Wednesday, November 11th, 2009

Dear Bossip: I Didn’t Know He’s Married!

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Dear Bossip,

I visit your website everyday and love your “Sextra” articles, I look for them relentlessly. Recently, I’ve noticed that people have been emailing their love issues. I was looking over one not too long ago and some of the comments were completely cruel and mean-spirited. On the other hand, I could see how they are sobering and, overall a good reality check for someone who can’t make sense of their situations from the inside. With that being said, I have a situation that I would like to share and hopefully gain some perspective. I was hooked up with a guy by a co-worker and at first I dodged him for weeks. He really wasn’t the kind of guy that I would date, but he was very persistent and I thought I’d give him a shot since the other guys I had been dating weren’t the greatest either. So in other words, it was time for a change and I gave in to his pursuits. With time he grew on me and I actually fell for him. I ended up caring for this man in a way that I never thought was possible. He was consistent, reliable, sweet and a great lover. Throughout  the time we saw each other (about 6 months) I would jokingly ask him what was wrong with him because everything was too perfect. I also know that if it’s too good to be true chances are it is. To make a long story short, he confessed to me that he’s still married but separated, when I was under the impression he was years divorced. He has his own place and his children have their rooms and toys so it appeared to be legit. But he says the reason why he didn’t tell me is because when my co-worker introduced us he “mistakenly” told me he was divorced, and he didn’t know how to correct his friend’s sketchy details  because he didn’t think he would fall so hard for me. I haven’t seen him since he told me but I really want to. I just don’t know what to do because while I’m angry at him for lying to me, I still care for him and want to see him. The bottom line is he is still married and I would be willingly, putting myself in a very vulnerable position if I continue to see him. Not to mention I’ve been his mistress for months. Who’s to say, him and his wife won’t reconcile? It’s been almost three weeks and I haven’t returned his calls. What should I do? I feel betrayed and confused.

This is tough because you both seem to have feelings for each other and have grown to crave each other’s company. The fact remains, he lied to you about being divorced. What does this mean? Is he working towards divorce or are they simply separated? I’m sure you’ve asked these questions. If so, were you comfortable with his answers? Did you feel like he answered you honestly or did it seem like he was lying? You would be the best judge of this.

The part that is most unfair is that he waited six months to tell you that he’s been lying about his marital status. This is something that should have been disclosed from the beginning so you could decide whether this is something that you want to invest your time and emotions in. He robbed you of your power to choose, which speaks volumes about his character.

On the flip side, he may have genuinely been scared to tell you. This is, by far, not the most mannish excuse, but they fall weak too sometimes. If he’s just beginning to date again since his separation, chances are he just doesn’t know what to do and how to do it as it relates to dating, and his feelings for you are probably genuine. The basic rules of dating are, you must be an available candidate! He knows this and should’ve told you sooner. He is wrong for that, but take your time and really decide, first, if you can trust him and ultimately do you want to continue to see him. Is it worth your time?

Bossip readers, what do you guys think? Remember to e-mail your topic suggestions, feedback and questions to loveandrelationships@bossip.com!

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  1. dirtyweasel

    wood

  2. co.

    bossip please you know you making your own story

  3. SEXYBACKS

    Tell him to get back at you when he’s divorced.

  4. KrusherKronkite

    People are human and *****e to make mistakes. Hearts don’t lie!

    mediaanarchist.wordpress.com

    “Journalism in its rawest from”

  5. Manda..Lao tadow watch out now, its the little one and im not bow wow ;o)

    tell him you will continue your relationshipif and only when the ink is dried on thoses papers. now-a-days us ladies gotta look out for ourselves. pl ease be on point and dont sell yourself short. if he deems you important he will do what is needed to be with you. if he does not, recognize it and move on. remember you can do bad all by ya daxn self ;)

  6. INTENSEMOCHA

    WIVES BEWARE NICCAS LEAD DOUBLE LIVES


  7. Manda
    Is that really you

  8. INTENSEMOCHA

    AND BY THE WAY I WOULD BE OUT-IF HE LIED ABOUT THAT WHAT ELSE WOULD HE LIE ABOUT

    MOST PEOPLE LIE BECAUSE THEY KNOW THEY WON’T GET THE END RESULT THEY WANT IF THEY TELL THE TRUTH-HENCE THE WHOLE REASON TO LIE IN THE FIRST PLACE

    TO MANIPULATE AND DECEIVE YOU!

  9. ha

    leave it alone for now.. men usually have a way of crawling back into a relationship after seperation or whatever its called..they may realize the feelings are still there & get back together..you dont want to be apart of that mess

  10. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    If he is seriously getting a divorce then your wait shouldn’t be long….have a friend in this same situation and you know what 2yrs later she’s still in this situation and dude still hasn’t signed a paper yet…Time to make demands and keep standards set in place.

  11. 2dimplzs

    Being married is NOT something you just hide and gloss over regardless of your fears of being dumped, etc. You should always be honest from jump street unless you BOTH have the understanding that you are just each other’s booty calls and nothing more. These two people had a SIX MONTH relationship – he had ample time to tell her the truth.

    If nothing else this should make her wonder what else has he lied to me about? How can I trust him in the future? How do I know he don’t have other women on the side just like me? How do I know that he hasn’t been STILL SEEING HIS WIFE with me as his side piece? There is a reason WHY he and his wife are no longer together – and you may not be the first mistress!!!

    Bottom line is you deserve better than a married man!! Don’t settle for someone who is still legally married and who was not honest with you about his situation! This man pursued you KNOWING he was still married – that to me speaks volumes! Now your feelings are all involved emotionally and physically, you say you miss him and you’ve fallen for him but HE LIED TO YOU! If you’re willing to settle with being a mistress to a married man who LIED to you for six months then something is very, very wrong with this picture.

    Your relationship started on a LIE. That’s MAJOR and for me unforgiveable on many levels, the main one being HE’S STILL MARRIED! You have to have more self respect and self worth about yourself and accept nothing less than 110% from the man in your life. This man can’t give you that because he still has a WIFE!! SMH………


  12. @ Intesemocha
    He didnt lie, the friend that hooked him up got the story twisted.

  13. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    2dimplzs,
    Your paragraphs were certainly worth the read…Very well stated and I solely agree.

  14. Angee

    I know it may be hard, but you need to leave him! He needs to handle his business first.

  15. Nique

    @BG

    @ Intesemocha
    He didnt lie, the friend that hooked him up got the story twisted.

    ___________________________________________________

    And he shouldve corrected his friend. He had 6 MONTHS to come clean!!! So therefore he LIED!!

  16. ShawnM

    @ 2dimplz
    Being married is NOT something you just hide and gloss over regardless of your fears of being dumped, etc. You should always be honest from jump street unless you BOTH have the understanding that you are just each other’s booty calls and nothing more. These two people had a SIX MONTH relationship – he had ample time to tell her the truth.

    If nothing else this should make her wonder what else has he lied to me about? How can I trust him in the future? How do I know he don’t have other women on the side just like me? How do I know that he hasn’t been STILL SEEING HIS WIFE with me as his side piece? There is a reason WHY he and his wife are no longer together – and you may not be the first mistress!!!

    Bottom line is you deserve better than a married man!! Don’t settle for someone who is still legally married and who was not honest with you about his situation! This man pursued you KNOWING he was still married – that to me speaks volumes! Now your feelings are all involved emotionally and physically, you say you miss him and you’ve fallen for him but HE LIED TO YOU! If you’re willing to settle with being a mistress to a married man who LIED to you for six months then something is very, very wrong with this picture.

    Your relationship started on a LIE. That’s MAJOR and for me unforgiveable on many levels, the main one being HE’S STILL MARRIED! You have to have more self respect and self worth about yourself and accept nothing less than 110% from the man in your life. This man can’t give you that because he still has a WIFE!! SMH………
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    I AGREE 110% on this… Well said!!!


  17. I know it may be hard, but you need to leave him! He needs to handle his business first.
    _______________________________________
    But why? Divorce can be a long process. She made the guy seem like all she could ever want in a man. He didnt lie to her, he wasnt sure if he was gonna be feeling her so he withheld some info.

  18. ShawnM

    Hey Lady A!!!
    Hey BG!!!

    What’s up peoples!?


  19. And he shouldve corrected his friend. He had 6 MONTHS to come clean!!! So therefore he LIED!!
    ___________________________________________________
    He corrected his friend 6 months later. Better late than never. Plus he wasnt sure he was gonna be feeling her, so whats the point in telling every aspect of your life to someone that you may not be able to deal with.

  20. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Hey Shawn!!!

  21. Tracey

    Emailing Bossip for relationship advice, lucky all you didnt get was sit down hoe!

    Anyway, no matter what the man LIED, he lied to you and lied to his wife, a liar is a liar, is a cheater and can never be trusted, you arent nothing more than a booty call. And if he ever did leave his wife for you, you can never trust him or believe him, because he is a certified cheating two timing liar. And there will be this little thing called KARMA!

    We women do it to ourselves, and that is why we more often than not struggle in life, struggle to find a decent partner and a decent father to fahther our children. We need to kick back take stock of ourselves, improve and change our bait and make sure it is all in order, yours “ain’t” you are a single mother waiting to happen.

  22. love her

    What about if a man lied about his name and you are 4 months into the relationship and he still havent told you…and you had to search public records to find out his real name?? what would you do?

  23. Nique

    @BG

    Yea..I would expect a man to say some foolishness like that.


  24. ShawnM
    Hello suga drop

  25. Nique

    @BG

    Ok so its the same for a woman not telling a man shes infected right?


  26. Nique
    Dont even go there, cuz we both know when you get your sites on something, you act like a ***** too


  27. @BG

    Ok so its the same for a woman not telling a man shes infected right?
    _______________________________________
    Totally different, Matters of the heart and health should be completely seperate. Good shot tho

  28. Tracey

    Dear emailer, the fact that you have to email anyone for relationship advice to a married man, should have said it all before you did hit the send button!

    What happened someone hit you with the silly stick or sumting?

  29. Aunt Viv

    Dear Bossip,

    Thank you for your well-written letter-I like that you paid attention to spelling and grammar for the most part. To answer your question, the man is legally married, and therefore off limits. Tell him to get at you when he has the signed divorce papers in hand to show you. Authenticate it, make sure he didn’t make it at Kinko’s.

    But keep in mind even then, that given the dishonest foundation of your relationship, if I were you, I personally would run far away from him. There are others out there…

  30. Angee

    @BG

    That’s all well and good, but he is still married and there are children involved.

    I think she needs to walk away until the divorce is settled.

  31. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    hey aunti viv!

    hey bg

    hey angee

  32. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    This reminds me of that Neyo song I was listening to lastnite called “My Name Is Revenge”

  33. trs

    “But he says the reason why he didn’t tell me is because when my co-worker introduced us he “mistakenly” told me he was divorced, and he didn’t know how to correct his friend’s sketchy details…”
    ——————————————–

    This sounds shady at best.

    One does not “mistakenly” tell someone that they are divorced. He straight up LIED and there is a difference. He intentionally kept this woman out of the loop about the fact that he was married AND he never fessed up during the 6 month time frame. That in itself is a lie by omission.

    The open deception is inexcusable and does not bode well for this relationship. If she continues to see this man she will be a premeditated victim. 6 Months is a long time, but not as long as losing 2-3 years of her life over the same mess. She needs to cut her losses and get out now before she loses her soul to a man that doesn’t deserve it.


  34. I was in the same situation with an ex, she didn’t tell me she was still married until the day her divorce was final. I wasn’t upset, we just popped bottles and celebrated and continued our relationship…

  35. trs

    TWIN!!!

    Aunt Viv!!

    BG has the ladies to himself today! ;)


  36. Hey Lady A

  37. Ummmmmm....

    Sounds to me like she was frustrated with dating when she met him and he wasn’t the kind of guy she would have dated anyway….so now she’s settling twice…I say keep in touch, maybe he’s telling the truth…but no more “benefits” until you see some divorce papers…in the meantime continue to be open to meeting someone more your type…cuz if he’s lying you will regret you settled just to be his mistress…REAL TALK!


  38. TRS
    Nah Snoop just came in and messed it up…lol

  39. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Twin!!!!

    She will always be #2 wondering when she is gonna get her ring…I hope she doesn’t get pregnant.


  40. **shrugs**

    Talk to him and see what’s his plans, evidently he cared enough to tell you. Unlike my ex, waited until her divorce was over too tell me…

  41. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Sexy Snoop!!

  42. Angee

    Hey Lady A, TRS and Snoop!

  43. lawd da mercy

    This is dumb!
    be his girlfriend and keep his wife on the side, thats what I say.

    do you really need advice? make sure you follow all the bossipers advice…ok!?!


  44. lol bg…..whaddup my nucca

    hello to all the lovely ladies……carry on

  45. Aunt Viv

    Hey Lady A, TRS, snoop
    (( cyber-hugs to all))

  46. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    lol bg…..whaddup my nucca

    hello to all the lovely ladies……carry on

    AND CUT!!…smh


  47. Twin!!!!

    She will always be #2 wondering when she is gonna get her ring…I hope she doesn’t get pregnant.
    ______________________________________
    Women always wanna think like this….
    What if…
    The woman he is leaving was abusive to the kids?
    The woman he is leaving had an affair?
    The woman he is leaving became terminally ill after the seperation?
    I guess he doesnt deserve to be able to move on


  48. Talk to him and see what’s his plans, evidently he cared enough to tell you. Unlike my ex, waited until her divorce was over too tell me…
    _______________________________________________
    Exactly he didnt have to say squat!

  49. trs

    She will always be #2 wondering when she is gonna get her ring…I hope she doesn’t get pregnant.

    ————————————————

    AMEN!!! That’s the LAST thing that she needs!

  50. trs

    Hey Angee!!!

    SNOOP!!♥♥♥

  51. Aunt Viv

    Bossip,

    I don’t buy this dude being “scared” to tell you he was married for one minute. You’ve wasted enough time on him, move on…

  52. trs

    What if…
    The woman he is leaving was abusive to the kids?
    The woman he is leaving had an affair?
    The woman he is leaving became terminally ill after the seperation?
    I guess he doesnt deserve to be able to move on
    ————————————————

    BG he deserves to move on AFTER he gets a divorce. If he is serious about a divorce why is there a need for a 6 month seperation? You know what’s up with that!


  53. Legally seperated= Single and ready to mingle.


  54. BG he deserves to move on AFTER he gets a divorce. If he is serious about a divorce why is there a need for a 6 month seperation? You know what’s up with that!
    ______________________________________________
    But those things drag out for tons of reasons…funding, stubborness, selfishness, ect!
    What if his wife is dragging it out just so he wont be happy.

  55. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    So lemme get this straight…She’s been doing the humpty dance for 6 months, and now all of a sudden it’s wrong??? GTFOH!! Hell, if it was that big of a deal, ya shouldn’t have “juiced” homeboy inna first place!!! Apparently, it wasn’t because you slung da panties at him, and now you are mad cause you caught feelings….If him being divorced was your sticking point, it’s a little late for all that now, cause you’ve already gave him that aZZ!!!!! W*****up, folks??? :wink:


  56. Legally seperated= Single and ready to mingle.
    _________________________________
    Agreed!

  57. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)
    Women always wanna think like this….
    What if…
    The woman he is leaving was abusive to the kids?
    The woman he is leaving had an affair?
    The woman he is leaving became terminally ill after the seperation?
    I guess he doesnt deserve to be able to move on

    nah every man deserves to move on…why does a man have to secure the new woman to do so though…if problems are that bad then he can move on point blank. What about the next woman’s feelings? Guy’s don’t like to feel like a woman’s scapegoat…neither do women

  58. trs

    Legally seperated= Single and ready to mingle.
    ———————————————-

    If you can’t get married because you’re married to someone else, you aren’t single! ;)


  59. why does a man have to secure the new woman to do so though
    _____________________________________________
    Is this not a part of moving on?

  60. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    Apparently, her morals didn’t matter till she found out tha dude was still hitched, so why do they matter now??? She was doing the deed till she found out, so why should now be any different???

  61. trs

    What if his wife is dragging it out just so he wont be happy.
    ——————————————–

    This could be the case, but he was still dishonest with this woman by not telling her that he was married. If she had known from the jump then the ramifications of her actions would be on her.

  62. Aunt Viv

    @ TRS,
    “If you can’t get married because you’re married to someone else, you aren’t single! ;)
    ______________________________________________________
    Co-sign. I personally think it just makes things easier to make a full break first…

  63. trs

    Hey Daywalker!

  64. Aunt Viv

    Hey Daywalker!!! How are you today?

  65. MARK RICH

    Her first mistake was coming here for advice, NEVER TAKE ADVICE from women who have never been married, let alone never been asked, unless you count lil buddy who figured “I guess this the best I can do,I might as well settle down”, cause that would be the equivalent of asking a 10 year old about a drivers license, and most of the people on bossip are between the 20-30 year old age range, and black, so statically this would be the worse group to ask for marital advice

  66. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)
    Is this not a part of moving on?

    In a man’s mind I guess…Why not do 1 thing at a time…It’s ok to do something in chronological order. If people want to secure someone in the midst of ending something else its ok I guess if the other person agrees, but the other person also has to know there’s no guarantees when you step in during the process and not after completion.


  67. If you can’t get married because you’re married to someone else, you aren’t single!
    _________

    ok you’re elgible for a good kitty lashing then ;)

  68. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    @ trs

    Legally seperated= Single and ready to mingle.
    ———————————————-

    If you can’t get married because you’re married to someone else, you aren’t single!
    ___________________________________________________

    That dude wasn’t trying to be honest with her, and he wasn’t trying to marry her azz either!! Like I said, She was humping this guy like a rabbit, and now all of a sudden, it’s wrong!! GTFOH, Bossip!!!

    W*****AMATTER, SOMEONE CALL HER ON HER “***** TENDENCIES”???

  69. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    What if his wife is dragging it out just so he wont be happy.

    I don’t know about all 50 states but I know in the commonwealths…even if the wife wants to drag it out the husband can push the process fully…HE will have to pay more money to do so of course, but if ya really want out there’s a way to do it.

  70. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    @ TRS AND AUNT VIV:

    I’m cool, but I just think that if you decide to get it on with someone, you shouldn’t wait till 6 moths later to have regrets about it!! She prolly felt bad about being a booty call all the time, and got to pressuring this cat, and he wasn’t even outta the first disaster of a marriage he was in to begin with…..Jeez!!!

  71. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Daywalker!!!


  72. I don’t think my d!ck have the patience to wait on a divorce to become final….

  73. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    moths= months* I can’t spell for crap today….LOL!!!

  74. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    Hi LADY A!!!

  75. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    I don’t think my d!ck have the patience to wait on a divorce to become final….

    hahaha ur a fool


  76. @ LADY A
    In MD you have to go a year with the seperation deal first. And if the ex even sleeps under the same roof with you one night…the year starts again. The question is “who would tell”? The answer “a woman scorned”


  77. I don’t think my d!ck have the patience to wait on a divorce to become final….
    ____________________________________
    LMAO!!! Damn divorce process last longer than the damn marriage!

  78. trs

    Daywalker,
    I’m cool, but I just think that if you decide to get it on with someone, you shouldn’t wait till 6 moths later to have regrets about it!! She prolly felt bad about being a booty call all the time, and got to pressuring this cat, and he wasn’t even outta the first disaster of a marriage he was in to begin with…..Jeez!!!
    ———————————————–

    Daywalker she didn’t know that he was married for those 6 months!! She has a problem now that she has been informed of the news that he is not divorced. He told her that he was divorced when they first started carrying on and therein lies the problem.

  79. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    I’m just wondering what kinda radars did this lady have?

    It’s hard cause that seperation stuff can go either way…her feelings can get the best of her


  80. In MD you have to go a year with the seperation deal first. And if the ex even sleeps under the same roof with you one night…the year starts again. The question is “who would tell”? The answer “a woman scorned”
    _____________

    ** marking MD off my places to live list**


  81. He told her that he was divorced when they first started carrying on and therein lies the problem.
    ______________________________________________
    Nope!!! Look at TRS trying to bring the good man down…. His friend that hooked them up, told the woman the he was divorces. The actual guy didnt say that he was divorced

  82. Aunt Viv

    @ Daywalker,
    “I’m cool, but I just think that if you decide to get it on with someone, you shouldn’t wait till 6 moths later to have regrets about it!! She prolly felt bad about being a booty call all the time, and got to pressuring this cat, and he wasn’t even outta the first disaster of a marriage he was in to begin with…..Jeez!!!”
    ___________________________________________________
    No worries about the spelling! Bossip is the worst culprit for spelling errors! You bring up a very good point, but I think that if he had just said he was married in the first place before getting it on with the woman, she could have made her decision accordingly. Whether she decides to be a jump-off or something more, whatever consequences that resulted would be on her.

  83. Angee

    I’m just wondering what kinda radars did this lady have?
    __________________________________________________

    Me too, seems somethig should have been there. Is she telling the full story? This man has lived separately from his wife and children for six months?


  84. *divorced*

  85. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    I don’t think my d!ck have the patience to wait on a divorce to become final….

    hahaha ur a fool
    ___________________________________________________

    It would depend on how bad I wanted to be away from whoever the ex was, but I would push the issue if I really had no plans on being back with her…As for this chick, I guess she’s asking for either permission or understanding, but I can’t see her getting either, because she’s contemplating on whether or not to leave this cat when she knows being with dude is wrong…Either way, she gets my permission…Go hump like hounds
    for all I care…..

  86. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)

    @ LADY A
    In MD you have to go a year with the seperation deal first. And if the ex even sleeps under the same roof with you one night…the year starts again. The question is “who would tell”? The answer “a woman scorned”

    I understand…People have to pick and choose their battles. I think at this 6month mark he’s feeling her and vice versa, but she is thinking about whether this is the battle for her…At the moment she’s a floater no matter what cause they give that year for a reason and this other woman has a very small percentage cause she holds much less ground.

  87. trs

    BG,

    Look at TRS trying to bring the good man down…. His friend that hooked them up, told the woman the he was divorces. The actual guy didnt say that he was divorced
    ————————————————-

    Sweetie yes his friend told her that he was divorced, but he knew that she was under the impression that he was divorced and he did nothing to correct her mindset. Thus the comment

    “But he says the reason why he didn’t tell me is because when my co-worker introduced us he “mistakenly” told me he was divorced, and he didn’t know how to correct his friend’s sketchy details because he didn’t think he would fall so hard for me”

    So NO, that is NOT a good man!


  88. TRS
    Yeah it was probably tough for him, cuz he was feeling her. That makes things tough!

    I broke my mama’s favorite vase once, I didnt know how to tell her……..still don’t

  89. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    If it took her 6 months to realize this cat was married, I need her number, cause she has got to be the easiest……Nah, let me not go there….LOL!!!!

  90. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Daywalker,
    you are so on point…She’s probably looking for understanding of how she got herself into this and have her feelings deep into this guy and how he has the same feelings. She’s looking for permission cause she’s not sure if this would make her look triflin or the “stand by his side woman”


  91. Sweetie yes his friend told her that he was divorced, but he knew that she was under the impression that he was divorced and he did nothing to correct her mindset. Thus the comment
    ________

    everybody lies at the beginning, trying to impress eachother…


  92. Daywalker,
    you are so on point…She’s probably looking for understanding of how she got herself into this and have her feelings deep into this guy and how he has the same feelings. She’s looking for permission cause she’s not sure if this would make her look triflin or the “stand by his side woman”
    ________________________________________________
    Well I give her permission to keep getting broke off!

  93. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    Bg(~007~)

    TRS
    Yeah it was probably tough for him, cuz he was feeling her. That makes things tough!

    I broke my mama’s favorite vase once, I didnt know how to tell her……..still don’t
    __________________________________________________

    It’s simple, some stuff is better left unsaid, BG…I mean which would you rather, a happy home, or a psycho female you’re afraid might catch “Loreina Bobbit delusions” if you tell on yourself????


  94. I broke my mama’s favorite vase once, I didnt know how to tell her……..still don’t
    __________

    LMFAO…..take that one to the grave my n!gga.

  95. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    He didn’t know he would fall so deep for her….

    This is cl*****ic…Men will always realize that they can fall just as deep for a woman as we do for men when they right one comes along with the right qualities. One day men will learn.

  96. trs

    BG,

    TRS
    Yeah it was probably tough for him, cuz he was feeling her. That makes things tough!

    I broke my mama’s favorite vase once, I didnt know how to tell her……..still don’t
    ———————————————–

    It’s always tough to do the right thing, but that does not mean that you shouldn’t do it! :)


  97. It’s simple, some stuff is better left unsaid, BG…I mean which would you rather, a happy home, or a psycho female you’re afraid might catch “Loreina Bobbit delusions” if you tell on yourself????
    ______________________________________
    I will forever side with “happy home”

  98. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)
    Well I give her permission to keep getting broke off!

    Of course you would

  99. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    Sweetie yes his friend told her that he was divorced, but he knew that she was under the impression that he was divorced and he did nothing to correct her mindset. Thus the comment
    ________

    everybody lies at the beginning, trying to impress eachother…
    ___________________________________________________

    I AGREE!! HELL, when you go on a first date, you aren’t meeting that person anyways!! I look at it like a job interview…You get to meet that person’s representative!! They might be fine and all, but they don’t tell ya they have cold, clawy feet and are *****e to gogging the covers…..SMH…..


  100. *calling mama*


  101. How many times do yall women lie to yall men about how many men yall slept with?? It don’t make you a bad woman, the ***** just didn’t keep it 100%. That’s why i don’t lie to women, i keep it 1 hunnid live wit it and deal wit it…..

  102. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    P_R_O_N_E to H_O_GG_ING the covers….*

  103. trs

    Snoop,

    everybody lies at the beginning, trying to impress eachother…
    ———————————————

    NO everyone does not tell lies at the beginning. For instance, with me, what you see is what you get. It’s funny that I have only heard men say that Snoop…

    ;)

  104. Aunt Viv

    LOL @ “Loreina Bobbit delusions”…yeah that woman was insane…

  105. trs

    *calling mama*
    ————————————

    LMAO!


  106. Bg(~007~)
    Well I give her permission to keep getting broke off!

    Of course you would
    ________________________________________
    You have my permission as well! I think you need some too

  107. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    How many times do yall women lie to yall men about how many men yall slept with?? It don’t make you a bad woman, the ***** just didn’t keep it 100%. That’s why i don’t lie to women, i keep it 1 hunnid live wit it and deal wit it…..

    Don’t lie about that…don’t have a reason to…

  108. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)
    You have my permission as well! I think you need some too

    lmaooo I certainly don’t need your permission…I take it when I want it…You don’t get paid to think…

  109. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    trs

    Snoop,

    everybody lies at the beginning, trying to impress eachother…
    ———————————————

    NO everyone does not tell lies at the beginning. For instance, with me, what you see is what you get. It’s funny that I have only heard men say that Snoop…

    ___________________________________________________

    What you see is what ya get??? That’s my kinda woman right there!!!! UNINHIBITED!!!!! OH, YEAH!!! :wink:


  110. Bg(~007~)
    You have my permission as well! I think you need some too

    lmaooo I certainly don’t need your permission…I take it when I want it…You don’t get paid to think…
    __________________________
    Funny Funny!

  111. trs

    Daywalker,

    What you see is what ya get??? That’s my kinda woman right there!!!! UNINHIBITED!!!!! OH, YEAH!!!
    ——————————————-

    YEP!!!!!!! :lol:

  112. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    trs

    Daywalker,

    What you see is what ya get??? That’s my kinda woman right there!!!! UNINHIBITED!!!!! OH, YEAH!!!
    ——————————————-

    YEP!!!!!!!

    lmao yall are funny…my interview require you meet the shell of me…I don’t let people in easily at all…


  113. ” It’s funny that I have only heard men say that Snoop”…
    _____
    men lie women lie, numbers don’t lie….that’s gonna be all ;)

  114. trs

    How many times do yall women lie to yall men about how many men yall slept with??
    ———————————————

    Why do dudes ask this question anyway?

  115. trs

    Twin,

    I don’t let people in easily at all…
    ———————————————

    I am in complete agreement! It takes a lot to earn my trust and affection.

  116. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)
    Funny Funny!

    Thank You…*takes a bow*


  117. How many times do yall women lie to yall men about how many men yall slept with??
    ———————————————

    Why do dudes ask this question anyway?
    _________________________________________
    So we know what category to put you in!! Although women always lie about this…men just add 5 to whatever you tell em.

  118. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    @ Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    How many times do yall women lie to yall men about how many men yall slept with?? It don’t make you a bad woman, the ***** just didn’t keep it 100%. That’s why i don’t lie to women, i keep it 1 hunnid live wit it and deal wit it…..

    Don’t lie about that…don’t have a reason to…
    ___________________________________________________

    Well, I aint gonna front!! I lie about stuff on first dates all the time!! Such as:

    Of course I’m gonna call you again!!

    No, I don’t think you’re boring….I find you infinitely interesting!!

    GEE, That’s great!! I wanna hear all about your cat!!

    Do I look like the type of guy who’s only interested in sex???

    I’d never cheat on you with your friends…

    I’ve only been with 30 women….

    I swear I wasn’t lookin at your azz/*****/crotch…


  119. How many times do yall women lie to yall men about how many men yall slept with??
    ———————————————

    Why do dudes ask this question anyway?
    _________

    i use to ask this question, i don’t anymore b/c i know all of you only slept with ” i can count on one hand” bull*****…..lol


  120. I am in complete agreement! It takes a lot to earn my trust and affection.
    ______________________________________________
    I’m the mayor of Trust and Affection and the key to those twin cities is in my pants

  121. Chocked!

    This Chick came to BOSSIP for advice? poor thing, probably has no one else to turn to :S BOSSIP?!?!?!?!?!? I am soooooo in shock, no offense but you guys are the haters of haters, the negative of negative, you re such haters that you have a section called “people we actually like” :S, I wouldn’t ask you for advice even if i am ready to jump off a ledge (you would probably tell me to jump and then post it) :S poor girl!

  122. trs

    BG,

    So we know what category to put you in!!

    ————————————————

    What are the categories?

  123. Aunt Viv

    Off to lunch. Later fam!


  124. ___________________________________________________

    Well, I aint gonna front!! I lie about stuff on first dates all the time!! Such as:

    Of course I’m gonna call you again!!

    No, I don’t think you’re boring….I find you infinitely interesting!!

    GEE, That’s great!! I wanna hear all about your cat!!

    Do I look like the type of guy who’s only interested in sex???

    I’d never cheat on you with your friends…

    I’ve only been with 30 women….

    I swear I wasn’t lookin at your azz/*****/crotch
    ________I’M GOING TO SEE THE KING___________


  125. Well, I aint gonna front!! I lie about stuff on first dates all the time!! Such as:

    Of course I’m gonna call you again!!

    No, I don’t think you’re boring….I find you infinitely interesting!!

    GEE, That’s great!! I wanna hear all about your cat!!

    Do I look like the type of guy who’s only interested in sex???

    I’d never cheat on you with your friends…

    I’ve only been with 30 women….

    I swear I wasn’t lookin at your azz/*****/crotch…
    ______________________________________
    ROFLMAO!!!!!

  126. trs

    BG

    I’m the mayor of Trust and Affection and the key to those twin cities is in my pants
    —————————————————

    BOY!!!!!!!! You gotta earn trust and affection BEFORE Richard comes out! LMAO!!!!!!!!!!

  127. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    BYE AUNT VIV!!! :wink:

  128. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Daywalker…
    lmao fortunately I don’t care to ask or talk about those things.

    Of course I’m gonna call you again!!
    I have back up call logs…this doesnt bother me

    No, I don’t think you’re boring….I find you infinitely interesting!!
    This is never an issue and if it is then its because we are not similar in character.

    GEE, That’s great!! I wanna hear all about your cat!!
    Don’t have one

    Do I look like the type of guy who’s only interested in sex???
    Don’t care cause that’s all Imay want you for so you better be good at it

    I’d never cheat on you with your friends…
    My friends no better and if you do it’s because we wanted to run a train on ur eating tactics.

    I’ve only been with 30 women….
    yup sure…

    I swear I wasn’t lookin at your azz/*****/crotch…
    My azz looks good in the jeans…you better look and my crotch was the reason you drooled on your shirt.


  129. LMAO @ LADY A RESPONSES…..

  130. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    Chocked!

    This Chick came to BOSSIP for advice? poor thing, probably has no one else to turn to :S BOSSIP?!?!?!?!?!? I am soooooo in shock, no offense but you guys are the haters of haters, the negative of negative, you re such haters that you have a section called “people we actually like” :S, I wouldn’t ask you for advice even if i am ready to jump off a ledge (you would probably tell me to jump and then post it) :S poor girl!
    __________________________________________________

    That is soooo not true!! If you were fine, and had big boobies, I’d totally wanna bone ya first…..No sense in a *****h letting puzzy go to waste……

  131. Precious

    I feel your pain, however I am wearing the other shoes. My husband and I went thru a rough patch and during that time he dated and met a woman that inturn had his baby. We have since reconciled our marriage, and now we have to deal with this situation. The worst thing you can do is be a rebound for someone leaving a relationship. If you can please wait til he is done with his divorce, if he even goes through with it. You also don’t want to be a reason he doesn’t consider going back to his family and being the man he set out to be. Consider his children. I know you have feelings for this man, but with time this too will p*****. Don’t feel like your missing out if you let this go. The truth is your messing up if you don’t. Remember, the old saying.. You reep what you sew. If you add to the distress of this mans marriage, you will one day have a woman put the same stress on your marriage.

  132. trs

    TWIN,

    My azz looks good in the jeans…you better look and my crotch was the reason you drooled on your shirt.
    ————————————————-

    GET IT TWIN!!! LMAO!!


  133. 1-5 Wifey material
    5-15 Ok for someone else
    15-30 Jumpoff status only
    30+ I don’t know mayne!

    The categories!

  134. trs

    1-5 Wifey material
    5-15 Ok for someone else
    15-30 Jumpoff status only
    30+ I don’t know mayne!

    The categories!
    ——————————————–

    SMDH… but LOL @ “I don’t know mayne!”


  135. 1-5 Wifey material
    5-15 Ok for someone else
    15-30 Jumpoff status only
    30+ I don’t know mayne!
    _________

    I approve the above comment

  136. CAT EYES

    Stupid women.

  137. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    trs

    TWIN,

    My azz looks good in the jeans…you better look and my crotch was the reason you drooled on your shirt.
    ————————————————-

    GET IT TWIN!!! LMAO!!

    lolol I mean seriously…any woman who wears some tight jeans will know aman is gonna check what she’s working with…atleast in my eyes…if not I’d just wear some baggy sweats…then again I don’t own any baggy sweats.

  138. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Daywalker…
    lmao fortunately I don’t care to ask or talk about those things.

    Of course I’m gonna call you again!!
    I have back up call logs…this doesnt bother me

    Great, well if I’m not busy, I’ll call when I’m free…

    No, I don’t think you’re boring….I find you infinitely interesting!!
    This is never an issue and if it is then its because we are not similar in character.

    You know I’m a great conversationalist, Lady A!! Come on, this is the Daywalk, now…..

    GEE, That’s great!! I wanna hear all about your cat!!
    Don’t have one

    Hey, I actually had a girl try to tell me about her bird once….(True story) And I’m sitting there like Can it bark?, Can it fetch?, can it do any tricks??? NO??? Then throw it in the pot, cause I’m hungry!!!

    Do I look like the type of guy who’s only interested in sex???
    Don’t care cause that’s all Imay want you for so you better be good at it

    I may not be good at a lotta stuff, but when it comes to sex, I am a f’n pro!!!

    I’d never cheat on you with your friends…
    My friends no better and if you do it’s because we wanted to run a train on ur eating tactics.

    Well let the games begin, shall we???

    I’ve only been with 30 women….
    yup sure…

    I swear…..

    I swear I wasn’t lookin at your azz/*****/crotch…
    My azz looks good in the jeans…you better look and my crotch was the reason you drooled on your shirt.

    Hey, the soup was hot, and so are you….Here’s an idea: Let’s go to the grocery store, hit the frozen foods aisle, and make all their stuff melt???? :wink:


  139. 30+ is send her to the track, and don’t come back with less than a rack material….lol

  140. trs

    Lady A,

    any woman who wears some tight jeans will know aman is gonna check what she’s working with…atleast in my eyes…
    ———————————————-

    I know EXACTLY what you mean! ;)


  141. I love the sight of a substantial “donk” in sweats… Watching that thang sway from side to side like palms trees on the beach….sigh

    Carry on@


  142. 30+ is send her to the track, and don’t come back with less than a rack material….lol
    ___________________________________________
    Word!!!


  143. Ms. I Didn’t Know He Was Married, unfortunately you were deceived twice off rip. When people lie, they lie to hide “something.” If his being separated was “nothing” your lover would have told you the truth in the beginning. Here you are six months later and your emotions are invested in someone who purposely deceived you. Your first mind will NEVER steer you wrong and if you think something is too good to be true, it probably is.

    I have to question the sincerity of the co-worker that brought you two together. He purposely deceived you by telling you that his friend was divorced. Did your co-worker know the truth before he hooked you two up? If he didn’t know, he may have had your best interest at heart by finding you someone to love. If he did know, that was totally wrong of him. In actuality your co-worker drove the vehicle and you rode in the car on a road that led to your lover and heartache! When the co-worker introduced you two and told you that the man was “divorced,” that was your lover’s chance to make it known to you and to correct the co-worker by revealing that he was “separated.” Yes, your lover could genuinely love and care deeply for you which is probably why he finally came clean. However, if he had done so when you met, telling the truth would have provided you with the choice to become involved or not because you would’ve known exactly what you were up against. Instead, they both took matters into their hands by deciding to continue the lie in fear that you couldn’t handle the truth. That decision should have been yours!

    If your lover is in the process of getting a divorce and you can forgive him and move on, holla at him once the divorce is final. If you are a woman with integrity and stand up for fidelity, you know what you must do and you’ve already done the right thing by leaving him alone.

    Too many times we as women allow men to get away with treating us less than how we know we’d like to be treated. We settle for whatever piece of a man we can have, no matter how large or how small. When we settle, we’re playing ourselves short! Yes, everybody needs somebody, but it’s gotta be that right somebody.

    Just my two cents.

  144. trs

    30+ is send her to the track, and don’t come back with less than a rack material….lol
    ————————————————

    SMDH @ the double standard. All of you Negros have slept with more than 30 women, but you want a woman who has slept with less than 5 men; otherwise, she’s not wifey material.

    Da** shame how hypocritical men can be.

  145. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    Bg(~007~)

    1-5 Wifey material
    5-15 Ok for someone else
    15-30 Jumpoff status only
    30+ I don’t know mayne!

    The categories!
    ___________________________________________________

    I will require a battery or STD tests for the last 2 years all the way up to present for any and all prior to engaging in any freaknicity…A brother can’t be walkin round puzzed up!!!

  146. trs

    Too many times we as women allow men to get away with treating us less than how we know we’d like to be treated. We settle for whatever piece of a man we can have, no matter how large or how small. When we settle, we’re playing ourselves short! Yes, everybody needs somebody, but it’s gotta be that right somebody.
    ————————————————-

    CHURCH!!!!!!!!


  147. TRS
    You know how that goes. I don’t see it changing anytime soon. I would understand if a woman didnt want to be with because of my sexual past (however this phenomenon is rare)


  148. 30 plus…..might as well be a professional prostitute…..Yeah there are double standards that benefit men and women….;)

  149. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)

    1-5 Wifey material

    ding ding*

  150. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    trs

    TWIN,

    My azz looks good in the jeans…you better look and my crotch was the reason you drooled on your shirt.
    ————————————————-

    GET IT TWIN!!! LMAO!!

    lolol I mean seriously…any woman who wears some tight jeans will know aman is gonna check what she’s working with…atleast in my eyes…if not I’d just wear some baggy sweats…then again I don’t own any baggy sweats.
    ___________________________________________________

    If you own any of the following, you are wife material:

    Short skirts

    thongs

    lingerie

    handcuffs

    cheerleading outfit

    or thigh high stockings

    __________________________________________________

    If a chick has a vibrator with a 36 speed head,……RUN, cause you ain’t got a chance!!!!


  151. @trs . . . thanks! Real talk!

  152. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    Matter of fact, if she has a vibrator with a 36 speed head, just start writing your will right then and there……

  153. trs

    Daywalker,

    Short skirts

    thongs

    lingerie

    handcuffs

    cheerleading outfit

    or thigh high stockings
    ——————————————

    I got 4/6!!! ;)

  154. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    HEY Y’ALL

    What are we talking about??

    I was married and separated and told the truth. It wasn’t that serious. Dude wasn’t getting the good-good.


  155. Bg(~007~)

    1-5 Wifey material

    ding ding*
    ______________________________________
    Hush….you gone have these negroes on you like stank on sh@t!!!

  156. trs

    BG,

    TRS
    You know how that goes. I don’t see it changing anytime soon. I would understand if a woman didnt want to be with because of my sexual past (however this phenomenon is rare)

    ————————————————–

    That’s why most women lie about their number of partners.


  157. @ ladies….Don’t blame us for your short changing yourself, talk to the woman in the mirror…

    “If i don’t eat spinach, i don’t order it”…..**shrugs**

  158. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    If you own any of the following, you are wife material:

    Short skirts

    thongs

    lingerie

    handcuffs

    cheerleading outfit

    or thigh high stockings

    **********************************************************

    YAY I am wife material.

    I just gotta get the cheerleading outfit

    What if we have wigs to switch it up or the London Fog trench coat??? Can that take the place of the cheerleading outfit?


  159. That’s why most women lie about their number of partners.
    _________________________________________
    That’s why we add 5 to whatever yall say…

  160. trs

    30 plus…..might as well be a professional prostitute…..Yeah there are double standards that benefit men and women….;)

    ————————————————–

    *staring at you through narrowed eyes*

  161. trs

    IJM!!!!

  162. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    Bg(~007~)

    1-5 Wifey material

    ding ding*
    ______________________________________
    Hush….you gone have these negroes on you like stank on sh@t!!!

    **************************************************************

    OMG….DEAD!!!!

  163. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    HEY TRS!!!

  164. trs

    BG,

    That’s why we add 5 to whatever yall say…
    ——————————————–

    *****ody has to add 5 to what I say! ;)

  165. Play Nice

    Of course I’m gonna call you again!!
    I don’t give a rat’s fat one. Your boy is finer than you anyway. Why you even think I’m talking to you?

    No, I don’t think you’re boring….I find you infinitely interesting!!
    Do you know anyone other than yourself?
    I’m sick of hearing about you!

    GEE, That’s great!! I wanna hear all about your cat!!
    Don’t really care what level you got to on Xbox.
    I finished the game last year….amatuer

    Do I look like the type of guy who’s only interested in sex???
    Do you really think I want it from you?
    Now, go buy me a drink and pay my bills.

    I’d never cheat on you with your friends…
    I would and your still gonna pay my bills.

    I’ve only been with 30 women….
    Man Rule: Always add a 0 to the real number.

    I swear I wasn’t lookin at your azz/*****/crotch…
    Yes, you were! And your gonna keep lookin when I walk away


  166. TRS
    You in the 30+ club??? I’m not here to judge ya…just asking. It’s all good if you are.

  167. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    trs

    BG,

    TRS
    You know how that goes. I don’t see it changing anytime soon. I would understand if a woman didnt want to be with because of my sexual past (however this phenomenon is rare)

    ————————————————–

    That’s why most women lie about their number of partners.
    ___________________________________________________

    Well, to be honest, I don’t mind a woman havig been with a few dudes, hell I prefer it waaay more than virgins!!! When I was In IRAQ, The big thing was These dudes we were fighting were under the inpression that they get 72 virgins when they die, and I was like: Well after the first 5 or 6, wouldn’t ya want some chick who knew what she was doin????

  168. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)

    Bg(~007~)

    1-5 Wifey material

    ding ding*
    ______________________________________
    Hush….you gone have these negroes on you like stank on sh@t!!!

    lmao afraid you may fall into that category mr. BG sir?


  169. wifey material
    1. suck a d!ck good
    2. get down in the kitchen
    3. nice appearance
    4. got that great great
    5. have a career

  170. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    wifey material
    1. suck a d!ck good
    2. get down in the kitchen
    3. nice appearance
    4. got that great great
    5. have a career

    ************************************************************

    WTF

    Look at this order….so if she can give mean head, then having a job is not a high priority!!!

  171. trs

    I’d never cheat on you with your friends…
    I would and your still gonna pay my bills.
    ———————————————–

    ____________DEAD_________________________


  172. You in the 30+ club??? I’m not here to judge ya…just asking. It’s all good if you are.
    _____________

    say it ain’t so!!

  173. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Play Nice,
    ______R.I.P. Lady A______

    that was certainly a good one

  174. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983….if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    If you own any of the following, you are wife material:

    Short skirts

    thongs

    lingerie

    handcuffs

    cheerleading outfit

    or thigh high stockings

    **********************************************************

    YAY I am wife material.

    I just gotta get the cheerleading outfit

    What if we have wigs to switch it up or the London Fog trench coat??? Can that take the place of the cheerleading outfit?
    _________________________________________________

    Of course it can!! But then again, you are already a wife!!! LOL!!!

  175. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    wifey material
    1. suck a d!ck good
    2. get down in the kitchen
    3. nice appearance
    4. got that great great
    5. have a career

    lmaooooooooooooooooooooooo


  176. Look at this order….so if she can give mean head, then having a job is not a high priority!!!
    _______

    not in that order ma, purse first a$$ last….

  177. trs

    BG,

    TRS
    You in the 30+ club??? I’m not here to judge ya…just asking. It’s all good if you are.
    —————————————————

    HELL NO!!!

    *Ima have to whip you for this!!!!*

  178. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    Look at this order….so if she can give mean head, then having a job is not a high priority!!!
    _______

    not in that order ma, purse first a$$ last….

    *********************************************************

    I was about to say.

    We need this in 1-5 order


  179. The purse came first the love came later!!!!

  180. trs

    Daywalker,

    Well, to be honest, I don’t mind a woman havig been with a few dudes, hell I prefer it waaay more than virgins!!!
    ——————————————

    I hear ya!!!! ;)

    So just out of curiosity, at what number does a woman become an official member of the “H0″ club?

  181. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983….if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    If you own any of the following, you are wife material:

    Short skirts

    thongs

    lingerie

    handcuffs

    cheerleading outfit

    or thigh high stockings

    **********************************************************

    YAY I am wife material.

    I just gotta get the cheerleading outfit

    What if we have wigs to switch it up or the London Fog trench coat??? Can that take the place of the cheerleading outfit?
    _________________________________________________

    Of course it can!! But then again, you are already a wife!!! LOL!!!

    ************************************************************

    Doesn’t mean I am whife material though…so I am trying to make sure I stay on top.

  182. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    BOSSIP–

    Why does all of your letters have to be about some ignant @zzed woman?


  183. BG,

    TRS
    You in the 30+ club??? I’m not here to judge ya…just asking. It’s all good if you are.
    —————————————————

    HELL NO!!!

    *Ima have to whip you for this!!!!*
    ___________________________________________
    *takes out notepad*
    *trs 23 give or take 1*

  184. enkogkneegro ( Uncle E...if you like )

    @Snoop

    Hey Fam I tried to hit you up the other day to let you know how my friday night hook up with the woman my daughter set me up with went…..Bruh, bruh, she was sun kissed blackitty black, thicker than a snicker, her own hair midway down her back (I checked for tracts) and convo was on point all evening. It went from a dinner on friday to the entire weekend in Vegas (separate rooms of course)and we had a great time…I had to give my daughter major props for this one…

  185. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    ^^^^^ wife*


  186. The purse came first the love came later!!!!
    _______________

    I couldn’t do it no other way…..lol

  187. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    HEY BIG SIS

    HOW YOU FEELING TODAY??

    HOW ARE MY BABIES???

    UH, YOU STILL HAVEN’T JOINED MY MAFIA!!!

    IMMA FIGHT YOU!!

  188. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    SNOOPY

    I am still waiting on that 1-5 order.

  189. trs

    BG,

    *takes out notepad*
    *trs 23 give or take 1*
    ———————————————

    :twisted:

    Actually BG you are WAY off the mark…I know you trying to get me to tell my category but know this:
    I have never let anyone visit my candyland who I did not have strong feelings for!

  190. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ Snoopy

    Imma need that 1-5 order though.

  191. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    Sorry double post

  192. trs

    DIVA!!!!

  193. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    hey IJM!

    *Certified Wifey Material*


  194. Actually BG you are WAY off the mark…I know you trying to get me to tell my category but know this:
    I have never let anyone visit my candyland who I did not have strong feelings for!
    _________________________________________
    2-3
    Trs is such a lady!!!
    Wifey material

  195. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    trs

    BG,

    *takes out notepad*
    *trs 23 give or take 1*
    ———————————————

    :twisted:

    Actually BG you are WAY off the mark…I know you trying to get me to tell my category but know this:
    I have never let anyone visit my candyland who I did not have strong feelings for!

    Tell him Twin!


  196. @ uncle e
    Hey Fam I tried to hit you up the other day to let you know how my friday night hook up with the woman my daughter set me up with went…..Bruh, bruh, she was sun kissed blackitty black, thicker than a snicker, her own hair midway down her back (I checked for tracts) and convo was on point all evening. It went from a dinner on friday to the entire weekend in Vegas (separate rooms of course)and we had a great time…I had to give my daughter major props for this one
    _______

    Whaddup big homie?? Sound like you ran into a winner. Told you, daughter wasn’t go do you wrong..What happenend in vegas still in vegas huh??


  197. hey IJM!

    *Certified Wifey Material*
    _______________________________________
    Let’s not get the big-head!

  198. David

    Look here, get over it you know you love him choppin you down…every body cant be the HOUSE WIFE!!!

  199. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    To: BOSSIP Editing Staff (Kee-kee nem)
    From: 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals
    Re: Filtering, impostoring, and the likes.
    Date: November 11, 2009
    Time: A little after 2.

    Good Afternoon!

    Over the last few days, it has become increasingly difficult to post in your forums. I applaud your honest effort in attempting to reduce the amount of words such as bleep…..bleep, bleepity, bleep and the likes–for it makes it such a friendlier site now. However–in my quest to continue my addicti…I mean, p*****ion for BOSSIP, it would help if YOU posted the words we are no longer allowed to use. So far, I know I can’t use words or phrases such as….

    My rent/mortgage is paid…on TIME!
    The test results are negative.
    I actually went to work everyday last week.
    Mexican.
    Library.
    Income tax check.

    Once again, your *****istance is needed for bloggers such as myself to continue in my/our quest to make BOSSIP numbero uno!

    Thank you for your attention to this troublesome matter.

    Yours in Christ–

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals!!!

  200. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    hey IJM!

    *Certified Wifey Material*

    *************************************************************

    YAY!!!

  201. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    hey IJM!

    *Certified Wifey Material*
    _______________________________________
    Let’s not get the big-head!

    ***********************************************************

    WOW!! Haters, haters everywhere! Good Lord. I can smell the hate seething off you from here.

    Kind of smells like pork bacon.

  202. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)
    Let’s not get the big-head!

    Non needed…I know my worth and got the promo commercials to show it


  203. @ Snoopy

    Imma need that 1-5 order though
    ______

    ok…

    1. A good career
    2. some great puzzy
    3. personality
    4. P.H.D (PHENOMENOL HEAD DEGREE)
    5. good cook


  204. Kind of smells like pork bacon.
    _______________________________
    I love bacon!

  205. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    Hiya trs!!!

    @ Lil Sis– I supoorted it.
    **going to wash the blood off my hands**

  206. Daywalker(I can p***** anything on the road but a gas station!!!)

    @ BG: PERMISSION TO TREAT THE WITNESS AS HOSTILE???

    PPlay Nice

    Of course I’m gonna call you again!!
    I don’t give a rat’s fat one. Your boy is finer than you anyway. Why you even think I’m talking to you?

    Well let me send his H_O_M_O_S_E_X_U_A_L azz right on over!! Who do ya think picked out these shirt and shoes????

    No, I don’t think you’re boring….I find you infinitely interesting!!
    Do you know anyone other than yourself?
    I’m sick of hearing about you!

    I’m sorry, I didn’t recognize you without the flying monkeys!!! I would offer you a drink, but I’m sure your puzzy smells like a wet Moroccan villiage….

    GEE, That’s great!! I wanna hear all about your cat!!
    Don’t really care what level you got to on Xbox.
    I finished the game last year….amatuer

    And I just can’t understand how you could possibly be single…..

    Do I look like the type of guy who’s only interested in sex???
    Do you really think I want it from you?
    Now, go buy me a drink and pay my bills.

    Tellya what, how bout we both buy rounds?? You buy the first round, I’ll buy the next…Unless you can’t afford it??? In which case, I’ll buy it, because I give to charity cases often!! I’m really a nice guy…..

    I’d never cheat on you with your friends…
    I would and your still gonna pay my bills.

    No, I’m not…Sorry, but I don’t put *****s on payroll, honey…

    I’ve only been with 30 women….
    Man Rule: Always add a 0 to the real number.
    And if the chick is as old as you, just take for granted she has more miles than an F-350…

    I swear I wasn’t lookin at your azz/*****/crotch…
    Yes, you were! And your gonna keep lookin when I walk away…

    Well, to be honest, it’s not every day I get to see monkeys away from the zoo, up in the club in some fake heels, and a gucci knock off outfit..So yeah, I’m kinda perplexed, sause you look like 10 pounds of sausage in a 2 pound sack in that dress!!! When you walk outside, do little kids yell “Hey, Kool aid???”

    ___________________________________________________

  207. Brooklyn, Stand UP! (2009 World Series Champions)

    What’s up everybody! :)

    That’s straight up wrong for dude to lie like that. If your gonna creep while still being married you should definitely let the other person know your status and let them decide on their own merit if they want to f*ck with you or not.

    Don’t lie… That’s how people get hurt!


  208. Bg(~007~)
    Let’s not get the big-head!

    Non needed…I know my worth and got the promo commercials to show it
    _________________________________________
    Yo so I’m tryin to test the product…what’s good???

  209. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ Lil Sis– I supoorted it.
    **going to wash the blood off my hands**

    ************************************************************

    Yes…please wash it off.

    I am disappointed in you :(

    Whispers to big sis: “remember you weren’t always a Southerner!”

  210. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    Don’t lie… That’s how people get hurt!

    ************************************************************

    Don’t lie….that’s how people get caught.


  211. I have never let anyone visit my candyland who I did not have strong feelings for
    ___________

    kudos, is wondering do have room for one more candy cane in your candyland???

  212. Brooklyn, Stand UP! (2009 World Series Champions)

    @I’m Just Me

    True, true…

  213. GoodKarma4Me

    Bossip I know u guys be making these stories up…I mean who will seek advice from this loser site…SMDH


  214. kudos, is wondering do have room for one more candy cane in your candyland???
    ___________________________________________
    I know I’m pushing it, but how about 2?

  215. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ Brooklyn

    Just saying….if you don’t like, you have no problems!

  216. Brooklyn, Stand UP! (2009 World Series Champions)

    It’s funny how men & women think diferently when addressing this topic cause I have plenty friends that would not only sleep with a married woman but carry on a relationship with them knowing they are married.

    *Excuse* I’m in it for the sex my brother, lol…

  217. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    Acceptable words and/or phrases by BOSSIP–
    (only if spelled intricately and disguised to fool the editors)

    W-I-C.
    E-X-T-E-N-S-I-O-N-S and/or W-E-A-V-E.

    B-A-B-Y-D-A-D-D-Y.

    G-O-L-D T-E-E-F-U-S-E-S

    N-O-N S-U-P-P-O-R-T

    And of course–
    .
    .
    .
    .
    .
    The Kardashians.

    Carry on…..

  218. trs

    BG,

    Trs is such a lady!!!
    Wifey material
    ———————————————-

    Ok, you are back in my good graces now that you’ve corrected yourself! ;)

    *blows kiss*

    Twin,

    Tell him Twin!
    ————————————————
    You know I couldn’t let him get away with that! :)

  219. trs

    BROOKLYN!!! What’s up cutie?

  220. Brooklyn, Stand UP! (2009 World Series Champions)

    @ trs

    BROOKLYN!!! What’s up cutie?
    *****************************

    Chillin’ baby girl! What’s good with you? :)

  221. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ Sis

    I sent a message to your FB

  222. trs

    Snoop,

    kudos, is wondering do have room for one more candy cane in your candyland???
    ——————————————–

    :shock:

    SNOOPY!!

    So ummm…. When you coming to Florida?


  223. BK STAND!!!! Whaddup fam?? I see your GNATS have hit a lightw8 losing streak…lol


  224. Snoop,

    kudos, is wondering do have room for one more candy cane in your candyland???
    ——————————————–

    SNOOPY!!

    So ummm…. When you coming to Florida?
    ________________________________________
    ******es mic from Snoop*
    Ahem… I will and can be there as early as 10 p.m.


  225. you cant say S.N.A.T.C.H….reallly bossip

  226. CAT EYES

    this is why alot of women will never have a man take them as a wife.They think that blow jobs,good sex and all these things that come a dime a dozen will make a man settle.No they won’t.If good sex kept people together, most people probably wouldn’t be single.The problem with alot of women is they lack CHARACTER.If you have to ask what character is,I know you don’t have it.
    Men are NOT stupid.They know exactly which woman will allow which game and in this case,he just wanted a play thing for a moment. See, a man can teach a good woman to be his freak,but he can’t teach a freak character.

  227. Brooklyn, Stand UP! (2009 World Series Champions)

    @snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    BK STAND!!!! Whaddup fam?? I see your GNATS have hit a lightw8 losing streak…lol
    *********************************************
    It appears that they forgot how to play football, lol…

  228. trs

    Brooklyn,

    It’s funny how men & women think diferently when addressing this topic cause I have plenty friends that would not only sleep with a married woman but carry on a relationship with them knowing they are married.
    —————————————–

    It’s much less work for a dude who is involved with a married woman… And they still get to hit. That’s what’s up with that!

    Oh and I am good!!! How are things your way?? :)

  229. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    Are you kidding,

    can we not say ***** anymore?

  230. trs

    BG

    Ahem… I will and can be there as early as 10 p.m.
    ———————————————-

    OMG I am so through with you!!! ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  231. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    OMG

    BOSSIP YOU ARE KILLING ME


  232. See, a man can teach a good woman to be his freak,but he can’t teach a freak character.
    ____________________________________________
    Applause!!!

  233. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    *****, *****, *****, *****, *****


  234. I usually don’t comment but I am today…Divorces cost to damn much so if he legally seperated than keep it poppin…How long have they been seperated if it’s only been a few months than she may wanna back away but if it has been a while than I say go for it…My uncle ain’t get divorced from my aunt until he was about to marry another woman and they had been seperated for over 15 years..lol


  235. SNOOPY!!

    So ummm…. When you coming to Florida?
    ________

    ** making reservations online to candyland **ahem** i mean florida as we type** :)

  236. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)

    Bg(~007~)
    Let’s not get the big-head!

    Non needed…I know my worth and got the promo commercials to show it
    _________________________________________
    Yo so I’m tryin to test the product…what’s good???

    ok bossip blocked my first response…lol

    In short words BG the label of my product says *For Mature Audience Only*…

    You’re not ready to test a thing

  237. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    BOSSIP IS KILLING ME!!!

  238. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    In short words BG the label of my product says *For Mature Audience Only*…

    You’re not ready to test a thing

    ***********************************************************

    OMG DEAD!!!

    She said you still have similac on your breath dude!

  239. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    SNOOPY!!

    So ummm…. When you coming to Florida?
    ________

    ** making reservations online to candyland **ahem** i mean florida as we type** :)

    Frequent Flyer miles huh…lol

  240. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ Daywalker

    You still here?

  241. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    **testing to see if I can say U-N-E-M-P-L-O-Y-M-E-N-T**


  242. Frequent Flyer miles huh…lol
    __________

    LOL……yup

  243. trs

    In short words BG the label of my product says *For Mature Audience Only*…

    You’re not ready to test a thing
    ———————————————

    ———-FLATLINED—————–


  244. *****


  245. I can’t say *****…….this some bull*****


  246. In short words BG the label of my product says *For Mature Audience Only*…

    You’re not ready to test a thing
    ___________________________________________
    What………..Ever!!! Stop frontin, you know you want me to squeeze that juicbox

  247. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    Dagggggg!

    I won’t be able to C-U-S-S anyone out anymore.

    I thought this was Henny without the *****e????

    Now-it’s more like red kool-aide without the ice.

    …..in a mayonnaise jar.
    …..sitting on the end table.
    …..next to the couch with the good plastic.

  248. trs

    Snoop,

    making reservations online to candyland **ahem** i mean florida as we type**
    ———————————————–

    LMAO!!!! My candyland is on reserve for someone special!!!

    Lemme know when you’re coming! ;)

  249. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ Snoop

    That is what i said LOL

  250. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    I thought this was Henny without the *****e????

    They are a daxn lie!

  251. trs

    I thought this was Henny without the *****e????

    Now-it’s more like red kool-aide without the ice.

    …..in a mayonnaise jar.
    …..sitting on the end table.
    …..next to the couch with the good plastic.

    ————————————————-

    Here lies TRS……..

  252. Tracey

    CAT EYES

    this is why alot of women will never have a man take them as a wife.They think that blow jobs,good sex and all these things that come a dime a dozen will make a man settle.No they won’t.If good sex kept people together, most people probably wouldn’t be single.The problem with alot of women is they lack CHARACTER.If you have to ask what character is,I know you don’t have it.
    Men are NOT stupid.They know exactly which woman will allow which game and in this case,he just wanted a play thing for a moment. See, a man can teach a good woman to be his freak,but he can’t teach a freak character.
    ______________________________________

    Cat’s eyes, too true, however a good woman who could be educated, has a good character, comes from a good moral family background, can cook, clean, and earn her own money, can still be used, is she uses the wrong bait and catched stale stinking fish!

    I believe we find decent partners very early in life (before the baggage gets heavy and dirty), I always believe similiar backgrounds are a must for everyone to get on well with and the truth and respect is a must!

    trying to steal someone elses man just isnt going to work, and when street workers give out the best blow jobs, they really are ten a penny, please it can give you mouth cancer!

  253. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ Sis

    It is more like Tropical Fantasy soda.

    It gives you a little pick-me up at first but the more you drink the worse it gets.

  254. David

    Any Man who is telling the truth to these women are crazy!! LIE LIE LIE trust me you will get more BOOTY!!!!!!!!!!!!

  255. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)
    What………..Ever!!! Stop frontin, you know you want me to squeeze that juicbox

    That’s what normally happens when you can’t control how much the juice you put in your mouth.

  256. trs

    street workers give out the best blow jobs
    ——————————————

    This is not true in all cases. That is all. :)


  257. LMAO!!!! My candyland is on reserve for someone special!!!

    Lemme know when you’re coming!
    __________

    ;)

  258. Ms.EJ

    I do not understand how it was possible that for six months she did not know that he was married, because from what I’ve heard from “the other” women on talks shows (Oprah, Dr.Phil etc)they started to know something was up when the holidays came around, abrupt termination of phone calls, or always having to meet in far and secluded places. I understand that some men are great actors and/or liars, but as soon as she found out he was married that should have been a done deal, point blank period. That clearly showed his character, that he is a liar, a cheat, selfish, inconsiderate, manipulator and deceitful. It also showed that he did not respect her enough to be honest to give her that option of whether she would still be “down” with him (unfortunately some women are).

    Any man that is taken in any way I immediately look the other way.

  259. trs

    Twin,

    That’s what normally happens when you can’t control how much the juice you put in your mouth.
    ———————————————–

    You are in time out!!! Go sit in the corner!

    LMAO!

  260. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    what up ppls

  261. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    trs

    street workers give out the best blow jobs
    ——————————————

    This is not true in all cases. That is all. :)

    R.I.P Lady A

  262. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    @ Lil Sis–

    Now they gonna have people trying to post words all misspelled–trying to get their point across!

    Thanks BOSSIP!

    You will be responsible for increasing the country’s illiteracy rate.

    That and, text messaging.

  263. Mama Mila

    Everyone does not get a sip of my juicebox.

    LADIES….

    JUST BECAUSE A MAN SAYS THAT HE IS REALLY INTO YOU…..IT DOES NOT MEAN YOU HAVE TO LET HIM IN…..

    You would be better off talking to Jesus….he will be there in the morning.

  264. Azeron

    You already know the correct answer. You are doing the right thing now. Before you didn’t know he was married, but now you know. If you kcuf with him before he divorces his wife (which is unlikely) then you are a willing parti*****nt and consenting to be a mistress. PLUS he is a liar. He lied to you every day of your relationship. Had you known he was married you never would have fallen for him. You said it yourself…you had to e convinced. Now if you don’t mind being a side piece…get in where you fit in. I’m not judging you. It might just be that good. Just don’t act like you don’t know what time it is if you do before he is divorced.


  265. Hey Ms. Ej

    I was trying to get them to stop talking about hookers, bj’s and all that nasty stuff before you came in, but my efforts failed.

  266. trs

    Twin,

    R.I.P Lady A

    ——————————————-

    Baby pigs!!! ROTFLMAO!! ;)

  267. Ms.EJ

    @THE TRUTH- Hey Ms.Lady hi to ALL


  268. Any man that is taken in any way I immediately look the other way.
    _________________

    I find that hard to believe, from my experience most women want you when you have a SO…..i.e. I’m in the mall with my girl, and women be breaking they neck checking a ***** out….When i was single walking in the mall, a ***** couldn’t get no play with a flourescent bright shirt that says “I’M SINGLE” with exclamation marks….

  269. trs

    Mama

    Everyone does not get a sip of my juicebox.

    LADIES….

    JUST BECAUSE A MAN SAYS THAT HE IS REALLY INTO YOU…..IT DOES NOT MEAN YOU HAVE TO LET HIM IN…..
    ————————————————-

    CHURCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Not every man is worthy!

  270. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    @ Mama Mila–

    My grandmother said the same thing about Jesus. I told her she sleeps with a man that sleeps with thousands of other women.

    She didn’t think it was funny.

  271. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @Ms.EJ

    @THE TRUTH- Hey Ms.Lady hi to ALL

    hey baby girl

  272. trs

    Hey Ms. EJ!!

  273. Ms.EJ

    @BG-LMBO!!!…but the ladies seem real cool though. I love to see unity with us sistas though.

  274. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    OMG you cannot even say P a s s on here anymore.

    This is getting to be 2 much.


  275. When it comes to puzzy, my morals usually fly out the window…..lol

  276. trs

    TRUTH!!!!!!

  277. Ms.EJ

    @TRS- Hey *waves*
    @BG- oh Hey back to you too sorry about that.

    OFF TOPIC: To the Ladies: I tend to make the same desert for Thanksgiving which is peach cobbler which I love, but want to also try something new any suggestions?

  278. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ sis

    you cannot even say p a s s

    I am done!


  279. Truth…..whaddup ma??

  280. Azeron

    Wow! They censored tnapicitrap. Henney without any *****e? More like warm milk.

  281. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    When it comes to puzzy, my morals usually fly out the window…..lol

    SMDH SMDH @IJM Y THIS NIGG RIGHT HERE REMIND ME OF MY NEIGHBOR LMAO

  282. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)
    I find that hard to believe, from my experience most women want you when you have a SO…..i.e. I’m in the mall with my girl, and women be breaking they neck checking a ***** out….When i was single walking in the mall, a ***** couldn’t get no play with a flourescent bright shirt that says “I’M SINGLE” with exclamation marks….

    awwww poor u…I would have

  283. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    QUESTION FOR ALL:

    WHO LIKES THAT ROBIN THICKE SONG

    “SEX THERAPY”???

    I LOVE IT!!!

  284. David

    Please,

    Every woman wants to be the other woman…think about wifey at home…in the club, out of town, Ho HO HO…is it december?

  285. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    @ trs–

    I know…….I KNOW!!!!!!

    **1Trudiva heads off to the time out corner with a scowl and a plot for revenge**

  286. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    When it comes to puzzy, my morals usually fly out the window…..lol

    SMDH SMDH @IJM Y THIS NIGG RIGHT HERE REMIND ME OF MY NEIGHBOR LMAO

    *********************************************************

    LMAOOOO I see

    at least he is being upfront.

    Ya neighbor deserves to get John Allen Muhammed-ed for real.

  287. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @trs

    TRUTH!!!!!!

    TRSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT UP MA MEMBA I TOLD U NIGGZ AIMT SHIIT THATS MY WORD MA THEY AINT Y DID MY NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR WAIT TILL MY HUBBY LEFT YEST AND TRY TO GET SOME PLAY. YESSSSS THAT NIGG WAS THAT BRAZEN TO COME TO ANOTHER NIGG HOUSE AND TRY TO PULL THAT SHIIT. C SHIIIT LIKE THIS HERE WILL GET A NIGG KILT FASTER THAN THE SWIN FLU NOW I HAVE TO TELL HUBBY ACCORDING TO EVERYONE I SHOULD DO THAT WHICH WILL CAUSE CONFLICT. AND THE NIGG GOT A LIVE IN GIRLFRIEND CAN U BELIEVE. SMDH

  288. Azeron

    The fun now will be submitting posts to determine which innocent words will be censored.

  289. Ms.EJ

    @SNOOP- I thought I was the only one who notice that when you have a SO that the opposite sex tend to you want you or want you more. To some it is a turn on even a challenge to see if they can take tha man or woman from their SOs. SMH, but so true.

  290. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Ms.EJ

    @TRS- Hey *waves*
    @BG- oh Hey back to you too sorry about that.

    OFF TOPIC: To the Ladies: I tend to make the same desert for Thanksgiving which is peach cobbler which I love, but want to also try something new any suggestions?

    Not a fan of peaches so my thing is Apple Cobbler…I do Apple Pies, Sweet Potato Pies, Pumpkin pies, and cakes for Thanksgiving….

  291. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @SNOOPPPPPPPPPPYYYY HE BABY!!!!!!

  292. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    SWEET POTATO PIE!!!!! YAY!!!

  293. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    @ The Truth–

    Trust me. You’re husband is probably on to that brotha!

    Don’t slip!


  294. I’m go start my on blog site, and we are going to talk sex 7 days a week

    SEXXXY SAT.
    SUCK ME SUN.
    MOANING MON.
    TOOT IT UP TUES.
    WET WED.
    THIRSTY THURS.
    FREAKY FRIDAY

  295. Azeron

    Ms.EJ

    @SNOOP- I thought I was the only one who notice that when you have a SO that the opposite sex tend to you want you or want you more. To some it is a turn on even a challenge to see if they can take tha man or woman from their SOs. SMH, but so true.

    That’s not it. They figure you both are in relationships so they can cheat and not worry about you wanting to stay the next morning.

  296. trs

    Ms. EJ

    To the Ladies: I tend to make the same desert for Thanksgiving which is peach cobbler which I love, but want to also try something new any suggestions?
    ————————————————–

    Potato Pie
    Red Velvet Cake
    Hummingbird Cake
    Carrot Cake

  297. Ms.EJ

    @IJM- I have not had the chance to hear it yet, but so far alot of people seem to really like it. I love Robin Thicke I have his first/2nd cd.


  298. I’m go start my on blog site, and we are going to talk sex 7 days a week

    SEXXXY SAT.
    SUCK ME SUN.
    MOANING MON.
    TOOT IT UP TUES.
    WET WED.
    THIRSTY THURS.
    FREAKY FRIDAY
    ____________________________________
    You have your first loyal follower!

  299. trs

    IJM

    QUESTION FOR ALL:

    WHO LIKES THAT ROBIN THICKE SONG

    “SEX THERAPY”???

    I LOVE IT!!!
    ————————————————-

    GURL YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THAT SONG DID TO ME WHEN I FIRST HEARD IT!!!!!!!!!!!

    When he sang

    ♫♫You’re the only one…♫♫

    Have Mercy!

  300. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    @ Lady A–

    I have to make 10 sweet potato pies. Six of them are for people at work!

  301. Sydney™

    Hey TRS :)

    I got your message, and I’m going to respond. It just make take me a little time.


  302. PIE EATING CONTEST!!!
    Who’s pie am I eating?


  303. awwww poor u…I would have
    _______

    Oh really??

  304. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    SEXXXY SAT.
    SUCK ME SUN.
    MOANING MON.
    TOOT IT UP TUES.
    WET WED.
    THIRSTY THURS.
    FREAKY FRIDAY

    ***********************************************************

    YAY!!!

  305. trs

    Truth,

    YESSSSS THAT NIGG WAS THAT BRAZEN TO COME TO ANOTHER NIGG HOUSE AND TRY TO PULL THAT SHIIT.
    ————————————————

    :shock:

    Girl don’t tell your husband that!!! You know how possessive men are about their wives! You gonna start a war! I wouldn’t tell unless he continued to come on to you…in that case, it’s fair game.

  306. Ms.EJ

    @LADY A- Apple pie is one of my absolute favorite pies to eat.
    @TRS- I totally had forgotten all about Carrote Cake too good!!! (girl I love to eat though I don’t know where it goes still 115 hope to get to 125lbs)
    Thank you all to everyone for the suggestions (IJM/to all)
    I think Carrot Cake it is haven’t had that in so long.

  307. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ Diva and EJ

    Y’all can reroute two sweet potato pies to Buffalo.

    Thanks!

  308. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    bg–

    I’m thinking about starting my own blog, too.

    Errbody’ll be able to post eeerthing BOSSIP don’t let us.

    Let’s do it!!!!

    **In my “Smokey’s” voice**

    “Let’s stick tu-geah-vah!”

  309. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    diva

    @ Lady A–

    I have to make 10 sweet potato pies. Six of them are for people at work!
    MY mom gonna tell me I betta get home early cause I have to make 8…cutting the potatoes for that many is insane! Plus I have to make cakes and make a pumpkin pie for my bro…

  310. Ms.EJ

    @1TRUDIVA- You remind me of my aunt she has to make the same amount if not more for her co-workers, family and friends…that means you can really get down in making that pie.

  311. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    Girl don’t tell your husband that!!! You know how possessive men are about their wives! You gonna start a war! I wouldn’t tell unless he continued to come on to you…in that case, it’s fair game.

    **********************************************************

    Negative.

    tell that ninja. that could be the set up. See if u really as good as you claim.

    Besides that ninja violated. he should have thought about the repercussions of his actions.

  312. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    awwww poor u…I would have
    _______

    Oh really??

    You know it…

  313. trs

    Ms. EJ

    @TRS- I totally had forgotten all about Carrote Cake too good!!! (girl I love to eat though I don’t know where it goes still 115 hope to get to 125lbs)
    Thank you all to everyone for the suggestions (IJM/to all)
    I think Carrot Cake it is haven’t had that in so long.
    ———————————————-

    You’re welcome girl! ;) Enjoy!!

  314. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @ trs

    Truth,

    YESSSSS THAT NIGG WAS THAT BRAZEN TO COME TO ANOTHER NIGG HOUSE AND TRY TO PULL THAT SHIIT.
    ————————————————

    Girl don’t tell your husband that!!! You know how possessive men are about their wives! You gonna start a war! I wouldn’t tell unless he continued to come on to you…in that case, it’s fair game.

    GURL THAT IS EXACLTY WHAT I WAS THINKING THAT IS Y I DIDNT SAY SHII LAST NIGHT AND NIGG WAS SHOOK HE LIKE DONT TELL I WAS KIDDING U NOT GOINNA TELL RIGHT CUS I DONT WANT UR HUSBAND TO KILL ME LMAO GIRL KNOWING MY HUBBY HE WOULDA WENT OVER THERE LAST NIGHT CONFRONTED DUDE AND LAID HIM ON HIS BACK POCKETS LMAO

  315. Ms.EJ

    @IJM- LOL I know that’s right, lol.

  316. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    SYDNEY!!!!!!!!

    Boni, mami!

    Som-u-dini, mama!!

    Ma—muh!

    I-ZZZ-IT-REEELY-U?

  317. trs

    IJM

    tell that ninja. that could be the set up. See if u really as good as you claim.
    ————————————————-

    :shock:

    I did not think about that!!! You right too!

    Truth:

    I have changed my mind! TELL HIM!!

  318. Sydney™

    Are we discussing pies? lol

    Hey Diva and everyone :)

    It’s raining outside and my new curls have already fallen. :(

  319. trs

    Sydney,

    I got your message, and I’m going to respond. It just make take me a little time.
    ———————————————–

    Hey Sydney!!! No worries, take your time! :)

  320. enkogkneegro ( Uncle E...if you like )

    @CAT EYES

    See, a man can teach a good woman to be his freak,but he can’t teach a freak character.

    I’m feeling that…….

    @Truth

    Hey you how you doin?


  321. I don’t even like sweet potato pie….shurgs!

  322. trs

    Sydney,

    It’s raining outside and my new curls have already fallen.
    ——————————————-

    It’s raining here too!

    *Sigh*

    I hate when you spend good money and then it rains!

  323. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    @ Ej and Lady A–

    I know, right?! I used to get frustrated trying to make all those pies for people at work but I really see it as a compliment to my culinary skillz now!! Lol!!

    Another thought–

    Why is it when you have a food gathering at work, the men always donate money instead of food?

    Well…that is, other than Twan in receiving. He always brings in dishes that would put Emeril outta work.

  324. enkogkneegro ( Uncle E...if you like )

    hey trs and Sid how r the two of you today..


  325. @ Syd
    Have ur curls fallen because of the rain or what the rain brings?

  326. trs

    Truth,

    GIRL KNOWING MY HUBBY HE WOULDA WENT OVER THERE LAST NIGHT CONFRONTED DUDE AND LAID HIM ON HIS BACK POCKETS LMAO
    ———————————————–

    After reading wiath IJM said I think that you should go on and tell…just calm your hubby down so he doesn’t do anything foolish!

  327. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)

    I don’t even like sweet potato pie….shurgs!
    weirdo…u probably like rice cakes or something

  328. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    **another Thanksgiving random thought**

    And why the lady who has cat hair all over her sweater always want to eat her brownies?

  329. JB ( You're Welcome. From a Veteran)

    Married Military are the best during a 6-month deployment!!

    Hey Yall

  330. enkogkneegro ( Uncle E...if you like )

    And not to overlook the one and only TruDiva how r u dear?

  331. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @ UNCLE EEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!

    WHAT UP UR THE MAN I SHOULD ASK????? IM FINE JUST HAVE A DELIMA MY NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR CAME OM TO ME YEST WHEN MY HUSBAND WASNT HOME. NOW ITS A HOUSE THAT WE BROUGHT LAST YR THESE ARE OUR NEXT DOOR NEIGHBORS SO ITS NOT LIKE WE CAN JUST MOVE IF THINGS GET OUT OF HAND U KNOW ITS HARDER THAN THAT. BUT IM LIKE DAG SHOULD O TELL MY HUBBY CUS HE HAS A REALLY BAD TEMPER SO I DONT KNOW??? I REALLY DONT WANT TO START CONFLICT BUT I DONT WANT TO KEEP THAT AWAY FROM HIM OR GIVE THE NEIGHBOR THE IMPRESSION THAT HE CAN DO THAT.

  332. trs

    HEY UNCLE E!!!!!!!

  333. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Rain brings some good moods…smh

  334. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    Uncle E–

    Ouuta aaaaaaaaaaaaaaallll the ladies loungin’ up in here, how you gone pick just TWO to speak to?

    You know we ALL love you, Unc!!!


  335. See, a man can teach a good woman to be his freak,but he can’t teach a freak character.
    _______

    @ cat eyes…..kudos, i’m going to use this on my facebook status……thanks

  336. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    JB!!!!!!!!!!!!<3

  337. trs

    @ Syd
    Have ur curls fallen because of the rain or what the rain brings?
    ————————————————-

    BG!!!!!!!!! know not to ask Sydney anything like that!!! SMH @ you!!

    Have you no shame??

  338. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)

    I don’t even like sweet potato pie….shurgs!
    weirdo…u probably like rice cakes or something

    LADY A HEEEEYYYYYYYY HLD UP THATS TOO FAR NIGG I LIKE RICE CAKES CARAMEL ONES WITH PEANUT BUTTER ON TOP LOL REAL TALK

  339. trs

    JB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  340. JB ( You're Welcome. From a Veteran)

    Lady AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Waiting to hear from the “Ticket Master”!!

  341. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    snoop bloggy blog ( i’m kind of a BIG DEAL)

    See, a man can teach a good woman to be his freak,but he can’t teach a freak character.
    _______

    @ cat eyes…..kudos, i’m going to use this on my facebook status……thanks

    oh goodness here you go…

  342. Ms.EJ

    @ITRUDIVA- *wiping tears from eyes* you have me cracking up over her from the Twan comment on the pies to the woman w/cat hair all over her sweater *dead*

  343. JB ( You're Welcome. From a Veteran)

    Hey Gator!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  344. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    **another random Thanksgiving thought**

    And why is it the lady that wears those Walmart sweat shirts for every season (The Christmas one even includes bells) want you to eat her broccoli c*****erole?

  345. Ms.EJ

    @ITRUDIVA- oops I meant to say cracking up over here not her, lol.

    @SYDNEY- Hey *waves hard*

  346. Sydney™

    “Have ur curls fallen because of the rain or what the rain brings?”

    What are you talking about, BG? :)

    Hey Uncle E :)

    @TRS

    Yeah, it should be fine once I roll my hair up tonight. I’m just glad I finally got a trim. I’m letting my hair grow.


  347. It’s raining outside and my new curls have already fallen
    ______

    the lil shriley temple curls??

  348. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)

    I don’t even like sweet potato pie….shurgs!
    weirdo…u probably like rice cakes or something

    LADY A HEEEEYYYYYYYY HLD UP THATS TOO FAR NIGG I LIKE RICE CAKES CARAMEL ONES WITH PEANUT BUTTER ON TOP LOL REAL TALK

    Lmaooooooo it’s an outside joke..

  349. JB ( You're Welcome. From a Veteran)

    want you to eat her broccoli c*****erole?

    ___________________________________________

    Bossip is even filtering food now. Da Hell is going on?

  350. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    OK, Unc! I see ya now!

    **placing my “nine” back in my waistband in the small of my back**

  351. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    **another Thanksgiving random thought**

    And why the lady who has cat hair all over her sweater always want to eat her brownies?

    ***********************************************************

    OMG who do u know.

  352. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    JB ( You’re Welcome. From a Veteran)

    Lady AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Waiting to hear from the “Ticket Master”!!
    Cool…keep me posted…you know I gotta keep the weekends busy now *winks*

  353. trs

    Sydney,

    I’m letting my hair grow.
    ——————————————–

    Me too! It’s already down my back but I hope to get 3 more inches on it. That’s soo cute that you roll your hair! I used to…

  354. MiamiChick

    Girl, leave his ***** alone!! And I do mean RUN!

    All married men seem consistent and perfect, that’s their MO…hell your story is almost identical to mine from 10 years ago. The a-hole told me he was divorced, took me around all his friends, coworkers, spent at least 5 days a wk with me and spent tons of $$$ on me as well. Of course, when I got pregnant, he decided to “come clean” and reveal he was married to a white woman w/2 kids.

    That a-hole came to see our kid 2x and that was 10 years ago, haven’t heard from him since. BTW, he was 10 years older than me.

    Believe me when I say RUN the other direction and cut that MF off!!

    FYI…a clue to knowing if your man is married: they disappear on Sundays (family day).

  355. Ms.EJ

    @ITRUDIVA- One thing I learned is that you can not eat everybodys food, especially c*****erole. I can’t stand it when a person tries to force you to eat their food or be a taste tester by literally shoving the fork or spoon in your mouth..grrr! lol, that is not cool. Let me try it out on my own, don’t push me or force me. I know where its at, I see and smell it. LOL.

  356. Sydney™

    Hey Ms. EJ :) I responded to you last night in the Shaq thread. Girl, I found some alleged e-mails online between Shaq and Gilbert Arenas’ fiancee, and they were scandalous. I did some more snooping and discovered that his fiancee proposed to him, not the other way around, and they have had a very turbulent history together.

  357. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    JB ( You’re Welcome. From a Veteran)

    want you to eat her broccoli c*****erole?

    ___________________________________________

    Bossip is even filtering food now. Da Hell is going on?

    lolol they been filtering a lot…I’m nice at that dish though…I think I’ll make some Sunday


  358. TRS
    One day Syd is gonna break down and tell us when she gets broken off…and I’ll be the one to get it outta her

  359. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    We had a Thanksgiving dinner at work once. The ONLY job for Angie (from Inspection) was to bring in corn.

    HOMEGIRL opened up a can of corn, dumped it into a pot and bought it to work….IN THE POT!!!!!

    Not even a cover. Chica had the pot covered with aluminum foil!!!

    I took the foil off and looked at the corn and…

    ….the corn was orange!

    WTF was that….maize???????

  360. enkogkneegro ( Uncle E...if you like )

    @Lady A

    They serving sweet potato pie in our dining room and folks surprised I don’t eat sweet potato pie..I know what they thinking being that I’m one of 3 black employees here ( I thought all black people ate sweet potato pie )but they no better than to say it…lol but I can see the puzzlement in their eyes and its funny as hell….

  361. Ms.EJ

    @BG- I love sweet potato pie…I notice that many men are picky eaters,but they are also good judges on how food taste …curious what kind of pies do you like?

  362. Angee

    You have to spell A$$ instead of *****.

  363. Sydney™

    @Snoop

    “the lil shriley temple curls??”

    LOL! I used to get those when I was a kid. No, I just got a wash and set at my favorite Dominican salon with the big rollers, so I have loose curls.

    @TRS

    Good for you, sis. :) LOL, yes, I still roll my hair.


  364. FYI…a clue to knowing if your man is married: they disappear on Sundays (family day).
    ______

    lol……..i see you learned a thing or two

  365. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    @ Ej–

    GIRL!!! The cat hair lady will CHASE you down to try her food!!!

    She’ll bring something into my office then stand there and WAIT for me to try it!

    If I’m not in, she’ll leave it on the desk then come back and ask me how was it?

    I be like…….D-A-M-N!

  366. Sydney™

    @BG

    “One day Syd is gonna break down and tell us when she gets broken off…and I’ll be the one to get it outta her”

    “Broken off?” Do you mean when I break something, like a gl*****? I hate when I do that. . .

    @TRS

    Do you wrap your hair?

  367. Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY- Okay, will check that post out and I finally read those emails, straight scandalous and just nasty. Yes, its weird hearing about a woman asking for the mans hand in marriage, but some do. The actor Micheal Jai White his wife asked him to marry her, the said thing she said that she knew he wasn’t going to do it, that he needed a push..umm okay. Nonetheless, they got married and seem happy.

  368. trs

    BG,

    TRS
    One day Syd is gonna break down and tell us when she gets broken off…and I’ll be the one to get it outta her
    ———————————————

    :shock:

    You truly are something else with your arrogant behind!!! SMH..but I had to laugh at you too.

  369. trs

    Sydney,

    @TRS

    Do you wrap your hair?
    ————————————————-

    Yes I do! :)

  370. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    I have a Pakistanian woman who reports to me. She kept telling me that she was going to make me a dish. Well, she did and I ate it.

    I shotted for FOUR days!! Shotted so much, it was running clear! I swore to four Gods and three Jesuses that if he bought me thru, I would NEVER, EVER do that again!!!

  371. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    trs

    Sydney,

    I’m letting my hair grow.
    ——————————————–

    Me too! It’s already down my back but I hope to get 3 more inches on it. That’s soo cute that you roll your hair! I used to…

    me 3…my hair is thick as i donno what now that its natural


  372. “Broken off?” Do you mean when I break something, like a gl*****? I hate when I do that. . .
    ______

    naw….when a man have your toes looking like cheeze curls….lol

  373. Ms.EJ

    @1TRUDIVA-LMBO ROTFL STOP!!! Gurl you are hilarious. I have neighbor who is the same way particulary when it comes to her bar-b-q I hate that she tends to always catch me coming back somewhere or checking the mail LOL. She will just hand me something she cook, stare at me hard, before I can swallow she is already saying “Its good huh!?? I told you its good, the meat just falling off the bone huh!??” make no sense, lol.

  374. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    A clue if your man is cheating……

    His body smells like all outdoors but his bottom half (which rests between his legs) is Irish Spring fresh!

  375. Sydney™

    @Ms. EJ

    “Yes, its weird hearing about a woman asking for the mans hand in marriage, but some do.”

    Oh, yeah, I’ve heard of women proposing, but Gilbert Arenas’ fiancée is already the mother of two of his children, and she has another on the way. If you have children with a man, and he still hasn’t proposed to you, well, that says a lot, IMHO.

  376. Ms.EJ

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    I have a Pakistanian woman who reports to me. She kept telling me that she was going to make me a dish. Well, she did and I ate it.

    I shotted for FOUR days!! Shotted so much, it was running clear! I swore to four Gods and three Jesuses that if he bought me thru, I would NEVER, EVER do that again!!!
    —————————————————

    _______flatline_______________

  377. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    @ EJ–

    LMAO!!!!

  378. Newlife

    MY ADVICE WOULD BE IS TO TAKE SOME TIME TO GATHER YOUR THOUGHTS AND THINK THING THOROUGHLY. YOU AND ONLY YOU KNOW WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU HOWEVER; I DO WANT TO GIVE YOU A QUICK THOUGHT/RESPONSE. THE PART THE REALLY INTRIGUES ME IS: IS HE OVER HIS WIFE ? ALSO IF HE WAITED 6 MONTHS BEFORE TELLING THAT HE WAS MARRIED THAN WHAT ARE THE CHANCES HE IS NOT TELLING SOMETHING ELSE ? YOU SEE WHEN YOU GIVE SOMEONE THE UPPER HAND OF THEM HOLDING OFF ON TELLING THINGS YOU ALLOW THEM TO HAVE ROOM TO SAY OR DO BIGGER THINGS. ITS NOT ABOUT HOW HE FEELS OR WHAT EXCUSE HE’S USED FOR THIS BUT ABOUT, YOU. IF THIS CAUSED SOME PAIN TO YOUR HEART AND WONT ALLOW YOU TO TRUST HIM IN THE NEAR FUTURE, THAN ITS TIME TO MOVE ON OR TAKE SOME TIME FOR YOURSELF/ALONE.

  379. Sydney™

    “naw….when a man have your toes looking like cheeze curls….lol”

    Eww, that sounds like it’s time for a pedicure. . .

  380. Angee

    Diva, you are so crazy!! :lol:

  381. trs

    Twin,

    me 3…my hair is thick as i donno what now that its natural
    ————————————————-

    You do have some gorgeous hair!! One of my saw boys your picture and he is dang near ready to move up there!

  382. Sydney™

    “I took the foil off and looked at the corn and…

    ….the corn was orange!

    WTF was that….maize???????”

    I just read this — Diva, you are a fool!!! LMBAO!

  383. Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY- That sure does say alot (didn’t know they had more than one) and in a way IMO sad, almost embarr*****ing, because he can lay down with you and create these babies and not at least get engaged to you on his own? SMH. That is what I do not get one can playhouse, but not make it official or keep making babies w/a man (Kim Porter)who clearly is showing you he will never marry you…maybe never is a strong word, but as you stated after so many kids its like HELLO!!!.

  384. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    A telltale sign your man just…might..be gettin it somewhere else–

    He calls you Brenda but your name is Melinda.

  385. trs

    Sydney,

    naw….when a man have your toes looking like cheeze curls….lol

    Eww, that sounds like it’s time for a pedicure. . .

    ———————————————

    ———-FLATLINED——————-


  386. @BG- I love sweet potato pie…I notice that many men are picky eaters,but they are also good judges on how food taste …curious what kind of pies do you like?
    _____________________________________
    That is a terrible question to ask me….but I will keep it clean…I like apple pie

  387. trs

    *reading Diva’s posts*

    *Falling out of my chair*

    LMAO I can’t breath!!!

  388. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    A sign that your man might just be warming some else’s bed–

    He tells you “Imma be shootin’ ball with Charles nem but don’t call my phone. Imma leave it in the car!”

  389. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    @ trs–

    Please don’t make me go back to timeout! I gotta lot more clues for the ladies!

    PULEEZE??

    I promise. I’ll be good!!
    (fingers crossed behind my back)

    I…PROMISE!!!!!!

  390. trs

    Twin,

    One of my saw boys your picture
    ————————————

    SMH @ myself. That was supposed to say “one of my boys saw your picture.”

  391. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    trs

    You do have some gorgeous hair!! One of my saw boys your picture and he is dang near ready to move up there!

    Thank You…Hmmm you know my bestie and I are trying to figure out where we wanna take a trip…I think I will add Florida to my list…you may have to email me a pic

  392. Ms.EJ

    @BG- LOL…okay, yeah I see you, Lady A and I like apple pie. Thank you for answering.

  393. trs

    Diva,

    @ trs–

    Please don’t make me go back to timeout! I gotta lot more clues for the ladies!

    PULEEZE??

    I promise. I’ll be good!!
    (fingers crossed behind my back)

    I…PROMISE!!!!!!
    ————————————————–

    OK, you can come out of time out! ;)

    Continue to educate us Diva!

  394. Sydney™

    @Ms. EJ

    “That is what I do not get one can playhouse, but not make it official or keep making babies w/a man (Kim Porter)who clearly is showing you he will never marry you…”

    Yes, I don’t get it either. Get the ring first. At this stage of the game (referring to Arenas), if he didn’t take the initiative to propose on his own, it’s for a reason.

    @TRS

    I mean, cheese curls sound like jaundice, no? :)

  395. holla

    Some people be separated for decades and if yall broke then u knw…going back n forth for decades only makes the lawyer rich. He messed up with the lie but it really aint that serious.
    Its for women like it is with guys, a chick hear u married but w.e; she dont care about whatever..she aint gonna be there. U got kids? yeah then she out also..dont want no babymama drama.
    Suppose an avg negro was in Nas situation where she wants mad cash an half of what u got which is hardly anything…she wants to lock u by the nuts so u cant leave her. Either u go bankrupt or u stay separated; that why separation exist for when bitterness arrives with no reasoning on either part, one cant afford it, the other wont give up.

    Morally, he still married so she should bounce but i mean if he separated and working towards divorce and could account for it. Then hell she aint gonna be no different than Alicia Keys or Gabby Union.

    That’s why i tell these dudes man, don’t love none of these hoes when ur young man…see dudes in their 20’s that are marrid..divorced like 5 years later. No man, safely and maturely explore the types of women that attract u. Not fck every girl in the world but at least have a great number of experiences so that if you’re ready to marry you’d knw why she is different from everything else you been with and why she is the one. Mad *****es out there but u gotta see what qualities matter to you the most and see where u get either all of that or most of those. Looks aint everything either, be real about yaself. If you’re a 5/10 n!gga, dont try to get a 20/10 chick….it dont work like that. Not saying u cant try but dont dog the 5/10 chick when she come hollerin either. Be real about your goals and be mature about it. If you just in it for sex then say that from the start…..you not ready for that committment yet and if she down then okay, if not then keep it moving.

    Never get why n!ggaz lie n then chicks dont believe when i say i dont lie. yeah u a bad ***** but still, china got 1 billion people prob half a bil is women….u aint the only pu$$y in the world..take my a$$ to China or Indian with a duffel bag of condoms and im straight….no reason to lie to get pum pum, never saw the sense in it and prob never will

  396. trs

    Twin,

    Thank You…Hmmm you know my bestie and I are trying to figure out where we wanna take a trip…I think I will add Florida to my list…you may have to email me a pic
    ———————————————

    If you come down here….

    HAVE MERCY!!!

    I will see what I can do about the pic! ;)


  397. trs

    You do have some gorgeous hair!! One of my saw boys your picture and he is dang near ready to move up there!
    ____________________________________
    Tell his dumb ***** to fall back!!!

  398. Ms.EJ

    @LADYA- I LOVE LOVE LOVE!!! Florida from Orlando (my favorite), Miami, to West Palm Beach even just regular Ft.Lauderdale. I love hot weather, and water, can never get tired of the beach. I hope to visit Key West one day. I want to taka vacation w/my good friend too, but to the Bahamas.

  399. trs

    BG,

    That is a terrible question to ask me….but I will keep it clean…I like apple pie
    ———————————————-

    WOW. Just WOW!!!!!!! LMAO. You can’t help yourself, can you?


  400. Men are NOT stupid. They know exactly which woman will allow which game
    ____________________________________________

    @CAT EYES

    LMAO!!!

    Yep, LOL!!!

  401. trs

    BG

    Tell his dumb ***** to fall back!!!
    —————————————–

    LMAO!!! You want all the bossip ladies to yourself huh? SMH.

  402. Sydney™

    I’m that guy, you’re so fly,
    Gotta get a piece of that sweet potato pie
    I’m that guy, you’re so fly,
    Gotta get a piece of that sweet potato pie

  403. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    **another random Thanksgiving thought**

    And why is it the lady that wears those Walmart sweat shirts for every season (The Christmas one even includes bells) want you to eat her broccoli c*****erole?

    **********************************************************

    Not sure how I feel about broccoli c*****erole at all, no matter what kind sweater they are wearing!!

  404. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    HEY SLIDE!!!

  405. trs

    Sydney,

    I mean, cheese curls sound like jaundice, no
    ———————————————-

    U a mess girl! LOL

  406. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Twin,
    lmaoooo you are too much…but seriously I like the heat and I’ll wear it natural while I’m there…lol

    Bg…Lmao <3

    Ms. EJ,
    I like Orlando and Miami….Ft. Lauderdale was cool too…I've been to the Bahamas and had a lot of fun…You should try Atlantis…Hear that was romantic…I know I wanna try it.


  407. TRS
    You know I could have taken that question so many dark places.

  408. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    LISTEN PEOPLE

    I DON’T GET IT.

    I GOT DIVORCED FOR A GRAND….I PAID IT IN INSTALLMENTS…IT ISN’T THAT EXPENSIVE IF THAT IS WHAT YOU REALLY WANT TO DO.

  409. trs

    Sydney,

    I’m that guy, you’re so fly,
    Gotta get a piece of that sweet potato pie
    I’m that guy, you’re so fly,
    Gotta get a piece of that sweet potato pie
    ———————————————-

    *GASP*

    What do you know about that?????

    *side eye*

    LOL!

  410. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    trs

    BG

    Tell his dumb ***** to fall back!!!
    —————————————–

    LMAO!!! You want all the bossip ladies to yourself huh? SMH.

    lol luv ya one day..dump ya the next for another Bossip girl…lol

  411. Sydney™

    @TRS

    “U a mess girl! LOL”

    I know, lol. :)


  412. BG

    Tell his dumb ***** to fall back!!!
    —————————————–

    LMAO!!! You want all the bossip ladies to yourself huh? SMH.
    __________________________________
    Sometimes i don’t know if I’m more greedy or arrogant… It’s a close race!

  413. Sydney™

    @TRS

    “*GASP*

    What do you know about that?????”

    Girl, that’s a Domino jam from the 90’s — I think it was the one hit he had. I know it’s dirty, but I did tap my toe to it, lol.

  414. trs

    IJM

    Not sure how I feel about broccoli c*****erole at all, no matter what kind sweater they are wearing!!
    ————————————————-

    If you had mine you’d change your mind! I make a MEAN brocolli c*****erole. I even get requests for it when I go to pot lucks, etc. I wish you could sample it!

  415. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    A telltale sign your man just…might..be gettin it somewhere else–

    He calls you Brenda but your name is Melinda.

    *************************************************************

    GO AWAY!!

  416. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    Another sign that your man just might be sliding up in someone else’s bedroom—(close by)

    Every Tuesday night at EXACTLY 9:30 pm, he tells you he’s going to walk the dog.

    And you don’t even have a dog!

  417. trs

    Twin,

    lol luv ya one day..dump ya the next for another Bossip girl…lol
    ————————————————

    Girl see how he does us??

    One day it’s ShawnM, the next it’s you, then another day it’s me or Redd Foxxx. SMH.

  418. trs

    BG

    Sometimes i don’t know if I’m more greedy or arrogant… It’s a close race!
    ———————————————–

    Arrogance will be the winner! ;)

  419. Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY-OMG!!!! You took it back to Domino that was THE JAM!!! back in the day.

    @LADYA- Okay, I will look into that Atlantis. Good looking out.

  420. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    An telltale sign that YOUR man (who told you he was single) is married…..

    He’s black as midnight but a small, evenly straight portion of his ring finger is whiter than Edward Scissorhands!

  421. trs

    Diva,

    He’s black as midnight but a small, evenly straight portion of his ring finger is whiter than Edward Scissorhands!
    ————————————————

    Take me home Lord!!!!!

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!


  422. Girl see how he does us??

    One day it’s ShawnM, the next it’s you, then another day it’s me or Redd Foxxx. SMH.
    ___________________________________________
    The goal is to make all of yall wanna put ya foot in the water…..SYD too!

  423. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    IJM

    Not sure how I feel about broccoli c*****erole at all, no matter what kind sweater they are wearing!!
    ————————————————-

    If you had mine you’d change your mind! I make a MEAN brocolli c*****erole. I even get requests for it when I go to pot lucks, etc. I wish you could sample it!

    ***********************************************************

    YOU CAN SEND IT UP HERE ALONG WITH THE PIES FROM MY SIS AND EJ

  424. Sydney™

    “He’s black as midnight but a small, evenly straight portion of his ring finger is whiter than Edward Scissorhands!”

    ———————DOA————————-

    Girl, you’re not right! Have you done standup/Improv?

  425. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    @ Lil Sis–

    See, I’m just trying to help out my sistahs!

    Help me help you!!

    Lol!!!!

  426. Ms.EJ

    1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    An telltale sign that YOUR man (who told you he was single) is married…..

    He’s black as midnight but a small, evenly straight portion of his ring finger is whiter than Edward Scissorhands!
    —————————————————

    OMG!!! such a good one. BTW that is one of my favorite movies Edward Scissorhands along w/Lucas, Fright Night and others–>sorry had flashbacks, lol.

  427. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    Every Tuesday night at EXACTLY 9:30 pm, he tells you he’s going to walk the dog.

    And you don’t even have a dog!

    ************************************************************

    DONE!

  428. trs

    Sydney,

    Girl, that’s a Domino jam from the 90’s — I think it was the one hit he had. I know it’s dirty, but I did tap my toe to it, lol.
    ————————————————-

    Girl you shocked me with that! LOL!!

  429. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ SIS

    JUST SEND THE SWEET POTATO PIE…THAT IS HOW U CAN HELP ME!

  430. Sydney™

    @BG

    “The goal is to make all of yall wanna put ya foot in the water…..SYD too!”

    Put your hands in the air, y’all and get ready to dance. . .Put your hands in the air and do the water dance, yeah. . .Get in the water!

  431. Ms.EJ

    I tell you one thing I find it to be very attractive when a man can throw down in the kitchen. I’ve always ran into men or dated men that could get down in the kitchen that is just sexy to me.IDK. I guess since I was a Daddys girl and my father good cook so well (RIP DADDY) that I like that alot along w/a man that can make me laugh til my cheeks and stomach hurt.

  432. trs

    BG

    The goal is to make all of yall wanna put ya foot in the water…..SYD too!
    ————————————————-

    LOL!!!! BOY U R SOMETHING ELSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    If you were down here I’d have to take on your behind just for the challenge! I’d have you whipped too.

  433. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    @ IJM–

    I put my divorce on Lay-a-way. I told that sum-mum-bish “that’s OK keep walkin’ roun’ here like you runnin’ things. In 17 months, I’ll be free as a bird!

  434. trs

    IJM,

    YOU CAN SEND IT UP HERE ALONG WITH THE PIES FROM MY SIS AND EJ
    ————————————————

    That can be arranged! :)

  435. Sydney™

    @TRS

    “Girl you shocked me with that! LOL!!”

    LOL!

    *whispers, I used to like that Luke song, “I Wanna Rock,” too, but don’t tell anyone — great workout song*


  436. @BG

    “The goal is to make all of yall wanna put ya foot in the water…..SYD too!”

    Put your hands in the air, y’all and get ready to dance. . .Put your hands in the air and do the water dance, yeah. . .Get in the water!
    ___________________________________________
    If that’s how you wanna put it….cool

    I like your stealth Syd!

  437. Ms.EJ

    @SYDNEY- You are so clever girl I see how & what you’re doing *putting my hands in the air* chanting “get in the water” right along w/you. LOL

  438. drenk

    DEAR BOSSIP
    I’M MENTALLY UNSTABLE AND HAVE NO FRIENDS, CAN YOU PLEASE POST SOME INTIMATE SECRET OF MINE THAT I EMAIL YOU AND HAVE EVERYONE BLAST ME, THANKS!

  439. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)
    The goal is to make all of yall wanna put ya foot in the water…..SYD too!

    SMH…*backs away*…The real goal is for us ladies to see how many ways you run…so then we can chat about it later in imz and laugh..it’s like a mouse trap

  440. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983….if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ SIS

    JUST SEND THE SWEET POTATO PIE…THAT IS HOW U CAN HELP ME!

    WE NOT EATING NO PIES MA NOT THIS YR WE ON THE KANYE WORK OUT PLAN.

  441. Ms.EJ

    IJM-I see you are getting your Thanksgiving dinner ready already w/your pre-orders LOL. I don’t even blame you, lol.


  442. @ TRS
    If you were down here I’d have to take on your behind just for the challenge! I’d have you whipped too.
    _________________________________________
    It’s also cool for you to just admit you want too!

  443. Sydney™

    @Ms. EJ

    “I like that alot along w/a man that can make me laugh til my cheeks and stomach hurt.”

    Oh, yes, a sense of humor is a must. :)

    @BG

    “I like your stealth Syd!”

    Get in the water! Uh!

  444. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ TRUTH

    OH NO!!!

    PIE BABY PIE….I WILL GET MY HOLIDAY ON THIS YEAR (LAST HOLIDAY OF FREEDOM).

    OH CUZZO THEY UPPED THE RELEASE DAY BY 30 DAYS TO MARCH.

    I AM KIND OF FREAKING OUT NOW.

  445. trs

    Sydney,

    *whispers, I used to like that Luke song, “I Wanna Rock,” too, but don’t tell anyone — great workout song*

    ——————————————-

    :shock:

    WHAT??!!!!! I am so through with you. LMAO!!!!!!!!

  446. 1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals---Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud's concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

    I think it’s time I give the thread back to you guys. I gotta run but I’ll check back in later.

    Until then–have a good one BOSSIP fam!

    Lil Sis–don’t make me cutchu!!! Lol!!!!

    See ya!!

    *1TruDiva has left the building*

  447. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    IJM-I see you are getting your Thanksgiving dinner ready already w/your pre-orders LOL. I don’t even blame you, lol.

    ********************************************************

    OKAY Cause I am up here all by my loansome….so y’all can just forward meals here. I will also do pre-holiday sampling if necessary. LOL

  448. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ Sis

    Check ya email.


  449. @ LADY A
    I aint running from nothing. If you see me fighting a bear in the woods…help the bear

  450. enkogkneegro ( Uncle E...if you like )

    @Truth

    I’m sorry dear but I’d would feel disappointed as your husband if you didn’t tell me and would probably check and depending on how he responded beat his ***** when you did tell me….I can’t offer any wise Uncle E insight on this one sweetie…..homie don’t play that…LOL I got mad just reading your post and wanna put hands on this fool……

  451. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    IJM,

    YOU CAN SEND IT UP HERE ALONG WITH THE PIES FROM MY SIS AND EJ
    ————————————————

    That can be arranged!

    ############################################################

    I am serious!

  452. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @ I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983….if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ TRUTH

    OH NO!!!

    PIE BABY PIE….I WILL GET MY HOLIDAY ON THIS YEAR (LAST HOLIDAY OF FREEDOM).

    OH CUZZO THEY UPPED THE RELEASE DAY BY 30 DAYS TO MARCH.

    I AM KIND OF FREAKING OUT NOW.

    WHAAAAATTTT????????? GET THE FU OUTTA HERE WHEN U HEAR THAT AND Y U AINT BEEN PUT ME ON. GIRL IMA SEND U SOME GREEN TEA AND IM TELLING U U KNOW HOW BIG SIS SAID SHE WAS GOING FOR WEEKS AFTER EATING THAT FOOD THERE IS NOOOO REASON ON EARTH DO U HEAR ME EARTH FOR NO ONE TO BE CHUBBY IF THEY DRINK THIS SHII ON THE REG LMFBAO

  453. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @Truth

    I’m sorry dear but I’d would feel disappointed as your husband if you didn’t tell me and would probably check and depending on how he responded beat his ***** when you did tell me….

    %%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%

    TOLD YA CUZZO!!! YOU BETTER TELL THAT MAN…LET THE CHIPS FALL WHERE THEY MAY….DUDE VIOLATED!

  454. trs

    BG

    It’s also cool for you to just admit you want too!
    ———————————————–

    How you know I want to?? HMMMM…


  455. “I Wanna Rock,”
    _____________________________
    Crackheads love it too!

  456. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    WHAAAAATTTT????????? GET THE FU OUTTA HERE WHEN U HEAR THAT AND Y U AINT BEEN PUT ME ON.

    *************************************************************

    HE FOUND OUT FRIDAY AND I GOT IT IN THE LETTER YESTERDAY.

  457. Sydney™

    Bye, Diva!

    @TRS

    “WHAT??!!!!! I am so through with you. LMAO!!!!!!!!”

    *popping it*

  458. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    SHE WAS GOING FOR WEEKS AFTER EATING THAT FOOD THERE IS NOOOO REASON ON EARTH DO U HEAR ME EARTH FOR NO ONE TO BE CHUBBY IF THEY DRINK THIS SHII ON THE REG LMFBAO
    %%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%

    SEND THE INFO

    I ONLY HAVE 10 POUNDS TO GO….IMMA BE GOOD BY MARCH.

  459. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)

    @ LADY A
    I aint running from nothing. If you see me fighting a bear in the woods…help the bear

    Never said you were running from anything…it’s the exact opposite..you are running to Everything…thats why I said it’s like a mouse trap…put the bait there and the mouse will run to it…put about 5 surrounding baits and the mouse will run rapid to figure out which bait so it will try them all. So while you run to the bear to fight it…I will be running away while it’s preoccupied with ya…feel me?

  460. trs

    IJM

    I am serious!
    ————————————–

    Me too! :)

  461. Ms.EJ

    @1TRUDIVA- You cracked me up today! I seriously needed a good laugh.
    @TRS- Thanks again for the carrot cake and thanks to all for the suggestions again.
    @SYDNEY, IJM, THE TRUTH, LADY A & To All have a good day *waves bye & exits*


  462. BG

    It’s also cool for you to just admit you want too!
    ———————————————–

    How you know I want to?? HMMMM…
    _____________________________________
    All of that
    “I’m gonna spank you”
    “giving bg the side eye”
    “Lmao U crazy”
    Basically translates into ” I wanna give Bg my cookies”

  463. Sydney™

    “Crackheads love it too!”

    Oh, hush. LOL!

  464. trs

    Sydney,

    *popping it*
    ———————————————–

    :shock:

    ROTFLMAO @ the thought of you popping it!! You are in rare form today!!!!!


  465. Lady A
    Muah you sexy lil thang you. You know how your lil metaphors turn me on……

  466. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    LMAO THANKKS UNCLE E I WANTED A MANS OPINION BUT I ALREADY DECIDED TO JUST TELL IT SHIIT I DIDNT DO ANYTHING WRONG MY BEST FRIEND SAID THE DUDE RUB HER THE WRONG WAY WITH WHAT HE DID AND IF HE CLOCKING WHEN MY HUBBY LEAVES AND HIS SCEDULE IF ANYTHING EVER HAPPEN THEN I SHOULD SPK UP. I JUST DIDNT WANT MY HUBBY IN TROUBLE OR TO CAUSE PROBLEMS WITH THE NEIGHBORS CUS LIKE I SAID ITS LIKE WE WOULD HAVE TO SELL THE HOUSE TO MOVE AND RIGHT NOW SELLING A HOUSE IS NOT A GOOD MOVE AND I LOVE MY HOUSE. BUT DUDE WAS OUT OF ORDER GONNA SAY HE KNOW HE SHOULDNT SAY CUS IMA MARRIED WOMEN BUT HE B HAVING DREAMS AOBUT ME IM LIKE WTF DREAMS SIDE EYE NIGG THE NERVE OF DUDE THEN TO TRY AND CREEP WITH UR NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR I THOUGHT NIGGS KNOW BY NOW TO NOT PULL NO SHIIIT SO CLOSE TO HOME.

  467. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    BYE EJ

  468. Sydney™

    Bye, Ms. EJ!

    @TRS

    “ROTFLMAO @ the thought of you popping it!! You are in rare form today!!!!!”

    I have my moments, lol. I’ve surprised more than one person.


  469. Ms. I Didn’t Know He Was Married, unfortunately you were deceived twice off rip. When people lie, they lie to hide “something.” If his being separated was “nothing” your lover would have told you the truth in the beginning. Here you are six months later and your emotions are invested in someone who purposely deceived you. Your first mind will NEVER steer you wrong and if you think something is too good to be true, it probably is.

    I have to question the sincerity of the co-worker that brought you two together. He purposely deceived you by telling you that his friend was divorced. Did your co-worker know the truth before he hooked you two up? If he didn’t know, he may have had your best interest at heart by finding you someone to love. If he did know, that was totally wrong of him. In actuality your co-worker drove the vehicle and you rode in the car on a road that led to your lover and heartache! When the co-worker introduced you two and told you that the man was “divorced,” that was your lover’s chance to make it known to you and to correct the co-worker by revealing that he was “separated.” Yes, your lover could genuinely love and care deeply for you which is probably why he finally came clean. However, if he had done so when you met, telling the truth would have provided you with the choice to become involved or not because you would’ve known exactly what you were up against. Instead, they both took matters into their hands by deciding to continue the lie in fear that you couldn’t handle the truth. That decision should have been yours!

    If your lover is in the process of getting a divorce and you can forgive him and move on, holla at him once the divorce is final. If you are a woman with integrity and stand up for fidelity, you know what you must do and you’ve already done the right thing by leaving him alone.

    Too many times we as women allow men to get away with treating us less than how we know we’d like to be treated. We settle for whatever piece of a man we can have, no matter how large or how small. When we settle, we’re playing ourselves short! Yes, everybody needs somebody, but it’s gotta be that right somebody.

    Just my two cents.

  470. trs

    Bye Ms. EJ!!

    @ BG

    All of that
    “I’m gonna spank you”
    “giving bg the side eye”
    “Lmao U crazy”
    Basically translates into ” I wanna give Bg my cookies”
    ———————————————–

    WHAT??!!!

    Calgon take me away!!!!!!!

    You do have a special place in my heart tho! ;)


  471. Sydney
    We must hang out one night! We would have so much fun

  472. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    HE DID AND IF HE CLOCKING WHEN MY HUBBY LEAVES AND HIS SCEDULE IF ANYTHING EVER HAPPEN THEN I SHOULD SPK UP

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    EXACTLY CUZZO…EXACTLY!!

  473. CAT EYES

    Cat’s eyes, too true, however a good woman who could be educated, has a good character, comes from a good moral family background, can cook, clean, and earn her own money, can still be used, is she uses the wrong bait and catched stale stinking fish!

    I believe we find decent partners very early in life (before the baggage gets heavy and dirty), I always believe similiar backgrounds are a must for everyone to get on well with and the truth and respect is a must!

    trying to steal someone elses man just isnt going to work, and when street workers give out the best blow jobs, they really are ten a penny, please it can give you mouth cancer!

    @ Tracey
    Understand what I’m saying,a man has a way of studying a woman that she doesn’t even see.Men know exactly what certain types of women have to hear for her legs to open freely.you can ask any man-there are some women he would NEVER try those stupid lines with,he would rather wait until he gets himself together to approach her because he knows she won’t go for it.thats a woman with character and who kinows her self worth.
    Do you really think a man is happy knowing that his woman got her sexual experiences with god knows how many men?Believe me,he may even smile with you when you tell him your freaky stories but thats just putting another nail in your coffin-the most inexperienced woman can get a man to love her if she knows her own worth.Make a man sweat for you,make him know that you have more to offer than sex that every woman is capable of giving.Remember,men are natural hunters

  474. trs

    Sydney,

    I’ve surprised more than one person.
    ——————————————–

    Well you surprised the mess out of me!! LOL ;)

  475. Sydney™

    @BG

    “We must hang out one night! We would have so much fun”

    LOL

    He’s trying hard, isn’t he, ladies? :)


  476. WHAT??!!!

    Calgon take me away!!!!!!!

    You do have a special place in my heart tho!
    _______________________________________
    *whispers*
    *panties too*

  477. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Bg(~007~)

    Lady A
    Muah you sexy lil thang you. You know how your lil metaphors turn me on……

    Yup I know…one day you’ll pick a bait to get trapped in…may change a part of your life buddy

  478. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    Syd Surprised me too.

    Wondering if this was an imposter at first.


  479. @BG

    “We must hang out one night! We would have so much fun”

    LOL

    He’s trying hard, isn’t he, ladies?
    ________________________________________
    Babe I havent even broke a sweat!

  480. Sydney™

    @Cat Eyes

    “Make a man sweat for you,make him know that you have more to offer than sex that every woman is capable of giving.Remember,men are natural hunters”

    So true.

  481. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Sydney™

    @BG

    “We must hang out one night! We would have so much fun”

    LOL

    He’s trying hard, isn’t he, ladies? :)

    lmaooo very

  482. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983….if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    Syd Surprised me too.

    Wondering if this was an imposter at first.

    OHHH PLEASE YAH’LL BETTER STOP SLSEPING ON SYD SHE A UNDERCOVER FREAK I CAN FEEL IT IN THE AIR SHE ALWAYS CUTTING UP BUT SHE DO THAT SHIIT SOOO SMOOTH NOT MANY CATCH IT IT GOES RIGHT OVER PPL HEAD AINT THAT RIGHT TRS??????

  483. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ Truth

    instead of worrying about Syd being an undercover freak

    worry about your real life freak LOL!!! (weirded out ninja)

  484. trs

    Cat Eyes,

    the most inexperienced woman can get a man to love her if she knows her own worth.Make a man sweat for you,make him know that you have more to offer than sex that every woman is capable of giving.Remember,men are natural hunters
    ————————————————

    ****running to get my church shoes cause you just preached from the pulpit!!!!****

  485. Sydney™

    lol @ IJM

    No, it’s me. I’m just feeling more relaxed today. :)

    @BG

    “Babe I havent even broke a sweat!”

    You haven’t been to the gym yet?


  486. @ SYD
    A nite of 20/20 followed up with some Dateline. Thenwe flip over to C-span to watch congress in action. All while we sip white russians at opposite ends of the couch…. Doesnt it sound romantic?

  487. trs

    BG

    You do have a special place in my heart tho!
    _______________________________________
    *whispers*
    *panties too*
    ————————————————-

    Boy no you didn’t!!! I already owe you like 5 whippings!!!

    *adding another whipping to my to do list*


  488. Good Gawd…
    No don’t accept his calls he’s not divorced yet and probably won’t be getting one so keep it moving…

  489. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @ I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983….if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ Truth

    instead of worrying about Syd being an undercover freak

    worry about your real life freak LOL!!! (weirded out ninja

    LMFBAO OMG IMA ***** UR AZZ THROUGH THIS MONITOR THIS SHIIT IM GOING THROUGH IS NOT FUNNY FOOL LMAO

  490. trs

    @ SYD
    A nite of 20/20 followed up with some Dateline. Thenwe flip over to C-span to watch congress in action. All while we sip white russians at opposite ends of the couch…. Doesnt it sound romantic?
    —————————————————

    HAVE MERCY!!!! BG on a ROLL today!!!! LMAO!!!!!!!

  491. lucki

    Oh my God… he is a loser.. he had his cake and ate it to! Run young lady away from this situation. He will not divorce his wife ..that is BS… take it from an old lady who knows the ropes….(They lie and sometimes we just want to believe and need people to validate our BS!)

  492. trs

    Truth,

    BUT SHE DO THAT SHIIT SOOO SMOOTH NOT MANY CATCH IT IT GOES RIGHT OVER PPL HEAD AINT THAT RIGHT TRS??????
    ———————————————-

    Doesn’t she tho??!!! That’s why she’s my sis!!! ;)

  493. Sydney™

    lol @ Truth

    I have no earthly idea what you mean. :)

    @BG

    LOL, yeah, C-SPAN! Oh, and I love Olbermann and Maddow on MSNBC, Don Lemon on CNN, and some History Channel viewing, too. :)

  494. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983….if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ Truth

    instead of worrying about Syd being an undercover freak

    worry about your real life freak LOL!!! (weirded out ninja

    LMFBAO OMG IMA ***** UR AZZ THROUGH THIS MONITOR THIS SHIIT IM GOING THROUGH IS NOT FUNNY FOOL LMAO

    *********************************************************

    No it isn’t. But I told u what to do. U act like u don’t hear me though.

  495. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @trs

    Truth,

    BUT SHE DO THAT SHIIT SOOO SMOOTH NOT MANY CATCH IT IT GOES RIGHT OVER PPL HEAD AINT THAT RIGHT TRS??????
    ———————————————-

    Doesn’t she tho??!!! That’s why she’s my sis!!!

    UH HUH U C THAT SHIIT TRS THATS Y WE SEE EYE TO EYE. BOUT TIME PPL CATCH ON TO SYD SHIIT SHE BE ON SOME NEXT SHIIT SMDH

  496. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    Sydney™

    @BG

    “We must hang out one night! We would have so much fun”

    LOL

    He’s trying hard, isn’t he, ladies? :)

    OMG R.I.P. LAdy A….I’m so done…knew Syd was an undercover freak!…

  497. trs

    Truth,

    UH HUH U C THAT SHIIT TRS THATS Y WE SEE EYE TO EYE. BOUT TIME PPL CATCH ON TO SYD SHIIT SHE BE ON SOME NEXT SHIIT SMDH
    ————————————————

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :lol:

  498. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    *Politely has a seat in Syd’s cl***** and pays attention*

  499. Sydney™

    I have to take the stick out of my derriere sometimes, right? :)

  500. Play Nice

    @daywalker

    @ BG: PERMISSION TO TREAT THE WITNESS AS HOSTILE???

    PPlay Nice

    Of course I’m gonna call you again!!
    I don’t give a rat’s fat one. Your boy is finer than you anyway. Why you even think I’m talking to you?

    Well let me send his H_O_M_O_S_E_X_U_A_L azz right on over!! Who do ya think picked out these shirt and shoes????

    No, I don’t think you’re boring….I find you infinitely interesting!!
    Do you know anyone other than yourself?
    I’m sick of hearing about you!

    I’m sorry, I didn’t recognize you without the flying monkeys!!! I would offer you a drink, but I’m sure your puzzy smells like a wet Moroccan villiage….

    GEE, That’s great!! I wanna hear all about your cat!!
    Don’t really care what level you got to on Xbox.
    I finished the game last year….amatuer

    And I just can’t understand how you could possibly be single…..

    Do I look like the type of guy who’s only interested in sex???
    Do you really think I want it from you?
    Now, go buy me a drink and pay my bills.

    Tellya what, how bout we both buy rounds?? You buy the first round, I’ll buy the next…Unless you can’t afford it??? In which case, I’ll buy it, because I give to charity cases often!! I’m really a nice guy…..

    I’d never cheat on you with your friends…
    I would and your still gonna pay my bills.

    No, I’m not…Sorry, but I don’t put *****s on payroll, honey…

    I’ve only been with 30 women….
    Man Rule: Always add a 0 to the real number.
    And if the chick is as old as you, just take for granted she has more miles than an F-350…

    I swear I wasn’t lookin at your azz/*****/crotch…
    Yes, you were! And your gonna keep lookin when I walk away…

    Well, to be honest, it’s not every day I get to see monkeys away from the zoo, up in the club in some fake heels, and a gucci knock off outfit..So yeah, I’m kinda perplexed, sause you look like 10 pounds of sausage in a 2 pound sack in that dress!!! When you walk outside, do little kids yell “Hey, Kool aid???”

    **************************************************

    YOU SUCK!!!
    Go sit in the corner.


  501. LOL, yeah, C-SPAN! Oh, and I love Olbermann and Maddow on MSNBC, Don Lemon on CNN, and some History Channel viewing, too.
    _________________________________________
    Aww baby you ruined my surprise. Olbermann was my ace in the hole.

  502. trs

    Sydney,

    I have to take the stick out of my derriere sometimes, right?
    ———————————————

    OMG!!!!!! I can’t take it!!!

    —————-Comatose——————-

  503. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @trs

    Sydney,

    I have to take the stick out of my derriere sometimes, right?
    ———————————————

    OMG!!!!!! I can’t take it!!!

    —————-Comatose——————-

    WTF LAWD JESUS

  504. Sydney™

    What cl*****, Lady A? lol

    @BG

    “Aww baby you ruined my surprise. Olbermann was my ace in the hole.”

    LMAO! Good one. *clapping*


  505. I have to take the stick out of my derriere sometimes, right?
    _______________________________________
    *whips out notepad*
    And what days does this rare occurance happen? This is like a lunar eclipse

  506. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ Lady A

    Daxn we cannot even say cl*****! GTFOH!!

    C L A S S

  507. trs

    BG

    Olbermann was my ace in the hole.
    ——————————————–

    You are so clever!!!

  508. Sydney™

    *listening to Ja Rule*

    Baby, I’m not always there when you call. . .But I’m always on time. . .

  509. trs

    BRB

  510. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983….if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983….if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @ Truth

    instead of worrying about Syd being an undercover freak

    worry about your real life freak LOL!!! (weirded out ninja

    LMFBAO OMG IMA ***** UR AZZ THROUGH THIS MONITOR THIS SHIIT IM GOING THROUGH IS NOT FUNNY FOOL LMAO

    *********************************************************

    No it isn’t. But I told u what to do. U act like u don’t hear me though.

    I KNOW I KNOW I KNOW U DID U TOLD ME THAT LAST NIGHT BUT IT WAS NOT THE RIGHT TIME TO TELL HIM TRUST. HE WOULD OF INCITED SOME VIOLENCE AND U KNOW THE FOOL DONT NEED NO TROUBLE RIGHT NOWW AFTER NEARLY ESCAPING TROUBLE UNSCATHED U KNOW THE DEAL U KNOW WHAT IM TALLKIN BOUT

  511. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    What cl*****, Lady A? lol

    ***********************************************************

    Is this cl***** hosted through the learning annex?


  512. *listening to Ja Rule*
    __________________________
    *ruined the mood*


  513. You are so clever!!!
    __________________________________
    Another one of TRS’ subtle “I wanna work him out signs”
    TRS…girl you so slick!

  514. Sydney™

    @BG

    “And what days does this rare occurance happen? This is like a lunar eclipse”

    Fermez votre bouche, lol.


  515. Men know exactly what certain types of women have to hear for her legs to open freely.
    _______________________________________________

    @CAT EYES

    YEP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Big Sis, the fastest I’ve known was within 15 minutes… I had my hand on her a$$ within 10 and I knew I was gonna hit that night… LMAO!!!

  516. Sydney™

    “*ruined the mood*”

    Oh, sorry. *flipping back to Thelonious Monk*

  517. Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983….if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    What cl*****, Lady A? lol

    ***********************************************************

    Is this cl***** hosted through the learning annex?

    That type of C L A S S that teaches you to talk about sex in the sneakiest ways…lol


  518. Fermez votre bouche, lol.
    ____________________________
    *googling*
    BRB


  519. “*ruined the mood*”

    Oh, sorry. *flipping back to Thelonious Monk*
    ___________________________________
    AWWW baby you remembered!!!

  520. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    Fermez votre bouche, lol.
    ____________________________
    *googling*
    BRB

    ***************************************************************

    OMG….DEAD!!!

  521. Sydney™

    @Lady A

    “That type of C L A S S that teaches you to talk about sex in the sneakiest ways…lol”

    The art of subtlety and seduction?

  522. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    I’m Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983….if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    What cl*****, Lady A? lol

    ***********************************************************

    Is this cl***** hosted through the learning annex?

    That type of C L A S S that teaches you to talk about sex in the sneakiest ways…lol
    **********************************************************

    Sign me up….thanks!


  523. Fermez votre bouche, lol.
    ____________________________
    *googling*
    BRB
    ____________________________________
    I’ll shut my mouth Syd if you promis to turn that “Luke” back on and pop it again for a bruva!

  524. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    @Lady A

    “That type of C L A S S that teaches you to talk about sex in the sneakiest ways…lol”

    The art of subtlety and seduction?

    ***********************************************************

    IS FOOD AND BEVERAGE SERVED AT THIS CL*****??

  525. Daywalker(MR. INTENSITY!!!)

    THE MAN IN BLACK IS BACK!!! And before I forget, Big ups to all the veterans out there!!!

  526. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    HEY DAY!!!

  527. Sydney™

    BG!

    Only one person calls me “baby.” :)

    “I’ll shut my mouth Syd if you promis to turn that “Luke” back on and pop it again for a bruva!”

    Oh, those were my college days before I knew better. :)

  528. Daywalker(MR. INTENSITY!!!)

    Sydney™

    @Lady A

    “That type of C L A S S that teaches you to talk about sex in the sneakiest ways…lol”

    The art of subtlety and seduction?
    _________________________________________________

    I’m pretty good at seduction, but sublety has never been one of my strong suits….Wazzup, SYD…


  529. BG!

    Only one person calls me “baby.”
    ________________________________________
    Who dat “boo”?
    I will settle for boo since someone else has taken baby

  530. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @DAYYYYYYYYY WHAT IT DO BOO???

  531. Daywalker(MR. INTENSITY!!!)

    Hey, I’m Just!! :wink:

  532. Sydney™

    Hey Day! :)

    @BG

    “Who dat “boo”?”

    How about “Miss Sydney” since you’re nasty?

  533. Daywalker(MR. INTENSITY!!!)

    THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @DAYYYYYYYYY WHAT IT DO BOO???
    _________________________________________________

    Busy as a one legged man in an azzkickin contest!! LOL, and you???


  534. TRUTH
    I mean I know you stuck up an all but all day and you cant speak to a brother

  535. CAT EYES

    @CAT EYES

    YEP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Big Sis, the fastest I’ve known was within 15 minutes… I had my hand on her a$$ within 10 and I knew I was gonna hit that night… LMAO!!!

    @ Slide
    How sad!! And I’m sure she said”you know I don’t usually do this”!!!lol
    as if a man will really give a damn once it was that easy for him!

  536. Daywalker(MR. INTENSITY!!!)

    Sydney™

    Hey Day!

    @BG

    “Who dat “boo”?”

    How about “Miss Sydney” since you’re nasty?
    _________________________________________________

    Miss Sydney!!! DEFINE “NASTY”?


  537. @ Syd

    Miss Sydney it is!!!

  538. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    ALRIGHT I AM OUTTIE

    CATCH U LATER OR TOMORROW!!

  539. THE TRUTH _ Pretty brown eyes

    @Bg(~007~)

    TRUTH
    I mean I know you stuck up an all but all day and you cant speak to a brother

    BG IMA REACH THROUGH THIS MONITOR IS ***** UR AZZ UP. IM STUCK UP HUH BOY STOP THE MADNESS U WERE TALKING WIT SYD AND ACTUALLY ITS VERY ENTERTAINING AND I DID NOT WANT TO BE RUDE AND JUMP IN. AS A MATTER OF FACT WHEN I FIRST GOT ON U WERENT EVEN ON THIS SHII SNOOPY WAS SO HOW WAS I SUPPOSED TO KNOW WHEN U WERE GONNA STAY ON FOOL.

    BUT HIIII BOO “THE TRUTH” LOOKS DOWN HI TO U TWO BIG RICH!!!!!


  540. I’m out too….To all a good nite!!!

  541. I'm Just Me: Keeping It Real Since 1983....if you supported it, his blood is on your hands too!!!

    TRUTH
    I mean I know you stuck up an all but all day and you cant speak to a brother

    ***************************************************************

    DEAD!!


  542. there are some women he would NEVER try those stupid lines with
    _____________________________________________

    @CAT EYES

    YEP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    *excuse my french, while I keep it 100*

    Big Sis, you should hear the stupid sh*t that I be saying to women when I’m up in the club and am playing around… The women all tell me the same thing too = “you talk mad sh*t”!!! SMH @ myself

    Ni@@as know which females they gotta step their game up to and which ones they know better than to talk that bullsh*t too… Shhhhhheeeit… The desired end result is the same and a ni@@a with a brain knows what he can say and get away with depending on the type of female he is talking to…

    The kind of woman that I would seriously date I would NEVER right off the top say some of things that I say to women in the club… When I’m in the club I don’t care no ways ’cause I’m there to hang out with my friends, dry hump on a few females and have a good time but I ain’t looking for NO mother f*cking WIFE up in a place like that – if it happens it happens but that’s not what I’m there for…

    I’ll be honest though and admit I will say something ridiculous here & there but that’s just to see if the female has a sense of humor and isn’t too stiff for my liking…

  543. Sydney™

    @Day

    “Miss Sydney!!! DEFINE “NASTY”?”

    Sittin’ in the movie show
    Thinkin’ nasty thoughts
    Better be a gentleman
    Or you’ll turn me off

    That’s right, lemme tell it
    Nasty, nasty boys, don’t mean a thing
    Oh you nasty boys

  544. Daywalker(MR. INTENSITY!!!)

    Yep, I’m gonna bail too!! Catch you guys on the flip side!!!


  545. How sad!! And I’m sure she said”you know I don’t usually do this”!!!lol
    as if a man will really give a damn once it was that easy for him!
    ___________________________________________

    @CAT EYES

    *Please pardon my french while I keep it 100*

    Big Sis, in the morning I asked for “head” and the broad got mad and said that she wasn’t that type of girl… LMAO!!!

    In my mind, I was like b*tch I met you at 1:00 and hit at 4:00 whatchu mean you ain’t that type of girl…

    I didn’t care anyways, that ain’t the type of broad that I’d mess with ESPECIALLY after she let me put my hands on her a$$ within 10 minutes of meeting her… It was my ding-a-ling that made me take it farther than that…

  546. Daywalker(MR. INTENSITY!!!)

    Sydney™

    @Day

    “Miss Sydney!!! DEFINE “NASTY”?”

    Sittin’ in the movie show
    Thinkin’ nasty thoughts
    Better be a gentleman
    Or you’ll turn me off

    That’s right, lemme tell it
    Nasty, nasty boys, don’t mean a thing
    Oh you nasty boys
    ___________________________________________________

    Don’t get mad, You could learn to like this!!! LOL!!!


  547. Marriage is not sacred anymore, if it were we wouldn’t be having this discussion. I’ve been married for 5 yrs and i can honestly say, when my Wife calls me “JUST 2 SAY A PRAYER” only!!!

    A family that prays 2gether, stays 2gether ya dig??

  548. Daywalker(MR. INTENSITY!!!)

    Slide Like A Fresh Pair of Gators

    How sad!! And I’m sure she said”you know I don’t usually do this”!!!lol
    as if a man will really give a damn once it was that easy for him!
    ___________________________________________

    @CAT EYES

    *Please pardon my french while I keep it 100*

    Big Sis, in the morning I asked for “head” and the broad got mad and said that she wasn’t that type of girl… LMAO!!!

    In my mind, I was like b*tch I met you at 1:00 and hit at 4:00 whatchu mean you ain’t that type of girl…

    I didn’t care anyways, that ain’t the type of broad that I’d mess with ESPECIALLY after she let me put my hands on her a$$ within 10 minutes of meeting her… It was my ding-a-ling that made me take it farther than that…
    __________________________________________________

    I think all men are giulty of letting their *****es run their lives at one time or another…I know I’m guilty…..SMH…

  549. Sydney™

    @Day

    “Don’t get mad, You could learn to like this!!! LOL!!!”

    LOL, there’s a time and place for everything. A man can be a gentleman and know when to pull out his “Mr. Casanova” persona when appropriate as well. :)

  550. Daywalker(MR. INTENSITY!!!)

    KingLion

    Marriage is not sacred anymore, if it were we wouldn’t be having this discussion. I’ve been married for 5 yrs and i can honestly say, when my Wife calls me “JUST 2 SAY A PRAYER” only!!!

    A family that prays 2gether, stays 2gether ya dig??
    __________________________________________________

    And a man and wife that bangs together clings together!! Word up!!!

  551. Daywalker(MR. INTENSITY!!!)

    Sydney™

    @Day

    “Don’t get mad, You could learn to like this!!! LOL!!!”

    LOL, there’s a time and place for everything. A man can be a gentleman and know when to pull out his “Mr. Casanova” persona when appropriate as well.
    ________________________________________________

    Well, I am a gentleman, but never a “gentle” man…..LOL!!!

  552. Sydney™

    Don’t hurt her, Day, lol.

    I’m out. Have a good night. :)

  553. trs

    Sydney,

    Are you still cutting up???

  554. Sydney™

    LMAO, just a little, sis. *re-inserting stick*

    TTYL :)

  555. MARK RICH

    To the six people who made this thread platinum, wouldnt AIM or yahoo messenger serve you better than responding to the same i dont 5 or 6 people who have over 15 posts in this one thread?

  556. Cl*****y1girl

    I was in the same situation, for me I decided to let him go completely. It hurts b/c I did care for him and its hard not talking to him but the show must go on! In my situation he held this from me for 3 yrs so it was a lot feelings involved. Think about yourself, if he can keep this from you he can keep anything from you. Its not worth it trust me. All I could think was next I’ll be the woman that he’s creeping on. RECONSIDER READ MY LITER, MOVE ON!


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  558. enkogkneegro ( Uncle E )

    So whats up with a Cali Bossip Meet & Greet? ….or have some folks blown themselves up to be ballers, beauties and babes when they aren’t either and fear being clowned the day after?

  559. sheripie

    IF HE CAN’T PRODUCE DIVORCE PAPERS AND IS “WORKING ON IT”, GIRL RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN CUZ HE LYING AND PLAYING GAMES WITH YOUR LIFE..ALSO PUT YOURSELF IN HIS WIFES SHOES..AND ALWAYS REMEMBER, IF HE DID IT TO HER, HE’LL DO IT TO YOU! PLAIN AND SIMPLE!

  560. Samantha

    First of all i’m not sure if the brainless people on this site know that you have to be seperated before you can file for a divorce. In most states 1 year before a divorce paper can be filed. She need to let him know where she stand concerning whether he is divorcing his wife. She need to stop sleeping with him until she get a clear understanding of his intentions when it comes to her and his marriage.

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