By “play” do you mean from women or from radio.

If by women, yes.

If by radio, no-if the music is good then its good, I dont think race has anything to do with it-If anything, he has to be BETTER than the competition.

I dont think so.

I think it depends on the woman. I think it balances out because a lot sistas wouldn’t fugg a white man no matter what.

Then some sistas….

Good topic, the answer is YES!! Most black have such low self-esteem that they consider the white people ice as colder. When a white person shows interest in black culture, it validates many black people and give them a sense of self-worth and acceptance. Just look at the reaction and props people like Eminem, Justin Timberlake, Robin Thicke, etc. gets!

I LUVVVVVVVVVVV THIS SONG!!!!!!!!!!

Most sistas will rep for the brothas no matter what, but some do specifically look for White men. It depends on the female.

I think that they white man adapts better than the black men because he understand that when much is giving much is also required… A lot of brother want too much for free, they think that everything is always on there terms only when I white man seems to care more about the love of his woman and family while the black man just wants it easy and everything easy and that is not relistic at all…

POSHEDUP, I agree with you. Preach! Its such a shame

I think that white men get play (musically) Because I think that we like it when someone outside our community embraces our music, and actually does a good job at it!! We aint trying to hear nobody faking it, we will shut them down. But when u see someone who honeslty has a love for the music/culture you want ot embrace them

n o b o d y

Personally, I enjoy dating white men. They have ambition. Black men also have ambition, but their numbers are steadily declining, so I am being forced to ther other white meat. I want to marry a white man…but I do love chocolate. Decisions, Decisions

The answer is of course, this guy can’t sing a lick. He is lounge act bad but you know how some of y’all are.

I believe that Black women will over support any white man that shows interest in Black women.

Black women completely buy into the believe that they are the most hated woman, and people think they are the least desirable. Black women in America see White men as the most desirable man. So if a White man gives his stamp of approval in wanting to screw a Black woman. Black women somehow feel that validates Black woman’s beauty, and it makes her self-esteem feel better.

So yes. White Male artist get extra attention from Black women specifically. Personally, I think he is extremely overrated. I think Justin Timberlake is a much more “Talented” artist than Robin Thicke. The only difference is that Justin is dating Jessica Biel, and Robin Thicke married Paula Patton. So Black women love Robin Thicke more.

I don’t think so. White guys have to be pretty good looking for a sister to look at him before looking at a brother.
Sorry. I just don’t see it.

@ resurrected

…A lot of brother want too much for free, they think that everything is always on there terms only…
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I know that’s right.

@jOe

U might be right, black woman are constantly being too we have too much attitude, too opninionated, to black, hair not long or straight enough. So when a white men start to show us our well deserved attention, yes we soak it up

No. People like what they like no matter what the scenario is.

I see the ignorance is about to explode in this
b!*@$.

@heygurrl

But it is all BS. White men for years have controlled Media outlets promoting Black women as a certain image. From Ant Jemima to Yes even Gangsta Rap.

So now that they want to give Black women a little attention, mainly sexual. You feel blessed? It’s a huge con game.

Black women are just admitting that they are in complete control of White men. If he wants to. He can make you happy or sad. The way you feel about yourself is completely based on external factors.

How is that anyway to live your life?

they want there baby 2 have dat good hair

White men have always loved black women. That is no secret. How do you think we got so many shades of black. Its all history baby. The white man has lusted after us since the beginning. Just a Fact!

SIS!!! If you are still in here WHAT UP???

The responses to this post don’t make any sense. Is everyone on crack this morning? I managed to understand trs and poshedup, and that’s it.

Women in general will give play to any man who is interested in them and treats them well.

I don’t get the point of this post.

next!!! dumb question

Black women in America see White men as the most desirable man.
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I am sorry, but this is a TOTAL miss.

Most educated Black women in my social network PREFER Black men over any other race, and this includes myself as well. I can’t help but feel as if the majority of Black women feel the same way.

You sound as if you’ve had a poor experience with a Black woman, and for that I am sorry. However, it is not necessary to lump all Black women into one big group, especially one that is labled as “anti-Black man.”

@Redd

If that was the case. Then why do you get excited seeing a Black woman with a White man?

If they always have loved you. Why is it so rare to see a “Public” display of love?

Big SISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!! What’s UP???

@Chaka

Robin Thicke is an overrated artist. But Black women overwhelmingly support him. That is the question.

If a Robin Thicke song comes on the radio. Black women always exclaim “Oh I love Him”. Why?

@trs

I have seen the whole scope, and this is what I have based my opinion on.

By Black women seeing White men as the most desirable. That doesn’t mean she hates black men or doesn’t prefer Black men.

Black women in America see White men as the most desirable man.

NOT ME!

@trs

I have seen the whole scope, and this is what I have based my opinion on.

By Black women seeing White men as the most desirable. That doesn’t mean she hates black men or doesn’t prefer Black men.
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I love the fact that you said that this is your OPINION. That’s just it…it’s your opinion, NOT fact.

You can keep thinking that Black women as a whole prefer White men all you want. I, as a Black woman have told you that is NOT the case. Statistics will show you that Black women marry Black men first and foremost, not White men. Look it up.

You are clearly anti-Black woman, so keep doing you. Just be advised that Black women love Black men, and this will NEVER change.

On my way in to work this morning caught one looking at my a$$. LOL!

I don’t hate Black women. I’m marrying one next year.

But when I see certain behaviors over and over again. You are correct. I will form an Opinion.

Plus. Reading some of these “Black” women comments on the Swirl topics. It is hard to disagree with what I am saying.

9 times outta 10, black females can’t compete with asian women when it comes to white dudes, and there’s a guy I know at work who just recently knocked up 2 black girls here….The fact of the matter is that most dudes will be a “ho” if given the chance!! Color doesn’t even factor into it!! If a black woman gets spread eagled they’ll hit, but I can promise you that the majority of the time they won’t marry you! If you want to call my bluff, ask them to meet their parents, and discuss marriage! The only time it doesn’t matter is when both parties have money!!! I don’t care who it is!!! Any white parents will be pleased as punch if the black girl has money or access to it over a chick who’s white and lives in a trailer park!!! And vice versa!! the only thing they give a damn about is money!!!!(The white parents)Now if the same white dude brought Laquisha from the hood home, it would be a big ol’ mess!!!

@heygurrl

But it is all BS. White men for years have controlled Media outlets promoting Black women as a certain image. From Ant Jemima to Yes even Gangsta Rap.

So now that they want to give Black women a little attention, mainly sexual. You feel blessed? It’s a huge con game.

Black women are just admitting that they are in complete control of White men. If he wants to. He can make you happy or sad. The way you feel about yourself is completely based on external factors.

How is that anyway to live your life?
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@ Joe

I respectfully disagree, I meant that if someone shoes you positive attention, naturally you are going to show give it return. But in no way do I feel that my feeling are controlled by what a white man thinks. And besides, no matter what race you are (with most sane people) If someone gives off positivity then you are more likely to show it back.

This is nothing new, white men have always wanted blk women. I love blk men, but the dating pool for black men is dwindling. I am choosing to open my eyes to the variety of men that God has place on this earth. Is there something wrong with that?

Who cares? I’m sure Robin Thicke could get it from alot of us Black women (myself included) but I wouldn’t touch Justin Timberfake, Remy Shand, or Snow with a 30-foot pole. It depends.

NEXT!

I am going to say yes folks love it when white people do so called black music for that matter it can be any other race also. Look at it when M.I.A raps all of a sudden she is innovative and creative but when Dead prez does the same thing they are not. White man plays jazz it is the best thing in the world when a black person does it folks don’t care for it that much. Black folks some love to give their culture and music away to the first non-black that shows interest.

On my way in to work this morning caught one looking at my a$$. LOL!

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@ Red you stupid!! LOL Girl I work @ hospital, with a bunch of Caucausion Doctors…They be breaking their necks!! LOL

@ Joe

I agree with you at the media portraying what am image of beauty is to black women. but the same way they have been trying to persuade us, they have persuaing the minds of white men to not be attracted to black woman, even though they are. Thats why white men are afraid to admit their attraction to blk women
@ Red

Aunt Viv

Who cares? I’m sure Robin Thicke could get it from alot of us Black women (myself included) but I wouldn’t touch Justin Timberfake, Remy Shand, or Snow with a 30-foot pole. It depends.

NEXT!

THANK YOU AUNT VIV!!!!

@ Injera70

So are using that that Dizzy Gillespie, Etta James didnt get props because they were black?

heygurrl!

LOL! They have always loved us! We come in so many flavors, shapes, sizes etc lol. I just think the black woman is the most beautiful woman in the world because of our variety.

Hey Rose.

Yeah he’s cute but not drop dead gorgeuos! You know who I like but he is not really white. The dude with the reality show damn whats his name Antonio something with the dimples. Ooooh love him!

heygurrl!

@ Injera70

So are using that that Dizzy Gillespie, Etta James didnt get props because they were black?
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Hell, she might as well!!! Elvis Presley’s whole career was one big rip off from black people!! “You ain’t nothin but a hound dog” was stolen from a black woman named “Big Momma Thornton” and he was stealing other people’s stuff all of his career, but you never see any song credits, now do you????

@ val STFU!

There is a certain segment of black women that prefer white men for stereotypical reasons. That much can’t be denied.

As for Robin Thicke, I’ve long felt he was overrated. There is no question his race (and marriage to Paula Patton) has benefited his career and mediocre singing ability.

@ Injera

Oh, I neva said that white musicians have never ripped off black artists, but black people have always dominated the jazz and r&B genres so why cant a well deserving white person be obsverved for his/her talent?

@ Rose

Good point.

@ Daywalker

Whatever!

It is clear that many black women believe that white men are the ultimate validation. What is sad is that white men know this. It is true that they want, and get, the most exceptional black women. But the other side of that is that they will not even consider 95 percent of black women for a serious relationship. Black women with children,those who are overweight and those without college degrees need not apply.

@ Injera,

Yes, it is a shame. But a lot of people are color struck

heygurrl!

I prefer men darker than men. I love milk chocolate. Or caramel.

@Daywalker .. thanks for that tip!!! You know you crack me up, you are the best poster on here to me and i dont care who you have to argue with on here, i can get hardly get thru the day unless i read your posts!! You are so right about Elvis, did you hear what Ike Turner said about him that he was caught sneaking in a back door at Ikes show crawling on the floor to listen and jack Ikes songs a nd swagger! We all no Ike was a beater but the dude could blow!!

@ Aunt Viv

Yeah thats him! That boy is a cutie!

Godd Morning Auntie Viv Hows it going.. and what is Uncle Phil been up to lately.. i see you keeping him close to the homefront lately!!

@ val

Once again STFU!

LMAO! AND Ima go HARD!

@ val

I disagree, a white man is not my ultimate validation. Please dont lump all black women into one group. I can appreciate a successful, genuine, and independent white man, just as I can appreciate the same in a blk man.

But, I will say again. The dating poole of eligible blk men is dwindling and I might have to jump ship. I wont lie, my first choice for a mate is a blk man, but I am starting to explore other options, because you have to evolve to fit your needs.

Sis,

I prefer men darker than men. I love milk chocolate. Or caramel.
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Cosign!!!

I never got that picture that you were supposed to send me….

Robin Thicke=Overrated

LMAO Sis, you see how I do!

Sis,

I prefer men darker than men. I love milk chocolate. Or caramel.
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Cosign!!!

I never got that picture that you were supposed to send me….

I’ll try again now.

why did I spell pool with an e?

@Val, “ultimate validation”, why would a black woman or any woman need a white man to validate themselves? I don’t need a man to validate myself and certainly white men are the be all and end all.

excuse me, white men aren’t the be all end all

“So if a White man gives his stamp of approval in wanting to screw a Black woman. Black women somehow feel that validates Black woman’s beauty, and it makes her self-esteem feel better.”

While I think this is a valid point, I think the reverse is also true. I think some (emphasis on “some”) black men feel validated by attention given to them by women of other races. This is a symptom of internalized racism and feelings of inadequacy and inferiority, IMO. Some of us do not feel we are valuable and worthy until we are recognized by others who do not share our skin tone.

@ Rose

Antonio Sabata is one fine man and so is Adam Rodriquez from CSI, both can get a side glance from me!

Cosign!!!

I havent seen it yet. I heard it is awesome.

I get tired, so tired, of dealing w/ brothas sometimes, but at the end of the day, I wouldn’t trade it for anything. The oneness that I feel being w/ a strong black man is incomparable.

I fail to make any connection with YT, so they may as well be invisible as far as the dating thing goes.
I don’t want nothin’ white but my sheets and my ‘Lac!

Sis check your email.

JoeClyde

I believe that Black women will over support any white man that shows interest in Black women.

Black women completely buy into the believe that they are the most hated woman, and people think they are the least desirable. Black women in America see White men as the most desirable man. So if a White man gives his stamp of approval in wanting to screw a Black woman. Black women somehow feel that validates Black woman’s beauty, and it makes her self-esteem feel better.

So yes. White Male artist get extra attention from Black women specifically. Personally, I think he is extremely overrated. I think Justin Timberlake is a much more “Talented” artist than Robin Thicke. The only difference is that Justin is dating Jessica Biel, and Robin Thicke married Paula Patton. So Black women love Robin Thicke more.
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I think that Robin thicke gives a way more respectful image in Justin T… Our generation only sees talent and money but I look for character and who has the ability to show real intimacy in any partner and I think the maybe more white men can appreciate that then the average black man… I am looking for a good partner not just a good Pluck there is way more to being attracted to someone from the inside out then of all the surface things of the world…I just think that I lot of Black woman image has been posion from miss treatment and abandonment and the average man never cares of the damage that is left behind by his own hands and this creates a new reality amongs black woman or just woman period…

“Black women completely buy into the believe that they are the most hated woman, and people think they are the least desirable.”

Well, there’s a reason for this, and it’s as close as some of the regular comments on this site.

Antonio Sabata is one fine man and so is Adam Rodriquez from CSI, both can get a side glance from me!
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That’s my word right there!!!

*vigorously nods head in agreement*

This is totally untrue. Black women just started to venture out to other races on a large scale. Too many black women have that undying love and loyalty to black men. Myself included.(sigh)

While I personally have not given up on my brothers, I can understand why some sisters have gone over tho the other side. There is a shortage of good black men out there. And the ones that are worth dating are only dating women who are not black. Unfortunately I see a lot of brothers dating white women for all the wrong reasons. Some do it because we are “to aggressive” Why am I aggressive when I voice my opinion on a matter that I think is not right? I remember being in a restaurant and a black man asked me if I was gonna buy him lunch, I of course, told him no. He had the nerve to come out of his mouth to tell me “and ya’ll wonder why we date white women” to which I replied “because you can’t take strength, you can’t take the fact that when you’re wrong we will tell you about yourself, you can’t take the fact that when you don’t step up to your full potential as a man should we are gonna let you know” I don’t as a rule have a problem with interracial dating but I do have a problem with black men who only date white women because “black women need to step their game up” Up to what?!?!?!?!? Do I need to be weak and let you walk all over me? So having said all of that yes I understand why a black woman may date a white guy. As far as the music goes, I can respect any white person who can sing or rap or anything considered to be a “black thing” I just don’t respect those that will exploit the culture and not have a respect for the people that are the main ones buying their records.

he can get it ….today!

HEY SYDNEY!!!!!

@ Ms Ajje – me too… (sigh)

Aunt Viv~` What are you doing for Thanksgiving? I love this holliday bdecause i get to show my cooking skils, and i can burn in the kitchen!We are having all kinds of family over and im doing all the cooking.. dont want no other woman milling around in my kitchen sticking their nose in my pots..JK, but yeah im making the usual and my dressing is being made the old fashion way with bread crumb , cornbread, sausage and fresh sage not that powdered crap or that stove top mess…. wish i could send you a plate~!

Good morning, all Hey TRS!!

“Black women in America see White men as the most desirable man.”

I’ve seen numerous comments pointing out the desirability of white women by posters who proclaim to be black men on this site.

I say that to illustrate that this isn’t a single-faceted issue — Members of both genders have engaged in denigration of the opposite sex.

Ladies have you seen Gilles Marini, google him.

Sydney~~` Hi Sydney (waves to Sydney the real voice of reason)~!

@ Sydney,
“While I think this is a valid point, I think the reverse is also true. I think some (emphasis on “some”) black men feel validated by attention given to them by women of other races. This is a symptom of internalized racism and feelings of inadequacy and inferiority, IMO. Some of us do not feel we are valuable and worthy until we are recognized by others who do not share our skin tone.”
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Hey Syd!! Good to see you today! This is a good point, I don’t think you can paint this issue with a broad brush…there are no absolutes.

Good morning Daywalker~!! grinning like a cheshire cat that daywalker walked in ~!!!!!

“I remember being in a restaurant and a black man asked me if I was gonna buy him lunch, I of course, told him no.”

As a side note, this is a personal pet peeve of mine. Is this supposed to be a witty joke that is used as a pick-up line? lol

@JERZEE GURL
“While I personally have not given up on my brothers, I can understand why some sisters have gone over tho the other side. There is a shortage of good black men out there. And the ones that are worth dating are only dating women who are not black. Unfortunately I see a lot of brothers dating white women for all the wrong reasons. Some do it because we are “to aggressive” Why am I aggressive when I voice my opinion on a matter that I think is not right? I remember being in a restaurant and a black man asked me if I was gonna buy him lunch, I of course, told him no. He had the nerve to come out of his mouth to tell me “and ya’ll wonder why we date white women” to which I replied “because you can’t take strength, you can’t take the fact that when you’re wrong we will tell you about yourself, you can’t take the fact that when you don’t step up to your full potential as a man should we are gonna let you know” I don’t as a rule have a problem with interracial dating but I do have a problem with black men who only date white women because “black women need to step their game up” Up to what?!?!?!?!? Do I need to be weak and let you walk all over me? So having said all of that yes I understand why a black woman may date a white guy. As far as the music goes, I can respect any white person who can sing or rap or anything considered to be a “black thing” I just don’t respect those that will exploit the culture and not have a respect for the people that are the main ones buying their records.”
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The myth of the shortage of “good black men.” SMH. If you buy into that then you were doomed to failure from the beginning.

It is impossible to date someone for the “wrong reasons.” Whatever reasons that people date each other is “right” for them. It’s THEIR perspective.

Now as far as “tellin the black man about himself” …sometimes it’s not what you say but how you say it. What happened to being supportive? Guess that sounds too much like being “submissive.” SMH.

@ rose,

“Aunt Viv~` What are you doing for Thanksgiving? I love this holliday bdecause i get to show my cooking skils, and i can burn in the kitchen!We are having all kinds of family over and im doing all the cooking.. dont want no other woman milling around in my kitchen sticking their nose in my pots..JK, but yeah im making the usual and my dressing is being made the old fashion way with bread crumb , cornbread, sausage and fresh sage not that powdered crap or that stove top mess…. wish i could send you a plate~!”
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Da*n that sounds good! I’ll be here in NYC-my fiancé and I split holidays, and this Thanksgiving we’ll be with my family. I’m helping with the cooking, but from what it sounds like you’ll be killin’ it in the kitchen more than me!

YAAAAYYYY I get a from Daywalker!!! Thank you boo!

Alrighty Then…

I get tired, so tired, of dealing w/ brothas sometimes, but at the end of the day, I wouldn’t trade it for anything. The oneness that I feel being w/ a strong black man is incomparable.
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LOL @ the I am tired, Tired, tired, tried did I say tried say it again because I don’t think that they heard you…lol.. Love is very lonf suffering to say the least…

White men are more particular about their women than black men. Black men will date women of any race that are fat, bad weave, 5 kids, no education, etc……..

When ever I see a white man with a black woman 9 times out of 10 she’s the cream of the crop.

@Aunt Viv

“This is a good point, I don’t think you can paint this issue with a broad brush…there are no absolutes.”

Hey, girl. No, you can’t. There’s enough guilt to spread around.

Internalized racism is at the root of many issues we now experience as a group, both men and women. We have been taught that everything associated with “blackness” is negative, unattractive, inferior, undesirable, etc. Some of us believe that when we are recognized, pursued, complimented by other races, our value is elevated.

@ Alrighty

Amen, we love u too blck man!

@ MAN

I got it! I’m just being hunted thats all.

White men are more particular about their women than black men. Black men will date women of any race that are fat, bad weave, 5 kids, no education, etc……..

When ever I see a white man with a black woman 9 times out of 10 she’s the cream of the crop.

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@ Get Real

Amen, why no get a bomb a** white chik?! They pic from the bottle of the barrel!! LOL missing teeth, not shape, stupid!!

Sydney

You are correct. A lot of issues are very similar to why Black men date White women.

whatever happened to judging someone not by the color of their skin, but the content of their character?

All i can say is i have seen some trashy white trailer park looking white men dating trashy black women! my thing is i only date my black men but folks can date who they want! i have no control over it but i just dont like it when black men date white women and start talking bas about black women.Knowing when you talk about a black woman its like talking a bout your mother~! Most white men dont talk bad about white women , they have to really do something bad to them for them to low rate their women but instead of bad mouthing them they just kill and relocate their bodies somewhere else~! So i guess i can deal with the bad talk!

@JoeClyde

“You are correct. A lot of issues are very similar to why Black men date White women.”

Yes, I’ve heard firsthand from some brothers about some of the reasons black men give for dating exclusively non-black women, and it’s very painful. Some of us do not seem to grasp that when you denigrate individuals who share your skin tone, you’re also denigrating yourself. If black women are inferior, what does that make black men? And if black men are inferior, what does that make us?

Sis,

LMAO!!!!!! @ his azz! I cant stand him! Why did he cal at like 7am! WTF?? Like I dont know what that call was about. I’m standing firm!
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I am proud of you!!!! Check your email in a few.

Since theres no way to poll every black woman, this question is not helpful.

There are always gonna be women who like a man for superficial reasons, but u cant put everyone in that category.

This believe that White men only date Dimes is BS.
Forget TV and Internet.

Go to the streets and tell me what you see. I have seen White men with Fat and Ugly white women and Horrid looking Asian women.

Now what I will say is true. The lamest, and corniest White guy can get a out of his league Black women. That speaks to the mentality of that Black women and how she perceives her selfworth. She is no better than the Black guy with the fat white woman. But I have also seen Black men with gorgeous white women or other women.

So this stereotype is completely blown out of proportion. But since White men control the media. It is not a shock that the stereotype is in their favor.

Dnt yall hate when people insecure people starting blogging to prove they know how to big words. I am all for education, I am educated myself. But sometimes I just want blog, with spelling errors and all. Everytime I turn around, somebody getting self-righteous on me. I get it, you are smart. Guess what I am too. I have a Masters But these blogs are just for fun, not to degrade, or make fun of people. Why are people so mean?

JoeClyde

I believe that Black women will over support any white man that shows interest in Black women.

Black women completely buy into the believe that they are the most hated woman, and people think they are the least desirable. Black women in America see White men as the most desirable man. So if a White man gives his stamp of approval in wanting to screw a Black woman. Black women somehow feel that validates Black woman’s beauty, and it makes her self-esteem feel better.

So yes. White Male artist get extra attention from Black women specifically. Personally, I think he is extremely overrated. I think Justin Timberlake is a much more “Talented” artist than Robin Thicke. The only difference is that Justin is dating Jessica Biel, and Robin Thicke married Paula Patton. So Black women love Robin Thicke more.
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I think that Robin thicke gives a way more respectful image in Justin T… Our generation only sees talent and money but I look for character and who has the ability to show real intimacy in any partner and I think the maybe more white men can appreciate that then the average black man… I am looking for a good partner not just a good Pluck there is way more to being attracted to someone from the inside out then of all the surface things of the world…I just think that I lot of Black woman image has been posion from miss treatment and abandonment and the average man never cares of the damage that is left behind by his own hands and this creates a new reality amongs black woman or just woman period…

Sydney,

I’ve seen numerous comments pointing out the desirability of white women by posters who proclaim to be black men on this site.

I say that to illustrate that this isn’t a single-faceted issue — Members of both genders have engaged in denigration of the opposite sex.

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Thanks for pointing this out because it was certainly necessary.

I just wanna love my sistas and brothas

@heygurrl!

@ Alrighty

Amen, we love u too blck man!
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thanks for the love, but I am a black woman… lol…

@resurrected

LOL @ the I am tired, Tired, tired, tried did I say tried say it again because I don’t think that they heard you…lol.. Love is very lonf suffering to say the least…_____________________________________________________
lol… Hey Ressurected! Well, it does get tiring girl! I mean, let’s face it, black men have some very particular “areas of concern”, which makes it that much more challenging to stay in a lifelong committed relationship… But I’m up for the challenge.

@heygurrl. I am not saying they should not get their props if they are deserving, I just don’t like that some folks think they are the second coming of Jesus when they do so called black music. They also need to recognize the source also.

I still love and want a black man but I will not take someone who does not want to grow in life… I also would date outside my race but not for superficial reasons just to find a good man who loves and that will put his family first while still achieving his life dreams…Many woman of our day has to learn how to want, need, and believe in a man because they grow up in household with all strong woman… Men are woman both need to have patience with each other and many of us rarely do so we run around to different people as if the process is different with the next person and it is not…

This believe that White men only date Dimes is BS.
Forget TV and Internet.

Go to the streets and tell me what you see. I have seen White men with Fat and Ugly white women and Horrid looking Asian women.

Now what I will say is true. The lamest, and corniest White guy can get a out of his league Black women. That speaks to the mentality of that Black women and how she perceives her selfworth. She is no better than the Black guy with the fat white woman. But I have also seen Black men with gorgeous white women or other women.

So this stereotype is completely blown out of proportion. But since White men control the media. It is not a shock that the stereotype is in their favor.

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@ Joe

Just a question..not and assumption, but do u think that any blk woman that dates a white man has be brainwashed by the mainstream media into thinking that the white man is better?

U seem pretty smart..U cant possibly think that? I am not the black women sitting next to me, nor am I the black women that I passed on the road driving to work this morning. We are not all the same.

@TRS

“Thanks for pointing this out because it was certainly necessary.”

I’ll never forget the blog link I saw recently attached to someone’s SN that was completely devoted to extolling the virtues of white women and how they are symbolic of a black man’s success if one is on his arm. It shocked me, and I’ve seen a lot online. Imagine if that much energy had been spent on mentoring young boys or some other positive venture. SMH.

they bleep out a.s.sumption and pa.s.s.ed in me previous post

Hey Rose, how are you?

People want who they want, when they want “IT”. There’s nothin’ deep about it.

@heygurrl. I am not saying they should not get their props if they are deserving, I just don’t like that some folks think they are the second coming of Jesus when they do so called black music. They also need to recognize the source also.

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@Injera

I agree that maybe some people take love for a talented white artist ova the top, but that’s their ignorance!!! lol In all honesty, some blk people do like at any white man as their own personal “messiah” and like they can do no wrong. I feel you on that. Thanks for the intelligent convo and not just an angry rant…like most of these bloggers

@ JerzeeGurl:

While I personally have not given up on my brothers, I can understand why some sisters have gone over tho the other side. There is a shortage of good black men out there. And the ones that are worth dating are only dating women who are not black. Unfortunately I see a lot of brothers dating white women for all the wrong reasons. Some do it because we are “to aggressive” Why am I aggressive when I voice my opinion on a matter that I think is not right? I remember being in a restaurant and a black man asked me if I was gonna buy him lunch, I of course, told him no. He had the nerve to come out of his mouth to tell me “and ya’ll wonder why we date white women” to which I replied “because you can’t take strength, you can’t take the fact that when you’re wrong we will tell you about yourself, you can’t take the fact that when you don’t step up to your full potential as a man should we are gonna let you know” I don’t as a rule have a problem with interracial dating but I do have a problem with black men who only date white women because “black women need to step their game up” Up to what?!?!?!?!? Do I need to be weak and let you walk all over me? So having said all of that yes I understand why a black woman may date a white guy. As far as the music goes, I can respect any white person who can sing or rap or anything considered to be a “black thing” I just don’t respect those that will exploit the culture and not have a respect for the people that are the main ones buying their records.
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One word, boo……”DECAF”….

While I personally have not given up on my brothers, I can understand why some sisters have gone over tho the other side. There is a shortage of good black men out there. And the ones that are worth dating are only dating women who are not black.

1) Actually, not true…I date black women, but I also date women of other races I find attractive as well….I don’t really look at color as far as for how I choose women, but physically attractive women come in all colors, and I personally think that a lot of black women sshould try dating white guys….You’ll get no argument from me, I encourage it….

Unfortunately I see a lot of brothers dating white women for all the wrong reasons. Some do it because we are “to aggressive” Why am I aggressive when I voice my opinion on a matter that I think is not right?

2) There’s no problem with you voicing an opinion, b ut you have to realize that some, (not all) black women are superficial… They hold black men to exacting standards, and (they should) yet when they get held up to the same standards, they get upset….And I’m not saying you do this, but there is a big difference between “Browbeating” someone and giving an opinion….I mean would you honestly want to be with some one who constantly tells you that they are unhappy with any and every thing you do????

I remember being in a restaurant and a black man asked me if I was gonna buy him lunch, I of course, told him no. He had the nerve to come out of his mouth to tell me “and ya’ll wonder why we date white women” to which I replied “because you can’t take strength, you can’t take the fact that when you’re wrong we will tell you about yourself, you can’t take the fact that when you don’t step up to your full potential as a man should we are gonna let you know” I don’t as a rule have a problem with interracial dating but I do have a problem with black men who only date white women because “black women need to step their game up” Up to what?!?!?!?!?

3)How about being able to step your game up to the point where you can take a bit of a joke?? I mean I deal with a lot of black female execs here and they are so focused on their careers, that no one approaches them…Then, they get upset that they can’t find guys, but I look at it like if they weren’t such “Ice queens” and were a little more friendly, they wouldn’t have these issues!! I had one who was in her 40s ask me if I thought she was attractive, and I’m a pretty honest guy, and I told her Well… Yes, and not really….I explained that “Physically” she was attractive, she had a great fashion sense, and her hair was relaay nice, but she had the personality of a Tasmanian Devil…I further went on to tell her that if she loosened up a bit, finding a guy would be easier….And a lot of the time, it’s not what you say, but how you say it….I mean you can tell someone to go F*ck themselves, but if you do it in a nice enough way, they won’t get offended…..Try it!! LOL!!!

Do I need to be weak and let you walk all over me? So having said all of that yes I understand why a black woman may date a white guy.

No, you shouldn’t be weak and let someone “walk all over you”, but at the same time you (from what I’ve read) tend to walk all over people yourself at times!!! If you don’t I apologize, but from your comment, you could be a little more approachable at times….And to be honest, Some guys really do want to meet someone and act right….They are out there, you just have to find em…..

Sincerely,

Daywalker

@ alrighty

LOL my bad, I think I misread something

Well I love our black men and women!! LOL We are beautiful ans trong

@Day

“There’s no problem with you voicing an opinion, b ut you have to realize that some, (not all) black women are superficial…”

Can you elaborate, please?

I’m actually looking for a bad a.s.s. b.!.t.c.h. from mars…preferably with green eyes and blue. Ti.t.s.!!!! Lemme know if you see one.

And why are blk woman constantly being told the we are strong and beautiful during blk history month and then yall tell us we got too much mouth and attitude the other 11 months out the year!!!

Black men make up ur damn mind…do u want a doormat or a strong beatiful nubian woman. Im confused… How bout I just do me! LOL

Sydney™

“I remember being in a restaurant and a black man asked me if I was gonna buy him lunch, I of course, told him no.”

As a side note, this is a personal pet peeve of mine. Is this supposed to be a witty joke that is used as a pick-up line? lol
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Guys do this when they can’t think of anything better, and they fear rejection, SYD….And to be honest, you might have scared the guy a bit…..

@Heygurrl. I try to talk to folks like I would off the internet with respect. Good convo to you also.

@Day

“And to be honest, you might have scared the guy a bit…..”

LOL, how did I scare the guy when I was spending MY own money on my lunch? I’ve never sauntered up to a brother and asked him could he treat me to a meal. I work, I pay for myself.

@Day

“Guys do this when they can’t think of anything better, and they fear rejection”

What about just saying, “Hello, miss, how are you? My name is so-and-so,” and extend their hand to shake?

I think the problem stems from some women’s desire for the perfect life, and the perfect man, coming from a family full of women, I can understand your struggle to make it in these times, but I cant co sign some of the bullshat im hearing, If you A s sume that skin color is the reason you have had bad relationships with black men, than you not have identified the problem already, its you and thank god I am able to completely provide for myself, cause if it has shown me one thing its that SOME women prefer boys to men, SOME women prefer PROJECTS some believe they are strong and smart enough to change someone, I have my own house, my own cars, I pay my own bills, dont have the best credit but its above 700, and do you know that women want me to to complete with “Tyrone the Trappa”, cause his name buzzing in the streets right now, I dont have a problem with it tho, go after what you think are the best options, just understand that we he goes to jail and you pregnant
and you need help, that Mark cant do nothing for you boo boo, and then have the audacity to say black men aint shat, no, you want the bad boys the thugs thinking you can convert them, how do I know I use to run the streets, trappin until I realized that I cant do it forever

“Sydney™

@Day

“Guys do this when they can’t think of anything better, and they fear rejection”

What about just saying, “Hello, miss, how are you? My name is so-and-so,” and extend their hand to shake?”

Nawww, too detached and cold. Howabout: “HEY BABY, SO HOW DO YOU LIKE YOUR EGGS IN THE MORNIN’? POACHED, SCRAMBLED, BOILED, OR FERTILIZED?

@ Sydney

@Day

“And to be honest, you might have scared the guy a bit…..”

LOL, how did I scare the guy when I was spending MY own money on my lunch? I’ve never sauntered up to a brother and asked him could he treat me to a meal. I work, I pay for myself.

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Ha Ha!!! You are so right. The only thing he was scared of was the BILL!!!

Ive been told that I was thought you didnt want me to hold the door for you or help you down the stairs because you just seem so indedepent!!!

Now, I hadnt said a word about Im this and I got this, so how he know Im dont want to be treated like a lady? He judged me from what he saw that I had and what I was about

He saw i was a homeowner, had a full time job, went to skool full-time and he was intimidated!!!

Blk men, dont be afraid…step up to the challenge

Marquis de Sade

I’ll slap thie dog ish out of you too bish azz nucca! Both of yall have mommy and daddy issues! LAmEs! Grow the F up! Quit sweatin me.

I’ve randomly just paid for a woman’s meal at the airport just because I appreciated her beauty. no convo….no tryna get the number no nothing. Just damn she fine…..I got this one leave a dub at the counter and tell the cashier….”this is for her”.

Short and simple answer. Yes!

@ Sydney

Ha Ha!!! You are so right. The only thing he was scared of was the BILL!!!

Ive been told that I was thought you didnt want me to hold the door for you or help you down the stairs because you just seem so indedepent!!!

Now, I hadnt said a word about Im this and I got this, so how he know Im dont want to be treated like a lady? He judged me from what he saw that I had and what I was about

He saw i was a homeowner, had a full time job, went to skool full-time and he was intimidated!!!

Blk men, dont be afraid…step up to the challenge

I need Jesus! LOL!

You just dont know how blessed I am! Blessed enough to not be complaining about the same ish day in and day out. Bish nucca thats just how it is!

@ Manster

Good topic, the answer is YES!! Most black have such low self-esteem that they consider the white people ice as colder. When a white person shows interest in black culture, it validates many black people and give them a sense of self-worth and acceptance. Just look at the reaction and props people like Eminem, Justin Timberlake, Robin Thicke, etc. gets!
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Yeap!

Rome,

I’ve randomly just paid for a woman’s meal at the airport just because I appreciated her beauty. no convo….no tryna get the number no nothing. Just damn she fine
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ROME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That was nice of you! I knew that there was something special about you.

@ SIS

LMAO! You know I dont care! All they do is say the same ish everyday! That ish is getting old! Black females this and that. Say it to my face and see what happens. I’ll show what it means to be BLACK!

@Sanjor

You bad.

“He saw i was a homeowner, had a full time job, went to skool full-time and he was intimidated!!!”

Hmmmmm. Nevermind, I won’t go there. I’m tryin’ to change.

@Heygurrl,

If you dont know the differences between being strong and having an attitude than you are the one who needs to make up their mind. Seriously. Its only the black female talking about how strong they are. Try being a lady for once in your life.

@Marquis

“Nawww, too detached and cold. Howabout: “HEY BABY, SO HOW DO YOU LIKE YOUR EGGS IN THE MORNIN’? POACHED, SCRAMBLED, BOILED, OR FERTILIZED?”

LOL, nah, that doesn’t appeal to me much. I do chuckle at the old line of being asked, “how are you?” I reply, “Fine.” Said individual will say, “I know you are.” I know you ladies have heard that one, lol.

@heygurrl

“Now, I hadnt said a word about Im this and I got this, so how he know Im dont want to be treated like a lady? He judged me from what he saw that I had and what I was about”

LOL, I’m just trying to decipher what is “fearful” about a woman paying for her own lunch.

@ TRS

If I like ya I might treat cha….simple as that…and I don’t care what color she is. A woman is a woman (period). The best thing God created.

Sydney™

@Day

“And to be honest, you might have scared the guy a bit…..”

LOL, how did I scare the guy when I was spending MY own money on my lunch? I’ve never sauntered up to a brother and asked him could he treat me to a meal. I work, I pay for myself.
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See, That’s the thing….Women just can’t take a damn compliment……SMH……

@Sydney,

Lets be real. Black females have embraced these negative stereotypes more than the black man has. Only black females get upset about other women having a big butt because without it, they think they are nothing. They are the ones walking around talking about they arent taking any crap even though the vast majority of the time, they are the ones giving it, and with regard to the Mammy figure, black females have a penchant for playing rescue to low quality black men who they feel they have to nurture and make babies with.

Tell black females to let go of these stereotypes and be like other women.

Rome,

@ TRS

If I like ya I might treat cha….simple as that…and I don’t care what color she is. A woman is a woman (period). The best thing God created
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At least you know a good thing when you see it!!!

@Day

“See, That’s the thing….Women just can’t take a damn compliment……SMH……”

LOL, see, I don’t take it as a compliment when a man doesn’t know how to approach me properly. It’s actually a downer. I’m still polite, but inside, I’m shaking my head.

@ kigali

I know the difference between being a strong an having an attitude. I am just saying that that men sometime have a hard time distinguishing between blk women taking pride in themselves and having an attitude. Just because we may not fall for the okie doke and lay down, doesnt mean we dont wanna hold you down. I love blk men, but I think blk women get grouped togetha and get a bad rap sometimes

I am not saying I have never been guilty of having a attitude, but I know how to turn it off and take care of my man. I think you know some sistas who do to

Sydney™

@Marquis

“Nawww, too detached and cold. Howabout: “HEY BABY, SO HOW DO YOU LIKE YOUR EGGS IN THE MORNIN’? POACHED, SCRAMBLED, BOILED, OR FERTILIZED?”

LOL, nah, that doesn’t appeal to me much. I do chuckle at the old line of being asked, “how are you?” I reply, “Fine.” Said individual will say, “I know you are.” I know you ladies have heard that one, lol.
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Nah, that’s corny…Allow me to demonstrate the technique???
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DAYWALKER *Confidently strolls up to JB waiting in a line*

“Excuse me, but could you do me a favor???”

JB “What is it??”

Daywalker “Could you smile? Because It looks good on you!”

See, Syd….I’m waaay smoother than that!!

@heygurrl

“Now, I hadnt said a word about Im this and I got this, so how he know Im dont want to be treated like a lady? He judged me from what he saw that I had and what I was about”

LOL, I’m just trying to decipher what is “fearful” about a woman paying for her own lunch.

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I am wondering what is so fearful as well.

I think men are intimidated by what you got, without you having to voice a word

@Kigali

“and with regard to the Mammy figure, black females have a penchant for playing rescue to low quality black men who they feel they have to nurture and make babies with.”

I cannot argue with this point, particularly when there are sisters who are choosing low quality to men to father their children, and the results are often disastrous.

And let’s take a tour through history and acknowledge that these stereotypes were thrust upon black women (just as stereotypes were similarly thrust upon black men), and I do agree that we should be aware of these negative perceptions and how they are perpetuated.

Kigali

@Sydney,

Lets be real. Black females have embraced these negative stereotypes more than the black man has. Only black females get upset about other women having a big butt because without it, they think they are nothing. They are the ones walking around talking about they arent taking any crap even though the vast majority of the time, they are the ones giving it, and with regard to the Mammy figure, black females have a penchant for playing rescue to low quality black men who they feel they have to nurture and make babies with.

Tell black females to let go of these stereotypes and be like other women.
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All black females are not the same and do you have black female friends? I have plenty and my closest friends we all share the same love, support, pride and honor amongs us all I have not real hootrat friends that are in my circle but yeah I do know a good about of hood rats that I can indentify most from a distance…

@hey gurrl,

Thats all black females do is go for the okie doke. Lets be real.

He saw i was a homeowner, had a full time job, went to skool full-time and he was intimidated!!!”

Hmmmmm. Nevermind, I won’t go there. I’m tryin’ to change
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I welcome comments. but before u do, I will say it again. I hadnt said a word about “I Miss independent, I got my own stuff blab blah blah”

all I’ms saying is that he saw that I was established and he made the judgement that I didnt need him to treat me like a lady

This is an everyday topic on this site.

“I think men are intimidated by what you got”
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This is what a lot of women say to themselves when they are characterized as having a “bad attitude” instead trying to elvauate why they are perceived as having said attitude.

Listen, Halle Berry has wasted her time with countless black men who were either doggs or abusive: Eddie Murphy, Daryll Strawberry, Wesley Snipes, Eric Benet, to name a few. The average black woman has to deal with unrealistic dreamers, baby daddies, jailbirds, unambitious thugs, men on the DL, who basically came from broken households with violence & self-esteem issues. Give me a eff’ing break. I’m not wasting my time with pathetic BS. Got better things to do. If a White or Hispanic man is good-looking, self-assured, educated, ambition with no baggage or issues, strong and going somewhere with a sense of values & moral than I’m on board. A man is a man and all are created by God. I’m not going to settle for Broke-down, with issues when I can do better. I hold myself to a higher standard and if a Brother has it together then I’m on board and we can do this thing together. Otherwise, I leave him to the females who have countless issues & will forever waste their time buying into hype with baggage & further degrading themselves. I have friends who are well-educated, successful and thriving in their interracial marriages. Respect & Expect more of yourself. Love knows no color. A man is a man and a woman is a woman. The difference is quality of the man vs quality of the woman.

@Sydney,

Lets be real. Black females have embraced these negative stereotypes more than the black man has. Only black females get upset about other women having a big butt because without it, they think they are nothing. They are the ones walking around talking about they arent taking any crap even though the vast majority of the time, they are the ones giving it, and with regard to the Mammy figure, black females have a penchant for playing rescue to low quality black men who they feel they have to nurture and make babies with.

Tell black females to let go of these stereotypes and be like other women.
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So by the way that you comment you have also picked up on some negativity attitudes along the way so as a black woman so what makes your case so different?

Kigali (this goes too U)

Lets be real. Black females have embraced these negative stereotypes more than the black man has. Only black females get upset about other women having a big butt because without it, they think they are nothing. They are the ones walking around talking about they arent taking any crap even though the vast majority of the time, they are the ones giving it, and with regard to the Mammy figure, black females have a penchant for playing rescue to low quality black men who they feel they have to nurture and make babies with.

Tell black females to let go of these stereotypes and be like other women.
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So by the way that you comment you have also picked up on some negativity attitudes along the way so as a black woman so what makes your case so different?

Daywalker & Sydney

Well I prefer the more direct approach to pickin’ up females, and thats’ with my tried n’ true dating/mating kit: A BOTTLE OF CHLOROFORM, DUCT TAPE, AND AMPLE TRUNK SPACE IN THE BACK OF MY CAR. Gets’ em’ all the time. HEH, HEH, HEH.

@Day

“DAYWALKER *Confidently strolls up to JB waiting in a line*

“Excuse me, but could you do me a favor???”

JB “What is it??”

Daywalker “Could you smile? Because It looks good on you!””

LOL, that’s clever, but I have to give it to the men in the Caribbean who, hand’s down, have the best lines:

“If loving you is a crime, I want to do 10 years!”
“Girl, you’re like an angel without wings!”

@kigali

Not all of us, ok maybe a time or two. lol I love black men. I love u and dont even know u

@Marquis

“Well I prefer the more direct approach to pickin’ up females, and thats’ with my tried n’ true dating/mating kit: A BOTTLE OF CHLOROFORM, DUCT TAPE, AND AMPLE TRUNK *****E IN THE BACK OF MY CAR. Gets’ em’ all the time. HEH, HEH, HEH.”

I feel like I should call America’s Most Wanted sometimes when I read your posts. SMH.

I think people just like to complain for the sake of complain sometimes…

I think men are intimidated by what you got”
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This is what a lot of women say to themselves when they are characterized as having a “bad attitude” instead trying to elvauate why they are perceived as having said attitude.

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@ man I just dont care

true about some women not all

@Day

“As for “spirituality”, you can’t even get people on here to admit Chris Brown bashing Rihanna in the face and choking her was wrong, so a metaphysical connection is a bit unrealistic as well, Syd…..SMH….”

Au contraire, mon ami. You may be falling into the trap of “low expectations.” It is absolutely possible to meet someone who possesses equal values and morals, and, yes, can offer a spiritual connection as well.

Tamara2

If a White or Hispanic man is good-looking, self-*****ured, educated, ambition with no baggage or issues, strong and going somewhere with a sense of values & moral than I’m on board. A man is a man and all are created by God. I’m not going to settle for Broke-down, with issues when I can do better. I hold myself to a higher standard and if a Brother has it together then I’m on board and we can do this thing together. Otherwise, I leave him to the females who have countless issues & will forever waste their time buying into hype with baggage & further degrading themselves. I have friends who are well-educated, successful and thriving in their interracial marriages. Respect & Expect more of yourself. Love knows no color. A man is a man and a woman is a woman. The difference is quality of the man vs quality of the woman.
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Well said.

Sydney

Here’s one: A GUY WALKS UP TO YOU, AND THEN SUDDENLY BREAKS INTO AN UNCONTROLLABLE SPASM OF COUGHS. You being the consumate concerned citizen asks him if he’s ok? He responds with: “YES, I’M OK, BUT SOMETIMES YOUR VISION TAKES MY BREATH AWAY”.

@ressurected

I think most black females fall into one or more of those categories of the Jezebel, the Sapphire or the Mammie.

Marquis de Sade

Sydney

Here’s one: A GUY WALKS UP TO YOU, AND THEN SUDDENLY BREAKS INTO AN UNCONTROLLABLE SPASM OF COUGHS. You being the consumate concerned citizen asks him if he’s ok? He responds with: “YES, I’M OK, BUT SOMETIMES YOUR VISION TAKES MY BREATH AWAY”.

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*singing* dead and gone dead and gone

Man, I just don’t care™

I think people just like to complain for the sake of complain sometimes…

I agree!

@Marquis

“Here’s one: A GUY WALKS UP TO YOU, AND THEN SUDDENLY BREAKS INTO AN UNCONTROLLABLE SPASM OF COUGHS. You being the consumate concerned citizen asks him if he’s ok? He responds with: “YES, I’M OK, BUT SOMETIMES YOUR VISION TAKES MY BREATH AWAY”.”

That’s actually pretty witty, lol. A good sense of humor is a great thing.

Kigali

@ressurected

I think most black females fall into one or more of those categories of the Jezebel, the Sapphire or the Mammie.

Which one are you?

Kigali

@ressurected

I think most black females fall into one or more of those categories of the Jezebel, the Sapphire or the Mammie.
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So which one do you fall under because you are black right you can’t speak that much against all of us without including yourself… I guess I am the Sapphire but it has never stop me from getting a man or a man being attracted to me despite my personally triats because I have some much more than having a smart mouth or whatever the case…

@Hey Girl

Just a question..not and *****umption, but do u think that any blk woman that dates a white man has be brainwashed by the mainstream media into thinking that the white man is better?

U seem pretty smart..U cant possibly think that? I am not the black women sitting next to me, nor am I the black women that I p*****ed on the road driving to work this morning. We are not all the same.
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Of Course a Black woman can date a White man because she geniunely loves him. But usually these women aren’t the ones going on the internet preaching how great white men are and how Black man aren’t sh#t.

When women do that. They pretty much tell me all I need to know about her particular relationship.

@HEYGURRL
“I think men are intimidated by what you got”
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This is what a lot of women say to themselves when they are characterized as having a “bad attitude” instead trying to elvauate why they are perceived as having said attitude.

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@ man I just dont care

true about some women not all”
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That’s why I said “a lot” and not “all” women..

SMH.

I dated only one w*** guy before and he was nice, very respectable, had a nice car, was very traditional meaning opening the car door for me when I got in and out but he also hung around a very black crowd and act some what black… He seemed to want a pretty black girl on his arm instead of really wanting to get to know me so I stop talking to him… I don’t like surface s**t I like things with depth I need to know that we really want to get to know each other for bigger purposes not for stereotypical reasons.. HE seems to really like me though at the time…

@TRS

At least you know a good thing when you see it!!!

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……or taste it. *devilish grin*

LOL…I have jungle feverrr!!! Robin Thicke is HAWWWT!

Oh well, i’ve done my damage for today. Off to work. Ciao!

*attempting to divert Redd’s attention*

Hey, girl, did you hear that Denzel is starring next spring in “Fences” on Broadway? I’m excited.

Sis,

Sis who is he?
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He is someone who loves to provoke, commonly known as a troll!!! Believe it or not, he does have some intelligent things to say when he’s not being an azz. He’s been cute on here before too, but you rarely see that side of him.

Rome,

……or taste it. *devilish grin*
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Well as long as your good thing is “tasty” then you’re all set!!!

@I love my husband boo,

I think its great you are married. For your husbands sake take down that gravatar and for the sake of the men in here. Your chest looks like two sand bags stuff in your shirt.

LOOOOOOOVVVVVVVVVEEEEEEE this SONG!!!!!!!!!!!

@ressurected,

I guess my internet persona I am a bit of a Sapphire on behalf of black children. I am my husbands Jezebel and his Mammie. He is a big baby.

Hi Sydney,

Its been so much madness I am just now getting to speak to you. No I havent heard about that. That should be a lovely treat.

Depends on the female.

This day and age, just a caring, sweet, honest guy is all needed. I can find that within my own race (hoping I still can), but if I so happen to meet another guy of different race and we love each other, I will still be happy.

And I’ll do Robin Thicke to his own song!! I’ll drive across the states for that!!

I think when people start looking from the inside out and not from the outside in and life will seem much better because your motives are pure from the heart and not from the world perception…

Most people Forget or Shun from Black Culture and music. Like most black men who want White women.

So when a white man like Thick comes in an embraces Black Culture aka the Forgotten Culture. Then, Black women act like Jesus just came.

Yes,, Its because HES WHITE. and blacks still see us whites as MASTER. If the MASTER embracing the Black talents they feel like he is KING!!

@Redd

“No I havent heard about that. That should be a lovely treat.”

Yes, it should! The last August Wilson play I saw was “Jitney,” and it was excellent. I would love to see Mr. Fine, I mean, Mr. Washington, on stage.

Kigali

@ressurected,

I guess my internet persona I am a bit of a Sapphire on behalf of black children. I am my husbands Jezebel and his Mammie. He is a big baby.
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That is great that you are married and married woman do see things a lot differnetly then us single woman and that is why I am learning to talk to more married woman for there advice as well… I have always like being single as well but we are taught the most destructive things in this world and then people get mad at you for being messed up in this society…
I still believe that good things and people are to come in my life with God all things are possible but with the world on controlling and manipulating other for there own personal gain makes other people happy…

@geico lizard,

What kind of black woman did Robin Thicke marry? She is as non black looking as a black woman can get.

Daywalker~~ You are too charming.. not flirting just a compliment !

Kigali

@geico lizard,

What kind of black woman did Robin Thicke marry? She is as non black looking as a black woman can get.
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She is mixed and no matter how unblack she might look it is still in her DNA but hold that thought I am about to look her up to find the truth..

Well as long as your good thing is “tasty” then you’re all set!!!

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(In my best Keith Murray)….”It’s gone be a party ya’ll”!!…..hands in the air….drinks everywhere…..party in the hills

Dumb topic to divide us more as nation–Guess what a man is man regardless of color if we are compatible and I’m satisfied we will do us-So silly!

@ Sydney

Bad Girl! LOL!

@Day

““Wow, how does your boyfriend put up with you?”
“Uh, I don’t have a boyfriend.” – Her
“Well, that’s probably for the best!” – You”

Uh, how is this a pick-up line? These scenarios sound a little hostile.

Try the Caribbean, “Everything is Irie,” vibe, i.e. Dexter St. Jacques, replete with the sing-song accent and hyperbolic compliments.

Charm works every time.

@ressurected,

There isnt anything wrong with being single but most people dont deserve it. We are social people. We need intimacy and companionship. I dont care if black females get married or not but a condition of birth is that she be married.

If you enjoy being single more power to you but if you are a decent person you are encourage to start a family. We need more decent people with character to start families and enter more socially capable people into the population. Dont live birth to only the irresponsible.

Good luck.

@Redd

“Bad Girl! LOL!”

Girl, I’ve loved Denzel since “A Soldier’s Story,” lol.

*rather more people dont desire it.

A sense of humor kills it every time!!!

@Kigali, me bad? You got that right…lol. Ain’t nothing wrong with that girlie…

@CHOCO- 100% agreed. I just realized that lately many of the topics is dealing with race and gender issues which is fine, but not when it is on overload mode. I wouldn’t mind seeing a topic about favorite Holiday moments or surprises or most embarrassing moments on a date LOL-ok you already how I do so I may be in that alone LOL.

Kigali

@I love my husband boo,

I think its great you are married. For your husbands sake take down that gravatar and for the sake of the men in here. Your chest looks like two sand bags stuff in your shirt.

I guess your one of the men in here because your the fool looking.

I think you need to open your mind. You show so much self hatered. I don’t think that is healthy. Do you hate your mother,aunts,sisters,grandmothers,black cats,black piano keys, Wesley Snipes,Bernie Mack,Burnt Bacon etc?

Some how the only time your postive is when it deals with K.K. I think you really have a problem. Maybe you should go on the Tyra Banks shows and get some help.

Kigali

@ressurected,

There isnt anything wrong with being single but most people dont deserve it. We are social people. We need intimacy and companionship. I dont care if black females get married or not but a condition of birth is that she be married.

If you enjoy being single more power to you but if you are a decent person you are encourage to start a family. We need more decent people with character to start families and enter more socially capable people into the population. Dont live birth to only the irresponsible.

Good luck.
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I do want a family but not by any mean neccasary I want things with time and standards… I also still have so much that I want to achieve as well and I don’t want to be that woman not just black that give her all to a man who leaves you straided in the end men change there minds a hell of a lot especially black men… I believe in love and a relationship is just a close connection that one is willing to work hard for so I am looking for my equal in this at least mentally…

Sydney™

@Redd

“Bad Girl! LOL!”

Girl, I’ve loved Denzel since “A Soldier’s Story,” lol.

Girl no you didnt take it back to that! Oooh Wee! What about Training Day!??

@Kigali, don’t talk about you hubby like that, lol. I will tell him, does he ever read your comments?

EJ

Did you get my text today?

Sydney™

@Day

““Wow, how does your boyfriend put up with you?”
“Uh, I don’t have a boyfriend.” – Her
“Well, that’s probably for the best!” – You”

Uh, how is this a pick-up line? These scenarios sound a little hostile.

Try the Caribbean, “Everything is Irie,” vibe, i.e. Dexter St. Jacques, replete with the sing-song accent and hyperbolic compliments.

Charm works every time.
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Nah, trust me…You wanna come off as playful, yet not too “nice”, cause we all know where “nice” guys end up…And by using the “How does your boyfriend” thing, it lets you know if she’s taken…Not that that can’t be overcome, but it “feels” her out without really being obvious….I know….I got a million of em!!!

what’s everybody??
**pick up line**
The word of the day is “legs.” Let’s go back to my place and spread the word……lol

Hi Ms Ej!!!

Everyone for some reason I am sleepy. I’ll catch yall later. I need a nap. LOL!

@ sydney

That outfit would look great in a crumpled heap on my bedroom floor tomorrow morning……:)

@Redd

“Girl no you didnt take it back to that! Oooh Wee! What about Training Day!??”

LOL, I think I’m one of the few people who didn’t care for “Training Day.” I thought Denzel deserved the Oscar for “X,” which sent shivers through me.

Hey Ms. EJ!

I love my husband bo

Kigali

@I love my husband boo,

I think its great you are married. For your husbands sake take down that gravatar and for the sake of the men in here. Your chest looks like two sand bags stuff in your shirt.

I guess your one of the men in here because your the fool looking.

I think you need to open your mind. You show so much self hatered. I don’t think that is healthy. Do you hate your mother,aunts,sisters,grandmothers,black cats,black piano keys, Wesley Snipes,Bernie Mack,Burnt Bacon etc?

Some how the only time your postive is when it deals with K.K. I think you really have a problem. Maybe you should go on the Tyra Banks shows and get some help.
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If I went on TYRA’s show, I wouldn’t be trying to get help…….

@ Tamarra 2

Cool and well said. Just do me a favor don`t believe the hype out there about Black dudes . Black dudes are some choice dudes . And the world can keep spinning the same tired old tale that black men dont work, or we are lazy, not great fathers all that bull sheet … and we will keep making that propaganda a big fat George Bush lie !

Hi Mrs.Ej

@Snoop

“The word of the day is “legs.” Let’s go back to my place and spread the word……lol”

My dad said, “the only thing open after midnight is legs.”

“That outfit would look great in a crumpled heap on my bedroom floor tomorrow morning……:)”

Sounds like a club pick-up line, lol. You smile, turn, and walk away. . .

4Real-Tho….

Well said comment!

My dad said, “the only thing open after midnight is legs.”

Ain’t that the truth….

EJ

I responded you U with a questions…lol.. Did you get my text today lady?

I meant to say white men found me attracted but I wasn’t attracted to them from the time I was 18. Now that I’m older…and that I would be willing to give interracial dating a chance…

@PYNKLZURD- Hey Ms. Lady and BTW cute gravi picture and your eyebrows are on point arch is perfect, lol.

@RESS- Sorry, about to get on it right now.

@ROSE- I know the same thing has been happening to me since I have been online today. Now, I have to make sure I copy before I submit tired of re-writing my comments.

@Snoop

“Ain’t that the truth….”

Father knows best, and Father warned me about players, lol.

Divine

I don’t think so. White guys have to be pretty good looking for a sister to look at him before looking at a brother.
Sorry. I just don’t see it.
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I agree 100%

I’ll Talk About

And the world can keep spinning the same tired old tale that black men dont work, or we are lazy, not great fathers all that bull sheet … and we will keep making that propaganda a big fat George Bush lie !
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*high five*

@joe

I agree with you, you shouldnt have to degrade one race, just to say you prefer another. I believe you like what you like. and I would neva do that. I am saying that blk woman are starting to skip ova their first choice (blk men) because they feel like the situation is taking a turn for the worse.

A blk man would always be my first, simply because that is what I am attracted to the most. But I have chosen to broaden my horizon

Sydney,

Sounds like a club pick-up line, lol. You smile, turn, and walk away. .
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Do you actually smile?? Goodness you’re almost faultless sometimes. I give the *blank stare* or the *GTFOH look* before walking away.

Sydney™

@Snoop

“Ain’t that the truth….”

Father knows best, and Father warned me about players, lol.
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FEH, TEASE!!!! LOL!!!

@HEYGURRRL
“I agree with you, you shouldnt have to degrade one race, just to say you prefer another. I believe you like what you like. and I would neva do that. I am saying that blk woman are starting to skip ova their first choice (blk men) because they feel like the situation is taking a turn for the worse.

A blk man would always be my first, simply because that is what I am attracted to the most. But I have chosen to broaden my horizon”
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I think everyone has broadened their horizons because it has definitely gotten worse on both sides. Maybe we all just need a break from each other.

MIXED CHICK

Black guys THINK they have ***** power and it really is powerless. Of course I choose and chose a white guy after dating black guys because I felt they had no goals or substance in life. They did however, have baby mommas and that is something I felt that I was too good for. I didn’t go on the search for any race, I just happened to get blessed with an Italian that doesn’t have any kids, comes from a great family, believes in marriage, introduced me to his parents and extended family, treats me like the princess that I am, respects monogamy, has a career, was bred from wealth, well educated, has business savvy, cl***** etc… I just feel blessed and it is a good feeling! In no way was I going to settle with the a guy that has kids everywhere, someone in and out of jail, or the average joe that cheats or the one that wants to get married on his terms??? NOT!! I mean… what for???? You better wake up a see a man for who he is and how he treats you. Not by race or you’re going to miss your calling and true mate in life!
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Just so you know, every black man on the planet who’s single doesn’t have kids….I don’t…

@DAYWALKER- Hey how are you doing today?

i will co-sign for DAYWALKER( MR INTENSITY!!!!)..some brothas have superficial ideas of sistas to have good hair, big butt and chest..and even some brothas like to keep up drama too.. but nevertheless,now in my life,i feel that is ok to love outside of your race, as long as man and woman is keepin it real for the right reasons and not the wrong ones…that robin thicke is a fine, white brotha!!!

I think everyone has broadened their horizons because it has definitely gotten worse on both sides. Maybe we all just need a break from each other.

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@ Man, I just dont care

I concur. Maybe we could have a date -a – Negro day.

Ms.EJ

@DAYWALKER- Hey how are you doing today?
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I’m cool!! And in about 3 hours, I’m gonna jump on my bike, rev up to about 1500rpms and wheelie outta the parking lot!!! LOL!!!

@mixed

I agree, we all should start seeing a person for who they are and how they treat u… regardless of race

AND THIS INCLUDES ME

Of course I choose and chose a white guy after dating black guys because I felt they had no goals or substance in life
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SMH @ these generalizations. Apparently, you’ve had some poor experiences, but there are bad apples in every bunch, so whatever you have experienced is not specific to Black men.

You can find a good Black man who comes from a great family, believes in marriage, respects monogamy, has a career, and all of the other qualities that you mentioned. I am happy that you have found your prince charming; however, please don’t lump all Black men into one group.

I should’ve known you guys were hanging out in this thread!

Good Afternoon, errrbody!

Since I was in high school I had dated outside of my race off and on into college, but the ones that I had serious relationships with were brothas. Overall if there is a mutal attraction on both ends, a spiritual oneness etc then I am on board, regardless of race, though I do perfer a brotha I am still open and will not limit myself. Daywalker-I agree not all black men have children 99% of the black men I dated had no children, however if one did have a child it is no issue w/me as long as he is a great loving parent involved parent. But a man or woman that has children w/multiple people is a different story.

@ Kigali–

I posed some questions to you last night in the Shaniya thread. However, some woman stopped clawing on your puZZy to make an attempt at addressing me but I see you didn’t.

Good afternoon to you to!

@DAYWALKER-LOL- I am terrified to ride on a motorcycle I feel so unprotected (even w/gear)I feel to exposed per se.

@Ms.EJ

@PYNKLZURD- Hey Ms. Lady and BTW cute gravi picture and your eyebrows are on point arch is perfect, lol.

@RESS- Sorry, about to get on it right now.
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lol, thanks. i try. nah, let me quit. you can’t be gassin my head up like that girl. lmao!

SMH @ these generalizations. Apparently, you’ve had some poor experiences, but there are bad apples in every bunch, so whatever you have experienced is not specific to Black men.

You can find a good Black man who comes from a great family, believes in marriage, respects monogamy, has a career, and all of the other qualities that you mentioned. I am happy that you have found your prince charming; however, please don’t lump all Black men into one group.

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You tell’em boo…

@HEYGURRL
“I think everyone has broadened their horizons because it has definitely gotten worse on both sides. Maybe we all just need a break from each other.

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@ Man, I just dont care

I concur. Maybe we could have a date -a – Negro day.”
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SEND ME THE KARDASHIANS!! lol

@PYNKLYZURD- LMBO!!!! well I give credit where credit is due. I’ve always been into hair and eyebrows there is nothing worst (looks wise) than having a fresh hairdo, nice outfit but messed up eyebrows LOL. Do you use the threading technique, wax or razor? I want to try the thread but heard it hurts real bad.

It seems to me that sometimes people look at color first (black or white) then, decide to further their interest.

My take on that–do what you do but I know there are positives and negatives in both men and women of all races.

HEEEEY DIVA!!!!!!! girl you still have me cracking up from that last post(s)however many days ag0 (still funny) *dead still* are “cat sweater lady LMBO!!!but how are you Ms. Lady?

I notice that Shaniya’s (RIP) dad has a penchant for black women.

if so called white men love black women why are the stastics still single black babymamas 85% LMAO…. white men love asian women and the stats proves it, i have been too several wedding and of a white man marrying an asian woman. the only white man that may even marry women are the W-I-G-G-E-R-S.

trs

Of course I choose and chose a white guy after dating black guys because I felt they had no goals or substance in life
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SMH @ these generalizations. Apparently, you’ve had some poor experiences, but there are bad apples in every bunch, so whatever you have experienced is not specific to Black men.

You can find a good Black man who comes from a great family, believes in marriage, respects monogamy, has a career, and all of the other qualities that you mentioned. I am happy that you have found your prince charming; however, please don’t lump all Black men into one group.
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I agree!! Personally, I:

1) Have a great job

2) Have a really good family, unless you count my cousin Nicky, or my Cousin Alfred…..

3) I’m not that much of a commitment minded guy, but if I met “the one”, I might reconsider….(JB, hint, hint!!!)

4) Don’t have any kids, but I’d like some some day

So no, every black man you meet isn’t like all the others!! If you had a bad experience with a few, you can’t judge all by said reference, because I surely don’t judge all black women by a few I’ve met…And trust me, they were doozies!!!

@1TRUDIVA- 100% agree. The only issue that I think some do not see as that most folks don’t mind dating outside their race or a brotha dating outside his race, the problem comes when folks do so while downing another race just like TRS said generalizations and true a bad bunch in all races and genders.

timo

if so called white men love black women why are the stats still stating single black babymamas 85% LMAO…. white men love asian women and the stats proves it, i have been too several wedding and of a white man marrying an asian woman. the only white man that may even marry black women are the W-I-G-G-E-R-S.

Man, I just don’t care™

@HEYGURRL
“I think everyone has broadened their horizons because it has definitely gotten worse on both sides. Maybe we all just need a break from each other.

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@ Man, I just dont care

I concur. Maybe we could have a date -a
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Send me Jessica Biel!!!!…or Alba

The reason I stated that was–looking at all of his children, (I think there are three total) it’s obvious that they are biracial and have different mothers. (Unless the older two has the same mother but even so, you can tell they are biracial)

Rome,

You tell’em boo…
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You know I try sweeheart!

@TRS

“Do you actually smile?? Goodness you’re almost faultless sometimes. I give the *blank stare* or the *GTFOH look* before walking away.”

LOL, yeah, I do. It’s easier than possibly rankling the nerves of some man I don’t know (and these days, you don’t know how certain individuals are going to react). I do have my moments, sis, when I let loose. You know that, lol.

@ Man

you can have the Kardashians, if I can have Shia Lebeouf!!! Oh and Rob Pattinson (Twilight)

Ms.EJ

@DAYWALKER-LOL- I am terrified to ride on a motorcycle I feel so unprotected (even w/gear)I feel to exposed per se.
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Understandable, but I keep it under 100 when I have someone on back…All you have to do is just hold on tight…..LOL!!!

@ Rome

LOL, I gotta have Brad Pitt

Daywalker,

And trust me, they were doozies!!!
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What made them “doozies?” Please elaborate.

@ITRUDIVA- Yes, you could definitely tell by just her appearance and demeanor that she was half black and white or just bi-racial in general. I’ve met white men and hispanic men who only dated black women that is what they just liked.

@Diva

“I notice that Shaniya’s (RIP) dad has a penchant for black women.”

You, too, huh? I read today that he has five children, outside of Shaniya, with three women. The son interviewed last night on Nancy Grace is obviously biracial.

@ Ms. EJ–

Girl!!! They were talking about having a Thanksgiving dinner at work just last week. Ol’ cat lady is heading it up this year.

UGH!!!!

Hey Gurl

@ Rome

LOL, I gotta have Brad Pitt
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Girl Just Brad Pitt?

David Beckam
Chris Pine
Tom Brady
Channing Tatum
Gerard Butler

And in a few years, that little white boy from Twilight could get it too!!! LMAO

heygurrrl!

@ Man

you can have the Kardashians, if I can have Shia Lebeouf!!! Oh and Rob Pattinson (Twilight)
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I’ll see you one Shia LeBeouf, and raise you one Milla Jojovich, one Kylie Minogue, Or one Ms. Scarlett Johanssen….

ONE W***E MAN THAT I THINK IS FINE IS ORLANDO BLOOM…

@TRS- Okay, confession now are you talking about the young man who plays the warewolf? he looks like he is Indian or something? if so that young man is FINE, for real. LOL and has body already he seems so sweet though hope he stays humble.

ONE W***E MAN THAT I THINK IS FINE IS ORLANDO BLOOM…
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INDEED!!!!!

*nods head in approval*

@ TRS

LOL, I got more than that!! Channing Tatum can get it too and ….

Rob Pattinson (twilight)
Taylor Lautner (twilight too)
Shia lebiouf (or how eva u spell it)
Ryan Reynolds (the proposal)
ugly as Ferige husband- Josh Duhamel

“ONE W***E MAN THAT I THINK IS FINE IS ORLANDO BLOOM…”

*whispers*

He was a very appealing elf in “Lord of the Rings. . .”

*whispers again*

Johnny Depp. . .

Ms. EJ

@TRS- Okay, confession now are you talking about the young man who plays the warewolf? he looks like he is Indian or something? if so that young man is FINE, for real. LOL and has body already he seems so sweet though hope he stays humble.

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YES LAWD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When I found out how old he was I was like and then I had to pout.

I mean that boy’s body is like DAYUM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And he’s handsome too.

Lemme stop.

@ Ms EJ
I think she talking about Taylor Lautner, the little kid playin Jacob (werewolf) I am obsessed. Got my tickets last month and it dont open until Friday!!!
Love the books

trs

Daywalker,

And trust me, they were doozies!!!
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What made them “doozies?” Please elaborate.
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A better question is “what didn’t?”

Busted my car windows

Blew up my blackberry even when I was at work

Got mad cause I wanted to go visit my mother and accused me of having girls at her house

wouldn’t leave my house till the cops had to “forcibly extract” her….Need I go on???

Hey EJ
I agree with you also it has a lot to with mutual attraction where you are spiritually in your life-

Hey Gurrl

Rob Pattinson (twilight)
Taylor Lautner (twilight too)
Shia lebiouf (or how eva u spell it)
Ryan Reynolds (the proposal)
ugly as Ferige husband- Josh Duhamel

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I full condone the content of this list ESPECIALLY Taylor Lautner and Ryan Reynolds!!!!

**confession**

I have different feelings when I see a sistah out and about with a white man than when I see a brotha out and about with a white woman.

It’s not that I hate on the brothas. However–when the sistah is gettin’ it in, I’m like “yeah, the brothas are not the only ones that can get their swirl on.”

I think everyone has broadened their horizons because it has definitely gotten worse on both sides. Maybe we all just need a break from each other.

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@ Man, I just dont care

I concur. Maybe we could have a date -a – Negro day.

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According to statistics (which I personally don’t believe) the groups of people least likely to be married are asian men and black women…Maybe someone needs to set-up some meet and greets…

“Or one Ms. Scarlett Johanssen….”

As a woman, I can give Scarlett credit where credit is due. Great actress (“Ghost World,” “Lost in Translation,” “Match Point”).

@TRS- I usually do not express how good someone looks real hard, but OMG!!!! but what makes him more attractive is that he has NO CLUE on just how good he looks w/that body. Okay, let me stop too LOL. You are not alone sista LOL.

Why are Americans so stuck on race? It’s very disturbing. Race is a construct of man, it is not a idea from nature or God. Were are all the same, we eat, we drink, we love, we hate, we procreate, and we die.

Meagan Fox is the baddest white girl in the game right now.

@trs

YES LAWD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When I found out how old he was I was like and then I had to pout.

I mean that boy’s body is like DAYUM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And he’s handsome too.

Lemme stop.

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girl, i know how you feel. but he will be 18 next year, so I still be fantasizing!! he so dang fine!!!! You should read the Twiliight books, if u havent already.. you will fall in love with him. G

I have to get my handy helper out and get it in after I put the book down for the night!1 Okaaaaaaaaay! lol

Sydney

Scarlette Johnannson is downright beautiful and curvy she is real goregous I think Charlize Theron is pretty too.

@1TRUDIVA
“**confession**

I have different feelings when I see a sistah out and about with a white man than when I see a brotha out and about with a white woman.

It’s not that I hate on the brothas. However–when the sistah is gettin’ it in, I’m like “yeah, the brothas are not the only ones that can get their swirl on.”
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At least you are honest…

**confession**

I have different feelings when I see a sistah out and about with a white man than when I see a brotha out and about with a white woman.
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OH LAWD DIVA!!! You couldn’t keep that to yourself huh? LMAO

*putting on my combat boots and preparing for war*

I full condone the content of this list ESPECIALLY Taylor Lautner and Ryan Reynolds!!!!

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@ trs

lol, girl if dreams came true

Ms.Caribbean

Why are Americans so stuck on race? It’s very disturbing. Race is a construct of man, it is not a idea from nature or God. Were are all the same, we eat, we drink, we love, we hate, we procreate, and we die.
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BCUZ THE COUNTRY IS BUILT OFF OF THIS THEME IT DOES NOT MAKE IT RIGHT OR ACCEPTABLE TO SAY THE LEAST…

Ms.EJ

@PYNKLYZURD- LMBO!!!! well I give credit where credit is due. I’ve always been into hair and eyebrows there is nothing worst (looks wise) than having a fresh hairdo, nice outfit but messed up eyebrows LOL. Do you use the threading technique, wax or razor? I want to try the thread but heard it hurts real bad.
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I haven’t tried the threading technique yet. & I’ve also heard that it hurts. But, is also tiring as you have to as.sist them by holding the skin around the eyebrows taut. But, to answer your question, I tweeze my eyebrows. It’s tiring, but, I can’t stand when the ladies at the salon mess my joints up! lol

@ man

lol, Im sorry but that little boy is fine!! Im sure you got some barely legal (or not legal) white chicks you feeling =-)

First let me say this. It doesnt’s matter what color you are, as long as your blood was red. Now onto the topic I personally think ppl date who they feel meet their needs. I am engaged to a white men not for his money or looks etc. But because he has what I want/need in a man.

Now putting all blk men in the same group is beyond stupid. Not all blk men cheat,steal, lie and kill.

Furthermore, Those who say “there ain’t no good blk men” Have you come to think it’s the type of men you attract so that you settle for the dogs? Or maybe you have a sign on your back that reads “I LIKE MEN THAT LIE,CHEAT,STEAL AND KILL”.

…. oh shyyyt Amber Rose too! Cot Dayum Amber Rose!

WHO CARES? I WOULD MESS WITH A BLACK WOMAN SEXUALLY BUT NOT MARRY HER THOUGH. MY PARENT WILL KILL ME LITERALLY AND PLUS I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO THEM AT ALL.

@pynk

Yes, threading hurts like a b*tch and that Indian that did mind had her funky beans and curry armpit two inches from my dam face!

I will take Kelsey Grammer

This dude is pimpin allt he black shows as the executive producer. He’s got the money coming in forever and ever

@trs

Hey Gurrl

Rob Pattinson (twilight)
Taylor Lautner (twilight too)
Shia lebiouf (or how eva u spell it)
Ryan Reynolds (the proposal)
ugly as Ferige husband- Josh Duhamel

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I full condone the content of this list ESPECIALLY Taylor Lautner and Ryan Reynolds!!!!
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OOOH Ryan Reynolds is FOINE!!! lol. How about Dr. Troy from Nip/Tuck? That man can get it too!!! lol

@ prince

how can eff them, if u are not attracted to them?

Ms. EJ

@TRS- I usually do not express how good someone looks real hard, but OMG!!!! but what makes him more attractive is that he has NO CLUE on just how good he looks w/that body. Okay, let me stop too LOL. You are not alone sista LOL.
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Girl you and I are HERE do you hear me??!!!!! It should be against the law for someone that age to look like that. Do you know what ethnicity he is??? He was on Jay Leno the other night and all I could do is stare like

@HEY GURRRL
“how can eff them, if u are not attracted to them?”
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Ima answer for him… cause it’s still puzzy.

Shia Labeouf is such a cutie…I also think that Matthew Gray Gubler is cute (the smart young one on criminal minds)…Gorgeous he has that laid back, hippie vibe about him…Mario Lopez is fine too…Could live in his dimples…

@PKNLYZURD- I did tweezing maybe three times and girl it hurts on certain parts no matter my angle I use the razor, but I know everyone has that one method that works for them. My sister she tweezes the same reason you do so folks at salon won’t mess it up. I have seen people with one arch way lower or higher than the other (that happened to me one time guy called me out on it too LMBO! I was too embarrassed).

I mean “got blocked Diva”!

Hey Gurl

You should read the Twiliight books, if u havent already.. you will fall in love with him. G

I have to get my handy helper out and get it in after I put the book down for the night!1 Okaaaaaaaaay! lol

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I have thought about reading them. How many books are in this series? And girl you know I don’t have to read the books to appreciate Taylor. All I had to do was just look at him…well more like stare!!

Alyssa Milano, Tiffany Amber Thiessen, Adrianna Lima….Need I go on???

OOOH Ryan Reynolds is FOINE!!! lol. How about Dr. Troy from Nip/Tuck? That man can get it too!!! lol

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which one is Dr Troy, the real crazy and freaky one?

JB

I will take Kelsey Grammer
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*Faints*

EWWWWWW girl!!!!!

@ day

I take it you like Brunettes? Yea, they are all pretty

Bump kelsey….Sean Connery!

@TRS- I have no clue, but he definitely looks to be of Indian decent. The boy knows how to dress, his smile, his thick eyelashes…yes, I stare too not in a lustful or foul way, but because truthfully I never seen a young man his age that has that appeal at such a young age it should be against the law just imagine when he grows older and comes into full manhood he could easily take Brad Pitts spot in the future if he keeps up whatever it is he is doing.

Don’t forget Matthew McConughey(sp) He can get it anytime

@ pynk

LOL, hell its the truth. that was the first and last time I did that

heygurrrl!

@ prince

how can eff them, if u are not attracted to them?
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That’s what the “Spank Bank” is for…..Guys do it all the time…..

@ trs–

I didn’t mean to stir up nuffin but….

**pulling nine from the small of my back and sitting it between me and trs**

Pynklyzrd14

OOOH Ryan Reynolds is FOINE!!! lol. How about Dr. Troy from Nip/Tuck? That man can get it too!!! lol
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I am not a fan of Nip Tuck BUT

My name is TRS, and I fully endorse this message!

@ prince

dually noted

@HEY GURRL
“lol, Im sorry but that little boy is fine!! Im sure you got some barely legal (or not legal) white chicks you feeling =-)”
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**blank stare**
No… no I don’t.

(nucca tryin to get me arrested)

JB

Don’t forget Matthew McConughey(sp) He can get it anytime
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We have committed a sin by omitting Matthew McConughey!!!! That man is truly something special. SMDH.

heygurrrl!

@ day

I take it you like Brunettes? Yea, they are all pretty
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Yeah, I like redheads a lot too, but they can be a handful, though….:wink”

@DAYWALKER
I always felt Jessica Biel was/is overrated. I mean, I’d hit and all but she would never be my main b.i.t.c.h. even with her money.

@ JB–

Matt??????

OMG!!!!

Girl!!! The things I would do to him. Once I got a hold of him, he’d be sitting in my driveway BUTT—NAKKIIID…blowing the horn….jumping out, running to my back yard..peeping in my kitchen window.

@daywalker
what is the name of that girl from entourage who is fine and was E ex girlfriend who he won back at the end of the season. now that my ideal woman. beauty like that is RARE.

**confession**

Bill Clinton circa 2000.

Diva,

@ trs–

I didn’t mean to stir up nuffin but….

**pulling nine from the small of my back and sitting it between me and trs**
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That’s what I am talking about!!!!!!! You know how we do! LMAO!

@1TRU DIVA
“**confession**

Bill Clinton circa 2000.”
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ROFLMAO!!!!! He would leave that “stain” on your dress!

@Ms.EJ

@PKNLYZURD- I did tweezing maybe three times and girl it hurts on certain parts no matter my angle I use the razor, but I know everyone has that one method that works for them. My sister she tweezes the same reason you do so folks at salon won’t mess it up. I have seen people with one arch way lower or higher than the other (that happened to me one time guy called me out on it too LMBO! I was too embarr*****ed).
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lol, wow. some men are rank for that. at least it wasn’t all bushy & painted on like those 80′s rock chicks. lol. & tweezing does hurt, my eyes get all watery, but I use the Vaseline brand Aloe Vera Gel while I’m doing my eyebrows, & it works really good. Not only does it prevent pain & swelling, but it gives me a good grips on the hairs too!

Man, I just don’t care™

@DAYWALKER
I always felt Jessica Biel was/is overrated. I mean, I’d hit and all but she would never be my main b.i.t.c.h. even with her money.

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I dunno, man….She was kinda smokin in “BLADE TRINITY”, tho…….

Colin Farrell, Adam Rodriguez (who I adore), William Petersen (grissom from csi)…

@HEY GURRRRRL

ROFLMAO!!!! Vince Vaughn?????

Colin Farrell–

I’d leave him speaking in tongues.

@ trs and pynk

Yea, I left out Matthew Mccau-wheteva..he can get it to. Ok, Im going ot hell, but back in the day Michael Landon (Lil house on the prairie!!) RIP his lil country,general store a*z couldve got it too!

**screwing on silencer while giving the “side eye” to man**

Colin look dirty and Yes, Bill clinto couldve have got it!

heygurrrl!

OOOH Ryan Reynolds is FOINE!!! lol. How about Dr. Troy from Nip/Tuck? That man can get it too!!! lol

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which one is Dr Troy, the real crazy and freaky one?
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H.e.l.l yeah!!! lol

@ man

lol, i know!!! Im suprised at myself. but he so fine to me!! Hey I gotten betta, I used to be cruisng on Nicolas Cage…. in his Con Air days!

Ms. EJ

@TRS- I have no clue, but he definitely looks to be of Indian decent. The boy knows how to dress, his smile, his thick eyelashes…yes, I stare too not in a lustful or foul way, but because truthfully I never seen a young man his age that has that appeal at such a young age it should be against the law just imagine when he grows older and comes into full manhood he could easily take Brad Pitts spot in the future if he keeps up whatever it is he is doing.
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COSIGN!! If I saw something like that walking around here and he was of age….

SMDH.

Taylor Swift is LUCKY!

@ heygurrrl–

I was trying to think of his name!!!

YES!!! Michael Landon???? I would’ve told him to keep the cowboy hat on!

Lol!!!

@PNKYLZURD- I know right! lol girl thanks for sharing that tip on the Aloe Gel will defintely get that Okay, now what do you think about men arching their eyebrows? alot of women I know think that is suspect.

Hey GURL

Im going ot hell, but back in the day Michael Landon (Lil house on the prairie!!) RIP his lil country,general store a*z couldve got it too!
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ROTFLMAO!!!! Girl you got tears running down my face!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WOW…just WOW.

trs

Pynklyzrd14

OOOH Ryan Reynolds is FOINE!!! lol. How about Dr. Troy from Nip/Tuck? That man can get it too!!! lol
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I am not a fan of Nip Tuck BUT

My name is TRS, and I fully endorse this message!
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lol, if you haven’t seen it, you should. It’s a great show with a great storyline!

ROFLMAO!!! Yall got me KRAKIN UP at work!

Ms. EJ

Okay, now what do you think about men arching their eyebrows? alot of women I know think that is suspect
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Tootie Frootie alert!!!!!!!

Ms.EJ

@PNKYLZURD- I know right! lol girl thanks for sharing that tip on the Aloe Gel will defintely get that Okay, now what do you think about men arching their eyebrows? alot of women I know think that is suspect.
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Any dude who does that is getting clowned…..Just sayin…..

@TRS- Girl, I do not think Taylor even has the slighest clue on what she has lol, but yes indeed she is a lucky girl. She is a pretty girl though, but couple.

@ day

lol, oh yeah, Memories are always locked in the spank bank

Simon from American Idol.

By the time I got finish with him, you’d think his aZZ was from Brooklyn!!!

Okay, now what do you think about men arching their eyebrows? alot of women I know think that is suspect
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…you DON’T think it is suspect?

*Fruitie*

@TRS- “Tootie Fruity alert” *dead* OMG!!!!! hilarious

@DAYWALKER- Can you believe that the women I’ve asked that said it was no problem and looked at me crazy when I said that -that is zesty I am sorry give me a manly man.

pynklyzurd14

trs

Pynklyzrd14

OOOH Ryan Reynolds is FOINE!!! lol. How about Dr. Troy from Nip/Tuck? That man can get it too!!! lol
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I am not a fan of Nip Tuck BUT

My name is TRS, and I fully endorse this message!
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lol, if you haven’t seen it, you should. It’s a great show with a great storyline!
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I agree, but “Kimber” is just a little too bony for my taste, though….Of Course I would like to beast on Bree Van DE CAMP, THO…..LOL!!

Ms. EJ

@TRS- Girl, I do not think Taylor even has the slighest clue on what she has lol, but yes indeed she is a lucky girl. She is a pretty girl though, but couple.

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Girl you know she’s two years older than he is…she better train him accordingly!!!! I know I would!!! LMAO!!

Ms.EJ

@PNKYLZURD- I know right! lol girl thanks for sharing that tip on the Aloe Gel will defintely get that Okay, now what do you think about men arching their eyebrows? alot of women I know think that is suspect.
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I think it depends. if the man is just cleaning up unruly hairs, it’s ok. but, if they’re eyebrows look better than mine… well, then we have problem. lol

this is funny because all this names you all fantazing about don’t even mess with black people.LMAOOOO

Ms.EJ

@TRS- “Tootie Fruity alert” *dead* OMG!!!!! hilarious

@DAYWALKER- Can you believe that the women I’ve asked that said it was no problem and looked at me crazy when I said that -that is zesty I am sorry give me a manly man.

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Anytime a dude is in the mirror longer than his girl, be on the lookout for pastel shirts, him walking with a swish, and snapping at you when he wants to emphasize something…..

What’s the photographer’s name from America’s next top model??

The one that wears the platinum spiked hairstyle?

Man…oh….man!

The things I’d do to him are UNSPEAKABLE!!!

DAYWALKER( MR INTENSITY!!!!)

pynklyzurd14

trs

Pynklyzrd14

OOOH Ryan Reynolds is FOINE!!! lol. How about Dr. Troy from Nip/Tuck? That man can get it too!!! lol
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I am not a fan of Nip Tuck BUT

My name is TRS, and I fully endorse this message!
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lol, if you haven’t seen it, you should. It’s a great show with a great storyline!
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I agree, but “Kimber” is just a little too bony for my taste, though….Of Course I would like to beast on Bree Van DE CAMP, THO…..LOL!!
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lol ur crazy! I loved Sanaa Lathan when she was on that show! She is so talented & pretty!

DAYWALKER( MR INTENSITY!!!!)

Ms.EJ

@TRS- “Tootie Fruity alert” *dead* OMG!!!!! hilarious

@DAYWALKER- Can you believe that the women I’ve asked that said it was no problem and looked at me crazy when I said that -that is zesty I am sorry give me a manly man.

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Anytime a dude is in the mirror longer than his girl, be on the lookout for pastel shirts, him walking with a swish, and snapping at you when he wants to emphasize something…..
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I co-sign one-hunnit! lol

Simon from American Idol.

By the time I got finish with him, you’d think his aZZ was from Brooklyn!!!
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Hey TRS

@ITRUDIVA- Yes he is handsome his name is Nigle.

@DAYWALKER-LMBO!!!

@PNKYLZURD- I don’t know girl, but the women did say the same as you or they said if he is a modle or actor its okay.

@trs–

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!

I know…..I know……

**headed to time out with visions of Simon on my mind**

*model*

Nicole Scherzinger…Hayden Panittier…Scarlette Johansson…Adrianna Lima……Sophia Vergara!!!!

in my best Homer Simpson……mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

**shouting at “MAN” from time out**

AS soon as I put some more minutes on my phone, Imma call you and cuss you out!

Just wait til’ the 22nd….YOU….JUST….WAIT!!!!!

LMAO!!!!!!!!!

Rome,

Hey TRS
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*waving*

HEYYYYYYYY ROME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Welcome home baby!

@DAYWALKER- yes, the guys from Supernatural are handsome equally.

this race talk is extremely clownish….why does it matter…black likes white…white likes black…for both sexes….people lie more than they tell the truth…..if someone tells you “i don’t date or mess with _____, I stick with my own kind”…they are lying…100%….true talk….

@ROME
“Nicole Scherzinger…Hayden Panittier…Scarlette Johansson…Adrianna Lima……Sophia Vergara!!!!”
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I put my personal seal of approval on this list. I LOVE that exotic look with dark hair.

@Diva

“Bill Clinton circa 2000.”

LOL, I once worked with a sista who said that she met Clinton, and he gave her the up-and-down look.

Such a sl*t.

Diva,

@trs–

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!

I know…..I know……

**headed to time out with visions of Simon on my mind**
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Girl I didn’t put you in time out yet! Get back out here!!!!!

@ Hollywood

you dont know that, and even if they didnt… thats why its called a fantasy!! LOL

I was referring to Clinton, lol.

Rome,

Adrianna Lima…
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I LUV Adrianna Lima!!!! That woman is soooooo beautiful to me! That’s a good choice!

Milo Ventimillia (gorgeous from heroes)
Sendhil Ramamurthy (also gorgeous from heroes)
Bobby Flay (just love his attitude)
Tom Welling (superman on smallville)
Robert DeNiro (how could you not love bobby deniro)

ok, shoot me but that guy from “saving silverman” and “National Security”

that white man is so cute to me…steve somebody! I forget

Cindy Margolis could get roasted up too!!!

George Clooney???

I’d tie him up and padlock the doors so he could NEVER leave.

OMG!!!! Cant believe I left out Robery Deniro. SO fine!! even if he didnt like black women, he still wud be fine!!

whats the main guy in goodfellas..Ray Liotta!!! love it

@ MIJDC

There are parts of Sophia Vergara’s body that would have a permanant impression of my face!!!….permanant!

Before they both lost their appeal (one lost his mind over Katie Holmes and the other cheated on Jen-Jen), Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt. Loved “Interview With the Vampire.”

ok, ladies… what about Daniel Sunjata!!!!!! DREAMY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If y’all don’t know who he is PLEASE (!!!) do yourself the favor & Google him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God is good! lol

“OMG!!!! Cant believe I left out Robery Deniro. SO fine!! even if he didnt like black women, he still wud be fine!!”

Al Pacino, too.

Sydney,

Before they both lost their appeal (one lost his mind over Katie Holmes and the other cheated on Jen-Jen), Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt. Loved “Interview With the Vampire.”

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Girl I had a HUGE crush on Tom Cruise back in the day. Top Gun did it for me!

@ TRS

There’s a point between “{not erect” and “fully erect” that I like to call “spongy”. I think I’ll be beyond that point way before you finish cookin!!:-o

@ day

Cindy Margolis…NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, that chick has the crazy eyes.

@ROME
“There are parts of Sophia Vergara’s body that would have a permanant impression of my face!!!….permanant!”
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ROFLMAO!!

Oh yeah, Jennifer Anniston. She just seems so innocent and stuff. Like she ain’t never had no black dyyck. (I know she prolly has)

I’d slap the sh!t outta Oprah on national television to be with Robert DeNiro.

@ Syd

Interview with the vampire was the bomb!!!!!!!!

Aw how could I forget??

Lucy Lawless and that chick who was Gabrielle too, cause I just Loove me some redheads, and as long as I’m on the subject, Anna Nicole Smith, cause I like cheesy hoes too!! J/K!!

Sydney™

“OMG!!!! Cant believe I left out Robery Deniro. SO fine!! even if he didnt like black women, he still wud be fine!!”

Al Pacino, too.
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In their prime, of course. lol

pynklyzurd14

ok, ladies… what about Daniel Sunjata!!!!!! DREAMY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If y’all don’t know who he is PLEASE (!!!) do yourself the favor & Google him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God is good! lol

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I just looked him up.

LORD JESUS!!!!!!!!! I am OFFICALLY done with work today!!

DAYUM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ms.EJ–

Take care!

Ben stiller can get it too, he’s a cutie!

I also have a thing for Jeff Goldblum it’s just something about him that I find so attractive…Oh and Paul Walker with his hotness…

Bye Ms. EJ!

@ PYNK
I love ben stiller so cute with his lil bow-legged self

I’d give Bin Laden some.

**runs out of thread in shame**

OK, I’ve always liked Harrison Ford ever since “Raiders of the Lost Ark.”

as seen on t.v.

I also have a thing for Jeff Goldblum it’s just something about him that I find so attractive…Oh and Paul Walker with his hotness…
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How did i forget Paul Walker!!! Ooh!!!!!!!!!! Me likey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I’d give Bin Laden some.

**runs out of thread in shame**

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D

I

V

A!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*laughing and crying at the same time*

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!

heygurrrl!

@ PYNK
I love ben stiller so cute with his lil bow-legged self
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lol, that is SOOO true!!!!!!!!!!!!! I like when he does the little salsa dance in “along came polly!” too cute!

Rome,

@ TRS

There’s a point between “{not erect” and “fully erect” that I like to call “spongy”. I think I’ll be beyond that point way before you finish cookin!!:-o
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*sticking my head out of the kitchen*

You know we can call Pizza Hut right?

@MIJDC

I would have Sophia singing that Jill Scott joint……”You’re in so deep I’m breathing for you
You grab my braids,arch my back high for you”!!!!!!! Dawg she can get it!!!!!!!

Harrison Ford? Oh yes!!!

What’s Farrah Fawcett’s (RIP) baby daddy name?

Yup. Him too!

Lol!!!!

I’d give Bin Laden some.

**runs out of thread in shame**
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¿¿¿ ???

ROFLMAO

@1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

I’d give Bin Laden some.

**runs out of thread in shame**
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O_O ………… um, wow. was *NOT* expecting that….

@ trs–

I was LMAO while typing it.

It’s just something about that long beard……

**Confession**

I woulda broke Eartha Kitt off on some lead pipe in that “Boomerang” flick.

trs

I’d give Bin Laden some.

**runs out of thread in shame**

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D

I

V

A!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*laughing and crying at the same time*

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!
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Eff that, I got her beat….I’d hit Lady GaGA…..LOL!!!

@Dive

somebody oneal

**Confession**

I woulda broke Eartha Kitt off on some lead pipe in that “Boomerang” flick.

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I just vommited and farted at the same time….

lol @ Diva

Lawd have mercy. If you find bin Laden, you need to turn him in, ASAP. Is he even still alive?

I think you’re thinking of Ryan O’Neal.

@Day

“Interview with the vampire was the bomb!!!!!!!!”

LOL, those were the kind of vampires that a woman wouldn’t mind running into.

@ man

eartha is still hott

heygurrrl!

@Dive

somebody oneal
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It’s RYAN O’ NEAL father to TATUM O’ NEAL, who had a role on “Rescue ME” till she got caught using crack….

Diva,

@ trs–

I was LMAO while typing it.

It’s just something about that long beard……
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Looks like I spoke too soon…

Diva go sit in time out!!!!!

And before you judge about Lady GaGA, At least I didn’t say Whoopi Goldberg……

Joseph Gordon-Levitt-”500 Days of Summer”

Daywalker

Eff that, I got her beat….I’d hit Lady GaGA…..LOL!!!
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I don’t think that Lady GaGa is an ugly woman. She can be cute to me sometimes!

goodnite everybody …..I gotta get to the gym

DuecesII

Fidel Castro makes me moist.

@ Trs

Thanks for the cosign … you make brothers proud… DAILY !

Take care, Romey!

I think “knocked up” actor Seth Rogen is cute

“And before you judge about Lady GaGA, At least I didn’t say Whoopi Goldberg……”

Brothers always belittle Whoopi.

Bye Rome!!!!!

The old man in the Geico commercial looks like he’d let me pee on him.

I find that attractive.

Sydney™

“And before you judge about Lady GaGA, At least I didn’t say Whoopi Goldberg……”

Brothers always belittle Whoopi.
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Whoppi ain’t got NO eyebrows, honey. I think that scares men the most. lmao!

Fidel Castro makes me moist.
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RIP TRS!!!

GONE TO SEE THE KING!!!!!

ROTFLMAO!!! Diva you are sick!!! Have you considered seeking professional help???

1TruDiva w/the PlatinumVocals—Pimpin, Platinum style!!! J-Hud’s concert was OFF THE MEAT RACK!!!!!!!!!

Fidel Castro makes me moist.
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Girl, you’re over-doing it now… LMFAO!

@ truDiva

you are **DEAD* lol

Rome,

Boo…..You are the Pizza. smh you didn’t get that.
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OH, I SEE!!!! How you gonna proposition me and run off? SMDH.

Catch you next time boo!!

I’ll Talk About

you make brothers proud… DAILY !
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AWWWWWWW!!!

*cyber hugs*

@ 1 True Diva

Wow Fidel Castro and Osama Bin Laden ! Bannanas !!!! LOLOl

“Whoppi ain’t got NO eyebrows, honey. I think that scares men the most. lmao!”

*doing Celie curse*

Until you do right by me. . .

heygurrrl!

I think “knocked up” actor Seth Rogen is cute
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Where they do that at? oh, no girl!!! lol

Joshua Morrow (Nick Newman Y&R)
Eric Braeden (Victor Newman Y&R)
David Fumero (Christian Vega One life to live)
Kamar De Los Reyes (Antonio Vega One life to live)
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Girl those Vegas are the TRUTH.

Sydney™

“Whoppi ain’t got NO eyebrows, honey. I think that scares men the most. lmao!”

*doing Celie curse*

Until you do right by me. . .
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LMAO! girl, i’m sorry, but you know it’s true. I couldn’t help that one… lol

@ Man
Dude I feel you ! But for the record yawl never had that chick Amber rose on my list !LOL

That`s a different list ! The smash and dash list !

If the white man rules the planet of course he is going to have the luxury of getting more play and poo poo than the black man. black men were always looked upon as breeders to the black woman’s babies.. however when the black man started breeding with white women that became a problem so the white man had to step his game up.

The heck with painting the White House Black the focus should of been on painting Congress black. because every bill that Obama comes up with has to go through majority white men who sit in Congress.

Jake Gyleenhal!!!! YES, take me home Lord!

Whoopi Goldberg is a funny artist (and an underrated actress) but she is NOT considered attractive by a large percentage of people. It is not mean spirited, just their opinion.

miss lovely, we left that topic about 200 posts ago! lol

I am assume you are talking about music, and I would say no, because if it was easier for them in the Soul/R&B industry, there would be more who would be just as successful in the business. Bottom line is that Robin Thicke is talented… give the man his due.

@ Man

Aighit my nucca much better !

Hey Gurrllll

Jake Gyleenhal!!!! YES, take me home Lord!
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*Gasp*

Shame on me for forgetting Jake!!! Do you remember that scene in Jarhead??????????????????????

I would help him recreate that scene!!!!!!

“Jake Gyleenhal!!!! YES, take me home Lord!”

Heath Ledger *RIP*

Two fine cowboys in love. . .

@ man

For some reason I would do a.n.a.l. on Meagan Fox even though I don’t really like it…
*shrugs shoulders*

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I would figure you would do a n a l with Kim K since she has more cushion for the pushing…LOL…

Sydney,

Heath Ledger *RIP*
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YES MA’AM Heath was something ELSE.

RIP Heath!!!

Man, I just don’t care™

Whoopi Goldberg is a funny artist (and an underrated actress) but she is NOT considered attractive by a large percentage of people. It is not mean spirited, just their opinion.
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Couldn’t have said it any better myself.

@AS SEEN ON TV
“For some reason I would do a.n.a.l. on Meagan Fox even though I don’t really like it…
*shrugs shoulders*

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I would figure you would do a n a l with Kim K since she has more cushion for the pushing…LOL…”
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I KNOW. Logically Kim should get that but I think Meagan needs that. I bet she can take it real good.

trs

Sydney,

Heath Ledger *RIP*
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YES MA’AM Heath was something ELSE.

RIP Heath!!!
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Indeed! I’ve loved Heath ever since “10 things I hate about you!”

White men are a lot like their women, down for whateva! Will eat the kitty cat thoroughly…I would also like to state that it is a LIE that white men are not well endowed. I have been with 2 in my lifetime and both were hung. I am now a married woman (to a black man) and very happy with my choice. However, I can’t hate on a sister that chooses a white man. They usually have very good jobs, and know how to romance and keep you happy and excited.

The Jolly Green Giant!!!!

Oh, don’t act like he ain’t s.e.x.y! Posted up on a box of frozen peas with his arms on his hips.

Don’t hate! It’s not easy being green!!!

Hugh Grant
Colin Firth

Love the accents Renee Zellweger had a British sandwich in “Bridget Jones’s Diary.”

The Jolly Green Giant!!!!

Oh, don’t act like he ain’t s.e.x.y! Posted up on a box of frozen peas with his arms on his hips.

Don’t hate! It’s not easy being green!!!
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ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@Diva

“The Jolly Green Giant!!!!”

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Papa Smurf

@ Man

I KNOW. Logically Kim should get that but I think Meagan needs that. I bet she can take it real good.

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She does seem adventurous when it comes to sex…Probably roll a blunt and then let you enter from the rear…LOL…

Sydney™

Hugh Grant
Colin Firth

Love the accents Renee Zellweger had a British sandwich in “Bridget Jones’s Diary.”
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Jude Law
Hugh Laurie

@AS SEEN ON TV
“I KNOW. Logically Kim should get that but I think Meagan needs that. I bet she can take it real good.

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She does seem adventurous when it comes to sex…Probably roll a blunt and then let you enter from the rear…LOL…”
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YUP! AND she likes girls too!

Would you let one of them white boys enter from the rear?

I’m actually surprised that none of the men in this post mentioned Rosalyn Sanchez. She’s a banger. lol

How could I leave off Ralph Fiennes? Saw him recently in “The Reader.”

Robin could get it…and his daddy too! LOL!

I gotta bounce for now. I’ll check back in later.

In the meantime, you guys get home safe and enjoy your evening.

As usual, thanks for the laughs, peeps!

Take care!

*1TruDiva has left the building*

@pynklyzurd14

“I’m actually surprised that none of the men in this post mentioned Rosalyn Sanchez. She’s a banger. lol”

Did any of them mention Salma Hayek or Penelope Cruz? They’re BFFs, lol.

Ok, It’s almost 4….I’m about to roam the hallways for a bit and see if there’s any new snootch up in this beyotch!!! Later, guys!!!

Black men have more children and more baby mama drama than any male on earth. Black men get more play than white men for a black woman attention.

Black women do not normally go outside of their race but black men will definitely go outside their race. A man is a man regardless of their race.

Sydney™

How could I leave off Ralph Fiennes? Saw him recently in “The Reader.”
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Ralph Fiennes is fine too! lol

@ Man

Would you let one of them white boys enter from the rear?

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Nah…Thats reserved for the man who put a ring on it (my husband)…I would however give them the best brain job they have ever had…

DAYWALKER( MR INTENSITY!!!!)

Ok, It’s almost 4….I’m about to roam the hallways for a bit and see if there’s any new snootch up in this beyotch!!! Later, guys!!!
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See ya!

Sydney™

@pynklyzurd14

“I’m actually surprised that none of the men in this post mentioned Rosalyn Sanchez. She’s a banger. lol”

Did any of them mention Salma Hayek or Penelope Cruz? They’re BFFs, lol.
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I saw somebody post up Salma, but not Penelope. lol

Christian Bale
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That man is one of the fynest White men on film. I would lock him up in love for days. Real Talk.

well, it’s about time for me to head on outta here. Til the next time everyone! It was nice chatting with you all! Peace & Love

@AS SEEN ON TV
“Would you let one of them white boys enter from the rear?”
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“Nah…Thats reserved for the man who put a ring on it (my husband)…I would however give them the best brain job they have ever had…”
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So you reserve where you shyyyt from for you husband but the mouth can be had??? LOL. Naw, I feel you. I guess you gotta save something for the number one.

@PYNK
““I’m actually surprised that none of the men in this post mentioned Rosalyn Sanchez. She’s a banger. lol”

Did any of them mention Salma Hayek or Penelope Cruz? They’re BFFs, lol.
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I saw somebody post up Salma, but not Penelope. lol”
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I posted Selma but Penelope is ugly IMO.

@pynklyzurd14

I liked Jeremy Irons back in the day, too, lol.

How could I forget Christian Bale? He really buffed up for “American Psycho.”

“Marc Wahlberg aka “Markey Mark””

Loved him in “Boogie Nights.” Still have to see “The Departed.” (He was in that, right?)

Oh, and Christian Slater.

JOHN TRAVOLTA CAN STILL GET THE BUSINESS!!!

Ok folks…Been nice chitting and chatting wit ya…You all have a nice night and be safe….

as seen on t.v. for Prez!!!!!

It happens here all the time. The white boy can be a 2-3 outta 10, and the hoodrats (MIND YOU I SAID HOODRAT) be on them like thread on fabric. Sh*ts ridiculous.

Menominee_Nation

as seen on t.v. for Prez!!!!!
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Wasn’t that a beautiful opus that she provided!!!

Sydney,

Can you give us some samples? lol
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“A man who does not spend time with his family is not a real man.”

“I am a business man. The cost of blood is too high.”

“When all else fails, take it to the mattresses.”

“Never hate your enemies. It affects your judgment.”

Sydney

“Ill make him an offer he can’t refuse” is probably the most famous.

@TRS

LOL!

““A man who does not spend time with his family is not a real man.” (Here, here!)

“I am a business man. The cost of blood is too high.” (I hear that!)

“When all else fails, take it to the mattresses.” (I’m thinking of the horse head scene. . .)

“Never hate your enemies. It affects your judgment.” (Good point)

@TRS

““Ill make him an offer he can’t refuse” is probably the most famous.”

Oh, yes, I remember that one, lol. Classic Marlon Brando.

Man, I tell ya….after so much nonsense, I wonder if my post will even make a diference or be related to the topic at hand…..a few questions:

1) has it ben proven that Robin Thicke’s main fan base is made up of Black women? If not, thn where are people getting this “fact” from?
2) what difference does it make if a fella is white or black? I thought it was about who treats you with the dignity and respect you deserve….well, that’s how I operate, at least….

What kind of racist topic is this?? As a product of a inter-racial marriage, I’m a little disturbed by some of the negative stereotypes and hate that some of these posts try to fuel. F*cking sad. Belive it or not, sometimes it’s NOT about the color of someone’s skin- it’s about how good you treat eachother.

@ Man, I just dont care

…yessir…it brings a tear to me eye! it makes me believe in the human race again and that spring will surely come after this long and dreadful winter. She has a gift, and Im not afraid to print this off, bring it home and put it in my GF’s hand and say….”pls read and immediately institute this policy. this woman is clearly better than you.”

I would be quick to date a white guy. a white guy in black culture that has been accepted by his black peers, is very attractive…

Well..
Well…
Well..

First the song is the business, I been loving this white boy for years. And as far as it is concerned with what ya’ll just asked. I think that you are absolutely RIGHT!!!!!! Monkey sees, monkey do! I’ve been with my white boyfriend for some years and when I got him I swear nobody wants him not all my friends holler about how they want a white man. I guess to some, they may seem like the hottest accesory of the season! But if you had a white boy like mine my sistas would understand that some nig@$ come in all shades!!

“Does A White Man In Black Culture Get More “Play” Than A Brother Simply Because He Is White?”
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Sheeit I dont know and I dont care. All I know is everybody wants to be loved….

Redd Tony always speaks the truth. The simple answer to a complicated question.

black girl always talk about brotha’s wifying white girls..

Seems like Black girls are secretly OBSESSED with white guys.

THEY JUST KNOW MOST WOULD NEVER,EVER,EVER MARRY THEM.LOL

i will date anybody, i love white women though, because they are pretty and have the best personality ever. si to each is own.

I love this song by Robin Thicke!!!!!

It is not the skin color of a person but the content of his Character!!!

I don’t discriminate!!!

“Character is the result of two things: mental attitude and the way we spend our time.” ~Elbert Hubbard

so typo

I love this song!!!!

It is not the color of his skin but the content of his Character!!

I don’t discriminate!!

“Character is the result of two things: mental attitude and the way we spend our time.”
~Elbert Hubbard

I LOVE WHITE MEN
ESPECIALLY THE ONES WITH BLUE EYES AND
DARK HAIR
I LOVE THEIR ATTITUDES TOO.

by the way…. white men don’t like black women, they love asian women. i have seen and heard this, it’s just the fact, at my office all my patners wives are asian women and white.just saying, not that i give a crap though.

first guy hit the nail on the head, his music has not been getting ANy play

white men have better personalities and less drama!!

@African prince..Of course you want to believe that WM don’t like BW…most BM have to tell themselves that to accept the fact more and more sisters find them more attractive..the numbers for BW/WM couples have tripled since the late eighties..if you don’t believe me check the Census bureau.it appears that the WW you love don’t love you back otherwise why would the marriage rate for BM/WW be so low? I mean you (BM) claim all the ww want you right? Most of you are delusional and try to hide the fact your usually just a piece of meat to most WW ..they wouldn’t dream of bringing you home to their family..the stats prove it!And like I said..most WW in any type of position don’t even look at BM.

NO. look at stats, studies,etc …

The people on this site kill me with all of these general statements about black women. Black women do this black women do that. You don’t know every black woman. So how can you make that statement? Those statements and generalizations don’t seem stupid to you. When you make generalizations like that it is just plan hatful and racist no matter what color you are. Being black doesn’t give you free pass to go around making racist statements. Maybe you hang around a bunch of losers and those are the only kind of black women you know. If so you need to get out and met new people.

@Val…So because paula patton is light she doesn’t look Black? I guess Garcelle Beauvis and Alfre Woodard don’t look Black either? What about Sharon Leal?Traci Bingham? There are plenty of sisters that are not light that are married to WM. It’s a shame that some of you are so threatened by good looking WM that sisters love that you have to make up stories i your jealous minds to be able to cope!

@leelee
to be frank with you i dont really care…. i am african and i have been with all race from asian women to russian women, to african american women to my african queen. international white women love black men like crazy, i had this dime white girl who was ready to marry me, most of my friends are married to white women and still going strong, i was just speaking fact about what i saw with my eyes. statistics to me are stupid even if it proved the same thing i just said. i see this thing everyday, white men with asian women than any other race. but hey it’s all good i really don’t care.

All my life I dated internationally. I will always be attracted to BM. But, other nationalities treat BW better. When they approach us they are about US! No games or B.S. If s e x happens, they are attentive to what we want and need. It is never about them (do me – ok i’m done) and leave you there frustrated.

Lee Lee- the real delusion is that some black women believe it is possible to denigrate black men without denigrating themselves. I often wonder whether or not these women have sons. Is it possible to raise a strong,healthy young black man when your entire belief system is based on white male supremacy? The reality is that both black men and black women have been completely brainwashed. An individual’s gender does not make him or her immune to a relentless campaign of white supremacist propaganda. IF WE HATE EACH OTHER WE HATE OURSELVES.

@ LEE LEE

Man I`m so glad you are not into black guy`s ! WHOO ! It could be worse we could have a low esteemed self hating black women who quite frankly really should quote the sources of her data rather than regurgitating myths and things she read on the internet !

Girl , go to the white man because we don`t need or want your delusional azz ! LOL

I don’t think a particular gender or race can be grouped together as liking one thing or another but rather an individuals preference. I as a white man prefer a black woman. I was married to one for 6 years and my stepdaughter is black. I have met some women who are open to any race as long as the man treats them right, and I have met some that looked at me like an alien, and then some who exclusively date white men. It depends on the woman.

@african prince…so what? Everybodya and his mam knows european Wm love Black Women so …what’s your point? You made a silly statement about WM not liking BW when we all know that’s a lie from hell..and like i pointed out to you before..as much as you BM like to make yourself think all WW want you the statistics don’t support it..of course statistics are silly to you..especially if they don’t support your delusional thinking! For a guy who ”doesn’t care” you certainly are responding like crazy..i think you care..it’s just I can smash everything you’re saying so the best way out for you is to say you don’t care!

If black women like Robin Thicke, its because he is good looking and talented..its as simple as that. There are plenty of white men who date black women in hollywood and black women dont go all crazy over them, just because they’re a white man dating a black woman. I’ve dated a white man for 3 years, he treats me good, he’s rich, I’m not, his parents are cool with me, my family is cool with them..then again I am from Canada so I find that interracial couples are more common here than in AMerica..just my humble opinion tho.

@I’ll Talk..trust me..Im just as happy with my choices as you are!I have a low tolerance for crybabies and thugs!

And if you want quotes and facts all you have to do is type the information in your search engine..im not your secretary!

Only person I’d be checking for in this relationship is Paula’s gorgeous self. Robin is cool, but his look and his music doesn’t do it for me
The only white boy I can think of who I have the hots for is Hugh Jackman.

Obama is not black. Neither is Paula Patton. Neither are Wesley Snipes, Eddie Murphy or any of these so-called ‘african-americans’ who couldn’t find africa on a map. All of us are just people. We all know this, but it sounds corny to say, so we continue to divide each other and say one person is black and another is white and pay the consequences for our stupidity. The only argument against this line of thinking is to say some people are racist. Which, in turn, causes you to adopt a racist attitude with which to view the world. Which leads to more racists. And the cycle continues.

I for one do not consider myself, nor the people I date, as a color. I am just a man, and the women I date are just women.

That said if any of you broads out there want to get the business holla at me. Especially pynklizurd and ms. ej

I am a blk woman. I have stated many times b4 on this site tht I am engaged to a white latino man (cuban/puerto rican) and I luv tht man with all my heart and I know he feels the same way about me! He is my rock when i’m weak, when i dn’t feel beautiful. He’s a great hardworking man that takes pride in his culture & taking care of his family and providing them with a better lifestyle. I don’t give a dannmm… what a bm thinks of our relationship! I don’t get why it’s such an issue when blk men date out all the time!!! Everybody should date whoeva they plz. I’m so sick of coming to this racist website everyday hearing about who somebody dates! That is their business!

@ Daywalker…

I like your educated responses.You’re absolutely right, all men do not have kids out of wedlock. I’m mostly critical of the ones that do and think its ok to impregnate girls all over the place. Believe it or not there are many;-) We need a few more educated guys like yourself in this world. REAL TALK!!

I agree a white dude can get more play from a sista that a brother. A god damn shame.

ABSOLUTELY…. NO QEUESTION….. YESS… END OF STORY

I do’nt care about color nor do I see color when it comes to GOOD MUSIC! Music in my eyes has no color. If you are hung up on color when it comes to music then something is very wrong!

@ Lee Lee

Its NOT and age old myth… I hate to agree but African P is right… ALOT, i mean ALOT of black men don’t want black woman which is Plain and simple FACT. Black women are deemed bad in our society. The biggest interracial couples in the U.S. and I’m sure the world is BM-WW.. second is WM-AW.

FACTS

of course your gonna run in here to save your ego but regardless of how many stories you tell..the stats don’t support you…NBW are not marrying you!
And far as magazines or whatever you’re speaking about..it goes both ways..BW see WM as respect…power..money..and personality which is what most of us want anyway..we just started acting on it. Why in God’s name would anyone want a loud mouthed ghetto thug when she could have a real Man with no baby mamma drama and whining to boot?
BM have always been jealous and very threatened by the sucess and magnatism and power WM hold in this country and your terrified now that BW are becoming more attracted and connecting with them..Plain and Simple!

And stop changing screen names..

We should really learn to love each other. The powers that be have been trying to bring about a “race” war for years using tactics designed to cause controversy and hatred between the “races”. It looks like it’s working.

At LEE LEE..

lol if black women liked white guys it would be a good thing for most Black men. It would et black women off their backs.lol

But really.. LEE LEE … YOU ARE WRONG.

Calm down their are still some who like black women…….SOME.

@Guntot…BW aren’t on BM’s backs..matter of fact the only one on your backs are the police when you’re commiting one of your many crimes.
How are we on your backs when you jealous BM are always the one’s running in every thread about BW/Wm? We don’t care what you do..you don’t see BW whining..attacking ir couples and acting like asses about BM that date WW..but the minute you see one of us with a WM you get vicious and violent..you’re like little babies that want BW to see only you and throw major tantrums when we look at other Men.
Who cares if there are BM that still want BW?
There’s nothing a BM can do that a WM can’t do better minus the drama and attitude most of you have…BW get along just fine without you so please..please go to NBW..let them deal with you and we’ll continue on with White and other races..deal?

@Val..F**K You!

Now Worship That!

LeeLee – Get help. You desperately need it. Your worship of white men is embarrassing to the entire black race. Are you even black? Reading your comments has me wondering about that. One thing I know for sure is that NO MAN wants a hateful and bitter woman. Please get help.

LeeLee – Your last comment suggested death should come to another black woman. I think you crossed a line and I am surprised that comment was not blocked. Even though this exchange has been heated I wish you no harm.

LeeLee- Executed? I think you really need professional help. Date and marry anyone you please. That is your right. But please do something about your anger. It’s scary.

As a black man, law student, and full time worker,I
have to see that white men get more respect from our sisters.The great thing about attending law school (part-time) I get to encounter a lot white people and trust me sisters; the majority of the white dudes I know will only see you as a sexually dumping ground that’s it. They do however like slim black women sizes 2 to 4, so if you fit this MO than by all means go for yourself! By all means I want to come off as monolithic, like I believe all black women who prefer to date white man hate black man. But….LOL
Half of them do, some are color struck, a few of them gold diggers, and there’s small margin of them who are looking for a good man of any color.
This blog leads me to better question do black women hate black men? Hun, wrap your minds around that one kiddie’s. I hope my sister’s get some knowledge of self and read some books like the Miseducation of the American Negro.

@Kigali a.k.a Kim Kardashian

Is that why Reggie Bush cheated on You? I will remain black and Happy