Don’t blame her, black men have proven themselves almost worthless.

ITS ALL ABOUT THAT PAPER GET IT HOW YOU CAN

Who cares……….

y it’s always a racist issue, who cares who she dates as long she’s happy!!!

I agree with mediamogul — However I havent given up “hope” yet!!!

meant to say race

That’s because the UK creme is sweeter…

I havent paid attention to the “anti-black” but, I’m happy the chick moved on and out of Beyonce shadow..face it…”back up is a trap up”–J.Hud.

What does it matter? As long as she is happy.

More black women should take her lead.

I’mma need that wig off of her head. She has a beautiful face n body though.

Does it matter …as long as she’s happy & from the looks of these pics she’s haveN a blast!!!!

Black men are loosers

I’m so happy, my black father is dead and I dont have any contact with the half brothers

My white side is the best

I dont want to even be black!

Black loosers.

The harsh truth is no white man want’s to marry a black woman, hell black men don’t even want them as a wife.

I don’t blame her one bit. When her fine chocolate self was with Destiny’s child, those same black men passed her over and was all up in bey, and all the other light skin girls face, as is common here in America. Now that she’s decided to go white, those are the same black men who probably have a problem with it now. Check it out, most dark skinned sisters are getting hella love from white men, because white men tend to like the darker complexion. DO you Kelly.

Yoooo. is she on x, or does she alwayz like 3sums, cuz layen her head on oh boy and seeing that the other guy acts like he knows she a freak somethen iz going down , not even counting that pic shes doing a squat in, for him while he has the come get it face.SMDHALOL.

Well, in Kelly’s defense, European men appreciate dark skinned black women a hell of a lot more than most African American men. I live in Europe and have dark skin. The European men think dark brown skin is beautiful and are not afraid to say so. I can understand why Kelly is on a white guy kick as of late.

Yall can fall for this if you want to. This whole thread is BS.

She looks great in her bikini…it’s that cheap weave thats killin me tho…

@Black women

I’m so happy, my black father is dead and I dont have any contact with the half brothers

My white side is the best

I dont want to even be black!

Black loosers.
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Black Loosers or Black Losers? You decide Ma.

I don’t blame Kelly….that’s what all these black men around here doing, but there’s a problem when a black woman say f u c k them and get a white man.

For the record i would marry Kelly Rowland, not the average nappy head, loud mouth,multiple baby daddy,stretch marks having, weave wearing, smelly, welfare line forming black woman.

@ Black women

Hi hannibal

it is possible , when she was a child she wanted to be white ! SO …

She can date who she wants. Geez.

I find it funny how some of you think that you are hurting black men by dating white men, because first of all, you are obviously bitter and still holding anger from your past, when you MADE a mistake in WHO YOU chose to date, and honestly some of you chose the worst our race has to offer because of materialism, and you have the nerve to get mad at an entire race of men, so as a black men I want to congratulate you for taking black men off your list, cause we dont need your weak ass, thinking that white=Prince Charming, I know why some of yall relationships dont work cause you judge a book by its cover and think that you are entitled to a “Perfect Relationship”

you ask me me I say gather all the sista up and give them to the white boys, sistas have sold out to intergration a long time ago why you think good brutha always leave. Prime example you ever notice when a sista gets in a white enviroment she changes her voice, like at the job or on the phone. Shhh you can keep those child support chasing wig wearing disfuntional kid having ghetto attuide being over weight low self esteem drama nappy heads if you want them. I’ll tell you this, down a road your head for self destruction with them. Why you think the saying goes qoute “DON’T EVER TRUST A BIG BOOTY AND A SMILE.”

Lmao I must’ve hit a nerve that’s okay hun. How am I ghetto? Because I told you that you cannot spell? smfh.

Man why do that girl hang out with all those loosers. Lmao!!!!

Lola

But the point still stands your still dating a criminal who is going to leave you soon as he is done giving you a baby or two.

Get your self a white man sister!

Save your self!

Black men are self haters

They hate us

Lets hate them back!

who cares! and fyi there are some good black men left…i think lol bt n e wayz if kelly is happy then im happy for her

Whoever Kelly chooses to associate with his her personal business.

“I find it funny how some of you think that you are hurting black men by dating white men, because first of all, you are obviously bitter and still holding anger from your past, when you MADE a mistake in WHO YOU chose to date, and honestly some of you chose the worst our race has to offer because of materialism, and you have the nerve to get mad at an entire race of men, so as a black men I want to congratulate you for taking black men off your list, cause we dont need your weak ass, thinking that white=Prince Charming, I know why some of yall relationships dont work cause you judge a book by its cover and think that you are entitled to a “Perfect Relationship””

lol – someone sounds bitter. this girl can date interracially and should not be judged just as the black man doesn’t want to be when he chases behind white women. so is “white Price Charming” anything like the white woman worship going on with the black man? does any of that apply to him? is his thinking “weak assed” then too?

I DON’T BLAME HER…..

How do you know I’m dating? Maybe I’m married? Maybe I’m single? Maybe I date white men? Maybe I don’t? and FYI that guy in the pic with me is the ACTOR Blair Underwood. Some bishes need holy water and spellchecker.

Cocoa49

That’s true sister

They dont want us anyway

OK

LOLA

Is your man white that’s all that is important I’ll leave you alone and be nice to you, if you give me the right answer.

More black women should date other women and date outside their race too.

Their is nothing wrong with these options.

To answer your ? I’m single and that is because I’m working on my Master degree and I don’t have time for a relationship. And for you being nice to me? Do you really think I care? It’s a blog so do what you have to.

Disgusting!!!!

@”Lola”

Please date white!

Dont waste your education on a black man

@ Black women
yea sweety its just a gossip cite get over yourself and your extra stupid generalizations k hun!…and ghetto ummm i think NOT!

I don’t think I care about this!!!

@”Mark”

How does it feel to see us beautiful black women leaving you for the great white man.

Looser

@BLACK WOMEN
“Anything better then a black man, I’d rather like a cilt…”
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That’s a beautiful and natural thing for you to do. Have you tried it yet?

To be candid, I’ve never gotten all emo when I’ve seen BW with others. Shid, it’s so few and far between it’s like who cares.

Plus on average, they usually got banged up toes like this chick so no real loss on any level.

Blackmen are NOT like the average BW or WM when it comes to IR’s. We don’t get worked because no matter what BW or WM want to think or say, the world knows the BM is pretty much the most desired man on the planet. Even considering the dismal state many are relegated to, broads still want BM. The first man…

Agreed more black women should date outside of their race. HOWEVER, FYI THE WHITE BOYS AND GUYS FROM OTHER RACES ARE NOT GOING TO PUBLICALLY DATE SISTERS 200+ LBS. OR A BUNCH OF BABY MOMMA’S. SO THAT LEAVES OUT ABOUT 80% OF YOU ALL.

@BLACK WOMEN
“Anything better then a black man, I’d rather like a cilt…”
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That’s a beautiful and natural thing for you to do. Have you tried it yet?
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*waits patiently*

“To be candid, I’ve never gotten all emo when I’ve seen BW with others. Shid, it’s so few and far between it’s like who cares.

Plus on average, they usually got banged up toes like this chick so no real loss on any level.

Blackmen are NOT like the average BW or WM when it comes to IR’s. We don’t get worked because no matter what BW or WM want to think or say, the world knows the BM is pretty much the most desired man on the planet. Even considering the dismal state many are relegated to, broads still want BM. The first man…”

why do all you men who claim not to care sound so increasingly bitter?

and if balck men are the most desired men on the planet then why are you rarely openly wanted and sought after by other races of women until you’re very successful?

and if you didn’t care what the white man said you wouldn’t break your necks for his acceptance which is really what all this white woman chasing is all about. brothas honetsly think once they have a white woman it makes them the white mans equal and you will never be!

Agreed more black women should date outside of their race. HOWEVER, FYI THE WHITE BOYS AND GUYS FROM OTHER RACES ARE NOT GOING TO PUBLICALLY DATE SISTERS 200+ LBS. OR A BUNCH OF BABY MOMMA’S. SO THAT LEAVES OUT ABOUT 80% OF YOU ALL.
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So wrong….yet hilarious!

“Agreed more black women should date outside of their race. HOWEVER, FYI THE WHITE BOYS AND GUYS FROM OTHER RACES ARE NOT GOING TO PUBLICALLY DATE SISTERS 200+ LBS. OR A BUNCH OF BABY MOMMA’S. SO THAT LEAVES OUT ABOUT 80% OF YOU ALL.”

most races of men won’t. its usually only the black man who will do so especially when its a 200+ pound white woman!

here we go again where the black man, who will wife up the first white sow that smiles at him, bashes sistas over their weight! lol!

My white man is better then you negros.

Sisters, tell white men, your a only child otherwise they wont wont u!

What’s the big deal??

@”Turn my swag on”

Tell them monkeys

How long u been with your man

White choclate>>>>>>>>>>>Ugly dark

Who she dates is her business but that is no reason to come @ all black men. There are good and bad men in EVERY RACE.

“Uptowngirl”

If black men are any good, how come your black daddy isnt in your life

Shia Labouf is better looking then Denzel washington!

Justin Timberlake is a better singer and dancer then trey songz oh and he’s white

LMAO!

@ black woman: gimme 5 for…

“If black men are any good, how come your black daddy isnt in your life”

This isn’t a big deal. We are all human beings inside, she is having a good time, and as a beautiful woman, it’s no wonder that men of any race would be attracted A gorgeous black woman is gorgeous no matter where she goes!

Black women

“Uptowngirl”

If black men are any good, how come your black daddy isnt in your life

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Actually he is and still MARRIED to my BLACK mother for almost 40 years. Not sure why this matters to you but o.k.

Barrack should of got a white women, to be more of a white man but, I forgive him for that 1.

I can’t see past his blackness, a good white women by his side I could pretend he was latino or something or asain.

Ugh, stop censoring my comments, damn!
MBoogers, I’m not wishing for sh!t so get the keyboard out of your @$$, you dummy.
From my experience living in Italy and Spain, the men will mess around but aren’t likely to settle down.

ILLL why is she laying all over that old man. Nucca looks like a chester lester!

“Uptown girl”

ok good, your daddy is a rare find, he’s probably too old to find him self a white women, to leave your momma for.

CUTE WHITE DUDE IN YOUR AVATAR.

@DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On
Agreed more black women should date outside of their race. HOWEVER, FYI THE WHITE BOYS AND GUYS FROM OTHER RACES ARE NOT GOING TO PUBLICALLY DATE SISTERS 200+ LBS. OR A BUNCH OF BABY MOMMA’S. SO THAT LEAVES OUT ABOUT 80% OF YOU ALL.”
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most races of men won’t. its usually only the black man who will do so especially when its a 200+ pound white woman!

here we go again where the black man, who will wife up the first white sow that smiles at him, bashes sistas over their weight! lol!
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The majority of brothers dating outside of their race are not dating fat women of other races. Sisters are delusional when it comes to weight. They want everyone to believe that black man’s preference is big mammy’s and tell young black girls that they are too skinny when their weight if perfectly fine.

“For example, Halle berry father is white man from liverpool england.”

Halle Berry’s father is not white – he is black – and he did abandon her and her mother. I wonder what he thinks now! he’s probably the reason its so hard for her to have a relationship with a black man now.

And i just read that Leona Lewis’s father is black too! they were supposedly kick out of a store for that reason recently!

Not all black men are bad. I’m quite proud of the one I’ve been blessed with. Notice I said “blessed” with. Women tend to attract good men when they are good catches themselves. I know a lot of good black men who have decided to marry good black women. It is all in what you want. It is in who you are and who you desire to be.

You can’t want a good man if you aren’t prepared for one.

Most important, you have to decide what you deem “good”.

All good men aren’t wealthy in a material sense. And unfortunately, many women are looking for instant wealth. Well, if you aren’t independently wealthy, how you do come to the table demanding it.

Cars come and go. None remain new and shiny. Men walking around with that thug look that many of my sisters are so attracted to don’t remain shiny.

Look for core characteristics that make the man. Not all black women will marry a black man. I understand that. But, I also realize that for those who truly want a black man, and prepare themselves to present something wonderful to a black man, I believe they will find that black man.

That’s Maxwell who I believe is black. But yes he is cute.

Hey – she should be with who ever treats her best. We all bleed red blood and therefore, are human. The man she’s laying around on looks a much older than her – but age is just a number. She looks happy.

@ Turn My F~ag On – just saying, you’ll see a lot more white women with darker dudes than the other way around, and I sincerely doubt it’s for lack of the darker women “exploring.”
@ Redbone – you speak the truth. This site is crazy.

“The majority of brothers dating outside of their race are not dating fat women of other races. Sisters are delusional when it comes to weight. They want everyone to believe that black man’s preference is big mammy’s and tell young black girls that they are too skinny when their weight if perfectly fine.”

so you’re really going to sit here and act like a great deal of black men who are with white women in the average everyday life are NOT with fat white women? yes they are! the black man will bash a sista over being fat and run off with a fatwhite woman in ah eart beat. everyone knows it! you all are even clowned over it! lol! a black man does not have to want a fat woman. no man does. but its just very hypocritical to bash the fat on your own race of woman only to worship it on another race of woman. thast all I’m saying. i am not mad at a brotha for liking a fat chick. they say fat chicks need love too. but don’t be a hypocrit and a racist hypocrit at that!

Stop having babies by black men.

Kill your black family members, do us all a favour!

By some of these women’s comments. lol

White Boys can have you.

I can’t blame her too much either. Something is wrong w/ our men. I really can’t see myself with a white man but who are we to judge what makes her happy.

Ayez un jour grand!

Not all black men are bad is absolutely correct. In fact, the majority of them are GREAT human beings. But WE as a people, have a lot of demons to conquer before our REAL goodness will shine in this world. We need to come back to loving each other instead of competing with each other. We have truly been led astray and now we have LOST OUR WAY.

I remember reading that Kelly used to feel insecure about her “dark” skin. (I think her skin is BEAUTIFUL!) We all know how “special” the black/colored communities think “light” skin is. I think that maybe the white men tell her/make her feel beautiful (WHICH SHE IS). I noticed that she spends a lot of time “tanning” in the sun, which is “unusual” for a woman of color who has insecurities about being “too dark”. It seems that she has become “more comfortable” with herself. I think that’s a GREAT thing. I’ve also seen photos of her posted out with brothas. But, if she’s finding happiness and support from white men, so be it. I think people should “go” wherever they can find love, appreciation, and support.

OBAMA IS HALF A WHITE MAN

That’s why he’s great!

HIS WIFE, IS NOT GOOD FOR HIS WHITE MAN IMAGE MAKES HIM LOOK BLACK

@DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On
Agreed more black women should date outside of their race. HOWEVER, FYI THE WHITE BOYS AND GUYS FROM OTHER RACES ARE NOT GOING TO PUBLICALLY DATE SISTERS 200+ LBS. OR A BUNCH OF BABY MOMMA’S. SO THAT LEAVES OUT ABOUT 80% OF YOU ALL.”
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most races of men won’t. its usually only the black man who will do so especially when its a 200+ pound white woman!

here we go again where the black man, who will wife up the first white sow that smiles at him, bashes sistas over their weight! lol!
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The majority of brothers dating outside of their race are not dating fat women of other races. Sisters are delusional when it comes to weight. They want everyone to believe that black man’s preference is big mammy’s and tell young black girls that they are too skinny when their weight if perfectly fine.
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I’m not hating on the fat women that stay in their lane. It’s just all of the fat sisters with these Monique/Queen Latifah like personalities trying to convince those outside of our race and these young girls that obesity is desirable. Those are the one’s that I’m hammering. If you’re fat and like it, I love it, however, don’t promote it.

@ So called “Black Woman”

Keep your self hatred to yourself, you goddamn half-breed!! You hate black men? Good! We do not want no cotton picking, bootlicking, buckdancing half negro who doesn’t even like herself. As a matter of fact, why do you call yourself a black woman anyway? You said you hate the black side of yourself, right? Then call yourself half-breed from now on!!!

@”fatal”

Black women dont want you, stick to latinas, heck they dont even want you

okay Black Women… keep the 5… you’re gettin outta hand now…. this site is NUTS!!! so are most people commenting… i’m out! LOL

@Xhia

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vous etes francais (francise) ???

… francaise ….

What’s wrong with trying something NEW. She’s single – do YOU.

There is nothing wrong if Kelly wants a little taste of vanilla every now and then.

Do you Kelly. Niccas get the white girls all the time but when black women get a white man then all hell breaks loose. Who freakin’ cares? It’s her life at the end of the day!!

@ Dan
Wish you would tell that to the FBI, since they harass black women who do not want to date white men.

does anybody even care what this never-was does?

WHY is this news? I am sick unto death of the swirl posts.

Get it kelly I’ll bet these guys have lots of money too. And not kardashian but real money.

What has a brother done for Kelly lately? I hope that she’s happy for a change.

Black women

OBAMA IS HALF A WHITE MAN

That’s why he’s great!

HIS WIFE, IS NOT GOOD FOR HIS WHITE MAN IMAGE MAKES HIM LOOK BLACK
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YOU’RE ON METH!…Barack don’t LOOK, ACT, OR EVEN SOUND WHITE. Personally, I think they are lying about him even having a white mother!!! I think he was adopted by them caucasion people…”white man image my ass”…GTFOH!!

@ TRS
Say that. Swirl posts bring out some of the most ignorant comments ever!

“I’m not hating on the fat women that stay in their lane. It’s just all of the fat sisters with these Monique/Queen Latifah like personalities trying to convince those outside of our race and these young girls that obesity is desirable. Those are the one’s that I’m hammering. If you’re fat and like it, I love it, however, don’t promote it.”

well i don’t see any of the women you named as promoting that being overweight is healthy. in fact Monique just lost alot of weight and Queen was the spokesperson for Jenny Craig so they apparently see the importance of a healthy lifestyle. i agree 100%!

however as i said its hypocritical to act as if fat is so repulsive on one race of woman – your own race of woman – while desiring it on other races of women, namely white women and black men often desire fat white women.

If she spent an hour with me she would never think of swirling again. I would hold her in my muscular arms and take her to paradise!!

“I’m not hating on the fat women that stay in their lane. It’s just all of the fat sisters with these Monique/Queen Latifah like personalities trying to convince those outside of our race and these young girls that obesity is desirable. Those are the one’s that I’m hammering. If you’re fat and like it, I love it, however, don’t promote it.”

and i also meant to add on the Monique/Queen thing that all they teach sistas who are big is to not let immature insulting people like you make them feel bad about who they are. they don’t teach them that being overweight is healthy!

I’m not mad at Kelly, those white men is loving that milk chocolate!!! Go head Kelly!

That Ho wench wants to be somebodys concubine.

SELL OUT!!

Oh and to clarify: who the hell cares what color the dudes are? Let Kelly find happiness wherever it may be….

@Black women
If you’ve had bad experiences with black men and fill that way, date men who are not black. However, if none of them will marry you. WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT YOU?

@Black woman

You need to stop acting like black men are losing out on women like you. In fact, if I was a black man I would be thanking my lucky stars that you’re not into black men.

You have issues.

Still waiting for some proof then…

@Kelly Rowland

If you are reading this and like what you see holla at me!!! I am a fun guy and like to cuddle after sweating out the sheets!!!

Black men don’t like “dark butts” they say it time and time again. The white man don’t mind us at all. I get hit on by more white men (esp. European) than I do “brothers”.

@”Wow”

True black women/white man outnumber the other ugly swirl combo!

I cant seem to find a valid site to prove this for some strange reason, please post the links, showing there are more white men married to black women, just to shut these ugly dark skined men up!

BG,

@ TRS
Say that. Swirl posts bring out some of the most ignorant comments ever!
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♥♥♥♥ Hey BG!!! That’s why they don’t go a day without posting something about Lamar/Khloe, Reggie/Kim, etc.

Can we get some new material please?????

Wasn’t she always envious of bey’s light skin when she was young and wished that she was lighter. Well she appears to be doing something about it, which is hookin up with a caucazoid and making sure that her kids are light skin so that they don’t experience the same problems she did…which of course is soooo sad to think like this. Hey, I’ve spoken to many dark skinned chics who practice the same philosophy…SMFH

I don’t blame her..White guys are more fun..There’s not as much B.S. to put up with as you do with these trifling brothers..

Do brothers date sisters any more?

@Black Women

First let me say, there is no ‘shut these ugly dark skined’ for me. I LOVE black men and hold them dear to my heart. I only date black men and respect them to the foolest. People who date others based on steretypes and generalization are ignorant fools in my book. There are PLENTY of wonderful worthy black men out there and there are PLENTY of unworthy disrespctful and using white men out there. So if you believe someone’s race dictates there character, then you have a lot to learn.

That being said I can only speak through personal experience. 70% of the black women in my family (none in the US, but rather Canada and Europe) are MARRIED to white men, including 2 out of 3 of my sisters. All my brothers are married to black women (faithfully…they BEFORE they married as independent black men owned their own homes, had no children out of wedlock, and one owns his own transport business).

Oddly, I went to a house party not to long ago…out of 10 couples there, 8 of which were black women and white men (though I only know for sure that 4 wm/bw couples were married with children).

“@Black women
If you’ve had bad experiences with black men and fill that way, date men who are not black. However, if none of them will marry you. WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT YOU?”

it says maybe he is not ready to get married. nothing wrong with that! not every man isso desperate for a white woman to love him that he runs out and married her after three weeks. believe it or not that comprises alot of the balck mans marriages, especially to non black women. something that he did too quick that ends very early. maybe thats why you are the soonest divorced man statistcially out there! maybe if you all knew how to treat aw oman she wouldn’t be running from you within the first few years of the marriage so often! but lol seriously at the black man bashing our marriage stats with his not very high above ours and usually ending so horribly!

I don’t think Kelly was desired by many black dudes anyway so she just took what she could get.
(woulda been better for her date another black woman tho)

and ladies, haven’t you noticed that when some money making high rolling black man leaves his black wife or break up with them, who do they end up with,seeminly to spite the black wife, a white woman. Examples rick fox, Michael Jordan, Russel Simmons, and maybe you all could add a few more names to the list.

Kelly has always carried herself as a classy woman, and she sounds very educated as opposed to Beyonce’s country ass. She’s never exclusively dated one race or the other, if she’s happy with a white guy than more power to her.

Good for her. I find it flattering that these men are attracted to, find appealing, and are obviously salivating over a REAL black woman. A dark brown black woman with real black features. Not mixed up. I’m saying- with all black features now if you find that truly beautiful than applause!!

I get double the hate from black men.

I’m dark and I’m thin. I’m also classy, intelligent, well travelled and poised.

BUT I’m NEVER lonely……

“Still waiting for some proof then…”

for proof of what? what do I need to prove? that you are no more accepted by a white girls daddy than a sista is by a white boys mama? does that really need to be proved to you? its not enough that you are never invited to their houses or always have to deal with them “outside” or around your firends or neighborhoods? do you need to know some of the things they say about you? I’m sure you know that already! just look at how easy it is for a black man to get into trouble over a white woman. white men do not like you all with white women – and thats a proven fact! c’mon stop acting simple and just accept it! what do you need proof of? is it hurting your feelings or something to be faced with the white man not accepting you sleeping with his sister/daughter/etc? does that ruin your life? does it make you feel unworthy? cause you’re acting like it does – and thats really sad!

Aint mad at her either she gotta like who likes and treats her good and she look happy as pie. Her uh, sista not so much ever!

65 percent of black women look like Precious not Kelly or Naomi..

@Nick ATL

Does Kelly’s wig count as real black features? I was wondering.

Do whatever you need to do to keep believing in that “Prince Charming” fairytale of a relationship some of you so desperately need, Just remember that Prince Charming was a frog when the princess meet him

And I m glad that all of you who seem to think that “materialism=happy and healthy relationship” only think that you can get it from a white man, THAT SAYS MORE ABOUT YOU THAN IT DOES BLACK MEN

@ Black Woman

South Beach….but I won’t tell you where. lol

(woulda been better for her date another black woman tho)
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There is nothing more natural and beautiful!

I don’t get it why u ppl are fussing about who can marry out the most!! As a blk woman… I don’t appreciate the stereotypes that blk males try to put out their about blk women & interacial dating. Alot of black men are very open about telling the world “I LOVE white women. ” Black women on the other hand isn’t. You will be surprise how many blk females date out. Usually we do it on the low. Nobody knows!!!! & that’s the way I would prefer to keep it.

Oh damn!

I just found out 90% of biracial children have black fathers.

Only 10 percent have Black mothers.

Damn sisters, open your legs reality isnt so fun!

@pm

Not 65%. Maybe about 30%. The rest are just lighter skinned versions of precious. I was saying yesterday that black females are too fat. I am tired of seeing a whole family of overweight black females.

“I get double the hate from black men.

I’m dark and I’m thin. I’m also classy, intelligent, well travelled and poised.

BUT I’m NEVER lonely……”

baby girl laugh it up! if i had a dime for everytime i was called a black man hater on this board for merely turning some of these black woman hating male posters venom right back on them i would have more money than Wall Street!

it just comes with the territory when dealing with a black man!

Kelly should date who she wants period…I date a white man. I can’t not be happier with how gentle and supportive he is of me…I wish more black women would stop limiting themselves to black men and date other cultures and races. We deserve happiness too.

@BG
“(woulda been better for her date another black woman tho)
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There is nothing more natural and beautiful!”
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Yup!! There is reason ladies that you have those curiosities and cravings. You need to act on them!!

It’s NATURAL and BEAUTIFUL!

I’m not laughing it up. My feelings were kind of hurt at first but I get so much love and attention from others that it doesn’t even phase me anymore.

What I will say in black men’s defense…Black men who are NOT American have always appreciated my beauty….inside and out. Especially Africans.

“Do you black females and your non black men live in some underground bunker somewhere? How exactly do you keep it on the low? Which black men have been open about their live for white women? More paranoia on your part child.”

because unlike the desperate for white accpetance balck man not everyone feels a need to run down the street signing they have a white lover like its a Golden Ticket or something! not everyone is so desperate for white love that they would chase after an ignorant trailer park fat white cow like you! be proud that you found a back man to want you cause we both know you would never have found it from a white man!

@ Hell Naw:

Are we done or did you just switch up to another screename/personality? which one is it? is that you Kigali?

@ Hell Naw:

you disappeared very suddenly tho! are you an MP? whats wrong you couldn’t win as the Hell Naw identity so you pulled out another identity to agree with you?

Dunka

I’m not laughing it up. My feelings were kind of hurt at first but I get so much love and attention from others that it doesn’t even phase me anymore.

What I will say in black men’s defense…Black men who are NOT American have always appreciated my beauty….inside and out. Especially Africans.

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Dunka, that is so true! My kids are by a man from South America(Guyana) and they tend to appreciate our beauty ALOT better than American men…I absolutely Agree!

@attagirl,

How do black females limit themselves to black men?

Kigali (Marriage before carriage)

@attagirl,

How do black females limit themselves to black men?

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Easy….black is beautiful! Black men are beautiful and so are black women! Both the black man and black women are the best in the SACK! We as black women are good lovers just like the black man. White men secretly want to date sista’s but are afraid of our pysical-ness!! I think they are afraid that they can’t please us in the bedroom…that’s just my theory!

@ DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On

No, it’s something called reality!!! I’m in an interracial relationship & no one in my family knows, not even my mother! I just found out that my best friend been swirling for almost a yr. & she didn’t even tell me!!!

“@attagirl,

How do black females limit themselves to black men?”

kinda like how fat white women limit themselves to black men!

Of course, blah blah blah, black women this, white men that, blah blah blah.

@SUNNY
“Dunka, that is so true! My kids are by a man from South America(Guyana) and they tend to appreciate our beauty ALOT better than American men…I absolutely Agree!”
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Who do you look like

A: Alek Wek
B: Fantasia
C: Venus Williams

@Frederick,

To add, Halle Berry’s father is black.

DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On,

I cosign every last one of your posts! Thank you!!!

“Black females be on they ‘act right’ when they with white men.”

i bet you wish black men were because then they wouldn’t treat you white women with the same disrespect as he treats all his women. i bet you thought because you’re white he would be faithful to you huh?

@ WordtotheWise:

“DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On,

I cosign every last one of your posts! Thank you!!!”

thank you – i appreciate that.

If black women date white men I guess that leaves more white women for black men.

**shrugs shoulders**

maybe she wants a man with an education, no kids, and parents with the same last name…

@ Man I Just Don’t Care

If you are referring to me and what I look like. I look alot like Kelly Rowland only with my real hair (a bob to my shoulders) and real ample-sized breast. She just may have a LITTLE more meat on her bones than I do and I’m just slightly darker.

or maybe he want a woman with no kids her own money and cant out eat him at th buffet.

btw, she looks like a bigfoot spotting walkign along the beach with that ridiculous wig on… she’s taking the wrong page out of naomi campbell’s book smh

I don’t mind black women swirling, especially when it’s with a white or latin woman. That’s art

The white woman is the trophy every race wants. I didn’t make the rules, it is what it is. Ask the brothers. (laughs)

@ Man I Just Don’t Care

If you are referring to me and what I look like. I look alot like Kelly Rowland only with my real hair (a bob to my shoulders) and real ample-sized breast. She just may have a LITTLE more meat on her bones than I do and I’m just slightly darker.
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You sound smashable!

@ Bradley

85%? ha ha You did research, huh?

Bursting bubbles? Even funnier!

Come on we know who you REALLY are.

@Bradley,

It would seem that way. When a non white man dates out, its usually a white woman.

“or maybe he want a woman with no kids her own money and cant out eat him at th buffet.”

lol – is a black man commenting on a black womans money? she will likely have more than a black man thats for sure!

BLACK B*TCHES HAVE THE NERVES TO BE CHOOSEY. WHO WANTS A NAPPY HEADED LOUD MOUTH THUG WORSHIPPING BABY MAMA? BLACK WOMEN YOU ARE JUST AS BAD AS THE BLACK MAN. STOP TRYING TO BE ACCEPTED BY THE WHITE MAN. IT’S NOT JUST THE BLACK MAN, NOBODY WANTS TO MARRY YOU!

Its always okay for a black woman to date a white man but woe unto black men(Reggie,Lamar)to date white women, they are stupid, corny and dumb. WHY?

@ hell naw,

I think you are very limited in your scope. I swirl, and I’m a darker skinned sister. Most white men I see are with darker black women. It’s just the opposite with black men. Most black men have a penchant for lighter skin.

As far as Kelly goes, I think people are reading WAY more into this than necessary. We don’t know who these men are, but if she does like WM, more power to her. I’ll always say that black women should consider thinking outside the box. You just might like it!

@Bradley

That’s the reason I don’t get on here and dog the black man out.

People like you get a big head and think you’re the end and the beginning.

Don’t get it twisted. I still love my black man.

“The white woman is the trophy every race wants. I didn’t make the rules, it is what it is. Ask the brothers. (laughs)”

not all races of men. other races of men date white women. yes they do – but not all races of men WORSHIP white women the way black men do as if its a matter of life and death!

“BLACK B*TCHES HAVE THE NERVES TO BE CHOOSEY. WHO WANTS A NAPPY HEADED LOUD MOUTH THUG WORSHIPPING BABY MAMA? BLACK WOMEN YOU ARE JUST AS BAD AS THE BLACK MAN. STOP TRYING TO BE ACCEPTED BY THE WHITE MAN. IT’S NOT JUST THE BLACK MAN, NOBODY WANTS TO MARRY YOU!”

now run to the hospital before that bursted vein in your head gives you talk and die syndrome! lol!

attagirl

Kelly should date who she wants period…I date a white man. I can’t not be happier with how gentle and supportive he is of me…I wish more black women would stop limiting themselves to black men and date other cultures and races. We deserve happiness too.
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PREACH! Some of these sisters will still be waiting for that black prince charming. Black women are such a loyal bunch, to a group of men undeserving of our loyalty. Many will pass a good man by because he’s not wrapped in the package they wanted. Preferences limit people. Be open, sisters. JMO

@Black Women

You can & SHOULD date whomever you want to date – don’t nobody that has a life will care…

A good person is a good person and if that individual has all of the main & important qualities that you’re looking for than go right ahead and do your thing – some of y’all need to stop worrying about what others think so much and live your life…

But keep this in mind, if you think dating someone of another race/nationality will solve all of your dating problems it probably won’t if you’re = an a$$hole, confrontational, have a stank attitude, ain’t bringing nothing to the table but pu$$y, negative, not fun to be around, materialistic, loud mouthed, etc…

NO MAN of ANY race/nationality that is about something is gonna put up with that nonsense!!! Why would ANYBODY in their right mind put up with that if they don’t have too???

Some of y’all REALLY need to look at yourselves and address some of y’alls issues and negative traits that are keeping GOOD men of substance & character away…

Some of y’all who are ALWAYS blaming Black men are too STUPID & ARROGANT to realize that in fact that YOU are the problem!!!

Answer me this, if you’re SOO WONDERFUL and such a great catch how come you can’t get a man AND keep a good man???

Wow! 227 comments. Kelli Keli has touched a nerve. BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAA!!!!

I encourage women to follow their hearts brown, white, black, green. Maybe that’s were black women frustrations stems from. They back black love while the black man is doing them, and not having a preference. IMHO

Silly me; I thought her being happy was all that mattered regardless of the man’s race. :-/

Snoop,

I encourage women to follow their hearts brown, white, black, green. Maybe that’s were black women frustrations stems from. They back black love while the black man is doing them, and not having a preference. IMHO
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*GASP*

Is this an impostor??? J/K

♥♥♥♥♥♥

I sympathize with you ladies, but don’t let a few rotten apples spoil the whole bunch. For ex. i know this one female, she broke up with her babby daddy and she swore off men for good. Just think if everyone had this same mentality.

@snoop

Thats a lie. Black females are only as loyal as their options. Their options are black men of various calibers.

*GASP*

Is this an impostor??? J/K

♥♥♥♥♥♥
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lol….nope, this is something i feel strongly about. I rather be in a Sextra thread though…lol

Thats a lie. Black females are only as loyal as their options. Their options are black men of various calibers.
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I’ve seen the good and the bad, and i refuse to put them all in the same pot….that is all

@WordtotheWise,

Are black females really that loyal or do they not have the option to date IR?

“Many will pass a good man by because he’s not wrapped in the package they wanted.”

Yes, no fake jewelry, no leased sport utility vehicle, no tattoos, no gold teeth, no swag. Black females just arent satisfied with regular brothers.

Snoop,

I rather be in a Sextra thread though…lol
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Then where were you on Friday??? You must’ve been lurking!!!

I DONT THINK SHE MESS WITH THE BROTHERS ANYMORE EVER SINCE THAT FOOTBALL PLAYER CALLED OFF THE ENGAGEMENT.

lol @ Black women

She is a straight up bitter black woman. She is too BITTER to be something else.

But, i give her a point.MOST Black men are OBSESSED with white women. This is a FACT.

I live in Conn, and every negro i know is with a white woman.

Black Woman is BITTER.. but she is JUSTIFIED in my book.

She’s one dizzy braud

Really though, how does someone deciding to date out of their race affect many of you? I just don’t get it.

I rather be in a Sextra thread though…lol
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Then where were you on Friday??? You must’ve been lurking!!!
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i dipped in and out friday…..remember i was the toilet in the womens restroom for halloweeen….lmao!!

test2

Snoop,

i dipped in and out friday…..remember i was the toilet in the womens restroom for halloweeen….lmao!!
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LAWD JESUS!!!! LMAO!!!!!!!!!!

AWESOME!!!!!

Thats her business who cares! **shrugs shoulders**

Umm its pretty clear why. The “brothas” are tired! H

who cares as long as she’s happy

Brothas date other races all the time. Then have the nerve to get salty when black women do it. Yet constantly we are told im gonna get me a white girl..or i prefer spanish women. Black women are the only ones who pretty much feel obligated to date black men. We almost feel like its our birth right. I think that black men will stop pulling the “I’ll get a white or “other” race” girl card if we start dating outside our race.

@AWESOME
“I don’t mind black women swirling, especially when it’s with a white or latin woman. That’s art”
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**Nodding head in approval**

@Motivated Honey,

Black females call it loyalty when they CANT go IR.

DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On aka SMDH

Hello, b*tch.

@ DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On

First of all, I’m not in a relationship with a black men. I don’t have a problem with interracial dating. My bf is white latino. You can sit here all day trying to make blk women feel bad about themselves, go right ahead bcuz u will neva break me! It’s crazy how you can call all blk women fat cows! I’m not a fat cow. I think u need to see some new things baby boy. Leave the “hood” & go to an HBCU or any college or school at that matter, that’s where all the pretty blk females are. & u will not just be able to step to any of these females & think the whole world will revolve around you. It doesn’t go like that. You got to come with the whole package. Smart, intelleigent, good looking, well dressed, great hygene, well spoken, know how to treat a lady, have a bright future ahead of him & speak proper english. But most of all have confidence like Pres. Obama.

@TRS

Hey there beautiful.

“@Motivated Honey,

Black females call it loyalty when they CANT go IR.”

and who says that? the black woman/non black man is the most rising marriage group in this country! where did you get that we don’t have any other choices? cause the white man didn’t want your fat white butt and you got stuck with a black man? it so funny to hear you say noone wants us when noone but a desperate black man wanted you either!

Black men aren’t checking for her so I see no reason to be checking for them. Do you. I’kk be following suit one day…just gotta get the courage

^ I’ll

“First of all, I’m not in a relationship with a black men. I don’t have a problem with interracial dating. My bf is white latino. You can sit here all day trying to make blk women feel bad about themselves, go right ahead bcuz u will neva break me! It’s crazy how you can call all blk women fat cows! I’m not a fat cow. I think u need to see some new things baby boy. Leave the “hood” & go to an HBCU or any college or school at that matter, that’s where all the pretty blk females are. & u will not just be able to step to any of these females & think the whole world will revolve around you. It doesn’t go like that. You got to come with the whole package. Smart, intelleigent, good looking, well dressed, great hygene, well spoken, know how to treat a lady, have a bright future ahead of him & speak proper english. But most of all have confidence like Pres. Obama.”

you’re posting to he wrong person. I have said NOTHING about noone wanting a black woman. In fact – I’m saying the opposite. Read my posts before you comment on them!

@ Black Women, it’s obvious you have a problem!!!!!
AS long as Kelly is happy, whether he’s black, red or blue color shouldn’t be issue. And it seems to be color isn’t, only for you color struck southern people it is a problem. (I’m from the South) and believe me as long as he treats me good, I don’t care what color he is.

@ DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On
Black females call it loyalty when they CANT go IR.”

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Clearly I didnt say that. If u would READ @Kigali (Marriage before carriage) said that.

I AM a black woman. Reading is fundamental!

@Black women- Go kill yo self. YOU”RE a loser!!

@WordtotheWise,

Youre a bitter dark skinned girl thats mad at black men because you didnt get the attention you thought you deserved. Sorry honey. They just werent that into you. Dont blame white or Latina women. Maybe its your face. You got a white man to heal all your wounds stop crying. Perhaps if you were just a little bit cuter you wouldnt be so resentful.

@-Dan – Really? White men don’t want to marry black women? Let’s just discuss some famous, rich ones- Steven Spielburg. Betcha ya didn’t know that one, huh? Robert DeNiro- ex-wife and current. Bill Pulman (Hellboy). Halle Barry’s dude- though not married, due to HER choice. I could on–shall I??

@ Kigali (Marriage before carriage)

Bwahahahahhaaaaa! Oh really? Is that the BEST you can do? Try again.

@ trs*

white men love asian women, check the stats…. they just talking to her because she’s kelly rowland.

MIJDC,

@TRS

Hey there beautiful.
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Hey ♥♥♥Man♥♥♥!!

Since she’s been in the Uk she’s been quoted as saying that Englishmen have the “cutest swagger”.

The harsh truth is no white man want’s to marry a black woman, hell black men don’t even want them as a wife.

OH REALLY NOW, I AM A BW AND MY HUSBAND IS WHITE SO I GUESS SOME OF THEM DO MARRY US.

So this is where everyone is hiding….

*back to lurking*

I would like to formally retract my response to Black Women. I see that person is legally insane and therefore not worthy of my comment!
Thank-you.

@Cornbread Earl and Me,

“Many sistas are limited in their options because they aren’t physically attracted to the white man. ”

And vice versa perhaps?

@Nick in ATL,

Hollywood is a very small place believe it or not. You cant judge dating patterns based on those in Hollywood. You have to take the real world into consideration. White men date out the most, then white women, then Asian women then black men, then Asian men than black female. In between are Latinos but Latino is a difficult group to categorize because Latinos are of many shades- white cubans, mestizo Mexicans, black Dominicans, etc.

“@Cornbread Earl and Me,

“Many sistas are limited in their options because they aren’t physically attracted to the white man. ”

And vice versa perhaps?”

and same versa when the white woman if FAT? lol!

@ trs

Yeah, the blowout games are the best for the winning team. I’ll catch you guys later, have to run some errands, hit the gym and figure out where the hell in the grocery store the capers are hiding.

@ Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators:
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Bet those “high powered brokers” are really busting their asses on the stock exchange today !!!!!!

@Man I just Dont Care,

You are right. Black females are unique from other women in IR relationships. They are more like to make more money and have more education than their white partner. Then they want to talk about a black man not being on their level. Then they want to talk about black men dealing with white women white men dont want. Well since they are taking care of their white men, perhaps THEY are the ones who are taking care of the white men who couldnt afford a white woman.

Zing!

Thandie Newton’s father is a Zimbabwean man

ACTUALLY THANDIE’S FATHER IS WHITE HER MOTHER IS BLACK.

@WordtotheWise,

No thats the best you could do. Tell that white man you are with that he was your second choice. Tell him about your years of being rejected by black men and how angry it mad you that you decided to find a white man to be your panacea.

Thugs in the neighborhood are never without more than one woman but your black sistas know how to call a black man a corn ball.

Here’s a BETTER QUESTION: Do Brothas date Sistas anymore????…….. Nope!! Do you Kelly!!!

DO YOUR THANG KELLY! DO YOUR THANG!

“@Man I just Dont Care,

You are right. Black females are unique from other women in IR relationships. They are more like to make more money and have more education than their white partner. Then they want to talk about a black man not being on their level. Then they want to talk about black men dealing with white women white men dont want. Well since they are taking care of their white men, perhaps THEY are the ones who are taking care of the white men who couldnt afford a white woman.

Zing!”

what does a balck man being with a fat white woman aghve to do with a white man not being able to take care of a white woman? noone said that? that came from all that fat wrapped around your penny sized brain.

or maybe it goes to show how genuine the black womans heart is for her man and how the black man takes advantage of that by using her kindness for weakness..

but what is it called when a fat triple wide trailer white sow is taking care of a black man as so many of you do? does that mean you’re taking care of what the black woman couldn’t afford?

ZING ZING!

PUNK! i know this much: white women are just as big punks are black men can be!

I really don’t have a problem/w her dating outside of her race, but dude is old as hell!!…I could see someone like David Beckam but not no flabby, pale wrinkle white man…I don’t care how much money he has..

Man, I just don’t care™

@SUNNY
“Dunka, that is so true! My kids are by a man from South America(Guyana) and they tend to appreciate our beauty ALOT better than American men…I absolutely Agree!”
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Who do you look like

A: Alek Wek
B: Fantasia
C: Venus Williams

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Neither, I look like “Feona” of Shrek…now you satisfied??? Take your homo self somewhere, cause I wasn’t talking to you. That’s all

Kigali,

Okay I’ll tell him you said so. Bwhahahahahahaha!!!! You are cracking me up today, sweetie. Quit trying to front, girl. Come clean, babygirl. It’s easy to talk behind a computer keyboard.

do your thang, Kelly! do your thang!

This thread is funny….we have Dahonest hater of black men, and that Kigali Demon hater of black women. LMAO

Do your thing Dahonest..I agree Kelly could date whoever she wants.

DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On,

Chile, I’m out. You’ve been spittin’ the truth the whole way. They can’t compete withcha. Some people like Man I Just dont’ care and Kigali will forever have their heads up their behinds. They can’t come back with any facts, so they attack.

Take care and have a wonderful day!

I’m still trying to figure out why everyone is not speaking on topic it says: “Does Kelly Even Date Brothers Anymore”? Why are all the comments saying disrespectful things about blk females.

I think that I might end up catching a headache up in this thread! THIS IS NOT WHERE IT’S AT TODAY!

I’m out!

@WordtotheWise,

I just want you to finally forgive black men for their years of rejecting you. They have that right. Dont be with your white man to get back at them. That isnt fair to him. If you care for him you should not use him as a weapon against black men.

if it was Monique dating a white man…lol Would y’all care ?

I am not ashamed to admit it…most of my recent boyfriends have been white.

Has no one mentioned that Kelly has an AWESOME body? See black females, this is what you need to look like. I am working on it myself. Minus that hideous wig on her head, she is spectacular.

if it was Monique dating a white man…lol Would y’all care ?

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I don’t know any white men who would openly date her.

Kigali, shut up. I don’t spend my time thinking about black men, and if you could READ and comprehend, you’d see that I didn’t say EVERY black man. I’m not ignorant like you, babygirl. NEXT.

i’m white and 15 and black girls are good for http://www.ghettogaggers.com

@ WordtotheWise:

“Kigali,

Okay I’ll tell him you said so. Bwhahahahahahaha!!!! You are cracking me up today, sweetie. Quit trying to front, girl. Come clean, babygirl. It’s easy to talk behind a computer keyboard.”

you know for the life of me I still can’t fathom why she pretends to be a black woman as if anyone is goingto believe all that venom for balck women coupled up with love and respect for all other races of women is really the feelings of a true black woman! while i know alot of sistas who will NOT co-sign another sisters crap its just unreal that this stupid cow wuold think we would honestly buy that she is a black woman. she must think we are all as dumb as rednecks on airplane glue! Kigali is a white woman. Have I ever told you who I think she is? Have I ever told you about the fat white chick they ran off the BET messageboards some years back? everything aboutthis girl is Kigali and she even pretended her darndest to claim she was white until she was outted by a sista who was pretending to be white? its too funny!

its like i said to her earlier – if you come out as who you are who is who is going to hate on her? i darn sure can’t hate on her cause it would be like telling her i don’t care how many sistas bash her for being with a black man or some black man worshipping her she better not say anything back – and thats just ridiculous. eventually she is going to tire of seeing her females dogged and start dogging those dogging her. its natural. but this pretending to be a black woman who hates everyhting about black women is just insane! Kigali is an insane fatwhite woman who gets no respect from blac women and she obviously lacks the courage to stand up to them in real life so she vents on this board. She is likely with a black man whos family can’t stand her. I’m sure they get no respect when they walk down the street. she is bitter so she comes here and hides behind a screen to let all those frustrations out. trust me – i’ve seen her kind before!

@Slide Like a Pair,

“Unfortunately that’s just the way it is = us Brothas can get away with being triflin’ and STILL find women regardless of race to love us while on the other hand y’all can’t…”

An angel has just gotten its wings.

Kigali (Marriage before carriage)

Has no one mentioned that Kelly has an AWESOME body? See black females, this is what you need to look like. I am working on it myself. Minus that hideous wig on her head, she is spectacular.

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You’re late!! A lot of people on this thread has repeatedly said Kelly has a banging body! And your point being??? This is about her dating white men, and not her body…

if Kelly was dating a chinese guy… would y’all care ?

@Man I just Dont Care,

You are right. Black females are unique from other women in IR relationships. They are more like to make more money and have more education than their white partner. Then they want to talk about a black man not being on their level. Then they want to talk about black men dealing with white women white men dont want. Well since they are taking care of their white men, perhaps THEY are the ones who are taking care of the white men who couldnt afford a white woman.

Zing!

Maybe it makes you feel good to say that but My husband is white and I have never made more than he has. If you don’t like BW then why don’t you do us all a favor and LEAVE US ALONE. Especially when we get with White or Non-WM.

kelly + ugly wht men= ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

sorry, the two that she happens to be with are UGLY!

and who cares if she wants to swirl, blk men do, everyday, ALL DAY…

There’s no difference..

THIS IF FOR BLACK FEMALE AND MALES HOW ABOUT INSTEAD OF SAYING ALL BLACK MEN OR WOMEN YOU NAME THE INDIVIDUALS THAT ARE NO GOOD IN YOUR AREA AND MAYBE THEY WILL SEE IT AND CHANGE . BECAUSE WHETHER YOUR BW AND WM OR BM AND WW THE KIDS WILL BE CONSIDERED BLACK BY THE WORLD AND WHEN YOU SAY YOU HATE ALL BLACK MALE/FEMALE YOUR HATING YOUR KIDS

If you don’t like BW then why don’t you do us all a favor and LEAVE US ALONE. Especially when we get with White or Non-WM.
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TRUTH.

#timeiscoffee:

hell no!
he might know some Gong Li’s
hanging around Beijing with nothing to do.

have fun bickering..no time for it, today…

have fun..

THIS IS FOR BLACK FEMALE AND MALES HOW ABOUT INSTEAD OF SAYING ALL BLACK MEN OR WOMEN YOU NAME THE INDIVIDUALS THAT ARE NO GOOD IN YOUR AREA AND MAYBE THEY WILL SEE IT AND CHANGE . BECAUSE WHETHER YOUR BW AND WM OR BM AND WW THE KIDS WILL BE CONSIDERED BLACK BY THE WORLD AND WHEN YOU SAY YOU HATE ALL BLACK MALE/FEMALE YOUR HATING YOUR KIDS

@ Slide,

Finding a woman isn’t a big deal. Any man can pull a woman. That’s about the easiest thing a man can do because there are many desperate women running around (and I’m not just talking black women). You see it everyday. Also finding a “man” isn’t a large feat either. Just as you stated, there are women willing to setting for losers regardless. Finding a good partner is what’s it about. That isn’t easy. Quantity doesn’t equal quality.

@ Kigali,

Thank you, sweetie.

@sheila,

It makes me no difference to state the FACT that a black female is more likely to be taking care of her white man than a white woman or an asian woman or a Latino woman is likely to be taking care of a man that isnt of her racial group. The major complaints of black females is that black men arent on their level financially but then go and get a white man who isnt either? Does his whiteness make up for the fact that he isnt on her level? How she values whiteness.

@Kigali

Are you under 300lbs yet?? I read about you trying to get in shape.

@Z

According to most people I am just fine. But to be honest, I dont like big butts and I would like my legs to have more muscle tone. So now I am doing cardio to get rid of my butt, and soon I will join a gym to do my weight training.

“Has no one mentioned that Kelly has an AWESOME body? See black females, this is what you need to look like. I am working on it myself. Minus that hideous wig on her head, she is spectacular.”

maybe your fat bitter behind should take a page out of her book and lose some weight! then you’re black man not cheat on you as often!

@ Kigali

Exercise can only do so much. U still gonna be ugly no matter how much weight u lose. Sorry.
U mad?

@GoordKarma4Me

LOL. That was funny.

“@sheila,

It makes me no difference to state the FACT that a black female is more likely to be taking care of her white man than a white woman or an asian woman or a Latino woman is likely to be taking care of a man that isnt of her racial group. The major complaints of black females is that black men arent on their level financially but then go and get a white man who isnt either? Does his whiteness make up for the fact that he isnt on her level? How she values whiteness.”

i beleive the black woman has shown with the black man that she does not need a man to take care of her. she goes out her house everday with her pride adn makes her own. can you fat white triple wide tricks say that? remember, a white woman is likely to be taking care of a black man too – as i’m pretty sure you do! lets not act like all white women, especially the white mans discards, run off with wealthy balck men. the majority of you are actually picking up the slack forwhat the sista won’t do for hsi sorry butt anymore, and you know it!

DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On

“@sheila,

It makes me no difference to state the FACT that a black female is more likely to be taking care of her white man than a white woman or an asian woman or a Latino woman is likely to be taking care of a man that isnt of her racial group. The major complaints of black females is that black men arent on their level financially but then go and get a white man who isnt either? Does his whiteness make up for the fact that he isnt on her level? How she values whiteness.”

i beleive the black woman has shown with the black man that she does not need a man to take care of her. she goes out her house everday with her pride adn makes her own. can you fat white triple wide tricks say that? remember, a white woman is likely to be taking care of a black man too – as i’m pretty sure you do! lets not act like all white women, especially the white mans discards, run off with wealthy balck men. the majority of you are actually picking up the slack forwhat the sista won’t do for hsi sorry butt anymore, and you know it!

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You betta Preach!! Say that sh*#t again!!

What many of you don’t understand is that the appeal black men have to women (black, white, polka dot) lies between your legs.
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@WordtotheWise

WRONG!!!!!!!!!

We got game Baby

and we got SWAGGER and we COOL!!!

You know I’m right too, I see you over there smiling… Uh huh, I know… We know what’s up

You up in Seattle so of course you don’t see too many brothas with “swagger” over in them parts… Ni@@as don’t want to be up there with all of that rain, sleet & snow…

Why are you up there in the first place?
…It must be ’cause of the money and/or employment this that or the other…

**Oh yeah, you’re partially right, I must admit – speaking for myself, it’s not a myth…

@DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On

Communities with no men= A black women going outside of her house everyday to with High crime, High unemployment, High illiteracy ie (THE GHETTO)

“@ Kigali

Exercise can only do so much. U still gonna be ugly no matter how much weight u lose. Sorry.
U mad?”

listen I could be wrong but I doubt I am. I will go to my grave saying that Kigali is a fat white woman who is married to an African man who got run up off the BET messageboards some years ago for doing the same exact thing. She was pretending to be a black woman but being the stupid fat white woman that she is she allowed herself to be infultrated by a black girl pretending to be a white girl who agreed with everythign she said. one day who I believe is Kigali befriended this “white” girl and admitted that she was white as well and sent her all these pictures of herself – a fat white girl, an African man she claimed was her husband – who looked as dirty as PigPen if I may add – and her mixed little girl who was actually kinda cute. I just think its so coincidental that she speaks the same. she is full of the same black woman hating bitterness as she calims to be black and her screename – Kigali – is the capital of Rwanda – which is in Africa where this white girls “husband” was from. Its just all too coincidental and I believe that its her! but even if I am wrong about it being her it doesn’t stop me from KNOWING that Kigali is a white girl!

@Kigali

Based on your replay…I am guessing you are still about 335lbs with a fried perm and tons of out of contral new growth.

KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK KELLY DON’T LOOK BACK. WE HAVE GIVEN BROTHERS ENOUGH CHANCES. ALL WE HAVE TO DO IS FORGET ABOUT THE GOOD SEX. THATS OUR ONLY HOLD UP ON BROTHERS. ONCE WE MOVE FOWAED PASS THAT…..LET THE BROTHERS CONTINUE TO MAKE THE WHITE GIRLS LOOK BAD I’M STEPPING OUT LOL OR DON’T

@ Slide,

It ain’t a myth either than white men ain’t working with something. Trust and believe that!

Finding a woman isn’t a big deal.
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@WordtotheWise

Yeah it is…

Based off the fact that women are “crazy” – YEAH, I said it!!! A man has to be careful of the type of woman that he brings into his life = because a woman will help you move up in life or bring your monkey a$$ down!!!

Have you seen those Court TV shows

And so it’s up to the man to find a woman that will help him get to where he’s trying to go and bring about the least amount of problems and complications & keep him happy (*and he a “good man” that is, will keep her happy/content as well) … SMH

ROTFLMAO @ Z’s comments to Kigali. GET HER!

“@WordtotheWise

WRONG!!!!!!!!!

We got game Baby

and we got SWAGGER and we COOL!!!”

if only you had jobs and the ability to be good fathers to your children! so sad how the least things matter most to the black man while he overlooks what should be important with a straight face!

What up everybody?

Black women act as if they wanted. They could easily date outside of their race. (I’m talking about out in public.) For many of these sisters I don’t think so. Now, if you don’t have men of other races looking at you as desirable (as a group). Why in the hell do you think that some black men would not find you desirable as a group? For the most part all men of different races are attracted to similar characteristics.

“I don’t think Kelly was desired by many black dudes anyway so she just took what she could get.”

Why wouldn’t they find her attractive? I’ve always thought Kelly was very pretty.

@deesac

“Prime example you ever notice when a sista gets in a white enviroment she changes her voice, like at the job or on the phone.”

It’s called “code switching,” and it’s a common practice among both black men and women. There’s an appropriate manner to comport yourself in a professional environment, versus a night out with your girls, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with making that distinction.

DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On

“@WordtotheWise

WRONG!!!!!!!!!

We got game Baby

and we got SWAGGER and we COOL!!!”

if only you had jobs and the ability to be good fathers to your children! so sad how the least things matter most to the black man while he overlooks what should be important with a straight face!

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Don’t forget to add in there…if only they would stop Killing one another and filling up the systems penitentiaries!!

Slide,

I totally agree! If more men and women were picky about who they allow in their lives, we’d all be better off. There are a lot of women for the picking. There’s always a pretty face and a nice body, but when you peel off the layers, what’s inside. I agree that both parties should compliment one another and bring the best into the other person’s lives. Also, when a man if doing what he’s supposed to do and making his woman happy, there is nothing that a woman wouldn’t do for him. Women are responders, and if her man is taking care of business, how can she not make him happy. Note: this goes for sane women, not the nuts.

SHE LIKES WHITE MEN SO WHATS THE PROBLEM,ITS HER LIFE AND IF SHE WANTS A WHITE MAN THATS HER PREROGATIVE LOL.

@ sunny,

True! Now THAT’S important.

Hey Sydney! Hey girl. To answer your questions, you got got! BINGO!!! Isn’t it predictable?

WordtotheWise

@ sunny,

True! Now THAT’S important.

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Yeah, cause at the rate black men are going, Hell it aint going to be any of them left to date no woman for that matter, BLACK OR WHITE!!

And this article achieved it’s goal, having Black women and men fight and spread hate towards each other.

@WordtotheWise

“Hey Sydney! Hey girl. To answer your questions, you got got! BINGO!!! Isn’t it predictable?”

LOL, yes, it is. I forgot to throw in the old “nappy-headed h*” insult as well. It’s another assault by members of the Bitter Black Men Brigade (BBMB).

I understand, boys, it’s my time of the month as well. *throwing Midol*

I guess black men only pull the best, huh?
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@WordtotheWise

Oh hell no!!!

Sis, I’ve seen some white boys with some BAD A$$ Sistas and all I could do is just shake my mother f*cking head…

What am I to do???

She found somebody who treats her right, she’s happy and I guess he has most if not all of the qualities that she wants in a man… Why should she not date the white boy or whomever she pleases?

The way I see it, what does that have to do with me and my life???

To be honest with you, I get a “tiny” bit mad, but hey it’s hard to find a good person in general and so if you come across a good person what are you supposed to do let them go just because they are a little melanin deficient???

To keep it real with you = Ni@@as be f*cking up anyways = with the lies, cheating, and other stupid bullsh*t that we do that we think is cool but is in actuality immature nonsense and so I understand and could see why a Sista might want to “try something new”…

I’m sure it wasn’t just Sally Hemmings keeping Thomas Jefferson on steel. He wasn’t then or now the only one attracted to sistas. Maybe it was so he could have more hands in the fields, but they had to be attracted to something other than the cornrolls and plaits.

i love black men hell more for me!

IMO after 25…intelligent, paid Black women find it hard to find a black man to marry/date.She aint gonna date or marry some DL loser/Girlfriend Beater/Boring Brotha or some uneducated Brotha with a big gut. she would like an intelligent,paid, attractive guy who can stand tall with her in the bedroom (dark) and in light(Family/Friends/Industry Parties etc).

White guys in Europe especially those who love the Brown suga will not date any black lady.When they date a Black lady, the Lady has to be the Queen B. Not some rif raf from down the street….ala Queen N Campbell. White guys in my experience treat their black girlfriends/wife much better than their white girlfriends/wife this has been my experience. Also, I would like to see a study of the difference of being mix race and having a black mother and being a mix race and having a white mother. I would pay £££ to read that research b/c I feel its a huge difference and the having a black mother prepares the mix race child especially if the child is female.

What makes me laugh all the time is…
While the Brotha’s will date the ugliest, fattest,druggie white strash down the street. I am always stunned when a Brotha brings an ugly white chick to my house. I always blank them before I catch their Ugliness lol If i step out of my race, the better be extremly good in bed, attractive, money,loves me to death or something really special. I just dont race jump cos I am bored lol

Sydney,

LOL, yes, it is. I forgot to throw in the old “nappy-headed h*” insult as well. It’s another assault by members of the Bitter Black Men Brigade (BBMB).

I understand, boys, it’s my time of the month as well. *throwing Midol*
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HEY SIS!!!!!!!!!! Girl I fell out of my chair when I read this!

LMBAO at z’s comment to @kigali, bwahahahhahahah! that was funny as hell~` damn z you really know how to get in those behinds.. get em girl~!!

sunny

WordtotheWise

@ sunny,

True! Now THAT’S important.

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Yeah, cause at the rate black men are going, Hell it aint going to be any of them left to date no woman for that matter, BLACK OR WHITE!!
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I KNOW that’s right. Sad, but so true!

@ Sydney,

LOL, yes, it is. I forgot to throw in the old “nappy-headed h*” insult as well. It’s another assault by members of the Bitter Black Men Brigade (BBMB).

I understand, boys, it’s my time of the month as well. *throwing Midol*
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Yeah, and the thing is – they call US bitter, especially the ones who claim they don’t date us. SMH at that.

aja

i love black men hell more for me!

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What do you love about them…just asking?

When you’re denigrating to the women who share your complexion, what you’re really telling self-respecting sisters is that you’re undateable. No one wants to be around bitterness, and, ironically, some of the posters who complain most about “ill-tempered” women show their own poor disposition routinely. And don’t think that sisters cannot sense a ton of emotional baggage from a mile away.

@TRS

“HEY SIS!!!!!!!!!! Girl I fell out of my chair when I read this!”

Hey, girl! I think Midol could do them some good, lol.

so sad how the least things matter most to the black man while he overlooks what should be important with a straight face!
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@DaHonestTruth ~ Turn My Swag On

I replied to something specific that she said…

Be quiet and stop being soo pressed to argue all of the time… SMH

Maybe another time but I don’t feel like it today…

@ Slide,

Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

I guess black men only pull the best, huh?
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@WordtotheWise

Oh hell no!!!

Sis, I’ve seen some white boys with some BAD A$$ Sistas and all I could do is just shake my mother f*cking head…

What am I to do???

She found somebody who treats her right, she’s happy and I guess he has most if not all of the qualities that she wants in a man… Why should she not date the white boy or whomever she pleases?

The way I see it, what does that have to do with me and my life???

To be honest with you, I get a “tiny” bit mad, but hey it’s hard to find a good person in general and so if you come across a good person what are you supposed to do let them go just because they are a little melanin deficient???

To keep it real with you = Ni@@as be f*cking up anyways = with the lies, cheating, and other stupid bullsh*t that we do that we think is cool but is in actuality immature nonsense and so I understand and could see why a Sista might want to “try something new”…
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My mantra exactly! Now I really do love brothers, but hey, when I met the right person for me and he happened not to be black, I said, I’m gonna do me and dare someeone to say something about it. It’s funny because like I’ve stated before, the brothers here love them some white women, but wanna give a sister the side eye when she’s with another. Go figure?

Finding that right person, whether you are a male or female ain’t easy so when you do, you better grab em.

@WordtotheWise

“Yeah, and the thing is – they call US bitter, especially the ones who claim they don’t date us. SMH at that.”

LOL, yeah, those are the ones who practically sweat bitterness. If you cannot respect black women, what could you possibly offer a sister of substance? Nothing but a pounding headache.

good question @sunny.. what does she love about them, i have been around em all my life , in fact i have relatives that are black men, my dads a black man so its obvious i love black men~!

I used to follow Kelly on Twitter but she seems foolish and naive. So, I stopped. One thing, I can say as a Londoner is White Guys wanna shag girls from every country its in their nature.Why do u think most west indians are mix raced or from mix race parents/grand parents. My Ex dated 6 black girls from all over the world. Then there was a Greek one, polish, Spanish, Mexican, Italian, Scot. Guess who he married…a Korean adopted chick from Denmark.So, b very careful.Yes, white dude’s can be helpful and loving but look for the signs.

“Be quiet and stop being soo pressed to argue all of the time… SMH ”

well stop being so pressed to come up in here and bash a sista or put her down all day. stop acting like I come up in here and start this. the insults will be flying long before I even get a chance to respond!

And all I see Kelly doing in the photo is frolicking on the beach. A brother on the thread already stated that many black men don’t find her attractive (which I find bizarre, but such is life — they would probably refer to her by some derogatory names that are frequently posted here), so why should the topic of with whom she chooses to spend time raise any eyebrows?

Keep it Real. I don’t believe for one second that if men of other races were chasing after sisters as a group they would be kicking it with those from the start. Sisters as a group date exclusively black men because they don’t have any other options.

TO ALL MY SISTERS ON THIS POST…………..

IF YOU GOT A SON, “A BLACK SON THAT IS”, LETS TRY TO RAISE THEM DIFFERENTLY FROM THE BLACK MEN WE SEE TODAY…WE CAN PREACH AND TALK TO THESE BLACK MEN UNTIL WE ARE BLUE IN THE FACE, BUT THEY ARE STILL NOT GOING TO GET IT! THEY ARE STILL GOING TO BE AND DO THEM! LET’S JUST FOCUS ON OUR YOUNGER BLACK SON’S AND HOPEFULLY WE CAN DO A BETTER JOB THIS TIME AT RAISING THEM TO BE RESPECTFUL CREATURES!

I have been hit on by white and latin men , not asian (thank God) but my choice is black men not because i have no other option, in fact i had a white man ask me to marry him and i was taking him as a friend. I am not attracted to whiter men , simple as that doesnt have a damn thing to do with options, quiet as its kept i see a lot of black women with white men now, but its not my cup of tea. i love my black men , strong handsome and a warrior like my dad~!!

rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

good question @sunny.. what does she love about them, i have been around em all my life , in fact i have relatives that are black men, my dads a black man so its obvious i love black men~!

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I’m waiting rose, cause the only thing she can say prolly is sexually….

Sydney,

Hey, girl! I think Midol could do them some good, lol.
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You know it!!!! I wish that I had the power to make all dudes experience what it is like to be a woman for a week…and they would require Midol for at least 3 of those days!

THANK YOU SUNNY AND I AM SHOWING MY CO-WORKER THIS AS OF NOW BECAUSE SHE HAS 3 SONS, I HAVE NO KIDS BUT WHEN I DO IF ITS A BOY YOU BETTER BELIEVE HE WILL LOVE AND RESPECT HIS BLACK RACE AND APPRECIATE BLACK BEAUTY LIKE HIS MOTHER AND NOT BE RUNNING AROUND TALKING ABOUT BLACK GIRLS WEAR WEAVE AND ARE LOUD.. WHITE GIRLS ARE LOUD AS HELL AND LETS DONT EVEN GET ON THE WEAVE~!!

@sunny
How is he going to respect black women when you have multiple baby daddies and never married any of them? Interracial dating is going to explode in the next decade. (thanks Barrack)Sisters need to step their game up. If a man from another race does not want you what makes you think a man from you own race should want you.

Let the girl use the rights that God gave her- The freedom to choose who she wants to be with!!!!

@ Tara

An interesting study I just read about (though it doesn’t address the topic you mentioned) was one dealing with patterns of divorce for IR married couples over a period of 10 years. Using white male/white female couples as the standard of comparison, this study compared divorce rates for WM/AF, WM/BF, BM/WF, WF/HWM, WF/AM couples. It also touched BM/BF married couples. I will note that the blacks and whites were “non-Hispanic”, unless otherwise designated. Anyways, to make a long story short (and to tailor it to some of the discussions on this board), they found that over a 10 year period, WM/AF had a 4% higher likelihood of divorcing than WM/WF, WM/BF had a 44% LOWER likelihood of divorcing than WM/WF, BM/WF were twice as likely to divorce than WM/WF (and also had the HIGHEST likelihood for divorce for all White/non-White marriages) , and other comparisons were made. The study also found that for IR marriages, marriages between WF/non-WM had the HIGHEST “vulnerability” for divorce. This study was conducted by the National Council on Family Relations. If you want to research it yourself, you can. It IS only ONE study, but the picture it presents is different than what (I think) is “expected”. I’ve met different types of non-Black men who like/find black women attractive. Some have even expressed a “lack of understanding” as to why AA males prefer white females to AA females. It’s just not true that non-Black men are unattracted to/don’t marry black women. Sure, it’s not the OVERWHELMING majority, but the practice isn’t NONEXISTENT either. I think people should marry those they can appreciate,respect, and support and those who will do the same for them.

@trs

“I wish that I had the power to make all dudes experience what it is like to be a woman for a week…and they would require Midol for at least 3 of those days!”

Like I’ve written on here before, I consider being a black woman a two-front war — you have to battle some who don’t look like you and you have to contend with some members of your own race who will try their best to break your spirit (plenty of examples of that in this thread, and, make no mistake, it’s outright abuse). It’s tiring.

@ Tara

I forgot to add the following:

Although BM/BF marriages had higher divorce rates than WM/WF marriages, BM/WF marriages had a higher likelihood for divorce than BM/BF marriages. (per NCFR)

There are plenty of white girls out there with multiple baby daddies by white boys who ain’t getting any child support. Bruthas still trying to get at them.

hi ladies and bye ladies

*running like i’ve seen a ghost outta this thread***

Oh please , everytime they have a kim k thread with her and Reggie , it ends up about her body , but now this thing wants to say it aint about kellys body she has a smoking body and is a beautiful black woman to me~!!

“The study also found that for IR marriages, marriages between WF/non-WM had the HIGHEST “vulnerability” for divorce.”

BIBLE! its actually like 90% according tothat racist bastards justice of the peace/judge that wouldn’t marry that IR couple in Tennessee or wherever it was.

brothas really need to stop acting like their marriages to white women are so euphoric. brothas always wanna act like something is wrong with us for not being able to tolerate him but he constantly overlooks how quickly the white woman will give up on all that crap too!

Reading some of these comments brings a question into my mind that I’ve had for a while, do women of other races experience this sort of targeted denigration (including racial slurs) from men in their race? Are some of you even cognizant of how this all looks from the outside looking in? It’s insane.

I’ll bet if “Dahonest” and “Kigali” were locked in a cell together, in 48 hours they would EAT THE HAIR off of each others coochies (thin line between love and hate).

And I’ll bet if she got a brother to love her, Dahonest would be the most afrocentric sista in america — a Farakhan with a coochie (HOLLA!!!).

Most likely I will marry a white man when I settle down.

@ DaHonest Truth

I was HAPPY to learn about this study that shows how successful marriages to BF can be! I think BF make GREAT wives/mothers (as long as they don’t have all of those “ghetto socialization” problems)!

@ Sydney

ALL people find someone “outside” of their own people group “attractive”. However, (even for the non-BM I know who are “attracted”/married to BF), MOST men don’t denigrate the women of their own community just because they choose to love/marry someone else. It’s the DENIGRATION of BF I have a problem with, not BM selection of non-black partners.

Sydney,

Reading some of these comments brings a question into my mind that I’ve had for a while, do women of other races experience this sort of targeted denigration (including racial slurs) from men in their race? Are some of you even cognizant of how this all looks from the outside looking in? It’s insane.
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*vigorously nodding head in approval*

All it takes is a swirl thread to bring it out…but is this really anything new Sydney?

why not? niglets usually ain’t sh** anyway….

i have been in my relationship with my man for 1and a 1/2 years and if i dont marry him or him me, i will definetely marry a black man~!! or not at all!!

@ Z (On the Right Path)

“Most likely I will marry a white man when I settle down.”

If that’s where you find your love and support, GO BE HAPPY.

Shawn Jones

@sunny
How is he going to respect black women when you have multiple baby daddies and never married any of them? Interracial dating is going to explode in the next decade. (thanks Barrack)Sisters need to step their game up. If a man from another race does not want you what makes you think a man from you own race should want you.

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See that’s were you’re wrong buddy, I have 1 man that fathered my children. How do you know this so well!! Since you probably are a black man with six kids and six baby mama’s. Mine will not be as desrespectful, because I will make sure of it. What do you mean the mixed kids will take over? They still will be considered black children….and
furthermore that will never happen, because there will always be pure black men and pure black women around to mate, thus producing black children!! There will always be black men who will still sleep with a sista no matter what!!! Don’t get it twisted!

Kelly must like the white train… choo choo!!!

I guess I get no love I’ve posted three times now and not one has surfaced…..it like that huh?

“And I’ll bet if she got a brother to love her, Dahonest would be the most afrocentric sista in america — a Farakhan with a coochie (HOLLA!!!).”

Im very afrocentric now. I’m just not afrocentric enough for you because I won’t sit back and act like Celie as Mister bashes me and tells me I am nothing! Remember, even Celie stood up to Mister in the end. Sistas do not have to sit back and take that abuse. they say crap rolls downhill and those who are being crapped on will always look to take their frustrations out on those they consider below them! the black man can’t get anyone else to feel less than him so he tells the black woman she isn’t anything! its not our fault that the white man doesn’t like you and that crap should not roll downhill to us!!

Anyway I’m out lata…..

@Janae, first thing when me and my man started up was the fact that he asked me do you have a dog== NO! Do you kiss and let dogs lick you all in the face NO!! so then i knew we were on the same page~! I asked him thats what white women do, have you dated one he said nobut all the ones he see kiss and love on dogs and he said that turns his stomach .. so we are still at it almost 2 years now~!! And so far i havent seen anything near him likind white women and thats the way i like it~!

im attracted to latina women too, who cares it is all about preference.

Look how I spent my entire day off. So much for a long weekend!

One thing that has been failed to come out, not all black men date white women~ some folks up here act like all black men like white women, some find them very repulsive~!!

@ekogkneegro

they’re doing the same thing to me…they know we’re telling the truth on that ass…

why should she?

@ rose by any other name

I have a black friend married to a black man. She has a dog, and she DOES kiss him in the mouth. It’s TOO MUCH for me, but her husband doesn’t mind. Whatever works for them…

Now I know they were blocking me on purpose…Anyway, I’ll just say this…Kelly looks happy being out of Beyonces’ shadow…Hope she finds true love no matter the race of the man…Good luck to her…

@ Caramel Cat

“If a black man doesn’t want a sistah, why try to get him to want her? Why? Seriously, I DO NOT want a man that doesn’t want me.”

I agree.

“And, for the record, I don’t think that interracial dating always reflects hurt feelings or resentment towards our own men.”

I agree.

“Some people just like what they like and it doesn’t have to go any deeper than that”

I agree.

@ rose by any other name

“not all black men date white women”

That’s true, but the IR relationships are “sensationalized”.

@DaHonestTruth

I had a lengthy conversation with my mother recently about the roots of the divisions between black men and women. I know that some people have an aversion to bringing up the past, but there are historical factors that have led to certain pathologies we continue to exhibit.

@Janae

“It’s the DENIGRATION of BF I have a problem with, not BM selection of non-black partners.”

I have a serious problem with the denigration as well — It’s not only severely damaging, it’s also humiliating when we’re at each other’s throats.

@TRS

“All it takes is a swirl thread to bring it out…but is this really anything new Sydney?”

No, it’s not new, but it has to stop. It is abuse. Like Caramel wrote, I don’t want any man who doesn’t want me, but the public belittling of black women is intolerable. Please take your hatred elsewhere.

@sunny & Janae

I mean seriously. I just feel like there will always be someone out there for everyone and to go back and forth about race and this, that, and the other is a waste of time. I have a cousin that married a white woman and not only is she not a nice person but she’s one of the most unattractive white women I’ve seen. He’s ALWAYS liked white girls and even when the black women in our family would try to play matchmaker with him and a cute black girl he would go out with her, have a nice time and nothing would ever become of it. He likes WHITE WOMEN. All that other stuff doesn’t matter and no matter how people may dislike it, it is what it is. As his family member and knowing how he is, I have determined that I would much rather NOT date a man like him if I were a black woman on the market. He will not be into me and will not look to have anything with me ever…so why should I waste energy getting mad????? ya know??? *shrugs shoulders*

if only they would stop Killing one another and filling up the systems penitentiaries!!
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@sunny

Sis, the problem is we as a people have NO LOVE for ourselves and as a result NO LOVE for our OWN people and/or those who share our skin tone…

If you love your OWN there’s just certain things for the most part that you won’t do to them, i.e., rob, steal and even worse kill your OWN!!! WTF???

and SOME of us just love to embrace dysfunctional bullsh*t = being a baby momma and NOT a wife, going to jail like that’s something to be proud of… SMH

I can see and understand why SOME of us turn our backs on our own, but that sh*t ain’t right = when you know better you do better and you teach the youth and those that you can influence the same… Ain’t that what others do = Jews, Italians, Asians…

Hey Syd!

@ Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators
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If black people had the capacity for HONESTY, perhpas we could HONESTLY state that we have deep pools of self-hatred that runs through the veins of BOTH SEXES — and maybe the damn best thing that we could do for the COMMON GOOD is stay the hell away from each other.

There was PLENTY of bile on this thread from BOTH sexes — any other reading is GROTESQUELY DISHONEST.

@sunny

One more thing, we’re the only race that sh*ts on our own and is proud of it… SMH

LOL @ BLACK WOMEN DISSING WE BLACK MEN THINKING THEY PERFECT OR BETTER THAN US.LMAO

damon

LOL @ BLACK WOMEN DISSING WE BLACK MEN THINKING THEY PERFECT OR BETTER THAN US.LMAO

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no dissing here, just fact and evidence..

looking at this comments even makes me happier to be african. you african american HATES each other like hell. other races… like africans, jamaicans and whiteS never hate or disrespect their women. halloween night, this dude called one of my friends a b *tch and she was african american and she just ignored him. i was like why didn’t you curse him out, and she said that’s how african american men are.
i swear if that dude said that to my african queens and i was there, i would have KNOCKED HIS AZZ OUT.

@ rose by any other name

“but most blacks i know dont play that dog kissin in the mouth crap!!”

Most blacks I KNOW aren’t down with that either.

Take care.

@sunny
and you think we don’t have fact and evidence about black women too.GTFOH

Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

@sunny

One more thing, we’re the only race that sh*ts on our own and is proud of it…
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Even tho i may spit facts and it appears that Im talking about black men, I speak facts on what i see, or things that happen around me. But, that still don’t mean I hate BM…how could I?? I have a black son!! That would be pretty dum..right? Just tired of all the disrepect that BM show! That’s All…

@REAL TALK

looking at this comments even makes me happier to be african. you african american HATES each other like hell. other races…
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can’t say that i disagree with you — sadly, i can’t say that you are wrong.

we have a LOT of ‘walking psychotics’ (and that is no exaggeration) among us.

@ Real Talk

“other races… like africans, jamaicans and whiteS never hate or disrespect their women….i swear if that dude said that to my african queens and i was there, i would have KNOCKED HIS AZZ OUT.”

I’m GLAD you don’t have the same problem(s). Different historical experiences have major impacts on the mindset development of people groups. I want my children to BE PROUD of who they are, NO MATTER their heritage. Having two self-confident, self-respecting parents (like yourself) is a MAJOR factor in that development. Men SHOULD stand up and defend their women.

@Janae,

Believe it or not, a dogs mouth isnt any dirtier or cleaner than the mouth of a human. We are both pretty filthy mammals.

@Redbone_Darkbutt_Black_White

“My lady is african-american as am I — but I have no illusions about the state of relations between, mosty NATIVE-BORN BM/BW — it is sad, sad, sad.”

Well, divisions among us were intentionally created — between black men and women, between people of different skin tones, etc. Awareness of this offers insights of where these turbulent emotions stem from.

I’m not ready — nor am I going to — say, “let’s toss each other to the side.” Let’s have an honest and tactful dialogue of how we came to this point, which isn’t entirely of our own design. We were led to be divided.

damon

@sunny
and you think we don’t have fact and evidence about black women too.GTFOH

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Facts about what,,,that black men want a easy way out, and that yall cry to much..Stop cheating and being stupid and you won’t have to hear the BW mouth….so shut it up, stop crying and work ya problems out with the BW, because after all your mother is black, grandmother, sister, daughter, cousin, aunt and so forth.

@ Kigali

“Believe it or not, a dogs mouth isnt any dirtier or cleaner than the mouth of a human. We are both pretty filthy mammals.”

I can believe it. But, PSYCHOLOGICALLY, I can’t deal with that “type” of interaction b/t the two different species. Plus, dogs lick themselves after going to the bathroom, eat poo, etc., and I just can’t bring that close to my mouth.

Kelly was in europe, ther isnt much of a ‘blak’ choice, europeans r diferent even the women adore blak men
americans need to get a grip
blak white green pink orange—- WHO CARES

@sunny
you have a black son right?? let me guess the daddy ran away, that is why you bitter toward black men.

sad

yeah they say, dark skin black women especially american are like gold there.

makes me happier to be african. you african american HATES each other like hell
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@REAL TALK

Kofi, what is your Blue Black a$$ talkin’ ’bout???

Ni@@a, I saw Hotel Rwanda…

And don’t get me started on how y’alls dictators be doing the WHOLE ENTIRE country dirty just to enrich themselves… SMH Whole country starving but y’all got some money in your pockets…

Sit your monkey a$$ down… Ungawah!!!

@ Sydney™
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I have a far more pessimistic view of this: my family’s reunions looks like the UN (blacks mostly, but afro-latino, afro-european) and we don’t TIPTOE around the issues, because that is just papering over differences …. we confronted them, and found out the obvious — we are much more alike than different.

People have the right to love whomever they wish …
but why attribute the BASEST instincts to OTHERS for doing what you so proudly proclaim the right to do YOURSELF ??? That is HYPOCRISY.

And there is PLENTY of that in both genders.

damon

@sunny
you have a black son right?? let me guess the daddy ran away, that is why you bitter toward black men.

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Yes, I have a black son…and stupid if you read my post earlier you would know that I said that he is still in my life….I just hate when other uneducated black men act like baffoons and talk about black women, like they(YOU) didn’t come from a black womens coochie!! Why don’t you start respecting your mother, then extend to your sista, then your aunt, then your cousins etc. Then after you have succeeded in that area, then only will you learn how to respect a BW, that is not related to you! Ready, set, GO…

so go take some fried chicken and drink some kool-aid and pipe down.

LMAO

who cares?? the black men don’t want dark skinned woman anyways!!! and the white man loooooooooves chocolate! go Kelly, Naomi, Kerry, Halle…

@Janae,

Dogs’ mouths may have more self cleansers than ours.

@ Big Titi white girl

Two questions for yah luv ?
1) How big are your titi`S ?
2) Are you really white ? Cuz you come off like you been in the hood longer than Paul Wall the rapper !

@ Kigali

“Dogs’ mouths may have more self cleansers than ours.”

This may be true. I don’t know much about that. I’m just a “humans for humans”, “pets for pets” type. I don’t have a problem if other people want to kiss their animals, etc., as long as they don’t kiss me.

@Syndey,

No the divisions were created by someone who thought it was a good idea to replace black men with government subsidies.

@Janae

Dont worry. I understand. I was just speaking on a chemical level. Get a cat, they are cleaner and they dont bother people.

free contry! date who ever the Hell you want Kel…

@ Kigali

“Dont worry. I understand. I was just speaking on a chemical level. Get a cat, they are cleaner and they dont bother people.”

I’m an “animal lover” and would LOVE to have a cat, but my mom HATES them. She grew up in a family that only liked dogs. So, I just enjoy my friends’.

@JANAE
good job, you are one of the good few ones. keep it up. if you were in seatle i would have hooked you up with a good man.

@ REAL TALK

“good job, you are one of the good few ones. keep it up. if you were in seatle i would have hooked you up with a good man.”
Thanks! If I ever move to Seattle and am looking for a man, maybe I’ll take you up on your offer. LOL!

Kelly is pretty…Hope she’s happy..Why limit your options? Everybody should “swirl” if it makes them happy!

Well first we don’t know who these men are to kells….second even if she is dating a white dude why does it have to be becasue their better than black men or because black men are worthless?….There’s nothing wrong with having options, the heart is colorblind!……

I also find it weird that the only time kells gets attention is when it’s negative….

By the way kells looks great!!!! Her bod is on point…rep for the Chocolate sista’s!!!!

Hi Sydney!

Everyone say it…Swirling is good for the soul!

Claudia Lynx….WOW!

@deesac

“That just shows how small nappy heads think.”

I have to ask, why do you insist on referring to black women as “nappy heads?” What is your hair texture, if you don’t mind me asking?

@ Sydney

Hey, whatever floats your boat!

Adriana Lima!!!!!!!!!!!

@John

Oh, he floats my boat alright. Black love. *sigh*

@ Sydney

Love floats my both…Be it black, yellow, or brown…

On to more pressing issues,

Longhorns are number 2!

Texas vs Iowa…NC game…..UF needs to get thrashed first!

You’ve changed, John, lol. You seem more open-minded — I used to think you wouldn’t give sisters a chance at all (your prerogative). Good look. *winks*

Is UNC playing? I get my seasons confused all the time.

The comments on this blog are sad. One day we all haved to understand that love has no color. As far as the Kelly rumors, she can do whomever she wants. Black, white, mexican, italian, all asian persuasion, samoan , holla at the tongan. As a black woman I love all types of men, just can’t put a color on it. If I did I would be lonely.

600 POST OVER A A SWIRL. Y’ALL NEED TO STOP ALL THE HATRED. THE LAST WHITE GUY KELLY WAS WITH WAS MARRIED. I JUST HOPE THIS ONE IS SINGLE.

yeah Imma stop looking at color for a “mate”.. If I pigeon-hold myself, I’ll be alone 4ever.. f#$ what you heard brothers know the same!

@ Sydney

I’ll date anyone! I just never felt obligated to date a certain type of girl. I’ve always had universal standards when it comes to dating.

UNC has a football team…News to me…j/k
The Heels aren’t doing that bad this year. They won their last game.

Resentment runs deep, and if you think that skin color is the reason your relationships are failing than you may want to reexamine your position

AND how can some of you try to justify stereotypes by
using stereotypes SMDH, if all you need is white skin to feel happy then you lost anyway

Yasmin Warsame….WOW

You go Kelly! Get that paper, honey, and have you some half white babies. If they have your voice and their father’s white jeans, maybe they’ll get more recognition and more play than you did.

And the “bruhs” better not be hating on you because they were never checking for you or Michelle, it was always the LSLH Beyonce. So, do you, boo.

Ooops, genes… Pardon me.

@ Sydney

Are there any stray cats in predominantly black neighborhoods?

@John

“Are there any stray cats in predominantly black neighborhoods?”

What?? What do you mean? *puzzled*

Kerry Washington
Kelly Rowland
Essence Atkins
Eva Pigford (DAMN YOU LANCE!)

I just asked my brother why you don’t see stray cats in black neighborhoods. Everywhere you look up, there’s a stray dog….Where are the cats? Do black people like cats? I know the women in my family can’t stand them because they’re “sneaky.”

My post didn’t go through. Go figure.

@John

“Do black people like cats?”

LOL, I think blacks like all types of animals, like anyone else. I’m more of a dog person, personally. Cats are too mercurial for me.

Gotta go, John. Have a good one.

Can women who believe black men are inferior and completely worthless and who hold black males in utter disdain possibly raise a confident, intelligent and emotionally healthy young black man. Many of the comments on this thread are disgraceful and deeply disturbing.

@ Sydney

Later. U2

it is for that i prefer beyonce , kelly is a stupig gril !

But she want more a european carrer so she does like black here (in europe) , in france when a black becomes famous he is whit white female or white man !

Ummm. I don’t think those guys are straight…

When it comes to black men keep the faith.

who cares? good for her. its not a big deal.

U GO KELLY! DO WHAT MAKES U HAPPY FUQ A HATER, KEEP DOIN’ U…

As long as she is HAPPY, I don’t care who she’s dating.

And for real, the white guy has a body on him, so I definitely can’t blame her for wanting to feel up on him. Seems like he’s reciprocating….

u guys pump this interracial crap up SOOO much i swear. does anybody post pictures of “the brothas” posted with white chicks with a caption reading “does he even date the sistas anymore?”…no you don’t, so why do it to kelly. eff a brotha, they’re all swirling these days anyway with their egos like WAY overblown. Power to the people–

White guys will treat you like the queen you are.

wow so now im worthless. why in the hell im i not worth anything just because you have ben hurt by some other brothers. do you know how hard it is for me being damn near a single dad. i havent snaped on all black women because of what mistakes the mother of my children may have had. i love my beautiful black women but there are plenty out there that would give yall a bad name, hell u know some trifflen hos urself. i dont care what she does anymore, cus i love my boys and nobody can stop me from being a good dad, and seting forth an example to them of how you should treat a woman whom u love, but do you know how hard it is to do that, i dont mine cus i love them so, but yeah its tough out here but i wont give up on my sisters cus i love me some chocolate so much that im willing to accept it how it comes. i dont want any praises but i also dont want to be calld worthless

What’s w all the generalizatons? Ignant! Y’all don’t know her or all the black & white ppl n the world! Really?

*lurking*

Ain’t nothing wrong with that cause right now I want to get my freak on with Chase Utley. Go Phils!! He is cuuute!

in london, we go out with watever we want… the white people here love african women and not african american women. they think african american women are ghetto ugly hos.

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@Disgusting
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people are just PEOPLE —
there are no Untermenschen (inferior men)
nor any Ubermenschen (super men) —–

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not worth bothering with.

jeeez — what a pathetic race of people.

Aint nothing wrong with our black man blame yourself if you choose the wrong one.

Good for her. BW need to start dating outside thier race.

Good for Kelley…..more sistahs should follow in her beach steps

They can have her.

there is nothing wrong w/ interracial love

This topic two yawnzzzzz in a rowwwwww

Aint nothing wrong with our black men choosing the right black man is like choosing the right weave style choose carefully unless u like clowns lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

This is such a sad post… We will get NOWHERE with all you NOWHERE!! Love is Love Black on Black or Black and White we are our greatest ENEMY as everyone progress we are still defining ourselves by the texture of our hair and the color of our skin BE PROUD or Get out of the WAY!

Love God, Love Yourself, and Love Others. Period.

Kelly does not have to be loyal to black men. How many black men do you know who would pick her over a lighter skin woman who don’t even look better than her.

So, ummm…..has ayoen ever thought about loving themselves FIRST instead of looking for someone to complete them? Y’know….understanding who you are, why you’re here, and THEN looking for someone, regardless of the color of their skin, to challenge them to be a better version of themselves? Just a thought…

woohoo go get them white men kelly

wooow….. I logged on my computer just to see how many comments were posted on this topic! Hell & you ppl r still off topic!

The sad truth is NO BLACK MAN WANTED KELLY! So she went after a white guy.Good for her.More AA should do it

This Got me sick to my stomach, I have never seen so much racsism in my life, argh i’m throwing up in my mouth. people get over it.

she’s always been corny as hell! lol She tries too hard and she is NOT cute. The bad weave, the implants, ugly outfits, busted face! Stop it Kelly, it aint workin

Kelly is doing her. Have fun girl, it’s just the haters wishing they were in your shoes. Kelly is looking F A B U L O U S ! !

dunno know about dating a white man..their ‘situation’ must be all white and purplish with disgusting vains.. and lets not forget..a lil on the small side..smh..

but hey, to each its own..

kelly is beautiful though…white men DO be loving us ..

thats a fact in Europe..

ALL WHITE MEN USE BLACK WOMEN FOR IS SEX… THE TWO PEOPLE IN THE WORLD NOBODY IS INTERESTED IN RIGHT NOW IS THE CHINESE MAN AND THE BLACK WOMAN. LMAO!!!!!

There is either a lot of black females in the comment area without a male or white females posing. There are a lot of hateful words thrown around. The pictures are distasteful in any light. Looks like she’s confused on who she really wants to be with. That would make her look just as easy if it was two black males sitting there. To the haters that have negative responses about the race of black men, don’t get mad because of a past relationship that’s gone bad. Look at yourself as well. From my past dating experiences, black women are not that easy to get along with as well. He/she is without sin, cast the first stone. Nothing nice to say, keep your trap close. (Momma Said). Peace

Black men have proven to be a waste of time. Besides, black men keep choosing everyone else except us. Anyway, i know she is trying to be like Naomi Campbell. She is far from being like Naomi. Naomi she is not!

Wow!There so much hate in these comments. It’s sad how many of these negative comments are from blacks towards each other. People make choices in life bassed on what they want. The girl has simply decided to hang with some white guys, why did this have to turn into such a ugly trend. People come on is it that serious.

@livelife – Well said!!!

kelly is doing what most sisters have done and would do if they were not concerned about what others thought about them.

1) Kelly R… be the grown woman that you are, LOVE whomever you find happiness with we’re all of the HUman race. Only skintone makes us a slight bit different. Whether I or anyone else agrees.. continue to do you.

2)I was about to read the hatred that I read on this blog..but decided that it would be a waste of time and energy. Those type of anonymous keyboard LOSERS (spelled correctly) will always feed off of hatred and drama. Anything to keep bile moving and manifesting.

Have a blessed day to all, yes even to the haters.

good for her white guys are hot

Them ugly snowballs lol plz

I dunno, do brother’s date sister’s anymore? I’m not hating, Kelly is at the beach, her hair tousled, looking simply fabulous in her skin…I’m sitting at my desk at work, typing about Kelly at the beach. Who would you rather be right now? hmmmm If a man were to come and swoop me to a tropical climate, he could be as black as charcoal or as white as casper the ghost, as long as I’m going to have fun – I don’t give a crap, I am 50 years old and still looking for a brother that may never come, time to open up the options people. I am soooo over it.

I LOVE IT… “If you don’t know the value of what you have then maybe its because you are not worthy to receive it.” GO KELLY..LOOKING GOOD

this site is full of jealous BM that hate to see sisters swirl…

BM are garbage…good for you Kels

i would jum over a thousand of these monkeys to get to one White boy

Jessica White, Sanaa, Gabrielle, halle, Joy,,Leona, Eve, Stacy dash, Thandie

smart BW…

why are most BM incarcerated or always killing each other

why are so many of you drug dealers

why do yo all have so many illigetimate children

BM need to be alone on an island!

I see yall r cussin’ e/o out n being all negative bou this Article….
I think this guy is just her personal trainer!!!

@ Black male

you have the nerve to say Black Females are hard to get along with when we all know you Black males hate each other so much you shoot each other down in the street
another thing Black Men are rude loud ghetto and destroy everything they come in contact with.
another thing is that the majority of you that do get with white girls end u screwing them over too, so basically most of you arent even worth the air that you breathe, theres nothing one of you can do for me excet lead me to another race.

hey ik maybe when the us doesnt have to take care of your starving kids and grown men leave young girls alone and quit giving them AIDS eole will take you seriously.
Africans should be the last ones on this earth to try and criticize anybody, the kindness of otgher countries has ket you alive so you should stfu and go away.

slash all black mans throat they have aids and stupid.All they do is kill each other, I would pay a white cop to kill those losers.

I’m 15 and 100 % black, I’ll never date a black guy, im too smart, i wish hip-hop was banned and i love coldplay, linkinpark and Nickelback, and i speak perfect english so the only thing a black guy that is not in my family can do for me is die, die slowly. Or perhaps continue dating out, I love interracial couples.

@1994 baby

I couldnt have said it better myself..good at least some of you younger women know to steer clear of these lousy mfs!

Black Women:

@”Turn my swag on”

Tell them monkeys

How long u been with your man

White choclate>>>>>>>>>>>Ugly dark

GO TO THE GAS CHAMBER YOU SELF HATER FOOL. I’M GLAD BLACKS DROVE WHITES OUT OF SOUTH AFRICA AND ZIMBABWE.

1994 BABY:

I’m 15 and 100 % black, I’ll never date a black guy, im too smart, i wish hip-hop was banned and i love coldplay, linkinpark and Nickelback, and i speak perfect english so the only thing a black guy that is not in my family can do for me is die, die slowly. Or perhaps continue dating out, I love interracial couples.

UNCLE TOM!!

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