Monday, November 9th, 2009

**Bossip Exclusive** Antonia Carter Talks Love, Wayne, and Baby Mama Drama

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Bossip had the pleasure of chopping it up with new reality star, Antonia Carter, and she filled us in on everything from her new relationship, to getting ready for Wayne’s departure and what to expect on the new season of Tiny and Toya.

Bossip: Are you still with James Hardy? People said you made tweets that made them think y’all weren’t together?

James is a Great person:)

Bossip: You say that you don’t like drama and get along with all of Wayne’s baby mommas. Has it always been that way, and what was your first reaction to them?

Dwayne has not always had “Babymamas” this is something new for me …but we are making a conscious effort to change the stereotype of babymamas. We get a long Great! We don’t have any reason not to. It’s about the kids at this point and I love all of them:)

Bossip: Anymore kids for you soon?

I would love to have another kid but not in the near future.

You care a lot about your image. Now that you’re in the spotlight more, how hard is it to balance being a mother and a reality star?

I won’t pretend it’s easy. Being in the Spotlight now, I have found that my motherly skills are getting stronger. I can see more clearly now the things I need to protect her from and prepare her for. Reginae and I have a great relationship. We spend lots of time together.

Do you wear a weave? If so, ladies want to know what kind?

Yes I do. My stylist uses these links to put my weave in so a lot of my real hair is out. That’s why people always ask me is that your hair? Because it always look so natural…  No it’s good ol Indian mixed with mine.

Bossip: On the new season of Tiny and Toya, what can we expect? When does it air? Are y’all taping now?

Expect to see continued growth and forward movement…I think it airs in February…we start taping this week.

Bossip: What happened to the book?

I’m still working on it

Bossip: We saw your struggle with your mom on the show, how is she?

My mom is Great! She’s doing much better..Anita loves everybody and everybody loves Anita:)

Bossip: What’s your favorite drink and why?

My preferred drink of choice is white wine..but I’m not a big drinker

Bossip:For some reason, we don’t believe you Toya, you need more people.

Bossip: There is a video out with you dancing at a Halloween party looking a little scandalous… how did that happen?

I’m not a scandalous person and I don’t pretend to be square. I go out and have fun like most people my age…I’m at a Growth stage in my life and right now I’m learning that people would try to twist the truth until it looks like something else…it was Halloween and I was just having fun!

Bossip: With Wayne facing a substantial amount of jail time for gun charges, how are you preparing yourself and your daughter for that situation?

The situation saddens me but we are preparing our daughter for it and we are there for each other as always.

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  1. Man, I just don't care™

    This ***** is fine.

  2. ha

    2nd

  3. A

    first

  4. 5star

    I got a nice Benz.
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  5. KENNEDY

    She looks awesome in that pic!

  6. Nikkles

    I like her

  7. Ms.EJ

    I thought her name was LaToya, but I guess Antonia it is, but she is a very pretty girl.

  8. Sticky-n-Sweet

    ….bring in the hatin’ ***** birds! But for real, you go Toya!

  9. B_is_Beautiful

    I love Toya she is soo pretty and she totally goes against the sterotype of what tabloids were saying about her before the reality show. Wayne lost when he left her because although one or two of his other baby mamas are prettier then her I doubt they have as much cl*****, strength and love for him as she does. GO TOYA!!!!!!!!

  10. Nette

    Yep I love optimistic positivity, just b/c you and another young lady have little ones with the same man does not mean you can’t get along. Thats a great way to be !

  11. Tracey

    Dont anyone just find the two whingy? I mean for petesake, just stop bleating on abot what you never had and losing wayne!

    1, She is now rich, 2, Wanye is ugly, 3, she has moved on! Now entertain us!

  12. kerry

    Please. Who is she fooling? She LOVES all of Wayne’s kids? Come on now.

  13. HoneySuckleGirl (KEEP ME NEAR THE CROSS...LOL)

    She seem as if she wants to grow and it looks like she is. I wish her the best


  14. She is a nice looking lady and has a nice shape on her!! kudos to her!!!

  15. Tracey

    That is a blessed booty!

  16. THE SoSelphish1

    @ Kerry…

    She MAY very well love his kids, SOME people do have a kind heart and loving heart… kids are the innocent ones, it’s not their faults they get suckered into the BS that the two consenting adults started….

    However….

    I like how Toya keeps a positive attitude…
    When you have growth and begin to be mature, you dont sweat the things that you have no control over.
    Besides, life is hard enough as it is… and all that drama is for the birds!

  17. Tuesday's Child

    I love how having celebrity s***** instantly makes you a celebrity

  18. Tracey

    Well Tuesday’s child, you make a valid point, and hence, all she can offer us is a season of whinging about her past!

    Goodness knows why all the black reality stars feel th need to push their drug addict mother on tv WHY go there and embar***** yourself?

  19. Ms.EJ

    He once went on a cocaine induced drug binge one time and was arrested in his shower robe for wondering the streets high and crazy acting, therefore I am not surprised by this. I hope he gets some help, because that is just another embarr*****ing moment for him.

  20. Angee

    Bossip: Are you still with James Hardy? People said you made tweets that made them think y’all weren’t together?

    James is a Great person:)

    _____________________________________________________

    She totally byp*****ed this question.

  21. Ms.EJ

    Oops sorry wrong post that comment is for Katt Williams post sorry everyone.

  22. kimberly

    i believe she does love his kids. I was just reading her twitter and she had lil wayne III spending the night with her and her daughter over the weekend. i commend her on letting the kids be apart of each others lives.


  23. Am I the only one that doesn’t think she’s pretty…I think she’s very grounded but pretty…not so much, I just don’t see it.

  24. Tracey

    If she loves her daughter, then she should love his other children. Only selfish people hate on children or ex partners kids. Any good loving hearty parent should want their own flesh and blood, being phycially connected with their half siblings.

    Besides, if she did hate lil wanye jnr, that would only damage her tv career LOL

  25. smartee

    Toya is decent looking. She looks pretty in that pic, but all professional photos are airbrushed or retouched. Toya seems very nice and positive, but she reminds me off those average black females who know they’ve done wrong and paid consequences for it (having a baby at 14) and just accepts it and just settles for less (Lil Wayne) She may try to do what she thinks is best for her daughter, try to make sure she turns out positive, but by looking at her daughter’s actions in the show and just observing how our teens are, her daughter is going to grow up getting drunk, having sex, maybe even getting pregnant, and doing some type of drugs including (weed) as a minor. It’s sad, but it’s true. I can’t believe she accepts Wayne’s behavior. If she was really concerned about her child’s influence, she would’ve gotten full custody and wouldn’t have her daughter dancing to her fathers “Every Girl In The World” song at the BET Awards, Toya is one of those young single moms’ who’s actions and past will have an effect on her daughter.


  26. I like Tiny and Toya…

  27. Kami All Day (Haters give me Promo.....)

    Ya know….I am starting to like Toya. How she presents herself is always ladylike and she never has that “ghetto” persona about herself.

    Obviuosly, she speaks well and can hold a conversation in a mature and coherent manner.

    Not many females can do this. It should be simple, but for some, its like neurosurgery.

    Anywho…..Wayne should have stayed with her. She seems like a chick who would be down for a dude and stick by him. I’m convinced that Wayne was the f*ck-up in that relationship.

    Now, changing the stereotypes of babymamas?? LOL

    In your world, sweetie, does that make sense.

  28. Really now, u can not be that damn dumb?

    Wish she would feature going back to college on her show and getting some type of degree> then show her developing a postive career for herself and her daughter that does not feature a male ball player who can barely speak english or a rapper who barely spends time with his daughter and is facing jail due to stupidity.

  29. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983. BOSSIP DOESN'T LIKE WHEN US BLOGGERS KEEP IT REAL

    @ MAn

    Was that really necessary.

    I actually like her. She seems down to earth, you know.

    Bossip stop trying that shady shyt with people.

  30. Kool Breeze

    What…Bossip actually didn’t push the issue with Toya after asking whats up between her and that brutha james in which she cut them short after that..smh..lol. Bossip knows they want con’t having a good speaking relationship with toya but, I really thought bossip had more ballz than that.

  31. Really now, u can not be that damn dumb?

    @ Kami All Day:
    If you think she speaks well and represents better than most females, yada yada then that SPEAKS VOLUMES about YOU and your chosen circle of friends and *****ociates.

    WOW- so sad that the bar is so low that giving an interview about getting along w/baby mamas is ALL IT TAKES for others to claim “well spoken” “positive role model”..in my circle we don’t have baby mammas we have degrees, dating, engagements, marriage and then children and if a divorce happens then you are single but NOT A BABY MOMMA.

    SAD , SO SAD and Bossip porves that Bill Cosby is SO RIGHT…the posters on this site that condone this mess have to be the result of a TEEN Parent/Single Mother/Grandmother is 51, Mother is 36 and you are 20 type of situation!!!

  32. Tuesday's Child

    @ Really now..
    …i like how you think! Stick around.

  33. Really now, u can not be that damn dumb?

    @ Tuesday’s Child- I don’t even know if I can stick around with these Bossip witers creating an affair out of Bey covering her mouth and posters giving praise to the ignorance that is the Tiny & Toya show.


  34. i like Toya! Think she represents herself and babymommas well.

  35. Marquis de Sade

    Any ***** who’d let Lil’ Wayne go up in her raw dawg, is a wh0re, no ands’ ifs’ or buts’ about it…But hey, she’s a “SISTA”, so whaddaya’ expect?

  36. Kigali (Marriage before carriage)

    @Really Now,

    Let em know.

  37. cramps

    GO2 SCHOOL TOYA, GET A JOB, REGINAE THE WALKING PAYCHECK IS GETTING OLDER AND WAYNE AINT GONE PAY 4 YALL NO MORE

  38. Man, I just don't care™

    @I’M JUST ME
    “Was that really necessary.”
    ___________________________________________________________

    Yes… yes it was.

  39. Cecellia

    Why is it black women are expected to have baby mama drama?? If he is taking care of his child, what issues should she have with the baby mamas? Grow up! And as far as her having a “s*****” from some one in the spot light. She’s a celebrity because she’s grinding and making her own. She had been with Wayne for years and very well could have just profited from “his” fortune. She’s teaching her daughter that even though someone may have, you need to have your own. A message our young black girls chasing the all mighty dollar need to hear.

  40. Dr. Kevokian

    Wayne don’t know what he had and when he realize it its gone be tooo late.

    Why does she give short answers about NOTHIN when it comes to James but when asked about Wayne she gives a novel of a response. It’s good to know that she still has ‘love’ for her ex-husband but I don’t think she’s giving this James dude the fair end as far as claiming him, ya know. It’s always about Wayne and what they had and how much she loves him and always will. They both speak highly of each other but when Wayne is asked about her he always gives quick answer and then moves on to speaking about other things…….To each his own but I think she should give James the same respect and acknowlegdement as Wayne, regardless of how ‘new’ they are compared to the erroneous marriage!

  41. DayShifter

    Think about it for a sec, why is she even relevant?!?!? We have got to stop the “Ohhhh shiny object!!!!” We’re like a bunch of toddlers, that they can put whatever they want in front of us and we’ll except it. She got 15min of fame because she is someone’s BABY MOMMA!! D@mn, people…. stop the madness!!!


  42. You go girl, I love this interview. Just enough information given.

    Toya if you read this, holla at me. I have been wanting to meet you (US) yeah I said (US)LOL being from the N.O and here in the ATL with no FAM. If you want to I live right down the street from the Tinys nail shop. Tony at the barber shop on the corner of the nail shop have my name and number

  43. PAC LUV!

    LUV U TOYA KEEP dOIN UR THING BABYGIRL!!

  44. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    It’s funny (in a sad way) how Beyonce’s posts (who is married by the way and established her OWN right) is full of hate while this post of this young lady gives her big ups for her ghetto farce of a reality show, making it the “acceptable” to emotionally hang on to a thug of a rapper, allow her child to go onstage and dance to what is obviously one of the most raunchiest songs in the industry and portraying the stereotype to teenagers that you can be famous for being a single mother in this fashion is applauded.

    What have we become?

  45. FASHIONISTA

    her and james relationship is for publicity and their show i read about it on another site that is why she couldnt give a “real” awnser…

    @Really Now,
    WOW- so sad that the bar is so low that giving an interview about getting along w/baby mamas is ALL IT TAKES for others to claim “well spoken” “positive role model”..in my circle we don’t have baby mammas we have degrees, dating, engagements, marriage and then children and if a divorce happens then you are single but NOT A BABY MOMMA.

    ____

    CO-SIGN, you betta tell them! lol

  46. FASHIONISTA

    @1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!!
    ___

    RIGHT! They praise “babymothers” and the video hoes etc but talk down about successful black/ married women??..and yes I know that toya was married to wayne but still


  47. I LIKE TOYA. I THINK SHE IS A REAL CL***** ACT! SHE IS ALWAYS LADYLIKE AND SHE NEVER BAD MOUTHS LIL WAYNE ARE HIS BABYMAMAS. YOU GO GIRL! STAY POSITIVE AND DO IT UP REAL BIG! THAT’S WHATS UP!

    OH BY THE WAY FOR THOSE WHO DOUBT SHE CAN LOVE HIS OTHER KIDS THEN LISTEN UP: My man has three kids under the age of 8, his ex-wife left him and the kids…and although, I do not agree with her behavior; I will get along with her for the kids. I love my man enough to do this for him.


  48. SMH@ Bossip for saying she looked scandalous at the Halloween Party. She is young and she deserves to have fun….and she wasn’t doing anything that was degrading to herself. She was just out having fun with her homegirls. No problem with that. She seems to be a good person… leave it to the media to turn a person into something they are not.

  49. keke

    i loove toya…she’s a cl***** act!!!

  50. Tuesday's Child

    LOL @ ppl reaching and calling this chick a cl***** act. Now we all know how high you’ve set your standards.

  51. What in the WOrld

    Wow people we are talking about a grown women who is her on words is the process of “growth” , we all have made mistakes and most of us try to learn from our experiences…she had a child young; however I’m am sure that a few of the individuals commenting had sex at an early age and guess what you didn’t get caught and yes she did marry her baby’s father. I also think that most of us can relate if we are honest to our “first love” whom she still communicates with…come on people she is trying can we just stop being so darn negetive and let the women grow…we all can have an apple out of that bag. Question, should she dislike her daughters siblings because of the father will that be more acceptable to you? It’s not the fault of the children son why should’t they get along they are related and that means that like it or not that the mother’s of these children will be involved in each others lives…grow up people…just grow up

  52. Jer-z Girl

    @Marquis de Sade
    @Man
    _______________________________________________

    Typical male $hit. Always trying to reduce a female to the size of her azz or the quality of her loins. Disgusting. Well . . . ya’ mommz!

    Toya is a very young woman. Let her grow before you condemn her. She had that child at 14. I don’t know how old Wayne is, but he’s still responsible just like she is. She doesn’t seem to want him back. She maintains a positive relationship with her childs father because it’s not about her. It’s about her daughter. And good for her trying to create a bond between the kids.

  53. WHITNEY WILSON

    I WAS LISTENING TO ONE OF THE COMMENTS, BY SMARTEE, I THINK YOUR RESPONSE IS MEAN AND CRUEL. HOW CAN YOU SPEAK ON HOW TOYA’S CHILD IS GOING TO GROW UP. HER MOTHER IS OR WAS ON DRUGS AND SHE DID NOT TURN OUT THAT WAY. TO BE A YOUNG LADY AT 14 AND TO HAVE A BABY, AND HAVE HER HEAD ON STRAIGHT NOW IS TO BE COMMENDED. SHE COULD HAVE HAD A HOUSE FULL OF BABIES IM SURE, AND CHOSE TO HAVE JUST ONE, AND YOU WERE NOT IN HER SHOES SO WE DONT KNOW WHAT SHE WAS SEARCHING FOR. HECK, SHE CREATED AN INCOME FOR HERSELF AND HER CHILD, NO IT WAS NOT BASED ON HER, IT WAS BASED ON LIL WAYNES CELEBRITY THAT WE WATCH, NOW TINY IS THE HOT MESS, THE WAY SHE SPEAKS AND EVERYTHING ABOUT HER IS CL*****LESS. HOWEVER, JAMES HARDY, IS DATING MY SISTER ALEXIS WILSON, THEY HAD BEEN OFF AND ON FOR THE PAST 6 MONTHS, BUT JAMES OFFICIALLY BROKE IT OFF WITH TOYA, WHEN THE GUN WAS SHOWN ON TWITTER. IT WAS NOT FOR PUBLICITY. HOWEVER, HIS PUBLICIST ENCOURAGED HIM TO END IT, BECAUSE WHEN HE WAS FIRST ON THE SHOW, HIS PAST WAS QUESTIONED, AND IT WAS ONE THING AFTER ANOTHER, AND THE NFL’S RULES ARE PRETTY STRICT NOW ABOUT THE CONDUCT OF THE PLAYERS. THEY ARE OFFICIALLY OVER

  54. Denyse

    If she had her child at 14, when did she and Wayne get married?

    I have nothing against her, but what’s the appeal other than she is the head baby mama?

  55. Rose

    “Whitney Wilson”…Your post is strange, so is he dating your sister and still talking to Toya? On twitter on November 5th, TOYA posted that she is on the phone with her sexiface (which is James right) and that was only 4 days ago?

  56. mary

    we would appreciate if TOYA could confirm who sexi face is honestly coz James is going out with Alexis Wilson according to Whitney we would appreciate if Toya confirms who the sexxiface is

  57. Rose

    I mean i am not saying that you are lying or anything…but out of respect for you sister James need to come out and state that he and Toya are no longer together! He was just with Toya at her bday October 26th everyone saw the pics. So he got back with your sister just now in November?

  58. IDONTLIKEU

    Toya, you’re alright in my book. Some people can only see BI@$H%ONCE as a cl***** act, cause she is so well spoken(joke) and basically sells sex for a living!

  59. mary

    bossip can you ask Toya to confirm who sexxiface is coz it appears as if we are not in the same book here everyone thought james was the sexxi face and someone claims james is dating Alexis Wilson we wanna know the truth

  60. Kami All Day (Haters give me Promo.....)

    @Really now, u can not be that damn dumb?

    Bossip must have felt the need to not let me post my message to you.

    Obviously MY post was alot more coherent and my point WELL argued.

    I see Bossip only lets kids talk.

    I’ll let you tell though.

  61. SHEENA

    I THINK TOYA IS PRETTY AND SHE SEEMS TO HAVE MORE CL***** THAN TINY AND SHE SPEAKS MORE PROFESSIONAL THAN TINY. TINY IS SOOOOOO GHETTO I MEAN STRAIGHT HOOD RAT.

  62. Stacey

    This James character obviously has a few “girlfriends”. Sounds like the average nice looking black man to me. Let’s not forget that he’s a football player. Girls come a dime a dozen–I’m sure. Probably makes each side piece feel like “the one”…:smh:. Ladies, lets not be naive about this situation.


  63. Wayne the dumbest monster ever to escape the comic books for leaving her …. an i kno tha monkey FYe!!!!!

  64. Tameka

    maybe whitney girl is right coz neither did toya or james confirmed that they were an item they did not even confirm that they were dating maybe it was just a publicist stunt for toya or james made for the show we are just anxious to know who the sexxiface is after all i dont think james was the right guy for her he is too tall, a struggling nfler who is not popular anyway she need someone who can step up if he could afford a hand bag and a gun over 1/2 a million car. if they are an item thats her choice but judging from james past its a no no no you will never enter into a relationship expecting to change someone if he has anger management he is not gonna change after bashing his baby mama he went on to pull a gun to his father toya girl this is yo time to sheine u cant get over wayne by getting your self in this mess just because of a cute face. Patrice Horton is the best if she encouraged her client to dump Toya its a blesing to you Toya hope she will find the perfect girl for her client.THANKS WHITNEY FOR CONFIRMING THIS

  65. SHEENA

    @SMARTEE- I TOTALLY DISAGREE TOYA IS THE SMARTER OF THE TWO. NOW TINY THATS WHO YOU SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT. TOYA HAD ONE CHILD SHE DONT HAVE A HOUSE FULL OF BABIES. SHE HAS HER HEAD ON STRAIGHT AND IS TRYING TO MAKE A WAY WITH THIS SHOW AND HER BOOK. AT LEAST SHE MARRIED HER BABY’S FATHER AND WASNT SHACKING UP. SHE IS PRETTY, AND KNOWS HOW TO SPEAK UNLIKE THAT GHETTO MESS TINY SPEWS OUT HER MOUTH. JUST BECAUSE HER MOM WAS ON DRUGS DOESNT MEAN HER DAUGHTER IS GOING DOWN THE SAME PATH. I THINK SHE WATCHES REGINAE AND MAKES SURE THAT SHE IS DOING GOOD IS SCHOOL. SHE COULD EASILY HAVE A NANNY TO WATCH HER KID LIKE SOME OF THESE OTHER HOLLYWOOD TYPES BUT SHE DOESNT SHE IS THERE.

  66. Tameka

    yep

  67. SHEENA

    @EVERYONE TRYING TO FIND OUT- WHO CARES WHO THIS SEXIFACE IS JAMES IS UGLY. I MEAN OK HE MIGHT BE FUN TO HANG OUT WITH JUDGING FROM THE WHOLE BOWLING ALLEY EPISODE BUT SHE CAN DO WAYYYYYY BETTER PRO BALLER OR NOT. GO TOYA DO YOU GIRL

  68. SHEENA

    @TAMEKA- YEP WHAT? YOU DIDNT SAY ANYTHING. LMAO

  69. why

    bossip has the worst journalistic skills

  70. SHEENA

    @ TUESDAY’S CHILD- SPOKEN LIKE A TRUE HATER!!!!!!!


  71. SEXY ***** !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  72. Glamour Girl

    I LOVE Toya!! I think she is totally fab! I see we still have lots of haters in the world. If you don’t have anything nice to say you shouldn’t say anything at all. I’m sure many of you haters WISH you could be in her position so you could “not” do this and that…but guess what, you’re not. Toya is upholding a GREAT image for herself and her daughter. I have never seen her out acting drunk or dumb or doing anything that you all haven’t done at some point in your lives. For some reason you upity hoes think that becoming famous makes you less human or something. If you lifeless ppl spent as much time getting money as you do hating on blogs…you would be rich.

  73. Cotton Candy

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder…and in my eyes Toya is beautiful sexy and cl*****y. she’s my girl crush! Girls ARE allowed to have a girl crush. I hope she finds someone to treat her like the queen she is! Lamar Odom should have gotten with Toya instead.

  74. SHEENA

    @COTTON CANDY – LAMAR ODOM IS UGLY TOYA IS TOO CUTE FOR HIM. OH AND MY GIRL CRUSH IS DEELISHIS AND SANAA LATHAN

  75. Miss S*****

    Uhhhh, she is NOT attractive…sorry. Will someone please tell this grown ***** woman to take them damn braces off!

  76. Tuesday's Child

    A hater? Find a new word, you ppl have sent that word to the grave! It’s so overused its become cliche and has lost its meaning! So because I don’t agree that Toya is a “cl***** act” I’m a ‘hater’ LOL. Darling…my circle of friends and aquaintances have surp*****ed anything Toya has done. We have degrees, successful careeers, husbands, entrepreneurship, homes – vacation and otherwise. I have ABSOLUTELY no reason to hate on Toya, it’s laughable, really that you would say that when you don’t even know who you’re anonymously typing to.

  77. BIGGIE

    I could not follow wayne raw dog on this chick you would have to wait 5yrs + for the aids test to come back negative

  78. Boss Lady

    OK, I run in a pretty good circle of friends who are degreed, married, own their own homes, and NOT baby mamas but just because we commend another woman for being well spoken and being a true woman doesn’t mean we have low standards. We are simply commending another black woman for being a decent human being and a true mother and woman and why should that NOT be celebrated?? Half of you on here are BABY MAMAS, myself included, but I’m someones WIFE as well and I still keep it grown with my kids father. Because we are adults and our children are innocent and didn’t ask to come into this and we have to make the best of it.

    How dare ya’ll crucify this woman for that? Some of ya’ll right now got half brothers and sisters out there that you never got to know cuz yo ignorant ***** mama wouldn’t let you see them, play with them, talk to them, because she didn’t like their mama? She is doing what she is supposed to do for HER situation and I think a lot of women could learn from it. She doesn’t spew hatred and venom or contempt, she’s nurturing something that those kids can grow from long after her and Wayne leave this earth.

    Some of you got your noses so far in the air you can’t even see the ground. That is sad.

  79. meluvme2

    She seem to be a very nice person and i am sure people who really know her can confirm this as for the haters i am shocked how can you hate on someone you have never met i wonder is this becoz pple dont have anything to do or is this from pure hate or envy. Why cant blck pple support one another. I hope Toya will always be Toya dont do people Toya be yourself there will always be haters in life dont let them pull you down. If what Whitney has said is true that James broke up with you life goes on there is a reason everything happens for a reason, you will find your Mr Right by the sounds of it he wasnt the right guy anyway it seems as if he was double crossing you with Whitneys sister u a pretty and u will find true love.keep doing your thing you are lucky to be surrounded by lovely people Tiny is cool.

  80. meluvme2

    i follow her on twitter she seem to be smitten by her sexxiface that good James is history according to sandra rose and whitney and sexxiface is the future wish you the best Toya with your sexxiface we know if he is treating you right or if he so special you will make it official

  81. Ms.Ajje

    Hey people she is an ex-wife not a babymomma

  82. mooney23

    @ all haters
    so sad that everybody hatin on toya i happen to like her so im gone speck on her behalf its hard when you got a parent that is on drugs for yall who dont know and the person u thought loved you cheat on you and you go through a dirvorce yea she might still love wayne i mean he did take her virginity now she gotta watch him mess with all these women i would feel hurt, but she still tring to do her. so dont hate cause BET dont wanna give yo a** a reality show cus you know you would say yes so quick. same ones hatin be watchin the show every time it come on.

  83. brighteyes

    its so sad how other women bash other wome or hating other women she is doing her thing. if you dont like her why reading anything to do with her i fees sorry for the haters get a life uproot yourself. Toya this is all because u are trying to be so secret with your love help this is not helping hunny make it official and people will leave you alone at the moment pple wanted to knw if u a still with that baller coz i think there a a lot who had a crush on him, since Whitney who is your life saver have confirmed the split this james thing will cool down. if u happen to be with someone make it official other wise someone will mess up with your man behind your back u have already hit the public eye no need to be so secretive about this sexxiface guy MAKE IT OFFICIAL GAL

  84. satrs

    thats true MAKE IT OFFICIAL

  85. mooney23

    @ 1true diva or watever your name is
    I havent posted on bey yet but i can say that most people dont like bey cause people cant relate to her and she cant relate to no body she is a super star who dont care about what people from the hood got going on. now for me i can relate to toya cause i had a parent on drugs no im not a babymama im a wife but any woman who is married with a child can easily be that if you wanna call it that because she black she cant be considered x wife damn shame and if you think you can relate to bey you need to think again cause you are not a super star its a one in a billion chance that will ever be like bey you gotta a better chance being a single mother like toya.

  86. PETER

    THIS INTERVIEW WAS NOT ABOUT LOVE SHE DIDNT SAY MUCH ABOUT LOVE SHE DIDNT ANSWER THE QUESTION ABOUT WETHER SHE IS STILL WITH JAMES THANX TO WHITNEY WHO CONFIRMED THE BREAK UP THAT GUY WAS NOT GOOD FOR HER ANYWAY HE BROUGHT A LOT OF DRAMA IN HER LIFE AS WELL LIFE AFTER WAYNE SHOULD NOT BE BUMPING TO A CUTE FACE WITH NO SOUL AT ALL BASHING UP YOUR BABY MAMA LIKE CHRIS BROWN,PULLING A GUN TO YOUR FATHER THATS A SHAME IF ITS TRU THAT HE DUMPED HER SHE DOESNT NEED TO WORRY AT ALL COZ THAT RELATIONSHIP WAS DOOMED SHE NEED TRU LOVE BECOZ TO BE HONEST IF HE TRULLY LUV THIS GAL WHY LISTENING TO WHAT YOUR PUBLICIST HAS TO SAY I KNOW HIS PUBLICIST IS A WOMAN PATRICE HORTON WAS THIS A GOOD ADVISE TO ADVICE YOUR CLIENT TO DUMP A GIRL MMMMMMMMM IT MAKES ME WONDER OR MAYBE SHE WAS JEALOUSY. TOYA I DONT KNOW YOU BUT JUDGING FROM WHAT I HAVE SEEN ON YOUR SHOW YOU SEEM TO BE A COOL GIRL WHO REALLY NEED SOMEONE TO SHOW YOU WHAT LOVE IS AND THAT JAMES GUY WAS NOT THE RIGHT FOR YOU HE MIGHT HAVE THE GOOD LOOKS BUT HE WAS GOING TO COZ MORE PAIN FOR YOUR BEATING YOU UP AND AS MENTIONED BY WHITNEY CHEATING IF HE WAS DOUBLE DATING YOU GUYS WITH WHITNEYS SISTER FOR THE PAST 6MONTHS WHAT ELSE WAS HE GONNA DO. I AM SURE YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU GOD IS GREAT

  87. Miss S*****

    LMFAO! Couldn’t have said it better myself Tuesday’s Child.

    Like, ya’ll are following around a chick who’s famous for having little Wayne’s kid. Seriously, you follow this chick around on twitter and everything? What is she famous for? xD Damn that’s all you gotta do to become a celebrity today? Quick someone bone a rapper! have a baby by him, be a million.


  88. Ilove her so much; my role model

  89. PETER

    @miss saa you have got a serious problem get a life i am not surprised if you a lonely i think u have never found someone who luvs with yo negative attitute u a mess get a life i feel for whoever who is gonna date u or marry u

  90. PETER

    i@miss s***** you have got a serious problem get a life i am not surprised if you a lonely i think u have never found someone who luvs with yo negative attitute u a a mess get a life i feel for whoever who is gonna date u or marry u

  91. Nenia

    I really don’t get it, U right @ Ms. S***** bone a rapper,have a baby by a million-aire. Hey maybe we should hook up with 50Cents. Absolutely crazy!

  92. WordtotheWise

    Yeah, it doesn’t take much to get people excited. All you have to do is say the right look, say the right words ,or have the right size *****, and people “love” you.

    Anyway, I will say I comment Toya for being mature regarding the acceptance of Wayne’s other children. That’s what grown, mature people do. They don’t blame the children for what stupid ***** adults do. That’s a good look. That is all.

  93. WordtotheWise

    have the right look…

  94. J*****y

    Damn, can’t ya’ll just let the woman live. She isn’t hurting anyone. Everybody want to say something about how she was with Lil Wayne or what kind of person and mother she is. She’s just trying to live her life like everybody else.

    People ALWAYS want to compare their lives to someone else, while insinuating that their own life is some how better. That’s low. Remember that your life can hit a turning point at any time, and all the things that you THINK make you better than the next person can be gone or altered in a flash. That’s why I feel like having a good heart (which I think Toya has) is always the best thing to have.

    To judge and downgrade her based on the choices she’s made in her life is stupid and silly.

  95. THOMAS

    i dont buy what the girl Whitney is saying about her sister Alexis, the truth is James and Toya have never been an item that relationship was made up for the BET show, Toya is seeing someone else who she always call sexxiface people just *****umed that they are dating because ofcourse they look cute together.and since he is cute pple *****umed that he is the sexxiface. Maybe Alexis is her gal or maybey Whitney is fantasising who know and who cares. People are doing all sorts of things nowadays for publicity that guy wanted some publicity and Toya also wanted some publicity and they made up that relationship for their show otherwise there was nothing between the two. Sorry guys to all who were rooting for these two thinking they were an item they really looked cute together to be honest but there is nothing between the two. its just that maybe both parties cant say the truth because of the contract with BET. they are getting paid for pretending to be a couple. sooner or later you will get the truth just like what happened with Khloe and the other baller its reported that the other guy confirmed that it was a publicity stunt the whole thing was made up for the show.

  96. THOMAS

    this is the real deal

  97. 2Sweet

    At first I thought the Tiny & Toya show would be some straight bullshyet. Now, I never watched the show regularly, but from the few episodes I caught it definitely wasn’t as bad as I thought it was going to be! Toya is a beautiful, strong, black woman (and I LOVE the NO accent!) and I am totally digging her positive, no-drama attitude, it’s so refreshing! She’s like one of the homegirls. I am about the same age, and I can definitely relate to her trying to turn a new leaf and do what’s best in her life at this point. Wayne so did not deserve Toya and NONE of his silly hoe babymamas look better than her. She can get a way better man. Go Toya!

  98. Sharm85

    I don’t think that any of Lil Wayne’s baby mom’s are prettier than Toya. Lauren London is beautiful, so is Nivea, and so is Toya. Why can’t they all be beautiful? Why do we always have to put our beautiful black men and women in ranking order. Black people all look very differet, and we are all equally beautiful. Anywho, Toya seems to have a good head on her shoulders.

  99. 2Sweet

    Sharm–the point was not to rank anybody. The fact of the matter is that Wayne had something good in Toya, but thought the gr***** was greener everywhere else and now look @ him. If he wanted so many kids, he should have done what other rich men do…knock up their wife repeatedly. Now he has scattered seeds everywhere. Wayne has no cl*****. He could learn a thing or two from Toya!

  100. kizzmyphatazz

    Well she must have found some type of ounce of beauty in lil wayne the seed planter because I cant see how he got with her dam lady keep upgrading lol….

  101. boris

    thank you Bossip for interviewing this lady i have got a huge crush on her could you please ask her to confirm is she is single to mingle

  102. denette jasper

    To Thomas, I am a friend of the Wilson Family. James Hardy, is just a guy that happens to play in the NFL. Hell, what would Whitney have to lie on James about. You can not compare Khloe Kardashian, and Lamar Odom to, James, and Toya. They Im sure would have gotten a more well known character, than James Hardy, for publicity. You dont have an inside track as to what BET is doing. They could have placed her with one of these young rappers, hell even Terrell Owens, is diva material. However, to prove the truth, not that we have to we can send very intimate photos, of James, and Alexis, and as of this past weekend, his bye week, to show you that him and Alexis were together. What do we have to gain about lying, we dont know you from Adam. Sexyface may have been James, but if it was a publicity stunt, she would not have twitted about him all the time, that has nothing to do with BET. Also, BET, did not have anything to do with Toya placing the gun on her Twitter, and than having problems with them afterwards. This is when the stuff hit the fan with James. Hell, we have made him famous, by doing just what we are doing now. I have a personal relationship with James Hardy, and Alexis Wilson, I am sure what you are saying is all *****umption. You can go on Facebook, and find out about anybody you want, you can go their and see the pictures of Alexis, and James, and there are pictures to confirm the relationship, not just random pictures you take with a fan…Go Toya, do your thing, because you are who its about.

  103. TOYA IS FINE

    @ MELO,
    Am I the only one that doesn’t think she’s pretty…I think she’s very grounded but pretty…not so much, I just don’t see it.
    ______________________________________________

    Everybody is entitled 2 their own opinion but looking at the pic u have posted as your avatar, if that really is a pic of u, no wonder u are hating on Toya….lol.

  104. Rose

    Denette please send the pictures to my email please… i want to see them.

  105. denette jasper

    Rose, I will send you the pictures, but you did not provide me with an email. I definitely, want to send them to this Thomas, guy, hes talking about the real deal. When he talked about the publicity stunt, for Bet, I knew he was a fluke.


  106. I dont believe any of it.


  107. Do you know how many Alexis Wilson’s there are??? Personally, I think its all garbage. I do believe James and Toya are together, and just decided to take a break from tweeting each other until this “gun” stuff blows over. Not all athletes are dogs, we still have a few good men left. Since when do you need the publics permission to confirm your relationship?? If there dating, then there dating, if there not, well…..there not. “Silence is the best answer to ignorance” Toya dont say much about JH in her interviews because of all these sharks and vultures out here. That doesnt mean she doesnt respect or cares for him. They both probably have an understanding. I believe this chick just threw some randon comments out there about JH dating some other chick, just to see how many responses she gets. This is a blog site, its just entertanment people. Stop letting people past become there present and there future, we ALL make/made mistakes. Toya, good luck on whatever you and JH decide to do. For that chick who spoke so horribly about a child, thats was sooo unbecoming. Just because Toya conceived at an early age, does not mean Reginae will also. Toya didn’t have that maternal grounding/stability that Reginae has, and as long as she continues to anchor her, she will be fine. At the end of the day…ITS STILL A CHILD PEOPLE…SMH..Tiny and Toya continue doing what your doing, and stay focused. I am absolutley estatic about season 2. I am glad you were able to get Rudy back in school,”Education is the only possession in which man can’t be robbed”,great job! Also, kudos for helping Mama Nita. Tiny, Keisha,and Shamra AWESOME job with the OMG Girlz. You both have great people around you…Stay focus!!

    JustAFan


  108. Tiny and Toya are two beautiful black inspirational women, and thats what we need in todays society.

  109. conrad

    well said-
    stay down

  110. Rose

    CavGirl1….i agree i love Tiny and Toya! I will defenitly watch the second season…i wanted to c James on there 2, but i guess that’s not going to happen now:(

  111. Nonya

    She’s NOT a chicken and I love that about Toya.


  112. @Rosa What makes you think they are really not together?

  113. THOMAS

    to dennete jasper why should i go to facebook to look for james hardy and alexis wilson. as u have said he is just an ordinary guy who happens to play in the nfl wetehr James Hardy is seeing Alexis Wilson(your relative) who ***** cares if you have proof you are very welcome to send the pictures not to my email address but to bossip.com

  114. Miss S*****

    Actually Peter, my life is BEAUTIFUL!!! Who you SHOULD feel bad for is yourself sweetie. How can you idolize someone when you don’t even know them?!? Especially a *****ody like Toya? You make no sense.

    I live in a more realistic world, you should visit sometime :-)

  115. PETER

    Miss S actually i dont ifolise her i have got feeling for her I am just waiting for Rose to send the confirmation pictures about Alexis Wilson and James Hardy this will be a huge relieve to me coz I am feeling for this TOYA girl, I still think you have a huge problem sitting on your computer judging someone who u doing even know as well too bad


  116. If they are dating or not, if he’s screwing half of America so what? Why run your blood pressure up about these people who know nothing about your existence.

  117. Liza

    I think if you are hating on these 2 why wasting your time reading about anything to do with them. I think pple were curious about wether she is still with James Hardy but this has been reported at sandra rose website and Whitney has already confirmed so pple stop fighting about this she is not hurting anybody I am sure she did the interview for her fans not haters ofcourse people are angy because she didnt say much about what they wanted to hear especially about dating Jmes but i dont think she has to justify anything to anyone, to Whitney it was okey to confirm the relationship btwn your sister and James but I dont think talking about James Publicist being involved was a good idea.To all the haters my advice if you dont like her stay away from anything that has anything to do with her. Do your thing Toya dont let these negative comments knock you down

  118. albert

    kudos to LIZA well said hope pple will get a life they a busy fighting about her here and she is busy making money right now

  119. Miss S*****

    I don’t feel like I’m judging her. She’s a *****ody, that’s all I said.

    Am I not right though? She’s famous for being Lil Wayne’s (poor girl) BM. I mean, come on. How come we’re supposed to care about this random chick so much? It just doesn’t make sense.

    Btw, I read EVERY story on here! It doesn’t matter if I’m feeling the person or not. I don’t fight or argue with anyone. I respect everyone’s opinion.

  120. Denyse

    If you can’t Gossip about celebrities or non-celebrities in this case, at a Gossip entertainment website, then where the He11 are you supposed to Gossip about them?

  121. denette jasper

    THOMAS I DID NOT ASK YOU TO GO TO FACEBOOK, AND TO THE YOUNG LADY THAT SAID THERE ARE PLENTY OF ALEXIS WILSON OUT THERE, I MENTIONED THAT BECAUSE THERE ARE PICTURES ON THERE OF THEM. EVIDENTALLY, A LOT OF US DONT HAVE MUCH TO DO, BECAUSE WE ARE DEBATING ON WHETHER THEY ARE TOGETHER ARE NOT. I GAVE MY OPINION MORE FOR MY SISTER THAN TOYA. HELL YOU ALL DONT KNOW TOYA PERSONALLY, NOR MORE THAN I DO, SO WHY WOULD I TRY TO SAY SOMETHING TO GET A RESPONSE. ROSE, SAID SHE WANTED ME TO EMAIL HER THE PICTURES, SHE DID NOT PROVIDE AN EMAIL ADDRESS, SO I LET HER KNOW, I DID NOT HAVE IT. THOMAS I NEVER ASKED FOR YOUR FREAKING EMAIL ADDRESS, SO NO I DONT HAVE TO SEND THEM TO BOSSIP ON YOUR REQUEST. TO THE YOUNG LADY THAT SAID THIS WAS A BLOG, AND I WANTED TO GET A RESPONSE, WHAT MAKES YOUR COMMENTS SO DIFFERENT THAN MINE, HELL YOU ARE BLOGGING TOO. IF IT WERE NOT TRUE ABOUT ALEXIS WILSON, I DID NOT HAVE TO GIVE YOU HER FULL NAME, MAYBE PEOPLE NEEDED TO KNOW SHE EXISTED. TOYA IS WONDERFUL, BUT SHE BLOGS ABOUT EVERYTHING, YOUR PERSONAL LIFE SHOULD HAVE BEEN KEPT PRIVATE ANYWAY, SO WHY WOULD YOU GO ON THE DOWN LOW, SINCE THE GUN ISSUE, HELL THEY ARE NO BEYONCE OR JAY Z. WE ARE FASCINATED WITH HER BECAUSE OF LIL WAYNE, YOU GUYS ALL KNOW IT. WOULD SHE BE OF INTEREST TO YOU OTHER WISE? WHAT MAKES YOUR COMMENTS ANY MORE HONEST OR DISHONEST THAN YOURS. SINCE YOU ALL WANT TO KNOW ABOUT JAMES HARDY, AND YOU DONT BELIEVE ME HELL, TWEET HIM, HE WILL NOT STOP YOU FROM FOLLOWING HIM, SO GET IT FROM THE HORSES MOUTH, AND MAYBE WE WILL NOT HAVE TO GO BACK AND FORTH. THOMAS, SINCE YOU HAVE SO MUCH INSIDE BS, WHY DONT YOU PROVIDE US WITH SOME OF WHERE YOU ARE GETTING YOUR KNOWLEDGE FROM, OTHERWISE THE HELL WITH YOU AND WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT, WHICH IS NOTHING


  122. First….I was told about this interview via a friend of mine. You are absolutely correct about what makes our comments legitimate. I knew once Toya mentioned that she had a man/friend, all these groupies would have came out the woodworks. I just hope she remains quiet cause I guarantee more females names are going to pop up in the equation. As far as debating, look at my response. I made myself clear. Why are you speaking for her anyways, let me hear it out the horses mouth. All this is BS anyways, this is my last response. Toya and JH, do your thang.

  123. Boneca

    Love her…she’s a big idol of mine because of her strength…go ahead toya you’re good girl ;)

  124. boris

    hey dennet why a speaking for Alexis we are not fascinated with Toya becoz of wayne i personally I am fascinated with her becoz of her show and beauty as for blogging everything anyone is free to do whatever they want eg Whitney is dishing about the affair isnt it a private life for Alexis and James not to mention blogging about James publicist(Patrice Horton)encouraging James to dump Toya which shows that he didnt want to break up with her it was all becoz of the publicist and he then jumped to her next groupie your friend who was a bystander in case the relationship with Toya didnt work out after according to Whitney James has been seeing these two at the same time for the last 6months this all came from Whitney we dont ***** care about Alexis and james and why a u checking on Toyas interview a u a spy for Alexis.Why should we follow James on twitter as you have said he is just a guy that happens to play in the NFL who ***** cares about just a guy. If he was Reggie Bush, Terrell Owens after all he is a women beater, he had a bad past thats why he pannicked about the gun being shown on twitter coz in 2008 he pulled a gun to his fathers face. we dont want to hear anything to do with james HArdy period

  125. Shauntrell

    NO BOASTING HERE,WHO CARES WHAT YOU’LL HAVE OR DON’T HAVE.That is what’s wrong with people today.
    People who have something don’t go around talking about it.

  126. Shauntrell

    Some of these comments are too much,it makes me feel bad as a black woman to read some of this stuff,Blacks still hatin on Blacks all the time.

  127. love

    its kind funny how people are trying to put Toya down knowing that she is a good woman she didn’t have her mother but at least she did have someone to raise her Toya is a good mother and everyone see that…any who her and James did make a cute couple and if they did break up lets hear they side of the story and not other people story and what they heard…Please stop hateN on MS.Antonia Toya Carter….


  128. Bossip so yeah the filtering needs to be done for some of these grown kids on here and there CRAZY comments but GET IT TOGETHER…. maybe tweek it a lil bit cause its blocking words within words for example: cl*****y chic


  129. What a waste of time. The girl can barely speak English. She is one step away from a monkey!

  130. Rose

    Denette i never got the pictures boo….i give up:(

  131. TRUTH BE TOLD

    no hair on the sides….ghetto ugly nose mess

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