Domestic Disputes
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Queen Pen was getting her ass whooped by her ex:
Queen Pen, a tough-talking rapper and advocate for domestic violence victims, is in fear for her life as police hunt her ex-boyfriend, who allegedly pummeled her in front of their children and broke her Grammy Award in a fit of blind rage. Pen, 35, said she was attacked May 9 after an argument, during which her ex – Kendall Wicker, 29 – trashed her East Flatbush apartment, put a brick through her windshield and threatened to kill her.
The outburst came three months after Pen told police that Wicker, who is the father of two of the rapper’s five children, punched her in the face so hard during a dispute that she needed oral surgery to secure teeth knocked loose by the blow. A police report of the incident makes no mention of a physical assault and neither Pen nor police have seen Wicker since the latest incident.
When are men gonna start being men and stop putting their hands on women? That trashing of her apartment and throwing a brick through her windshield sounds like some b*tch sh*t, for real.
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That’s that bull*****! *****ing Loser! I hope they get his *****…She’s a cool girl and lives in the neighborhood…Domestic Violence is a serious issue and alot of women r suffering at the hands of stupid BOYS (not men). DUM *****!
that ish is effed up…man.. i hope she is ok..but damn in front of the children…
QUEEN PEN!! WHOO…Haven’t heard that name in a minute!! Wow!
Dude is a b*tch @$$ n*gga…you never beat on women and certainly not in front of the children. They throwing bricks through the windshield? Ole Boy needs to get on…*****got @$$ n*gga!
I don’t feel sorry for her. In fact I feel sorry for him. This is not the 50s and woman are not victims they once were. Most men don’t go around punching women in the face. What you never hear is where her responsibility lies. Oh I forgot. She has none. Only the bad man. No one like being hit or abused and that includes men. You just won’t find them playing the victim or calling the police. I’m sure he’ll pay the price for their dysfunction.
Damn Juicy got that nicca CRAZY. She needs a 45 with hollow points…STAT!
tg102, I feel bad for her kids but the article started Queen Pen, tough talking rapper. Did she talk some ***** that got on his nerves. I know women like that and sometimes I feel sorry for the guy for being with them. Like my aunt, she can really work a nerve and I am a woman. I understand why her baby daddy would clock her but now he’s much calmer and patient and walks away when she starts going off on nonsense and usually in public.
**********ness.
That’s soo messed up, I just get the feeling that this is not the first time he hit her, she definitely needs a better man.
tg, WOW, you sound like a damn fool!! This is the 21st century and not only are some women being abused by men…but killed!! Last summer one of my sister’s best friends was murdered by an ex…and in talking to different people, it’s amazing how many also had stories of domestic abuse or murder.
Sure there’re a small percentage of men getting their *****es kicked by women, and that’s not right either. However, for you to post such idiocy tells me that either you’ve been down that road before or are simply a misogynistic punk.
It is stated in the article that this is not the first time he hit her.
But ex-boyfriend? What happened to her marriage? I remember she was in Sister 2 Sister magazine w/ wedding pictures and everything a few years back. How many kids do she have? I’m not blaming her for getting beat but she really needs to get herself together. She goes from man to man – and stay having a baby by a dude. She has at least 4 babby daddies. It’s like she is afraid to be alone.
Maybe she needs to move out of Flatbush for starters.
I heard on the Jamie Foxx show and she said this has been going on since the early 90’s. When I listened to the interview it sounded like they did this stupid sh*t back and fourth to each other she talked about slashing his tires and beating up his female friends. So just maybe they both are nuts and need help.
@ TG:
Please. Why couldn’t he just walk away if it was like that. That is her ex so obviously she was trying to move on from him. Possessive @$$ n*ggas just don’t know how to let it go and move on. If her mouth was crazy why not just leave until cooler heads prevail. Yes it is his fault for putting his hands on her. A real man knows when to say enough is enough. And i guess it is also okay that the children got to witness their mother being beat up by their pops (for the ones who are biologically his) and by their mom’s ex. That is cool too. So that these kids can begin to learn that this life is okay huh? I guess you don’t know about the cycle of violence.
WHAT IF THIS WAS YOUR MOTHER/SISTER/AUNT? IS IT OKAY FOR THEM TO GET THEIR @$$ES BEAT OR WOULD YOU AND YOUR UNCLES AND WHATEVER NOT SLAUGTHER THE *****GOT?
You need to shut the f*ck ip on this one.
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Ok! Who in the hell is Queen Pen?
This story is for all those women who claim they want a “thug.”
tg102-you must be a woman beater. Sounds like you are making a lame ***** excuse and justification for hitting a woman.
I don’t care what Queen Pen has done to him, there is no excuse for him to beat her down like a she’s n****a on the street, especially in front of their kids. Hell no.
i didn’t know Queen Penn had a GRAMMY, let alone 5 children!!!!.. wtf?!!
Domestic Violence is bad!
My mother’s best friend spent seven years in prison for shooting her husband for beating her. The judge gave her seven years because he told her that this was her fault because she CHOSE a loser and she should have left a long time ago. It shouldn’t have to come to someone’s death for her to change things.
SHE USED TO HAVE THAT CUT”A PARTY AINT A PARTY” AND SHE MARRIED ONE OF THOSE LITTLE SWWET *****S FROM 112 I KNOW HE AINT THE ONE HITTIN AND PUNCHIN, WITH HIS LITTLE SOGT *****
Men should never hit women, but also, women should never take an argument in that direction and put their fingers in men’s faces or try to push them around.
“I don’t feel sorry for her. In fact I feel sorry for him. This is not the 50s and woman are not victims they once were. Most men don’t go around punching women in the face. What you never hear is where her responsibility lies. Oh I forgot. She has none. Only the bad man. No one like being hit or abused and that includes men. You just won’t find them playing the victim or calling the police. I’m sure he’ll pay the price for their dysfunction.”
Didn’t this paragraph say that he beat the ***** out of her infront of their children?? But you feel that is ignorant violent ape ***** is the victim??
Typical ignorant abusive ***** ***** n!gger statement.. You’re about as big a ***** ***** n!gger as he is!!!
Only a black male could pull an ignorant ***** statement like this out of his *****ing face!! That’s why everytime you turn around the black male is on his way to jail for violence now.. Maybe its time to lay blame where blame is due.. How much longer – REALLY – are we going to condone the black males animalistic behaviors?? That’s why cops have this shoot first, ask questions later mentality when it comes to you violent coons… NOONE is into risking their life just to deal with a black male accordingly…
Its a good thing you will not decide his fate..
SMDH!! The black ***** deserves the *****ing chair!!
CERTIFIED 100% *****AZZNESS.
I had 2 re-read it & make sure it wasn’t her that threw da brick thru his window. WFT??? In front da kids??? Homie, what n da hell is ur problem?? I wouldn’t be mad if Penn wud have shot his *****.
U soft azz ***** ***** ***** made ***** hoe ***** sick ***** with it ***** punk azz **********a. It’s reading stuff like dis that makes me mad and makes me shoot off at da mouth like a straight hood chik. U dudes who pull sh*t like dis are lames n u make my azz itch.
I thought Queen Pen was bi. She sure has a lot of kids to play for both teams.
I am man and if I ever get the feeling I want to punch out a chick I’m supposed to be feelin then it means I walk away. Certain personality types just dont mix, I aint mad. IMO Niccas that hit women most times is insecure & cant stand the thought of another man rutting and ramming up in what they think belongs to them only. No true self-worth. Dudes like this are some sorry azzz niccas. When one door closes, another opens. Knowledge is Power.
before I read this I was thinking “why is christina milian posing like such a *****…??”
@tg102 and P
Excuse da pure hell out of me if I step on either of your toes but u both are on a whole other level of pure B.S. TG102 are u super serious in saying what u said?? I guess so if u wrote it, u don’t feel sorry for her, but for him???? I only feel sorry 4 them kids who had to watch that mess take place in front of them. OF course he is the bad man, and I don’t care how much u are arguing with a woman and she puts her hand or fingers in your face, the right thing to do is not to sock the ***** out of her in front of her kids or period for that matter.
and 2 P…
I jus wanna say…Im sure you got ur ***** whooped when you were young. My brother sure did and my mama was all n his face with belts, her finger, whatever, and he never raised his hand back to her. So my question is if you and your mother were arguing would u punch da ***** out of her….God, I sure hope not..have the same respect for any woman especially one that bore your f*^king children. How dare you try to put any blame on her.. U *****z kill me.
He sounds like a jealous little *****.. For what reason would he break her Grammy?? Sounds to me like this little *****got ***** n!gger couldn’t gain her success and is enviously angry because of it.. He’s probably an aspiring rapper himself…
Queen Pen? Grammy??? WTF!!! Is there a store that sells these things???
oh gross, I have her shoes.
@ Son of Baldwin…
I concur.
“This story is for all those women who claim they want a “thug.””
Where in the reading does it say he’s a thug?? Are we *****uming that all black males are abusive thugs – cause when I say this up in here is causes World War 3.. Is someone else finally admitting that maybe I’m right in my *****essment of the black male??? I raely feel that today’s black male deserves the benefit of the doubt.. Do you agree with me??
Cut that thug ***** out.. All walks of black males abuse women, physically and mentally…
I just had to sign on and read SMDH comments on this. I’m goingto checklater for CC’s comments. I know she’s going to bring it for real.
Queen Penn, you and your children are in my prayers. May you embrace the strength to overcome.
A man should respect a woman and never hit her. A woman should respect a man and not step to him in a physical fight sort of way.
Keep it verbal and civil. The moment you get physical with a man, even one who would never hit a woman, you’ve crossed a boundary, and certain men may not have that same respect for you.
And obviously, if you man has a problem with his fists, call the damn police, stop protecting these people.
@SMDH
I THOUGHT YOUR IMPOSTER WAS BACK SO I ALMOST IGNORED YOUR POST, IM GLAD I DIDNT!!! I DONT KNOW WHAT THESE DUMMIES ARE THINKING, EXCUSING A MNA BECAUSE HE might HAVE BEEN PROVOKE. I WONDER IF A ***** TWICE HIS SIZED PROVOKED HIM WOULD HE BEAT HIS *****!!! NO HE WOULDNT
This coward is pathetic!
“A man should respect a woman and never hit her. A woman should respect a man and not step to him in a physical fight sort of way.
Keep it verbal and civil. The moment you get physical with a man, even one who would never hit a woman, you’ve crossed a boundary, and certain men may not have that same respect for you.”
SMDH – where does anything about anything say she was up in his face about anything??? You all are just determined to make it this girls fault!?!?! She was jumped on an abused – and is the law, and a white jury, is on her side her will answer to that – not her!!! You all have got to come away from this theory that every bad behavior the black male possesses is someone elses fault or can be explained away.. This black ***** is a sick **********a and he needs to be dealt with..
I swear I am in this post truly understanding why whites try their best to keep blacks from being the jury majority.. Sometimes our thinking – where a guilty black male is concerned – is all *****ed up!!!
SMDH again!!!
Ok, I remember her.. but what Grammy did she win and for what?
Fill me in
I THOUGHT YOUR IMPOSTER WAS BACK SO I ALMOST IGNORED YOUR POST, IM GLAD I DIDNT!!! I DONT KNOW WHAT THESE DUMMIES ARE THINKING, EXCUSING A MNA BECAUSE HE might HAVE BEEN PROVOKE. I WONDER IF A ***** TWICE HIS SIZED PROVOKED HIM WOULD HE BEAT HIS *****!!! NO HE WOULDNT
No honey – it’s me.. When you right click my picture and go to properties, you will see that my gravatar address line reads:
gravatar_id=3b60f674edec0e1b71def2ea5eef2873
That address is unique to the e-mail address that you use for that picture.. Noone else here knows the address that I use.. If you ever right click my Gravatar and the address doesn’t end in f2873 – then you KNOW its not me whether they have my picture or not.. Keep that in mind..
And EXCELLENT point about how quick he would have been to jump on another male.. Everyone knows the *****s some black males can be.. If they can’t beat on a woman or jump a male as a group they are very rarely interested in fighting at all.. Then, they usually want to pull a drive by or something..
For example – look at Suge Knights *****.. As long as him and his boys were jumping that guy they were whipping that *****.. But what happened the minute his boys dispersed?? SUGE GOT KNOCKED THE *****K OUT!!!
SMDH!!!
Queen Pen ought to find herself a good woman.
The report says nowhere where she was up in his face. I was just making a general statement. The report makes it clear that this guy should be in jail.
SOME MEN CAN BE SPINELESS. YES IT IS TRUE THAT SOME WOMEN CAN PROVOKE A MAN. BUT A MAN IS A MAN REGARDLESS, AND HAS MORE STRENGTH THAN A WOMAN. IF SHE’S *****ING YOU OFF TO THAT DEGREE, YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO LEAVE. I HATE TO SEE IT HAPPEN. I DESPISE A VIOLENT MAN. AND THEYRE LUCKY THEY DONT RUN INTO WOMEN LIKE SOME OF THE ONES IN MY FAMILY. CAUSE WE BELIEVE IN THAT “WHATEVER AINT NAILED DOWN, YOU GET RIGHT UPSIDE THE HEAD” THEORY. KNOW YOU CANT BEAT A MAN HANDS UP, BUT REMEMBER YOUR WAY TO THE KITCHEN, IS ALL IM SAYING.
@SMDH
I not going to say he was right in anyway, but if you had heard her do a interview a few months back about he ex you would know that there is a lot more to this story.
Make better choices with who you date and mate with ladies. This woman has multiple children with multiple men/losers (in most cases) is a recipe for disaster…Yeah, this *****hole should be put to sleep, but she also has some accountability in this p*****ion play. You only get one life – MAKE BETTER LIFE DECISIONS!
DAM SHE WAS FINE BACK IN THA DAYS WONDER WHA SHE DID TO OLE BOY FOR HIM TO GET TA FLASHIN LIKE THAT
http://WWW.MY*****E.COM/THAGRINDAHOLIC
I GOT DEM GHETTO KNOCKS
“I not going to say he was right in anyway, but if you had heard her do a interview a few months back about he ex you would know that there is a lot more to this story.”
Alot more to the story like what?? Something that justifies a man beating a woman down like she were a man infront of her children??
SMDH!!!
Tough talking rapper??? PALEEZE. She tried too hard to copy lil kim’s style but *****ody was buying it. Can you remember anything she did except that verse on that Black Street No Diggity joint. BUT ANYWAYS… Sorry to hear about this incident though!
“Yeah, this *****hole should be put to sleep, but she also has some accountability in this p*****ion play. You only get one life – MAKE BETTER LIFE DECISIONS!”
I knew it wouldn’t be long before the ultimate n!gger I love to hate came in with his ***** ***** poor black male opinion… But then why am I shocked?? You’re the first one up in here trying to get the m*****es to pity the black male or justify his violent criminal behavior..
LOL@ she needs to play a role.. Listen coon – not everyone has this undying pity for the sorry ***** woman beating black male.. Black woman/White woman – the black male has serious issues with jumping on women..
Its like I said further up – the black male is a *****ing *****.. Unless he can beat the ***** out of a woman or a guy in a group – he very rarely feels froggy until he can sit in a car with a gun a pull a drive by.. Black males are weak little wimps and ***** like this only proves it!!
@ SMDH
Uhhh, blackmen does not have the monopoly on domestic abuse, you idiot…So don’t use this forum as another one of your pulpits to villify blackmen. Calm down!
anyway I hope Pen leaves this jerk…
@SMDH
Like how she has admitted to slashing his tires before and beating up his girl friend. Oh and attacking him in front of the kids.
“Uhhh, blackmen does not have the monopoly on domestic abuse, you idiot…”
Yes – but now let’s look at the LIKLINESS that he will become abusive… All you see in the news are stories of these athletes beating the ***** out of their white women (I point out WHITE WOMEN so that n!ggas like you are forced to come away from this being Pen’s fault cause she is a opinionated black women)… Black males need to grow some *****!!!
“So don’t use this forum as another one of your pulpits to villify blackmen. Calm down!”
Stop vilifying sistas and I’ll leave the black male alone!!!
Thank you! Like when is it gonna stop. It is so bad now with domestic violence that I am worried about dating.
“Like how she has admitted to slashing his tires before and beating up his girl friend. Oh and attacking him in front of the kids.”
Link please… Please show me where she said she did all of this..
You black males need to stop that *****.. Noone is going to condone you beating on women, but you!!! Everyone is tired of the black male wanting his own set of rules…
I’ll pray for Queen…
I can’t feel sorry for her or any woman in a so called abusive relationship, because they know when they have and abuser but they choose to stay with them. The first time he clocked her ***** she should have ended the relationship then no matter what there is no excuse to have kept it goin. Now since he majorly whopped her ***** now its a problem. ***** please it’s her fault for letting it get this far and this deep.
@ SMDH
IM SHOCKED AT ALL THESE *****S DEFENDING A MAN HITTING A WOMN, NOW IF SHE BEAT HIS ***** AND CUT TIRES, CALL THE POLICE. FAKE ***** SORRY *****S ALWAYS MAKING AN EXCUSE, I DIDNT CALL THE POLICE THATS THE “*****” THING TO DO. AND THEN TWO WEEKS LATER WE READ THIS *****, THIS MAKES HIM LOOK MORE LIKE A ***** THAN CALLING PO-PO!!! SOME OF YOU DUDUES ON HERE I CHAT WITH AND HAD NO IDEA YALL THINK LIKE THIS. DONT GET ME STARTED ILL SHUT THIS ***** DOWN. AND YES THIS IS COMING FROM A CHICK WHO SPENT 5 YRS IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP, AND BEFORE I LEFT I ENDED UP WITH A BROKEN NOSE, I STILL HAVE TWO PINS IN MY ANKLE, AND WORST OF ALL MY SIX FRONT TEETH WERE KNOCKED PARTIALLY OUT AND SUBMERGED INTO THE BONE RIGHT UNDER MY NOSE. AFTER 7 TEETH IMPLANTS
(JUST LIKE REAL TEETH, SURGICALLY PLANTED IN MOUTH, AT 3800.00 PER TOOTH) YOU NOW SEE THE ABOVE PIC. FELLAS NO WOMAN DESEVES THAT, HALF OF YOU KICK ON HERE WITH ME AND OTHER THAN HAVE A SMART MOUTH, I HAD DONE NOTHING, AND READERS YES MY 14 YR OLD DAUGHTER SAW THE WHOLE THING, THAT WAS THE WORST OF IT ALL. IT HAPPENED ABOUT 6-7 YRS AGO!!! SO WATCH YOUR *****IN MOUTHS. THE ONLY WOMAN THAT DESEVES AN ***** WHOPPIN LIKE THAT IS KHIAS, WHACK ***** NECK AND BACK!!!
PS LOOK AT ME NOW. ALL DYMED OUT, AND MY EX WAS RELEASED FROM JAIL IN 2005. WHAT A PUNISHMENT
@ BIG MIKE
IT DOESNT MATTER WHEN SHE LEFT, AS LONG AS SHE FINALLY HAD THE COURAGE TO DO SO
THERE’S REALLY NO SENSE IN ANYONE ON HERE ARGUING BACK AND FORTH ABOUT WHO’S RIGHT OR WRONG-*****,THEY’RE PROBABLY HAVING MAKE-UP SEX RIGHT NOW.
Corperate Cutie it’s your *****ing fault for staying in a abusive relationship for five years. It shows how stupid your ***** is. Five *****in years, so shut yourself down for being so *****ins STUPID.
@ corperatecutieshayshay(Check me out!)
Well, you just prove my point. Thug-lovin’ has its’ cost. Make better decisions with who you lay up with.
I haaaaaaaaattteee men who beat women. They deserve to go to jail and have someone beat and abuse them. She needs to press charges and send him where he belongs. She got kids n she needs to set a better example than to be dealing with a man that abuses her.
This is something every women needs to have a Taser gun, don’t even let the man in your life know you have it. So if and when this fool start acting up you can send 350 volts of electricity through his *****. That will lay out a 400lb man and have him flopping like a fish out of water. Don’t ask me how I know I just know.
@i said it!!!
LMAO!
I USED TO SAY THAT A WOMAN WAS FOOLISH FOR STAYING IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. BUT THE REALITY IS THAT WE (THOSE OF US WHO HAVE NEVER EXPERIENCED IT) HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE WITH AN ABUSIVE PERSON. WE ARE ALL INDIVIDUALS AND REACT TO THINGS DIFFERENTLY. SOME OF YOU NEVER KNOW A PERSONS BACKGROUND. WHETHER THEY WERE RAISED WITH ENOUGH STRENGTH AND/OR COURAGE TO WALK AWAY FROM, OR NOT GET INVOLVED IN A SITUATION LIKE THAT. IT IS SO EASY FOR THE ONLOOKER TO SAY..”YOU FOOL!” OR “YOU’RE STUPID!” BUT YOU DONT KNOW IF THE VICTIM FEELS THREATENED, YOU DONT KNOW IF THE ABUSER HAS MENTALLY INSTITUTIONALIZED THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER INTO BELIEVING THAT THERE IS NO WAY THAT THEY CAN LEAVE. I CAN SPEAK FOR MYSELF AND SAY THAT BY THE GRACE OF GOD I’VE NEVER ENCOUNTERED AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP TYPE OF SITUATION. AND WHEN ONE DID APPROACH ME, BEFORE FEAR CAME ANGER, AND I TRIED TO CUT THE ***** OUT OF THE *****, BUT HE RAN, AND THEN I CALLED THE PO PO ON HIS *****. WE NEVER SPOKE AGAIN. BUT, THATS ME. I CANT SAY THAT EVERY WOMAN IS STUPID BECAUSE SHE STAYS, BECAUSE I DONT KNOW HOW SHE FEELS, OR THE EXTENT OF HER SITUATION. AND I DONT THINK ITS FAIR TO P***** SUCH JUDGEMENT. YOU NEVER KNOW UNTIL THE VICTIM BECOMES YOU OR ONE OF YOUR LOVED ONES. AND TRUST ME, IVE SEEN IT GO ON MORE THAN NECCESSARY UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL, TO KNOW HOW ONE CAN BE MANIPULATED. DONT BE SO QUICK TO JUDGE PEOPLE!!
@ SMDH
You are FOOLISH, IGNORANT, and even if you are a person of color or not you are in fact a racist! I KNOW you don’t REALLY expect people to believe or even believe yourself that black men are the ONLY race of men hitting women. Sean Connery admitted to open-hand slapping his wife. So please stop the race antics. It’s childish and uninformed at best. Domestic violence is an EVERYONE and EVERYWHERE problem!
p.s. My boyfriend of 7 years does NOT HIT ME, my father (and yes black people do have fathers who are married to their mothers in case you missed that too)has NEVER put a hand on my mother, and my brother has NEVER laid a disrespectful hand on his girlfriend either so PLEASE DON’T TRY THAT “ALL BLACK MEN AREN’T S$%#” NONSENSE!
@ big mike
you are really ignorant.
i dont argue but enlighten.
ps not dumb
i make WELL OVER 6 FIGUREZ, WITH TWO DEGREES.
IM THE VP OF A MAJOR MEDIA COMPANY. TOP 100!!
SO I MUST NOT BE TOO DUMB. AND FOR ANY ONE ELSE, I CANT SPEAK FOR QUEEN BUT FOR MYSELF I STAYED WITH HIM DURING THE VERBAL ABUSE BECAUSE WE ALL LOVE TO HAVE FAITH IN OUT BLACK MEN, INSTEAD BAILING OUT AND AND DOWNING THEM, BUT AFTER THE SECOND ALTERCATION ALL WITH IN 45 DAYS OF EACH OTHER. I PACKED MY ***** AND MY DAUGHTER AND LEFT AND THATS HOW I ENDED UP IN MICHIGAN, SO LADIES NEVER BE DISCOURAGED BY THE IGNORANCE OF A MAN, AS YOU CAN SEE THEY ARE ON HERE. I ONLY TOLD MY STORY TO HOPEFULLY INSPIRE SOMEONE. GOD HAS ALL THIS STUFF HAPPEN FOR A REASON. AND I HATE TO BRAG BUT IM GLAD IT DID. LOOK AT ME NOW!! I HAVE A BEAUTIFUL 1/2 MILLION DOLLAR HOME, A WONDERFUL HUSBAND,( THAT I CANT GET ENOUGH OF) A GREAT JOB AND WONDERFUL KIDS.
And just to note, the MOST DANGEROUS time for a woman in an abusive relationship is when she tries to LEAVE! When you see most news cases of men murdering thier spouses, it usually is when she was trying to leave him.
@ MARQUIS
NIGRO PLEASE IM FROM WATERLOO IOWA, THERE ARE NO THUGS THERE, AND HE WAS A MIXED GUY . HIS MOTHER WAS A OBSTERTRICIAN, THAT DELIVERED MY DAUGHTER, AND HIS DAD WAS A JUDGE. WE MET AT CHURCH… SCARY HUH. I AGREE WITH THE PART OF THE POINT YOU GUYS MAKE, HOWEVER NO WOMAN DESERVES AN ***** WHOPPINFROM A GROWN ***** MAN.WHETHER HE IS A THUG OR NOT!! SOME MEN JUST DONT HAVE GOOD MORAKS, I HAD GREW UO INCHURCH WITH HIM FOR YEARS AND OUR PARENTS KNEW EACH OTHER, WE DECIDED TO TRY TO DATE AND WE DATED FOR 2 YRS AND THE LAST 2-3 MONTHS OF OUR RELATIONSHIP WAS WHEN THIS HAPPENED, AFTER HIS PATENTS GOT DIVORCED!!! I DONT DATE THUGS. NEVER HAVE!!!
@Marquis de Sade
It’s not just “thugs” who abuse women — the lack of self-control and issues with anger management exist among men of all cl*****es and from various walks of life.
Here’s a sampling of some stats: African-American women experience intimate partner violence at rates 35% higher than their White counterparts and 2.5 times the rate of men and other races. Approximately 29.1% of African-American females experience intimate partner violence – rape, physical *****ault, or stalking – in their lifetime. Intimate partner homicide is the leading cause of death for African-American women ages 15 to 45.
@ SOSO Its the realist talk I ever spoke.
Let’s not personally attack the women who said she got beat and her teeth knocked out she’s lucky to be alive. All I would say to her or any women is there are warning sign to look out for. It’s not cute for your man to be questioning your every move or telling you what to wear how to look theses kind of things might be cute in the beginning, but are sign of an controlling and possessive person.
@ LEMUR
YOU SAID IT BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE I KNOW
THANKS FOR THAT YOU JUST GAVE MY HEART A SIGH OF RELIEF. THIS CONVO IS GETTING A LITTLE TO HEAVY ON MY HEART IM TAKING A LITTLE BREAK!!
“I can’t feel sorry for her or any woman in a so called abusive relationship, because they know when they have and abuser but they choose to stay with them. The first time he clocked her ***** she should have ended the relationship then no matter what there is no excuse to have kept it goin. Now since he majorly whopped her ***** now its a problem. ***** please it’s her fault for letting it get this far and this deep.”
Another abusive n!gger speaks!! So by this mentality when white cops are busting you *****ing clowns upside your head and giving you 50 warning shots in traffic stops, it’s your fault, cause you should have known from past her incidents to just sit back and give the cop what he is asking for with as little uproar as possible, right??? I cna get onboard with that!!!
I am so glad none of you “it must be her fault” **********as will decide this n!ggers fate!!
Again, I maintain, this is EXACTLY why whitey tries ot exclude blacks from the jury as often as he can – and I fully understand his need to to this… If it were left up to some blacks the black males criminal violent rapist ***** would walk everytime…
Think about this the next time you read a story about some privlidged *****ing n!gger playing the race card about their being no blacks on his jury!!!
Thank God for the white man where crime is involved.. Thank God – for the most part – he decides who will go down and who won’t!!
SMDH!!!
Essence magazine also ran an article a few years ago about domestic violence cases in Prince George’s County, the nation’s wealthiest predominantly black county. Here’s a link to a story with more data,
http://www.womensenews.org/article.cfm/dyn/aid/3028/
Wow, I’m surprised at all of the men using the Chris Rock reasoning “It might not be right, but I understand”. Even if Queen Pen was the instigator, and went upside his head first in every incident, 2 wrongs don’t make a right. Someone has to take the high road.
As far as leaving, that’s easier said than done in a lot of cases. I’m sure they have promised each other over and over again not to beat on each other, they believe one another, things go well for a while, then the next big blow up happens. Its a nasty cycle.
And someone mentioned “thugs”. Thugs come in all shapes and forms, including our “professional” brothers in suits. Those SOBs are the craziest of the crazy because they would NEVER take the hood route and go loco in public. They do their dirt in private where no one would believe they are hell on wheels.
That’s some real messed up $hit right there. I hope she gets her life back together.
“Well, you just prove my point. Thug-lovin’ has its’ cost. Make better decisions with who you lay up with.”
Stupid *****ing n!gger!! How did she make this point.. You uneducated *****ing n!gger boys KILL me pulling out the ***** you want to pull out.. She never saids anything about loving thugs. I think thats an excuse you worthless *****ing n!ggers use to try to justify your behaviors.. Its ok cause a thug did it.. The black male is *****ed up all around.. Thugs, Teachers, Doctors, Athletes, Celebrities and so on and so on.. The black male is an abusive *****ed up male who rarely knows how to treat women anyway.. That’s why he’s the most divorced male on the planet.. No woman has time to put up with your criminal abusive n!gger *****!! Its too easy to leave your *****es – and thats what women do in record numbers…..
The FACT remains that black males are big ***** *****es that need to beat on a woman to mask their own insecurities and **********ness!!!
Get the hell on you ignorant *****ing jigaboo piece of dog *****!!
@ Sydney & Corp.
Be it as it may, the signs were probably there to begin with. Most women tend to mistake that brutish behavior with virility instead of recognzing it for what it really is. Btw, there are degrees of thuggery. Stop playing the victim. Be more aware and alert to the signs. 9 times out of 10, they are there and your magic vajayjay won’t change him or the situation. I don’t buy into idea that “PRINCE CHARMING” can magically turn into an “*****HOLE” in zero to sixty in 3 seconds…And correct me if i’m wrong, but Queen Pen had two children with this *****hole. What does that say for her?
@ SMDH
MY HUSBAND IS WHITE NOW. I DONT KNOW IF I SJOULD HAVE SAID IT, BUT MY MOM SAYS THATS WHY I MARRIED HIM AS A SCAPEGOAT FOR WHAT HAPPENED TO ME AND HE WAS THE ONLY BLACK OR HALF BLACK GUY I EVER DATED. I HAVE 8 BROTHERS 7 ALL ARE FULL BLACK MALES AND THEY ARE THE MOST RESPECTFUL NURTURING MEN I EVER MET, I JUST COULDNT FIND A MAN TO DATE THAT WAS LIKE THEM
SMDH
who are you? You sound stupid, and you sound like you like getting your #SS beat! I feel sorry for her..YOU don’t know what she went/been through!
HOW can you feel sorry for a man that put his hands on someone that is weaker than him, and someone that has given birth to his two kids? DID your mom get her @ss kicked throughout your life time, or did she kick your helpless father #ss? which one?
I thought that Queen pen was gay? I guess not!
@ Corperatecutieshayshay:
I thought you would have known by now not to waste yoru time on that ignorant *****ign n!gger Marquis de 100 Identities…
..Marquis de Coon, incase you haven’t noticed by the way his ***** ape ***** likes to hang on Bossip all day arguing with a bunch of women, is probably one of these very coon *****s who like to har***** and beat on women cause of his inabilities to stop being a wet ***** and be a real man.. I could very easily see him beating on some woman half his size cause I can tell by the way he posts that he is seriously lacking in the man up department…
Again, Marquis likes to argue with women all day under multiple identities.. I know you aren’t taking anything this *****ing tar swamp baby has to say about anything concerning a black woman…
SMDH!!
COOP
in that case..if what your saying is the truth
he still didn’t have a right putting his hands on her, and she should of got that ***** beat by a real woman…because if i was his friend..first he shouldn’t let it get that far, but if it did..i wouldn’t back down..I don’t care if she is a lesbo, or not!
@Marquis de Sade
I don’t know the details of Queen Pen’s situation, and I agree that there are usually signs that precede physical violence, including emotional abuse, but, make no mistake, this is a crime, and women who are hit are victims. And a number of women who have seen the signs and have attempted to leave abusive relationships have been injured and/or killed — including those who have restraining orders. In the D.C. region, for example, there was a recent case of a sister (she appeared on Oprah) whose ex went to her job and set her on fire.
syndey
I saw that one! that was sad! oooh that burned me up!
White is Right why are you even on this site? Shouldn’t you be defending the Catholic religion for molesting millions of children all over the world or how about the Church of Morons? Shouldn’t you be in line trying to get your 20 children who are half retarded back from the state? Get the ***** out of your ***** for just a minute and take care of your own because with out YOU the white race is failing. What you gonna do when Obama paints the white house? I know you’re so hard behind that key board but in reality your nothing but a tap dancing straw chewing pink face.
sydney
LOL how are you supposed to make better life decisions if you never knew the individual was violent?…Do you honestly believe someone would come up to you OFF THE FLY, and approach you to knock your teeth out? In all aspects, I believe MOST people arent dumb, and they hide themselves very well until the point locking themselves in the relationship (i.e for you marquise de shade- impregnating a woman), but i guess your next best advice would be for her to have abortions. ***** happens, you cant go around blaming people as if they have hindsight into the future..
@Ms. Sugar Walls
Hello, Ms. Walls, I missed the Oprah episode, but I read about her in the newspaper, and it was a very emotional story. I’m trying to find her name now — if I recall correctly, her ex poured gasoline on her and then set her on fire. It was a miracle that she survived. I think she has a daughter.
Smh.. I shoulda known this ***** woulda been laced with ignorance. Its beyond me how idiots try to justify a man beating the daylights out of a female.. Jus ridiculous in my book.
@ Sydney
I realize what this *****hole did was a crime and he should be put to sleep, but your statistics has a double-edged sword – What is it about african american women and their attraction to *****holes? I’m sure there are a lot of respectful/responsible blackmen out there, but time and time again most black women tends to gravatate towards the jerks and *****holes. Case in point, go to the Mariah/Nick Cannon thread and see how a large percentage of the womean refer to Nick as a “GOOBER” or “LOSER” just because he’s not tatted up, no criminal record, etc, etc. All i’m saying is that there is accountability on both parties sides.
I found her name — Yvette Cade. She also said in an interview that her ex would become violent every time she tried to leave. This is from a 2006 story: “Yvette Cade used to have a smooth mocha complexion and a figure that made men on the beach do a double take. But that was eight months ago, before her husband stormed into her workplace, threw gasoline on her and set her on fire. He was convicted in April of trying to kill her. Today, her face is covered in pink patches, and her arms, chest and back have thick coats of bumpy, co***** skin. Her days are spent in physical therapy struggling to recover movement.”
@ marquis
what happened to you
we been chat partners for months and i dont see how with your views. I feel your point you have to go to a domestic violence and read up. boo ALL *****S AINT LIKE YOU!!! REALIZE THAT, SOME *****S WAS BROUGHT UP TO HIDE **********NESS, AND LIKE I SAID THIS GUY WASNT BLACK, AND CAME FROM ONE OF THE MOST PROMINENNT FAMILY IN THE TOWN NEXT TO OURS. SO YOUREASINING DIESNT FIT THIS SCENERIO, AND SEVERAL OTHERS THAT HAPPEN, DONT TRY TO SCHOOL US SISTERS, WE HAVE SUPPORT GROUPS FOR THAT. WHAT YOU DO IS TRY TO THROW SOME OF THAT MENTALITY AT THESE DUDES, CAUSE THE NEED IT. PUT YOU SELF IN MY SHOES WHAT IS IT HAPPENED TO YOUR SISTER OR YOUR KIDS MOTHER, (IF YOU ARE BKESSED WITH KIDS) DO YOU THINK CAUSE IF SHE MAY HAVE MADE A BAD CHOICE IN MEN SHE WOULD DESERVE TO HAVE HER FACE DISMANTLED… I KNOW YOU BETTER THAN THIS DOG AND IT CANT BE YOU!!! A YALL THIS MUST BE MARQUIS DE SADES IMPOSTER, WE HAVE BEEN ON THIS SITE FOR THE LAST SIX MONTHS AND I HAVE NEVER HEARD SUCH NONSENSE FROM HIM
“who are you? You sound stupid, and you sound like you like getting your #SS beat! I feel sorry for her..YOU don’t know what she went/been through!
HOW can you feel sorry for a man that put his hands on someone that is weaker than him, and someone that has given birth to his two kids? DID your mom get her @ss kicked throughout your life time, or did she kick your helpless father #ss? which?”
Damn – I wish non educated n!ggas would learn to read!! If you had READ my comments instead of just running off at the neck – you would see that I am RESPONDING to someone elee who felt that way, namely Marquis de N!gger.. Learn to read.. I neversaid I condone n!gger boys beating on women.. I am FULLY against it!!!
SMDH!!
@Marquis de Sade
And I’m countering your argument by telling you that it’s sometimes the so-called “nice guy” who’s abusing his partner/wife behind closed doors, so you can’t generalize about whom these abusers are.
And if black women are attracted to a**holes, then so are white, Latino, and Asian women — domestic violence affects the lives of women of all races, cl*****es, and walks of life. I don’t think anyone is disputing that there aren’t respectable men out there, but there are also cruel men who can hide their anger problems/predisposition to violence well.
@ Kai
Fvck you! If you *****es want to play the pre-meditated victim, then be my guest…Just don’t expect rational people to validate your own stupidity. You *****es are supposed to be grown and educated, and yet when you make a ***** poor life decision, you automatically blame it on the *****hole you should’ve let go when the signs first reared its’ ugly head! GROW THE FVCK UP AND SHOW SOME ACCOUNTABILITY FOR YOUR MISTAKES!
“White is Right why are you even on this site? Shouldn’t you be defending the Catholic religion for molesting millions of children all over the world or how about the Church of Morons? Shouldn’t you be in line trying to get your 20 children who are half retarded back from the state? Get the ***** out of your ***** for just a minute and take care of your own because with out YOU the white race is failing. What you gonna do when Obama paints the white house? I know you’re so hard behind that key board but in reality your nothing but a tap dancing straw chewing pink face.”
Tell that to these black males running off putting whitey above his own, namely Becky!!! You can’t have it both ways, black male!!
What a pice of sh*t! I WISH I saw some dude putting his hand on a woman in front of me…
Both parties in an abusive relationship have an emotional imbalance. Some women ‘talk’ themselves into to thinking and believing that he’s hitting her because he loves her soo much and doesn’t know how else to show that emotion. It’s a twisted logic but that’s how they cope with the behavior.
I believe she won the Grammy for No Diggity with BlackStreet/Teddy Riley.
I wonder why they didn’t mention that she’s now an author..I have Blossom and it was ok.
She’s also relaeased Situations (haven’t read) and Infiltrator is coming soon supposedly.
“Fvck you! If you *****es want to play the pre-meditated victim, then be my guest…Just don’t expect rational people to validate your own stupidity. You *****es are supposed to be grown and educated, and yet when you make a ***** poor life decision, you automatically blame it on the *****hole you should’ve let go when the signs first reared its’ ugly head! GROW THE FVCK UP AND SHOW SOME ACCOUNTABILITY FOR YOUR MISTAKES!”
And dont you expect rational people to condone the criminal abusive homicidal rapist black male’s behavior either..
Its not by coincidence that the black male is very often in trouble for violent behavior… 1 in every 3 black males will, at some point in his life, have some sort of judicial intervention.. This is usually related to violence!!!
He attacked her and he is being held accountable for it – end of story!!
SMDH @ this n!gger getting mad cause we won’t say she deservedot be attacked infront of her children for continuing to deal with him.. That only happens in the black males tiny little abusive ***** ***** mind!!!
@ Corp.
Am i typing in a foreign language? Not once did i condone what this *****hole did!…But on the same token, i’m not going to sit here and let that psycho SMDH, villify all black men for the actions of a few *****holes.
Good! She calls herself having a little piece of a career as a writer and is terrible I mean terrible. She also direspects other writers and is horrible at meet and greats. I hope he continues to whoop her ***** for the rest of us.
@ SMDH
If all blackmen are so violent *****e, then why aren’t you DEAD? If there is anyone who so deserves to be a victim of a ball peen hammer being imbedded into their skull, it’s YOU!
I’m telling you ***** hole. You come on here trying to stir up the ***** because you have nothing better to do. The white race has no culture no real history its all made up of lies. That’ why Becky is on the Black mans *****, she’s tired of your lil pink ***** acting like your superior. She doesn’t want to strap one on because you can’t get off with out getting your booty punctured. Ask your mom she’ll tell you how she did your dad.
“Am i typing in a foreign language? Not once did i condone what this *****hole did!…But on the same token, i’m not going to sit here and let that psycho SMDH, villify all black men for the actions of a few *****holes.”
ROTFLMBAO!! Marquis – you are the one who everytime ***** like this is posted always wanna start that “thug” or “*****hole” ***** like all black males are this way.. It is YOU who never wants to see that some black males can start out just fine with a woman and morph into behaviors such as this one here.. You are the one who automatically *****umes these must be thug *****holes like there aren’t black males out there who don’t fall into either category!!! Don’t put your ***** on me boy!! You’re the one saying this!!!
SMDH!!!
“If all blackmen are so violent *****e, then why aren’t you DEAD? If there is anyone who so deserves to be a victim of a ball peen hammer being imbedded into their skull, it’s YOU!”
I’m probably managed to keep my “skull” cause I don’t date black males…
Next question, coon??
WOW, This convo is interesting….
Let that had been your mom, daughter, or sister that got beat up YOU wouldn’t be sittin up in here talking about accountabilities….Thats sad….
@ CL*****Y
I HAVE READ BLOSSOM TOO!
THIS IS SHOCKING HOW MANY IGNORANY MEN WE HACE ON THIS SITE!!! I HAVE ENCOUNTERED FOOLISHNESS BEFORE BUT NEVER TO THIS EXTENT, FOR ANOTHERGROWN ***** BLACK MAN TO DEFEND ANOTHER ONE FOR HITTING A WOMAN. I DONT THINK ANY OF YOU WOULD SAY THIS IF THEY HAD SEEN THEIR MOMS TAKE A HELLUVAH BEATING!!!! THE WOULD BE VENTING LIKE A BUCH OF *****EZ LIKE US
PS
SMDH
I THINJ SOMEONE HAS YOU CONFUSED WITH YOUR IMPOSTER, THAT WHITE MAN THAT WAS POSING WITH YOUR GRAVIE!!! I DONT THINK THEY KNOW ITS THE REAL SMDH… THATS ALL
So if your white male kicks your *****, i guess you’ll find some way to blame black men for that too, huh? You’re fvcking joke! Go kill yourself.
@SMDH
Now you know your comments are very lopsided, not to mention inaccurate. The vast majority of black men are law-abiding individuals (remember the stat I shared with you about more black men being in college than in prison?).
As far as domestic violence tendencies, I submit the following names to you (these are just the ones who immediately jumped to mind):
– Drew Peterson, the cop in Chicago
– Scott Peterson (killed wife and unborn son)
– Charles Stuart (killed his wife in Boston and blamed it on a black man)
And the list goes on and on. . .
Hi SMDH….
I’m sorry that you don’t date black men at all, I am lucky to have one of the many good ones out their, granted their are a lot of f*ked up men, but they DO come in all colors, shapes and sizes….not just black….
@ Syndey_ I concur
you damn right the list goes on and on, not to mention that at at least 85 percent of the worlds serial killers were white men, and these men took the lives of hundreds of innocent people….but we are here arguing about black men and pointing out black men, FOR WHAT??
@ Corp
Sorry, but there is no SMDH imposter. Check the gravie, it’s the same # 2873. She’s insane. Stop making excuses for her.
It’s stupid to single out one race for a particular issue because you have good men and bad men in all races.
“I’m telling you ***** hole. You come on here trying to stir up the ***** because you have nothing better to do. The white race has no culture no real history its all made up of lies. That’ why Becky is on the Black mans *****, she’s tired of your lil pink ***** acting like your superior. She doesn’t want to strap one on because you can’t get off with out getting your booty punctured. Ask your mom she’ll tell you how she did your dad.”
Here we go again where it must be someone elses fault – anyone but the black male:
Becky is not on the black males *****.. The black male is on her *****!! I know plenty of white women who have dated black males along with a variety of males.. Plenty of white women date black and never go back.. However, I can count on two fingers the number of black males who have dated white and came back to their own.. The black male is OBSESSED with Becky – so stop blaming her for your obsessions..
All that other bull***** in your comment is just angry n!gger boy crap!! Get the hell on monkey!!!
SMDH!!
@ MARQUIS
I NEVER SAID YOU PERSYA BUT READ A FEW COMMENTS FROM YOUR FELLOW BLOGGERS, I DOWNED YOU FOR YOUR OVERALL COMMENTS ABOUT WOMEN NEEDING TO SMARTEN UP!!! I AM AS SMART AS THEY COME AND ONLY *****OCIATE MYSELF WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE IN THE SAME LEAGUE AS MYSELF, BUT IF SOMEONE ISNT PLAYING WITH A FULL DECK AND HAS DEEP ROUTED ISSUES, DOESNT MEAN THE WOMAN WAS TO DUMB TO SEE IT… DID YOU EVER TALE THE TIME TO THINK MAYBE HE WAS GOOD AT HIDING HIS TRUE IDENTITY, WHICH MOST MALES USUALLY ARE!! JUST THINK ABOUT IT. I HAVE NEVER CAME OFF HODDRATTISH OR UNEDUCATED ON HERE SO I WANT TO TAKE THE TIME TO HAVE YOU UNEDUCATED. IM TAKING THIS TIME TI DISCUSS THIS MATTER NOT TO ARGUE, IF I CAN HELO AT LEAST 1 PERSON UNDERSTAND WHAT I WENT THROUGH, TO PRVEVENT IT FROM HAPPENING TO ANOTHER BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEEN THEN I WILL STAY ON THIS ***** ALL DAY!!!
MARQUIS I GET YOUR POINT, FEMALES SHOULD BE SMARTER ON WHO THEY PICK TO DATE… WE GET THAT, BUT WHAT ABOUT US GOOS WOMEN, WITH EDUCATION AND MORALS, WHAT ADVICE FOR US WOMEN WHO MET UP WITH TERMS. I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW TJIS ***** AINT ONE SIDED!!! ALL WOMEN DONT GET THEIR ***** WHPPOED BECAUSE THEIR DUMB, SOME OF US TAKE A LIFETHREATNING ***** WHOPPIN BECAUSE WE ARENT DUMB AND JUST THE OPPOSITE. TOO SMART FOR DUMB ***** MEN, THAT WERE NEVER SHOWED OR TAUGHT HOW A REAL WOMAN SHOULD BE TREATED… IS THAT OUR FAULT TOO!
@ LAUREN
WHATS UP SIS
YOU SEE THESE NUTS TOUCHING A SOFT SPOT WITH ME AND IM USUALLY LAID BACK, HOW YOU FEELING
@Lauren
Exactly! Abusers come in all races, and I’ve watched enough real-life crime cases to know that white men have committed some of the most heinous crimes imaginable.
This is a sensitive issue for me because as a toddler I saw my drunk father beat on my mother and once I was old enough to understand what happened I vowed to myself that I would NEVER be like my him.
Becky is not on the black males *****.. The black male is on her *****!! I know plenty of white women who have dated black males along with a variety of males.. Plenty of white women date black and never go back.. However, I can count on two fingers the number of black males who have dated white and came back to their own.. The black male is OBSESSED with Becky – so stop blaming her for your obsessions..
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I don’t understand your logic….just because you don’t know of any, this means there are none??? I know plenty of black men who have dated white women and gone back to marry a black woman, HAPPILY…So whats your point?
@ Lauren, I must agree with you on that. I have been with my man/boyfriend, for going on 3 yrs. He’s never been locked up, he’s a high school/college graduate with a degree. He holds a very high position at the company that we both work for. No illegitimate children, no kids at all. High family values, Christian man. But most importantly, he respects and loves me. He’s never called me a *****. He has never so much as raised his hand to point his finger in my face. Much less strike me to cause me bodily harm. If anything, ive gotten a little physical with him, and he wouldnt even so much as attempt to restrain me. (lol..doesnt make me right, im just saying) He just walks away until I cool off. But, the bottom line is…HE IS A BLACK MAN!! And a damned good one. RAISED PROPERLY, WELL EDUCATED, AND RESPECTABLE. So all “black men” are not the same.
@ Shay Shay, I’m trying to understand with an open mind some of these poeple’s point of views but its hard when they are being so close-minded, and I’m convined that this SMDH person is a white person, because no black person no matter how much they have been hurt is going to call another black person a n!gger, that is too hurtful, I’m sorry I just couldn’t do it.
my feelings are hurt due to the men on these sites, i just knew the comments on here would be different i am really shocked
@ Corp
That’s the exception, not the rule. As Sydney pointed out: African-American women experience intimate partner violence at rates 35% higher than their White counterparts and 2.5 times the rate of men and other races. Approximately 29.1% of African-American females experience intimate partner violence – rape, physical *****ault, or stalking – in their lifetime. Intimate partner homicide is the leading cause of death for African-American women ages 15 to 45. This being the case, then start dating/mating outside of your race…Which you did. More power to you…But don’t think i’m goin to sit here and let you or anyone else blame blackmen for the actions of a few *****holes. If SMDH feels that blackmen are the scurge of society, then why is she always on a black site? Move on!
“So if your white male kicks your *****, i guess you’ll find some way to blame black men for that too, huh? You’re fvcking joke! Go kill yourself.”
You sound like an angry coon, boy!! I bet you are abusive to women!!! I’m sure that’s why you’re up in here condoning what this criminal ape did to her…
SMDH!!!
I thought this broad was gay!!!!
“It’s stupid to single out one race for a particular issue because you have good men and bad men in all races.”
Tell that to the coons up in here who always want to blame the black woman for the ***** ***** black males bull*****!!!
@ SMDH
You’re runnin’ out of steam, *****. You’re repeating yourself and you’re projecting. Not once did i condone what that *****hole did. I subscribe to the belief that when a relationship doesn’t work – LEAVE! The problem with emotionally co-dependant people, be they men or women, is that they have this propensity to try to fit a square peg into a round hole. If it doesn’t fit, it don’t fit. Move on.
“I don’t understand your logic….just because you don’t know of any, this means there are none??? I know plenty of black men who have dated white women and gone back to marry a black woman, HAPPILY…So whats your point?”
My point is Becky isn’t selling her mamas soul to lay down with a black male.. Becky isn’t trying to become rich so that she appeals to the black male.. Becky isn’t turning her back on her race in record numbers for the black male.. Becky isn’t putting down her white men to appease the black male.. Becky is not the self hating joke that the black male is… Becky is obsessed with the black male.. The black male is obsessed with her…
That’s the point I’m trying to make..
ny abuser wasnt bkack huh, you havent read my comments… go back where do you see that. he was a mixed race and i never said black men, is that why we are beefing. my comment is all men!!! the only racial preference i made was about beautiful black women!!! your making good points but not directed at me. i have a problem with ANY MAN HITTING A WOMAN, NOT JUST A BLACK MAN!
@ SMDH
So by this mentality when white cops are busting you *****ing clowns upside your head and giving you 50 warning shots in traffic stops, it’s your fault, cause you should have known from past her incidents to just sit back and give the cop what he is asking for with as little uproar as possible, right??? I cna get onboard with that!!!
100% co-sign….
The fact that some *****s wanna sit here and justify a man putting his hands on a woman makes me ill.
Ridiculous! “Becky” can have those types:)
I DONT GET THE BECKY STUFFF????????
“@ Shay Shay, I’m trying to understand with an open mind some of these poeple’s point of views but its hard when they are being so close-minded, and I’m convined that this SMDH person is a white person, because no black person no matter how much they have been hurt is going to call another black person a n!gger, that is too hurtful, I’m sorry I just couldn’t do it.”
Well – you’re convinced wrong.. Black people are not monolithic.. Some of us will call it like we see it!! And if you’re acting like a *****ing n!gger then I’m gonna call you one..
“You’re runnin’ out of steam, *****. You’re repeating yourself and you’re projecting. Not once did i condone what that *****hole did. I subscribe to the belief that when a relationship doesn’t work – LEAVE! The problem with emotionally co-dependant people, be they men or women, is that they have this propensity to try to fit a square peg into a round hole. If it doesn’t fit, it don’t fit. Move on.”
You condoned it by blaming her, n!gger.. Cut the *****…
“If SMDH feels that blackmen are the scurge of society, then why is she always on a black site? Move on!”
And likewise to you when your sitting here bashing black women!!! Get the hell on, boy!!!
“Ridiculous! “Becky” can have those types:)”
The sad thing about this statement is Becky usually does get them.. Black males who are married to white women almost always end up, at some point, in trouble for *****aulting them..
I AM REALLY SHOCKED THAT WE ALL ARENT ON THE SAME PAGE, AND I JUST REMEMCERED THAT CADE WOMAN SHE HAS BEEN ON OPRAH AND TRYA
“Exactly! Abusers come in all races, and I’ve watched enough real-life crime cases to know that white men have committed some of the most heinous crimes imaginable.”
What does the white man have to do with this out of control violent coon attacking a woman infront of her kids???
Well – you’re convinced wrong.. Black people are not monolithic.. Some of us will call it like we see it!! And if you’re acting like a *****ing n!gger then I’m gonna call you one..
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Okay but you sound much less intelligent calling your OWN people this word, we have come along way as a people and I speak the truth when I say that it is people like you who unfortunatley hold us down, you are no better than Don Imus calling black girl “nappy headed ho’s” I just can’t continue to read your foolishness that makes no sense, so i’m done.
This dude’s ignorance is becoming contagious. I think he’s obsessed with black people. I can see how were descendents of Queens and Kings we are innovators he can’t drive down the block w/out acknowledging an invention by a Black Person. Here we stand stronger than ever there is nothing you can do to stop us. Learn your history learn about how threaten you were by us that you did everything in your power to stop us. We can’t be Stopped. “Be the change you wish to seek in the world” Ghandi
“Exactly! Abusers come in all races, and I’ve watched enough real-life crime cases to know that white men have committed some of the most heinous crimes imaginable.”
What does the white man have to do with this out of control violent coon attacking a woman infront of her kids???
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You again make no sense she didn’t say ANYTHING about white people at all she said ALL RACES, But you continue to turn words around the way you want them…Sad…
@SMDH
First of all, that is not a “coon” you’re referring to, he’s a man. My point is that abusers come in all races — you’ve singled out black men for your vitriol when the stats clearly speak to the reality of domestic violence’s impact across racial lines. You use every incident of crime or violence to launch into an endless diatribe against brothers.
@Brooklyn, Stand UP!
I’m very sorry that you witnessed your mother being abused. I’m sure that was horrible for you.
I said it!!(Check me out!)
This dude’s ignorance is becoming contagious. I think he’s obsessed with black people. I can see how were descendents of Queens and Kings we are innovators he can’t drive down the block w/out acknowledging an invention by a Black Person. Here we stand stronger than ever there is nothing you can do to stop us. Learn your history learn about how threaten you were by us that you did everything in your power to stop us. We can’t be Stopped. “Be the change you wish to seek in the world” Ghandi
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THANK YOU FOR THAT, WE NEED TO STOP ALL THIS HATE ON ONE ANOTHER, IF YOU HAVE BEEN HURT BY ANYONE IN YOUR LIFE IT IS TIME TO LIVE AND LET GO AND FORGIVE….
I don’t condone domestice violence on any front. A real true to life man would never put his hands on a woman AND this is vice versa advice for women. Also women or men should never ignore the tell tale signs of someone who has a potential to snap. I hope QP gets some help from the authorities and even if this ‘boyfriend’ comes back with flowers and remorseful apologies, she needs to stick to her guns. We’ve seen it all before…folks accepting idiotic behavior just to have somebody to lay up with. Love yourself please.
I LIVE IN A CITY WHERE THERE IS A LOT OF INTERACIAL DATING. I USED TO KNOW THIS GIRL IN HIGH SCHOOL. SHE WAS A SENIOR. BLACK GIRL. CUTE, DRESSED NICELY, POPULAR GIRL. SHE DATED A WHITE GUY NAMED CHRIS. AND HE USED TO BEAT HER ***** CAT RAGGEDY ON A REGULAR BASIS. I RECALL ONE DAY SHE CAME TO SCHOOL WITH THE BLACKEST EYE I HAVE EVER SEEN IN ALL MY LIFE. HIS ABUSE ON HER CONTINUED ON INTO EARLY ADULT YEARS, UNTIL SHE FINALLY GOT SENSIBLE ENOUGH TO PUT HIM IN JAIL, AND THEN MOVE. NOW THIS WAS A WHITE MAN AND A BLACK WOMAN. THERE ARE ABUSIVE *****S IN ALL RACES. I’VE SEEN IT PERSONALLY WITH MY OWN TWO EYES. AND THEY DONT JUST ABUSE THE WOMEN IN THEIR RACE. THEY WILL ABUSE ANY WOMAN WHOSE MIND MAY BE WEAK ENOUGH TO SEE NO OTHER WAY OUT, REGARDLESS OF WHAT COLOR SHE MAY BE. I AM A BLACK WOMAN. AND NO, EVERYTHING THAT SOME OF OUR BLACK MEN DO IS NOT PLEASING TO ME. BUT IF IT HAD NOT BEEN FOR THAT BLACK WOMAN, AND THAT BLACK MAN GETTING TOGETHER TO CREATE ME, I WOULD NOT BE HERE. I HAVE MAD LOVE FOR THOSE BLACK MEN WHO DESERVE RESPECT AND PRAISE. IF YOU ARE CLOSED MINDED ENOUGH OF A PERSON TO JUDGE ALL BLACK MEN BY THE ACTIONS OF A HAND FULL, THEN THAT IS TOTALLY YOUR CHOICE. NEVER THE LESS IT DOES SO VERY MUCH SHOW EXAMPLES OF CLOSED MINDED HATRED. AND GOD FORBID THE DAY THAT ONE WOULD HAVE TO FIND OUT THAT THEIR TRAIN OF THOUGHT IS HORRIBLY WRONG. IN RETROSPECT (HOWEVER) THE TOPIC OF THE ORIGINAL DISCUSSION WAS PERTAINING TO “MEN” WHO BEAT THE ***** OUT OF “WOMEN” AND IT HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH “BLACK, WHITE, PUERTO RICAN, DOMINICAN, IRANIAN…BLAH BLAH BLAH” SOME MEN ARE JUST ABUSIVE CREATURES. IT IS WHAT IT IS.
@Sydney
It actually made me become a better man than my father. My moms past away when I was 15 years so I’m sure she is looking down from heaven proud of me. My dad is still alive but the only time I see him is when he needs money for his sh*t. I still love him but it’s like a love/hate relationship. But thanx for your concern buddy, I appriciate it
“Okay but you sound much less intelligent calling your OWN people this word, we have come along way as a people and I speak the truth when I say that it is people like you who unfortunatley hold us down”
Well – what about the black males who will call themselves – and people who they hold dear – n!ggers??? And please, PLEASE don’t give me that n!gga, n!ggah bull*****!!! I’m not holding blacks back.. The stupid***** some of us do is holding blacks back!! I’m just one of the few who won’t condone it!!
“You are no better than Don Imus calling black girl “nappy headed ho’s” I just can’t continue to read your foolishness that makes no sense, so i’m done.”
LOL – like the black male was in such a rush to stick up for those girls who Imus insulted.. I can count on ONE HAND the number of black males who came forward and defended these girls – and double that agreed with him or tried to justify using such insulting words themselves…
Don’t give me that bull*****!!!
@corporatecutieshayshay
You are a triumph! Keep on overcoming and rising to the top! Bless you and your daughter and family.
@ Marquis
Abusive men are cunning and subversive and shield their abusive tendencies from everyone’s plain view until they have earned their prey’s trust. Kindness and appearing perfect is their m.o. and cover. A lot of sisters ask the right questions and look for the red flags but abusers are masterful at hiding behind a mask until… Come on Marquis, beat down in front of her children, show Queen Pen more comp*****ion. I was raised to know and I am teaching my son that a real man can ALWAYS retain his composure, walk away, and cool off. You’re always saying sisters should do something positive with themselves. Well she did. She created something worthy of a GRAMMY and her abuser broke it. Peace to you.
Like I said I’m done, there’s no getting around you’re f*cked up mind set so I’m done…seriously you need help, and everything not the black males fault ….
@Brooklyn, Stand UP!
No problem.
My grandfather was an abuser, and my mother witnessed some horrible things during her childhood, so domestic violence has been an issue in my extended family. It hurts me whenever she describes what she saw my grandmother endure because I can only imagine how painful that was for her, to be powerless as a child and watch your parent be *****aulted.
“Like I said I’m done, there’s no getting around you’re f*cked up mind set so I’m done…seriously you need help, and everything not the black males fault ….”
Seriously – you are a joke.. Sorry I can’t/won’t conform to the poor black male theory!! Black males, like every other race of man, need to be held accountable for their bull*****.. Ever stop to think its the constantly giving him a p***** thats the reason slavery ended almost 400 years ago but he’sstill up in that slave mentality??
Gimme a break!! SMDH!!
@ L & A
That’s the operative phrase “REAL MAN”. This was not a real man. This was an *****hole, who Queen pen on two separate occasions made a conscious decision to carry his seed. I’m sorry, but she has to share some of the accountability in creating this dysfunctional and abusive environment for those children. This isn’t about some grammy for some rap song. This is real life, and unfortunately, it involves innocent children.
@SMDH, I HAVE A QUESTION. PLEASE DO NOT TAKE OFFENSE BECAUSE BY NO MEANS DO I INTEND FOR MY INQUIRY TO BE RECIEVED IN A MEAN WAY. BUT WHY DO YOU HAVE SUCH A PROFOUND HATRED FOR BLACK MEN? YOU SPEW SUCH VENOMOUS HATRED, THAT ITS ALARMING. WHATS WRONG, WHAT HAS BEEN DONE TO MAKE YOU FEEL THIS WAY?
@Sydney
Sadly this sh*t still goes on today. I’ve been with my wife 12 years and never would even think of doing some horrible sh*t like that. Luckily my moms left my pops when I was 5 years old so I didn’t see the abuse anymore but the memories will always be there.
What song does she have a Grammy for?
No diggity. She shared the rap performance with Dr. Dre.
@Brooklyn, Stand UP!
Yes, unfortunately, it does go on, and I believe some children who witness abuse grow up to become abusers themselves or become involved in abusive relationships. I’m glad you were able to break that cycle.
SMDH(Check me out!)
“Like I said I’m done, there’s no getting around you’re f*cked up mind set so I’m done…seriously you need help, and everything not the black males fault ….”
Seriously – you are a joke.. Sorry I can’t/won’t conform to the poor black male theory!! Black males, like every other race of man, need to be held accountable for their bull*****.. Ever stop to think its the constantly giving him a p***** thats the reason slavery ended almost 400 years ago but he’sstill up in that slave mentality??
Gimme a break!! SMDH!!
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Slavery ended 400 years ago? Where the f*ck have I been? Shaking MY Damn Head…
I swaer to god looking at all these comments. i would just keep my right hand slicked and greased up all the time cause i know it will never do me wrong.
Man or Woman? who do you like.
i can do bad all by my damn self. thats real talk.
@ Sydney
Thanx
That’s just not me (Abusive). I treat everyone the way I hope to be treated… With respect!
@ SMDH
You know, *****. Your gaps in logic boggles the mind. It’s not anyones’ fault that you obviously fell in love with the wrong blackman, but you need to get over it.
@Marquis de Sade(Check me out!)
No diggity. She shared the rap performance with Dr. Dre.
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Thanx, I don’t remember that song to much… What were the lyrics?
women have a way of pushing mens buttons so if thats what happening then a woman should already know what type of guy she has in her life before she attacks. most women feel a man should NEVER hit a woman but u never know what will spark a man.
some men walk away but even those who do walk away could lose it every now and again.
KNOW the person you have in your life
PRAY for Queen pen & her kids
and dont need *****ody else making it bad for me. if the ***** hit you, LEAVE, if the ***** is talking greasy and provoking you LEAVE….
all this, i love you baby, ***** get yo ***** over here, i love you so much, hoe i kill you “dr jeykell mr hyde” mentality of black folks have got to stop.
if anybody loved you, violence wouldnt be the issue at all. talking it out, discussing and if it does getheated, break for some air and try it again
i feel sorry for those kids
some of those girls like that thug ***** and love some of that treatment. where ya daddies at. some of yall walk around here lost dependednt on a man. some dudes too walk around here sticking up in any woman they can….
the ***** is ridicouous. thank the lord i ***** if i even think of sin. i think after this ***** and wendy willliams man freaking on that girl. ill be strokin the meat and chokin my weasel for the rest of my life. and ***** anybody on bossip who says some ignant *****. i will promote.
love yourself 1st (no pun intended)
It sampled Bill Withers “GRANDMA’S HAND” and had the lyrics No Diggity, No Doubt and I Like the way you work it. That’s about all my knowledge of the song. It’s over ten years old now. You can probably go on youtube and download the video.
@chinesechickenwingz
That’s exactly my point. I have a friend who would never hit a woman, and his lady knew that. So during arguments, she would always get in his face, buck up, etc., and one night, she attacked him and scratched his face. So, he “forcefully” stopped her by grabbing her wrists, forcing her to the ground, and holding her there until she calmed down. She never did that again, and he was extremely apologetic, but it never should have gotten physical. He *****erted himself physically and in his own defense, and now all arguments are verbal as they should be. He could have easily beaten her, and i’m glad it didn’t come to that.
@ Meeko From Detroit
LOL! I hear you. Masturbation is never having to appear in court before a judge, pleading: “WELL, GEE YOUR HONOR, I DIDN’T MEAN TO KILL THE *****, BUT SHE WOULDN’T SHUT UP!” And in SMDH’s Case, the judge would probably throw it out of court due to justifiable homicide.
@Marquis de Sade
Cool, Thanks again!
Also, I’m not trying to say that’s what happened to Queen Pen. That dude should be in jail.
Nothing justifies hitting a woman.
I’ve been involved in situations were it can lead to that.
It’s unfortunate but a woman should never be beaten or hit. I know women that feel the only way a man can love them is if he beats them. I know men who feel they are only men if they hit a woman.
It’s a vicious cycle and a sad one at that. I don’t know if that is the case here but either way its bogus. I wish her and her children the best (especially the kids)
@Marquis de Sade
No offense, but “choking the chicken” shouldn’t be a man’s alternative to not hitting a woman. Just don’t do it. Walk away, and if she *****aults you, you can call the police, and she will be arrested. It’s a crime either way. There’s also counseling available for anger management, as well as resources for victims of domestic violence.
@Sydney
Good Nite Buddy!
@Brooklyn, Stand UP!
Good night! Thanks for sharing your personal experience.
@Sydney
Your very welcome!!
Stay cool!!
@ Sydney
LOL! Well when you grow a ***** and have to deal with a triflin’ naggin’ woman, you can’t make that statement. Take your pick: A man chokin’ you or chokin’ the chicken? Slappin’ the ham, or slappin’ you? Spankin’ the monkey, or spankin’ you? LOL!
@Marquis de Sade
Well, follow your own advice, don’t pick up the “triflin’ naggin’” woman, right? Why are you making yourself out to be the victim? Huh? Huh?
@ Sydney
Ain’t *****ody playin’ the victim. Detroit and I are just coming up with proactive solutions to avoid the drama that comes with having relations with the opposite sex. LOL!
@Marquis de Sade
Oh, OK, does it have to involve jokes in a thread concerning domestic violence?
*popping open Tylenol*
@ Sydney
Sydney, a here yesterday rapper, gone today rapper involved in an abusive relationship multiple out of wedlock children involved, i’m sorry to say is not only cliched, but trust me, in some circles there will be humor involved.
@Marquis de Sade
Oh, OK. . .you’re not referring to Queen Pen, though. This has a general slant. Why?
@Marquis de Sade
Never mind. . .I’ve posted enough on this thread anyway.
@Meeko From Detroit
You’s a fool (In a good way) dawg…
You made me burst out in laughter…
@ Sydney
I am referring to Queen Pen. It’s unfortunate that she picked the wrong men to procreate with, but what she’s going through is not unique…As i mentioned before, she’s just another ghetto cliche.
@Marquis de Sade
What she’s going through is not unique to “ghetto cliches,” as you call them. And you’ve made remarks like this in the past — as I’ve said before, yes, SMDH and some others on this site spout stereotypical vitriol, but it goes both ways. There are angry people in both genders well represented here.
@ Sydney
Sydney, all i meant by “ghetto cliche” is that she (Q.P.) continued the same pattern of dysfunction that a lot of black women tend to do – date and mate with the wrong men. One mistake, fine, but two, three, four, etc. C’mon. After awhile, all one can do is shake their collective heads and laugh.
@Marquis de Sade
You’re generalizing about black women, just as SMDH generalized about black men earlier, and both of you have given me a headache.
Good night.
@ Sydney
No i’m not. SMDH indicted all blackmen. I said a lot of black women, not all…And even by the statistics you posted earlier, bears this out + the over 70% of black children born out of wedlock. Deep down, you agree, but i think you’re over-empathizing with these women/victims out of some mis-placed solidarity…Afterall, where’s your children out of wedlock? Where’s your multiple baby daddies? Deep down, you know i’m right. Ultimately, all you can do is chalk it up to: “BETTER THEM THAN ME”.
@Marquis de Sade
You win — it’s all sisters’ fault. Damn us, damn us all to hell.
@Marquis de Sade
Sarcasm aside, I think I finally realized today that your mind is set and will be unmoved. Tomorrow you will post the same arguments and if you get frustrated enough, then you will rant against “b**ches,” and the cycle shall continue.
And I would have hoped that you would have picked up by now that I’d never divorce my personal experience from our collective struggles because, like it or not, what’s happening to us as a whole affects me. So, no, the words “better them than me” would never exit my mouth — perhaps yours, but not mine.
@ Sydney
That’s not what i meant! You can’t have it both ways. On one hand, you’re strong, independant and educated, and on the other hand, you’re the victim, who constantly makes the same the destructive mistakes and expect someone to not only sympathise, but to solve and clean-up your fvck-ups. This does not only apply to women, but men as well. It just so happens that this current thread pertains to Queen Pen. It’s not my fault that BOSSIP post these threads that single out the dysfunctional lifestyles of grown black women and the *****holes that they seem to gravitate to.
@Marquis de Sade
Can you for once address the dysfunctions of educated, strong, and independent men? You can’t deny that your arguments, for the most part, have a particular slant to them, like you can only see problems within a particular prism, and life just isn’t that black and white.
And we’re referring to problems that affect women in other races as well, but you seem to totally ignore that little factoid.
@Marquis de Sade
On another note, is “b**ch” now synonymous with black women because I failed to get that memo.
@ Sydney
Nope! ***** is only synomous with women who ***** me off. It just so happens that the women on this thread (to my knowledge) is predominately black.
As for me addressing the dysfunction of strong educated black men, i will when BOSSIP Post a thread that i can riff off of. Trust me, i’m like FOX. Fair and Balanced.
@Marquis de Sade
Oh, OK. . .
*sigh*
I love you Sydney. You’re the only cyber girl i know that can get under my skin and put me in check. LOL
@Marquis de Sade
LMAO! I’ve put YOU in check? How did I do that?
I love you, too, Marquis. *smooches*
With your calming effect and even tempered nature. The two qualities that i don’t have. You’re the Yin to my YANG.
@Marquis de Sade
Aw, that’s sweet.
Well, I try to be even-tempered, even when I’m called (not by you) such colorful names as “n***a wh*re,” lol! I actually think I’ve come a long way — I just try not to let things get to me so much.
You’re going to make me shed a cyber-tear, lol.
I have been her. My prayers go out to all of those who have been abused. Peace.
@ Sydney
LOL! See there you go gettin’ me all mushy an’ *****. Oh well, i better get some work done. Talk to you later Sweet Sydney. Ciao!
@Marquis de Sade
Ciao, Marquis!
I like seeing your soft side! *hugs*
She looks like a $2.00 w*****
Okay, I’m confused. When Queen Pen dropped her debut cd, didn’t she come out workin’ some lesbian swag? Isn’t this the same rapper who had a jam in the day with Michelle N’Dgeocello proclaiming their sexual orientation? Something along the lines of ‘Yes, we are’? Are there two Queen Pens?
No Woman deserves to be beaten! She has a restraining order against him.But that only does a little.What she will have to do is hire an experienced body guard if she can afford one.Next,she will have to get a gun and put it in an unreachable place for the safety of her kids.When he tries to enter her house,she must shoot him.It’s best that she severely shoots him, or perhaps,kill him.Because that’s what he’ll do to her and her kids.
Domestic violence is no joke. I remember I was married and my ex hit me, several times in front of my son while I was pregnant with my daughter. I went down and got a restraining order and put him out. He came back and broke out the back window of my house and climbed in trying to get to me. I’m on the phone with 911 because he was never served. He grabbed me and I hit that ***** ***** ***** back and broke his tooth. He didn’t touch me anymore…shocked as hell that I hit him. Then the police showed up. What if they hadn’t? I probably would have been seriously injured or killed. He got locked up and I moved in with a friend. Then I got a divorce and kept it moving. Now he is living in public housing because he had his leg amputated, can’t work in warehouse operations and has to be retrained in another line of work. Receiving some small ***** disability check. If you are in an abusive relationship…get the hell out and don’t ever go back!
He probably saw her dressed like a 2 dollar ho and went bonkers. If you gonna pose like that then get a stylist who knows how to dress fat women.
This is problaby a publicity stunt knowing that ignoramous! UGH. Anyway like I said whoop her dumb ghetto azz!
Sydney wrote:
@Marquis de Sade
You win — it’s all sisters’ fault. Damn us, damn us all to hell.
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Hilarious.
I must admit I like Marquis’ and 6am’s posts. They’re true to themselves and honest with others.
Marquis de Sade wrote:
@ L & A
That’s the operative phrase “REAL MAN”. This was not a real man. This was an *****hole, who Queen pen on two separate occasions made a conscious decision to carry his seed. I’m sorry, but she has to share some of the accountability in creating this dysfunctional and abusive environment for those children. This isn’t about some grammy for some rap song. This is real life, and unfortunately, it involves innocent children.
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Touche. Like I said, you don’t lie. You now I appreciate your wit but I just wanted you to cut her a some slack given the gravity of the cir*****stances. This guy is pure evil and her kids have suffered enough. He should be buried under the jail and she should never ever takes him back.
sorry for the obvious typos. kids are off to bed, now time for me turn in. night night good people.
Only women with low self esteem would entertain this kind of foolishness. They both need anger management and need to start loving themselves so they won’t take this sh/t from their partners in the next relationship.
***** ***** for real
Yet another tale of a sorry ***** negra male behaving like a violent ***** with PMS. If these Negras would just find themselves a place of their own, they would not have to be so mad when chicks toss them out on the street. And I have never heard of this chick (sorry my taste is more Mahler than hip-hop)but she really should select better guys and stop taking pictures with her legs open. Not a good look, especially on a 35 year old lady.
@Deb,
Thank God that you lived to tell your story. You are a strong woman. God took care of him by taking away his leg.
Good for you. : )
If any woman is in an abusive relationship,Get Out! Actually, I am making a movie about this type of issue that women face,except for my film shows how the woman suffers from post-battered syndrome which is becoming more common among battered women. This is a very serious case of mental illness. Some women who experience this type of condition, get revenge on their husbands by murdering their husband’s in the most hienous way.Poisoning,torture,and mutilations.
SMDH A lot of hispanic men fall into that same boat.
Marquis and Slick Pair of Gators:
thanx for the love yall telling em right. i swear to god. i know a man shouldnt have to resort to masturbation but hells what else he supposed to do. keep *****ing the same woman who says to his face that he aint *****. some women even have phycological problems going down on the man they just said wasent anything about a piece of *****. and i dont care what problems you have. you dont hit a woman period.
but excuse me for this comment: for *****es like SMDH needs to get smacked up and maybe even choke her neck up a bit. i think she likes that *****. she want a black man to “dominate” her and to “put her in her place as she steps out of line and out of pocket” she is just so hurt because a real man hasnot proven to her what a real dude is all about. she messed around with homothugs, broke dudes who live with their mama in the basement, dudes who hang on the block all day and also dudes who like to hit the club and she the dumb ***** catering to these dudes and all of these thangs. now guess what, she mad cause one of her black men done starting *****ing other women cause aint no ***** gonna put up with your naggin and whining and complaining and your crazy *****. so now she on a rampage and she will challenge any dude who is black.
she dont say that hoe ***** to latino men or hispanic men, she be quick to suck the white man and drop down to her knees for them. this something new ***** has got to stop cause a lot of black women would just be *****ed up and would perpetuate these actions of Queen Pen unto them…….
this is real talk, i only speak the truth. hate me all you want to but i will become greater and stronger than before.
power to my brothas from anotha wonderful mother.
who the hell is she?
Queen who???
@tg102
You are STUPID plain and simple!!! Only a STUPID person would say what you just wrote! No woman deserves to be beaten period! if a man is gonna be such a big bad *****, then why don’t he just learn to ignore and walk away! What a JERK! your probably an abuser yourself!