Baby Mama Drama: MaShonda Shows Face at a Swizzy and Keys Party

Posted on September 17th, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Alicia Keys, Baby Mama Drama, News, On the Party Scene, True or False?

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Bossip has learned that Mashonda may have crashed an Alicia Keys and Swizz Beatz party in NYC.

Word on the street is that Alicia Keys threw Swizz Beatz a huge shin-dig at Kush nightclub in NYC after the VMA’s for his birthday.  The party was underway and everyone was having a great time until Swizz’ ex-wife Mashonda came into the building.  Witnesses say that Mashonda paid security over $1000 to get into the club and started trouble from the moment she hit the door.  We hear that Alicia remained calm but Mashonda went in on Alicia making it almost impossible for the verbal brawl to go unnoticed. Mashonda, get at us, we know you didn’t play yourself this hard did you?

Story developing…..

  • Nam

    ooooh juicy

  • Manda bossip have yall ever heard od NSFW?!?!?!?

    ive lost all respect for alicia
    creepinn with somebody elses man makes you a skeezer, simple as that. on that note i HOPE mashonda didnt go down like that. it may have been satisfying to go in on her at the moment but i bet shes kickin herself in the butt now if that did go down. smh

  • WakeDaFuKUp

    SMH… come on now… yall know yall would be ready to get in a chicks azz if she knowingly was humpin ya man while yall was still married.. she probably did play herself, but come on now… she gotta get that frustration off some kinda way..

    Some of yall done knocked on a few doors.. screamin.. “Jodie… i know u in there with that Hoe.. u better come out our imma fuk yo car up..” .rofl

  • Mika

    SMH….PO thang….I hope that is not true…

  • http://www.highsnobiety.com/news/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/kanye-west-entourage-fashion-week-paris.jpg Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    That’s right Mashonda, go beat that homewrecker’s a$$!!!

    Handle your business Ma!!!

    She couldn’t even wait until the ink dried on the divorce papers to get at Swizz Beak and she can have damn near ANY man she wants regardless of her cankles…

    SHOWTIME!!!

  • DATPHILYGIRL

    I read that he invited her and she came wit kanye’s ex and everything was all good….

  • Niecey

    That is not true…Swizz invited her….she was more that gracious….she even spoke to Alicia

  • Aunt Viv

    I’m not sure about how true this is…but I am still disappointed in A.Keys and Swizz.

  • S.W. DC

    I’m putting my money on Mashonda. I really don’t think A Keys is ready for it.

  • Manda bossip have yall ever heard of NSFW?!?!?!? have some class dang!

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    That’s right Mashonda, go beat that homewrecker’s a$$!!!

    Handle your business Ma!!!

    She couldn’t even wait until the ink dried on the divorce papers to get at Swizz Beak and she can have damn near ANY man she wants regardless of her cankles…

    SHOWTIME!!!

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    yall are killin me today!! ROFL!!! :D

  • http://bossip TIABABY09

    i know she’s VERY upset about the whole ordeal,but homegirl is going about it the WRONG way. Swizz is in love and no matter how bad it may hurt for her to hear that,she has no other choice but to except it and move on. Weve ALL been at that point where a man just pushes us to no limit,but Mashonda must realize that she too will soon find happiness again,but this particular behavior she’s demonstrating right now is NOT gonna change anything. i KNOW she know’s that by now.

  • tb

    Is it really that serious? Damn! The man don’t want you hoe!

  • Manda bossip have yall ever heard of NSFW?!?!?!? have some class dang!

    S.W. DC

    I’m putting my money on Mashonda. I really don’t think A Keys is ready for it.

    ============
    ditto lmao

  • http://www.everythingsmelo.com melo

    Yea Mashonda!!! Screw that home-wrecker and her cheating man!

  • http://twitter.com/mastermk7 MasterMK

    Can you blame Mashonda, A-Keys stole her man.

  • LurkingHottie101

    How do you steal a man?

    Did she chain him up, hold him against his will. Did she put a gun up to his head and force him to leave his wife. ???????

  • Co Co

    Why is everyone puting SHAME on A Keys. What about SHAME on Swizz. He was the one who was married!

  • http://www.highsnobiety.com/news/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/kanye-west-entourage-fashion-week-paris.jpg Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    I’m putting my money on Mashonda. I really don’t think A Keys is ready for it.
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    @S.W. DC & Mandah

    LMAO & SMH!!!

    Me too, LOL!!!

    “Superwoman” my a$$, I can see Mashonda beating the breaks off of Alicia Keys… She don’t want it with Mashonda…

  • http://www.freewebs.com/bestsexever redcora

    OOOHHHH BOSSSIIPP LYYINN.. now that’s a first

  • http://Bossip Kimberley

    LOL @ Wake…

  • THE SoSelPHish 1

    need more info…

    Make that… ‘accurate’ info!

  • Joja86

    I heard a different version..heard swizz found out about the surprise last min, invited mashonda & she was very cordial & even shook hands with keys which she was shocked

  • I’m Just Me- RE: CRACKING ME UP SINCE 2008!

    I could totally believe he invited her.

  • brooklyn kid

    why blame the other woman it takes two – that is if this story is true at all. UM, Wendy Williams was at that very…her big mouth would have mentioned this incident on her show, this kind of gossip drama is what Wendy is known for.. So if big mouth Wendy didn’t mention it, I doubt very seriously if this is an accurate account.

  • I’m Just Me- RE: CRACKING ME UP SINCE 2008!

    What happened to Kerry though?

  • 5star

    Ladies, you can’t take a man that don’t want to be took (taken)! So, want y’all stop being so insecure and handle your business at home. You can tell the people on here insecure about their relationships, because they doing some Texas sized hating on AKeys!

  • *+*ITS M3 B!TCH*+*

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    I’m putting my money on Mashonda. I really don’t think A Keys is ready for it.
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    @S.W. DC & Mandah

    LMAO & SMH!!!

    Me too, LOL!!!

    “Superwoman” my a$$, I can see Mashonda beating the breaks off of Alicia Keys… She don’t want it with Mashonda…

    LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOO YOU HAVE LEFT SOME OF THE FUNNIEST COMMENTS!! I AGREE SHE DON’T WANT IT WITH MASHONDA.

  • Tameka

    Go Moshanda Alicia ruin your family homewrecker

  • Back On My Swag

    I heard Mashonda has landed her a Baller WHILE STILL MARRIED to all of you who wants to scream “homewrecker” to A.Keys. Both mashonda and swizz have moved on…why can’t y’all.

    Also, Mashonda got the better end of the stick, cause her dude is FIIIOONNNEEEE!! (If the rumor is true) And his contract says he has paper for days!!

    Similar to Lil Wayne’s baby momma, she has UPGRADED from Swizz….congrats to all involved.

  • KayKay

    I would have whooped her! Straight to the damn point, whoop her at the party to be exact!!

  • Tara

    To hell with the all this, I am just waiting for Maxwell to show up on the Ellen show….let the swoon fest begin

  • Tara

    I am with Mashonda she should beat the hell out of Alicia. I totally give my permission. Alicia is rubbish… with crap taste in men.there are more talent out there she looks ordinary and there is nothing special about her. She always seems preachy…she thinks she is the only person in the whole world with 2 brain cells. Is this Swiss Beats dude Jewish…look at that NOSE. He is well Ugly.

  • tbizzle

    A Keys knows to keep her mouth quiet at that party cos Mashonda wouldve put a foot in her ass! no joke.
    I would double up on Mashonda smacking that hoe DOWN!!!
    i like keys but she wrong. she just wrong.

  • Photog

    What’s sad is that most of you people on here don’t even know the whole Mashonda story. She’s a no talent hack who married Swizzy to get a deal. That crap fell through in a major way. Dude finally caught wind to what was going on, and left. Can’t say I blame him for that. He filed for divorce and honored his financal obligations because of his son. Mashonda is the one who’s been going to the media with these “I’m a woman scorned” crap, and y’all eat it up. A. Cook played the sidelines until the divorce, then stepped out there wit dude. Get y’all stuff straight before y’all start calling people names. It’s obvious she’s looking for attention. She’s the one who keeps it going. She needs to go look for employment… not space in the gossip pages.

  • STOP THE LIES AND BS

    SOME OF YOU HAVE NOOO CLUE…….SHE DID NOT STEAL THIS WOMAN’S MAN…. HE AND ALYCIA DID NOT START TO DEAL WELL UNTIL THEY WERE LEGALLY SEPRERATED AND FILED FOR DIVORCE…..THE ONLY REASON THAT THEY WERE STILL LEGALLY MARRIED IS BECAUSE MASHONDA REFUSED TO SIGN THE PAPERS FOR OVER A YEAR……NOT BECAUSE SHE WAS IN LOVE BUT BECAUSE SHE WAS BEING SPITEFUL AND IMMATURE..LONG BEFORE ALYCIA WAS IN THE PICTURE ..MASHONDA HAD BOYFRIENDS AND WAS DOING HER OWN THING AS WELL….SHE WAS BEING UNCLASSY AND PUTING THIS FAKE STORY OF BEING CHEATED ON OUT THERE FOR FALSE SYMPATHY. BY THE TIME HE AND MS. KEYS STARTED DEALING IT HAD BEEN OVER A YEAR SINCE HE AND MASHONDA LIVED TOGETHER OR SHARED THE SAME BED THE ONLY CONTACT WAS BUSINESS AND FOR THE CHILDRED….THE JUDGE WOULDN’T EVEN GIVE HER AN AT FAULT DIVORCE SETTLEMENT BECAUSE THERE WAS NO CHEATING, DATING ON SWIZZ’S PART PRIOR TO THE LEGAL SEPERATION AND ORIGINAL DIVORCE FILING…..

  • Ummmmmm….

    This could have turned out to be a VERY messy situation, yet it looks like everybody is cool. Good for them…

  • Ashley

    Here’s the thing no one respects the marriage establishment anymore. That does not excuse it. No one hardly respects god anymore and the things he expects of us. Many things are wrong with the world, people are more shallow love doesn’t mean anything and neither does god. In a godless world marriage means nothing.

    If you marry a man or woman whose morals are questionable you should not be suprised if he/she cheats on you, no matter how much they say they love you or how many promises they make.

  • The lovely1

    Wow this is killing me. First of all Wendy Williams said that neither Alicia or Swizz was at his party, they were at the VMA’s so I don’t know where this story came from. Second, it takes 2 to tangle and to blame it on Alicia is crazy. Swizz was married to Mashonda, not Alicia, so he needs to be the one that gets lashed at. All I got to say is Karma is a MF!

  • http://bossip I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    You know what since I`m such a gentelman I am offering to MASHONDA right now ! I got your back girl ! ” This what I am going to do for you ” ! As punishment ” I`m going to beat Alicia Keyes from the back ” !!! I`ma make her pay I`ll Talky Style !

    I`ma giver !

  • cocoa49

    correction”Mashonda”

  • candy

    Alicia keys,is a home wrecker for breaking up a marriage,but it’s all good because she’s going to get what she deserves.

  • KayKay

    Where is this world coming to? It just boggles my mind with these comments. Like marriage is not sacred. If they were broken up like some of you claimed they were, then they still should have waited until the ink was dry on the divorce papers. No where in the bible does it say if your seperated, u can still bang somebodies back out. Come on ya’ll, what have you been taught all of your lives??

  • KayKay

    And all this get over it BS, this was not a 2 month marriage with no kids. Let’s see if you can say the same thing if you were on the same boat. SMH at all or the ignorance…

  • H2O ***THE WATER BOY***

    I’m guessing the people who support A.keys adulturess azz come form single parent households and had no true family stucture growning up, so it’s easy for you BASTARD to excuse her actions yall don’t know any better. Your out look on the institution of marrige is tainted..there probably no help for you. Your childhood was so screwed up because of a absentee father or a crack head mother you just feel bitter and cold inside and this sad story is easy for you to pick apart and say well thats just life…sad

  • STOP THE LIES AND BS

    @ CANDY….. THERE WAS NO HOME TO WRECK THEY WERE LEGALLY SEPERATED AND DIVORCE PETITION FILED (M. REFUSED TO SIGN THE PAPERS) BEFORE HE AND A. KEYS STARTED DEALING AND THEY HADN’T LIVED TOGETHER OR SHARED THE SAME BED FOR OVER A YEAR…..THE MARRIAGE WAS LONG OVER

  • intensemocha

    KAYKAY

    SO WHAT’S THE ALTERNATIVE-RUN AROUND TOWN AND STALK THEM, TALK SHIAT, BE MISERABLE

    MY DEAR-YOUR ONLY CONCERN AT THIS POINT IS TAKING CARE OF YOU-HEALING AND MOVING

    IF YOU TRULY LOVE YOURSELF-WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD YOU WASTE YOUR TIME ON TWO PEOPLE WHO OBVIOUSLY DON’T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOU

    IT’S YOUR LIFE WASTE IT-WALLOWING IN SELF-PITY

    OR YOU CAN PICK YOURSELF UP AND MOVE ON

    STOP FOCUSING ON SHIAT YOU CAN’T CHANGE-THAT SHIAT IS WHAT IS THAT NICCA WITH ALICIA KEYES AND NOTHING YOU DO IS GOING TO CHANGE THAT-DAYUM

    YALL HEFFAS CAN’T LIVE OR BREATHE WITHOUT A MAN- A PIECE OF D$CK MAKE YALL WORLD GO ROUND

    THAT’S WHY MEN LOVE DUMMIES-AND YALL ACT ALL BEWILDERED WHEN THEY LEAVE YOUR ARSES, DUH GET A BACK BONE MEN LIKE THAT NOBODY WANTS A DOORMAT OR YES MAN ALL THE DAMN TIME

    TRUTH BE TOLD IF SHE WOULD HAVE PUT IN HIS ARSE THE FIRST TIME HE CHEATED-HE WOULDN’T HAVE FELT SO COMFORTABLE FLAUNTING ALICIA KEYES AR0UND TOWN LIKE HE DOES

    A MAN ONLY DOES TO YOU WHAT YOU ALLOW

  • Rihanna’s sharp n pointy witchy fingernails took the oath

    LMBAO @ Slide
    “swizz beak”

  • intensemocha

    SOME PEOPLE CAN SEE THEIR ARSE FROM THE HEAD

    NOBODY IS SUPPORTING ALICIA KEYES DUMMY OR CHEATING

    WHAT WE ARE SAYING IS REALIZE WHEN IT’S TIME TO MOVE ON

    AND YOU ONLY MAKE YOURSELF LOOK LIKE A DAMN FOOL FIGHTING AND ARGUING OVER SOMEONE WHO DON’T WANT YOUR ARSE ANYMORE

    IT’S A MARRIAGE LICENSE NOT A FUGGIN TITLE-YOU DON’T OWN THE PERSON

  • intensemocha

    EVEN AFTER YOU BEAT HER ARSE-AS IF SHE WOULD STAND THERE AND LET YOU

    HE STILL DON’T WANT YOUR ARSE SO THEN WHAT?

  • intensemocha

    IF YOUR MARRIAGE ENDS BECAUSE YOUR HUSBAND CHEATED IT’S THE NEXT WOMAN’S FAULT

    IF YOUR HUSBAND REMAINS FAITHFUL AND NEVER CHEATS THEN HE TAKES CREDIT FOR THAT-HIM

    EXACTLY HE AND HE ALONE MAKES THE DECISION TO CHEAT

  • H2O ***THE WATER BOY***

    Duh…Which way did he go Geroge, duh-which way did he go? ..Swizz looks like whateva that bird was on Bugs Bunny…

  • H2O ***THE WATER BOY***

    @intensemocha…single parent household huh? nah for real right…who’s your daddy?

  • yessir

    ALICIA KEYS IS A HOMEWRECKER. MAY SHE BURN IN HELL

  • STOP THE LIES AND BS

    ALSO MY BIBLE DOESN’T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT KARMA….SO THOSE THAT ARE TALKING ABOUT KARMA EITHER YOU ARE NOT CHRISTIAN/MUSLIM/ OR JEWISH MAYBE YOU ARE BUDIST OR INTO MYSTICISM OR WHAT EVER ELSE BUT KARMA AND THE MONOLITHIC RELIGIONS ABSOLUTELY DON’T MIX IE..IT..DOES NOT EXIST IN THE TEACHINGS OF THE BIBLE KORAN OR TORAH TRYING READING THEM AGAIN….. YOU CAN’T HAVE IT BOTH WAYS…..

  • H2O ***THE WATER BOY***

    WITH YOUR ETHICS I DOUBT YOU BIBLE MEANS ANYTHING TO YOU IT’S JUST FOR SHOW…YOU ((((STOP THE LIES AND BS))))…THE SOURCE MAGAZINE IS NOT A BIBLE HOMEGIRL

  • Renee

    FAMILY-Let’s STOP devaluing the institution of marriage and the sanctity of the marriage vows. If you take the vow, then change your mind, stay single and alone till the ink is dry.

    If you meet a man that has taken the vows, despite the circumstances, honor YOURSELF and stay OUT of it completely, in ALL ways till the ink is dry. If a man wants a divorce-he gets one..PERIOD!

  • H2O ***THE WATER BOY***

    THETS EXPLAINS IT ^^^^ JSUT WHAT i THOUGHT…

  • classy songbird

    OMG ALL I HEAR ARE YOU IDIOTS TALKING ABOUT HOW ALICIA KEYS IS A HOMEWRECKER. FYI… SWIZZ LEFT HIS HOME.. OK SWIZZ LEFT HIS HOME FOR HER. WHAT ABOUT THE MAN AND HIS WRONG DOING COME ON PEOPLE GET A GRIP.IF THATS WHAT MAKES HIM HAPPY AND A KEYS IS HAPPY LET THEM BE DAM!! STOP HATIN MIND YOUR BUSINESS.

  • Renee

    Besides=Swizz invited Mashonda to the party that Alicia was giving him without Alicia’s knwoledge…HMMMMMMMMMM

    Like I said when a man WANTS a divorce, he GETS one!

  • Nu Yorker

    Alicia Keys needs to stop acting like she is ms. goody goody. She need to be lucky her voice was on point and she needs to start getting up from the piano. Its getting old especially when mad other singers can play the piano better. Her new single is wack too! Her singing at the bet awards last year when she brought up singers from back in the day was off. Karma is a BI***!

  • Renee

    Nu Yorker-I concur, that new single is REALLY wack! And for those who say that we’ll buy her CD anyway-NOT!

    My circle of about 500 has discussed this and we have vowed NOT to support her music, because of the obvious lack of respect she has shown for another woman.

  • Nu Yorker

    All you who don’t call her a home wrecker need to be ashamed? U know if that was your man or women who cheated you wouldn’t be as nice!

  • H2O ***THE WATER BOY***

    @ INTENSEMOCHA
    AND TOGETHER YOUR PARENTS COULDN’T RAISE YOU TO TALK BETTER THAN THAT?
    ALL THAT PROFANITY -YOU CLEARLY SUFFERD AT SOME POINT GROWING UP YOUR SO ANGRY AND NEED A HUG-SERIOUSLY XOXOXOXOXOXO THERE NO DO YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT HONEY…COME ON I’LL LISTEN

  • Eva Montego

    I fail to see whats the attraction for women to this Swiss Beats character.

  • tg

    This is why – people – you can’t believe everything you read. We are always portrayed the same way in the news, etc. And others are always portrayed their way in news – and both is a bunch of BS. Perfect example: Every white man who commits murder was ONCE a nice guy. Every black person who commits murder has a wrap sheet as long as my arm. Get my point? Portraying black women as drama queens is so stereotypic – it’s pathetic. The majority of us are NOT like the housewives from Atlanta – trust me.

  • http://bossip romeo

    OKAY SHE’S A HOMEWREAKER NEXT SO WHAT …AND THAT DON’T TAKE AWAY THAT ALICIA IS A GIFTED TALENT MULTI- PLATINUM SELLING 12 GRAMMY AWARDS PLUS NUMEROUS AWARDS ACTRESS HUMANITARIAN AND ICON WHAT….. GET OVER IT

    WHO’S GONNA CHECK ALICIA BOO?

  • KELSS

    Some of you sound HELLA STUPID!

    THE HOMEWRECKER IS SWIZZ!

    ONLY THE MARRIED PERSON CAN “WRECK” THERE OWN HOME!

    THE DEADBEAT LEFT HIS WIFE AND FAMILY.

    HOW SAD!

  • Renee

    romeo-YOU don’t know me sweetie. Nothing hoodrat here. Clearly YOUR level of intellect is beneath mine, since YOU are the one that has decided to take the low road (name calling, profanity)

    I am on the image making side of the entertainment business, in a HUGE way and have been for a very very long time..

  • been broke up

    hima and masonnda was not together people

  • http://bossip miss dior

    It takes two to tango, he left her for Akeys, so why is she a home-wrecker?

  • Renee

    Romeo-And by the way, you are correct, Alicia is a multi-platinum selling artist TODAY.

    But the industry is fickle and fame can be fleeting..One day you are in and the next day you are OUT! So I hope she stops burning bridges and saves her money. Cause real talk..the new single is NOT the business..

    I’m just sayin..

  • Crunch Berry

    It doesn’t say Karma but it does say that whatsoever a man sows, that shall he also reap. Same concept different wording.

  • KELSS

    I can’t blame the chic Alicia about what someone ELSE did to THEIR HOME!

    I can’t fault Alicia.

    HE’S THE STUPID AZZ FOR TAKING THE OKIE DOKE FOR LEAVING HIS WIFE AND FAMILY.

  • Renee

    Thats a good idea-Love Mashonda. I think that is precisely what i will suggest to my circle…

  • WhySoAngryOverSomebodyElsesMan

    I sense some very angry women in these comments. Ya’ll dont know a piss pot from a crock pot in this situation and ya’ll playin God with judgement. hillarious! Rock On Alicia!

  • KayKay

    @intensemocha

    And for the record I am very happily married and have been for a long time. What about you???

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    Whether invited or not, why would she go???

    Especially if it’s true about him cheating on her with another woman? The LAST thing I want to see (if I’m still healing) is them together.

    I mean, why torture yourself further?

    I don’t know why some of us want additional pain inflicted upon us…by ourself!

    That was just dumb.

  • !!!!!R.I.P MIKE!!!!!

    THATS THEIR PROBLEM NOT MINES AND IF I WAS MASHONDA I WOULD CONTINUE TO MOVE ON TO SOMETHIN BETTER AND GET MY MONEY FROM SWIZZ EVERY MONTH END OF STORY.

  • I Luv NeYo

    I read on another site that everything was very civil and that she even shook Alicia’s hand..

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    AAAAAAAAAANNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD—–

    If she was TRULY invited, why did she have to pay to get in???

    That was just dumb!

  • Black Kate Moss

    I met Mashonda once in Atlanta and we went out for drinks. She was a class act. Although I like A. Keys as an artist, she should have considered the implications of her earlier actions because they did, att he minimum, contribute to the divorce.

    Plus Mashonda speaks my language – fashion – and A. Keys has never been on a best dressed list. LOL

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    @ ROMEO–

    You’re exactly right–before all of this between the three of them I damn sure didn’t know who this woman was but I can honestly admit I was involved in a long term relationship and found out he was cheating.

    At the end of the day once we come to the realization that he’s involved with someone else, it’s time to gather some self-esteem and move on.

    That’s when the healing process can begin.

    The first person I’m concerned about is me. The LAST people I’m concerned about are them.

  • Bossip=One Of The Most Egregious Setbacks For Black America

    Mashonda should have not wasted her money. What goes around comes around. I have mad respect for Alicia, but the busines with her doing Swiss when he’s married is nothing but a disaster and bears no blessings. Alicia can have any man, who is single, but she got a married one? Come on.

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    I can tell the age, mindset and depth, of some of these posters are somewhat young. Not to belittle anyone in this thread. However–once you can get past infidelity (NO MATTER WHO’S AT FAULT) you can start to move on and grow as an individual.

    There are very few instances where all three parties can truly get along in the beginning.

    The healing process of the ending of a relationship is almost like the death of a loved one. There are five steps to dealing with it and they may come in different phases but the LAST step should be ACCEPTANCE.

    Moshanda–you’ve been hurt by all of this. You may not have been a direct cause of your husband’s infidelities but a painful realization is to determine what role you played in this. That’s not to say that you’ve cheated but there HAD to be some signs! Did you do all you can in addressing them? Honestly? Did you do everything you could to uphold this marriage as a wife?

    Before you guys come at me, think about it! I’m not condoning any cheater and when it happened to me, YES–I wanted to step to the other woman but what would that prove? If I beat the brakes off her will that make him want me again? If I followed them around town will that bring him back?

    I want a man to want me for what I bring to the table—certainly not out of pity.

  • Wanjiru®

    Some of yall done knocked on a few doors.. screamin.. “Jodie… i know u in there with that Hoe.. u better come out our imma fuk yo car up..” .rofl
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    DEAD* :)

    twitter.com/E_Wanjiru

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  • http://www.highsnobiety.com/news/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/kanye-west-entourage-fashion-week-paris.jpg Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    Look at this Big Nosed goofy a$$ ni@@a with that scarf around his neck trying to look “suave & debonair” but instead looks like a sissy… SMH

    SHOWTIME!!!

  • Love Mashonda

    Buy Mashonda 10 CD’s.–She has been in the business for 10+ years and has been and would have been an icon in the industry with her smooth satin voice and dance steps.

    Mashonda love Swizz for life…….She will never give up… Never………

  • Ladytanyae

    Guess mashonda was saying to Keys, “He’s all yours now, I got the loot!”

  • CindyCDTown

    However the story goes, I feel that Alicia downgraded her woman’s worth.

    You can look at it two ways: they fell in love and you only live once. Why not live it with the one you love? Sometimes life throws things at you and that person may have baggage just like you, but love is love.

    At the same time, however, if Swizz and Alicia were meant to be together, then they would have been together. As a woman I feel that it is best to step aside because he was not a man, he was a part of a family. I’d hate to be in her shoes because in the child’s eyes, she is the piece of the puzzle that does not fit, that had no place.

    Yes, if it was me, I’d blame him. He was the one Mashonda married. But at the same time, you’ve got Ms. Keys who sings and plays tunes of respect and love and she lowered herself to being second? Because that is what she was when he had a WIFE. That title is very POWERFUL, and if he did it to her…what may he do to you?

    And worst because you already know what he is capable of…cheat with you, cheat on you.

  • Speaking the truth…

    IF this is true…Mashonda just made a fool of herself. She had everyone on her side until that stunt. You can take them out the hood but ya can’t take the hood out of them.

    Its over ma…damn get over it.

  • Speaking the truth…

    @ACE

    THANK YOU!

  • WhySoAngryOverSomebodyElsesMan

    Mocha… LMAO!! you havent changed not ONE bit! Love you girl! -TC

  • actright

    It figures this sh*t starting site would post something like that while other sites state that he invited her and she was welcome by his family and friends. Stop trying to start mess all the freaking time…..

  • s.i.y.t

    tacky as hell. im happy for alicia and swiss. i dont believe they did it to hurt anyone. the only one thats hurt is the one that can’t get past old feeling. and alicia is better looking, better career, and a better woman all around.

  • Mock

    That’s a funny looking hook nose dude

  • cabletvlover

    I’ll bet none of you tramps and women haters who are in here defeding your idol alicia keys would like it if your significant other left you for another. I can’t believe how sensitive you guys are for another human being. This woman lost her husband and all you can say is get over it? She has every right to be mad at her man for betraying her as well as alicia for disrespecting her like that.Both swiss and alicia are phony .

  • Crank That

    Alicia Keys is fine! Mashonda looks like a gold digger…

  • The Butt Licker

    The light skin girl always wins….

  • THAGR81

    LMAO!!! SOMEBODY MUST HAVE SOME YOUTUBE FOOTAGE SOMEWHERE OF THIS ONE…..DAMN AND I DONT LIKE TO PAY $20 TO GET IN THE CLUB LOL

  • Nikita

    OOOHHHHHH!!!! I’d loove to see thaaaat.

    @ THAGR81:

    Yeah, meeee tooooo!!! $20… maybe $25

  • sexyma078

    Alicia the one throwing these elaborate bashes for a married man…thats playing ur self…pay for that man to get a divorce

  • SoSo

    y b f yall lol

  • Lolah

    I aint mad at Alicia, cuz don’t nobody know what mashonda and swizz’s relationship was really like…they could have been married but not in love so it is what it is…

  • deesac

    Please like none of yall have stole a man before. She needs to get a grip she fine as hell. You can not be someplace that your not wanted. FIND A NEW MAN!!!

  • http://bossip Dave

    Fu*k that sh*t! That was Mashonda’s husband! She need to beat Alicia’s homewreckering ass!

  • cocoabrown

    I know Alicia could do better…Swizz with his big nose, skinny little body. If it were me Mashonda could have his raggedy ass.

  • 5*Chick

    I don’t blame Mashonda, I would be pissed too. This women has been with him and had he’s children he could atleast given her the respect to let her know what was going on b4 he stepped out on her. But on the real, we can’t blame Alicia, I’m sure Swizz mentally was already withdrawn from his wife.

  • Kp

    what goes around comes around

  • http://www.bayareastreestyle.wordpress.com Katrina

    She didn’t play herself. Alycia Keyes broke her family up. As far as I’m concerned Mashonda gets pass to come to any event and yell at Alycia Keys whenever see wants! Alycia Keyes may act all classy, but she’s just a trashy home wrecker!

  • Joy

    I don’t care if he did invite her…I hate that situation period…

  • Love Mashonda

    Mashonda wrote the Blue Print for all R&B Singers today.

    Mary J. Blige, Beyonce and Mariah all sit on the shoulders of Mashonda. Her 10+ CD’s has garnished several awards. She can buy and sell artist of today.

    Mashonda will always love Swizz Beatz and will never give him up.

    Mashonda and Swizz Beatz equal forever.

  • Love Mashonda

    Just like Mount Everest….Mashonda and Swizz Beatz are one of the seven wonders of the world.

    May their love last forever and a day.

  • Samantha

    First of all he has made his choice she need to take her azz home to her kids before she get the beat down. Swizz Beatz has made his choice Mashonda need to go find her a man and stop acting a fool. Woman need to stop embarrassing themselves because at the end of the day she is the one who looks desperate. As far a what Alecia Keys and this man did before he broke up with his wife. I don’t know and really don’t care only God knows the real story. When woman get dumbed they spend a lot of time trying to blame other people for the break up and when the true story comes out you find out most of the story is BS.

  • ms. jackson

    even if i was done with that situation i wouldn’t have gone to the birthday party….you can’t be civil another way? I wouldn’t go to my ex-husband and the reason why he is yo ex’s get down….shake that b***h’s hand when she & ex hubby come by the house to pick up the kid….smh

  • Angel

    Alicia is like the rest of them. tsk tsk tsk.

  • lina

    Nashonda should sue Alicia Keys in a court of law for destroying her family. Alienation of Affection Law. SUE HER!

  • lina

    I mean Mashonda typo… SUE HER!

  • Andrea

    I agree with imoonah I also read that Swizz invited her & that he wanted her to attend. From what I read, there was no drama caused by Mashonda at that party. I also read that she initiated and shook A. Keys hand so what’s this story about or is it just to start a dialogue.. Let’s stop causing drama to a situation that is already sad enough! Can’t wait till the baby is born and the wedding (if there ever is one….hmmm) so we all can get over this..including me!

  • Ntando

    WAIT A YEAR?YOU ALL KNOW THAT JUST CANNOT BE TRUE.I LOGGED ON TODAY COZ I WANTED TO READ THE REAL STORY AND TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH,I AM NOT EVEN GOING TO START BUYING ANY MUSIC DONE BY ALICIA KEYES OR SWIZZ BEATS.HE LEFT HER WITH A 18MNTH OLD BABY,NOW THAT CHILD HAS TO BE RAISED BY DIVORCED PARENTS…THATS NOT RIGHT.NOW A.KEYS GETS HERSELF CONVENIENTLY PREGNANT…THAT IS NO WAY TO HOLD-DOWN A MAN.I AM MARRIED AND I HAVE A 19MNTH OLD SON AND ELIEVE ME I HAVE NO DESIRE TO RAISE MY SON IN ANY OTHER WAY.ALICIA KEYS KKEW WHAT SHE WAS DOING.SWIZZ BEATS IS NOT A MAN,HE WAS JUST LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO PAY HIS BILLS SO ALICIA KEYS WILL BE PAYING HIM FOR HIS SERVICES.THE BIBLE SAID THERE WOULD COME A TIME WHEN WOMAN WOULD GO TO EXTREME MEASURES TO GET MARRIED.

  • cece

    mashonda was very wrong and evil for doing this. i can see now why swiss left her. okay, get over it , mashonda’s man is with a new woman who is probably prettier, smarter, richer and more skills than her. why is this woman (mashonda) making her self look so stupid and vindictive. i can think of so much that could have been done with $ 1000.00 with this recession.

  • tatiyana

    wat makes me mad is that swizz beatz wife is sooo pretty so wat was the point of leavin her ugh and alicia keys my girl but she wrng she pregnant all ready and they just got seperated i would be mad to if i was his wife like wtf

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