NFL Great, Dana Stubblefield, Hit With Restraining Order From Ex-Swirl-Fiancée “He Is An Animal!”
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Dana Stubblefield is already on probation for lying in the BALCO incident, now his ex-fiancée has hit him with some new charges that could lock his crazy tail up:
Stubblefield was a defensive star for the 49ers. After helping the team win a Super Bowl and becoming the NFL’s defensive player of the year, he scored a six-year, $36 million contract with the Washington Redskins, and landed a role in a Hollywood film opposite Ben Affleck.
“I’m very scared of this guy,” said Stubblefield’s former fiancée Melanie Wade…
“That’s my main reason for coming to you guys and writing that letter.” Twenty-six-year-old Wade contacted the I-Team because she is worried the authorities are not doing enough to protect her from Stubblefield. After a tumultuous three years together, Wade broke up with him last month, four days before their wedding. She says she tried to leave several times.
“He would lock me in and not let me leave the house, and tell me threats, like ‘I’m not done with you ’til you’re six feet under,’ like ‘I’m the only man you’re going to be with,’” she said. Wade says the relationship began to unravel after Stubblefield admitted lying about his steroid use to federal investigators in the BALCO case. Stubblefield received a reduced sentence of two years probation and a $5,000 fine because he cooperated with investigators, “providing the names of players, trainers, and others associated with the NFL who may be involved in on-going activities with illegal drugs in professional football.”
It also was apparently hard for Stubblefield when Wade left him for good. In her application for a restraining order that was approved by a Santa Clara County family court judge in August, Wade says Stubblefield would call 50 times a day or more, sometimes leaving long, rambling messages.
“He was running me off the road, it was almost like a horror movie,” she said. Wade left her work as a personal trainer at about 11 p.m. one night last year, and Stubblefield was waiting for her. “I was on my bicycle and I told him to leave, leave me alone, and he was really irate, he wasn’t leaving, so he followed me home,” she said. She turned down a darkened road trying to escape, but Stubblefield followed in his jacked-up Chevy Suburban.
“And he bumped me off my bike and I went forward and I got cut up and bruises and got back on my bike and continued to go home,” she recalled. When she finally got back to her apartment, Wade says Stubblefield was already there. “And so I got this big rock and threw it at the truck and I ran into my apartment,” she said. “And he just waited out there like a shark in the water.”
“And then there was a big pounding on the door,” said Melanie Wade’s mother, Kellie Wade, who told San Jose police she personally witnessed the threats when Stubblefield came looking for her daughter one night three months ago. “And I told him she wasn’t there, and he said he has someone that’s going to go after Melanie and for Melanie to watch her back.”
“All of my accounts, every single one, he went online and he logged in like it’s me and he created passwords,” she said. “So I couldn’t even get into my accounts online.” “If you’re changing someone else’s mailing address to come to your house, and they haven’t approved it and that’s not their mailing address, then you’re submitting a false document to postal officials,” said ABC7 legal analyst Dean Johnson. “It’s potentially a federal crime.”
The I-Team has confirmed that U.S. Postal Service investigators are looking into Wade’s complaint. Wade remains afraid for herself, but also for the students Stubblefield comes in contact with at Valley Christian High School, both male and female. “And I feel like those kids are at risk because they spend so much time with this animal,” she said. “I really feel like he’s an animal. I mean he just, he loses it. He has no sense of right and wrong. He rages, he sees red.”
Asked what she wants now, she said, “Just peace and quiet. I just want to be left alone. I just want this all to be over with.” Wade is getting help from the Crime Victims Program to relocate to a new home where she hopes Stubblefield can’t find her. They are both scheduled to appear in family court next week as Wade tries to extend the restraining order to five years.
OJ has not taught these sellouts anything. SMH
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Whoop dat trick! I guess he’s been watchin’ to many other pro athletes in relationships do that!
Black athletes are so damn stupid. Do like the Jews and Italians, *uck someone outside your race, but don’t marry her. Marry your own and you won’t have to go through half this crap.
I might have a little OJ-ITIOUS in him.
Don’t kill the white girl Stubblefield!!!
why does him “selling out” and her being white have to do with anything. She is a woman being abused. A WOMAN period. Black white whomever doesn’t deserve that.
He Might have a little OJ-ITIOUS in him.
((I meant to say))
Wow BOSSIP.If the man is psycho…what does race have to do with it?
damn…she called cuz an animal…that’s messed up…
LOL @ she felt the authorities were’nt doing enough so she contacted the I TEAM.
Publicity much? KEep in mind, this is one side of a story that could potentially ruin someone’s life. If his name was Rae Rae and he didn’t have a dime, I doubt I-team would have been her first line of defense.
@num1dominicano
It’s more than messed up.. it’s profound.
Say it with me.. “AN-I-MAL.” How she REALLY feels comes out.
@ liquidbunny
I agree. He’s obviously lost his damn mind. If I were her, I would get a gun because he’s a stalker and is going to come after her again. And sweetie, no more riding a bicycle home at 11PM…that’s just dumb when you have a psychotic person stalking you.
Um… why is someone a sell out because they date outside their race?? That is so ignorant of a web site to say and then if a white web site calls Heidi Klum a sell out for datin Seal we will be outrage!! OMG, and WHY IN THE HELL WILL YOU WANT A DANA STUBBLEFIELD TO DATE US!!! Lmao!! They can have that
WOW. This dude is crazy.
After the McNair case, more and more females are coming out in public with their negative relationships. Fighting back I guess, empowerment.
I cant help but laugh at this sorry excuse for a women…LMAO!
1.) Who bikes home at 11pm?
2.) Who bikes home at 11pm when your man was making
26 millli??
3.)Who goes down a dark path ON A BIKE when a
lunatic is chasing you in a SUV???
4.)Who goes HOME after being ran over by a SUV, and
not the authorities????
5.)If she wants to be “left alone” so bad-why go to
the media?????
Ahhhh, so many questions-yet one simple answer:
STUPID WHITE WOMEN!
*woman*
Maybe I worng… but some women like this type of drama and emotional stuff, maybe she did too.
I don’t think he’s selling out. They can have his crazy behind. We’ll p***** thank you. He sounds nuts.
yeah she thought she had it made, got a black man ~~ he makes bank , he dont want a black woman .. wellllll!! Look whatb you got lady~!! serves you right!!
@Nique~~ i agree and i saw this almost same type of thing happen!! i lived in a pretty rough neighborhood ( sorta mixed races) this white chick lived upstairs from me and when she got from work at 11;30 at night she walked her lil beagle dog. i asked her why walk your dog so late at night in such a bad hood and she said .. “oh i feel i should be able to walk my dog when ever i want” Lady get real this is the real world not “leave it to beaver” i had a Doberman then and i would never think about walking him late at night!! Long story short she got raped and the man she said took the dog and tied him to a tree while he dragged her in the bushes and raped her (a black man she said ) and they caught him and gave him 15 years, when he could have probably got it for free!! What a idiot!!
i agree wit the writer up top, some women especially her like this kind of attention… Do they have kids? I hope not cause he doesn’t want his kid/s seeing this crap….
Yeah, Bossip. What has these “OJs” not learned from their idol mr Simpson? That they should only abuse woman of their own race? That it’s not their fault when they beat, threaten or kill a woman as long as she’s white? That it is in fact beacuse she is white that they abuse her, and he wouldn’t abuse her if she was black? Well, geeez! Leave it to the bit@es at Bossip to make a case involving threats of violence between an ex-coupple to be about race! Someone on your staff has an intense seething hatred for white woman is my guess. She called him an animal beacuse that’s how he behaves when he loses control (it’s not like we didn’t get what you guys were trying to hint at by putting that part in bold letters) this site DOES NOT have any credible evidence to suggest racisme has any part in this. It’s a serious insult to hurl at someone. The race card is getting pretty worn out..be careful, you might want to use it when you come across REAL racisme one day, Bossip. This is like the website that called wolf too many times.
Ex-swirl-fiancee’…. What is that about? What was wrong with just ex fiancee’?
Damn I just pray to GOD that she remains safe and is unharmed and Stubblefield obviously needs therapy!
@FBossip
Thank you for making her pleas more about a human being who has the same rights as the rest of us as opposed to being about Race
yeah she thought she had it made, got a black man ~~ he makes bank , he dont want a black woman .. wellllll!! Look whatb you got lady~!! serves you right!!
Nov 5, 2009 – 10:47 am
WELL WW ARE GOING TO FINALLY LEARN HOW CRAZY THESE BM REALLY ARE.
Dajournalist
@num1dominicano
It’s more than messed up.. it’s profound.
Say it with me.. “AN-I-MAL.” How she REALLY feels comes out.
__________________
truth.
Does she really want to call him a G-O-R-I-L-L-A ?
WELL MAYBE SHE WILL LEARN HER LESSON…QUIT F*****G FOR CHECKS…THATS WAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU MESS WITH CRAZY A** MEN FOR SOME $$$…YOU DONT KNOW WHAT UR GETTING URSELF INTO
yeah see how white women do, she wasnt calling him a gorilla when she went after him or when she decided to hook up with a black man, but oh now the real man came out and he is all kinds of names!1 they will never learn, glad i got a man with some sense.. he wont even blog on these blogsites, when im trying to show him something on here he is out the door to go to the gyn to work out!! Thats a real man!!
black men are the dumbest on the totem pole…..
form the white man to the white chick black men love giving theirmoney back.
they have no prideintheirrace or heritage and let’s be real they proabably don’t knowit or in this white education system is was not really taught.
Have some pride inyourslef not to ask tobe degraded. you always a snicker behind your back with them.. Period. They all show their true colors by then edn!!! Dumb!!!!
White chicks LOVE green money more than they hate black and that is all there is to it!!! not bad to use a man for a year or two because he will mess up. Then BECKy can collect… chaching!!!
black men are the new cash cow industry for the past decade
Not stubby, why couldn’t it have been someone on the Cowboys?
@ wifey06
With your pathetic attempt at communication, you’re in absolutely no position to be calling anyone “the dumbest” unless you happen to be looking in the mirror. SMDH. A**wipe…
@wifey06,
You ever heard of using your *****e bar? Why are you brining up money in this possible domestic violence situation? What is up with black females and their obsession with the earnings of black men who are with white women? Get your own money. Do you think black females are dumb for giving all their money to the Koreans for stuff you dont need- weaves relaxers, cheap make up, fake nails, and a manicure and a pedicure you can do at home yourself without giving them $40? Whose dumb now?
people don’t get it…. ALOT,… i mean ALOT of black men are obsessed with white women..
The white media shows white women as the ULTIMATE Prize.
He worked hard to get where he is today in the NFL.. He needs a trophy………………………………………………… Bring on the WHITE WOMEN….
Ha Ha Ha Ha …more and more the world sees just how violent and terrible BM reall are!
Chris Brown..OJ..Shawn Merriman…Don Cornielius..BM are abusive violent and disgusting in my bok and im hay to say I definitely dont F with em! I think this White girl just screwed his career…who cares…f this animal!
This situation is so not going to stop anybody. Black men will continue chasing white women on the pretext that white women are “better”, the ultimate Prize. And money-hungry white chicks will keep on chasing cash-cow black men because they KNOW they can get them.
Such is this thing called life.
tee hee hee tee hee hee
another white chick screaming over what a black man did 2 her *tsk* *tsk* *tsk* this is so common nowadays, these brothas are out of control.
i guess this is why so many are incarcerated.
Its hilarious to me..I love Latin men anyway so
the Blanco Chicks can have these deranged black dudes.
Kilagi must be a homosexual black male.
a bitter homosexual black male at that.
stubby was a big, steroid loaded lump that clearly has issues. he’s probably got a shriveled ***** and he completely ripped us off for several millions `cause he he SUCKED A**!!!
WORST FREE AGENT EVER !!!
Kigali kardashian , now i dont usually agree with you but on this i have to agree on not giving the Koreans crap! i dont go to their nail salons, i have bought all my manicure and pedi items and i do my own and both nails and feet look better than they do it! i dont have to worry about them talking about me in their language and then wanting a tip afterwards, i tip my own damn self and a good one too~!!
We know black men deal with white women for what ever reason, but they are soon finding out they get in more trouble than they thought not dealing with a black women,, steve mcnair, oj simpson, bobby cutts, don cornelius, kobe bryant michael strahan and the list goes on~!!
white men and whites in general put white women up on this fake azz silver platter and told their daughters not to mess with black men , so what do you expect folks always do what they are told not to do~! i was always told the gr***** aint greener on the other side , its green were you water it!! And now some of these black men are finding out the truth, some not all some will soon find out where their bread is better buttered at~!
Black women may see him as a sellout, but wouldn’t you rather have his crazy ***** dating white chicks than yall?
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I doubt that he wasn’t doing it prior to the NFL money started running out. I guess this brother (I use that term loosely) didn’t realize that Becky only wanted him for the NFL stacks.
Becky didn’t sign up to be with an average Rasheed, if she wanted an average man, she would be with a white man.
@ Bobby…I completely Agree.
They can have the kind they go for for sure…Was through with BM years ago. They are just Psycho crazy!!!As for the WW who date such guys….THANK YOU.
“@wifey06,
You ever heard of using your *****e bar? Why are you brining up money in this possible domestic violence situation? What is up with black females and their obsession with the earnings of black men who are with white women? Get your own money. Do you think black females are dumb for giving all their money to the Koreans for stuff you dont need- weaves relaxers, cheap make up, fake nails, and a manicure and a pedicure you can do at home yourself without giving them $40? Whose dumb now?”
whose dumb now would be the fat trailer park white tricks like you who are paying broke black men now that sistas won’t!
Good for her. I would have left him too. I guess that just goes to show thatwhen Becky doesn’t want the black man it doesn’t matter how much money or how famous he is – HE’S NOT WANTED! Kudos to her for putting her safety before the “good life”. The black man always wants to act like the minute he gets with a white woman everything becomes perfect and euphoric! We are slowly starting to see from women like her and Tila Tequila that its just not the case. maybe its time for the black manto realize that when the problem is YOU the race of your woman doesn’t matter. The problem is still YOU!!!
And this animal does need some jail time!
“this is so common nowadays, these brothas are out of control.”
OKAY? but they walways wanna make it seem like the sista is the problem in the relationship.
As bad as I feel for all races of women who have to endure the wrath of the coon – I love it when stories like this come out because it just proves to show and shows to prove that the black man is the issue in his relationships – not everyone around him, just like his failures in regular society!
Any black man thatb put a white woman over his beautiful black queen and most definetly resembles his mom is a damn fool~! bottom line! They kill me running over to the other side and think they wont have problems.. smdh at the problems they will have! Even thinking the kid will be pretiier because its mixed.. please i have seen some not so good looking mixed kids and some pretty blacks kids like Will Smiths son and others~!
Well he can hang it up – once a white person/woman says they are scared of you, all the rest follow. lol All they can think of is another OJ. :}
They’ll be looking at him like he CRAZY, probably, for now on. He’ll probably loose everything.
They can have the kind they go for for sure…Was through with BM years ago. They are just Psycho crazy!!!As for the WW who date such guys….THANK YOU.
Nov 5, 2009 – 2:23 pm
I COULD’NT AGREE WITH YOU MORE.
Tell ‘em rose! Lol!!
boy what did you say!!!
What is wrong with everybody???
This story is about a man abusing a woman, who cares what thier races are. Everyone is so concerned with the fact that a black man is dating a white girl that you’re failing to realize the real problem. No woman no matter what race deserves to be abused. And who is to say that she was after his money? She might have loved him,I’m sure white girls are capable of love too. A lot of people on this site need to grow up and get over the interracial relationships. It saddens me that so many people on here are unable to show any comp*****ion toward this girl just because she is white. If we can’t respect other races then how can we expect to have other races respect us? I hope one day everyone will realize that there is only one race and that’s the human race.
these white girls got to stop marrying these nigglets for their money if they want to survive they crazy selves
What the Hell is that OJ comment supposed to mean?? OJ is guilty as Hell, and we all know that! You should say “OJ murdering Nicole Brown Simpson has not taught these white women to stop dating crazy ***** black football players”!
I agree with you Ashley.
If I’m dating an Asian woman, its not that I’m a sellout or don’t like my own race, its just that I was horny and single and met an asian chick, we clicked, and have kept it going. damn
NOW..he’s an animal…but he wasn’t such an animal when he was paying her bills and some “Animal” RICH negro…balla’…She agrees to marry him and 4 days before..JUST decides to call it quits…I think she was willing to endure all this alleged “abuse’..because MONEY TALKS and BS walks…Lawdy…her timing is predicatable…Why marry a broke Negro as Kanye West would say…his days are numbered if just for his Lying Drugged “Roided ” Doped Up Brain..she was loving it until they said..LIAR…and GUILTY…now he’s an animal…makes her…an animal lover in my book…
Yes let us white women send these jet black N8ggers up the river…
All Black Men do is beat us white women we just use them for a child with skin tone then we kick there nasty jet black a*sses to the curb.
I mean really do you think I really want a N*gger on my arm.
Black men stink, there nasty and they will have sex with a tree I mean really who wants them.
Black men are low cl***** nasty,rusty,jet black,monkey face N*ggers.
Yuk what an Ape
Black men don’t respect themself,there culture,there women,there children, black men are s***** of the earth.
Get these N*ggers off the earth please God! the world would be better if there were no black men.
White on White rules everything.
We just use white women do you really think a black man wants your thin lips,flat a*ss,fake tan,fake breast,and fack but implant a*sses.
White women are jus an easy lay for black men your nothing but white easy trash to us well never marry your white nasty a*sses.
And do you think white women want a jet black N*gger man please all your good for is giving us mixed kids with brown skin tones and curly hair that all we really want from you.
That’s why I stop F*cking with white b*tches your not using me to split up my black race.
You black men hate being black you wish you were white that’s why you come to user you black slaves.
White women use black N*ggers get over it monkeys.
black men eat my sh*t you’ll do what ever we say your such d*mb *****es.
Your right black men will bow down to white women the will sell there soul to you. But not me I’m a real black man that’s true to his black race your talking to the wrong n*gger.
Yeah right! blacvk men are so weak when it comes to us I can bring you over to my side then dump you like I do the rest og the black men all you black men are dirt,trash,I stump on your jrt black a*sses and you come back for more.
I have black men dressing up like black women while I have s*x with them then when I’m finish these black men have sex with my guy friends.
Black men are trying to turn every race of men g*y like them.
Black man now respond to that you black N*gger monkey face b*tch I thought so.
White girl rules
Black men stink
White Girl – as one white WOMAN to one white GIRL, please shut the hell up – your racist comments about monkey this and that make me sick. Please borrow some dignity while you still can and get out of this forum!
I hate to hear about any woman being abused – let’s talk about the violence happening here, and stop all the race bashing, the “she asked for it” and so on. Everyone grow up or go to bed!
Jesus help save us all from the ignorance and hate of one another, which is so plentiful and ugly on here tonight.