Stay in Your Lane: Alicia Keys to Start a Blog About Positivity…

Posted on October 8th, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: A "Lil Positivity", Alicia Keys, News

akeys

Alicia Keys is going to start a blog focused on positivity and uplifting women.

  • The Official Mrs. Carter

    Ha. how fitting…

  • The Official Mrs. Carter

    What? Im first? I dont believe it. I’m surprised all of Mashonda’s stans arent holding this down…lol

  • Truth

    A homewrecker, uplifting women???? Seriously?

  • melissa

    What she is gonna teach us? How to steal another married woman man…please

  • Diva

    lol @ the majority of the comments. Im glad we all feel the same! She got nerve!

  • gigi

    Good for her.. I wish folks stop blaming her for the mashonda thing.. She did not owe mashonda anything Siwzz did and everyone including Mashonda needs to get over it, he left you move on… Damn.. Alicia Keys is that girl… Love Alicia…

  • http://urbanfrugalchic.com Cynthia

    She need to…right now she is looking like a home wrecker

  • http://urbanfrugalchic.com Khristal

    Good for her, i am all about the empowerment of women

  • tb

    Good for her.

    IDK how a woman can be a homewrecker when she is with a man that is no longer with his wife. No one knows if AK was messing with Swizzy while he was still with Mashonda. That’s the problem, ppl are only hearing Mashonda’s side of the story and judging AK. Mashonda seems a bit salty to me.

  • Bitchh please

    Uhhh – NO MAM. The only thing you can teach people is how to steal a married man. Such hypocrisy. This is a career move and a publicity stunt. I’m sorry Miss Keys, you are a phony. Stop trying to inspire people knowing you live the opposite. You helped caused the destruction of another black family. You lose major points with me. I will be sitting out on your next album.

  • Tupactu

    Today’s topic “Other women’s husbands and how to keep them happy.”
    Friday’s topic “How to stay positive when your man’s wife is keepin it negative.”

  • Whatevs

    Too all the AK fans. WAKE UP! You’ve been bamboozled. Alicia Keys is no better than your girl around the block who sleeps with married men. The fact is Swizz Beats is STILL MARRIED. The problem with black women is this desire to justify trifling ho’behavior. That’s somebody’s Husband not boyfriend and Alicia Keys knew that. Sorry but I’m riding with wives because hopefully one day I’ll become one. I wouldn’t want anybody to come between me and my husband and if they did I have every right to pissed as hell about it.

  • B’More

    interesting. who’s gonna be he editor, superhead?

  • sasha

    @B’More

    interesting. who’s gonna be he editor, superhead?

    LMAO you gonna get me fired, I had to laugh really outloud

  • http://Bossip Blake

    After sleeping with a married man… WOW! I hope that she don’t get her feelings hurt when folks blog about her f*cking a married man!

  • Whatevs

    lol @ Tupactu …. so true!

  • Jade Silver

    Yes, she’ll be teaching women how to positively steal people’s husbands. How it will positively uplift your self respect.

  • mel

    Alcia uplifting yeah right just think of how Mashondas child will frow up disrespecting women because of this publice spectacle which he wioll eread about whne he is older Ar

  • meekameek

    There were soo many things I used to dig about AK, her music was soo real, she didnt come out showing alot of skin, she always seemed real classy. Why??? she would involve herself with the messy situation of a married man suprises me and cast doubt where there was once admiration…. Damn, AKeys…

  • Alrighty Then…

    I just can’t take her seriously… her whole outward being is a facade, IMO.

  • Please!!

    Ok for the women on here that don’t see the wrong, to be uplifting and in the spotlight for being positive your own house needs to be clean. Alicia can not talk to me about anything, I know a man or a woman can’t be made to do anything they don’t want to do, but we need to take a look at those that are trying to represent us black women, Alicia sleeping with married men, tamika trying to be a role model for loving yourself (when she almost died getting lipo), Toya writing a book about her life, when she hasnt worked a day in her life got pregnant by a rapper and living off of child support and alimony. Nene writing a book when she is just a loud mouth ghetto woman putting fake business in the street. PLease give me someone on the real tip and then I’ll take note! Next who will it be,

  • It is what it is

    Alicia Keys will teach young girls to grow up, become successful, make millions of dollars only to turn around and sleep with married men and break up black families. What a role model she is.
    *eyes rolling*

  • Anon3

    anyone who puts the blame on Swizz by himself should be ashamed of themselves…Alicia knew he was married..period….even if she didn’t owe any loyalty to Mashonda she should have respected herself…I heard on the radio 2 years ago that someone had spotted Swizz and Alicia hugged up and the Gungenheim….2 years ago Swizz and Mashonda were still together….just trifling

  • mel

    SORRY ABOUT TYPOS Mashonda’s son will have no respect for women when he read how publicly his father humiliated his mother, Alicia has shown no remorse or humility for her actions which is very surprising I use to have so much respect for Alicia I dont know what is happening in Hollyweird but all these celebs seem to be losing their DAM MINDS Judgement day must be coming soon

  • 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    Even with the negative publicity, I’ll bet she will get a lot of visits.

  • Makela

    This should be filed under HOE SIT DOWN… in light of recent events, why the hell does she think this is appropriate?! Her and women like her need to stop with the bullshit. It’s not cool, celebrity or non-celebrity. They should have waited until he was divorced… period point blank!

  • mel

    No celeb is in a position to tell anybody anything,they might learn a thing or two from real ordinary folks because they are all going to hell

  • Whaaaa

    Tell it Makela!

  • Uniquely Ordinary

    SMH at all the salty women here rambling about how A Keys “stole” Swizz Beats from his wife. You cannot steal someone who doesnt want to be stolen. And why is Mashonda still going on about this. I have two words for her “move on” because if A Keys found out he wasnt worth it, I’m sure she would. Honestly you can learn a lot from the woman your husband leaves you for, like how to keep the next one you get!

  • I’m Just Me: KEEPING IT REAL SINCE 1983

    Just don’t feel she should be trusted.

  • http://Bossip Kimberley

    Supahead as editor LMAO! Alicia alicia Alicia. Your not the role model right now. Got sit behind your piano and play.

  • Alinde

    Her first post can be about how to love and respect yourself enough to not settle for another woman’s husband.

  • MrTavMarie

    MaShonda is going to spam the sh*t out of that blog.

  • I’m Just Me: KEEPING IT REAL SINCE 1983

    People saying Mashonda need to quit and move on. How many people you know can just put their feelings aside to someone they were married to?

    *********************************************************

    Very true…some people’s feelings are not like a light switch. You just cannot turn them on and off.

  • http://www.freakyfridaradio.com Gotluv4u
  • Anon3

    ignorance at it’s best…people telling Mashonda to move on and stop whining…sounds like advice from someone who has been the other woman….ridiculous….have any of these BIRDS who are telling Mashonda to move realized that her and SWIZZ are STILL MARRIED!!! come on (in my best Bizmarkie voice)…..Alicia is wrong and so is Swizz….all that nonsense about you can’t take someone that doesn’t want to be taken is pure BS…have some dignity about yourself

  • wildchild

    How is it that someone who has broken a marriage is going to empower women? She’s become that woman that women hate.

  • Moe

    @ Lew………. Girlllllllllllll that was too funny!
    @ Whatevs keep that in mind cause if you want to join the wives club banging husband won’t get you there! Your comment was right on!

  • Uniquely Ordinary

    @Please!! You make great points.
    A Keys will learn and be held responsible for her mistakes just like we all do. She is human. I commend her for remaining positive while such a negative spotlight is being cast upon her.
    And for those who focus only on the negative, in addition to being a “man stealer”, she is also a charitable award winning actress, musician and overall entertainer. She has much to be positive about. I’d take advice from her any day of the week and so should some of you negative women.

  • resurrected

    There is nothing wrong with a positive blog because many blogs lack the positive message and many people love drama over peace…AK must first make sure that her reputation exudes that message that she is trying to put out there because I will never listen to another person message that I do not believe or feel in my heart…Celebrities need to understand that you are trying to win over people not robots who follow you everywhere no matter the message or image but I also understand that many people do function in this very way… Stand for nothing and fall for everything…

  • TOO REAL

    WHAT IS SHE TEACHING HOW TO BREAK UP A FAMILY – BI$CH PLEAZ

  • Soul Touch

    Well said resurrected.

    I don’t blame her for what happened…you can’t steal a man. But that being said, nor should you get involved with one either.

  • rude gyal

    lol…she saying Mashonda need some encouragement because she over the fact she took her man 2 years ago…

    she like damn…I didn’t know you were still hurt lil sis…let me get some motivation in your life.

    I think any step towards positivity is a good step tho.

  • Whattha….

    Girl please……
    whats the first subject u gomne address?
    How to wreck a home
    SMDH

  • rude gyal

    I do understand the negativity she gets but if not Alicia then it would have been someone else…Swizz Beats made the initial and final decision…so twice he’s at fault…Alicia responded to what she feels is real…who’s to say every man that’s married is with his soul mate?

  • spoiledrotten

    @Tupactu….HILARIOUS! I AM LMAO AT WORK!!!!!!
    Alicia, first of all, needs to address the issue. She has lost me as a fan! I used to adore her and her humble spirit. But, now I see her arrogance and she has the “my sh*t don’t stank” syndrome. How dare she contribute to breaking up another woman’s home, then turn around and say she wants to impower women. If that’s impowerment, then leave me helpless and weak!!! REAL TALK!

  • PinkMe

    Starting a blog that is supposed to be uplifting to women right now may not be a good look being that now she is seen as a “homewrecker”, maybe she should tell her side of the story and clear the air. The truth is Alicia Keys don’t owe nobody shit! We don’t know what really happened between her and Swizz. If he was already separated then I don’t see anything wrong with them dating. Divorce takes long sometimes to be final. What I do know is that Mashonda is the one looking silly!

    Why isn’t anyone talking about Swizz being wrong for doing that to his wife! He displays affection for AK in songs pictures…why is everyone jumping all over AK like she did it alone?

  • RazeKane

    Hmmm… lets see a true role model who knows how to stay in her lane and not be a home wrecker…not alicea, not gabriel. Whose fine as hell and can get any nicca she wants and has the respect, believability and class to be uplifting with her actions not words, this is a hard one, of course…Kandi Burress(real house wife Atl). Now thats a classy chic.

  • rude gyal

    @Tupactu

    lol…

    my only wonder is why Mashonda is going hard on Alicia and saying she patched things up with Swizz? If that’s who is involved in the family then that’s all right? wrong…Alicia is just too damn happy…I bet if Swizz was dogging her and mis-treating her…would Mashonda still need a response?

  • PinkMe

    LMAO @ Rude Gyal!

  • rude gyal

    @resurrected

    *claps*

  • rude gyal

    Alicia don’t flaunt Swizz and take him everywhere or hang all over him…she’s sorta mellow in my opinion. She can’t help the pix…she is who she is…yet still human.

  • Lovie

    @ spoiledrotten.

    Empower. Empowerment– E-M-P-O-W-E-R-M-E-N-T. Empowerment.

    Not trying to be funny, just trying to help a sister out with grammar.

  • Aliciasityoassdown

    I see we have alot of homewreckers in the building today.No person in they’re right mind would agree with or condone what Alicia did.When it happens to you,you little hoodboogas will be singing a different tune.

  • Bianca

    I loved Alicia at one time, but I cannot condone what she did. Mashonda and Swizz may not have been together, but she should have waited to see if they could have worked their marriage out. He was very vulnerable at the time, and here comes Alicia with her hips and flat butt throwing herself on him. Not feeling the fake azz strong BLACK SISTER act!

  • Bianca

    @ rude gyal

    Having parties for him and inviting celebrity guest!?!? That’s not flaunting, then what is it?

  • sarcastic

    @rude gyal

    true

    @everyone else

    hey hey hey…I slept with a married man (and I know I’m not alone) does that mean no more “empowering” females…I should only empower men?

    she didn’t conquer and destroy…she’s still involved…

  • RazeKane

    Now the home wrecker label is bad enough but, I’ll never forget that assine comment she made at the bet awards 2 years ago “everyone trying to be like us” I was totally confused with that comment, here we have a woman whose mother is white and father black and makes a comment that is disrespectful to white folks and others, the same folks who buys her records. To me that comment was two faced and elitist to the fullest. Now she’s trying to cover that chit up with this publicity ploy…pleeze…next.

  • PinkMe

    Starting a blog that is supposed to be uplifting to women right now may not be a good look being that now she is seen as a “homewrecker”, maybe she should tell her side of the story and clear the air. The truth is Alicia Keys don’t owe nobody s***! We don’t know what really happened between her and Swizz. If he was already separated then I don’t see anything wrong with them dating. Divorce takes long sometimes to be final. What I do know is that Mashonda is the one looking silly!

    Why isn’t anyone talking about Swizz being wrong for doing that to his wife! He displays affection for AK in songs pictures…why is everyone jumping all over AK like she did it alone?

  • rude gyal

    @Bianca

    my apologies…that is flaunting…as a matter of fact I still here the horns and marching bands…

    lol…they mostly have celebrities at a birthday bash it’s their inner circle…and I’m sure they already knew…so…a birthday celebration might get a pass you know…just my opinion…

  • sarah

    now everybody see your real face! home wrecker

  • as seen on t.v.

    Although I think a positive blog and uplifting women is a wonderful idea…I don’t think now is the time for her to be putting it out…This SB mess has put her in a really unflattering light and even though I think that Mashonda only put it out there to hurt AK….I do believe she really should rethink trying to give advice @ the moment…

  • rude gyal

    good point ^^^

    as seen on t.v.

  • ThatBKChick

    I am honestly surprised with A-Keys…I honestly expected for her to play her position and let Swizz and Mondisha’s marriage play out without having to be cheezin in the sauce with him while the divorce was pending or finalized. The fact is that whatever the case, the marriage is or was done, and she could had been a lot more classier and indiscrete about her and Swizz’s relationship. I honestly am not feeling her personally, but as an artist, she is the next Stevie Wonder-Female we have in the game right now. There are no prodigy’s since Steveland Wonder, and she is it!! No one compares to her musical ability and singing skills. So with that, I will reserve further judgement on her.

  • http://bossip.com MISSISSIPPI

    3 words—-HO SIT DOWN!!!!!!!! LMAO

  • rude gyal

    @Akeys Stan

    lol…they not ready for Alicia to empower the millions of women she already influence thru her fan base because…well…they sorta in the mood to tear her down…now what sense does that make?

    She doesn’t answer to Mashonda or Swizz…she answers to God when judgment day comes. Peace & Blessings!

  • http://www.yahoo.com Re

    I agree with uplifting women…I just don’t care to hear it from her.

    I have a code, and I don’t expect other’s to live by it…but I turn a deaf ear to those folk.

  • resurrected

    I just feel like this address the issue before you even try to solve the problem… I wonder what will she be like when people only want to talk about her wrong… This is not a easy situation to deal with but what I know for sure is that you only wallow in what you choose to create… AK is smarter enough to know this fact right here… I guess she is like get over it but what if people just got over her music and career instead would she think that the price was worth paying then I am just wondering… One thing that I have always learned about life was to count the cost of the decision that you are making…

  • SoulJourneys622, HBG WordDiva, Tosha…whatever….I am who I am

    This is corny…and I don’t even know who Mashonda is beyond this mess. AK is not getting any points from me she needs to know the same way he came is the same way he will leave…believe that! She can’t rep me at all!

  • Bianca

    What y’all don’t know or remember is that she did this same exact thing to Kerry “Crucial” Brothers who was living with his girlfriend and two kids. Alicia and Crucial were supposedly engaged the later part of 2007, but when he stopped writing and producing for her that’s when you didn’t see them together anymore!

  • RazeKane

    How on god’s green earth is she gonna be believable when she dogs out her own people(white)and detroys the institution of marriage.

  • Anon3

    for all the BIRDS who seem to be pro “other woman”…..SWIZZ and Mashond are STILL MARRIED!!!!….idiots….no one is perfect…but the way Alicia has marketed herself (or let herself be marketed) one would assume that she would not enter into anything this messy…none of us have to be a fly on the wall in Swizz, Mashonda, Alicia triangle to know right from wrong… Alicia and Swizz are wrong…..you can try and justify their actions but there really is no justification

  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh….

    Recruitment tool. How else would you bring in new prospects?

  • London baby

    She need to sit her mixed race self down after she go steal next woman man she, need to check her self before she come try doing anything !!

  • http://bossip Akeys_Stan

    @Bianca

    Krucial still works with alicia he’s never stopped.

  • http://www.yahoo.com Re

    Swizz Cheatz and Alicia Skeez.

    I’ve always wanted to say this.

  • resurrected

    Akeys_Stan

    Well then multiple yourself 100,000,000 times and then you can be her fan base and save and boost her career, she still needs poeple (us) fans to have a career no matter how you try to slice it…

  • as seen on t.v.

    I just don’t understand why people can’t separate the person from the persona…Shes human like the rest of us and even though I don’t agree with her choice it’s her choice and none of my business…I still love her music and will be checking out her latest on Dec 1st…

  • asds

    That positivity ship has sailed, Lili. But, talk about a transition. Latifah, you know what you have to do, now. Steal a producer. Just last year, people was calling Alicia, funny.. (carpet muncher style) Now she is the worst man taking chick since superhead. Go figure

  • Lindz Nicole

    Wow, she’s out of her mind and really out of pocket. I can understand her fake unity approach if we didn all know what was going down with Mashonda but..she’s pretty bold right now.

  • ceewalk

    You know I used to love Akeys. She is so beautiful and talented. But, being a Wife myself…..she really needs to come againg with the uplifting women ish. Really.

  • http://bossip Akeys_Stan

    ON TO THE NEXT ONE MOVE ON!!!! SHE’S MAKING HISTORY WHILE YOU GOSSIP …LMAO!!!!

  • Joja86

    BS. Too many sites, networking things, etc out there… Why would I visit? to hear what? Shoot I get Diddy & inspirational Rev Run quotes daily on Twitter. What positivity does Alicia Keys aka Superwoman need to share?

    I like Alicia as an artist but fans need to recognize she’s a person too like some1 said, and a regular homewrecking person wouldn’t slide. Don’t make exceptions. You guys wouldn’t be saying that about the next chick. And stop with the BS phrase the home was already broken because you know damn well outside folks can cause drama.

  • http://bossip I`ll Talk about what I want to talk about Nucca !

    Yeah Alicia is going to teach you step by step how to steal a dude with a nose the size of monique right from under his wife !

    You too ladies can have your very own lil big nose freak ! For real she will be teaching this lesson at the LEARNING ANNEX ! This month

    All Alicia is asking for her lesson is no money .. her compensation will be large cases of KLEENEX because this nicca she stole nose is expensive !

  • IknowwhereIcomefrom

    The Haters are coming out like fish on a rainy day!!!!!!!

    I am the first to admit that I am bias because I have been her fan since day one. Even if she makes a mistake somewhere in her public or private life, I’m not gonna hate or stop supporting her as a fan. We all make mistakes. On the other hand, she may not have made a mistake here. Swiss could of talked the talk and truly made it appear like he was near-single. We don’t know. Unless she pulls a Mike Vic, or Chris Brown, I dont see the point on hating.

  • nunya

    when i hear her song ‘no one’i think ‘yeah, no one. not even mashonda’

  • I Still Love Nas

    I’m all about Alicia Keys doing something positive!! Everyone does not live perfect lives and all of you on here have done something that others could judge you on. No one is talking about Mashonda’s indiscretions…hmmmm.

  • Love Mashonda

    There is nothing and uplifting and positive about black women except her ass.

    Black women are just like the mother in “Precious”
    You will never amount of anything. Black women have such low esteems and are always involved in gossip instead of improving their own communities….SAD!!

  • juicyb16

    she is the last person to talk about being positive. after she done broke up a happy home because of that i have lost respect for her.

  • SERIOUS

    It is wonderful to find out the GOD no longer judges his children but that his children sit in judgement of each other.

    Good to know that everyone knows the truth and nothing but the truth and that all will be sitting at the “pearly gates” passing judgement.

    Has GOD retired????

  • Anon3

    THEY ARE STILL MARRIED!!!!….please stop saying that no one knows both sides of the story…there is only ONE marriage certificate and ONE divorce decree and that has NOT be signed yet…..so STOP justifying Alicia’s behavior….no one is perfect, but maybe if she had stayed in the background and waited until everything was finalized then some of us would not look at her like she’s crazy for this blog site about being a positive woman…either way you slice it, there is noting positive about this mess……so right now she can’t tell me nothing……try again in a year Alicia…cuz this right here is just wrong

  • as seen on t.v.

    @ Serious

    AMEN!!!!

  • Nette

    To anyone on here saying that we hate on AK that’s not true for the simple fact it’s not a jealousy issue it’s about morals. Any self respecting woman would not come into anyone else’s union. We all make mistakes true but do you continue making the same one over and over. The man is married with a child why not distance herself from him and the whole situation. Once that mess is final then be with him. But he doesn’t have respect for his wife, son or AK. And she should never be mistaken for a ride or die chick just a lost little girl looking for love in all the wrong places and she SHOULD NEVER GIVE ANYONE ADVICE ON A DAMN THING!

  • Anon3

    and we don’t want to get biblical and start talking about the bible and sleeping with someone else’s spouse…espcially when said perpetrator does not believe that what SHE is doing is a sin

  • TheFashionistaChic

    I AM SO GLAD TO SEE THE MAJORITY OF THE OPINION RECOGNIZE YOU DON’T MESS WITH A WOMENS HUSBAND. YOU DO NOT MESS WITH A WOMEN’S HUSBND. PERIOD!! I WOULD RECOMMEND BOYCOTTING ANY OF HER MUSIC. I AM SERIOUS. THAT IS JUST SOMETHING YOU DON’T DO.

  • Sharie

    I really liked Alicia but honestly, I dont know how to feel about her right now…..

  • BLISS

    All you chickens out here sittin on your pedastals judgin, sound like the same triflin hoes who hate on white women for dating black men.

    You make it sound so good, having morals & talkin “black” family and such, but I guarantee upon further inspection that your little lives are just as immoral, you just justify it to suit your perception of what’s right and wrong. And here you sit, knowing a FRACTION of the details from someone else’s life and you judge.

    At the end of the day, no one will remember or care what Alicia Keys did with her personal life. But they will remember the charity, that she gave back to her community despite the adversity and being deemed unworthy to do so. Truth is, her Daddy left when she was little, right? Girl probably has some ‘Daddy” issues she needs to work on, God bless her. How dare you judge her.

    And to all you people calling her a confused mixed or half-breed, y’all are ignorant, and jealous.

  • Nikko

    You know, I’m really sick of this broad!

    How can you talk about uplifting women, when you’re bringing women down?!

    This bird is partly responsible for breaking up a MARRIAGE and she wants to be the spokesperson for uplifting women??? What’s wrong with her?! It’s like she’s totally in denial about who she REALLY is! She needs to realize that it’s not about what you preach, but how you actually live!

    Nothing positive will ever come out of anything she’s trying to do with this new blog site until she owns up to her part in destroying a marriage and face Mashonda like Mashonda has been asking her to!

  • youknow

    I find it funny at AK is getting a pass for being a homewrecker. People where going in on Sanaa for getting with Rifkin, but it’s ok for AK come in between a marriage where a child is involved. She should be ashamed of herself. But most homewrecking tricks usually aren’t. I love her music, but as a woman, I don’t respect her.

  • PinkMe

    If di man leff, a nuh my P**** fault…LMAO at the comments here, this is CRAZY! It’s amazing that everyone is acting like AK did this alone. Swizz obviously wasn’t in love enough to stay married! Men cheat but to actually divorce your wife for another woman says that something was DAMN WRONG in your marriage! If it wasn’t AK it would have been someone else. None of us know what really happened between them and it’s not fair to judge a situation without having all the facts. Leave Alicia alone!

  • anonymous

    Here’s a great blog for uplifting black women: http://www.she-blogs.com

  • Sunny

    3luvme=sideline ho just like alicia keys

  • Sunny

    3luvme that was spoken like a true sideline ho

  • http://www.thetruthaboutcelebrities.blogspot.com Truth

    Khandi wrote a few of Alicia Keys songs.

    How about, the ghost writers behind Alicia’s song that “uplift” women step forward and create a blog.

    I bet Alicia will charge her fans to join her blog.

  • the ghost of robin harris sez…

    i heard she be “uplifting women ” all right. up liftin’women’s skirts !!! dat’s rite, i said it!!!

  • idkiou

    okay….so alicia keys needs to go sit her home wrecking @ss down somewhere. One thing i can’t stand is a woman who knowingly gets with a married man!!!! She can’t even step to Mashonda like a woman and just be real about it. How is she going to uplift women?????? Now where’s the logic in that???? A.Keys needs to chill d F*@k out!!!! GO TEAM MASHONDA!!!!

  • 3LuvMe*

    @ SUNNy

    its not evn abt bein a sideline ho? its jus i find it hilarious that women esp women of our race is always so quick to jump dwn tha othr woman throat! ur gonna take bak ur cheatin no good man regardless? so y continue to endure tha heartache of findn out abt all these women wen its yo man u nd to b checkn, better yet leavn!! thats all im sayn..

  • Jill P

    How fitting for a woman who obviously believes it’s okay to sleep with a MARRIED man…..lol….A. Keys take a seat…..

  • Sunny

    3luvme you can stop pullin the race card because this is not an issue of skin color its an issue of cheating so thats changing the subject…..let me ask you something…..what if you were mashonda and swizz beats cheated with alicia keys….would you still think alicia keys was a powerful uplifting woman…i think not you would be at her throat!!!!

    alicia keys knew who mashaonda was…the were signed to the same record label!!!

  • resurrected

    It is what it is

    Ladies, I’m an older woman and the Alicia Keys of the world are the worse kind of woman. They claim empowerment and sistahood but will be bangin’ your man behind your back meanwhile smilin’ and grinin’ in your face.
    ________________________________________________

    I think any woman that does this is wrong no matter her disguse… It like the hoe don’t care so convincing her can be a waste of time but when life comes back to bite her in the azz she is all confuse… The righteous woman as you call her as just let herself fall for the tempatation…

    This is what I have learned from life experiences that even when you get hurt and your heart gets broken they devil will flip the script and see if you are willing to be that same kind of woman who just hurt you and many people take the fall…

  • Ummmmmm….

    Sometimes I’m impressed with how mature Alicia is beyond her years, especially when I look at what Beyonce talks about and they’re practically the same age, but this is just dumb.

    Regardless of what the truth of the situation is, she seems clueless as to how it looks. Fall back, AK….

  • blue

    WHAT A JOKE !
    SHE NEEDS TO START A BLOG ON HOW NOT TO MESS WITH MARRIED MEN !

  • Taniesha Kennedy

    this is crazy…..i applaud alicia for what shes doing. get resl people ! yeah, it was wrong but she isnt the only one in the world thats carried on a relationship with a married man. one bad decision doesn’t totally erase your chances of setting a positive example !

  • Taniesha Kennedy

    CORRECTION : this is crazy…..i applaud alicia for what shes doing. get reAl people ! yeah, it was wrong but she isnt the only one in the world thats carried on a relationship with a married man. one bad decision doesn’t totally erase your chances of setting a positive example

  • rude gyal

    And half the negros on here are playas talking about the pot calling the kettle black…no pun intended…

    She can at least attempt…y’all need uplifting if all you know to do is tear down…let that marinate please!

  • rude gyal

    Alicia Keys is obviously not the one whose getting the pass it’s Swizz Beats whom everyone seems to overlook…

    Sad thing is that it starts at the head of the household to set the tone for the family…well…he did just that and now Alicia is wrong for obviously sleeping with him because we know that for sure…or do we??? It’s just an assumption just like the rest of the opinions posted.

  • !!!!!R.I.P MIKE!!!!!

    SHE LOOKS PRETTY I WANT MY HAIR LIKE THAT.
    AS FOR THIS TOPIC NO COMMENT LOL.

  • $$$=GOD in USA

    see howfake americ make everyone. if you are of the devil and evil admit it. She still won’t own up to what she did.

    STOP supporting LIARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I love A keys music and thought she would be better than that. but I am not gonna support anyone breaking up home point blank. If I have a belief I stick to it. No matter how much money these fools make.

    just makes her look evil and sneaky..

    No one is falling her bullshit

  • rude gyal

    *Bernanke

  • http://comcast Pooh

    That’s like a prostitute telling a drug addict not to do drugs….

  • Tupactu

    Didn’t Alicia Skeez say in a interview that black men need to be there for their families? Another thing she’s fine as hell (except for the cankles)why is she hookin up with a man who looks like the Black Big Bird without feathers?

  • CaptainRoastAHoe

    @3luvme

    i know what you mean…i think everyone in here acknowledges that swizz was wrong….but i say about 98% of the people in this room liked alicia keys as a singer….but everyone is very shocked by her actions she’s supposed to be “the good girl” how can she travel around the world promoting HIV AWARENESS but sleep around with a married man…thats one of the reasons STD’s get spread in the first place she’s contradicting herself and becomming a hypocrite…i think alot of people like alicia but at the same time we’re all disappointed by the choices she made

  • resurrected

    CaptainRoastAHoe

    @3luvme

    i know what you mean…i think everyone in here acknowledges that swizz was wrong….but i say about 98% of the people in this room liked alicia keys as a singer….but everyone is very shocked by her actions she’s supposed to be “the good girl” how can she travel around the world promoting HIV AWARENESS but sleep around with a married man…thats one of the reasons STD’s get spread in the first place she’s contradicting herself and becomming a hypocrite…i think alot of people like alicia but at the same time we’re all disappointed by the choices she made
    __________________________________________________

    When I first heard this I just know that it was wrong not my AK but when I started to see the pictures of them out on dates, then I started to be like dag… AK to me seems like she is about to transform over to even bigger stardom and many time with that comes a whole lot of conpromising for the life style and not your own personal morals and values…

  • Tupactu

    @ lady
    LOL and true.

  • mrsmack

    I have never liked Alicia Keys to begin with- she sings off-key, garbles all her vocal runs ans substitutes yelling for passion in her songs. Also, her piano playing is suspect (you might have to be a musician to understand why). However, this brings my level of respect for her to an all-time low. Who would have the audacity to make themselves a proponent of “women’s empowerment” when they have caused such calamity in the life of another woman? Many Black women have no respect for marriage because they have never seen a functioning marriage or been in one. As a wife and mother, I feel Alicia Keys should have waited until the legal/spiritual vows had been dissolved by divorce before beginning the relationship. As a wife, it’s not your job to “hold on to your man.” He committed to her. Period. If he wanted someone else, he should have gotten a divorce two years ago. Mashonda did nothing to deserve public humiliation for her and her son. Grow up and stop selling yourselves short, Black women!

  • http://comcast @TupacTu

    Excellent point!

  • funny gal

    AK’s blog should do a feature with Mashonda on relationships and how women deal with women to clear the whole thing up..

  • CaptainRoastAHoe

    @resurrected

    i think it’s wrong for her to be out and about with swizz beatz knowin damn well there’s plenty of other good men out there who would love to be with her i think thats really pathetic

  • 3LuvMe*

    @ captain & ressurected

    i agree.. and i can see how being tha spokesperson for ttha uplift of women wit all thats going on can look kinda crazy in tha public eye.. and yes i must admit (eventho i dnt want to!!!) that it may appear to b a contridiction given tha issue @ hand and wats bein perceived by tha readers and fans… i agree..

  • resurrected

    CaptainRoastAHoe

    @resurrected

    i think it’s wrong for her to be out and about with swizz beatz knowin damn well there’s plenty of other good men out there who would love to be with her i think thats really pathetic
    _________________________________________________

    I meant he might be a catch, he is very talented and would be someone good to have on your team as a artisic but what he did wrong was the way that he handled all of this which means to me that he has some more growning to do as a man.. People change and people grow but they are starting all of this on bad foundation if nothing else and it always crumples when the wind is too strong…

  • My View

    As the Bible says…..let him that is without sin cast the first stone. I have no thrones to throw.

    Whatever happen between AK, Swizz,and Mashonda is between them and God…it no one else BUSINESS!! If you don’t want AK to empowering other women then step up and do it yourself!!

  • http://Bossip Nikki E

    how in the hell is Akeys a homewrecker? All things happen for a reason that is sometimes never known. there is a plan that was set in place for us all and any woman or man that cheats was meant to cheat, not b/c of temptations from the flesh but b/c they are weak and that is what they were meant to do, be weak. stop hating on her b/c she has a man that is still married. she didnt make that man leave his wife, his wife never had him.

  • Dena

    Why? She’s a home wrecker and won’t face up to her faults.
    I lost all respect for Alicia after this Swiss affair came out. I can’t support her as an artist or a woman and I won’t be reading anything she has to say. reference your song Karma..”what goes around, comes back around”

  • resurrected

    Nikki E

    how in the hell is Akeys a homewrecker? All things happen for a reason that is sometimes never known. there is a plan that was set in place for us all and any woman or man that cheats was meant to cheat, not b/c of temptations from the flesh but b/c they are weak and that is what they were meant to do, be weak. stop hating on her b/c she has a man that is still married. she didnt make that man leave his wife, his wife never had him.
    ____________________________________________________

    I hear your points but it has nothing to do with people still supporting her as a artistic but we should not judge so harshly… I do think that people can choose what they want to think about her or other people but I guess on a blog it can get over kill as well…

  • Ms.Ajje

    Swizzy was married to Mashonda and Im almost certain Alicia was not chasing him around begging for some ass.

  • youknow

    @nikki e
    you contradicted yourself BAD. I think u need to review what you said and write it again.

    plus theres a child involve which makes everything so much worse.

  • MADE.IN.NY

    This is a joke, right? Who is she supposed to be uplifting? Certainly not women . . .

  • youknow

    @Dena

    Thank you! I’d be one thing is she wasn’t an artist who claimed how she writes from her soul and her lyrics mean something, but she does. Its all bull.

  • http://my242.com/2009/10/stay-in-your-lane-alicia-keys-to-start-a-blog-about-positivity%e2%80%a6/ Stay in Your Lane: Alicia Keys to Start a Blog About Positivity… – My 242

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  • Aunt Viv

    Hmmm…I think she can be inspiring to some women, as far as education, musicality and philanthropy are concerned. She’s talented, no question.
    Regarding her alleged homewrecking, I’m sure she’ll completely avoid that topic, leave that to someone else.

  • Wanjiru®

    No one is giving Swizz Beatz a pass, this post is about Alicia Keys.

    If the post were about Swizz Beatz starting up a program to mentor & empower young men, he’d be getting a serious beat-down too. :(

    That is all.

    twitter.com/E_Wanjiru

    .

  • Adrienne

    Lmao @ Diva and Tupactu. I agree, she is a home wrecker, I do not want advice from your a$$. Class 101: How to steal a husband….whatever!! Beatch sit down!

  • MADE.IN.NY

    I guessing all the females who are defending Alicia’s behavior have always been sidechicks/are currently sidechicks/will always be sidechicks.

    Low self-esteem is one helluva drug.

  • Lite N. Lovely…often imitated but never duplicated

    I 2nd what Akey’s Stan’s said – ya’ll gossip’n while Alicia is gettin’that paper!! STOP HATIN’!!

    Sounds like mosta ya’ll been hatin’on Alicia – cuz she pretty, she mixed, and she’s paid…now ya’ll just using this as an excuse like she deserve to be disrespected in blogs by a buncha losers who have nothing better to do!

    A. KEYS IS A PHENOMENAL WOMAN!! SHE IS HELPING PEOPLE IN AFRICA & INDIA LIVE…SHE’S CREATING REAL CHANGE IN THIS WORLD THAT SOME GOVERNMENTS CAN’T EVEN ACCOMPLISH!!

    SHE SO FAR ABOVE THIS BLOG!! Ya’ll really wasting time hating on her – none of you know her situation or what really went down so you have no room to comment n to all those ladies that say everything is her fault – A woman can’t make a man do ANYTHING!! He has his own brain n is capable of choosing – n Swizz chose the best of the best! Kudos to him!! I wish them nothing but love & Happiness!!

  • soldiergirl

    I like AKeys and in spite of the mess she is in now she has done a lot of good things. PPl her talents have nothing to do with the person within, this blog is always talking about how the role model should be the home & parents first, WELL?? why are her actions so unbelievable to you all?? is she not human also? AND a young woman. Many have walked the path she is on now that doesn’t make it right but it is understandable. Why would you drag a divorce out for 2 yrs??? When is letting go the right time, should Swizz put his life on hold until the Wife he no longer loves decides he can have his back??? What is written on paper & protrayed on tv are not life realities, no diff than groupies following & sleeping w/any man w/a big wallet AND No she should not have a confrontation W/Moshanda (something for the gossip papers) His wife is not in an understanding right now so regardless how it came about she will NEVER understand or accept it. PERIOD. I dont think she will lose her status as a great musician lets think (BRAD/ANGIE) world renowned home wrecker/freak/addict and she gets MAD love & respect, then there are others, past & present Diana/Bary, Liz/Eddie, Cher & whoever, Modanna & +++, but Modanna gets constant love, Diana is a legend and so on & so on, I personally dont date married men or “seperated” but I did once and that was a God awful experience & TRUST I learned the hard way, but I was not then nor will I now kill myself because of the fact I did, it’s over & I kept it moving and I KNOW I’M a good person, who made a f”d up decision, so I live w/it, & I’m cool. Past does not dictate present & I COUNSEL young women into making better choices than I made. So YES her blog can help.

  • CaptainRoastAHoe

    @Lite N. Lovely…often imitated but never duplicated

    how would you feel if you were mashonda and swizz beatz cheated on you with alicia keys….you would be commin after alicia too both of them publicly humiliated mashonda alicia could have reached out to mashonda but she didn’t because she knew she was wrong

    how can alicia go around the world to india and africa to to promote HIV AWARENESS but sleep around with married men….THATS ONE OF THE REASONS STD’S ARE GETTIN SPREAD SHE A HYPOCRITE!!!!!!

  • http://BOSSIP Damn D

    @Akeys_Stan

    Damn, is this woman paying u? Cause u r defending her like thats ur woman. Ur even promoting her album.lol Damn!. Look, everyone has there own opinion. It’s called “Freedom of Speech” u can’t make a person change the way they feel about a person. just because YOU like them. When ur in the public eye it’s a certain way u have to carry urself. SHE put herself out there. So calm down, because best believe she’s not going to defend ur ass. Because she doesn’t know u !!!!!lmao ur such a groupie.

  • Lite N. Lovely…often imitated but never duplicated

    @CaptainRoastaHoe

    Alicia is doing more than promoting AIDS/HIV awareness, she’s providing much needed medication to ppl inflicted with the disease.

    How I would feel if I were Mashonda is irrelivant – I don’t know the ins and outs of her relationship n neither does anyone else except the parties involved. You speak as if you know the people involved in this situation when in fact you are getting your information from a biased media.

  • http://corvedacosta.wordpress.com Corve DaCosta

    good 4 her…many singers are diversifying more than ever now

  • CaptainRoastAHoe

    AK need not set herself up like that; she need to clean up the mess in her own back yard FIRST and uplift HERSELF before she tries to uplift anyone else.

  • Lite N. Lovely…often imitated but never duplicated

    @CaptainRoastaHoe

    No disrespect, but you must be young cuz what you stated above doesn’t even make sense – if it wasn’t true – why would she even comment? (Rhetorical) she’s grown n it’s none of ya’ll business – why put your personal life on blast with the media? that has nothing to do with her music career…

    A grown woman knows there is nothing to defend when it comes to rumors – they are what they are.

  • Lite N. Lovely…often imitated but never duplicated

    @Acceptance is power (1st it’s not:)

    2nd – if i’m her groupie, i’ll be that – n you will continue to be a HATER no doubt. You sound like a woman scorned who has yet to drop her baggage n move on!

  • Ben There

    My name is Ben There(okay, not really)…and I have cheated on my wife. In retrospect, I wish I could say it was just a fling — that’s how it started. It quickly snowballed into a full-blown, emotionally involved affair.

    For the record, I don’t hate women. I was raised by a single, Christian mother and have the utmost respect and appreciation for sistas. I love my wife completely and hold her in the highest esteem and respect. I am a spiritual man who considers himself a pretty decent human being.

    My wife found out and was crushed. We talked and cried and grew through the devastating aftermath of my assignation. With time and therapy, my wife and I recalibrated and are currently Happy and rebuilding.

    I’m sharing this in hopes that the Ladies out there won’t think that every guy who seeks the company outside of his marriage/primary relationship is a low-life dog who doesn’t appreciate what he has at home. A woman who chooses to see a married/involved guy isn’t always a home-wrecking skank. Feelings don’t always come in neat, convenient packages that make sense. We try our best to make the best decisions. Most of the time we do. Sometimes, we don’t. Good people can make horrible decisions — especially in the name of Love and/or Passion.

    That said, I think Alicia deserves a chance to go thru and GROW thru this and tell her story — like I tell mine. So maybe people can learn from the mistakes we’ve made — and avoid them.

    Good Luck, Alicia!

  • CaptainRoastAHoe

    ALL CELEBS ADDRESS THE RUMORS TO CLEAR UP CONFUSION….SHE DIDN’T BECAUSE SHE KNOWS SHE’S WRONG FOR WHAT SHE DID…AND SHE LOST ALOT OF FANS BECAUSE OF THIS I KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE WHO DONT LIKE HER ANYMORE BECAUSE OF THIS, ALOT OF PEOPLE IN HERE POSTING COMMENTS ARE FORMER FAN OF HERS, SHE’S A HOMEWRECKER AND IF SHE CARED ABOUT HER FANS SHE WOULD LET PEOPLE KNOW WHATS REALLY GOING ON SHE NEEDS TO STEP UP AND ADDRESS THE ISSUE LIKE AN ADULT

  • I am African not African American

    This is laughable; a homewrecker is trying to “uplift” women?

  • CaptainRoastAHoe

    @RESURRECTED

    I AM AGREE 1000000000000000000000000000000000%

  • CaptainRoastAHoe

    *I AGREE 1000000000000000000000%

    BAD TYPOS TODAY MY NATURAL NAILS ARE VERY LONG…LOL

  • CaptainRoastAHoe

    @Acceptance of your Behavior is Power

    IT SEEMS LIKE SHE CONDONES CHEATING BUT HEY…..I GUESS ALL SIDELINE HOE’S NEED LIKE TO STICK TOGETHER

  • Acceptance of your Behavior is Power

    @Lite N. Lovely…often imitated but never duplicated;
    One more thing! I’m not hating on AK. I think she’s very pretty and the Charitable things she’s done and still doing (when Swizz is not in play)is to be commended. I had SuperWoman on my ring tone for a looong time and I still have her CD in rotation. I’ve followed her career for a long time. So hate never. I want her to pratice what she preach. She is in the public Eye. An she does need a fan base to keep her on top. So she should reach out to her fans an give the Truth since everyone is sadly mistaking her for a home wrecker. But, she can’t cause the truth is ________________________________.

  • CaptainRoastAHoe

    Alicia you did’nt want to start uplifting people til your name got drag thru the mud by sleeping with someone’s husband. That’s right Alicia tell little girls how it’s okay to sleep with a married man, That is uplifting as you can get. I still think that Alicia Keys is a beautiful talented person but, that’s about it she do not get a pass for sleeping with another woman’s husband.

  • Lite N. Lovely…often imitated but never duplicated

    LOL…u chics are funny…i’m too old to argue with 18 year olds but check this-

    TRUST Alicia isn’t gonna lose no sleep from losing ya’ll as fans and her pockets will not be effected by broke b*tches not buyin her music! White folks like – who is swizz beatz;)LMFAO

  • %#&?!!

    uhmmm… how about uplifting and being positive to lil mama. hmmmm. selective kindness. ok.

  • Chris

    Alicia is going to teach women how to uplift other folks husbands out of their homes…..

  • Acceptance of your Behavior is Power

    Lite N. Lovely…often imitated but never duplicated;
    I think your Probably to old to be looking at these childish web sites that cater to the young! My Mother is a Doctor an my Father is a Cop! I go to a very good College and in my second Year. So she does need her Fan base (your broke old ass) to keep her going! You will need my services when I graduate from College and your working for me or maybe i will start a scorn womans group cause I see dumb women are on the rise. Lite an Lovely did your looks land you a faithful man yet. LMBAO!

  • CaptainRoastAHoe

    LOL@Acceptance of your Behavior is Power

    I TOTTALY AGREE

  • Acceptance of your Behavior is Power

    @CaptainRoastAHoe. LOL ! Where is Lite an Lovely maybe she don’t have anymore computer time in the Center she stayin in for abused Women. You know they don’t get a lot of computer time and she wasted hers talking stupid! Well lovely hit us back up when you get your next internet time. LMBAO! LMBAOOO!

  • http://bossip srr

    Lite N., Please!. She’s mixed… and what? That’s no reason to be jealous of ANYONE.

  • alicia stole kerry 2

    What y’all don’t know or remember is that she did this same exact thing to Kerry “Crucial” Brothers who was living with his girlfriend and two kids. Alicia and Crucial were supposedly engaged the later part of 2007, but when he stopped writing and producing for her that’s when you didn’t see them together anymore!

  • SERIOUS

    Our communities are in serious trouble. Our children are uneducated and jobless. Our priorities are a mess…It isn’t funny or cute to go to prison and sell drugs and destroy our neighborhood.

    The women prison are increasing every year…

    It is SAD! SAD! SAD!

  • Candy

    All those who are being negative, please grow up. Positivity and up lifting women is what needs to be done because there are a lot of women that have none of that in their life. As far as the husband stealing…did she steal your husband? A man will leave when he wants to leave regardless, so if she stole him he never was the other woman’s to begin with. Everyone needs love and I am sure the one your with was with someone else before they met you, so who’s stealing whom? PEACE & LOVE to all!!!!!!!

  • Candy

    im a sideline hoe just like alicia keys and we all need to stick together

    i came from a family of sideline hoe …all my friends are sideline hoes my grandma was a sideline ho and my momma was a sideline ho…thats how i was born…so im all for the husband stealing and if i steal your husband then he didn’t belong to you in the first place!

  • Candy

    *I Came From A Family Of Sideline Hoes

    PEACE AND LOVE to all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Kia

    This homewrecking HO needs to embrace the truth about herself. TEAM MASHONDA and MASHONDA’S SON!!

  • Auntie Noxy

    Is this in the “ho sit down” category??

  • gemini62065

    Not really sure how I feel about that. I guess the best thing to be said is that we as women have to gain strength from our own truths (mistakes and learned lessons) and not rely so heavily on artists to instill positivity or anything else for that matter. Be that all knowing and seeing eye for one’s own self!

  • Meeke 100

    The situation between Swizz and Mashonda is missed up, but on the real, you can’t take a man who was ready 2 b taken.Unfortunately, Alicia got caught up, and I believe she should have waited until Swizz and Mashonda got it together. I mean, she’s a women and she should have let them handled that. Alicia, you could have had anyone, why Swizz? That’s the question I want answered. NEways, Mashonda girl handle yours.

    *Keeping it 100*

  • Kp

    how is she gone uplift anybody and she’s downgrading herself…lmao..est 88

  • http://www.ambersmith23.com Amber Smith

    I am so glad to see others on her that are not fooled by her shallow words. Cannot take this woman seriously or anything she says! Until she manages to clean up her own act, perhaps she should focus on her own life and taking advice rather than trying to give it out to others.

  • chzz

    Not a smart move if it’s true.People just don’t want to hear her right now and it will hurt her career.
    Handle your own bizness,first.

  • samael

    She has no credibility anymore. Sad.

  • http://facebook.com macori88

    i love aslicia keys’music. but this is a shock. to the people saying she made a mistake, move on. she is still with him, so she didn’t realize her mistake yet. that is sad. he cheated and was wrong, but alicia had something to do with it, piont blank. this uplifting thing is hilarious, when she just broke down a home.

    i do not agree with alicia’s new site.

    but i will still be her fan.

    ps as she herself said what goes around comes around.

  • http://mockrockstar.ning.com Mock Rock Star

    U know…I’ve never expressed these thoughts about Alicia to anyone, but it must be said

    Alicia…U’re full of shit

  • i hate bossip too

    lift up my ass!

  • to all the women downinf alicia , your man left you too lmao

    @ boycottakeys lmao sounds like someone took man too lmfao

  • t@ Buckshot where you man lmao so i take him

    lmao all thes hurt black women on this site please…. cant take a man away from anyone.

  • theblessage

    She need to do a blog on how to steal a bish man

  • YorkieLover

    The sad thing about this is Alicia Key’s blog will be successful with many readers and followers. Even though she is in the wrong for her involvement in Mashonda and Swiss’s divorce, for some reason, people will overlook this(like some do now)and fall for her positivity talk. She must be used to this type of treatment of people overlooking her ways,forgiving her,etc,because she is publicly dating a married man and saying she will start a positivity blog.
    I liked Alicia as a singer, but I never fell for her stories of having it bad growing up(like a lot of celebrities say to gain black fans).
    I also think Swiss is stupid and ignant,like the average black man right now.

  • Nicole

    All the bitter women come out in droves for this right here! LMAO! And meanwhile, Swizz get off scot free. I am a married woman, so I’ll refrain from calling another grown woman out her name but I feel some times we are clueless and quick to put blame on everyone except ourselves. Swizz and Mashonda’s marriage was broken before this even happened, trust and believe that!!! We don’t know any fact beyond what Mashonda has shared in the media and the rest is all speculation and assumptions which equals gossip. I’m not willing to throw the baby out with the bath water…Alicia has done more positive in this life than negative, I can’t say the same for Swizz OR Mashonda.

  • Nicole

    MEN DON’T GET STOLEN LIKE SOME PROPERTY OR SOMETHING!!! They either wanna be with you or they don’t!!! One thing I’ve learned in life about men…as providers, if they don’t feel like they are getting everything that his woman is suppose to provide in her role as a wife THEY WILL GET DISTRACTED EASILY!!! There is some things about this story you WILL NEVER KNOW…if you’ve been married before you know what I’m talkin’about. Marriage is an obvious “play thing” for some and if you’ve never been married and stuck with it and didn’t walk away when the times got tough then you shouldn’t comment…no one can steal anyone away from something they were DETACHED from already!

  • Nicole

    Many of you will never get it because you’re not OVER IT…

  • BLACK IS GLAMOUR

    Unfortunately AKs music just want be the same anymore after this incident, I honestly believe majority of her fanbase are women and most of those women been in MASHONDAS shoes b4…so I feel ma has most certainly lost alot of fans. smh. I would never mess with a man thats married or JUST getting out of marriage especially if he had a family. Im sorry couldnt do it. I have respect for all ppl…and most certainly would not want that done to me because everybody know Karma can be a B&^*h…..

    In the words of ALICIA…”what goes around comes around what goes UP most come down.”

    so I believe shes already prepared for the consequences that will follow.

  • resurrected

    Nicole

    All of that might be true but evidently she thought that is was important enough to lose fans and taint her career and I really was a fan of AK… This will not hold over her head forever but when people minds start to change about you, you do not always have the power to change it back… Now a normal everyday person might not care but AK career is off of other people time, attention and money to add her success… Most people never think of there wrongs anyway until they really have to pay for what they have done… It life I guess but some people do hold there dignity a little closer than most and that is what I always thought that I saw in AK’s

  • resurrected

    BLACK IS GLAMOUR

    Isn’t sad that her whole life right now is contradicting all of her songs, how does she not know that this is wrong… It is a big difference when you do things out of ignorance then when you know the truth…

  • BLACK IS GLAMOUR

    @Ressurected, you know I felt Alicia Keys always made songs from personal experiences, which is why I really had respect for her because she was very classy and ladylike with her music and appearance. But like the sayin goes seeing can be very decieving. I dont dislike ALICIA because none of us are perfect but I cant say that I have much respect for her anymore as well. I would love to hear her new music just to see how shes going to go about it due to the drama that she is now involved in.

  • resurrected

    BLACK IS GLAMOUR

    We do have to grow but choices come from you not from the air… AK knows better that is what makes it worst but people have to do wrong to know right but I am not sure what to call this case? The fact that she is not addressing make me wonder where her mind might be at right now… Any how I am going to see what kind of music will be on here album this time but I love Superwoman… I can say that I haven’t listen to her music lately and when I do I don’t want to sing along with them because I feel that I am now apart of the lie as well…

  • resurrected

    I am sure that married is not easy but neither is life and I don’t see that many people taking there lives away so grow some balls… Everything in life require a deeper effect on on many levels, people make excuses for everything and then get bad at the person who does not want to play along.. It happens, it life but you still live by the same bad foundation that you built any life sitaution and circumstances on… I really do think that the US has damaged people by making them think that they can have anything that they want but they rarely count the cost of there decisions…

  • BLACK IS GLAMOUR

    @Ressurected, yea I feel like that as well. But you know, imma not gonna join the I hate alicia keys boat, never a follower. because all in all im sure she is a very nice lady, and I appreciate her music more so then her personal life. I know like myself we all have to live and learn through the ups and downs and that nobody is perfect but that still is no excuse to do wrong when you know right, that to me cowardice.

  • BLACK IS GLAMOUR

    @Nette..lmao..girl you crazy.

  • BLACK IS GLAMOUR

    “I’m not willing to throw the baby out with the bath water”

    @Nicole….LOL…girl you crazy for that. Never heard of such a saying. smh. lol.

  • toosexy

    @nicole…I have been married before, and what i find strange is you mentioned we don’t know the facts but you state that the marriage was already broken…Now is That A fact? And yes I have heard the no woman can steal a man…but that woman can cause severe problems which LEADS TO THE ENDING OF THE MARRIAGE…what many don’t seem to understand is… women you sleep with married men cause a problem period… and when the wife finds out that leads to more drama and fighting and can lead to divorce or seperation..I do believe that AK was messing with swiss for over a year and she kept her position what does that tell you? it tells me swiss had not intention of leaving until mashonda found out THAT’S A BIG DIFFERENCE…… SHE FOUND OUT AND ALL HELL BROKE LOOSE… i have no respect for Ak …. she knew exactly what she was doing and from what i;ve heard she done krucial the same way.

  • resurrected

    What you’re saying is bullshit. No woman can cause problems in another woman’s marriage..
    _________________________________________________

    This is how I feel about it if the karma comes back to both people then please stop fooling yourself thinking that your action has nothing to do with anything yes it does… For every action there comes the reaction and that goes to both parties that are involved, if drama works for you on a daily then you are probably a problem starter anyway… If you don’t care now then you will one day when it is your turn to turly be happy with someone else and if you don’t know how to pick them now then mostly likely you never will because you a person can display the amount of character that they have at the time and most people character is very crampy…

  • SERIOUS

    Unfortunately, African American have a high divorce rate and are more likely to head single family homes.

    African Americans statically have a low rate of getting married among whites.

    Divorce is a part of life in all communities.

  • Hip Hop Momma

    I have to comment Alicia Keyes I think you have no common respect for a union which was set under GOD! from this day forward you will not have any good luck….see people like you need to realize its wrong in the biblical sense to sleep with a married man!! Swiss just hit it hunny flash alert he is gonna quit it in a minute and move on to the next……Alicia you really screwed yourself big time because now you look like a Second class Hore!! You might not never become a wife for that….that was sleezy as hell!!! YOU ARE A HOME WRECKER!!! FOR SURE…….you cant teach me shit!

  • Positively Hypocritical

    Women all over America are rubbing their hands together, they can’t wait to rip this chic a new-one.

  • SnapJudgement.com ant

    @ Lite N. Lovely…often imitated but never duplicated –

    “Just cuz I know you broke hoez is checkin for me – I am in my 20’s, already graduated from college n have a husband soooooo…”
    _________________________________________

    Someone at your “college” perform due diligence.

  • Skoopes

    lmao. nobody is gonna stop buying AK cds or listening to her records because she is with a married/separated man, and SwizzBeatz at that. I cannot recall an artist who has suffered financially because they are involved with a married man. LMAO, I mean for real. Mushonda, move on girl, don’t keep adding fuel to this worthless fire, it makes you look in need of counseling and desparate (but there are a lot of viewers for Desparate Housewives so she does have an audience, lol). This is just wack and ya’ll need to stop.

  • toosexy

    @CHRIS you make a valid point, but some men are just uncapable of denying some thrown on them azz..lets just be real. and that doesn’t mean he dont love his wife and there are problems at home….DO YOU NOT KNOW IT’S WOMEN WHO PREY ON MARRIED MEN. and if that man is in the world he can fall victim… so no it dont’mean you not in love with your wife.. it might just mean some skank hound won’t let go and eventually causes problems…… WHY DOES EVERY ONE THINK FOR A MAN TO CHEAT THERE HAS TO BE PROBLEM WITH HIS WIFE..?

  • Chris

    @ Resurrected

    I never stated that actions do not have consequences. I stated that an individual outside of the marital union cannot cause problems inside unless either the man or the wife allows it to take place.

    You speak of karma coming back as result of an action… well, if the married person never engages in the act of adultery, then there’s no negative karma to be had on their part.

    Let’s put the blame where it lies and that’s with the person who is/was married at the time of the cheating.

  • THE TRUTH

    There are many women who date married men. There are many who successfully date married men for years and have lasting relationships with them. Just being honest. There is nothing you can do about it when your husband wants someone else along with you. You either deal with it, or get divorced. Why do you think people have been married for 30 and 40 years? Do you think they never stepped out on their wives? Is it okay for married men to cheat as long as their wives are happy with it?

    NAME ME ONE MARRIED MAN THAT DOES NOT CHEAT?????

  • THE TRUTH

    PEOPLE ARE HIDING FROM THE TRUTH…MARRIED PEOPLE CHEAT! AGAIN, NAME ME ONE MARRIED COUPLE WHERE INFIDELITY WAS NOT INTRODUCED INTO THEIR RELATIONSHIP?

  • THE TRUTH

    They can talk that ‘WE WORKED IT OUT’bull shit. Bottom line they still doing it, except now the person getting cheated on has found another way to DEAL with it outside of getting divorced!

  • lissy

    she needs to lay low for a sec. None of us are in a position to judge, I’ve done my dirt, but I certainly don’t try to preach for the very same reasons. Her business is just out there right now, I think it’s gonna be hard for people to take her seriously. She made her bed, she should lay in it for a while and let the dust settle. She did the drama to herself (and a family).

  • Acceptance is Power

    @ Lite N. Lovely…often imitated but never duplicated – You are the WEAKES LINK! GOOD BYE! I know your husband. He always staring @ other women! LMBAO!

  • THE TRUTH

    I knew no one could respond positively. My point made.. *drops mike; exit stage left*

  • http://yahoo Miss PJ

    I use to be a cheater. I was married for 17 years, and I cheated on my husband. Infact, I am now married to the man I cheated with. We’ve been married 9 years and together for 13 years. To all the young girls out there, everyone has their life lessons and I’ve had mine. God doesn’t play and he will f— you up. I’ve vowed and promised God that I would never cheat again and I haven’t. If its God’s will, AK will pay for what she has done. I use to have alot of respect for AK now I don’t, because I now know that it is wrong. I don’t respect nor do I condone cheating. I beleive that we should respect the sisterhood of women, regardless of race or creed and the saintity of marriage. If you don’t beleive that God is supreme, and that if you don’t follow his commandments, that you will pay the ultimate price, just keep on living. You’ll have your own life lessons and hopefully you’ll live to tell us about it. Maybe you’ll be able to stop someone from making the same mistake. Much love to Mashonda, I really feel your pain. If your marriage was over, Switz and Ak should have waited until the divorce was final. Every marriage has its ups and downs. What was done to try and make it work?

  • http://yahoo Miss PJ

    @ WHERE YO BOSS AT! WHER MY LADIES UP HERE THAT LIKE TO TALK BACK!!!!

    Your Boss must be Satan!

  • http://yahoo Miss PJ

    P.S.

    And NO, I don’t care to support AK and Sweetz anymore, because I would not be true to my beliefs and then I will be Fake. I don’t support Angelina and any of those white devils. I will always love Ak, and if she comes out and publicly apologizes to Moshonda, only then will I give her my support. I never did support Sweetz, I could care less, hes not putting any money in my pocket. He can jump off a cliff and I wouldn’t give a damn. But I have always loved Ak’s music. I’m just glad Whitney is back.

  • http://yahoo Miss PJ

    PSS
    I know that Sweetz is a producer and we can’t help but buy his music because he is behind the artist, but vengence belongs to God and we can only wait to see what happens.

  • THE TRUTH

    Whatever you do comes back to you!

  • http://yahoo Miss PJ

    Aman!

  • http://yahoo.com sweetness

    My comment is for swiss, who is the mystery woman i’am hearing about from the bronx.Is she real or not.Look like u been seein with her,have u been creeping.Guess your lie’s are catching up with u.See cheater’s never win they always get what’s comming to them.Alicia should have never got with you in the first place.But she’s only Human,we all make mistake.

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