wOW.

Hmmmmmm

i think it’s the woman’s responsibility to say something. they are the one’s sleeping with the men

STDS left untreated can lead to more serious conditions, including infertility.

I would give the ladies the opportunity to speak with the men first and if they don’t, as their friend you should tell the brothers the danger they are in before they get infected and infect other people.

I would let the guys know anonymously, that way, your friends can’t implicate you and you possibly save a live, or two…or ten!!

I agree with LATTHO it is the women’s responisbility but if he did tell they guys then he needs to prepare tomove to another state or country or planet, if possible.

I honestly think she should tell them….just put ur self in those 2 guys shoes,I WOULD want to know… but at the same time some ppl might say mine ur own bizz… but its a matter of just doing the right thing.
SO YES DO TELL.

I would tell the “guy associates” and then it is up to them to take action. If they are mature adults, they should be able to handle the situation without including the lady that told them the info. After all, it is not her fault, she is just looking out for them

I would tell or make hints.

STDs aren’t anything to play with. If I were sleeping with someone (stupid w/out protection) & my friend knew they had an STD, I would hope he would tell me. I would not get mad at him for looking out for my health since obviously I am stupid & don’t use condoms.

Give the friends an ultimatum! Tell them that u’ll tell if they don’t! Or like one person said…tell the anonymously. It’s important that they know cause everyone would rather know than have to find out on their own!

Anonymous text!
That is serious.

She should stay out of it. It’s none of her business in the first place. She just need to stay away from the guys they are messing with.

I would absolutely tell them! While it is true that they aren’t being very responsible, this is life and death or at least something they can’t get rid of. Do what’s right. I couldn’t be friends with someone who would knowingly do that to someone else. When the crap hits the fan (and it will, it always does) and they find out you knew and didn’t tell, you could be subject to the same wrath as your infected friends are.

It is the woman’s responsibilty, but everyone living in reality knows not everyone is honest & will tell their partner. It’s very gross & sad, that the two female will not even ask the guys to use protection & made excuses for reason why.

Since the friend mentioned the law, it makes me wonder if this is being done on purpose.

She either needs to tell her friends to let the guys know, or tell them herself. It may not seem like it’s any of her business, but you don’t play with STD’s. It’s not fair to the guys, they’re totally clueless. Her friends either need to be women about it and say something or deal with whatever happens.

I would stay out of it if I was not close to the guys. The fact is they are all adults and no one has to tell a grown man to be practice safe sex. Especially since he is choosing to engage in a “strictly sexual relationship with someone. Then he should be twice as careful.

The friend will have it on her conscience to the point it affects her. I will def. cut my freindship off with these two females completely, tell the guys.

The end. STD’s (uncurable (sp)), is a silent gun/ bullet. You’re just killing the person slowly.

TELL, TELL, TELL, TELL. We are speaking of lives here. TELL TELL TELL TELL

what makes her so sure the guys don’t know? how does she know they haven’t sat their men down and told them what was going on – especially the pregnant one? its not a given that they would discuss with her what they spoke to their men about in privacy. if she is sure they don’t know then of course she should demand that the girls tell them or she will however it sounds to me like someone isn’t minding their business.

More than likely the guys know they have herpes, Hep or HIV. It’s nothing you have to concern your self with. Especially if you aren’t involved. Leave it alone. Let the clinic contact her past sexual partners. Stay out of it.

I suspect the ones saying “dont tell” or “mind your business” are or have been infected at some point.

I know a guy who on his death bed listed all the names of the females he slept with. Needless to say most the girls contracted the disease and have all passed away as well.
Please for the sake of the men, women, kids….please tell them. This is not something you can turn a blind eye on. The next victim could be you!

First N foremost, I think she needs to take this to God N ask him what she should do…
Then if she is in a place where she should share this vital information with her male associates; then she really should…
This is their lives her friends have put in grave danger…
I personally would tell them, even if it cost me a freind or two…
Noone deserves to be in the dark when their health is involved…
TELL THEM!!!!!!

You have a moral obligation to tell them men that their lives are being played with. Thats whats wrong with us now everybody wanna mind their own business. As soon as the 2 dudes die from whatever awful disease them heffas are spreading the guilt will kill you. If more people start (constructively) minding other peoples business (not for gossiping reasons) maybe more lives will be saved (mainly speaking of our youth) if you can save a life you have the responsibility to do just that..if them selfish wenches stop talking to you or being your friend…oh well it will be their loss you shouldnt want to associate yourself with such people anyway…MISERY LOVE COMPANY!!

I PERSONALLY KNOW I WOMAN JUST LIKE THIS. SHE WAS MESSING WITH A MAN THAT WAS ONLY 22 A BABY AND HE DID NOT KNOW SHE WAS INFECTED AND I THREATEND TO TELL THAT NIGG. HE HAD HIS WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF HIM NOT TO MENTION CAN U IMAGINE AT THAT YOUNG AGE HOW MANY YOUNG GIRLS HE SLAYING AND HOW MANY MEN THOSE SAME GIRLS WILL SLEEP WITH ITS NOT RIGHT U MUST TELL.

“I suspect the ones saying “dont tell” or “mind your business” are or have been infected at some point.”

i suspect the ones saying “tell them” are the type of nosey sistas who enjoy ruining other people relationships cause their hatin behinds don’t have one of their own.

They are adults but let’s face it, some ADULTS behave like CHILDREN. It’s all up to you so, Be mature, be compansionate about life and just tell them. you aren’t just saving their lives, but the many other women that THEY may sleep with once they are over your girlfriends or if they cheat on them. No matter what the situation, just like now, someone undeserving will always UNKNOWINGLY be on the receiving end of this deadly disease. This is about much more than friendship, it’s also about protecting others in the future.

Umm, this is a no-brainer. He needs to tell his guy friends the truth.

I would rather lose a friend because I told them something they didn’t want to hear, than lose a friend to death.

I think it would be harder for that friend to forgive you if they found out you knew a piece of information that might have saved their life, as oppose to not telling them.

Information is power. These days this is life and death we are talking about.

MistaO

I don’t even think this delimma should be worth one second of uncertainty.

All’s I would ask myself is this question: “If it was me, who was unaware my partner was carrying some STD, would I want, no, NEED to know?”

Real simple, the answer is a resounding YES!
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Thank you. Some people don’t look at it that way.

I SAY TELL TELL TELL TELL TELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!
ITS A MATTER OF DOING THE RIGHT THING PEOPLE…

HYPOTHETICALLY SPEAKING IF U WERE THOSE 2 MAN U WOULD WANT TO KNOW THAT SOME WOMAN GAVE U STD’S RIGHT? ESPECIALLY ONE THAT IS AS SERIOUS {ITS UNCUREABLE) COME ON BE 4 REAL PPL…
BESIDE THOSE TYPE OF FRIENDS WE DONT NEED 2 BE FRIENDS WITH, SPREADING STD’S AND NOT TELLING YOUR PARTNER (S)…

THAT GIRL THAT IS PREGNANT GOT SOMETHING COMING TO HER MOST LIKELY HER CHILD IS GOING TO BE FATHERLESS AND MOST IMPORTANTLY MIGHT BE BORN BLIND WITH WARTS AND THINGS LIKE DAT…ITS THAT SERIOUS… IM MARRIED AND I LOVE MY HUSBAND BUT GUESS WHATTT I STILL STAY STRAP WITH MY CONDOMS/AND BIRTH CONTROLS CUZ THAT ONLY PROTECTS PREGNANCY… WHAT’S THE SAYING “2 IS BETTER THAN ONE” PROTECT YOUR SELVES WOMAN & MAN…. CUZ EVERY 1 IS ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR OWN ACTIONS

type up a letter from a PC print it out and put it on the guys windshield’s that way you stay out of it but at the same time get it off your conscience knowing that they know

@ DAhonest

I thought u were someone who just liked standing up for black women on these blogs against the haters. But u really are an idiot!

“They are adults but let’s face it, some ADULTS behave like CHILDREN. It’s all up to you so, Be mature, be compansionate about life and just tell them. you aren’t just saving their lives, but the many other women that THEY may sleep with once they are over your girlfriends or if they cheat on them. No matter what the situation, just like now, someone undeserving will always UNKNOWINGLY be on the receiving end of this deadly disease. This is about much more than friendship, it’s also about protecting others in the future.”

i agree. the only reason i say perhaps she’s not minding her business or all up in someone elses is brcause of the way she describes her relationship with the men. she doesn’t say “my boys” or “my best friends” or anything passionate like that – the type of passion that would make you say I absolutely have to say somethihng to them. she calls then “MUTUAL guy ASSOCIATES”. that sounds to me like she is in no way close to these men in a way that she would have to feel so resounded to say something to them. again i reiterate she doesn’t know if these girls said something to these guys. these girls appear to be much closer to their guys (one girl being pregnant for one guy) than this girl appears to be. to me that just screams someone not minding their business.

but in to way to i agree with anyone, man or woman, taking a chance with someones safety or life even when it comes to STDS! i do genuinely hope these girls have told these men what is going on.

“@DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On

so if ur partner had AIDS/HIV/HERPES and some one who knows u and him knew you wouldnt want them to tell you?”

seriously – can you take a minute to read my posts? for real!

This is not like catching someone at the club with another man/woman and being torn about telling….
this is peoples health they are messing with and they deserve to know even if a “little birdie” told them.

“but in to way to i agree with anyone, man or woman, taking a chance with someones safety or life even when it comes to STDS! i do genuinely hope these girls have told these men what is going on.”

typing too fast!!! i meant to say “but in NO WAY” do I agree………

@DaHonestTruth

Your screenname is a FRAUD! From the way you are debating,Im assuming you have a chip on your shoulder-Care to share?

“i agree. the only reason i say perhaps she’s not minding her business or all up in someone elses is brcause of the way she describes her relationship with the men. she doesn’t say “my boys” or “my best friends” or anything passionate like that – the type of passion that would make you say I absolutely have to say somethihng to them. she calls then “MUTUAL guy ASSOCIATES”. that sounds to me like she is in no way close to these men in a way that she would have to feel so resounded to say something to them.”

and to further this point do you notice she never even calls the guys FRIENDS?

I AM LEGEND, if that does happen then that means it was not the right time for her to say anything…
He will let her know when to do so…
(There is a time n place for everything)

“@DaHonestTruth

Your screenname is a FRAUD! From the way you are debating,Im assuming you have a chip on your shoulder-Care to share?”

you’re the one who made the ignorant statement first. you share…………….

I would find some way to possibly get them to a clinic, there are only two diseases that it could be. HIV, or Herpes. I think thats triflin. Herpes is just as present at HIV, but since you can’t die, people are more accepting, seeing that 90 % of people have one form or another. Some people will never know if they don’t show a sign. But thats gross man I still think both of the friends are just a mess for not telling.

I would have had to drop a hint of something.

@DaHonestTruth

an associate can be someone you wouldnt consider a FRIEND!

Mind your business lady. If you want to go bare back both of you should visit a clinic together. That’s what I did with my ex…If the relationship isn’t serious don’t take the situation serious…Mind your business.

@I AM LEGEND

DEAD!!!!!!!!!!!

“boy dont even go there because im seething right now i have never ever got into it with back on my swagg but I think thats the most ignorant thing she has ever ever said and im shocked im thinking to myself is that her or an imposter. ”

while you’re calling me ignorant go back through my posts and put up a quote where i condoned what this owan “percieves” her girlfriends are or are not doing or where i said the guys shouldn’t be told.

now I’m going to start by posting a quote where I CLEARLY said they should be told:

my post @ 11:06am:

“what makes her so sure the guys don’t know? how does she know they haven’t sat their men down and told them what was going on – especially the pregnant one? its not a given that they would discuss with her what they spoke to their men about in privacy. if she is sure they don’t know then of course she should demand that the girls tell them or she will however it sounds to me like someone isn’t minding their business.”

now i ask of you to post something where i said anything different or seriously, SHUT DOWN!

@DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On

Hell yea, I feel you, she doesn’t seem to have any indefinite bonds with em, but I do think her conscious kicked in that she knows enough to save them. She really doesn’t have to know them well to save em. I would save a stranger from dying if I could. And if I knew this about a complete stranger, I would let em know because they could be the lucky person to meet my niece or my nephews and I wana stop the spread right THERE, feel me?

It’s definitely A mans or A woman’s responsibility to make their other party aware of their situation. And I’d address to any person that knows of a person having an incurable std that each party that’s involved in having sexual intercourse should be reasonable to know the risks that come with it. And to the person who knows the person or persons with any std that they should contact the local police department as well as their local state health department as soon as possible and notify them and you don’t have to leave your name just theirs

@Pimp……GREAT example!!!!!

Personally I say tell! If you dont want to be acknowleged, there are ways to go about without being known as the one who spilled the beans.
Really, what kind of conscience & heart do you have to allow another to (possibly) kill/destroy someone else???? Better yet, that question needs to be directed at your triflin “friends”.
Do tell. Put yourself in these young mens shoes! Wouldnt you want to know?

I, along with other women often get hell b/c of we dog out men and talk about how they are no good! But more men have been coming to me and letting me know that women are just as low as men. Now, I understand where they are coming from. This is a prime example of why “GREAT” women like myself cant be trusted just as much as we cant trust men! SMH!

“@DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On

Hell yea, I feel you, she doesn’t seem to have any indefinite bonds with em, but I do think her conscious kicked in that she knows enough to save them. She really doesn’t have to know them well to save em. I would save a stranger from dying if I could. And if I knew this about a complete stranger, I would let em know because they could be the lucky person to meet my niece or my nephews and I wana stop the spread right THERE, feel me?”

i feel you but it honestly depends. i’m not going to go up to someone i barely know and tell them their woman/man has an STD. i would feel they should know but where i don’t know anything about their relationship or if they know already i might be stumped as to what to do though it would not be my business. however this opinion changes as the bond grows. if it were a friend of mine or a like a brother type thing or god forbid a relative – IM SINGING LIKE MARIAH CAREY!!! but to the point i’m trying to make it would really depend on how much i knew about the person, how well i knew the person and their relationship.

SCENARIO: say you’re my friend and you confide in me that you have an STD. you’re dating a girl that i know from a club we all go to from time to time. she’s an aquaintence but merely cause i run into her in this club from time to time when i go. lets further say the two of you have discussed the STD matter and – for the sake of this scenario we’ll say its HERPES – you agree to stay on your meds, follow the instructions of the meds and all is coll in YOUR relationship with her. how are you going to feel if your girl comes to you one day and says “guess what the nosey trick DAHONESTTRUTH told me today.

you wouldn’t be pissed or would you say i had done the right thing and embraced me?

@THE TRUTH

Damn I see this topic is breaking e-friendships! You really dont know someone until you start talking about the things that matter.

“@DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On

Hell yea, I feel you, she doesn’t seem to have any indefinite bonds with em, but I do think her conscious kicked in that she knows enough to save them. She really doesn’t have to know them well to save em. I would save a stranger from dying if I could. And if I knew this about a complete stranger, I would let em know because they could be the lucky person to meet my niece or my nephews and I wana stop the spread right THERE, feel me?”

i feel you but it honestly depends. i’m not going to go up to someone i barely know and tell them their woman/man has an STD. i would feel they should know but where i don’t know anything about their relationship or if they know already i might be stumped as to what to do though it would not be my business. however this opinion changes as the bond grows. if it were a friend of mine or a like a brother type thing or god forbid a relative – IM SINGING LIKE MARIAH CAREY!!! but to the point i’m trying to make it would really depend on how much i knew about the person, how well i knew the person and their relationship.

SCENARIO: say you’re my friend and you confide in me that you have an STD. you’re dating a girl that i know from a club we all go to from time to time. she’s an aquaintence but merely cause i run into her in this club from time to time when i go. lets further say the two of you have discussed the STD matter and – for the sake of this scenario we’ll say its HERPES – you agree to stay on your meds, follow the instructions of the meds and all is coll in YOUR relationship with her. how are you going to feel if your girl comes to you one day and says “guess what the nosey trick DAHONESTTRUTH told me today.

you wouldn’t be upset or would you say i had done the right thing and embraced me?

A Fool learns from his mistakes and a wise man learns from other people’s mistakes…….The fact that this woman is having a child with this person should make even more sense that she would tell him that she has something. Although it must be hard to tell someone, but you never know what his or her reaction may be.

SCENARIO: say you’re my friend and you confide in me that you have an STD. you’re dating a girl that i know from a club we all go to from time to time. she’s an aquaintence but merely cause i run into her in this club from time to time when i go. lets further say the two of you have discussed the STD matter and – for the sake of this scenario we’ll say its HERPES – you agree to stay on your meds, follow the instructions of the meds and all is coll in YOUR relationship with her. how are you going to feel if your girl comes to you one day and says “guess what the nosey trick DAHONESTTRUTH told me today.

you wouldn’t be upset or would you say i had done the right thing and embraced me?

“@DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On

Hell yea, I feel you, she doesn’t seem to have any indefinite bonds with em, but I do think her conscious kicked in that she knows enough to save them. She really doesn’t have to know them well to save em. I would save a stranger from dying if I could. And if I knew this about a complete stranger, I would let em know because they could be the lucky person to meet my niece or my nephews and I wana stop the spread right THERE, feel me?”

i feel you but it honestly depends. i’m not going to go up to someone i barely know and tell them their woman/man has an STD. i would feel they should know but where i don’t know anything about their relationship or if they know already i might be stumped as to what to do though it would not be my business. however this opinion changes as the bond grows. if it were a friend of mine or a like a brother type thing or god forbid a relative – IM SINGING LIKE MARIAH CAREY!!! but to the point i’m trying to make it would really depend on how much i knew about the person, how well i knew the person and their relationship.

You just as bad as the b!tch who passing the sh!t around if you don’t tell him she has an uncurable disease.

I sympathize with the women for their unfortunate situation. I think this e-mail underscores the importance of honest open communication.

1. If you decide to become sexually involved with someone, I think it’s perfectly OK to ask each other about their sexual health history. And if either partner raises a stink about being asked, RUN RUN RUN!

2. I think people need to be asking for recent STD/HIV test papers from the doctor, REAL ones, not ones you made at Kinko’s.

3. Make sure you use protection EACH AND EVERY TIME.

That said, I think this women should notify her male associates, but word it carefully. It’s tough talk, but these are tough times, and it can save lives.

*woman*

Hi snoop!

I think he should tell the girls if they don’t tell his guy associates whats going on, then he should tell them. I can’t believe the one girl is pregnant and still not disclosing information. What about the health of the baby? This type of behavior is reckless and selfish.

hey aunt viv….T.G.I.F

@snoop bloggy blog (RESPECT Is Like MONEY… You Gotta EARN IT!!!)

HEY SNOOP!!!!

Whaddup TRUTH……you good ma?

@ snoop,
“T.G.I.F”
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Sheeeeiit, you ain’t lyin! T minus 4.5 hours!

wooosaaa…..lol

@ THE TRUTH

That’s wassup ma, sound like you got a “GOOD BLACK MAN” lol….Some people believe they don’t exist no more.

Hey ere’body!!!

also – YOURE BEING A SERIOUS HYPOCRIT RIGHT NOW! its so funny how i was not supposed to be offended at this poster suggesting that becuase i may do things diferently i must have an STD but you are so off the charts at me suggesting that because they may do things different i can’t suggest that they don’t have a man – however neither comment was made to you so for real – SHUT THE HELL UP AND MOVE ON.

@ THE TRUTH

THAT IS A GOOD POINT THE THRUTH. WHY WAS ONE COMMENT OFFENSIVE BUT NOT THE OTHER/

“also – YOURE BEING A SERIOUS HYPOCRIT RIGHT NOW! its so funny how i was not supposed to be offended at this poster suggesting that becuase i may do things diferently i must have an STD but you are so off the charts at me suggesting that because they may do things different i can’t suggest that they don’t have a man – however neither comment was made to you so for real – SHUT THE HELL UP AND MOVE ON.

@ THE TRUTH

THAT IS A GOOD POINT THE THRUTH. WHY WAS ONE COMMENT OFFENSIVE BUT NOT THE OTHER/”

oh you KNOW im waiting for her response to that. but i’m sure i’ll just get more ignorance, cursing and caps…. lol!

@snoop bloggy blog (RESPECT Is Like MONEY… You Gotta EARN IT!!!)

@ THE TRUTH

That’s wassup ma, sound like you got a “GOOD BLACK MAN” lol….Some people believe they don’t exist no more.

NOPE THEY SURE DO EXIST UMMM I WOULD NOT HAVE PREFERRED THE COLOR BUT I MEAN THATS MINOR ITS BLACK ON BLACK. THATS OK BUT THAT IS SOMTING A DUDE WOULD HAVE WANTED LOL I WOULD’VE PREFERRED RED LOL

For the record…Most people who engage in orgies do have STDs.
For the record…Most prostitutes have herpes and or herp C. I’m not even talking about HIV yet.
For the record…Most men don’t go to the doctor so more than likely they spread the disease faster than women.
Finally for the record…if a guy want to go bare the first time with you he is using you as a tester. What is a tester? a dumb broad who contracts the disease goes to the clinic because something is quite right down there and gets the news that she has something and tells him.

@ MIJDC…. LMAO @ raw in ’09

When i was like 16 i didn’t have a rubber, so i used a grocery bag on this hoodrat….lmao!!!

jb….wassup ma, not the ideal thread for “freaky friday” hahaha

@snoop bloggy blog (RESPECT Is Like MONEY… You Gotta EARN IT!!!)

@ MIJDC…. LMAO @ raw in ‘09

When i was like 16 i didn’t have a rubber, so i used a grocery bag on this hoodrat….lmao!!!

LMFAO OMG SNOOP UR THE WORST Y DID THAT GIRL LET U DO THAT TO HER IN THE FIRST PLACE.

I keeps the night stand full of Magnums XL. So if you can’t fill that up, no need to stay

**DEAD** @ snoop for “When i was like 16 i didn’t have a rubber, so i used a grocery bag on this hoodrat….lmao!!!”

hey JB

I’m telling it whether a friend of mine likes it or not.

LMFAO OMG SNOOP UR THE WORST Y DID THAT GIRL LET U DO THAT TO HER IN THE FIRST PLACE.
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she wanted to ride the “bologne pony” and i was fresh out of those little rainbow condoms mom’s provided me me from the clinic

Of course you should tell them they have a word for what you may become and that’s accomplice. It is your moral duty to inform these people, friends or not. I don’t know how you have been sleeping at night for this long.

@ Anaja,

Wow. I’m sorry that you became infected by that buster, and I commend you for your honesty and responsibility to yourself and others after your diagnosis. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, and I wish you and your fiancé the best.

@snoop bloggy blog (RESPECT Is Like MONEY… You Gotta EARN IT!!!)

LMFAO OMG SNOOP UR THE WORST Y DID THAT GIRL LET U DO THAT TO HER IN THE FIRST PLACE.
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she wanted to ride the “bologne pony” and i was fresh out of those little rainbow condoms mom’s provided me me from the clinic

OMG IMA PEE MYSELF UR THE WORST!!! I REALLY THOUGHT BG WAS BAD.

@ man…i didn’t feel sh!t either….lol

If they went about it the right way, no one would have to tell them their lovers have an STD. Get tested before you slept with people then practice monogamy.

Gues I anwered my own question…

……..The female who would let them.

Also, I keep seeing everyone talking about condoms.. CONDOMS DO NOT FULLY PROTECT YOU!!!!!

Men can pass HPV and never know… Herpes can be contracted just by skin to skin contact( in the genital regions, and HIV…. enough said

@ Anaja,

They may not fully protect you, but it’s the only thing out that at least helps.

The people saying they wouldn’t tell are just as irresponsible as the people engaging in the behavior. If/When you catch something that’s what your going to want to know, who knew what and didn’t have the respect & love for me to tell me they are about to kill me. Acceptance is not worth another person’s life; please tell always curable or not. Let’s stop killing each other before we really do wipe ourselves out.

MANNN FCK DAT, U SHOULD TELL THE MEN
JUST BECAUSE SHE WANTS 2 BE SELFISH AND PUT HIS
HEALTH @ RISK IS FKCED UP.
PEOPLE GET TESTED AND WRAP IT THE FCK UP DAMNNNNN!!

This is the worst post EVER for a Freaky Friday!!!!!!

What’s up people! TGIF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People have the tendency to shoot the messenger. This can have the possibility of backfiring on her. First, she needs to consider the blowback for exposing this issue. Doing the right thing does not necessarily mean you feel better doing it. Everyone could possibly end up hating her. The two couples may forgive one another and she could end up being the troublemaker from here on out. If she has no problem dealing with the outcome then by all means tell. If not, mind your business. I told my very best friend her man was cheating with another best friend and I ended up being the bad guy.People do not like to hear the truth, THEY CAN”T HANDLE THE TRUTH!

@THE TRUTH
“YES I AM MY HUBBY PICKED UP ON A GOOD GIRL AND JUMPED ON HIS CHANCE LOL. YEAH ITS NOT MY BODY FOOL HE WANT ME FOR MY MIND NOT MY BODY LMAO.”
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How long have you been married? I didn’t know people still did that sheeet.

What kind of car did you get anyway?

@ I am legend…

That was grossly put!!

But when guys go ‘raw’ they do think pulling out is the best thing.

It’s truly not that EASY to get preggers.

You may want to slow down on the rawness. You may get in good and not want to pull out. Now you either on life support or child support.

@TRS

Hey ♥♥♥TRS!!!♥♥♥

Hey TRS

@ I am Legend you are stupid. LOL
@Listen up
That’s some bull…most pap smears can determine abnormal cells. Then various test are done

TRS!! that’s what i was telling JB.

Hey Marquis and Snoop

We finally got El Pollo Loco out here!! I am almost feeling like I am at home. Now all I need is Del Taco, In N’ Out, Pioneer chicken, Golden Bird, Der Weinerschnitzel and a good pastrami sandwich!!

Shout out to

♥♥♥MIJDC♥♥♥
JB!!!!!!!
SNOOP!!!!
TRUTH!!!
Aunt Viv!!

Hey TRS!

@trs

Shout out to

♥♥♥MIJDC♥♥♥
JB!!!!!!!
SNOOP!!!!
TRUTH!!!
Aunt Viv!!

HEY TRS BABY GIRL

Awwwww Golden Bird thats old school LA
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That is the best greasy, artery clogging chicken out there. Yep. I could walk there from my house.

JB

“Der Weinerschnitzel and a good pastrami sandwich!!”

Damn! You don’t have a Der Weinerschnitzel in your neck of the woods!?! There’s something fundamemtally wrong with that…In fact, that’s downright barbaric. You have my sympathies.

hell yeah i am, i ain’t trying to have my peter engulfed in flames….lol
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BWAHAHAHAHA!!!!! Pissing out flames!!

BRB

i wouldnt tell, not my business. PRACTICE SAFE SEX!!!

@ jb….i used to sneak to the Golden Bird off stocker and santa rosalia….lol

TRS

Hello TRS, how art thou, O’ one with those full supple lips which stokes a mad flame within my yearning cyber loins?

@ jb….i used to sneak to the Golden Bird off stocker and santa rosalia….lol

THat’s the one by my house 39th and Crenshaw!!!

Churchs Chicken is the greasiest
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We have that too, but only in the black neighborhoods. LOL. Not out here in the Beach

@ I am legend

They got a louisiana chicken wherever you are
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A Louisiana or New Orleans Seafood everywhere.

And the Louisana chiken never taste like Louisiana chicken. It’s a soul food place in CA I really like. It was featured on Flava show and the girls had to work there with (one with Delicious).

Del Tace & In & Out were the late night spots.

I only went out to Cabana Club in Hollywood. I LOVED it, very different from Louisiana, AtL and Texas clubs

Really it is too late. They have whatever those women have at this point, so she has failed!! Hopefully others will do better.

Don’t we all have that one time that we regret right afterwards??

jb…you right by the funeral home..

@ Snoop right behind it. Romeo from Steve Harvey got killed on the street.

@other woman
You are incorrect. A Pap does not test for STD’s/STI’s/HIV. A pap tests for abnormal cells and that can be brought on my HPV, which can cause Cervical Cancer. Some people do not show any symptoms of a STD, so it would not show up on a Pap Screening. You have to ask to get tested.

HEY PEOPLE

@THE TRUTH

I have never in my life had a bump on my lip. Could just be me.

@ ListenUp…

Yep, that’s exactly what a pap is for. If your tect comes back abnormal, you nave to go back for another test in my opinion, hurts. They will tell you what they will test for. This test, they will test for one or two STDs. Anything else, you will have to request.

@ Legend….for the record I know you! But you never and cannot have that pleasure of getting with me! I am not nor have I ever been the sleeping around type! There has always been diseases and I love myself to much to sleep around. So not trying to disrepect you! But life is short enough than to waste it on sleeping around just to sleep around!!!

Lady A!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Man, I just don’t care™

@THE TRUTH

I have never in my life had a bump on my lip. Could just be me.

You’ve never had a fever blister before?

TELL YOUR FRIENDS!IF NOT, THEN YOU’RE NOT A GOOD FRIEND.

I think this is something that one should waste zero seconds of thought on- tell yo peeps somekinda way-but do tell- if you drowning do you care who throws you a safe saver??? help yo peeps save themselves….

@Man, I just don’t care™

@THE TRUTH

I have never in my life had a bump on my lip. Could just be me

REALLY NOT EVEN WHEN U GOT SICK AND HAD A REALLY HIGH FEVER. YOU NEVER HAD A FEVER BLISTER WOW.

@Marquis de Sade

Man, I just don’t care™

@THE TRUTH

I have never in my life had a bump on my lip. Could just be me.

You’ve never had a fever blister before?

OMG Y R U THINKING LIKE ME THIS IS SCARY!!!

JB!!!!…I’M TAKING MY HAIR OUT SO BE READY FOR THE WILDNESS…LOL

yes!!!yes!!yes!!….if you new someone was going to be killed, wouldnt you tell the police. if she doesnt tell these dudes(her friends) then she’s really not a friend. if i’m about to eat a bowl of shit(not knowing) my friend better say something. so she’s letter her friends be killed slowly, with a stomach full of shit!!!!!

Ok if you have been dating someone for a minute, and were using protection then stopped. And that person told you after the fact that they had let’s say herpes, nothing life threating or that can cause other things like the other diseases do, would you still be with them?

@ Marquis De Sade

BOY! I had to check your properties just to make sure that was really you talking to me. How have you been? Long time no see!

TWIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I AM LEGEND (A Wise Man Told Me Dont Argue With Fools)

LADY ARCHITECT (BAD HABITS…I KNOW)

JB!!!!…I’M TAKING MY HAIR OUT SO BE READY FOR THE WILDNESS…LOL

damn Amber Rose again..LOL

I SAID TAKING MY HAIR OUT NOT OFF…LOL

TWIN!!!!!

wassup lovely lady a!

@MARQUIS AND THE TRUTH
“You’ve never had a fever blister before?”
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Nope. I have NEVER had a fever blister either. Like I said, could just be me.

@LADY A

♪♫♪♫ HEY, WHAT’S UP? ♫♪♫♪

oops….she’s letting. lol…..but seriously she should tell. its bad enough they have a std, but to be with someone and not telling them is wrong. it sounds like little kids, because adults would standup and do the right thing. or she’s going to be attending alot of funerals around the same time. you can save alot more heart ache, if you actullay be a friend not a chump! MAN UP!…OR WOMAN UP!

Hey JB!!!!

Lady AAA!!!!!!!!!

Sunkissed Lips aka TRS :

The Truth!

@ Man I just don’t care…

You’ve never had a fever blister before??

You must be working with a hell of a immune system.

I get them damn thing every two years, same time.

hey sunshine….What’s goody??

Hey BE!!!!

Make sure you turn that heat up cause i know Jack Frost in coming in to the east coast this weekend.

@MIJDC – I hardly ever get fever blisters either…rarely

♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

@HEY BEAUTIFUL BE THATS WHAT I WAS SAYING I NEED TO DO WHATEVA MJDC IS DOING SO I DONT EVER GET ONE HAD ONE ONCE OR TWICE ITS EMBARASSING.

@LADY A HOW ARE U???

@Jb – Make sure you turn that heat up cause i know Jack Frost in coming in to the east coast this weekend.

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I don’t have a problem turning on my dang heat…October 15 be dam*ed

@MISS B
“You must be working with a hell of a immune system.

I get them damn thing every two years, same time.”
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I guess so. **knock on wood** I am rarely sick. In the last 5-6 years I have missed about 3 days to LEGITMATELY being sick.

Hope my good luck continues.

BEAUTIFUL BE!!!!!!!!!

@ BG

You are working on earning a whipping talking about “hoes” up in here!!

@The truth – I think some people are just more prone to getting them ..more importantly

what kind of car did you get?

TRUTH
You got a car without consulting the Don Meca of car sales. I’m crushed!!!

Oh, wow. Are we STILL playing those kind of games? In this day and age, really? So not nice – it’s not nice and it sure as hell ain’t cute either.

THAT GIRL IS POISON – NEVER TRUST A BIG BUTT AND A SMILE!!!!!!!!!

i just read it again and the ho is pregnant, risking the child’s life. f*ck hos like this. real talk

Snoop
Thanks triple og… og triple!

Hey, BE!

@i am legend – The Olympics are in Rio in 2016…Count me in ima find me a fine Brazilian women who cant speak any english and bring her back 2 the states

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good idea…she can come work as my house cleaner too…get a whole illegal alien ring going..

@ Grown Man…

If the doctor knows or finds out, the baby can be born through a c-section & not have to pass the vaginal area to contract.

MISS BLAZE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Long time no see

@bg( The Terminator…1 day)

TRUTH
You got a car without consulting the Don Meca of car sales. I’m crushed!!!

NOOOO BG U KNOW U MY DUDE I HAD NOTING TO DO WITH IT U DONT THINK I WOULDA SAID IM GETTING A CAR IF I KNEW I DIDNT KNOW. IT WAS A LATE AZZ HELL BDAY GIFT.

@ TRS
You are working on earning a whipping talking about “hoes” up in here!!
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You know I didnt mean you. I’m gonna be very nice today

maaannnn!! that’s y im gun-shy about hooking up. going on 3yrs celebate. its 2 many risks and my drive is shut-the-f-down. when im ready w/ who im dating now, WE r going to the dr.

btw, that dude better tell!!! damn, thats trifling! my aunt is a labor and delivery nurse. i get hella horror stories when she’s around!

IM FROM UK, WHEN I CAME TO UNITED STATE, I WAS WARNED BY ALOT OF PEOPLE NOT TO F*CK BLACK WOMEN IN AMERICA BECAUSE THEY HAVE AIDS. AND THIS WHERE WHITE PEOPLE AND EVEN SOME BLACK MEN TELLING ME THIS.LOL NOW I BELIEVE.

OMG they’re playing it on WBLS RIGHT NOW!!!!!

That girl is poison…..

The Truth
Ok…in that case we cool

Hey LADY A

@ BE

I know, I was wondering when I was going to see you on one of these posts. What’s poppin?

This has to be handled with care, because you don’t know how people will react once told. No mature how mature the guys are once the find out they could lose it, at the though of being lied to, betrayed and possibly having an incurable STD. So an anonymous text or message would be best, but if it later comes out that you knew about it, it could be devastating to the friendship. I would want to know if it was me.

And everyone is knocking the guys for not using condoms but there is a point in a relationship you trust your partner and do away with condoms. And people can lie till the end of the earth so maybe they communicated but she lied and he trusted her.

LOLOL TRUTH @ THE LATE B-DAY GIFT…I JUST GOT A LATE ONE YESTERDAY FROM MY BRO AND SIS…EVENTHOUGH MOMMY PAID FOR THE ACTUAL GIFT.

@LADY ARCHITECT (BAD HABITS…I KNOW)

I SHOUTED U OUT MA!!! UP TOP ALREADY I DIDNT FORGET U

@miss b
what if the doctor doesn’t know???? she is still a f*cking ho.

@uk master

IM FROM UK, WHEN I CAME TO UNITED STATE, I WAS WARNED BY ALOT OF PEOPLE NOT TO F*CK BLACK WOMEN IN AMERICA BECAUSE THEY HAVE AIDS. AND THIS WHERE WHITE PEOPLE AND EVEN SOME BLACK MEN TELLING ME THIS.LOL NOW I BELIEVE.
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If they didn’t tell you that, would you be fu*king black women?

BG – HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!

DESPITE YOUR RUDE ENTRANCE
:

TRUTH,
I SAW YOU

HEY BLAZE!

These infected women probably caught the STD from men who purposely wanted to spread it by not using condoms.

Hey, Lady Architect

Glad to see some familiar faces – its been awhile.

@ BG

You know I didnt mean you. I’m gonna be very nice today
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OK Good to hear it! I was about to get me a switch and carve your initials in it! LOL You don’t have to be nice! It’s Freaky Friday!!!

Speaking of FF, why is it not on and poppin yet?

damn i am all riled up and pissed at work, and gonna look at black women differently now.

@ Grown Man….

During my Sister’s pregnancy, the doctors tested her. Not sure if it’s standard protocol though.

But, hey I’m ot knocking your opinion/ comment. Just saying if the doctor does test and knows, the baby can be delivered to not contract the death sentence.

@Miss Blaze – I know, I was wondering when I was going to see you on one of these posts. What’s poppin?

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lots happening..I’ll have to send you an e-mail

You all know how folks get when you try and tell them about the peeps they’re in a relationship with…so be prepared for it to backfire, if you do tell!

lady a….i got a really late gift for you as well….it awaits you, i’ll wrap it when you get out here

TRS….SMH…UR SO FRESH 2DAYS IN A ROW MISS?

BE
Thanks… Sorry, you know I like to make an “Entrance”

snoop bloggy blog (RESPECT Is Like MONEY… You Gotta EARN IT!!!)

lady a….i got a really late gift for you as well….it awaits you, i’ll wrap it when you get out here

I’LL MAKE SURE TO COME GET IT B4 BASKETBALL SEASON STARTS…YOU GET DISTRACTED TOO MUCH

@molly
oh stop it, they got it from f*cking white men, and you know white men f*ck animals.

TRS

“Are you going to play nice today or should I brace myself?”

Naw you don’t have to brace yourself, i’m about to log off and go the work. Ciao!

maaannnn!! that’s y im gun-shy about hooking up. going on 3yrs celebate. its 2 many risks and my drive is shut-the-f-down. when im ready w/ who im dating now, WE r going to the dr.

btw, that dude better tell!!! damn, thats trifling! my aunt is a labor and delivery nurse. i get hella horror stories when she’s around!
and anybody with a lip sore gets nada from me!

@GROWN MAN

damn i am all riled up and pissed at work, and gonna look at black women differently now.
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Don’t let the stupid ones affect your attitude.

Guess if the story was about two men doing it and got a girl preggers…. I’ll prob be at worked pissed too

Oh BG was speaking to people?

Oh hey BG, *looking at you with the evil eye only a mother can give*

Ooops *go to work*

@ BE

Okay, cool.

**getting ready for Freaky Friday**

: ↑ o

@ Marquis De Sade

OH HELL NO!!!!!!!! I am absolutely speachless by all of that. I know that Cali is hurting but DANG!! Are you aware of the current status of these IOUs that the state gave for tax refunds?

@miss b
im from the uk and i am going for a vacation in united state, so what do think???

I’m hungry – BRB!

SMH MY AUNT WANTS ME TO MOVE OUT TO CALI…THAT LADY IS NUTS…

@ notonetojudge…

She prob lied to the clinic staff. People make up all kinds of stories these days.

Twin,

S….SMH…UR SO FRESH 2DAYS IN A ROW MISS?
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You said that I wasn’t bad enough!!!!!

I would tell the guys to be careful sexually.I would let them read between the lines.If they don’t heed my advice the guys probably have diseases of their own…I would not mention any names.Nobody named me the police ,I ain’t officer Ross.

trs

Twin,

You said that I wasn’t bad enough!!!!!

YOU ARE RIGHT…YOU HAVE LET DOWN THE VIRGO PRIDE…TIME TO REDEEM YOURSELF SO GET IT STARTED!

@ uk…

I don’t know anything about the guys from the UK, it’s why I asked you the question.

@OTHER WOMAN……u r dead wrong i can c da type of friend u r

I would tell the guys to be careful sexually.I would let them read between the lines.If they don’t heed my advice the guys probably have diseases of their own…I would not mention any names.Nobody named me the police ,I ain’t officer Ross
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LMFAO @ S/N and comment

@BG – Thanks… Sorry, you know I like to make an “Entrance”
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those the onliest words you could think of huh? lol

BYE MARQUIS!!

@miss b
i would be MORE cautious around black women. im sorry i love myself more than anyone.

Are you aware of the current status of these IOUs that the state gave for tax refunds?
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I told my friends to send in an IOU to the State and city for any taxes or fees they have to pay. What’s good for the goose was my reasoning.

I’m hungry – BRB!
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I just opened a Sausage stand under my desk

@miss b
ill f*ck anything that is hot. would you f*ck a UK guy?

Hey JB

JB,
TEXT ME WHEN YOU GET A CHANCE…TY

@ grown man…

I won’t knock that. I am EXTRA cautious with black men.

Any body, u should strap up anyway.

I find guys are more likely to let they guard down b/c the female is pretty, carried herself well, or has a weet personality.

“@uk master

IM FROM UK, WHEN I CAME TO UNITED STATE, I WAS WARNED BY ALOT OF PEOPLE NOT TO F*CK BLACK WOMEN IN AMERICA BECAUSE THEY HAVE AIDS. AND THIS WHERE WHITE PEOPLE AND EVEN SOME BLACK MEN TELLING ME THIS.LOL NOW I BELIEVE.
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did they ever tell you where or from whom the black women likely gets AIDS/HIV/STD from? if I were you, by that same mentality, i’d stay away from sleeping with black men to – that is if you get down like that! a black man would seriously have some nerve saying that to you and white men are educated enough to know where black women get these diseases from.

I AM LEGEND,
YEH SHE’S SMART, BUT I DONNO ABOUT MOVING TO THE WEST COAST. I’M AN EAST COAST TYPE OF WOMAN

It sounds like the same tired discussion being debated on here again. Ughhh…

@ uk master…

I was just interested in a sexual relationship.

But, give me a chance to think… if the UK guy was my boyfriend. I’m not talking about a relationship just so we could have sex… A REAL relationship.

Twin,

YOU ARE RIGHT…YOU HAVE LET DOWN THE VIRGO PRIDE…TIME TO REDEEM YOURSELF SO GET IT STARTED!
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You determined to corrupt me. And you talking about ME being trouble!!!!! SMH Lady A. You’re a bad example for little ole me.

MISS B
i gotta be on my guard henceforth. even strapping is never guaranteed.

@ BG

I just opened a Sausage stand under my desk
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Have you ever really let someone do that under the desk?

I have….

trs

You determined to corrupt me. And you talking about ME being trouble!!!!! SMH Lady A. You’re a bad example for little ole me.

*BLANK STARE* WHO ME?…I’M AN ANGEL

Lady A, Left the phone at the house. Same thing different day. At least I knwo where it is though.

@ uk master…

I was just interested in a sexual relationship.

with me???????

@ BG

I just opened a Sausage stand under my desk
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Have you ever really let someone do that under the desk?

I have….
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Hell yeah!!! Girl I would stop to get head in a category 5 hurricane!

Last time I had a condom inside of me was about least 3 years ago while my hubby was out of town. LMWAO

I only mess with married men.

damn is it that serious ma?? Diggin in the crates and sh!t….lmao!!

other women
wow mate lolllll

HIDE*

trs

I cosign with JB on this one!!!

WTH YOU SUPPOSE TO BE ON MY SIDE…YALL TRYIN TO JUMP ME?

Twin,

WTH YOU SUPPOSE TO BE ON MY SIDE…YALL TRYIN TO JUMP ME?
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Of course not! You know we are the three musketeers!

Have you ever really let someone do that under the desk?

I have….
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OK I’LL START THIS OFF THE RIGHT WAY…

FELLAS: ARE YALL INTIMIDATED WHEN A WOMAN GIVES YOU A SERIOUS BEATIN IN THE BEDROOM? PRETTY MUCH SHE TAKES CONTROL AND MAKES YOU FEEL HELPLESS?

strap people.

@LADY A
“FELLAS: ARE YALL INTIMIDATED WHEN A WOMAN GIVES YOU A SERIOUS BEATIN IN THE BEDROOM? PRETTY MUCH SHE TAKES CONTROL AND MAKES YOU FEEL HELPLESS?”
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no

Lady Archetict

I didnt member you having da lazy eye before. Did you get in and accedent?

I would give the women a choice: “Either you tell them or I will”

@ the fellas

ARE YALL INTIMIDATED WHEN A WOMAN GIVES YOU A SERIOUS BEATIN IN THE BEDROOM? PRETTY MUCH SHE TAKES CONTROL AND MAKES YOU FEEL HELPLESS?
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To add to this….

How do you handle it? Would you let her know she had destroyed your azz or would you keep it to yourself?

See there you go

@LADY AZZITECT

OK I’LL START THIS OFF THE RIGHT WAY…

FELLAS: ARE YALL INTIMIDATED WHEN A WOMAN GIVES YOU A SERIOUS BEATIN IN THE BEDROOM? PRETTY MUCH SHE TAKES CONTROL AND MAKES YOU FEEL HELPLESS?

STFU

@TRS
“To add to this….

How do you handle it? Would you let her know she had destroyed your azz or would you keep it to yourself?”
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LOL. she BET not have “destroyed my azz!!”

But if she put it down good I’d let her know.

@ the fellas

ARE YALL INTIMIDATED WHEN A WOMAN GIVES YOU A SERIOUS BEATIN IN THE BEDROOM? PRETTY MUCH SHE TAKES CONTROL AND MAKES YOU FEEL HELPLESS?

IT’S RARE, WOMEN NOWADAYS CANNOT F*CK FOR SH*T. BUT WHEN A WHITE WOMEN GIVES ME HEAD I ALWAYS SCREAM THO.

Keyshia Coleslaw

Lady Archetict

I didnt member you having da lazy eye before. Did you get in and accedent?

SURE DID…I CAN STILL HELP YOU WITH YOUR SPEECH LESSONS THOUGH…LET ME KNOW WHEN YOU’RE READY…BYE BYE NOW

@ MIJDC

LOL. she BET not have “destroyed my azz!!”

But if she put it down good I’d let her know.
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LOL!!!! I wasn’t being literal. Yes you should always let her know. Women apppreciate that.

@BG – *Pours out a lil MD 20/20 for D. Hatchett*
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MD, that’s what you drink in college cause you ain’t got no money…you don’t still drink this do you? LOL you should at least be up to Easy Jesus by now..lol

*appreciate* dang

@TRS
“LOL!!!! I wasn’t being literal. Yes you should always let her know. Women apppreciate that.”
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I always give credit when it is due…

@ be…E & J, I get nauseated just smelling that shit….

@smack – IT’S RARE, WOMEN NOWADAYS CANNOT F*CK FOR SH*T. BUT WHEN A WHITE WOMEN GIVES ME HEAD I ALWAYS SCREAM THO.

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maybe its the women you are dealing with..ionno

SHE BETTER TELL THOSE DUDES CAUSE KARMA IS A B*TCH.

BE

@smack – IT’S RARE, WOMEN NOWADAYS CANNOT F*CK FOR SH*T. BUT WHEN A WHITE WOMEN GIVES ME HEAD I ALWAYS SCREAM THO.

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maybe its the women you are dealing with..ionno

*SOLELY AGREES*

@ Smack…

Don’t complain; school them.

@ MIJDC

I always give credit when it is due…

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Good! Some dudes won’t let a woman know because they are afraid that they will looked whipped. Some women are guilty of this too.

WRAPPING IT UP IS A MUST. I EVEN MAKE MY CLOSEST FRIENDS WEAR CONDOMS WHEN WE MESSING AROUND.

@LADY ARCHTIECT
READ THE COMMENT I SENT TO BE IT REFERS TO YOU TOO.

MISS B
DO YOU F*CK GOOD?

FELLAS WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE US RIDE IT FOR ABOUT 40 MINUTES WITH A SLOW GRIND OR WORK IT HARD FOR ABOUT 10 MINUTES UNTIL YOU EXPLODE?

@MISS APPLEBOTTOM
“WRAPPING IT UP IS A MUST. I EVEN MAKE MY CLOSEST FRIENDS WEAR CONDOMS WHEN WE MESSING AROUND.”
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ROFLMAO!!

You are so safe!

SMACK THAT HO

@LADY ARCHTIECT
READ THE COMMENT I SENT TO BE IT REFERS TO YOU TOO.

I DON’T REALLY BRAG ABOUT HOW I GET DOWN CAUSE I LIKE SURPRISES…I’M A PLEASER IS ALL..SO DO WHAT IT TAKES TO COMPLETE THE TASK

I USUALLY LIKE OLDER MEN TOO BUT YOUNG GUYS ARE ALRIGHT SOMETIMES TOO B/C THEY DO DESPERATE THINGS TO BE WITH OLDER CLASSY WOMEN.

@ miss apple…….i’ll take the latter, and send her to the kitchen for a club sandwich,lemonade and some plain lays chips

this is so not funny.

MISS APPLEBOTTOM IN ALABAMA
LMAO…NEVER EXPERIENCED THAT…I LAUGH A LOT SO I’M GLAD CAUSE I WOULD BURST OUT IN LAUGHTER…LIKE UMM WE SHOULD TAKE A TRIP TO WALMART SO YOU CAN GET THE RIGHT SIZE

Bottom line. They need to know. Also its not your job to feel bad. The ladies who are sexing these men should have said something. The problem is theirs….not yours. Put it this way….what if one of these cats was your brother….or you. Wouldnt you want to know?

@ Smack..

WOW, wasn’t expecting such a blunt question…

I was involved 4 years with the same guy. It’s amazing how well you can learn a person’s body; likes & dislikes. The communication & taking improvement or pleasure to the next level.

So w that being said, & despite all the other crap, yes, we pleased each other dearly. He was not afraid to admit and AS MAN says…. credit was always given where credit was due.

@BE
COME GET WITH ME SHAWTY, ILL FLY WERE YOU AT IF YOU GUARANTEE TO GIVE ME GOOD SEX.

and why every man swear they need a magnum????
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MAGNUM XL in my case, thank you very much

@ be….Why do every woman, claim they got that ” good good”?

@ Da Honest Truth

how will you sistas feeding into the sexual frenzy feel then cause its YOU they’re talking about. what self respecting woman carried on aa blog like this without even knwing who you’re talking to?
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Not to be rude, but it IS Freaky Friday. That’s been going down ever since I have been on this site.

I understand your perspective, but you are making assumptions about all of us. I don’t have a problem addressing ANY of the fellas on here when they come incorrect PERIOD…AND THEY KNOW THIS.

@Smack – COME GET WITH ME SHAWTY, ILL FLY WERE YOU AT IF YOU GUARANTEE TO GIVE ME GOOD SEX.
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no thank you…I don’t have random casual sex..lol

@Snoop – MAGNUM XL in my case, thank you very much

ok Mr. 1199 pumps…lol

@MISS B
OH SO YOU THE FEW GOOD GIRLS RIGHT? SH*T I WILL STILL F*CK YOU THO, CAUSE LIKE JAY Z SAID GOOD WOMEN GONE BAD LOL

@ DaHonestTruth

This is what I noticed…

Most guys (not all) will go into willing not pulling a condom out his wallet (huh) or pants pocket. And if the female rather to scared to say something or feels odd to, he will not use one.

So id a guy isn’t going to make sure, I will make it my business to think for the bastard.

*CALLING SNOOP’S BLUFF* PROVE IT..

@ Smack
OH SO YOU THE FEW GOOD GIRLS RIGHT? SH*T I WILL STILL F*CK YOU THO, CAUSE LIKE JAY Z SAID GOOD WOMEN GONE BAD LOL
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From your previous question, I should have expected your next comment to be what it is.

Just Sit And Be Pretty

I would let the guys know anonymously, that way, your friends can’t implicate you and you possibly save a live, or two…or ten!!
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I think this is what I would do also, You dont know how many lives/health could be saved

Why would someone even need to seek advice on something like this! SMDH!

@Snoop – Why do every woman, claim they got that ” good good”?

BECAUSE THEY ARE TRYING TO CONVINCE THEMSELVES THEY GOT IT…IF YOU TRULY GOT IT THERE’S NO NEED TO WALK AROUND SAYING IT…WAIT FOR THE GUY’S RESPONSE…THAT’S ALL I CARE ABOUT IN THE END.

@ Miss B

So id a guy isn’t going to make sure, I will make it my business to think for the bastard.
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AMEN!! Some of them will try to go without one JUST to see if you let them. If you don’t say anything…they will go right on and hit without it.

A sista always has to be on her A game because there is way too much out there to risk your sexual health and fertility.

JUAN-ROBERTO HAS 62 HOURS ON HIS PAYCHECK THIS WEKK SO THINGS ARE LOOKING GOOD FOR ME LATER TODAY. HE IS SUCH A DUMBASS TOO B/C HE TELL ME HOW MUCH OVERTIME HE HAS BUT DONT LET HIS WIFE KNOW ANYTHING. SHE USED TO THE BASIC 40 HOUR CHECK.

Afternoon All!!!! Happy Friday!!

LMAO @ you guys having FF in an STD thread!

*CALLING SNOOP’S BLUFF* PROVE IT..
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i’ll pic text it to you when he’s at his full potential….lol

@ Snoop
Why do every woman, claim they got that ” good good”?
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Maybe I am always incognito after work, but I not many women I know or talk to really discuss except for the one who was “competing(sp)” for wahtever reason for the cookie. Most females talk stuff but never (beside that chick) trying to prove her skills.

Hey Redd!

……..

BE Baby!!!!!

What is showing in my gravie hun? I’m seeing a very blury pic but thats not what I changed it to.

missbleezy…..I can tell you got that snap back

LADIES:
EVER PICKED A FIGHT FOR NO APPARENT REASON…JUST TO HAVE MAKE-UP SEX?

*in my D-Bo voice* WASSUP REDD

@BG – I have cut down on the fighting, I still get pissed fairly easy
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well the wrong fight can get you hurt or dead….just learn to walk away..

@ BE
I only pick the ones I know i can win. I aint crazy! you don’t get to 88-2 being dumb

LMAO @ MIJDC

@ DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On

Its just adults having a little fun. Life is hard enough. Sometimes people would rather laugh than focus on the bad. As far as anyone on here calling me names I do not tolerate that at all and they know.

MISS B
COME ON ITS ALL FUN SHAWTY.

@ Smack

Where are you from? The “shawty? sounds like the South

@bg – I only pick the ones I know i can win. I aint crazy! you don’t get to 88-2 being dumb
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ROFLMAO!!!! OK..FLOYD

*in my D-Bo voice* WASSUP REDD

Hi Snoopy!

LMAO @ MAN!!

twin,

LADIES:
EVER PICKED A FIGHT FOR NO APPARENT REASON…JUST TO HAVE MAKE-UP SEX?
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No, I don’t pick fights but I do enjoy the afermath!!!

BIG SIS!!!!!!!!!

IM HAVING FUN HERE

@MISS BE
IM FROM NEW ORLEANS SHAWTY.

This is exactly why I dont pick up random girls anymore, people are disease ridden

@REDD
YOU WELCOME, I WANNA SMACK YOU RIGHT NOW.

MISS BLAZE…YOU’RE SO ON POINT WITH THE CLENCHING EXERCISES…IT’S GOOD TO THROW SOME IN WHILE YOUR SEXING TOO…DRIVE A MAN CRAZY

@ Smack….

New Orleans huh? LOL. Damn, I knew that!!!

What you do down there? You downtown or New Orleans East?

PREACH ROSE PREACH!!!

I agree with the people who said to tell the men anonymously. I would send a typed letter to each of the men that simply stated, “Does *so-and-so* have an incurable STD? Ask her. What will she say?” That will probably raise a flag in their heads and make them ask/wonder why they would get a letter like that out of the blue. If my friends ask me did I send the letter- I will act offended that they would think that I would betray them even though I know that I did. I would want someone to tell me that someone has something that will take away from the quality of my life.

@ Lady A and BE

Did you know that they have kegal exercise devices?

@BG – I would be there like half the day
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LOL..she was probably thinking…man I wish BG would go home, I got stuff to do…lol

Miss B,
LOL@YOUR EX…MY EX STILL DESPISES MY BF FOR GETTING SOMETHING HE NEVER GOT

LIL SIS!!!

@ MissBlaze44

You are so right about excercising her. Keeps it tight.

@ Rose….

Yep. I was naive w/ my ex of four years. I am blessed & happy I have the chance to make better decisions.

@TRS – Did you know that they have kegal exercise devices?

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ben wa balls?

So did my ex. We met in college too. He thought the same thing. Was crying saying he thought the day would never happen when I actually said/ done something to show I was serious about being thru.

Guys, I swear.
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She wasnt my girl, just an extra special jump-off!

@TRS
“Did you know that they have kegal exercise devices?”
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you be working yours out like Arnold Schwarzenegger in his prime?

@ Lady Architect…

I know right. He keeps an attitude. I called to say happy birthday & dude lashed out on me. I’m like, what’s the attitude dude, you were doing me wrong. He’s upset for the fact that he can’t have me anymore I guess. Some regret there and he doens’t know how to deal with it.

@ BE
Whatever!

SMACK THAT HO

@REDD
YOU WELCOME, I WANNA SMACK YOU RIGHT NOW.

Really?? I’m sorry you feel that way hun.

@ BE
@ Lady A

Yes, Gurls. I LOVE drivin’ that young tender crazy every time, too.

Ok, let me go do some work real quick and I’ll BRB!

@ bg

Well no wonder you hurt.

@ BE

@TRS – Did you know that they have kegal exercise devices?

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ben wa balls?
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You can use those… but try the kegalmaster 2000.

That is all.

@ MIJDC

you be working yours out like Arnold Schwarzenegger in his prime?
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LMAO!!! A woman should ALWAYS be prepared!

RIGHT NOW

@BG – Whatever!
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I’m just giving you a woman’s perspective…dang…lol

@MISS B
DOWNTOWN LOL

You can use those… but try the kegalmaster 2000.

That is all.

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will do ladies…

@ Smack…

I work in Covington, LA

@ LADIES…..Have you ever had more than one partner at a time??? remember your under oath….lol

@ The Truth

im a lil sore ima skip this whole weekend somthing telling me ima get a work out doing other things so no need to do the usual weekend workout lmao.
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What’s your typical workout?

MAN,
I CAN..ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DO IT AT THE TIP…IT’S LIKE A TOY THAT HAS DIFFERENT SIZE BALLS ON IT THAT GET SMALLER AND YOU TEST YOUR GRIP OR STRENGTHEN IT BY PULLING IN THE SMALLEST ONE…IT HELPS YOU, YOUR PARTNER, AND IT’S FUN TOO ON THE SNEEK TIP.

@snoop bloggy blog (RESPECT Is Like MONEY… You Gotta EARN IT!!!)

@ LADIES…..Have you ever had more than one partner at a time??? remember your under oath….lol

nope honest truth real talk nope

First of all the women need to admit to their partners that they have it, b/c thats sumbody elses life on the line. And if u know u got an STD y would u wanna risk giving that to ur child!? wtf

@BG – Whatever!
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I’m just giving you a woman’s perspective…dang…lol
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Not one female has regretted a milli-second of time spent with me whether we were just talking or in the throws of passion….Damn I’m so arrogant!

TRS…
KEGALMASTER…I WILL ORDER THAT TONITE..WONDER IF THEY OVERNIGHT THOSE THINGS

SMH…BG…TOO ARROGANT

@ The Ladies

When it comes to the toys I have no experience. What is a kegalmaster?

LUNCH BREAK

@ LADIES…..Have you ever had more than one partner at a time??? remember your under oath….lol
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The best question of the day!!!! Anyone how answers yes will be stalked

THIS FOOL JUST BROKE THE CARDINAL RULE OF NEVER STOPPING BY MY HOUSE. HE ONLY HAD MONEY FOR A 1/2 HOUR MASSAGE ANYWAYS. I CANT STAND CRAZY FOOLS WHO CATCH FEELINGS BEHIND A BUSINESS RELATIONSHIP.

LADIES:
FAVORITE TOY?

*WILL SIT BACK AND TAKE NOTES*

…..Have you ever had more than one partner at a time??? remember your under oath….lol
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The best question of the day!!!! Anyone how answers yes will be stalked
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**waiting intently**

@BG – @BG – Whatever!
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I’m just giving you a woman’s perspective…dang…lol
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Not one female has regretted a milli-second of time spent with me whether we were just talking or in the throws of passion….Damn I’m so arrogant!

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do they have hats to fit your big head? LOL oh boy

@ Snoop

No. Have you? I do have this fantasy about two men in my bed. But I would not do that foreal. And not in the way you guys are with the two women thing. They wouldnt be aloud to touch each other. LMAO!

@MISS B
NO WONDER YOU KINDA KNEW WHERE I WAS FROM.LOL BRB

Heres a good reason to wear a condom EVERYTIME, now if ur married that doesnt apply, but seriously, ppl need to be more careful. Unless you and ur partner go get a test together never trust what sumbody says, make sure u see those test results w ur own eyes! and now that poor baby prob is infected, wtf.

The best question of the day!!!! Anyone how answers yes will be stalked

BG you are so crazy!! LMFAO!

The best question of the day!!!! Anyone how answers yes will be stalked
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A “real woman” would tell the honest truth….lol

“No. Have you? I do have this fantasy about two men in my bed. But I would not do that foreal. And not in the way you guys are with the two women thing. They wouldnt be aloud to touch each other. LMAO!”
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WE GOT US A TRAIN IN HERE!!!

CHOO CHOO

**breaking out the cameras**

LMAO @ THE GUYS TRYING TO GET THE WOMEN TO TALK….

@ redd…..i have had a 3some, and i think it’s overrated!! if you do try it one day, don’t do it with your S.O.

The best question of the day!!!! Anyone how answers yes will be stalked
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A “real woman” would tell the honest truth….lol

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a real woman never kisses and tells…never the whole truth any way..lol

WE GOT US A TRAIN IN HERE!!!

CHOO CHOO

**breaking out the cameras**
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“And I’m tellin Dollar Bill too, this aint no damn hoe house”

“No. Have you? I do have this fantasy about two men in my bed. But I would not do that foreal. And not in the way you guys are with the two women thing. They wouldnt be aloud to touch each other. LMAO!”
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WE GOT US A TRAIN IN HERE!!!

CHOO CHOO

**breaking out the cameras**

*************DEAD********

@lady A – LMAO @ THE GUYS TRYING TO GET THE WOMEN TO TALK….

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so they can call us hoes under their breath…smh

When I get my first 3some, I’m gonna retire to the “Intercourse Hall of Fame” There will be nothing left to accomplish.

What is there to think about? No brainer….TELL…sing like a robin!

LADIES:
FAVORITE TOY?
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Rabbit. No doubt.

Twin,

TRS…
KEGALMASTER…I WILL ORDER THAT TONITE..WONDER IF THEY OVERNIGHT THOSE THINGS

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Of course!!!

MY FAVORITE TOY IS A PROFESSIONAL MAN’S DEBIT OR CREDIT CARD. I LOVE TO PLAY WITH THEM AND DONT MIND PAYING A FEE.

I SO NEED A BAD HABIT AT THE MOMENT…

3SOMES ARE SO OLD AND PLAYED OUT. I HAD MY FIRST ONE WHEN I WAS STILL IN HS.

@ BE

so they can call us hoes under their breath…smh
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YEP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ MIJDC

Maybe you have some “featherweights” and “pee-wee shrimp division” TKOs.
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I will not speak on what I am capable of, only to say that this “heavyweight” does NOT brag. And I ain’t NEVER been scared of 12 rounds!

@ Snoopy

@ redd…..i have had a 3some, and i think it’s overrated!! if you do try it one day, don’t do it with your S.O.

What happened? Did she like it too much?

@TRS
“I will not speak on what I am capable of, only to say that this “heavyweight” does NOT brag. And I ain’t NEVER been scared of 12 rounds!”
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I see a “Tyson vs Spinks” bout.

TRS,
I’M MORE OF THE BUTTERFLY OR BULLET FAN MYSELF

@THE LADIES

Do you use toys during intercourse?

@ BG

4 in one night…My greatest day!

All I can do is SMH @ you!

@ MIJDC

I see a “Tyson vs Spinks” bout.
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LMAO!!!!

As long as you know who’s Tyson and who is Spinks!

The only way a 3some will work is if ya’ll are cool or a friend of a friend.

If you were ivolved with one of the females…. you WILL have DRAMA.

Plus they aren’t worth it, nor entertaining.

TRS,
LMAO@YOU…WOOO COMING OUT OF YOU SHELL…I STILL HAVEN’T GOTTEN MY 12 ROUNDS…PERHAPS ITS MY YOUNG BLOOD THAT KEEPS ME GOING.

@BG

Bwahahahahaha at the Married With Children reference. I used to think Kelly Bundy was one bady snow bunny!

@TRS
“I see a “Tyson vs Spinks” bout.
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LMAO!!!!

As long as you know who’s Tyson and who is Spinks! ”
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Let’s get ready to ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuumble!!!

@MISS B
“The only way a 3some will work is if ya’ll are cool or a friend of a friend.

If you were ivolved with one of the females…. you WILL have DRAMA.

Plus they aren’t worth it, nor entertaining.”
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You sound like you are speaking from experience… care to elaborate?

Man, I just don’t care™

@THE LADIES

Do you use toys during intercourse?

I HAVE…IT’S EXCITING

@ Twin,

TRS,
LMAO@YOU…WOOO COMING OUT OF YOU SHELL…I STILL HAVEN’T GOTTEN MY 12 ROUNDS…PERHAPS ITS MY YOUNG BLOOD THAT KEEPS ME GOING.
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Hey I can’t let everyone see that side of me! I am trying to be good! And yes PYT, enjoy your youth!!! It’s a blessing.

Twin,

I STILL HAVEN’T GOTTEN MY 12 ROUNDS…
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I just read this…

Not even on your birthday????? I thought you were going to handle that when we spoke!!

PLEASE LISTEN

NO MATTER WHAT PEOPLE SAY OR DON’T SAY WE NEED TO PROTECT OURSELVES…SHOULD SHE TELL THE GUY YEAH…IN MY OPINION SHE ENCOURAGE HER FRIEND TO TELL HIM HERSELF…WE ALSO NEED TO THINK THAT MABEY HE INFECTED THEM BOTH SINCE THEY BOTH ARE SLEEPING WITH HIM…JUST A THOUGHT…STAY SAFE PEOPLE AND PROTECT YOURSELF EVERBODY HAS SOMETHING (OR JUST ACT LIKE THEY DO UNTIL YOU FIND OUT OTHERWISE)…

at this point in time viruses are incurable everyone here is saying hiv or herpes hpv is also incurable that’s genital warts andd they can cause cancer i think the friend should tell and maybe just say don’t mention where you heard the info

@MISS APPLEBOTTOM
”

3SOMES ARE SO OLD AND PLAYED OUT. I HAD MY FIRST ONE WHEN I WAS STILL IN HS.”
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…go on….

@ MIJDC

Let’s get ready to ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuumble!!!
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You are like Roy Jones… talking all that noise before the fight and then and get dropped in the 2nd round by Tarver!!

What happened? Did she like it too much?
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naw she said i was i paid too much attention to the other female, she was extremely pissed….lol

@ MAN….

Read Snoop’s comment: “naw she said i was i paid too much attention to the other female, she was extremely pissed….lol”
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Another reason why thresomes aren’t a good idea.

TRS,
I DON’T THINK ANYONE CAN HOLD 12 ROUNDS WITH ME…OLDER MEN TALK JUNK…STILL OUT DID HIM

Another reason why thresomes aren’t a good idea.
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Hush!!! There is no downside, don’t ruin this for me

bg( The Terminator…1 day),
LMAOOO…YOU COULDN’T HANDLE HER WILDNESS?

What do you guys think? Should she tell?

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This is really a ”NO brainer”…TELL!

@ Snoop

What happened? Did she like it too much?
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naw she said i was i paid too much attention to the other female, she was extremely pissed….lol

She should have been prepared for that. Of course you would be on the other girl more because she’s new to you. I couldnt see doing that with my man. I’m too spoiled. Its got to be all about me!

@ MAN,

Well I was lied to for starters with the situation. The female had feelings for the guy, my ex before we got super serious. So she started getting jealous right after the “start” & saying things that went on btw them. She wouldn’t stop. Yelling, he telling her to STF up b/c he really likes me & she’s going to f’ it up. I put them both out. I let him back in b/c I’m wondering what’s going on.

She tried to jump on him… etc DRAMA. Things got started and abruptly stopped b/c he needed more condoms. He was overwhelmed I guess. The other girl was cute.

Man, I just don’t care™,
WHAT DID SHE TRY TO DO TO YOU?…THEY HAVE TOYS YOU CAN USE ON GUYS YA KNOW

@ MAN…

She got jealous b/c she didn’t know (maybe he lied to her), that he was seeing me on a regular. Maybe she assumed a was just a f*ck. She didn’t know how to take it b/c he was showing the attention to me before things got started.

Who know.. MAD DRAMA. NEVER AGAIN.

*Williams*

@MISS B
“Well I was lied to for starters with the situation. The female had feelings for the guy, my ex before we got super serious. So she started getting jealous right after the “start” & saying things that went on btw them. She wouldn’t stop. Yelling, he telling her to STF up b/c he really likes me & she’s going to f’ it up. I put them both out. I let him back in b/c I’m wondering what’s going on.

She tried to jump on him… etc DRAMA. Things got started and abruptly stopped b/c he needed more condoms. He was overwhelmed I guess. The other girl was cute.”
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So, did you and this “cute” girl take turns or was every body goin at it at the same time?

Was this a one time thing or are you into girls?

@LADY ARCHITECT (BAD HABITS…I KNOW)

Man, I just don’t care™,
WHAT DID SHE TRY TO DO TO YOU?…THEY HAVE TOYS YOU CAN USE ON GUYS YA KNOW

ok i had to come out of hiding for this one MJDC im waiting lmfao

@Lady Architect

No comment about my comment? My last name is not Love for no reason and do you remember what my middle initial stands for?? My daddy named came up with that one!

”FREAKY FRIDAY”!!!!

LADY ARCHITECT (BAD HABITS…I KNOW)

Man, I just don’t care™

@THE LADIES

Do you use toys during intercourse?

I HAVE…IT’S EXCITING

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I SECOND THAT (toys are fun)!!

If you are not dare I say ‘OPEN’ to you’re man then there is always someone else willing a waiting to please! To me that keeps the relationship fun and spicy!

@@MISS B
“Well I was lied to for starters with the situation. The female had feelings for the guy, my ex before we got super serious. So she started getting jealous right after the “start” & saying things that went on btw them. She wouldn’t stop. Yelling, he telling her to STF up b/c he really likes me & she’s going to f’ it up. I put them both out. I let him back in b/c I’m wondering what’s going on.

She tried to jump on him… etc DRAMA. Things got started and abruptly stopped b/c he needed more condoms. He was overwhelmed I guess. The other girl was cute.”

gasps say it aint so!!!

I’m Back!!!

@ No you can’t be boyfriend #2

My first relationship, I was young and super naive.

Miss B

@ No you can’t be boyfriend #2

My first relationship, I was young and super naive.

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Hey, we all make mistakes…so now you can look back at a wiser you!

@ Miss B

My first relationship, I was young and super naive.
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We ALL go drama with the first MAJOR relationship. The first one always has you looking crazy so I know the feeling.

@ No you can’t be boyfriend #2

Hey, we all make mistakes…so now you can look back at a wiser you!
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YEP. That’s how I look at the past four years with this dude. I learned a lifetime worth of lessons.

@ trs…

We ALL go drama with the first MAJOR relationship. The first one always has you looking crazy so I know the feeling.
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Yep. And when it’s over… it’s like “WOW, really”

Well me being the gentlemen I am and fellas may throw darts at me for saying this, but if my lady doesn’t get her fix while we’re in bed then I don’t feel I have done my job as a man. A real man satisfies his lady friend first and then fulfills his needs only after she has been pleased.

@ Miss B

Yep. And when it’s over… it’s like “WOW, really”
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YEP!! 1st one was the only one that eva ended it first. I learned a lot from it though.

Thanks Ladies.

@MISS B

Thank you for sharing. That was a wonderful story and I wish you had gained an appreciation for women. They are so beautiful…

Maybe the second time is the charm.

* lending ladies my shoulder to cry on* everything going to be ok

Miss B

Thanks Ladies.

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No prob!! I wish a lot more women where as open and didn’t hate a lot (that’s why I have only a select few thats close to me!)! We would truly be a better human race!

‘WERE’

@BG

Dude keeping the bra on is my favorite. I like to pop that thing just before the custard cannon fires off.

I’m back, whats going on in here?

BG what is it with the bra? I thought yall liked the birthday suit.

I once reeled in this skank from the bar off base and took her back to a low-budget hotel. Dude her bra had been through so many battles it looked a natural off-white color, but I realized it was simply dirty after she show me the drawers. I stil smashed! Bwahahahah

Quiet as kept I’m a fan of keeping the bra on
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Shame on you for ignoring this area. I hope that you pay attention to it even if you leave the bra on!

*IS IT ME*
Or do you fellas hate to see a woman wear the same bra and panty set over and over again. I don’t give a damn if I aint seen you in 3 months, get a new one for everytime session….AND NO I AINT BUYIN

@ MIJDC

**fav**
NOTHING but some cheerleader pom poms and some sneakers.
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Does she have to do cheers too or are you just ok with the look?

LMFBAO I KNOW I KNOW I ADMITT SOME WOMEN CAN GO TO FAR LEAVING NIGGZ SCARED ON THEY BACK NOW THAT IS CRAZY BUT WHAT IM SAYING IS TRU AND U KNOW IT CUS U WOULD NOT HAVE COUNTERED MY ARGUMENT IM JUST SAYING WE WANT TO BE SPANKED DADDY NOT BEAT THERE IS A BIIIIIGGG DIFFERENCE.

Oh Yeah! Please spank that a$$ and pull that hair! LOL!

@bg( The Terminator…1 day)

*IS IT ME*
Or do you fellas hate to see a woman wear the same bra and panty set over and over again. I don’t give a damn if I aint seen you in 3 months, get a new one for everytime session….AND NO I AINT BUYIN

OHHH U JUST PUT CHICKS ON TURBO BLAST I UNDERSTAND WHAT U MEAN THOUGH THAT BRINGS ME TO LAUGHING AT DONTE AS WELL CUS WHAT I NOTICED ESP WHEN I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL AND WE HAD SWIMMING AND GYM CLASSES IS ALOT OF WOMEN DO NOT LIKE TO INVEST IN NICE AND DECENT UNDERWARE I MEAN THEY BE FRESH TO DEATH ON THE OUTSIDE BUT THEY UNDIE GAME B NEEDING MAJOR IMPROVEMENTS I MEAN SOME RIPS HOLES STAINS JUST A DAMN SHAME AND THEY B THE ONES WITH THE BRANDNEW SHOE BOATS AND BAGS WOW.

There are several incurable but treatable STDs which range from annoying to life threatening. Truth be told, not telling your partner is more common than not so unless you get tested and see the results together, you’re really just taking someone’s word. You and you only are responsible for your body and sexual health. It’s messed up that these women have chosen to take such actions but their men could have insisted on using protection.

My advice, you have to be smart about this. Your involvement can only make the situation more dramatic. If it’s HIV or Hepatitus then you first need to be 100% sure before you say something, but you should say something. If you feel more comfortable being anonymous then do so. If these guys are infected, medication can prolong their lives. If it’s herpes, then my guess is they already know or already have it. That’s the only reason a guy doesn’t leave a situation like that. He might fake like it’s love but trust, he’s got it. He ain’t gonna play around with his johnson if he thinks otherwise.

That’s my 2 cents.

I would call the health department and give them her name and number as well as the guy she is messing around with. People we have to be safe!

TRUTH,

I MEAN SOME RIPS HOLES STAINS JUST A DAMN SHAME AND THEY B THE ONES WITH THE BRANDNEW SHOE BOATS AND BAGS WOW.
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I am sorry but this had me DYIN!!! LMAO!

@TRS
“**fav**
NOTHING but some cheerleader pom poms and some sneakers.
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Does she have to do cheers too or are you just ok with the look?”
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It’s just the look. I would have her cheering in no time!!

@ trs

Shame on you for ignoring this area. I hope that you pay attention to it even if you leave the bra on!

Thats what I’m saying. How are you going to please the girls with the bra on?

I smashed this one girl (hate to admit it)but her bra was so worn out she had replaced the hook with a rigged up paperclip. Lesson here is fellas be prepared to see anything when you pick up females who lurk around bars located near military bases.

I smashed this one girl (hate to admit it)but her bra was so worn out she had replaced the hook with a rigged up paperclip
___________ELIZABETH I’M COMIN 2 JOIN YOU________

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG girl!!!!
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this was actually for Truth. By B!!

@ MIJDC

It’s just the look. I would have her cheering in no time!!

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Promises, promises!

ROFLMAO AT “TRUTH”

I smashed this one girl (hate to admit it)but her bra was so worn out she had replaced the hook with a rigged up paperclip
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I have no words…………….

WOWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@TRS
“Promises, promises!”
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What’s your favorite sneakers by the way?

I smashed this one girl (hate to admit it)but her bra was so worn out she had replaced the hook with a rigged up paperclip
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….was prolly her “best” bra too. SMH.

I smashed this one girl (hate to admit it)but her bra was so worn out she had replaced the hook with a rigged up paperclip

NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! And you hit that anyway! OMG! Damn you can buy a bra at walmart if you can’t afford Vicki.

LMAO @ all of yall

WASSUP, LADIES AND GENTS!!!!

I have a question for the fellas. Have you ever had a chic with her girls hanging damn near to her knees? I have a friend with no children and her girls are big but when she takes that bra off they are to her navel. She be having guys fooled at the club with her push-up on.

DAYWALKER In the MFn House!!!!

DAYWALKER!!!!

D-WALK!!!

@ Redd…..that strobe lights + liquor have fooled me on numerous occassions…..lol

I have a question for the fellas. Have you ever had a chic with her girls hanging damn near to her knees? I have a friend with no children and her girls are big but when she takes that bra off they are to her navel. She be having guys fooled at the club with her push-up on.
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All the more reason for leaving it on. I have seen it tho. Homegirl needed the wires on the Golden gate bridge to hold them Mams up!

@ The Truth
I will not do rotten cooch, and I aint gone tell you to shower. It’s no excuse for not handling that no matter the age 18-81. I always feel like Stank COOCH is a sign of “THE PACKAGE”

Only you would take it there. We have been friends since high school and have spent the night together on many occasions you know trips sleep overs. Anyway you can see it if she has on a t shirt with no bra.

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If men knew how often women saw their friend’s goodies they would lose their minds! That’s hilarious to me.

Bye Man!

Much love yall got to go. Have a safe weekend!

im out

bg( The Terminator…1 day)

im out

bye bg happy bday again

BYE, REDD!!! SEEYA MONDAY!!!!!

LATER, BG!!!

HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY, DAWG!!!

It’s quite obvious there’s no concern whatsoever for anyone else. Which actually isn’t suprising in the least. It’s one thing to be careless w/oneself, but it takes a whole new level of selfishness to have no concern for innocent people. Even if their (the uninfected) standards aren’t at an upper class / level, no one deserves an incureable std. Now, one thing 4sure is we all know the dangers and results for not choosing protection, reguardless of state of mind, you should trust no one.

Do not tell them directly.Trust me,they won’t thank you.Maybe you can discreetly place some HIV literature on their desks or a note “get tested” if that’s possible.

Just to be clear, if the incurable disease is Herpes, a CONDOM WILL NOT PREVENT IT from spreading. Also, many times, folks who contract herpes through sexual activity get it orally as well (I know 2 people people with it and they both have both).

Ya’ll put too much stock in condom use!

Btw,I’ve read that double-bagging actually causes more friction on the condoms so they’re more likely to tear.Check on that.

tell

Damn! Damn! Damn! First tell him and then somebody need to Chris Brown her ass

HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF I GOT SOMETHING TO TELL YOU DON’T TELL I TOLD YOU.MY CONCERN IS FOR THE BABY.DOESN’T IT HELP TO GET MEDICAL ATTNTION EARLY!

Dang LA is gross

No! while having an STD is serious…it is not her place to tell the men unless its an STD like AID OR HIV that can kill the men. they told her and didnt have to….she should however encourage her friends to tell the men!

I got it…buy one of those fake phones and text the friends the message through a third party..while you are with the girls they wont think it is you and the guys will find out from someone else..

This is disturbing on so many levels because it’s a blatant case of, “someone gave it to me, so i’m giving it to you”. By all means let the young man know that these two selfish women are putting him in harms way. Not to mention they’re potentially putting themselves in harms way as well, by not telling men that they have an STD. At the very least let them know that if they don’t tell him, you will.

she should tell…they just don’t need to hear it directly from her mouth.

It’s sad in this time of AIDS people still think it’s none of your business when it comes to STD’s. Silence is why AIDS is running rampant in our community. We are quick to point out single people having sex, but what about married and supposedly committed couples who find themselves with a cheating partner or spouse. STD’s are all our business because they spread like wildfire. Only ignoant people still belive that silence is golden when it comes to this subject.

y’all know there was rumor that paris hiltn got herpes. i bet y’all would still get w/ her knowing she has it. don’t be udgemental. others got stds only bec. their partners lied to them, not bec. they were sleepin around. some people, either men or women, didn’t know they were infected by their cheating partner til it was too late.

That’s a tough one. They’re supposed to use a condom though so it’s really on them

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It’s the responsibility of the infected friends to tell. BUT since they aren’t being responsible, the person writing this letter needs to tell. This is an incurable infection and those people have the RIGHT to know so that they can decide if they’d like to continue in that situation. To me, this is just as bad as passing AIDS or HIV and it’s WRONG!!!. When are we going to get this thing together! If the two girls were using protection in the first place, this letter wouldn’t be written (at least by the writer). Think of it this way, you’re not telling, you’re informing. Wouldn’t you want to be informed?

If it’s AIDS, tell. IF it’s herpes. Don’t tell. Herpes is incurable but it won’t kill them. THey need to be responsible for themselves. Aids is different because it takes lives…. and THAT is murder.

I think that you should speak with your friends and give them an ultimatium. Give them a certain amount of time to tell and if they don’t u do. I can’t honestly say these are the type of friends u would want to associate yourself with only because they place u in a situation like this. You can bet that if they did it this time, there will be more. I understand loyalty but at what cost. Another thing is once the truth come out, if it is too long then you may have an issue of guilty by association. Imagine if these dudes tell others and u are associated with these girls, they can place u in the same boat, if u get my drift.

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I am not sure if it was skimmed over when u were reading the original letter, but she stated that she asked her friends to tell the guys and they refuse, So I amm sure the guys don’t know. Also, I know she said the guys are mutal friends/associates, so that places her a little higher than the noisy friend that is in her friends business, plus her friends informed her of the information, so that really removes her from being the noisy friends rather than if her friends didnt want her to know, they shouldn’t have told her. I understand her wanting to be supportive to her friends, but should her support to her friends start with a lie-the lie being that she really don’t support how they are handling the situation.

when are people ever going to learn their lesson when it comes to unprotected sex? with all of the wealth of information there is on the internet, and at you local clinic, its not that hard. never understood it.

i’d say tell it. yeah, its not your business but its someone’e life that you can change for the better, FOREVER! if you knew that someone was on the way to your mutual friend’s house to kill them, would you not call because it’s not your business? of course not. find a way to tell it. black people need to GET OVER the who ‘snitchin’ thing.

oh…. and another thing. you need to get new friends. these girls are reckless and conniving. and selfish. no respect for the next person. putting other people at risk is never ok. so many people can get hurt from this. possibly me, you, and the next person! lets say that these people dont have health care. well, that means that they have to get help from the government for healthcare, meds, etc. and who in the hell do you think is paying that???? people who aint got a damn thing to do with it AND it could have been prevented! a little discretion is all it takes.

This must be some Ghetto shit.
It’s simple because most people have a regular doctor and alls he gotta do it go GET TESTED and he will know.
I swear people are stupid !

The truth is treat everyone as if they are already infected, if you’re going to engage in a sexual relationship. Meaning protect yourself and get health check ups regularly. Know your sexual partner. However, I would tell. The truth set you free. It’s better to know than not know. If you don’t tell, it’s like you’re a participant to their wrong doing. Do you want the guilt of knowing you could have saved their life, not to mention many others.

Oral herpes is an infection caused by the herpes simplex virus. The virus causes painful sores on your lips, gums, tongue, roof of your mouth, and inside your cheeks. It also can cause symptoms such as fever and muscle aches.

I would tell, the secret of knowing what they are doing will really bother me. I have enough things to ask GOD’S forgiveness. Anyone who is not terrified about how reckless they were when they were younger is a fool, i got tested 20 years ago, and will never put my self though that type of preventable stress ever again. I was negative, but some people aren’t so lucky. So with that said EACH ONE TEACH ONE HOW TO BE RESPONSIBLE.

I think she should have said something whether it be through an anonymous letter or flat out telling them face to face…………..these women need to be put on bast ! you just dont go out and sleep with someone knowing that you have an std.

Are some of you serious! I read where someone said there are only two stds you can’t get rid of lol omg go get educated there’s HPV, HIV, Herpes, and Hep and out of all of them HPV, HIV and Hep kills(HPV turns into cancer and is also a form of genital warts) but to make a comment based on the subject people should tell their partners their status. I would hate to meet someone who has HIV and they didnt tell me. But we also have to remember we all have a responsibility to protect ourselves and take care of ourselves. Get your mate tested!