**Bossip Exclusive** Antonia Carter Talks Love, Wayne, and Baby Mama Drama

Posted on November 9th, 2009 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: Bossip Exclusives, Lil Wayne, News, We Broke It Here First!

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Bossip had the pleasure of chopping it up with new reality star, Antonia Carter, and she filled us in on everything from her new relationship, to getting ready for Wayne’s departure and what to expect on the new season of Tiny and Toya.

Bossip: Are you still with James Hardy? People said you made tweets that made them think y’all weren’t together?

James is a Great person:)

Bossip: You say that you don’t like drama and get along with all of Wayne’s baby mommas. Has it always been that way, and what was your first reaction to them?

Dwayne has not always had “Babymamas” this is something new for me …but we are making a conscious effort to change the stereotype of babymamas. We get a long Great! We don’t have any reason not to. It’s about the kids at this point and I love all of them:)

Bossip: Anymore kids for you soon?

I would love to have another kid but not in the near future.

You care a lot about your image. Now that you’re in the spotlight more, how hard is it to balance being a mother and a reality star?

I won’t pretend it’s easy. Being in the Spotlight now, I have found that my motherly skills are getting stronger. I can see more clearly now the things I need to protect her from and prepare her for. Reginae and I have a great relationship. We spend lots of time together.

Do you wear a weave? If so, ladies want to know what kind?

Yes I do. My stylist uses these links to put my weave in so a lot of my real hair is out. That’s why people always ask me is that your hair? Because it always look so natural…  No it’s good ol Indian mixed with mine.

Bossip: On the new season of Tiny and Toya, what can we expect? When does it air? Are y’all taping now?

Expect to see continued growth and forward movement…I think it airs in February…we start taping this week.

Bossip: What happened to the book?

I’m still working on it

Bossip: We saw your struggle with your mom on the show, how is she?

My mom is Great! She’s doing much better..Anita loves everybody and everybody loves Anita:)

Bossip: What’s your favorite drink and why?

My preferred drink of choice is white wine..but I’m not a big drinker

Bossip:For some reason, we don’t believe you Toya, you need more people.

Bossip: There is a video out with you dancing at a Halloween party looking a little scandalous… how did that happen?

I’m not a scandalous person and I don’t pretend to be square. I go out and have fun like most people my age…I’m at a Growth stage in my life and right now I’m learning that people would try to twist the truth until it looks like something else…it was Halloween and I was just having fun!

Bossip: With Wayne facing a substantial amount of jail time for gun charges, how are you preparing yourself and your daughter for that situation?

The situation saddens me but we are preparing our daughter for it and we are there for each other as always.

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  • KENNEDY

    She looks awesome in that pic!

  • Nikkles

    I like her

  • Ms.EJ

    I thought her name was LaToya, but I guess Antonia it is, but she is a very pretty girl.

  • B_is_Beautiful

    I love Toya she is soo pretty and she totally goes against the sterotype of what tabloids were saying about her before the reality show. Wayne lost when he left her because although one or two of his other baby mamas are prettier then her I doubt they have as much class, strength and love for him as she does. GO TOYA!!!!!!!!

  • Nette

    Yep I love optimistic positivity, just b/c you and another young lady have little ones with the same man does not mean you can’t get along. Thats a great way to be !

  • Tracey

    Dont anyone just find the two whingy? I mean for petesake, just stop bleating on abot what you never had and losing wayne!

    1, She is now rich, 2, Wanye is ugly, 3, she has moved on! Now entertain us!

  • kerry

    Please. Who is she fooling? She LOVES all of Wayne’s kids? Come on now.

  • HoneySuckleGirl (KEEP ME NEAR THE CROSS…LOL)

    She seem as if she wants to grow and it looks like she is. I wish her the best

  • http://perryone779@yahoo,com rose by any other name #9304026339482056536 ™

    She is a nice looking lady and has a nice shape on her!! kudos to her!!!

  • Tracey

    That is a blessed booty!

  • Tuesday’s Child

    I love how having celebrity spawn instantly makes you a celebrity

  • Tracey

    Well Tuesday’s child, you make a valid point, and hence, all she can offer us is a season of whinging about her past!

    Goodness knows why all the black reality stars feel th need to push their drug addict mother on tv WHY go there and embarass yourself?

  • Ms.EJ

    Oops sorry wrong post that comment is for Katt Williams post sorry everyone.

  • kimberly

    i believe she does love his kids. I was just reading her twitter and she had lil wayne III spending the night with her and her daughter over the weekend. i commend her on letting the kids be apart of each others lives.

  • http://www.everythingsmelo.com melo

    Am I the only one that doesn’t think she’s pretty…I think she’s very grounded but pretty…not so much, I just don’t see it.

  • Tracey

    If she loves her daughter, then she should love his other children. Only selfish people hate on children or ex partners kids. Any good loving hearty parent should want their own flesh and blood, being phycially connected with their half siblings.

    Besides, if she did hate lil wanye jnr, that would only damage her tv career LOL

  • http:chokolatemilk@blogspot.com Choco

    I like Tiny and Toya…

  • Kami All Day (Haters give me Promo…..)

    Ya know….I am starting to like Toya. How she presents herself is always ladylike and she never has that “ghetto” persona about herself.

    Obviuosly, she speaks well and can hold a conversation in a mature and coherent manner.

    Not many females can do this. It should be simple, but for some, its like neurosurgery.

    Anywho…..Wayne should have stayed with her. She seems like a chick who would be down for a dude and stick by him. I’m convinced that Wayne was the f*ck-up in that relationship.

    Now, changing the stereotypes of babymamas?? LOL

    In your world, sweetie, does that make sense.

  • Tuesday’s Child

    @ Really now..
    …i like how you think! Stick around.

  • http://www.twitter.com/ihavesuperpower twitter.com/ihavesuperpower

    i like Toya! Think she represents herself and babymommas well.

  • Marquis de Sade

    Any b!tch who’d let Lil’ Wayne go up in her raw dawg, is a wh0re, no ands’ ifs’ or buts’ about it…But hey, she’s a “SISTA”, so whaddaya’ expect?

  • Kigali (Marriage before carriage)

    @Really Now,

    Let em know.

  • cramps

    GO2 SCHOOL TOYA, GET A JOB, REGINAE THE WALKING PAYCHECK IS GETTING OLDER AND WAYNE AINT GONE PAY 4 YALL NO MORE

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    @I’M JUST ME
    “Was that really necessary.”
    ___________________________________________________________

    Yes… yes it was.

  • Cecellia

    Why is it black women are expected to have baby mama drama?? If he is taking care of his child, what issues should she have with the baby mamas? Grow up! And as far as her having a “spawn” from some one in the spot light. She’s a celebrity because she’s grinding and making her own. She had been with Wayne for years and very well could have just profited from “his” fortune. She’s teaching her daughter that even though someone may have, you need to have your own. A message our young black girls chasing the all mighty dollar need to hear.

  • Dr. Kevokian

    Wayne don’t know what he had and when he realize it its gone be tooo late.

    Why does she give short answers about NOTHIN when it comes to James but when asked about Wayne she gives a novel of a response. It’s good to know that she still has ‘love’ for her ex-husband but I don’t think she’s giving this James dude the fair end as far as claiming him, ya know. It’s always about Wayne and what they had and how much she loves him and always will. They both speak highly of each other but when Wayne is asked about her he always gives quick answer and then moves on to speaking about other things…….To each his own but I think she should give James the same respect and acknowlegdement as Wayne, regardless of how ‘new’ they are compared to the erroneous marriage!

  • DayShifter

    Think about it for a sec, why is she even relevant?!?!? We have got to stop the “Ohhhh shiny object!!!!” We’re like a bunch of toddlers, that they can put whatever they want in front of us and we’ll except it. She got 15min of fame because she is someone’s BABY MOMMA!! D@mn, people…. stop the madness!!!

  • http://jessicablack1980@hotmail.com N.O. FO SHO

    You go girl, I love this interview. Just enough information given.

    Toya if you read this, holla at me. I have been wanting to meet you (US) yeah I said (US)LOL being from the N.O and here in the ATL with no FAM. If you want to I live right down the street from the Tinys nail shop. Tony at the barber shop on the corner of the nail shop have my name and number

  • PAC LUV!

    LUV U TOYA KEEP dOIN UR THING BABYGIRL!!

  • FASHIONISTA

    her and james relationship is for publicity and their show i read about it on another site that is why she couldnt give a “real” awnser…

    @Really Now,
    WOW- so sad that the bar is so low that giving an interview about getting along w/baby mamas is ALL IT TAKES for others to claim “well spoken” “positive role model”..in my circle we don’t have baby mammas we have degrees, dating, engagements, marriage and then children and if a divorce happens then you are single but NOT A BABY MOMMA.

    ____

    CO-SIGN, you betta tell them! lol

  • http://Bossip BLAH! BLAH! BLAH! BOSSIP!

    I LIKE TOYA. I THINK SHE IS A REAL CLASS ACT! SHE IS ALWAYS LADYLIKE AND SHE NEVER BAD MOUTHS LIL WAYNE ARE HIS BABYMAMAS. YOU GO GIRL! STAY POSITIVE AND DO IT UP REAL BIG! THAT’S WHATS UP!

    OH BY THE WAY FOR THOSE WHO DOUBT SHE CAN LOVE HIS OTHER KIDS THEN LISTEN UP: My man has three kids under the age of 8, his ex-wife left him and the kids…and although, I do not agree with her behavior; I will get along with her for the kids. I love my man enough to do this for him.

  • keke

    i loove toya…she’s a class act!!!

  • Tuesday’s Child

    LOL @ ppl reaching and calling this chick a class act. Now we all know how high you’ve set your standards.

  • Jer-z Girl

    @Marquis de Sade
    @Man
    _______________________________________________

    Typical male $hit. Always trying to reduce a female to the size of her azz or the quality of her loins. Disgusting. Well . . . ya’ mommz!

    Toya is a very young woman. Let her grow before you condemn her. She had that child at 14. I don’t know how old Wayne is, but he’s still responsible just like she is. She doesn’t seem to want him back. She maintains a positive relationship with her childs father because it’s not about her. It’s about her daughter. And good for her trying to create a bond between the kids.

  • Denyse

    If she had her child at 14, when did she and Wayne get married?

    I have nothing against her, but what’s the appeal other than she is the head baby mama?

  • Rose

    “Whitney Wilson”…Your post is strange, so is he dating your sister and still talking to Toya? On twitter on November 5th, TOYA posted that she is on the phone with her sexiface (which is James right) and that was only 4 days ago?

  • Rose

    I mean i am not saying that you are lying or anything…but out of respect for you sister James need to come out and state that he and Toya are no longer together! He was just with Toya at her bday October 26th everyone saw the pics. So he got back with your sister just now in November?

  • SHEENA

    I THINK TOYA IS PRETTY AND SHE SEEMS TO HAVE MORE CLASS THAN TINY AND SHE SPEAKS MORE PROFESSIONAL THAN TINY. TINY IS SOOOOOO GHETTO I MEAN STRAIGHT HOOD RAT.

  • Stacey

    This James character obviously has a few “girlfriends”. Sounds like the average nice looking black man to me. Let’s not forget that he’s a football player. Girls come a dime a dozen–I’m sure. Probably makes each side piece feel like “the one”…:smh:. Ladies, lets not be naive about this situation.

  • http://c1.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/128/l_7c66a80887396a9c116e8a7c85fb874c.jpg Akhenaton

    Wayne the dumbest monster ever to escape the comic books for leaving her …. an i kno tha monkey FYe!!!!!

  • Tameka

    yep

  • SHEENA

    @EVERYONE TRYING TO FIND OUT- WHO CARES WHO THIS SEXIFACE IS JAMES IS UGLY. I MEAN OK HE MIGHT BE FUN TO HANG OUT WITH JUDGING FROM THE WHOLE BOWLING ALLEY EPISODE BUT SHE CAN DO WAYYYYYY BETTER PRO BALLER OR NOT. GO TOYA DO YOU GIRL

  • SHEENA

    @TAMEKA- YEP WHAT? YOU DIDNT SAY ANYTHING. LMAO

  • SHEENA

    @ TUESDAY’S CHILD- SPOKEN LIKE A TRUE HATER!!!!!!!

  • SHEENA

    @COTTON CANDY – LAMAR ODOM IS UGLY TOYA IS TOO CUTE FOR HIM. OH AND MY GIRL CRUSH IS DEELISHIS AND SANAA LATHAN

  • Tuesday’s Child

    A hater? Find a new word, you ppl have sent that word to the grave! It’s so overused its become cliche and has lost its meaning! So because I don’t agree that Toya is a “class act” I’m a ‘hater’ LOL. Darling…my circle of friends and aquaintances have surpassed anything Toya has done. We have degrees, successful careeers, husbands, entrepreneurship, homes – vacation and otherwise. I have ABSOLUTELY no reason to hate on Toya, it’s laughable, really that you would say that when you don’t even know who you’re anonymously typing to.

  • BIGGIE

    I could not follow wayne raw dog on this chick you would have to wait 5yrs + for the aids test to come back negative

  • meluvme2

    She seem to be a very nice person and i am sure people who really know her can confirm this as for the haters i am shocked how can you hate on someone you have never met i wonder is this becoz pple dont have anything to do or is this from pure hate or envy. Why cant blck pple support one another. I hope Toya will always be Toya dont do people Toya be yourself there will always be haters in life dont let them pull you down. If what Whitney has said is true that James broke up with you life goes on there is a reason everything happens for a reason, you will find your Mr Right by the sounds of it he wasnt the right guy anyway it seems as if he was double crossing you with Whitneys sister u a pretty and u will find true love.keep doing your thing you are lucky to be surrounded by lovely people Tiny is cool.

  • Ms.Ajje

    Hey people she is an ex-wife not a babymomma

  • satrs

    thats true MAKE IT OFFICIAL

  • Miss Sass

    LMFAO! Couldn’t have said it better myself Tuesday’s Child.

    Like, ya’ll are following around a chick who’s famous for having little Wayne’s kid. Seriously, you follow this chick around on twitter and everything? What is she famous for? xD Damn that’s all you gotta do to become a celebrity today? Quick someone bone a rapper! have a baby by him, be a million.

  • http://boosip kesha Queen

    Ilove her so much; my role model

  • PETER

    @miss saa you have got a serious problem get a life i am not surprised if you a lonely i think u have never found someone who luvs with yo negative attitute u a mess get a life i feel for whoever who is gonna date u or marry u

  • PETER

    i@miss sass you have got a serious problem get a life i am not surprised if you a lonely i think u have never found someone who luvs with yo negative attitute u a a mess get a life i feel for whoever who is gonna date u or marry u

  • Nenia

    I really don’t get it, U right @ Ms. Sass bone a rapper,have a baby by a million-aire. Hey maybe we should hook up with 50Cents. Absolutely crazy!

  • WordtotheWise

    have the right look…

  • Jassy

    Damn, can’t ya’ll just let the woman live. She isn’t hurting anyone. Everybody want to say something about how she was with Lil Wayne or what kind of person and mother she is. She’s just trying to live her life like everybody else.

    People ALWAYS want to compare their lives to someone else, while insinuating that their own life is some how better. That’s low. Remember that your life can hit a turning point at any time, and all the things that you THINK make you better than the next person can be gone or altered in a flash. That’s why I feel like having a good heart (which I think Toya has) is always the best thing to have.

    To judge and downgrade her based on the choices she’s made in her life is stupid and silly.

  • THOMAS

    this is the real deal

  • Sharm85

    I don’t think that any of Lil Wayne’s baby mom’s are prettier than Toya. Lauren London is beautiful, so is Nivea, and so is Toya. Why can’t they all be beautiful? Why do we always have to put our beautiful black men and women in ranking order. Black people all look very differet, and we are all equally beautiful. Anywho, Toya seems to have a good head on her shoulders.

  • 2Sweet

    Sharm–the point was not to rank anybody. The fact of the matter is that Wayne had something good in Toya, but thought the grass was greener everywhere else and now look @ him. If he wanted so many kids, he should have done what other rich men do…knock up their wife repeatedly. Now he has scattered seeds everywhere. Wayne has no class. He could learn a thing or two from Toya!

  • kizzmyphatazz

    Well she must have found some type of ounce of beauty in lil wayne the seed planter because I cant see how he got with her dam lady keep upgrading lol….

  • TOYA IS FINE

    @ MELO,
    Am I the only one that doesn’t think she’s pretty…I think she’s very grounded but pretty…not so much, I just don’t see it.
    ______________________________________________

    Everybody is entitled 2 their own opinion but looking at the pic u have posted as your avatar, if that really is a pic of u, no wonder u are hating on Toya….lol.

  • Rose

    Denette please send the pictures to my email please… i want to see them.

  • denette jasper

    Rose, I will send you the pictures, but you did not provide me with an email. I definitely, want to send them to this Thomas, guy, hes talking about the real deal. When he talked about the publicity stunt, for Bet, I knew he was a fluke.

  • http://www.bossip.com CavGirl1

    I dont believe any of it.

  • http://www.bossip.com CavGirl1

    Do you know how many Alexis Wilson’s there are??? Personally, I think its all garbage. I do believe James and Toya are together, and just decided to take a break from tweeting each other until this “gun” stuff blows over. Not all athletes are dogs, we still have a few good men left. Since when do you need the publics permission to confirm your relationship?? If there dating, then there dating, if there not, well…..there not. “Silence is the best answer to ignorance” Toya dont say much about JH in her interviews because of all these sharks and vultures out here. That doesnt mean she doesnt respect or cares for him. They both probably have an understanding. I believe this chick just threw some randon comments out there about JH dating some other chick, just to see how many responses she gets. This is a blog site, its just entertanment people. Stop letting people past become there present and there future, we ALL make/made mistakes. Toya, good luck on whatever you and JH decide to do. For that chick who spoke so horribly about a child, thats was sooo unbecoming. Just because Toya conceived at an early age, does not mean Reginae will also. Toya didn’t have that maternal grounding/stability that Reginae has, and as long as she continues to anchor her, she will be fine. At the end of the day…ITS STILL A CHILD PEOPLE…SMH..Tiny and Toya continue doing what your doing, and stay focused. I am absolutley estatic about season 2. I am glad you were able to get Rudy back in school,”Education is the only possession in which man can’t be robbed”,great job! Also, kudos for helping Mama Nita. Tiny, Keisha,and Shamra AWESOME job with the OMG Girlz. You both have great people around you…Stay focus!!

    JustAFan

  • Rose

    Denette my email is franchie01@yahoo.com/was he with Alexis and Toya at the same time bc i remember him clearly stating on twitter: “That’s y u my lady @antoniacarter. I’ve must of been doing something right all these yrs 4 u to b sent to me and as u can c I needed u also”…oh well good luck to both of them.

  • Rose

    Denette my email is franchie01@yahoo.com/was he with Alexis and Toya at the same time bc i remember him clearly stating on twitter: “That’s y u my lady @antoniacarter. I’ve must of been doing something right all these yrs 4 u to b sent to me and as u can c I needed u also”…oh well good luck to both of them.

  • http://www.bossip.com CavGirl1

    Tiny and Toya are two beautiful black inspirational women, and thats what we need in todays society.

  • conrad

    well said-
    stay down

  • Nonya

    She’s NOT a chicken and I love that about Toya.

  • http://bossip.com CavGirl1

    @Rosa What makes you think they are really not together?

  • Miss Sass

    Actually Peter, my life is BEAUTIFUL!!! Who you SHOULD feel bad for is yourself sweetie. How can you idolize someone when you don’t even know them?!? Especially a nobody like Toya? You make no sense.

    I live in a more realistic world, you should visit sometime :-)

  • PETER

    Miss S actually i dont ifolise her i have got feeling for her I am just waiting for Rose to send the confirmation pictures about Alexis Wilson and James Hardy this will be a huge relieve to me coz I am feeling for this TOYA girl, I still think you have a huge problem sitting on your computer judging someone who u doing even know as well too bad

  • http://www.bossip.com Kaliliah

    If they are dating or not, if he’s screwing half of America so what? Why run your blood pressure up about these people who know nothing about your existence.

  • albert

    kudos to LIZA well said hope pple will get a life they a busy fighting about her here and she is busy making money right now

  • Miss Sass

    I don’t feel like I’m judging her. She’s a nobody, that’s all I said.

    Am I not right though? She’s famous for being Lil Wayne’s (poor girl) BM. I mean, come on. How come we’re supposed to care about this random chick so much? It just doesn’t make sense.

    Btw, I read EVERY story on here! It doesn’t matter if I’m feeling the person or not. I don’t fight or argue with anyone. I respect everyone’s opinion.

  • Denyse

    If you can’t Gossip about celebrities or non-celebrities in this case, at a Gossip entertainment website, then where the He11 are you supposed to Gossip about them?

  • http://bossip.com CavGirl1

    First….I was told about this interview via a friend of mine. You are absolutely correct about what makes our comments legitimate. I knew once Toya mentioned that she had a man/friend, all these groupies would have came out the woodworks. I just hope she remains quiet cause I guarantee more females names are going to pop up in the equation. As far as debating, look at my response. I made myself clear. Why are you speaking for her anyways, let me hear it out the horses mouth. All this is BS anyways, this is my last response. Toya and JH, do your thang.

  • Boneca

    Love her…she’s a big idol of mine because of her strength…go ahead toya you’re good girl ;)

  • boris

    hey dennet why a speaking for Alexis we are not fascinated with Toya becoz of wayne i personally I am fascinated with her becoz of her show and beauty as for blogging everything anyone is free to do whatever they want eg Whitney is dishing about the affair isnt it a private life for Alexis and James not to mention blogging about James publicist(Patrice Horton)encouraging James to dump Toya which shows that he didnt want to break up with her it was all becoz of the publicist and he then jumped to her next groupie your friend who was a bystander in case the relationship with Toya didnt work out after according to Whitney James has been seeing these two at the same time for the last 6months this all came from Whitney we dont bloody care about Alexis and james and why a u checking on Toyas interview a u a spy for Alexis.Why should we follow James on twitter as you have said he is just a guy that happens to play in the NFL who bloody cares about just a guy. If he was Reggie Bush, Terrell Owens after all he is a women beater, he had a bad past thats why he pannicked about the gun being shown on twitter coz in 2008 he pulled a gun to his fathers face. we dont want to hear anything to do with james HArdy period

  • Rose

    Denetter you still didn’t send the pics….franchie01@yahoo.com. Thanx

  • Shauntrell

    NO BOASTING HERE,WHO CARES WHAT YOU’LL HAVE OR DON’T HAVE.That is what’s wrong with people today.
    People who have something don’t go around talking about it.

  • Shauntrell

    Some of these comments are too much,it makes me feel bad as a black woman to read some of this stuff,Blacks still hatin on Blacks all the time.

  • love

    its kind funny how people are trying to put Toya down knowing that she is a good woman she didn’t have her mother but at least she did have someone to raise her Toya is a good mother and everyone see that…any who her and James did make a cute couple and if they did break up lets hear they side of the story and not other people story and what they heard…Please stop hateN on MS.Antonia Toya Carter….

  • http://bossip.com OMG

    What a waste of time. The girl can barely speak English. She is one step away from a monkey!

  • Rose

    Denette i never got the pictures boo….i give up:(

  • TRUTH BE TOLD

    no hair on the sides….ghetto ugly nose mess

  • toni

    neither one of his baby movas are prettier than her. Yea they all pretty i mean it is wayne we talkin bout anybody he mess wit is gon be physically attractive cuz he got money but what about class and actually bein real? i like toya…

  • Natasha

    I love u Toya i think u doig it!God bless u @ your family lets just pray 4 tha hater@thank god 4 want we have.

  • http://70394 lady brat

    toya do yo thang girl i aint mad at ya…..

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