Mary J Can Admit It – Why Can’t Hovvy Hov?

Posted on April 7th, 2008 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Beyonce, Jay-Z, Mary J Blige, News

Posted by Bossip Staff

jay-z and mary j

While performing at a concert in Greensboro NC on Saturday with Mary J., Jay-Z remains incognito about their top secret wedding:

“Mum was the wedding word from Jay-Z as he hit the stage in North Carolina on Saturday – a day after a friend says he married Beyoncé Knowles – revealing nothing about a ceremony and wearing no ring.”

But Mary J. sent her love and kudos to JayBey:

“Mary J. Blige on the ‘Heart of the City’ tour couldn’t maintain the same level of silence, shouting to the sold-out Greensboro audience: ‘Congratulations to my man, Jay-Z, and my girl B,’ before starting her set with ‘You’re All I Need.’”

Damn. This is an unusual couple. A top secret wedding, and a concert for a honeymoon. Jay-Z’s first public appearance since the wedding without a ring brings a lot of questions to mind. Bey must be feeling some type of way about that. Dare we start preparing for a divorce countdown?

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  • rena

    i’m a jerk

  • Blaqk Ink…boycott the Bejing…www.blaqkink.blogspot.com…seek the truth

    O let them enjoy

  • Blaqk Ink…boycott the Bejing…www.blaqkink.blogspot.com…seek the truth

    Its so sweet anyways

  • Shrennie

    I understand wanting your privacy, but damn…when you enter the entertainment business, 90% of your privacy goes out the door. I always thought they were an unusual couple also. I mean, they barely touch in public, she walks damn near 10 feet behing them when they are together…what the hell? Just admit is and move on…

  • angry azz black woman

    Nah, fcuk dat bullshyt, they are just determined to keep folk outta THEIR business! And who can blame them, n*ggas be fcukin up ya shyt when you let em in! It’s no coincidence that these 2 got they shyt together after all these years! GOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Hovvy Hov and Beeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!

  • Anonymous

    Congratulations to Jay-Z and Beyounce!

    They never revealed anything about their relationship…and they probably won’t start now. Leave them alone, they are entitled to have somethings remain private.

  • jena4rmthablock

    Jay and bey just tired of the media being nosey azz neighbors, by the way big up to all they hata! Lmoa, congratz Jay and Bey pray 4 many happy years.

  • jena4rmthablock

    top 10 barely!

  • Anonymous

    I meant Beyonce. oops.

  • Mr. FAMU

    Whats so bad about being private with your nuptials? I guess everyone was expecting some tom cruise/katie holmes type foolishness. Jigga and Beyonce aint that kind of party. And they dang sure dont need the publicity or money.

  • Lady Architect

    I think Jay Z said it very well when he made a statement about the wedding. He said the reason why things are so sensitive is because the media only cares about 3 things:the wedding, the baby, and then the divorce but they care of nothing else. Who’s to say they had the rings? The media already knows they are married and I think they wanna keep things between them and their family. Anyways can the media start reporting on some real news now? There’s so many more important things going on in the world right now. Didn’t we just lose more soldiers in the war?

  • JorgeOoOo

    The reason no one has pics or they arent wearing rings is because it hasnt happened! They did this for the pop fiction show and every one took the bait. Its been confirmed. They pulled a good one on every one this time.

  • thatsbull00

    Not every couple wears rings especially if they got tatts on the finger.

  • versace

    Wouldn’t the nickname for them be jb or bj. Something I really don’t see Beyonce do to Jay Z.

  • Southern Belle 225

    Good Morning all!

    They just want their privacy. There is nothing wrong with not wearing rings.

  • Nia

    They have never been open about their relationship…HELL, it ain’t none of our damn business. Yes, they are a public couple (though they have never confirmed it publicly) but they deserve a PRIVATE life. Divorce my ass. Those two are in love and if they never confirm that they got married who gives a damn. Get a life people.

  • peop

    Maybe she’s just ashame of him. I bet there was no wedding. anything for some publicity right!!!!!

  • Dazed

    @JorgeOoOo…Where and when was that confirmed about Bey and Jay’s wedding being on “Pop Fiction?”

  • http://www.myspace.com/birdshu Bird

    You know how these two roll. They don’t want to give anything to the media other than some photo ops. I was wondering how they would handle the ring situation since the presence of rings would confirm the marraige. I’ll wait and see if B goes out without her ring which I’m sure is beyond beautiful. I could even see them not selling the wedding pics. Lawd knows they don’t need the money, but I want to see them man.

  • I’m Just Me

    It seems the quieter it’s kept the longer the relationship lasts so I am glad it finally happened so we can move on and also COngrats to them and hopefully this last longer than many Hollyweird marriages.

  • http://www.myspace.com/mistikay GreenEyes

    Yes, they are entitled to privacy.. but why be in the spotlight then Not everyone wishes them bad.. some people just want to know cuz they are fans (not me, I could care less) It just kills me how these celebs, mainly Bey, be acting all private, yet over-saturating herself on every damn channel you turn on. Its whateva to me… It just seems to me if you’re a celeb.. then you gotta take the good with the bad. That means all the riches and fame with all the people being up in your business. I think they create more a frenzy when they act so coy about it.. especially since people already know… they know what they doin and its not tryin to keep people out of their business.

  • Lauren

    Come on Jay…..its about that time, show that beautiful girl off!

  • pink88

    why wear a ring when you have a tattoo?

    you can take a tattoo off, but not a ring…

    and LMAO@ countdown for a divorce….

  • Sunshinegirl

    It can be annoying sometimes when people try to remain so private. It seems as if they spend more time trying to hide than to be happy. It’s not like people don’t know they are together. I can understanding wanting privacy at the wedding, but if I was married, I would want the whole world to know. I’d wear my wedding ring with a smile.

  • http://www.myspace.com/birdshu Bird

    Mahogany

    I’m sure people mag will probably have 1st access if any.

    ***************************************************

    That’s what I was thinking, but if they really want to shake things up and look out for our community they could GIVE the pics to Essence or Ebony rather than sell them to the highest mainstream bidder.

  • PANAMA’S PRINCESS

    UH…

    THAT DOES SEEM A LITTLE WEIRD.

  • as seen on t.v.

    they have always been a private couple…it’s no surprise that they are keeping their nuptials to themselves…everything is not meant to be shared w/the world…

  • PootyPoo

    I can’t blame them for wanting to keep as much privacy as possible. Regardless, I wish them my best & God bless!

  • J

    Stop hating. Despite their celebrity status, they want to keep things private. We can only respect that.

  • rfl

    Ms. Sugar Walls

    we are >>>>>>>>>>here<<<<<<<<<<<

  • LeeLee

    I give it two years, she must be knocked to wed…lol.

  • elle

    Good for them….They will announce their nuptials when they are good and ready.

    Keeping private with their personal matters is what has probably kept them together.

    We all know there is a lot of negative sh^t going down when dealing with the “public press”.

    They’re not promoting themselves.

    blessing 2 them

  • soulwoman

    I’m tired of hearing about Jayz and Beyonce. Couples get married every day. The media is obsessed with these two.

    Jay-z and Beyonce wanted attention from this wedding…that’s why they didn’t deny the marriage licence rumors.

  • Caramel Qtpie

    blacks folks cant ever be happy for other black folks!! *Its a damn shame because we need to prove other races wrong instead of so much hatred, and believe it or not we will come out on top* Jayz- and Beyonce have nothing to prove, they have everything they want. I wish I was in her shoes. I’m happy for them, and might I add they are a beautiful BLACK COUPLE WITH MONEY AND FAME.

  • Peanut Butter

    I wonder if his SON he has with that video model was at the wedding. He could at least let the little boy wear a suit and not them damn sandles and yankees caps he be putting them in. Hell it cold outside, put the boy in a suit for goodness sake the next time he takes photos. sheez!LOL

    This marriage will last for 5 yrs. For one it looks like they are on a Bob Johnson path, no matter how long they hang around Gweneth Paltrow they still Black folks, who don’t do nothing for the community, and that don’t work with folks like me. They clock is slowly running down.

    You can see the white media isn’t obsessed with these two, only the black media???

  • Peanut Butter

    Co sign with gimmie a break!

    That is the core reason why I don’t like B and J.

    They pimping the hood, I am not going to support them just cause they are black, they both snakes and swim in the same pool as Bob Johnson.

  • Ro Ro

    Truthfully I could care less. They make a nice “looking” couple. If they are married I wish them the best of luck. Marriage is a hard thing to committ to but if you find that special person, then it’s all worth it.

    As for the camel and his broad sharing the news with the world… that’s they business and they will tell it when they are ready.

  • Karen

    @ prttybrwngirl

    They SHOULD get married or the “POINT of Marriage” is because marriage is instituted by God. The “world” has set new standards of what relationships/marriage is suppose to be ( sex before marriage, living together, children out of wedlock)… True enough that the divorce rate is high, but that still does not mean you should not get married it may mean being very selective of a partner, involving God more, or a list of other reasons. But no where in the word does it say, it is okay to act like you are married or pretend that you are married.

    Now, I hope these comments are not taken the wrong way as to say that I am perfect or anyone that may have or IS in the above situations or different is just doomed to hell, no we all sin and fall short. I am NOT without sin and I am NOT saying that I am not guilty of living together w/o being married, or pre-marital sex. I do know that even though I may have done these things the bottom line is that I knew it was wrong and not what I should have been doing. But I just think it should be stated WHY people SHOULD get married and not just live together/act like married people. It was not intended to be that way……..and flat out it is WRONG…….just because it is a norm or because it seem right doesn’t mean that it is right. Not trying to judge I just wanted to address that question…

    **hope these comments don’t start too much of a bashing against me:) but hey, right is right and wrong is wrong I stand by my beliefs….I will accept it and move on (just a disclaimer for all the comments I may receive “going off on me” that I will not respond too:)

  • Earth Sign

    I hope they stay married a long time and have a whole bunch of little camels, but for some reason i dont think it will last

  • Hoopla

    Why can’t people just be happy for others?? SMH

    Congrats Jay and Bey!

  • Nikko

    I don’t get with this whole secret squirrel thing is about. Jay needs to let it be known that he finally made an honest woman out of his girl. At least that’s how any real Christian woman would want her husband to do. And we all know how Bey and family are all caught up in the church.

  • BLUNTBLAZER

    I AINT MAD AT J AT LEAST HE DID BETTA THAN USH

    http://WWW.MYSPACE.COM/THAGRINDAHOLIC

    CHECK THA NEW KNOCK

    “GRIMEY”

  • lucky

    Don’t look nothing into it ! Because those 2 “ALREADY MARRIED” Jay is about business they well handle that on their fav place the french rivera .I wouldn’t look to much into that

  • matthew is genius

    @ brea how are you doing after america’s next top model, did you get work.

  • matthew is genius

    @ karen there is no differnce in living together before your legaly married, and getting legaly married just to have sex. Marriage is in our hearts @ the end, it’s a bond between man woman and god. Not the paper. The paper just shows that people are ready for the WORLD to know they are spirtualy twined.

  • serene

    rich folks different. i knoe when i gets married, i’m going on a honey moon, and we’re both wearing our rings. Thats just me, just an average chick from ny.

    But this is only gonna get more annoying for them, the speculation of preggers, and/or marriage. This thing is a wrap if they just make a formal annoucement via PR or sumthing….and then i don’t have to hear it anymore.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty Aka The Bajan Superhead

    @ Brea

    What do you do when you have it all? What’s next? They have done it all! They have traveled the world and back again. Aint nothing else left. Why have a glamours wedding? They have glamours parties all the time. These two are in a bliss. They have lived their fantasy! What’s next-nothing! They don’t want anything else. Love conquers all things. You can have everything but if you don’t have love-you have nothing. They got love 4 real. They still together. I can never see these two parting. Who do you go to after Jay z? Nobody. This man has it all and all. Aint nothing else! If it is let me know-except Jesus!

    ———————————————————————————–

    Hush up w/ all that nonsense. Jay-z’s mortal you

    know. He maybe rich and well traveled like me but at the end of the day he’s still a MAN and MEN cheat honey! Who do you go to after Jay? You go to the next man who will promise to love you and do u until death do u part the same way Jay may have promised her in the beginning.

    he’s mortal get off his dick how!

  • Grace

    I DON’T BLAME THEM IF THEY NEVER TALK OF THEIR MARRIAGE. After 6yrs, it has worked for them. If they don’t talk about their relationship, then their can be no quotes or MISQUOTING. For those who think Bey & Jay owe y’all something since they are celebs, get a damn life! They don’t owe you $hit!

    Jay-Z is right. He said the media only care about the marriage, the baby and the divorce. Most of you hating ass single mamas are already counting down to the divorce.

  • a.r.

    yall kno yall wrong! they are not gonna get divorced anytime soon. didn’t you guys report that he and beyonce had matching tattoos on their ring fingers? DUH… that’s the ring replacement

  • Kay

    They don’t need to wear rings.. Thats why the got the matching tattoos..

  • NuAgenda

    Sounds like they trying to copy what Janet Jackson and her second husband did. Married for 9 years and never talked about it. Hmmmm…

  • CGJ

    I ain’t even mad at Jay-Z and Beyonce. And I’m sure Hov knew Mary was gonna give them a shout out. It’s no different than the way their relationship has been – they will never acknowledge their marriage publicly, and let people gossip and speculate. It keeps their names in peoples mouths, much to their amusement, I’m pretty sure…

  • Delilah

    I just think it’s hella sad when all people can do with their sad and pitiful lives is plan the demise of others. I am both a huge fan of them both, Jay mostly, and I am ecstatic that they have finally tied the knot. It doesn’t matter who they are, where they’re from, or how much money they have, love is love. So all this nonstop hating is for the birds. If they surround themselves with all this negativity people are dishing out, then yes, they might not make it through the storm. And this is probably why they keep it private. Many couples nowadays don’t wear rings anymore, it’s not about that nor has is ever been. It’s about unity. So for all of the people out there envying the two of them because your life is sad, pathetic and lonely. F OFF!!! And congrats to the newlyweds!!!

  • Sammie

    I agree w/ Delilah. Congrats Jay and B!!!

  • Grace

    COSIGN WITH DELILAH…….

  • Shawn08

    I am so happy for them! I went to the show last night in DC, and it was off the hook!!! Mary should have closed the show instead of Jay.

  • Atrscola08

    Isnt it obvious Jay don’t want people in his business. He makes music and thats all he wants to supply you with. he’s smart for not letting people into his personal life. Next thing you know there will be rumors of Beyonce having a baby with humps like that of a camel on its back.

  • Kenny

    TMZ has a pic of them coming off the plane in North Carolina, they even spotted Jay wearing a ring on his left hand.

  • Red

    who cares

  • http://www.tmz.com/2008/04/07/bejay-honeymoons-in-exotic-greensboro-n-c/ beezy

    TMZ says:

    The newly married (or not) couple spent their first full day of (alleged) wedding bliss in romantic North Carolina.

    Mr. Z chartered a private jet to take him and his wife, girlfriend, lady friend to Greensboro where he performed at a concert. The hooded rapper was sporting what maybe, sort of, looks like it might be a wedding ring.

    The camera-shy couple did show off a matching pair of … laptops.

  • DA TRUFF HURTZ!!!

    MARY J CAN ADMIT IT!!!

    MARTIN LUTHER KING JR. WAS THE TRUTH!!!

    FREE AT LAST…….

  • Soul Cry

    CONGRATS TO THEM! Forget all the rest…it’s their business, let them handle it how they see fit. Fe real.

  • Now what

    Whassup people? First of all, we did not forget about the Jayonce Wedding

    I personally didn’t care. Eh…that’s just me. I mean…congrats, but hey…it’s been

    6 years of constant rumors anyway. I just grew tired. Plus, there’s no “official” word. Despite reports,

    I’m sure it went down like this:

    - Kelly and Michelle were ushers.

    - The Background music was B’Day songs.

    - The Maid of Honor/Mother of the Bride was Tina Knowles

    - The Bridesmaids were probably extras that Tina hired to dress up as Beyonce.

    - The Groomsmen were Bleek, Young Guns, and Beanie Sigel (via Satellite).

    - The Ring Boy was Kanye, but he threw a fit and got promoted to Best Man.

    - The Ring Boy ended up being Pharell

    - The Flower girl was Solange, and instead of flowers, she threw copies of her last album.

    - Matthew Knowles was the officiating minister, because nobody can do it better than him.

    - Matthew gave Jay-Z the SEOD before he gave her away.

    - Jay-Z gave Matthew $2.5 Mill.

    - Matthew quickly removed the SEOD.

    - LaToya and LaTavia carried Beyonce’s train, because they were use to being behind her.

    - Farrah was in charge of parking.

    - Right as Minister Matthew asked “If any one oppose these two…let em speak now or forever hold their peace,” Rihanna stood up.

    - Right as the entire Knowles family was about to Whoop Dat Ass, Chris Brown started crumpin infront of her to cause a distraction as Rihanna made her escape.

    - When the minister said, “You may now kiss the bride” Jay-Z took 10 paces backward then kissed her to avoid swallowing her face.

    - T-Pain sung at the reception.

    - Kelly caught the bouquet but was ordered to give it to Tina in exchange for Beyonce’s Etta James wig.

    - Lil Wayne caught the garter belt and winked at Baby, Nivea, and Trina simultaneously, then spiked the punch with syrup

    - Matthew and Tina Knowles is now in negotiations with multiple news and magazine sources to sell pictures of the wedding for $21.3 Mill a piece

  • va

    will they ever admit they go together just say it yall we go together damn!

  • kels

    LOL @ Foxie! Their fans do know the deal! It’s the haters that are mad cause they don’t know!

  • http://www.lovingmeans@aol.com 1TruDiva w/ The PlatinumVocals!!!

    @ Now what–

    I….am….officially….

    DEADer than a mufukka!!!!

  • http://www.lovingmeans@aol.com 1TruDiva w/ The PlatinumVocals says the concert was OFF THE CHAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    The concert was in all honesty, one of the better ones I’ve attended in a l-o-n-g time!

    Mary almost gave it away!! She gave Jay and Bey a shout out right? She said everything but “Congratulations to the husband and wife”. I looked at my best friend and said “told you.” Lol!!! The damn nose bleed seats were the only ones NOT sold out! If you’ve ever been to the Greensboro Coliseum, you know that the floor seats are tight as hell! They’re nothing but folding chairs! When Mary sang–”Enough Cryin, the ladies took over but when Jay hit the stage, the crowd went bananas!

    One thing that pissed me off is the way they charged an arm and a leg for parking. Normally, parking there is $5.00 Why they damn near shut down East Lee St. to High Point Rd. and every business close to the coliseum and their mother was charging $20.00??

    Idiots! Lol!!

    One of the after parties was at Alexander Devereux. They charged $40.00 a person and told the crowd that Jay-Z was going to show. Around 1:30, people starting questioning whether they could get their money back ’cause you know Hov was long gone! Lol!!!

  • http://www.lovingmeans@aol.com 1TruDiva w/ The PlatinumVocals says the concert was OFF THE CHAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Be back after eight!

  • http://www.myspace.com/tearose33 Teraose

    Hey Hov and Bey know its the best thing to do to keep their wealth protected….they luv each other true, but its the paperwork that counts, got to make sure that paper is secured. Rings and big weddings are not important….Good Luck Guys

  • bee

    I can understand wanting privacy and all but they are just a bit wierd. I mean you are married now there is no need to hide that. Love is a beautiful thing you can acknowledge it and still keep your privacy. I think that they are a perfect fit because they are both a bit wierd. The reasons marriages in Hollywood don’t work are for the same reason they don’t work everywhere else. People don’t take the vows serious enough. But I think it is okay to admit that you are married. That is nothing to be ashamed off. It is beautiful thing. He should acknowledge his wife and she should acknowledge her husband.

  • Nic

    I don’t think Beyonce is in touch with her emotions whatsoever. She’s like a robot: dance. That’s all. Smile for the cameras. No depth. Why they pulled this prank of a “wedding” is beyond me.

  • Nic

    …was Rhianna at the wedding (hee hee!)?

  • Nic

    …I believe this is something Matthew insisted upon ’cause Bey is getting too old. Her career is already on the decline (no Grammys). So, no need to preserve her image as a sex kitten (even though a long term relationship sorta already kills that notion). Interested to see how this effects her career. Are those stripper moves still appropriate? Heck, they were inappropriate & tacky IMO before this April Fool’s Joke.

  • kels

    jjj, you still mad! Cause you sure show up in every thread of the Hip Hop Royalty Hov & Bee!

  • kels

    Entertainment Tonight just did a report on Hov & Bee. They both wrote their vows to each other. Witnesses said Hov was teary eyed. Bee sang to Hov and they danced to Crazy in Love!

  • usuck

    Leave them alone. It is their business. No wonder people hate these cheap blogs.

    usuck

  • Y

    although i truly believe this weekend was a celebration of a “possible” engagement…it’s really none of our damn business what they hell went on this weekend. fan or not. i know some will think “well it all comes w/being a celeb” but really IT STILL AIN’T NONE OF OUR DAMN BID-NIZ!! lol!

  • Missy

    Congrats Hov & Bee! Beautiful black power couple to the fullest! Love is truly a beautiful thing! They were made for each other. Wish them all the best!

  • Missy

    LOL @ the HATERS mad cause they can’t see pics! This is just too funny!

  • http://Blackwomensweb.com Blackwomensweb.com

    First congrats to them…Secondly, do you not think that this was a joint decision to not wear rings? We have to get out of thinking that everyone has the same feelings or attachments to rings, etc. I think you start thinking differently when millions of people are watching your every move.

  • Just Sit and Be Pretty

    @jjj

    hey girl!

  • miranda

    That’s part of being famous everyone know your business dont become famous if you dont want people in your business keep it real for your fans their not benefiting me i didnt get invited to the wedding so who cares they need to get use to it and stop hiding what they got to hide they should come out with a reality show people cherish them like they’re the only married couples

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