Quote of the Day

Posted on May 26th, 2008 - By Bossip Staff

Categories: News, Quote of The Day, Usher

Posted by Bossip Staff

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Usher talks about his former lifestyle, his mom, and Tameka in the latest issue of Entertainment Weekly:

”I was going out night to night, having a different woman in my bed every time I chose, and I began to wonder: Am I really being a playa or am I a whore?”

”I was exposed to the lifestyle of a young, fly A&R who was the man in New York. He took me to clubs. I was around women. It was like swagger camp. I said, So this is what I do when I finally make it…. But you have to be very careful about what you allow your kids to be around or see. I’m a product of the environment.”

‘I was just looking for good times. In the club. Not living right. This woman. That woman. Uncertain. Unsure…. But there does come a time when you start thinking, Who’s gonna love me and take care of me when I’m down? Who’s gonna care about making sure that I’m okay? I need a companion. Damn.”

”I understand the whole thing about the drama between me and my mother,” he concedes. ”To be honest with you, we had a very one-sided relationship, and for obvious reasons: She had to make the majority of the sacrifices; otherwise we didn’t go forward…. I’m pretty sure that my mother would want to forever manage me. She’ll always be my partner. But I feel like I’m at a point where I wanna grow, be able to handle my business firsthand, and understand every facet of it. Also, on the other side is the fact that you get the stigma of being too sheltered. So now I make the move to go out as a man and stand on my own, and it’s bad?”

Click here for more on this interview and how we hurt his feelings when talking about Tameka.

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  • casper

    what a joke! someone just PSed his pictures to hot ones and then uploaded to the famous dating site~(((((~ I n t i m a t e m i n g l e . c o m ~)))~, a site for interracial romance, interracial relationship… so he is said to seek an extramarital relationship with a white model there! lol

  • honeylicious

    @ least he eventually came to his senses but not sure on the choice of person he decided to settle down with, it all seemed rushed.

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  • CELIBATE RIDDLES

    BEFORE I GAVE U SICRET CHILDREN,I ALREADY HEARD MORE THAN 5 OF THEM.I THINK THE OLDEST IS 9 AND THE YOUNGEST IS 12

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  • CELIBATE RIDDLES

    WHEN YOU SLEEPING AND YOU DREAMING,DO YOU EVER LIE?DREAM ACTOR

  • ccvdy

    You are awesome, I’m totally crazy about you guy!!!

    You know what ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! I just visit his blog named “”Realfred” on “milliona ireloves. com”, , It’s amazing, I heard his real vioce !!!!! So man He is absolutely not a gay!! many hot girls there want to date with him!! I have to say he wins!!!

  • sdfsdfg

    He is playful,right? he is a hot member of the celeb dating club “marr ymil lion aire . c o m “. he has dated several hot girls on that club.

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  • casul

    what a joke! someone just PSed his pictures to hot ones and then uploaded to the famous dating site~(((~ I n t i m a t e m i n g l e . c o m ~))~, a site for interracial romance, interracial relationship… so he is said to seek an extramarital relationship with a white model there! lol

  • CELIBATE RIDDLES

    YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE SO SAD,WHY DO YOU FEEL SO HAPPY.YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE LONELY,WHY IS SOMEONE KEEPING YOU COMPANY.

  • Frog-a-licious

    Well it’s great that you want to grow. But pray that you’re kid don’t get Tameka’s attitude towards people.

  • http://Afo.net Baller

    YES IT WAS PUFFY WHO HELPED RUINED THIS KID. Everybody knows the your A&R guy Usher is talking about is Puffy. Damn, I didn’t know he helped mess up Bow Wow. But I could tell his little ass had issues too. We all do.

  • casul

    Bow wow to get they cocks sucked when they were 14 and 15 year old babies .And throwing coochie in the faces of little boys is a jacked up thing to do this is why Usher married a motherly figure and Bow Wow has his own issues too.

  • casul

    Why does someone discriminate black? I don’t think love is just belongs to white. I’m a black and but my hubby is white. We met at +(((+ I n t i m a t e m i n g l e. c o m +))+which tell us love is color blind. Our love proved this. I hope each one will not discriminate blacks.

  • Lisa

    That was a great read. I can’t imagine being a celebrity and having my relationship on blast all the time. I know they choose to ignore it, but when every magazine and blog is dogging the person you chose to love, I’d want to beat folks down myself. My advice to Usher is know who you are, once you do you wouldn’t care what people had to say. I know it’s hard to ignore the BS, but from now on keep your lips sealed, don’t talk about your relationship and just make music.

  • I’m Just Me

    It is what it is. Congrats that he grew up and found his niche…but I agree with the rest NEXT!!!

    If he likes it I love it.

  • http://www.myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

    That all sounds cool to me but was his mother picking the tracks for his album and the singles releases too? Because that Love in the Club is Usher’s first sucky single release and mama didn’t have anything to do with it.

  • Shaahn

    It’s like he went from one mother to another. tameka is a mom to him too. she controls that relationship.

  • Lovely One

    I honestly like him and Tameka together (despite the fact that she was a homebreaker). That surprises me to feel that way. Anyway, I do wonder why he did NOT see a lasting companion with Chilli? It looked like they loved each other to me. IDK

  • chrid

    That surprises me to feel that way. Anyway, I do wonder why he did NOT see a lasting companion with Chilli? It looked like they loved each other to me. IDK

  • sherry

    My advice to Usher is know who you are, once you do you wouldn’t care what people had to say. I know it’s hard to ignore the BS, but from now on keep your lips sealed, don’t talk about your relationship and just make music.

  • gossip

    throwing coochie in the faces of little boys is a jacked up thing to do this is why Usher married a motherly figure and Bow Wow has his own issues too.

  • casper

    what a joke! someone just PSed his pictures to hot ones and then uploaded to the famous dating site~((((~ I n t i m a t e m i n g l e . c o m ~)))~, a site for interracial romance, interracial relationship… so he is said to seek an extramarital relationship with a white model there! lol

  • tiesha

    I am glad usher spoke out about the hateful comments against his wife. These personal attacks are unecessary and cruel. Regardless of how she looks, or her age it is his choice. No one should be criticized and personally attacked for marrying the woman who gave birth to his first child.

    His relationship with Chili is his business and no one elses. Looks are deceiving if the relationship did not work out it is for a reason. Just because Usher is a celebrity, the public has no right to judge, criticize, or personally attack his choice in a mate.

  • memchee7

    sounds like his mind was on the “need to mature track”, but that tameka decision looks like he rushed into things.

  • creolediva

    usher is a f*g

  • creolediva

    somebody needs to tell him that his father didnt choose drugs over him, addiction is a disease…he has obvious issues from this..

  • amazonia

    Usher is right.

    He did the right thing and married the mother of his child (thank God he did’nt copy that I-make-babies-but-dont-marry-their-mom-thing that Diddy is famous for). A woman that allready has kids. He is a good man. And it’s a nice to see black love. First I was sceptical too, but he’s right. The black community should stop hating on her.

  • chris

    Why does someone discriminate black? I don’t think love is just belongs to white. I’m a black and but my hubby is white. We met at +(((+ I n t i m a t e m i n g l e. c o m ++)))which tell us love is color blind. Our love proved this. I hope each one will not discriminate blacks.

    I would like to thank +(((+ I n t i m a t e m i n g l e. c o m +)))+for bringing a very close friend from 17 years ago. I never had the chance to express how I really felt. I had always watched her from afar, but due to Mutual friends it wouldn’t be right, but now we are planning to meet for new years eve. We have exchanged dozens of e-mails and phone calls. She now knows how I felt for her 17 years ago, And our future is as bright as ever.

  • Dominique=Maxwell Fan♥

    WTF?!

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  • http://eatingourwaythrula.blogspot.com/ alwayshungry

    he’s learning and growing, might as well wish him well.

  • sophie

    I guess this is his long ass explanation to why looks don’t matter.

  • SimplePleasures

    Thinking of Usher’s comment about him and his wife getting busy to baby msking music… and well…it’s about all I can DAMN DO to keep my food down. *dry heaving*

  • jcc

    Wow, I like what he wrote. He is a man who has grown to be a business, husband, and father.

  • casper

    what a joke! someone just PSed his pictures to hot ones and then uploaded to the famous dating site~((((~ I n t i m a t e m i n g l e . c o m ~))))~, a site for interracial romance, interracial relationship… so he is said to seek an extramarital relationship with a white model there! lol

  • Nana

    I just got through reading the interview and listening to Usher’s New CD. The man is def in a place of realness and true love. He is on top of his game, his life and I commend him all the way. My favorite track so far is His Mistakes. Usher God bless you and your union. Haters will be plenty but God is love and he has shined on you once again in the midst of the devil and his workers.

  • Shawn08

    Good luck to Usher and Tameka. I’m loving the CD! I am not into his personal life, because it has nothing to do with me.

  • Aoki Lee

    I like Usher

  • Aoki Lee

    they need to do a movie on the early days of Motown

  • Encyclopedia Brown

    Ersher has some interesting tennis shoes

  • Carla Hairston

    No one really knows what goes on behind closed doors. Just what we see and read in the media. If he is happy who are we to judge him and his family.

  • pee pee

    high five for usher he starting to mature he got rid of chili’s golddigger ass

  • WordzOfaProphet

    1st off on dis vid…..ewwww and Usher shud leave Tameka’s worthless ass and Flav needs to settle down with his baby mother cuz ppl tired of his ass

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