Friday, October 23rd, 2009
Crazy Tameka Comes for Usher and Responds to Papers
Posted by Bossip Staff
Tameka Foster went on ATL station V-103 to dispel the rumors about Usher’s new song “Papers” that make her out to be some gold-digging bit*h.
Usher married you Tameka and had two kids; that was enough publicity.
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I was riding for Tameka until the keying car *****. But Karma is a BIATCh I just hope she can move along like a Cougar should and NOT sweat this *****.
Usher has moved on and so should she!
I hope I’m first for once?
pathetic
FIRST ……………..BEEEEEECHES
save it, tameka. no matter how you spin it, you’re still an old gold digging trick who’s plan to take over usher’s life and money failed. deal with it, and move on to the next young fool.
Can she answer one question….DANG!
She need to sit down somewhere. Usher does too.
Usher’s momma pegged this chick as no good from day one. take notes, fellas. if your mom thinks your girl is no good, 9 times out of 10 she’s right.
thank God Usher finally came to his senses.
Yall are acting mad at her! Yall DO NOT KNIW HER! YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT HE WAS LIKE OUTSIDE THE PUBLIC EYE! I personally am sympathetic to her situation!
I dont think I will ever forgive Usher for marrying this woman
HAPPY FRIDAY EVERYONE!!!!
Oh, and YAWNNNNN on this played out trick!
Blah!
I like Meka…she seems very intelligent.
LMAO @ that picture….girl bye!
This ***** is messy than a **********er… ***** you 60 yrs old, (soon to be) 2nd time divorcee’ 5 (?) kids, and you can’t handle your private divorce w/ more cl***** and tact? YOU are not the “star”, so why are you still TALKING? STFU and take care of them gang of kids. No one takes the high road any more…
Yeah, Usher ain’t no angel in this. For every story there’s two sides plus the truth.
what people tend to forget is that she was ushers stylist first! this woman had her own when she met him. usher is just doing what he has been doing cheating!
She knew what she was doing when she got with Usher. Talking about she loves her children. He should have asked her why is it she only have Usher children leaving with her. Fake mother. She knew she was going to get paid once she had his baby.
damn, Usher why did you do it.
mama told ya
Boooo
Tameka is not a gold digger, she had her own money before she married Usher. And regardless of her age or how many kids she has, Usher obviously accepted her for who she was. I’m sure they signed a prenup so leave the woman alone!!!
She’s starting to bother me
I ALWAYS knew in my heart that Tameka was USING USHER!!!!! I’m not saying he’s perfect but this was NEVER A GOOD MATCH!!! EVERYONE KNEW HIS MOM EVERYONE!!! It had NOTHING to w/ her complexion! (hello??? we ALL except Kim Porter and Diddy and they are the same color!)….I could tell from the beginning Tameka was a NO GOOD GOLD DIGGING GHETTO B*TCH!!!!!!!!!
I think Usher should come out clean and tell us once and for all wat kind of blackmail or black magic this woman had on him coz from the word go you could see it was going nowhere
Testing…
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@ Alright then
I couldn’t have said it better myself!!!! SO TRUE!!!! I AGREE 100%!!!!
I’m not mad at her! Why all these women have post in the past that they don’t have to impress the inlaw, then turn around and say 9 times out of 10 the momma is right about the daughter in law?
I don’t understand!
What makes ya’ll think she’s using Usher? She had her own money. She’s not pressed to take him up for child support (although that may be the fault of the pre-nup).
The car she supposedly “key’d” was in her own name.
Officers could not find any evidence Tameka was near the car. Nor could they find any evidence she entered his community.
Furthermore, Usher called a whole day later instead of dealing with the situation. And that had nothing to do with the advice of lawyers, because they know the best time to report such damages is to do so right away, eliminating any doubt that that the victim is lying.
Twice Usher had some drama come about surrounding the release of new singles for his latest albums.
Tameka is acting like a crazy ***** woman who loves her man and doesn’t want to let him go.
Tameka is upset about the whole situation. She needs to fall back, collect her checks and raise them kids.
Go Tameka! Let everybody know the truth and not what everybody writing about. I love her coming into her own independence after all the mess!
As far as Tameka having her own money…#fail. She was ONLY a stylist. She did not come from wealth and stylist do not make lots of money unless they are employed by many celebs. She wasn’t employed by many celebs and she wasn’t available as much because she had 3 kids to raise…now 5 kids to raise.
poor tameka, shes so lost
Tameka was dodging the he!! out of those questions!She knows da** well she was mad about the Love in the Club song too. She’s basically saying “I was mad about the song, will be keeping my last name as Raymond and I’m officially still his wife.” The bytch is delusional if you ask me. I like her speaking voice though….it’s very pretty.
Say what u want but I feel bad for this woman, 2nd divorce and all those fatherless kids, smdh
Alrighty Then…
This ***** is messy than a **********er… ***** you 60 yrs old, (soon to be) 2nd time divorcee’ 5 (?) kids, and you can’t handle your private divorce w/ more cl***** and tact? YOU are not the “star”, so why are you still TALKING? STFU and take care of them gang of kids. No one takes the high road any more…
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That’s because she dealing with 2YR old Usher, and his momma’s boy mentality. He’s the one putting their bizz out there…making a f’en song like “Paper’s”. I aint gonna lie, I like that joint tho..
who is the stupid ***** ni66er doin the interview?? damn ni66ers are dumb!!
YOU KNOW I THINK THIS YOUNG LADY HAS A SELF HATE COMPLEX. IT FEELS LIKE SHE IS AVOIDING CERTAIN QUESTIONS BUT JUMPING RIGHT IN ON THINGS LIKE HOW SHE STYLED HIM IN THAT PICTURE. IT IS A PLOY FOR ATTENTION. A LACK OF SELF LOVE. SOME WOMEN TEND TO MANIPULATE TO IMMULATE WHAT THEY WISH THEY WERE. HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING BROWN SKINNED
Usher is wrong as hell for that song, I dont care what anyone says it’s clearly about Tameka (at least the majority of the song) i think shes denying it b/c shes embarr*****ed by it and its def. not a good look for Usher b/c he should’ve done a cl*****ier song considering that he is talkin about the mother of his kids, smdh AND regardless he knew what he was gettin into when he married her
THE UNFORTUNATE PART IS THAT THESE YOUNG BLACK MEN THAT SHE GAVE BIRTH TWO WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT LOVE IS REALLY ABOUT UNLESS ANOTHER WOMAN TEACHES IT TO THEM.
So sad that people marry for anything other than love. Its like a fu–ing fad or something, Marry for money, have kids so u can take the money, its just sad
Damn stop ***** riding these celebrities like y’all know them. They don’t give a ***** about any of you. Are they helping you pay your bills?? no. So stop judging their lives. *****ing retarded *****es.
usher is gonna be who he is. i will not keep giving him attention i am more concerned about these children and the impact of a fatherless home will have on them. it aint always about money. Teaching a young person to become the best can come from a mother or a father but only a real man can raise a man
@miko
uh sweetie this is a blog column for the public. The public will always have an opinion and if you have a problem with what any of us are opinionating about then LEAVE THE SITE AND DON’T COME BACK TO IT!!!!!! Just a public service announcement everyone judges something or someone before they leave this earth reflect!!! don’t have nothing to do about our damn bills
Glad to see she’s in good spirits. Keep your head up Tameka. Best of luck to the both of them.
both of these Ho’s needs to shut the fock up….take your gotdam bull$hit somewhere else…I don’t give a fock about what you are doing….who you are doing…. or your gotdam kids or your gotdam money. Get the fock out of here!!!!!!!!!
and his fat azzz old azzz mammy aint got no business butting in her son’s affairs. she needs to find a man of her own..gotdammit.
She is the mostly ugliest black woman I have ever seen I was shocked to find out she is in her 30’s I thought she was pushing 50. I don’t think anyone us will understand WHY? usher married this ashy burnt grey woman? I wished Usher would have married a beautiful young dark skinned woman that was intelligent and not a gold digger trapping him in wedlock. Thats just my two cents from this black girl from lil ole Canada
This -itch was all over the place with this interview
I could care less about either one of them but I die every time I see this pic of her. LOL. What the f*ck was she doing?!
man usher should have listen to his mother. She knew from the jump that she wasn’t good for him but a hard head makes a soft behind. We learn from our mistakes and usher’s mistake is going to cost him dearly.
I cant stand most of these dumb *****, easily influenced, can’t think for themselves, got to follow and not lead people out here. The same people who would give up their religion, if their friends did it too. 99% of people are followers…”If you don’t like her, I wont either. Let’s tarnish her and make her feel bad ’cause after all maybe she’ll read this and commit suicide. Yeeeaaa!! That will be so cool!”..
Come on people. Most of y’all have not even met this chick in person and truly can say you ‘hate’ her. Strong, strong words for someone who didn’t do anything but marry someone who she thought was a good man and vice versa. Please stop the hate for Tameka. She is a beautiful woman (physically)– I don’t know her personally to say otherwise–and don’t say she isn’t because in all honesty she looks like most of y’all aunts, cousins, or even some of y’all mommas… and will you call your momma ugly?? No! But that’s exactly what yall doing by calling her ugly, etc. Essentially what youre doing is calling yourselves ugly!…Let that sit on ya head for a minute. It’ll soak in eventually.
I still will have to say,that she cannot be blame for everything that went wrong in the marriage.One minute usher has women thinking that their the one for him, and then second he leaves them.Tameka did play her part but like someone else said there always 3 sides to a story,the his side, her side,and the truth.
get off usher short azz *****.. he a punk he did what society told him to do. Weak azz puzzy!!!!!!!
ya’ll just jealous and lonely bunch of mutts
**Crickets**
Can we stop encouraging this please?
Dang.
It took this long for her to no longer be relevant, can we enjoy the bliss and stop perpetuating this nonsense….Please??!?!?
SMH.
Um, why is she there talking if she isn’t going to answer the questions. She does talk nicer than I thought she would, since I have never heard her talk before. But I am still not feeling this being aired so publicly.
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This ***** is messy than a **********er… ***** you 60 yrs old, (soon to be) 2nd time divorcee’ 5 (?) kids, and you can’t handle your private divorce w/ more cl***** and tact? YOU are not the “star”, so why are you still TALKING? STFU and take care of them gang of kids. No one takes the high road any more…
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PREACH CUZZO!
I see why black men are some crap. There will always be one desperate and weak azz ***** who will stoop lower than him to make them feel big.
women you demand nothing expect less!!!
Half of ya’ll can’t get a a man without him being married.. can’t even get your own. Can only get a man to deal with your stank butts part time.
This chick is flat out delusional. She needs to come back to earth and answer to reality!!
-Ignore my last comment please-
I am starting to believe that when tameka allegedly went into cardiac arrest that maybe it was a ploy to play on usher’s sympathy because the marraige was coming to an end then. I could be wrong but i don’t think she ever went into cardiac arrest and if you think about it this was about the time they would’nt be seen together again and not to mention she was out shopping like two or three day’s after she allegedly flatlined. This woman seems a bit delusional to me.
THERE ARE TWO SIDES TO EACH STORY AND 9 TIMES OUT OF 10, I HATE TO SAY IT BUT, THE WOMAN IS CORRECT.
@Re
“Twice Usher had some drama come about surrounding the release of new singles for his latest albums. Tameka is acting like a crazy ***** woman who loves her man and doesn’t want to let him go.”
Yep! He wants to split and use the drama to sell more records. She wants to stay married and act like nothing has changed. They both need to grow up and act like adults for the sake of their kids.
Ooh Usher is gonna flop harder than Flipflops this time. SMH
These are my Confessions…
@Trixxie
I think Tameka caught Usher and some man in a vey compromising position and she probably has video tape.
They probably shouldn’t of gotten married. They both had baggage especially Tameka but now there stuck with each other for a good long time. I feel sorry for the next girl Usher is with because she will have to deal with all that drama.
Who is this interviewer?????? He is *****ing boring!!!!!!!!!!
MikeNMiami
Ooh Usher is gonna flop harder than Flipflops this time. SMH
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LOL!
I do believe he’ll be whining about this soon!
Could care less about her situation with Usher, my two cents, she has a great speaking voice…
HE SHOULD HAVE DONE WHAT HIS MOMMA TOLD HIM! dUMB ***** NICCA
She is bitter. But can you blame her? She sounds like her age too.
A man should always be a man. Usher was on national television professing his love for Tameka. How soon we forget. At this point, one can question whether or not he ever truly loved Tameka. Love doesn’t die that quickly. In the span of two years they birthed two children. Now he hates her. Now this song. I question his being a real man. Yes you respect your mother, listen to her opinion, but a man leaves his home to join a woman in marriage and build their home.
I hate to say this, but when Usher’s fan base dwindled so did his love for Tameka. Sad, but true. When he failed to sell cds equal to the amount of Confessions, he stopped loving Tameka and started blaming her for his failures.
Sad, but true.
What is up with that pic of her tho? She looks terrible…and as far as her and Usher goes, everyone knew it was not going to last long, it actually went on a lil longer than I thought.
That voice is annoying! What’s up w/the yetti wig?I thought she was a stylist? I know we have our days but have them at home..you’re still married to a celeb and you’re in the same circles..step it up!
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SMH at all these broads calling her old, Like *****s get younger with age, I got at least 20 homies in the graveyard, I can only hope to be called old one day, the ***** is sad
WHO SAYS “JAMMIN”? YOU KNOW THAT TRICK IS OLDER THAN JESUS.LOL
@fools Despise Wisdom and Discipline “A man should always be a man. Usher was on national television professing his love for Tameka. How soon we forget. At this point, one can question whether or not he ever truly loved Tameka. Love doesn’t die that quickly. In the span of two years they birthed two children. Now he hates her. Now this song. I question his being a real man. Yes you respect your mother, listen to her opinion, but a man leaves his home to join a woman in marriage and build their home.
I hate to say this, but when Usher’s fan base dwindled so did his love for Tameka. Sad, but true. When he failed to sell cds equal to the amount of Confessions, he stopped loving Tameka and started blaming her for his failures. ”
I agree with you totally. It seems that Usher is immature in this one. He was confused and took the public along with him. Also, isn’t it funny how all of Ushers last 3 or 4 albums surrounded his very public breakups and situations?
I don’t care for Tameka or Usher. But he’s a punk for putting that song out. I don’t see how everyone is making him the golden boy in this. He’s putting all his business in the street, just like her. You claim to love her but why are you trying to embarr***** the mother of your children?
Tameka should be talking about pioneering same sex marriage, because her and Usher was the first time that I saw two black dudes get married legally!
Black women bashing another black women. Too much time is spent doing this. Most of you are single and you are sitting up here bashing Tameka. At least she got married, which is what most of you hope to do.
What did you do today girl, aww I spent my day bashing black women with black men. Yea something to shoot for. Black women get off the dang internet before all the black men are gone with all non black women.
Bossip will never let her live down this self-inflicted mugshot. LOL!!!!
1st *****es!!!!!!!!!!
B’More
Usher’s momma pegged this chick as no good from day one. take notes, fellas. if your mom thinks your girl is no good, 9 times out of 10 she’s right.
THATS NOT TRUE B’MORE…..MY MOTHER IN LAW WAS WRONG ABOUT ME AND MY MOM WAS WRONG ABOUT MY HUSBAND.
@ Fools Despise Wisdom and Discipline-”Sad, but true. When he failed to sell cds equal to the amount of Confessions, he stopped loving Tameka and started blaming her for his failures.”
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Agreed. This is the most truthful post on this thread.
When he realized that he had been out of the limelight and his fan base, was all but gone, that’s when he fell out of love, with Tameka.
Ursher is a very petty individual. And now the arrogance that he has to use these ‘incidents’, in his life, to make money off them, shows that he’s also a drama queen. I can’t help but think that him calling the police and all this other drama, is for attention- whoring, as well…
All his ‘Lady Appreciation” tours flopped.
CD sale flopped.
Using ‘failed’ marriage, as another “Confession”, which will flop, too. Who even cares anymore about Ursher? I don’t b uy his Cds, do you?
He better hold onto every cent that he’s got, because I think it’s getting worse as he gets older..Like New Edition, Bobby Brown, etc, his time has past..
I dk, but whatever, there’s nothing wring with Tameka, besides the fact, she just doesn’t want a divorce… SMH at all the folks who even bring her skin into, why they divorcing, Tameka’s messed up because she is dark-skinned.. Has nothing to do with Ush’s split-personality complexes..
Bashin at its best
What did you do today girl, aww I spent my day bashing black women with black men. Yea something to shoot for. Black women get off the dang internet before all the black men are gone with all non black women.
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Sure thing. I don’t even know who you’re talking to or what you men. So what if blk men go to non blk women. you can’t stop any man, from doing what he’s going to do. I am lost, as to what you mean. I also wonder if you know what you mean….
And trust me,dear, I’m all for blk unity, but you are coming wrong. Just my 2 cents..
She is so ugly and childish. I don’t see what he saw in her in the first place. She jealous over a *****in song. Old azz bytch needs to go sit down somewhere! Man looking azz…
always knew u are a hater that album has sold over 1,000,000 records he was out for 4 yrs ill take that anyday stop hating its her fault the marriage didnt work shut the hell up hating ***** then she keyed his car and was all in jeezy’s face shes a gold digging w*****
The interviewer is Ryan Cameron. Very popular VJ in ATL. He is a very funny guy. I think he was just trying to read Tameka here. He wasn’t really boring, if you notice he played around a little with her, and tried to get reaction out her. Like when he asked about the ring and kept bringing up the photo of Usher. Believe me- Ryan is a genius interviewer!!
Most times when Black Men date Non Black Women it usually because Black Women give those men a hard time, and men will always TAKE THE PATH OF LEAST RESISTANCE, my brother dates white women exclusively not because he hates himself or black women,but because black women gave him a hard time and white women not so much, but just think about, a sister aint gon take a AVERAGE BLACK DUDE too serious, unless she already got some issues,Lucky for me I got a little bit of paper and for some reason now women are easy, For example in high school and college, I was just average, now that i own my own *****, Im a prize, a “real catch” (not my words), which basically means I could get caught with another woman, and they would want to “work” on it, my brother, not so much, O yea new model cars with big feet also gets the ***** tossed at you, I guess if you aint “successful” you gotta put up with the bull*****
I gotta go with BMore… “Usher’s momma pegged this chick as no good from day one. take notes, fellas. if your mom thinks your girl is no good, 9 times out of 10 she’s right”…
thats right I was in the same situation… got a girl right now my mum was like thats it she´s a keeper and she´s the love of my life!
Anyways I was like maybe the people are overreacting because of tameka (Usher is my favourite artist of all time) but in the whole time everything seems so weired and just look at the interview how she acts got damn lady have some cl***** but I trhink she just happy she got a new income now thats why she´s acting like a teen.
So happy that Usher just left her cause she´s not worth it at all and even if the have been written like 8 months ago…I think that its the perfect match to the situation.
I mean there are so many songs which maybe were released in 07 but people are able to relate to them right now sooo…
Can´t wait for Ushers new Album
…. and f. Tameka Gold Digging B.
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Regardless if Meka had her own $$ or not…Usher isn’t Bambi. Ask Superhead, mkay. He was skeezin on Chilli so I don’t feel sorry for “Eerrr-sher.” Everyone always wants to blame the female in the relationship but bottom-line Usher defied all (Momager) to marry this trick. He sign up for it, mkay. So leave Meka and dem kidz alone.
Most times when Black Men date Non Black Women it usually because Black Women give those men a hard time, and men will always TAKE THE PATH OF LEAST RESISTANCE, my brother dates white women exclusively not because he hates himself or black women,but because black women gave him a hard time —–
I believe you that is why most black men aren’t around raising there kids and not in there lives. Good point! Way to go black community. Jails will be eagerly waiting for those little black boys growing up with no father to steer them because it is too much resistance for a black man. Cop out!!
Black women and men have a different set of life issues that other non raced people will never understand. Keep running to what is easier instead of working out any issues. The only race of men that are notorious for this are black men. Not all are this way because there are good ones but just not enough.
How do we know she is the one who f*ck#d up the mariage? I guess since she is not up to our standard of beauty she must be at fault?
Usher should have looked into this Cougar old ***** heffa. I dont feel sorry for all these ppl who get wrapped up and obsessed and get their ***** fixed….
rihanna, tila tequila too
It is always the dark skin black womans fault alice. At least that is who get pegged for all the responsibility. Most of the comments focus on her looks and the fact that she has kids. Wake up world 70 percent of black women and men have kids. Yes I said and men. How can a black women have kids alone. There has to be a father somewhere?? He may not be around but he still layed down with her and had those kids.
Usher is an idiot for airing is dirty laundry just to make some money. STFU!, you got kids and not matter what, Tameka is there mom. All this will do is have those little boys looking at black women in a negative light. Tameka needs to STFU, and stopping worrying about cheating Usher anyway.
So you saying you should put up a difficult person who obviously doesnt make you happy and some of them have a sense of entitlement, just cause they black, I like you and am interested enough in you to express those feelings and be sincere about it, but I still got to put up with your ex and your baby daddy cause you want to have “options”? GTFOH I realize that you and the father of your children need to have a relationship, but someone you have no reason to still be connected to? NEGRO PLEASE, and I have never dated a “WOMAN” in my life that was completely single or Completely alone and most times that the problem, the relationship before me failed miserable and instead of moving on you bring that ***** right to the table with ya
No matter she says ain’t no man REALLY gonna want to be with her and it’s not because of that sexy picture showing all of those stretch marks – it’s because she has 5 kids from 2 different fathers and a CD “Raymond vs. Raymond” whose songs are mostly written about how bad a woman she is and how she ruined her and Ushers marriage… SMH
Don’t get me wrong, ni@@as will STILL hit but ain’t NO man gonna wife her with 5 kids and 2 baby daddies, I don’t care how good her head game is, how good she is in bed or how much money she has – what man around her age is gonna want to get with her???
I wish her the best…
Gotta make wiser decisions though… SMH
So a women will be with a black man with alot of kids but not a black women?? Whateva!
Mark Rich black men will put up with crap from white women but won’t put up with the same crap for a black women. I have a black male cousin who is with a white women and miserable. The only reason he got with her is because he wanted his kids to be less black looking because he is dark skin. All women give crap, it is just in a different form. Black people have more crap to bear and that is why they are having trouble working together and staying together. White women don’t have to deal with half the stuff black women do and that may be why they are easier and more pleasant.
When black men get with white women, most of the time it doesn’t last. The white women end up rich as hell raising their kids. A study was done on the success of the relationship interracially and black men didn’t even rank in the long term success so it seems that maybe some of the issues are with the black man and he thinks by running from his problems he can escape them. This isn’t all black men but certain ones that boast about having them a white girl.
Anyone can be difficult. It depends on who you give a p***** to and who you don’t. At least Tameka married the man of her last two kids. She is still getting bashed. Damn black women can’t do anything right can they. You are damned if you do and damned if you don’t
Speaking on my black male cousin, he doesn’t come around his family, maybe the whole family is too difficult, they are black- and he cheats on his white wife with other white women. They have been seperated off and on and almost divorced. He complains on her to.
Remember these same black women procreated with a black women, so they are baby papas. lol! They deal with the mans baby mamas and all his kids.
Usher is a hoe, and Tameka is a gold digger.
Moving on?
Remember these same black women procreated with a black man, so they are baby papas. lol! They deal with the mans baby mamas and all his kids.
@chad-”always knew u are a hater that album has sold over 1,000,000 records he was out for 4 yrs ill take that anyday stop hating its her fault the marriage didnt work shut the hell up hating ***** then she keyed his car and was all in jeezy’s face shes a gold digging w*****
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I’m not a hater. I couldcre less abot their marriage. I don;t care either way. I didn’t support Usher before, and I’m not now. And from what I see, I’m not the only one who hasn’t been buying his crap…
Maybe you’re a *****got, the wya you’re carrying on, over another man…I just said she was mad because the marriage was over and she couldn’t accept it.Why does that cl*****ify bein a hater? Who cares she keyed his car? He called the police, like a little b-tch. Who even cares about this homo anyway? Obviously, you.
When black men get with white women, most of the time it doesn’t last. The white women end up rich as hell raising their kids. A study was done on the success of the relationship interracially and black men didn’t even rank in the long term success so it seems that maybe some of the issues are with the black man and he thinks by running from his problems he can escape them. This isn’t all black men but certain ones that boast about having them a white girl.
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True. Swirl relationships NEVER last.
@Mark Rich
Yea so when you say ignorant ***** like that does your mouth pucker like an *****hole seeing that whats coming out of it is no different. First off simple ***** most brothas who date non sistas do so for a number of reasons, their preference may just be white women, job or activities put them in the same place which provides opportunity, environment where they live or went to school and lastly they may have just fallen in love with somebody because they clicked regardless of race. That whole sistas give brothas a hard time and white women don’t ***** is played out simple *****, its simple *****s like you that need to look inward as to why sistas aint checkin for you or why you can’t maintain a relationship……unless as you say “I’m paid”. Thats more a sad commentary on your simple ***** than it is black women the fact that you and your simple ***** brotha have such a hard time that he switched his preference and now your simple ***** is coming out the pocket for attention. If you’re about anything you’d know that there are some women of all races that won’t give you the time of day unless you driving something new and expensive, that are only out for what they can get, women of all races that when in the company of a weak man will seem overbearing ( I take it thats your problem ). If you knew anything about women besides what you’ve been told or read you’d know that there are to myths that are just that myths and your repeating them shows you’re a go along *****….. 1. On the matter of how you’re treated by your woman there is no difference between black or white women it all depends on your relationship, all races of women have their weak, strong, submissive and aggressive simple ***** it just depends on what you can handle or in your case can’t. Simple almost everyone finds at one time or another they are not everyones choice of someone they want to date big deal I’m sorry it crushed you but simple what about the sistas that had a little bit too much weight or the hair was a little short, maybe a tad darker than you liked when you were in school were you checkin for them??? No you weren’t but now that they’ve grown into themselves and those hips have filled out just right and they have their grown black woman sexy crackin now you wanna make time for them right simple *****……Cream rises to the top simple so if you are about something eventually you’ll find that right sista because you know you have something to offer and that she has something to offer you. Weak and simple *****s like you who want instant gratification and adoration from women who only seek to dry up your pockets are free to do so but stop pretending like your some kind of baller because simple ***** theres already been a name established for your tpye and thats “Trick”…..because as far as I can see you buying *****…….*****!!
Tameka and Usher sign them darn papers and call it the day…please!
I didnt say ***** worked out, I said if a ***** try to get with black women and keep failing, a ***** gon expand his options until he gets a yes, My brother doesnt have self hate issues nor does he “want to breed with white women” the ***** just started including white women into his options and white women were saying yes at a rate black women were not
And we all black women will put up with a lot of bull***** too, you can come to this very site and look under “Isnt he married”, What i am saying is if a man continues to pursue black women and gets no where he should just continue cause he black??
she is cool, I like her. she sounds genuine and grown ***** hell. wish her well
“Usher married
you Tameka and had two kids; that was enough publicity.”
which is why he is that saddest excuse for a *****got, how you not going to work it out in this situation.
The only thing that cheese brain Sheree from RHOA ever said that made any sense was when she said she do not want to date *****ody with little kids, if they got 2 year old or the like they need to be working it out with the baby momma.
PLUS u know Ursher only creates these fake situations to have album material!!!!!
@Uncle E- don’t give up, all the game…But that was a good sermon, I must say..
Everyone wants to act like it is all on HER. Come on now. Dont anyone think of the kids. He took vows with this woman and made two kids with her and left. What happened to better or worse? He knew how she was when he married her. But he is less than a man for bailing out on two kids, one that was barely born when he left. I see him in a different light now, he is a dead beat dad just like NAS. And he should have stuck it out and at least tried for his kids. He is a loser.
@enkogkneegro ( Uncle E…if you like )
Damn ***** didnt you go in on me, it aint that serious homie, I speaking from my experiences, not the world, I am far from simple homie, the name calling illustrates a point that you have issues with dudes such as myself, it cool I aint trippin, and ***** trust me women checking for me, my point is in GEORGIA, I dont know where you at and at A certain age I dont know how old you are, some women are looking for certain things in their mates
and some of the women that my brother is attracted to are not attracted to him, should he date women he is not attrached to? nope, I respect your opinion but you off base with you *****ertion, it almost seems as if you imply I hate women or something, which couldnt be farther from the truth, AND FOR THE RECORD I HAVE NEVER DATED A WHITE WOMEN PERIOD
Why is everyone getting so riled? And the tenor of these comments. The language. Everyone has the right to expression but sometimes we don’t even come across as civilized let alone educated. And to the ladies, please with these terrible words to call other black women.
None of us posting knows anyone here. Noticed I included myself. But to think that we are so animated that we say these awful things is disheartening. I hope that we aren’t so resolved to saying things that in times past only men would say. We need to find better ways to express ourselves.
It isn’t attractive. People talk about Tameka Raymond being unattractive on the outside. Let’s try and focus what’s on the inside. Some of our insides need work and it is obvious. I can’t imagine men being attracted to some of the filth that we allow to leave our mouths. And putting each other down as black women does not aid in making us more attractive either.
@fools despise wisdom and discipline- “And putting each other down as black women does not aid in making us more attractive either.”
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true. but this is a blog and people have a tendency to wild out..
bottom line: PLUS u know Ursher only creates these fake situations to have album material!!!!!
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Agreed.
HAHAHahahah…. all this arguin and guess what? Ya’ll are NEVA EVA gonna stop the World from SWIRLIN. ‘Nuff said.
It sounds like the song from R Kelly back in the day..”how did I get in this ***** should’ve never came home with this *****”…..LOL !!
He should’ve never got caught with this broad…now he’s stuck with her forever. LOL !
@Mark Rich
Your post said most brothas date outside because of sistas behavior in which the implication is that most sistas have issues with how they treat black men. You now say from what you’ve experienced and since you’re you and not most men thats a much different perspective so the broad brushing of black women was what irritated me
I could care less about swirling as I’m biracial and know theres more to it than self hate, I know some brothas who swirl as they say and I’ve known them for most of their life and can honestly say they were the reasons why their relationships failed when they dated black women and call em on it every time they use that aggressive black woman excuse. They were just as if not more so responsible for things not working out and their character has shown itself with the the supposed p*****ive white women they have dated because they as most women have limits and have sat those brothas ***** outside the door…
I dont mean to paint anyone in broad generalizations my point is my brother is a good dude, raised right, kinda nerdy if you will, and from my observation that generally means is not highly desirable at a young age to certain women, now as we have gotten older I am seeing more black women take interest in him, we were raised to go out and get our own, so to some it may seem as if he is someone who achieved goals and only wants to date white women, when in reality he just didnt spark their interest at that particular time, and he found a bit more success when he expanded his options
And I do know that some women can only see me for my material possessions and I recognize that, but at the same some see that I would be able to provide for them and I just have to separate the two
Damn that is the 1st time I ever even heard her voice
She sure didn’t want to answer that question!..Bet Usher done made love plenty times in the club!
Funny he would ask her how she felt about in the club. I remember when I first heard it I was wondering how he was adjusting to his new chapter in life singing a song like that…guess not so well….but now, he’s so moved to have his first release on his new album be about signing divorce papers??? Interesting he didn’t feel equally moved when he first got married — instead we got in the club. SMH
@Mark
That post right there speaks to a reality that we all go through both men and women, some peek early and some peek later in life and as we grow and evolve, make more money and establish ourselves we tend to become more confident and maybe thats what was missing all along. Depending what business field you or your brotha are in, schools or courses you took to get where you are white women may have been in abundance or whatever but just going by your latest post it honestly seems as your experiences with women prior to “Getting paid” as you have said weren’t expansive enough for the statement made earlier when you placed the blame on black women intentionally or not…..
No one should get married because when people divorce they act ignorant and never want to let go.
When people divorce it really brings out the child in all parties involved.
50 CENT WILL BE *****ING HER NEXT !!!!!!!!!!
I see Uncle E up in here spittin’ the “isms!”
Keep schooling these brothas, Unc!
@enkogkneegro ( Uncle E…if you like )
In a way that is true because most 18-22 year olds who go to school really dont have an adult social life, especially if money is tight, but now that Im 28 and am already established, there is less resistance for myself than for some of my friends who are unemployed, underemployed, but at the same
time, being raised in a single parent home to me being financially secure was a priority, and when I first started working in my field I was making good money, but I was afraid to spend it, so once I got to a position in life where I felt like I should be enjoying the fruits of my labor, I noticed women would start approaching me, as opposed to me approaching them, Its like going from rags to riches (I am in no rich, I plan to be but I aint there yet)and it just you notice the difference cause its like night and day
Tameka played herself by even entertaining the thought of going on air.
Whatever their relationship (or lack thereof) is, I’ve always admired the bigger person that doesn’t choose to air their dirty laundry.
Before Usher, we had no idea who this woman was and for some to say that she was a stylist and had her own money? I don’t think so. Even if she did, there are people with money that does not choose to put their business out there. This interview was a crock! Although she does have a nice speaking voice, she said absolutely nothing substantial. It was just a way to grab some shine.
I think she’s just trying to stay in the public eye when in fact she should fall back and raise her children. Let Usher make all the songs he wants. Everyone knows that’s his s***** anyway.
SOMEone should be the bigger person. Even if it’s only for the children’s sake.
Considering that the whole “marriage” never set right with 95% of the population is an indicator that many of us believe the whole thing wasn’t quite right from the beginning.
I agree with the posts that say that when Usher’s last album didn’t do well, blame was put on the fact that since he’s a “sex symbol” he lost a large part of his fan base being married, and typical celebrity narcissism fueled by a large ego could not allow him to accept that maybe the album was just shyt and people weren’t feeling it.
As for Tameka, I think she’s holding up pretty well. I think that her and Usher had shady and manipulative tendencies throughout the marriage, and they began to dislike in each other the characteristics that they both carry.
Time for her to move on and Usher to stop whining. I have lost respect for him for putting out this trash. Don’t air your dirty laundry in public – keep that shyt in your own private backyard.
I just finished reading a book titled “It’s no secret” by Carmen Bryan. If you don’t know who this young lady is, she is the mother of Naz’s daughter.
I can honestly say that this was by far the least productive 5 1/2 hours I spent in the last 6 months of my life that I will NEVER get back!!!!
Why is it that women that attach themselves to these industry guys have to go and write a tell all when the relationship sours? I say, for whatever reason it didn’t work out, THINK OF YOUR CHILDREN before you’re on air (Tameka) up in the club getting pictures snapped of you in an unflattering position (Tameka–above) or writing a book talking slick about the ex’s next conquest.(Carmen and Supahead)
Do these young women stop to think of the effects their actions will have on their children down the road?
Yea ur right!
Black women and men have a different set of life issues that other non raced people will never understand. Keep running to what is easier instead of working out any issues. The only race of men that are notorious for this are black men. Not all are this way because there are good ones but just not enough.
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YOU BETTA PREACH SOME MORE!!!!
enkogkneegro ( Uncle E…if you like )
I could care less about swirling as I’m biracial and know theres more to it than self hate, I know some brothas who swirl as they say and I’ve known them for most of their life and can honestly say they were the reasons why their relationships failed when they dated black women and call em on it every time they use that aggressive black woman excuse. They were just as if not more so responsible for things not working out and their character has shown itself with the the supposed p*****ive white women they have dated because they as most women have limits and have sat those brothas ***** outside the door…
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Finally a brother on point…YOU BETTA PREACH!!
MARK RICH
I didnt say ***** worked out, I said if a ***** try to get with black women and keep failing, a ***** gon expand his options until he gets a yes, My brother doesnt have self hate issues nor does he “want to breed with white women” the ***** just started including white women into his options and white women were saying yes at a rate black women were not
And we all black women will put up with a lot of bull***** too, you can come to this very site and look under “Isnt he married”, What i am saying is if a man continues to pursue black women and gets no where he should just continue cause he black??
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SAME QUESTIONS YOU JUST POSED GOES BOTH WAYS. SHOULD A SISTA KEEP PUTTING UP WITH BLACK MEN WHEN STUFF NOT RIGHT? NO BUT WE DO,BECAUSE WE AS BLACK WOMEN ARE LONG SUFFERING! WE ARE NOT READY TO COP OUT AND LEAVE YALL WHEN THINGS ARE NOT GOING RIGHT, NORMALLY WE DO TRY AND WORK IT OUT. FURTHERMORE WE DON’T RUN TO THE NEXT RACE EITHER. WE DEAL WITH IT AND KEEP IT MOVING TO THE NEXT BLACK MAN!….I’VE NEVER HEARD ANY OTHER RACE OF MEN TALK SO NEGATIVE ABOUT THERE WOMEN AS MUCH AS BLACK MEN TALK ABOUT THEIR SISTA’S! WE BIRTH YALL!! HOW COULD YALL HATE SOMETHING THAT YOU COME FROM??? THIS WORLD IS A SAD PLACE FOR BLACK WOMEN…LORD HELP US ALL!
Why so serious?
@Mark Rich
What some some don’t understand is that when they throw out blanket statements regarding black women like all black women don’t do this, most black women are like that its a negative comment that true enough fit a select few….few. Its no different than the phrase all black men or most black men that a few of the sistas throw around at will up in here daily……My mom, sisters, daughter and nieces are all black women and honestly my response to your post was in defense of them and every other black woman in my life because as a brotha who’s benefited from them supporting me through out my life thru the good and bad I owe them that. I may have gone a bit far with it but I hope you understand why, we can always agree to disagree. No hard feelings brotha, its Friday enjoy and have a good one…….
Can someone tell me what the issue actually is with this woman. I’ve never heard anyone say anything that can make me understand all the hate for her. I really wonder if this goes back to certain black womens hatred for what they see in the mirror. I really have to wonder if she were a few shades lighter would everyone hate her this much?
@sunny
You should find someone who makes you happy, no regards to their race, Personally Im not attracted to women with white skin, latino women included,hell I said the other day I said only black women can rock short hair and still look like women, not every light skin woman is pretty to me,believe it or not but some women have told that I like “black ***** girls” like thats a bad thing but if you pursue 15 african americans and the answer is no, and you ask someone who is not african american and the answer is yes, what would you suggest, I know the difficulties african american women face in america’s definition of what “beauty” should be, at the same time some of these black dudes cant get a date to save their lives, and I also know some “men” perfer that american definition of what “beauty’ should be when they make it, and its not as bad as you think some brothers never even get a chance cause of some silly reason, I have female friends and when I hear some of their friends and the reasons why they wont talk to a certain dude I have to shake my
head in disgust, like he aint got no swag, his shoe game aint up to par, or his car, or he aint going nowhere in life, and I like when yo ***** hit 28-29 aint *****ody gon want you cause you wanted to chase “ballers” and have their love s*****s, I am not generalizing, Men are just as shallow if not more shallow, so it a two way street, and please, please believe me when I say you have to approach the “good” ones, dont wait on him, if you feel like he worth put your bid in ma, and another thing and I aint saying all women like this, but you cant want somebody just cause you think somebody else want him. REAL TALK, I LOVE AND APPRECIATE BLACK WOMEN, YOU CANT GET THAT KINDA NOWHERE ELSE
@enkogkneegro ( Uncle E…if you like )
I feel you, I do not take offense to your comments, I just thought you went extra hard on a *****, As a community, a lot of us young people are caught up in materialism and it influences your perception about people or a particular group of people, and its funny when you are considered a player and you have never even tried to be one, so you take notice cause you dont want people using you or you want to know the real reason behind someones motivation
And I know we as a people are not monolithic but, we do exhibit traits that are noticeable through observation and sometimes when you express those opinions you have formulated its seems as if you are saying everybody is that way and I dont mean it in that way
Oh my, how I do so love to see you bash the wounded. Darling, some of you on here seem like the type that would drown kittens just for the fun of it. Fact of the matter is, you neither know this woman nor the man she was married to, yet you readily degrade her as if she were some kind of horrid beast. Brava to the women on here, way to go sticking up for your own. and as for the “old” comments, youth is fleeting dear and not even the best of surgeons can hold it off for long, so don’t be so smug. I personally think she looks fabulous. And lest you forget, Usher was indeed an adult man when he turned his back on his mother, so let him bare the burden on that one.
I would not give any more interviews, my comments would be “nada”. Been in love before and when its’ over, its’ not pretty no matter how you look at it. Tameka’s heart is broken, she has 2 young babies to care for and Usher is “free” from living in the same house. Notwithstanding, she will rise, be fierce as she was, but for now, no more interviews. Peace & love Tameka.
He asked terrible questions!
…A man/boy will not take on any responsibilities. A true man will love a woman, because he’s mature enough to understand that women are not doormats, but a special being that deserves to be treated with respect and love. So when the narrow minded men/boys come around and think they’ll be able to “use” a single mother…hopefully Tameka will pick up their negative “user” radar and not be bothered.
I do not see why people are constantly calling this woman ugly. She does not look ugly to me at all. Usher is the ugly one for sure.
IMO– When people refer to Tameka as ugly, I don’t think all of them are talking about in the physical sense. I think some may mean her under minding, sneaky ways.
It’s funny that once she was with Usher and the children between them to came along, I always saw pictures of them and not her other children.
It was almost as if they no longer existed.
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She look like a transexual whose real name is Leroy!
TAMEKA USING USER!!!! Usher is the cheater in all this. He cheated on Chilli and he cheated in his marriage. He walked out on his children which are both less that 4 years old. You stupid itches want to talk about her age. He knew how old she was when he married her. Chilli is the same age, and so is the trick he was hanging out with in LA. Now like with confessions he want to make money off of his total lack of honesty. Tameka is not the one with the problem Usher need to get off his momma tit and be a man.
yeah his mama told him but news flash just like mj he is a ***** and we all know it he dont want know woman it was all 4 show but if she had his down low ***** kids she deserves 4 him to feed them cloth them and house them that is his punk ***** duty and both of them should have kept they business out da papers any whoo! she a trick and he a down low soon to be out the closet punk with his mamas boy ways! but he can dance tho
If Usher and Tameka are both immature. If you don’t want people to judge you about your private life, keep it out of the streets.
Usher was loving that stuff lets admit that because he had two kids from that “pudding”
Not even his mother could stop that from happening. Usher just don’t want to settle. He wants to be “Mr Sex Symbol”
Do ya thing “Usher” make your kids proud….
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bossip stop calling her crazy she is just a woman scorned!
i like usher’s music, but i think he thinks like a 12year old!
TAMEKA NEED TO LET IT GO.
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she’s beautiful.
I don’t care what “Tameka” says, she need to leave Usher alone! She is just a *****ing ***** who ruined his life or trying to with them kids she done put on him. She is a pathetic attention w***** who is ugly as hell in the FACE, the hell with her beautiful dark skin! Boo ***** Boo
Usher was emotionally, nothing but a protected little mama’s boy, until Meka snuck his little ***** off, gave him a real hummer, a *****y *****, and a rim job, and blew his little Yoda looking ***** mind.
Then the little punk found out what guys like Jay-Z, Biggie, and Fiddy found out on the streets by age 13: you can get that ***** from any ho, and NO papers have to be exchanged — then it was OVER for that old trick.
Go catch some other over-protected little talented dude on the come-up, Meka, because unfortunately, Yoda’s getting his freak on now without the need of “papers”.
She handled herself well considering the juvenile questions that Ryan Cameron usually asks.
Back in the day, Ryan Cameron was on a competing station, and he had a long standing beef with the DJ (Frank Ski)with station he is on now,(“Who the hell Ski in Atlanta?”)Ryan is a phony ***** sell out.
Not being mean but Tameka just focus on the children!
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Usher is 200% a Mamas boy, he just is, lets face it shes his MANAGER so she has some say in what music is being put out, Papers was probably her idea and she didnt even go to their wedding. its a bad look, she is the one controlling this bad media and press about Tamika, aint *****ody stupid. Believe you me, I will bet the older Mrs raymond Patton whateva was all for that divorce and the song being put out about her daughter in law, shes a tough bish, dont sleep on her *****.