Friday, April 4th, 2008
Bugsy’s Baby’s Mom Says She Isn’t a Gold digger
Posted by Bossip Staff
Here is what 50 Cent’s baby’s mom Shaniqua Tompkins’ lawyer had to say in response to getting the boot from the crib:
“She didn’t go to school and she nursed him back to health when he got shot nine times. She’s been with him since day one, and she’s not some gold digger.”
Yeah right, how would she explain wanting to double 25K worth of child support? If she’s not a gold digger, she’s just greedy ass broad. SMH.
In case you’re interested Click Here to watch a video of 50 and Shaniqua leaving court. Her greedy ass must find a new house by the end of the school year and has to pay Bugsy 9 stacks.
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1st…haha…third time is definitely a charm!
She’s not greedy…….she’s got standards and a lifestyle to uphold!!
@ al anon.. i agree
i think she deserves it for puttin up with his ashy ass
Why shouldn’t she ask for more? She was there before he was, “Fiddy”…….
….and besides….the MORE you make, the MORE you take…just like “Uncle Sam”
With all the being said why is things shaky with them, why did he have to reduce her payments and further more…why didn’t he marry her? I’m mean since she was so special in his life.
She isn’t a gold digger? Only God believe her. Just a few weeks ago, her profile is found at the celeb and mill dating club seekwealthy.com. She is hooking a wealthy gentleman there. How can you tell us she is’t a gold digger?
“she didn’t go to school”
you’d think with the $25,000/month she had coming in, she could have afforded a babysitter for a few hours a day and found the time…
She ain’t messing with no broke N*&a
she’s guilty.
The damn hospital don’t even charge 25K month to nurse someone back to health.
so sick of the posters who advertise these dating websites
Why shouldn’t his child live the same lifestyle that he is living? Yea she’d profit from the stacks but so would his son. How could u evict your own son… who probably worships and brags about the gorilla on a daily basis.
LMAO!..SHANIQUA i need you to stay off BOSSIP and go find yourself a JOB &/or GO TO SCHOOL!
50, LOOKS REAL STANK! NO JOKE! IF HE WASNT BUSTED HE WOULDNT LOOK AS STANK, HIM AND JAY-Z ARE RUNNING NECK AND NECK LOl!
50 should be shame, kicking his child out, but at the same time $25,000 a month!! Now I don’t feel so sorry for them. And I can’t stand Joe Young (50)!
Ok I understand the whole she was there through thick and thin and she nursed him to be better and etc. but when does that entitle you to his fortune? You may feel like you are but all of the thick and thin and nursing him should’ve been done because you were his girl and you cared for him. Obviously she had other things in mind thinking I need to stay with him cause he gonna be big and now it has backfired against her which makes her a golddigger. He is only obligated to provide for his son and 25k a month is simply crazy. 6,700 is good for a lil boy especially when I’m sure 50 adds to that by buying him hats or clothes and extra things. SMH at her not going to school to nurse him. Women will learn not to form their lives around men. At some point we must learn how to be independent.
well she needs to work and make her own damn money and live up to those expectations… and im sure he’s still gonna take care of his child, but she need to do her own thing..
i woulda gave her bout 10k jus to shut up and offered her lawyer a date.
Is there a picture of his baby momma, i want to know what she looks like
SHE NEED TO GET A JOB 50 IS NOT HER MAN OR HER DADDY SHE GETS MONEY EVERY MONTH FOR THEIR SON
IT’S NOT HIS JOB TO TAKE CARE OF HER
Your Preaching Lady Architect!!
The final straw was the nigga she had sleepin in his house while he out on tour. 2 grown ass people livin in luxury off 25K a month and free rent.
How many years has it been since he got shot? How does playing a nurse’s aide entitle her to living the high life on his work?
Or having his child entitle her to never make a life for herself?
He isn’t trying to hurt his son. He is trying to show her that screwing someone that becomes rich and famous will never equal bringing your azz to school or getting a job.
Her son is old enough and goes to school for enough hours for her to get out and do something productive besides shopping and spending his support funds.
So yes, she is and was behaving like a gold digger. I wouldn’t be surprised if she doesn’t even have her GED.
She was getting more than enough to make a name for herself. To give her son someone to be proud of, she chose not to, so its no one’s fault but her own that she is going through this now.
Darn hussy.
im tired of yal posting this dating stuff shut up……she crazy .. i know she was there thru thick and then but when will women learn half the time det dont even matter to these niggas.. you can be with him thru all his bull and thru his hard times but that dont mean yal go work out.. dets her fault for not goin to school to nurse him i understand you wanted to be by his side but you also still have to live a life and be able to provide and handle things also…i want to c what his baby mama look lik… she btter get a job and add to that 6,700 cause she can live comfortable with det..
See, that’s why it doesn’t always pay to be a “ride or die chick”. They move on, move up, and leave your azz out in the cold. If she was there FOR him and WITH him before the stardom and money, and when he was laid up and shot the hell up, then he should feel somewhat grateful and obligated to help her get on her feet. Why doesn’t he just buy her a damn house, help her furnish it and just keep the monthly child support payments the same? Give her a good start and just let her take it from there. No house note, nothing to buy for it–all she has to do is take care of his son AND she needs to take her azz back to school. She can do that…maybe he will pay for her to go to college, because it’s an investment in her future and will insure that she can make it on her own later. Hell, their son won’t be a child forever! She won’t be getting those checks soon, so she’d better come up with a plan…a real woman who wasn’t a gold digger would get herself an education and take advantage of that opportunity to do so for free. People tend to help you when you are willing to help yourself. There comes a time when you have to stand on your own two feet and do you–quit depending on a man!
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is it me or do 50 look gay in this picture.. first he was holdin a dildo now posin lik some fag
… to stop him from payoing so much i think he should buy her a house furnish it with the stuff she need and i think he should buy his son everything and reduce her child support because a place for his son and a bed to sleep on is more then enuff and him buyin the clothes and shoes and evrything he needs will be cheaper then givin her 6,700.00 det goes no wher.. also she need to go to school while her son is a school and better herself cause sittin around tryin to be somebody ride or die chick gets you know where
Honeydipt,
I was feeling the end of your comment. The beginning sounds like you were Shaniqua talking. I think 50 was grateful atleast I hope so but if they weren’t married he’s not obligated to give her anything. What if he wasn’t famous then what would she have done? Been another mother on welfare and stuff not simply because she couldn’t afford it, but because she was relying on some cash flow and chose not to get her credentials together. I have no respect for women like that I’m sorry.
Ok, she was there in the beginning, when he got shot and everything else. So now the judge just ordered given her dues, $6 g’s a month, now get over it.
She didn’t go to school….well why is she complaining people that don’t go to school may not ever see $6 grand a month. She needs to LET IT GO. Because it’s obvious he does not want her period.
MOVE ON!!!
Umm, they were not married so she is entitled to child support only. Since when can you claim alimony when you are just a tad bit more significant than a “piece”. I mean, if she did nurse him back to health after he was shot 9 times and he STILL did NOT put a ring on that finger, then that is all she is and ever was.
I have mucho respect for single moms out there who handle their business however, I have ZERO respect for baby mamas who view children as earnings potentials.
*typo given-delete
Child support is to supplement your income, not be your income. It’s time for this greedy ass chick to get a job.
Why should he buy her a house? For opening up her legs and bringing a child into an unstable home environment (undeducate parents, father that has been shot 9 times)?
50 cent is doing what he should–paying over 6 grand for his son. It is her responsibility to allocate said monies for her child. 6 grand a month is PLENTY. It can cover a house note, bills, school, insurance, food, clothing.
And, if it is not enough, get a job. Opening your legs up for 50 does not equal set for life.
great points kompton.
Sorry, that woman is greedy!! She was already getting something like $6,500. That’s enough to live off of, especially since 50 is probably doing extra on the side anyway. She’s lazy!!!
The “baby” is 10 years old! Do you know how many degrees you can get in 10 years????
That ho could’ve been a M.D.!
again. if u felt intitled to that mans lifestyle u shouldve had ur top game on point. be a wife and not a baby momma. baby momma’s get checks on the first, wifey gets the lifestyle.
snoop said…dont be upset girl thats just how it goes.
again. if u felt intitled to that mans lifestyle u shouldve had ur top game on point. be a wife and not a baby momma. baby momma’s get checks on the first, wifey gets the lifestyle.
snoop said…dont be upset girl thats just how it goes.
THIS IS THE PROBLEM WITH YOUNG WOMEN NOWADAYS- AS A WOMAN MYSELF, I THOUGHT THE REASON SHE NURSED HIM BACK TO HEALTH WAS BECAUSE SHE LOVED HIM, NOT FOR WHAT SHE CAN GET. THIS IS WHY ALOT OF BLACK MEN DON’T STAND BY THE BLACK WOMAN SIDE-BECAUSE THEY REALLY DON’T KNOW THE REAL REASON WHY SHE’S WITH HIM. IF ANYONE READ THE BOOK, THEY WOULD KNOW THE REASON HE DID NOT MARRY HER IS BECAUSE SHE ALWAYS HAD DIFFERENT MEN IN HIS CAR AND CALLING HER. AND SHE’S NOT NURSING HIM TO HEALTH NOW, SO WHY IS SHE NOT IN SCHOOL THIS TIME? BECAUSE SHE’S FULL OF SHIT.
I’m sure she’s not a gold digger, he probably got big and started acting like a dick head!
TRUE STORY
BY: Mr.Yahh!!
50 was the shiz when he dropped “wanksta” i was in high school still. LoL. but still man, i would love my baby momma till the death regardless of the stipulations. id be like, “baby im a rapper and i cant be giving you 50k a month when u livin with me. that is 600k a year u makin off me by doing nothing. i think hard to make these raps and u jus sit there and stay mad at me. YTF we in this relationship if all u gon do is eat my pockets? if you love me then why u tryna get 50k outta ni&&a?! how bout i stop rapping and get a dayjob then see how much we gon be ballin!!” then she gon be like, “baby im sorry! i just wanted to go shopping and spend your money on things i dont need. i WAS gonna buy you that jet ski you wanted but somebody being stingy and not sharing the wealth!! you NEED to give me half of what you making anyway. what you gon do with all that money?! buy 10 mansions knowing damm well you can only live in one at a time! you need me to manage, or better yet, spend your money for you so you wont have to go that extra mile to the store for me. you know i wanted that royal blue dress with the white feather in the hat and that red corvette with the words “50′ Bitch” written on it. you are selfish NIGGA!!” –to be continued…
beautiful b,
Like the way you put that.
50 cent probably spends more than 25K on his jumpoffs. Why not his son? Yes, she couldve used the money more wisely (like go to school) but she was probably being stupid and thinking that her and 50 would get back together. Yall know how that goes.
@Honeydipt
See, that’s why it doesn’t always pay to be a “ride or die chick”.
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I been saying that shit for years. Its like everybody wanna be a Bonnie and Clyde…them two nig**s DEAD!!! What a great example to follow
she should screw that ugly nigga for every penny she can get.
i noticed…
Bossip ya’ll put up stories about celebrities and throw up a picture that has nothing to do with the story. Like you put up the photo of 50 with the huge black dildo in his hand on Howard Stern, then expect folks on this blogger to stay on subject while looking at the subliminal photo/message
but its still funny though
@ beautiful b
I agree. Why are we so content on being baby mammas anyways???? Shouldnt we want more for ourselves?
She need to hook up with Superhead and Nas bm and write her a tell-all book. Get her own hustle on. But she might wanna look into getting that GED first.
amen to whoever said…
we need to demand more of ourselves then being somebodys baby mama, be a wife or WOMAN
hell i know some girls want to settle for baby momma cause they feel that they will have this man in their life forever and its the best way to keep him. if the ask for marriage they fear chasing him away.
What does his baby mom’s (Shaniqua) look like anyways?
Now there must have been a valid reason why the judge decreased her support. Yes its true that the child deserves to life the lifestyle that 50 has but sometimes some women tend to try to capitlize on that. We are only getting part of the story and yes its sounds horrible that he would kick her out the house but the judge also so fit to rule in his favor. She has another dude living there, why should he provide housing for a next man? She’s not working so all that luxury for her and her man is supported by 50. I agree with the ruling and she definitely sounds like a loafer. Get a grip and get a life. I know a girl that is milking her child’s father in court only to have her jobless man living up with her. She spends most of the money on her self. Got a new jeep, always clubbing, shopping the whole nine. About 5% of the child support actually go to the kids so $6500 a month for the child is definiltey enought to take care of him, thats if she’s gonna spend the entire $6500 on him
Lovely One
50 cent probably spends more than 25K on his jumpoffs. Why not his son?
I don’t think he has a problem spending 25k on his son I just think he noticed that it wasn’t being spent on his son. He probably noticed how her lifestyle became glam and his son was walking around regular. I don’t know I’m just guessing something had to be wrong if he went to a judge to get it lowered and the judge saw reason to lower the amount per month.
She ain’t a gold digger???? OK, she’s just got gold diggerish ways.
If she didn’t go to school, that was her own choice.
She nursed him back to health; hell, that’s what she was SUPPOSED to do! Does she deserve his respect for it? By all means YES. But is he obligated to take care of her for the rest of her life when they’re no longer in a committed relationship? HELL NO!
so she didn’t go to school and she is getting 6-7 g’s a month? there are people that got two degrees that don’t make that much. WTF is wrong with her ass?
She fails to understand that she was a baby momma not a legal wife hence no legal requirement for him to provide her with a lifestyle similar to his.
Negrodamus believes 50cent traded a limited edition Ken Griffey rookie card and his “Pog” collection for Ja Rule’s career.
Okay the way i see it ol girl should of been investing whatever money she was getting in child support for a rainy day such as this. Yes she should of been going back to school to learn a trade “just in case” the nicca went back on his word, like they always do when you find somebody else, kids or no kids. And so what if she had another nicca laying up in the house he bought..isn’t it true men do it everyday to women? Ride other females around in your car, have other females pretending to play momma to your kids, laying up in your house, and spending your money on another woman? So whats the problem? the problem is its a female doing it this time and not a man! Get a grip people if a man can do it, why is it so wrong for a female to do it, she just got to be smart about it and hell 25K i would of banked his A$$ too but would of been doing things with it to secure things for me and mine F that man! Nicca pay like you weigh! Yeah she was there for him nursing him when he was shot all up the way i see it he owes her she put her life on hold to help him out but she could of, should of been a little bit more smarter about things!
Shaniqua has known for years that that house wasnt in her name and now wants to act new. She shoulda been workin on that. Also, chick hasn’t worked in 6 years but has been pullin in $10,000, and at one point $25,000 per month for child support, living rent/mortgage free. There was plenty of time and money for her to have gone back to school to finish her degree. Puhleeze. People have gotten thru college with last time and money. She just thought she hit lotto and was set for life. SMH There is more to this story and Shaniqua is no saint either. But the one thing everyone pretty much agrees on about 50 whether you love or hate him is that he always has taken care of his son. That’s never been a question. Shaniqua is the only chick I’ve heard of who has actually managed to get her child support reduced. Clearly she isn’t the sharpest tack in the box.
Negrodamus also believes Kim Porter should open a consulting firm helping “Baby mama’s” get paid!
WOMEN GO TO SCHOOL!!! THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE STOP DOING FOR US TO DO FOR A N*GGA. NOW THAT HER TIME IS DONE HE WANT’S HER GONE! MAYBE SHE SHOULDN’T HAVE ASKED FOR MORE BUT I DON’T THINK HE SHOULD MAKE HER LEAVE UNTIL SHE GETS ON HER FEET!
Cyndi,
Sounds like this has happened to you before? lol I can’t help but to laugh. I’m sorry. If you are doing all of that with no ring on ya hand the the girl is a fool. Put ya life on hold for a boyfriend? Men do that ish to women who let them. What woman pays the car note, rent, and gives her man cash while he sits on his behind? Whoever does is a fool. We betta be splitting the bills and have to seperate cars that we both pay for.
This is some “days of our lives” mid-season sweeps week storyline type shit and I stopped watching soaps.
I think that it was right to ask for money he got enuff of it and that is the money that is supporting his baby whats wrng with that
Realize that at one point she was receiving over $25k from this dude each month! Why should he buy her a house? He’s a business man; his real estate property is for his own investment purposes. Based on the kind of money she was getting and still gets, SHE should have purchased her OWN home.
Even with the child support decrease, she makes as much as the average person with a college degree. And I WISH somebody WOULD pay my mortgage every month. I’d be an investing, taking advantage of this bear market, home-owning chick with a fat portfolio! And my child would see me building a life and not depending on some man.
she better be lucky the judge didn’t make her itemize the 6700.00 every month
i thought CHILD support was for the child not for the ex-girlfriend. you see that is the problem, these women spend that money on everything except they are suppose to. if they were still together then i would agree give her something. get her lazy butt up and get a job, her own place. he is not the welfare dept. so what she was there when he was shot they are no longer a couple….greedy a$$. if she would of just taken that 25,000 a month gotten a job and banked her money she would have been sitting pretty. 50 was fine with that until miss greedy wanted more. and another thing this is probably not the whole story. she probably has every relative living in that house. i hate lazy begging chicks. and again i say CHILD SUPPORT is for the child only.
VIA RHYMES WITH SNITCH
Yesterday 50 Cent asked a judge to evict his baby mama from his house and today it’s done.
“I’m a winner. What can I say?” 50 said after a hearing in Suffolk County Housing Court, where Judge Stephen Hackeling OK’d his request to kick Shaniqua Tompkins and his son Marquise out of his Dix Hills mansion. Shaniqua, 32, said, “Any man who would evict his son out of his house is evil. He’s an evil, disgruntled man.” Well Shanique, maybe you shouldn’t have had your new man staying at the house, cause 50 said, “To have her living there with her boyfriend and several other people is inappropriate. She’s in the house with people I’m not responsible to pay housing for. She doesn’t want to work. She doesn’t want to do anything. She had a sense of entitlement over me because she was around before I had success.”
The judge gave Shaniqua until the end of the school year to get out.
@Lady Architect
As a matter of fact something like that has happened to me before and I was married when it happened. You can laugh but everybody plays the fool sometime, no matter how intellegent or well rounded about life you may be, you fall in love with someone and think that person would never do you dirt, but the fact is people are just conniving in general. You right men do to women only what we allow and vice versa.
If a man has a desire for another women regardless of you paying half on everything from car note, rent, groceries whatever,its whaterver he gone do what he gone do regardless of whether you have a ring on that finger or not and women do the same thing.
and just like a woman can be sitting on her behind and a man is paying everything and she doing him dirty does that make it less humorous? and okay becuz he’s a man?
LADIES WE GOT TO STOP GIVIN ALL OUR MONEY TO MEN AND STOP DEPENDING ON THME FOR EVERYTHING.. LEARN TO THINGS FOR YO SELF… DONT DEPEND ON A MAN TO WARM YO CAR UP IN THE MORNIN SPECIALLY IF YOU KNOW HE AINT..I HEAR SO MANY YOUNG GIRLS TALKIN ABOUT YEAH HE BE GETTIN MY NAILS DONE AND PAYING FOR MY HAIR… NAILS COME ON NOW IF YOU CANT DO THAT FA YO SELF THEN YOU NEED TO STOP AND TAKE A LOOK AT LIFE BECAUSE THEY ACTUALLY THINK DETS SUMIN IF A MAN PAY FOR YO NAILS TO GET DONE BUT WHAT ARE YOU DOIN FA HIM, I BET A WHOLE LOT MORE THEN HE DOIN FOR YOU..AND WHATS A 20 DOLLAR HAIR DO WHEN YOU PAYIN RENT FOR YAL BOTH CAR NOTES FOR BOTH CARS AND ALL THE BILLS YOU FOOTIN…DES FEMALES NEED A REALITY CHECK.. IF YOU DEPEND ON A MAN ALL YO LIFE AND THEN WHEN SUMIN HAPPENNS YOU WONT KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF BUSINESS YO SELF… YOU CAN STILL BE INDEPENDENT WHEN YOU HAVE A MAN .. ITS JUST SIMPLY KNOWIN HOW TO TAKE CARE OF BUSINEES AND NOT DEPENDING ON ANYBODY ELSE TA DO IT FOR YOU
There is not a mortage company out there that will finance her based on 8 more years of child support.
SHE WRONG FOR HAVIN A MAN UP IN THERE……. AND 6,700 AMONTH MAN PEOPLE WITH DEGREES AINT EVEN GETTIN DET AND HERS IS TAX FREE.. SHE F’D UP BIG TIME
There are soooo many creative ways for people to finance a home but it takes research. She needs to do her due diligence to make it work.
She f’d herself and now reality is knocking on the door. Fiddy needs to get a lawyer and take that boy. Her azz is obviously unfit to provide for herself so why intrust a childs welfare to her lazt azz.
Morning All…
Wow, the opinons on this subject is crazy, its almost like discussing polictics or religion, no one will ever see eye to eye!
*thinking damn his teeth look like chiclets*
@ Lai
Top of the Morning To Ya!
This is a subject that affects me personally so I get really passionate about this issue.
When raising a child parents need to learn to be supportive of one another, although they are not together, for the sake of the child period! Thats what we as young adults have not learned, we think once the obligation of the relationship is over, the respect for the other party goes out the window and it should’nt be.
Yes I will agree that homegirl got greedy, she’s a hood rat and let the ‘benefits’ of being fiddy’s mother get to her head, and now she thinks he owes her something.
25k is excessive unless is was an amount he chose to give her, other than that I don’t see anything wrong with him putting them (they are a package deal) up in a house so that his son can live better. What she should’ve done was take her situation as a blessing and worked to do something productive with herself…which is what she didn’t do and now she’s whinning.
Yeah fiddy is an asshole, but he’s at a point in his life where, he’s progressing rapidly, and he’s looking back and seeing that she hasn’t, I’m pretty sure there were other measures taken to get her to shape up, to no avail, and he has to go this route, and although evicting your son is a bit rough, sometimes you gotta be ‘dirty’ in order for nuccaz/bitches to get right. Fiddy knows his son will be okay, I just hope he’s doing it as tactfully as possible to not cause too much emotion truma for the boy
@ intuitivepisces…Morning boobie
Statement correction….
she’s a hood rat and let the ‘benefits’ of being fiddy’s mother(I meant money) get to her head,
@ good morning Lai………. top of the morning to you also!
@ ms braided beauty………hey…
I FEEL SO LOVED TODAY!…WITH ALL THE RESPONSES…
A lot of people get confused about what is owed them. Many people think that if they work at a company for 20 years, the company owes them a job for life. If the company lays them off, they are devastated because they have given 20 years to the company.
Your company owes you for the LAST DAY THAT YOU WORK THERE. THAT’S ALL!!
Many companies give severance pay, unused vacation pay or some sick leave pay when you are laid off, but no law requires an employer to pay severance pay. Severance pay is totally up to the goodwill of the employer unless the employer is obligated to pay by an employment contract or by a severance policy stated in the employee handbook or elsewhere in writing.
Many of these women act like they are supposed to be set up for the next 50 years when they have a baby for a rich entertainer or athlete. When Shaniqua’s son gets grown or goes to college, what’s she’s going to do them?
Does that chick have a wart on her tongue?
@ Lady Architect
In my opinion, 50 has more money to hire better lawyers to convince a judge to evict HIS kid out of the house.
I think people are making this situation too personal. Yeah, if I was with 50, I WOULD HAVE GOTTEN A DEGREE, I WOULD HAVE INVESTED IN PROPERTY, I WOULD HAVE A SAVINGS ACCOUNT. Everybody dont have that much common sense. And what chick with common sense would mess with 50 anyway?
And as far as Shaniqua having a man in the house, isn’t that what NICOLE SIMPSON did to OJ? I think 50 may not want his baby mama anymore BUT he don’t want anyone with her either. Its wrong either way but I’m just playing devils advocate.
I think they are both wrong in their own way.
She’s an idiot! She probably couldn’t have made 25k in a year, or received that much in child-support from all her babies’ daddies in the first place, but she’s willing to fuck up and lose 19k a month to prove a point? If she were my daughter or sister, I’d cuss her ass out and tell her how stupid she is. She had 25k in support and a free house to live in? Wow! Hopefully, 50 isn’t as much of an ass as I think he is and he’ll still look out for his son and be there for him. Our boys need their father in their lives like never before and so I hope he steps up, with his ugly ass.
I saw an interview with Fiddy not too long ago in which he said this “She keep asking for this and that I just got fed up because everything my son needs or wants I take care of. My son is 11yrs. old that means I got seven more years of child support to pay, so what is she gonna do when he turns 18. She has not had a job in five or six years, I took her to court so it could all be handle once and for all.” I don’t see anything wrong with that, I mean it’s called “Child Support”, not “Baby Mama Support.” Plus she has a daughter by someone else. I’m all for paying a reasonable amount of child support but sometimes it gets out of hand. I got a friend who pays for all of his son’s school, health care, sports fees, clothes and he gives his son a monthly allowence. His son mother still had the nerve to take him to court to ask for $3000.00. The judge not only refused but knocked it down from $1500.00 a month to $750.00 a month, Saying she was going overboard.
Lady Architect,
You spoke for me to Cyndi! Imma take it one further. Cyndi, I hope you don’t have kids, cause I see a major problem with someone banking the child support for a rainy day! It’s CHILD support, not baby mama support. Yes, support includes a roof over the child’s head, but the mama holds the same obligation to help provide that roof. Help does not mean spreading your legs and calling it a retirement plan. Get a job, trick. As for the double standard, it is what it is. It’s not right for either sex to lay up and spend up baby mama or baby daddy money. I think dudes feel a little more strongly about it, though. Ask Nicole Simpson and Ron Goldman.
Now, I ask the simple question………Why doesn’t Fiddy or any of the other “rap stars” ever date, impregnate or even marry women who are doctors, lawyers, accountants, investment bankers or other professions? Women who have jobs and can take care of themselves and their offspring.
Why don’t they date “real women”?
All women are gold diggers
ya deeg
I haven’t read all the comments but has anyone watched the vid with them arriving in court? He’s paying for a house not only for her & their son but for her boyfriend too. What guy in their right mind would do that & she has someone else. I’m not his biggest fan but he seems like a good father it’s just her…… Sad!
@ yanib
First off let me just clearify something. When i stated she should of been banking that child support on a rainy day what I meant was instead of tricking off 25K she would of been wise enough to save up some of that money and yes it is for the child and yes i do have kids and yes sweety you can best believe when i parted from my ex-husband (notice the key word in that sentence-husband) I fully realized that whatever support i received from that man was to help take care of OUR KIDS. I am gainfully employeed and also was smart enough to go to school beyond high school and obtain a degree-Hello! Secondly, your right Child support is not baby momma support, that would be called ALIMONY! And yes, men do feel a lot stronger about when they have to dish out anything child support to a woman who is not doing anything for herself and has another man laying up off of him.. BUT!!! AGAIN, when the role is reversed its okay for men to do it, ie have another woman around who ain’t ish! and doesn’t have ish! goig for herself, no job, no home, no car, no own finiancing but yet you seem to glorify this as to your statement of look at Nicole and Ron Goldman.
@Negrodamus
“Negrodamus believes 50cent traded a limited edition Ken Griffey rookie card and his “Pog” collection for Ja Rule’s career.”
lol wtf bruh?! my stomach is hurting from that one….
amen to who eva say stop settlin to be somebody mama and become somebody wife… cause i get tired of the phrase dets just my baby daddy and get tired of people sayin he gone always be with his baby mama…. yeah to use her when he need a lil action on the side.. only thing baby mama’s get out the deal is a baby and a check det aint really nothin vs. a wife get the money the cars the kids the house and the respect.. i cant settle fa bein nobody baby mama i rather be somebody wifey ya dig!
@ Cyndi..I’m glad you had the forsight to look out for you and yours by educating yourself so you can provide for your children whether or not your ex does. As for glorifying Nicole and Ron, that was a tongue in cheek example that a man doesn’t want another man driving a car or laying up in a house he’s paying for. It was actually a reference to OJ taking them out….if you believe he did it. As to baby mama support…that wouldn’t be alimony. You’re only entitled to that if you were on the next level and were actually someone’s wife and not just a baby mama. To those men and women that want a triflin’ do nothing mate, do you as long as your doing it on your dime, not mine.
Again I told ya’ll, this bitch is just greedy as fuck, didnt save any of that $25,000 per month she was gettin’ from 50, she thought she could get more and demanded $50,000 a month, now the bitch has to settle for $6,700, It just shows you she wasnt paying the mortgage on that mansion outta the $25,000, 50 was, so wheres the money? Now you gotta get a $500,000 house which 50 will buy and you gotta make those car lease payments on your new lower amount! Bitches beware, just because you let a nigga squirt in you doesnt mean you can financially rape his ass for the next 18 years! 50’s kid can move into that big ass house in Connecticut.
6am, I love me some me!
Man, look how his babymomma came dressed for court, 50 has on a suit and tie, this bitch comes in with a full weave, sunglasses and a ghetto fabulous jeans and jacket, no judge is gonna give her ass shit!
@ yanib
Thanks for clarifing the Ron/Nicole thing. I can respect what your saying and I feel you. But its a sad fact that women are suppose to sit and accept that its okay for a man to do those things but men want to go bullistic. They can dish it but can’t take it.
And your absolutely correct in saying baby momma support would not be considered alimony IF you’ve never been married, HOWEVER, with all due respect, I am still the mother of my ex’s children, as well as ex-wife, that’s why i said it would be considered alimony.
For the sake of his CHILD he should at least set her up in a nice, small house in a safe neighborhood.
@Cyndi, Child support is for the child, Alimony is for you “temporarily” you should not be able to collect alimony for more than 3 years, you gotta go get a job. Child support should be issued on a debit card, then the courts can see where the money’s going.
@ Roni, you know she was fuckin’ up real bad for 50 to kick her outta that mansion, she probably had niggas staying there overnight, driving the cars he’s paying for, and probably talkin’ shit to his kid. father’s with 50’s kind of money dont just make their kids homeless, something tells me 50 is gonna get full custody.
$25,000 a month is more than enough, she wanted $50,000, now thats just fuckin’ greedy.
Whether he married her or not she was WELL taken care of.
her OTHER two kids probably want to punch their mother in her face.
That’s why guys don’t get married because marriage cedes control of YOUR money. Prenups and a hell no go a long way.
Why is it only women who question a woman only getting what she worked for?
lazy bitch.
NOW WHAT LESSONS HAVE WE LEARNED TODAY KIDS?
1. Black women need to really learn how to love and take care of themselves first and foremost. We take care of the kids, your man, your job, the cat, etc, all before we focus on our own wellness.
2. Let’s not break out the violins just yet for Ms. Shanique- In case you didn’t do the math, she’s still receiving over $80,000 from 50 anually. She won’t exactly be eating canned Friskies for din-din.
3. Come on now, we all know she crossed a line by bringing another man in 50’s home. That’s probably the proverbial straw that broke the camel’s back. Whether or not he wants her is irrelevant; now it just becomes a matter of principle.
Suffice it to say, I think she just got waaaaaay too comfortable in her faux lifestyle, believing her own hype, and ultimately played herself. Let this be a lesson to us all…
This bitch has other kids who aint 50’s? I knew there was more to this shit! 50 aint supporting another niggas mistakes! BITCH GET A FUCKIN’ JOB!
$25,000 ain’t shit from what he makes. she should have took that money and focused on taking care of her child she was being greddy. however how the fuck do you evicet your own child and how the hell do she have to pay him $9,000
@ Its6amHogetOut
I know exactly what Child support is for and what alimony is for. Also, dependent upon which state you live in you can collect Alimony for as long as a) both parties see fit or was mutually agreed upon which could be for either 1,2,3,4,5 years if both parties agree to it. b) dependent upon what the judge sets in the divorce stipulation c)Or in the case where the woman/man was the homemaker and therefore never went back to school beyond high school to learn a trade or had any work experience outside of the home and their kids could be all grown and they are older individual, their spouse could be required to take care of them until they either remarry or for the rest of their lives dependent upon the years married. Each state is different.
But for someone who is Independent and always has a back up plan, “just in case” you wouldnt have to worry about being paid alimony. You are right go get a job and keep a job make your own money. But as far as a man and any man goes, if there are kids involved that he helped father, you darn right he gone help pay for his kids. That’s where people tend to get it twisted its always the woman shouldn’t of opened her legs or its the womans fault she got pregnant. Well that man should of keep his ding-aling in his pants, it takes two to make a baby bottomline!
Society faults the woman everytime as being the irresponsible one. But Riddle me this Batman, is it okay for a man to continue to walk away from his responsiblities and pay nothing at all and still call himself a daddy, father, let alone a man? and then have the audacity to tell you want he want done as far as his child (that he don’t take care of ) are concerned?
Child support in most states is issued on debit cards and i think thats a good idea so yeah the courts can see where money is being spent.
I tell you, if more women were irresponsible like these men and the men where the ones caring for these kids, I’m willing to bet things would be a whole lot different then they are in every situation like this.
PITY THE FOOL, PUT YOURSELVES IN HIS SHOES…FIDDY WASN’T KICKING OUT HIS SON, LITERALLY…IT WAS AN ALTIMATUM FOR HIS SON MOTHER…THAT’S LIKE ME MAKING ANY OF YOU FEMALES MY LADY, HAVING YALL PAMPER ME AND STOP FUCKING WITH YA…YOU GOT WHAT YOU DESERVED WHILE THE RELATIONSHIP WAS HOT…NOW SINCE YOU SEE ME AS AN ICON, YOU WANT THIS AND WANT THAT, CAUSE YOU SEE ME WITH IT…FIDDY APPEARS TO TAKE GHUD CARE OF HIS SON, EVEN IF IT’S JUST A MARKETING SCHEME…HOW MANY OF YOU CHICKS ON HERE HAVE BABY’S AND THEY DADDY PAYING CHILD SUPPORT, IT’S ENOUGH FOR YOU TO MAKE SURE THAT CHILD IS WELL FEED AND A ROOF OVER HIS OR HER HEAD…YALL GOING TO HELL, TELL THAT CHICK, GET A JOB AS MANY OTHERS HAVE TOO, STOP RELYING ON THE EASY WAY OUT, HER SON IS OLD ENOUGH NOW, GO READ A PHUCKING BOOK
@Cyndi, if youre paying child support you arent really walking away from your kids now are you?
Why would a woman get pregnant before she finished high school or before she went to college? Those were choices she made.
Like I said, pay child support until your kid turns 18 or 21 if their going to college. Pay alimony for 3 years max, after that period the woman has to take care of herself.
At Shauna, he didnt evict his child, his child will always be taken care of, he evicted his childs mother from a lifestyle that she became accustomed too, you women cant comprehend the fact that this bitch was getting $25,000 a month tax free! She got greedy and wanted that shit doubled, now she’s gotta support herself and her other two kids who arent 50’s on $6,700 per month. I’m gonna bet 50 has about 5 bank accounts for his son set up so he’ll never have to work and I’m sure he gets that money when he’s 21. His babymomma fucked up!
@ Its6amHogetOut
Why would a women get pregnant before she finished h.s or college? why would a MAN and woman even have unprotected sex and make a child? those were choices made by both!
Pay alimony only in the latter circumstance that i mentioned before but since most women in this day in age are doing it for themselves and have work experience there is no need for alimony and now days the men are asking for alimony from the women, simply becuz the WOMAN is the chief breadwinner and he just wants to kickit with his boyz or just to spite her…both men and women have to take care of themselves but for the most part.
But the majority of the time the women is left to care for her children on her own and yes when a man is paying child support he is taking care of his responsiblities finaincially, by walking way i’m meaning not being involved period in the childs life but money isn’t everything, and most men seem to think just becuz they pay thats the end of it, there job is done….WRONG!
I know I’m late and this question has probably been asked so please forgive me, but wasnt she staying with her boyfriend in 50’s house?
@Cyndi, its the womans choice to get pregnant, there are 11 forms of birth control on the market right now, so it all boils down to her making the wrong choices. She doesnt have to sleep with a man who doesnt use protection, that was her choice she knew what was gonna happen.
Now paying alimony, if a woman has to pay that goes both ways, 3 years maximum.
Women have to take some kind of responsibility for the choices they make, you chose this man, you saw lil signs that told you he would not make a good father but you chose to ignore them, most men dont walk away from their children, they walk away from the mothers, If i had a kid and i wound up getting a divorce, I’d fight for custody of my child, theres a reason why Im leaving the mother.
@brother M,
Fuck yeah!, what man is gonna pay to have some nigga laying up in his house when its supposed to be for his son?
You hoes have lost your minds, and why would this bitch get pregnant again when she cant even support herself and 50’s kid?
Wait, this bitches name is “Shaniqua” nuff said, ghetto ass names equal lazy ass gehtto fuckin’ bitches, Oh well its back to the Korean indoor swapmeet Louis Vuitton……………She shoulda kept that new nigga outta the mansion and kept her fuckin’ mouth closed.
Shaniqua? I shoulda known
@Its6amHogetOut
@brother M,
Fuck yeah!, what man is gonna pay to have some nigga laying up in his house when its supposed to be for his son?
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If her boyfriend is a real man he should help his girlfriend get her stuff in order. Personally I wouldnt want to live in the next dudes house.
@ Its6amHogetOut
Men need to step up and start being more responsible for their actions pointblank.
Why would a man sleep with a women knowing that their was a possiblity of him getting her pregnant and knowing that he wasn’t ready to care for another human being let alone himself? There is birth control for men as well, but most choose not to wear it or get it snipped!
He chose to sleep with that woman and get her pregnant so be man enough to care for your kid. I’m sure she saw some signs in that man to make that red flag go off that he wasn’t right or ready and she walked away from him. But the fact remains although a manwalks away from their former partner if kids are involved you walk way from that motherbut why walk way from the kids? and men tend to do that, just becuz it didn’t work with the woman they just hit it and its the woman’s fault…right…GET CHA MIND RIGHT ON THAT ONE..THATS A MALE COP OUT!
Nothing wrong with sharing joint custody of your kids as long as you are man enough to take care of your kids and not leave it up to the woman to do your job. Life is about choices not just for woman but men also. Nicca’s are just irresponsible thats all and want to talk their way out of the obvious and then want to get mad cuz somebody else steps in and does your job for you and better than you and yet you still gotta hold your head up and be a man to save face so you reduce yourself to becoming spiteful and petty..
Why keep impregnanting women when you can’t even take care of yourself as a man and your still selfish and childish yourself?
50 is entitled to take care of his son (which it is obvious he does) NOT the baby momma. They are not married, he owes her NOTHING. And the trifling heifer had ANOTHER MAN IN HIS HOUSE LIVING OFF OF HIS STACKS!! I would’ve kicked her butt out too GUTTER BUTT TROLLOP!!!! Team 50!!
i don’t even know why some dudez deal wit’ brawdz like dis. first 50 kickin’ her out not his son.. his son is set for life but i think dude only reason of doing dis shit cause he see the brawd pushed her limit.. first his son was gettin 15gs a month and that wasn’t enough for the brawd so she took him to court asking for 25gs she got that.. cause she’s a dumb ghetto brawd she didn’t stop there she took him to court again and this time she was asking for 50gs.. dumb bitch got caught up and the court lessen it to 6gs smh @ stupid azz bitches.. and to show that she’s gold diggin she threw it in his face that she “nursed” him back to health.. lmao.. yo some folkz will not let you fly if they do something for you.. bitch the fuckin hospital “nursed” the nigga back to life with the guidance of God. she deserves what she gets and 50 should try and get full custody of lil homie so that will leave her with nothing. he didn’t have to put her in a mansion he could of left the bitch there but because of his son he was being nice and this is what the bitch pulls..
OK…I’m just curious why any real woman would come to this site and defend a woman that is getting $6,700 a month in child support. Hell…my wife’s father never paid her mother a dime in child support and to this day he keeps getting locked up because he won’t pay. So…how can someone be sympathetic to a woman getting $6,700? It’s sad to think that this woman is being defended when there are so many other single moms that don’t get sh!t from deadbeat fathers. SMH!!!
And what is 50 supposed to do…
I’m just curious as to how many women on this site would allow their boyfriend/husband to be extorted in this way by an ex-girlfriend/baby mama when he is already living up to his obligation by paying child support and caring for the kid.
I bet not many women would go for that when you look at the situation like that.
shenene missed up royaly- 50 was given her 25K without a court order- she asked for more-the judge reduced it- all 25cent had to prove is that she was sitting around doing nothing positive with the money. She didn’t try to better herself so therefore the judge found that she didn’t deserve what she was getting. Then to have her boyfirend and a house full of people with no one working- shenene all you have to do is get some training- find something to do as a parent and in two years resubmit for more child support- you see she had no gainful employment-if the courts see she is trying to improve her life then she will get more money- The house should go back to 25 cents
She’s not really a golddigger.. she’s just greedy.But hey… so is everyone else.
SINCE WHEN DID $25,000 PER MONTH WASN’T ENOUGH TO GET A HOUSE ON YOUR OWN? ON TOP OF THAT, SHE’S LIVING THERE WITH HER MAN IN 50′S CRIB!!!! EVERYONE IS COMING DOWN ON 50 BECAUSE THEY MADE IT SEEM LIKE HE’S EVICTING HIS SON, BUT 25G’S A MONTH IS ENOUGH TO PROVIDE A NICE LIFESTYLE FOR A MOTHER AND HER KIDS. THERE ARE MOTHERS OUT THERE DOING FOR THEIR FAMILY FOR $25,000 PER YEAR!!
SMDH!!!!!!
what ever 50’s got enough cash not a big deal. hese in the studio with wiz khalifa. is what i hear. myspace.com/wizkhalifa
This is why u gotta fuck those Black nappy ho’s in they azz and mouf to ensure u keep your guap.
LIKE I HAVE ALWAYS BELIEVED, GOD GIVES TO THE GIVERS AND TAKES FROM THE TAKERS!!! GET FULL CUSTODY 50!!!
wow, are there any real women in the house!?
She has supported him from day one in more ways than one. How could she be a gold digger when she did all of that was he was a broke dude with big dreams. A GOLD DIGGER, she is not.
Therefore, the least he could do is make sure that she and THEIR child are financially straight. That is the least he could do.
Co-Sign with Its6amHogetOut,LADIVASOSA, & diva. It’s called “Child Support”, not “Baby Mama Support”. I know Diddy is some where reading this and going, “Damn, lucky bastard, I’m getting killed with child support.”
I mean he was giving her a good amount of change then she went and got greedy. I think her new man must have been whispering in her ear. Just goes to show you don’t miss the water until the well runs dry.
LOOK! That heffa is getting paid more than most of us will get paid off of a regular 9-5. She is a stupid bitch she should had never tried to double 25,000 a month. DAM THAT SHIT IS BANANAS. and ON TOP OF IT SHE HAS ANOTHER NIGGA N THE HOUSE. CMON YALL
I aint saying she is a gold digger but she aint messy with no broke nigga lol
He should O.J her
Like I said, name a time when Ive been wrong.
@Thats messed up, bitch are you crazy? Since when hasnt $25k a month been more than enough for a child? Whatever she did for 50 aint worth $300k per year! She got what she deserved $6,700 per month, and you know what? I’d ask the court for custody of my son then ask the court to lower that $6,700 to $670!
Its6amHoGetOut,
Your so right now she’s learning greed will get you nowhere. I watched a new special on another site where they were talkin to her and the first thing she said was that it’s sad and evil for him to evict his so. Right after that she began to go on and on about how she gave up everything for 50 when he was a nobody, and how she paid for things etc. So then you begin to question is it really about the son or is it really about her? 6700 a month can pay rent 3,000, food 1,000, clothes 2,000, and 700 to stash. Point is she wants money for herself. She had herself and her son, boyfriend, and friends living up in 50’s house. No it’s time to go!
the nerve. Fifty was paying the tax’s and whatever utilites that was needed. She wasn’t collecting any monies from her other baby’s dad. Then to top it off, she was there for 3 years with another Man. Fifty didn’t bitch then. He continued to pay. Then she wanted Fifty to put her Mother and some other family members up. Come on now… when does the buck stop. Get a job. also, Fifty has the Boy more than 95% of the time. So what type of schooling is he getting with her. Fifty’s Son is home schooled 95% of the time. That takes a lot of dough. She Stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@LadyArchitect, You seem to be one of the smartest women on here, you damn near make me want to change my name! (just kidding) When will women understand that successful blackmen (me included) arent gonna stand by and let you walk all over us, talk shit to us, expect us to stand there and take it when we know damn well we have the options of dating or marrying any woman in the world, %0 is doing the right thing, bitch how dare you keep another nigga in the house that I’m paying for, how dare you show up to court in jeans bomber jacket and sunglasses (ghetto as fuck and disrespectful) that I know my $25k per month paid for, how dare you have another baby by another nigga living in my house when you cant even support yourself!, How dare you lie to me and say you name was “Lisa” when you knew damn well your name was ghetto as fuck (Shaniqua) i never woulda fucked you if i woulda knew that shit!………………..The last part i threw in because it’s funny!
Love 6am, the most honest muthafucka on bossip!
cancel that %0, I meant to type 50, damn grey goose vodka and fresh squeezed grapefruit juice!
deez sorry bitches always want some paper did this bitch go to school.she nursed 50 the hospital did that.thats why nuccas are running to them obedient white hoes.you don’t hear that shit from black stars with white bitches.
She is so pretty and funny.Large sexy.I saw her always dating with some sexy boys in millonaire dating site”W e a l t h y L o v i n g . c o m”.Dose she really searching her new love in this site?
Another thought–
I wonder if the other “baby daddy” was paying for his kid?
Probably not.
Ms. Tompkins should be paid much more than that just for sleeping with his ugly, pathetic ape a**. The nightmares must be unbearable.
@ Ms mslightening,
The only nightmares this bitch is having is flashbacks of when she kept her mouth and legs shut and got $25,000 per month.
See heres proof positive when you give your children ghetto ass names they make ghetto ass decisions (Shaniqua)? WTF?
All you ghetto ass babymommas who gave your children ghetto ass names like “Donieshia, Loquitia, DeShawn, DaeQuan or Del Taco should immediately go to court and have your kids renamed.
what she needs to do is move back to Queens and if something happens to his son, what will everybody have to say then. I remember when he had the child walking around with bullet proof vests on! You damn right they are entitled to a different life now. Because of the choices he made in his life. All the enemies he has and he is not gonna make sure his son goes to the best schools and lives in a safe place? The right school for a child of affluence will cost at least 3-6 grand a month. He really expects this child to go the regular public school. Jealous kids trying to fight all the time? They are both equally stupid. No way I am gonna let the next man come live up in me and my son’s house. He has to be able to pay them bills.
Again 50 didnt kick out his kid, that kids well taken care of, he kicked out his babymomma, her broke ass nigga and “their” child/children.