Top 10 Things Women Hate About Men

- By Bossip Staff Categories: Love and Relationships, News, Sex and Relationships

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Hey Bossip readers! Before you get up in arms, please know that the same list will be posted next week for the fellas. But, of course, ladies first! Now, there’s always room for a good healthy battle of the sexes and this list sort of made itself. No lie. You get a few men and women in the same room and topics like these will always be the most entertaining! It is safe to say that both men and women tolerate a great deal from each other; however, each feels as though what they tolerate is way more than their significant other. In other words, women feel like they carry the load and so do men! Each gender feels that the other gender has it easier. The cycle is never ending. The pet peeves or gender gripes, if you will, range from bathroom etiquette to the gawd awful double standard beef that never reaches a middle ground or resolution. Either way, it’s more than worthy of discussion! Take a look at the first 5 things women hate about men and leave your thoughts in the thread! Ladies, be prepared for next week, the men went in!

I can’t stand when a man will put you on blast for something he does all the time! For example, when I don’t hear from him for days at a time, it’s “okay” because he’s “been busy.” But let me not answer the phone for a few days and it’s a problem! That’s just a very basic example but it only grows from there! Like once you get to sharing expenses and sharing responsibilities, it’s okay for you to buy a 52 inch flat screen but I can’t splurge on a few pairs of shoes at a fraction of the price. You see where I’m going with that? -Kimberly, 35

I had to leave a man that I lived with for about a year because he was so gross! He was just disgusting. I am a woman and go through some things once a month that are fairly gross in nature and he wouldn’t know! So why is there urine on the floor around the toilet and on the underside of the toilet seat? Why don’t you wash your hands after you do the number 2 and have the nerve to reach into my bag of mixed nuts? Why is hair from your head and other parts all over the shower floor? I may sound trivial, but I am not going to clean up after a man to that capacity. I shouldn’t have to police your hygiene and hand washing. That’s just ridiculous. – Brandi, 29

I hate when a man wants to act possessive in public but then when you get home or in a private setting, he might as well be ignoring you! So he plays the role of the guy who’s really into his girl and hugs on her and kisses her in public and shoots the ice grill to any man who dares to look my way, but when we get home, he’s the complete opposite! That’s so fake and he’s a total faker if he does that because all it says is even though I may not want you, I don’t want anyone else to have you. That’s just wrong and men know they do this dumb stuff. – Lanecia, 25

I was with this guy, and he was very generous and sweet and cool and fun to hang out with. But I had to end things with him because he would always say things like, “oh, when I get married, she’s gotta be exotic,” like a latina or have the trending Armenian look. So he was saying that he wanted everything that I’m not. I’m a brown-skinned, African-American woman and I am damn fine! But I’m not what you want ultimately, so what’s our point? I really want to know why they do that! Men, why do you do this? – Tricia, 30

You know what kills me about men, is their willingness to be everything you want in the beginning, but once they know they got you hook, line and sinker, the chivalry dies! Why? Why do men get so comfortable so quickly and wonder why his woman don’t “act like you did in the beginning.” If we’re the emotional ones in the relationship, and everything we do is reactionary, then you already know why I’m not like I was from jump street and the answer is simple: because you’re not. They kill me with that. Although I’m married now, I still have this conversation with my husband and we never reach that, you know, common ground. Never. – Ashley, 31

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Comments

  • Luvmyman

    1st?

  • Plagueis The Wise

    I hate when women bring up a flat screen. A man is going to use his tv almost every day. How many time are you going to wear those expensive shoe and handbags? A man gets his money’s worth out of his gadgets.

  • Man, I just don't care™

    Lord Jesus…

  • smarter than you

    I hate when women make stupid lists…..

  • Hood Hero

    For the woman with the man who bought a 52 inch TV…that’s for the both of you. You buying 10 pairs of shoes is just selfish!

  • SHEENA

    I LOVE MY FIANCE TO DEATH AND HE STILL OPENS DOORS EVEN THOUGH WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ALMOST THREE YEARS BUT I HATE HATE HATE IT WHEN HE LEAVE THE TOILET SEAT UP. THAT GETS ON MY NERVES, IT JUST MAKES THE BATHROOM LOOK LIKE A PUBLIC RESTROOM. GROSS

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    1. Lack of Chivary
    2. Unwillingness 2 learn new sh!t
    3. Inability to compromise
    4. Their Ego
    5. They can’t remember a da** thing
    6. Hypocrits
    7. Lazy(wash some dishes sometimes)
    8. They don’t know the basics of life
    9. Life & Health insurance comes before Rims insurance!
    10. Lack feelings

    okay just my opinion

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    Men lie 2 much is at the top of my list tho!

  • crazypants

    also w/ the flat screen, unless the guy’s a psycho and won’t let you use the tv – the whole household gets use and enjoyment out of the tv, unlike the expensive shoes that only the woman can wear.

    I’m sure that woman wouldn’t be too pleased if her man came home w/ $200 size 12 sneakers once a week.

  • http://BOSSIP Damn D

    @Southern Cabbage

    I totally with u…..

  • Reality Check

    Who cares what a woman like or does not like. I have a simple rule that I live by that have served me well it is as follows:

    ” I have relations, not relationships. ”

    This is the rule that has sustained me through college, pharmacy school and work …
    I don’t care what a woman likes or does not like, when she met me I was doing damn fine and she she leaves I will be doing even better.

    So if she decides to come along for this ride, she is going to follow my rules and if she cannot shut up and keep he opinions to herself she is welcome to leave ….

    10 things women hate about men, trick please it is a man’s world and don’t you dare forget it!

  • Lady Architect (All In What You Do)

    I can’t stand when a man will put you on blast for something he does all the time! For example, when I don’t hear from him for days at a time, it’s “okay” because he’s “been busy.” But let me not answer the phone for a few days and it’s a problem!

    Yup I can’t stand that either!!!!

  • trs

    I can’t stand when a man will put you on blast for something he does all the time!
    ———————————————-

    COSIGN 100%

    Men are some of the biggest hypocrites.

  • Southern Cabbage Patch

    @ Lady A
    I can’t stand when a man will put you on blast for something he does all the time! For example, when I don’t hear from him for days at a time, it’s “okay” because he’s “been busy.” But let me not answer the phone for a few days and it’s a problem!

    Yup I can’t stand that either!!!!
    ___________________________________________________

    Yeah they have their double standards…

    Then they wanna sleep with you then tryna feel if another man been in his spot!

  • Never Take S!des

    *** Notice ***

    All the problems are at home, not outside, Unless his eyes tend to pay more attention to other women (Attention spand). Women seem to be satisfied when spending time out, with there men. Inside becomes stressful for a women because men seem to know how to keep busy in there castle, limiting the attention time, women receive causing low self esteem, resulting in arguing and discomfort.

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