. Comes in all shades hun. Its just a little disturbing the anger you have regarding this issue.

I wish they had left the show the way it was. I do not like kandi on the show and hope this is the last time she will be on the show. She seems to act like she is better then the other women and she is not. I know they are suppose to have drama on the show, but why cant we have african american women on a show that respect each other. There is always some kind of drama. If you look at the other housewives on the o9ther shows there are no african americans so why is kim on the show. I hope kandi gets botted off.

Love the Chaise she is sitting on!

She looks like T Boz in that pic up top… Cool lady.

; )

@ 6am

@ Love Me,

Today is your lucky day, I 6am love everybody not just 3%.

Cool! Good to hear and you have a blessed day!

1 hour 50 more minutes til I clock out and go make Love.

@love me, thats one of my scorpions…

All ya’ll shut the hell up.

she got some dark features, that’s all i’m sayin though….yall know i luv me some dark butt shawties…..BUT SHE BE STEALIN and SH*T!…..n*gga can’t put his wallet down around that m*therf***er!…..

I’m signing off. Good day all!

Mary these essays you are writing are so excited and emotional that it seems like you know Kandi in “real life” and she made you mad. Wow.

@6am…

I don’t really care about your “girlfriend” she doesn’t bother me..LOL…She can be really good with knives but I’m from Philly (nuff said) LOL…

Anywho..LOVE YOU 6AM!!!

OH AND 6AM, ITS OBAMA08BABY@GMAIL.COM… that’s my thow away…

….she dark and she got bad feet…..i’m just sayin though…..you could be dark with bad feet, but you have to be real nice…..and not try to get entry into any of my pool parties…..

6am

me,me,me im next

are most females in hawaii freaks?cause i use to talk to this on hawaiian chick and he was most astonishing freaky.

@ love me… He will sting if you dont knw how to handle him..

@sissy fights…PLEASE STOP BEING SO OBSESSED WITH ME AND STALKING ME….. I cant be-leave I have a blog stalker….

Bwahahahahaa!! That was the first time a sissy has ever posted up on me with some threats.

@Its6amHoGetOut

How old are you brother if you were banging out chicks in Hawaii almost a decade ago? Or maybe yous started early like me. Bwhahahaa

I so agrre with the post made by Sydney.. this season she’s a hater and she’s a instigator too!

@sissy fights.. I’m back from lunch and your still stalking me…

Why do black women always have to allow people to put them in the position to JUDGE each other. If asked the question, they should just say all the women are just that, WOMEN! We all are doing this show together as well as doing different things in out lives. That’s LIFE! That’s what people do. But I guess it’s in the blood to think you’re doing something because you have an interview and ready to quickly answer those type of questions and be judgemental. Your opinion about another woman should not be a conversation. Black Women – WAKE UP!

You don’t see any interviews with other races and them asking about their friends or co-stars… NOPE, because they talk about more important things instead about each other.

38 more minutes

I am going out to dinner with this white girl and then meeting this fine light-skinned boo for drinks after I drop the white girl off. Can’t wait!

6am

you kinda right bro,i do miss her.but i gotta good girl now.

donte

play on playa. oh and dont forget “safety first”.lol

HI MO <3

….your architecture is amazing………….

LOVE HER!

ALL interviews for reality shows such as RHOA with OTHER races talk about their costars.

????

If You Were Air I Would Breathe You!,
YOUR GRAVIE IS CRAZY, BUT HOT

@architect

….i didn’t think you were brave enough, but u already know that you are hot….

ALL THAT SHOULD BE SAID ON THIS BLOG IS KANDI LISTEN TO YOUR MOTHER, DON’T MARRY THAT A J. PUT YOUR DAUTHER FIRST, YOU ONLY GET ONE MOM. AJ WILL BE AROUND YEARS FROM NOW , BROKE AND WITH MORE BABIES.

Apparently, from what is known Kandi and Kim are the only real women on the show. Everything they have or own belongs to them. They don’t have to worry about being evicted, repoed, or foreclosed on.

LADY A

hey sweets! i hope i didnt miss you.

@architect

….let me tone it down for you……

…now will you holler?…….

If You Were Air I Would Breathe You!

@architect

….let me tone it down for you……
LOL THANKS….

…its all good…if that’s really you….. this is really me….and i know we would produce magic……..lol….i just sayin though……

….architect got me shootin game in the broad day light!…….

Produce Magic….Lol

Correct me if Im wrong, but aren’t English and Speech classes a requirement in high school??!!? Instead going to the studio, she should be going back to school to broaden her vocabulary. Just becuase you are a simi celebrity and have a bit of wealth does not mean you should discontinue your education. PEOPLE PLEASE STAY IN SCHOOL!! GO TO COLLEGE EARN A DEGREE. The corporate world will have MORE respect for you as a person of intellect.

@architect

…..I WANT THE WORLD TO KNOW THAT YOU THINK THIS GRAVIE IS HOT!!!!……….

@architect

….OH NO, MY BAD……YOU SAID THIS ONE WAS HOT………….

….ARCHITECT HAS GOT SOME G.A.P……….AND GUESS WHO’S IT IS????…………

now breathe

These Whoes are so childish and illiterate…

Hey Kandi girl..loved your interview and your man A.J. is PHINE!!!!!!! wheeew them bedroom eyes girl had me ready to go girl! He looks like he puts it down don’t listen to momma girl.

I since Kandi came on, I think she is cooliest out of the housewives, I think Sherree is okay, sometimes but I think NENE and Kim are talking about everyoen behind each other back causing controversy.

whats with all te signl= language..she llame..she fake…she dumb…hate her boring ass

FabulousMe

Are you a girl or a man . What ever you are you are surely hating on Kandi. Sounds like someone hating on someone they can’t be or wish they was.

Hating is one of the worse Sins there is
Are you the Ghost of Jealousy?

KANDI…IZ SOOO BEAUTIFUL & I LIKE HOW SHE IZ REAL & NOT SHADY LIKE SOME OF DA OTHA CASTMATES!!!

DIS HOE IS GHETTO SHE TALKS WITH HER HANDS TO MUCH!

Ok I agree with some of the people that said Kandi needs to take some hints on how to do an interview she is worse than Bey…With all that you know what I’m saying crap…Jesus!!
Then I agree with some of the people that said that dude AJ is a bum and is trying to wife her to keep her locked down cause he thinks she has more than he does…I mean first off he’s a kid because for one he is afraid to even talk to her mom then secondly why is Kandi so much better than the other baby mommas that she is the one you pick to marry when the others have your seeds? huh AJ?
I think someone above name BALLER said it best about everyone needing a mother like Kandi (she’s smart)and that she would be a fool to marry this dude with his drama already in the light…I also agree that her daughter Riley will end up being another Bobbi Christina if she has to deal with all the other kids too…You are looking very desperate Khandi…maybe the show should be changed to the real desperate women of atlanta…

Kandi seems like cool peeps!

Nene doesn’t like Kandi because she is being friendly to Kim. For purely immature reasons Nene appears to want Kim to feel as low as everyone made her feel last season.

Kim clearly looks like the better person in all of this.

I don’t know what to say I’ve seen brothas that were asses meet that one woman and become a role model parent and an admirable human being in general. I’ve seen and know some of the women I personally had on the stroll leave the life and raised families and have been happily married for the last 25 yrs or so. My own wifes family was so dead set against us getting married because of my pimpin and hustlin past they refused to come to our wedding. The family treated her like an outcast and her sisters who married the good upstanding blackmen ans her mama said like saints…..they all divorced, cheated or got cheated on and kids in the pen or homeless and my wife and I stayed happy until the end and raised some wonderful children…….so I’ll never say never and never deny anyone the opportunity to change because all it takes is tha right one and anything is possible…….

Let Kandi and dude do what it do……

Kandi got a cross mix of Keri Hilson and Fantasia goin on but whatever it is it comes together well…

Damn Kandi got Sarah Palin-itis. Ask her 1 question and she talk 20 mins. Gurl STFU!

Nene is trying to become another Omarosa. Problem is she doesn’t have the intelligence to pull it off in the way Omarosa does. Getting loud and acting simple isn’t going to get anyone’s attention outside the show, you can see that on any street corner.

Besides Kandi, NONE of these women got what they have on their own talents besides opening their legs to the right man so…whateva

I like Kandi and Kim. Nene not so much…

I actually like Kandi the most. Seems real and down to earth. Sheree i like the least.,,,,

For all the negative aspects of Kandi’s life (her fiancee), she doesn’t strike me as a liar or a mess maker. I’d believe her over Nene anyday. Folks like Nene (myself included) because she’s funny and crazy. But clearly Kandi is more level headed. Its obvious Nene is a singer who missed her chance at fame which is why she hated on Kandi to begin with.

I think everyone need to leave Kandi alone. She can marry anyone she want its not up to you her mother. She love him and thats all that matters and for Mrs. NeNe ghetto a** she like to start mess and i dont trust her for nothing. The show just show women for what they really are messy and back stabbers.Like they say more money more problmes!

Atleast I know who Kandi is, the rest of them are like …who? I like the fact she has a relationship with her mom, I think she should listen to her mommy, save herself some heartache I wished I had listened to mine, she only doing it out of love for you. I dont like him, dont know him but you can do so much better stop settling, listen to your baby Riley listen to the people who love you. NOW!!! Nene is ghet to the toe aint got no bitniz talking bout nobody, where are her records, where is her job? Sherae is twofaced. Kim is crazy as hell but she is what you see she’s not fake, she messy big mouth but not fake. Lisa is into her own thing, she is opportuntist, period.

Kandi’s cool, she reminds me of myself. Just real chill but will snap when people raise their voice or get all in your face. But she needs to work on not saying LIKE every two seconds. I mean like its so like annoying like. why?

I think the reason why Ne Ne said Kandi was ghetto is because of her boyfriend or whatever he is. I think she can do a lot better. I’m sorry but he makes her look bad.

You are soooooooo telling the truth, Marquis!

I believe it’s Kandi posting (incognito) and trying to defend herself. The same way she’s trying to go out of her way to make her mom and daughter accept AJ.

sooo in da past..not feeln her dis day in tyme.

Say gbye 2 her..sooo in da past..not feeln her dis day in tyme.

the first episode i saw with her i was like why? why would they add her to the line up because hearing her talk is annoying. she does talk through her teeth. somebody should have got her some speech therapy. and she is VERY SIMPLE. thats why her mom feels like she has to protect her and TELL her what to do. it’s like this broad cant think for herself. i hope she gets replaced if there’s a next season. she’s a dimwit lol

and Kandi IS ghetto

where is her ring???

………….haters……..eat one for Khandi

…..and damn why are people all in her mouth ????

Look, all of this drama is about trying to get the ratings to stay on air as long as possible. I don’t think that ANY of these ladies really have anything against each other. They are actresses doing their thing.

LMOA….TRASHBOX…NENE CRACKS ME UP!!!

i like Kandi, i even like the cut. what i dont like is the color. it reminds me of the color salt and pepa used to wear back in the day

I’m lmao @ the opening of the show with The Westin Hotel all in the background with the windows blown out!!!

Filming starts in September for RealHousewives of DC. my friend is one of the techs and I know for a fact they are filming in DC all during September and October. One of the real housewives activities is some big horse thing by the White House. Can’t wait — I am trying to find out more.

Do tell if you have any inside info!!!

i like kandi she seems like the realist on the show to me.seems like the other women are acting out for the cameras.NENE is louder then ever and lisa is always instigating and then sit back like she doesnt do anything.she was the one that went back n told kim about the song nene made up about her last season and i think she’s the one thats starting the rumors between the cast.NENE has changed alot and its makin me not like her as much anymore,how u gone call another black women ghetto after seein how u behave on television??your money doesnt make you any different from the chickenheads runnin round the hood you still have that same hood mentality sweetheart!

lmmffaaaooo kandi is so funny

kandi looks bommbbb in that picture! GO GIrll!!!!!

Ya, know it’s so sad to see beautiful African American women act so hood and un-lady like, it really saddens me! I pray they work it out and be a great example for all women everywhere!

PEACE

OMG, Kandi, is not the one, Open your mouth when you talk, get a new hairdresser, drop that zero, listen to Mama, and Riley; and for chicks like you and Monica, you had your day, and you obviously weren’t strong enough to sustain the success..move on!You are now mothers, so raise those kids! The spotlight is dimmed, there are new chicks in town, and there will always be room for new ones..Let that be a lesson to young people, always have a back-up plan, keep writing because there is no room for your look, style and especially that (“Nasal-In front of the Fan voice!”) That is why you were a former member of a Group! Whitney will be about the only one to come back..and she better come right. Photoshop is a helluva drug!

Kandi’s cool, I like that she seems sincere and doesn’t bad mouth her other cast mates for ratings, keep it up girl

I like Kandi’s spirit and I don’t understand why NeNe would refer to her as being ghetto. It seems as though she conducts herself in a respectable manner.Only ghettoness about her is that man of hers(that last episode he was doing some serious texting) and all his “baby mamas”…babymama=ghetto.Hey but if she like it, I love it. People shouldn’t come down on her so hard,if she’s happy just let her be. As long as that man and his baggage isn’t weighing her down,everyone should be happy for her, and wish her luck as she will truely need. I don’t want to judge her nor her situation so leave it as good luck, stay happy, and as long as GOD is in your man and your relationship it must be good(I guess that’s an understatement,b/c they wouldn’t be living together if GOD was truely in their relationship)….anyhow it seems as though she’s a very positive person with great energy and NeNe has her wrong(maybe NeNe is jealous or intimidated)…Leave ol AJ alone that man love her and she love him….

Team Kandi!

And I hear that nene is calling herself a socialite well ole girl is crazy because she is not an upperclass socialite she is a middle class ghetto queen. I wish they would bring deshawn snow back or perhaps some black women whom are more glamorous than these clowns.

Shaking my head you are right on about sheree and her friend we all know what’s really going down between them.

People are always going to raise their voice out of being serious if you can’t take them serious. If you don’t like it, you’re going to make it worst on yourself if you don’t take that person serious. She should deal with it. I’m a big enough to do it.