Diddy The Commitment Phobe

Posted on April 2nd, 2008 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Diddy, Kim Porter, News

Posted by Bossip Staff

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Puffy is clueless when it comes to marriage:

“I don’t know how marriage works. If you’re raised by a married couple, you see how they interact; their good days, their bad days, how they work through things – you see the love. I wasn’t brought up like that and I still don’t know to do it. I never saw (my parents’) relationship up-close, so every time I’ve been in a relationship I haven’t known what to do and that’s really scared me.”

Not like this is a surprise or anything, but Kim Porter needs to just throw in the towel right now. Apparently this cat is never gonna get married, he’s too busy swimming in actresses and side deals.

Via WENN

  • beautiful b

    ouffy dont wanna ring!!

  • da darkness

    down with the king!

  • slimting

    This is “his story” and he is sticking to it! LOL

  • beautiful b

    **ooh check them typos!! puffy ass is not gonna get married and if he does trust it will be the most airtight preunp that EVER was signed. he aint giving up a dime :)

  • Cage

    So what? Let him live his life single, he a half a fag anyways… Free Shyne-Po.

  • da darkness

    Yo sun swaggery is like A+ I feel home. like if i was in MIA for memorial weekend me and my wifey would be on shaky grounds. jeez… but for the kids(no kids here)sake i’d keep it on the lo.

  • Al-Anon

    What’s ironic about this is that instead of “trying” to establish and maintain a relationship, he is going to “breed a new generation of children” that don’t know how to have a sucessful relationship either!!!

  • AmericanICON

    I blame my parent for being a W.H.O.R.E ..so Diddy i completly understand…he just needs a better therapist is all…

  • Southern Belle 225

    @Cage…okay! But Imma need for him to stop spreading his seed everywhere! If he keeps it up, he’s gonna be working just to keep up with child support.

    This should not surprise anyone considering his track record with women. But this should be a clue to all his current and future skanks. This dude isn’t about to wife you and if he does, he isn’t going to know what to do so he wont treat you right!

  • Tom3636

    It’s a nice couple. Congrats to them. But I remembered I’ve seen her profile at the celebrity singles site wealthychats com a few days ago. She should get rid of her dating profile since she is ready for marriage.

  • victory is mine

    that’s sad because what is it teaching his kids especially his daughters….that it’s okay for you to be somones sperm receptacle but not a wife…

  • http://yahoo.com intuitivepisces

    Puffy needs to man up. I wish he would have thought about “being scared” when he started making babies. Why blame his doggish ways on not seeing his parents interact as a married couple should. Puffy, your a grown a$$ man…even if you had no examples at home, you’re smart enough to figure it out or pay someone to show you how it’s done. Negro, please.

  • http://yahoo.com intuitivepisces

    Correction

    **…you’re a grown…

  • pm

    If I had that much money I would be single for ever too..goldiggin has become a profession nowadays

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    Ahhh, stop with the violins Puff, head to your nearest Borders and pick up a couple of books in the relationships section.

  • http://yahoo.com intuitivepisces

    “that’s sad because what is it teaching his kids especially his daughters….that it’s okay for you to be somones sperm receptacle but not a wife…”

    @ Victory

    so true.

  • Milio

    @intuitivepisces & victory is mine

    You are dead on. Sad isn’t it.

  • statim08

    Excuses, excuses. Plenty of people grew up in divorced or single head of household homes and they make marriage work. And he got all that money to get therapy too.

  • ShavonDensie

    I mean, Im glad he’s honest. Some people get married just because they are supposed to. Lookit would you rather for him to marry her and cheat on her, or when he knows he cant be monogamous?

  • Al-Anon

    @statim08

    Plenty of people grew up in divorced or single head of household homes and they make marriage work. And he got all that money to get therapy too.

    ______________________________________________

    Some do, but I notice an overwhelming number of people tend to follow in their parent’s footsteps. One of my co-workers was in the bathroom crying because her 14 year old daughter was pregnant and she was lamenting “how could she do this to us” and “she knows how hard we have struggled” and “we finally got a place to live and etc. Her daughter got pregnant at 14 and gave birth at 15 years old, just like she did.

    When she asked her daughter why? Her daughter said that her mother made it, so she figured she would too.

  • Kompton’s Kutie

    Im still trying to figure out why Kim sticks around, she’s already getting the money for the kids and we know that won’t stop. So, why put your self in a situation where a man clearly will not marry you and will act as though he loves all other females he dates, but you’re on the sideline looking silly?

  • Detroiter4Life

    @statim08

    My sentiments exactly! Sounds like nothing but a bunch of excuses……..all that BS it’s plenty of people out there who grew up in single parent homes to include myself and go on to have healty long lasting marriages! If you want to just to the single thang than do it! Don’t make excuses for it, it’s his life choice we all have them and I also agree with those that stated he needs to stop having all these babies with ole girl if that’s the case but can I ask the question “Doesn’t Kim get to say no to having the childern?” “Why does she continually stick her ass (literally) out there like that?” “Is she truly that blind and stupid?” Okay that was more like 3 questions but she really makes me itch as much as he does! ;p Poor poor kids! ;p

  • Al-Anon

    Diddy really thinks that being a “playa” is being a man!!

  • Sydney

    While Diddy does make a valid point about the influence of growing up with married parents on one’s views of marriage, I believe he’s using this as a convenient crutch. And, as Negrodamus pointed out, you would think that seeing his own single mother struggle should have given Diddy a greater respect for women (although I think his mom has her own set of self-idenity issues, which she passed on to her son).

    All in all, Diddy has been expressing the same viewpoint for years and has proven to be relationship kryptonite, yet women inexplicably still flock to him. So who’s really to blame? Anyone who lies down with this man does so at her own emotional peril. He’s consistent in his pattern of selfishness and abandonment.

  • Detroiter4Life

    @ Al-anon

    There comes a time in your life when you life choices are your own Not your parents. Yes some parents are the most influential people in their kids lives (or at least should be) but when you are damn near 40 plus using yo parents as an excuse as to why you ain’t married is BS the 14 year old is another story because of age and mentality. So that’s more like apple and oranges.

  • http://myspace.com/afiya00 Afiya

    If he hasn’t married her yet…I doubt if he will anytime soon…I guess he’ll marry her when he’s old and grey and no one else is impressed with him other than Kim.

    I really feel sorry for her for spending so much of her life being Puffy’s lapdog.

    He’s really taking advantage of her weakness for the bling-life.

  • Dont be mad

    He didn’t see his parents f*ck either but he got that right Diddy stop it with the excuses and STFU! Last week he was crying about not having his family in a magazine so what now People Magasine is supposed to offer him great big bucks for the next batch cuz he offered up an explaination. keep it to yourself and do what you do no explaination necessary! It is your life we just dont want to see it in a family oriented magazine.

  • jusplayit04 The Great

    Spoken like a true Womanizer…Go Diddy

  • http://yahoo.com intuitivepisces

    @ ShavonDenise

    No. What I’d rather see him do is get a clue and stop procreating if he’s afraid of settling down with one woman.

    Men who cry that sob story are full of BS. If you wanna live your life as a single dude and get all the women you can, don’t start having children. And we as women need to stop allowing this nonsense.

  • Dont be mad

    That was magazine^^^

  • NotoriousOne

    @ Al-Anon…

    “instead of “trying” to establish and maintain a relationship, he is going to “breed a new generation of children” that don’t know how to have a sucessful relationship either!!!”

    GREAT POINT…but in this case he’s just thinking of himself. He’s not thinking of the impression he’s instillin’ in his kids. SMMFH!

  • Sydney

    *self-identity issues*

  • NotoriousOne

    @ Don’t be mad…

    “He didn’t see his parents f*ck either but he got that right”

    I’ma hafta go against your screenname and be mad at you for that one!! LMBFAO!!

  • Applegirl25

    blah blah blah…puff’s a lame!!!

  • Applegirl25

    Kim should be running in the other direction!!!

  • I’m Just Me

    I AGREE WITH NEGRODAMUS!!!

    WHATEVER!! I’D PREFER HE NOT MARR AND SUBJECT A WIFE TO HIS HOMOSEXUAL WAYS!! HE IS BETTER DOING IT THE WAY HE IS DOING IT I GUESS!

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    @ Don’t be mad…

    “He didn’t see his parents f*ck either but he got that right”

    _____

    Oh my…I almost spat my peaches n cream oatmeal all over my computer…:-)

  • Al-Anon

    I think that Diddy’s main problem is that he doesn’t want to grow up!!!

  • Lisa

    Wow. What an idiot. What is so bad is that he probably believes that BS.

  • Just my opinion dont put it out there and i couldnt give it

    I have seen people immulate their parents it is a spirit he should go to God with this to break that generational curse so his children and his children’s children wont have to turn to the media to explain what is going on and why they messed up. i am sure the last thing he would ever want is for his girl children to have kids by different men and then tell the world their daddy did it. God can do all things including taking away a lustful spirit, he can fix this if you let him some things money cannot do bet if he went to him with a sincere heart next thing you know he may not marry Kim but he would settle down and change for somebody and we wouldnt hear anymore drama about him. i would like to see him do it with kim though she been through alot with him and who knows she may be a praying woman now and prayers do change things and people. It may have taken all this for them to get to where they are going but this is a private matter he really should stop the whining and carrying on in the media it is not helping or making him look any better. i hope his Momma is hearing her sons cries and is praying for God to change her son. we may not see it yet but if they seek God he will heal he is the God who is able.

    I dont apologize for that this morning I had to give him the Glory and he will take it even if its on a blog. It’s all good

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    Hey is this Lisa, my fellow Bison?

  • http://yahoo.com intuitivepisces

    @ Just my opinion

    In taking this issue to God, one thing you mentioned was key; you must have a sincere heart.

    Puffy ain’t there yet. He’s not being real with himself and until he admits what’s really going on inside himself, he’s not taking this issue to the altar.

  • http://www.myspace.com/birdshu Bird

    Now yall know what Diddy said was true. He might be using it as an excuse BUT there is a reason 76% of black children are born to single parents. It’s a vicious cycle. I have even heard men say they want a woman who was raised in a two-parent home as their wife when they themselves were raised in a single parent household.

  • http://www.raiders.com BROTHER M-DADDY OAKLANDS FINEST (ALL SHADES OF BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL)

    Good morning all

  • Pussnboots

    Frankly I’m tired of hearing bout Miss Diddy and her Down low was so I’m gone stop reading anything yall post about her. Until yall put up some pictures of him getting his Salad tossed by Bentley or some of those other boys he plays house with thats when I’ll tune in until then keep the games.. The world knows that Puff is a queer hell Kim Porter even knows (do u really thinks she cares?) Hell naw she don’t care she’s getting paid and thats what you suppose to do.. Hell Will Smith and Jada are doing yall need to wake up and report the real news.

    “YES WE CAN”

  • Cage

    @ Southern Belle: Good mornin to you too lol… This cat gets no respect i cant help

  • ms meca

    he gets no respect… some things you follow yo parents by and some you dont….if you cant be a man and settle down den stop makin al des babies.. and ladies stop laying down havin the babies you just as dumb as he is…money aint nothin compared to self respect .. just another sorry a** man

  • Lauren

    Mornin all! Hey Big brother! Notorious one :) Ms. Southern Belle….JSABP…..Hiya! :)

  • NotoriousOne

    @ Brother M…what’s good Oak?

    @ Lauren…what’s hot Philly (besides you)?

    @ Cage…fam, what’s the situation?

    “This cat gets no respect” <– CO-SIGN!!

  • soulwoman

    Diddy’s excuse is such a cop-out.

  • Anonymous

    That is such a f*&^ing weak excuse. Who does he think he’s talking to ….Kim? A women who KNOWS she deserves better would be like Negro Please!!! Puffy just come out and admit you don’t want to marry Kim or anybody else right now.

    If growing up in a single parent housewhole or being raised in a dysfunctional housewhole is an excuse not to get married than nobody would be married (myself and my husband included).

    As adults we can make our own choices.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    Morning M-Daddy, Lauren, Notorious, Southern, Afiya (BTW, I like your gravatar), and the rest of the sane posters…:-)

    Oh Lauren, since you’re in Philly, I meant to ask you, are you guys being bombarded w/Obama ads on television? I was watching CNN and they were saying that Hillary’s money is drying up a bit and Obama was spending a lot on ads in PA.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    Ummm, Cage, is that smoke I see drifting from your lips? LOL, for some reason that just jumped out at me…:-)

  • Detroiter4Life

    @ Just my

    You on another level……this fool is no where near seeking God for anything………that is unless he’s in trouble with the system. ;p

  • NotoriousOne

    @ Cage…all’s well in the NYC!

    @ Just Sit…how are things down your way?

    It’s sad that we have to address the ‘normal’ regulars and sane posters…LOL

  • Craig

    What get’s me is that PD is a black man that is seemingly adored by the white media. Someone propped up as successful and talented for our kids to emulate. As a black father of a 3 y.o. old son, PD is the last black man I need my boy to emulate. He’s got daughters for ‘chrissake’ who need their father. Sons who need to see their dad as something other than a clown and womanizer. He’s a disgrace and a marginal talent at best. Can’t wait for his time to be over. He shoulda left with Biggie.

  • http://myspace.com/afiya00 Afiya

    Morning & thanks JSaBP :)

    I had a feeling Lauren was from Philly when I seen her use ‘jawn’ :)

    Lauren, Holla at my fam in Philly for me…I’m from West Philly…Overbrook High (the greatest :) )

  • RENEE

    In the words of Mary. J..Kim needs to”Runaway Love”! Diddy is so PATHETIC!!!

  • NotoriousOne

    @ Craig…

    “He shoulda left with Biggie.”

    Any hopes he would have had at being seen as a legit producer DEFINITELY disappeared when BIGGIE got shot. And I still blame that fugger for putting BIGGIE in that position.

    And you’re right, as the father of a 2 year old son I definitely wouldn’t expose my son to any of his foolishness. Then again I’m a strong believer that the role model position begins at home.

  • Donald R. King, posting as Bones Jordan

    @ Cage and all other real people on board…… Sean John ain’t married cuz he’s a secret fag with E. Murphy, and Mr. Bentley. Arsenio stays in Sean’s east wing of his crib, like Johnny stay with Ed. Ha ha, gay black men in power and as role models. No wonder all my brothas is fags.

    What up doe, Just Sit, if it’s you….

  • Cage

    @ Don King: Preach my dude…

    @ Just Sit: Yes that is smoke, but NO i do not smoke cigarettes… Never liked those….

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    @Notorious…”It’s sad that we have to address the ‘normal’ regulars and sane posters…LOL”

    Isn’t it though?!?!?! Things in DC are cool, even though the weather is a bit cool, I know it’s about to soon warm up nicely. Yesterday, we were in the 70s. Work’s been a bit slow and I bored,some days it’s a mad house and other days…*yawn*. I’m counting down to Puerto Rico on the 19th!! :-) How’re things in NYC?

    @Bones, hey, how are ya? Yes, it’s me. :-)

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    LOL, @Cage, then I guess it’s really safe to assume that that smoke isn’t from a Newport. :-)

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    oops, meant “I’m bored”…

  • DR.FUNK

    BTW…allow me to clarify.DIDDY’s explanation is BOGUS.Not wanting to be married is’nt.

  • Al-Anon

    As many people are aware, many people’s moral compasses are broke. Unfortunately, many of them are famous and rich. Many people mistake the “choice of a good life” as meaning a life of money, fame and success. Going out with your friends, drinking partying, jet-setting, sleeping with lots of people is fun, but it is easy to do.

    But a “good life is a struggle, a contest, a race to be won and it not automatic, easy and always involves sacrifice and strife. You must have character and faith. Getting up every day and deciding to the “right” thing is a sign of maturity and the beginning of wisdom.

  • Grace

    This is the 1st time I actually agreed with Diddy. COMMENTMENT IS A LEARNED BEHAVIOR. The reason marriage rates are so low among blacks is because 70% of us are born into single parent households. Our sons are not being taught to be fathers and leaders. Our daughters are not being taught how to be wives. Instead they sing along with mentally unstable abused women like Fantasia when she says being a baby mama is a badge of honor.

  • http://www.raiders.com BROTHER M-DADDY OAKLANDS FINEST (ALL SHADES OF BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL)

    @ Lauren, Just Sit and Be Pretty, Cage, NotoriousOne, Donald R. King, posting as Bones Jordan

    Good morning family

  • Anton Slizzardhands

    A man that busy don’t need to get murried

    Ya DiG!

  • Donald R. King, posting as Bones Jordan

    @ Cage, thanks dog. Imo stand up for real bruhs even if it’s on a gossip blog.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    Hey M-Daddy, how are ya?

  • YES.WE.CAN.2008!!!

    Not like this is a surprise or anything, but Kim Porter needs to just throw in the towel right now. Apparently this cat is never gonna get married, he’s too busy swimming in actresses and side deals.

    *****************************************************

    You forgot that Diddy is gay as hell.

  • Donald R. King, posting as Bones Jordan

    @ M-Daddy, what’s up big time? I try not to hate on Diddy too harsh cuz it’s common knowledge that he’s a y’know(Fred Sanford hand gesture for gays… lol) but he effects a lot of young boys and I don’t want them thinking HIS BEHAVIOR and or lifestyle is cool.

    By lifestyle I mean the Mr. Bentley thing and not the driving Bentleys part. LOL.

  • Donald R. King, posting as Bones Jordan

    @ Everybody, take a good hard look at Sean in that pic and tell me… in ALL HONESTY that that man, is not a homosexual. Real talk and I ain’t tryna be funny or mean.

  • lovely and amazing

    @ Don’t be mad

    Ok, brilliant. I fell off my chair.

  • Lili

    DR.FUNK

    BTW…allow me to clarify.DIDDY’s explanation is BOGUS.Not wanting to be married is’nt.

    ^^Exactly. Many ppl choose not to get married, and that’s fine, but you can’t blame your inability to maintain a relationship on the fact that you didn’t see your parents maintain a marriage.

    Grace, you’re right- commitment IS a learned behavior, but Puff is a womanizer- cheating on a significant other (Kim) and having a child out of wedlock w/some woman in Ga. Kim’s a fool for waiting around for him, but he’s just a dog.

    Not coming from a household w/2 parents doesn’t excuse one from acting responsibly or trying to make a relationship work. Sure, it’s definitely HARDER when you don’t grow up with that example, but if you really do love someone and are mature, you don’t give up- you find a way to work through the bad times. You don’t run after someone new if you’re ready to build something with another person. Puff doesn’t want to commit– that’s the truth of the matter.

  • http://www.raiders.com BROTHER M-DADDY OAKLANDS FINEST (ALL SHADES OF BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL)

    @ Just Sit and Be Pretty

    I’m good just a little tired but I will live

  • lovely and amazing

    Diddy’s full of crap and he’s just repeating something he heard on Dr. Phil to justify his crap. Nice example for your kids Diddy, real nice example.

    Somebody tell this fool he’s 40 and after all the sex and games he’s had it’s time to get married to demonstrate some manhood, responsibility, character, and decency for his children.

    He missed the boat for the young romantic passionate marriage. He wasted those years. Now it’s it’s time for Diddy to man up and be a man, plain and simple.

    Obama 2008!

    Show our lost brothers the way!

  • Give me a break

    sounds like a lame excuse.

    If you want it to work, you will work at working it out. simple as that.

    I dont buy that at all. my parents were never married but look at me! my hubby and I have been going strong for 15 years!

  • http://www.raiders.com BROTHER M-DADDY OAKLANDS FINEST (ALL SHADES OF BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL)

    @Donald R. King, posting as Bones Jordan

    @ M-Daddy, what’s up big time? I try not to hate on Diddy too harsh cuz it’s common knowledge that he’s a y’know(Fred Sanford hand gesture for gays… lol) but he effects a lot of young boys and I don’t want them thinking HIS BEHAVIOR and or lifestyle is cool.

    By lifestyle I mean the Mr. Bentley thing and not the driving Bentleys part. LOL.

    _____________________________________________________

    Yeah he does look suspect. All glossy and thangs LOL

  • Donald R. King, posting as Bones Jordan

    @M Daddy, extra glossy my dude. How you think ol’ girl with the ff cups(Bootz) look now that she’s got bigger tits(which is hard to believe cuz she was STACKED on FOL 2)?

  • http://www.raiders.com BROTHER M-DADDY OAKLANDS FINEST (ALL SHADES OF BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL)

    @Donald R. King, posting as Bones Jordan

    Dude I really think thats all her. I think they got bigger because of all the pounds she picked up

  • Richard

    At the heart of things Puffy WANTED children.

    He WANTED to be successful.

    He does not WANT to be married. Everything is NOT for everyone.

  • Richard

    @ Lili

    We all know we do what we see not what we are told. Anyone who has kids will tell you …..they emulate you.

    If his Daddy was a “free spirit” THAT MAY BE WHY HE IS.

    i have a friend that uses the same towel all week. My mother washsed our laundry every day.

    i was horrified to discover that some people actually re-use bath linen the next day. It’s what U r used to.

  • Richard

    I don’t think he is a homo but the only guys who really know for sure are probably spending an innordinate amount of time on their knees.

  • elle

    Hey I always say, “when a man speaks listen”.

    He’s letting her and anyone else know that marriage isn’t for him, so be it.

    Now it’s up to Kim or anyone else to decide how to deal with him.

    Hey he’ll have some babies though…

  • DIAMONDCHEERS

    play on playa

  • empty life

    Diddy is speaking truthfully about how he feels. he cannot settle down which is sad to me, especially being as old as he is, and Kim is stupid! But i guess she has to make the money somehow. Dumb women!

  • mirena

    now he’s to old to act like he doesn’t know how the hell marriage works lmao

  • What Eva

    He only came out with this excuse (statement) because they chewed his *ss up on another (rhymes with snitch – Blog) over crying like a white woman because people magazine wouldnt pay to see his over weight twins but they paid JL, NR, AJ, CA, etc and then the public could care less what page he was on. if he wants to be a playa, be a playa how he conducts his personal life totally up to him but no one’s interested in seeing him on the front cover of a mostly family oriented magazine flapping his rubber gums about how he’s not ready to get married and all the other BS he says. WTH do we want to see him and 10 kids acting like they are what America wants to be? Personally give me someone to inspire me Holly & Peete, WIll & Jada, Denzel & Pauletta, Oprah & Gail but not his tuti fruiti *ss.

  • Lili

    @ Richard

    So Richard, if a father beat and raped his kids’ mother, does that mean his sons will inflict the same harm on the women they date or eventually marry?

    If you were able to understand that your father was hurting your mother, you would hopefully realize that his behavior was wrong and that it’s never ok to hurt someone else- especially a woman.

    If you grow up in a household with parents who struggle to make money because they didn’t complete college, does that mean you will decide to drop out of college or never attend, although you know how difficult life will be w/out a college education?

    NO. If you have the determination and the will, you will work hard to give yourself a better life.

    Richard, Puff did not say that he is a FREE SPIRIT because that was his example when growing up. Puff said he doesn’t know what to do in relationships, i.e. how to handle things when times get bad. Thus, trying to excuse the way he flits from woman to woman.

    No one cares that Diddy likes to sleep with various women; he’s a cad- sobeit. Those women are fools if they don’t know what they’re getting into.

    I completely understand what you are saying, because yes, we do mimic our parents as we age, but when you become an adult you make decisions for yourself. Puff is a GROWN ASS MAN. If he were decent he wouldn’t be running around fathering kids with different women.

    And Richard, if Puff is so aware of the effect his upbringing has had on his relationships, he would want to STOP THE CYCLE as someone commented earlier. Again, if he doesn’t want to maintain a relationship or get married that is fine- but fathering various kids with various women only perpetuates the cycle.

    If he can say that his upbringing has prevented him from being able to maintain a stable relationship, what kind of example is he setting for his sons and daughters?

  • pm

    @ Mr ruff dog.. you are so correct on that

  • http://www.myspace.com/mistikay GreenEyedDiva

    Excuses, excuses, excuses….

    Many men grow up without fathers and end up being responsible men who treat their women right… and take care of their kids. And there are men raised WITH their fathers that grow up to be bums… its all about what you take out of it and what you learn.

    Im tired of lazy brothas blamin everybody but themselves for their misgivings… grow up Diddy… grow the hell up.

    Whats up everybody!!

  • Keepin’ It Real (D’Original)

    @Anyone Who Knows

    Hey, if you are paying child support and your ex gets married you don’t have to pay child support anymore – is that correct?

    *Note – I know this is a Black Celebrity Gossip Blog, my question stems from that…

  • stoopit

    Just sit and be Pretty-

    Is that you in the pic? If so, girl your a little doll baby!

  • Al-Anon

    My mother had four children with four different fathers and she has never understood that this was “untoward” behavior. She never had a clue that this was somehow “wrong.” Honestly, she has no clue that this was not OK.

    Illegitimacy is now so commonplace, it is accepted as being the standard and normal.

  • Too much

    12:33 those men didnt get married to their childrens mother and chances are slim for Matthew MC and his baby momma to be but you dont see them crying about where they are in a magazine too much scandal follows Puffy and that’s only cool in the hoods. These tabloid papers know exactly who and what sells and Puffy and his offsprings by various is not gonna do it. Puffy on People, JLo on OK- think we’ll go with JLO not that she that much to read about but given the choice we (black people) may leave them both there but YT they will be going with JLO and when it comes to selling stories YT wins, they may go to his parties and drink up all his liquor but damn if they will be looking up to him.

  • Al-Anon

    Hey, if you are paying child support and your ex gets married you don’t have to pay child support anymore – is that correct?

    ____________________________________

    If your ex-wife gets remarried, you must still pay child support for your chidren until they reach majority. However, you may ask for a modification of the amount that you pay.

  • http://www.myspace.com/ocky_j Octavia

    Not surprising, but sad. A 40+ bachelor still trying to be a player…. :(

  • mr.ruffdog

    @stoopid. So I am undeducated because I speak the truth. Hell Brad and Angelina aint exactly married are they. She is preggo again right. What about that white girl Reese Witherspoon and all her baby daddies. While I disagree with Puffy making all those kids outside of a marriage. He was not the first and will not be the last entertainer to do this.

  • LOL

    Al-Anon I agree with you 100%

    Puffy needs therapy bad! His kids are going to be f-uped as adults…I don’t mean to think bad about them, but I can really see it!

  • Keepin’ It Real (D’Original)

    @Al-non

    Oh Ok… Thanks for the info…

    *And no, I don’t have any children and that question wasn’t coming from a personal situation – it had to deal with Diddy…

    Cause I remember the NY Court System awarded Diddy’s 1st Baby Mom (Misa Hylton) the highest amount of Child Support ever awarded in NY and she got married aftwerwards (now Hylton-Brim) and so I was wondering if her marriage affected the amount he was paying – just out of curiousity because I remember how mad he was – talking about it wasn’t fair…

  • Trusted Source

    I LIKE DIDDY. I LIKE KIM. AND I THINK THE BABIES ARE LITTLE BUNDLES OF JOY. BUT WHY DOES KIM LOOK LIKE A HAGGERED PROM QUEEN IN THIS PIC? NO HATER JUST CURIOUS.

  • fierce chili

    @ Al-Anon @ 8:30am

    Amen! Truth for sure!

  • Keepin’ It Real (D’Original)

    @LOL

    The children seem just fine to me…

    I worked at Bad Boy and ran into all of them from time to time (Quincy, Justin & Christian) and to be honest with you I was surprised by how well-behaved & well mannered they were and they’ve always come across as normal & good kids considering…

    I know, I know I wasn’t with them all of the time but I’m just throwing out this small observation from personal experience…

    BTW, I’m not defending his actions but at the same time these women know the deal and they obviously don’t care and I’m saying this from partying with them and seeing it with my own eyes on numerous occasions… They STILL flock in droves…

  • http://braibrai@yahoo.com ms braided beauty

    Good morning m daddy .. whats up boo! also good moring to you Cage and to Just sit and be pretty and like she said to the rest of the sane folks… i was going to ask cage about the smoke also but i fiqured it was what it was.. nice picture anyhow!!!!

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    LOL, @ Keepin’…umm, wasn’t one of his youngsters photographed getting a lap dance sometime last year? Okay, I know, boys will be boys, but if he’s engaging in that behavior at such a young age, I guess it stands to reason…like father…like son. *but I hope not* :-)

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    Hey ms braided…it’s afternoon here on the east coast. ;-)

  • http://braibrai@yahoo.com ms braided beauty

    @ Happy Wednesday to you Just sit and be pretty.. love the way yiou respond…. you seem very level-headed.. its 11:30 her in Sun city (Arizona).. its about to get real hot maybe 85 degrees.. Its cool here but i really miss my hometown Chicago.. but will be going back soon.. cant wait to hit the stepper sets.. you know chi-town steps in the name of love like R Kelly says… my boy is in such deep trouble!!!!!

  • K-ten

    he’s always said he was never gonna get married.

  • Sydney

    @ Keepin’ It Real

    Hello, how are you today? I wanted to apologize for last night — I saw that someone name-jacked me after I left and posted a vulgar message.

    @ JSABP

    Hello, how are you today?

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    @stoopit…thanks,and yes, that’s me.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    Hey Sydney, doing well thanks. Yeah, I saw you got name jacked…sorry, it was probably because you were being civil to me…you got caught in the cross hairs, as did Kevin. Silly isn’t it?

  • Sydney

    @ JSABP

    Yes, it is silly and very annoying! I was very peeved. :(

  • JAD

    Well learn!!!!!!!!

  • Sydney

    @ JSABP

    By the way, I love Revelations, too! It’s so moving.

  • Reformed GammaRay

    You never know until you try puff, You seem to think everything else is worth investing your time and efforts into, how bout trying a commit to the one ya love. Work on that venture!

  • Keepin’ It Real (D’Original)

    @JSABP

    Is that REALLY you?

    Your imposter got me REAL good last night…

    I thought that I was actually talking to you… That comment about the “bear skin rug” should of tipped me off… But it sounded like you because that’s you – you talk about stuff going on in your life and to some people it MAY come across as bragging or being boastful… So when she came into the conversation talking about “Ya’ll are soo funny I almost spilled my wine on my bear skin rug” I should of known…

    Damn, and then I started asking you about Florida thinking that I’m talking to you and the broad responded with a decent answer and not one of them “off the wall” comments that she normally makes when she plays you like the time when she was playing you and was flirting with Not. One talking ‘bout: “I took my val-trex today don’t you want to give me a kiss, the her-pes bumps aren’t showing”…

  • Richard

    If nothing else Diddy is honest. he is consistent in his desire NOT to ever get married.

    Why would anyone be suprised that he would say something like this?

  • Tealeaf

    Why does Kim look like a crack addict in that pic, P.Diddy…grow up you got a house load of kids.

  • Earth Sign

    Its sad his kids may grow up having the same mentality

  • cat4everrr

    so much has transpired that at this point so long as he takes care of them kids i can live with it.

  • Keepin’ It Real (D’Original)

    @JSABP

    You know what’s funny about that pic., is that once I got it I sent it straight up there and was like yo, you gotta tell Justin to be more careful… (*Not to Diddy directly but to one of his assistants)

    Diddy can’t control that, just like you said “boys will be boys”… I mean when I was little (*and a lot dudes on here can confirm this) me and my friends used to look at the Playboy Magazines that were under my neighbor’s big brother’s mattress…

    What can you do? We used to get in trouble when my neighbor’s older Sister came in the room but…

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    @Sydney, welcome to my world. Yesterday the imposter(s) were out of control. I think it had been going on for three weeks straight… Yes, I absolutely love Alvin Ailey. I think my next bit of “culture” might be to head up to NYC to see Cat on A Hot Tin Roof, just heard from a co-worker that it’s awesome and I love the movie…

    @Keepin, yes it’s really me. BTW, what do I mention that could come off as bragging? I think that for people who have a low self-esteem or absolutely nothing going on in their lives, then that becomes “their” issue…not mine. For example, I love to travel and one day, Notorious and I were talking about it because he, too has travelled quite a bit. Could a simple conversation be perceived as “bragging” because maybe someone reads our comments and they feel badly because they’ve never even left their hometown or state? C’mon, that’s ridiculous.

    LOL, last night was probably one of my more “articulate” imposters. Yes, except for “chardonnay” being misspelled, they almost sounded like me. :-) BTW, you seem to have excellent recall, you can quote my imposter word for word…;-)

  • ms meca

    @ the real jsabp

    glad to see the real you

  • ms meca

    @ the real jsabp

    you such an intelligent person and the imposter is just dumb as h*ll> da stuuff they say dont even sound like yu but yesterday they almost sounded lik you

  • Donald R. King, posting as Bones Jordan

    @ Just Sit, ma’am I know I’ve never complimented you but you are a very beautiful woman by your gravie.

    Not tryna do a Paige type flirt thing(lol, I can’t believe I met that hoe) just a compliment. LOL @ fat, never mind. I ain’t even goin’ there.

  • Sydney

    @ JSABP

    Yes, I want to see Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, too — I’ve heard it’s good, but there’s a lot of profanity.

    I would also like to see S. Epatha Merkerson in Come Back, Little Sheba.

  • Al-Anon

    I wish my pastor would talk more about this and less about Obama

    Fathers’ Absence

    85% of all children that exhibit behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes.

    90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes.

    71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes.

    75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes.

    63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes.

    80% of rapists motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless homes.

    70% of juveniles in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes.

    85% of all youths sitting in prisons grew up in a fatherless home.

    71% of teenage pregnancies are to children of single parents. Daughters of single parents are 2.1 times more likely to have children during their teenage years than are daughters from intact families. Daughters of single parents are 53% more likely to marry as teenagers, 164% more likely to have a premarital birth, and 92% more likely to dissolve their own marriages.

    A study found that 60% of perpetrators of child abuse were women with sole custody. Shared parenting can significantly reduce the stress associated with sole custody, and reduce the isolation of children in abusive situations by allowing both parents’ to monitor the children’s health and welfare and to protect them.

    We are not talking about the rich and famous who choose single parenthood; we are talking about the rest of us. We exact a terrible toll on our society and culture.

  • http://www.raiders.com BROTHER M-DADDY OAKLANDS FINEST (ALL SHADES OF BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL)

    @ ms braided beauty

    Hey ma whats going on?

  • Keepin’ It Real (D’Original)

    And another thing… Everybody knows Diddy’s track record and what he’s about but they STILL mess with him… With that being the case it’s on them = the people that deal with him…

    For example, Do you know that even though Danity Kane went Platinum with there first album and they still didn’t make any money off of it — Yep, they were on Hot97 talking about it… I blame them because Diddy has a long and well known history of giving out ni@@a deal record contracts (*ni@@a deals are those deals that shady business people give to young, inexperienced and/or unsophisticated people who are eager to do business, ya’ll know what I mean…) and them broads still signed that deal with him before having a good lawyer go over it…

    And the same thing with the women messing with him now… Damn, homeboy got… Hold on let me count…. Damn, the ni@@a got a lot of kids from a lot of different baby mommas… Umm… 1, 2, 3… The ni@@a got 5 kids from 3 different baby mommas and when I’ve been at the club with him the chickenheads still be flocking…

    Point is if you know what somebody is about and you still decide to mess with them that’s on you…

  • elle

    @ Al-Anon

    I believe in these stats 100%.

    Fathers are more important then I think a lot of men realize.

  • elle

    for that matter women realize as well.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    ROLMAO@ Bones…you are too funny!! Why thank you..:-) No, you didn’t even go way back there…let it go Bones…let it go….:-)

    @Sydney, is that on Broadway too, or Off-Broadway. I love her acting on Law and Order. Didn’t know about this play.

    @Al-Anon, those statistics are sooooooo depressing. I have a friend who’s working with the National Fatherhood Initiative that just launched a Legacy campaign and it’s a challenging fathers to consider “What’s Your Legacy”?”

    A tagline from their print advertisement reads “Children who grow up with married parents generally do better in school, work, and life. That’s a fact. Committing to being a full-time dad and husband builds a family that will protect your legacy for generations”

  • I cant say…

    I think a lot of people who havent had the opportunity to see a marriage work have a hard time knowing what to do or how to act in a relationship… I know plenty of men from a single- parent home with this fear, women are adaptive and have a naturistic yearning for that kind of structure so even without it, there is an innate need for some of us to have it….

  • http://braibrai@yahoo.com ms braided beauty

    @ m daddy …thanks for remebering me… not much boo! just enjoying my morning!

  • Keepin’ It Real (D’Original)

    @JSABP

    No, what you talk about doesn’t bother me or whatever, I was just throwing out that idea as to why they or that person doesn’t like you…

    Girl, I don’t why – you gotta ask her…

    But for them to be acting like you at night is something else… The more I think about it, the more I’m blown by the thought of carrying on as somebody else so much so that they would have conversations with others…

    But hold on, you got more than one person posing as you? S#it, that’s too much for me…

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    @my psychopathic, rabid, day-time stalker. Reading comprehension is fundamental!! Obviously I knew it was NOT you last night. As I mentioned, last night imposter exhibited articulation and cohesive speech of which you are incapable!! In other words dummy, she spoke too well to be you!! :-)

    You’re so angry and bitter. I wish you’d get over the fact that I called you a dummy now over a month ago. Why did you let it get under your skin in such an impactful way? Were you called stupid as a kid? I’m serious. I know that this is the internet, but if my comment psychologically scarred you…then I do apologize because you’ve almost lost your mind over me.

  • http://braibrai@yahoo.com ms braided beauty

    thats remembering me…excuse the typo!!!!!!

  • Sydney

    @ JSABP

    I just checked on Come Back, Little Sheba, and it ended last month (sorry about that). It was at the Biltmore Theater on 47th. I’m sorry I missed it — I like Ms. Merkerson’s acting a lot; she was great in Lackawanna Blues.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    For anyone in the Chicago area I will be appearing at Bare Assets on April 4-6 nightly at 9,11, and 1:30am! Call (312)661-1894. Hope to see you there. My stage name is Bajana

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    @ Sydney

    Gurl email me.. my imposters are back. I’m about to head to a meeting.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    What up Cujo aka Lai!!! You been quiet today!

  • http://braibrai@yahoo.com ms braided beauty

    I am from chi-town and is that Bare Assets on the south , west or north side…. is it near The Wild Hare on Clark, or the Lime Rickeys…. most hang at the East of the Ryan.. Dan Ryan that is??????

  • Keepin’ It Real (D’Original)

    @Sydney

    Hi, I know that wasn’t you… No need for apologizes…

  • http://jamaljamar@twins.com jamal the man

    MS BRAIDED BEAUTY, WHEN WILL YOU BE BACK IN CHICAGO AGAIN, AND IF I COME THERE WILL YOU TEACH ME TO STEP OR WILL I HAVE TO LEARN ON MY OWN?

  • Sydney

    @ Keepin’ It Real

    OK, thanks :) I think I’m going to have to go back into lurker mode. The impostors are back.

  • http://braibrai@yahoo.com ms braided beauty

    @ Jamal the man…. I will going back in a couple of months.. after i take care of some business here…i am going back if i have to walk… just kidding.. too many planes for that… i will definetly teach you b/c you cant be in chi and not no how to step..they have a bunch of O G regulars that are over 35 that give steppin lessons at the East of the Ryan club.. but the Wid HARE mostly has Reggae music except the last week-end of the month!

  • Sydney

    @ Keepin’ It Real

    Before I leave, I wanted to share some information about the August Wilson performances at the Kennedy Center. They end this weekend, I believe. You can also join the Kennedy Center e-mail list for notices about upcoming events — there are also free performances there every night during the weekend.

    August Wilson’s 20th Century runs from March 4 to April 6 at the John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts, Washington; (800) 444-1324, kennedy-center.org.

  • Sydney

    *during the week* (sorry for the typo)

  • k2kboss

    why is puffy even thinking about marriage if i was him i would be bangn the finest beezzzyyss ever all day. besides the point has anybody heard about puff f”*** with Wiz Khalifa?

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    Let me know when u wanna meet up!

  • thatsbull00

    oh please. Its not that hard to conduct a relationship in a manner where both parties come to an agreement to stand by their vows. Sorta like those business contracts he makes all the time.

    If you are an adult to should know how to stick to your word

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    Okay, I had a colleague come into my office…let me scroll up and see what Cujo has been up to…

  • Detroiter4Life

    @ the real JSABP

    You can’t be serious to meet with the fake JSABP?!?! Let it go boo you did yo thang and took the high road and apologizing. (in my best Sohpia voice “don’t do it miss celie it ain’t worf it….”)

    @ fake JSABP

    You can’t be serious about asking the real JSABP to a school yard battle!?!? That’s ridiculous! Nothing we post on this site is that serious! You said what you had to say and she didn’t like it so she responded now just take it like you told her to take it. An opinion is just that an opinion.

    This site is off the chain straight drama within the drama. ;o) I know ya’ll all alot more sophisticated than that…….at least I pray!

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    Wow, I see I missed quite a bit. LOL, umm that 2:32 tag team again I see. To the imposter who wants to meet me to kick my ass…ROFLMAO, really is it that deep?!?! Have you been that wounded by me? Why resort to violence…you gutter rats kill me!! LMAO

    See how deeply affected you are…I didn’t even remember the context of me calling you dumb, but YOU did. Hmmm, now which of us really needs to get a real life? Say what you will, you are dumbness personified. LMAO, I know you struggled to respond without cussing, you’re trying to show your smarter self, but no one’s impressed. You STILL need to make that appointment at Bellevue STAT!! Tell whomever will listen how you let some random stranger emotionally and mentally move you beyond your control. I AM your crack!! *shrugging*

    @Lai…I’m trying. :-) But if I called her a dummy because she was making derogatory remarks about West Indians, then she is a idiotic, assclown and that apology is 100% rescinded!!

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    @Detroit, exactly, like what am I supposed to do, fly up to NY or hop on the next Amtrak, meet her on 125th to fight?!?! ROFLMAO…and this isn’t the first time she’s made this proposal. SMH

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    I swear, my sides hurt from laughing. I just noticed the post where “I” supposedly accepted the invitation to meet to fight. Hilarious…whew, my eyes are tearing

  • Detroiter4Life

    BTW…….it’s always interesting to me to read the comments of others even when I strongly disagree I still like for people to articulate how they feel. I even like reading the men comment about a lot of these topics. I’m always tickle by their views. Respect is two fold not just one and this site is a gossip site so anything you post is going to be an opinion off of something that may or may not be true, and in knowing that is it really worth being mean and spiteful because you don’t like someone’s comment?!?

    Can we please keep the fun, light-hearted, weird, crazy, off the wall and down right stupid comments going without someone getting their feelings hurt where I’m from they say “If you can’t stand the heat than get out the kitchen!” ;o)

  • http://yahoo.com intuitivepisces

    @ JSABP

    I’ve been coming to this site for a few weeks now and often wondered about the “Sybil” behavior. Now that I’ve read the comments today it’s beginning to make sense. Wow, an internet stalker/imposter? What a nightmare!

  • Detroiter4Life

    LMAO!!! Okay Okay real JSABP I’m picking up my soap box and moving on…….LOL!!LOL!!! ;o) Lord today!!

  • Detroiter4Life

    @ intuitivepisces

    Me too I wondered but didn’t to much read into it until today……..it’s a bit disturbing to say the least.

  • http://yahoo.com intuitivepisces

    @ Detroiter4Life

    Disturbing indeed! I have to just agree with the sentiment that says it best…”It’s NOT that serious”. LOL

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    @intuitive, and there ya have it. However it’s more like internet “stalkers/imposters” plural…and they know who they are…as do I.

    @Detroit, again, I agree, because they’re so folks who are just not able to handle blogs. People will disagree w/opinions all day long, and not all the dissenters will be nice and polite. But really, why go crazy about it? At the end of the day, what does it really matter? Why be incited to commit acts of violence? SMH

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    But really, why go crazy about it? At the end of the day, what does it really matter? Why be incited to commit acts of violence? SMH

    —————————————————————-

    You’re the one who keep making this an issue!! Everything I post u have something to say about. You and your disciple CUJO AKA LAI.

    But really lol, when did I say I wanted to fight you?!! where do u get off? This site is your life and god I can’t stand people like you.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    I thought u said once u lived in the NYC.

    You really wanna convince the masses you’ve cause some young girl to go damn near sucidal b/c of your nasty insults. NEGRO PLEASE!!!!

    If u’re ever in the NYC… lets do coffee! Let me know.. This isn’t an invite for violence. I just wanna meet u. that’s all lol

    You’re amazing tho.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    Oh Luving the Wire, don’t leave just yet…we might be getting somewhere. Don’t try to soften it now, you already stated that you wanted me to meet you somewhere to presumably kick my butt, shank me or whatever you gutter rats do. When your type reaches a point of frustration and you can no longer articulate, you resort to violence. I’m shaking in my cyber boots. *shrugging*

    See, right there, I’m LMAO as I type this ish because I know it’s going to mess with the part of you that admitted that you “hate bougie people”.

    If you’re truly out, then have a good evening and don’t give this old bajan bat so much power over you. BTW, you should post your old pic up…yeah I know I said your dreds were “dreadful” and that you probably smelled like old musty incense, but really, the pic wasn’t that bad. You didn’t have to steal mine because you think I’m cuter!! You look alright…

  • http://yahoo.com intuitivepisces

    @ real JSABP and the “other JSABP”

    Ok, this is what I do…play peacemaker, lol!

    Can’t we all agree that this site is designed as a forum to voice opinions? With that being said, we may or may not agree with the opinions that are posted; however, you both admit that respect is a key factor.

    Let’s respect each other’s differences and the put the past in the past. I hope you two can come to an agreement on that.

  • Rotex

    I think it is because people depend on sex too much, i dont know. They have all the fun before they get married, and when they get married, its no more interesting or what ever. And sex is very important in a marraige.

    Also, im not sure about a couple living together before they are married, because that is more or less living a married life and living like your married.

    In conclusion, i think

    the society today has made marraige look boring when it aint, and there are examples of maried people in the industry that have not shown good example of being married, maybe apart from Will and Jada.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    @ Detroitforlife

    You can’t be serious about asking the real JSABP to a school yard battle!?!? That’s ridiculous! Nothing we post on this site is that serious! You said what you had to say and she didn’t like it so she responded now just take it like you told her to take it. An opinion is just that an opinion.

    ————————————————————-

    Lol when did i say I wanted a school yard fight? where are u all getting this?

    Anyway thx for the comment. I understand where you’re coming from though.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    @imposter 3:53/3:55 thanks for the invite. Maybe one day we can chat and discuss who and who not to let others’ calling you a dummy pierce your soul.

    Now, now, that 3:57 comment to Lai was so not necessary. We all know she’s gorgeous from all the pics we’ve seen of her. She probably switched her pic ‘just because’. Maybe you should learn from both of us that no matter how much folks say you’re ugly or clown your pic, be strong enough to not fall for the okey doke and keep your ish up. Remember, your objective from all of this was to get me to try to change my pic and/or screen name and I meant it when I told you NEVER!!

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    At intutive, LOL, I appreciate your post. Wow, seeing my pic a gazillion times was a bit disconcerting!! :-)

    @Rotex, I also appreciate your post, thanks for breaking up the monotony. :-)

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    @imposter 3:53/3:55 thanks for the invite. Maybe one day we can chat and discuss who and who not to let others’ calling you a dummy pierce your soul.

    Now, now, that 3:57 comment to Lai was so not necessary. We all know she’s gorgeous from all the pics we’ve seen of her. She probably switched her pic ‘just because’. Maybe you should learn from both of us that no matter how much folks say you’re ugly or clown your pic, be strong enough to not fall for the okey doke and keep your ish up. Remember, your objective from all of this was to get me to try to change my pic and/or screen name and I meant it when I told you NEVER!!

    —————————————————————-

    Yeah you’re right. She looks better than you.

  • http://yahoo.com intuitivepisces

    oh well, my humble attempt was futile. i won’t quit my day job, lol.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    @intutive, like I’ve stated all along. She’s conflicted and psychotic. Deep down, I think she really wants to be my friend, but deeply bothered by my initial opinion of her.

    Wire, I’m now bored with you. You can make all the assumptions you want about my real life, but trust me when I tell you…I’m a happy camper and have NO complaints.

    On a final note, okay, so you’re not a looker per se, you’ll never win any beauty contests, but you really didn’t have to steal MY pic. Dumb girl, do you know how many times, I’ve been called ugly, nappy headed, etc. Do you see me changing my pic? Hell no, because folks can think what they like. I like what I see when I look in the mirror, and that’s all that matters. Seriously, you really need some self-confidence and self-esteem.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    LMAO @intuitive…well you tried, but yeah, keep that day job. :-)

  • Lauren

    @ Rotex, hiya! :)

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    LOL @ Lauren, girl, how did you even find Rotex between all of my and my imposter’s posts? :-)

  • Rotex

    @ Lauren

    How u doin pretty lady? Gotta go now though, because i have to go see my niece in the hospital. L8r.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    LOL @intuitive…have a good one.

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  • Detroiter4Life

    @ initutiv…..LMAO!! :o ) You tried Boo…..can’t win’em all!!

    Ya’ll got my head hurtin over here tryna keep up…….;o) It’s like watching Flava of Love you know it’s a bunch of BS but for some reason you still give it at least 10 minutes of your time.

    @ real and “not” real JSABP be good and ya’ll play nice…..and can I just ask only cause it’s killing me not to What are you two gon do if you do meet if you didn’t mean to fight?! ;p Now I ain’t sherlock but it don’t take a highly intelligent person to figure that out. Come on now…….cause if she did say all that sh*t to yo face you’d go off…..I mean you trippin on the net why wouldn’t you in her face?!?

    Okay I am on the floor about “bajan bat” LMBAO!!! ya’ll are funny not sure if you all mean to be.

  • Jessica-Keeping it real

    First off- I know plenty of people who did not grow up with two parents or a father figure and they are happily married or in a committed relationship. Second- Diddy must think we’re a bunch of idiots to buy that nonsense. Third- He needs to just fess up and admit that he just doesn’t want to get married. He doesn’t want to be with just one woman. Last- He disrespects Kim because she disrespects herself- she allows that to go on and they’ve been together for what? 11-12 years? And she had no qualms being the other woman when he was with Misa and JLO so now that the shoes on the other foot we should feel sorry for her? I don’t think so. I can’t relate to hoes.

  • ewwwwww

    What ever if Brad and Angie and babby mammas and daddies then Diddy and kim aren’t either, their kids are not suffering! So if the white ppl can escape the babby mama and daddy title, the black folks can too!

  • Marquis de Sade

    @ Lovely and Amazing

    I find it ironic that you would place a greater value on Brad and Angelina’s parenting and long term fiscal health, considering that Sean Combs is wealthier than both of them combined. I guess you’re not so black after all.

  • diddy a freak

    40+ YEAR OLD PLAYA! PATHETIC.

    KIM IS PATHETIC TOO PUTTING UP WITH HIS DUMB ASS.

  • I Keep it Moist

    I would suck the tip off his dick for a piece of his paper and just a small piece too ya dig

  • lovely and amazing

    First, Sean Combs is not wealthier than Angelina and Brad Pitt combined.

    Sean Comb also doesn’t have all his children with one woman and they all don’t live under one roof.

    These are not the same situations.

    Zahara, a black child, has her mom and dad everday. Sean Combs black children cannot say the same thing and honestly, he’s too wealthy to have let everything work out this way.

    Rich married people can have separate bedrooms, nannies to help with the children, and whether they are in love or not anymore they at least sit down to meals together. Diddy don’t even do that.

    Marc Anthony has three kids before JLo. When he and Jlo got together they married and created another stable/welcoming/loving relationship and home for his kids. Then they added to their family with their own childern. Diddy has never done this for ANY of his children.

    Diddy SLEEPS AROUND with many women, settles down with none, and does not provide a two-parent home for ANY of his children.

    Sad you insult my blackness because I was raised NOT to be a stereotype and statistic, and my husband and I are raising our children the same way.

    Obama 2008!

    Yes We Can!

    Yes We Must!

  • lovely and amazing

    Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt SHOULD have been married, in my opinion. But at least, they are committed to eachother and live under one roof as a family.

  • lovely and amazing

    Diddy is not committed to nor living with not one of children’s mothers. NOT ONE. You think his children aren’t suffering? Maybe not for money. But none of them wake up to two parents each day. NONE.

    And you know Diddy is wrong when Brad and Angie have a moral one up on him.

    Dads who have full custody and raise their children do not have to pay child support. I don’t recall any of his baby mamas ever being in a position to challenge him for full custody. But you can’t chase tail and raise kids.

  • itsmefool

    Not married (CHECK)!

    Had kid w/another women at same time (check)!

    Has kids w/mutiple women and has not married any of them (CHECK)!

    lIVES SEPARATELY FROM MOTHER AND KIDS (CHECK)!

    THIS ITCH IS A FINE EXAMPLE OF WHY A LOT OF OUR MEN HAVE MISSED THE MARK… YOU NEED TO RESPECT FAMILY !!!!

    75% OF BLK HOUSEHOLDS ARE WITHOUT A MALE FIGURE, 75% PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • and another one..

    Diddy is clearly thinking about his salad tossing session with Fiddy mmmm bet that crack tasting gooooooooood!!! Ay Diddy how u and your stank breath dolphin teeth doin????

  • Rotex

    I think it is because people depend on sex too much, i dont know. They have all the fun before they get married, and when they get married, its no more interesting or what ever. And sex is very important in a marraige. So…

    Also, im not sure about a couple living together before they are married, because that is more or less living a married life and living like your married.

    In conclusion, i think

    the society today has made marraige look boring when it aint, and there are examples of maried people in the industry that have not shown good example of being married, maybe apart from Will and Jada.

  • blackwoman

    it does make sense. thats what hurt black people they own mothers and fathers ether they lived with they mother she was single dad no where to be found or they just not together or they live with they grandma and granddad. my father and mother been married for 24 years I’m 22 years old i see whats its like two people making and showed me how true love can work and being a team being one you share things thats why its was not hard for me to find a good black man because the way i been raised with a loving home with to black people in love and how i come out to be such a good black young woman and made something out of my self and i was thought to have class respect my self and the way i carry my self is what brings me a real black man like the one is with me and he wants to get married and have kids and treat me so good and loves me and respectful me and glad that I’m waiting until we married. buts its like i guess his hurting from his father not being there for his mother i don’t know how that mess up somebody like that but he really needs to sit down though all he do is go from woman to woman.

  • Anonymous

    My guess is that you didn’t see your parents having intercourse either but you figured out how to make babies though right???

    Marriage is the OPPOSITE of what you doing now…You date ONE person for a period of time and then if you have strong feelings for the person, PROPOSE, get engaged (for a small period of time, not the 7 years that K Porter allowed), get married, THEN have children; not date, have children and then pay child support. WHAT A DWEEB; HAVE SOME CLASS AZZHOLE!!!

  • Fiddy

    NONE Of THE SISTAS BE TYRING TO HOLLA< HE” GETS LIL GIRLS LIKE CASSIE AND USHER!!!lol

  • luckie

    @ Victory…you’re absolutely right!

  • Macho-in-paris-france

    GOOD STATEMENT. BUT I UNDERSTAND SISTAS HERE DONT AGREE COZ THEY ARE DESPERATE AND ARE WAITING THE MEN TO BE SUCCESSFULL.

    WHY IS DIDDY’S STATEMENT DISGUSHING, BUT NOT HALLE’S OR OPRAH’S OR JANET’S ? THEY TOLD THE SAME THING JUST WITH DIFFERENT WORDS.

  • JOke

    This picture is classic!

    MONEY CANNOT BUY CLASS PEOPLE!

  • Macho-in-paris-france

    @JOke “MONEY CANNOT BUY CLASS PEOPLE!”

    YOU SOUND DELUSIONAL AND DESPERATE. YOU THINK GET MARRIED IS BUYING CLASS.

  • JOke

    @Macho-in-paris-france

    Ummm…did i say anything about marriage? Uh…no i didn’t! I am strictly going off their behavior. Neither of them has one ounce of class. pretty obvious dont’cha think?

  • Anywhoo

    Look at her eyes. She looks demonic. That is what happens when a woman turns over her life to the dark side of things, and PDiddy is definitely from the dark side. She offered up her soul and didn’t get paid what it was worth. She’s been into the ish for a long time, remember, her son with Al b. sure is about 17

  • lovely and amazing

    @ Great Topic

    Bring the wisdom. Bring it!

  • http://bananaboyblack.blogspot.com BBBrad

    Damn, puff really spoke the truth on this one.. I usually could care less about what he says, but know exactly what he’s talking about on this one!

  • http://RA9 REGGIE HERMAN

    HEY DONT BE MAD AT KIM SHE DID HER PART..SHE GONNA BET LIVING LOVELY UNTIL FOREVER..DONT BE MAD AT DIDDY CAUSE HE CAN SLEEP WITH ANY GIRL OR GUY FOR THAT MATTER, HE WANTS..HE IS LIVING THE AMERICAN DREAM…HE CAN DO AS HE PLEASES AND YEAH SO THEY DO GET MARRIED, AND FOR OBVIOUS REASONS IT DONT WORK,,HELL ,GUESS WHAT, I DONT THINK NO P…Y IS WORTH PAYING 250MILLION FOR NOT EVEN BEYONCE..LOL… AND YES IT IS SATISFYING TO HAVE A FAMILY,,BUT BEING ABLE TO HAVE A DIFFERENT GIRL EVERY WEEK OR DAY OF THE YEAR IS VERY SATISFYING

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