YO! This wedding is far from ‘ghetto’ though… Make me wanna be there! Nice! lol

LOL! That is gross but he is giving Real a run for his money on the hair side…

Okay – to each his own as they say!

Click on our name to forever remember a loving couple on their special day.

Designer, glamorous and unique memorials.

LOL@ dudes eyes being closed as he is being fed.

I thought dude with the perm was a pimp. He look like it. Had hair that Katt Williams wish he had.

HELL AWAITS THEM!

What up NU

Jamil and Michael..that’s their names. They had a big monogram in the middle of the floor, but it looks like somebody cut it out the pic.

wow =O

Me

Jamil and Michael..that’s their names. They had a big monogram in the middle of the floor, but it looks like somebody cut it out the pic.
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Pure comedy…

ewwwwwwww

his hair is flawless!!!

Alrighty then.

Im so hurt right now…..ewwwwwwwwwwwww

ummm….interesting

I see something politically incorrect!!!

Whatever. If they love each other, then good for them. Funny how people rag on these guys yet are okay with folks getting married solely for fame and money (cough, Khloe and Lamar, cough) lol

THIS WEDDING TOOK PLACE IN THE ATL-(Go fiqure)

MICHAEL K. COLE & JAMIL SMITH COLE

The future Real & Chance…LMAO

“What in the hell is wrong with this picture?”…..

Nothing, this is what makes the world go around!

and, AROUND, and Around, and Around, until it’s spinning out of control!
Thanks Guys!

Nice cake.

I saw more of the pics on another website. It looked like a lovely wedding.

I THOUGHT THAT WAS KHOLE AND LAMAR’S WEDDING PICTURE!

smdh…wrong

TO EACH HIS OWN…GOTTA GIVE EM PROPS CAUSE THOSE MEN ARE CLEAN!

i don’t see anything wrong with these pictures. on the other hand, lamar and khloe’s “wedding album” made me lose my breakfast.

LMAO@ Ms. LADY….real and chance!…hilarious

S M H

is that his real hair, if so some of us ladies needs to ask his advise on hair care

The problem with this wedding is not how they look or who they are, it’s that there seems to be no connection between.
There are some other pics of this event online and the “bride” looks way happier than the groom. Body language say’s so much. Best wishes though, they certainly are stylin..

lill momma

is that his real hair, if so some of us ladies needs to ask his advise on hair care
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Lol. Yeah his hair is on point.

OMG! This is my hairdress in Minneapolis and his boyfriend!!!!!!!!!!! Talk of the Town hairsalon. I kid you not! OMG!

Sickening, sickening, sickening….

So it, isn’t enough to denigrate the Black women, pick on interracial couples, so now it is time to hate on same gender couples.

SO MATURE and CLASSY – NOT

And you all are worried that black men are leaving black women for white women? Too funny.

See them here: http://www.thetalkofthetownsalon.com/

Congrats to them! Atleast they arent on the DL and frontin with women!

Congrats to the brothas…. Check the shingles on the cake??? Foolishness….

GOIN STRAIGHT TO HELL IF THEY ALL DONT REPENT!!! IT IS A ABOMINATION IN GODS EYES!!!

the bride’s(ahem) hair iz lukin gud tho..but still wrong

It’s about to be a ‘GAY’ riot up in here! Wait and see! LMAO!!!

I’m glad that I am happy in my own skin (and I am proud to be loving the correct sex)…one day we will all have to answer to a higher power! Enough said!

MY BOO AND I ARE GETTING MARRIED IN 6 MONTHS! ON THE BEAUTIFUL ISLAND OF CRETE.

HE’S SO ROMANTIC, HE BOUGHT ME A 10 CARAT ROCK IRONICALLY THE SAME SIZE AS MY COCK!

@Yard man,Totally agree!!!

@ Fake Glok… Get a life.

My soul just collapsed…

THEY MAKE A GOOD COUPLE, CONGRATS!! I CAUGHT THE BOQUET AT THEIR WEDDDING!

JADE
MIND YOUR OWN BIZNES BYTCH!

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@ Fake Glok… Imposter someone else. Maybe I’d respect you more for who you are if you were yourself and stopped trying to come out here as someone you’re not. It’s not cool that you’re trying to defame or degrade the real Glok.

What a minute…What a minute…What just one damn minute……what..hmm…wait..WTF???

Ummmm…WHAT!

It’s all good. Live and let live. What difference does it make if they’re happy. They’re two consenting adults. It has nothing to do with you so mind your business. They can’t help it they were born that way. Love is love. Black people should be the first to recognize discrimination.

BULL! THIS IS WRONG. ANYONE WHO CANNOT LOOK AT THESE PICTURES AND INSTINCTIVELY KNOW ITS WRONG IN THEIR HEART IS PLAYIN THEMSELVES, AND YOU KNOW IT. OUR SOCIETY IS IN SHAMBLES, AND THESE THINGS ARE AN ABOMINATION. MY GOD PEOPLE, STOP TOLERATING EVERYTHING JUST TO GET ALONG AND NOT OFFEND PEOPLE.

i just threw up in my mouth…
and dude got the nerve to rock a damn beard

Cool, I wish I was invited..Best of luck & love.

Are you serious? What is RIGHT with these pictures should be the question. And then we wonder why our youth are so misguided. Gay isn’t okay, natural, or whatever superlative or descriptive you want to label it as. It is nothing more than deviant, carnal behavior cast upon the weak-minded and filthy.

Why do gay people always say they were born that way…..bullshit…..they chose that way!!! Right is right and wrong is wrong and it is wrong the reason why both of these guys have life in the first place is by a man and a woman coming together and creating them……show me two men coming together to create life or two women coming together to create life…..the body even knows it is wrong and wont allow it!!!

ALL IM GOING SAY IS THE MOST HIGH WILL JUDGE THESE FAGGTS ON ALL THEY ACCOUNTS LIFESTYLES LEZBOS TOO….MARIAGE IS A JOKE FOR THIS REASON ALONE….THE DEVIL IS WORKING HARD I SEE !

@LouisvilleSlugger – are you from the Ville?

lmao@his cufflinks

Does the long haired dude have a train on the back of his suit?

@ POLO

On point!!!!!!!

I thought the wedding pictures that I have seen as circulated on the web have been very tasteful, and to say the least, they had such an elegant wedding. it made me laugh at those that i have gone to in the past. these men really put the pedal to the medal. no stone was unturned and yes, it was very classy, elegant, and regal. good job, jamil and michael.

It is as wrong as two left feet trying to put on a correct pair of shoes. And yes it does offend me because examples are being set for out youth everyday. But ultimately GOD will deal with them.

aww thats nice, ppl should be able to marry who they want

Butterscotch

It is as wrong as two left feet trying to put on a correct pair of shoes. And yes it does offend me because examples are being set for out youth everyday. But ultimately GOD will deal with them.

Amen!

BEAUTIFULLLL!!!!!!!!!! :)

Is gay marriage legal in Georgia? Or was this a domestic partnership ceremony?

I bet he gets a commercial with Real for a Dr. Miracle.

Not my place to judge and I will not all Im saying is these two people have to answer for their indiscretions like we all do…However, I will say this @ least their love is real unlike Lamar and Khloe Kardashian…

Im dead @ him having a train on that suit…LMAO..

I hate to see what he put in his mouth later that night. No Homo!

In the words of a true Fag hag….this is a Monumental “FAGGY FAIL”
Lord, why must my people always try to be so EXTRA?
Happy union of not, this sh!t is about as country as a back-yard fish fry! LOL
I guess being a power bottom enough, he’s got to emasculate himself to the nth degree? That reggin got the nerve to have on a tux with a train but no veil(?) and a clip on hair-piece. Dude you OWN a salon…all you needed was a shape-up and a shave.

Seriously, I’ve seen straight wedddings 10 times more tacky than this – i.e. the ghetto fab one with the entire wedding party (including bride and groom)wearing graffiti airbrushed designs of their homeboy down the street. Its amazing to me that in 2009 people are STILL so damn judgemental and homophobic. These two PEOPLE are in LOVE and celebrating that. They clearly have a great support system and I applaud them for making it to this point. And you know being in the black “community” their hurdles have been that much higher getting to their special day. Bravo to them, and I wish them a long and happy life together.

All you out there that wanna hate on them should look at pictures of your own wedding…. you either don’t have any or yours was probably no where near as fly has theirs – you know you are LOVING the jewels on the cake

wow I donyt believe in gay marraige so thers a lot wrong with this pic

I thought Max B was locked up!!!

“Pop the top for more debauchery and laughs”

I hope you remember that statement the next time you try to get all outraged when some “white” site posts a slide show of ghetto kids wearing pimp suits to the prom and invites everyone to talk about how stupid they look.

Tails and a train…WTF. He looks like my old hair dresser (RIP Renaldo).

Whatever….but they should have stuck with the basic black tux….

Dammmmmm…. Men Down… Code “HEY”

Great for them, hopefully one day We as gay people will be able to legally marry

Your consistent small mindedness (which often shows itself in blatent homophobia) is caused me to choose NEVER again to visit your site AND to prevent ANY of my friends and family from visiting. Its time to take a close look at what your motives are and then grow.

He does have really nice hair…
outside of that… ummmm… NO COMMENT!

Ultimately… whatever your sexual preference is… we (human beings) all just want to be loved and understood…

So… to each his/her own.

@POLO…
LOL- you had me til you got to”The only despicable thing here today are those that choose to forget where they came from.”

Perhaps it is THESE MEN who forgot where they came from…a MOTHER and a FATHER. These 2 can produce NOTHING but fabulous hair.
If anything it makes me REMEMBER EXACTLY where I came from and I’m pretty sure NO ONE on Earth came from the union of 2 “anythings” of the same sex.

Back in the day gay men and women knew how to keep their mouths shut…a lot more should take up the practice. There are many gay people who have lived their whole lives without anyone knowing…and they all had normal homosexual relationships in the privacy of their own homes and social circles.

Gay or straight, when you put your business out there for the world to see…you open yourself up to ridicule…and lots of it. People react negatively to gay men mostly because they tend to throw it [PDA] in everybody’s face. For the record, I don’t want to see men and women all over each other either. Its a matter of respecting those around you. Think walking with a small child while everyone around you is cursing like a sailor. How would you feel?

No comment.

homo thugs!
ewwwwwwww

There is absolutely nothing wrong with this picture, beautiful cake, beautiful clothes and two beautiful men in love with one another. I stand up and I applaud this; the whole putting out there is irrevelant to the point. I love it. Right on!

LMAO @ BG

WOW, i got this email ystrdy… this is Jamil and Michael “Smitty Boyz” in tha email i got ther are waaay mor pics of this.. ma thing is, they had kids in this wedding y do that to tha babies?? gettn em all confused. if u gon do u do u.. smh!!

Why do gay people always bring up short lived marriages as an argument for them to get married?

@ Sanjor …
unfortunately, yes!
And I take it then that HE is the SHE in the relationship!!
BARF!!

and wats evn mor crazy, they actually had tha nerv to hav a pic of them prayin…. for wat? for GOD not to strike them dwn for this foolishness!!

This is wrong on so many levels. I see some people either don’t or have not picked up a bible based on some of these comments…

I never heard of gay pimps. Or at least that’s what they look like. SMH at the short one trying to parlay his fit into a “wedding dress”, holding a bouquet. GTFOH! But get used to it, there is alot more to come!

Why wouldn’t two grown men feed each other cake at their own wedding? And what’s wrong with them praying at THEIR OWN WEDDING? What, you can’t be a Christian and gay? I swear, so-called Christians can be some of the most hateful, hypocritical, judgemental people on the planet, and have the nerve to invoke the name of the great Peacemaker. Unbelievable.

@Holla….What the hip hop, random and confusing moments are you talking about?!?!?!?!

@MissKesha ….lol, lol

Say what you may, but that cake is the business. Forget them 2 they should have taken more pictures of that cake.

@ 3LuvMe* …and wats evn mor crazy, they actually had tha nerv to hav a pic of them prayin…. for wat? for GOD not to strike them dwn for this foolishness!!
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@Jamaquina.Cubana

I always thought the exact same thing. How can you be born gay when you don’t even know if your a boy or girl. Hell the only thing you know is the momma. I believe it is the whole “product of your enviornment” There’s more of them because that’s all you see on tv now…

I love how people can be so judgmental. I bet half of the people on here are adulterers, unwed, or just unsavory characters and are the first ones to holla about “this” being wrong. Go take care of your crib and don’t worry about what goes on under other people’s roofs.

@ Man, I just don’t care™

You a trip! Lol

I’m just speechless..the manbride’s hair..the extended train…lmao..I just can’t…ahaha

These pics have been all over the internet. Congrats to the happy couple. I don’t think they’re hurting anyone.

Say what you may, but that cake is the business. Forget them 2 they should have taken more pictures of that cake.
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Are you FAT?

@KayKay

“This is wrong on so many levels. I see some people either don’t or have not picked up a bible based on some of these comments…”

I picked up a Bible and it told me that I was going to hell because I ate some skrimps, wore clothes made of two kinds of cloth, and let a woman who was on her monthly come in my house. What should I do? You’re obviously an expert in Jesusness and I don’t want to go to hell. Kin ya hep me?

ROFL@ Jermaine!! LOL@ that last part though.

WTH??

I tell you what’s wrong with this pic. Oh boys perm is banging harder than most chicks walking around here. And the Suite with the train that’s real special.

Man, I just don’t care™

Why do gay people always bring up short lived marriages as an argument for them to get married?
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Because we can

How disrespectful to post pictures of random people who DO NOT EVEN consent to this?
And God bless these MEN for having found their love!!

@MORE ACES
“Why do gay people always bring up short lived marriages as an argument for them to get married?
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Because we can”
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Oh, okay. So we agree, there is no point and it is useless. Thanks.

EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW.
I wanna throw up looking at these pictures.

I wonder if the “brides” father “gave him” away at the wedding ….ceremony…

Dude’s hair looks real healthy and shiny!

“Treat my son like a queen or you will have to answer to me!”- The “Bride’s” Father
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Man, I just don’t care™

@MORE ACES
“Why do gay people always bring up short lived marriages as an argument for them to get married?
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Because we can”
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Oh, okay. So we agree, there is no point and it is useless. Thanks.

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Nope, I dont agree, but its cool though

@MORE ACES
“Nope, I dont agree, but its cool though”
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So, what’s the point of bringing up someone else’s short lived marriage? Not rhetorical. How does that stregthen the argument for pro gay marriage people?

So, what’s the point of bringing up someone else’s short lived marriage? Not rhetorical. How does that stregthen the argument for pro gay marriage people?
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It’s like “Let us Homos show yall how it’s done”

awww…they look cute, and happy. I love those pictures. whoever they are, congratulations to them. I wish them well. hopefully THEIR marriage will last and not end up in divorce like 50% of hetero marriages do.

@TheTallGroom

are those really your wedding pix?

I love it…good for you guys. Congratulations. you’re both very handsome…and your man’s hair is luxurious and beautiful…I’ve seen many BRIDES who wish they had that hair I wish you guys well. good luck, and it looks like it was a beautiful wedding.

how many children do you guys have? are they adoptive kids or from previous relationships (with women)?

See, yall done made the groom mad!

I saw an email with all of the pics and to be honest, their wedding seemed more put together and classy than most of these ghetto, hoodrat STRAIGHT couple weddings I’ve seen plastered all over the net. And who are any of us to judge them? They probably have a better relationship than most!!

@ TallGroom…

TELL ‘EM!!! Ain’t none of these hating ayss mofos paying your bills so who cares what they think!!!

I am a gay man and I am disgusted by the pics. I agree with people who love each other spending their life with each other, but they need to stop. We are all not like that…that is just a mochary to gay black men!!!! We are not all like that!!!!

ALPHA1906

I am a gay man and I am disgusted by the pics. I agree with people who love each other spending their life with each other, but they need to stop. We are all not like that…that is just a mochary to gay black men!!!! We are not all like that!!!!
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Well I hope you are not like them dudes down in Atl wearing stilletos and women’s clothes

@alpha1096, what is a mochary? Why do you assume that people think that all gay men are like the men who are pictured at their own, very personal wedding? That’s just plain stupid. Weddings are personal. (BTW, whats a mochary?)

I thought was GhostFace Killer w/the long locks

@ Jermaine

Yeah Jackass I can help you, I’ll pray for you. SMH…

As a matter of fact, let me back away from the screen before I get striked for even entertaing this BS. I’m OUT!!!

@DOT DASH DOT
“Why can’t two people just be committed to each other and get down on thier knees andsay, God we are committed to each other?”
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If this is about “love” ….as you CLAIM…. why are you limiting it to TWO people? Why can’t a group all get married to each other?

Why are you trying to place “limits” on love?

You are a bigot.

SHM at someone who said “jackass” and “I’ll pray for you” in the same sentence. Someone should pray for that person.

KayKay

@ Jermaine

Yeah Jackass I can help you, I’ll pray for you. SMH…
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Wow, you can pray but you can’t answer his question you?

@man I just don’t care, there are plenty of plural marriages out there, with people who love each other. They just have to keep it quiet because it’s not accepted in our society, but if you look in your bible you will also see plenty of plural marriages.

Wow, I see a lot of craziness in here. Why do people get mad at others OPINIONS/COMMENTS? This is a gossip site. People need to learn how to chill the hell out. It aint that serious and this goes out to all the Heteros/Homos. Getting mad at people cause of the way they feel. Give me a break!

@ Man I just don’t care

You do have a point there about the group marriage. Just saying….

@DINA
“there are plenty of plural marriages out there, with people who love each other. They just have to keep it quiet because it’s not accepted in our society, but if you look in your bible you will also see plenty of plural marriages.”
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Yes, I am quite aware of that. My comment was directed at “Dot Dash Dot”

Geez His hair look better than mine!

Jackass is not a bad word. It is a donkey and in the bible. But you guys wouldn’t know that cause you don’t read “the white man’s” book. I don’t have to answer to you, I answer to a much higher power everyday.

U still on Chris Brown?? That boy really got you messed up. Poor baby, lls.

I don’t have to answer to you, I answer to a much higher power everyday.
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And when you answer to him he will ask why you down there judging everybody when you house ain’t squeaky clean

homophobic black ppl. the irony

i love the photos. i got them in an email last week. it seems like the wedding was an extravagant affair. very classy and done with a lot of love. who cares about their sexual preferences??? love is love and that hair is killing me!!!! i want it sooo bad!!! LOL…

Why is it called hate when some express an opinion about homosexuality.My opinion is what the Bible says.It’s wrong.”Be fruitful and multiply.”Not be fruity and try to make something true that’s a lie.I’m sorry.Smh.The Bible also speaks of those who not only encourage,condone and accept thise who engage in such behaviour but also “take pleasure” in them.

I don’t hate homosexuals.Neither does God.What he does hate is the misuse of our bodies.

What if you bought someone a beautiful embroided towel.So pretty you could use it as decoration.You show up to this person’s house and they’re wiping the floor with it.You would be HOT. BUT you gave it to them as a gift so if they misuse it that’s on them.

The last days truly.God hates sin not the sinners.

Gross

So basically anybody that wants to get married should be allowed to because “who are we to judge?”

Is that what you are saying?
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Ok someone like a child molester or a rapist. No they shouldn’t be allowed to get married. People in prison, those wack jobs that will marry an 8 year old in Saudi Arabia.

But two gays, no I don’t care because who am I to judge what someone else does against what the bible says. Not just talking about marriage or being with someone of the same sex.

Oh btw,the hair is nice but look at the hairline.Willing to bet it’s Remy or some nice synthetic.Batik is excellent looks like human.But the front looks to be pressed,laid down with some Mizani wax,and subsequently sprayed with black hair paint….look hard lol lol

@ Oh well

No need to read your book. My views and beliefs will NOT change. The bible is a history book! All the way back to the beginning of time! All that other crap is the re-programming of your brains. You probably beleive there is no GOD. Keep reading those “history” books all day long if it makes you feel better.

@DOT DASH DOT
“Ok someone like a child molester or a rapist. No they shouldn’t be allowed to get married. People in prison, those wack jobs that will marry an 8 year old in Saudi Arabia. ”
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Oh, so SOME people shouldn’t get “married” and YOU are capable of judging who should and who shouldn’t.

That’s it… right?

@Man, I just don’t care™

“Yup. I’m with you, let’s not enforce anything that is stated in the “evil bible.” Let’s allow murder and theft.”

Don’t put quotes around something I didn’t say. I never said the Bible was evil. It has a lot of good advice. So does Harry Potter. The Bible has a lot more inconsistencies, though.

And are you really going to compare two people getting married to murder and theft? Really? That’s just hilarious. I guess next you’ll explain how driving 56 in a 55 zone is exactly like raping a baby.

@Kay Kay…those that engage in that lifestyle do not want to admit that.That means they can no longer “do what is RIGHT FOR THEM in their OWN eyes.”

It makes people feel better to not think of judgement.I’m not saying I’m perfect but I’m not proud of downfalls and shortcomings, nor am I showing pictures of it on the web.Now you can tell from the pictures,flamboyance was in the house.That’s flying in the face of God.

@JERMAINE
“Don’t put quotes around something I didn’t say. I never said the Bible was evil. It has a lot of good advice. So does Harry Potter. The Bible has a lot more inconsistencies, though.

And are you really going to compare two people getting married to murder and theft? Really? That’s just hilarious. I guess next you’ll explain how driving 56 in a 55 zone is exactly like raping a baby.”
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LOL. Just because the phrase was within quotations doesn’t mean I was “quoating” you.

At any rate, like you said the bible “has a lot of good advice.”

Now, the question again is who decides who should get married. So, that being said, do YOU think that EVERYONE should be able to get married?

i hope they stay their gay(pun intended) a$$ES together in love forever.

Ladies, these are two less we have to worry abt. The DL factor is very real. I’d rather all these f@gs just come out and stick together…stop trying to fool women b/c you’re not comfy with yourself and in turn spreading disease and lies and damaging the black family. jussaying. Don’t care who I offend.

Oh, so SOME people shouldn’t get “married” and YOU are capable of judging who should and who shouldn’t.

That’s it… right?
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Really I could actually care less who gets married.

im ten mins away from the salon he works at…his hair is LAID!!! i need an appt with him!!

i wonder if i mention this blog at the appt, do i get 10% off???

JESUS TAKE THE WAGON WHEELS! I ain’t never seen nothing like this in my life. Is that a wedding dress suit? LMFAO! I’m dying to know who did the uhhhh…. “brides” (no offense to real brides, I don’t know what else to call it) hair though, or even the brand of perm he used.

@Man, I just don’t care™

“Now, the question again is who decides who should get married. So, that being said, do YOU think that EVERYONE should be able to get married?”

Well, let’s define “marriage.” Are we talking about the church ceremony that’s valid in the eyes of God or are we talking about the legal commitment that comes with it? The church can do what the church wants to do. Nobody can go into a congregation and say “you must believe THIS!” But on the flip side, what business does the government have saying that any two people don’t have the right to be bound to each other’s lives? If we’re going to allow that then we might as well outlaw interracial marriage and letting people with genetic tendencies towards handicaps have kids.

SO HOW U DOIN?

And so what???

@JERMAINE
” But on the flip side, what business does the government have saying that any two people don’t have the right to be bound to each other’s lives? If we’re going to allow that then we might as well outlaw interracial marriage and letting people with genetic tendencies towards handicaps have kids.”
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The government isn’t, has not, and never will be able to prevent two (or more) people from being “bound to each other’s lives.”

However, they do make the rules as to who they will give THEIR government benefits too and who they won’t. As it stands, the government has chosen NOT to recognize gay marriages.

If it makes you feel better, this will soon be recognized just like interracial marriages were.

@ Jermaine

cosign 100% that’s the truth and i’m glad you’re on here to say it.

@ this bs:
No need to read your book. My views and beliefs will NOT change. The bible is a history book! All the way back to the beginning of time! All that other crap is the re-programming of your brains. You probably beleive there is no GOD. Keep reading those “history” books all day long if it makes you feel better.”
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you’re right. the bible IS a history book. it’s a compilation of stories written by white men centuries ago. and of course the human manifestation of god is white man.. that’s what the bible says, it must be true!! right? a book of stories = fact?

this book is used to justify a lot of nonsense. i grew up in a catholic home but it just makes no sense to me now that i’m a thinking adult.

@ Oh well

Whatever. Your one of those “if I can feel it and see it then it’s real” people. I’m done with you. Shoot that BS somewhere else, you can’t brainwash me.

@ Jermaine …we can eat those things now.Remember when Peter went into a trance on the rooftop and God showed him all those animals in a sheet.God told him to arise and eat.Peter told God he wasn’t gonna eat.God told him “Do not call something He has cleansed,don’t call it unclean.” As far as homosexuality that was and never will be according to the word of God.

hahahahaaaa, Wendy Williams said it best

How You Doin !!!!!

I’m thinking to myself that the guy with the long hair might be a bit too much for his husband. They just don’t hit me as a solid couple…

WELL ATLEAST THEY ARE NOT ON THE DL LIKE SO MANY BLACK MEN IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY. I WISH MORE BLACK MEN WOULD COME OUT OF THE CLOSET.

@ Choznwarrior

Why is it called hate when some express an opinion about homosexuality.My opinion is what the Bible says.It’s wrong.”Be fruitful and multiply.”Not be fruity and try to make something true that’s a lie.I’m sorry.Smh.The Bible also speaks of those who not only encourage,condone and accept thise who engage in such behaviour but also “take pleasure” in them.

I don’t hate homosexuals.Neither does God.What he does hate is the misuse of our bodies.

What if you bought someone a beautiful embroided towel.So pretty you could use it as decoration.You show up to this person’s house and they’re wiping the floor with it.You would be HOT. BUT you gave it to them as a gift so if they misuse it that’s on them.

The last days truly.God hates sin not the sinners.
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Love your words!!!!
10000% co-sign!

no, the bible says he had feet of clay and hair as wool. What white man you know looks like that. Sounds to me like dark skin and nappy hair. That points to what? A BLACK MAN.
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exactly, it “sounds” to you that such is the case. so it’s not fact, just what you interpret it as. in which case it’s all relative. maybe he wore clay shoes and his hair is “as wool” b/c the sun in those parts is blazing? lol, i’m just saying, you can continue to pick and choose what to believe in there to justify anything! right OR wrong. whatever helps you sleep at night.

ps,
i don’t want to turn this into a religious thread, i think everyone has a right to their beliefs. i just hate when people use that argument to support/excuse their bigotry and hatred for what they simply don’t understand.

@KayKay

@ Oh well

Whatever. Your one of those “if I can feel it and see it then it’s real” people. I’m done with you. Shoot that BS somewhere else, you can’t brainwash me.
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what is wrong with you? why are you so defensive? I’m presenting historical facts to you and come back with some catty immature reply.

pretend like I’m an idiot, and don’t know anything…now explain to me how black Americans are Christian? enlighten me please.

sheesh…calm down honey, we’re all just having a discussion. you’re “done with me” because you can’t back up anything you say…so you want to stop the discussion…so be it. it still doesn’t mean you can make historical facts disappear.

@ Oh well

what is wrong with you? I am citing historical facts as well. And sorry, but I don’t care about blacks being christians. I care about my family and friends and that’s what matters. I’m Done with you because you are boring me. Now leave me alone, damn!

@jamaquina

chromosomes? you should probably pick up a copy of scientific american and brush up on current research. the “rightness” of something is a complete social construct. you could argue that women who choose not to have children are “wrong” b/c they have a uterus and that’s what it was for. you could argue that men who have vasectomies are sinners b/c their reproductive organs weren’t made to cut.

again, it just proves my point. people fear and hate what they don’t understand.

@ dot dash

it is not judgement. it is facts. and thou shalt not judge is NOT one of the 10 commandments. cracks me up how you have a disagreement and now its hate or judgement, whatever. I never called these men out of there names or disrespected them. If that’s the case then your judging me cause I don’t agree with it.
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No I am not. I am asking you why do you care what they do. They have nothing to do with your faith. If you don’t believe in what they do, then don’t practice it.

@choznwarrior

the majority of the people on here who are bashing us for our beliefs probably have never picked up a bible a day in there lives. you can try and preach to them all you want. these are the last days, this has been written. all of it, you know that people are going to try and get you to abandon your faith. just wait, it will get worse.

@ dot dash

why do you care? you wer’re one of the people getting on me for my comments just cause you don’t agree. so why do you care so much about them?

@Dot Dash…the Bible tells us if WE judge harshly we will be judged the same way.

What it means is that you need to KNOW the laws and guidelines of the Word of God BEFORE you can make RIGHTEOUS judgement.

That measuring stick is called the Bible.

@ kay:

why are you on here? this is an entertainment site about gossip. do you revel in judging so you read about all the “sinners”? i’ve picked up the bible plenty of times, i’ve studied it analytically. i’ve even read the “left behind” series about the rapture. i’ve been through my spiritual journey in finding my own truth. you shouldn’t assume that people who challenge the bible haven’t read it. in fact, the best way to challenge something is to understand it through and through. this is my issue with people who use this argument. they don’t understand what it’s like to be gay, just like a white person doesn’t understand what it’s like to be black.

no one is trying to force you to abandon your faith. if anything, it’s an attempt at helping you understand.

@ dot dash

Like I said before, if it’s in my face I will say what I damn well please! You don’t like it, don’t read it! And if I’m at the pearly gates, that means I belong there. It won’t be by accident so there will be no stand up for yourself or ask them how I acted. He is everywhere and sees all so don’t get it twisted!

Choznwarrior

@Dot Dash…the Bible tells us if WE judge harshly we will be judged the same way.

What it means is that you need to KNOW the laws and guidelines of the Word of God BEFORE you can make RIGHTEOUS judgement.

That measuring stick is called the Bible.
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So who told you that is what it means? THe person who wrote it or your Preacher? But unless your own house is living without sin, who is anyone to judge what someone else does?

TLC

I saw an email with all of the pics and to be honest, their wedding seemed more put together and classy than most of these ghetto, hoodrat STRAIGHT couple weddings I’ve seen plastered all over the net. And who are any of us to judge them? They probably have a better relationship than most!!
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Yep, they probably are in a better/happier relationship than most straights, Most of my gay friend couples, just seem to enjoy each other more, and are more loving and caring than my striagt friends,, and that is a fact.

KayKay

@ dot dash

Like I said before, if it’s in my face I will say what I damn well please! You don’t like it, don’t read it! And if I’m at the pearly gates, that means I belong there. It won’t be by accident so there will be no stand up for yourself or ask them how I acted. He is everywhere and sees all so don’t get it twisted!
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Getting a little testy now aren’t we. Just like a holly roller. Want to condemn everyone else. It’s in you face because you clicked the link. You could have bypassed it but you didn’t. So take your own advice

Hey, if someone can be happy in a Black-on-Black relationship, I am all for it. At 46, I am very well educated — my parents’ dream — but still single. Black men don’t even look my way.

Like somebody else stated….as long as u guys are happy and this is REAL LOVE, nothing anybody else says or feels real even matters. I thinks it hot!

@ dot dash

it’s in my face cause its on tv, its in my face cause its online, its in my face cause there are protests, its in my face cause people like you think its ok. So testy no, tired of it yes.

@ dot dash
PREACH!!

kay is too funny. you seem so high and mighty yet you use a word like “shit.” i thought swear words weren’t allowed? testy indeed.

@MORE ACES
“Yep, they probably are in a better/happier relationship than most straights, Most of my gay friend couples, just seem to enjoy each other more, and are more loving and caring than my striagt friends,, and that is a fact.”
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That’s because they are bonded through persecution. Just like blacks were prior to the civil rights movement. AFter the gay movement is complete, these very same couples will no longer be together.

Mark my words.

I’m sure it was a beautiful wedding. Got to admit: The gays have style!

@CANDY BARR
“Hey, if someone can be happy in a Black-on-Black relationship, I am all for it. At 46, I am very well educated — my parents’ dream — but still single. Black men don’t even look my way.”
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Try black women!!

Ya’ll still arguing about this?

Why are you guys arguing about this? Whatever happened to agreeing to disagree? I’m starting to think the gay couple and some of there family members are on here arguing with each other.

@ the best I ever had

Your right. I won’t comment about it anymore.

KayKay

@ the best I ever had

Your right. I won’t comment about it anymore.
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Yeah right. Super-saved church folk keeping thier mouth shut will never happen

Brittney got married on a whim and then divorced so EVERYONE should be able to.

People get in wrecks anyway so there might as well not be any traffic rules.

People kill other people anyway so the law should be changed to make it legal.

People steal anyway so they should allow everyone to steal.

GTFOH.

@ Dot Dash Dot

Are you a trouble maker?

@ Man I just don’t care
Brittney got married on a whim and then divorced so EVERYONE should be able to.

People get in wrecks anyway so there might as well not be any traffic rules.

People kill other people anyway so the law should be changed to make it legal.

People steal anyway so they should allow everyone to steal.

GTFOH
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LMAO!!

Well if you aren’t then stop referring to them as “bible thumpers” and “church folk”. Just leave it alone. To each his own. Live your life, and that goes for everyone.

@OH WELL
“of course, that is why my original comment about religion was that it is used to control the masses…what better way to go into Iraq and kill innocent civilians than to use the big bad muslims, hating on our American christian ways…even though it was all about money and oil. you see a lot of christians support a war against the evil muslims…making it easy for the greedy thinking heads to go in and do what they want to do. that’s just the most recent example. but if you look back you can go all the way back the the 16 and 17th century with the protestants vs. the catholics, you have the Germany and Bohemia wars, you have the Schmalkaldic Wars, you have the English and Irish civil wars, you have the fall of the Roman Empire, you have the ongoing muslim vs. jew wars…however, I agree with you, greed (whether over money or land) has always played a big part in these wars, as well as religion. religion is a lucrative business…you don’t even have to market or advertise anything. your consumers come find YOU instead, lol.”
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Lol.

Just like I said, “most” wars are fought over money (I will count land as “money” because it is an asset that can be exchanged for money).

Religion, just like the war in Iraq, is used as an veil to the true motive in most cases.

The Best I Ever Had

Well if you aren’t then stop referring to them as “bible thumpers” and “church folk”. Just leave it alone. To each his own. Live your life, and that goes for everyone.
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Ok just for you, I will leave them be. But they need to take your words of wisdom, to each his own.

Holla, I’m otu this thread

@Man, I just don’t care™

LOL…you just like to be argumentative…we’re saying the same thing…veil = used to control the masses. otherwise, why the need for a veil?

Man, I just don’t care™

@MORE ACES
“Yep, they probably are in a better/happier relationship than most straights, Most of my gay friend couples, just seem to enjoy each other more, and are more loving and caring than my striagt friends,, and that is a fact.”
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That’s because they are bonded through persecution. Just like blacks were prior to the civil rights movement. AFter the gay movement is complete, these very same couples will no longer be together.

Mark my words.
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I guess that would be something similar to the thought process, When/after it was/is legal for blacks and whites to bet married, we wont be seeing anymore of that type of thing huh,, Naw, I do not buy what you just tried to sell,, But at least you keep it interesting.

@OH WELL
“LOL…you just like to be argumentative…we’re saying the same thing…veil = used to control the masses. otherwise, why the need for a veil?”
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But we AREN’T saying the same thing. You are saying that religion is the REASON for most wars and I am saying that religion is NOT the reason.

Religion is a VEIL that has been used. It still boils down to plain and simple greed.

@ Alrighty Then…
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Yessir

lmao they play to much!!!

Nothing’s wrong with these pics.

At least they’re not sneaking around on the DL taking it like a “real” man and spreading HIV to the women they claim to love and ought to be protecting. Oh no, they’re too busy littering babies all over the hood to care.

Who’s the fool?

I see some of my misinformed brethren and sisters know very little about religiosity. Moving the conversation beyond mere Christianity, there is a reason why nearly ALL world religions from across the globe disavow homosexual behavior. Why? The Dali Lama himself stated that homosexuality was “immoral.” Is he a Christian? I doubt it. Short of Paganism, Aethism, and Neo-Paganism you will be very hard pressed to find a single religion which doesn’t have at least some tenants against homosexuality. You will also find these same religions have tenants on murder, theft, love, honor, etc. These values seem to have transcended religions, ethnicity, language, and boundaries. Why?

It is funny how people point to religion as an unnecessary “evil” when the tenants don’t fit the script of what they want to do with their lives. Educate yourselves black people.

It’s an identity crisis. The progression in today’s society has everyone confused.

This is the most beautiful gay wedding i’ve ever seen….I love how the feminine man didnt put a wedding DRESS on but a customized suit jacket with a train…very respectable….I think love and happeniness comes in many shapes, sizes, and forms (homosexuality)…..Love is Love and you cannot be mad at it….

** I MEANT HAPPINESS NOT HAPPENINESS**…LOL…

@OH WELL
“ok, let’s try a different way, why the need for a veil for war?

my answer, to gain support from the masses, aka…mind control of the masses. now you go…”
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Because people when grouped together are dumb and it is easier to convince people of something as a group than individually. Basically religion is used because by NATURE it isn’t “logically” so the people perpetuating the war won’t have to rationalize it.

That doesn’t make religion the CAUSE of the war however. That’s my point. Religion isn’t the true CAUSE of the war.

congrats don’t listen to these haters

@LouisvilleSlugger

I see some of my misinformed brethren and sisters know very little about religiosity. Moving the conversation beyond mere Christianity, there is a reason why nearly ALL world religions from across the globe disavow homosexual behavior. Why? The Dali Lama himself stated that homosexuality was “immoral.” Is he a Christian? I doubt it. Short of Paganism, Aethism, and Neo-Paganism you will be very hard pressed to find a single religion which doesn’t have at least some tenants against homosexuality. You will also find these same religions have tenants on murder, theft, love, honor, etc. These values seem to have transcended religions, ethnicity, language, and boundaries. Why?

It is funny how people point to religion as an unnecessary “evil” when the tenants don’t fit the script of what they want to do with their lives. Educate yourselves black people.
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the Dahli Lama may have called homosexuality “immoral” however the Dahli Lamas teachings are about peace and live and let live, not condemnation based on something that he personally saw as immoral.

Man, I just don’t care™

Because people when grouped together are dumb and it is easier to convince people of something as a group than individually. Basically religion is used because by NATURE it isn’t “logically” so the people perpetuating the war won’t have to rationalize it.

That doesn’t make religion the CAUSE of the war however. That’s my point. Religion isn’t the true CAUSE of the war.
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ok, I’ll take that.

now another question for you, based on what you just said, would it be fair to say that in the case against homosexuality the same thing is being done? no logic…just blind faith in “what the bible says” and gathering the masses and their support to deny a sector of society their rights?

You got to admit those pics are funny ! Two dudes feeding each other cake ???!! Wat the fucc !!

@OH WELL
“now another question for you, based on what you just said, would it be fair to say that in the case against homosexuality the same thing is being done? no logic…just blind faith in “what the bible says” and gathering the masses and their support to deny a sector of society their rights?”
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No.

I would say that it is human nature to condemn anything that is “different.” Something that we have seen with race, religion, medical affliction and so on.

People don’t want to confess their “bigotry” and use religion as a veil, much the same way that leaders in the past has used it to justify various misdeeds.

Man I just don’t care,

Again, you applying logic to relgion in the sense that the entire bible should be either be interpeted literally or figuartively.

That is not the case. Logic will fail you.
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but we live in a “logical” society…or we try to make it as logical as possible. so how can we pass laws and judgment based on something so illogical? why is that ok with so many people?

I’m not trying to argue with you, I’m actually honestly enjoying our conversation. what is your stand on this whole issue? do you think it’s ok that we’re not a logical society if we in fact are a religious one?

@ Oh well

It is not just the Dalai Lama which disagrees with this behavior. That was my point. Homosexuality is not a victimless act, as we can all see around us this behavior perpetuates itself within our society and at this point the gay is okay bandwagon is becoming overrun, by the suddenly gay youth. Check the CDC website for the infection rates of AIDS rates. Guess who tops the list…yep gay men…making up nearly 3/4 of ALL AIDS/HIV cases.

@ Man I just don’t care,

No.

I would say that it is human nature to condemn anything that is “different.” Something that we have seen with race, religion, medical affliction and so on.

People don’t want to confess their “bigotry” and use religion as a veil, much the same way that leaders in the past has used it to justify various misdeeds.

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I agree…and I think you answered my previous question in this post.

it just puzzles me that the black community, specially, can part take in this (such rampant homophobia) given their own history and how the same “weapons” were used against this community not too long ago.

@LouisvilleSlugger

“Guess who tops the list…yep gay men…making up nearly 3/4 of ALL AIDS/HIV cases.”

Well, by all means, lets do everything we can to make them ashamed and unable to commit to long-term relationships.

Oh, and most of them are black, too. Can we outlaw that as well?

**BLANK STARE**
blink…blink…

Oh well…

Choosing to be gay is not akin, related, synonymous, correlated, etc. with being black. The sooner we can move beyond the gay is like being black meme the sooner we can have an honest deliberate debate on this issue.

@OH WELL
“but we live in a “logical” society…or we try to make it as logical as possible. so how can we pass laws and judgment based on something so illogical? why is that ok with so many people?

I’m not trying to argue with you, I’m actually honestly enjoying our conversation. what is your stand on this whole issue? do you think it’s ok that we’re not a logical society if we in fact are a religious one?”
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Because one thing you have to realize is that logic will only take you so far.

“Logic” should tell you that no matter how intelligent you are you will never know everything so “logic” in itself is “illogical.”

Sometimes laws aren’t written with “justice” in mind. Rather, they are written to reassure the bigotry of the people in power. Everything that Hitler did WAS LEGAL.

Honestly, in time I do think it will become legal for gays to get married. They will rue the day.

@Jermaine…

Sorry I touched a nerve, but most of the people with AIDS in this country are gay men. And to be honest I am not certain, about the race of said victims. The ties that bind them are their behaviors which lends itself to the contact of this disease. Facts are what they are.

They look great! I don’t have the time or inclination to judge them-only God can do that. This wedding beats every one I have ever seen on HotGhettoMess.com!

@OH WELL
“it just puzzles me that the black community, specially, can part take in this (such rampant homophobia) given their own history and how the same “weapons” were used against this community not too long ago.”
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Again, you are applying logic. People have not cared about the suffereing of other people they deemed “different.”

Say what you want about “the white man’s religion.” (Whose religion was it before it was the white man’s anyway? Wasn’t too many blacks where Jesus was born. I’m just sayin) You are asking a lot of blacks to not only accept something that is different, ignore social norms when they already have a lot against them AND to snub their noses at something (religion) that gave them hope when nothing else would.

It doesn’t seem that strange to me.

Man, I just don’t care™

Again, you are applying logic. People have not cared about the suffereing of other people they deemed “different.”

Say what you want about “the white man’s religion.” (Whose religion was it before it was the white man’s anyway? Wasn’t too many blacks where Jesus was born. I’m just sayin) You are asking a lot of blacks to not only accept something that is different, ignore social norms when they already have a lot against them AND to snub their noses at something (religion) that gave them hope when nothing else would.

It doesn’t seem that strange to me.

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you want to hear the ironic part about this whole thing…my people, the Armenians were the 1st people to convert to Christianity, lol. Armenia was the 1st nation to adopt Christianity as a religion back in the 3rd century…I think around the year 314…however we have our own denomination.

Ladies you better wake up.Don’t be blinded by these men on here talking shyt.Because they are the main ones who banging gay men backs out.

A real str8 man could care less what another man is doing in his bedroom.So ladies if your man always focusing on what gay men are doing…99% of the time he is doing behind your back.Don’t fall for the okie doke.

@louisville, the majority of AIDS victims may be homosexual men but one of the fastest growing group of people contracting AIDS is African American woman. You can’t help but wonder if that has anything to do with gay black men being forced in the closet by a homophobic black community that refuses to accept them as our brethren. I happen to be a Christian woman, and I have a really hard time with so-called Christians belittling and judging other people in the name of Christianity. It’s unbelievable to me that a race of people who know first hand the horrors of persecution can then turn around and do it to other people and then have the utter audacity to claim that it’s in the name of Jesus, who loved everyone. Sorry, but in my Christian faith every one of us is a child of God, not just those sitting their rusty behinds on the pew with their arms crossed and noses in the air, and can’t wait to get out of church so they can go put someone else down.

Dude has on more weave than my Mom and all my sisters would wear in a year. No man, regardless of sexual orientation should be caught wearing that much…

WOW @ the train on a tux….
The hair is str8 as hell what is he using Crisco?
I still trying to get an up cloz of tht cake kinda look like a Caddy….
This world is so special kuz we all different….
Mo power to ya

I think it’s so sad that my son’s very special day is being ruined by bigots and hater. My son goes to work everyday day..pays his bills and taxes. He is a member of society. So because some THEIF stole the photos he cant have peace. The children were removed before the ceremony was over so they were not exposed to the showing of affection. Say what you want , it was a beautiful day and nothing you bloggers say will ever change that. We’re still happy and i’m still PROUD OF MY SON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No man, regardless of sexual orientation should be caught wearing that much…
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u rite bout tht lol

Tara Smith

I think it’s so sad that my son’s very special day is being ruined by bigots and hater. My son goes to work everyday day..pays his bills and taxes. He is a member of society. So because some THEIF stole the photos he cant have peace. The children were removed before the ceremony was over so they were not exposed to the showing of affection. Say what you want , it was a beautiful day and nothing you bloggers say will ever change that. We’re still happy and i’m still PROUD OF MY SON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Your Son must be very proud and is very blessed to have such a supportive mother, I for one am very happy for your son and his partner for life. I pray they have a happy, healthy, and blessed life together,, Bless you as well.

@Ms. Tara Smith,

Good for you. and congrats to your son. I for one wish him and his loved ones nothing but the best.

WOW…..A MESS!

Dina

@louisville, the majority of AIDS victims may be homosexual men but one of the fastest growing group of people contracting AIDS is African American woman. You can’t help but wonder if that has anything to do with gay black men being forced in the closet by a homophobic black community that refuses to accept them as our brethren. I happen to be a Christian woman, and I have a really hard time with so-called Christians belittling and judging other people in the name of Christianity. It’s unbelievable to me that a race of people who know first hand the horrors of persecution can then turn around and do it to other people and then have the utter audacity to claim that it’s in the name of Jesus, who loved everyone. Sorry, but in my Christian faith every one of us is a child of God, not just those sitting their rusty behinds on the pew with their arms crossed and noses in the air, and can’t wait to get out of church so they can go put someone else down
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Bravo,, beautifully said..

For those that understand what real love is thank you for your support. For those who are negative, i hope you have aa gay child so you can experience what we are.

I get damn tired of gays acting as if Black people are homophobic just because many Blacks don’t cosign to that mess!

There are many people of all races who don’t cosign to the gay lifestyle but these mofos act as if “Blacks have no damn choice” but to agree,as if Black people are less than! I say get the hell out of here with that mess!

Damn I thought was Jim Jones too

To Oh Well! Not once did I even mention the bible so stop using the bible to justify your actions and if you are not a Gay person that doesn’t talk about the Black struggle,well I’m not talking about you.

The real truth is that many of you gays will only speak on “homophobia” as it pertain to Blacks while saying nothing when other races voice opposition to your immorality and you do that because you see Blacks as “less than”,so you feel Blacks have no choice but to accept the gay lifestyle,but I choose to resist that nonsense and I have every right to do so and I will not let any guilt ridden fool try to make me feel guilty for doing so.

@Truth Teller,

oh but why not use the bible to justify the injustices done to the black community if society uses the bible to condemn the gay community?

and why do you assume I’m gay? why do you think only gay people want equality for gays? I’m a straight Armenian (white) woman, have been married for 7 years. and I HATE (with a passion) what was done to Black Americans…and with the same passion I hate what is being done to the gay community.

God has a standard.There is nothing you or I can do to change it.
@ Dot Dash who am I to say!?I am a child of God who will “cry loud and spare not.”

If you were a referee in a NBA game you know the rules so the players have to respect you.If you say they traveling…sometimes they know they did and were hoping not to get caught.Sometimes they weren’t aware they violated.Sometimes they argue the point,get the replay and see they did.Sometimes you(Ref) might be wrong.We (biblethumpers) are human we’re gonna make a bad call sometimes(ministers).I’m not talking about the fakes.I’m talking about christians who really care about the Lord,about you,and every other soul they hope to reach.
I realize the Word of God comes to me first.It cuts me, too.

@Moreaces ~ Dallas Cowboys=God’s Team

LOL…yup, cable, plus Cinemax and HBO…there is even a bed in there…no need to bring your own.

WHAT THE HELL

@Truth teller,

WOW…ok. have a good night. LOL.

Why do people always pull that judging scripture out the woodwork when you tell them something they don’t wanna hear? Stop taking that verse out of context. Maybe try reading that whole story before you whip out this gem. Its not judging when its the truth baby. God said so…Its a sin and thats why its funny to those who even say they have no problem with it. You don’t see any love here. Read the body language- this is straight up LUST.

The Dude with the long hair looks like blackula!

I’ll tell you what’s wrong with these pictures: that damn suit/coat with a train.
I laughed for 5 mn straight when I saw it

Other than that, it looks like a very nice wedding.
And the long haired groom looks happy.
Llike REAL, he’s giving us ladies some competition in the hair department.
Can’t we have anything! Damn. LOL

The “bride’s” hair definitely on point. To each his own…good for them

I will have to head to Minnesota one day so dude can hook my hair up!!! It’s beautiful!!!

http://thetalkofthetownsalon.com/mkcole/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=12&Itemid=26

Only thing i have to say is that nicca hair look good and i know its remy but anyways im aight with it along as these dudes are not on the downlow

DAMNATIONS!

Damn I didn’t know Daywalker got married.

What exactly is this???

I think anyone can look at pictures like this, and if being completely honest with themselves, it is clearly seen that this is just wrong… Lol and smh at this..

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayy! These photos definitely provide justification for 2 new words: “Fagtabulous” and “Faggettable.”

Allow me to use each of them in a sentence for you:

1. Fagtabulous –
These are the most “fagtabulous” photos I’ve ever seen.

2. Faggettable –
These photos are completely unfaggettable.

Tara Smith…

If children were removed before they showed affection, then you all knew something wasn’t right with this. If it’s a good thing, why weren’t the children allowed to witness it? You need to pray for your son and hope he changes for better. His wedding may have been nice, but hell is hottttt!

.. love you negrotambor…

i dont give a damn what nobody say.. that nicca hair is on point…

I cannot begin to tell you how offensive I found the words and tone of your “article”. What I find most disappointing is that many young people who sadly read this mess you call a blog will be exposed to your ignorance And bigotry.

gay marriage SINNERS!!!!

Is it odd that my 1st thought was his hair is on point lol

I am shocked and saddened at the comments posted on this website. First of all, these men are friends of mine. I went to the wedding and it was beautiful. Micheal has helped so many people in the Minneapolis Community. He has volunteered his services to help women who were victims of domestic violence feel good about themselves. He has mentored other people to help them be successful—-and is one of the most successful business owners in the minneapolis area. He is loved deeply by the black community in Minneapolis—both straight and gay. WE LOVE HIM AND JAMIL THEIR AIN”T A DAMN THING ANY OF YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT!

there are a gang of pics floating around that display the whole shebang and these dudes had their sh*t together (bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower”girls”, etc)! if you’re gonna do it, do it well. i ain’t mad at ‘em after all this dysfunctional heterosexity we got going on.

@ann, tell ya boy it was off the chain although the flowergirls should have worn bras.

LMAO…..straight black people tickle the hell out of me. Black people are the most dysfunctional race of people on the entire planet. Your neighborhoods are in shambles at your own hands, your kids are slovenly attired, disrespectful, ignorant (but they inherit the ignorance), straight black men are weak and afraid of marriage…..and yet some of you have the audacity to ridicule two people who are in love and wish to spend their lives together. Straight black men should be so lucky as to have the strength and courage that black gay men have to live openly in such a hateful black society.

What’s wrong with these pictures? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. THEY’RE BEAUTIFUL.

btw hater’s ya’ll just makin him famous…..thanks for all the attention!!!!!!!!

To Ms. Tara Smith:
I concur with you and Ann. the homophobic garbage that has been spewing on the website is just shameful. Being judgmental about someone you don’t know and putting down what seems to be their genuine love for each other is just sad.
I hope Jamal and Michael have a very happly life together. I’m sure it will be better than some “straight” marriages (that don’t last very long these days).

Oh my damn!

do they know hell is 7 times hotter than any fire?

2 Peter chapter 3 (NLT)

7 God has … commanded that the heavens and the earth will be consumed by fire on the day of judgment, when ungodly people will perish.

The question is what’s wrong with you?

This is a celebration of happiness and love. Don’t hate or make fun. We are a part of the Black community, so get use to it

The hair – OMG!!!

The “brides” “dress” with the train – WOW! I thought he was a old school PIMP! Boy was I wrong. But truth be told, a lot of pimps are GAY and will turn tricks when their hoes can’t…..peep game yall, peep game!

The wedding looks like it was on point.

Mommie….I’m scurred….lol!

What’s wrong with these pics? Not a damn thing.

Black straight people really have a lot of MF NERVE to be judging other folks (especially other black) who got their *ish at least this much together. I mean, don’t y’all have, like, issues far more important than this?

last but not least, wonderful how many of you want pick and choose parts of the Bible and forget so many others at your leisure.

First of all, I’m surprised you found this worthy of being posted. This seems like just a random union of two black men. Is your homophobia that strong that the minute you saw these you found it more than appropriate to post these with such hateful language like “What in the hell is wrong with these pictures?” and “flaming fellas”. This just reminds me of why I don’t ever visit this site. P.S. The wedding looked great. What in the hell is wrong with this site?

You already know the food was good, with great entertainment, and grab bags…..Ummm, wut did I see wrong???? The cake should have had lighting underneath, so we could see the crystals sparkle!!! Oh, and two men getting married?? mmm…

homie hair is the truth

Oh, I finally get it!!!

You hard-up hoes want to marry gay men and women. YOUR PATHETIC. Go find a no-good chick head or thug. These are YOUR choices.

Hate gay marriage? Don’t get one.

That looks like Count “Compton” Dracula humping Big Al Green

Why do people insist that gays are minorities? With 50 and Kanye on the team, along with all the under covers in Philly and ATL they must make up more than 50% of America right now. Stop piggy-backing (no pun intended)on other people’s legitimate status.

Ready Set Go: You’re really ignorant. Your logic is so backwards and homophobic. I hope you glass house is spotless while your are throwning stones. Going to church every Sunday is not going to cast your “sins” away so you can create more during the week.

there is nothing wrong with this picture (well, style choices withstanding). there is something wrong with people in other grown folks business. mind your own.

black folks got stop spreading hate or we will never know true love ourselves.

First of all DairyQ I don’t suffer from homophobia nor am I a Christian. I did not say anything bad about you tweenkies other than the fact that you try to hatch your struggles onto other people’s wagons. I only challenged whether homosexuals are a true minority group and whether they should stop trying to associate themselves and their issues to other non-sexual struggles. For instance, “we gays and blacks suffer blah blah blah so we are in the same boat”. I only disagreed with that assertion. You are the ignorant one, DairyQ. So shut up!

Dairy Q, I think that the issues is not sexual issues it is civil rights problems that gays are complaining. The constitution clearly defines that rights are to be afforded to all Americans not just the one’s we agree with. Let us remember that black rights were also voted on by whites before and we said that that was not right. I live in CA and I dont believe that its right for citizens to vote on whether other citizens can have rights. If I dont believe in your religion I should not be held to your belief. Remember that created separation of church and state for a reason. That’s why there is so mu BS going on because we follow what we want.

You don’t choose to be gay people.
Do you think people just choose to be hated on? Just choose to ridiculed?
Don’t you think many of us wished we were straight at some point in our lives?
There isn’t some magical spell or demon following us, we just love the same-gender and if they love us wtf is your problem? Get your own damn life, stop trying to shove your religious hate down others throats, cause you damn well know hatin aint gonna get black people anywhere.

@Ready Set Go
What they are trying to say is that BOTH groups have experienced oppression. An if one is in a group that has experienced and fought oppression, you don’t get the magical right to oppress others. It’s ridiculous, stupid and inane.

@absolutely disgusting!
Please explain to me what you mean by natural, because it seems you’re not on the same page as the actual word.

And are you trying to say that straight people are strong-minded? Oh, you really need to a pick up a book other than the bible sometimes while you’re not surfing gossip websites. Trust me, you’ll learn things.

Eat at Red Lobster and you are an abomination in your god’s eyes.

http://www.sovo.com/thelatest/thelatest.cfm?blog_id=27443

WOW, what is wrong with you people? If you don’t know these men then say nothing at all. I do happen to know them both and they are the nicest people you will ever meet. What gives you the right to talk crazy about their union? Grow up and get over it. Find happiness for yourselves as they have. Rudeness!

Guess what??

There is nothing wrong with these pictures, in fact there is probably more wrong about the pictures of the people who critique these men. They are braver than most, and are marrying for love. They should be given equal rights to those around and should be free from ridicule on pitiful websites lie this that take a stab at anything new and out of the mainstream.

It is rather depressing to see that some people (in these comments) like “absolutely disgusting” are so full of hatred and so blind to the changing values of the world around them. Sometimes I worry about the fate of the world if people are beaten down for marrying the person they love.

I’m sure 10-15 gay friends is better than no friends at all! In fact it’s the odds on favorite! Good luck getting out of that hole!

the lng haired one is mike cole a hair stylist the other one is jamil ____? from minnesota

UPDATE: Morehouse employee Sandra Bradley was fired!!! because of her comments when circulating these photos…..; this is a clip from an Atlanta-based newspaper, the SOUTHERN VOICE
Vicious homophobia rears its ugly head once again at Morehouse College, one of the nation’s premier historically black colleges. Two staff members forwarded pictures of the extravagant wedding ceremony of popular Minneapolis hairstylist Michael Cole Smith and husband Jamil Smith Cole. One employee added an anti-gay rant and works worked in the office of President Robert Franklin, reports Southern Voice; she said,

“I can’t believe this wedding. It’s 2 men. They don’t smile in a lot of pictures and they look like a few brothers I’ve seen in the streets looking STRAGHT. Black women can’t get a break, either our men want another man, a white woman (or other nationality that’s light with straight hair), they are locked up in jail or have a ‘use to be’ fatal disease. I’m beginning to believe Eve was a black woman and we Black women are paying for all the world’s sins through her actions (eating the apple),” Sandra Bradley wrote.

Vanessa Crites, who does not work at Morehouse, received the email from her partner, who works for Fulton County, and said she was shocked by the comments. I almost started to cry. I almost could not believe what I was looking at, and I thought that Dr. Franklin needed to know,” Crites said. “I think she covered all biases, she’s discriminating against gay black men, she’s discriminating against white women, she’s discriminating against people with HIV.”

Jamil and Michael Cole (the one with the hair). They Live in Minnesota. Michael is a hairstylist in Minneapolis. He’s been around for a long time. His attitude is the WORST! That man will say whatever he wants to his clients…once sending out a email telling them they need to leave bigger tips, just because he owns the shop doesn’t mean they can’t tip more…lmao! None the less, congrats to them….lol!