SMH: Addicted to Abortions

Posted on October 23rd, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Babies, Baby Mama Drama, End of Days, For the Children, Ho Sit Down, Jesus Take The Wheel, News, SMH, What Were You Thinking?

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Meet Irene Vilar. She is addicted to abortions. You will not believe how many she has had. It is in the teens:

Irene Vilar worries that her self-described “abortion addiction” will be misunderstood, twisted by the pro-life movement to deny women the right to choose. Her book, “Impossible Motherhood,” chronicles her own dark choices of having… …15 abortions in 16 years, much of it as a married woman. As press on the book has begun to leak out, Vilar — a literary agent and editor — says she has already sensed “an inkling of hatred.”

At the age of 16 she married a tyrannical 50-year-old professor, a relationship which made her ashamed, belittled and depressed. She self-harmed and attempted suicide several times but continued to get pregnant with monotonous regularity. “I had twelve abortions in eleven years with my first husband,” says Irene who is now very regretful of her troubled past. Her other three abortions were with different men as Irene continued to use abortion as if it were contraception. Thankfully, Irene uncovered the courage to end her dysfunctional marriage and found a healthy and compassionate love with a new husband, a writer and poet of her own age. Luckily her repeated terminations had not damaged her reproductive system and she now has a happy family with her husband and two young girls aged three and five.

Her womb must resemble an old weathered trash bag by now. SMH.

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  • drenk

    this was so interesting and through provoking ….

  • drenk

    thought not through DAMN!

  • num1dominicano

    I need to cop this book…..so if I ever mistakenly get a chic preggers and she says abortion may damage her guts….I can reference this woman….and say…not it won’t..you can have up to 15 and be good…

  • num1dominicano

    she must have had a bunch of period draws….all the bleeding she has done over the years..

  • speechless

    yuck

  • http://deleted Hmm…

    Eww.
    That’s ridiculous.
    15 abortions, omygOsh.
    Smh.

  • VA666

    I still can’t understand why any woman would want to discuss something so personal with the whole world. Ah well. To each his own I guess…

  • Don’t think I Won’t Hitch Yah…Cause I’m Famous (I Believe in KARMA)

    @VA666….can you say “Publicity Stunt” bad publicity is better than none at all.

  • http://bossip.com This some Shhh…

    She can forget about the hate she thinks is coming for her. She better make peace with those 15 souls haunting her ass.

  • 1985

    I will never understand why a women would just keep have abortions instead of using birth control…STUPID!!!

  • Old Timer

    num1dominicano

    I need to cop this book…..so if I ever mistakenly get a chic preggers and she says abortion may damage her guts….I can reference this woman….and say…not it won’t..you can have up to 15 and be good…
    _____________________________________________

    LOL!!! You need to be absolutely ashamed of yourself. Absolutely ashamed. Hang your head.

  • tb

    I knew a chick when I was in high school…this girl had 11 abortions by the time she was 16. When she was 16 she finally had her first child, then at the age of 19, she was up to her third child.

  • Rob

    LOL in this week’s South Park episode, Cartman’s character in their wrestling federation is addicted to abortion. Funny thing that I saw the episode last night and that I read this today.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1bD-ZYb0HL0 I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983

    She can forget about the hate she thinks is coming for her. She better make peace with those 15 souls haunting her ass.

    *******************************************************

    TTRRRRRUUUUUTTTHHHH!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1bD-ZYb0HL0 I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983

    Her uterus looks like boiled up aluminum foil!

  • KEYSHA LIKES IT HOT

    She needs Womb Healing! Poor woman.

  • Re

    LMAO @ drenk! You make laugh…

  • TheOne&Only

    typo *addicted* my bad

  • eveinthegarden

    wow.

    Im suprised she was able to even carry children after so much damage to her womb.

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  • straighttruth

    @num1dominicano

    Thats a stupid @ss thing to say. How about just using protection *thought*

  • elektrikeccentrik

    this story is older than j hud’s micro braids lol
    i would rather spend the $5 for a box of condoms than spend $300 for an abortion. ugh…

  • TASTY

    DAMN

  • Bunni

    This is so scary and shocking. For any woman out there who has had to make the difficult decision to have an abortion, it’s no JOKE! She’s is seriously disturbed, but blessed to still have a family after abusing her body that way. WOW!

  • Caramel Cat

    honestly, I thought after like 3 or 4 procedures that a woman’s womb was pretty much too scarred to be able to have a successful pregnancy again. She’ll likely have complications as she gets older and will probably have to have a full hysterectomy…

  • Ummmmmm….

    Could we not find a more fitting photo? This aint nothing to be smiling about.

  • Caramel Cat

    @Nique

    Okkaaaayyy. I used to always be hopeful that my birth control ALWAYS worked, I never even wanted to have to face the decision of an abortion because I think it’s murder. For anyone else that can handle that activity, I take my hat off to you. But me, I’m too fragile for the emotional after-effects of taking a child’s chance at life…

  • lt

    Ok, these doctors can’t tell if she’s had alot of abortions? She ain’t all there.

  • resurrected

    This is sad and make me mad to know that her choices will represent many woman, the stupid and selfish ones and the ones who feel as if they have no choices… But the truth is that this all started with one choice and this woman never thought any deeper then an abortion..

  • Z

    Tameka from Foster projects got the same story. no one is giving her a multi-million dollar deal….

  • tasha lisa jamaican princess

    ALL I CAN SAY IS WOW…
    THAT

    JUST

    A

    DAMN

    BIG

    SHAME…

    SHAME ON UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!
    BIG

  • Anna

    Not sure what she thought she was going to gain by telling us this. She has two daughters and they will find out that mommy had 15 abortins before we were born. I hate when ppl use abortions as a form of birth control.

  • Ms. J

    No comment…..

  • m9ser1

    please i know broads in the hood that had more than that… especially when it was covered by their health insurance

  • Oh Well…

    that is too disgusting for words. it’s stories like this that make me question the existence of a god.

  • She’s Pissed

    SHE DEFINITELY HAS A SPOT IN HELL RESERVED FOR HER..SMH..AND AT 16 YOUR MARRIED TO A DAMN 50 YEAR OLD…WHERE WERE THE PARENTS IN THIS CASE?

  • Serene2APoint

    Hannibal? Where are you?

  • 3LuvMe*

    wow, how sad..

  • resurrected

    Anna

    Not sure what she thought she was going to gain by telling us this. She has two daughters and they will find out that mommy had 15 abortins before we were born. I hate when ppl use abortions as a form of birth control.
    _________________________________________________
    Girl and if you have ever stepped into a clinic is is way worst… I went with a couple of my friends for support and those woman are on some other shit, very selfish and the sad part about it is that they will be back in there in like another 3 month as you said using it as some form of birth control…

  • Plain Jane

    She can forget about the hate she thinks is coming for her. She better make peace with those 15 souls haunting her ass.

    ________________

    Wow, speak on it…

  • TianaVentee

    I know plenty of girls that do that stuff all the time just being irresponsible. My good friends cousin has 5 kids but she’s also had 13 abortions. and i know a couple others like her who regardless of how many they have can still have a normal healthy pregnancy. But this lady is a trip. She shoulda just got an IUD or somethin!

  • Plain Jane

    And only a sociopath would have 15 abortions.

  • HONESTLY…

    Instead of abortion abuse, she should successfully figure out a way to kill herself.

  • lottaluvin

    @Carmel: it depends on the woman and her body and also how good the doctor performing the procedure..Another thing, where was she getting all of these abortions? What doctor was performing them? A doctor is legally bound not to perform more than three on the same woman. She must have lied because three is the limit..

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  • lottaluvin

    Also I agree with many of you who say she does not deserve to be a mother. She doesn’t after throwing so many innocent lives away. But before you judge and condemn this woman, you really should pity her that such a sic and depraved mind is capable this and think about how much she’s going to have to answer for when it all over…Scary and sad..I believe in Kharma

  • always knew

    WoW! Good for her.:) Why is she telling people about this? TMI. If it were me, I would be embarrassed beyond belief, I doubt very seriously, if I would be writing books and broadcasting it, to the whole world…. I dk, whatever floats your boat…You like it, I love it…

  • Nique

    @whozoer

    So you come on here condoning this serial killers actions?? GTFOH. And you call what she is doing helping others?? Crawl back into the hole you came from,scum. We hate you too!

  • Steph

    Anyone else not surprised that this chick is Hispanic?

  • Anon

    Who cares?? It’s her body.

  • always knew

    @ Steph- “Anyone else not surprised that this chick is Hispanic?”
    _______________________

    oooooooh! body blow! that was pretty hard.

  • nee-cee

    @NIQUE

    I CO-SIGN YOUUUU!!

  • always knew

    @Anon

    Who cares?? It’s her body.
    __________________________
    :)

  • Ms.Brilly

    It’s obvious that she has (or had) mental issues that hopefully she has worked out or is in the process of working out. I can imagine that her situation (being 16 and married to a 50 year old) affeted her choices I try not to judge people. It’s good that she seems happy now and was willing and able to have children. I hope she is able to find peace.

  • 2Cent

    She is utterly disgusting! I’m all for the right to choose, but she’s highly irresponsible and she will pay dearly for what she’s done one day. C*nt!

  • Ronnie

    Just pray for her!!! That’s the ONLY thing that will help her!!! Not any type of therapy or no amount of money! Just prayer!!!

  • TygerBunny

    Pray for her? Why? What can you ask God to do with her….I just want to forget this…how is this sickness allowed?

  • dia

    Damn she married sum old geezer, i wonder how that happened, i wouldnt want to have his child either

  • The1&only

    @ ROB RIGHT I saw that too!!! I figured South Park had already seen this story or something. Tooo funny!

  • THE SoSelphish1

    Im in no position to pass judgment… totally her choice…

    However.. at what point does having 15 abortions sound like a good idea?

  • ll

    I don’t understand why she just didn’t use birth control.

  • dr love

    why is she smiling so big as if she’s proud?

  • http://bossip MoniSings

    cancer patient*

  • love me or hate me!

    That’s just insane and gross it made my stomach cringe when I read this article,then the itch had the nerve to really write a book about it.She used it as a birth control and that’s just plain sick i hate when ppl use abortion as birthcontrol it’s not right.I hope she don’t think that this book is going to bring her to peace from what she has done.Because it’s going to take alot more than that when she has to stand before god on judgement day.

  • Angeline

    This chick is an idiot. If she is telling the truth, she could’ve saved money using birth control. She’s just evil!

  • Miss Re Re

    Half of the people on here have had an abortion or know someone that has. 15 abortions is a bit much and is out of control but some women feel that abortion is there only option. Not saying it is right, just saying don’t judge.

  • nat

    I’m not going to lie…I had 1 abortion in my life. It was the hardest decision that I have ever made. Yall can go on and say abortion is evil ans wrong but be real….many of yall have had them… back to the point it takes alot out of you mentally and emotionally… I almost died on the table…I felt that it was gthe right choise for me…but any person with a soul that has had an abortion will tell you that after the first one you will amke it your business not to put yourself in that predictament ever again…something is really wrong with her if shee never learned from the 1st event hee second one. I hope she gets the help she needs but as someone who has had one i can truly say that it was hardest thing in my life and i still get sad to this day.

  • Sam1

    Just shaking my Head!Their is sooo much to say. 1st w/ all th birth control on the market, their is no excuse. 2nd, It is sooo common for them to run and get abortions, usually thieir first is accompanied by thier mother as not to bring shame to thier families. Then they try to check black women for actually having thier babies! Unbelievable.

  • sweet_lies

    when black women do crazy shyt they’re just crazy. when “other” women do crazy shyt, they are victims of some outside infuence that is to blame for their actions. smh. so annoying. and this is just plain sick. if abortions are legal, then fine. but bytches like her push the law. there needs to be a limit to this madness.

  • California Babe

    I have no room to judge . Ive been in a few situation where I have had to terminiate my pregnancy . 4 to be exact . Looking back on it now I do not regret them, I do wish i would have prevented my self from getting pregnant but things happen in life and with the choices we have today we should be able to use them without judgement.

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