Comments on: Dear Bossip: I Didn’t Know He’s Married!

By: snobunni44

snobunni44 — Sat, 06 Nov 2010 14:29:33 +0000

Hello, I have read through the post due to falling into a similiar situation. I meet a man on plenty of fish in his late 40′s and I am in my early 40′s. We dated 6 mo too and he told me he was divorced, in the beginning he was perfect then about 3 months into things I noticed a change, he came right out and told me to slow down since he couldnt give a 100% right now due to parenting single etc. I was in love with him and feel I still am. I ran into a friend of his whom asked if I had spoken to his buddy and I said no he hasnt called me in a few days which was odd when we talked a few times a day his friend said well when you are going through a divorce u sometimes need space. I was floored and shocked I was told he was divorced for 2yrs from the start.Ive tried calling twice and sent a email asking why he wasnt honest. Its been 2 weeks and no response, all this after he told me he loved me. I am struggling deeply but know I must move on but still trying to understand why I need closure. I am sharing this to tell you are not alone trying to understand why I dont know if we will ever know the real reason but I do know its so unfair and finding it hard too think of other things so I can move on, I wish I would get that phone call I thought so much more of him than this

By: THERESA CLARKE

THERESA CLARKE — Sun, 23 May 2010 02:25:11 +0000

I JUST FOUND OUT YESTERDAY AFTER SEEING SOMEONE I WORK FOR THREE MONTHS, HE IS STILL MARRIED WITH A BABY ON THE WAY. I KNEW SOMETHING WASNT RIGHT SO I TOLD HIM I WAS DONE WITH HIM, TWO WEEKS LATER HIS IS AT WORK TELLING EVERYONE HIM AND HIS WIFE ARE EXPECTING THEIR THIRD CHILD WHILE I WAS SITTING THERE…HE TOLD ME HE WAS SEPARATED AND HIS EX LIVED IN ATLANTA, ONLY TO FIND OUT SHE STILL LIVES HERE IN VA…SPENT LOTS OF NIGHTS AT HIS HOUSE, THEY DONT LIVE TOGETHER, SO I JUST THOUGHT HE MUST HAVE BEEN SEING OTHERS

By: Samantha

Samantha — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 15:46:08 +0000

First of all i’m not sure if the brainless people on this site know that you have to be seperated before you can file for a divorce. In most states 1 year before a divorce paper can be filed. She need to let him know where she stand concerning whether he is divorcing his wife. She need to stop sleeping with him until she get a clear understanding of his intentions when it comes to her and his marriage.

By: sheripie

sheripie — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 14:18:17 +0000

IF HE CAN’T PRODUCE DIVORCE PAPERS AND IS “WORKING ON IT”, GIRL RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN CUZ HE LYING AND PLAYING GAMES WITH YOUR LIFE..ALSO PUT YOURSELF IN HIS WIFES SHOES..AND ALWAYS REMEMBER, IF HE DID IT TO HER, HE’LL DO IT TO YOU! PLAIN AND SIMPLE!

By: TELL HIM TO PAY UP OR ELSE.

TELL HIM TO PAY UP OR ELSE. — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 04:59:36 +0000

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By: Classy1girl

Classy1girl — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 02:44:12 +0000

I was in the same situation, for me I decided to let him go completely. It hurts b/c I did care for him and its hard not talking to him but the show must go on! In my situation he held this from me for 3 yrs so it was a lot feelings involved. Think about yourself, if he can keep this from you he can keep anything from you. Its not worth it trust me. All I could think was next I’ll be the woman that he’s creeping on. RECONSIDER READ MY LITER, MOVE ON!

By: MARK RICH

MARK RICH — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 22:37:03 +0000

To the six people who made this thread platinum, wouldnt AIM or yahoo messenger serve you better than responding to the same i dont 5 or 6 people who have over 15 posts in this one thread?

By: Sydney™

Sydney™ — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 22:31:25 +0000

LMAO, just a little, sis. *re-inserting stick*

TTYL

By: trs

trs — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 22:29:06 +0000

Sydney,

Are you still cutting up???

By: Sydney™

Sydney™ — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 22:28:02 +0000

Don’t hurt her, Day, lol.

I’m out. Have a good night.